The Quran and Pop Psychology - Khutbah by Nouman Ali Khan
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- Опубликовано: 26 сен 2024
- During this Jummah Khutbah delivered at the Islamic Foundation of Ireland in Dublin, Ustadh Nouman Ali Khan shares interesting thoughts on psychology from the perspective of the Quran vs modern psychology, as we see widespread on social media and pop culture.
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I’m just 11 years old yet this was one of the best khutbahs I’ve ever listened to, SubhanAllah❤❤
Masha Allah. Please remember islam is learned by reading books and not listening nonstop lectures of RUclips.
ما شاء الله! I envy you for being a believer at such a young age, I was born Muslim, but didn't really become one until I was 20. May you never get lost like I did.
@@raed_ksa9449 we all have time to turn back until before death and this is not a reason to be heedless but at the same time remember that indeed Allah SWT is the most merciful and we must strive to become better Muslims. Salam 😄
@@arghafil7823my grandma was illiterate and she got all her religion knowledge from listening to the radio and she is the most spiritual person I have ever seen … any means of learning is good as long as its from reliable source
MashaaAllah
Wow! I have just finished my master thesis on Psychology and Religion/Spirituality: Emotional Intelligence according to Religion/Spirituality. I discovered that on 90% of the things Ustadh Nouman is saying, I've said similar things in my thesis. I'm so proud. This teacher is amazing! May Allah preserve him and grant him a long and healthy life! Make dua for our teachers!
Amina ya rabiii
can you please share your thesis with us? i would love to read it!
Asalamualaikum can u share ur work with me
@@nooraieen3793 wa alaykum salam wa rahmetullah. Thank you for asking. For the moment the work is in my language, in Albanian, so when I translate it I'll publish it InshaAllah.
Ustad is also a psychology student
He's my favourite when it comes to explaining Qur'an
May Allah bless him.❤
Where is he coming? Can you guide? Is it paid ticket? I know he is coming Dublin but no idea where.
Where is he coming? Can you guide? Is it paid ticket? I know he is coming Dublin but no idea where.
@@Texted891 I don't know I live in Nigeria
@@Texted891 RDS concert hall .. 9th September.. 6pm - 11 pm
@@tasfiazahan1645 thanks but I see tickets are sold out… looking at fb if someone is not going and wants to sell the ticket.
Please please continue this topic as a series for the sake of young generations who have and ARE consuming this pop psychology on social media today. Its next to impossible not to be influenced by it. I don’t know anybody who is bringing awareness on this topic from an islamic point if view. Personally this was eye opening for me, even though I’ve tried my best to take all those terms with a grain of salt it has still had an influence over my perspectives then I can’t imagine people’s mindset who take every word of todays instagram psychology.
Please do more of this. Jazakallah khair
ماشاء الله
This is such a needed topic. And sheikh only quotes from Quraan haq
Ppp😊😊
We wish him to continue.. this was really fantastic!
Very needed topic. Just a small note: The scientist who studied the embryology in the Quran was Prof. Keith L. Moore. Dr. Maurice Bucaille was a doctor who studied the mummy of the pharoah discovered and wrote the book called "The Bible, the Quran and the Science". Just if anyone wants to know more about them.
Thank you for sharing. Jazakallah khair
Keith L. Moore 's ' The Developing Human ' is text book on the subject of embryology for medical students. When I first read mention of Quran in that book as a medical student, I was quite surprised and in awe,for real.Subhan 'Allah!
This is even a worse problem in the desi world where people don't fully understand these terms and just use them to show how fluent they are. I've encountered so many desis who use the word "depression" when they mean they're just sad. I didn't want to take this in this direction but I believe if more Islamic teachers were as articulate as Ustadh our problems would be less. Each time I listen to Ustadh my Iman goes up and I reflect on myself, my relationship with Allah and it humbles me.
Totally could relate to you.
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My favorite ustaad brother nouman may Allah' swt blessed u and your family. Aameen
This problem is universal among the young and old. Actually people who have bona fide mental illnesses get annoyed because this is a way of trivializing what is a real struggle for them.
What about you trying to read and understand the Quran for yourself instead of blindly following others?
It was a pleasure attending this khutbah in person, JazakAllah sheikh
Thank you akhy. My young brother just passed away, your contents helped him a lot during his disease. Jazak'Allah from France.
My condolences to you and your family. May Allah grant the brother Jannah. Ameen 🙏
Amin
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I listened to this on Spotify and as a psychology student i couldn't agree more!
This video is gaslighting my understanding of personalities so hard 😂😂😂 Jazakallah khair for speaking on such an important and timely topic. So relevant and so crucial.
Absolutely agree with you. Influencers are making it joke. They are not understanding the depth of psychology and misusing without understanding how dangerous it is to diagnosing without any knowledge. As a Consultant psychologist i am totally frustrated with that.
As a psychologist I couldn’t agree more, we’re living in such a sick world. Jazakallah khayran brother!
I feel so conflicted by this talk. I agree with the issue of surface social media diagnoses and flippant use of key terms, like narcissist, trauma etc. I also agree that without spiritual perspective maintained it can get problematic. but…
This talk started out by saying we should study the sciences and we can find truth while looking at these areas through the lens of faith. Meaning we should study psychology through the lens of faith. I agree with this. If you do that and understand narcissistic behaviour and trauma, boundaries etc. I think they can be healthily applied while still being within the realm of Islamic faith. My conflict here is the whole latter half of this talk basically discounted the importance of exploring this “new” science.
In a healthy relationship, if one person is actually gaslighting their spouse, you should have your emotions regulated enough to be able to indicate this and the spouse should also have their emotions regulated enough to be able to reflect and actually consider if this is the case. A “healthy boundary” is the expectation that your spouse will be able to listen to feedback without becoming super angry (aka dysregulated). Why isn’t the message here to properly understand the true meanings of terms and conditions within psychology (by truly learning it in depth, not snippets), to use the terms appropriately, to self regulate and consider, and to respond accordingly. I think that sounds both healthy and in alignment with Islam?
I don’t know. I have spent a lot of time researching and reading books from the leaders in trauma, attachment theory, etc. and I can clearly see that the goal is self regulation, personal awareness of dysregulation (ie to be self aware that you are activated to negative feelings of anger, sadness, shame, etc as opposed to ignorant to them / suppressing them), and healthy boundaries while maintaining regulation (ie you’re not abusively or rudely setting boundaries).
Where is the encouragement for the general population to truly try to understand healthy psychology and to aspire towards that for the sake of Allah and with the lens of Islam in mind? Don’t we have a duty to not be ignorant to advancements in science that Allah has made possible for us? Instead of just shaming people who are just using snippets, why not encourage deeper understanding while maintaining an Islamic view? Psychology is so stigmatized to begin with, especially with the older generation. I feel concern that the first part of your talk is missed by the time one has gotten to the end.
I've been through both, and I personally have felt the difference and the example he used of Prophet Yusuf as and Prophet Ibrahim as, it has crossed my mind too. In my experience, when I was going through psychology to understand my situation and healing, it helped me in personality development but I ended up being more frustrated that why this happened to me or I'm like this because of this person, I ended up putting blame on others. But Alhamdulillah after some months I got reminded again that Nothing happens without Allah's will and it's so soothing and comforting for me and gave me peace that I was looking for by the means of healing. I can totally relate to the topic that psychology can be good yet it can become dangerous if u r not seeing the purpose.
Both Islamic teachings and knowledge of psychology are important to navigate relationships and adversaries. Cycles of abuse do exist. With me, I suffered years under mistreatment from family members. And while Islamic teachings offered solace and guidance to be patient, it wasn’t until I learned about human psychology that I was able to fully understand what was going on. Some people are unhealthy to be close to and they may or may not even change. “Boundaries”are important to help preserve self and others’ wellbeing. Understanding patterns of behaviour is important, all within the scope of Islamic teachings. May Allah bless us with guidance. Oh Allah let us be from those who see the truth for what it is and follow it successfully, and see falsehood as falsehood and stay away from it. Allahumma teach us what benefits us and make us benefit from what you taught us and increase us in knowledge, Ameen.
AMEEN
Subhan Allah. Very suitable video for the current time. A lot of us use these terms carelessly, yet would dislike it if someone used it on us. Also nowadays people care so much about 'self happiness' they justify their behaviour with it. Whereas we have been instructed on how to treat certain people even if they 'cross the line ' etc. Alhamdullilah for Islam truly. Its the foundation we need.
My family has gave me name Umar but they never told me who the Umar was in Islam because of illiteracy. I belong to a poor family which is throwing me bunddles of hurdles to be a good as well as religious Man despite all this i m trying my best to come on the right track.
Allah subhanwetallah is much kind to me as i have got curiousity to be a man on the right track..This is my begining to consume the teachings of Deen and explore the world of islam.This video ignited my mind to be a man with strong faith in Allah.
May Allah bless us and guide us.
Love u Sir❤
Explaining Quran deeply truly humbles us ❤
Such a remarkable lesson in this lecture i went something really terrible last year nd start using this terms but after listening to this i can truly reflect on myself nd see all the gain.. May we all get guidance nd may Allah ease the pain of those borther and sisters who actually are going through their difficult times ✨
Life-changing concept and clarification!
As someone who got deeply indulged in analytical psychology and did all of the stuff, I'm glad Allah made Ustad a waseela here to clear my concepts and purify my passion for psychology!
No one ever could explained Quran like this ustad. الحمد الله
I learnt about attachment issues in my childhood, attachment with people/world, which then led me back to the most true and unwavering attachment which is to Allah.
To just use psychology can be quite dangerous and slippery slope to losing faith. My advice for a Muslim who is seeing a therapist or counsellor for their mental health issues or certain problems, and if its with the right intention to better oneself, alongside it constantly ask and seek Allah for guidance. Keep to your obligations, InsyaAllah true healing will come.
Great reminder to remind us that Quraan is the ultimate guide.
I understand now why u r one of the best lecturers of the Quran. I think it’s because u r a very good listener. I can’t wait to meet with u. I ask Allah to drag u your ear to me, I know I have be consistent in the istikhar. Remember when Allah Soubhaanahou dragged imam Malik to a baker !
By the way, I’m a former teacher of philosophy in french language.Without that large campaign of exploitation in comparative philosophies and civilizations, I won’t be able to understand your lectures the way I do today.
I love you my brother.
Don't let the feelings turn into God!
What a powerful critique on "self care" psychology. Put your master above you lest you become your own master and pave your way to eternal suffering!
Salam alaikom...is there a hadith..b God like..w nauz billah...
Subhan Allah....
We all talk God....ie even nimrod said he gives life and death...so ppl play guides and misgudiwrs....as us all....so Who u think the reason...brother jibraeel...!??
They the reason f9r misdiagnossi
Ustadh you always put the Quran Into perspective in our lives. مـا شـآء اللّـه May you be blessed with Khairun and Barakah. Summa AMEEN
I have a personality disorder and other mental health conditions and was looking for what it really means in Islamic perspective. thanks to this Khutbah i now know that there is a whole branch of Islamic psychology! I wish i knew much much sooner. I guess i should be happy i at least know now.
Yes dear infact universities offer PhD in Islamic psychology
@@mariumshafqat3826 yes I learned that today. Cambridge University Apparently offers it online even. I want to know how I should interpret my symptoms. I have violent, paranoid delusions and psychotic episodes especially when stressed. What does that mean? Is it just like any other trial and tribulation (medical, psychical, social, financial etc.) or something different? Is there a message that I need to know or something? Those kinds of questions I want answered. Also of course a general, coherent Islamic theory about psychology supplemented with proper research. 💜✌🏻
@@mariumshafqat3826when are they going to ever teach that you have a tailbone like monkeys and appendix like cows that God forgot in Adam and Eve and us all. Time to see your X-ray 🩻 😂
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This is a series by Dr. Rothman who was mentioned during the sermon. A good place to start with the concept of Islamic psychology.
It's 20 episodes, each is roughly 20 min long. He released it for Ramadan nights 2 years ago.
See if you'll like it.
@@DoorbeenDornazarmay you be guided
Thank you sir. U really get me into the point.. to face the trauma, to face all the toxic, instead of run away..
SubhanaAllah the sheikh's interpretation of the verses is just amazing that it made me feel as if I'm hearing and understanding them for the first time!!!!
Beautiful lecture Alhamdulilah! When you read and study the Quran, you start seeing the world through the eyes of the Quran. That's the beauty of Islam. This lecture was truly helpful in understanding the importance of remembering Allah in times of difficulties, hardships, and sadness. As humans, we have a tendency to fall into the pits of deep emotional states and become an easy target for shaytan, but alternatively, we should embrace these challenges and put our faith in Allah that whatever difficulty we're going through at the moment, will pass. It is Allah who allows us to go through such life experiences so that we can learn and grow. Alhamdulillah for everything that Allah has bestowed upon us in the shape of health, wisdom, wealth, and life experiences.
Usthad Nouman Ali is such a Blessing Alhamdoelileh 🤲🏽🤲🏽🤲🏽♥️
He is the most beautiful lecturer and also helps us to take islam by heart.
InshaAllah we’ll see him tomorrow.
Same here. Can’t wait 😛 😊😊😊😊.
Where
@@saimazamir7187Troxy in east London event starts at 18:30. It’s a story night event.
I absolutely agree with Ustadh. Everything is a guidance and ultimately contains a blessing from Allah. We work through things seeking from Allah guidance and help.. We shouldn't bandy around terms without real knowledge. That said, there is actually a phenomenon of misuse of position and authority, misuse of Islam to abuse. There really are selfish manipulative people preying on others among Muslims too. We may not throw out terms to judge others. But we can learn from what people have experienced with toxic people and learn how to protect ourselves. Many of us raised to serve abusive parents never understood healthy boundaries, self worth or autonomy. We were guilted to obey, to our own detriment, even past adulthood. The popularity of these terms also relates to a movement of people seeking to reclaim their intrinsic worth, freedom from abuse. So, more nuanced. There may be people lightly misapplying terminology. But there are also people who truly experienced what is discussed. We are not worshipping our feelings. We are rebalancing from one extreme and seeking a way back to Allah free of oppressive people. And there are many Duas reflecting these very yearnings.
This is what I was thinking. Psychology can help people reclaim their sense of self worth and help them recognise toxicity around them. It is not a black and white situation. There are positive aspects of psychology which can help us to improve ourselves.
4:55 Embryologist: Converted to islam
5:50 Physiologist: Wanted to Study of the soul : Converted to islam
7:30 Quran saying go find out how creation began , don’t close eyes. The more you explore the more convinced will become
10:30 While seeking purpose
11:09 Same with the Quran seek the guidance
18:30, 18:46, 19:23 What to remember in Calamities
20:55 Examples
22:42 Argument: Say something that is better and more beautiful
Thank you for sharing. Jazakallah Khair
Can you tell the name of the psychologist he mentioned 6:00
@@maryamwaqas4186 i think he is Abdallah Rothman, Ustadz Nouman had mentioned his name on other lecture
Allah pak naveed bhai ku sehat tundurasti atta karee..Ur family is very brave ...MashaAllah
I know u guys very well..
Buhat duwain hain app sub ke leye ❤
I needed this. Really did. The 2nd half especially...it was as if he talking about me.
May Allah Taala bless NAK, Ma Sha Allah the way he explains things Allah Taala has given him such a talent. We all need to learn this beautiful language.
Was in need of this lecture since decades 😢 Alhamdulillah ❤
Alhamdulillah
Great Khutbah and a much-needed topic to be addressed... JazakALLAH khayr
Alhamdolillah to be directed to your channel and amazing content!
This is one of the most important lectures I've ever listened❤❤❤. More similar content please
Candace Owens needs to see this. She recently talked about the birth of modern psychology and how Sigmund Freud was a Cabalist. Makes a lot of sense
اللّٰہ کامیاب کرے آپکو آمین
Brilliant, awesome & very timely khutbah Ustad Nouman. So many of my self-questions & doubts got answered. These “popular” terms were causing me to doubt myself when wanting to correct someone or being corrected myself. May Allah swt bless you & reward you for your work for the deen.
Oh subhaan'Allaah, I am so obsessed with psychology, but I always try to keep it to the basics of Islaam not beyond that, you killed it ustaad, got a killing clarity, tysm ustaad.
Thank you brother Naoman, may Allah swt give you reward for your good deeds
Oh thank you so much for clarifying this because people who have these views are class as backwords now sadly . May Allah reward you ustaad .
The knowledge that we are gaining from Ustad Nouman Ali Khan is incredible. May Allah protect you and grant you even more strength to share the beauty of the Quran with others.
Thank you for such a clear and insightful talk on how the Qur'an illuminates the true nature of pop psychology. This lecture is worth listening to many times.
Alhamdulillah. What a speech. May Allah bless him and us with Iman and good deeds
Amazing amazing khutba Thank you so much Ustad for connecting Quran and the world we're living. We as an Ummah need this kind of guidance so much ir else we'll go astray like the people before us
Absolutely correct. Assalamualaikum warahmatullah
Al-Hadid 57:22
No disaster strikes upon the earth or among yourselves except that it is in a register[1] before We bring it into being - indeed that, for Allāh, is easy -
Ameeeeeen... Sumameen..
Today my point of view towards physcology is totally changed...the way he described Surah Tagabun and surah Jasia ayyahs completely clear my mind...
Indeed Quran is the best and necessary for life ...!!!
And the way He delivered is amazing..
May ALLAH Pak give us isteqmaat and Basaraat ..
Excellent Khutbah ustadh, may Allah reward you for what you are doing for communities, you make the answer to any query so easy to understand, subhan Allah, Tabarak Allah.
May Allah bless us strength to stick to our faith despite troubles we face day to day amen
28:36 تصحيح فقط .. قال الله تعالى"وختم على سمعه وقلبه وجعل على بصره غشاوة "
شكرا بارك الله فيك جزاك الله خيرا
Masha Allah. May Allah bless you and cast your tongue to only say what He blesses Masha Allah
I feel attacked by Ustad right now. I am going through a tough time and I am desperately seeking reasons and overthinking how I could have avoid the situation only if I had done this and that. Only if I was not full of myself. And these pop psychology advice is coming my way and I find myself giving a new level everyday, a narcissist, highly sensitive person, have attachment issues, emotionally imbalanced! And I was getting overwhelmed by all these and I am blaming myself more and more. This is like Allah SWT giving me a direction and showing me the truth of the pop psychology! SubhanAllah
Omg Really. Our kins have become. Modern pops thank you noman. For guiding us Quran. Is our guidence
This khutbah was literally so good❤ Ma Sha ALLAH-
This is so true. It is very important, especially to the younger generation who are bombarded by these psychological terms. These labels will shorten present-day relationships unnecessarily
Thank you no one discusses this stuff but these things. This was much needed.
I was at this khutbah , was pleasure ❤ thanks sheikh!
I learned so much! Allahu Akbar Alhamdulilah, we need to focus on our faith and stop listening to these ideas that this world puts in our heads! May الله forgive us! And may He guide us!
This khutbah actually tells me how to deal with my problems
I am exactly going through all these trauma in my life
JazakAllah kher for this 😢❤
I agree with ustadh almost entirely because pop psychology is an injustice to the study of psychology at large. you cannot sell bite-sized pieces of information wrapped up as ‘content’. but where i disagree with ustadh is that if a proper study of psychology is undertaken, in my limited experience, it actually aligns with islamic principles (again, it is about having the intention to look for the signs of Allah). no psychologist ever says to argue with or label a narcissist, infact the way people are taught to deal with a narcissistic parent is very similar to how prophet ibrahim (as) dealt with his dad: gracefully but also walking away. like any other subject, it is imp to do the heavy-lifting with psychology if we wish for it to align with our deen/faith. may Allah grant us all healing and a sound understanding of His deen, and may every road we take lead us to Him!
Thank you for talking about this not much Islamic scholor talk about this I been searching for long time
My Allah protect you ustad nouman ali khan and give you more ability to spread knowledge of quarn to us
This talk is beneficial for me and more people for this era
I make dua for you from bottom of my heart
MashAllah MashAllah may Allah protect you from my Nazar
Thanks Shiekh Nouman on re-highlighting the stories of the Quran (e.g. Yusuf with his father and his brothers) on how to forgive and re-concile relationships among kinship and not follow modern day methodologies of using terms such as "gas-lighting", "narcissistic", "toxic" at our families. That above including even if our "enemies" are own bethren/family we must keep them close at heart to us, except only if they are physically violent. Plus thanks again Sheikh Nouman that we remember all of these are in the Quran and its translations readily available in multiple languages left only for us to practise.
That’s the most beneficial lecture I have listened to that will InshaAllah benefit me and my teens. JazakAllah
Subhana'Allah.. I see where the veil of our fall has been lifted.. When Allah subhana wa ta ala has been removed, not Centered in our life will equal destruction.. Ya Allah..
May Allah subhana wa ta ala save is from ourselves.. Ameen
Such a powerful reminder Allhumdullilah & JazakaAllah ustadh nauman may Allah swt bless you and your family Ameen
this khutbah is an eye opening, jazakallah khair
Subhan Allah. Been there done that. Ustad Noman I request you to please give khudba on approaching Narcissism in the light of Quran and Sunnah. I believe it's a need of the time and there is very little to no content on this particular topic from Muslim speakers. JazakAllah Khair.
Masha Allah really awesome kutuba,may Allah almighty preserve you Ustad
This khutbah is so spot on.
Well done
Allah save you every time, every day and every years Nouman Ali khan.
May Allah SWT give us all hidayat and unite the ummah ameen sumameen
MashAllah now I’m from doubt to trust ,
Mashallah, i know this lecturer is very expensive, mashallah go ahead Mr. Noman ali khan brother,
Always pray for you , you are lively Allah gifted.
WOW, Ustaad you are truly amazing, May Allah pak blessings upon you throughout your whole life. SubhanAllah, MashAllah
Thank you so much ustadh, this guided me so much, may Allah give you reward for this aameen😊
This khutbah should shutdown billion shorts about self-care, self healing
May Allah give you a blessed long life and tawfeek to help us to learn more and more favourite shayiikh😊😊❤️❤️
Ameen
8:11 the more you explore, the more convinced you are!
JazakAllah khair for this khutbah🙏
There is no doubt that there is good character and bad character, and Islam recognizes that. الجرح و التعديل has been in the deen and Islamic scholarship since the beginning. I take from this that we leave new terminology such as “toxic”, “narcissistic”…etc and we go back to traditional terms such as:
“Bad character” سيء الخلق
“Dishonest” غير امين
“Back biter” نمام او صاحب غيبة
“Miser” بخيل او شحيح
…etc, without going after matters of the heart. Because at the end of the day, when someone comes to ask for my daughter’s hand in marriage, I want to know what his true character is and I want people to use accurate terminology so we don’t fall in to any traps.
Thank You Allah for placing me among the believing ummah of prophet Muhammad pbuh
May Allah guide you and bless you with more knowledge and you keep sharing, aameen
Thank you for hutba, I love listening to you. May Allah bless you, your team and Bayyinah institute.
Like excellent explanations shared thanks live long inside and out outside updates keep up, vast about qurran exploring ,science soul ,through qurran bringing God closer inside ,deep study,connecting psychology, with inside .ALLAH guide hearts feeling .many questions getting answer in ur bayan,keeping qurranic words. ,
I acknowledge where he is coming from, but do not underestimate the severity of widespread oppression in our families and societies. Knowing the oppressor helps us protect ourselves and our future generation from the same fate. Women and children suffer most in the hands of oppressors. We should never enable oppression
As far as I know, prophet Ibrahim did not stick around when he realized who his father was. He still left, making du’a for him first
ډیره مننه استاد محترم
Jazakumullah kheir
Jazakallah khair
Islam is a complete way of life
22:30...A great reconciliation gem....
ما شاء الله الله يحميك ويحمينا ويهدينا❤
Thank you for this lecture. You answered the questions that have been bothering me for a long time. Please make more videos on this topic.
Thank you for this 😊
That was a really really interesting topic. May Allah give you the best of his rewards.