Every time you post a hugging video, a RAV video or a proximity video, I find myself thinking: "This is the best one yet, there's no way he can top that!" And lo and behold you do!! 💖How you keep on getting better and better, I have no idea......and I am certainly not complaining! This one gave me shivers in my lower back, so you *know* it's good!
I agree. I also particularly dig the hand movements one where he does waterfall movements especially cuz I first started experiencing Asmr when I was little while my grandma would touch my forehead sort of blessing me.
After rewatching this I caught myself smiling several times. Usually your videos help me to relax and fall asleep but this one felt more fun and impromptu. It was nice. I enjoyed it a lot. 👍
My anxiety has been ramping up today, I'm so excited for this when I get home from work! These are my favorites, gonna sleep good tonight. Great to see you posting again, Tom! 🫶
You were my very first ASMR crush, and your presence truly made a difference during the pandemic. You brought us comfort, helped to soothe our minds, and gave us those delightful tingles that many of us needed to find peace and sleep. I have so much appreciation and love for you. ❤
Been watching you since 2019 I think, but I haven't seen your newer content as much as of now. I still put your early covid vids in my rotation bc they really helped me sleep during those crazy times. And you know the saying (idk I probably made this up), the harder a time gets, the more beautiful the memory of it soon becomes? This brings me back to those times somehow. 😊 And somehow, seeing you grow older, well into your 30s (maybe?) reminds me of myself who also look nothing like when I first started watching your content. My back begins to hurt when I sit for too long now, too, so this sounds like a perfect combination! I'm now in a somewhat better place both emotionally and physically, and rewatching you now takes me back to the more turbulent times in such a beautiful way. I might be overreaching, but your channel feels "extremely human", like other asmrtists may have "content", but somehow I feel like you have that "real life" in this channel that's not yet replicated at all anywhere else. Also have I mentioned that you look so so awesome in this vid? You somehow look like you belong to chef vids or make automotive and wood/steelworking content, and here you are in a channel that is entirely for pure affection and relaxation 😄 As anyways thanks for this vid, ilysm tom 🫂
You are perfection at this. I was watching your videos a lot when you were not making much new content. I may have to revisit patreon now that you’re back posting videos! Great job!
Listen sir. This video was perfection! My tingles was tingling from the back of my head, down to my spine. The carpet and crinkly shirt were paid actors. The whispers up close to the far away ones were 👩🏽🍳💋🤌🏼.. I hope this gets you thousands of much deserved views and subs!! Also, where the hell you been??
Tom, I ADORE your work, thank you for another video! Will be going to heaven with this one tonight. 💕 (Also, truly nothing compares to hearing “good evening, good evening” after a long day)
Uniquely comforting 🖤 You even mention Maria's crinkly shirt video I was reminded of. Many compliments for capturing the maximum sleepy effects here. Will have to return to this one often hah I wish it was longer 💤 Take care!
I searched “Relaxing male asmr proximity” just yesterday and thought to myself “when will he post another one?” and here we are🥰 thank you Tom! You’re wonderful 🩶
As someone who typically listens to ASMR as background noise while sleeping or to wind down with at night without headphones... ...having this be my first ASMR video in months with headphones in? Absolutely WILD sensation hahaha, this was incredible 👏🏼 I don't comment very often, but years have flown by and you still remain as my go-to male ASMRtist. Nothing else hits the same! 💙🌙 I think I found this channel back in like 2019, so it's been a whoooole ride in the best way. One thing I vividly remember is once referring to this content as a lighthouse in the storm, and that became super evident over the past couple years. So thank you for everything you've done, and continue to do, Tom. It never goes unnoticed. 🫂 ... 2:33, I feel called out lmao 😭
I fell asleep to this video last night, and here I am commenting the next morning! This type of video is reminiscent of MassageASMR for me…thank you :)
This is incredibly good. I closed my eyes and began to slowly drift on the cozy energy this is giving. Your voice, that fabulous crinkly shirt, soo crinkly, and the close proximity gave me total tingle shivers down my neck.🤤🥴 7 steps. 5 steps. It's like you were right there. Sensational ASMR. I. Love. It. Thank you, Tom. You did a great job!! Goodnight.🤗🌟💜🌟❤️
Welcome back, Tom. Wonder what my sraff would think of me spinning around in circles on my office chair. My phone has very good dolby atmos and it really aounds like you are in the room with me . This was awesome . Loved the 3d. 👌 👏
I never clicked on a video so FAST!!? I love your proximity triggers and this one was one of your best! I loved the guessing game part and the closer, cloSer, CLoSeR, CLOSERrrrr
I wish you posted more frequently 😣 Every start of the video feels like a warm hug from a lifelong friend and every ending feels like a bitter goodbye, not knowing when I'll see you again😢
There is a Heaven! 😇 Usually there are several weeks between your videos although its always worth the wait but to get another one so soon is truly a blessing! You have a beautiful soul that calms down even the most depressed person (me) and I look forward to watching this later. Yep. I came here just to comment because I couldn't wait. See you soon!
TOMS BACK!IM SO SO EXCITED!Oh my god!I missed you!If that’s okay to say :) your little corner here never lost its importance to many of us!Pftt I loooved these series:o I’m so excited to be watching that I don’t know if I will fall asleep?! Welcome back,I hope you are doing okay !
🕊️ one of your better videos. Luv the hall of echoes, too. ⚰️ honestly, if your windows are not covered & your neighbors are NOT trying to catch a glimpse then they’re simply dead inside.
There are PLENTY of talented male/men ASMRtists but I've yet to find one who rivals how safe you feel. A lot of ppl hear "male" and "proximity," and it's 😳🏃♀️. My survival instincts can take a break when I'm on your channel☺️
Hey Tom, any chance I could get a free month on patreon? I was subbed for the last year but you didn’t post anything so I just canceled a few weeks ago haha
Maybe it's cause of trauma but not a fan of the waking around thing, makes me nervous when it sounds like you're behind me, idk how you do that with a RUclips video but no.
Something to think about…I’ve gotten comments about people feeling the same way but spinning it to be therapeutic. Kind of a safe way to confront or get more comfortable with that feeling.
Every time you post a hugging video, a RAV video or a proximity video, I find myself thinking: "This is the best one yet, there's no way he can top that!" And lo and behold you do!! 💖How you keep on getting better and better, I have no idea......and I am certainly not complaining! This one gave me shivers in my lower back, so you *know* it's good!
Love that!
I agree. I also particularly dig the hand movements one where he does waterfall movements especially cuz I first started experiencing Asmr when I was little while my grandma would touch my forehead sort of blessing me.
Those close up whispers were intense in the best way. Another great video, thank you!
After rewatching this I caught myself smiling several times. Usually your videos help me to relax and fall asleep but this one felt more fun and impromptu. It was nice. I enjoyed it a lot. 👍
this is probably the best anticipatory video i’ve seen/heard in a LONG time! hope there will be more! 🔥 👂🏻
The close ups and the change between the ears are sooo good 🤤🤤
This is the first I have seen and experienced you.
I felt as though I was sitting in the room...enjoying your proximity games.
Very impressed.
Thank you! 😊
Hands down your best sounding video because of the positioning of the microphones. I was able to really be right there with you.
My anxiety has been ramping up today, I'm so excited for this when I get home from work! These are my favorites, gonna sleep good tonight. Great to see you posting again, Tom! 🫶
❤❤❤
Happy to help!
Honestly nobody compares to you. So glad you're back to making content!
You were my very first ASMR crush, and your presence truly made a difference during the pandemic. You brought us comfort, helped to soothe our minds, and gave us those delightful tingles that many of us needed to find peace and sleep. I have so much appreciation and love for you. ❤
Thank you so much ☺️
Been watching you since 2019 I think, but I haven't seen your newer content as much as of now. I still put your early covid vids in my rotation bc they really helped me sleep during those crazy times. And you know the saying (idk I probably made this up), the harder a time gets, the more beautiful the memory of it soon becomes? This brings me back to those times somehow. 😊
And somehow, seeing you grow older, well into your 30s (maybe?) reminds me of myself who also look nothing like when I first started watching your content. My back begins to hurt when I sit for too long now, too, so this sounds like a perfect combination!
I'm now in a somewhat better place both emotionally and physically, and rewatching you now takes me back to the more turbulent times in such a beautiful way. I might be overreaching, but your channel feels "extremely human", like other asmrtists may have "content", but somehow I feel like you have that "real life" in this channel that's not yet replicated at all anywhere else.
Also have I mentioned that you look so so awesome in this vid? You somehow look like you belong to chef vids or make automotive and wood/steelworking content, and here you are in a channel that is entirely for pure affection and relaxation 😄
As anyways thanks for this vid, ilysm tom 🫂
Really enjoyed reading this comment thank you ☺️
Your proximity videos are always my favorite of yours, and the best in this community.💯
I didn’t see you post a couple days ago. Welcome back bro. And now you’ve gifted me with my favourite type of video 🙏🏻
can this type of videos be like an hour long 🙏because it is perfection!
You are perfection at this. I was watching your videos a lot when you were not making much new content. I may have to revisit patreon now that you’re back posting videos! Great job!
Thank you!!
Wow Tom, great job. Thank you for this. The triggers are so relaxing and feels near to me and personal ❤❤😊
Two vids in a row? You are spoiling us...and I'm so here for it. Thank you 💜
this video is so great. I get so relaxed and become so detached when i listen to you. It's like I float to a different ,relaxing, amazing place
I'm so glad!
he’s back with the best type of asmr 🎉
Just what i needed to get me to sleep with this headache. Thank you for all you do!
Listen sir. This video was perfection! My tingles was tingling from the back of my head, down to my spine. The carpet and crinkly shirt were paid actors. The whispers up close to the far away ones were 👩🏽🍳💋🤌🏼.. I hope this gets you thousands of much deserved views and subs!! Also, where the hell you been??
Glad you enjoyed it!
This was so tingly! I hadn’t had tingles like this for a while! ❤ thank you
50 seconds in and I already love it! Thanks! ❤
I fell in love when the notification popped up on my phone!
Really intimate and securing recording, just what you need to feel comfortable enough to sleep
Hi Tom! This is a fantastic video! I love the closeness!
Tom, I ADORE your work, thank you for another video! Will be going to heaven with this one tonight. 💕 (Also, truly nothing compares to hearing “good evening, good evening” after a long day)
Thank you!
Uniquely comforting 🖤 You even mention Maria's crinkly shirt video I was reminded of. Many compliments for capturing the maximum sleepy effects here. Will have to return to this one often hah I wish it was longer 💤 Take care!
Yes! Thank you!
Love your videos! This one was so soothing. Glad to see you again 😊
I needed this more than I thought I would, thank you😊
I searched “Relaxing male asmr proximity” just yesterday and thought to myself “when will he post another one?” and here we are🥰 thank you Tom! You’re wonderful 🩶
lol that’s wild. Nice!
As someone who typically listens to ASMR as background noise while sleeping or to wind down with at night without headphones...
...having this be my first ASMR video in months with headphones in? Absolutely WILD sensation hahaha, this was incredible 👏🏼
I don't comment very often, but years have flown by and you still remain as my go-to male ASMRtist. Nothing else hits the same! 💙🌙
I think I found this channel back in like 2019, so it's been a whoooole ride in the best way. One thing I vividly remember is once referring to this content as a lighthouse in the storm, and that became super evident over the past couple years. So thank you for everything you've done, and continue to do, Tom. It never goes unnoticed. 🫂
... 2:33, I feel called out lmao 😭
Thank you, that means a lot 🙏🏻
This is awesome! Watching this for the 4th time since you've uploaded 😂
Glad you enjoy it!
I fell asleep to this video last night, and here I am commenting the next morning!
This type of video is reminiscent of MassageASMR for me…thank you :)
one of the GOATs 🙏🏻
Hi Tom! Thank you so much for making these videos! They help my anxiety so much!
I’m glad 🙂
This is incredibly good. I closed my eyes and began to slowly drift on the cozy energy this is giving. Your voice, that fabulous crinkly shirt, soo crinkly, and the close proximity gave me total tingle shivers down my neck.🤤🥴 7 steps. 5 steps. It's like you were right there. Sensational ASMR. I. Love. It. Thank you, Tom. You did a great job!! Goodnight.🤗🌟💜🌟❤️
Wow, thank you!
@@RelaxingMaleASMR My pleasure. Have a great day.\(･◡･)/💕
I am in total awe of you. Thank you for giving me tingles where I didn’t even know I could have them. I am your new biggest fan x❤️🔥x
Welcome back, Tom. Wonder what my sraff would think of me spinning around in circles on my office chair. My phone has very good dolby atmos and it really aounds like you are in the room with me . This was awesome . Loved the 3d. 👌 👏
Love it that’s awesome lol
Glad you’re back to uploading more frequently. ❤
This was incredible! SO HAPPY you're back!!!!
PLEASEEE do more close up anticipatory tingles
Where was this shot? This was BRILLIANT work!!!!!
My basement lol thank you!
you always outdo yourself! 😴😴🙏🏻 perfect quality as always
Finally someone doing proximity asmr right! Also the voice 🤤 lol
OMGGGGG 2 VIDS IN 10 DAYS !!!!!! WE R LIVING
Let’s gooooo
you have a sweet and comforting soul that no many men have. Thnx for your work
I never clicked on a video so FAST!!? I love your proximity triggers and this one was one of your best! I loved the guessing game part and the closer, cloSer, CLoSeR, CLOSERrrrr
I wish you posted more frequently 😣 Every start of the video feels like a warm hug from a lifelong friend and every ending feels like a bitter goodbye, not knowing when I'll see you again😢
This was a lot of fun, and I could feel where you were with my eyes closed.
This was such a fun video :) and you ABSOLUTELY need to incorporate the crinkly jacket into future videos, so good 🤌🏻
Definitely!!
There is a Heaven! 😇 Usually there are several weeks between your videos although its always worth the wait but to get another one so soon is truly a blessing! You have a beautiful soul that calms down even the most depressed person (me) and I look forward to watching this later. Yep. I came here just to comment because I couldn't wait. See you soon!
Thank you!!
These and hugging are my favorites (but I love them all).
I am glad you are back. I can sleep well now ❤
Formal request for 800 more of these. Thank you. ❤
After “good evening, good evening” i nodded! Lol 😊
😁
Omg amazing .so much better than your other videos ( they are good too ) but this is exceptional
Wow thanks I had doubts so that’s good to hear
5:35 to 5:44 this is so good😍😍
Fantastic, as always!
TOMS BACK!IM SO SO EXCITED!Oh my god!I missed you!If that’s okay to say :) your little corner here never lost its importance to many of us!Pftt I loooved these series:o I’m so excited to be watching that I don’t know if I will fall asleep?! Welcome back,I hope you are doing okay !
I got tingles!Can you imagine!Im happy dancing in my bed!hehehehe*adds that to my favorite Asmr list*❤
Thank you so much!!
This is peak asmr!
These are amazing as always 😊
He's back!
Wow this was awesome, I loved it ! Thank you
Oh and your voice in this one… immaculate.
Glad you thought so. It’s been a while so I felt like I couldn’t get that super resonant tone as easily as I used to lol
Yeah this is about to be what I reach for these next few days
Ohhhhhhh tingles down the spine activated
omg you are back!!!!
YES, finally someone that gets it!
🕊️ one of your better videos. Luv the hall of echoes, too.
⚰️ honestly, if your windows are not covered & your neighbors are NOT trying to catch a glimpse then they’re simply dead inside.
Omg tingles! Thanks Tom! ❤
There are PLENTY of talented male/men ASMRtists but I've yet to find one who rivals how safe you feel. A lot of ppl hear "male" and "proximity," and it's 😳🏃♀️. My survival instincts can take a break when I'm on your channel☺️
Thanks that means a lot
So happy I found you 🥵☺️😴🫶🏼
Love it!
It’s the close ups for me 😌
I need instructions of how not to fall in love with this amazing man.
More please! Way more!!
Thanks Tom 😊
Oh yeah ! I works very well. This is what I prefer too. 👍 It's almost like I could feel your heat when you are close. My hairs are going straight.
Thanks for this❤
Thank you ❤️✌🏼
the best!!
Proggzimmity time! 🎉 😴
Well hello Tom why am I just finding you!!! You are sending shivers right down my body. Im going to enjoy you x❤️🔥x
So glad!
@ x❤️🔥x
🖤🖤🖤
Got alittle jump scare at 7:10 with that noise 😅
❤❤❤
The one I voted for 🤭🎀
I’m definitely not putting this video on loop.
8:43 think you meant amazing ASMR
Glad to be the first to like!!
Takk!
Thank you!! ☺️
Very massageasmr, very demure.
You should do a shoe collection vid!
and during working hours?!!! dubiously evil 🙂↔️
I just relaxed🏳️🌈🏳️🌈 i love ear to ear close to this mic i live that and tingle me😍
LOVE UR CRINKLES
You're so cute
Hey Tom, any chance I could get a free month on patreon? I was subbed for the last year but you didn’t post anything so I just canceled a few weeks ago haha
Ya definitely. Email me under the email you were subbed on patreon.
relaxingmaleasmr@gmail.com
Awesome appreciate that! I’ll email you now
Maybe it's cause of trauma but not a fan of the waking around thing, makes me nervous when it sounds like you're behind me, idk how you do that with a RUclips video but no.
Something to think about…I’ve gotten comments about people feeling the same way but spinning it to be therapeutic. Kind of a safe way to confront or get more comfortable with that feeling.
@@RelaxingMaleASMR I love your videos, but this one really triggered me for some reason. I hope you're doing well. :)
This is the only asmr vídeo that get me tinglles 🫶🏻💖
My boy is here 🧡
😌