Si mambo na kabira coz hata mkikuyu mwenzako anaweza kukutesa mpaka ukufe. I am a good example married with different tribe and this is our 31st anniversary. So ambia baba yako awache ukabila.
She should file for divorce and break the ties with him forever since they had a church wedding with the second husband. Otherwise as per the law she is still his wife
I will apologise first before I comment na nyitwo wega why did this mama chose the man over her girl child?Ngai ulichukua mtoto ukampeleka shagz ukae na hubby molester and a drunkard women please choose your kids over anything let your kids be first option why couldn't walk over that abusive marriage?already the girls emotions were not OK from the troubles the guy was giving her am soo 💔 😢 💙 😔 not okey
I agree with you 100% but all thru this lady's life sge has not made a sound decision.One thing I know is that how you are brought up has effect on who you become.She suffers childhood trauma which is not processed thus affecting her awareness of who sge is, self love assertiveness and self esteem.You see red flags in a person and continue with the relationship.That's crazy!Women, let us deal with ourselves and problems we faced so that we heal.Once we heal, our worldview will change.What I realize with many women who stay in abusive relationships fear to remain single but end up being bruised singles.Why not face reality?
@@eunicenjeru215 we hv gone through it ooohh dear I hv long testimonies of myself si kuenda kwa councillor wowote , pray , fast, read ur bible that's how I got healed . Shida ilifanya niende gulf
Huyu mama AKo na kasolo kabisa unapitishia mtoto wako hiii mambo wote juuu ya.mwanaume such women I feel sorry for them my kids my first priority Kama kulewa ni hiii wacha single be my life
Jeeeso I feel like screaming how do you choose a man over your own blood the first time this guy attempted touching her or even dirty talking her ningekanyanga kubwa women wisdom 🤔
@@alicewambui9266 imagine choosing man over your kid hata mtoto sio wa huyo mzeee .huyu mama amenikashirisha na vile ana smart kumbe roho ni soft .but she learnt hard way
@@sarajambi1567hiii story its too painful to listen kwanza hapo kwa mupeleka mtoto gishagi ndio akae ni mwaume ako ma meno 32 .huyo mama eneweye lets learn from her singles mums
Imagine ana teswa na ako na mtoi mmoja tu na hata si wa huyu msee. Still she's a hard working woman to certain herself and daughter. She's dying her daughters rights to peach and sound health for the sake of less caring so called husband who is not ready to man up. Infact the day she realised that he's not accountable for wedding money, bt instead enjoying it with other women, that's the day she should hv broken the relationship. He dnt deserve her otherwise she's too good and Beautiful. She can get love again to a responsible, loving and respectful man. Why on earth can he evn think of sleeping with her only daughter in the first place. Si ni kutembea makumbwa makumbwa a kiendanga the first day he attempted. Was she waiting for the real act? God forbid.
Aki MUNGU wangu 😭😢kwanini wamama hu choose wanamme kuliko watoto in the name of marriage..this is so painful 😢 😫 😭 💔..i pass the same na my my step father ni mluyha but what i went through nimekuja kusamehe my mom juzi tu ingawa sitawahi sahau sababu my mom alikua anani laani nilimwambia venye nafanyiwa na bwanake..i can't talk 😢 more cos nasikia kama naweza andika kitabu nzima kwa yale nilipitishawa
How do you leave with a beast ! My children are my priority b4 any man in this world. From my God my children are next. You should protect your children mama. Kwani kuolewa ni fashion !
Kwani how addicted were you to that man?I personally I hates marriage for real but if it locates me one day,God please let it be perfect🛐🙏coz my anger level can allow me give it a second chance.
Mama you failed your own child, try make peace with your daughter and if possible apologize otherwise the trauma will affect that girl's adulthood life,pole kwa uliyo yapitia and thanks for sharing your story to educate other women.all the best
May God see you through u n ur kids,but girl u never knew ur worth or the worth of ur kid. Thank God the guy left juu bado ungekuwa hapo ...i pity that ur daughter walai. Thnx for sharing may u heal .
Aki the way you are telling it. Makes me ferl so bad .Now you leave your child to fight for herself when all her trust is in you. You knew him very well and you child is telling you. Seriously. Which marriege were you saving surely.
So this is the time u have come to senses on protecting a girl child after your daughter went through heal, aki this story is painful hearing your daughter went through heal when the original mom knew 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
Am already angry with you madam What is this desperation that women have of remaining married ? The man is a beast and you had so much evidence....I ve no mercy for you. You choose your evil husband over your own child
I don't understand how you choose a man over your child because the very first tym.. He started this rubbish.. It could have ended.... Sad for the girl... Who fell victim of this relationship.. M
Mm nko namtoi naniwamschana cwezi olewa coz cwezi taka mtoto wangu atakewe advantage like this... please ukiolewa na mtoto wa mschana Kua kalibu nayy sana unamwambia ata ukithreteniwa anakwambia...mm cwezi coz naeza ua uyo mwanaume 😥😥
What!!why would send your child away instead of moving out with your daughter? Why would there be a first attempt and you allow it, a 2nd and unaccountable attempts? Yani tupende watoto wetu na wakue 1st priority. With Blended families, you have to be careful.
Very disappointing and disgusting. How do you let your daughter down like that? All for what? Very unfortunate for that girl! I feel very sad for her. Was that marriage that important to sacrifice an innocent girl? And even the way she's recounting it seems no remorse or reflection! May God shield and the girl.
Symo k. Hawa watu unatoanga wapi? We want ppl who impacted the country, inspiring stories sio muthuri wakwa. Watoto wangu. Ppl who only participated in adding problems to the country, nothing important they ever done even to the church. Afadhali tu we tunasikia. “ I used to help community in this” they should know their family is their responsibility.if you don’t tell them who will?
U ignored the red flags,n ua kid too,this child is very innocent,she shd not have passed through this, Evil man ,may God see u thru,ugi ndwambagia Lakini hii moving on in crime doesn't add up
I just pity this woman,,,how on earth you choose a man/husband over your own child,, when other women are sacrificing for their own children,sorry for yourself
Aki me I think I'm funny if I may say my girl does not want me to marry and I decided to respect his opinion may she feels she can b defiled like this interview case
This woman is not smart. This man was doing this to her child over and over again. You were supposed to leave this man and rescue your child. You are a selfish mom. You were not there for your child.
To be honest this lady encountered a bunch of red flags all along but she ignored. Lakini error is to human though kwangu one error is too much to withstand...I'm long time gone....PERIOD!
Na unaonekana ukiwa mtu chap chap kumbe ni bure.mtoto wako na mwanaume nani anafaa kukiwa your number 1?am sure your daughter also blames you.ungeona ananyemelea mtoto wako ungepeleka mtoto kwa wazazi wako ama uamue kutoka juu huyo mtu ni hatari
You woman trying to giv people advice why did you choose your husband over your daughter? U have come to realize the mistake when it's Tooo late ur daughter will live with childhood traumas and unless you break those ties they will keep repeating again stop giving ppl advice and acknowledge u did a mistake from the word go
I feel your anger Maureen. I'm a single mother of two n a grandma of two. I CAN'T allow even a fly to squeeze in between them n I. These kind of stories are difficult to comprehend.
Marriages have issues all over kenya even those who have married within the tribe.. social media has shown us that no tribe is immune...my advice if u r a tribalist don't take ur kids and grandkids to school because education and science does not know any tribe. Utajipee pressure bure ukiletewa wa ruguru
Red flags started before their marriage but our sister here give them blind eye
As for me God comes First my family next ,and others follow. ..kuolewa ni heshima, na mapenzi na ndoa ikilete shinda park and go ukabalikiwe mbele
A child comes first❤,
Ati in the name of bwana??!!!!!To hell with such marriage 😮😮😮😮😮
Kuma ndi munini baba atuire anjiraga dikahikio ni kabira na dikanahike ituura riu nie kabira ndicionaga ngamurifeee😅😅😅
Si mambo na kabira coz hata mkikuyu mwenzako anaweza kukutesa mpaka ukufe. I am a good example married with different tribe and this is our 31st anniversary. So ambia baba yako awache ukabila.
She should file for divorce and break the ties with him forever since they had a church wedding with the second husband. Otherwise as per the law she is still his wife
I cannot withstand such a man even if I'm going through the worst,I would rather go to the streets.
Wee njoki wee
Weee ile time alikula pesa za harusi ndio ningechomoka 😢lakini ni sawa tu may God remember you
I will apologise first before I comment na nyitwo wega why did this mama chose the man over her girl child?Ngai ulichukua mtoto ukampeleka shagz ukae na hubby molester and a drunkard women please choose your kids over anything let your kids be first option why couldn't walk over that abusive marriage?already the girls emotions were not OK from the troubles the guy was giving her am soo 💔 😢 💙 😔 not okey
🙆🏽♀️🙆🏽♀️🙆🏽♀️🙆🏽♀️ hawasikii
Unasema ukweli kwanini, hiyo ndio shida wakikuyu tuko nayo wanataka tuu kuolewa na mtu ako na mtoto instead of them focust kwani sisi si tuko
@@Tmk5342 watu wengine sijui wako ajy aki
I agree with you 100% but all thru this lady's life sge has not made a sound decision.One thing I know is that how you are brought up has effect on who you become.She suffers childhood trauma which is not processed thus affecting her awareness of who sge is, self love assertiveness and self esteem.You see red flags in a person and continue with the relationship.That's crazy!Women, let us deal with ourselves and problems we faced so that we heal.Once we heal, our worldview will change.What I realize with many women who stay in abusive relationships fear to remain single but end up being bruised singles.Why not face reality?
@@eunicenjeru215 we hv gone through it ooohh dear I hv long testimonies of myself si kuenda kwa councillor wowote , pray , fast, read ur bible that's how I got healed . Shida ilifanya niende gulf
Good job Symo
Small things people ignore has ruined most marriages in the name of he or she wil change😙😊
Aaaaah mami you failed your daughter I tell you from the word go you exposed her umejigundua when the damage is done
True
Umefanya vizuri kuongea hii mambo ndio wenye wanapenda watoto wao wasipee wanamme wao nguvu za kulawiti watoto
Huyu mama AKo na kasolo kabisa unapitishia mtoto wako hiii mambo wote juuu ya.mwanaume such women I feel sorry for them my kids my first priority
Kama kulewa ni hiii wacha single be my life
Imgn nakushida kumsamehea ujinga in the name of marriage....acha ikae, red flags zilianza kitabo sana.
Jeeeso I feel like screaming how do you choose a man over your own blood the first time this guy attempted touching her or even dirty talking her ningekanyanga kubwa women wisdom 🤔
@@alicewambui9266 imagine choosing man over your kid hata mtoto sio wa huyo mzeee .huyu mama amenikashirisha na vile ana smart kumbe roho ni soft .but she learnt hard way
@@sarajambi1567hiii story its too painful to listen kwanza hapo kwa mupeleka mtoto gishagi ndio akae ni mwaume ako ma meno 32 .huyo mama eneweye lets learn from her singles mums
Imagine ana teswa na ako na mtoi mmoja tu na hata si wa huyu msee.
Still she's a hard working woman to certain herself and daughter. She's dying her daughters rights to peach and sound health for the sake of less caring so called husband who is not ready to man up. Infact the day she realised that he's not accountable for wedding money, bt instead enjoying it with other women, that's the day she should hv broken the relationship. He dnt deserve her otherwise she's too good and Beautiful. She can get love again to a responsible, loving and respectful man. Why on earth can he evn think of sleeping with her only daughter in the first place. Si ni kutembea makumbwa makumbwa a kiendanga the first day he attempted. Was she waiting for the real act? God forbid.
Waaa such a difficulty journey to go thru.. Living with a devil under the same roof.. Thanks for sharing
Aki MUNGU wangu 😭😢kwanini wamama hu choose wanamme kuliko watoto in the name of marriage..this is so painful 😢 😫 😭 💔..i pass the same na my my step father ni mluyha but what i went through nimekuja kusamehe my mom juzi tu ingawa sitawahi sahau sababu my mom alikua anani laani nilimwambia venye nafanyiwa na bwanake..i can't talk 😢 more cos nasikia kama naweza andika kitabu nzima kwa yale nilipitishawa
Aki pole hugs 🫂
Ui pole sana j
Take heart 😢
Uii pole ssn
Some women though....nkt
You exposed your girl child....to this monster.....your child should come first.
Even a boychild needs protection too let your children be the first priority your man will leave your children will be by your side always
How do you leave with a beast ! My children are my priority b4 any man in this world. From my God my children are next.
You should protect your children mama. Kwani kuolewa ni fashion
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Kwani how addicted were you to that man?I personally I hates marriage for real but if it locates me one day,God please let it be perfect🛐🙏coz my anger level can allow me give it a second chance.
Together my feeling is very similar to yours
Am so disappointed with this lady, how can she ignore such red flags
This woman though nkt!
Ûratutaara na wee ndwitaarîte
I feel sorry for what she went through but the question is why had she to put up with such a beast for so long?
You ignored red flags before the wedding,withstanding nonsense for so long ,but when its about my child....I cannot compromise
Waiting from Saudi Arabia
Mama you failed your own child, try make peace with your daughter and if possible apologize otherwise the trauma will affect that girl's adulthood life,pole kwa uliyo yapitia and thanks for sharing your story to educate other women.all the best
May God see you through u n ur kids,but girl u never knew ur worth or the worth of ur kid. Thank God the guy left juu bado ungekuwa hapo ...i pity that ur daughter walai. Thnx for sharing may u heal .
Seriously!! How can u give advice to people! You failed your daughter.
Waiting
Aki the way you are telling it. Makes me ferl so bad .Now you leave your child to fight for herself when all her trust is in you. You knew him very well and you child is telling you. Seriously. Which marriege were you saving surely.
Y wait
Well me ad have left him so fast…. You gave him so many chances
Muranga women have a problem in loving children
NKT
Wooi mothers wake up
Kwani bwana alikua na pin ndio a withdraw pesa ya bibi
Swali iko apo
Urimu!
As the saying goes Desperate situations seek for desperate measures
Huyu mama ako na shinda ya akili how comes mtoto amemwambia mara mingi about this silly step dad about how he was doing n yet hafanyi kitu nkt
Nashangaa....Ile ya kunyoa mtoto angeuliza hio siku coz weeuh hata ni bahati hakuwai mbaka
Where do people get energy to stay in toxic relationship. Ukiona red flag chomoka mapema. Never waste your life with valueless people
So this is the time u have come to senses on protecting a girl child after your daughter went through heal, aki this story is painful hearing your daughter went through heal when the original mom knew 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
Simo tafadhali,chapa huyo mama Kofi moja kwa niamba yangu
Am already angry with you madam
What is this desperation that women have of remaining married ? The man is a beast and you had so much evidence....I ve no mercy for you. You choose your evil husband over your own child
The biggest mistake we make is abandoning our families in the name of marriage.Nowonder we are so mistreated coz of luck of blessings.
I don't understand how you choose a man over your child because the very first tym.. He started this rubbish.. It could have ended.... Sad for the girl... Who fell victim of this relationship.. M
You failed your child a big time because of a useless man. You should blame yourself for your ordeal 😮
Mm nko namtoi naniwamschana cwezi olewa coz cwezi taka mtoto wangu atakewe advantage like this... please ukiolewa na mtoto wa mschana Kua kalibu nayy sana unamwambia ata ukithreteniwa anakwambia...mm cwezi coz naeza ua uyo mwanaume 😥😥
What!!why would send your child away instead of moving out with your daughter? Why would there be a first attempt and you allow it, a 2nd and unaccountable attempts? Yani tupende watoto wetu na wakue 1st priority. With Blended families, you have to be careful.
Very disappointing and disgusting. How do you let your daughter down like that? All for what? Very unfortunate for that girl! I feel very sad for her. Was that marriage that important to sacrifice an innocent girl? And even the way she's recounting it seems no remorse or reflection! May God shield and the girl.
The desperation for women to stay married is annoying...
You choose a useless man over your child?
Aaai mami ulikosea mtoto wako
Oh my God,,kiu ni kihiko-ini kana ni ukombo-ini?
Symo k. Hawa watu unatoanga wapi? We want ppl who impacted the country, inspiring stories sio muthuri wakwa. Watoto wangu. Ppl who only participated in adding problems to the country, nothing important they ever done even to the church. Afadhali tu we tunasikia. “ I used to help community in this” they should know their family is their responsibility.if you don’t tell them who will?
Well said
Ati Nini,"Muthuri Wakwa", Spare my Ribs 😂😂😂. This is True
"My husband "😂😂😂kila time
true, she's stupid, ata kama huyo mwanaume hangeenda wangekua tu na yeye nkt
I agree
You keep on saying he was no good yet you kept on choosing him over your baby. Whatever your girl went through you allowed it.
U ignored the red flags,n ua kid too,this child is very innocent,she shd not have passed through this,
Evil man ,may God see u thru,ugi ndwambagia
Lakini hii moving on in crime doesn't add up
strange stories. i think some women like suffering
wewe mama acha zako.. unaforgive mwanaume alikuwa anataka kurape mtoto wako. mbona hkutoka kwake after mtoto ameconfess
Huyu mama ni kasoro robo na msini bebe vibaya aki,you lost your tomorrow watching,that gal was yr tomorrow and you lost it under yr watch
Some women though 😡 what's wrong with her
Ati mnasema red flag , ati what is wrong with her. Her level of education and also her background tells it all.
I just pity this woman,,,how on earth you choose a man/husband over your own child,, when other women are sacrificing for their own children,sorry for yourself
My opinion...
Why choose an abusive n rapist man over ua own kind....that sooo bad...ua kid should be ua 1st priorit....
Aki me I think I'm funny if I may say my girl does not want me to marry and I decided to respect his opinion may she feels she can b defiled like this interview case
This woman is not smart. This man was doing this to her child over and over again. You were supposed to leave this man and rescue your child. You are a selfish mom. You were not there for your child.
To be honest this lady encountered a bunch of red flags all along but she ignored. Lakini error is to human though kwangu one error is too much to withstand...I'm long time gone....PERIOD!
Makosa ni Yako yu don't value happiness ya mtoto wako.
Wakikuyu huwa tunajiita welevu but sisi ni makende tu
Na unaonekana ukiwa mtu chap chap kumbe ni bure.mtoto wako na mwanaume nani anafaa kukiwa your number 1?am sure your daughter also blames you.ungeona ananyemelea mtoto wako ungepeleka mtoto kwa wazazi wako ama uamue kutoka juu huyo mtu ni hatari
this woman should be arrested knew ur hubby's behaviour and u continue exposing ur daughter
You woman trying to giv people advice why did you choose your husband over your daughter? U have come to realize the mistake when it's Tooo late ur daughter will live with childhood traumas and unless you break those ties they will keep repeating again stop giving ppl advice and acknowledge u did a mistake from the word go
Sasa shida ya huyu mama ni nini
Some women though. Na bado mtasema wanaume Dio wabaya.
Kwani ATM haina pin? Just asking for myself and others
Apa kuna kauwongo
Nini ilikusukuma kwa huyo mwanaume?
Red flags were many...yaani unalipa loan yenye hukupata chochote.. ...you were better of alone from the word go....this is crazy and annoying....
Ati apeane namba awe anapea watu advice😆😆😆😆😆😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣. Simo umekosa content?
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
You failed as a mother mummy....ungechukua hatua from the word go .. ... your kid is your first priority
Shame on you woman.. ulikuwa unangojea mtoto anajisiwe ndo uchukue hatua??? Nkt. Nimekasirika sana. Keep your advice to your self.😡
I feel your anger Maureen. I'm a single mother of two n a grandma of two. I CAN'T allow even a fly to squeeze in between them n I. These kind of stories are difficult to comprehend.
This is so stupid of this lady. How does she expect a man who is not a real father to care for her daughter.
Urimu ni mingi saana.
Ni mugiro gikuyu kuhikania na ndurii
Muthugu ni nduriii
Ati ndurii kamau?
Marriages have issues all over kenya even those who have married within the tribe.. social media has shown us that no tribe is immune...my advice if u r a tribalist don't take ur kids and grandkids to school because education and science does not know any tribe. Utajipee pressure bure ukiletewa wa ruguru
Niguo
Why put up with all that shit..nkt !!!!
Totally folly... Sorry
Poverty attracts ignorance and vice versa
Waiting
No usio niurimu warinaguo