Being someone with social anxiety, I can relate so heavily with this. I’m in my junior year of highschool and I feel like I’m wasting my experience but im just trying to stay afloat on top of all the work I have to do
hiya! this was sooo me last year. I felt like I shouldn't waste time on going out too much just so I could be on top of my work. But that just led me to overwork myself and burn out (also my grades dropped) Sooo over the summer I tried talking to more people that were around me (even people I didn't think I'd like). I just tried to be more open which was scary at first but now, im in my last year of high school and im so glad to say that i found my people! Its surprising how last minute it all was to find friends that I actually 'vibe' with lol but I dont regret 'wasting my time' anymore. I have better grades now too which I feel is cuz of my friend circle and not worrying too much on every little assignment. Sorry for this comment being extremely long and all over the place lol but I hope you can also find your people without feeling the guilt of not focusing on work 24/7 :)
yesss thank you. i’m so introverted. and have only kept one friend in my life. i’ve known her since kindergarten. i obviously had school friends but never talked to them outside of school. love this thanks annie❤
Omg this is me right now. I'm as lonely as you can be in highschool. Usually I don't care, I even enjoy my alone time. And I have a bunch of hobbies and stuff I do outside of school. But getting one class failed cause I did the last project alone instead of in a group (and apparently group work is super important for this teacher), and then having lunch alone in the school library on my birthday. Those two situations made me rethink my whole life. I don't have friends, just people I get along with.
When I got back home (the day of my birthday) my mom asked me how the day went and I didn't have the balls to tell her that I spent it alone. She had even put some sweets in my bag for me to "share". I ate a few and then gave the rest to the librarian for her to give to her son later.
This was exactly my sitaution as well. My high school got over just a few days ago, and it feels sad to leave the place, and I feel like I never got a proper closure.
That was me in high school, only a couple of close friends. Everyone goes into college without friends and is looking desperately to build a community so it’s a new start ❤
I really needed to hear this. I’m in high school and am in my second year and have been struggling with friends as well. I always thought that I’m the problem, until it took me to realize I wasn’t. Thank you for this video ❤️❤️
Oh don't regret not making a community earlier in high school. I thought the same about my high school time. I thought people are just less social where I live in Europe. But I have had some good monents and experiences too. High school all around the world as you can see is just a mid experience. All the people having the best time of their lives on social media while in high school - just isn't realistic. Even for me in Europe, with all these cool places and cool people nearby. High school is just school. I guess only spoiled rich kids have a great experience in everything they do. Carpe diem in everything you do and it'll be alright
I feel the complete opposite as a highschool senior. I started with a good community met really awesome people that then brought amazing opportunities. In the end it was just too much to keep up. Going in to college I just want to take a step back from being so involved and focus purely on myself and my studies without committing myself to so many people. I hope in the end we both get what we want 🫶🫶🫶
Being someone with social anxiety, I can relate so heavily with this. I’m in my junior year of highschool and I feel like I’m wasting my experience but im just trying to stay afloat on top of all the work I have to do
hiya! this was sooo me last year. I felt like I shouldn't waste time on going out too much just so I could be on top of my work. But that just led me to overwork myself and burn out (also my grades dropped) Sooo over the summer I tried talking to more people that were around me (even people I didn't think I'd like). I just tried to be more open which was scary at first but now, im in my last year of high school and im so glad to say that i found my people! Its surprising how last minute it all was to find friends that I actually 'vibe' with lol but I dont regret 'wasting my time' anymore. I have better grades now too which I feel is cuz of my friend circle and not worrying too much on every little assignment. Sorry for this comment being extremely long and all over the place lol but I hope you can also find your people without feeling the guilt of not focusing on work 24/7 :)
@@garima.soniyt that's great! I'm very happy that you could find your people :))
This also gives me hope that maybe I still have time to find mine!
yesss thank you. i’m so introverted. and have only kept one friend in my life. i’ve known her since kindergarten. i obviously had school friends but never talked to them outside of school. love this thanks annie❤
Omg this is me right now. I'm as lonely as you can be in highschool. Usually I don't care, I even enjoy my alone time. And I have a bunch of hobbies and stuff I do outside of school. But getting one class failed cause I did the last project alone instead of in a group (and apparently group work is super important for this teacher), and then having lunch alone in the school library on my birthday. Those two situations made me rethink my whole life. I don't have friends, just people I get along with.
When I got back home (the day of my birthday) my mom asked me how the day went and I didn't have the balls to tell her that I spent it alone. She had even put some sweets in my bag for me to "share". I ate a few and then gave the rest to the librarian for her to give to her son later.
You actually sound like such a nice person. I pray you find the right people. 🫶🏾
@@Cocoa40_ wow I didn't actually think someone would read this haha. Thank you so much! I appreciate it greatly :))
This was exactly my sitaution as well. My high school got over just a few days ago, and it feels sad to leave the place, and I feel like I never got a proper closure.
Thanks for being open - it makes me feel better 💗
That was me in high school, only a couple of close friends. Everyone goes into college without friends and is looking desperately to build a community so it’s a new start ❤
I really needed to hear this. I’m in high school and am in my second year and have been struggling with friends as well. I always thought that I’m the problem, until it took me to realize I wasn’t. Thank you for this video ❤️❤️
Annie you are a literal inspiration
💗 thank you so much for this video
Oh don't regret not making a community earlier in high school. I thought the same about my high school time. I thought people are just less social where I live in Europe. But I have had some good monents and experiences too. High school all around the world as you can see is just a mid experience. All the people having the best time of their lives on social media while in high school - just isn't realistic. Even for me in Europe, with all these cool places and cool people nearby. High school is just school. I guess only spoiled rich kids have a great experience in everything they do. Carpe diem in everything you do and it'll be alright
Hey Annie i wanted to ask can u do a updated gym routine there very motivating
I started highschool and im very lonely. 0 friends
Don’t join a sorority pls just explore you’ll be okay im promise ❤
HII❤❤
Maybe because she's a bit pf an outsider??? She is not living like she only has one life. She lives like a buisness woman. There is a difference
I feel the complete opposite as a highschool senior. I started with a good community met really awesome people that then brought amazing opportunities. In the end it was just too much to keep up. Going in to college I just want to take a step back from being so involved and focus purely on myself and my studies without committing myself to so many people. I hope in the end we both get what we want 🫶🫶🫶