Of the many better videos I have made, this is the one you guys want to watch. Please this vid is 1y ago🙏🏼💀 For me it's cringe(even though i'm the one who made it)
This is literally the most toxic but sweet dynamic. One has a low self esteem (most of the time) and the other has anger issues. When they get close they help each other out with each others problems and it's just so wholesome
omg that's the dymanic of two of the main charachters in a book that I'm writing except one is traumatised and has a sickly distorted self image and one has ocd and anger issues
They didnt notice you were crying They didn't notice you were sad They didn’t notice you were tired They didn’t notice you were alone They didn’t notice how attentive you were They didn’t notice how sweet you actually are... They didn’t notice how you actually try to make others smile They did notice you failing grades They did notice your unattractive They did notice the mean side of you They did notice all your mistakes They did notice all you flaws They did notice that you weren’t good enough for them. But you stayed strong You kept going on You never gave up on hope You never let then take you down And you know they wasn’t good enough for you And that’s what make you stronger not mine but u can spread it to make someones day :)
@@milkqx You do realize you aren’t special, they aren’t even specifically talking to you. This message isn’t even directed to you, so I’d recommend you to pipe down and go back to eating your dinosaur nuggets. 🙏
Just sometimes they cry and they dont show it. Just the fact that they are just Idk. also idm that when they shout at the sad ppl and they made revenge The happy person on the left needs oscar Edit: i edited my comment bcus i want to?
I can relate. But in a way, it makes a person feel accepted by them. That no matter what happens, they'll be there. That they genuinely wants to be your friend. ❤ Edit: Woah ty for the likes :00
Like my bff if i close to someone (girl) she gonna mad at me and i still smile also i cant do anything she so easy to mad like prank and she also mad if i have friends (girl) at roblox too i want to end the friendship but.. i likes to be bestie with her because it been 4 years friend with her..
Me and my bestie at a mall Me : bestie..it’s time. Bestie : >:D *me getting phone out and plays a song* I WOKE UP IN A NEW BUGATTI Both of us in the cart : WEEEEEEEE
dude, i have a friend that just insults me, and then we laugh about it then i insult her back, we about and have fun, its diffrent when you mean it in a funny way.
It feels nice to be just yourself with a close friend. you can show your ugly side to them without expecting any disgust or hate. It sounds relaxing to let yourself loose
Yeah, i made a friend in the sixth grade and didn’t notice all the red flags. She was messy, had F’s, didn’t want to graduate HS, was rude, spoiled, didn’t take care of her hygiene, didn’t want to listen to advice, and always crap talked others and acted like a pick me. 3 years went by and she hadnt changed, i ghosted her a week ago. So be careful who you make friends with and surround yourself with people who want to succeed and become a better version of themselves
@@aaangel4103 it's also important to realize that if your friend hurts you or hurts others, you should leave them. Its also important to keep a strong mind and realize, that their not a good person. And unless they want to change or you make them open their eyes, they will still and become a bad person. So, good job on leaving them. Even if it took a long time.
they're trying to push them away, for various reasons, I'm guessing one is that the best friend would get bullied for trying to be with them. also they may be protecting themselves , from getting hurt again, they could've been used and manipulated by people, or something like that.
@@KurO_playz_J-fan even tho its not an excuse, mental health is serious. Many people are neglected and take their anger out on other things to try and relive stress and make themselves feel better. They could also have abandonment/trust issues or both, because they have been in pain and dont want to re-live it again. Also it seems like in the video it looks like their parents are calling them names and such, and they look fed up about it so they are probably trying to push people away so they wont get attatched and push them away again, or protecting them from their mental health. Though, thats just my opinion. I’m just saying this person could be stressed and such.
@@KurO_playz_J-fan it's a natural response depending on the situation, people who have been abandoned or hurt by others are most likely going to not trust anyone and push people away.
I’d like to put this comment out there even with the chance that nobody will see this. If you have a friendship where your friend OPENLY INSULTS YOU, that is not healthy in the slightest. If you both understand it’s a joke, and your friend will stop if you say your uncomfortable, that’s one thing, but this is another. This is not a friendship. This is toxic. If your friend treats you like this, you need to tell an adult and get out of the relationship. This will never be okay. As someone who’s been in these relationships several times, they are INCREDIBLY damaging to your mental health and trying to “wait for them” is only going to make it worse. You cannot fix them. They do not want to be around you, and if you try and make them want to be around you, you’re only going to make things worse for yourself. Please take care of yourself. I love you.
Yk I might really use this advice, I used to be in a amazing relationship with this one girl- then it turned toxic after *one* time I just snapped because she kept pushing my buttons- and wouldn’t take my apology (mind you I was “apologizing for saying j wanted to (off) myself) for saying what I said. Like- I get you were upset but it’s not ok to try and force somebody to say sorry for something like that- at that time that’s when they need you the most-
Thank you. I have a friend that has other friends and they basically bully me everyday calling me names like rat and more, and they just looking for attention. Well one day I had a comment about crying in general about her messager/her dog and they took it as I wa saying it to them and we had a fight about my opinion and her other dog/guard was bullying me the whole way. Mean while she having a okay life as I suffer with grades, being in a more advanced school,social anxiety, people hating me , my body , and more. Am I wrong for doing this?
ok, but when the person kept saying negative things to the other pne who wanted to be their friend. . STORY TIME!!: so i started talking to a guy cause i had a feeling he liked me (in reality my bsf had the suspicion and i just agreed even though i didnt think so) so i talked to him online and sometimes at school, one day i ask him if he likes anyone, he says no, i say "okay-" and leaves to go to my bsf and her bf, he has been showing signs he likes me so its not a random guess school is near the end we're about to graduate, i tell him that im gonna make sure im his friend, and like in the video, i didnt give up on being his friend like the oc in the video. one day i feel very emotional and detached so i took a break from talking to any of my friends, it took months but i started talking to them eventually, the only one i didnt talk to was him, why? because i wanted to give him space and i was scared, because i sort of liked him a bit. weird. i know. but like, recently, i find out, my bsf's bf (who is also my friend) tells me that the guy actually did like me and another girl (lets call her K, even though i dont evem know her 💀), i was surprised, he tells me that the guy actually told my bsf this but he didnt want to hurt the other person's feelings when he decides who he likes, NOW IM HAVING EXISTENTIAL CRISIS IF I SHOULD TALK TO HIM AGAIN 😭😭😭 edit: i lie to myself when i 'like' someone, its either, they have something i wish i could also have, or i want to be them. he is just my friend, he is more distant but i still talk to him, man, misunderstanding and theory can be such a influence edit 2: goddamn thats long 💀💀💀💀 edit 3: got notified that this got a like, soooo- MORE STORY TIME! a few months ago after school started again, me and my bsf (lets call her nika) started noticing this girl kept hanging out with N (lets call her A, turns out i knew K girl and my best friends bf actually misinterpreted their convo) we later find out they were dating 2 weeks after our graduation last school year, they broke up Aug 9 and i think for school reasons, me and niks saw them go to conference yesterday, probably because teachers heard rumours about a student in our section dating someone from the other section
Even after a year I still see it as a toxic friendship. People says "i need this friend!", but y'all don't understand what this kind of friend might feel inside. People like that can't be always with you cause their kindness can't live long, they'll just leave you one day cause they had enough. Treat your friends normally if you don't wanna hurt them. Or if you did, don't be surprised by result
Same but cousin but he loves me and hugs me [in a cousin brother way] I love him :) He's an old grandpa tho ☠️ [he's in his 20s and I'm not even 15 ☠️]
I am that friend, I always like to say these things like this to my friends "I'm a parasite you can't get rid of me" "the only way to get rid of me is to throw me away yourself" and alot of my friends only see me as positive almost never sad just a hyperactive person. I also have huge attachment issues and am scared to be left by people, so even if someone hurts me, I shrug it off and stay with them. I even am toxic to myself due to my dark humor of self insult humor. My parents are worried and want me to get new friends, but I'm too scared to lose people. Even if my friends hurt me or not the best I didn't want to lose them, I was sort of the joke of the group and I made myself a joke, I joked about my pain and trauma and it even disturbed people around me. My attachment issues are even worse because I'm not social and if I loss friends I'm scared I won't make more. I am self distructive and like to mentally harm myself as a joke and sometimes my friends don't realize and accidentally make it worse. I've been this way for years. I feel like I'm venting it's weird and awkward, but if people read this, I I don't know.. Thanks though I will end it here, though.
I am not a psychology expert or anything but I have been through what you are currently. I also don't know the actual you but from my experience, aslong as you keep it light, fun and sutff, it is not bad but actually a good coping mechanism. Tho I can see it being harmful for your psyche if left unchecked. All and all...I hope you are having a happy day!
I’m similar to this but I don’t go around calling myself a parasite. I have told my friends they’re stuck with me and that they signed up for this, but they both say the same things to me and I love it in an odd way. I self-deprecate, I am constantly denying compliments to try and get them to see I’m not what they claim I am, I’m always agreeing with people when they insult me or call me a bitch, and there have been times when I thought about cutting myself with scissors just because I wanted to see what it was like. If it would hurt or if I would bleed a ton or if my skin would split or something like that. I don’t have depression, I don’t know if I have anything for certain because I don’t understand myself so I don’t know how to describe anything to be properly diagnosed(though I am positive I have ADHD, anxiety, paranoia, and seasonal insomnia) but this is what I’m like. I’m clingy but insecure, I’m quiet but loud, I hate myself and have convinced myself everyone else does, too, until they prove otherwise. I once was and probably still am gullible, which is why I’m terrified of toxic relationships. I tell myself I don’t believe or need others’ opinions yet I get shaky the moment somebody that I know hates me so much as calls my name. Everyone’s always told me I’m annoying and loud and to shut up to where it still hurts like hell whenever somebody says any of those to this day. I’m always trying to be nice to my sister, but something keeps me from doing that most of the time. I don’t like kids. I don’t like babies. So whenever my sister talks baby to our cats, I visibly cringe. I’m not the best person. I don’t consider myself fully stable. But I know if I tried to be better, I wouldn’t. Maybe it’s laziness. Maybe I just really don’t care about myself. Either way. I know I’m not changing unless something mentally flips a switch. (sorry I just made that entire damn ESSAY for no reason, I just felt the need to say you’re not alone Lol)
@BakuSimp_HinoAkuma thanks, I hope things get better for you, and thanks for showing your side of the coin. Part of my mind is like, OoooOoo, become friends, my weird mind xD, and I guess we are both long essay buddies :) I've been manipulated before, so I understand your fear, infact I'm so gullible that I have been manipulated by little kids. xD I take people seriously all the time but also have trust issues and don't trust anyone at the same time. xD I'm one of the quiet people in my friend groups, but when I try to talk, I get skittish when people are already in a conversation and retreat to my own isolation. I am going to stop talking about it before I make a book xD But thanks for telling me your experience, and I hope things get better for you! :)
@@LLINInMentalWonderland You too! I’m the same way. When I’m alone with my friends, I’m loud and talkative no matter where we are, but with THEIR friends, I’m quiet and isolated. Wanna stay on their good sides. I’ve been bullied long enough to know better than trust people, but people tell me the teacher wants to see me or talk to me or they talk about the paranormal and I’m all ears. Good to know I’m not the only one out there that’s fucked up like this to where even we don’t fully understand ourselves✊ I wish you luck, brother/sister. 🫡
I had a friendship like this.. they spoke shit about me behind my back calling me dramatic and stuff. (I was the one refusing to leave their side, but that drew the line for me, they honestly didnt care when I left) 🙁
Yeah, i made a friend in the sixth grade and didn’t notice all the red flags. She was messy, had F’s, didn’t want to graduate HS, was rude, spoiled, didn’t take care of her hygiene, didn’t want to listen to advice, and always crap talked others and acted like a pick me. 3 years went by and she hadnt changed, i ghosted her a week ago.
I have a friend who is slowly becoming my bestie and i really hope our friendship turns out as nice as this one ❤ UPDATE: Me and that friend are now like sisters. Me and another friend got in a fight and because of that that friend became really close with me!
Yeah, i made a friend in the sixth grade and didn’t notice all the red flags. She was messy, had F’s, didn’t want to graduate HS, was rude, spoiled, didn’t take care of her hygiene, didn’t want to listen to advice, and always crap talked others and acted like a pick me. 3 years went by and she hadnt changed, i ghosted her a week ago.
It really depends tho. The negative person might want to be a better person because of the effort the positive is doing. It can also be that the negative will have a soft spot with the positive but still rude and everything with everyone else
It's a really sweet thing to have people who accept your flaws. Just be sure to return that favour when they need it and appreciate them. Being friends with someone who constantly antagonises you is mentally exhausting. If you truly see someone who cares a lot about you then you must also put in the effort to care for them. Friendship can never be a one sided thing
I have a friend at school and when she doesn’t know something I know I say that she is dumb but she doesn’t take it seriously 👍 but when I don’t know something she knows then I pretend I know it because I’m afraid that she will do the same thing I do to her and my anger issues will get triggered 💀
Don't be surprised if she hates you one day. Don't expect someone to love you forever when you are so cruel to them. We are human beings who love and hate. We are not robots. We also want those we consider to be our friends to love us. Be kinder to her so that your friendship don't become toxic. One hand doesn't clap.
god? you dont even know the trauma i have 2years ago and im still doing today? you dont know ill die if i dont have a inhaler, when i vomit i cant stop? Im not trying to be rude but when im nice im always called "Rude "@@Azurewithgogos
@@zxxnder_kxndithats still a toxic friend ship, me and my bsf have been friends for 6-7 years also and we don’t do that .. ik everyone is different but that is js plain toxic
@@FunnyNFunky me and my friends are polar opposites. And I have emotion swings 24/7 which means like I’m happy, and then the next second I’m angry. Yeah, you shouldn’t fight all the time, but you will argue with your friends that’s just how humans are.
This reminds me of my own friendships, with me usually being the one on the right. Sometimes its not a great idea to get into a friendship like this one. Sometimes it isnt worth sticking around someone who degrades you, remember that.
If u r strong enough,and sure that the person is the good friend, you need to be strong and brave , as soon you melt their heart and feelings, you will got the sweetest friend, but don't leave them
@@H0shiiStaryou shouldnt try Always ro befreiend that Person If shes Always being Rude to you and other stuff you deserve better and If you still try to befreiend that Person you will become the victim oneday .. Thai also happend to me so i know what im talking about
The most painful is when u keep being toxic and when u change and start actually needing them.. they replace u (happened with me my bestie was always there for me and I was the ignoring one now she replaced me)
Apologize and prove you changed, I was like that with my friend for a short period of time, and you know what I did, TOOK ACCOUNTABILITY AND STARTED GIVING A SHIT, if you treat your friends like that and expect them to aid you after tearing down their mental health, than you’re the leech, not them
Me with my bestie we are over here like 1 year without talking with each other. We are still the same as the day we met and still get along like peanut butter and jelly lol❤
I'm the person on the right. My friend...well, doesn't appreciate my loyalty. But she doesn't notice my joyfulness even when she insults me. I have anxiety and cry alot but I don't cry around her cuz I want her to think I'm a random person who she can dump her feeling on while still running along ❤ Please thank that person in ur life, we have feelings as well and we are sacrificing them for others
I usually just let it go through one ear and out the other because I know the day I see her happy I'll be overjoyed. 😊 But it can be tiring cleaning someone else's negative emotions all the time, especially when they keep adding to the pile, so don't push yourself and think about your feelings as well.
To be mean to you? Or you are the mean person? If its the first one gezz dude thats weird if its the second one I think the other person Will get tired of your shitty personality
This is so true honestly. It makes me happy on the inside she cares for me but on the outside I try to act like I don’t care. Me and her have been friends since 6th grade. I have anger issues but she’s always happy and always being goofy and sometimes I get mad at her, I can be toxic to her but she doesn’t care, I love you Josephine (As my bestie)❤
Ngl that is literally me😂 My friend : "You are dumb" Me: "I know" And a bunch of other insults all I respond with is I know because if you target my insecurities I will not defend myself 😊
I’m exactly like that character! ❤ I’ll try my best to make u happy 😁 but annoyingly being nice got me into toxic friendships, but hey, I made people happy!
This relationship reminds me a lot like Blitzø and Stolas, one pushes away, afraid of getting hurt again while the other is just attached to them, proving them wrong about leaving
Everyone’s saying that they need a friend like this and are talking about how they joke around with their friends like this, but, the video clearly is not a joke and the friendship might just be toxic..You can really make someone feel like shit when you give them mixed signals like this or act like you hate them. Not everyone understands the classic “tsundere” behavior and will take it lightly. I get that you can be rude because of your mental health, but you can’t expect everyone to stay with you after you treat them like this. You could be affecting their mental health too, and that would be selfish to only think of them as something you can vent to and insult whenever you feel like it or when you have your episodes. Instead, you should ask them what’s okay to them and set boundaries. It’s the same with couples. If you can’t do that, you probably shouldn’t have friends. (It’s only good if they give you permission to treat them like this. Other than that, please do not expect your friend not to snap at you if you don’t treat them right.)
My best friend is the introvert that always ignores bullies and never gets angry Im the extrovert that always gets into fights,has anger issues and is always energetic 🔥
Always! ALWAYS! Check that your words aren’t hurting the other person! Don’t just do this once but constantly! You don’t want them to feel like sh*t! For example me and my friend group call each other sl*t, sl@g, pig, hippo, whale, gorilla, fat ect We all are okay with it. Everyone finds it funny. This is good, this is okay. Nobody’s hurt by this. We do check that they don’t mind. On the other hand, I had two friends who had this ‘banter’ and one of them always took it WAY to far. (I was not aware this was that bad until they stopped talking) Person A would try to express their feelings about it upsetting them and Person B basically ignored them. Person B did not check if Person A was okay with it and after a while Person A got fed up with the constant verbal abuse from Person B. ‘You can never do anything right’ ‘This is why your mother doesn’t love you’ (Their parents spilt up and their mother for some reason refuses to talk to them…) ‘Your actually a huge disappointment to your family, they just don’t tell you because you’ll become more of a burden then you already are’ ‘You know that person doesn’t actually like you, there faking it because your always too sensitive’ ‘Careful (Random Person), don’t let your dog near them! They will eat it because their Chinese!’ IF Person A had made it VERY clear that they were okay with this, this wouldn’t have been a problem. There were okay with it at first. But very quickly, they found it upsetting and frustrating. Person A stopped saying ‘mean’ things back, they tried to stop the banter. But Person B just kept going…
@@glassyappleLeave them or did you say to them that it hurts you? If you haven't you should, if you already have multiple times, make some real friends if they go too far. ❤❤
i have a close friend who often says hurtful words to me, but i still try to endure it because she is quite nice(?) to me but she keeps saying it and i feel hurt a lot, i gradually lose sympathy for her and i start to hate her sometimes, i don't know if what she said is true or not but her attitude really makes me hate her! no matter how good at enduring things, at some point they will lose patience and get bored, we all have our limits so i really think some people shouldn't do that to their friends and want them to endure it
(i relate to her bff.) No matter what,How much i care for them,How much i do for them,How i try to cheer them up,How much i hold in my thoughts and my tears,They always push me away.I might annoy them,I might Be Useless,I might be Clingy,But cant you ever have sympathy? Dont you know how hard it is to make friends? Ive Had this problem since my Shitty Childhood,I just want people to understand me.Their action towards people DO affect them.I was soo happy back then,Now it caused me to be lonely and Un-Social.I thank the soo called ''hEarT BroKeN'' people,for causing me this problem.
I can relate to this- Me and My Friend have a toxic friendship, so- she doesn’t talk to me and sometimes she lets me down, But I don’t care! I still want to be her friend no matter what!
You really should find other friends...it's hard to leave a friend even when you know they're toxic for you, but it's necessary for your own sake, you only have 1 you, please cherish yourself more dear. The world is vast and you still have your whole life ahead of you, trust me even if it may seem like there's no other better friends out there there will come a day when you find the friends who treat you good and make you feel happy, loved and appreciated. I hope you have a lovely day, take care of yourself ❤
This the relationship between me and my bff she would hurt so many people emotional and physical but I still wanted to be her friend and I don't regret anything I would do that with anyone I love making people happy :)
i understand that you want to make them happy, i'm the same way, but you should really try to cut them off. if they're not only hurting you emotionally, but physically as well, that really isn't a healthy friendship. you don't have to cut them off immediately, since i know how hard it can be to just suddenly stop communicating with someone you consider a close friend, but just try to slowly distance yourself over time. it's not worth sacrificing your physical and mental health just for one person's sake.
I am the always cheerful friend and the truth is that now I have two friends, one of whom I usually comfort when she cries and the other who has a strong humor but is pleasant and they get along quite well with each other
As a bipolar person, I've always been told im a monster, and other rude stuff. Because I always hurt people with my words. Although, atleast I have a friend whos happy and tells me to calm down 😅
I'm not bipolar but I have trouble regulating my emotions and I mostly cry for them, but when I'm annoyed I snap at people, And I've had a friend call me a donkey behind my back because of it, My friends are also okay with it but I do apologise just incase😅
What. I’ve had a friend like that for 2 years and I had the same mindset.. “Oh she isn’t talking bad to me anymore.. She must of calmed down.. Glad I could finally see her nice side❤” It’s the 2nd year of our friendship and I’m getting rid of this toxic friendship. She constantly degrades me, insults me, makes comments about my body. This is NOT ok but it depends. And it’s NOT a personality.. She constantly degrades other people as well.. If this situation sounds familiar to you as well. Take my advice and leave that filthy friend ship.. Summary: Ive been in a situation like this and it turned to crap
@@Mark.maxxiaoHUH? it’s still verbal abuse. “They are nice when you get to know them!” “They have been through things.” “Real friends would accept their problems.” “They just need help, it’s not their fault!” It is still verbal abuse.
Your so lucky to have a friend like that yk while with me having fake friends and leaving me behind and i always cry when i go home (doesn't matter lolll friends doesn't matter as dad said to me)))). BUUUUTTTTT YOUR FRIENDSHIP IS SOOOO BEAUTIFUL AND CUTE hope everyone is safe by now!!🥺 🥰 ❤❤❤
This friendship some might consider toxic but real the first person is probably just scared from an old friendship or they had parents who told them that friends would only use them and the second friend is trying to break down their walls and get through to them
@@Mark.maxxiaothats how i felt lol, i was the person on the left but now im leaving them tmw❤❤ yes ppl can be cold on the outside but maybe warm on the inside but its 50/50 ..
I swear people are so annoying, like I've been bullied my entire life for literally no reason, especially at home. I have literally been hurt by my brother as a sick joke, and then my mom expects me to be the kindest person on the planet when I got bullied my entire life and grew up around just rude people.
Thank god other people agree this isn’t normal, if it works for you then that’s amazing and if you and your friends are like this again amazing! But to start a “friendship” like this is kinda awful
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Of the many better videos I have made, this is the one you guys want to watch.
Please this vid is 1y ago🙏🏼💀
For me it's cringe(even though i'm the one who made it)
You actually got 4,7M views 🫢🫢
I can't stop watching this vid u totally rocked❤❤❤
I don't care if I like a video I'll comment on it or like no matter how old it is ✨🤡
It's cute ❤
I already watched this video so much
I need a friend like that in my life 🥹
Me toooooooo!
we all do ❤ some of us have them already
and I'm that friend :D
Me too❤
Same i cry all the time bcs i fight with them i feel pain and more..
This is literally the most toxic but sweet dynamic. One has a low self esteem (most of the time) and the other has anger issues. When they get close they help each other out with each others problems and it's just so wholesome
Yesss!
Literally me and my bestie-
This is so real
That was me at my best friend before when I was a with no friends
omg that's the dymanic of two of the main charachters in a book that I'm writing
except one is traumatised and has a sickly distorted self image
and one has ocd and anger issues
With the person I text the most we aren’t rlly friends, we just insult eachother and then talk crap abt pple we don’t like most of the time 😭
same-
frienemies?
Bestfriends in a nutshell 😂
@@Lily_Grace112yea
That's also me and my bff
I hope your friend doesn't end up traumatized, strength to him/her!
They didnt notice you were crying
They didn't notice you were sad
They didn’t notice you were tired
They didn’t notice you were alone
They didn’t notice how attentive you were
They didn’t notice how sweet you actually are...
They didn’t notice how you actually try to make others smile
They did notice you failing grades
They did notice your unattractive
They did notice the mean side of you
They did notice all your mistakes
They did notice all you flaws
They did notice that you weren’t good enough for them.
But you stayed strong
You kept going on
You never gave up on hope
You never let then take you down
And you know they wasn’t good enough for you
And that’s what make you stronger
not mine but u can spread it to make someones day :)
Cringe.
@@kroxxroad814you mad no one’s ever said this to you?
@@milkqx You do realize you aren’t special, they aren’t even specifically talking to you. This message isn’t even directed to you, so I’d recommend you to pipe down and go back to eating your dinosaur nuggets. 🙏
@@milkqxright
@@kroxxroad814bro mad when they have no friends 💀
Just sometimes they cry and they dont show it.
Just the fact that they are just Idk.
also idm that when they shout at the sad ppl and they made revenge
The happy person on the left needs oscar
Edit: i edited my comment bcus i want to?
That is true and it’s very sad
@@KawaiiGalaxy.10 ikr
Each individual person reacts in a different way 💀
@@stfukys_wdym
Not true. My friends tell me to kms and I laugh. Not because I’m mentally Ill but because it’s funny. Not everyone is the same.
Me when I meet my bestie:
Our brain: **disappears**
Literally
I BFF was upset bc of bullying when I first met them, so I gave her a Starburst and it made her so happy we became friends!
@@kaylynn_azraelStarbucks always helps❤️🩹
😂😂😂😂
Fr tho lol-
I feel like this friendship isn’t normal
Same...
😂
You're right
Yeah veiny guy is a fake friend who only cares about himself and thinks he is the only with problems and treats other badly. Just ew.
It is normal between me and my OVERLY EXTREMELY kind cousin, which is annoying. Sometimes 😒
As a Bipolar person, I have pushed away a ton of people with my words.. I wish I had a friend like that..
I'm here
hello 👋
Same here i have bipolar as well so
as the person i am i honestly would be that person :D
I can be your friend, if ya want :>
I can relate. But in a way, it makes a person feel accepted by them. That no matter what happens, they'll be there. That they genuinely wants to be your friend. ❤
Edit: Woah ty for the likes :00
Like my bff if i close to someone (girl) she gonna mad at me and i still smile also i cant do anything she so easy to mad like prank and she also mad if i have friends (girl) at roblox too i want to end the friendship but.. i likes to be bestie with her because it been 4 years friend with her..
@@Subto_tofujfoI can relate
Me and my bestie at a mall
Me : bestie..it’s time.
Bestie : >:D
*me getting phone out and plays a song*
I WOKE UP IN A NEW BUGATTI
Both of us in the cart : WEEEEEEEE
that sounds kinda fun
@@lightningilovehimsmit is lol
I got dirty mind for a second
@@realiebeaniebro me too as a Gemini we are dirty minded💀
@@ABsdFan-c8lwhat do zodiac signs have to do with this 💀💀
People say that they wish they had friends like that, but if they did, it would really damage the "friend's" mental health
I was the friend.
true.
Fr I am that friend .. they don't appreciate me now , do they?
dude, i have a friend that just insults me, and then we laugh about it then i insult her back, we about and have fun, its diffrent when you mean it in a funny way.
@@margarethmarc3500x 2
It feels nice to be just yourself with a close friend. you can show your ugly side to them without expecting any disgust or hate. It sounds relaxing to let yourself loose
Yeah, i made a friend in the sixth grade and didn’t notice all the red flags. She was messy, had F’s, didn’t want to graduate HS, was rude, spoiled, didn’t take care of her hygiene, didn’t want to listen to advice, and always crap talked others and acted like a pick me. 3 years went by and she hadnt changed, i ghosted her a week ago.
So be careful who you make friends with and surround yourself with people who want to succeed and become a better version of themselves
and yet I still put on my other personality around my closest friends (they're not irl friends, just internet friends)
@@aaangel4103 it's also important to realize that if your friend hurts you or hurts others, you should leave them. Its also important to keep a strong mind and realize, that their not a good person. And unless they want to change or you make them open their eyes, they will still and become a bad person. So, good job on leaving them. Even if it took a long time.
@@sebqstivn that's still okay, as long as you want to, you can. It entirely depends if you want your friends to see another side of you.
okay so, your ugly self is you being toxic??? girl ur friend better run then-
I seriously need a bff
Guys please dont treat your friends like this it genuinely hurts and mental health issues aren’t an excuse, albiet a reason
they're trying to push them away, for various reasons, I'm guessing one is that the best friend would get bullied for trying to be with them.
also they may be protecting themselves , from getting hurt again, they could've been used and manipulated by people, or something like that.
that's just my opinion, though.
@@Iexist-b4dthat’s not an excuse to hurt people.
@@KurO_playz_J-fan even tho its not an excuse, mental health is serious. Many people are neglected and take their anger out on other things to try and relive stress and make themselves feel better. They could also have abandonment/trust issues or both, because they have been in pain and dont want to re-live it again. Also it seems like in the video it looks like their parents are calling them names and such, and they look fed up about it so they are probably trying to push people away so they wont get attatched and push them away again, or protecting them from their mental health. Though, thats just my opinion. I’m just saying this person could be stressed and such.
@@KurO_playz_J-fan it's a natural response depending on the situation, people who have been abandoned or hurt by others are most likely going to not trust anyone and push people away.
Now that is the definition of a best friend and a real friend
And a toxic friendship
Dude.. Are you in a toxic friendship? I wish the best for you please get out of that situation.. ❤❤
I’d like to put this comment out there even with the chance that nobody will see this.
If you have a friendship where your friend OPENLY INSULTS YOU, that is not healthy in the slightest. If you both understand it’s a joke, and your friend will stop if you say your uncomfortable, that’s one thing, but this is another.
This is not a friendship. This is toxic. If your friend treats you like this, you need to tell an adult and get out of the relationship. This will never be okay.
As someone who’s been in these relationships several times, they are INCREDIBLY damaging to your mental health and trying to “wait for them” is only going to make it worse. You cannot fix them. They do not want to be around you, and if you try and make them want to be around you, you’re only going to make things worse for yourself.
Please take care of yourself. I love you.
I’ve been in a friendship likes this and I still stayed, even tho I damaged my mental health for her. I regret it, but at the same time I dont
Yk I might really use this advice, I used to be in a amazing relationship with this one girl- then it turned toxic after *one* time I just snapped because she kept pushing my buttons- and wouldn’t take my apology (mind you I was “apologizing for saying j wanted to (off) myself) for saying what I said. Like- I get you were upset but it’s not ok to try and force somebody to say sorry for something like that- at that time that’s when they need you the most-
Thank you. I have a friend that has other friends and they basically bully me everyday calling me names like rat and more, and they just looking for attention. Well one day I had a comment about crying in general about her messager/her dog and they took it as I wa saying it to them and we had a fight about my opinion and her other dog/guard was bullying me the whole way. Mean while she having a okay life as I suffer with grades, being in a more advanced school,social anxiety, people hating me , my body , and more. Am I wrong for doing this?
The opinion was- “ Crying is okay , but not for dumb reasons or your constantly crying”
I have a very hypocritical friend 🥲
ok, but when the person kept saying negative things to the other pne who wanted to be their friend. .
STORY TIME!!:
so i started talking to a guy cause i had a feeling he liked me (in reality my bsf had the suspicion and i just agreed even though i didnt think so) so i talked to him online and sometimes at school, one day i ask him if he likes anyone, he says no, i say "okay-" and leaves to go to my bsf and her bf, he has been showing signs he likes me so its not a random guess
school is near the end we're about to graduate, i tell him that im gonna make sure im his friend, and like in the video, i didnt give up on being his friend like the oc in the video. one day i feel very emotional and detached so i took a break from talking to any of my friends, it took months but i started talking to them eventually, the only one i didnt talk to was him, why? because i wanted to give him space and i was scared, because i sort of liked him a bit. weird. i know. but like, recently, i find out, my bsf's bf (who is also my friend) tells me that the guy actually did like me and another girl (lets call her K, even though i dont evem know her 💀), i was surprised, he tells me that the guy actually told my bsf this but he didnt want to hurt the other person's feelings when he decides who he likes, NOW IM HAVING EXISTENTIAL CRISIS IF I SHOULD TALK TO HIM AGAIN 😭😭😭
edit: i lie to myself when i 'like' someone, its either, they have something i wish i could also have, or i want to be them. he is just my friend, he is more distant but i still talk to him, man, misunderstanding and theory can be such a influence
edit 2: goddamn thats long 💀💀💀💀
edit 3: got notified that this got a like, soooo-
MORE STORY TIME!
a few months ago after school started again, me and my bsf (lets call her nika) started noticing this girl kept hanging out with N (lets call her A, turns out i knew K girl and my best friends bf actually misinterpreted their convo) we later find out they were dating 2 weeks after our graduation last school year, they broke up Aug 9 and i think for school reasons, me and niks saw them go to conference yesterday, probably because teachers heard rumours about a student in our section dating someone from the other section
Even after a year I still see it as a toxic friendship. People says "i need this friend!", but y'all don't understand what this kind of friend might feel inside. People like that can't be always with you cause their kindness can't live long, they'll just leave you one day cause they had enough. Treat your friends normally if you don't wanna hurt them. Or if you did, don't be surprised by result
I am the only one who thinks that that kind of friendship isn't normal??
no, i think it too
Nah, unless they were just joking and the other person was okay with it
Same
I have this friendship and I really love it
No, it isn't normal, only if it's a joke and both laughs
Me and my brother be like:
Same😃
Same 💀
Same tho😅
same
Same but cousin but he loves me and hugs me [in a cousin brother way] I love him :) He's an old grandpa tho ☠️ [he's in his 20s and I'm not even 15 ☠️]
If anyone needs a friend like this I’M RIGHT HERE!!!
Edit: anyone asking to be my friend in the reply section, Ofc I’ll be ur friend!! 🫶
Thank You ❤❤
💓
CAN I BE YOUR FRIENDDD??
@@Herrsch3r OFCC 🫶🫶
@Kyelico yep, i know!
I am that friend, I always like to say these things like this to my friends "I'm a parasite you can't get rid of me" "the only way to get rid of me is to throw me away yourself" and alot of my friends only see me as positive almost never sad just a hyperactive person. I also have huge attachment issues and am scared to be left by people, so even if someone hurts me, I shrug it off and stay with them. I even am toxic to myself due to my dark humor of self insult humor. My parents are worried and want me to get new friends, but I'm too scared to lose people. Even if my friends hurt me or not the best I didn't want to lose them, I was sort of the joke of the group and I made myself a joke, I joked about my pain and trauma and it even disturbed people around me. My attachment issues are even worse because I'm not social and if I loss friends I'm scared I won't make more. I am self distructive and like to mentally harm myself as a joke and sometimes my friends don't realize and accidentally make it worse. I've been this way for years.
I feel like I'm venting it's weird and awkward, but if people read this, I
I don't know..
Thanks though
I will end it here, though.
I am not a psychology expert or anything but I have been through what you are currently. I also don't know the actual you but from my experience, aslong as you keep it light, fun and sutff, it is not bad but actually a good coping mechanism. Tho I can see it being harmful for your psyche if left unchecked.
All and all...I hope you are having a happy day!
@@gomicgamer1245 thanks
I’m similar to this but I don’t go around calling myself a parasite. I have told my friends they’re stuck with me and that they signed up for this, but they both say the same things to me and I love it in an odd way. I self-deprecate, I am constantly denying compliments to try and get them to see I’m not what they claim I am, I’m always agreeing with people when they insult me or call me a bitch, and there have been times when I thought about cutting myself with scissors just because I wanted to see what it was like. If it would hurt or if I would bleed a ton or if my skin would split or something like that. I don’t have depression, I don’t know if I have anything for certain because I don’t understand myself so I don’t know how to describe anything to be properly diagnosed(though I am positive I have ADHD, anxiety, paranoia, and seasonal insomnia) but this is what I’m like. I’m clingy but insecure, I’m quiet but loud, I hate myself and have convinced myself everyone else does, too, until they prove otherwise. I once was and probably still am gullible, which is why I’m terrified of toxic relationships. I tell myself I don’t believe or need others’ opinions yet I get shaky the moment somebody that I know hates me so much as calls my name. Everyone’s always told me I’m annoying and loud and to shut up to where it still hurts like hell whenever somebody says any of those to this day. I’m always trying to be nice to my sister, but something keeps me from doing that most of the time. I don’t like kids. I don’t like babies. So whenever my sister talks baby to our cats, I visibly cringe. I’m not the best person. I don’t consider myself fully stable. But I know if I tried to be better, I wouldn’t. Maybe it’s laziness. Maybe I just really don’t care about myself. Either way. I know I’m not changing unless something mentally flips a switch.
(sorry I just made that entire damn ESSAY for no reason, I just felt the need to say you’re not alone Lol)
@BakuSimp_HinoAkuma thanks, I hope things get better for you, and thanks for showing your side of the coin. Part of my mind is like, OoooOoo, become friends, my weird mind xD, and I guess we are both long essay buddies :)
I've been manipulated before, so I understand your fear, infact I'm so gullible that I have been manipulated by little kids. xD I take people seriously all the time but also have trust issues and don't trust anyone at the same time. xD
I'm one of the quiet people in my friend groups, but when I try to talk, I get skittish when people are already in a conversation and retreat to my own isolation.
I am going to stop talking about it before I make a book xD
But thanks for telling me your experience, and I hope things get better for you! :)
@@LLINInMentalWonderland You too! I’m the same way. When I’m alone with my friends, I’m loud and talkative no matter where we are, but with THEIR friends, I’m quiet and isolated. Wanna stay on their good sides. I’ve been bullied long enough to know better than trust people, but people tell me the teacher wants to see me or talk to me or they talk about the paranormal and I’m all ears. Good to know I’m not the only one out there that’s fucked up like this to where even we don’t fully understand ourselves✊ I wish you luck, brother/sister. 🫡
I had a friendship like this.. they spoke shit about me behind my back calling me dramatic and stuff. (I was the one refusing to leave their side, but that drew the line for me, they honestly didnt care when I left) 🙁
Yeah, i made a friend in the sixth grade and didn’t notice all the red flags. She was messy, had F’s, didn’t want to graduate HS, was rude, spoiled, didn’t take care of her hygiene, didn’t want to listen to advice, and always crap talked others and acted like a pick me. 3 years went by and she hadnt changed, i ghosted her a week ago.
@@aaangel4103 I'm glad you made that choice
I have a friend who is slowly becoming my bestie and i really hope our friendship turns out as nice as this one ❤
UPDATE: Me and that friend are now like sisters. Me and another friend got in a fight and because of that that friend became really close with me!
Same
Good job! I'm glad you guys got close!!❤
Now that’s a good friend right there
I wish I had a friend like that
How to get in a toxic friendship in 27 seconds:
Yeah, i made a friend in the sixth grade and didn’t notice all the red flags. She was messy, had F’s, didn’t want to graduate HS, was rude, spoiled, didn’t take care of her hygiene, didn’t want to listen to advice, and always crap talked others and acted like a pick me. 3 years went by and she hadnt changed, i ghosted her a week ago.
It really depends tho. The negative person might want to be a better person because of the effort the positive is doing. It can also be that the negative will have a soft spot with the positive but still rude and everything with everyone else
@xjamezxx Yep!
@xjamezxxthat's not an excuse though?😭
@xjamezxxI'm like that, it's really painful and I can't control it. But im trying my best
I feel like people these days are just friends with others to bully eachother, I wish everyone were actually friends
I have a cold heart...
But my bestie make my heart melt😊
But sometimes i felt alone and my heart is so dark and cold
It's a really sweet thing to have people who accept your flaws. Just be sure to return that favour when they need it and appreciate them. Being friends with someone who constantly antagonises you is mentally exhausting. If you truly see someone who cares a lot about you then you must also put in the effort to care for them. Friendship can never be a one sided thing
Accepting flaws and taking toxic people's toxicity are 2 VERY different things. Abuse an toxicity aren't "flaws".
Usually when someone is acting happy when they’re being treated rudely it means they have lost it not like angry it’s just hard to explain
I have a friend at school and when she doesn’t know something I know I say that she is dumb but she doesn’t take it seriously 👍 but when I don’t know something she knows then I pretend I know it because I’m afraid that she will do the same thing I do to her and my anger issues will get triggered 💀
So don't say dumb to anyone 😇👍
@@princessamira2080sorry I won’t :’>
I’m a cruel selfish person who only does things for my own sake
@@TheFluidShapeShifter Yk, thats something you say to ur therapist. Not to strangers on YT.
Don't be surprised if she hates you one day. Don't expect someone to love you forever when you are so cruel to them. We are human beings who love and hate. We are not robots. We also want those we consider to be our friends to love us. Be kinder to her so that your friendship don't become toxic. One hand doesn't clap.
I would never hate her , never in my life
I'm sure their friendship got better after the conversation shown in this video!
could be bipolar r anger issues!
@@cwatzeditz that doesn’t matter. You should at least have the human decency to apologize once your in a clearer mindset
god? you dont even know the trauma i have 2years ago and im still doing today? you dont know ill die if i dont have a inhaler, when i vomit i cant stop? Im not trying to be rude but when im nice im always called "Rude
"@@Azurewithgogos
Awwww, I really need a friend like that
toxic friendship alarm
that’s me and my best friend and we’ve been friends for 6-7 years 🤭
I dunno we’re both but it depends on our mood who we are 😚
Ikr
@@zxxnder_kxndistill toxic
@@zxxnder_kxndi sorry but that's still a toxic friendship 🤷♀️🤷♀️
@@zxxnder_kxndithats still a toxic friend ship, me and my bsf have been friends for 6-7 years also and we don’t do that .. ik everyone is different but that is js plain toxic
Bro if u both argue with eachother but don't joke around that aint besties 💀💀
Not everyone gets along with each other-
@@Lun4r_th3_.T1g3r. ur supposed to get along with eachother with your friends is my point :/
@@FunnyNFunky me and my friends are polar opposites. And I have emotion swings 24/7 which means like I’m happy, and then the next second I’m angry. Yeah, you shouldn’t fight all the time, but you will argue with your friends that’s just how humans are.
thats toxic bestie😭@@Lun4r_th3_.T1g3r.
Who argue?
HELLO MY FELLOW MALAYSIAN I HAVE JUST FOUND U AND U ARE SO UNDERRATED LIKE WHAT?! I'M AM SUBBING RN
I want a friend like that 😢❤ ur so lucky 🍀
Same as my friend before he left me
Stay strong :>
As he should
@@ChildeRailMeI want to laugh but I feel like I'll go to hell👁👄👁
@@ChildeRailMeWHAT IS YOUR NAME- 😭💀
CHILDE SIMP?
@@livelovellama😅i laughed at this so I'm going😢wait i already have it it's called homework/school/bullys/ex bff
This reminds me of my own friendships, with me usually being the one on the right. Sometimes its not a great idea to get into a friendship like this one.
Sometimes it isnt worth sticking around someone who degrades you, remember that.
If u r strong enough,and sure that the person is the good friend, you need to be strong and brave , as soon you melt their heart and feelings, you will got the sweetest friend, but don't leave them
Yes, there is a chance of that. However, if it ever feels like a loosing battle, people need to put themselves first.@@Mark.maxxiao
@@H0shiiStaryou shouldnt try Always ro befreiend that Person If shes Always being Rude to you and other stuff you deserve better and If you still try to befreiend that Person you will become the victim oneday ..
Thai also happend to me so i know what im talking about
The most painful is when u keep being toxic and when u change and start actually needing them.. they replace u (happened with me my bestie was always there for me and I was the ignoring one now she replaced me)
Honestly, can’t blame her
@@_forest2182 exactly, there's only so much a person can take
That's sad but can you blame her.
Don’t think u changed by the wording of ur comment
Apologize and prove you changed, I was like that with my friend for a short period of time, and you know what I did, TOOK ACCOUNTABILITY AND STARTED GIVING A SHIT, if you treat your friends like that and expect them to aid you after tearing down their mental health, than you’re the leech, not them
That's called ✨ positivity ✨ 😉
Me with my bestie we are over here like 1 year without talking with each other.
We are still the same as the day we met and still get along like peanut butter and jelly lol❤
Lol mine is like 4 years and we are still the same
I relate to this but im the best friend who stays positive about everything
best pfp ever.
I'm the person on the right. My friend...well, doesn't appreciate my loyalty. But she doesn't notice my joyfulness even when she insults me. I have anxiety and cry alot but I don't cry around her cuz I want her to think I'm a random person who she can dump her feeling on while still running along ❤
Please thank that person in ur life, we have feelings as well and we are sacrificing them for others
It’s not good for ur mental health pookie , try distancing her from u and when she asks why u do tell her how she treats u
@@KawaiiGalaxy.10 which is why im going to counselling:(
@@MushroomMoomin SAME ✨️ not for that reason *ONLY* tho
no same and i love her so much but it hurts so much
I usually just let it go through one ear and out the other because I know the day I see her happy I'll be overjoyed. 😊 But it can be tiring cleaning someone else's negative emotions all the time, especially when they keep adding to the pile, so don't push yourself and think about your feelings as well.
You so lucky to have this friend with you my all friend leave me alone in this hard life 💔 i wish have one like her💔
As they shou- well if ur gonna treat them like that it's obvious they will not to be rude at all but unless u do that I feel bad.
now that’s a real friend.
And a toxic relationship.
Fake friend*
I wish for a bff like that :((
Same😊
Same
To be mean to you? Or you are the mean person?
If its the first one gezz dude thats weird if its the second one I think the other person Will get tired of your shitty personality
same....
I’m that friend lol
😊❤
This friendship is everything
By everything do you mean toxic as hell?
Tf? This isn't toxic like if they have anger issues@@trashcat5318
Yeah, friendship when you hurt your friend obviously s everything/s
This is so true honestly. It makes me happy on the inside she cares for me but on the outside I try to act like I don’t care. Me and her have been friends since 6th grade.
I have anger issues but she’s always happy and always being goofy and sometimes I get mad at her, I can be toxic to her but she doesn’t care, I love you Josephine (As my bestie)❤
Aww ❤
@@LaylaTheAnimator Lol
Same with my friend
That one friend that accept every complaints and insults: 😊
Omg ty, I never has so many like before😭❤️ usually, no one notice me
thats me lol
jeje
Mee
Thats me
me
“ your useless !”
“ I know ! “ broke my heart
Edit: dang y’all not to be that person but I forgot about this comment but thanks for the likes
me too 😢
Same 😭
Ngl that is literally me😂
My friend : "You are dumb"
Me: "I know"
And a bunch of other insults all I respond with is I know because if you target my insecurities I will not defend myself 😊
me when my friends insult me 😁👍
@neeti-zr7go how is that weak lol
wish I had that kind of friend
I’m exactly like that character! ❤ I’ll try my best to make u happy 😁 but annoyingly being nice got me into toxic friendships, but hey, I made people happy!
I’m the one not backing down but sometimes they hurt me mentally in these friendships it makes me cry everyday.
Fr I want a friendship like dat 👍🏻
I would like to be this friend for you if you want😊
why would you want a toxic friendship.
This relationship reminds me a lot like Blitzø and Stolas, one pushes away, afraid of getting hurt again while the other is just attached to them, proving them wrong about leaving
This is the complete opposite of me, my friends make fun of me as much as they want because they know I have no one else.
aw, im really sorry for you i hope you’ll be able to make new friends! please tell someone abt this
you will have friends,your beautiful and your bff will never leave because they loved you no matter what.
Awww this is what a true friendship looks like❤
You mean a toxic one?
Everyone’s saying that they need a friend like this and are talking about how they joke around with their friends like this, but, the video clearly is not a joke and the friendship might just be toxic..You can really make someone feel like shit when you give them mixed signals like this or act like you hate them. Not everyone understands the classic “tsundere” behavior and will take it lightly. I get that you can be rude because of your mental health, but you can’t expect everyone to stay with you after you treat them like this. You could be affecting their mental health too, and that would be selfish to only think of them as something you can vent to and insult whenever you feel like it or when you have your episodes. Instead, you should ask them what’s okay to them and set boundaries. It’s the same with couples. If you can’t do that, you probably shouldn’t have friends. (It’s only good if they give you permission to treat them like this. Other than that, please do not expect your friend not to snap at you if you don’t treat them right.)
My best friend is the introvert that always ignores bullies and never gets angry
Im the extrovert that always gets into fights,has anger issues and is always energetic 🔥
Woah im very energetic with my friends, never gets angry, my friend is the opposite :)
@Strawberryo-o fr
Always! ALWAYS! Check that your words aren’t hurting the other person! Don’t just do this once but constantly! You don’t want them to feel like sh*t!
For example me and my friend group call each other sl*t, sl@g, pig, hippo, whale, gorilla, fat ect
We all are okay with it.
Everyone finds it funny.
This is good, this is okay.
Nobody’s hurt by this.
We do check that they don’t mind.
On the other hand, I had two friends who had this ‘banter’ and one of them always took it WAY to far. (I was not aware this was that bad until they stopped talking)
Person A would try to express their feelings about it upsetting them and Person B basically ignored them.
Person B did not check if Person A was okay with it and after a while Person A got fed up with the constant verbal abuse from Person B.
‘You can never do anything right’
‘This is why your mother doesn’t love you’ (Their parents spilt up and their mother for some reason refuses to talk to them…)
‘Your actually a huge disappointment to your family, they just don’t tell you because you’ll become more of a burden then you already are’
‘You know that person doesn’t actually like you, there faking it because your always too sensitive’
‘Careful (Random Person), don’t let your dog near them! They will eat it because their Chinese!’
IF Person A had made it VERY clear that they were okay with this, this wouldn’t have been a problem.
There were okay with it at first. But very quickly, they found it upsetting and frustrating.
Person A stopped saying ‘mean’ things back, they tried to stop the banter. But Person B just kept going…
Same thing with me my parents are divorced and my friends make mean jokes about how my dad is absent
@@glassyapple that’s so messed up! I’m so sorry they have been saying that, it’s really insensitive of them!
@@glassyappleLeave them or did you say to them that it hurts you? If you haven't you should, if you already have multiple times, make some real friends if they go too far. ❤❤
I confronted them a week ago, they said they wouldn’t make those jokes anymore, but thanks
Even if your words will hurt me, idc, I'd still be your friend, I'm rude as well at times
I need a friend like that in my life ;-; 😭👊
That person is so kind😢
As someone who goes through this at school and also sees it happen to others like me, it’s absolutely absurd.
A little similar with me and my new friend!
I'm the one who keeps trying to get along with them.
i have a close friend who often says hurtful words to me, but i still try to endure it because she is quite nice(?) to me but she keeps saying it and i feel hurt a lot, i gradually lose sympathy for her and i start to hate her sometimes, i don't know if what she said is true or not but her attitude really makes me hate her! no matter how good at enduring things, at some point they will lose patience and get bored, we all have our limits so i really think some people shouldn't do that to their friends and want them to endure it
(i relate to her bff.) No matter what,How much i care for them,How much i do for them,How i try to cheer them up,How much i hold in my thoughts and my tears,They always push me away.I might annoy them,I might Be Useless,I might be Clingy,But cant you ever have sympathy? Dont you know how hard it is to make friends? Ive Had this problem since my Shitty Childhood,I just want people to understand me.Their action towards people DO affect them.I was soo happy back then,Now it caused me to be lonely and Un-Social.I thank the soo called ''hEarT BroKeN'' people,for causing me this problem.
Omg you just described me and my besties friendship 🥳🥳
That’s honestly horrible..
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@@cr33pi dude if only you knew what the left person goes throu..you jst dont get it
@@sharkogcyh fr they don’t know
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This is my friend when I say I dont trust anyone in being my best friend...😔
Your bsf is so loyal thats sweet😭-
I wanna say that you are really luckily to have such a good friend ! :D
I can relate to this- Me and My Friend have a toxic friendship, so- she doesn’t talk to me and sometimes she lets me down, But I don’t care! I still want to be her friend no matter what!
You really should find other friends...it's hard to leave a friend even when you know they're toxic for you, but it's necessary for your own sake, you only have 1 you, please cherish yourself more dear.
The world is vast and you still have your whole life ahead of you, trust me even if it may seem like there's no other better friends out there
there will come a day when you find the friends who treat you good and make you feel happy, loved and appreciated.
I hope you have a lovely day, take care of yourself ❤
same, i leave my friends all the time but it never hurts them and never hurts me when they do it
Dumbass, leave her and get brain
This the relationship between me and my bff she would hurt so many people emotional and physical but I still wanted to be her friend and I don't regret anything I would do that with anyone I love making people happy :)
i understand that you want to make them happy, i'm the same way, but you should really try to cut them off. if they're not only hurting you emotionally, but physically as well, that really isn't a healthy friendship. you don't have to cut them off immediately, since i know how hard it can be to just suddenly stop communicating with someone you consider a close friend, but just try to slowly distance yourself over time. it's not worth sacrificing your physical and mental health just for one person's sake.
@@arch3r_istired actually me and my friend ended up drifting apart so we don't talk anymore
I am the always cheerful friend and the truth is that now I have two friends, one of whom I usually comfort when she cries and the other who has a strong humor but is pleasant and they get along quite well with each other
As a bipolar person, I've always been told im a monster, and other rude stuff. Because I always hurt people with my words. Although, atleast I have a friend whos happy and tells me to calm down 😅
I'm not bipolar but I have trouble regulating my emotions and I mostly cry for them, but when I'm annoyed I snap at people, And I've had a friend call me a donkey behind my back because of it, My friends are also okay with it but I do apologise just incase😅
It’s rare to find a friend like her. When you have such an attitude and a personality..
Because she is such an amazing person inside ❤️
What. I’ve had a friend like that for 2 years and I had the same mindset.. “Oh she isn’t talking bad to me anymore.. She must of calmed down.. Glad I could finally see her nice side❤” It’s the 2nd year of our friendship and I’m getting rid of this toxic friendship. She constantly degrades me, insults me, makes comments about my body. This is NOT ok but it depends. And it’s NOT a personality.. She constantly degrades other people as well.. If this situation sounds familiar to you as well. Take my advice and leave that filthy friend ship..
Summary: Ive been in a situation like this and it turned to crap
@@Mark.maxxiaoHUH? it’s still verbal abuse.
“They are nice when you get to know them!”
“They have been through things.”
“Real friends would accept their problems.”
“They just need help, it’s not their fault!”
It is still verbal abuse.
That's fr me and my friend.. She says the same thing.., she's rude but she still cares tho, so theirs no need to worry..
UGHHH I NEED MY FRIEND TO BE LIKE THAT😭
Omg, I love your edits!!🤩✨️
Your so lucky to have a friend like that yk while with me having fake friends and leaving me behind and i always cry when i go home (doesn't matter lolll friends doesn't matter as dad said to me)))). BUUUUTTTTT YOUR FRIENDSHIP IS SOOOO BEAUTIFUL AND CUTE hope everyone is safe by now!!🥺 🥰 ❤❤❤
I'm really sorry about that. If you ever need someone to talk to you can tag me
@@kayano2724 ty
Bro im crying. That's what it felt
This friendship some might consider toxic but real the first person is probably just scared from an old friendship or they had parents who told them that friends would only use them and the second friend is trying to break down their walls and get through to them
how me and my bf met :
This describes me and my best friend. She’s always negative.
You don’t know how much you love someone until they leave…
If the person want to be friends with u sm ,they will never leave 👑
@@Mark.maxxiaothats how i felt lol, i was the person on the left but now im leaving them tmw❤❤ yes ppl can be cold on the outside but maybe warm on the inside but its 50/50 ..
You guys are lucky to have a bsf like that, mine just left me.
Because she was probably hurt by the friendship.. :(
This is exactly how my ex and I were.. I miss her so much
I swear people are so annoying, like I've been bullied my entire life for literally no reason, especially at home. I have literally been hurt by my brother as a sick joke, and then my mom expects me to be the kindest person on the planet when I got bullied my entire life and grew up around just rude people.
Yes
Thank god other people agree this isn’t normal, if it works for you then that’s amazing and if you and your friends are like this again amazing! But to start a “friendship” like this is kinda awful
I wish my friends were like this
That’s really cute! I love it because I relate, and you have a nice editing style how long did it take?
I wanna be your friend :D
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Okeh!
My life is like this too tbh but idc cause i still got my best friends and my good friends that are on my side forever since kindergarten
She’s that one friend I want to have ❤️ made me cry so whole🥹