I love getting advice from a woman who actually puts Gods word ahead of her own understanding. I hope I can be a virtuous and godly wife to my husband.
I'm not even married yet but I feel like these tips would go a long way to help us all women. Again, we need to be wise women to build our home in a godly manner. God bless you Bibiana
Singlehood is the perfect time to listen to content like this. If you desire marriage please listen to more content like this, daily. I make make son 20 yo and daughter 22yo (who has never dated yet) listen to content like this since they were in their teens. Including content on christian dating.
I am not religious at all but I still really appreciated your message. I was really struggling with a similar situation this evening (and acutally for the past few months) and your message helped me 1)not say a lot of the things that were going on in my head, and 2)to consider what I can do to help him instead of focusing on what I need from him. Thank you for sharing this message.
God Bless you. My Pastor was just saying this week that every man has a child in him, a warrior and a king. And which ever one you speak to and encourage that is the side that will come out. So if you want to see a king, treat and speak to him as such.
Bibiana Yetty Vlogs at the moment me and my wife are really going through some things and I really appreciate you sharing your testimony I'm actually going to share it with her the advice you gave and I am a husband was awesome every wife should see this
First of all, your voice is so easy to listen to! Second, I absolutely love your advice in this video! It sounds so peaceful and loving. That is the kind of wife I strive to be. I am not married yet but I am seeing someone who has expressed his interest in marrying me in the future. You have such a beautiful spirit.
Thank you so much for this inspiration! It came right on time. I am also a twin mommy. My twin boys were born 4/22/16 and it's been a huge change to our household. I find myself super hormonal and emotional but I try to make sure I am not loading too much on my husband because he does so much for our family and I appreciate him. This is a great reminder for me to keep supporting and building him up and keeping God first. I try to handle things all on my own sometimes and it results in me not taking care of myself or allowing my emotions to get the best of me. Praying for him and praying with him is and always has been the key for our marital success! Again thank you so much for this! My mood has instantly been turned around because my morning started off rough. God bless you! ❤️
I loved this vlog SO much! I'm an engaged woman and this Inspired me to pursue my future marriage in the ways that you listed. Please do more of these talks!!💗
what a lovely wife you are!! you really make me think of the scripture: 1 Peter 3:4 so much..., it should be that of your inner self, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is of great worth in God's sight. What a lovely quiet and gentle spirit you have. I pray that all our marriages are strengthened.
Thankful for this! I got married a little under 2 months ago and I realize that verbal affirmation doesn't really come natural to me. I know my husband needs it so i appreciate the tips and your personal story (its so relatable)!
thank you @bibiana you are right the devil is really battling with marriages right now. one thing i would like to add is that. people tend to forget that we are all different hence each marriagebis different; you can use the same concepts but learn to fine tune it to your family. like the tips you gave for example prayer, my husband would rather i pray for him and by myself than we do collectively although we pray together once a while, if i stress him all the time to pray together he gets irritated. Trust me my hubby is grounded in God he just has a different approach. That said please ladies its important to understand your spouse and family and do what works for you. God bless.
Thanks for sharing your thoughts on this. I really love what you said about marriages being different, because a lot of wives compare their husband to other husbands, especially with regard to being helpful around the house/ with the kids or his spiritual walk. If we only knew the power of being cheerleaders rather than nags. Obviously we have to use wisdom especially if their actions are unbiblical... But for simple things we wives have to stop nagging. For example, my husband and I have totally different preference on worship music and differences in the way we pray. To be honest it used to frustrate me and cause a ton foolish arguments, which was totally my fault. Imagine that arguing over the way we pray. As wives we have remember the enemy will use any door so you just have to use wisdom, remember you are team and water your OWN grass. x
I absolutely love this! I am not married at all and I'm as single as it gets lol but this is the type of video you archive for the future, it is going to be helpful in the future. Thank you.
I had listened to this before I got into a relationship. I just listened again now that I'm engaged, and there are lots of gems here. Thank you, Bibiana.
Thank you for sharing your story, you are relatable and your tips are practical and achievable not something far fetched. I like this series on marriage looking forward to more.
This video was such a blessing! Very good godly advice. Thank you so much for not only sharing some of your own personal stories but also being a godly example for other women like me.😊
I really appreciated this and just subscribed. It’s always so nice to find another sister and channel on here in Christ. Your heart to follow the Lord and obey Him came through so much on here. I love that. Very helpful, spiritually encouraging advice! Have a wonderful day.
Some of this information was helpful. However, I really struggle with the patriarchy of the wife "shall be silent". I get saying things in a mindful and respectful way. However, to not express yourself or your concerns or issues is to me so hard on the heart and soul to be *silenced as to not cause conflict or discomfort* for your husband. Conflict is going to come up in all relationships, and to ignore your own feelings and thoughts and keep them between yourself and God is not being true to yourself or your relationship. I vote for expressing yourself and your truth, but in a way that is not blaming or criticizing.
As a newlywed during this crazy pandemic I've realized that every thought does not need to be expressed. There is power in the ability to control ones tongue. And discernment is a definite gift from God. My husband is the most amazing man God ever breathe life into. I am much more happier and content with not always being right or winning an argument. Because at the end of the day a wife has the whisper of the Holy Spirit on her side. As long as your desires align with God's purpose and plan you and your husband will be fantastic partners. Im an old woman of 47. 5 months into my first and last marriage. I've been engaged 4 times before. I've grown and matured in the spirit enough to know that I've only just begun. I am merely a neophyte in the kingdom. But im so content knowing that I am doing all I can to honor God first by honoring the husband He made just for me.
I've been subscribed to your channel for a while and this is the first video I've ever really watched now I feel like I've been missing out. Really nice message!
Thanks, I needed to hear this. I'm struggling because I'm the one working. I'm coming home having to work 40+ hrs but clean, cook, etc. But he has a very bad back... I cannot get him to see a doctor or massage therapist so I'm really having trouble
well done Bibi this is by far 1 of the best videos I have seen..everything u said is right..we need to be very cautious of our speech when we angry...cos It will either make ur marriage or break it. Looking forward to more videos like this🙌👍👍👏👏
I agree with everything you're saying. However, it gets frustrating feeling like I have to coddle his fragile ego and build him up, while never getting the same in return. He talks me up to other people, but when he never says any of those things directly to me, it feels more like he does that for his own image rather than mine. Sometimes I wonder if maybe he doesn't have the confidence to be direct with me. We don't have it easy as we have twin special needs teenagers. I homeschool them, so a lot of my time and energy is caught up in them. In fact the spare time I get usually entails me trying to foster and keep alive the part of me that isn't just "mom". His energy goes towards his job, church obligations, and giving me a break a couple times a week, including letting do whatever I want on Saturdays. Man, writing this I feel bad for even saying anything. He's a very good man. We've been married 19 years, but sometimes it feels like I'm just a part of the background for him. I didn't get so much as a card this past anniversary. How can we make our relationship with each other more of a priority? Lately I can't stand this man who I also love dearly. It's confusing. Sorry for the rambling rant, but felt good to get it out. I'll try the tips you gave. If anyone made it through this book I wrote and has any advice, it is appreciated. ☺
Hi Bibiana, a little off topic but what material do you use to home school your kids? I have a 20 month year old, and trying find some good material. Thanks!
Your message is beautiful but i would like to gently suggest that you might think about slowing down your speech so that your words can be heard and digested easier! Love you, God bless you!
he doesnt want to be seen with you, next time yall go out put your sexiest outfit on and walk ahead of him ... once he sees other men lookin at you, he'll be reminded of the queen he has and doesnt want to lose
I love getting advice from a woman who actually puts Gods word ahead of her own understanding.
I hope I can be a virtuous and godly wife to my husband.
This means so much. Gods word must be the foundation for everything
I'm not even married yet but I feel like these tips would go a long way to help us all women. Again, we need to be wise women to build our home in a godly manner.
God bless you Bibiana
Amen! Thank you so much. You are right! Glad you got some takeaway from it
Singlehood is the perfect time to listen to content like this. If you desire marriage please listen to more content like this, daily. I make make son 20 yo and daughter 22yo (who has never dated yet) listen to content like this since they were in their teens. Including content on christian dating.
So many gems!
You can only change a man when he’s a baby 🍼
Everyman has a king and a fool in him which one will you feed?
Needed this 🙌🏽
I am not religious at all but I still really appreciated your message. I was really struggling with a similar situation this evening (and acutally for the past few months) and your message helped me 1)not say a lot of the things that were going on in my head, and 2)to consider what I can do to help him instead of focusing on what I need from him. Thank you for sharing this message.
I am so glad you got some takeaways from this. Thank you for sharing too x
God Bless you. My Pastor was just saying this week that every man has a child in him, a warrior and a king. And which ever one you speak to and encourage that is the side that will come out. So if you want to see a king, treat and speak to him as such.
Today I'm sharing my story and thoughts on being an encouraging wife. I would love to hear your thoughts too.
just discovering your channel!! Great job! from Bibiana to Bibiana :)
Bibiana Giplé aww thanks Bibiana. Lovely name ☺️💛
Bibiana Yetty Vlogs at the moment me and my wife are really going through some things and I really appreciate you sharing your testimony I'm actually going to share it with her the advice you gave and I am a husband was awesome every wife should see this
First of all, your voice is so easy to listen to! Second, I absolutely love your advice in this video! It sounds so peaceful and loving. That is the kind of wife I strive to be. I am not married yet but I am seeing someone who has expressed his interest in marrying me in the future. You have such a beautiful spirit.
Thank you so much for this inspiration! It came right on time. I am also a twin mommy. My twin boys were born 4/22/16 and it's been a huge change to our household. I find myself super hormonal and emotional but I try to make sure I am not loading too much on my husband because he does so much for our family and I appreciate him. This is a great reminder for me to keep supporting and building him up and keeping God first. I try to handle things all on my own sometimes and it results in me not taking care of myself or allowing my emotions to get the best of me. Praying for him and praying with him is and always has been the key for our marital success! Again thank you so much for this! My mood has instantly been turned around because my morning started off rough. God bless you! ❤️
I am at the end of the video and stumble upon “Inside a man there is a king and a fool” thank you for that
I loved this vlog SO much! I'm an engaged woman and this Inspired me to pursue my future marriage in the ways that you listed. Please do more of these talks!!💗
You are so welcome
I thank God for filling you up with so much wisdom sis ! May the Lord continue to increase you mightily and bless your home IJN !
what a lovely wife you are!! you really make me think of the scripture: 1 Peter 3:4 so much..., it should be that of your inner self, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is of great worth in God's sight. What a lovely quiet and gentle spirit you have. I pray that all our marriages are strengthened.
I'm glad you shared this
Thank you Sisi 💛💛
Am coming to your channel for some egusi o
What a powerful story! I appreciate your tips for my marriage to come . 🙏❤️
Thankful for this! I got married a little under 2 months ago and I realize that verbal affirmation doesn't really come natural to me. I know my husband needs it so i appreciate the tips and your personal story (its so relatable)!
thank you @bibiana you are right the devil is really battling with marriages right now. one thing i would like to add is that. people tend to forget that we are all different hence each marriagebis different; you can use the same concepts but learn to fine tune it to your family. like the tips you gave for example prayer, my husband would rather i pray for him and by myself than we do collectively although we pray together once a while, if i stress him all the time to pray together he gets irritated. Trust me my hubby is grounded in God he just has a different approach. That said please ladies its important to understand your spouse and family and do what works for you. God bless.
i am sorry about the typographical errors and all 😊
Thanks for sharing your thoughts on this. I really love what you said about marriages being different, because a lot of wives compare their husband to other husbands, especially with regard to being helpful around the house/ with the kids or his spiritual walk. If we only knew the power of being cheerleaders rather than nags. Obviously we have to use wisdom especially if their actions are unbiblical... But for simple things we wives have to stop nagging. For example, my husband and I have totally different preference on worship music and differences in the way we pray. To be honest it used to frustrate me and cause a ton foolish arguments, which was totally my fault. Imagine that arguing over the way we pray. As wives we have remember the enemy will use any door so you just have to use wisdom, remember you are team and water your OWN grass. x
You've put a lot of thought behind this video. It speaks wisdom and God's truth!
I just started a channel called the Encouraging Wife! Channel goals right here! Great tips!
I absolutely love this! I am not married at all and I'm as single as it gets lol but this is the type of video you archive for the future, it is going to be helpful in the future. Thank you.
I hope so. Thank you x
I had listened to this before I got into a relationship. I just listened again now that I'm engaged, and there are lots of gems here. Thank you, Bibiana.
Congratulations on your engagement! Thank you so much - glad you found it useful
And that's why I love your vlogs. Great godly advice!
Thank you x
Thank you for sharing your story, you are relatable and your tips are practical and achievable not something far fetched.
I like this series on marriage looking forward to more.
Thanks hun, always appreciate your comments. X
Pleaseeeee make more videos like this ! This was extremely helpful to me as a young lady , thank you so much !
I love your saying "a listening ear is a running mouth".
I always remind myself of that.
This video was such a blessing! Very good godly advice. Thank you so much for not only sharing some of your own personal stories but also being a godly example for other women like me.😊
Glad it encouraged you. Thank you hun x
Awesome video Sis! Yes, our husbands need our encouragement and support especially in times like these! Blessings!
Girl!!! You are RIDICULOUSLY Spot on...
Lol thank you x
Such great advice, I like how you used a real life example that you went through. Thanks for sharing. X
Glad you enjoyed it x
I really love you Bibi, you speaks wise words! I love people who love God! May God bless you and your family!
more videos on marriage please. was really blessed with this one! e.g topics...finance, keeping the fire burning, starting a family etc. 😘😘😘
Hi Bibi can you please do a video talking about being submissive??? It would be nice to hear your put perspective, you're very insightful. Thank you
Hi Faizal, I'd be happy to share my thoughts on this. Thanks for the video suggestion x
I really appreciated this and just subscribed. It’s always so nice to find another sister and channel on here in Christ. Your heart to follow the Lord and obey Him came through so much on here. I love that. Very helpful, spiritually encouraging advice! Have a wonderful day.
Some of this information was helpful. However, I really struggle with the patriarchy of the wife "shall be silent". I get saying things in a mindful and respectful way. However, to not express yourself or your concerns or issues is to me so hard on the heart and soul to be *silenced as to not cause conflict or discomfort* for your husband. Conflict is going to come up in all relationships, and to ignore your own feelings and thoughts and keep them between yourself and God is not being true to yourself or your relationship. I vote for expressing yourself and your truth, but in a way that is not blaming or criticizing.
She did not say not to express your feelings, she just is focusing on being intentionally kind to the other person.
As a newlywed during this crazy pandemic I've realized that every thought does not need to be expressed. There is power in the ability to control ones tongue. And discernment is a definite gift from God. My husband is the most amazing man God ever breathe life into. I am much more happier and content with not always being right or winning an argument. Because at the end of the day a wife has the whisper of the Holy Spirit on her side. As long as your desires align with God's purpose and plan you and your husband will be fantastic partners. Im an old woman of 47. 5 months into my first and last marriage. I've been engaged 4 times before. I've grown and matured in the spirit enough to know that I've only just begun. I am merely a neophyte in the kingdom. But im so content knowing that I am doing all I can to honor God first by honoring the husband He made just for me.
@@teannaabraham9090 this!!!
I am not married yet, but I feel led to watch this kind of video, I want to be a supportive 👰.
Very very smart and wise advice for women who want to have a strong and happy marriage. I love it, keep it up. May God continue to bless you.
Thank you!!! As you were speaking I could see lot of corrections I need to make in my marriage. Continue to be a blessing and may God bless you!!
I love this topic, rarely spoken on but very important. thanks for this. may Your marriage stand firm in God holding onto His promises. Amen
In order to have success at anything including a marriage you have to take 100 percent responsibility for all your your stuff, and for you.
Very powerful vlog... You are right the devil is after families.
I wish my wife thought this way.
Keep praying
Great video. Popped up for me right on time! Thank you.
Bibiana, all I can say is thank you! Perfect to timing for me. You're an inspiration X
Glad it encouraged you. Thank you x
Thank you for this Bibi ❤️❤️❤️. Such as practical advise xxxx
Thanks Sis appreciate you ❤️❤️❤️
Truly divine message. Thanks for sharing
Prayer, praise and the word
Amazing video. Godly counsel. Keeping my fingers crossed for more...Well done @bibianayetty
GREAT video thank you. I like it when you support you words with bible verses. May the Holy Spirit be upon you, your hubby and the kids always
always
This was brilliant, thank you so much for this honest, biblical encouragement
Hey all, lots of encouragement to all of you with marriage
I had no idea what I got myself into. I feel so bad and guilty. Thank you so much for your video. Oh I hope god forgives me 😭
I've been subscribed to your channel for a while and this is the first video I've ever really watched now I feel like I've been missing out. Really nice message!
Aww thanks for watching and taking the time to comment. Glad you enjoyed it x
Amazing video sis. Loved every bit of it. Full of wisdom
Thanks bro x
Great Titus ministry sister keep up the excellent work.
I have been struggling with this for the past few years. I needed to hear this
u are so sweet.......thank u for this message!!!
Thank you for such a beautiful and inspiring video.
Amen my beautiful sister!! Thank you for sharing ❤
Thanks, I needed to hear this. I'm struggling because I'm the one working. I'm coming home having to work 40+ hrs but clean, cook, etc. But he has a very bad back... I cannot get him to see a doctor or massage therapist so I'm really having trouble
This is AWESOME!
Thank you!❤️
I'm glad I found your chanel. Thank you!
Feel like you should be my therapist. Thank you for this. 💕
I love your essence... I subscribed once you started to speak 💖
God bless you dear! loved it x
Great feedback according to Gods Word! Thank youuuuuu🥰
well done Bibi this is by far 1 of the best videos I have seen..everything u said is right..we need to be very cautious of our speech when we angry...cos It will either make ur marriage or break it.
Looking forward to more videos like this🙌👍👍👏👏
That's so true we really do have to be cautious of our speech. Thank you 💛
This was very lovely well said thank you for that🙏🏽🌸
You are welcome. I glad you got some takeaways from it x
Thanks for this! God Bless!
I truly appreciate your time
Oldie but a goodie...Thankyou Bibiana
So so good! Thanks for this Bibi! Xx
Thanks Sis, appreciate you so much. 💛💛
Very good tips bibiana thanks.
Question... do men ever encourage women?
Thank you for this 🙏🏾
You appear so loving and a great wife x
Thanks so much for this video I needed this!
Your dress and necklace are so beautiful. So are you!!
I agree with everything you're saying. However, it gets frustrating feeling like I have to coddle his fragile ego and build him up, while never getting the same in return. He talks me up to other people, but when he never says any of those things directly to me, it feels more like he does that for his own image rather than mine. Sometimes I wonder if maybe he doesn't have the confidence to be direct with me.
We don't have it easy as we have twin special needs teenagers. I homeschool them, so a lot of my time and energy is caught up in them. In fact the spare time I get usually entails me trying to foster and keep alive the part of me that isn't just "mom". His energy goes towards his job, church obligations, and giving me a break a couple times a week, including letting do whatever I want on Saturdays. Man, writing this I feel bad for even saying anything. He's a very good man.
We've been married 19 years, but sometimes it feels like I'm just a part of the background for him. I didn't get so much as a card this past anniversary.
How can we make our relationship with each other more of a priority? Lately I can't stand this man who I also love dearly. It's confusing.
Sorry for the rambling rant, but felt good to get it out. I'll try the tips you gave. If anyone made it through this book I wrote and has any advice, it is appreciated. ☺
I just saw this video today and your plea for help. Are you still there, Jeri?
Thank you ssooooooooo much Bibi!!!
Great Speech. Thank You.
this has blessed me a whole lot
I love that you are using bible verses to teach and help others
Great video! Keep it up! 👏👏
i love your hair and necklace!
Hi Bibiana, a little off topic but what material do you use to home school your kids? I have a 20 month year old, and trying find some good material. Thanks!
that was handled very well
very well done to you
Your necklace is beautiful. Where did you get it
Great video. Thank you.
Thank you x
Yes girrrl 🙏🏾💕
This is amazing thank you 🙏
Very pretty necklace!
Your message is beautiful but i would like to gently suggest that you might think about slowing down your speech so that your words can be heard and digested easier! Love you, God bless you!
loved it! so wise =)
Great tips!
Hi. Whenever me and ny husband go out, he never walks with me but far ahead. This is damn irritating. I dont know what to do... Please guide.
he doesnt want to be seen with you, next time yall go out put your sexiest outfit on and walk ahead of him ... once he sees other men lookin at you, he'll be reminded of the queen he has and doesnt want to lose
thank you for this simple practical tips God bless you and your family in Jesus name
Excellent!
very good!
great video!
You re an inspiration
What's crazy is that there are a gazillion videos on dating....and only a few about marriage. No wonder we have a 50% divorce rate.