She Didn't See THIS Coming When Shaming RIch !

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  • @RichCooperClips
    @RichCooperClips  Год назад +8

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    • @StanlyTPT
      @StanlyTPT Год назад

      These three dumb runts should be named Denial, Deceit & Delusion

  • @gabemartin72
    @gabemartin72 Год назад +356

    Shame, insults, guilt and need to be right… she pretty much proved his point.. she let emotions control her vs providing actual solutions

    • @Psiber_Syn
      @Psiber_Syn Год назад

      She's a child debating a grown adult. Rich is just cherry picking dumb girl to look make himself look smart. I will fuck him up for fun if he comes to NZ

    • @PoyTroy
      @PoyTroy Год назад +21

      As they all do , when they get backed into a corner and a man stands his ground, and holds firm

    • @NoName-rl3fh
      @NoName-rl3fh Год назад +12

      Correct

    • @Astuga
      @Astuga Год назад +18

      Bro, you can't just tell them the truth!
      That's insulting.

    • @nathanielmorgan3592
      @nathanielmorgan3592 Год назад +21

      Rip KS

  • @user-vg8ox3he1i
    @user-vg8ox3he1i Год назад +212

    She has two children, no dads in the home, but so long as SHE is having fun assuming we even believe that, she doesnt really care that her kids are only half siblings. She doesnt care what that will mean for them. She doesnt care they have no dad or different dads.
    Shes just having fun. Its the height of selfishness. Single moms by choice are disgusting.

    • @David-wo9un
      @David-wo9un Год назад +16

      She doesn’t have any interest in putting her kids ahead of her physical needs; in ten years even simps won’t want anything to do with her.

    • @RearviewMirror-ij2pr
      @RearviewMirror-ij2pr Год назад +11

      And the kids will suffer for it.

    • @jasonscott7527
      @jasonscott7527 Год назад +8

      ​@@RearviewMirror-ij2prThe kids are going to be messed up

    • @merdog3190
      @merdog3190 Год назад +15

      She's been told her whole life that fathers don't matter and she probably didn't have a father herself. The difference is you will never hear a man say that a good mother is not absolutely necessary for a child's well-being but women have been fed and believe that a man is superfluous.

    • @associatealpha1166
      @associatealpha1166 Год назад +7

      She’s the exact same as 95% of modern vv

  • @inquisitor4635
    @inquisitor4635 Год назад +230

    Gillian fully revealed why she will always be single.

    • @ChrisPTY507
      @ChrisPTY507 Год назад +26

      I watched the entire podcast, and her attitude is a clear reason why the guys she dated in the past frequently ghosted her.

    • @hadenanderson563
      @hadenanderson563 Год назад

      If you mute the video, ask a friend to guess who is the whore. Who?

    • @smallreddoggy
      @smallreddoggy Год назад +8

      'you're not smarter than us' uhh read 'The Bell Curve'

    • @darbyohara
      @darbyohara 9 месяцев назад +3

      It’s the tragedy of the commons type thing where the oldest woman on the panel is the more realistic and reasonable. But she’s too old to pair long term with a man who wants kids

    • @sidvicious332
      @sidvicious332 9 месяцев назад +5

      She's the worst. Her facial expressions creep me out to the bone.

  • @rayraysphone
    @rayraysphone Год назад +122

    "You focus too much on solving problems and should focus more on compassion."
    Translation: just be a woman, Rich

    • @David-wo9un
      @David-wo9un Год назад +19

      Feelings over facts!😂

    • @NoName-rl3fh
      @NoName-rl3fh Год назад +4

      Exactly

    • @ChrisPTY507
      @ChrisPTY507 Год назад +7

      My LTR GF sometimes tries to pull that absurd mental gymnastics on me from time to time, telling me things like, 'Not everything has to be rational and logic-based,' when I corner her and call out her BS based solely on emotions.
      I still continue to be logical, thereby keeping my frame, and not only is she still with me, but she has also learned to respect my thought process based on facts and common sense.
      Had I fallen for the trap and become more emotional as she suggested, by throwing away logic in favor of emotions, she would have jumped ship long ago.
      Don't let them pull you into being more emotional than rational, guys...

    • @nunya54
      @nunya54 Год назад +1

      This is why women have to be under male leadership. They're supposed to be that way; it's their nature but that's also why they need leadership, protection, provision etc from MEN.

    • @NoName-rl3fh
      @NoName-rl3fh Год назад +1

      @@ChrisPTY507 2+2 can equal 5 if woman-world if it "just Feels right...."

  • @lucasley20
    @lucasley20 Год назад +179

    Here we go with the "delivery" bs! God bless you men on your attempt to have a reasonable discussion with disagreeable modern women.

    • @TILLEYJS
      @TILLEYJS Год назад +20

      It's frankly all women. I've not met one who will take FULL accountability for their actions and life choices.

    • @Bravefit
      @Bravefit Год назад

      Umm didn’t Kevin Samuels deal with this?🤔 American women are completely useless

    • @FFTsteel
      @FFTsteel Год назад +1

      ​@@TILLEYJSFACTS😮

    • @jayc342009
      @jayc342009 Год назад +9

      That's the problem, she is in the position she is in because she is disagreeable. You cannot help women like this, let them be.

    • @nunya54
      @nunya54 Год назад +8

      He has the most mild mannered delivery I've seen and they still said it.

  • @primeobjective5469
    @primeobjective5469 Год назад +78

    Gillian has no interest in solutions, but rather, being RIGHT about your delivery methods she disagrees with. 35 & single. You DON'T say.

    • @onset5610
      @onset5610 Год назад +1

      Says the single man 🤣

    • @smallreddoggy
      @smallreddoggy Год назад +2

      she's a failure and doesn't want to admit it and is desperate to reflect

    • @slchance8839
      @slchance8839 Год назад +9

      @@onset5610
      "says the single man."
      more like,
      "says the **winning** man."
      A single man in world were the laws of marriage are against men is **winning." Not being ensnared in a system of no-fault divorce initiated by 80-90% women where 98% of alimony is paid out by men and accusations of SA are guilty until proven innocent is.....the winning move.

    • @perrycoffey5410
      @perrycoffey5410 11 месяцев назад

      ​@@slchance8839exactly

    • @darbyohara
      @darbyohara 9 месяцев назад +2

      She’s narcissistic. She has no interest in nor will put any effort toward correcting

  • @g-man2507
    @g-man2507 Год назад +160

    There is literally nothing wrong in Rich's delivery. The speed, tonality, language use, seriousness or humor all seem appropriate in this medium.

    • @pierrelevasseur2701
      @pierrelevasseur2701 Год назад +11

      Correct. I've watched quite a few of Rich's videos now. I never once thought he was "delivering" in a bad way. I have not always agreed with what he's said, that's a different issue.

    • @mdhazeldine
      @mdhazeldine Год назад +2

      Not for women.

    • @bruceparker805
      @bruceparker805 11 месяцев назад +1

      Sure but try arguing with a boss being like he is here. You may find something ‘wrong’ when he refuses to even try to steelman your pov.

    • @esperago
      @esperago 10 месяцев назад +2

      I would say that you and rich are almost objectively wrong. Rich's delivery is spot on... for addressing men. His delivery is 180 degrees incorrect for addressing women, unless his goal is to try and change their behavior via triggering them. I like Rich's delivery but I'm a dude who wants to get straight to the point, use logic, take responsibility and find solutions. What women has existed ~ever~ that doesn't just make excuses, that doesn't avoid responsibility, that is logical and just wants a straightforward solution rather than a shoulder to cry on? The answer: No women ever. I completely understand these women's point of view. They don't care what rich is saying because he's saying it like a man. The way men, unencumbered, communicate with other men. Rich is either ignorant or being purposely obtuse and deciding to pretend he doesn't know what these women mean. I found this video difficult to watch because their point was obvious: They are emotion basketcases that need to be mollycoddled and treated like toddlers. Speaking matter of factly doesn't work with women. So... I don't know why Rich has women like this on his show. He knows he won't/can't communicate with them and they'll just get triggered. Why bother? Not sure what Rich's goal is here.

    • @mdhazeldine
      @mdhazeldine 10 месяцев назад +2

      @@esperago His goal is to create controversy, embarrass women, pander to his male audience, drive up male viewership and make more money. Pretty obvious really. He's not dumb, he's just playing dumb.

  • @frankking439
    @frankking439 Год назад +52

    Neither Gillian or Jordan are looking for solutions, they are looking for affirmation because they refuse to take ownership of their past.

    • @jrb37300
      @jrb37300 6 месяцев назад

      That is correct. These women deflect and look for validation from others, by seeking those who affirm a lack of accountability on their part.

    • @amandlaawethu1538
      @amandlaawethu1538 5 месяцев назад

      They are looking for more of the same but with a twist

    • @Jass-b8h
      @Jass-b8h 3 месяца назад

      I wish we could interview her kids to see how great things are...

    • @michaelcavalier8750
      @michaelcavalier8750 3 месяца назад

      Jordan: It hasn't worked for me, so here are my buzzwords and catch phrases.

  • @MrAdeljas
    @MrAdeljas Год назад +111

    she is horrible...
    she tried to entangle Rich and extract an emotional reaction out of him..

    • @jimdandy8996
      @jimdandy8996 Год назад +3

      He took the bait and engaged her on her terms.

    • @ColmPadraig
      @ColmPadraig 9 месяцев назад

      ​@@jimdandy8996How should he handled it?

    • @jimdandy8996
      @jimdandy8996 9 месяцев назад +1

      @@ColmPadraig Reclaim the frame.

  • @olanderdecastro52
    @olanderdecastro52 Год назад +86

    There it is Rich! Once a woman brings out the name calling and insulting then you know you are the right place!

    • @janisjekabsons6252
      @janisjekabsons6252 Год назад +6

      The energy of discussion was - i am right, you are not. Once you project that outside, that can trigger ppl especially if they have their own wounds of self-esteem, etc. Defensiveness kicks in cuz no1 wants to be perceived as inadequate. Just hammering down the point mentally wont help when women are emotional. To bridge the gap, one needs to be able to hold space for them in order to reech the deep wounding and go from there. If women are too mental, logical, then their masculine side is dominating the feminine. And then conversation is basically between 2 men (1 man vs another in female body). Feelings do matter in discussion too cuz they indicate source of resistance to points being made. And that is the key to resolution

  • @Radtradcath
    @Radtradcath Год назад +91

    I've met women like Gillian, and they are a hard pass every time.

    • @David-wo9un
      @David-wo9un Год назад +11

      You are in good company which is why she is heading for the wall at 100mph and still single.

    • @RDA8191
      @RDA8191 Год назад

      Fk and chuck. Did it to hundreds of chicks like her, then I married a foreign stay at home wife. 8 years and 2 kids

    • @NoName-rl3fh
      @NoName-rl3fh Год назад +2

      Correct

    • @andyng5321
      @andyng5321 Год назад

      she is already 35, she is already passed the wall lol, not heading for the wall.@@David-wo9un

    • @andyng5321
      @andyng5321 Год назад +6

      she is already 35, she is already passed the wall lol, not heading for the wall.

  • @Son-of-Krypton
    @Son-of-Krypton Год назад +89

    Wonder why Gillian is single….
    She seems like a great catch 🙄

    • @emptysoul2757
      @emptysoul2757 Год назад +4

      She’s overweight and combative. Bad way to go

    • @PabloConcrete
      @PabloConcrete Год назад +8

    • @geoffjames6181
      @geoffjames6181 Год назад +10

      I see a controlling streak throughout her words.

    • @Mancer1980
      @Mancer1980 Год назад +5

      Imagine yourself out on a date with her, really, try to imagine it 😂

    • @emptysoul2757
      @emptysoul2757 Год назад +3

      @@Mancer1980 why put us through this? 😬

  • @BC-hmm
    @BC-hmm Год назад +58

    this episode was the closest to “Whatever” / “F&F” energy despite Rich and Moff NOT trying to do that.

  • @blairl6304
    @blairl6304 Год назад +43

    Excellent job by Rich holding frame. It takes a lot of discipline to dodge all those verbal insults and passive aggressive behavior and stick to the topic / question. Most men (this is why experience & frame for men is so important) would get sidetracked by one of those insults and allow her to take the conversation in a different direction. This is absolutely 100% a conscious tactic women employ, women develop these verbal judo techniques their entire lives because they don’t have any physical capability of aggression - what the ladies did in this video *is* how women fight, and Rich just bobbed and weaved and held frame.
    Excellent work, takes a lot of practice, self reflection, and discipline to do that.
    I can express enough how complimentary tiara is to Rich….man has really done the work. 👍👍👍👍

  • @jamesg1974a
    @jamesg1974a Год назад +50

    Not that I agree with everything Rich says but the girls clearly have their defense mechanisms up on full power. They can’t hear what is being said because they would have to take accountability. Yes we all make mistakes but they actually aren’t taking ownership of their decisions, it’s more like “oh well things happen”. Until you take actual accountability and truly understand you made poor choices you will never make the necessary changes.
    Gillian- yes you spent your time doing those things and it’s impacting what you’re searching for. Rich wants you to figure out HOW you are going to change your decision making in order to achieve a different result.

    • @ronhoek69
      @ronhoek69 Год назад +1

      Correct! She only wants to claim ownership about her communication skills, to be more open in the future. Well that's hardly the problem of course.
      On Rich calling Jordan Petersons work basic: that's not true. He just wants to distance him from Peterson to not sound like a follower.

    • @darbyohara
      @darbyohara 9 месяцев назад

      You cannot have a conversation with them as they are not genuinely entering in good faith

  • @ImBrockatron
    @ImBrockatron 10 месяцев назад +11

    i completely understand why gillian is still single at 35. she deserves it whole heartedly.

  • @cthulhurising4860
    @cthulhurising4860 Год назад +21

    When they can't counter the argument, they criticise the delivery

  • @TheStrategos392
    @TheStrategos392 Год назад +81

    Rich made a great point. When you have access to someone of a caliber of Rich Cooper, your best bet is to shut up and listen and process the information. You clearly are not getting the results that you want, but keep telling him he’s wrong. It’s like Michael Jordan mentors you in basketball, but you tell him he sucks. Stupid people never learn, they just want to hear themselves talk.

    • @rsimmons41407
      @rsimmons41407 Год назад +5

      Truth!

    • @Astuga
      @Astuga Год назад +5

      But, but feelings...

    • @TILLEYJS
      @TILLEYJS Год назад +4

      Same as Kevin Samuels. Rich just started doing this so there's not hours upon hours of proof. But women see Kevin's shows and still argue with him.
      I never understood how they never recognized the patterns almost immediately and at least took a different conversation approach. They never did.

    • @ChrisPTY507
      @ChrisPTY507 Год назад +1

      They usually learn when a degree of disorder and wrecking affects their life in a way me sign ful enough for them to actually self analyze and update their belief system.
      Hence the reason why I stopped wasting time arguing with people long ago.

    • @samjon6403
      @samjon6403 Год назад +1

      Great point. That proves these wommen not taking accountability and planning to change

  • @daveblackman816
    @daveblackman816 Год назад +59

    “I feel like…” “I feel”
    Yeah this Gillian girl is all over the place lol. All in her feelings. And very defensive.

    • @Astuga
      @Astuga Год назад +2

      Well, she said at least two times "I dont know".
      We should give her credit for that, because it was the truth. 😉

    • @pierrelevasseur2701
      @pierrelevasseur2701 Год назад +1

      That stood out to me too. Shouldn't you know by now? If you don't know, I surmise you are trying to know and why you are consulting with Rich. Yet, you dismiss him. He's trying to help, make you see the light but making an excuse as to why you shouldn't follow his advice. Until you take a good, long look inside yourself, you still won't know and things will remain the same.

    • @perrycoffey5410
      @perrycoffey5410 11 месяцев назад

      Female nature

  • @weeevan3078
    @weeevan3078 Год назад +8

    When a woman calls me an asshole I always take that as a compliment.

  • @Calvin_Flidais
    @Calvin_Flidais Год назад +10

    If someone is more concerned with how something is being said vs what is actually being said it just shows me that they want some sort of sympathy for their situation and not a solution.

  • @Disinformation_Hoax
    @Disinformation_Hoax Год назад +49

    This Gillian dude is great. Although he's got a strange thing with this empathy thing. Funny guy.

  • @johnyaniuk1254
    @johnyaniuk1254 Год назад +43

    Gillian doesn't like Rich's delivery of information because she is so used to the way the woke crowd drives their narratives today. And that way is to deliver messages full of emotions that make sure the outcome is all happy happy joy joy for the Recipient's ears and feelings which may not necessarily be good for the effective delivery of the message. Classic case of 'I feel' vs 'I think' difference between a man and woman.

    • @JF-vw9lv
      @JF-vw9lv Год назад +3

      i guess she didnt manifest hard enough Rich's response to be rainbows and lollipops

    • @moazsharfuddin2697
      @moazsharfuddin2697 Год назад

      That is why women will always be less intelligent than men. Intelligence is progressive accumulation of greater and greater knowledge; who can overlook unpleasantness for a bit of time will accumulate more knowledge. For example, a college graduate student doesn't require colorful textbooks to comprehend complex data. Words are quite enough. In fact, the very best students don't even require fully explained theses. Their intuition is so sharp even data hinted at are sniffed out, digested, analyzed, and reproduced to suit particular circumstances.
      Of all women, post-feminism women are the least intelligent, because they are very, very bad at self-preservation. These types have been indoctrinated to lock themselves in the mental prison of gendered paradigms. Most lead miserable lives of quiet desperation and severely harm any children unlucky enough to be in their care.

    • @associatealpha1166
      @associatealpha1166 Год назад +2

      And her daily horoscope crystals and rocks

  • @georgeharvey3062
    @georgeharvey3062 10 месяцев назад +9

    Let’s just face it Gillian wants to be cuddled and be absolved of her past mistakes without owning them. This is typical emotional thinking. Kudos to Rich for holding his composure and holding her feet to the fire.

  • @jamesgeist9535
    @jamesgeist9535 Год назад +24

    Personally I don't blame children of single moms. I could easily care for and protect any child. I can't trust the mothers. The children lose. I don't care who's the father. They are children. The mothers seem more focused on their own needs rather than the child.

    • @alex-p
      @alex-p Год назад +4

      You don't care who's the father, but if you date a single mother you would have to deal with the father of her kids too... I hope you are aware of that

    • @slchance8839
      @slchance8839 Год назад

      The single mothers have proven that they've failed at the single most important decision, commitment, and relationship of their lives. It shows a track record of very bad judgement.

    • @arthurdevrome8925
      @arthurdevrome8925 11 месяцев назад

      If you consider this, look at the experience of men who were in this situation.
      Baby daddies give a lot of drama. You can pay for the kids. No authority, they say you're not the father. And when baby daddie comes visit he will be the saviour.

  • @ShamarServices
    @ShamarServices 10 месяцев назад +6

    She does not like how it made her feel. TRUTH is a hard pill to swallow. Do you see her at anytime taking any responsibility? Victim mindset !

    • @sgtlucifer6883
      @sgtlucifer6883 8 месяцев назад

      - i pity the fella that has to tolerate that gal.
      - anyone know the city she lives in, so i can stay 2,000 miles away.

  • @jfloyo11
    @jfloyo11 10 месяцев назад +6

    "im having fun being single" - words of a double baby momma. Every single mom I ever come across I tell them this one thing...you should be worried about what your kids are going to think when they grow up and what they are going to think of you and your decision making. Single moms always seem to worry about the wrong things.

  • @karenoyama8950
    @karenoyama8950 Год назад +13

    Patience is a virtue to be desired, and you have certainly demonstrated it today! 😊

  • @gooberfishin
    @gooberfishin Год назад +23

    I've had conversations with my kid about why things are hard at work, his first professional job, where I say that he isn't doing things his supervisor expects, with lots and lots of deflection. Getting him to understand that it's his choice to not do these things is what's holding him back is a tough nut to crack! My opinion is that Rich asked the women how they hold themselves accountable, that's all. They then spent 10 minutes deflecting the conversation to avoid answering that. Grown ups acting like 13 year olds isn't a good look for anyone.

    • @mikeyblaze
      @mikeyblaze 4 месяца назад

      Is there any way you could of possibly modeled that behavior? Or their other parent? Adults don't act that way unless they were around that behavior as children

    • @gooberfishin
      @gooberfishin 4 месяца назад

      Ha ha ha! Yeah. Young men respond to that totally.

  • @brandonmcalpin9228
    @brandonmcalpin9228 Год назад +17

    She wants you to be an emotional tampon and not hold them accountable or shift the focus onto them rather than on the external thing they blame their problems on. I’ve experienced this in nearly every relationship. The moment you hold them accountable, they start lashing out, name calling, gaslighting and verbally abusing you. If it persists, they smear your name in the mud, call you abusive and a narcissist. I’ve tried the “nicer way”, listening intently, asking questions and being soft and gentle, but the moment I try to get them to take accountability, no matter how kindly I do it, no matter how many hours I’ve listened to their problems, they can not take ownership of anything. Moral of the story? You can either be an emotional tampon or you can hold them accountable, but you can’t do both because the result will be the same.

    • @TILLEYJS
      @TILLEYJS Год назад +2

      Exactly. Holding yourself or others accountable isn't pretty but is definitely needed. That's why most people, especially women, can't handle it. No one has been honest with them a day in their life.

    • @associatealpha1166
      @associatealpha1166 Год назад

      Its seen as “judgement” and thats the cardinal sin of efminism

  • @jasonjohnvoigt
    @jasonjohnvoigt Год назад +25

    She got a hook in Rich.
    The moment you started validating & justifying based on “the thousands of people you’ve coached for $5,000 buckaroos” you lost.
    You’re human, emotions are a thing.

    • @ronhoek69
      @ronhoek69 Год назад +6

      That was a weak response indeed.

    • @Iliketurtlezz
      @Iliketurtlezz Год назад +6

      which mongo would pay 5000 for an hour. Please tell me this is a larp. Wtf.

    • @markyontz9119
      @markyontz9119 Год назад +1

      Because someone paid Rich a lot of money for his advice doesn't mean his advice is good, or that I would believe it was good.

    • @jasonjohnvoigt
      @jasonjohnvoigt Год назад

      For the most part & I’d say 90% of Riches mentoring is solid.
      Humans are fallible!
      But this walking red flag got to him.

    • @jinkazama2555
      @jinkazama2555 Год назад

      then go marry Gillian, since overweight, tattoed whales with an attitude are your type :)

  • @22448824
    @22448824 Год назад +10

    No one is going to pay Rich Cooper 5000 to be told “make a dent in the universe “ or “make good bank”.

    • @ronhoek69
      @ronhoek69 Год назад

      People who pay him are already busy making dents but are still plugged-in betas.

    • @darbyohara
      @darbyohara 9 месяцев назад

      Exactly. He might have some utility in debt or entrepreneurship but it’s not worth 5k per hour. Maybe 300

    • @yambagnelson9987
      @yambagnelson9987 2 месяца назад +1

      @@darbyohara I highly, highly doubt he is making that. Even if you look at it as marketing, why would someone who makes $5k an hour spend time doing these panels? if they spent 4 hours a day with their consulting gig that is $20k a day or $100k per week. There is no way he is making that. These red pill guys who try to run self help consulting gigs need come off as successful or no one would buy their program.. They all do it. Fresh and fit, sartain, rich, even wes watson. Its all smoke and mirrors.

    • @darbyohara
      @darbyohara 2 месяца назад

      @@yambagnelson9987 I agree. A lot is marketing and bs

  • @nickc3250
    @nickc3250 Год назад +6

    Shame, insults, guilt the need to be right!
    Gillian seems like a keeper!
    😂😂😂😂

  • @asdfdc1946
    @asdfdc1946 Год назад +6

    11:00 i can answer Gillian's question... sometimes there's nothing you can do about past mistakes. especially with women when it comes to age. you can't turn back time. so you have to live with your earlier choices FOREVER. your standards in men will remain high, your value will decrease the older you get & eventually you will price yourself out of the dating marketplace because the men you want won't be willing to buy what you're selling at your age. dating you for a high value man would be like buying a bottle of near-spoiled milk from the store where the expiration date is tomorrow. men ain't doing that, they'll just date younger. so you have to live with the choices you made forever.

  • @SuperRampage69
    @SuperRampage69 Год назад +6

    Oh my, your delivery is fantastic for men. For women your delivery is hard because they lack accountability.

  • @christiancanan4057
    @christiancanan4057 Год назад +22

    "Whatever happens..happens"... thats exactly how she ended up single, 2 kids from 2 different dudes

    • @NoName-rl3fh
      @NoName-rl3fh Год назад +2

      Yes. It is by definitely taking Zero ownership of her future yet she and the other cougar get hissyfits when it is pointed out.

    • @jpb9524
      @jpb9524 Год назад +3

      Just go with your feelings and “live your truth” # Agents Of Chaos # Slaves To Emotions

    • @blacklyfe5543
      @blacklyfe5543 Год назад +1

      Ewww

    • @PeterShaw-ne1yq
      @PeterShaw-ne1yq 11 месяцев назад +1

      Clearly it happened twice 🎉

  • @richhand930
    @richhand930 9 месяцев назад +2

    GILLIAN! Well done, really. You held your completely valid point with calmness and intelligence while Rich tried to twist out of it and change the angle. Rich is certainly condescending. Seems the guys commenting on here are so hooked in that they can't see this.

  • @ScottDeSalvo
    @ScottDeSalvo Год назад +7

    She got emotional when Rich points out the negative outcomes are a result of values, beliefs, and actions.
    In other words, the women on the panel disagreed with Rich about particular conclusions, but they are not making the connection that the contra opinions, beliefs, values, and therefore decisions That they are holding onto are the reason why they have had sub optimal outcomes in their lives.
    Instead of letting her drawn out about her feelings, and how she’s offended with his delivery at Cetera, I wish Rich would just have said the following:
    My message and tone Are not intended to denigrate you as a human being. If I didn’t think you had value, I wouldn’t be willing to spend my time to try and help you.
    What you weren’t seeing is that you are holding onto ideas and values which lead to bad decisions and those bad decisions are the things I’m reminding you of when you keep holding onto the bad values and ideas and decisions. I’m not pointing out your bad outcome to make you feel bad about yourself. I’m pointing them out so that you will make the connection that your bad outcome didn’t spring out of the air, it was the logical result of values and actions which do not serve the outcome you say you want.
    In other words, you say you want a particular outcome, but your actions and values and behaviors inevitably lead you down a different path. So until the values and beliefs and actions change, you will never reach the outcome that you want.

  • @maladyofdeath
    @maladyofdeath Год назад +6

    This is an excellent demonstration for all men out here who are wondering about pursuing a relationship with a 30+ year old. Peace is worth more than diamonds or gold.

  • @Ghostdogsurvivalist
    @Ghostdogsurvivalist Год назад +7

    Anton Chigurh : [Chuckles] Alright. Let me ask you something. If the rule you followed brought you to this, of what use was the rule?

  • @waykiwayki
    @waykiwayki Год назад +10

    when girl is trying to be held accountable they always slip into some sort of "are you happy / how is your mum / you lalala grey emotional criticism with no substance." Debating these people is like purple = fish. It's good to expose but would drive me crazy. They moan about a mans tone - in a really nasty tone.....lol. Get ur passports amigos.

  • @ivanr4300
    @ivanr4300 Год назад +3

    That woman was deeply offended and she started getting personal.
    We don’t want sugar coating from Rich!
    He says it like it is, and that’s how we alphas like it!!
    You’re awesome Rich!!

  • @jpb9524
    @jpb9524 Год назад +14

    It’s not what Rich is saying it’s how he said it … 🤣😂 … what he’s saying makes them “feel” bad, so they reject it … although he’s spot on.
    Also holding them accountable for their decisions means “your judging them!” Don’t judge me for being a single mom to 2 dads … it makes me feel bad!

  • @skep8376
    @skep8376 Год назад +6

    “Life is tough, get a helmet 🪖, Gillian!”

  • @ungenerationed9022
    @ungenerationed9022 11 месяцев назад +4

    "Failure is a wicked teacher."
    ~Jim Schwartz

  • @brucetownsend691
    @brucetownsend691 Год назад +20

    The basic problem here is not the way the message is delivered, it’s that some mistakes can be fixed but others cannot. No one can offer a solution to a 35 year old single career woman belatedly looking to settle down and have a family. No one can offer a solution to a tattooed single Mum with two kids by different men now looking for a good man. There is no solution on an individual level that has a high chance of working for them. One cannot change one’s past. If they radically changed their attitudes, which is very difficult, it will only improve their prospects of finding what they seek by a small amount. The only thing that is definitely of use to a such person is understanding and compassion.
    For others, these women have become examples of what not to do. The useful advice is not for them but for society and young women who have not yet created such intractable problems for themselves.

    • @TILLEYJS
      @TILLEYJS Год назад +6

      I agree with this assessment. Their response, I'm sure, would be....I made a mistake.
      They don't recognize what a big fucking mistake it is. Yes I murdered someone but I was 20..... You're getting judged by everyone on that the rest of your life.

    • @arthurdevrome8925
      @arthurdevrome8925 11 месяцев назад

      They should be teaching at schools, young girls, what NOT to do. Then their life does have meaning.

    • @brucetownsend691
      @brucetownsend691 11 месяцев назад

      @@arthurdevrome8925 Correct. They used to do that. The problem is that Feminists have pushed young girls into following a path that will put them in this very bad situation in life. By the time women realise the advice was bad it’s too late.

  • @patlacroix5111
    @patlacroix5111 Год назад +16

    That Gillian one is insufferable... keep rolling those eyes like a teenager...

    • @salguodrolyat2594
      @salguodrolyat2594 Год назад +5

      She is showing in glorious technicolour why she is still single.🤣🤣

  • @patrickhickey4029
    @patrickhickey4029 Год назад +4

    I am still not the man I want to be, but years back I had a man like Rich break me down and point out hard to swallow facts about why I was failing to live to my potential. When I shut up and took it and reflected on it I changed for the better. Hard to do? Yes. Worth it? Yes. Unfortunately it's time a lot of us grow up and learn to absorb a little bit of rough and tumble talk.

  • @NUKEzx10r
    @NUKEzx10r Год назад +4

    Emotions. Sometimes you have to bite the bullet and realize they simply get in the way of the solutions.

  • @ScramTek
    @ScramTek Год назад +3

    Same convo we’ve heard a thousand times before. They’re incapable of hearing the intent of the message, and they lack any objective awareness.
    Regardless of what is said, women will deny the proposal. If making a statement about averages with the proviso that the claim is abstract and does not include anyone in this dialogue, the women will immediately state that this doesn’t apply to them in particular, so the generalisation is invalid.
    Even if their denial unintentionally turns out to be a confirmation of the proposal, the woman will still insist that the proposal is incorrect and they are indeed a unicorn.
    They literally cannot stop themselves from behaving this way. They’re categorically unable to cede any ground at all. Innately allergic to being in agreement with any masculine claim, no matter how minuscule, inoffensive and innocuous the association might be

  • @sj122s
    @sj122s Год назад +11

    Jordan and Gillian will end up sitting alone on a couch surrounded by cats...

    • @darbyohara
      @darbyohara 9 месяцев назад

      They can get a man but it’ll be an average beta or short term thing.

  • @jamesboysuk9351
    @jamesboysuk9351 11 месяцев назад +2

    I will never date a single mother again. I have done it three times, and every time during the period of the relationship, the woman never respects the man when it come time to discipline the children.

  • @iMrPlenty
    @iMrPlenty Год назад +8

    5k an hour for a private consul, that's about 2 months worth of the average mans time. 1 hour of Rich's time is worth 2 months of the average mans time.

    • @frenchmime1972
      @frenchmime1972 Год назад

      his life is full of a lot of bad decisions, anyone who pays that is an idiot.

    • @theoneandonly3499
      @theoneandonly3499 Год назад +6

      Agreed. As much as I agree with Rich (like it matters to him LOL) I would never pay that much money. Better just buy his book and make up your own mind and some research.

    • @SilviaLampa
      @SilviaLampa Год назад +7

      Definition of a scammer

    • @Drumbeat52
      @Drumbeat52 Год назад +4

      If a guy is paying him $5,000 an hour then he must have money. Tells me that even guys with money can't figure women out. Will that $5,000 payment even change the payer's way of dealing with women? To me, women are a liability in every manner and I handle them as a business arrangement, no profit then no investment from my end.

    • @SilviaLampa
      @SilviaLampa Год назад

      @@Drumbeat52 men are have always been like children. This is why they need a maid and sexual slave to cook and clean for them

  • @corieblake3450
    @corieblake3450 7 месяцев назад +2

    Imagine hanging around Gillian and jordan you would have an aneurysm

  • @user-vg8ox3he1i
    @user-vg8ox3he1i Год назад +5

    This format isnt ideal. There are too many women. Too many ways to deflect. Rich you may want to consider one on on or maximum 2 women at a time

  • @rockinstrumentalcovers2063
    @rockinstrumentalcovers2063 Год назад +6

    He might be “old” but he has a girl and options, Gillian is 35 and that in fact is to be old for a woman to be single and has no options and surely she wouldn’t have cause that attitude is getting her no where

    • @David-wo9un
      @David-wo9un Год назад +4

      Gillian’s only option at this point is a P&D; she is so unpleasant and argumentative that nobody would want to be around her for a substantial amount of time. I find it hard yo believe the 24 year old from her most recent past considered her a “serious” option.

    • @NoName-rl3fh
      @NoName-rl3fh Год назад +2

      By her logic Jeff Bezos and Elon Musk are just some "old dudes with a girlfriend." Yeah? So is Tony Stark. Fail.

  • @alexandermikhailov2481
    @alexandermikhailov2481 Год назад +8

    11:54 Rich, you have been my virtual mentor and I’m surprised you suggested to a female to set her feelings aside. Women can never do that. They even invented the formula: it doesn’t matter what a person did for you, it matters how they made you feel - an absurd concept but women live by it

  • @TheMultiGunMan
    @TheMultiGunMan Год назад +3

    Women pointing and sputtering at things they don't like.

  • @Camera1931-p5v
    @Camera1931-p5v Год назад +5

    Great job Rich! In school you get a report card, and in life you make a report card!

  • @jmueller8081
    @jmueller8081 Год назад +10

    Jordan WAS accurate on her point about the definition of stonewalling. Rich got cornered and then felt he had to pull out the career success cards to try to hold frame.

  • @inquisitor4635
    @inquisitor4635 Год назад +6

    Jordan let's out snarky reaction at the phrase "culinary skills".

  • @bulelanibaqwa
    @bulelanibaqwa Год назад +6

    Handled like a true alpha!

  • @sheriffrobb3046
    @sheriffrobb3046 Год назад +2

    He certainly is more intelligent and valuable. He’s helped and mentored so many people hundreds if not thousands; he certainly is valuable

    • @darbyohara
      @darbyohara 9 месяцев назад

      That can be objectively proven

  • @Connectronix
    @Connectronix Год назад +4

    Geez!!!
    How does Rich even find the patience to talk to these women?! 🙄
    He asked her the same question 6 times and she still couldn’t answer it!
    🤦🏻‍♂️

  • @bdubs6710
    @bdubs6710 Год назад +21

    I think the greatest disservice ever done was leading women to believe they are as intelligent as men

    • @rayraysphone
      @rayraysphone Год назад +8

      Men did this. We did. Behind every entitled woman is a line of simps who lied to her.

    • @summerfields6350
      @summerfields6350 Год назад

      If men were highly intelligent then there wouldn't be feminism. It wouldn't exists.

    • @topshelfmen
      @topshelfmen Год назад

      @@rayraysphone Beta-Cucks, did it! Unfortunately Men are in short supply in the West.

    • @NoName-rl3fh
      @NoName-rl3fh Год назад +1

      "Let me tell you a secret about women: they're smarter than you think they are. ...BUT they're Not as smart as They... think they are.........."

    • @GelliElli
      @GelliElli Год назад

      Actually they can be but their emotions overtake everything which you could argue is also less intelligent.

  • @demonspeed7353
    @demonspeed7353 10 месяцев назад +1

    The 35-year-old is single because she's argumentative and seems like she'd be insufferable to be in a relationship with. The tatted single mother with two different baby daddies is a promiscuous woman that has unresolved mental issues. Either one is a bad bet.

  • @RearviewMirror-ij2pr
    @RearviewMirror-ij2pr Год назад +3

    Most people cannot put the emotion aside and listen to the message(s). A great example of this is family feuds. Most people are too soft-therefore nothing will change about them.

  • @Rence38
    @Rence38 Год назад +4

    Lol she is so clueless! Typical Karen

  • @nightfangs2910
    @nightfangs2910 Год назад +3

    Women always tell on themselves, unless those 2 women have a complete change of heart they will be alone with their cats in their old age

  • @stanlyqbrick1621
    @stanlyqbrick1621 Год назад +1

    a woman sensitivity is a major stop sign for getting to the the destination of accountability.

  • @joebloggs8292
    @joebloggs8292 Год назад +9

    God that was painful!

  • @Jch833
    @Jch833 Год назад +1

    I have no plans, I’m single and just kind of having fun, and blah blah blah… Translation… I have no standards, I have no plan, I continually make bad decisions, and I expect all my dreams to come true.

  • @davekilgannon6965
    @davekilgannon6965 7 месяцев назад

    My wife and I have been together for almost 35 years. Our 30th wedding anniversary will be this August. Friendship, love, respect, kindness, attraction and compassionship are core tennents of strong relationships. We don't compete with each other. We collaborate with and complement each other.

  • @amadeuss3341
    @amadeuss3341 Год назад +1

    2 kids from 2 dads - is not a past mistake, it's ongoing one...

  • @kevinobrien3888
    @kevinobrien3888 Год назад +3

    “I don’t have solutions. I just want to complain at how awful men are”

  • @Junoj101
    @Junoj101 Год назад +1

    when a man argues he uses facts and logic, and the objective is to show the other side just that. The moment that the other person is able to agree with the man - is when the man wins.
    When a woman argues she uses emotions, and the objective is to make the other person become emotionally unstable . The moment the other person becomes emotional is when she wins.
    Gillian is using the classic approach to arguing, she does not care about the facts because she does not have anything to say about them, so she goes for emotional argument. If she knew Rich for a long time she could use some other shaming thing from the past. The point is that it does not matter what she uses (and she will use anything she can) as long has she is able to make Rich emotional.
    This is something that women have evolved to utilize very efficiently. Most men don't understand how this works, and loose the argument that way. Gillian is single for a reason - she simply is not capable of providing a man with peace. No high value man that has options is going to argue with a 35 year old post wall about how she is offended by how he packaged the message.

  • @stanlyqbrick1621
    @stanlyqbrick1621 8 месяцев назад +1

    Jordon scoffed at culinary skills. But due to the programming she is completely unaware of how important knowing nutrition is to her children/family health and growth.

  • @nigelbowler1601
    @nigelbowler1601 Год назад +16

    All I can say Rich is spot on mate period.

  • @emanthechamp
    @emanthechamp Год назад +3

    This interaction is the corporate environment in a nutshell LOL

  • @Mark-vq9sy
    @Mark-vq9sy Год назад +1

    When modern women disagree with what you are saying and don't have any rational/logical arguments - they question "HOW" the information is being shared. Gillian tells Rich "It's not what you are saying - it's how you're saying it" and "You sound like an A$$hole." but she makes no rational/logical argument. She is telling Rich that he should talk more like a woman. Women saying "You're wrong because what you are saying makes me feel bad" is not an argument.

  • @STJavelin-dc4wf
    @STJavelin-dc4wf Год назад +1

    I am currently dating a 18yo as a older gentleman. Ive done some very "manly" things in my life (semi pro rugby player, fought in 2 diff wars, volunteered for a foreign legion, and came to Christ and humbled self through him). I still keep fit, make over 6, and keep a humble home. . . I don't act like an old man or talk like one. . .
    With that said...
    I can see past womens flak as easily as a person is intent to do harm to others; and two of these ladies are putting flak up for a solid 10 minutes! I felt like I was a british bomber over Berlin in WW2!!
    Jeeeeezz😂 🎉🎉🎉 ✈ 🛩
    Ladies- us seasoned gents know the game! We are telling our younger selves the game. You better wise up because we have!

  • @marshkid1
    @marshkid1 10 месяцев назад

    Tough love. It may hurt in the moment, but actually helps when you have more time to reflect.

  • @ravendronesolutions
    @ravendronesolutions 14 дней назад +1

    Women like Gillian aren’t looking for solutions. She doesn’t understand that to move forward in life she needs to accept the fact that she made mistakes, be accountable and fix herself.

  • @vijnewnew
    @vijnewnew Год назад +7

    Why I think she is going to post a video on tiktok describing how she destroyed a misogynist man with her arguments based on feelings?😄..... A 35 year old single, argumentative woman is equal to a bum living with his parents.

  • @xNobleSavagex
    @xNobleSavagex Год назад +1

    9:41 "For some reason you keep asserting yourself as more intelligent than me!" Uhm...did I just hear that? Please tell me I didn't just hear this person say that. Dude, that is EMBARRASSING. It's cringy. Rich, it's truly beneath someone of your stature to have a substantive discussion with a person like this. Nothing will ever get through to her.

  • @desiree8476
    @desiree8476 Год назад +3

    Women can’t handle the cold hard truth.. plain and simple. If they could, they wouldn’t argue about how the TRUTH IS DELIVERED! My goodness… Rich & Moff.. the amount of patience you two have when dealing with us women is admirable! Thank you!

  • @scottcurran1483
    @scottcurran1483 Год назад +4

    …..and that’s why Gillian is single…..

  • @girlwiththepinkscarf.
    @girlwiththepinkscarf. 3 месяца назад

    As a woman I agree with Rich! At first it took me a while to understand his point of view but he has valid points.

  • @MorganTDaniels
    @MorganTDaniels Год назад +2

    You are not misunderstanding things. She is miscommunication. She does not even own her words.

  • @mrbarbadosfrombirthonelove2344
    @mrbarbadosfrombirthonelove2344 Год назад +4

    Women want to be talk too like children…and then shame an insult you

  • @jamesboysuk9351
    @jamesboysuk9351 11 месяцев назад +1

    Plus, when the child talks back to the man and he tries to discipline, the woman will yell at you and the child then that means she’s treating you like a child instead of respecting you like a man

  • @Dagm1111
    @Dagm1111 2 месяца назад

    The truth will set you free ladies. Take responsibility.

  • @hoobeydoobey1267
    @hoobeydoobey1267 11 месяцев назад +1

    Everything is wrong and weird to Gillian. It's the way narcissists are. She can't fathom being the one in error.

  • @dixienormus7452
    @dixienormus7452 Год назад +5

    Get used to them cats Gillian lol

  • @alvinperlas
    @alvinperlas Год назад

    I heard Rich Cooper loud and clear. No bullshit, straight to the point

  • @thelookofahero15
    @thelookofahero15 Год назад +1

    That was gaslighting… 😂

  • @BreezeeGreenz
    @BreezeeGreenz Год назад +3

    Rich should've shut her down when it became obvious she was making her argument in bad faith. She wasted what, ten whole minutes of the podcast? Never argue with someone who is arguing in bad faith and whose only real point is "You know, I don't like you."

    • @darbyohara
      @darbyohara 9 месяцев назад +1

      Exactly. She couldn’t provide a valid criticism on his ideas

  • @dungeonmasterelite2
    @dungeonmasterelite2 Год назад +4

    Wow, I can't imagine why she's single...😂😂😂

  • @marquezscott2903
    @marquezscott2903 11 месяцев назад

    I like the way you held your frame Rich. Lead by example 💯