Why Should I Get Married 💔 எனக்கு Interest இல்ல..Deepa about Toxic Love, Parenting and Mental Health
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Why Should i get married 💔 எனக்கு Interest இல்ல..Deepa about Toxic Love, Parenting and Mental Health
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She moved out for good..Exactly she speaks my mind..
Today's arranged marriage is a business.... marriage is a gamble...well said❤
Not so true nga
Love marriages have higher ratio of breakups and divorce
I am quite indifferent to both....It totally depends on the spouse
One of the most sensible podcasts in Tamil, which I recently watched. ❤
So mature speaking! I wish people are more like her! Acknowledge the issues in this patriarchal culture
Funny enough tara taking both interview with abhisheek raja ,New wife and ex wife what a bussiness tactic😂😂😂
What a wow talk by Deepa. She just echoes my thoughts. She s so matured and broke from a toxic relationship. Kudos to you girl.
She doesn't want her life to be influenced by her in-laws. She wants tobe a independent woman. Better to be single.
Single with her husband
Yeah but husband can live such a life not influenced by his in laws or stay with in laws and adjust to their needs, serve them and stay independent after marriage. So he can be married and not influenced by in laws. Same independent life if the girl wants, she needs to be single right.. Hats off to ur statement.
I faced a kind of similar situation with a so called psychologist but not this extreme.
People who are working with the mind should be thoroughly scrutinized...even more than MBBS doctors. But that is not the case... Anybody with a Bsc psychology even with 40% marks who has omitted more than half of the syllabus can call themselves a psychologist and give therapy... This is a very very dangerous trend... This cannot be normalised.. This should be strictly addressed. Otherwise damage caused cannot be reversed.
omg i am so glad she spoke these things which have been my thoughts for helping indian society. kudos to you girl.
It’s really so inspiring Deepa you have faced this much trauma and now you are answering in this interview so positively hats off to you 👌👌👌💯💯💯👏👏👏
Wow❤ deepa has all my mind, thoughts and what a clarity ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ women like her are gemmmmm❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Oh this is Bigg Boss 5 contestant VJ Abhishek Raja’s ex-wife. Wow! She is very beautiful. Has some resemblance to actress Ramya Nambeessan
she looks like ethir neechal haripriya
Abhishek Raja ex wife it is difficult
I wonder why people think they have a right to get physical. It is better to part ways than losing one's dignity and self respect. If you put up with abuse, It eventually becomes a stockholm syndrome.
This interview is an eye opener.. Thank you both..
Omg thanks Galata for this interview… Deepa… I just felt honestly and clarity from every word u spoke .. wish you the best
Wow. How clear she is about everything and what she wants in life. Loved this podcast. Is there part 1 of this interview. If so,please share the link
Excellant talk by Deepa . Very Clear in her speech . I love you so much . All the Best . God Bless .
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Wow so well spoken... Brilliant sister ❤️ u are so intelligent and it takes intelligence to understand your thought process. Great! Thank you x
Reality explained. Toxic relationship is very cruel for the affected person and their family. If everyone family has go through this situation then only they can understand. Otherwise affected person should silent. So thanks for the
excellent speech and matured explanation
Deepa is the healer where you can't see spiritual human like her who always think good for society. You wont find person like her with aura. Energy. Good vibes etc., such down to earth person.
She is 100% right
What she is saying every single word is 💯 true !
Wow... It's such a good podcast. Learned so many things about relationship problems. As she says, Deepa has found her peace in her present life. It is showing in her face, voice, and gestures. God bless ❤
Same thought 👏🏻. Actually we started thinking that way and living our thoughts
Deepa, thank you for the outspoken
I can imagine almost what she went through to attain this Phase of Peace…Coz, I faced the same but as a man. And Thanks a lot for the clarification that “My Reactive Actions To Fake Victim Are Not My Natural Behaviour “… I was thought that I’m not a right person for anyone coz my ex blaming me by playing victim role & triggered me worstly… Finally, she put all the blame flame on me then escaped….Actually, I’m the One Escaped From Her😂🙏🏼 ThankUuniverse
super ma.. broad minded views.. you have a clear thought over life
Clear & mindful...Hv a great life .
Physical and mental abuse is really difficult to accept.
Forward thinking
இவங்க என்ன gone through பண்ணுணங்கனு இவங்களுக்கு தான் தெரியும். Normal people can not be identified that.
Its stupid to be with parents after 21 unless they need us for health issues, be it boy or girl
What i say oru friend come partner kidaichaal neenga marraige pannikonga adhuvum ungalukku thonina pls grow together in all like happiness wealth career and health just need a partner companion to tc each other if u thought too if not stay single until the time comes
People must accept these kind of empowered women.
Background Flower light fading is cinematic
What a clarity in her speech ❤
Seriously nowadays seeing a good host/anchor is a big challenge even for audiance..I have been seeing this anchor for a while She is decent ,not asking some deep or cheap questions just because she is an anchor..
If parents felt that their children are burden. .we would not be here
Forget and move on. the more you talk the more you get hurt.
Be happy you survived ABR. It puzzles how your parents didnt read his toxicity
What ever lost we came back ma but varushangal veenagukudhu time is most precious we must invest our emotions n time in right person.
இன்றைய நிலையில் வாழ்க்கை வாழ்வதே கஷ்டமாக கொண்டு இருக்கிறது உடலாலும், உள்ளத்தாலும் . அதில் நல்ல வாழ்க்கை துணை கிடைக்கிறது அதை விட மிக கஷ்டமாக இருக்கிறது எனக்கு. இன்று வரை என் வாழ்க்கையில் ( காதல்,தோழி, துணை) எதுவும் கிடைக்கவில்லை. அதை நினைத்தால் தான் மனசு வலியாக இருக்கிறது எனக்கு.
Worst listening.. Very well spoken..
worst or worth?
24/7 namba pannura velai normal SOP ya mathitanga plus velaikkum poganum 12 hrs travel what ever relationship they must grow together not like one is bossy another do all the work…
Please remove the hashtag #Abhishek and adhishekexwifedeepa
Amma deepa nee kavalai padadhe maa. Nee soldradhu nalla puriyudhu. Unnai indha alavukku aakuna van seriyaana aalu kitta maattikita. Andha assistant director oru director oda paisa mulukka gaali pannirukka. Unnai indha maadhiri pannavanukku seriyaana aalukku connect panni vitta kadavul.
Everything that she said was correct . Most of the girls mindset is like this .But as our societal structure is like this we cant choose the life that we want to live
Wonderful
My stepmother spoilt my mind with psychiatric medicine. Still cant recover fully
Omg r u taking any treatment
Can someone tell who is she?her most of ther words r excellent
Abhishek raja X wife
She is a fashion designer.. Vastra her own boutique..sbe is also a friend of bb ex contestant soms
Can anyone tell me her full name?
Deepa nadarajan
Each one's life is different , you should have money also right to stay seperate and earn enough for that. And parents need us to take care of them who else will be there for them
Aka very information really
The therapist would be nervous as you would anytime open their identity
You should start putting captions in English if you can't translate to English so everyone can understand.
So true,
Tara looks terribly bored listening to deepa . Tara is almost asleep with the example therapy story
Super mam correct u r telling
100% true
U took a great decision
emma nee eppadi ma poi andha cinemapaiyen kita matuna! Good that you came out. More power to you!
Correct ✅
I thought it was Manju Warrier !!
why do we see issues with editing & sound??
Westerners like Indian culture and Indians like Western culture.....
இதே த என்னகு தோணுச்சு.. இத சொன்ன என்ன பைதியும் நு சொல்ட்ரக
😂😂😂
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abikessh ex wife ?????
So cute❤❤❤
Abishek unnaku than
💯💯💯💯✨✨✨
Full a nattu kazhandu pochu….i don’t need a company ever…I wont get married…but if it happens I will not run away….😮😮 loose a pa née 😅😅😅…all these master pieces should be kept in museum or left alone.
She says she will not run towards marriage. If it comes to her with a right person, she will accept it. After all she's a human being too. We all tend to run away from something that caused trauma, but if it's the same thing that is bound to bring happiness and peace in the future, we understand that the trauma was not tied of the event/scenario, it was tied to the person. That's when we will be willing to embrace it and not run away from it.
Yaaru evangaa
Who is she ???
Sneha
Ennama neenga. Thappa nenakkadheenga, but neenga qualified psychologist/psychiatrist illa. Same neenga architect um illa. Edhukkume actual qualification illa, aana ellam pannanum nu nenaikkareenga. Andha oru paychiatrist black apple na ellarum thappilaye? The chances of success are definitely higher when one is qualified than someone who is just basing things off experience ma. Neenga please onnuthula focus panni, adhula qualifications eduthu nalla vaanga. Better to good at something than starting many things and dropping them. You seem to have a financial cushion - please use it wisely
Thappa nenaikdheenga nu comfortably you cannot bash someone without being in their shoes . I never advertise or promote myself as an architect . I do “interior design” and you won’t find a page or handle where I promote my business or ask for opportunities. All of my work opportunities are through word of mouth where someone has been extremely satisfied with the kind of work I do, and they’ve passed some prospect to me. I’m not behind anyone ‘s validation. And also on the mental health part , did I call myself a psychiatrist or psychologist or am I conducting workshops and taking money from people !?? I share scenarios from my life experience and a lot of people resonate with it and have found it useful. Financial cushion ??? I’m saying this out in public, I don’t take a single penny from my parents. All of the so called “cushion” that you see are all my hard earned money . I at least do my research before designing a house or talking about mental health. You do yours, before you comfortably complain about someone. I’m at a very comfortable space in life, coz all the trust people have had on me both on work and mental level . Hope that’s loud an clear and nothing comes easy in life :) my life is not the space to project your insecurities. I hope you heal and don’t go around spreading so much negativity. #alllovenohate
Even women torture men and act very good as if it is men mistake.
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*WHO IS DEEPA?*
She's good human being healer.
Ena ma sola vara
😂😂😂
Who is this Women? She is not a celebrity nor a influencer. See i hate Cinema Paiyan he got most punchable attitude ever but this women has some influential friends and she is using that to tarnish the image of cinema payyan after his remarriage since she is his ex wife. She got divorced years back and was silent about her divorce until now Cinema payyan remarried and gave so much interviews lately. why are these channels interviewing her ?
Pugazh per perumai😅
With due respect, this is where we are getting in silo mode and it is sad the women who are bringing this down. I am not saying women should leave her parents, they should encourage joint family..it will teach kids patience..what it means adjusting for bigger goal…get the best from 2 different generations. The more you say…I….I….I…you are breaking future generation and society.
Joint family s really best y men can joint wife family and create it as joint family
1 ur in laws will scold u for not doing things properly u have to be patient and respect them treat them as ur parents
2. You shouldn't have ego don expect them to treat as a king
3.treat ur brother in law sis in law and advice then to be good
4. Cook for ur family daily then u will come to about joint family
@@Nandhini-dy6ti our family is joint family for generations (fyi), I do not disagree with your point of view but men cannot create family it’s a women who has that power. Ex: sivaji sir family…crazy mohan family. When women and men these days talk about I….I….. it kills not only them the society itself.
@@diwakardayalanthis is the problem...in the process of creating family woman s life is destructed
@@muthulakshmi-hx2yy it might be the case in the past, with current mother in laws are working mothers this shouldn’t be case. There might be 20-25§% who do not understand that pain or life style. I am referring to only those who couldn’t even adjust and keep repeating my individuality and not able to adjust. There is never a perfect match, ppl are in hurry and no patience to even think on how to make relationships work..very conveniently breaking and calling themselves a proud divorce. We are not very far from seeing single parent culture and boy friend mode like in US..Korea…
@diwakardayalan when you say with current mother in laws who are working it might not be case. It completely depends. Where are still living in a world where one women is the sole reason for another women's spoilt life and spoilt peace. There could be women who are rushing to end relationships. But that's a point where they probably realized they are the only ones fighting to work things out. Most men are not taught how to handle marriage especially when they live in a joint family setup. The woman is brought into the house as a maid is expected to run the house just like how the mother in law did it. Considering the MIL was a housewife and the DIL is a working women, men don't stand up for their wife in front of their wives regarding sharing household chores. The DIL loses her freedom, her peace and most importantly her self respect. That's when she is bound to think nuclear setup is the best and is best for her and her child's mental peace. And at this point, her character is assassinated where people say she broke the family. Only when men understand what women go through in a joint family, they will be able to support joint family setup
Ellam ok dhan but family ku western culture ah example solradhu not good as they are starting to look up to cultures with stronger family values. Also people are marrying late in western countries I agree but they struggle during child birth as conceiving a child at 27 is different from 37
So you mean just because they want to experience easy child birth or since they have greater chances of conceiving till 30, they should settle with someone as soon as possible and should not think about if they are settling with the right person?
@@deepikasrinivasan5903this is exactly what uninformed and scared Indian parents do to their children in the name of arranged marriage . So sick of this mentality . As a lawyer who has been dealing with matrimonial disputes , I can say that for most part it's the parents who are the main reason for matrimonial traumas experienced by the children. Most parents just want to get their child married. And whether two individuals are compatible and respectful to each other is not even their concern . I'm really tired and sick of seeing such kinda parents and undergoing the same pressure at my home too.
@@deepikasrinivasan5903 That's not my point, I merely present the other side of delaying marriage till 37. I never advocated for arrange marriage or childhood marriage, I am saying people should put some thought in their 20s on the kind of lifestyle they want. And if having children is important to them try to settle with a person quick instead of delaying as it greatly affects their chances of having kids. I am in the US and I see that people whose priority is to have children are regretting late marriage and child birth. Its important to see both the pros and cons of late marriage. There is no guarantee that you'll find a perfect partner if u keep searching for years, there is a point where you got to compromise in favor of your priority.