@@simangesguerra1624 there is no point in being with a person who is unhappy to be with you. Before you become miserable, before that person's unhappiness becomes your own, it makes sense to set that person free. It should make someone feel better and content na he or she did the ultimate love and sacrifice to set another person free. That is called sweet surrender and that should make one's heart and soul happy.
"When you are sad, you understand the lyrics, and when you are happy, you enjoy the music" Ngayon ko lang narealize, sobrang sakit pala netong kantang 'to. Samantalang dati, kinakanta pa namin magkasama to. To that boy from Bicol, ngayon ko mas naiintindihan kung ano talagang nangyari sa' ting dalawa. Or should i say, kung anong nangyari sa'yo kung bakit nawala yung "pagmamahal" mo saken, it was never a decision, dala lang talaga yun ng emosyon mo. Sa una lang talaga ang lahat, sa dulo wala na.
Nangyari sakin to. Hindi na pala ako ang mahal pero ni minsan hindi man lang nasabi. Yung naaalala nya na lang ako pag may kailangan sya at alam nyan matutulungan ko sya. Hanggang sa isang araw narealize ko na parang nawawala na yung self-worth ko. Naibigay ko lahat ng pagmamahal sa knya pero ako hindi nakatanggap ng tunay na pagmamahal mula sa knya. By the grace of God, I learned to be independent for my child. Hindi pala lahat sasaya kapag may karelasyon ka. Minsan matatagpuan mo yung pagmamahal na para sayo sa mga taong nasa paligid mo lang💖
"Sa sobrang mahal mo yung tao minsan nabibigay mo lahat nauubos ka" Sa true lang, relate ako riyan. Binigay ko lahat ng pagmamahal na dapat maramdaman ng aking dating nobya kaso naiwan pa rin akong mag-isa ngayon ako itong walang-wala. Sabi niya sarili niya raw muna ang uunahin niya at ayaw niya akong nasasaktan dahil sa kaniya kaya pinili niyang makipaghiwalay. Pero, bakit? Bakit may bago ka na? Sabi mo sarili mo muna ang uunahin mo at hindi ibang tao pero ano ito? May bago ka ng karelasyon. Pumayag akong iwanan mo kahit hindi ko gusto dahil mahal kita at gusto kong mapabuti ka, nirespeto ko ang desisyon mo. Sabi ko pa sa iyo na wag mo akong lisanin at sinabi ko pang ayos lang sa akin kahit sa gilid mo lang ako basta wag kang aalis pero wala mas gusto mo talagang umalis. Kung alam mo lang na sobrang nasaktan ako sa paglisan mo noong araw na iyon, gabi-gabing umiiyak at iniisip bakit ito nangyari sa akin kahit ginawa ko naman ang tama at minahal ka ng sobra pero ako pa rin itong nadurog sa huli. Oo, masaya na ako ngayon. Mas pinili kong sumaya kaysa magmukmok. Siguro nga mas magandang maging magkaibigan na lang tayo. Hihintayin ko na lang dumating ang taong handang maging tama para sa akin at yung taong mamahalin ako tulad ng pagmamahal ko sa kaniya at sasamahan hanggang sa hukay. Pero tandaan mo ito, maraming wala sa akin na makikita mo sa iba pero maraming wala sa kanila na sa akin mo lamang makikita. Sana mahalin ka niyang bago mo tulad ng ginawa ko sa iyo dati. Ikaw ang unang naging nobya ko at ako rin ang unang naging nobya mo at akala ko tayo na hanggang dulo ngunit mali pala ako. Ps. Hindi niya siguro alam ang 3 month rule na kailangan maghintay muna ng tatlong buwan bago pumasok muli sa panibagong relasyon Pps. 6 mos na akong walang karelasyon 12/27/20 ANG DRAMA KO, NAKAKAHIYA PERO AYOS LAMANG DI NIYO NAMAN AKO KILALA. HAHA! MAGANDANG ARAW ^^
Kaya mo yan 🙂 im also in pain my bf cheated on me for 1yr i didn't expect na he will to that i gave everything ..mas pinili nya yung sinabay nya sakin skit sobra masakit dahil nagmahal k ng totoo pero eto binalik sayo . Si lord na bahala sa kanila soon marerealize nila yung ginwa nila sa mga nasaktan nila😌😌 In God's perfect time
Same situation i am right now... We broke up and didn't knew she was already meeting someone when it happened. Tas ngayin nagkabalikan kami pero di ko alam kung totoo paba.. nagiging tanga lang talaga ako siguro noh?
We both same situation before napakasakit but i overcome yung sobrang pain na yan. I will not say na move on, enjoyin mo yung pain kase yun yung way na para ma get over ka from this. Nakaka trauma talaga kaso we need to heal from that relationship..
It was 4am when I’m watching this and I can’t stop crying. I guess the song speaks for me. Exactly how I’m feeling right now. I became braver because of this. It’s really GOODBYE.
Kaya mo yan girl. Kayanin mo, promise lilipas din yan or at least magiging manageable soon... What's important is you know that you've loved deeply and truly. Kaya ganyan kasakit. If you're really having a hard time healing, no worries God will heal you. ❤️
REACTION VIDEOS PLEASE; *ONLY REMINDS ME OF YOU- MYMP *BEFORE I LET YOU GO FREE- FREESTYLE *SOMEDAY-NINA *STAY-DARYL ONG VERSION *PAALAM NA-RACHEL ALEJANDRO
This was my farewell song to my beloved husband who passaway... When he was in the icu bed, i see him fighting...for his life. But i can not bare anymore... The pain, and suffering... This is the time i felt, when you love someone you also let them have the opportunity to hurt you so much... Letting someone go, so Hard... Especially if you really love your partner so much... I love you my Little BeaR... I will be alrigth... but goodbye, my promise that I will take care and love as much as I can to be their for your parent with this endeavour in their life...
i still remember when the last time i sang this song it makes me cry. i really love her so bad but i need to let her go. im just happy that she is happy.:(
Every beginning of relationship must have to cherish...because you won't even know when its gonna end... that's why i am reminding both of us of this words...
Kuya darbz You're my best mentor when it comes making decisions about in a relationship. You made a better version of myself of how to handle a relationship thru your advices. I know you dont know me, but many thanks to you Ive memorize all your punch lines and I live with it everyday now, Thanks more power to you.
Love is not just a feeling but also a decision. You either choose to pursue this feeling or give it up. The real question is, where do you draw the line between running after love and giving it up.
I like the whole part of the video the last part hit me so hard. I totally agree with you Ku ya Darbs. Masasaktan ka lang pero di madudurog, and that's the power of loving ourselves. Know your worth before knowing other's worth.
Yung nag eemote ka tas ito yung napanood ko. Tapos, pinanood ko rin yung ibang vids. Thanks, kuya darbs. Now I know how will I move on to my 3 years of relationship :) Lablab, so im setting you free :)
bet ko yung way kung paano nya ikunumpara yung love doon sa flower. Thankyou kuya darbs ang dami kong natututunan sayo pls continue making content like this : ) Road to 100k!
this song popped up hahaha! resonate!!! when my specific person left me 12 years ago with our child...i let him go. that's how i love him so much. then i went through Darknights of the soul, i' m into my spiritual journey. i healed myself and still healing. I learned how to forgive...myself, and learned to love myself. i realised my worth and i Am grateful for that!!! ❤❤❤
This is the song that I always wanted to hear whenever time I wanted to cry .😥 wala kupas yung effect. Legendary. Have you done with 'Someday' by Nina?
This is one of my favorite songs! And the way you explained the lyrics was really amazing! I hope you do more of reaction videos like this! More power!
The songs defines me and the pain doesn't hurt me so much because you know deep in your hurt you live the person and down to earth you're willing to let both of you find your own happiness.
Its been 2 years but still i never forget you god knows how i love you looking far away that your happy now withsomeone else.so i set you free even though its kills me inside.
Parang gusto kong pumunta sa tabing dagat kasama mo and just talk about all the heartaches I've been through. I dont know pero napaka therapeutic para sakin ng mga videos mo. Keep it up po! Godbless.
Wow. I learned something here. “Even if you love someone so much, you have to really learn to love yourself first. Because if you love yourself and you have given all your love to them and still hurts you, you’ll only get hurt but you’ll not be broken.” Kuya Darbs is right. Why stay with someone who doesn’t love you anymore? Set them free because we all deserve to be loved and taken care of. Great message 😊❤
Watching from Malaysia Sir. Ang sakit nman pala ng message ng song na to. Umaabot kasi ung point na nauupos na din tayo. Yes mag paparaya nlng kaysa masaktan pa tayo sa excuses ng mahal natin. Ang hirap din na pg pilitan natin Sarili natin sa tao na wla ng love sa atin. Better palayain para di masasakal. Hirap din na kayo pa pro hindi na xa masaya.
I think ito yung point na the other person gets comfortable in a relationship that he or she stopped trying expressing how each other wants to be loved. Not only the guy who wrote this song is hurt, I think the person who left is hurting more for the longest time. It probably took awhile for that person to leave. Regret really appears in the end.
Even you love the person so much? Kung hindi maman talaga ikaw ang kailangan nya? At alam mong ubos na ubos ka na dahil sa patuloy mo syang minamahal? Hindi masamang mag quit. Palaging tandaan na deserve din mahalin ng totoo at ipaglaban lalo na sa panahon na hindi mo maintindihan ang sarili mo. Don't settle for less.
This happened to me 5 months ago. I figured out that he's still communicating with his ex, the person whom he had intimate relationship with. And it breaks my heart knowing that he's lying for a long time. I broke up with him and it ended up having no response from him. Instead of chasing me, he kept texting his ex-gf. I let him go even if it hurts and even if I love him so much.. But before the year ends, he came back, apologizing for what he did. I still love him but not as much I did before. But it wasn't a hindrance to give a second chance. And now, we're trying to work things out. We made plans, but I can't just stop myself from thinking what if it'll never gonna work out this time? 😔
Hi Kendy Mendoza here..from RTD ...sakit ha pero ok lng .ThatS life anyway. But there is nothing more painfull than the pain of a grieving mother to the son she never did say goodbye bfore leaving .Too many IF ONLY and TO MUCH REGRETS. Endless griefs until the other side.Ano ba yan RTD nakakaiyak naman.
I onced viewed this video and did not finish it, because I know it's going to be painful for me watching days after our break up. It's been 2 weeks and a half, and I decided to finish kase I feel like I have to face this heart that's aching to the person whom I loved so much. Indeed, was very hard for me to let him go pero I have to, kase mahal ko sya and I want him to be happy kahit ang saket saket na!
I know God has best,plan for me. Kaya bakit i am alone right now.. importante i am better n ngayon for 3mons past i leaned how to love myself. Alam ko ito ung gusto nya natalo man ako right now important nakabangon na ako sa masakit na nakaraan. Umalis ako dahil ito ung gusto nya, at ramdam ko di nya ako nkikita na makasama pa in the future. Iloveyou goodbye Wathing po kuya darbs and full support po bell all .
Pano pala kung nagkakamali ka? Ikaw lang nagisip na ayaw na nya tapos nakipagbreak ka agad? Baka maregret mo lang decisyon mo. 😟 Kausapin mo muna. Mali kasi na iconclude mo agad from a third party. Gusto ko yung sinabi ni kuya Darbs "You are supposed to choose each other no matter what." ❤️
True love proved that it isn't always a sacrifice just to be with each other, it also means setting someone you love free and let her chase her dreams. Let faith and trust meddle in your love story. If it's meant to happen, love will find its way back to you.
Ouch! I remember what I did to the man that I loved... i set him free when I learned that he just need me but not really love me like how i loved him. setting him free is also setting myself free from a foolish love.
@@RealTalkDarbs pwede request po ng video about confidence? Napansin ko kasi super confident niyo, like kinakabahan ba kayo pag artista iniinterview? LOL. Sana ma-meet kita soon
Yung pilantik pa lang ng guitara ang daming memories ang pumasok! 💔💔💔 God knows and heaven knows! Sya pa rin pero hindi na pwde. Loving from afar! We let go and set someone free because you love them and you want them to be happy.
Yung sinend mo sa taong gusto mo yung last part ng chorus nito pagkatapos bigla nya kakantahin sa video yung buong chorus na may caption na move on pero wala namang kayo. Minsan mahirap mag assume kung hindi mo rin nararamdaman kung meron ba talaga o wala
Akala ko: Pag mahal mo yung tao, wag mo lang basta bunutin yung bulaklak sa stem nya. Iuwi mo yung buong bulaklak kasama yung ugat. Or kung nakapaso dalin mo na. Napaka wordy mo. The way to tell things is very heavenly. May ganon kang epek. I wish I could be like you. But I always understand things like you. And I think that is all that matters. I hope to hear from you more. Try one of my favorite songs: EYES ON FIRE by Sarah Geronimo
This song reminds us that we deserve the love that we want to have... saying goodbye is not the end, it's your way of opening another door for the one you deserve...
You're better than my psychotherapist...how I wish I have the strength and be brave enough to just set him free coz it's been 12 years that I endure this toxic realationship...
Ngaun ko lng napanood ang video na to.,sakto kkabreak lng.,at masasabi kong buo aq bago aq nagmahal ulit.,kaya nung niloko nya aq nasaktan aq oo.,,pero hindi ako na durog.,sometimes true love is when you know how to let your love go.,hindi pwedeng puro laban.,,GODBLESS OUR HEART😇😇
This song hurts me a lot. Yung feeling na masaya pa kau kahapon tas kinabukasan di kana mahal. For 9 yrs, we ended up like wla lng sknya. Sobrang sakit na dami mo tanung tas hindi mnlng masagot, after nya tumalikud sakin completely no contact 😭 been crying for weeks. Asking myself saan ako nagkulang, at nagkamali. Hirap kasi wlang ibang tatapik sa likud mo para sabihing "kaya mo yan". Then makkta ko na myday sya ng tropa nya ksama yung babae nya 💔 gusto kong sabihin saknya kung ano pinagdadaanan ko ngaun dhl sknya, pero di ko mgawa ksi wla na tlga. Mahal ko pa, pero kailangan ko ng bitawan .😭 Thanks kuya darbs "if mahal ka, never ka iiwan"
"we just have to say our love was true but has now become a lie ... So I'm telling you I love you one last time and goodbye" Love you Chee! And so long!
Hi nice to meet you kuya darbs my first time and u just hit 100k now congratulations 🥳 Broken hearted ako ngaun bcoz my husband betrayed me and I start listening sa mga videos mo, step by step ginagawa ko mga advices mo kuya darbs Thankyou so much! Im looking forward na gumawa ka po ng videos or vlog for the wives like me na been betrayed! 💔But the main reason why to stay is because you just cant leave your children or put them into a broken family ☹️why man like that? Yung nagagawa pa maglibang sa ibang babae for s&x just to proved na lalake cla?!
I hate those men na ganun ang ginagawa nila sa mga missis nila. Pero there are certain situations na baka pwede naman mag-work ang ganun. I think the best way siguro is to settle it as a family regardless kung gaano pa ka bata ang mga anak. In the end, as long as may paguunawa, madadaan pa siguro sa mabuting usapan.
Sobrang sakit pero I finally let him go. Sobrang hirap pero kakayanin. I can’t always beg to make things work nakakababa ng pagkatao every time nakakababa ng pagkababae na ako yung nagmamakaawa at naghahabol. Tama na. Mahal ko pero tama. Ang hirap ng parating nasisisi sa mga bagay na hindi naman totoo. Ang hirap magpaniwala ng taong sarado ang utak. Kaya kong ipaliwanag ng paulit ulit ang sarili ko para lang maintindihan pero hanggang kailan. Tama naaaa
Question: what if your partner is so insensitive sa feelings mo and then everytime u try to talk it out, it ends with an argument, what will u do? How to save the relationship po?
Sorry to hear that bud but be ready for anything. Kung yung partner mo ayaw na makinig sa feelings mo maliit man o malaking bagay that means hindi yung relationship nyu yung priority nya ngaun. Having said that iwasan mo n lng magsabi ng masakit or ikakasakit ng damdamin nya pero be on guard pra di ka masaktan. Kung nasabi mo n lahat wala k n magagawa kung hindi mghintay na maunawaan nya yung mga sinabi mo kasi kung magtatalo lng kayo bka pumasok lng saisip nya na sumuko n lng. Payo lng brader, para di ka magaya sakin. Gooduck!
If ur partner isn't open to communicating about each other's flaws, let it go. Ang tao nagging ready lang pag gusto sila. Hindi natin sla mapipilit. Mas ssakit lang yan. At ikaw ang pinaka masasaktan, worst case scenario ikaw ang mag kaka scar or trauma for life.
Yung hiningi niya ang respeto at unawa mo sa desisyon niyang tapusin na ang lahat, ikaw ba na nagbigay ng respeto o unawa ang sumuko o siya na humingi nito?
@@RealTalkDarbs walang may kasalanan kuya Darbs😂 masakit lang lahat, pwedeng papalitan nalang ng utak ang puso para hindi na maginarteng tumitibok tibok kahit ang sakit sakit na😪😂
Na recall ko ang past ko,3yrs kami akala ko okey kami nabalitaan ko nakabutis sya,then at that time buntis rin ako,its so hard sa part ko cause gusto ko sya mismo ang pumili sino ang kanyang pipilii...but he choose the new girl pinakasalanan niya at ako ng-iisa na buntis rin...mindset ko...siguro d talaga ako mahal ng taong iyon for 3yrs sakit iwan ka buntis pinili pa niya ang new gf na buntis niya,never ko iniskandalo sila hinayaan ko sila sa life nila....acceptence and faith in god’s plan...and now kahit anong pain pa darating kakayanin ko ...
Yung nabalitaan mong may bago ng karelasyon yung taong sobrang mong mahal.. Yung narealized mong, hindi na para sayo yung mga ngiti nya. ANG SAKIT LANG! 😢😢😢 I Still feel the pain kahit one year na since we break up!
Grabe na guilty aq sa video na to...now q na realized na sobra kung sama nong time na bigla ko nlng sya iniwan...na mas pinili ko na magkwento sa iba kaysa sa kanya...ndi ko sinabi sa kanya na ayaw ko na...para akong bula na nawala....sorry sa lahat sana f nasaan kaman masaya kna at patawad sa lahat😭😭😭😭😭
Ako rin sa kabarkada niya pa ang nagsasabi na sinasakyan lang ang trip ko...wow! After all my investments feelings, time, effort, money etc... It was painful
masakit right? . i used to had a long term relationship(ldr) before (months na) everything was fine until the day she stopped sending me messages, then a week I dm her and ask her if everything was okay tapos she wants to stop what we have and she blocked me na agad(days after she broke up with me) . days after, my friend asked me if kami pa nun and I answered no break na kami ilang araw na (but di ko sinabi na sya nakipag break) then sabi nya kaya pala may nakita akong may kalandian syang iba sa post nya
Naalala ko tuloy nung nagbreak kami ng ex ko last year. It's funny how I kept on saving my past relationship kahit ilang beses na niya akong pinagtabuyan. Lately, sinabihan pa niyang walang tatagal na lalaki sa akin. Pero siya naman nakikipagbalikan noon. Hahaha Now, I find it pure FUNNY 'cause I'm finally free. No more pain na. Skl. I really enjoyed watching you, sir Darbs. More subs to come.
Kuya Darbs, you've helped me a lot when im in the state of being broken through youre advice. request ko sana react ka sa kantang ON BENDED KNEE. Tnx. Sana manotice 😁😁😁
its been 5days Im here crying and breaking into pieces he leave without saying anything and now I questioned my self 🥺🥺 but I am setting you free even if it's hard. I hope someday you will explain why
Everytime na iiwan ako lagi ko tong pinapakinggan actually i've already memories this song pero i cant sing it.. bakit??kasi i dont want to sing it through all my life.. i know there will be someone who will be there and who will stay though ashes and dawn.. it really hurts hearing this song pero nakaka relieve hearing this kind of music kasi the song itself explain how you really feel.. loving someone is a true happiness but expect also na hindi porket masaya ka hindi ka na makakaramdam ng sakit..
"God knows how much I love you, I love you more than you knew. . . but am setting you free because I want you to be happy" 🙈✌🏻❤️
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ang sakit na pakawalan mo dhil mahal na mahal mo pero dina sia masaya😭😭sayo
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@@simangesguerra1624 there is no point in being with a person who is unhappy to be with you. Before you become miserable, before that person's unhappiness becomes your own, it makes sense to set that person free. It should make someone feel better and content na he or she did the ultimate love and sacrifice to set another person free. That is called sweet surrender and that should make one's heart and soul happy.
Kamusta ka naman daw nakamove on knb pre
"When you are sad, you understand the lyrics, and when you are happy, you enjoy the music"
Ngayon ko lang narealize, sobrang sakit pala netong kantang 'to. Samantalang dati, kinakanta pa namin magkasama to. To that boy from Bicol, ngayon ko mas naiintindihan kung ano talagang nangyari sa' ting dalawa. Or should i say, kung anong nangyari sa'yo kung bakit nawala yung "pagmamahal" mo saken, it was never a decision, dala lang talaga yun ng emosyon mo. Sa una lang talaga ang lahat, sa dulo wala na.
Nangyari sakin to. Hindi na pala ako ang mahal pero ni minsan hindi man lang nasabi. Yung naaalala nya na lang ako pag may kailangan sya at alam nyan matutulungan ko sya. Hanggang sa isang araw narealize ko na parang nawawala na yung self-worth ko. Naibigay ko lahat ng pagmamahal sa knya pero ako hindi nakatanggap ng tunay na pagmamahal mula sa knya. By the grace of God, I learned to be independent for my child. Hindi pala lahat sasaya kapag may karelasyon ka. Minsan matatagpuan mo yung pagmamahal na para sayo sa mga taong nasa paligid mo lang💖
"Loving is a decision, it's not a feeling"
That word right there Kuya Darbs! You're just amazing! :)
"Sa sobrang mahal mo yung tao minsan nabibigay mo lahat nauubos ka"
Sa true lang, relate ako riyan. Binigay ko lahat ng pagmamahal na dapat maramdaman ng aking dating nobya kaso naiwan pa rin akong mag-isa ngayon ako itong walang-wala. Sabi niya sarili niya raw muna ang uunahin niya at ayaw niya akong nasasaktan dahil sa kaniya kaya pinili niyang makipaghiwalay. Pero, bakit? Bakit may bago ka na? Sabi mo sarili mo muna ang uunahin mo at hindi ibang tao pero ano ito? May bago ka ng karelasyon. Pumayag akong iwanan mo kahit hindi ko gusto dahil mahal kita at gusto kong mapabuti ka, nirespeto ko ang desisyon mo. Sabi ko pa sa iyo na wag mo akong lisanin at sinabi ko pang ayos lang sa akin kahit sa gilid mo lang ako basta wag kang aalis pero wala mas gusto mo talagang umalis. Kung alam mo lang na sobrang nasaktan ako sa paglisan mo noong araw na iyon, gabi-gabing umiiyak at iniisip bakit ito nangyari sa akin kahit ginawa ko naman ang tama at minahal ka ng sobra pero ako pa rin itong nadurog sa huli. Oo, masaya na ako ngayon. Mas pinili kong sumaya kaysa magmukmok. Siguro nga mas magandang maging magkaibigan na lang tayo. Hihintayin ko na lang dumating ang taong handang maging tama para sa akin at yung taong mamahalin ako tulad ng pagmamahal ko sa kaniya at sasamahan hanggang sa hukay. Pero tandaan mo ito, maraming wala sa akin na makikita mo sa iba pero maraming wala sa kanila na sa akin mo lamang makikita. Sana mahalin ka niyang bago mo tulad ng ginawa ko sa iyo dati. Ikaw ang unang naging nobya ko at ako rin ang unang naging nobya mo at akala ko tayo na hanggang dulo ngunit mali pala ako.
Ps. Hindi niya siguro alam ang 3 month rule na kailangan maghintay muna ng tatlong buwan bago pumasok muli sa panibagong relasyon
Pps. 6 mos na akong walang karelasyon
12/27/20
ANG DRAMA KO, NAKAKAHIYA PERO AYOS LAMANG DI NIYO NAMAN AKO KILALA. HAHA! MAGANDANG ARAW ^^
Kaya mo yan 🙂 im also in pain my bf cheated on me for 1yr i didn't expect na he will to that i gave everything ..mas pinili nya yung sinabay nya sakin skit sobra masakit dahil nagmahal k ng totoo pero eto binalik sayo . Si lord na bahala sa kanila soon marerealize nila yung ginwa nila sa mga nasaktan nila😌😌 In God's perfect time
Same situation i am right now... We broke up and didn't knew she was already meeting someone when it happened. Tas ngayin nagkabalikan kami pero di ko alam kung totoo paba.. nagiging tanga lang talaga ako siguro noh?
We both same situation before napakasakit but i overcome yung sobrang pain na yan. I will not say na move on, enjoyin mo yung pain kase yun yung way na para ma get over ka from this. Nakaka trauma talaga kaso we need to heal from that relationship..
It was 4am when I’m watching this and I can’t stop crying. I guess the song speaks for me. Exactly how I’m feeling right now. I became braver because of this. It’s really GOODBYE.
😥😥 hugs
@@maejoan4116 thank you badly needed at this time
Kaya mo yan girl. Kayanin mo, promise lilipas din yan or at least magiging manageable soon... What's important is you know that you've loved deeply and truly. Kaya ganyan kasakit. If you're really having a hard time healing, no worries God will heal you. ❤️
@@annkris15 thank you I appreciate you and yeah God and time will heal me.
Been there.. Lilipas din yan. It may took sometime but one thing is for sure it will end. Stay strong girl. Lavan lang.
God always have a plan to us ! Lilipas din ang mga pain natin at may magandang darating para saatin
Your advice is very true. After a year or two of heavy break up.... I was able to be blessed a partner for life.
REACTION VIDEOS PLEASE;
*ONLY REMINDS ME OF YOU- MYMP
*BEFORE I LET YOU GO FREE- FREESTYLE
*SOMEDAY-NINA
*STAY-DARYL ONG VERSION
*PAALAM NA-RACHEL ALEJANDRO
Yes pls 😣
Agree
That should be by Justin B
Love is when you set her free for her to be happy even it will tear you up in million times. 😔
True😔
Letting go is not a weakness...
It is the most courageous act that a loving heart can do...
This was my farewell song to my beloved husband who passaway...
When he was in the icu bed,
i see him fighting...for his life.
But i can not bare anymore...
The pain, and suffering...
This is the time i felt, when you love someone you also let them have the opportunity to hurt you so much...
Letting someone go, so Hard...
Especially if you really love your partner so much...
I love you my Little BeaR...
I will be alrigth...
but goodbye, my promise that I will take care and love as much as I can to be their for your parent with this endeavour in their life...
I hope you're okay now🥺❤️
i still remember when the last time i sang this song it makes me cry. i really love her so bad but i need to let her go. im just happy that she is happy.:(
Every beginning of relationship must have to cherish...because you won't even know when its gonna end... that's why i am reminding both of us of this words...
In my next relationship. I'll cherish every moment na 🥺 Buset kasi tong pandemic nato hahahaha
Kuya darbz You're my best mentor when it comes making decisions about in a relationship. You made a better version of myself of how to handle a relationship thru your advices. I know you dont know me, but many thanks to you
Ive memorize all your punch lines and I live with it everyday now, Thanks more power to you.
Love is not just a feeling but also a decision. You either choose to pursue this feeling or give it up. The real question is, where do you draw the line between running after love and giving it up.
I like the whole part of the video the last part hit me so hard. I totally agree with you Ku ya Darbs. Masasaktan ka lang pero di madudurog, and that's the power of loving ourselves. Know your worth before knowing other's worth.
Yung nag eemote ka tas ito yung napanood ko. Tapos, pinanood ko rin yung ibang vids. Thanks, kuya darbs. Now I know how will I move on to my 3 years of relationship :)
Lablab, so im setting you free :)
bet ko yung way kung paano nya ikunumpara yung love doon sa flower. Thankyou kuya darbs ang dami kong natututunan sayo pls continue making content like this : ) Road to 100k!
Yes i felt that how to sacrifice letting go someone i loved to find his happiness...its hurt that he cannot found that with me anymore
this song popped up hahaha! resonate!!! when my specific person left me 12 years ago with our child...i let him go. that's how i love him so much. then i went through Darknights of the soul, i' m into my spiritual journey. i healed myself and still healing. I learned how to forgive...myself, and learned to love myself. i realised my worth and i Am grateful for that!!! ❤❤❤
He knows how much I love him. But he keeps lying...now I want to love myself 💝
This is the song that I always wanted to hear whenever time I wanted to cry .😥 wala kupas yung effect. Legendary.
Have you done with 'Someday' by Nina?
This is one of my favorite songs! And the way you explained the lyrics was really amazing! I hope you do more of reaction videos like this! More power!
The songs defines me and the pain doesn't hurt me so much because you know deep in your hurt you live the person and down to earth you're willing to let both of you find your own happiness.
Its been 2 years but still i never forget you god knows how i love you looking far away that your happy now withsomeone else.so i set you free even though its kills me inside.
Parang gusto kong pumunta sa tabing dagat kasama mo and just talk about all the heartaches I've been through. I dont know pero napaka therapeutic para sakin ng mga videos mo. Keep it up po! Godbless.
Same. Few days ago sobrang sakit 3 days nako di nakakakain pero now nong nanonood ako ng vids nya i feel like nagiging okay ako
Wow. I learned something here. “Even if you love someone so much, you have to really learn to love yourself first. Because if you love yourself and you have given all your love to them and still hurts you,
you’ll only get hurt but you’ll not be broken.” Kuya Darbs is right. Why stay with someone who doesn’t love you anymore? Set them free because we all deserve to be loved and taken care of. Great message 😊❤
Watching from Malaysia Sir. Ang sakit nman pala ng message ng song na to. Umaabot kasi ung point na nauupos na din tayo. Yes mag paparaya nlng kaysa masaktan pa tayo sa excuses ng mahal natin. Ang hirap din na pg pilitan natin Sarili natin sa tao na wla ng love sa atin. Better palayain para di masasakal. Hirap din na kayo pa pro hindi na xa masaya.
Ganda Ng boses Ng nag cover ...Galing kuya Darbs ❤️
more to come pa!
May youtube channel din po ba sya?
I think ito yung point na the other person gets comfortable in a relationship that he or she stopped trying expressing how each other wants to be loved. Not only the guy who wrote this song is hurt, I think the person who left is hurting more for the longest time. It probably took awhile for that person to leave. Regret really appears in the end.
BTNS (bakit to nangyari sa atin) by The Juans songs po sana next 🙏🥺💖
Ang galing mo! Hindi boring! Hindi corny! 😍 subscribed! 😍 so much wisdom! Bwiset! 🥲 thank you!
Healed na ako pero sadyang ang sakit ng kantang to! Word by word! 😔
Great voice 💙
Pa pogi nman ng pa pogi..🥰😍kaya pla nag ttaka na pag tugtog ang kanta paubaya..relate aa aongs batch kaya?
Even you love the person so much? Kung hindi maman talaga ikaw ang kailangan nya? At alam mong ubos na ubos ka na dahil sa patuloy mo syang minamahal? Hindi masamang mag quit. Palaging tandaan na deserve din mahalin ng totoo at ipaglaban lalo na sa panahon na hindi mo maintindihan ang sarili mo. Don't settle for less.
Love is not just a feeling, it is a decision as well.
the song was broken down by words and I'm here breaking down in pieces. Every time man!
I'm frickin phasing out lol
This happened to me 5 months ago. I figured out that he's still communicating with his ex, the person whom he had intimate relationship with. And it breaks my heart knowing that he's lying for a long time. I broke up with him and it ended up having no response from him. Instead of chasing me, he kept texting his ex-gf. I let him go even if it hurts and even if I love him so much.. But before the year ends, he came back, apologizing for what he did. I still love him but not as much I did before. But it wasn't a hindrance to give a second chance. And now, we're trying to work things out. We made plans, but I can't just stop myself from thinking what if it'll never gonna work out this time? 😔
and that is the part where you have to be ready. it's either it wont work or it will. and if not that shit hurts 💔 goodluck sis! you can do it!
@@alvixx9719 😔😔😔 anyways, thank you.
Hi Kendy Mendoza here..from RTD ...sakit ha pero ok lng .ThatS life anyway. But there is nothing more painfull than the pain of a grieving mother to the son she never did say goodbye bfore leaving .Too many IF ONLY and TO MUCH REGRETS. Endless griefs until the other side.Ano ba yan RTD nakakaiyak naman.
I onced viewed this video and did not finish it, because I know it's going to be painful for me watching days after our break up. It's been 2 weeks and a half, and I decided to finish kase I feel like I have to face this heart that's aching to the person whom I loved so much. Indeed, was very hard for me to let him go pero I have to, kase mahal ko sya and I want him to be happy kahit ang saket saket na!
Very WELL EXPLAINED ❣
"SELF WORTH"
Thank you.
I know God has best,plan for me. Kaya bakit i am alone right now.. importante i am better n ngayon for 3mons past i leaned how to love myself. Alam ko ito ung gusto nya natalo man ako right now important nakabangon na ako sa masakit na nakaraan. Umalis ako dahil ito ung gusto nya, at ramdam ko di nya ako nkikita na makasama pa in the future. Iloveyou goodbye
Wathing po kuya darbs and full support po bell all .
It really hurt that you are finally ready to settle your life with him. But he is not yet ready to be the man i deserve to be with 💔😭
💔
Ang sakiy
I feel you.
Virtual hugs to you.🤗
Pano pala kung nagkakamali ka? Ikaw lang nagisip na ayaw na nya tapos nakipagbreak ka agad? Baka maregret mo lang decisyon mo. 😟 Kausapin mo muna. Mali kasi na iconclude mo agad from a third party. Gusto ko yung sinabi ni kuya Darbs "You are supposed to choose each other no matter what." ❤️
I've been singing this song when we we're still together, I don't really know how the song means pero ngayon naiintidihan ko na at ang saket saket 💔
I really appreciate your interpretation. I just want to suggest an article about love. The title is 'Phenomenology of Love' written by Manuel dy.
True love proved that it isn't always a sacrifice just to be with each other, it also means setting someone you love free and let her chase her dreams. Let faith and trust meddle in your love story. If it's meant to happen, love will find its way back to you.
Ito yung laging kinakanta nang ex char char way back 5 years ago. Masakit pag naalala ko yung tono at lyrics nang kanta with emotions 😭😢
kalimutan mo na sya!!!
I love that "Let me be the ONE" ❤️❤️❤️ by jimmy bondoc.. batang 90's I'm proud 😊❤️🙏 😇
Ouch! I remember what I did to the man that I loved... i set him free when I learned that he just need me but not really love me like how i loved him. setting him free is also setting myself free from a foolish love.
I dedicate the song "What I Did for Love" to you.
Yan ang pinaka mahirap gawin... pero kailangan para i save ang sarili at maiwasan ang sang katutak nyang pag sisinungaling...
Wow! 😍😍😍fave song namin ng hubby ko yan.Galing naman Kuya Darbs👏👏👏❤
Angas mo magpaliwanag, sir! Ganda rin ng boses ni kuya. ❤️
ang shakettt naman neto kuya Darbs 😭😭
more vids like this po 🥰
How about one last cry po? Yung wish bus nalang kay Michael Pangilinan 😅
Ang galing ng editor. Yun lang masasabi ko hahaha. Other than that, ang pogi ni darbs (pero opo dinako makikipag agawan sainyo) 🤣
hahaha! salamat!
@@RealTalkDarbs pwede request po ng video about confidence? Napansin ko kasi super confident niyo, like kinakabahan ba kayo pag artista iniinterview? LOL. Sana ma-meet kita soon
Yung pilantik pa lang ng guitara ang daming memories ang pumasok! 💔💔💔 God knows and heaven knows! Sya pa rin pero hindi na pwde. Loving from afar! We let go and set someone free because you love them and you want them to be happy.
Yung sinend mo sa taong gusto mo yung last part ng chorus nito pagkatapos bigla nya kakantahin sa video yung buong chorus na may caption na move on pero wala namang kayo. Minsan mahirap mag assume kung hindi mo rin nararamdaman kung meron ba talaga o wala
Akala ko:
Pag mahal mo yung tao, wag mo lang basta bunutin yung bulaklak sa stem nya. Iuwi mo yung buong bulaklak kasama yung ugat. Or kung nakapaso dalin mo na.
Napaka wordy mo.
The way to tell things is very heavenly. May ganon kang epek.
I wish I could be like you.
But I always understand things like you. And I think that is all that matters.
I hope to hear from you more.
Try one of my favorite songs: EYES ON FIRE by Sarah Geronimo
Lagi na lang ako nakakarelate 😂 Sana Kuya next time po ung lyrics ng Before I Let You Go by Freestyle. ☺ Thank you.
thank you sa suggestion! ill look into it!
isa pa sa mga kinakanta ko noon,, lalo na shot moment
I love you one last time and goodbye. Sala sa memories salamat sa seven years.
This song reminds us that we deserve the love that we want to have... saying goodbye is not the end, it's your way of opening another door for the one you deserve...
Love how you compare love with a flower. ♥️🌸
still crying ,,thank you for this
You're better than my psychotherapist...how I wish I have the strength and be brave enough to just set him free coz it's been 12 years that I endure this toxic realationship...
Ngaun ko lng napanood ang video na to.,sakto kkabreak lng.,at masasabi kong buo aq bago aq nagmahal ulit.,kaya nung niloko nya aq nasaktan aq oo.,,pero hindi ako na durog.,sometimes true love is when you know how to let your love go.,hindi pwedeng puro laban.,,GODBLESS OUR HEART😇😇
Sobrang sakit pero need natin mag let go dahil mahal natin sila
Sobra :(
This song hurts me a lot. Yung feeling na masaya pa kau kahapon tas kinabukasan di kana mahal. For 9 yrs, we ended up like wla lng sknya. Sobrang sakit na dami mo tanung tas hindi mnlng masagot, after nya tumalikud sakin completely no contact 😭 been crying for weeks. Asking myself saan ako nagkulang, at nagkamali. Hirap kasi wlang ibang tatapik sa likud mo para sabihing "kaya mo yan". Then makkta ko na myday sya ng tropa nya ksama yung babae nya 💔 gusto kong sabihin saknya kung ano pinagdadaanan ko ngaun dhl sknya, pero di ko mgawa ksi wla na tlga. Mahal ko pa, pero kailangan ko ng bitawan .😭
Thanks kuya darbs "if mahal ka, never ka iiwan"
Yung pakiramdam mo totoo yung pagmamhalan nyu, pero magugulat ka nlng pag gising mo di kana mahal. 💔
"we just have to say our love was true but has now become a lie ... So I'm telling you I love you one last time and goodbye"
Love you Chee! And so long!
Napa subcribed ako dto. Ur the man Kuyz Darbs!!!
ang ganda bg rendition ni layani ni dagdagn pa ng pag analyze ni kuya darbs ayun sobrang sakit
Hi nice to meet you kuya darbs my first time and u just hit 100k now congratulations 🥳 Broken hearted ako ngaun bcoz my husband betrayed me and I start listening sa mga videos mo, step by step ginagawa ko mga advices mo kuya darbs Thankyou so much! Im looking forward na gumawa ka po ng videos or vlog for the wives like me na been betrayed! 💔But the main reason why to stay is because you just cant leave your children or put them into a broken family ☹️why man like that? Yung nagagawa pa maglibang sa ibang babae for s&x just to proved na lalake cla?!
I hate those men na ganun ang ginagawa nila sa mga missis nila. Pero there are certain situations na baka pwede naman mag-work ang ganun. I think the best way siguro is to settle it as a family regardless kung gaano pa ka bata ang mga anak. In the end, as long as may paguunawa, madadaan pa siguro sa mabuting usapan.
Galing naman ng singer 👏 and of course ung interpretation na ginawa mo...Sobrang nakakarelax and Ramdam na Ramdam
Sobrang sakit pero I finally let him go. Sobrang hirap pero kakayanin. I can’t always beg to make things work nakakababa ng pagkatao every time nakakababa ng pagkababae na ako yung nagmamakaawa at naghahabol. Tama na. Mahal ko pero tama. Ang hirap ng parating nasisisi sa mga bagay na hindi naman totoo. Ang hirap magpaniwala ng taong sarado ang utak. Kaya kong ipaliwanag ng paulit ulit ang sarili ko para lang maintindihan pero hanggang kailan. Tama naaaa
Ang lupet lagi ng mga last message mo tol darbs! Very inspiring. Lalo pa ngayun gf ko sumama sa rebound. Potek ang sakiiiit
Piskot na surprise ko da pero ambot Masaya aq nkita ka ngano kha
Question: what if your partner is so insensitive sa feelings mo and then everytime u try to talk it out, it ends with an argument, what will u do?
How to save the relationship po?
Yeah i feel you po same situation po. 😢😢😢
Ready yourself for the ending...
End it
Sorry to hear that bud but be ready for anything. Kung yung partner mo ayaw na makinig sa feelings mo maliit man o malaking bagay that means hindi yung relationship nyu yung priority nya ngaun. Having said that iwasan mo n lng magsabi ng masakit or ikakasakit ng damdamin nya pero be on guard pra di ka masaktan. Kung nasabi mo n lahat wala k n magagawa kung hindi mghintay na maunawaan nya yung mga sinabi mo kasi kung magtatalo lng kayo bka pumasok lng saisip nya na sumuko n lng. Payo lng brader, para di ka magaya sakin. Gooduck!
If ur partner isn't open to communicating about each other's flaws, let it go. Ang tao nagging ready lang pag gusto sila. Hindi natin sla mapipilit. Mas ssakit lang yan. At ikaw ang pinaka masasaktan, worst case scenario ikaw ang mag kaka scar or trauma for life.
ang ganda ng pagka analize ng kanta but damn ang ganda2 nmn ng boses ng singer ui..his falsetto is to die for..subrang sakit ng naramdaman ko tuloy..
malupet yan si layani. sub ka sa kanya!
@@RealTalkDarbs done
Hihiramin ko phones ng friends and co workers ko to subscribes you🤣 sending support❤️
Kuya darbs someone like you naman..😍
Yung hiningi niya ang respeto at unawa mo sa desisyon niyang tapusin na ang lahat, ikaw ba na nagbigay ng respeto o unawa ang sumuko o siya na humingi nito?
bat parang kasalanan ko?
@@RealTalkDarbs walang may kasalanan kuya Darbs😂 masakit lang lahat, pwedeng papalitan nalang ng utak ang puso para hindi na maginarteng tumitibok tibok kahit ang sakit sakit na😪😂
WAAHHHHH GANDAAAAAA NNNGG BOSEESSSSSSSSSSSS
Na recall ko ang past ko,3yrs kami akala ko okey kami nabalitaan ko nakabutis sya,then at that time buntis rin ako,its so hard sa part ko cause gusto ko sya mismo ang pumili sino ang kanyang pipilii...but he choose the new girl pinakasalanan niya at ako ng-iisa na buntis rin...mindset ko...siguro d talaga ako mahal ng taong iyon for 3yrs sakit iwan ka buntis pinili pa niya ang new gf na buntis niya,never ko iniskandalo sila hinayaan ko sila sa life nila....acceptence and faith in god’s plan...and now kahit anong pain pa darating kakayanin ko ...
Yung nabalitaan mong may bago ng karelasyon yung taong sobrang mong mahal..
Yung narealized mong, hindi na para sayo yung mga ngiti nya.
ANG SAKIT LANG! 😢😢😢
I Still feel the pain kahit one year na since we break up!
@rtd no one loses and no one wins when 2 people fall out... because both of it (win and lose) you possess it one way or the other
Grabe na guilty aq sa video na to...now q na realized na sobra kung sama nong time na bigla ko nlng sya iniwan...na mas pinili ko na magkwento sa iba kaysa sa kanya...ndi ko sinabi sa kanya na ayaw ko na...para akong bula na nawala....sorry sa lahat sana f nasaan kaman masaya kna at patawad sa lahat😭😭😭😭😭
I really appreciate and admire sa mga wisdom thought mo Kuya Darbs, Hindi complete Ang araw ko pag hindi Kita napapanood 😁🤗 I love you Kuya Darbs 😁😁😁😁
Request sir, "Sa susunod na habangbuhay by Ben&Ben"
grabe iyak ko dto kuya darbs,ito po yung nararanasan ko ngayon 😭💔 subrang sakit, hanggang ngayan ang sakit2x prin😭
Support kuya Darbs!! until maka 1m sub and so on ♥♥
"yung sa iba mo pa nalaman"
Yes po sa iba ko po nalaman 😁😁
pareho tayu classmate ko pa sa elementary yung pinalit sakin 🤣 ayus lng masaya na ako sa mahal ko ngaun 😅🥰 hope you will too eventually sissyy 💖🥰
Ako rin sa kabarkada niya pa ang nagsasabi na sinasakyan lang ang trip ko...wow! After all my investments feelings, time, effort, money etc...
It was painful
@@finnsaavedra7393 woi pamilyar name mo, girl k ba?
masakit right? . i used to had a long term relationship(ldr) before (months na) everything was fine until the day she stopped sending me messages, then a week I dm her and ask her if everything was okay tapos she wants to stop what we have and she blocked me na agad(days after she broke up with me) . days after, my friend asked me if kami pa nun and I answered no break na kami ilang araw na (but di ko sinabi na sya nakipag break) then sabi nya kaya pala may nakita akong may kalandian syang iba sa post nya
@@AR._MARK_LARON ok lng yan tol, she did you a favor. May mas maayos dyan.
Naalala ko tuloy nung nagbreak kami ng ex ko last year. It's funny how I kept on saving my past relationship kahit ilang beses na niya akong pinagtabuyan. Lately, sinabihan pa niyang walang tatagal na lalaki sa akin. Pero siya naman nakikipagbalikan noon. Hahaha Now, I find it pure FUNNY 'cause I'm finally free. No more pain na. Skl. I really enjoyed watching you, sir Darbs. More subs to come.
Nagbago na interpretation ko sa song na 'to after watching this. Galing!
Hay nkitA Kona jud Ang taong gusto q Makita hehehe I'm happy
Kuya Darbs, you've helped me a lot when im in the state of being broken through youre advice. request ko sana react ka sa kantang ON BENDED KNEE. Tnx. Sana manotice 😁😁😁
He don't want the girl to feel guity and making herself bad. He genuine love the person to make it easy for her.
You deserve more than 100k subs. 💯
its been 5days Im here crying and breaking into pieces he leave without saying anything and now I questioned my self 🥺🥺 but I am setting you free even if it's hard. I hope someday you will explain why
How are you na po?
Everytime na iiwan ako lagi ko tong pinapakinggan actually i've already memories this song pero i cant sing it.. bakit??kasi i dont want to sing it through all my life.. i know there will be someone who will be there and who will stay though ashes and dawn.. it really hurts hearing this song pero nakaka relieve hearing this kind of music kasi the song itself explain how you really feel.. loving someone is a true happiness but expect also na hindi porket masaya ka hindi ka na makakaramdam ng sakit..
Ngayon ko lang to naramadaman na ndi ko kayang mawala tong taong to HA SON ipapaglalaban kita til d end ❤