Ruined Friendships Ft Lola Oj
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- Опубликовано: 8 фев 2022
- Hi guys, welcome to the first episode of Me, Her & Everything Else.
Me, Her & Everything Else is a podcast that's based on discussions around women, society and lifestyle. Join Stephanie Coker- Aderinokun as she takes you on journey that aims at uplifting women and sharing their stories.
This week I have Lola Oj as my guest and we discuss ruined friendships. Enjoy!!
Steph reminds me of myself. She is more emotional and a caregiver….Lola seems like she is hard to love but you will respect her because she doesn’t give herself away and a logical thinker. I enjoyed this episode. Very Relatable
Got me at
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Nobody is gonna be hating on you if you’re driving a sandbox“ . From sandbox to Mercedes 😂😂😀. Yesoooo very true.
I also don't share things early with people, I just feel comfortable keeping it to myself, I have people who fight with me on that.
Lola OJ just got herself a new lover, she seems so sweet and lovable!!
I understand the place Lola is coming from when it comes to withholding information. In my case I noticed that some of my friends can't exactly handle some of the decisions I take. And to protect myself from the interference that their opinions will cause,I just withhold information until I am much ready to share.
Thank you!!! Exactly
I am that sort of guy that has issues with women dressing up in men's clothing (esp the Agbada thingy) I like my women adorably feminine..but hey, Lola is killing that out fit..everything well coordinated + she's so chill.
Proper love to those Stephanie's male friends who distance themselves after she got married 😄 my uni female friends who are married..i can't remember calling them on phone. .i guess it's a thing of respect.
I need to see more Nigerian ladies who are like Stephanie & Lola
Concerning the part where you said Lola oj "witheld an information" I can pretty much relate to it. It's not that I don't trust you I just don't think I'm mentally capable to deal with what you have to say or how you'd react to it,it's going to have negative effect on how I feel already about the existing issue. There was a time I felt really disappointed and more disappointed in the fact I disappointed people close to me,I was scared of their reactions,I was scared of the could haves and should haves that they'd tell me,I was scared of the disappointment on their faces,I felt like I let them down and I was still dealing with the reality of what happened and every feeling that comes with it and I wasn't strong enough to deal with the disappointment from other people. So i blocked people,shut them off ,till I was over it. Then I opened up, forcefully tho 😂I still do It but Working on it to be better person ❤️😊
Just the kind of my person buh to some point I wouldn't want to change it
Watching this was just so beautiful, Steph is so real, if there’s anything this podcast has taught, then it is, you just have to learn to communicate, and fight for your-friendships especially when they’re worth it, you don’t have to deny your personality or hide how you feel, I genuinely feel if everyone one is as open as Steph, life would be much better
it's the good spoken English for both parties fuh me
Lola Oj is such a nice person. Met her once at a saloon and she’s so calm and polite knew I loved her but watching this just makes me love her more 😍🤗
I loved this so much, the entire experience is totally relatable and real 💯❤️
Awww this was so beautiful to watch
Watching this was beautiful I learned a lot
I love every bit of the video.😊
FINALLYYYYY!
Soo interesting to watch. Love you Steph.
Love,love, love Lola Oj!!!
I enjoyed every bit of this 🥺 you guys are so expressive and sound.. just subscribed ❤️ shoutout to LOJ she’s so beautiful
I loved this so much.i saw a lot of me in lola as regards sharing with friends or family.i always have conversations in my head and forget to share or take time to share 😁😁
Loved this...
Thank you for this👌😍😍
Love it 😍
I absolutely loved this episode. Thank you both for being so honest.
I love this episode 🖤🖤🖤
I love that you guys were real and used real life situations
I love to see this!
Omg I love love your friendship. Beautiful episode
Love this Lola so much, she is me,I am her.
Love this episode! So real and unfiltered which makes it so relatable on so many levels! I was like Steph where I would end friendships and have lost amazing friendships because I wasn’t mature or patient enough. Agree with Lola, we grow and mature to understand people are dealing with so much and a lot of broken friendships stem from misunderstandings that were never addressed. Great one ladies! ❤️
I enjoyed everything bit of it 😊
This was really good, I’m kind of like Lola when it comes to openness but lately I’ve really enjoyed sharing more and having those conversations. I also love love this sisterhood!
I have definitely been sleeping on this... I love this episode
I Love love this...I saw a lot of me in Lola...really interesting and educative..
Friendships like this❤️🔥❤️🔥
I enjoyed this episode 💯
Feels like a healing session.👍
I love this episode!!! This conversation 👏👏👏👏
Ladies friends is not my thing bcos I only come across those who only want to hear Mine but won't say hers
And no way that can't be happening then I better keep shut too
I learnt a lot from this talk🔥
Thank you so much for this beautiful conversation. Now I totally understand I’m not the problem when people cut off. I just so much of my life in aunty Stephanie
So interesting 👏
Loved this conversation , keep the content coming 👏
I thoroughly enjoyedddd watching this, like I laughed and smiled all through! Your friendship is so beautiful and I wish you a continued lifetime of bliss! Can't wait for episode 2!😍😍
Wow such a beautiful and refreshing show subscribing immediately ❤️
So interesting, I saw a lot of me in Lola🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗
we are new to the podcast world, so we are putting out clips of our show before we let out the full episode. we will speak on topics of the same assortment you have. i hope you wont have trouble tuning in.
I loved every bit of this literally from the beginning to the end ❤️
Thank youuuu
I love Lola 💕
This is really nice
I agree with you Steph. Lola is so wise. I’ve learnt so much from both of you ladies. Love love this 😍🔥
New here. Interesting and fun. I learnt some hard facts about some of my previous friendships. Thank you🤗. For now, we move🤗
Love you both❤️🥰
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I love this conversation! This is real.
Yay
Enjoyed this ❤️
Yay
This was cute, enjoyable, mature, interesting, real and relatable. Thank you guys😊
Thank youuuu
I totally enjoyed this. Welldone
Thank youuuu
This is one of my most enjoyable vlog ever!! So relatable🔥
❤️❤️
Ohhhh it was very educative and interesting I loved it. I watched from start to end . Beautiful
Thank you
Very interesting. Learnt from this
Yay
This is really good
Thank you
Love you guys 😘
I totally enjoyed watching thisss!
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Your friendship Is beautiful
Thank ❤️
Awwwwww ❤️❤️❤️❤️
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Currently going through a friendship breakup with someone I was really close to.. this was really helpful ❤️
So glad it helped you
Loved this conversation. I am Lola, Lola is me😩But yeahhhh....there’s always room for improvement so I’m working on being better. Great podcast Stephanie👍
Thank youuuu
Exactly she's just me
I remember I used to think they were twins 😂
Interesting
Thank you
This you shouldn't be hanging around with single people ehn, my friends' in-law told her this and I just laughed.
But you’re very fine ooo🥺