inni questions adigithe rejection guarantee.. ala wait chesi chesi oka 5 yrs tharuvaatha when u turn 32 or 35 , appudu evaraina paravaledu ane stage ki vasthaaru. Appudu ilaanti salahaalu icchina vaallu kanapadithe kodadaam anipisthundi. All your female friends will be married by then but you will be stuck. So, just check whether that boy doesnt have any bad habits and whether he is financially stable and traditional . Checklist pettukuni anni tick lu raavaali ante ee janmalo pelli avvadu. Ekkuva expectations pettukunte chivariki evado vedhava thaguluthaadu. Follow sanaatana dharma , follow elders and customs
@@Bhargava_P Correct ga cheppav, perfection anedi evadki undadu everybody has their flaws. Ivanni expectations petkoni unte tarvata badha padalsi vastadi.. Life lo Compromises anevi chala important anni valla anukunnatu jaragavu & dorakavu. Idi ardam cheskunna valla life peaceful ga untundi comparatively.
Girl I should have seen this kind of video 3 yrs before...asl nikunna maturity clarity nakunte ipudu nen suffer ayinatu evaru ayindaru...u have done an amazing job...ur video will save so many girls n i really wish too ...girls what she said was 1000% correct.... kindly kindly take ur time and enquire then marry....dnt be rush dnt listen to anyone listen to ur heart n gut....""""nobody died without marriage but will surly dead because of worng marriage""""" I'm a victim....
Yaa very gud information sis..if we openly dont discuss what ever u told in video in future we have to face so many pblms ..tq u for sharing ur experiences..
Whatever you said we agree akka. But now a days ammayalu mosam cheyasthunaru, chala Mandi abbayalu mosa pothunaru akka. I'm telling my incident: Arranged Marriage only. 1. First ammaya vallu maa intiki vacharu and vallu okay cheparu. 2. Memu ammaya valla intiki vellamu, I spoke to her she said okay for the marriage and everything 3. There was no engagement, ammaya valla parents direct ga marriage pattu kundamu ani cheparu, memu okay chepamu 4.Within one month lopu marriage dates fix cheyasukunamu. 5. She started talking as usual - Normal matladuthundaa...She didn't relieved that she is not interested for marriage. 6. Got Married on 1-Mar-23, she took 10days leaves for marriage. She didn't allowed me to touch her. Marriage leaves are not yet completed she left to Bangalore for working (She was working for TCS as test engineer). I'm staying at my home only till mid of April Month 2023. 7. After the Mid April, I went to Bangalore for set up the family. At that it was very very difficult to get the Home in Bangalore. She didn't agree to stay together either in Home or COLIVE (it's after marriage) 8. Every day night she used to talk on phone, she started saying that I didn't liked you, why u and my family members spolied my life and she used to scold there family members too much.. Everyday she used to fight on Phone only. She dragged me nearly for 3 Months. 9.On one fine day there came to my home long with her. My relatives bring her into one separate room and asked her why your doing like this She said that I'm not interested for marriage and my parents forced me to get Married and bla bla... 10. When we ask her parents (Grand father along few members) infront of her grandfather why you people did like this She changed her words within few seconds and we got shocked. She didn't agree infront of her grandfather. 11. I have all the audio recordings as well, whatever she spoke to me. Her parents and grandparents listen that audio. The entire mistake is from her only. she blamed me and she created different different stories and make me as negative person in there family. 12. Finally I lost nearly 30 Lacs as part of alimeny and etc.... I have audio here...If Possible and listen once... drive.google.com/file/d/1ZCS0uzL-FIRkJj6cF0Kodazf8Y3H1FgO/view?usp=drivesdk
Bro, I guess you need not pay any alimony because she is also working right. If she is completely dependent on you, and not earning, then you have to pay alimony. Looks like your advocate didn't guide you properly. Or else he might have joined hands with your spouse, and made you pay the alimony so that later he could take some percentage from it for himself.
@@Vijay-cz7pe Now a days, some people (Girls and there family members) are literally doing it as business model and earning lacs amount in very shortest duration. Advocates are taking some percentages.
@@kamalakarreddy206 In such a case, konchem Fee ekkuva ayina paravaledu kaani manchi advocates ni pattukovali. Mari ceses lekunda eegalu, domalu kottukuntu koorchune advocates ni pattukunte, ilaage chesi, mana daggara fee teesukoni, valla daggara percentage kuda teesukuntaaru.
@@kamalakarreddy206 Bro Villu Valla perspective lone videos chestaru.. ilanti vatiki like or replies ravu enduku ante they don't acknowledge these things in the first place. Miku emina dowry icchara and alimony miru ivvali ani court lo decide chesara or bayta settle chesara
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I request any male persons to create similar video from male version… so that after hearing both sides we should come to conclusion…. Never enter into marriage with such negative thoughts… if you enter by having these thoughts or fears you will end up like this for sure. Always be positive and no one is perfect! If you ask so many such negative questions definitely there are high chances you might miss a good person…
Konni konni situations batti vastayi like kopam lantivi. Hey girls first stop scaring and just love the life of the journey and just feel like you are going to meet new sole. And before committing to marriage talk with him like some basics according to you. And feel his sole . Put this in your mind you dont need to be serious just take and do what u feeling thats what god telling to u. Take everything easy and simple. Afterall its just a marriage so u dont need to be feel like scare to death. Keep smile
That’s why I told in the video that if a bride wants to ask such questions to groom, bride should also be prepared from the same questions if groom asks her 😊
Anni questions evaru adagaru only property and money gurinchi matrame Government job aithe em adagaru Nowadays girls expectations on sky on future husband Nowadays relationships are not strong no cannot predict the time it may be in days, months or years for divorce
Madam is middle class Village boy who is having the sisters is eligible for arranged marriage as per your requirement or not? Please let us know honestly ??
I completely agree andi.. but mana jagrathalo Manam undi, atleast ee questions raise chesinapdu knchm ayna valaki bayam untadi kada than we blindly trust what they say
the opposite person says that the girl should be more open while talking in the initial stages(after talking for at-least 3-4 times). Whats your take on this. I feel the girls life isn't an open text book to tell them completely just by talking.so we will be reserved while we talk with them.
I understand your perspective, and it's natural to want more openness in conversations as you get to know someone. However, it's important to respect each individual's comfort level and personal boundaries. Because building trust and a deeper connection takes time, and it's okay for someone to be reserved initially. But When you seriously want to get into a relationship, I always encourage people (both men & women) to be transparent. Not only girls, but Both men & women life isn’t an open book to open up everything during initial conversations. So Men/ women, please understand that it is very crucial to be patient & supportive as opposite person open up at their own comfort. 😊
@@PassioNStreet You are too innocent, If you ask the person , You have any loans? If he is a gay? If he is having mental issues? If he is having girlfriend?. Do you expect them to give correct answers. I have seen cases , after taking huze dowry after marriage , the guy says divorce, often disappears with girl friend. Moving to court is waste of time, no justice comes. Most of people put mask before marriage, true face is revealed after marriage.
Thank you for sharing your concerns. I understand that these issues can be very sensitive and complex. It’s important to have open and honest conversations before marriage, but I agree that it can be challenging to get truthful answers on such personal matters. people may not always be honest about such matters, which can lead to difficult situations later on. Those norms should change is what my intention in this video
@@vinaykimi sir it goes in both ways. Many girls after getting married are moving towards their Ex Boyfriends or side kicks. In some case Girls initiates divorce proceedings to get alimony for their personal interests. Miru only boys eh anni chestunnaru laga cheptunnaru. Ofcourse i agree with you on your points, but it's not a wise thing to blame a single gender, rather we need to address botg things equally.
Hi akka ..nenu oka abai tho relationship lo una thanu north Indian..abai manchode kani chinna problem..thanu vala Father decision a follow avutadu anta..incase vala father ki nenu nachakpothe marriage cheskonu antunadu ... Incase vala father ki nenu nachithe marriage ki proceed avalo ledho confusion lo una ...amina suggestion evu akka
Relation start chese mundu father ki cheppi start chesada? HE’S a BIG RED FLAG🚩 Good that he’s very open about it and left the Choice on you to be with him or not. Athanu ila cheppaka kuda meru continue cheste and future lo thana father accept cheyakpote, meru entha fight chesina you’ll end up blaming yourself. PLEASE 🙏🏻 don’t continue relationship with him. Or do not proceed further until his father is ok with your marriage. Put a dead line for atleast 1 month. See how he gonna respond. If he’s really interested in you, No matter what, he will fight & convince his parents for your marriage. Hope you will take the wise decision. Please take care 🤗
@@PassioNStreetthana family ni convince chesadu akka..inka vala father a unaru convience avadaniki ...Nenu question chesa me father ni adigi relation lo ki vachava ani...Nanu kastapadi pencharu I can't go against him ani antunadu .. government job vachindi tanaki..and thana first priority parents taruvate nuvu ani antunadu
Love cheyyadaniki father permission thisukonivadu pelliku father decision final antunnadante, something fishy. Ilaanti vaaditho nii life worst ga untindhi. Just move on.
@@isha-zy6zo it's not about priority. Life lo andaru evari role vallu play chestaru... Ila ranking or priority list annitki kudaravu konni matters lo wife and konni things lo parents. Iddarni manage cheskoleni vadu oka Convincing relationship ni start cheyyaledu. Mi decision ki importance ledu anukunte you can move on.. but mi partner manchi vadu mi perspective kuda alochistaru and valla parents ni manage chesta ani miku hope unte you can continue. All depends on your decision.
Hi Sindhu, Thank you ♥️ To identify if someone is being honest, observe their body language, check for consistency in their answers, ask for details and clarification. If there’s a mismatch between what he said and the emotions he’s showing. Thadapadadam continuous ga chestunte then he may be hiding truth
Iam going through the process of pellichupulu ...i felt that he is not right to me but my parents convinced that we enquired about everything no prblm...but my heart search for another guy whose my parents rejected ...its completely different opinion.. I don't understand which is correct...naku idi correct anipistunte parents ki adi anipinchatledu...how i get clarity that whose decision goes right
Try to identify the things that are not feeling right for you.. and think if those things trouble you in any ways ? Talk about it with that person and decide.. with arrange marriage, every person will go through this confusion but if you feel he is not right guy, please fight for it and do not fall for it. I hope you find the best partner ♥️♥️
Iam also confused that am I attracted to looks and smile and way of talking compared to other guy that's why I felt that he is right guy to me but my parents not felt that he is not right to me bcs of misinformation given by other about the boy family
@@Ramudu-ct6sw sister please fight for you with your parents ( not harshly but maturely) it's not wrong. If you very much confident about your loved man please try to bring him once to your parents and try to discuss all things openly with your parents yes it's hard but try hard and convince your parents for open discussion then identify things and finalize ( keep the guy's emotions in mind if in case your parents rejects even after discussion he should not feel bad about him or you , aware this to him before) but don't blindly follow the decision that you've make or your parents. I hope you will be happy
@@Power-li4gc u r saying about love marriages...iam saying about arranged marriage...e process lo pellichupulu lo matladaka tarvata touch lo undam ga how is it possible andi ..anyway it's all about destiny andi...rasi petti unte andariki nachi kudurtundi
What if they tell false news about that questions & later u realize after marriage. so we can’t trust them right whether he/she is telling truth or false
@@PassioNStreetI think his/her qualification & his profession as job / business man shows some identity about the person with proofs u ask & then move forward to other things if this correct
Intha open ga matladithe pedda godave inka parents tho...these are all not workout ...when those family meets we talked each other but some cases we didn't have that opportunity...how can one openly discuss with all these things...adigi thelusukunte baguntadi...but adige avakasam situations lev...
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You are lucky to know all these negative aspects on the groom's side as well as your family side. These are red flags that this is not the right match for you. Whatever is your situation, never leave your job. You should always be financially independent. Elaanti situation edhuraina, you can feed yourself.
Hi Komalatha, so sorry to hear this 😔 Groom side A BIG RED FLAG 🚩 and What ever happens, Please stand for your future. If you’re interested to work after marriage, Say it clearly to your parents and whoever comes to your life. And me parents ki cheppandi, pelli cheskunaka life long undedi meru and valu kadu.. so meku groom nundi minimum details telikunda pelli cheskonu ani.. Also tell your parents if at all they want to gift you (which is a dowry), Fix the amount or things they want to gift you and say the same to the matches. Your parents & you should stand on this and okavela ekuva dowry adgute, you cannot afford a rupee more than this ani cheppandi.. Dowry kavali and that too future lo job cheyadhu kada ante, DO NOT GO INTO THAT FAMILY.. Job cheyodhu ani antundi valu and ee reason tho dowry adgadam anedi NOT A GOOD SIGN. You’re so lucky meku munde telsindi.. hope you find the best person in your life 🤗
and ivani matladaka, alochinchukuni okavela meeku set avadhu anukunte let them know. Meeku maaku set avadhu let's stop this here ani, anthe kaani ghost cheyadhu. Metho life spend cheyali ane process lo intha effort petinanduku atleast respect them and dont leave them hanging. Odhu ante evaru bedirinchi or bayapeti pelli cheyaru kada.
I understand but here my intention was to tell Men that they should maintain independence and respect their wives after marriage, not acting solely on their mother's wishes. And Mothers should trust their sons to balance their new responsibilities and support their independence.
Mari ammai parents ni vadili vaste, ammai parents em avali? So ammai & abbai ani separate cheyakunda It should be the understanding between parents & their kids
Inni rules and conditions cheppina tarwtha ammai valla parents … slow ga baby abbai ki 1000 crores asthi vundhi anta … next second baby He is right … He is only right … He is absolutely right … Terms and conditions wont apply to this guy 😂😂😂😂😂 Power of money 💰
Very nice video i want every girl to ask these questions..Why bcoz you should not repent after getting married..dont get married for parents understand the person well and take nice decision..Thanks naveena for making this video it really helps many girls…
I love the way you telling....❤Meru cheppina each and every word is right....bride is really wants to know ....
Thank you so much 😍
inni questions adigithe rejection guarantee..
ala wait chesi chesi oka 5 yrs tharuvaatha when u turn 32 or 35 , appudu evaraina paravaledu ane stage ki vasthaaru. Appudu ilaanti salahaalu icchina vaallu kanapadithe kodadaam anipisthundi. All your female friends will be married by then but you will be stuck.
So, just check whether that boy doesnt have any bad habits and whether he is financially stable and traditional .
Checklist pettukuni anni tick lu raavaali ante ee janmalo pelli avvadu. Ekkuva expectations pettukunte chivariki evado vedhava thaguluthaadu. Follow sanaatana dharma , follow elders and customs
no, everyone is delaying marriage so u ll have many options after 30s
@@Arunkumar-ql8sy yes , but many stale options
@@Arunkumar-ql8syavvi Anni bitter options....better options Anni mundhe pick ayyipoyi vuntayi...
@@Bhargava_P Correct ga cheppav, perfection anedi evadki undadu everybody has their flaws. Ivanni expectations petkoni unte tarvata badha padalsi vastadi.. Life lo Compromises anevi chala important anni valla anukunnatu jaragavu & dorakavu. Idi ardam cheskunna valla life peaceful ga untundi comparatively.
Girl I should have seen this kind of video 3 yrs before...asl nikunna maturity clarity nakunte ipudu nen suffer ayinatu evaru ayindaru...u have done an amazing job...ur video will save so many girls n i really wish too ...girls what she said was 1000% correct.... kindly kindly take ur time and enquire then marry....dnt be rush dnt listen to anyone listen to ur heart n gut....""""nobody died without marriage but will surly dead because of worng marriage""""" I'm a victim....
This will definitely help few people who don’t know how to decide he is the one ❤
True ♥️
Yaa very gud information sis..if we openly dont discuss what ever u told in video in future we have to face so many pblms ..tq u for sharing ur experiences..
Biggest mistake of my life is marriage
Could u plz also mention all reasons why bcz it is best that we all know those and take decisions.
Really now a days are these question asked by bride to groom or vice versa and taking decisions. This is really good video for awareness.
Thank you so much 😊
Sisterrr meeru superrr chepinna first first point eh 100% crct and we are taking divorce after 3 months because of the same reason
Sorry to hear that 😟
Whatever you said we agree akka.
But now a days ammayalu mosam cheyasthunaru, chala Mandi abbayalu mosa pothunaru akka.
I'm telling my incident: Arranged Marriage only.
1. First ammaya vallu maa intiki vacharu and vallu okay cheparu.
2. Memu ammaya valla intiki vellamu, I spoke to her she said okay for the marriage and everything
3. There was no engagement, ammaya valla parents direct ga marriage pattu kundamu ani cheparu, memu okay chepamu
4.Within one month lopu marriage dates fix cheyasukunamu.
5. She started talking as usual - Normal matladuthundaa...She didn't relieved that she is not interested for marriage.
6. Got Married on 1-Mar-23, she took 10days leaves for marriage. She didn't allowed me to touch her. Marriage leaves are not yet completed she left to Bangalore for working (She was working for TCS as test engineer). I'm staying at my home only till mid of April Month 2023.
7. After the Mid April, I went to Bangalore for set up the family. At that it was very very difficult to get the Home in Bangalore. She didn't agree to stay together either in Home or COLIVE (it's after marriage)
8. Every day night she used to talk on phone, she started saying that I didn't liked you, why u and my family members spolied my life and she used to scold there family members too much..
Everyday she used to fight on Phone only. She dragged me nearly for 3 Months.
9.On one fine day there came to my home long with her. My relatives bring her into one separate room and asked her why your doing like this She said that I'm not interested for marriage and my parents forced me to get Married and bla bla...
10. When we ask her parents (Grand father along few members) infront of her grandfather why you people did like this She changed her words within few seconds and we got shocked. She didn't agree infront of her grandfather.
11. I have all the audio recordings as well, whatever she spoke to me. Her parents and grandparents listen that audio. The entire mistake is from her only.
she blamed me and she created different different stories and make me as negative person in there family.
12. Finally I lost nearly 30 Lacs as part of alimeny and etc....
I have audio here...If Possible and listen once...
drive.google.com/file/d/1ZCS0uzL-FIRkJj6cF0Kodazf8Y3H1FgO/view?usp=drivesdk
Bro, I guess you need not pay any alimony because she is also working right. If she is completely dependent on you, and not earning, then you have to pay alimony. Looks like your advocate didn't guide you properly. Or else he might have joined hands with your spouse, and made you pay the alimony so that later he could take some percentage from it for himself.
@@Vijay-cz7pe Now a days, some people (Girls and there family members) are literally doing it as business model and earning lacs amount in very shortest duration.
Advocates are taking some percentages.
@@kamalakarreddy206 In such a case, konchem Fee ekkuva ayina paravaledu kaani manchi advocates ni pattukovali. Mari ceses lekunda eegalu, domalu kottukuntu koorchune advocates ni pattukunte, ilaage chesi, mana daggara fee teesukoni, valla daggara percentage kuda teesukuntaaru.
@@kamalakarreddy206 Bro Villu Valla perspective lone videos chestaru.. ilanti vatiki like or replies ravu enduku ante they don't acknowledge these things in the first place. Miku emina dowry icchara and alimony miru ivvali ani court lo decide chesara or bayta settle chesara
@@harsha83 settlement relatives cheyasaru. It's completely fraud. Relatives kuda mosam cheyasaru.
Groom to bride kuda Oka episode. This video is great👍
Thank you & definitely I will post a video on that 😊
nice video, this video is helpful to every person who are ready to marry
Thank you 😊
Abbai gurinchi vala job dagara r inti dagara ela enquiry cheyali chepandi pls
Ippatike pelli ante most of gentlemans pelli vadhura baaboi ani bayapadi pothunte ilanti questions tho inka vaala life lo sanyaasame😢
Indulo answer cheyaleni questions em unnay andi 😊 em telikunda pelli cheskoni taravata iddaru ibandi pade badulu knchm ayna okari gurunchi okarki telskodanki ilanti questions help avtay ani anthe.. this helps both bride & groom
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I request any male persons to create similar video from male version… so that after hearing both sides we should come to conclusion…. Never enter into marriage with such negative thoughts… if you enter by having these thoughts or fears you will end up like this for sure. Always be positive and no one is perfect! If you ask so many such negative questions definitely there are high chances you might miss a good person…
Very insightful video Akka and much needed in the present day scenario! Many Thanks u made us understand better 😊❤
Thank you so much ♥️ Stay tuned for more videos 🤗
Our pleasure akka❤
Konni konni situations batti vastayi like kopam lantivi.
Hey girls first stop scaring and just love the life of the journey and just feel like you are going to meet new sole. And before committing to marriage talk with him like some basics according to you. And feel his sole .
Put this in your mind you dont need to be serious just take and do what u feeling thats what god telling to u. Take everything easy and simple. Afterall its just a marriage so u dont need to be feel like scare to death. Keep smile
If we ask Same questions to bridegroom she will think “he is asking too many questions can’t imagine how many he will ask after marriage” so reject😅
😂🤣
That’s why I told in the video that if a bride wants to ask such questions to groom, bride should also be prepared from the same questions if groom asks her 😊
Anni questions evaru adagaru only property and money gurinchi matrame
Government job aithe em adagaru
Nowadays girls expectations on sky on future husband
Nowadays relationships are not strong no cannot predict the time it may be in days, months or years for divorce
Nice Vedio Akka
You Share Very Good Information
Thank you Jyothi 😊
@@PassioNStreet 🥰💙
Madam is middle class Village boy who is having the sisters is eligible for arranged marriage as per your requirement or not? Please let us know honestly ??
8:34
She: why do you want to get married?
He: aa?? Adhetadhi😂😂😂
lol 😂
Enni questions adigina appudu ah time lo andaru favour gane answer chestharu...pelli ayyaka ah question ante inka
You’re right but atleast we can escape from few people by asking such questions
Ela kuda unnaru andi mudhu ani positive ga anni lies cheppi marriage chesukovadam tharvatha anni thelustai
I completely agree andi.. but mana jagrathalo Manam undi, atleast ee questions raise chesinapdu knchm ayna valaki bayam untadi kada than we blindly trust what they say
True..!! But matalu marche vallu em bayapadataru andi
Well said
Thank you 😊
the opposite person says that the girl should be more open while talking in the initial stages(after talking for at-least 3-4 times). Whats your take on this. I feel the girls life isn't an open text book to tell them completely just by talking.so we will be reserved while we talk with them.
I understand your perspective, and it's natural to want more openness in conversations as you get to know someone.
However, it's important to respect each individual's comfort level and personal boundaries.
Because building trust and a deeper connection takes time, and it's okay for someone to be reserved initially. But When you seriously want to get into a relationship, I always encourage people (both men & women) to be transparent.
Not only girls, but Both men & women life isn’t an open book to open up everything during initial conversations. So Men/ women, please understand that it is very crucial to be patient & supportive as opposite person open up at their own comfort. 😊
Meru adigina questions anitiki answers correct ga cheptara , 1000 abadalu adiana pelli chesestaru.
Abadam aadadam enduku? indulo abadam chepalsina lanti questions em levu kada
@@PassioNStreet You are too innocent, If you ask the person , You have any loans? If he is a gay? If he is having mental issues? If he is having girlfriend?. Do you expect them to give correct answers. I have seen cases , after taking huze dowry after marriage , the guy says divorce, often disappears with girl friend. Moving to court is waste of time, no justice comes. Most of people put mask before marriage, true face is revealed after marriage.
Thank you for sharing your concerns. I understand that these issues can be very sensitive and complex. It’s important to have open and honest conversations before marriage, but I agree that it can be challenging to get truthful answers on such personal matters.
people may not always be honest about such matters, which can lead to difficult situations later on. Those norms should change is what my intention in this video
@@vinaykimi sir it goes in both ways. Many girls after getting married are moving towards their Ex Boyfriends or side kicks. In some case Girls initiates divorce proceedings to get alimony for their personal interests. Miru only boys eh anni chestunnaru laga cheptunnaru. Ofcourse i agree with you on your points, but it's not a wise thing to blame a single gender, rather we need to address botg things equally.
Very good video, must watch video
Thank you 😍
Well said 👏
Thank you 😊
Few parents kodalu vasthe vallu edharu chuskuntaru anukuntaru manam anthaga involve avakudadhu ani unte , that's completely ok family
Agreed 👍
Hi akka
Groom ki teliyakunda groom gurinchi enquiry ela cheyyalo cheppandi akka please
Hi akka ..nenu oka abai tho relationship lo una thanu north Indian..abai manchode kani chinna problem..thanu vala Father decision a follow avutadu anta..incase vala father ki nenu nachakpothe marriage cheskonu antunadu ...
Incase vala father ki nenu nachithe marriage ki proceed avalo ledho confusion lo una ...amina suggestion evu akka
Relation start chese mundu father ki cheppi start chesada? HE’S a BIG RED FLAG🚩 Good that he’s very open about it and left the Choice on you to be with him or not. Athanu ila cheppaka kuda meru continue cheste and future lo thana father accept cheyakpote, meru entha fight chesina you’ll end up blaming yourself. PLEASE 🙏🏻 don’t continue relationship with him. Or do not proceed further until his father is ok with your marriage. Put a dead line for atleast 1 month. See how he gonna respond. If he’s really interested in you, No matter what, he will fight & convince his parents for your marriage.
Hope you will take the wise decision. Please take care 🤗
@@PassioNStreetthana family ni convince chesadu akka..inka vala father a unaru convience avadaniki ...Nenu question chesa me father ni adigi relation lo ki vachava ani...Nanu kastapadi pencharu I can't go against him ani antunadu .. government job vachindi tanaki..and thana first priority parents taruvate nuvu ani antunadu
Love cheyyadaniki father permission thisukonivadu pelliku father decision final antunnadante, something fishy. Ilaanti vaaditho nii life worst ga untindhi. Just move on.
@@User123-v6cthank u for your advice
@@isha-zy6zo it's not about priority. Life lo andaru evari role vallu play chestaru... Ila ranking or priority list annitki kudaravu konni matters lo wife and konni things lo parents. Iddarni manage cheskoleni vadu oka Convincing relationship ni start cheyyaledu. Mi decision ki importance ledu anukunte you can move on.. but mi partner manchi vadu mi perspective kuda alochistaru and valla parents ni manage chesta ani miku hope unte you can continue. All depends on your decision.
Hi akka i'm new subscriber ❤well said👏but i have one doubt opposite persons ani open ga genuine ga chpthunaru ani ela thellusukovali 😢
Hi Sindhu, Thank you ♥️
To identify if someone is being honest, observe their body language, check for consistency in their answers, ask for details and clarification. If there’s a mismatch between what he said and the emotions he’s showing. Thadapadadam continuous ga chestunte then he may be hiding truth
Gidanta kadu evaru rasipedte valle vastar😅😂😂
Adi Manam maarchalemu kani.. mana jagrathalo Manam undali kada 😊
Iam going through the process of pellichupulu ...i felt that he is not right to me but my parents convinced that we enquired about everything no prblm...but my heart search for another guy whose my parents rejected ...its completely different opinion.. I don't understand which is correct...naku idi correct anipistunte parents ki adi anipinchatledu...how i get clarity that whose decision goes right
Try to identify the things that are not feeling right for you.. and think if those things trouble you in any ways ? Talk about it with that person and decide.. with arrange marriage, every person will go through this confusion but if you feel he is not right guy, please fight for it and do not fall for it. I hope you find the best partner ♥️♥️
Iam also confused that am I attracted to looks and smile and way of talking compared to other guy that's why I felt that he is right guy to me but my parents not felt that he is not right to me bcs of misinformation given by other about the boy family
@@Ramudu-ct6sw sister please fight for you with your parents ( not harshly but maturely) it's not wrong. If you very much confident about your loved man please try to bring him once to your parents and try to discuss all things openly with your parents yes it's hard but try hard and convince your parents for open discussion then identify things and finalize ( keep the guy's emotions in mind if in case your parents rejects even after discussion he should not feel bad about him or you , aware this to him before) but don't blindly follow the decision that you've make or your parents. I hope you will be happy
Great message 😍 👌
@@Power-li4gc u r saying about love marriages...iam saying about arranged marriage...e process lo pellichupulu lo matladaka tarvata touch lo undam ga how is it possible andi ..anyway it's all about destiny andi...rasi petti unte andariki nachi kudurtundi
Hushhhhhhhhhhh ediantha avadama.......😂😂
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What if they tell false news about that questions & later u realize after marriage. so we can’t trust them right whether he/she is telling truth or false
You’re right.. But can’t we identify atleast few things when we try to know them instead blindly accept to marry ?
@@PassioNStreetI think his/her qualification & his profession as job / business man shows some identity about the person with proofs u ask & then move forward to other things if this correct
💯 true. We won't know until after marriage @@Naresh_04
What about the questions that the groom needs to ask the bride?
Will post a video on that as well 😊
Phd chesava akka. Bye bye cheptaru e sollu vinte
Intha open ga matladithe pedda godave inka parents tho...these are all not workout ...when those family meets we talked each other but some cases we didn't have that opportunity...how can one openly discuss with all these things...adigi thelusukunte baguntadi...but adige avakasam situations lev...
Anduke kada ee video.. change the norms.. may not be possible to talk everything but atleast few?? It is for our own good 😊
Desert Cuult reliigion lo 4,5 wives chesukuni 20,30 small. piigs ki birth icchi, population jiihad tho countries occupy chestu everything under control of piislam relegion,xtian relegiion chestunte mana country vallu , 1,2 kids tho saripetti education job, money savings antunnaru, akkada enemmy religiions population perigaka daadi chesi mottam tisesukuntaru.. binduvulu wakeup, know the reality, fight for you n your family n country,your identity
Akka inko important thing marchipoyav about travelling.
Traveling enti sneha? comment here so it will be helpful for others 🤗
@@PassioNStreet places explore cheyadaniki istapadevallu untaru kada i think she was talking about it
Acha okay 👍
Miru correct chepparu kani, arranged marriages lo enni adigite, ee match set avvadu
Konni ayna adgali mana manchi ksoame
@@PassioNStreet yeah we understand
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Thank you 😍
Right person or wrong person ani ela telusukovali 😊
Konchem ayna ardam avtadi kada during the process 😊 trust me instincts cheptadi vadhu ani.. but we don’t realize sometimes
@@PassioNStreet realize ina chesedi emi ledu almost 13 years marriage ayi 😊
But akka ma parents kanisam abbayi salary kuda adagakudadu tirigi vallani questions veyakudadu antunnaru pellichupulu appudu emi cheyali ? Vallaki job chese ammayi vaddu anta job maneyali antunnaru dowry kuda ekkuva adugutunnaru endukante mi ammayi job cheyadu kada marriage ayyaka antunnaru 😢ma parents ki help cheyakudadu anta financially.mane mannadi valle malli valle nannu jobless girl ga chestunnaru.job chese ammayi kavali ane abbayilu kuda elane vunnaru ekkuva dowry kavali gold asalu consider cheyaru anta deniki thodu ma relatives kuda elane vunnaru deniki thodu caste felling okati 😢andukenemo girls education meeda ekkuva focus cheyatledu valla education meeda pette money marriage dowry ki use avutundi ani
You are lucky to know all these negative aspects on the groom's side as well as your family side. These are red flags that this is not the right match for you.
Whatever is your situation, never leave your job. You should always be financially independent. Elaanti situation edhuraina, you can feed yourself.
Hi Komalatha, so sorry to hear this 😔 Groom side A BIG RED FLAG 🚩 and
What ever happens, Please stand for your future.
If you’re interested to work after marriage, Say it clearly to your parents and whoever comes to your life. And me parents ki cheppandi, pelli cheskunaka life long undedi meru and valu kadu.. so meku groom nundi minimum details telikunda pelli cheskonu ani..
Also tell your parents if at all they want to gift you (which is a dowry), Fix the amount or things they want to gift you and say the same to the matches. Your parents & you should stand on this and okavela ekuva dowry adgute, you cannot afford a rupee more than this ani cheppandi..
Dowry kavali and that too future lo job cheyadhu kada ante, DO NOT GO INTO THAT FAMILY.. Job cheyodhu ani antundi valu and ee reason tho dowry adgadam anedi NOT A GOOD SIGN.
You’re so lucky meku munde telsindi.. hope you find the best person in your life 🤗
Absolutely 💯
Ne future ardaipotundiii 😂
Wow 🤩 Great nuvu..
E rojulloo abbailu baanee untunnaaru.. Ammailee nalla thaachu laagaa thayarayyaaru.. Abboo This Gen girls complete hell 🔥😡
Do not GENERALIZE 👎
But it is bitter truth😂@@PassioNStreet
Nowadays asalu abbailu matladatledu. Emana adigina kuda disinterested answers. Nake ila taguktaunaro andaru ilage unaro idk
Andaru ala undaru but just analyze the questions you’re asking and ela adgutunaru anedi chuskondi once. Good luck 🍀
@@PassioNStreet ok, will do that.. thanks andi
and ivani matladaka, alochinchukuni okavela meeku set avadhu anukunte let them know. Meeku maaku set avadhu let's stop this here ani, anthe kaani ghost cheyadhu. Metho life spend cheyali ane process lo intha effort petinanduku atleast respect them and dont leave them hanging. Odhu ante evaru bedirinchi or bayapeti pelli cheyaru kada.
Absolutely right andi.. 100% true and It should be the same for both men & women.
Do next vido where did you do your wedding shopping pla
Sure I will. Stay tuned 🤗
Recent ga maa urilo oka papa ku marriage aeindi.chala grand ga chesaru.taruvatha athadu Gay Ani telisindi.
Ayyoo that’s horrible 😟
How to identify this kind of person before marriage itself if possible plsss reply
Unfortunately there’s no way we can find out if he is a gay with any medical tests. May be his actions/ behavior might give an you idea
@@PassioNStreet what may be the actions or behaviour can u say it in brief
Yes ...e madyana chala jarugutunnay we can't predict in any marriage either it love or arranged...it's all about destiny,fate and luck
Inni questions and conditions ah..😮.. .. last Ki niku peon E vasthadu akko 😅😅
Okaru chese work enduk degrade chestunav. Have some sense
If you are so specific then 70% of indian men remain unmarried.
I don’t agree 😊 This if for both the parties and both will know about each other during the process
cool. Stay single then
Becoming puppet means before marriage it is respect not shame,understand ilanti videos petti it conveys a wrong message to youth
I understand but here my intention was to tell Men that they should maintain independence and respect their wives after marriage, not acting solely on their mother's wishes. And Mothers should trust their sons to balance their new responsibilities and support their independence.
Intaki meeku pellinda😅😅😅
Ayndi 😀
Deeniki marriage ani peru enduku questionnaire ani petukunte chalu
Married life questionnaire ga avodhu ani suggestions avi 😊
ivvi anni aduguthe e boomi medha evadiki pelli kadhu
Adgadam lo thappu ledhu and adgute pelli avadhu ane bayam deniki?
@@PassioNStreet ippudu vache ammayilu pelli ayna 1 month ke seperate samsaram chedam ante appudu abbai valla parents emi kavali
Mari ammai parents ni vadili vaste, ammai parents em avali? So ammai & abbai ani separate cheyakunda It should be the understanding between parents & their kids
@@PassioNStreet ivi Anni practical ga workout aye panulu kavvu
@@PassioNStreet Mari ammai ki anna unte vadu chusukokunda emi chestadu Mari financial burden itu side endhuku
Inni rules and conditions cheppina tarwtha ammai valla parents … slow ga baby abbai ki 1000 crores asthi vundhi anta … next second baby
He is right …
He is only right …
He is absolutely right …
Terms and conditions wont apply to this guy 😂😂😂😂😂
Power of money 💰
Nijamga 1000 crores unna valaki ilanti discussions & lolli lu undavu..
Very nice video i want every girl to ask these questions..Why bcoz you should not repent after getting married..dont get married for parents understand the person well and take nice decision..Thanks naveena for making this video it really helps many girls…
Thank you Anusha ♥️ People should realize this for their own future..