Artists Don't Have To Believe In Themselves To Have Success - Brad Rushing
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- Опубликовано: 22 май 2024
- Brad Rushing began working with Roger Corman's Concorde/New Horizons film studio which afforded him some of his first feature film opportunities as Director of Photography where he learned valuable skills.
After a number of years concentrating on indie feature films Brad began to shoot high end music videos photographing award-winning, iconic clips for artists like Britney Spears, Mariah Carey, Lionel Richie, Nelly and Eminem. Brad's ground-breaking work on Moby's "We Are All Made Of Stars" won an MTV Video Music Award "Moonman" for Best Cinematography in a Video, and many of the other music videos he shot have won awards such as VMAs, MVPAs and Grammys for Best Video. Brad also won a Canadian Society of Cinematographers Award for Best Cinematography in a Video for the Alsou video "Always On My Mind."
Brad's most recent work is the feature film "A California Christmas" which filmed in Petaluma, CA in July 2020, one of the first film productions to start under stringent COVID-19 safety protocols. The film debuted on a major streaming platform for the 2020 holiday season and was number one on Netflix for one week straight.
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I've been a working artist for over 50 years, so I'm jaded, but this is one of the most insightful artist interviews I've ever watched. Thank you so much Film Courage!
Michael, we love to see one artist connecting with the thoughts, feelings, and words of another artist. Thanks watching and posting. This comment makes our day.
Same here. There are those of us who never even used the 'A' word. It was dreaded and directionless. Film courage your videos are both encouraging and insightful. Much learning here. Thanks for making these available to us.
Michael I am humbled by your appreciation. Thank you.
agree!
Even if we're lucky enough to make something that people enjoy, next week they will have forgotten it. They're already onto the next. No one will know the blood, sweat and tears (and joy!) that went into our work but us. Did we or didn't we get the music out. We create for ourselves.
"If you hear a voice within you that says you cannot paint, then by all means paint and that voice will be silenced." Vincent Van Gogh. Yes, just do the work.
BEAUTIFUL!!!
on the other hand.. VG had many voices that among other things told him to cut off his own ear.
@@Tom_Swiss That came later... VG was known for absent-mindedly putting his paint brushes in his mouth while he worked (like a pencil). The paint thinner poisoned him and messed with his brain.
@@Tom_Swiss ... and, unfortunately, he never sold one single one of his paintings.
@@h.a.s.7336 Not true
"If you want something you've never had before, you have to do something you've never done before." This was what I needed to hear.
SAME HERE
“If you want different results, do not do the same things.”
This is one of my favorite quotes
Brian tracy
That is exactly what happen to me.
I have never played music before besides messn around here and there.
Last yr I bought a keyboard and my brain and fingers just took off. I don't write anything down. I just go.
And now I'm trying this with art aswell.
The perspective I've found in myself.
Is what set me free.
"But I want this more than I want to be shy..." as a business owner and as an introvert who struggles with social anxiety, this was an incredible statement. Thank you!
I understand 100%. The more you socialize the better it gets. Being prepared is everything because if you know your stuff it will speak for itself and this will help boost your confidence. This is coming from a person with extreme social anxiety. There are worse things that can happen in life so just jump out there full speed ahead take it or leave it. Except me as I am or don't!
Also an introvert here. I have made so much progress with social anxiety, but I will always be an introvert.
That quote was so me.. 🎯
It is curious, this seams almost a pattern... He is not an exception in this.
Introverts are no different that extroverts, one just requires more social interaction than the other. Be more selective
I love the saying "preparation meets opportunity." and "If you want something you never had, you have to do something you've never done." Almost every artist battles with mental health-related issues or struggles with self-esteem. We can all relate to this, so thanks for sharing all your insight with us Brad.
⚠_1% create / 9% contribute / 90% consume: yea the 1% artist mental_is so different from the 9% business plugs & the 90% mass audience_that's what plays games on my confidence to finalize & release_whether i can relate to & convince this completely opposite type of human to fvck w/ my ideas for 'em without commercial name fame yet_ive got hard drives w/ thousands of_but if no one hears the tree fall in the woods_from the mass observer perspective_it doesnt exist_shoutout to quantum physics for giving me clarity before I leap_but again the wiser I get the more it separates me from the mindset of the masses_its not rocket science_i see some artists keep it simple stupid & win_Im really trying to bring it down to just looking at the charts & being a mirror for 'em_tell their stories back to 'em_in creative crossover ways_fuse what they love_find my own personal goosebumps in 'em for proof_re-upload it_repeat until ###🚀
@@kaizen5415 holy run-on sentence batman! can anyone decipher this? Someone didn't take their meds. Bruh in not agreeing or disagreeing with you.i straight up have NO IDEA what you're saying. Try english?
murder
Yes
@@marcomoreno6748 🤣👈🏻
“I want this more than I wanna be shy” - magic words
Indeed!
@@filmcourage :)
Yes. Thank you.
🤩 powerful ✨
That's BEAUTIFUL ❤️
"I want this more than I want to be shy..." Yes! Yes! Yes! Yes! Yes!
I say there is value to your own comfort zone as well. When you let people mess with your energy you lose $$$$$$$
@@axiilinc7077 100 agreed.
I am glad you appreciate the thought.
@@Demention94 ty!! Great video btw
I really liked the part where he basically says it's about consistency/discipline even when you don't believe in yourself!
My music career didn’t start until after I was 30. Now I’m in two signed bands and I’m about to go on tour next month. I needed this.
Good luck !
@@JulieChanDoitsu thanks!
Goddamn have fun!!
We're just surprised you put your name out there so publicly, john!
good look and gratulations from swizerland
"Just do the work" is no guarantee of anything, but it's the minimum you've got to do anyway if you ever want success to be even a possibility.
Indeed.
It's a guarantee that you've got some work to show, which is never a bad thing.
Yep. Whether you will be succeed or failed, just do the work. Makes sure "the work" is something that is your passion though, at least when you fail, you actually enjoy it.
And make sure it's good work. Obviously the art itself is subjective but create quality and you can't lose really. It's stuff I've created that didn't make sense until a year later or I ended up using it for something completely different, but not as intended. Don't think just do it
Do the work sounds like our required service to humanity.
"It's not about stopping, it's about recognizing something isn't working and choosing to reinvent." - wisdom
Something lacking these days
@@Sasquatchbones for real
I discovered a sentence for me 20 years ago: When you start, everything is dificult. But when you start walking, it's just work.
It is so motivational to hear something in the same spirit.
That quote is a keeper! Thanks for sharing it.
elaborate please?
@@FM-to3gy basically, the start of a journey (eg. of learning something new) is the most challenging part, once you get comfortable and used to working in that field it just becomes second nature to you, as you get more comfortable it also starts getting easier to start a new project, hence it becoming "just work"
@@realchix I see your videos channel, it reminds me of cold song yeah? you must know molchat doma sudno
@@frankuvlkan yes sure. I do not even remember what comment you mean. So it cannot have been that bad. Blessings to you too.
One of my favorite quotes that gets me through tough times is, "Don't believe in yourself. Believe in the you that I believe in." Sometimes we're just too close to ourselves and need to be the person others see us as
Guuren Lagaan! "Believe in the me that believes in you!"
Kamidah!
Needed this one right now thank you
Bro! 💪🏽
Thissss 🎯
It is reassuring that there are introverts working in the film industry. This guys advice feels like a treasure trove.
Indeed, here is a recent video from director David F. Sandberg where he talks about being an introvert - ruclips.net/video/DEyFH-uzlGg/видео.html
I am glad you found value in the advice.
@@BradRushing hey man you’re a legend, got me working on my script again, thank you! I shall forever be grateful
"your identity is tied up to your work even if you don't want it to..."
I wish my identity wasn’t connected to my paintings, because when the piece I’m working on is rubbish I feel like I’m no good in general.
@@katherineelizabethco Connection doesn't mean equivalent. We must not forget that we are not just our work :)
this video is golden. Hope anybody who thinks “i have to believe in myself first if i wanna become successful, believin in yourself is the only key to achieve, if i dont i wont”watches the video. We feel like we had to believe otherwise we lose but this isnt real. All we need is a start and doing it in a self discipline. Then belief certainly comes.
His point about meditating and taking breaks is super crucial to improvement. Adults, on average, have around 1.5 hours of being focused before the brain loses focus. Taking a meditation break after learning or doing something will help solidify what you learn after
Yes walking away for a while is a known “technique “. Also turn the drawing or painting upside down and study it that way.
@@angelwings7930 exactly! taking a break isnt just good for maintaining focus,its good for realigning your focus as well, coming at things from a new perspective and reevaluating priorities.
Like the way the interviewer gets into our head and asks the right questions
Thanks Satish, doing our best.
She’s brilliant isn’t she? I’ve learnt to be a better listener just watching these awesome videos.
Yup.soooo insightful
@@southlondon86 you’re everywhere bro. 🤣
As a 37 year old beginner in screenwriting who suffers from low self esteem issues, anxiety, and self doubt I definitely needed this interview! Thank you for this! 🙏🏾
I believe in you
I hope this helps(not about screenwriting but i think it can be applicable), i have high functioning autism and im pretty hard on myself, i just learned how to drive at 25, the best way of learning for me was just doing it, ive heard so many things about how to drive (i was 21 at the time)and only relied on those things when i tried driving and then would stop right away because i wouldn't do it perfectly and then i would drive again a month later but then fail again and then would stop doing it and studied some more but then i would do it in another month etc, the point is i spend more time reading about the rules of traffic and driving instead of actually driving, like 2 or 3 years passed wich means i just drove like 4 times during those years and i said to myself that i wouldn't touch a steering wheel again until i felt ready, it was until i then decided that if i wanted to get the full experience i had to learn how to fail, how to do this and that all in the context of actually driving and living the experience not just from reading, i tried and even tho i failed at times i was atleast failing by living the experience of actually driving, by actually doing it, i was learning without realizing it because i was living it and it came naturally and while i was failing in some aspects i was also improving in other aspects as well, i would go as far to say that the written dmv test was way more esier when i started driving because i didn't have much interest on the answers and rules before because i wasnt living them, once i started driving those things came in mind naturaly and i was actually more excited to learn because i was now living it naturally, so i think experience is key, its nice to listen to others speak but its until we do the actual thing that we learn
The symptoms you described about yourself can actually give you a better more interesting viewpoint to be a better by screenwriter. If you were perfect your work might be boring without objectivity.
So get to work 😉
Write about all of those hinges especially in our community. This stuff never gets talked about. They've just started with programmes like insecure but not much for guys. You have a unique voice. Reach inside for all of that stuff. Like Michaela Cole said "write the thing that scares you". Cool name btw. I like Nate Dogg.
The great thing about writing or any art . Is it doesn’t matter what age you are .if the writing is good . It’s good . you quite frankly are a better writer at 37 than you could every be at 19 based on just living life .
Best part of this for me was hearing him say 'I have nothing to prove' and mentioning the example of how much better it is when someone asks to see your work instead of you begging them to pay attention. There's power in being there without using a sales pitch! Not everyone is a great self-promoter but is great at being themselves, you're also more memorable this way and get more relevant opportunities to you. Creative industries can be a lot of 'people-pleasing' mentalities so this was a great video to come across.
An artist doesn't have to believe in themself, just do the work. That is amazing.
We need to listen more people with experience and awareness like this guy. Social media gave too much voice to young inexperienced and immature persons. What this guy is saying is pure gold. Hope to see more.
3, , oh my gosh thank you I've been really thinking about my life and future and like they say the earlier the better😁
Thank you! You took the words right out of my mouth!
Find me on Facebook at: bradrushing. Send a DM so I know the request is from you.
Agreed!!
you really, really have a point here
"Success is not final; failure is not fatal: It is the courage to continue that counts." -Winston S. Churchill "Opportunities don't happen. You create them." -Chris Grosser
thank you everette for this inspiration. No matter how hard and struggle i am today i will do all my best and learn more to get my Dream.
Fuck yeah.
Powerful
“Opportunities don’t happen.You create them” mmmmm WRONG!! I’ve had PLENTY of opportunities. & I did nothing to create them! Because I had no faith or effort in them! I either said yes or no!
@@I_Bully_The_Bullies MMMM Get out of your own ass please lmao opportunities can fall in your lap yes but probability is a factor as well, raising it is not purely coincidental. It’s like luck, you make your own luck or lack of. And we don’t always know if something “good” that happens will ultimately be a good thing the same way something “bad” that happens won’t ultimately be a bad thing.
Opportunities, lack of opportunities, luck, bad, good. It’s all relative.
If you want something you you never had before,you need to do something you've never done before. This was such a supportive thing to say, it brought tears to my eyes. Thank you, Brad.
Total introvert here. As a jazz pianist and organist I never thought of being shy as a problem (always just wanted to be really good and play with freedom) now… there is social media. Expectations have changed. I relate whole heartedly to this: “I am good at being nice to people - but not a good salesman” There are many gems here. Really helpful. Thanks Brad!
I'm 34 and have always wanted to be a writer. Maybe I should just call myself a writer. I'm starting to do copy, read books again, write poetry again and teaching English. I think I'm setting a foundation.
Absolutely amazing. Keep going ❤️
I think it’s dope that you ‘want’ to be a writer, but you’re already teaching it. May all your efforts pay off!
Paulo Coehlo got published at 37. After his family lock him up in a mental institution a few times. So if some people in your family think you are crazy, you just might have something. But you dont even have a profile photo.
Are you actually teaching writing to cae and cpe students? Otherwise, I don't see how just teaching English pertains to writing.
👏🏻👏🏻 keep going
I felt this man when he said "I DON'T NEED SMALL TALK." man that's literally me
Well when you initiate small talk you don't ask someone how their doing you ask them something that relates to them like "what pain brush do you recommend"
This was the most refreshing and down-to-earth interview I’ve ever seen!
Gosh, y’all don’t know how much I’m tired of hearing that “you have to sell yourself in this industry” when I could just be nice and casual, not expecting anything in return, and simply have a good time with the person then the opportunities will open up themselves.
Plus, as an introvert, everything he said is so true yet also entertaining!
I don't know Brad. Never heard of him before this video. But within the first 5 minutes of watching I felt that my obligation to music grew. I appreciate your wisdom and your eloquent approach to teaching it. I'm grateful to people like you. Influencing the future.
I relate to this so much. Almost my entire time at school, I was told by my professors, classmates and friends "your work is awesome" and "you're so talented". But after school I received rejection email after rejection email and it feels like everyone was just being nice when they gave good feedback. Now I'm an intern at 29 and struggling to get my career started. I have to keep telling myself "keep working, keep working. Get the experience."
I feel u bro I had 3 jobs at 26 still can't get the nature of my work as a graphic designer. The career is broader once you get out of college as a result I struggle a lot. But I won't give up my dreams that easily.
🤗🤗🤗
Im high school student but..
Hi Alex! How's life going now?
The best advice, be human, be kind, be interested in the other, be a giver and life will support you.
"What was the best part of this video for you?" Every single part. It's so good to hear such an intelligent, down-to-earth human being! Thank you Film Courage and Brad Rushing for this spectacular interview.
This is gold. While his area is on the film making industries, EVERYTHING he said applies to EVERYTHING IN LIFE... or almost.
This guy is a genius. This video helped me a lot today.
Exactly..! 🎯🎯🎯
"I want this more than I am shy": beautiful and explains why I am where I am. Crowds are kryptonite for my as well. Im actually afraid of becoming more successful as it means more meetings/crowds etc. Regardless, I keep pushing forward and are almost at the top of my field but boy is it lonely and stressful. Panic attacks are my biggest enemy in life 😅
Wish you all the best folks. Chase your dreams and learn to meditate on being grateful.
Beautiful comment, thanks for posting.
Thanks for the encouragement!! Anxious introverts unite! I would recommend you watch Mooji, his advice and meditations really helped me personally.
@@JJBerthume will do Jay, thanks for the suggestion !
Thanks for your words
I also hate crowds and attention, so I don't do certain things that I want to do, like write my book, or start a non profit group, because I'm afraid of people. But I've been working with a great therapist who is helping me get thru these issues and figure out why I feel this way, so hopefully I can do them someday. She also says we have our emotional brain, or logical brain, and our survival brain. And sometimes your thoughts can lie, but feelings don't. So I don't always have to give power to my thoughts, because they might be trying to sabotage me. Ru Paul always says, we all have an inner Sabatouer, but it can be told to F off 😆 Yes I hear you, but I'm not going to listen to you. Thanks but go away.
72, still working, that is, painting & drawing. Survived a few Valley of Death treks, as do we all! THANK YOU!
You're welcome.
@SD Latham...those "valley Of Death" treks can be of the interior variety, too. Thanks for the comment.
@@darrellborland119 Twas the interior to which I referred, the only One I know.
RUclips kept putting this video on my front page and I kept ignoring it, so glad I finally clicked. What a great philosophy to follow as an artist. Thanks RUclips.
In this case, great to hear that RUclips got it right! Thanks for watching!
This is so deep and so well articulated . Its hard to feel good about yourself when you know you've done a super job but work doesn't follow. Just do the work. Yes better to spend 5 focused minutes than hours unfocused. Everyone wants the formula but guess what it's a moving target you learn as you go.
🎯✨💎
I really like what he said about having a wingman. As an introvert, I find small talk and initiating conversations to be extremely difficult, but if I have a wingman who can introduce me and break the ice, I feel a lot more relaxed. I especially hate it when people say, “How are you?” Other than saying fine, I don’t know how to respond to that.
I'm that wingman. personally, I dislike the small talk and ignore it. Instead I take over the conversation and start digging into the stranger's brain.
@@someguyyoudontknow263 @filmcourage needs to interview YOU so we can benefit from your techniques!!
Find me on Facebook at: bradrushing. Send a DM so I know the request is from you.
@@BradRushing my techniques come from enjoying talking to strangers everywhere. Being curious about people and years of approaching women even though I knew I'd get rejected. It's ok to watch videos full of advice but its a bit pointless because its information overload and you can't remember all of it or follow it in steps like its a puzzle. Life is tangible and you learn your way through actual experience. All these people in these videos give advice from personal experience.
If someone asks how you are, something along the lines of "are you really prepared for the answer for that or just being polite?"🤟😎😳😄🤔
This spoke volumes to me. That anxiety of not having a wingman is really rough or having to interact with people that I don't know is overwhelming. BUT I crave my artistic success much more then the anxiety threatens sniffles me. The quiet time is huge to help get through those times. Thank you for this snippet of an interview
Loved it…..I will always remember the “ do the work because you are an artist and you committed to this”. It’s needless to brake us down during the creative process. We must trust, we will come out of the tunnel whole.
Personally, being a painter, painting a canvas is an amazing journey whereby I recognize hidden parts of myself, sometimes the work of great artists I love emerges, sometimes I feel such faith and love what I have just don, be it a bravado stroke or a fantastic color choice. Then it eventually crashes because I haven’t finished searching what I am looking for.
But I will trust that I will eventually get there.
Never felt so pumped to make my art in my LIFE!
Awwww. I am so happy. Fly high!
👏🏻👏🏻✨✨✨
Nah for real for real
I love this interview. I really really needed to hear this message. "I don't care about being rich. I'd like to be self sufficient, I'd like to be secure...but I remind myself that the contract that I made with myself is that I wanted to be an artist. Simple as that. And you know what? I am." Didn't type it out exactly verbatim, but I really loved hearing that. It's true! I have a sticky note on my fridge that I wrote about a year ago that says "If you want to be a filmmaker, make a film." It's true! Just make something! :)
Yeah def. As he was saying about your friends and the ppl you know, what they like and are interested in, I imagined, just film them. Interview them with b roll of them doin what they like, or a voice over narrating, either them or yourself. RUclips is a place to shoot and upload movies! If that’s what a person want to be, they can!!
I will now go and remove all quotes about success and stuff off my walls and put this one on it.
THE MOST MOTIVATIONAL QUOTE I HAVE EVER SEEN.
🔥💎🔥
That connect with me as well. “I wanted to be an Artist, Simple as that.”
❤
You can do anything you want, as long as you come to terms that nobody may like your work and you might not make any money.
Rewatching this after two years has reminded me how great this interview is. My favorite parts were:
1) ''I want this more than I want to be shy''
2) ''If you want something you you never had before, you need to do something you've never done before''
3) ''It used to work, it's not working now - try something different''
4) ''preparation meets opportunity"
Thank you Brad. I loved your quote, “it’s a business of relationships, not parasites and prey. “. All the best, Anthony.
@12:19
the world runs on "I know a guy who knows a guy...".
🎯✨🤗
I'm a poet and i've been writing poetry 30 years...somehow, i keep writing...even at my most jaded points in my life, i still create...even when i don't have faith in myself, i still write...i'll continue to write until i drop dead...i'll continue to write and keep putting it out....i will keep doing this
Do you have your poetry posted anywhere?
Please share your poetry with the world!
@Desert Blue you could say that. are you a poet? write back
Wish more people were like this, what an awesome guy. He didnt say anything groundbreaking, or anything we didnt already know in the back of our minds, but he said it so elegantly and in such a relatable way, I think many will appreciate it. I love what he said about still wanting to level up at his age because for me, whenever I get interested in something, I become so obsessed that I read everything there is to read about it, I practice constantly, do all the tutorials that need to be done, but just as I am crossing over from beginner to intermediate and I start seeing some actual results that I am pleased with, I start to get brain fog from being burnt out and then the break I take ends up discouraging me because I feel I have no energy left, no fuel, and I have never found a solution to this.
Hey bro listen to this my guy you used all your creative energy going hard and if you don’t take the time to replenish your energy like your body needs sleep and food to fuel it. Your mind needs fuel to, the best thing I’ve found to help me out is when ever I even start to feel that mental wear step away and go do something else wheather it’s make a meal, take a walk, or even just go play a game for a bit it will give you enough time to center and can catch your self before you burnout you can shorten the amount of time it takes to recharge. Imagine you’ve just pushed your body to the extreme stayed up all night drinking and tried to push your body the same way the next day, you might still be able to push your self to the extreme but by doing so could end up harming your self in the process.
Basically set it down go do something that stimulates the other side of your brain. And don’t be hard on your self , always be forgiving of your misgivings.
This guy dropped nothing but gems. Thanks for all you do 🙏🎥
I practiced being less selfish, which slowly made me more selfless naturally, and that helped with likability. I stopped dreading communication and became more approachable in social settings.
Awesome advice.
I really needed this today. Thank you Film Courage and RUclips Algorithm
You're so welcome! Glad to hear it was helpful.
WoW! @Moikaloop, I'm 100% with you. This the most human and accurate link that the RUclips algorithm ever targeted for me. This is a direct touch to my soul. Every artists in the the world need to see that wonderful and truthful interview. Well done. Film Courage, I'm touched, inspired and impressed.
As a fellow hardcore introvert, I appreciate you sharing your knowledge and what works for you. You’ve provided me with some direction in a subtle way and that’s so valuable to me.
I really liked the part where he talked about reminding himself of the why he choose filmmaking because it was so relatable. There is always those self inner voice that tells you that you need to go hard so you can be successful but that’s not even the the goal the goal is to do what you love because not everybody in this world is in a position to do what they love. A valuable lesson also was his way of dealing with shyness , I’m battling shyness myself ever since I left my parents house. I have to speak in public regularly and my stutter doesn’t help but I want to become a filmmaker so bad. Thank you for you great advices Brad
Exactly. Despite how you feel about yourself just keep putting in work.
“I’m not a salesman.. I’d be a terrible salesmen, but I’m good at being nice to people”
I loved that he was honest about this because it gives me hope. I create a lot of art and experiment to learn what I’m good at or how I can improve but I don’t really like ‘selling’ or advertising my work. Thankfully I didn’t quit and I’m starting to make those connections he mentions. So the people who are supporting me and working with me to create are my friends. It’s beautiful and I’m happy this interview happened. It’s nice to make sense of the experience with words
Yes.🧡💥
Most artists don't have business attributes.
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@@JaysonT1 So true! Most of us are lousy sales people, whether it's someone else's stuff our own. There are some people who can do it, no problem, because they're social butterflies anyway. I'd love to see a survey about that, actually. Correlations with job and shyness.
The best salesmen in the world are the ones who use their products as tools to help other people and solve problems. If a salesman is in a line of business where his products are actually hurting people instead of helping, a real salesman stops selling and starts helping.
To me, the best part of the video was when Mr. Rushing explained his generosity and being a good person approach, as opposed to being a salesperson. That's really gold and something I needed to hear as a fellow introvert wanting to start a carreer as an artist. Thank you Mr. Rushing!
I am in no way, shape or form connected to the film industry. But the best part of this video for me is listening to someone who could literally be me if I was in this man’s profession.
It was eerie hearing him say things that *I* say or justify things the way I do
It makes me feel less alone, that they’re others who think like I do. Like I’m not the only one who behaves that way.
I’m grateful for his genuine nature and his generosity in opening up and being so vulnerable and honest about himself. The fact that he gives credit to his coach as well is so lovely.
In fact, that’s a huge draw for me when I can feel such an instant connection with a stranger I would literally never think that we share anything in common.
It’s so clear that people are here on this planet to help each other out in any little way that we can and I thank him once again for making me feel so seen ✨
(And I will definitely check out his work and book recommendation.)
We have all those over-the-top, "professional" motivational speakers like Gary Vee, David Goggins, Jordan Peterson, etc.
...and Brad Rushing is the only one that did it for me.
This is important advice. I appreciate it a lot.
Fantastic!
I know. I have a reverse internal reaction to super go getter motivational speakers. I have a positive internal reaction to people with deeper, introspective insight and honesty. I do everything better when I’m at peace and in touch with my inner self. Horrible accidents happen when I’m pushed too far out of my comfort zone. But, that’s just me. 💕
@@jedichild6815 Couldn't have said it better myself.
Well thank you. I am glad you found value in this video.
What is popular is not necessarily the best. Usually people with the most contacts charisma and looks will be the one who are considered in the top. But the truth is that they are really not the best
“I forgot your question but I hope I answered it” 😂
LOL! This is part of a 5-hour interview!!
It’s beautiful to see like minded people. Sometimes it feels so lonely
I have ADHD & have ruined “interviews” with interruptions & jumping from subject to subject. I was so excited & couldn’t contain my spasticity. I like the info about different energies. Interacting with the “world” is overwhelming but this is so valuable & powerful. Truly appreciate this interview. Your so articulate about this subject. 1000 thanks!
ADHD is not real. But keep believing in the myth if you want, the truth isn't for everyone and ignorance is free.
@@jucyboi I hope what you have going on is diagnosable.
@@jucyboi lmao nothing is real too ? stop believing that
@@jucyboi 👀👀👀👀👀
This was almost a spiritual talk :)
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This time who algebra vtaf
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Yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of debt
Straight up, had me yelling out agreements as I cooked in the kitchen lol 😆💜
@@TahtahmesDiary How fun! We should form a club!
"What can I give them?" WAS my biggest secret but it's out now. Good interview!
LOL!!! Clever you.
I just switch my major to art, which was my original plan before entering the dental field. I definitely wanted art first because it was my passion then learned the hard way that art was my first and should be my last love, figured it out finally in my 30’s.
"I just have to do the steps..." I, too, have self esteem issues - imposter syndrome is so crippling. But that statement "just do the steps you need to do to get you through the Valley of Death.". Bam.
This is the best interview I've seen in a long time.
Love this segment. We are happy this one found you Scott.
I'm so happy. Thank you.
🙌🏻 yes! So much depth and care!!
Brad, thank you for the shout-out!!
Everyone go buy "Meant For This" by Erica Wernick. It will change your life.
“Success is a moving target” ; as it means different things to different people I also feel like this means to stay aware of your personal thoughts on what success means to you; sometimes we have to adjust our thoughts based on our current circumstances but we can still find success in every moment… it’s just constantly changing!
The best part for me was the last section.
Being genuine.
This is the ideal mindset for folks who struggle with self-esteem. I’ve struggled my whole life with some progress made, but I’ve had to accept it’ll always be a battle and sometimes it’s better to work WITH those negative feelings and accept them for what they are, and using approaches like he suggests!
I am glad you can empathize. I wish you success and fulfillment in your journey.
We are our own worst critics. Completing the steps to reaching your goals is really what it is about. Thanks for the reminder 🙏
I clicked accidentally on the video, and that was a happy little accident. What a genuine artist, glad I’ve got the opportunity to know you.
The worst part of trying to work as an artist, for me, is trying to sell myself and be aggressive. I hate doing sales work, and like Brad, I'm an introvert. Reframing what you do in a creative industry as just being a kind and thoughtful person, listening to others actively and connecting with them on a human level takes so much of the icky artifice and slimy schmoozing aspect out of it. I really appreciated that, and that's advice I'm going to try to take going forward.
The RUclips algorithm again comes through with a *Film Courage* pep talk when I most needed it
Nice! Keep creating
I think I finally found a video that may help me write again. Ive not been in such a bad place in life since the trauma of my childhood, so trying to keep myself inspired I've found as being hard to do. Having a major back issue doesn't help with the lack of belief i already was feeling. Thinking that most people who are accomplished had someone backing them, or people showing interest on their writing. Not having that has been a killer for me. Being an introvert also makes being outgoing hard like he said.
Now finding myself alone and needing some sort of drive to get back to writing so I can get my novel done and finally look for someone to publish it is what I need really need to have happen lol.
Start small and move forward. I have chronic pain and it is harder to deal with than we know!
as someone who over 30 years ago wanted more than anything to be a a writer of music and become something special within the arts , I can say from my perspective at least that believing in yourself really doesn't come into it for a long time. I've often told people that it was only up until a few years ago that I didn't confidently know what I was doing even then after so long but I did at least have the understanding for bringing about what I wanted. I didn't understand the artform but I did at least know how to create good resulting conditions. I'd say now at the age of 49 I am finally in charge of informing this very well but it has taken me literally over 30 years banging my head hard against the wall to be in my happy place
Absolutely worth it but for so long I could never confidently say of myself that I had a total faith. Perhaps interestingly to some is that the most important aspect for me during my early years that drove me so passionately towards my goal was in dealing with envy at what others were able to produce so much better than my efforts. It was an early driving force for a painful 8 or so years as I pushed hard trying to match this seemingly impossible goal of what others had achieved. Often desperately sad and hopeless times until I somehow one day I realised I had somehow miraculously reached a standard that matched the bar. It can't be underestimated just how crucial your undying desire to succeed must be if you are to make it at the highest level. This of course was followed almost immediately with self doubt at being able to maintain this level of understanding for an artform I still didn't understand
I think something to take away is your only real entry into being the best is a lot work and hardship beyond what you might consider reasonable and an unending desire to succeed despite this. Want something like this then you have to want it more than anything before it. The pride and satisfaction that can follow such a path is very worth it but it's not something I would advise to everyone unless they're truly aware of this
Just been scrolling through my 2023 saved videos list I haven't watched looking for something that resonates as the clock turns 12 on new years. This caught my eye then caught my ears and I'm in tears.
Right place right time and I'm getting the groove back.
Thank you
Wonderful! Happy New Year!
It's awesome that he makes his "kryptonite" so normal, needing a wingman in certain environments. I don't think he's comfortable owning a room individually per se, but a lot of people aren't. It takes a lot of strength for people to say that imo.
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Agreed. Several of the most stressful times in my life were attending "networking events" while looking for work...by myself. It's all small talk, which is an anathema to me. In small groups or a couple friends, you can't shut me up. Put me in a party or room where I don't know anyone, and I will stand back and observe. I never consciously thought about having a 'wingman' before, but in retrospect some of the best interactions I've had in those situations were when a friend introduced me to someone or a small group.
I wouldn't say I'm shy, because in I'll walk up and introduce myself to people in the right circumstances and I have done numerous public speaking engagements...but small talk makes me want to jump in front of a bus. :)
Loved this video.
This lady is the best interviewer in the world!! I wish we could see more of her and have an interview about the things she has learned over the years!
Sing like no one’s listening, love like you’ve never been hurt, dance like nobody’s watching, and live like its heaven on earth. ” -Mark Twain
@@igor3807 What if you’re an awful dancer or singer?
@@southlondon86 You do interviews
@@Nimora What if you’re not good at that either?
@@southlondon86 All the more reason to do it, loudly!
I really appreciated Brad's honesty. Knowing that even with his resume and background (and we all know those aren't enough), he is still in need. We're all in need of something, and that's why we do what we do.
As a wise man once screamed:
"DO IT! JUST DO IT!!!
Don't let your dreams be dreams."
Nothing is impossible!
Absolute golden advice for creatives trying to forge a career. Bookmarking this to return to it as needed.
See you again.
I just finished a shooting a short film out in Utah (I live in Oklahoma), and I had nothing but doubts the whole way. Did I let it stop me like I usually might? No, I didn’t. Was I pissed when I drove all those miles just for problems to arise and things not go smoothly? Absolutely! But the important thing was devoting myself to the task of finishing what I start. It can be incredibly hard and disheartening at times, but that push and tenacity is a MUST. Keep pushing! Through the pain, through the trials and tribulations. Persevere, at all cost. People will respect you for your efforts, and no one can say that you let your fears get in the way of your dreams. No one 🤘🏼❤️🎬
Thank you for reminding me to be tenacious! Between your comment and this vid your helping me move forward through all the trials and tribulations.
Proof that this works: I never watched the video, only repeated the phrase in the thumbnail to myself for the last month. I saw it while scrolling and thought it interesting but never clicked. Today I come back to it. Spoilers, it works. Even without the other great points he made, just doing the work IN ANYTHING makes a huge difference. My example: Learning how to type fast on a manual typewriter. Every key jam and missed keystroke wanted to make me walk away, but just do the work. It doesn't matter if you make mistakes, this is something you have never done. One month and am now at 75 words a minute when before you wouldn't have believed I could ever use a keyboard. And I know I can only get faster and better from here on out. Just do the work. You have nothing to lose and only experience to gain.
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Wow this dude is full of wisdom!
I'm a painter, and this is one of the most inspiring videos I've seen in a long time. Thanks for this. 🤗
Me too im also a painter and don't stop creating bro
I am an animator, and this video feels like it gives a core advice to creators as a whole.
Someone's given me these toys, given me a sandbox to play in, so I'm gonna build my sandcastles. Thank you so much. That was necessary to hear ❤️
What an honor to contribute that to you. Thank you for letting me know.
I hope you all realize that just because you label yourself an introvert does not mean you can't learn to be more comfortable in social situations. There's a huge difference between not wanting to socialize with ever single lifeform in a 5 yard radius and being terrified just because there are a lot of strangers around. You can be the former without being the latter.
And you can always chat up an extrovert if you need.
"...as a shy person how do you go in there, is I go in there with a sense of generosity and relating as a human as opposed to a sales person." That's gold.
Just sent to a friend who needed to hear this again.
I'm so glad.
Really cool guy, I get why people want to be friends with him! and the general advice from the title is so true, so many of my friends fail themselves and don't try because of doubt, thinking successful artist feel differently when really most of them feel the same but plow through it. This video reminded me that my own doubt is really just a part of the "artist" package. It's not an indicator of successes or failure, it's just an inevitable hurdle.
Beautiful comment Michal, thank you for posting.
Exactly!!!
@Michal Because art is not only to transform others, but to transform ourselves.
Beautifully put! Yes!
thank michal
On the topic of success being an issue of orchestration or luck, I'm reminded of an old boss of mine when I decried the success of my coworker as being the result of luck saying "Maybe, but when you put yourself out there as much as he does, the luck makes itself more available to you". That's stuck with me for twenty years now.
"I go in there with a sense of generosity and relating as a human as opposed to a salesperson," powerful maxim
“‘I’m not a salesman, I’d be a terrible salesman”. Well I am and I can tell that you DEFINITELY are salesman. A very good one (and there is nothing wrong with that)!
This was soooo soooo good!
" Just like the market changes, just like technology changes ... it used to work, it's not working now. Try something different "
I needed these words.
I am so glad. Honored to contribute to you.
What a decent man. What a wonderful comment. Pop psychology aside, if we study the history of art and subtract the oeuvre all of the artists who "did not believe in themselves" we'd be going to empty museums - at least far emptier museums. We'd still have Rubens oh and the Pyramids. The important thing is to do the work that you are compelled to do.
I am a 77 year old American photographer. I did some of my best work 60 years ago, years before I knew what I was doing or why I was doing it- at least, not in any way that I could articulate. That old work stands today beside my new work as something I am most proud of having done in its time, because I see it bring a beauty in the humanity of subjects long gone to those who see it today.
I was lucky, to get professional training in the craft of photography, with some very good teachers, some of whom paid me to carry their tripods and set up their lights, so I could do professional work, that was NOT MY WORK & do my MY WORK for myself, without having to care who liked or appreciated it. Don't get me wrong, as I wrote in a poem 30 or so years ago: "I love it when you like it; when you love it I like it even more, but make no mistake I did not do this for you.." I worked at learning to see, to keep myself alive. At 77, I'm as excited about my work I'm doing now as I am about presenting my old work.
You can see my contemporary reflection work through a galerie in Paris and some of my older work is in a book that can be ordered from Amazon as it is being printed by one of the finest publishers of photography books in the world, in Germany. Wish me luck at living with my doubts & insecurities so that there may be more to come... Joey Tranchina, Sète France
“Success is preparation meeting opportunity” loved that
Brad Rushing is incredible. Never heard of him or seen him before and have to admit I tripped over this video but he is so honest, humble and revelant he should be running the world. Amazing.
Thanks Robert, we are happy you discovered this one.
LOL. I am glad you appreciate the advice.
This interview was a great introduction indeed!! ✨
Generous man.
Humbling and good advice for life.
Thanks for watching
Yes
This the most human and accurate link that the RUclips algorithm ever targeted for me. This is a direct touch to my soul. Every artists in the world need to see that wonderful and truthful interview. Well done Film Courage, I'm touched, inspired and impressed. I didn't knew Brad Rushing before watching this interview. Every word of this interview is pure human gold and precious. I read a lot of comments by other viewers, and I think that we are almost all agree that this a really great interview. So honest and soooo real. Like a lot of people said before me, I needed to hear that today. After hearing this, I can't be the same. Thank you Brad Rushing for your generosity and your timidity. ;-)
We are glad this one found you at the right time. Cheers!
This is one of the channels that gave me the courage to start my RUclips channel 3 months ago about self development. Now I have 243 subs and almost > 95 hours of watch time. I know it’s not comparable with others but I’m still proud I started because I’ve been learning so many lessons that I couldn’t have learned without getting started in the 1st place.