🏥 HOSPITAL SETBACK FRUSTRATIONS! 😢 (12.13.16)

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  • @valerief1231
    @valerief1231 8 лет назад +115

    My eyes leaked when your were leaking. Sometimes it's hard to be strong ALL the time, warriors need a 5 minute break every once and awhile.

    • @laurenshepkosky168
      @laurenshepkosky168 8 лет назад +5

      I could not have said it any better.

    • @ITSJUNE2
      @ITSJUNE2 8 лет назад +4

      well said, I leaked too and my cheeks suddenly got washed.

    • @moriganna67ify
      @moriganna67ify 8 лет назад +5

      Valerie Foster stated purrrfect!

    • @cl4za
      @cl4za 8 лет назад +4

      Valerie Foster agree

  • @jencannon9564
    @jencannon9564 8 лет назад +33

    Mary, crying doesn't equal quitting or weakness!

    • @LovelyLoonyLeontine
      @LovelyLoonyLeontine 8 лет назад +8

      Jennifer Cannon exactly! It means you're processing emotion and destressing

  • @kittymervine6115
    @kittymervine6115 8 лет назад +1

    it's OK to cry, it doesn't mean you are unhappy or have an unhappy life. You have such a beautiful blessed life. Peter and Ollie and your parents and sister... just so blessed. So crying doesn't mean unhappy, it means, "this is a tough moment."

  • @AustinandKayla
    @AustinandKayla 8 лет назад +20

    I just love it when Mary sings. That raspiness feeds my soul!

  • @GreysonNekrutmandrums
    @GreysonNekrutmandrums 8 лет назад

    MARY!! For someone who doesn't know how to thank someone or "give back" ... let me tell u Your Spirit alone is enough to brighten an entire world!! Rock on girl!!

  • @lisalevin8719
    @lisalevin8719 8 лет назад +3

    Don't feel you have to put on a happy face for us. We're all out here struggling with our different stuff - maybe not as big as your stuff, but it always feels big when you're in it! I lift you up in my prayers - all three of you!

  • @DizzyDazeofLynnea
    @DizzyDazeofLynnea 7 лет назад

    Watching Peter wipe away her tears is so touching to watch. She's a lucky girl to have a life partner like him! XD

  • @JessaJay
    @JessaJay 8 лет назад +6

    I have never seen a more adorable couple

    • @thefreylife
      @thefreylife  8 лет назад +1

      Awe :) Thanks!

    • @JessaJay
      @JessaJay 8 лет назад

      The Frey Life Thanks for always responding and making me feel special! My channel is smaller than yours and I find it hard to respond to everyone!! I appreciate you doing that!

  • @DawnOnye
    @DawnOnye 8 лет назад

    Todays video was REAL, tears, laughter, music...all in one day. Thats how it is living with a chronic health issue. Great closing today!

  • @mindy2215
    @mindy2215 8 лет назад

    I love to see how much Peter cares about you, but I see so much sadness behind his smile. You really have a great man next to you, making your life much easier with his tender love.

  • @lilymayworlandforrester2625
    @lilymayworlandforrester2625 8 лет назад +8

    I really hope you feel better soon Mary my heart broke when you cried 😢

  • @marieked
    @marieked 8 лет назад +9

    Crying is good, it helps relieve stress. And I know that the clips we see are you being happy most of the time but I'm sure there are more down times we don't see. Prayers for answers and a plan, love and hugs.

  • @meganmesser5923
    @meganmesser5923 8 лет назад +2

    Mary, don't forget how loved you are by people all of the world. You inspire us all everyday!

  • @anniebailey326
    @anniebailey326 8 лет назад +1

    The ukulele really got me in the feels. Also, he sounds way better than one would expect after playing for only 15 minutes!

  • @yvonnespillers6368
    @yvonnespillers6368 8 лет назад +1

    Everybody needs to have a melt down. It helps the mind and soul. Hugs to you all

  • @thriftedinapeartreejune7233
    @thriftedinapeartreejune7233 8 лет назад +2

    Mary I hate to see your tears. As I had told you that in past I have IPF end it looks like I'm headed back into the hospital. I see how strong you are and see how much you fight, sometimes I can get into a very dark place and want to give up. But, I think of my children, my husband and how you fight and choose joy. Thank you you help me through my struggles. Blessing to to you

  • @suzzannelson1708
    @suzzannelson1708 8 лет назад +1

    they are so silly and sweet , I always feel bad for her but she makes everything so positive ♡

  • @PaxMC11
    @PaxMC11 8 лет назад +1

    My mom always said, "Tears make room for more." More laughter, more memories, more happiness, more life. ❤️

  • @beckyholmes8500
    @beckyholmes8500 8 лет назад +4

    Loco Cocoa Puffs! I think I'm gonna steal that phrase 😉

  • @hannahrose8384
    @hannahrose8384 8 лет назад +2

    THE WAY PETER LOOKS AT MARY DURING THEIR MUSIC SESH

  • @ashruz_3095
    @ashruz_3095 8 лет назад +3

    There is nothing worse than waiting for answers. I've been in the hospital 200+ days this year and still waiting for answers. I wish I could give you a hug. It's so hard. People forget this is your life. Every day. All the time.

  • @kelseydorenkott143
    @kelseydorenkott143 8 лет назад

    This disease will just tear you down and sometimes you just have to cry. You wonder when the storm is going to stop. CFers are seriously the strongest people in the world and I am honored to be apart of this group. Mary you are so strong. Thank you for sharing your life.

  • @suziedoyle1872
    @suziedoyle1872 8 лет назад +1

    Mary, you are a true star. Peter are a huge star too, Oliver has a star for every curl! I think why people love the Frey life so much is because you both keep it real, in everything. Your faith, your marriage, your CF life as a team. You both show what love and sacrifice are in its purest forms. So tears are fine, you've been in hospital 3 weeks, that's enough to make anyone get frustrated, plus you are still feeling so sick. It's been a miserable gloomy, rainy day here in Northern Ireland, but at around 430pm (uk time) I saw the most beautiful sunset and I thought of you guys. Sending you all huge hugs!!

  • @heathersmith4774
    @heathersmith4774 8 лет назад +2

    I guessed right that it was your pump. Two points for me. It's the little things that make me happy!

  • @madelinewalls8549
    @madelinewalls8549 Год назад

    Watching this 6 years later is amazing. Who would of guessed where you would be now with.a sweet baby.boy and much better health. You continue to kick butt daily. It's very inspiring

  • @callabeth258
    @callabeth258 8 лет назад +2

    Haha peter your face while Mary was singing! Brilliant!

  • @onetier
    @onetier 8 лет назад +1

    For as bad as it sounds, crying is good. It's your body's way to release all that pent up energy. Better out than in!! I feel your frustration with not having answers. I've had unexplained pains for going on 6 years now. My doctor keeps telling me "you have to be okay with not having an answer." It's the hardest thing to accept. Some days are good. Some days are not. All days are blessed. Big hugs!!

  • @grandmamine4307
    @grandmamine4307 8 лет назад +2

    Mary you are very lucky to have a husband like Peter. He is so wonderful to stay with you and do the store. Love e you both.

  • @Molly_Maurer
    @Molly_Maurer 8 лет назад +8

    Praying for you Mary. I hope you feel better soon and get some answers. You are so sweet and kind and everyone hates seeing you so sad!

  • @TexSquirrel
    @TexSquirrel 8 лет назад

    Praying for you both! There are days when I have to say this verse over and over.
    "I can do all things through Him who strengthens me." Philippians 4:13

  • @fidilkid
    @fidilkid 8 лет назад +1

    Just because you cry doesn't mean you aren't strong! Hugs! ❤️️❤️️❤️️❤️️

  • @terrijohnson4383
    @terrijohnson4383 8 лет назад +2

    You both are so precious Me finding you guys on YT is a true gift from above. My daily walk with Him has grown so much since finding your ministry. Hugs and blessings.

  • @TaliyahMC
    @TaliyahMC 8 лет назад +17

    Can Mary get a pass for a few hours to leave the hospital and go for a drive? Our hospital will allow that if the patient is stable. Might help...?

    • @lcasey2000
      @lcasey2000 8 лет назад +2

      TaliyahMC when I was in hospital I was allowed go within 10 minutes of the hospital , so we went off and got food and went to see a friend

    • @TaliyahMC
      @TaliyahMC 8 лет назад +2

      Different hospitals have different rules...we allow several hours for our patients for specific reasons.

    • @Chloe-zh4ji
      @Chloe-zh4ji 8 лет назад +1

      TaliyahMC She responded to a similar comment saying that because she has such dangerous bacteria (for other patients) that it's safest that they take infection control guidelines

    • @lilyhelm7922
      @lilyhelm7922 8 лет назад +1

      Chloe Seljak but that is referring to other hospital rooms

  • @livy_colors
    @livy_colors 8 лет назад +1

    I know the feeling of being sick and not having answers or a plan. My heart goes out to you Mary and I'm praying you'll get to feeling better soon. You're really such an inspiration with your positive attitude........Also, that face that Peter made when the IV started to beep cracked me up! XD

  • @Melly241000
    @Melly241000 8 лет назад +2

    ugh that is so frustrating I feel for you Mary.. you are one strong woman ☺ much love and peace to you and your husband ❤☮

  • @grannysquareswagonwheels2604
    @grannysquareswagonwheels2604 8 лет назад +1

    It is so great to see the love you two have for each other.

  • @emsheeren
    @emsheeren 8 лет назад +1

    Ahhhh Mary and Peter!!!!!!! I actually learned to play the ukulele in the hospital (part on my own, part with music therapy). It'll be the best distraction, and it'll keep you busy for sure. I LOVE the use, and still play it 2 1/2 years later! Yay!!!!! Enjoy!

  • @erinuber2881
    @erinuber2881 8 лет назад +8

    I love your new port song! :-) So glad you got the ukulele! :-)

  •  8 лет назад

    Dear Mary and Peter... I can not put into words how the vlogs inspire, educate and deeply touch me. I've been watching the vlogs for months and remembering the times I was in the hospital for weeks and the only thing I wanted to hear from people was "I am here, you are not alone in this", so I say it to you guys. I believe we do not need to physically know someone to be there for them, let's say. So there are almost 100.000 people inside that hospital room with you guys. Finally, don't ever forget the amount of love that comes from each and every part of the globe, directly to your hearts. Kisses from Brazil.

  • @e-m-x
    @e-m-x 8 лет назад +1

    You are on my heart. I am praying for you that you find complete comfort in His presence. Your struggle is heartbreaking for me to watch.

  • @deborahhartman7548
    @deborahhartman7548 8 лет назад +3

    Praying for better days ahead l

  • @sallycroft2191
    @sallycroft2191 8 лет назад

    How precious is every tear you shed, Mary.
    Praying for you and Peter as you await answers.
    Love your beautiful singing voice, song and Peter's playing. Rest well tonight.

  • @song5361
    @song5361 8 лет назад +2

    Peter, your drone footage is fantastic! And Mary, you're so strong, you continue to inspire :)
    I hope this is a sign of better days ahead for you. Sending lots of love

  • @TheAgeofFabulous
    @TheAgeofFabulous 8 лет назад +16

    Big hugs to both of you. I'm praying that the fungus results come in early. I know how frustrating it is getting through a disease that sucks and sometimes you need a good a cry. Maybe Peter can go to Joann's or Michael's get a gingerbread house kit or the Ugly Gingerbread Sweater decorating kit.

    • @TheAgeofFabulous
      @TheAgeofFabulous 8 лет назад +4

      Side note: When I was last in the hospital (2013 but different condition), my friend who was staying with me in the hospital unplugged the IV pump so I could use the restroom and then never plugged it back in, so it was 2 am when it went off...we had very similar reactions as Peter's.

    • @kericewadsworth7830
      @kericewadsworth7830 8 лет назад +3

      Oh... The sounds of the hospital!!! When I am in the hospital my pump always goes off at night but is fine throughout the day.

  • @rosegoldwings-4300
    @rosegoldwings-4300 8 лет назад +1

    Healing Huggs & many prayers for the Lord to heal you & renew your strength! I can't hold my tears back seeing you cry! Life is just unfair sometimes. 😔

  • @SYRSALLY
    @SYRSALLY 8 лет назад +2

    It breaks my heart when I see you cry. 💔💔💔

  • @thebatzinator
    @thebatzinator 8 лет назад

    Mary, you've inspired me to get a job (it's been 8 years of locking myself away in my room, feeling sorry for myself because of the fibromyalgia since I worked last) and I just wanted to say, thank you! Your bravery to face every day with a smile and laughter made me realize that life is passing me by. Thank you for putting your trials and tribulations out there for everyone to see!!
    Peter, your willingness to do all that you can for Mary and Olly is always heart warming!! There are very few men like you left in this world. You truly amaze me. I love you all three of you so very much!! Thank you for allowing us into your life!!!

  • @shayef82
    @shayef82 8 лет назад +1

    Mary please don't be sad, you are so strong and tough I wish I could tell you what you have helped me get through this year, You showing how strong and brave helps me with I have recently been diagnosed with cancer and had to have surgery at 33 years old, and my entire life I have wanted to be a mom and my husband wanted to be a dad but that's not possible anymore, please just know that you are helping so many people in so many ways, thank you all so much for sharing your lives with us! Thoughts and prayers , and have a blessed Christmas

  • @ciannamccoy6253
    @ciannamccoy6253 6 лет назад

    You are so courageous, crying is good.. sign of strength.. You are an incredible role model.. I cant even express how incredible Peter is... You two make an invincible team.

  • @LeenaSregneva
    @LeenaSregneva 8 лет назад +7

    I'm so sorry Marry. You guys are in my prayers. I love your new port song!

  • @1115christel
    @1115christel 8 лет назад

    It really gets me teary eyed when you cry! Much love to the Adorable 3!

  • @gointothedogs2
    @gointothedogs2 8 лет назад

    The yukele and the song made for an amazing ending to a trying day...you always turn things around and its a great thing to see....Im glad you share it all.

  • @wolfsrule100
    @wolfsrule100 8 лет назад

    My heart breaks seeing you cry. It's good to let it out. You are a CF warrior and Peter is strong fighting with you!

  • @marilyndekker1541
    @marilyndekker1541 8 лет назад

    Don't give up Mary. you give up. you give so many of us strength to push through our own health issues. I am praying for u.

  • @Jewelsfaith
    @Jewelsfaith 8 лет назад

    Praying for your lungs to clear up and be free from all infections.. You are a Rock Star! Beautiful Mary!

  • @kathyboote2934
    @kathyboote2934 8 лет назад

    Sometimes there just needs to be tears. They are very cleansing. Also sometimes i wish there was a place you could go and break old dishes and stuff just relieve your stress! God bless both. You are such fine young people!

  • @beingnicole
    @beingnicole 8 лет назад +1

    I've always enjoyed the vlogs but the drone shots are adding such a nice extra layer! beautiful scenery.

  • @robinsfrog
    @robinsfrog 8 лет назад +2

    you are such a brave and strong young woman. thank you for your life lessons that you share!!! Peter is a fabulous husband and wonderful person as well.Merry Christmas from South Carolina!!

  • @Kelly-ih8tm
    @Kelly-ih8tm 8 лет назад +3

    I wish nothing but the best for you Mary. You and Peter are an inspiration. Cheers, from Nova Scotia.

  • @christienbbrooks7334
    @christienbbrooks7334 8 лет назад +2

    The footage of the drone is totally awesome!!!

  • @joanstrzelec4302
    @joanstrzelec4302 8 лет назад

    You are so brave. Don't feel bad about crying it is a good stress relief. We all need that once in a while. Sending you both love and prayers.

  • @alinareybey3263
    @alinareybey3263 8 лет назад +2

    Aw Mary :( don't get down, you are doing amazing. We love you

  • @cherihendrix3076
    @cherihendrix3076 8 лет назад

    Mary and Peter, keep hanging in there. You are such incredible roll models for others with chronic illnesses. I have times when I quit fighting and I don't work as hard as I can to stay well. Your daily vlogs have shown me how fighting EVERY day is worth the effort. I have gained a better understanding of hard work in managing my illness through watching you handle yours. Thanks for sharing your experiences with others so we too may see joy in our own lives.

  • @112musician
    @112musician 8 лет назад

    You have made it longer in the hospital than I ever have before hitting "crazy mode". Hugs to you both. Please don't feel like you have to entertain us, your truth and where you are right now is so honest and real. Plus, I can just SEE the day in my mind when you're out of there, and Peter is drone-filming footage of you doing fun outdoor things!

  • @timandjenniferkracht5427
    @timandjenniferkracht5427 8 лет назад +2

    Received my whale print and it is wonderful! With everything you have going on, thanks for taking time to send it.

  • @xevsetter1201
    @xevsetter1201 8 лет назад +3

    Peter, your an amazing husband and caretaker!
    Mary, you are in my thoughts and prayers as you continue to recover.

  • @drenadaniels5226
    @drenadaniels5226 8 лет назад

    I cried when you cried. You continue to keep going you and peter. I been sick for a while now but I get a lot of hope from you and peter. Keep fighting as long as you can God loves you both very much. I hope you feel better soon.

  • @cadienicole6826
    @cadienicole6826 8 лет назад +5

    We are pulling for you! You are such a kind and loving soul. Keep your head up baby girl. xoxoxo

  • @carolanngarcia5963
    @carolanngarcia5963 7 лет назад

    What an amazing family.
    Mary, you cried and I had to cry along with you.
    There is always a calm before the storm, and a storm before the calm.
    I live your awsome song Mary, and that expression on Peters face had made my night.
    Good night to you Peter Mary and Ollie boy..

  • @melissamital3523
    @melissamital3523 8 лет назад

    You, Peter and Ollie are beautiful souls! Sending positive thoughts for all of you!

  • @BudgetBeautyBabe
    @BudgetBeautyBabe 8 лет назад +1

    I know just how you feel about wanting a plan and needing to feel better and being tired and all of it! Sometimes you just need to cry before you can get back to the fight. Also, Cosmo burps like a monster after he eats so our kids have that in common.

  • @christinadoherty3212
    @christinadoherty3212 8 лет назад +7

    Wow guys, the video editing and quality is amazing in this video! Peter, the drone footage was so great

  • @JezebelDestructed
    @JezebelDestructed 8 лет назад

    My heart goes out to you and Peter.. your lives are so much more complicated than most people could understand and still you take time to make your vlog and share the details of your journey with us 💕 I hope that the fungal culture comes back and you can move forward in a successful treatment plan ☺️

  • @laurenhampton3086
    @laurenhampton3086 8 лет назад +1

    Hang in there Mary! You are such an inspiration. Your strength and determination is incredible. Peter you are amazing and supportive and I know it must be hard for you. Your family is in my prayers. By the way the end of this video made me smile!

  • @Aces001
    @Aces001 8 лет назад +1

    So many prayers going out to you both. I hope the lord lays his hand on Mary and on you as well Peter. God bless.

  • @16050390
    @16050390 8 лет назад +1

    You sing Beautifully Mary and great ukulele playing Peter

  • @terrydominguez4405
    @terrydominguez4405 8 лет назад +4

    You should do a Sunflower painting...you remind me of a Sunflower searching for the light...we pray for you to get better soon and go home

  • @lcasey2000
    @lcasey2000 8 лет назад +2

    Stay strong Mary ❤️ sending love and hugs ❤️

  • @lorimiller4872
    @lorimiller4872 8 лет назад +1

    No matter the struggle, you both are always smiling and get thru it together. Sending hugs! Merry Christmas!

  • @bgmaple47232
    @bgmaple47232 8 лет назад

    I have a ukulele and I can't play anywhere near as good as Peter. It is great to see you smile.

  • @addiedee7906
    @addiedee7906 8 лет назад

    My thoughts and prayers are with you daily, Mary, Peter, and Ollie. It is so challenging to live with a chronic illness. Pain/not feeling well does interfere with the ability to take in information. You are doing everything right. I'm glad you were able to move your bed around. It definitely helps to rearrange things when you can. Thank you for sharing your life with us.

  • @victoriakunselman2929
    @victoriakunselman2929 8 лет назад +2

    HE has a plan Mary... praying for you everyday

  • @LillieRose-bi3is
    @LillieRose-bi3is 8 лет назад

    Mary I can't even comprehend what you're going through, it truly breaks my heart to see you so down. Never give up hope, sending love and wishing you happiness x

  • @leamarie6094
    @leamarie6094 8 лет назад +1

    Peter, your camera work is amazing! Those artsy shots outside the hospital look great!

  • @hannahrobin7449
    @hannahrobin7449 8 лет назад

    Honestly, you show true strength. You're helping me to manage my own conditions and let myself to cry and take a break. My favourite quote is "every day may not be good, but there is something good in every day" - it definitely seems to fit you and Peter xx I'm keeping you in my thoughts xx
    Also, I'm loving the port song xD

  • @melissadelahaya6902
    @melissadelahaya6902 8 лет назад +1

    Hang in there, girl! I love your New Port song! Sending positive vibes to you guys, always.

  • @beckyfleig2308
    @beckyfleig2308 8 лет назад +1

    I'm so sorry you've had a really rough go of things Mary (& Peter). I'm sending tons of prayers your way. You're allowed to have down days and work through those emotions. I admire your fortitude and faith. You & your family are in my prayers as always. Sometimes things are taken a day, an hour, a half hour, 15 min, or a minute at a time. ❤

  • @FloridaGrandma
    @FloridaGrandma 8 лет назад

    I know how frustrating hospital stays can be, esp when you expected a certain time frame & instead it just goes on and on and on. Crying and getting it out is good for you so cry all you want. Sending prayers and lots of ❤💚💜💙💛 your way.

  • @alisamcalister4146
    @alisamcalister4146 8 лет назад

    You two continue to show Godly love and are an amazing role model!

  • @catherinemortimer7956
    @catherinemortimer7956 8 лет назад

    I hope you are SO proud of yourself, Mary. You are a strong, funny, loving, kind, understanding woman who is dealing with a very difficult situation. Please recognize how very well you are coping. And, you have a lovely singing voice. Blessings, Cathy xo

  • @cl4za
    @cl4za 8 лет назад

    I'm so sorry. I'm crying and my heart is breaking for you. You're so strong and brave!! You're amazing!! 💛

  • @shannoncurtin8047
    @shannoncurtin8047 8 лет назад

    Awww Miss Mary! I feel for you! I am so happy I found you and Peter! I get thru my days watching you! Thank you for including all of us!

  • @christyinthecarolinas
    @christyinthecarolinas 8 лет назад +2

    I'm so sorry! I have and will continue to pray for you. it breaks my heart to see you cry, but I totally understand. sending you a hug, Mary. xoxo

  • @kattieanderson5809
    @kattieanderson5809 8 лет назад

    The song at the end was great...the look on Peter's face was priceless....that was serious....he wasn't messing around lol I love you guys.....you are an inspiration!

  • @extra_nos5081
    @extra_nos5081 8 лет назад

    Peter, that shot of you looking up and smiling while the drone goes up from you at 8:47-48 deserves to be part your new video intro if you come out with a new one anytime soon. It's perfect.

  • @kellykatz8617
    @kellykatz8617 8 лет назад +2

    You two are just THE BEST!!!!!!!

  • @DaveSeavy
    @DaveSeavy 7 лет назад

    Hang in there Mary. I'm dealing with esophageal cancer, and am now terminal, so I understand your frustration over the setbacks. I'll keep you in my prayers.

  • @Chronicles1611
    @Chronicles1611 8 лет назад +1

    You two are sooooo cute ! We're ALL pulling for you Mary !

  • @emonroe26
    @emonroe26 8 лет назад

    It's only normal to feel down or discouraged sometimes, especially when you don't feel well. As strong as you are, it still sucks to feel gross. You are doing amazing and an inspiration to everyone watching everyday you fight through the frustration and show us what it means to have faith in the midst of uncertainty. Lots of love from London.

  • @Justaroundtheriverbend
    @Justaroundtheriverbend 8 лет назад

    Aww Mary you are an amazing warrior even warriors cry sometimes. Peter you take such awesome care of Mary. Lol Peter's face when the iv pump started beeping! The snowman impression was hilarious! Also, nice port song 😀👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻