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@@Frenzy_striker Ameen. He was on the highest level of character. What a great job he's done looking at his ummah today. Peace and blessings unto him. Hope you're all having a great Ramadan. 🤲
It's not about anger. It's about self defense. He was assaulted and he has the right to defend himself. He should have acted accordingly and defended himself
My dad is a good man. I can’t possibly imagine him abusing my mom, me or my brother at all. What Terry went through as a child was brutal, but it makes me appreciate what I have a lot more.
never give up put all that anger sadness whatever it is use that anger use it channel it put it into doing what you like if you don’t have any freinds like me use that work hard on the other stuff.
Fr tho bro. We all gotta be grateful for what we have, because much others can be going through this exact situation and so we need to be appreciative of what we have.
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But successful people don't become that way over night,what most people see is a glance wealth,a great career,purpose is the result of hard work and hustle over time
A lot of comedy comes from a dark past, a lot of comedians are depressed or have been through depression as well, trying to make others happy and not spending time on themselves.
yooo i dont know where i can share this story i am from India and i punched a teacher in his gut because he beat me while i was studying and i dont even regret it and some of my friends flame me for that sometimes.
tomasz dolan yeah i agree i geew up like this and im like Terry as i think atleast but so many people growimg up like this end up copying their father but if you take lessons what your fathers has done you end up great
I’ve always been a fan of terry cruise, but I never heard anything about his childhood, or his past struggles. Now I’m not only a fan of an actor, but I love this man’s attitude, passion, and his honesty. I have endless respect and love for this man!
having this kind of childhood and not ending up suicidal at 20 or a serial killer is already an amazing feat of will power, great respect for mr Crews.
King Lurch Not neccesarily true. Maybe bringing happiness to others is what helps them cope with their own distress. Never assume the worst from people who try to bring out the best in others.
King Lurch not necessarily true, but also true. Look at Robin Williams, he was a man that loved making people laugh and we saw that he committed suicide in 2014.
I think it has it's roots in it being a defense mechanism to cope with the truama. When experiencing trauma much like Crews did, the person being abused will in some cases take on the behaviour of another person (for example the abused becoming the abuser) or maybe becoming the class clown to get people laughing.
When he broke down as he said "I wanted to protect her", that was heartbreaking and emotional. It really just shows the power a mother has in your life. Great talk man. It just shows that violence is never the answer in any given situation.
That's because you've never been in a situation where "conflict" is the only option you have been given to protect yourself or your family or your friends from an inevitable danger to any of your safeties.
@@kessoslife3021 . You said that "conflict/violence" is never the answer to any given situation. Which, would imply that you've never been in a situation where you had no choice but to punch somebody's teeth out.
@gavinhebert19 It’s true, sometimes attack is the best form of defence. It’s survival for some members of a household with domestic violence. My brother would fight my dad to protect my mum because that’s all that he could do when he was a child. When he was older he helped my mum and our siblings to escape.
@@zamzamp2757 . Pain teaches you to not make the same mistake twice, that is one of the best ways you can gain knowledge in life. Remember, that life don't show pity for you nor me nor anybody else. Be weak and fall or be strong and rise, that's the only choice life gives you.
When he said that he opened some wounds that where still healing after 20 years. Its bleading again. My mother i alwayd wanted to protect her. And i still want to protect her.
I wonder how she felt when that "person" grabbed his junk in front of her. There is absolutely nothing wrong with a man defending himself. His wife wasn't willing to risk the lifestyle. That's why she trained him to be submissive.
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@@jaiminor let me tell you that just because he didn't react violently to someone else doesn't mean he's submissive. If anything, he seems to be way more in control of himself and events that mught come than what you'd be.
Jai Slick she didn’t “train him to be submissive” he just doesn’t react with violence because he is beyond that. He has the self control to not react with violence
Yes, but Hollywood is still (and always has been) a very dark and evil place. I wouldn't consider it success. True success is love and family, not money and notoriety. He seems like a genuine guy, though....but he's stuck in the satanic system unfortunately.
@@themarriedcouple9924 looks like something someone who can't accomplish anything in life would say. Now I'll just wait for your reply where you're gonna tell me how successful your life is and how I'm wrong 😂
Teh Zord you sound uneducated.. hollywood is referred to as “hellywood” for a reason, anything and everything hollywood revolves around satanism and freemasonry
@@Raptranslated you also sound uneducated. "True success is love and family not money and notoriety" is exactly what a loser would say. I'm sorry to be this brutal but it's a very easy trap most people fall into and the main reason why only 1% of the population is successful. It's a slave mentality where you're always going to criticize people who do better than you in life and point the finger at them by alluding to corruption or other stupid excuses like that. So the successful person will always be in the wrong in your mind and you are always going to be in the right because you think you have a much better morality than him, which will lead you to amount to nothing. I might be uneducated but I invite you to read some Nietzsche, it literally describes people with this type of mentality and the reasons why they'll never amount to anything. Also, to put it quite frankly, I don't think the person I replied to knows anything about Ted Crews life and how he truly did everything by himself. Being successful is becoming the best version of yourself. It means trying your hardest in whatever field you work in. It means being as present as you can be with your family. It means taking care of your body. It means taking care of your mind. It means making sure you learn something new everyday. I just can't stand people who always want to find some negative in someone else's life. It's a sad thing. Yes he's in hollywood so? It might be a place full of pedos, coke heads, rapers and so on but that doesn't necessarily make him one. It's also where every actor in the world hopes to end some time in their career. It's the top of the industry and just because there are shitty people in it's community doesn't mean everyone is like that. Why would you even look at it that way in the first place? A lot of people in politics are also extremely corrupt but there are also some very honorable men and women who truly do have morals and work hard to help their country. Why would you judge the individual by only talking into consideration a group he's part of? Especially considering the fact that there's some obvious reasons why he's in hollywood that have nothing to do with all of the negative things that happen there? The person I replied to, literally brought up negativity to a very positive comment by using hollywood's most negative things as an excuse to downplay someone's PERSONAL success.
This man is a true inspiration. If only more people could be like him. He could easily hurt someone physically, but he uses his words and his brain instead. Nothing but respect for him. Love all he does with his career.
i think maybe to what he said regarding his comments weren't bad, but i feel people took it out of context, but he was correct on people like nick cannon
Terry Crews really is an inspiration. He smiles like there’s no tomorrow. He has a huge heart. He laughs his soul out. And... He struggles like all of us.
I know this to be true from experience, the times I let my anger get the best of me I was at my weakest point the moments I gave it to God he was my strength 💯.
Dam. When he cracked while talking about protecting his mom I felt that. I love my mom more than anyone in the world and would mess someone up if they did anything to my mom.
3 months ago my moms boyfriend started grabbing her and pulling her or something, i blacked out and screamed at him and then he hit me and i'm only 16. when i was a little kid i saw my drunk mom getting dragged all over the apartment, that man dragged her holding her hair while she was screaming and crying and like terry i promised myself that nobody is touching her again and as soon something goes down i get involved and i get to pay the price so she does not have to
2017 i almost fought with a man who was our neighbour because her wife abused my mom and he was defending her. Some men held me as well as the man but i was ready to fight him
But they still wont ban it .... or tobacco which literally kills hundreds of thousands of people every year... Its so bad both these things are killing people who dont even use it. But no ban.... You know where the govt's intrests are..
I hope you're feeling better chez..I'm glad I found you awhile ago and you're music because its definitely inspiring for me..didnt expect to see you here though^_^
well i dont wanna be that guy but if theirs 2 candles next to each other and one goes out that would mean the fire is absorbing less oxygen from the air witch would mean more oxygen for the other candle therefore making it brighter…
@@e13kid If you have ever been abused or bullied as a kid you would understand.You would know that their size has nothing to do with their emotions.They are insecure people who gym a lot and train so they can feel in control.
To me it means they gave you a portal to life and influenced your characteristics, but that doesn’t mean that they get to dictate your identity. You create your own identity Awesome!
His dad may have fallen short but Terry is making up for it. The cycle stopped with him. That is heroic. It sounds like his wife is a hero as well. Cheers to the both of them. Bravo!
We’re all beautiful human beings. We just get corrupted by alcohol and drugs. We make decisions and mistakes that define our life. Leave the alcohol alone, leave the drugs alone, walk away. Avoid it all together.
@@LL-ht5yc I find substance abuse is typically an escape from people who want to shrug their woes off on another individual. Rot perpetuating itself as it does. Negativity breeds negativity. Its why its important to try and be positive and inspire. Easier said than done, but we all need to at least try. This man is doing, and that can inspire others to do more than just try.
Unfortunately reality has taught me otherwise. Sometimes violence is the only way once fists fly, blades come out, rounds come downrange. Then you fight or you die.
This Is My Username So I Hope You Like It, his wife helped him learn to not use violence to solve these kinds of issues. pay more attention next time 😂
5:54 "You didn't come from your parents you came through them." This left me speechless, it's indeed a fundamental truth we don't even know to consider. I'll remember this.
Strength comes from standing up. Well said, Terry. Thank you. This taught me a lesson that violence will never solve anything but escalating the whole situation and making me feel worse than I already am. 🙏
God bless you Terry. I was also raised with an emotionally abusive father and it took years to learn how to get up and I’m still learning to this day (I’m 40).
how did you do that ? i have been going through similar situation , i am 30 years old, the emotional toll these things have on you can't be described in words ?I love my father very much but i just want him to listen and understand and to not be emotionally abusive but everytime i try to do that it ends up in a verbal fight. i have low self esteem issue , i always undermined myself just to placate him and now my low confidence is haunting me .I have been suffering from anxiety and depression for the past 5 years , i am getting better. Since you are 10 years older than me ,maybe you can suggest me some tips or something so that i can calm down the rage whenever i recall my childhood or how wrong he is . Please help me get better
@@rohitbadial5782 You HAVE to get away from him and heal YOURSELF first , you cannot deal with a person not willing to change, who if you stay around they will keep doing the same thing to you, they like the Power and Control their anger has over you , my Hubby's Dad was like this , he's STILL not apologized and the man is in his 80's , sometimes you just have to let go and like Terry , BE the better man , live YOUR life and don't allow others to treat you badly for your own sanity , my Hubby is a wonderful loving man and Father , it's taken him years to get over the Mental and Physical abuse, his Faith is what got him through and knowing that I wouldn't ever treat him like that , helps him trust , not easy but definitely worth it , 28 years married and wouldn't change a thing, for your sake get help and if you can get away , wishing you all the best, take care and do what's best for YOU.💖💖😊😊
@@MH-nc6bb I'm sorry but that sounds like a personal problem... Seek help otherwise you're part of the problem I think. Not saying you need help but the people that enjoy violence do. It just creates a never ending circle and nobody really wins at the end.
@@MH-nc6bb The politically correct will always say that violence is NEVER the answer. I say bullshit. What if someone who bullied you for years with no remorse, and you finally found the courage to fight back and win. And you tell me that is not good? Come on now. Sometimes we don't have to be so deep. Sometimes it feels good to give somebody an assbeating. If they deserve it. And I'm not a violent man.
He is truly a god send. I’ve never been in any situation like that but seeing him overcome such tremendous obstacles really did show me damn near anything is possible with the right determination. All the love to Mr.Crews
“You didn’t come FROM your parents, you came THROUGH them.” Man, those are powerful words. We can decide to do better and be better because we are ultimately the children of God!
I once had to use violence when I was 17 against an abusive "stepdad" I am not proud and he fought mr like a man im not gonna lie it hurt me but I didn't let him fold me, after all that the police came and locked him up. Turns out he had drugs and was on then at the time and a gun in his truck. Well its safe to say he's put up for a while for other warrants as well and since that day I promised I will protect my mom n sisters as long as I'm alive alot of these fools heartless
That doesn’t excuse his behaviour. She will see when her time comes that the love and respect she showed others will Shower upon her … may she be blessed
@Alex Jay standing up to someone comes in many shapes and forms. i felt like he was more revenge driven. standing up in his case could be something like tying up your father on a rope and then having a conversation he cannot escape.
Heba Allah Before you write that down think a little more about that senseless statement. Any man that allows his body to control his mind is a fool. Emotions are cultivated within the mine. Emotions compel an individual to reasoning, and think critical. Emotions are associated with love, loyalty and integrity.
my dad was an alcoholic, would go out with his friends drinking for a whole 5 hours, i would wake up either being slept on, or him not even home, i had no time with my dad as he works alot, drinks alot, but he isn’t abusive, hearing this makes me glad that my father was, nice.
nice, my father isn't abusive but is reliant and dependant, so when I grow up, I wouldn't wanna be like him, he's not a good role model, sometimes childish, but his actions are ignorable, atleast it's not abuse
@@penthactussoul yes you do need to clarify that. If i came with something like "adam and eve were the first people" then its something i myself would believe so to not make any misunderstandings youd say "i believe adam etc etc". People are different, not everyone is the same, thinks the same, nor speaks the same.
“Strength does not come from picking things up and throwing them around” in other words: contributing to chaos. I agree. Strength, real strength is catching something mid flight and having the strength to bring it safely to the ground. Contributing to order.
I was getting this video recommended since 1 week, but now I realize this man and every successful person has that story behind them, and thats the story who made who they truly are. Mad respect to you Tery Crew, you always make me laugh. Didn’t know this sad story you had. No for violence🙏
This guy literally lived the life i live as a child. Who would have thought. I don’t drink because of the fear of being the same, i fear that possibility of me being exactly like my dad. My older sister once punched my dad when i was younger, I remember seeing my middle sister hold my pellet gun i got for my 8th birthday and point it towards my dad. Ive never seen that many tears on my moms face before, we felt so powerless. We couldn’t go anywhere, we had no money to go out and rent a place for ourselves. Having to crowd into my uncles house to escape that kind of violence was the worst. It stills goes on today but im older now and so are my sisters, now we have jobs and can afford to move out any given time. its a struggle but deep down i know my father is good just miss minded about stuff he’s done in the past, I don’t hold hate for my dad but i do understand the struggle.
Massive respect for both Terry and his wife. The more I learn of him the more I look upto this man. He is lucky to have such a strong woman at his side and he knows it. That's powerful
@@l-3832 I meant that people don't let us open up, reading on it now I see how people might think that I meant to say it's not manly to open up but that's not what I meant
"Strength is not about picking things up, and throwing people around, and knocking people out. Strength comes from standing up." Real powerful stuff. Terry Crews is an incredible person.
I'm a 30 year old white lady - Terry Crews is my role model. He has been for years and years now. Stands up to sexual assault, stands up to his abusive father, works through his personal emotional issues that resulted from his upbringing so he doesn't pass on that pain and trauma to his own children... Always speaks his truth and tries to rise above his automatic negative reactions. I understand that so deeply...It's easy to react, and infinitely harder to reflect. 'You didn't come from your parents, you came through them.' Thank you, Mr. Crews. I wish luck, clarity, and love to anyone struggling right now and remember there is always someone out there who cares about you.
@munnoh1029 jolyne cujoh is a psuedonym taken from JoJo's Bizarre Adventure, my friend! Lol, not my real name. Yes, I am legit 30 and white. 31, now! Your comment has me laughing, thank you.
When this grown man, with a built like beast, said that he remembered his wife reminding him to stay calm and not to be violent at such scenarios, made me respect him more. How beautiful is to see someone trying to contain their innate actions keeping up their loved one's advice seriously! Now that's a good relationship which is rare nowadays. ❤️
1993 fall, just before the army, i couldn't take it anymore, and i hit my dad. For 18 years of alcoholism and fear w my sis and my mom i couldn't take it anymore. He changed, and everything changed from that day on in the most lovely way up to this day, but me, I still cry about it today even just think of it that i had to hurt him so bad to wake him up, it still hurts. He is a changed man, a very good father and the best grandpa. He never got drunk again after that incident, never, he loves my mom the best way he possibly can and she is happy.
I'm very happy to hear that's what helped your dad change. Many people never do, it's good to see it does happen. Even if it meant you had to be the one to stand up to him
My father react exactly like this after I beat him up once. Lovely man, very smart but severely depressed and alcoholic. Sometimes we need the shock to realize we are in a bad way
@@lovett4262 well you don’t have to take out on this innocent person that you don’t even know. We all have problems not just you try and be kind to someone who might need a kind word you never know what they are going through. Have a good day.
@@lovett4262 that's actually sad you need to actually work on yourself before trying to belittle someone you are miserable and need help its not that persons fault that you have family problems thats no excuse to cuss at someone are you a kid ? Didnt think so if you dont have anything nice to say simply just don't talk i would say act like you got some common sense but you probably don't have any imma pray for you I know people just like you that lash out on people that did nothing to them
This man is a beacon of light for the young black youth. There's no success without struggle and focus. There's no reward without hardship and hard work.
This just proves that everyone has issues, and we’re all humans and don’t have the perfect life we portray to have. So many of celebrities are coming out with issues they have or had growing up. We ALL go through those dark times, some just rise and do something about it and be someone because of it.
This is when you understand that he's a strong man He's not afraid to show his emotions and he's not afraid of what people would say or think about him if he did
I love his shows how he keeps him physically healthy and watching that although he is a big guy and will hesitate to hit a fly; it shows of how much we have to become more like him
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He's the perfect example of "Don't be sorry, be better."
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@@oxzr_slay3r145 Guilty as charged
@@oxzr_slay3r145 hahaha me too
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“He is not strong and powerful who throws people down but he is strong who withholds himself from anger.”
Sounds like a saying of prophet Muhammad (saw)
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@@sufyanhussain8505 yeah, the best man in the world
@@Frenzy_striker Ameen. He was on the highest level of character. What a great job he's done looking at his ummah today. Peace and blessings unto him. Hope you're all having a great Ramadan. 🤲
It's not about anger. It's about self defense. He was assaulted and he has the right to defend himself. He should have acted accordingly and defended himself
I could listen to him talk all day. He's so entertaining and articulate.
@humandxp hater
He needs a podcast
@My Moments I think she means that he entertains her into being stronger
@humandxp being a contrarian isnt a personality trait
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My dad is a good man. I can’t possibly imagine him abusing my mom, me or my brother at all. What Terry went through as a child was brutal, but it makes me appreciate what I have a lot more.
Well said mate.
you're blessed bro, and your dad is a legend
Man be glad you have a great family and parents cherish it
never give up put all that anger sadness whatever it is use that anger use it channel it put it into doing what you like if you don’t have any freinds like me use that work hard on the other stuff.
Fr tho bro. We all gotta be grateful for what we have, because much others can be going through this exact situation and so we need to be appreciative of what we have.
"You didn't come from your parents, you came through them" amazing words
Literally...
Mr Shikadance true
That *is* amazing
Thank you for this, put me into tears
@Mr Shikadance I never heard it, so thx for sharing
I started to cry when he said: "It didn't work. I didn't feel better."
So true. That is the lesson for violence.
Thankyou for this. I hope to make something useful too. so I tried my best.
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I want to be better.
So I will be happy if you give me suggestions.
~May you always be blessed and safe there~
That made me feel guilty lol
There is such a thing a just violence
@Justin Smith There is no god
@@mosquito6282 why tho?
"The greatest revenge is not to imitate your enemy"
Marcus Arelius, the last of the five good emperors of Rome
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Francis Pierre and kings philosophers
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Isn't Marcus arelius one of the first emperor's
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To think one of the most entertaining actors and funniest comedians has such a tragic backstory
Cause they are they ones who want to see a smile the most
"How about another joke, Murray?"
We all have backgrounds, he just over came his demons rather than making excuses on why he couldn’t make it.
that’s really how it usually is
A lot of comedy comes from a dark past, a lot of comedians are depressed or have been through depression as well, trying to make others happy and not spending time on themselves.
Terry Crews is a someone anyone can look up to. He's not only physically strong, but mentally strong. He deserves to be known. A truly great man.
Yes he is he love his mother wish I could live my mother like him she was too abusive
Yes & Of Course Brother.....*!!!!!***
He is known though...that dude has been in all kinds of flicks
"He's not physically strong"
He was until he shilled for scamazon.
This man is built like Kratos and is the softest dude ever man. I love this dude
He's not soft he holds back. You know what he did to he's father.
The biggest dude is mostly the biggest softy
Built like a tank but soft as a kitten
Soft? Lol he's a soft spoken man, but no where near "soft" when he gets pissed.
@Rocky Croods What if he says the same about you? Especially when you know you're aren't?
Terry is an amazing class act. We need more like him in this world.
🏆
@Amazing Ajay your right
no.... no... we don't need more people like him... we need to be like him
We need more? No we need to become
"Never do something permanently foolish just because you are temporarily upset."
I like that, I will keep this in mind
Which everyone eventually does it. That's their biggest mistake. Don't let the anger and your emotions consume you.
Sometimes its neccessary...no matter who the person is...you must take steps
yooo i dont know where i can share this story i am from India and i punched a teacher in his gut because he beat me while i was studying and i dont even regret it and some of my friends flame me for that sometimes.
I don't think the anger he felt for his father will ever subside. I know mine won't.
" A punch hits hard, Forgiveness hits harder " - I love this
Terry Crews is such an awesome "look-up to person"
When did he say that, i did not hear it?
It’s in the Bible, our father prayer as well. Forgive those who trespass against you.
Murder hits the harders
Nicole Kobela bro god isn’t real. The Bible is a lie. There’s literally 0 evidence supporting anything the Bible says.
N 17 whatever you will say it won’t change their mind,I don’t mean to start an argument but it’s true.
Sons like him ends up being a good husband and a good father..
And one who puts his wife above himself
Not always unfortunately, more often kids who grow up in similar situations end up becoming just like their fathers.
tomasz dolan yeah i agree i geew up like this and im like Terry as i think atleast but so many people growimg up like this end up copying their father but if you take lessons what your fathers has done you end up great
perfect example for not ending up like his father
Very true...
I’ve always been a fan of terry cruise, but I never heard anything about his childhood, or his past struggles. Now I’m not only a fan of an actor, but I love this man’s attitude, passion, and his honesty. I have endless respect and love for this man!
Crews
having this kind of childhood and not ending up suicidal at 20 or a serial killer is already an amazing feat of will power, great respect for mr Crews.
Very very true.
That was exactly my childhood, you learn to live with it
@@dp2432 respect, i can only try to imagine what is like :(
Thanks
@@dp2432 same I feel like it’s more common than ppl think
The miracle of this world is that such tragedy can manifest such humility and strength.
Did he kill his dad?
@@WillSaleken no, I think that would've been brought up
A Diamond cant be made without pressure.
It is surprasing to me the fact that most comedians have a very dark and sad past.
That's why they become comedians to bring the happiness they lack to others
@King Lurch come on now
King Lurch
Not neccesarily true. Maybe bringing happiness to others is what helps them cope with their own distress. Never assume the worst from people who try to bring out the best in others.
King Lurch not necessarily true, but also true. Look at Robin Williams, he was a man that loved making people laugh and we saw that he committed suicide in 2014.
I think it has it's roots in it being a defense mechanism to cope with the truama. When experiencing trauma much like Crews did, the person being abused will in some cases take on the behaviour of another person (for example the abused becoming the abuser) or maybe becoming the class clown to get people laughing.
When he broke down as he said "I wanted to protect her", that was heartbreaking and emotional. It really just shows the power a mother has in your life. Great talk man. It just shows that violence is never the answer in any given situation.
That's because you've never been in a situation where "conflict" is the only option you have been given to protect yourself or your family or your friends from an inevitable danger to any of your safeties.
@@gavinhebert19 How tf are you telling me what types of situations I've been in? Bye
@@kessoslife3021 . You said that "conflict/violence" is never the answer to any given situation. Which, would imply that you've never been in a situation where you had no choice but to punch somebody's teeth out.
@gavinhebert19
It’s true, sometimes attack is the best form of defence. It’s survival for some members of a household with domestic violence. My brother would fight my dad to protect my mum because that’s all that he could do when he was a child. When he was older he helped my mum and our siblings to escape.
@@zamzamp2757 . Pain teaches you to not make the same mistake twice, that is one of the best ways you can gain knowledge in life.
Remember, that life don't show pity for you nor me nor anybody else. Be weak and fall or be strong and rise, that's the only choice life gives you.
*A powerful man is the one who can control his anger*
Abdul Saboor this needs more likes, this is holy, bless you 🙏👏❤
And If he can control his mind...HE CAN SEIZE POWER !!!!
Abdul Saboor that’s from Islam I think
That's the kind I look for
That wa Prophet Muhammed saw said
A punch hits hard, forgiveness hits harder.
Swapnil Phulse That’s deep
i woulda punched the father, then forgave him. win win
Alex Jay Very true
Virmana win win
Nope, if someone deserves a punch and a beating then they dont deserve forgiveness
Always liked Terry Crews. Admire him even more after this.
He’s a great comedian and athlete. P.s. I can’t believe I’m the first to comment with all the like hits you have lol
Same!
What an inspirational man... Terry Crews is somebody who's strong physically, and mentally. We need more people like Terry in this world
“All I could think about was, *how I wanted to protect her* “
When he said that he opened some wounds that where still healing after 20 years. Its bleading again. My mother i alwayd wanted to protect her. And i still want to protect her.
“I didn’t feel better”
@@emiliogonzalez4033 i
This person reminds me me brooklyn nine nine
This person reminds in brooklyn nine nine
Even after everything he just said, I can see him saying "Terry hates violence!"
Terry loves yogurt!!
@@TARNATIONPLANTATION TELL MY WHYYY..
Erion Kelmendi AINT NOTHING BUT A HEARTACHE
@@dr.samuelhayden5408 TELL ME WHHHYYYYYY
@@j_de AINT NOTHING BUT A MISSTAAKEE
it hits different to see a man like terry crews get emotional
Whoahwoawhoa
I am gay and I will not hide me anymore
@@juanpedro4083 nice
Relation to Tom Cruise?
@@juanpedro4083 u should be ashamed im sorry but u have to hear the truth go treat ur self
I think Terry is one of those men that a young man can look up to. He’s just a kind hearted man despite what he has been through.
Is anybody going to talk about how great his wife? His wife is his rock and I hope one day I’ll find somebody to be my rock like her
right? I was bout to comment that.
First you must learn to be your own rock. That way you’ll know when someone actually is your rock.
I wonder how she felt when that "person" grabbed his junk in front of her. There is absolutely nothing wrong with a man defending himself. His wife wasn't willing to risk the lifestyle. That's why she trained him to be submissive.
@@jaiminor let me tell you that just because he didn't react violently to someone else doesn't mean he's submissive. If anything, he seems to be way more in control of himself and events that mught come than what you'd be.
Jai Slick she didn’t “train him to be submissive” he just doesn’t react with violence because he is beyond that. He has the self control to not react with violence
Big beautiful giant, he deserves all the success he has earned
Yes, but Hollywood is still (and always has been) a very dark and evil place. I wouldn't consider it success. True success is love and family, not money and notoriety. He seems like a genuine guy, though....but he's stuck in the satanic system unfortunately.
@@themarriedcouple9924 looks like something someone who can't accomplish anything in life would say. Now I'll just wait for your reply where you're gonna tell me how successful your life is and how I'm wrong 😂
Teh Zord you sound uneducated.. hollywood is referred to as “hellywood” for a reason, anything and everything hollywood revolves around satanism and freemasonry
@@Raptranslated you also sound uneducated. "True success is love and family not money and notoriety" is exactly what a loser would say. I'm sorry to be this brutal but it's a very easy trap most people fall into and the main reason why only 1% of the population is successful. It's a slave mentality where you're always going to criticize people who do better than you in life and point the finger at them by alluding to corruption or other stupid excuses like that. So the successful person will always be in the wrong in your mind and you are always going to be in the right because you think you have a much better morality than him, which will lead you to amount to nothing. I might be uneducated but I invite you to read some Nietzsche, it literally describes people with this type of mentality and the reasons why they'll never amount to anything. Also, to put it quite frankly, I don't think the person I replied to knows anything about Ted Crews life and how he truly did everything by himself. Being successful is becoming the best version of yourself. It means trying your hardest in whatever field you work in. It means being as present as you can be with your family. It means taking care of your body. It means taking care of your mind. It means making sure you learn something new everyday. I just can't stand people who always want to find some negative in someone else's life. It's a sad thing. Yes he's in hollywood so? It might be a place full of pedos, coke heads, rapers and so on but that doesn't necessarily make him one. It's also where every actor in the world hopes to end some time in their career. It's the top of the industry and just because there are shitty people in it's community doesn't mean everyone is like that. Why would you even look at it that way in the first place? A lot of people in politics are also extremely corrupt but there are also some very honorable men and women who truly do have morals and work hard to help their country. Why would you judge the individual by only talking into consideration a group he's part of? Especially considering the fact that there's some obvious reasons why he's in hollywood that have nothing to do with all of the negative things that happen there? The person I replied to, literally brought up negativity to a very positive comment by using hollywood's most negative things as an excuse to downplay someone's PERSONAL success.
Strong and big, but with a delicate heart
This man is a true inspiration. If only more people could be like him. He could easily hurt someone physically, but he uses his words and his brain instead. Nothing but respect for him. Love all he does with his career.
He didn't use words when he slapped his popz, but I totally understand why he popped pops..
i think maybe to what he said regarding his comments weren't bad, but i feel people took it out of context, but he was correct on people like nick cannon
I love Terry as a performer, but as a person, I love him even more. Respect.
Terry Crews really is an inspiration.
He smiles like there’s no tomorrow.
He has a huge heart.
He laughs his soul out.
And...
He struggles like all of us.
Worse enough he smiles knowing how fucked up his childhood was, but he smiles like he has always been a happy kid, plus those chest muscles
Not like all of ua
Us*
+Audrey Zondo
Olympian Pectorals.
"The strongest of people are those who doesn't let anger get the better of them"
So true
Grammar
Ruben chavez doesn’t as in do not
I know this to be true from experience, the times I let my anger get the best of me I was at my weakest point the moments I gave it to God he was my strength 💯.
Chozah fearless Amen 🙏🏽
Terry isn't strong cause he can bench five of me.
He's strong because he's a good person.
No I'm pretty sure benching 5 of you means you're strong
DarkestDeath01 he means over all strong as a whole person
He's strong because he's a good person AND he can bench five of me.
@@hazardxh6803 That's the joke...
And those big muscles
"God saves the hardest challenges for the strongest soldiers" is one the deepest things ever
Amen God bless u❤❤❤
Dam. When he cracked while talking about protecting his mom I felt that. I love my mom more than anyone in the world and would mess someone up if they did anything to my mom.
Amen
I love my family good thing none of them are alcoholic
@@Ck_magic u are muslim right i am
3 months ago my moms boyfriend started grabbing her and pulling her or something, i blacked out and screamed at him and then he hit me and i'm only 16. when i was a little kid i saw my drunk mom getting dragged all over the apartment, that man dragged her holding her hair while she was screaming and crying and like terry i promised myself that nobody is touching her again and as soon something goes down i get involved and i get to pay the price so she does not have to
2017 i almost fought with a man who was our neighbour because her wife abused my mom and he was defending her. Some men held me as well as the man but i was ready to fight him
This shows to make something better out of the worst
So eloquently spoken
wth does that even mean?
XXx420FortniteDaBest69xXX - Exactly what it says
Now I understand that movie white chicks much better..
Elizabeth Chu
No not really... more, don’t be sorry be better.
Bless his heart, no one should have to live like this. Alcoholism is terrible. It is nothing but a demon in a bottle
But they still wont ban it .... or tobacco which literally kills hundreds of thousands of people every year... Its so bad both these things are killing people who dont even use it. But no ban.... You know where the govt's intrests are..
Imagine crack being the influence instead of alcohol
Baby Yoda Please pay some respect please
Kiran the government won’t ban them because they get huge income of money
Yes I agree
Alcohol and drugs turn us into puppets
belonging to demons.
No more No more NO MORE Behold
"Strength 💪 comes with standing up" not picking heavy things, or throwing ppl around. But doing what's right ✅ always. I love this.
I needed to see this
We all did...
I hope you're feeling better chez..I'm glad I found you awhile ago and you're music because its definitely inspiring for me..didnt expect to see you here though^_^
R u the real dream?
You are SPECIAL! There is only one YOU! GO, follow your dreams, and take what YOU want!Believe in yourself. When you believe, anything is possible 🙏
Interesting seeing you here
This man is talking to his dad like he’s his kid when his mom is hurt MAD RESPECT!!
Not the FBI nice Undercover name
Melanie Hainto wait what do you mean undercover why do I need to be undercover who told you
Not the FBI you’re undercover ?
@@samseulgi ok buddy, take a deep breathe...it's just a joke
I know right
Blowing out someone’s candle doesn’t make yours brighter, it makes the world darker.
Wow. I Will remember that.
WOW!!!, enlightening words. Hope the world gets better everyday
well i dont wanna be that guy but if theirs 2 candles next to each other and one goes out that would mean the fire is absorbing less oxygen from the air witch would mean more oxygen for the other candle therefore making it brighter…
@@nursey. pulling up with a body bag watch your back
Sheesh 💯💯💯💯
What a well educated man with pure wisdom in his heart. That's a rare species nowadays!
He's such a sensitive person, with most big men there is a little innocent kid that's crying inside.He's such a nice guys.
"with most big men there is a little innocent kid that's crying inside"
...What?
@@e13kid If you have ever been abused or bullied as a kid you would understand.You would know that their size has nothing to do with their emotions.They are insecure people who gym a lot and train so they can feel in control.
@@chillyman7340 You're making very broad and stupid claims about people based on how much they work out.
Real men cry
@@e13kidPeople who gym are insecure lol you didn't know that?
"You didn't come from your parents, you came through em."
That got to me so much!
Thank you!
What does it mean?
Roses_01 G you came through their organs lol
@@zero_meercat8624 ik but that's not deep
To me it means they gave you a portal to life and influenced your characteristics, but that doesn’t mean that they get to dictate your identity. You create your own identity
Awesome!
You did though.
This, ladies and gentlemen is a MAN
yep that's a man
Live by your standards and youll be respected.
I look up to Terry
yep that's a man
@ELITE_Tophxz you now he's saying that terry crew acts like a real man and most men don't act like real men
ELITE_Tophxz R/woooooosh
Growing up with a mom with alcoholism, this was very inspiring to watch! I’m very glad I found this
His dad may have fallen short but Terry is making up for it. The cycle stopped with him. That is heroic. It sounds like his wife is a hero as well. Cheers to the both of them. Bravo!
You don't come from your parents
You come through them.
Dam that is deep
Its from the prophet originally, u can check it out, its full of wisdom
Or if you’re from Alabama, in them
It is not deep, it is what it is
If you don't come from your parents, then where do you come from?
@@Ass4900 Lebanon
He's a beautiful human, we'd all do better in our life to be inspired by him.
And his lovely wife
Thank you 😊 you made me feel safer now
We’re all beautiful human beings. We just get corrupted by alcohol and drugs. We make decisions and mistakes that define our life. Leave the alcohol alone, leave the drugs alone, walk away. Avoid it all together.
@@LL-ht5yc I find substance abuse is typically an escape from people who want to shrug their woes off on another individual. Rot perpetuating itself as it does. Negativity breeds negativity. Its why its important to try and be positive and inspire. Easier said than done, but we all need to at least try. This man is doing, and that can inspire others to do more than just try.
This brings a whole new image of Terry. The world's best representation of "Violence is never the answer."
Unfortunately reality has taught me otherwise. Sometimes violence is the only way once fists fly, blades come out, rounds come downrange. Then you fight or you die.
Terry is stronger in more ways than one. Props to his queen and to him.
*"I want to Protect her"* This Guy deserves his own Anime .
TRUE
humandxp So you're saying you wouldn't want to protect your mom from being beaten?
@humandxp seriously bruh?
@humandxp so you gay?
@humandxp it's just that you just say that every man in this world that want to protect whaman is Brainwashed... so that's not nice
"Power is when we have every justification to kill, and we don't." - Oskar Schindler
👍, a thousand times 👍.
✌❤
This is an extremely difficult thing to absorb within us, but extremely right too.
How many watts?
oh that guy who saved a thousand people
I love you, Terry. You're so inspirational to me. You're such a wonderful person and I hope you're happy.
Thanks for watching!
This is what maturity looks like. His wife is a great woman.
HIS WIFE?
How is his wife the point of this
This Is My Username So I Hope You Like It you don’t pay attention do yoh
@@thisismyusernamesoihopeyou6069 You didn't watch the full video don't ya?
This Is My Username So I Hope You Like It, his wife helped him learn to not use violence to solve these kinds of issues. pay more attention next time 😂
“You did not come from your parents, you came through them” one of the most inspiring lines I’ve ever heard
This is one of the most inspirational people of our generation
I'll forever hold this man in total respect. First for his outage and wisdom and second, for his willingness to share with us!
5:54 "You didn't come from your parents you came through them." This left me speechless, it's indeed a fundamental truth we don't even know to consider. I'll remember this.
good that dude is not violent, he is a really strong man mentally and phisically. would be real deadly if he actually wanted to hurt somone.
Lepkee47 *physically
someone*
Nah, nowadays people have guns and I doubt someone can handle a bullet. LOL
Testosterona till you forget the gun.
That's exactly why he isn't violent.
There goes YT algorithm hitting me off with a life lesson.
RUclips wants you to cry so you use all your kleenex and then it will show you and ad about kleenex... you see how this works?
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I'm the 1,000th like😄😄
Woke up just to start crying and learning lessons 😂😭😭😭😭😭
I know right?! The other day i got some emotional dog videos and now this
Strength comes from standing up.
Well said, Terry.
Thank you. This taught me a lesson that violence will never solve anything but escalating the whole situation and making me feel worse than I already am. 🙏
God bless you Terry. I was also raised with an emotionally abusive father and it took years to learn how to get up and I’m still learning to this day (I’m 40).
how did you do that ? i have been going through similar situation , i am 30 years old, the emotional toll these things have on you can't be described in words ?I love my father very much but i just want him to listen and understand and to not be emotionally abusive but everytime i try to do that it ends up in a verbal fight.
i have low self esteem issue , i always undermined myself just to placate him and now my low confidence is haunting me .I have been suffering from anxiety and depression for the past 5 years , i am getting better.
Since you are 10 years older than me ,maybe you can suggest me some tips or something so that i can calm down the rage whenever i recall my childhood or how wrong he is .
Please help me get better
@@rohitbadial5782 You HAVE to get away from him and heal YOURSELF first , you cannot deal with a person not willing to change, who if you stay around they will keep doing the same thing to you, they like the Power and Control their anger has over you , my Hubby's Dad was like this , he's STILL not apologized and the man is in his 80's , sometimes you just have to let go and like Terry , BE the better man , live YOUR life and don't allow others to treat you badly for your own sanity , my Hubby is a wonderful loving man and Father , it's taken him years to get over the Mental and Physical abuse, his Faith is what got him through and knowing that I wouldn't ever treat him like that , helps him trust , not easy but definitely worth it , 28 years married and wouldn't change a thing, for your sake get help and if you can get away , wishing you all the best, take care and do what's best for YOU.💖💖😊😊
@@rottierumbles9451 Thank you so much for the kind words .Will surely work on things you mentioned and try to be a better man.😊
@Alex Luca Thanks brother,much appreciated 👍
I hear you bro, walked a similer path and I'd do it all over again, because it made me the man I am today. I'm 36
Hes a man. He didn't feel better after getting the anger out with his fist
It doesn't feel better and those that do feel better after violence have a deeper seeded issue
@@randomrangoon5476 how can we who feel better after violence solve this issue
@@MH-nc6bb I'm sorry but that sounds like a personal problem...
Seek help otherwise you're part of the problem I think.
Not saying you need help but the people that enjoy violence do.
It just creates a never ending circle and nobody really wins at the end.
@@MH-nc6bb The politically correct will always say that violence is NEVER the answer. I say bullshit. What if someone who bullied you for years with no remorse, and you finally found the courage to fight back and win. And you tell me that is not good? Come on now. Sometimes we don't have to be so deep. Sometimes it feels good to give somebody an assbeating. If they deserve it. And I'm not a violent man.
It is what is it. Sometimes violence is the answer period
my god....im a 45 year old man sitting here with tears running down my face
Then it is about time.
Age is only a number
@@AmaanKhan-te8ll then cousin is only a word
@@AmaanKhan-te8ll - Jimmy Saville (2004)
@@AmaanKhan-te8ll and jail is just a place
He is truly a god send. I’ve never been in any situation like that but seeing him overcome such tremendous obstacles really did show me damn near anything is possible with the right determination. All the love to Mr.Crews
“You didn’t come FROM your parents, you came THROUGH them.” Man, those are powerful words. We can decide to do better and be better because we are ultimately the children of God!
amen!!
Amen!
I don't believe in God but Amen!
Why is it always "a men" someone say "a women" to even it ot or everyone say "a human" stop being so sexist. Awomen
@@Shhsbdhdbdnsa that's nice
Poor terry.. He only did that to protect and the fact he needed to use violence to protect his family is heartbreaking..
@@rachmae4180 Awhh ty! I drew it myself
I say it’s a good thing now that fucker of a father better realize he’s the bigger man now
I once had to use violence when I was 17 against an abusive "stepdad" I am not proud and he fought mr like a man im not gonna lie it hurt me but I didn't let him fold me, after all that the police came and locked him up. Turns out he had drugs and was on then at the time and a gun in his truck. Well its safe to say he's put up for a while for other warrants as well and since that day I promised I will protect my mom n sisters as long as I'm alive alot of these fools heartless
This was my father growing up and today he has stage 4 cancer, dying and my mom is the only one willing to take care of him.
The sheer kindness and forgiveness some people have is incomprehensible to me...
Stay strong ❤️ He is in a better place. Jesus loves us all.
That doesn’t excuse his behaviour. She will see when her time comes that the love and respect she showed others will
Shower upon her … may she be blessed
@@juanpedro4083 ok
@@juanpedro4083 bruh
Man Terry is one of my idols. I'm so glad for him and look up to him. Sending love from Romania.
Emotions don't solve problems. Actions do!
You sound like you took steroids instead of working out
Up Risingslash you’re mad because he’s right
@Alex Jay standing up to someone comes in many shapes and forms. i felt like he was more revenge driven. standing up in his case could be something like tying up your father on a rope and then having a conversation he cannot escape.
Heba Allah Before you write that down think a little more about that senseless statement. Any man that allows his body to control his mind is a fool. Emotions are cultivated within the mine. Emotions compel an individual to reasoning, and think critical. Emotions are associated with love, loyalty and integrity.
@Alex Jay The thing is...even if you beat it up you feel guilt and it sucks.
my dad was an alcoholic, would go out with his friends drinking for a whole 5 hours, i would wake up either being slept on, or him not even home, i had no time with my dad as he works alot, drinks alot, but he isn’t abusive, hearing this makes me glad that my father was, nice.
hearing this really makes me thankful.
Same as my dad
Your one of the lucky ones honestly because most alcoholics beat up their family members and are very aggressive .
nice, my father isn't abusive but is reliant and dependant, so when I grow up, I wouldn't wanna be like him, he's not a good role model, sometimes childish, but his actions are ignorable, atleast it's not abuse
Nice to hear bruh. Sad to say I have no father
_"You didn't come from your parents, you came _*_through_*_ em'."_
Well said
mind blown. Allah swt made all of us
@@CEO_Belal is what muslims believe.
@@Kali-8 Yes thats why he said it lol. No need to clarify that
@@penthactussoul yes you do need to clarify that. If i came with something like "adam and eve were the first people" then its something i myself would believe so to not make any misunderstandings youd say "i believe adam etc etc".
People are different, not everyone is the same, thinks the same, nor speaks the same.
Always had the highest respect for Mr. Crews. Now I have even more. God bless him, his wife and his family.
The kindest of people are sometimes the ones who went through the most in their life
@@juanpedro4083 bro ur commenting on every comment saying this like tf? U good?
Stay awesome brother. 😎🌎✨
Yeah ik.
Sadly
There’s nothing that gives you more empathy than the plight of trauma.
This other dude is smiling because he don't wanna cry, or don't know how to show his emotion that hes feeling in the moment. You can see this.
His name is ct fletcher and yes, you are right. And the reasons is he has a very similar background himself with his father beating his mother
All men are like that
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@timisgod clash may I ask how that's sexist? I'm a little slow sorry.
@timisgod clash oh ok
“Strength does not come from picking things up and throwing them around” in other words: contributing to chaos. I agree. Strength, real strength is catching something mid flight and having the strength to bring it safely to the ground. Contributing to order.
He believes that the power to win is not in the hands of violence its in the power of God and knowing and believe that not the solution to anything
It's insane how such a happy and inspiring terry is and with the past he has and still walks with a smile
I was getting this video recommended since 1 week, but now I realize this man and every successful person has that story behind them, and thats the story who made who they truly are. Mad respect to you Tery Crew, you always make me laugh. Didn’t know this sad story you had. No for violence🙏
This guy literally lived the life i live as a child. Who would have thought. I don’t drink because of the fear of being the same, i fear that possibility of me being exactly like my dad. My older sister once punched my dad when i was younger, I remember seeing my middle sister hold my pellet gun i got for my 8th birthday and point it towards my dad. Ive never seen that many tears on my moms face before, we felt so powerless. We couldn’t go anywhere, we had no money to go out and rent a place for ourselves. Having to crowd into my uncles house to escape that kind of violence was the worst. It stills goes on today but im older now and so are my sisters, now we have jobs and can afford to move out any given time. its a struggle but deep down i know my father is good just miss minded about stuff he’s done in the past, I don’t hold hate for my dad but i do understand the struggle.
This video is so inspiring I was literally bout to cry. NO JOKE
Same here brother.
I did
Same bro, my nose got itchy
Your pfp tho c'mon bruh 😂
Already cried my man
Massive respect for both Terry and his wife. The more I learn of him the more I look upto this man. He is lucky to have such a strong woman at his side and he knows it. That's powerful
Most boys would've never shared that story. It takes a real man to let the world 🌎 into your past.
Are you okay? Just remember that you are stronger than you think and I will forever be with you. Never feel alone.
My son is that way with me
Evon Williams, I'm sorry to hear that
MugTomato That’s called toxic masculinity.
@@l-3832 I meant that people don't let us open up, reading on it now I see how people might think that I meant to say it's not manly to open up but that's not what I meant
"Strength is not about picking things up, and throwing people around, and knocking people out. Strength comes from standing up."
Real powerful stuff. Terry Crews is an incredible person.
I'm a 30 year old white lady - Terry Crews is my role model. He has been for years and years now. Stands up to sexual assault, stands up to his abusive father, works through his personal emotional issues that resulted from his upbringing so he doesn't pass on that pain and trauma to his own children... Always speaks his truth and tries to rise above his automatic negative reactions. I understand that so deeply...It's easy to react, and infinitely harder to reflect. 'You didn't come from your parents, you came through them.' Thank you, Mr. Crews. I wish luck, clarity, and love to anyone struggling right now and remember there is always someone out there who cares about you.
@munnoh1029 jolyne cujoh is a psuedonym taken from JoJo's Bizarre Adventure, my friend! Lol, not my real name. Yes, I am legit 30 and white. 31, now! Your comment has me laughing, thank you.
@@alexcollins71090 never too old for jojo i see. haha
What does you being white do with anything 💀
I’m not sure why being white has anything to do with him being your role model. What is it with you people and adding race into everything…
Terry crews is the man! He's earned every bit of respect he gets!
When this grown man, with a built like beast, said that he remembered his wife reminding him to stay calm and not to be violent at such scenarios, made me respect him more. How beautiful is to see someone trying to contain their innate actions keeping up their loved one's advice seriously! Now that's a good relationship which is rare nowadays. ❤️
1993 fall, just before the army, i couldn't take it anymore, and i hit my dad. For 18 years of alcoholism and fear w my sis and my mom i couldn't take it anymore.
He changed, and everything changed from that day on in the most lovely way up to this day, but me, I still cry about it today even just think of it that i had to hurt him so bad to wake him up, it still hurts.
He is a changed man, a very good father and the best grandpa.
He never got drunk again after that incident, never, he loves my mom the best way he possibly can and she is happy.
(:
I'm very happy to hear that's what helped your dad change. Many people never do, it's good to see it does happen. Even if it meant you had to be the one to stand up to him
Some people need to be hurt just to wake up.
This hurt was out of love. Don’t ever feel guilty you bring back your parents together.
My father react exactly like this after I beat him up once. Lovely man, very smart but severely depressed and alcoholic. Sometimes we need the shock to realize we are in a bad way
Great story. Thanks...
You are my hero. Rage is never the answer two wrongs don't make a right. God bless your wife and you!
A Terry is a big man with a gentle heart.
The definition of meekness: having the power to do something, but choosing to control that power. Blessings to you Terry.
Terry Crews is one of the most straight forward dudes to ever walk this earth. Listen to his words, live by that words.
Stfu 🤫😑
@@lovett4262 what do you mean my saying such bad thing to the kind words this person had to say about Terry?
@@alfreda2711 don’t mind me then, I had family problems then so I needed to transfer the aggression everywhere and anywhere.
@@lovett4262 well you don’t have to take out on this innocent person that you don’t even know. We all have problems not just you try and be kind to someone who might need a kind word you never know what they are going through. Have a good day.
@@lovett4262 that's actually sad you need to actually work on yourself before trying to belittle someone you are miserable and need help its not that persons fault that you have family problems thats no excuse to cuss at someone are you a kid ? Didnt think so if you dont have anything nice to say simply just don't talk i would say act like you got some common sense but you probably don't have any imma pray for you I know people just like you that lash out on people that did nothing to them
This man is a beacon of light for the young black youth. There's no success without struggle and focus. There's no reward without hardship and hard work.
This just proves that everyone has issues, and we’re all humans and don’t have the perfect life we portray to have. So many of celebrities are coming out with issues they have or had growing up. We ALL go through those dark times, some just rise and do something about it and be someone because of it.
This is when you understand that he's a strong man
He's not afraid to show his emotions and he's not afraid of what people would say or think about him if he did
I love his shows how he keeps him physically healthy and watching that although he is a big guy and will hesitate to hit a fly; it shows of how much we have to become more like him
No joke when he said he hit his father I felt that.
Okay?
Sure gum ball
So did his father
Lol
So are you his dad?