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Yung Joc Gets SERIOUS w/ His Son 💥 Love & Hip Hop Atlanta
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- Опубликовано: 23 авг 2021
- Things escalate QUICKLY when Yung Joc's son Amoni refuses to understand where his dad's coming from. 😱
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I ain’t never seen Joc get this mad or frustrated. You can tell his son wasn’t used to Joc raising his voice at him like that 😂. Hopefully he gets it together because your life ain’t nothing to play with, at all.
Me ether
I have. It was only once on the show some seasons ago. He reminds me of my husband it's all fun and jokes until somebody piss them off. My husband is a comedian but will mess you up like Tyson
I know that's right joc don't give up on him I did the best with one of mines and he's hard headed I try everyday to keep him in line
The first time was with the Kendra situation that resulted in Shekinah hilariously falling down
@@jaifyre702 👏👏👏👏👏👏
I understand Joc frustration as a parent. Joc cares about his son and does not want his sons life in jeopardy. Amoni is hard headed and acts like he knows it all.
He can get a grown man ass whopping for that as well.
ALL KIDS TODAY think they know everything! Been on earth two seconds and they know it all 🤦🏾♀️
I knew when his son started cappin for the cameras that Joc was about to snap… as a parent I was over here watching on some who is he talking too! Boy your daddy been in this world without you but you ain’t never been in this world without your dad so show some respect!
@@comedianpottymouth exactly! Joc did what he had to do period. Amoni so hard headed. Smh!
@@gigipoobah2787 thats what Amoni gets. deserved to get hands put on him by his father idc. Joc is telling him true shit because he wants him to change before it’s too late but he would rather hang out with the wrong crowd than listen to his father.
That back and forth disrespect when you’re trying to make your child listen and focus will most definitely take you there! He doesn’t want to loose his son!!🙏🏾❤️❤️
Exactly...
It will take you there if you have low emotional intelligence
Yup! Especially when you're telling them some real shit because you know what's out there and will save their lives or keep that out of jail!! Deep down they know its true but don't wanna listen, just challenge you word for word and not listen. It's infuriating on some real shit.
@@shortyduwhop319 all that's fine and dandy until that boy disrespects you and fly in your face because he knows he outweighs you then your looking for pops to handle him.
@MzBossLady Saunders I hope it gets easier immediately.
As a mother of 4 sons… I feel him. He’s trying to protect him.
With you're husband? Of pookies?
You already doomed them if not
No he's not. He's trying to avoid having to feel any fear about losing his son. It's about HIM, not his son.
Lol with my husband. Not that it’s your business but I’ve married for 12 years.
@@TheRealWorldNews247 stop watching manospehere videos. That shit going turn you into 40 year old incel
@@XXgenderloveXYidiot
I never seen this side of joc before. I always see him as a comedian person dammm. This is history on LHHA
Exactly. And I remember when he threw a chair in season 8. If u don’t remember, it’s the one where Shekinah fell. 😂😂😂😂
Facts LMAOO
I Swear Joc Tired Of The Fronting For The Cameras
@@avacherubin4749 You hell for making me relive that moment! 😭 🤣 💀😩
Remember that episode where he almost hit shekinah but accidentally?
I feel so bad for Joc and his son. He clearly cares and I understand his anger and his son is not taking him seriously. I hate how they got into a fight I hope his son gets himself together and joc as well.
I bet you that moment was something a LOT of parents with boys can relate too. Too many can relate to it. Eesh. Makes me shiver. Particularly cause I want boys more than girls and stuff like this reminds me of how I need to slow myself. Lol. I forgot virtually every parent has times where they lay hands on their boys.(sigh)
Right!
I don’t even think it was anger he was feeling at that moment…. It was fear.
The son is too busy tryna act “hard” but he ain’t hearing the hard truths of acting “hard”… it literally is a matter of life and death that these kids learn to listen to their parents…. I feel Joc’s frustrations… I mean, I have a black teenage daughter and it’s HARD to parent them right….
@@mcfamily5162 totally agree
Oh my god I didn’t expect that from Joc. He’s usually so funny and light hearted, I hope he’s okay. I feel bad for him. He already lived through this and now he’s watching his son live through it. Heartbreaking
People laugh the hardest do so cause they cry harder.
As a mother who has lost her 21 year old son to gun violenc. This is something I can say that is passion. I wish healing hearts for both.
🙏🏾 Condolences for your loss.
I can relate, 3 out of 5 of my sons are cholo's ...2 of which are serving life sentence 😢
🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Joc is just trying to protect his son like other kids wish their fathers cared like Joc does ❤️
Mannnnn 🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯
Who’s gonna protect his son from himself though?!
@@pennysunshine5261 only he can do that for himself
So yea fire on him while he’s expressing himself…yup
Factz
Your pissed-level can go through the roof especially when you're trying to discuss something SO important. I believe he genuinely wants the very best for his son and wants him to be safe.
Joc got upset because when he asked his son if the situation were reversed, Joc couldn't take his son's response
He sure does only want the best for his son.
I understood Joc’s frustration. His son was doing way too much and the reality of a person losing their life wasn’t sinking in. Also, the analogy that Joc used simply confused his son’s thought process. What Joc was trying to convey went over his head and from there it all went left
Confused me too.
Yeah, I think it hurt him. The boy was pretty much saying that's my mama and I care about her ..idc what happens to your ish..even tho I know it's not true but in that moment all joc probably felt was disrespect..like I've went above and beyond just taking car of you..I know your mom has been involved more than me on a daily but don't I get some type of acknowledgement for what I have done and not just dismiss all I've built to leave behind to my kids.
I absolutely agree!
He must've been offended that Joc brought his mom up since she's been present unlike Joc
I see no wrong in this. Joc is passionate about protecting his child and keeping him out of harm’s way. Kudos to you Joc! You’re a great father!
You don’t swing on your son
Of corse he a great father for reserting 2 violence Really! M.Rhine SMH 😒
I spoke my opinion. That was pure love! You have to have really gone through some things to understand
That's not how you get yo point across to yo own son his son didn't even wanna fight him
You have a horrible example. What in the mental regression is this logic...
I have chills because What I see is a father in pain trying to save his son’s life. This is very much needed in the black community. More fathers that are willing to fight for and with their sons to save their lives. Respect to Joc. 🙏🏾
Yes I agree because it is a lot of fathers that don't care if they kids live or die. I agree with how Joc is feeling and his anger, I feel the same way about all of my children. They all are grown if I see something I say something it's no holding back..
Facts
And how do you think his son feels to have his father swing on him??? Joc was dead wrong for that period. You can't tell your child to think clearly then swing on them. And then expect them to listen? Absolutely not
@@madisonrousseau3148 true
@@madisonrousseau3148 exactly, my mom learned this the hard way with me. She would always swing and i would act up more for the same reason, now she don't put hands on my bros and sis and they have a better connection, i get the frustration but hitting someone is just going to built up anger
I admire Joc's passion as a father. This can't be easy for him and this young man don't understand how blessed he is to have a father that cares. I have never seen this side of Joc but his love for his son is evident.
Like my mom use to say
"Those who don't hear will feel
@@lisalisawilli7916 That is very true.
Hopefully he teaches his son how to wear protection since he clearly doesn’t use it.😬
@@messyangel1169 fr fr
He is not really a involved father this is why the son feels abandoned by him, pls inform yourself on the circumstances before you comment your admiration for somebody who chases cars, bitches and money and leaves the mothers and children behind
His son is disrespectful as hell...he talkin to his dad like he talking to some random dude off the street
Fatimah and Joc raised a good son. I know his son personally. I saw this scene and was devastated. I know reality shows have them to do extra. The Amoni I know is not the one we see here anymore. Very respectful young man. He was and is going through young adult life. They eventually listen. We as parents just can’t give up like Joc stated. When he takes his break, he comes to my office and talk. Amoni is a sweetheart! Trust me, he was listening to his dad.
Shut up😂u dunno shiii
He was listening. I didn’t see him being disrespectful at all. It just seems like they don’t have a traditional father-son relationship. Like they have a friendship more than anything… that is probably why Amoni was communicating with Joc the way he was, while Joc was trying to communicate as father and son. I have 3 sons and one thing I have learned is to listen to your kids as much as you want them to listen to you. That way you can navigate through these moments of disconnect/misunderstanding. You can’t allow yourself to get emotional because then follows irrationality. I have yet to meet an irrational person who makes good decisions.
I honestly think Joc is just terrified that he's going to lose his child since he's seen this stuff first hand, that's why he reacted the way he did
No Joc is mad about his financial issues and the club shooting
@@sunnybright8206 no he’s trying to save his son.
@@jzasworld no he’s trying to secure his job
@@sunnybright8206 no he’s not anyone with common sense and who’s an actual parent who’s been what joc has been through knows what joc did was right
@@sunnybright8206 he was comparing his situation to the best situation that could happen to his mother to try and get his sons attention and listen and use his head is what joc eas trying to do and sometimes that’s your son. Some niggas only listen when u smack em across the head to get them to realize u care about them and to listen. I understand what jock was coming from.
He's so upset he just wants his son to LISTEN. Young cat knows nothing about the streets and his Daddy tryna let him know. I understand Joc's frustration, he wants his son to win so bad he unfortunately took it there. He wants him to listen so bad you can tell.
Yes, that young man is so wrong. I hope they made up after and he listens to his father.
Not young cat
I wouldn’t listen to my dad if he was a clown too 😂
And that's the problem he wants him to listen so damn bad but is Joc listening🤔 is he hearing anything his son is saying his son was literally sitting there trying to explain to him that he is listening he never said he didn't care & he's tryna show him that with his actions by being there soon as he said that Joc hauled off & punched on him Joc let his frustration get the better of him & there are alot of parents who do that once they reach there breaking points but some parents nowadays need to listen sometimes too instead of just talking & demanding yelling screaming cursing & hitting a kid it only creates a yelling screaming cursing hitting & violent adult
@@messyangel1169 clown? How so?
I’ve had those moments with my dad and paying attention really helped my understanding as a man. Sometimes it’s best to shut up and listen.
My man Joc. I know how frustrating it can be when you are just trying to protect your own and they are not listening. He loves that boy. Much respect to him.
His son shouting back at him like he hella grown and got shit figured out
I’ve never seen Joc get this angry before. The best thing he can do his let his son figure it out, because he really isn’t grasping it right now.
@@jaidenlawrence3746 did you read the comment? Thats what was said.
But at the same time jocs trying to stay on his ass to prevent and future problems.
@@jaidenlawrence3746 you so ready with your speech about what’s wrong with the black community that you didn’t even fully read the comment smh.
Because it's fake
Young joc is trying to teaching him a lesson bc in today’s world they don’t care about the black man at all the police don’t care about no one if you not white they don’t care about any black man or black community bc if they do they will sit down n changed and talk to the black community and understand more to protect them and work with them
I literally got tears in my eyes because you can hear the passion and hurt in Jocs voice cause he don’t want his son to be a victim of the streets and his son is not listening. I don’t have kids but I see what streets can do and the pain it can cause somebody and I know Joc don’t wanna experience daddy he’s trying to get his son to see that see that
You dont attack your child. That's it. Imagine how his son is feeling like my dad tried to fight me???
(His child) let him be a man who cares about his kid…
Man sit yo ass down some times you got to do what you got to do
@@Rawwesley1234 no
Foh bro wanna be grown that’s what happens
This is what happens when you aren’t consistent in your sons life. You can’t play father when you want. Yal forget Joc created a lot of broken homes with a lot of children and a lot of baby mamas. He’s frustrated because his son doesn’t respect him the way he wants him to but consistency is key. Trying to fight him out of frustration just set their relationship back. I just hope they can heal 🙏🏿
Joc said he always been there for all of his kids.
How do y’all even know this? Y’all the FBI? 😂
So true
@@JuthaLitKidd his mother said this on the episode last night that he wasn't there like he should have been and really if he was their relationship would be totally different symptom of a broken home.
Wow never thought about it that way he definitely did create a lot of broken homes with all them baby mamas he has smh men need to do better women too keep ya damn legs closed lol
Damn. Just disrespectful. This boy clearly don’t know what people would give to have a present father or their father back. Imagine if those bullets got your father.. what then? But it’s okay that someone else’s father gets hit? I pray for this young mans protection especially when he makes these poor and reckless decisions.
I would of done the same that’s his child!!!!
This is why most Africans that live in the diaspora send their kids back home to be raised during their teenage years. Where I come from You dear not speak back at your father like that. This is the highest level of disrespect towards a parent
I wish I had a father like that to teach me bout the streets
This young man did not have a present father. His mother said that Joc was on the road for three months at a time, mind you making other babies with other women in the whole time.
@@yamariebojang6700 Joc has provoked his child to wrath. He should take responsibility for that.
I rlly didn’t expect them to put their hands on each other Ik a lot of parents and kids get into it like that but I didn’t expect that to happen
I felt the emotion throughout the whole video because it’s like you trying to tell your kids the right thing & they just do understand but it’s all love I understand joc🤎
His son takes things for granted having a father that cares for him like that.
He doesn't seem to get it
True hey
Okay these kids too disrespectful these days, my whole face would have been rearranged if I would have talked to my folks like that
He don’t care for his son he just wants ratings
A father is supposed to care about his son
He don't get a cookie for that
Most other races of men are in their sons lives 💁
I respect Joc because his son is disrespectful and your father just looking out for you,so give his ass to the streets and God forbide nothing happens to him....He will jeopardize your father business he don't care and you get tired after a point tryna tell him right from wrong Jmo
Agreed.
Yep. Unfortunately that's so true. A hard head, makes a soft ass. His son will get it one day. Prayers to them both!
@@BFick478 preach
I understand the passion and pain of where Joc is coming from. But don't put your hands on your child. Especially when they weren't getting physical with you first
As a parent too this is one of the hardest talks to have with your children because they don’t get it. You’ve lived through this & don’t want to see them down that path, never give up on your kids they need our guidance & love.
I felt it when Joc said "I ain't NEVER giving up on mine"
This made me cry.... he really cares about his son like no one else
Girl bye. Why he got it on LHH then?
Woooow, it’s really something else to see Joc on another level like this however you can never underestimate a parents (Fathers) love for their children especially when they are genuinely involved!!! With no children but a godson I can but for me to truly go over board then to see him not get it....wow
You a real Father with some real love for your son. Keeping fighting for him
I love that we get to see this side of Joc . We only see him being goofy so to watch him be serious when he’s talking to his son really touched me
I agree
The son needs to be lucky he got this type of counseling. Other kids in this modern day wish they had a father to talk to them when they're in trouble. Most fathers these days don't give a shit about their kids
Umm hello mines lol Man I wish it’s a blessings
Sad but true !
He's an Aries. Cool and funny until you upset them
@@gw6746 Uh that sounds like every human with emotions and a conscious 🥴 its a human thing 😳
@@gw6746 so true
Yes sir. That’s what good parents do. The frustration be so real.
Damn thats a real moment right there... its gets like that when these boys grow up and start feeling like they bigger than everything. You gotta bring them back down a few notches.
I understand his frustration. They need counseling. He has to find a better way to have a breakthrough to his son. I’m sure they will figure it out.
They surely will! Ase
Yep! If i remember correctly i think the young man stated joc wasnt always present in his life. They need to work through their issues
Counseling i sorry i disagree that's the problem if im talking to you why we need to go to somebody else for them to tell you the same thing im telling you and i got to pay them.Joc seems to be a laided back dude so i don't believe the is a commutation problem his son just hit that age and he smelling himself and he hard headed and it was inevitable this was going to and needed to happen good job Joc
@@khayeenadamssr1797 well maybe u right but if what u saying doesn’t then I still don’t see the issue with talking to someone about it. It really does help seen it for myself.
@@sunamethyst283 counselors are not God. They sometimes can make things worse by mentioning past events or triggering things that someone didn't know or didn't think about. I had that happen before. I was fine until the lady brought up some questions and made a few statements that sent me into a dark depression that I hadn't been in in almost 13 years. Counselors are imperfect humans too. All it takes for a person to break through to a person. Is time patience understanding acknowledging their wrong and working towards healing together. If both aren't doing this then they fail automatically.
That hurts the most when your parents comes at you out of nowhere and puts their hands on you. It hits you so deep.
Right! Especially for simply trying to explain yourself.
Exactly and all the clowns tryna justify it in the comments.
It really was no explaining he was in the wrong, his dad must kno his son got a hard time admitting he in the wrong, I feel like thts what joc was tryna tell him jus shut up n listen, lol but his son still got an explanation for the dumb shit, he definitely lost his cool tho, Felt like he had to physically “son” him
@@zeem96 no there's no reason he had to physically assault his own child. Tired of people making excuses. Would there ever be any situation, where a child would hit their parent? Your kids aren't slaves that should just shut up and listen. They are people with feelings and emotions and should be given the grace to Express those emotions.
@@sunnybright8206 it wasnt out of nowhere. it was the disrespect. He was talking to his father like he was a dude in the street.
They shouldn't have stopped him... you are never too old to get a azz woopin!
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
At all
It breaks my heart to see this, hopefully they will work this out. I have been in this place and fortunately I had the grace of God to guide me through. You say what you need to and give them to God. We can't be there to stop life from happening every moment. This was so hard to watch, but I understand the frustration. Praying for Joc and his family.
Joc is seriously terrified to lose his son as any parent. He let his fear, frustration, and anger get the best of him. I pray that they can repair their relationship because it all came from a place of fear of losing his son. It doesn’t excuse Joc’s behavior but I can understand why he got to that place.
Damn they took Joc out of his Comfort zone whoa…. 🤯
Facts
He's a dad fighting to save his son's life. He's playing a dangerous game
This brings tears to my eyes 🥺 because so many fathers walk away from their children and here is one that is passionate about fatherhood & will do anything to protect his children. I respect him so much ‼️💯 I understand his frustration. He just needs this young man to listen so he won’t become just another statistic 🙏🏾
I feel the same way joc feels tryna protect my child and not loose him to the streets...all I can do is keep telling him.
That raw consuming fear that we as parents have of losing our children hits different. It is terrifying. I see so much terror in Joc, even while he is smashes things in anger...But using anger to cope with fear is not a winning strategy long term. I hope they can communicate in a way that is more productive. Truly.
Amoni needs to be thankful. Sure, Joc made some mistakes when he first had him, but at least he’s trying to teach his son the harsh truths about life
Thankful for what lmfaoooooooooo
@@tatianamahogany for having a father in his life trying to teach him to be careful with who he’s associated with
@@tatianamahogany of course. He is the owner/co-owner but he’s still a father first
thankful??? For a half assed dad?? Tell me, before this had you heard Joc talk about his son the same amount he talks about multiple women? I didn't think so. His son's mom even said Joc would leave three months at a time and be with multiple women, Joc is suddenly trying to do "right" because he didn't want to deal with the baby to teenage stage
It's painful because you can FEEL the love emanating from him for his son. Young man just doesn't get it yet and I hope he does before it's too late
I’ve never seen this side of Joc glad he can put his foolishness away and be serious when he needs to be a parent
That’s the quickest way to push your son away.
u the type to let your son talk over u and act like he tough and can tell u anything anyway he can be just like how joc son was talking u will let it happen nah no child of mine is gone over talk me disrespect or talk while im talking im the parent not my child.. thats the quickest way to teach you grown son things not going to go his way
@@tonemoney2697 joc has no room to demand "respect" from his son.. if he cared about his kid, he'd put as much effort into his son as he does rotating women.. it's obvious Joc did something wrong if his son is treating him essentially like a stranger. It's clear joc wasn't in his son's life as he needed to be -- he was too busy trying to be a socialite and be famous, rather than settle down and be there for his kid. Plus Joc's son did NOTHING WRONG.. Joc came up aggressive, Joc is the one who suddenly wanted to be "daddy of the year", and Joc is the one who doesn't wanna listen to his son. If you get aside the accents, Joc's son is respectful and was speaking to his dad properly -- but Joc ain't wanna hear it because that how many of yall black niggas was raised. How you gonna scream about wanting your son to get his life straight and not be violent, but then in the same breath attack your son TWICE
@@tonemoney2697 He wasn't even listening to his kid how is anyone going to listen to someone yelling at them for tv?
Lets be honest, joc doesnt do drama in general. So its has to be a certain amount of love and care this man has In his heart.
Right. I saw a side of him that I didn't know was there. This man is passionate about his family.
This clip was so intense……… then there’s Safari at the end, and I knew everything was rehearsed 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Joc has no room to speak. He took a vow and couldn’t stay faithful to his wife. He has several different kids by different women. He physically assaulted his son and y’all saying he’s just “passionate”. This is why so many of us need therapy.
“Meet me in the trap, it's goin' down.”
-Yung Joc.
😂😂
The disrespect kids have towards the parents that do really care is crazy. Praying for both of them 🙏🙏🙏🙏
It’s crazy how much his son literally is trying to run over him in the vid
You spoke right here. The key phrase " the parents that care". They disrespect the ones that do right by them.
I agree, kids these will learn that life is a lesson to learn, and he will soon learn it the very hard way.
And the audacity of parents that think respect is deserved no matter how they treat their children. Your child is a product of how you raise them and how you as a parent behave around them and also the type of people you keep around them.
@persidemesa74 don't say that too loud.... you know parents are entitled to their property (I mean kids) because they put a roof over their head and fed them.... those are the 2 requirements they need to follow to be automatically respected by their kids.... his children were clothed and fed so of course he and every other entitled parent feels this is disrespect when in fact its someones child HURT especially seeing their dad hurt other women MULTIPLE TIMES ON NATIONAL TV
I mean what he said makes sense. If your mama was dating a man that caused her to lose the house you’d be pissed and ready to get rid of dude. But you don’t see where he’s coming from when he says the people you have around you are trying to jeopardize your dads business
For those that are saying "him swinging on his son was justified as a parent" what if his son swung on him with the premise of "you disrespect women on national tv and im sick of it as a son" what's yall response to that.... im just trynna see something 👀
Don't even bother, they ain't gonna answer you😂😂
Joc is totally justified in his feelings of frustration towards his son's behavior. However, coming at his son with aggression and violence, especially when the son is hot tempered as well only further instils hostility and feelings of alienation within his son about their relationship. They desperately need therapy and a teen anger management mentor to mediate their conversations and get on track towards a healthy relationship, aswell as his son hopefully living a productive life out of trouble.
Agreed. Violence often increases feelings of alienation in the recipient.
You said it right.
That thing that stuck out to me was when joc's son said "he gon swing on me? i ain't do nothing to him." You could hear the hurt.
Exactly ‼️
Nah he needed his ass beat talk to much shit
@@zoras9371 exactly
I've been in this situation. It took awhile for me to understand it. It's tough love. But Joc shouldn't have swung on his son. You gotta keep it at words.
Sometimes words hit harder than a fist..
Just made a comment about that.. I don’t know why he rushed his son like that.. his son looks well put together.. if he had just talked and cry if he needed too then yeah. But I believe this was scripted.
@@liciluxx4784 this is literally Joc sacrificing his relationship with his kid for a check
i rather he punch his son and scare him straight rather than somebody else punching on him in jail
@@piacrudes2741 the two don’t go together
Kudos to him for caring for his son and trying to teach him to be safe.
You can tell this came from a place of love💕💕💕💕Hopefully he gets it.
As a parent I feel Joc. 😌 I had to fight the streets to save my child, I didn't care about nothing else and I didn't give up on my child. Now my child is married, and a business owner with no kids.
I know for damn sure my momma would've done the same thing if I were coming at her with the smart mouth and disrespect.
He was absent for majority of his son life. KIDS NEVER FORGET. They be gone half a mf life then get back trying to preach some shit and once you don’t want to hear it they want to put hands on you..
People gotta understand when its yours you care JOC i respect you for this you and your son should do counseling together to get this situation solved without yelling fighting breaking sh*t 🙏❤
"How did we get here?" I'm guessing due to anxiety, love of your child, not wanting him to make similar or worse mistakes, & the crippling fear of loosing your child to unnecessary violence got so overwhelming you clicked out. The concern is valid but the clicking out to the point of swinging gotta go. It's ineffective in what's trying to be communicated.
How did we get here? He needed a LHH check
The way my heart broke watching this 😭😭😭 it has to be so hard for parents who just want to protect their kids, even though THEY WONT LISTEN!!!
Parents always take the approach that doesn’t work for that child I had to fight my mom, dad, uncle, and grandma because they think whatever they say is the best when I did try to follow their guidance and I’m always left picking up the pieces
I wish my weak ass pops was like Joc . He showing real love .
I respect it. The anxiety level is unbearable right now. His son isn’t getting it.
I respect it too!
But hitting him is gonna make him listen?
Putting your hands on your kids is not respectable.
It's to much going on in the world to be lax on yo kids
@@User-pk4hs Apparently not because my father hasn't put his hands on me whenever he's frustrated with me or with someone else. 🤦🏽♀️
I understand how Joc feels 100% but at the same time No parent should ever punch their own son or daughter in the face because that will only cause their children to rebel against them or even hate them even more
At some point it’s just man to man if he wanna act like he got equal footing to talk back
@@thereal1tak_363 Yea I hear you on that but at the same time that is still No excuse now I can understand if took his dad's car without his permission and crashed it somewhere without a care in the world then yea I would completely understand why he had to put hands on his own son now other than that it was completely unnecessary
@@martezhiggins359 he put his dad life on the line his homies and his own and acting like he know everything it’s dangerous to let yo kid walking around like his sh** don’t stink but I do get what you saying
@@thereal1tak_363 Yea that's true you right about that
Damn, I thought Joc was smarter than that. He’s human, and even though he totally messed that up. I hope they can get resolve their issues better in the future. It wasn’t called for either, but so many black kids were raised in violence. Unfortunately they never get the lessons on self restraint and conflict resolution without violence. Giving the prison system another one of our kids. It seems like Joc was. too, They never learn to talk out their issues, if he’s the father, but won’t listen and jumps on you instead. That’s why these kids act a fool in the streets. As parents we mess up sometimes, and Joc definitely did. That boy loves and respects him, but when you do things like this it only backfires. I know these kids can get on your nerves, especially when all you want to do is help them. Violence will only push that boy out into the streets. I put myself in a timeout when I feel like I’m getting too angry, until I can come back and talk like a normal person. The screaming and talking loud never gets through to anyone. Nothing gets resolved or learned. What did the boy learn from this? Now the kid has lost some respect for him, that he may never get back. Beating up your kids is not the way.
Naw, Joc owe that man an apology, using violence to get his point across to his son is not going to work at this his age, Joc gotta become the man he envisioned his son to be.
He said, meet him in the club and it’s going down.
Sometimes your children have to learn the hard way and there’s nothing you can say or do. It’s mostly the privileged kids that act up since they grew in an environment that everything is handed to them so feel like they got and know it all. You know for a fact Joc’s children never had to hustle for nothing because he was always the father figure that provided.
He trying to avoid his son learning the hard way
This is so true
The hard way sometimes is death.
@@winterbonnie7859 im in the same boat.
He said it right I'll never give up on mine that's a true father💪🏽💪🏽
I feel for them both, but Joc is at the point where he has to give him to God and pray for the best. When a person (child or not) doesn't care about what happens to themselves, they definitely won't care about what happens to those around them.
Unfortunately, that happens more often than not.
True..But it's easier said then done.
This is true. He'll drive himself sick trying to get his son to see what he doesn't care to see. I love that Joc is trying. He's my favorite character on the show. It's hard to see this struggle. As a mom of sons I have been here.
sometimes it takes that prayer and God allowing certain things to happen for people to see and grasp that wisdom and knowledge. i just pray that God has mercy on joc sons soul and that it doesn’t take a near death situation for him to realize what joc was trying to tell him.
“Look at my exit!” joc flip on him when he said that
He said “actions”.
Joc reaction was like any parent when they are trying to give there best and ur child thinks they can speak to u like ur there fren
Yeah, joc is upset, and I can't be mad, maybe most father's need to do this!
Yea I do it to my 21 year old
No. Most father's need to lead by example. You need to be there 💯 for your kids, instead if being out here chasing pussy. He's following in Jocks footsteps.
Yea he can talk and communicate. But the fight was brutal that's why it was blacked out. Joc should have just walked away before it got physical nowadays kids call the cops on their parents if they hit them excessively. I just wanted him to remain calm but I guess he snapped 😔
@@julliettebarton7370 exactly!
Y’all so dumb. How was this helpful? Now there is a further divide between the father and son.
His son was completely oblivious to anything joc was trying to tell him. I was feeling like Joc right there. He trying to teach his son to be more self aware and responsible and boy thinking he getting blamed
Wow . My respect and love for Jasiel just raised . I did not know. I see I have to catch up on these episodes . I know it’s real life BUT MAN MY HEART IS LIKE AWE WOW
HIS PASSION AND PAIN AND WISDOM
Hell nah. You don’t swing on your son, that’s wild asf. He doesn’t know how to control his anger.
exactly.. and he's sitting here saying he wants his son to stir away from violence, but turns around and attack him. His son is the only man I've seen Joc actually fight with on this show -- and that's saying something. You turn around and attack your son, but want him to turn away from violence-- Joc is a hypocrite.
Can't tell someone how to be a parent. He had his reasons. I've seen people jack their son up for being disrespectful so he asked for it
@@RedTopGhost320 yes I can tell someone how to parent. Fighting is not normal.
@@desixox I said what I said
I totally understand Yung Joc's frustration with his son and he is demonstrating love to his son but his son is too naive to comprehend it and see it but will one day see it.
Why can't they just listen to us. Instead they want to argue like you don't know nothing. Sometimes you have to let them go. They're be hearing your voice in their heads when something happens.
Don’t say us. I have 0 issues with my teenage sons. Kids don’t listen to ignorant ass emotionally unintelligent and unstable ass parents who preach one thing then display another. Just like Joc saying he’s doing all this to keep his son from the violent lifestyle but then goes and attacks his son for expressing his opinion. Just like Joc telling his son to stay away from bad friends while being a bad friend and exploiting this for a check. Parents like Joc aid to the prison population. If your child can’t voice an opinion without you feeling threatened to violence you have mental issues that are far beyond your children.
As a Father i understand. its hard when you see the road a person going down but they cant stop to listen
Joc owe his son a real apology. Bucking at your child like that doesn't make them listen, it breaks their hearts and makes them feel like everyone in the world is against them and they have nobody. Never get this angry with your child, the day you cross that line is the day you can never tell your kid anything ever again. Respect all out the window
THANK YOU! Once you cross the line to treating your kid like someone off the treat it’s a wrap. Now if Joc was defending himself then that’s different. But Joc was frustrated, got in his face and swung first. Now he’s about to go look for a father figure in the wrong people
yes yes yes yes
I agree. I’m surprised at all the comments acting like this is normal, acceptable behavior. Children deserve better.
@@nik-at-nite and it wasn't no fatherly push he ran up on him like he was another n*gga in the street that speaks volumes in itself I wouldn't listen to my dad either I'd be thinking this fool don't even like me and he's my dad lol
@@GeezLouise1000 people getting beat up by they parents like it's okay, it's NOT. it's demeaning and so wrong
What Joc was saying was right but his actions diminished message. He didn’t need to attack his son but the frustration aside from attacking him was absolutely justified
Yea tbh I commented before I seen the full video. Yea he could have toned it down and get his message across but I think he got frustrated cause the son wasn't taking him seriously 🤔 so he snapped. The son was talking back and not listening 😐 no excuses cause Joc ain't have to hit him but idk he wanted to show him tough love
U don’t do that as a father. Joc needs to grow up in a lot of ways as well
Attack? Was it a black eye or bloody lip i missed y’all really need to stop trying tell other people how to discipline their kids, nobody knows what happened when the camera cut black so who are you to say he attacked him that boy clothes wasn’t even disheveled and from the looks of it he approached him with open hands like he was about to push him I doubt he ever even hit him with a closed fist
My Dad was going hit me I stop being disrespectful and listen. That boy was distributing
@@bugeye8749 Exactly. Joc needs to realize you can't use violence to get a message through to your child. You get frustrated, so you hit the very son you're trying to protect...come on now. Make it make sense.
I was talking to my son's boxing coach explaining that I was hard on my son because I needed him to be prepared for the world and was scared what would happen if I was not. And he looked at me and said something that completely changed my perspective. He said " I hear this a lot from parents, the WORLD is going to teach your son how tough it is, you should be the soft place for your child land."
Praying they get closure and peace, hopefully Joc son understands the seriousness of what his dad is saying.
I understand Joc was mad, however, he could have walked away instead of swinging chairs and attacking his son. This could cause a larger divide between them.
Yeah that's true he have to control his temper cause they both hot headed 🔥 it won't work
Do you have any sons...if so how old?
Nah some people need to be yelled at and shown the raw side.
I don't know how it feels to have a child let alone a BLACK son. I'm not suggesting nothing or judging because I'm not walking in Joc's shoes.
He did right because I rather my father put his hands on me than the streets doing it
This love is needed in every household. Listen to your damn parents!!!!!!
Agreed.
@@oneforall8161 | Thank you!
Agreed!! His son kept yelling over him & wasn’t really listening. I think Joc was right❤️
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Exactly!!!
Man... .....I feel you!!!! MAN I FEEL YOU!!!!! MUCH LOVE TO YOU AND YOUR SON!!!!
You're doing your best you love your son it's frustrating you're trying to save him I hope he sees it soon ... Praying for you I also have a son🙏🙏🙏
As a single mother of a 20 year old black man. I feel this in my gut. Good for you joc. Standing up for your children while they are this age is hard but necessary because something in their brain has not clicked on yet. They need guidance ❤️
I respect you as a man and father keep doing what you doing don’t let these streets get him keep your head up I worked in the prison system it’s too many of our young people in prison
The disconnection between father's and sons is at the highest right now. Clear and open communication is key.
After Joc threw the chair and he and his son got into a brawl. That Freaked Me Out.
Exactly. I didn’t think things would get worse after he threw the chair.
@@Im_Monique Don't think him not flinching has anything to do with respect, just means he not scary. Him standing up and positioning himself to fight was when he showed he don't fuks with his pops.
@@jamaljamal6169 you right
@@Im_Monique If your dad threw a chair and you felt the need to move then there's something more going on with yall other than respecting each other. Just saying fam.
Yea me too. This scene was raw and real! I stopped watching love and hip hop cause it got boring and fake but this wasn't fake. I got scared for a minute I didn't think it would escalate further 😕 I think they need counseling and prayer. Maybe take a break off the show and heal
That was a good father-and-son talk right here. Except the fight.