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  • @vasseurbeauty
    @vasseurbeauty  3 месяца назад +274

    what's your vote?! & also thank you to all of you who have been here with me for all the ups, downs, further downs and back ups. I love and appreciate you more than you know
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    • @jdanielzuk
      @jdanielzuk 3 месяца назад +76

      Yellow dress! It is the most powerful and subtle at the same time.

    • @ieva7513
      @ieva7513 3 месяца назад +32

      Yellow 🥰

    • @GorgieClarissa
      @GorgieClarissa 3 месяца назад +28

      yellow dress!!

    • @ananavarro7352
      @ananavarro7352 3 месяца назад +20

      Definitely the yellow

    • @CameraGirl011
      @CameraGirl011 3 месяца назад +20

      Yellow dress 😊

  • @deedee9355
    @deedee9355 3 месяца назад +215

    Sounds a bit old fashioned but I haven't seen that spark for life in you in a long time. It looks good on you Brittany and even if this doesn't work out, it gave you the opportunity to feel all those wonderful feelings again and hopefully to realize that love is worth, at least, a second chance.💘 oh, loved the yellow dress.

  • @illBeAtTheBar
    @illBeAtTheBar 3 месяца назад +150

    Yellow is happy vibes!!! I love the white too though - body is bangin!!!! But being comfortable is most important and you look happy and comfortable in yellow!!

  • @heatherk1792
    @heatherk1792 3 месяца назад +62

    1000% so happy for you and hoping that he’s a genuine person.
    Skeptical true crime loving me is also thinking be as careful as possible to make sure this guy isn’t being paid by your ex to cause damage or get info.

    • @blueseptember2174
      @blueseptember2174 3 месяца назад +10

      Omgoodness, new fear unlocked 😮

    • @mrs.polyakov6234
      @mrs.polyakov6234 3 месяца назад +5

      I was hoping I wasn't the only person thinking that! It's different if dating happens after the divorce, but when it's during and this fast, it does give red flags a bit. Hopefully, it works out for Brittany. She had enough trauma.

  • @silvernblack21
    @silvernblack21 3 месяца назад +24

    Ok, sis! Very proud of how you're growing through all of this and not letting it defeat you, you're setting an encouraging example for women going through similar situations. As for the outfit, they all look beautiful, but that yellow dress is the one. You even moved differently in it and looked radiant, I hope you chose it ❤

  • @jammrellim
    @jammrellim 3 месяца назад +24

    Oh sweet B! You enjoy the gent as long as he is one AND keep the boundaries and standards high. A worthwhile person will totally understand and offer respect.

  • @sonjacarranza
    @sonjacarranza 3 месяца назад +68

    The YELLOW dress! You look like walking sunshine! 🌞 It’s a great length you don’t have to worry about straps it’s a great color on you & the slit gives it that extra oomf! 🫶🏼

  • @vanessacevallos5803
    @vanessacevallos5803 3 месяца назад +38

    This vlog made me so happy!! Enjoy your precious, beautiful life to the fullest! You deserve it and your children deserve to see their mommy happy. 🙏🏼💕🙂

  • @FALLON_1111
    @FALLON_1111 3 месяца назад +5

    I am so thankful that you shared this....for someone who is "struggling" I appreciate so much hearing this....its just so nice seeing a great woman smiling again! YOU deserve this!

  • @lindasalvaterra1304
    @lindasalvaterra1304 3 месяца назад +33

    Yes you have to remember…..they’re all nice in the beginning! By the way you look great in all 3 dresses.

    • @Alison8815
      @Alison8815 2 месяца назад +4

      Even the nice ones can end up being nightmares.

    • @jacforswear18
      @jacforswear18 2 месяца назад +2

      They are definitely NOT all nice in the beginning 😂

  • @meagangassler6722
    @meagangassler6722 3 месяца назад +454

    My new mantra is "Aging is a privilege". A friend said this to me as we lost our college friend due to stage 4 breast cancer when she was 48, way to young!

    • @Lizzyvallesrodriguez
      @Lizzyvallesrodriguez 3 месяца назад +11

      I’m 18 and lost an 18-year-old friend several months ago! You really realize that aging is a privilege when you lose someone close to you who is your age!

    • @number1grandma1
      @number1grandma1 3 месяца назад +3

      Fly with the angels, Pink Sister 💗 ✨🙏🏼✨

    • @romeosjewel
      @romeosjewel 3 месяца назад +5

      So true...a few of my friends have passed on recently due to illness or heart attacks, all in their 40s! 😢

    • @Eli-bz4vv
      @Eli-bz4vv 3 месяца назад

      @@Crystal.CMJ2024I also turned 40 this year.

  • @sherriitsamea3476
    @sherriitsamea3476 3 месяца назад +21

    You look beautiful in each of the dresses. Can’t go wrong.
    It’s ok to change your mind on anything you’ve said in the past. You’re going through the motions right now. So happy you’re cautiously trying something new & just having fun. Enjoy

  • @Allfay
    @Allfay 3 месяца назад +2

    Brittany you look gorgeous like always. I am glad to see you turning the page and starting a new chapter. Have fun, don’t over share, hold reasonable expectations and embrace life like a beautiful adventure

  • @JanieGrGtz
    @JanieGrGtz 3 месяца назад +8

    lol “frolicking on a field in Norway” that was too cute.

  • @mariacangialosi9659
    @mariacangialosi9659 3 месяца назад +59

    I am really happy for you. I swore off dating 4 yrs ago and so far it's working out great! 😂 It will never be time for me. Wishing you all the happiness! You so deserve it!

    • @vasseurbeauty
      @vasseurbeauty  3 месяца назад +16

      retirement was honestly so nice and peaceful lol

  • @BryWilliams
    @BryWilliams 3 месяца назад +68

    That white dress looks so good on you

  • @patticakesintexas
    @patticakesintexas 3 месяца назад +34

    You deserve to have some fun and to feel special! Im SOOOOO happy for you!!!

  • @Nikkers8
    @Nikkers8 3 месяца назад +8

    One is never more attractive when they are not looking, having found peace within. The best kind of confidence. Good for you, Brittany.

  • @mel0815
    @mel0815 3 месяца назад +15

    Definitely 1 or 3! Can’t go wrong with either!! I’m so happy for you! You gave yourself the best advice! Just have fun :)

  • @Veganmamabear
    @Veganmamabear 3 месяца назад +5

    Yellow all the way! You look so happy Brittany, it’s seems like this guy has brought back some excitement in your life. Hope your date goes amazing!

  • @FunnyShellBear
    @FunnyShellBear 3 месяца назад +1

    Brittany you are glowing! 🥰 Your whole vibe is getting back to the true you again, you are positively blossoming and you look really healthy and happy!
    It’s so good to see! 🥰👏

  • @devchonka18
    @devchonka18 3 месяца назад +29

    Ahhhh I knew it when you said you're meeting a friend couple days ago on Instagram. So happy for you!

    • @vasseurbeauty
      @vasseurbeauty  3 месяца назад +9

      that was actually a new female friend 😅

  • @meghanhertzog2426
    @meghanhertzog2426 3 дня назад

    You're so beautiful inside and out! ❤ I'm praying for all the happiness for you! ❤ You deserve someone who treats you and your children like gold! ❤Thanks for always sharing with us!

  • @brendatate8986
    @brendatate8986 3 месяца назад +4

    #3 Yellow is my favorite. They all look good but for tonight definitely 💯 percent perfect. Have a good time. Remember it’s ok to be Happy! It’s ok to enjoy yourself!

  • @stacyorick8764
    @stacyorick8764 3 месяца назад +1

    Brittany, you deserve all the happiness!!! God loves you and wants the best for you

  • @pamravenscroft4829
    @pamravenscroft4829 3 месяца назад +8

    So happy for you. You deserve to be happy!

  • @janettindall4199
    @janettindall4199 3 месяца назад +1

    You would look stunning in a potato sack! Love all three of the dresses but the white or yellow :) Yellow is definitely your power color, you look like a ray of beautiful sunshine! You deserve genuine love and happiness! Sending love and light your way! 💜

  • @kelseycoca
    @kelseycoca 2 месяца назад

    I've been watching your channel for years, I want you to be happy. you are such a sweet soul and I worry about people taking advantage of that. I love how you're being skeptical and I hope he's good to you. I hope his actions keep lining up over time. be careful not to share too much online since it can be used against you. I'm glad you have a happy distraction. thank you for sharing this with us. I worry! I'm sure other people do, too 💕

  • @kathleenhunt7613
    @kathleenhunt7613 3 месяца назад +5

    Girl, option #1, no question! The White Dress 😍

  • @margaretwright4066
    @margaretwright4066 3 месяца назад +1

    Blue! It looks so young and carefree! Beautiful!
    Yellow is beautiful too!

  • @ann414
    @ann414 3 месяца назад +10

    I’m so happy to see a genuine smile on your face. The white dress for the win!

  • @amandamarlar1110
    @amandamarlar1110 3 месяца назад +5

    Love, love, love seeing you happy!! ❤

  • @andreamiller6200
    @andreamiller6200 3 месяца назад

    You look absolutely beautiful in all 3 dresses and the perfume is just a bonus, you just have such an aura about you! I pick the yellow power color dress since it is clearly a more evening garment and you don't need to think twice about formal vs informal, but I see occasions where the white dress and the blue sundress would have their moments. I would be more inclined to wear the white dress if dinner were not part of the activities and I agree the blue dress is darling but is more casual. Truly whatever you choose to wear is going to be the right choice and it makes my heart so happy to see your spark!

  • @ErinNDo
    @ErinNDo 3 месяца назад

    Been with you since way before Carter was born girl and you are such a JEM! ❤ I pray often honestly the best for you and your kids. Go in with eyes wide open and just really protect your huge heart. Keep going as best you can each day and rest in hope! Good strong boundaries and be careful to not tie yourself emotionally at all, at least until you are really and fully healed. You are so sweet girl. ❤you!!

  • @klmjtr
    @klmjtr 3 месяца назад +11

    Unless he’s older, has money, his own kids and treats you like a queen I would think long and hard about getting involved.

  • @sayraromero1306
    @sayraromero1306 3 месяца назад

    Brittany you are radiating happiness, you are literally glowing! I absolutely love the yellow dress 💛 I will be praying for you to stay this happy. It's contagious and we could all use that positivity

  • @schnioula
    @schnioula 2 месяца назад +1

    Girl you are so gorgeous! Wish you all the best! God is watching over you, never worry! ❤

  • @MinMin-uy5pl
    @MinMin-uy5pl 3 месяца назад +1

    That was a lovely video. The sparkle in your eyes is very good to see. And the dating, like you said you don't have to go all serious, just have fun and enjoy the admiration. You have learned plenty to know when to stop and back away if you wish too. Life is amazing to live. And once you hit 40's it gets even better, cause then you have learned tons about yourself and know what your boundaries are. Enjoy. 😊

  • @JabeenSarang
    @JabeenSarang 2 месяца назад

    Babe, looking at you happy makes me sooooo happy, I can’t even explain. More power to you love!
    & may I just suggest, play the field this time around. Just have fun for at least a year or so. ♥️

  • @barbcarrillo7583
    @barbcarrillo7583 3 месяца назад +7

    Coming from a mother/grandmother, and feeling oddly protective of you, I vote none of the above. You really are a beauty BUT I think you should lean a bit more to the conservative (aka covered) side lest you be mistaken for advertising for an unencumbered relationship (aka one-nighter).

  • @GoldenWave
    @GoldenWave 2 месяца назад

    This is surprising but I love your glow, have fun in this new chapter girl! I love these more personal videos Brittany, I think we're all excited for you and want to see you thrive.

  • @RealinNYC
    @RealinNYC 3 месяца назад

    I am extremely happy for you. I was with you since before Carter was born. I am so sorry for all that you have gone through recently.

  • @LenaSandul
    @LenaSandul 3 месяца назад

    Yay, so happy to see you beaming so brightly😍
    All three outfits look great on you, you are so gorgeous I bet he stuttered at least in his mind when he saw you😍

  • @mistymcclanahan1138
    @mistymcclanahan1138 Месяц назад

    Glad you are finding some happiness. The yellow dress is beautiful. 💛 It's a happy color.

  • @charlenecharchar
    @charlenecharchar 3 месяца назад

    So, so very happy for you on the happy times you are having on the dates. YOU deserve nothing but the absolute best❣️💟❣️

  • @JH-qf5pd
    @JH-qf5pd 3 месяца назад +1

    Get it BABE! 😍They all look great but the yellow on you is perfection

  • @Leahthisandthat
    @Leahthisandthat 3 месяца назад +4

    Yellow for sure!

  • @shirleylewis3490
    @shirleylewis3490 3 месяца назад +5

    Definitely the yellow! Stunning!

  • @candacepelletier2838
    @candacepelletier2838 2 месяца назад

    How am I only seeing this nearly a week later 😮 you deserve the world! It’s so nice to see you glow and it’s too late to vote but that white and yellow were equally perfect ☺️

  • @tinasaephan
    @tinasaephan 3 месяца назад

    Hi Brittany. Aww this makes me so happy to see you smile. No need to explain yourself but thank you for letting your viewers know! You look STUNNING in the yellow dress 💓 Almost like you were wearing the perfume on a dress 🥰 Have fun on your date!

  • @natalielawyerchick
    @natalielawyerchick 3 месяца назад +1

    Ok I just had to chime in because I completely disagree with people saying she shouldn’t share that she’s dating, or it will harm her in the divorce. That is crazy and not true. Legally speaking, she is legally separated and the divorce is proceeding. She is free to date and her ex has already been dating, as he is free to do. This is an era of no fault divorce. Dating while in the divorce process is completely irrelevant to any determination of alimony, custody or property distribution. Please stop spreading misinformation.

  • @mariaanna1421
    @mariaanna1421 3 месяца назад +1

    The yellow aww wow your glowing girl ❤

  • @valeriezaric
    @valeriezaric 2 месяца назад

    Brittany, I'm in the same boat as you already starting to date! I'm a sensitive person though and casual dating has been SO DIFFICULT! I fall in love so easily. Not that it's stopping me (lol!), but it's a roller coaster of feelings. Have fun and take care of yourself!

  • @shaunaharris9093
    @shaunaharris9093 3 месяца назад

    Really love the yellow and white on you! All are so beautiful but yellow is definitely your color! Have fun!

  • @debbieknight1224
    @debbieknight1224 3 месяца назад

    I love the yellow! I hope that's the one you wore! Always wishing you love and happiness!! You deserve the best.

  • @yolandahoward1099
    @yolandahoward1099 3 месяца назад +1

    I like your vibes;and enjoyed your
    chat.All 3 of the dresses,were
    pretty on you. But..I'm leaning towards the blue. Have fun;and thanks for linking the perfume.

  • @emmiecschell
    @emmiecschell 3 месяца назад +4

    YELLOW!!!! For sure!! So gorgeous!!

  • @PinkGrammarGirl
    @PinkGrammarGirl 3 месяца назад +10

    Meh. I find dating while still married, with young kids, and still stinging from hurt still going on is not always the best...it's such a charged atmosphere and the potential to rebound is real. I'm not surprised, but this would not be my approach.

  • @BrittanyLaurenWhalen
    @BrittanyLaurenWhalen 3 месяца назад

    You deserve to have a good time Brittany. I am happy for you.

  • @rosemarycalogero7017
    @rosemarycalogero7017 3 месяца назад

    They all look great…yellow looks great and the baby blue looks very chic

  • @aliya303
    @aliya303 2 месяца назад

    Hey brittany…!!!! I am 1 of ur very old subscribers. Bug big fan. U r such a gem of a person n a sweet heart. Such a high class lady… in a world where woman dont help other woman n r often jealous of each other… here u r on the verge of ur ultimate fall in terms of finances n person front ( divorce) n yet u r uplifting woman. Which man wouldnt love such a person? I wish u the very best! U have been an inspiration n always guided me n many others. I really hope we get to c the ur amazing self once again… when u feel ur 200% lots n lots of love to u n the kids!

  • @ShannonAmmon-oy3xd
    @ShannonAmmon-oy3xd 3 месяца назад

    I love yellow!! (white maybe to bridal, blue yes too day time but beautiful). yellow is carefree and awesome!!! Have so much fun!

  • @lauriebertrand9319
    @lauriebertrand9319 3 месяца назад

    You look happy! I’m happy for you! All three outfits are stunning. You can’t go wrong with any of them.

  • @Sali-yw1rd
    @Sali-yw1rd 3 месяца назад +21

    You feel lonely and lost and will cling onto someone you think is good. Life surprises you but this is such a red flag in your healing journey. Let’s all pray for this woman yall…

    • @allisonw6762
      @allisonw6762 3 месяца назад +2

      Yes!

    • @amberrose3376
      @amberrose3376 Месяц назад

      Sometimes you meet your soul mate in the healing process. I ended a 6 year relationship and met my now husband about 6 months later we have been together for 11 years and are happier than ever

  • @missygarcia682
    @missygarcia682 3 месяца назад

    Yellow for sure! It’s such a happy color.

  • @deliacatterall4326
    @deliacatterall4326 20 дней назад

    Vanessa your amazing! U deserve happiness❤❤❤

  • @MegaMariSF
    @MegaMariSF 3 месяца назад

    Amazing to see you happy! 🎉❤ You deserve the world!

  • @BeyondBianca_
    @BeyondBianca_ 3 месяца назад

    Yaaaayyy!!! Good news for you is great news to us! You deserve it momma❤ I vote for the power color! You seemed powerful and confident! Trust your gut and put yourself out there 💛

  • @lindybright1938
    @lindybright1938 2 месяца назад

    That's great! You deserve happy moments in your life after everything you've been through. I've been single for almost 10 years and it was pretty much the best decision of my life. In my experience, I've found that even good people will still pull the rug from underneath you, so I'm not sure if it's 'time' that tells if you're making the right decision. In any case, best of luck to you and cheers to you and love!

  • @anacarrera5102
    @anacarrera5102 3 месяца назад +1

    Well I am very happy for you 😀 yes give it a chance you never know there's always a reason for everything that happens in our lives 💞 and you look a lot more happier

  • @lovelylife4233
    @lovelylife4233 3 месяца назад +3

    No healing time 🤦🏻‍♀️

    • @Madison.Dances829
      @Madison.Dances829 2 месяца назад +1

      Why does she need to have “healing time” when the dude who cheated on her gets to be living it up with his new girlfriend? If she wants to date someone she has every right to. If the situation was reversed absolutely no one would be commenting saying a man needs to have “healing time” before he dated again. The double standard is insane. 😒

  • @gabygaby7863
    @gabygaby7863 2 месяца назад +3

    It’s a need for JESUS CHRIST not for another man with new issues; ever heard of the saying, different devil, same hell.
    Jesus is the truth the way and the life.

  • @silvia6773
    @silvia6773 3 месяца назад

    I’m so happy for you. The white one is gorgeous and so are you have fun!

  • @roxypena8028
    @roxypena8028 3 месяца назад

    Thank you for your honesty from a single mom of two and the yellow girl you look amazing

  • @johnbehneman1546
    @johnbehneman1546 2 месяца назад

    HAPPY BIRTHDAY BRITTANY!!!!

  • @shelly0308
    @shelly0308 3 месяца назад

    Your glowing! Its so nice to see you happy ❤

  • @aurora6920
    @aurora6920 3 месяца назад

    The yellow dress is stunning wear that!!! (although you look beautiful on both!) so happy for you ❤you deserve love and kindness. I really want to try that perfume too

  • @kkdol3761
    @kkdol3761 2 месяца назад

    Girllll you looking so good!!! I’m so happy for you. Ure def glowing!!!❤❤❤❤

  •  2 месяца назад

    Before you shared the news, I was thinking how you look like you're glowing! Your happiness is shining and I'm so happy for you beautiful ❤

  • @nellyannjimenez3736
    @nellyannjimenez3736 3 месяца назад

    So happy for you. You deserve the world honey! Loved the yellow dress 💛

  • @ladonnanuffer5061
    @ladonnanuffer5061 3 месяца назад

    Girl you are so beautiful! You look so great without makeup!!

  • @heatherjohnson5612
    @heatherjohnson5612 3 месяца назад

    the yellow for dinner!!!! But that blue dress is GORGEOUS on her!!!

  • @mamaofb.a.d.3836
    @mamaofb.a.d.3836 3 месяца назад

    You look so happy! Your glowing girl!!!
    My fav dress would be the yellow one. They all look great tho.

  • @mariannepetersen3985
    @mariannepetersen3985 3 месяца назад

    I LOVE option 3, the yellow dress!!!

  • @selinaortiz8874
    @selinaortiz8874 3 месяца назад

    Just enjoy your life brittany you deserve to be happy in whatever choices you want to make. Dont let anyone tell you differently. If dating doesnt align anymore then dont do it. Ive been divorced for several years and i am have given up on dating myself. Its exhausting 😢

  • @Lili4shoRodriguez
    @Lili4shoRodriguez 3 месяца назад

    Yellow dress for sure. I’m actually a paralegal here in Florida and I have been practicing family law for about 20 years now so I can totally understand what you’re going through.

  • @esgee2464
    @esgee2464 3 месяца назад

    How fun!! You deserve all the happiness in the world and MORE!

  • @rachelphelps6347
    @rachelphelps6347 3 месяца назад

    I hope this guy is all you have dreamed of in every way. I personally love all the dresses, but the blue was my favorite. I love blue!

  • @anwlaw
    @anwlaw 3 месяца назад

    I’m so happy for you! Live your life!

  • @odettemarillier1297
    @odettemarillier1297 3 месяца назад

    Wow , I'm so so happy for you 🎉
    You deserve to be HAPPY and to be LOVED ❤

  • @shire4352
    @shire4352 3 месяца назад

    I’m so happy for you. Just enjoy yourself and have fun.

  • @sherrylinzer8649
    @sherrylinzer8649 2 месяца назад

    #2 looks perfect...have a good time, keep him as a friend for awhile see where it goes...

  • @Chelbsn
    @Chelbsn 3 месяца назад

    Oh yayyyyy!! I love good news! It's so nice to see you give yourself permission to have fun❤️

  • @Playing_with_a_Purpose
    @Playing_with_a_Purpose 3 месяца назад

    I love the blue one but agree that it’s probably more a daytime dress! I think you should go with the yellow one!

  • @JLuca-zm4ok
    @JLuca-zm4ok 3 месяца назад

    You are absolutely incredible, and wish you all of the best that you find the perfect man for you that deserves you 🙏❤️

  • @jacquelinekabugo-raderson1878
    @jacquelinekabugo-raderson1878 3 месяца назад +1

    Well 54 here! 🎉🎉Still going, albeit a bit battered by menopause 😵‍💫🤣 Best wishes Brittany, keep going 👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾🌻🤗

  • @tr3eehugg3r
    @tr3eehugg3r 2 месяца назад

    I love the second dress! So cute!

  • @vanessatorres2582
    @vanessatorres2582 3 месяца назад

    You look beautiful in all the dresses. 🥰 I hope you had a great time. You deserve happiness 🙏🏼🤗💖

  • @anacampa989
    @anacampa989 3 месяца назад

    Good for you Brittany❤ the yellow dress looked fabulous on you 👍

  • @dreamwishergirl
    @dreamwishergirl 3 месяца назад +1

    My boyfriend is going through a divorce. His ex wife was a lot like your ex husband. He also wasn’t looking for a relationship. We met in person and immediately just hit it off, and he couldn’t just let me go. The rest is history ❤