Assalam o Alaikum, I am a homeschooling mother myself for years and been counseling people as well. I very much agree with Mr. Salman Asif. He is doing an exceptional work. He is absolutely right that kids need time with their parents the most, it is extremely important for their development. And once they are grown, their minds are mature they thrive comparatively better than their peers in the real world. Kids who work with their parents and grand parents at home learn life skills which never fails or disappoints them in life.
Ive tried to home school my baby but failed. He didnot listen to me. Now ive three mashallah but i want to but kids dont cooperate . How to make it possible????
@@nas603 Like Mr Salman rightfully mentioned that when you become a mother you have all the skills by default that you need to nurture and educate your child. So, have faith. It is undoubtedly a long and tedious ride but it sure is equally fulfilling and reassuring one.
Hosts should research the ideologies and messaging of the guest when inviting them to have a meaningful conversation. It was a good talk on Salman Siddiqui's part. He has mastered the art. The parents who can't homeschool for whatever reason just make sure that you have created a good mahol for your child, you value taqwa at home, you value Allah's obedience at home, be a good role model. That is all.
I am also a homeschooling mother and very satisfied with my choice. I am a PTTC graduate from ERDC and i am so proud that Sir Salman Asif sadiiqi is the most inspirational teacher i have ever learned from. I did my Phd from Texas A & M, USA, after listening to him i changed my mind as i alwas had this feeling that there is something wrong with the schools, Alkhumdulilallah Allah opened my heart and brain after that. Host should have at least listened to his lectures before putting questions which i think is very essential if you are asking a famous personality to join your podcast. Secondly, with due respect keep a distance bw your mouth and mike as your ammmm, ammm voice during all podcast was annoying. And in the lastly thankyou for this podcast as i loved it because my mentor Sir Salman was in it . JzakumAllah Kher
@@nousheenkhan5399 dear sister homeschooling is not bringing school at home, it means we will keep our children away from everything which happens in schools. As for as cariculum is concerned as homeschoolers have alot of time they can cover different cariculums by themselves. They take responsibility for their studies and we are their to help them with the things they need ,🥰and providing the proper environment at home.
I live in Toronto, Canada ! Due to the school environment, which is against our religious beliefs ! I have decided to start my 7 year old's home schooling ! I think it's the best thing for our children ❤
Alhamdulillah, I am also a homeschooling mother of teenage children here in Toronto, Canada. My children have never attended traditional school, and I made this decision consciously, having grown up here myself and understanding the educational environment. I chose to provide my children with a personalized, faith-based education at home. By the grace of Allah, my children are not only well-educated in academic subjects but are also deeply grounded in beneficial knowledge, particularly Islamic teachings. They are well-informed about the world around them, and Alhamdulillah, I have seen them grow into curious, knowledgeable individuals, fully aware of their identity and values.
Animal psychiatry part.....😮 Sir.... Thank you so much for giving us this light....insight...n thoughtfulness... Family bonding...bond with nature...with our surroundings...exposure... experience..these key factors...thank you so much for reminding...n thanks...you simplified the things..
Intehai madalal guftugu, ALLAAH badshah merey Ustad e Mohtaram ko alaa zindagi ata karey. as a father of two I totally second his points, and deep down everyone knows what really happened to them in early years of their lives, and how schools were actually the torture cells, emotional most of the time physical seldom and 6 hours of a non stop artificial competition of game which I didn't choose, but I had to run. Till the age of 14,15 who knows what, why and how? but we tell them the what, we tell them why and when they become carbon copy of us we say ALLAAH!!! what a terrible mistake we have made. I believe the fear of unschooling is way more than unschooling itself. May ALLAAH badshah protect us and our children from the wrong knowledge and make us steadfast to the right path. ameen summa ameen
my son is 3 years old now and he has learned so many things at home easily somtims m surprised how much intellgent childrens are and when these children go to schol we get call almost evry weak your child isnt listening he dsnt learn etc so the prblms isnt in child its we who teach them in the wrong way .we give schol an intellgent kid nd in return we get a cnfised and low intellect low cnfident poor self esteem person .while we spending a huge amount of money on school expenses .in the end we have nthng neither money nor a normal child who is abel earn a bread for himself.
Very nice and i was literally waiting for such session but we have to have more such sessions.. But really needed online sessions for our kids like homeschooling bcoz we parent also need concilling at the same time n we need to be Anged in such sessions on line .. Most benefit is Our today and our tomorrow after death .. He teaches so nicely / humbly.. We need such more teachers in today’s world… JazakAllah khair Qaseerah stay blessed Ever Ameen
Assalam o Alaikum.i would suggest the host to read a child story...My Mouth is a volcano by julia Cook.if he cant get it personally contact me i will provide insha'Allah.May Allah bless Sir Salman khair in both worlds indeed a gem he is.
Please post it at our official address, we are here to learn. Youth Matters - 1st Floor Plot 144/1-3-B, Banker Cooperative Housing Society, Block B Bankers Town, Lahore, Punjab 54800
i have few doubts ..first thing i dont have pateince and i feel frustrated if left with kids work alone and what aboout working parents.. how to enter mbbs or any specific feild ..do they accept homeschooling what about a housewife who has full responsiblity of house chores and in laws ... how can she manage all with becoming a maniac or bp pateint.. i am guessing these works for a peaceful family where husband amd wife both live like a true companion without having financial issue to keep the maids for other chores ...and wife has to leave her career right if she is working
regulations for school starting age of kids pe kaam ho like no kids should have to go to school before 6 koi grade es terhan na ho schools main AI integration pe baat ho jis time ka reference diya ja reha ha that's 300 years ago...we can't live or learn according to that age...
And what if ur dependent on susral as well as ur husband And they dont even consider the WORD education ! Either if its school or home based... Im trying for 4 years to make them on the line But nowww... I realized, kids immetate .they learn what they see .. I now need to leave everything 😢 and go for a morning walk
Ustad e Mohtram Samnay baithay hon aur Host kabi Dakaar lay aur kabbi gee sy Jawab dainay ki bajaiye Hhm hhhmm karay tou Fadeed bhai thora Respect ka Muzahira karain bro, Etiquette is more important than knowledge or Skill. Excellent Topic, best Choice of Guest No offence!
اینکر صاحب کو بہتر انداز اپنانے کی ضرورت ہے، اُن کے مجموعی attitude نے مجھے بطور ناظر و سامع بہت تنگ کیا ہے۔ اور میں حیران ہوں کہ مہمان کی بات پر ذرا غور نہیں کیا جارہا محض اپنے نام نہاد practical سوالات کئیے جارہے ہیں، Very Disappointing, you people need to correct yourself!
which school claim the responsibility of tarbiyah!none then why are we cursing them here for not providing them eg jannat ki kosish or maa baap ki khidmat their objective is academics and social skills... and yes there are many othrr faults in the education system unkay solutions ki baat ho tou wo zayada productive hota...
9-5 job krne wale isko insult smjhte hain k hmara bacha school na jaye coz unko logon ko jawab dena parta hai or wo khud bhi dusron se aise hi sawal krte hain k agar aap school nhi bhejte to kia krte hain? I myself homeschooling my kids and people think that they're punished at home 😂 they're like wo accept nhi krengy jb aap regular school may daalengy Bhai mai q daalungi mjhe daalna hi nhi lol!
The continuous feedback of humm, acha, ok, etc. sounded like a broken record. The host should take a few lectures of journalism or listen to a few videos on youtube out of hundreds of millions of interviews available to know how to conduct an interview. It was so annoying that i had to stop listening to what looked like a great session after few minutes only.
Hmm hmmm, haan haan, theek hai, bilkul ka punga har 3 second mein bajna khatam ho to na kuch insan ko peacefully samajhne ka mauqa mile. Extremely annoying.. This video must be re uploaded after trimming the punga
Parents must take action in school for their environment... they must check ND visit to meet their teachers regularly.Allah is great to gave birth a baby in a proper form.so boy or girl must not change their sex.teachers keep eye on them.... students must give proper attention to their studies rather than to their useless talk ND behavior 😢
Assalam o Alaikum, I am a homeschooling mother myself for years and been counseling people as well. I very much agree with Mr. Salman Asif. He is doing an exceptional work. He is absolutely right that kids need time with their parents the most, it is extremely important for their development. And once they are grown, their minds are mature they thrive comparatively better than their peers in the real world. Kids who work with their parents and grand parents at home learn life skills which never fails or disappoints them in life.
What if mother and father has financial issues and both needs to work? What should they do then????
agreed mashallah!
I’d love to do the same but I’m at a loss to do so. I feel like I don’t have the right skills.
Ive tried to home school my baby but failed. He didnot listen to me. Now ive three mashallah but i want to but kids dont cooperate . How to make it possible????
@@nas603 Like Mr Salman rightfully mentioned that when you become a mother you have all the skills by default that you need to nurture and educate your child. So, have faith. It is undoubtedly a long and tedious ride but it sure is equally fulfilling and reassuring one.
Sidiqee Sir is an asset for Urdu speaking society love and regards from Kargil India ❤❤❤❤❤
Hosts should research the ideologies and messaging of the guest when inviting them to have a meaningful conversation. It was a good talk on Salman Siddiqui's part. He has mastered the art. The parents who can't homeschool for whatever reason just make sure that you have created a good mahol for your child, you value taqwa at home, you value Allah's obedience at home, be a good role model. That is all.
Acknowledged
JazakAllah khair.. Beautiful.. Discussion.. Allah guide us all.. In siratal mustaqeem.. Ameen..
I am also a homeschooling mother and very satisfied with my choice. I am a PTTC graduate from ERDC and i am so proud that Sir Salman Asif sadiiqi is the most inspirational teacher i have ever learned from. I did my Phd from Texas A & M, USA, after listening to him i changed my mind as i alwas had this feeling that there is something wrong with the schools, Alkhumdulilallah Allah opened my heart and brain after that.
Host should have at least listened to his lectures before putting questions which i think is very essential if you are asking a famous personality to join your podcast. Secondly, with due respect keep a distance bw your mouth and mike as your ammmm, ammm voice during all podcast was annoying. And in the lastly thankyou for this podcast as i loved it because my mentor Sir Salman was in it . JzakumAllah Kher
Assalamualaikum dear sis I m from India I really need to talk to u@sunduszahiful
Asalam u alikum
I also want to hime school my kids but m fear nd don't have any idea about curriculum guidance
Can u help me?
@@nousheenkhan5399 dear sister homeschooling is not bringing school at home, it means we will keep our children away from everything which happens in schools. As for as cariculum is concerned as homeschoolers have alot of time they can cover different cariculums by themselves. They take responsibility for their studies and we are their to help them with the things they need ,🥰and providing the proper environment at home.
Aik aik lafz is like a treasure
I live in Toronto, Canada ! Due to the school environment, which is against our religious beliefs ! I have decided to start my 7 year old's home schooling ! I think it's the best thing for our children ❤
very good
Alhamdulillah, I am also a homeschooling mother of teenage children here in Toronto, Canada. My children have never attended traditional school, and I made this decision consciously, having grown up here myself and understanding the educational environment. I chose to provide my children with a personalized, faith-based education at home.
By the grace of Allah, my children are not only well-educated in academic subjects but are also deeply grounded in beneficial knowledge, particularly Islamic teachings. They are well-informed about the world around them, and Alhamdulillah, I have seen them grow into curious, knowledgeable individuals, fully aware of their identity and values.
@@LifestyleIslamAM
Dear can u guide me ?
Salman Sahab,u r a great person with great vision doing a great job
May Allah bless u with His fazlo karam aameen
Ameen
I am a homeschooling mother thanks for this meaningful discussion
Assalamualaikum ap kis year's k kids ko home schooling karwarhi han sister
Animal psychiatry part.....😮 Sir.... Thank you so much for giving us this light....insight...n thoughtfulness...
Family bonding...bond with nature...with our surroundings...exposure... experience..these key factors...thank you so much for reminding...n thanks...you simplified the things..
Jazakumllah khair...
سوالات بھی بہترین
جوابات بھی ایسے کہ دل دماغ روشن ہو گئے
Very intelligent question asked by host v good talk mashaAllah
thankyou
Throughly enjoyed it !! Jazak Allah khayr
jzk khayr
JazakAllah u khaiyren kaseera for hosts n specifically guest🎉
thanks
The podcast would have been better if you could have interrupted Salman Bhai a little less. And the attitude a bit more serious and respectful.
@sherazahmedsheraz
I agree with you.
What a podcast 👏❤ totally agree with sir salman asif
Bohot acha topic he is session se home schooling k bary me clarity Mili, is topic per aik session Kam he
Indeed.
Intehai madalal guftugu, ALLAAH badshah merey Ustad e Mohtaram ko alaa zindagi ata karey. as a father of two I totally second his points, and deep down everyone knows what really happened to them in early years of their lives, and how schools were actually the torture cells, emotional most of the time physical seldom and 6 hours of a non stop artificial competition of game which I didn't choose, but I had to run.
Till the age of 14,15 who knows what, why and how? but we tell them the what, we tell them why and when they become carbon copy of us we say ALLAAH!!! what a terrible mistake we have made.
I believe the fear of unschooling is way more than unschooling itself.
May ALLAAH badshah protect us and our children from the wrong knowledge and make us steadfast to the right path. ameen summa ameen
I am also hoemschooling my daughger Alhamdulilah and yes i had fears too but Alhamdulilah till date its going good
alhumdolilah!
very informative, jazak Allah
Jazakallahu khayr
Great video. Homeschooling is best
It really is!
my son is 3 years old now and he has learned so many things at home easily somtims m surprised how much intellgent childrens are and when these children go to schol we get call almost evry weak your child isnt listening he dsnt learn etc so the prblms isnt in child its we who teach them in the wrong way .we give schol an intellgent kid nd in return we get a cnfised and low intellect low cnfident poor self esteem person .while we spending a huge amount of money on school expenses .in the end we have nthng neither money nor a normal child who is abel earn a bread for himself.
Very nice and i was literally waiting for such session but we have to have more such sessions..
But really needed online sessions for our kids like homeschooling bcoz we parent also need concilling at the same time n we need to be Anged in such sessions on line ..
Most benefit is Our today and our tomorrow after death ..
He teaches so nicely / humbly..
We need such more teachers in today’s world…
JazakAllah khair Qaseerah stay blessed Ever Ameen
jazakallahu khayr
Jazak Allah
Amazing podcast
thanks alot :) keep watching other podcast as well
Assalamualaikum warahmatullah wabarakatuhu, good work. Please interrupt less. inshaAllah
Good podcast... but what was distracting and disturbing was Lack of Maturity and respect shown by the host for the honourable guest...
Sir salman k sath unke bachun ko bhi invite karein
Montessori system is just like natural system.... I think if there is true Montessori system its good for child natural development....
Yay am i hassaan i hafiz quran at youthmatters and its been a year
50:00 golden words
indeed
In canadian schools, they have started to give children rights to change their gender without their parents' consent !
Are you in Canada? I means is it true?
Yes it is true
Host's "hmm" "hmm" and " haan" "haan" is annoying
agreed
Not only annoying, it was super annoying.
podcast would have been much better if the host had not interrupted salman sir
Assalam o Alaikum.i would suggest the host to read a child story...My Mouth is a volcano by julia Cook.if he cant get it personally contact me i will provide insha'Allah.May Allah bless Sir Salman khair in both worlds indeed a gem he is.
Please post it at our official address, we are here to learn.
Youth Matters - 1st Floor
Plot 144/1-3-B, Banker Cooperative Housing Society, Block B Bankers Town, Lahore, Punjab 54800
i have few doubts ..first thing i dont have pateince and i feel frustrated if left with kids work alone and what aboout working parents..
how to enter mbbs or any specific feild ..do they accept homeschooling
what about a housewife who has full responsiblity of house chores and in laws ...
how can she manage all with becoming a maniac or bp pateint..
i am guessing these works for a peaceful family where husband amd wife both live like a true companion without having financial issue to keep the maids for other chores ...and wife has to leave her career right if she is working
Highly agreed thats what host was trying to say.
regulations for school starting age of kids pe kaam ho like no kids should have to go to school before 6
koi grade es terhan na ho
schools main AI integration pe baat ho
jis time ka reference diya ja reha ha that's 300 years ago...we can't live or learn according to that age...
❤
What if mother and father has financial issues and both needs to work? What should they do then????
Yes.
Legitimate question
I agree. They should address it, but i guess the guest is not in favour of working mother.
Host needs to understand stop interrupting
agreed
Sir family Kay andar kaisay involve krain 😢 family sirf phones and junk food Kay hawalay kr daytay hain
And what if ur dependent on susral as well as ur husband
And they dont even consider the WORD education !
Either if its school or home based...
Im trying for 4 years to make them on the line
But nowww...
I realized, kids immetate .they learn what they see ..
I now need to leave everything 😢 and go for a morning walk
Hosts to bhe homeschooling k zarurat lg rhe hai. 😊
lol
I wish Salman Asif Siddiqui and Sahil Adeem work together
Inshallah they will work together.
Mr. Sahil adeem can never be partner of him even in one hour talk.. Mr. Sahil adeem don't know what listening is...
Ustad e Mohtram Samnay baithay hon aur Host kabi Dakaar lay aur kabbi gee sy Jawab dainay ki bajaiye Hhm hhhmm karay tou Fadeed bhai thora Respect ka Muzahira karain bro, Etiquette is more important than knowledge or Skill.
Excellent Topic, best Choice of Guest
No offence!
Right
Mujhe kuch smjh mai nahi araha
Boht Acha topic, boht achay sawal but.. host ko good listener hona chahye
True
اینکر صاحب کو بہتر انداز اپنانے کی ضرورت ہے، اُن کے مجموعی attitude نے مجھے بطور ناظر و سامع بہت تنگ کیا ہے۔
اور میں حیران ہوں کہ مہمان کی بات پر ذرا غور نہیں کیا جارہا محض اپنے نام نہاد practical سوالات کئیے جارہے ہیں،
Very Disappointing, you people need to correct yourself!
which school claim the responsibility of tarbiyah!none then why are we cursing them here for not providing them eg jannat ki kosish or maa baap ki khidmat their objective is academics and social skills...
and yes there are many othrr faults in the education system unkay solutions ki baat ho tou wo zayada productive hota...
9-5 job krne wale isko insult smjhte hain k hmara bacha school na jaye coz unko logon ko jawab dena parta hai or wo khud bhi dusron se aise hi sawal krte hain k agar aap school nhi bhejte to kia krte hain?
I myself homeschooling my kids and people think that they're punished at home 😂 they're like wo accept nhi krengy jb aap regular school may daalengy
Bhai mai q daalungi mjhe daalna hi nhi lol!
I'm trying to start home schooling but confused a bit....what about the books? How can i choose right books for them?
Which pattern are you following?
Curriculum ar self selected topics?
Worst character development happened in school
I understand
The continuous feedback of humm, acha, ok, etc. sounded like a broken record. The host should take a few lectures of journalism or listen to a few videos on youtube out of hundreds of millions of interviews available to know how to conduct an interview. It was so annoying that i had to stop listening to what looked like a great session after few minutes only.
Ok acknowledged.
ہر موٹیویشنل اسپیکر اور یوٹیوببر ہوم اسکولینگ کی بات کرتا ، اور ہر عالم دوسری شادی کی ؟وجہ کیا ہے ،آخر کچھ سمجھ نہیں آتا
Anchor sab ki hoon hoon okay hoon is very irritating
haan
Hmm hmmm, haan haan, theek hai, bilkul ka punga har 3 second mein bajna khatam ho to na kuch insan ko peacefully samajhne ka mauqa mile. Extremely annoying.. This video must be re uploaded after trimming the punga
Hmm
@@YouthMattersPK
Ek kaam kar, hmm pe ek series bana daal
Parents must take action in school for their environment... they must check ND visit to meet their teachers regularly.Allah is great to gave birth a baby in a proper form.so boy or girl must not change their sex.teachers keep eye on them.... students must give proper attention to their studies rather than to their useless talk ND behavior 😢
43:51 SubhanAllah