You never, ever attempt something as drastic as weaning when the baby is tired! It's common sense, lady. Have a heart! How can you say 'no' to a little child who wants to nurse to sleep? Do you realize how that makes you look?
Kala Dwarakanath I really don't think she said ok you're tired let's do this. What she was trying to tell you was she was tired because she was weaning her. You know how that makes you look? Like a dumbshit. Which you are.
I just want to say great job mom!! My daughter went through the same and I kept telling my daughter “she will be fine she is trying to be in charge snd you cannot allow it”.. I know it’s hard but you are a great mom 😃😃 part of being a parent is showing the child who is in charge ! Great job mommy 😃😃😃♥️♥️♥️👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻
She’s weaning her off the bottle, so she’s tired and weaning. But please go on, since you’re such a parenting expert. What an unintelligent idiotic comment. Go be a pile of garbage elsewhere.
@@gonzalezsfamily1483are you dumb a toddler does not have the brain capacity to self regulate not only that but it is a normal and healthy part for a child’s development to throw a tantrum at that age it expands their lungs and it teaches them how to express their emotions the “terrible 2’s” stage is very real and they feel what we would call “big emotions” that they cannot process properly which causes them to scream and cry because they literally cannot express their feelings or needs verbally because that is a baby you’re supposed to pay attention to baby it’s important for their development as well and it is not “spoiling them”
My “baby” will turn 40 this summer. However, from the day he was born and at least until he started school, he could throw a temper tantrum! This is very tame by comparison. He didn’t even cry, usually. He just screamed and screamed as loudly as he could. Finally, I told him that he was not allowed to scream like that in my house, and if he didn’t stop he would have to go outside until he did. Very strong willed, though, and wasn’t about to let me win. So, I put him outside. He kept screaming as he ran around the exterior of the house, stopping at every door and window to give me another scream. Finally, he wore himself out, I guess, and the screaming stopped, so I let him back in. I wish I could say that was the end of the tantrums, but, no. However, he toned it down some and never screamed like that again. 😅
That's not a tantrum she is trying to tell you that she is tired and needs to go to bed. Just picked her up and take her to bed and yes little ones will do this when they are tired. She is a.beautiful little baby. God bless her now and always🌹🌹
As I understand the situation from reading comments this little darling is revealing frustration due to being weaned. It's not an easy time for baby or mama. While usually what the child misses most at this stage is the close cuddly time which she will learn to accept in leau of nursing, this period of adjustment simply has to take place. Some children will just fuss a little the first day then again at bedtime and some will whine and carry on like they're dying for days. This reflects how well the parent has already taught their child to accept No means No. Note Mom must never backslide and give in because then she has a child that knows just how much she has to carry on to get her own way, and Mom will be looking at that whiny face frequently instead of happy smiling face a lot in the future.
I agree 110% my daughter went through this and as hard as it was she didn’t allow the child to manipulate her giving in.. no means no into and that’s it… great job mom, I’ve seen almost all of these parents on RUclips give In and allow the child to run the show..nope !! Not good at all! Great job mommy ❤️👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻
She can still get lots of close cuddles with Mommy and she will have learned her first important boundary. The health nurse said any child old enough to give a really big protest is old enough to get the nutrition needed from balanced meals.
@@antijew6876 Not all, but you can tell the difference between sadness, and anger about not getting their way and they think the screaming will persuade you. Really great name, btw -NOT! I cannot understand this bigotry and making sure people know about it. 😒
What a cutie. She seemed to be like "I feel like having a tantrum, but this couch pillow looks kinda cool....oh I broke my concentration. I don't feel much like crying but mom wont believe that I am upset if I stop. I should bang my head on the coffee table....man that really hurts...this pillow is just so cool"
The baby is obviously over tired, and possibly teething that is why he wants to continue to nurse. My son does this daily when tired, irritated, or in pain.
No, you don't. That is like saying you take the bottle when the baby is ready. It's not good for their teeth and well, it becomes inappropriate on a mothers part when the child is old enough to use a cup.
Jfc put your phone down and comfort your child. Filming your kids when they are in distress should be considered child abuse....neglect at the very least.
IKR? She does not look like a baby that will deliberately cause herself pain. She does seem to know what “should” work to change the parental mind, though.
In this case, it's the mom who is doing the manipulation. She is supposed to be having a bad day, and yet is able to videotape her crying, desperate baby!
That baby wants to b breast fed & a nap. She may not have got enough the first time bc she's screaming for it now. Just stop recording her & give her what she needs. Anyone can tell she's still hungry & very sleepy.
john jeffries Oh, really? So, according to you, the child is not dependent on the mom to have her needs met and the mom is not turning this into a power play, right?
Kala Dwarakanath Literally in every child book it says the parent should stay calm and wait for the temper tantrum to pass. You clearly have no idea what you're talking about. How about reading a parenting book and educating yourself....
realmommylife @Paula Hayes @Ihatestupidpeople Really??? What is wrong with ALL OF U? First ... This is supposed to be a forum for discussion .... Not a place to perfect your insults like naughty 10 yro who need their mouths washed out with soap. NO! I DO NOT ASCRIBE to that as reality. It is a figure of speech to make a point & I would never do it or endorse it. That being said... To Mum ... It is ok to ignore...especially if youre weaning. Not every woman loves nursing. It can be painful to mum and baby. Pump Instead. However... there is NO DOCTOR on this earth who will tell U persistent head banging ... ON GLASS... is something to ignore! If your doctor says to ignore then U NEED a DIFFERENT DOC! It is a sign of emotional distress and self HARM that can cause a great deal of continued mental & physical health issues through the formative early years ... and one of the more prevalent symptoms of Autism. But to sit there... as a mum.. filming her...while she bangs her head on a GLASS table and do NOTHING... is REMISS of your duty to protect her as her mother. Actually it's CHILLING to watch! I had to watch this twice after reading so many neg comments to make sure my facts were correct before chiming in. It is your LACK of emotion as she ... starting at 1:02 thru the end of the vid ... BANGS HER HEAD 12 times on the sharp edge of a GLASS TABLE!! The last 1min 26secs is why everyone here is so passionate. It is beyond anyone's comprehension that any loving mum would just watch. Course we were not with u during this event or others that you've not posted. Unless this vid was a one off ... which is doubtful.. it IS a form of ABUSE. It's awful to say but EXCEEDINGLY awful to allow. Why would u think this was ok to post? It has done nothing but shown the world U may have SERIOUS emotional issues YOURSELF that need to be ADDRESSED. Do U have post partem depression? Nothing to be ashamed of to seek counseling. U have another child there watching this debacle happen. using your lack of empathy towards your own baby as a very poor example of motherhood. Remember .. U are this BABY GIRLS entire WORLD!!! She watches everything U do ... and everything U dont! This was a few yrs ago and NO ONE can do anything about it now. So let's all take a lesson from this ...when most other parents see this they will head into GRIZZLY MUM MODE. It's that way from the first moment pregnancy is confirmed and NEVER goes away... and they are more than ready to defend ANY CHILD they think is in danger!!! Use some common sense next time U decide to post something that does not show U in a favorably light. & be glad there are folks who are willing to step up to help you to be a better and more positive mother.
You can’t give this child all the attention or they will be spoiled just like you the child hit it’s head for attention and sympathy it’s the child’s fault for hitting its head
You shoud've let her 'comfort' nurse her so she would sleep. She is extra cranky, because she is tired. You can attempt the weaning when she is alert and in a better mood. You could've at least picked her up and tried to comfort her with soothing words instead of videotaping her crying!
+RealMommyLife You were having a bad day, but not so bad that you were able to videotape the poor crying child! If someone else was operating the camera, you couldn't say stop it? It's not spectator sport, you know! As for my commenting on a video from four years ago, as long as it's still up, I have the right to react to it.
Kala, you are absolutely right it is so strange so awful to watch a baby crying trying to injure herself because of course lack of good parenting This mother has to like to watch this I can't think of anything else I'm sorry Mom is the one with the bad mood not the infant This poor baby is so frustrated I wonder if these parents go out with the baby they love go outdoors help sleep and eat better regular outings Love and hugs can't hurt your baby madam, but this baby hitting her head on the table just to get your attention is pretty sad, so many parents wanting to have a baby you have more than one and this is what you film and put on youtube????? Really???? Not joy or love and happiness that's real life of parenting too I remember feeling nothing more than that I never let my child hit itself my goodness what are you??????
Paula Hayes You think this is child abuse? I bet you're one of those people who also think that using chopsticks if you aren't Asian, is racist. Get the fuck off my video and go back to your safe space.
Hahaha. Ok. Do you even know anyrhing about kids or behavior? I've been to behavior therapists with my son who told me to do exactly this. To IGNORE the behavior you dont want them to do. Showing attention for the head banging, will only encourage her to do it more in the future. So until you know anything about kids, or how to take care of them, maybe you should keep your opinions to yourself. So go back to your safe space where the world is rainbows and unicorns, and disaplin and punishment dont exist.
OK Idiot, If you only knew about my profession and my children....LMAO.. thats bad behavior not asking for something that you have been giving her her whole life..FOOD!!! OMG you are ridiculous. Did the "behavior therapist" tell you to let her smash her head on the table and to tape it instead of protecting her?? If so, find a new therapist. Now I'm going back to my rainbows and unicorns, LOL, while you go back to school to learn how to spell. OH that's right, ask YOUR THERAPIST how to spell....LOL
I’m working on a list of parenting rules for GenZ, based on all the clueless advice they comment on these channels. Rule number one is going to be that, from the moment you get the baby home, run and pick them up every single time they cry, even if there’s nothing wrong. 😏 (To be continued someday.)
@@thirdreich350 Who is picking on them? I’m just suggesting that they follow their own rules when they have their own children, and see what happens. 🤷🏼♀️
I chanced upon this video again. Boy, you are one cold-hearted mom! It's really silly and even mean on your part to be so stubborn! Nurse the poor child. What is the big deal? Learn to look at the big picture. Is she going to be a baby forever and asking (rather, begging) to nurse? I feel bad for this baby of yours.
Kala Dwarakanath hahaha glad to see you know everything about me. Especially since she's 5 now. Before you go having opinions about someone, maybe you should know what you are talking about first.
I do know what I am talking about! You, on the other hand, don't know what you're doing! You are being so insensitive to your own child's (the emphasis is on the word, child) need. She wants to be close to you at bedtime, and you are saying a resounding NO. She is not going to be a child forever, you know.
"REALMOMMY" (yea right). YOU are the one who put your pathetic parenting on YT for the world to see. what did you expect to hear when you tape your baby screaming and banging her head on the table because you cant sit and nurse her. Its pathetic and doesnt matter how old shs is now. Thank God for you she wont remember that.
you both have no right to tell a mother when to nurse her baby and when to stop each child is different, stop bulling this mother, if you both hate the video why are you even watching it
Kala, take a look at the baby. There are no tears, she was nursed fifteen minutes ago. She's not in distress, she's mad. Real mad. Look at how quickly she turns off the "crying" when she wants to at the end of the video Parents do not have to (and should not) give in to this kind of behavior. She needs a nap, not a nipple stuck in her mouth to shut her up. "Comfort nursing" is a bad idea. It reinforces the idea that sticking something in your mouth for oral gratification will make you feel better. Over eating? Smoking? Pills? Giving food to a baby to comfort them just sets the stage for bad habits. The mom is not being cold hearted, and in actuality SAYING that to the mom is cold hurted and hurtful.
If she is already hitting her head when she is angry, I would just be aware as she gets older that it doesn't get worse. Not saying it will, just.something to be aware of. And she looks like she is very tired.
Agreed, but she must never let her think that by banging her head on the table, or whatever similar thing she does, she will get what she wants. Take what steps are necessary to prevent serious injury, but don’t then give in to her demands.
Give her a hug and comfort her. The weaning process can be hard for a baby! There are gentler ways of doing it than ignoring her cries. The poor baby is tired. You should've have let her murse for a short while. I don't agree with going cold turkey with a small child.
Exactly! Why ween her so young anyway. Thats ridiculous. All babies stop on their own unless theres disability. Its much less abusive to let them stop on their own then to let them bang their head on a table and TAPE them doing it because you dont want to give them WHAT YOU STARTED TO BEGIN WITH. PIck the child up when shes banging her head on the table. As parents we have to protect our children even its from themselves. This is abuse. Plain and simple.
I hate stupid people! Why, why is she a fool? For asking the mom to show some kindness toward her child? In that case, I wouldn't mind being called a fool, either--by someone like you! In fact, I would consider it a compliment!
I'm sorry and I am a mother but after reading these texts I don't think you have to worry about the BABIES having the TANTRUMS I HONEST TO GOD BELIEVE ITS THE ADUTLS🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹
Good for you for sticking with it. Theres a video on here where a two year old cried all day and then the mom gave in anyway and nursed her. Why give in when youve already let them scream all day for nothing. BTW, the kid is still on here nursing at 3 1/2 years old.
Little Deb I saw that one - ugh - I was so angry at that mom - to me she was just stupid and filling her own narcissism. The mom here sticks to her decision - good for her. The other mom with the 3 1/2 year old still nursing id like to slap.
Love that you stuck to your grounds and didn't give in. It is concerning though that she was actually harming herself. Did you ever talk to a doctor and see if there was something going on or if it was just part of her tantrum?
Helen Howell : The real issue here is this mums filming her distressed and neglected baby BANGING HER HEAD on a GLASS TABLE 12 TIMES! With NO REACTION at all from the Mum.
Good for you for not reacting. So many parents try to talk their kids out of a tantrum, which usually just makes it worse. I admire your patience and fortitude, Mom.
What's wrong with a " follow up cuddle"? That's probably all she wants. Can't you even give her a few more moments? Are you to busy to love in your child?
I'm aware of that. I was trying to wean her at the time and she was in the habit of nursing to sleep. I was finally able to wean her at 18 months. She's 4 now, thank you.
+RealMommyLife I understand that. But my point is its only going to get worse. They go from screaming when they are tired to becoming fussy and irritable and louder the older they get. I have two sons now 10 and 11. At night I sometimes make them go to bed earlier than usual because I can see that they are tired. Right under there eyes it actually starts to look bruised. A light purple bruise mark appears. They'll argue with me insisting they aren't tired. Once they are in bed they will continue to insist they are wide awake until they fall sound asleep right in the middle of insisting.
That's obviously a very tired little girl.
Yes she was. I was trying to wean her at the time and she wanted to nurse to sleep.
You never, ever attempt something as drastic as weaning when the baby is tired! It's common sense, lady. Have a heart! How can you say
'no' to a little child who wants to nurse to sleep? Do you realize how that makes you look?
@Kala Dwarkanath agreed!! It makes her look like an abusive mother and thats exactly what she is.
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Kala Dwarakanath
I really don't think she said ok you're tired let's do this. What she was trying to tell you was she was tired because she was weaning her. You know how that makes you look? Like a dumbshit. Which you are.
I just want to say great job mom!! My daughter went through the same and I kept telling my daughter “she will be fine she is trying to be in charge snd you cannot allow it”.. I know it’s hard but you are a great mom 😃😃 part of being a parent is showing the child who is in charge ! Great job mommy 😃😃😃♥️♥️♥️👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻
THATS NOT A TEMPER TANTRUM. TIRED. PICK THE BABY UP!!!!!!
She’s weaning her off the bottle, so she’s tired and weaning. But please go on, since you’re such a parenting expert. What an unintelligent idiotic comment. Go be a pile of garbage elsewhere.
No she will get spoiled
@@gonzalezsfamily1483are you dumb a toddler does not have the brain capacity to self regulate not only that but it is a normal and healthy part for a child’s development to throw a tantrum at that age it expands their lungs and it teaches them how to express their emotions the “terrible 2’s” stage is very real and they feel what we would call “big emotions” that they cannot process properly which causes them to scream and cry because they literally cannot express their feelings or needs verbally because that is a baby you’re supposed to pay attention to baby it’s important for their development as well and it is not “spoiling them”
I still think adults are worse at throwing tantrums than kids are :P
My “baby” will turn 40 this summer. However, from the day he was born and at least until he started school, he could throw a temper tantrum! This is very tame by comparison. He didn’t even cry, usually. He just screamed and screamed as loudly as he could. Finally, I told him that he was not allowed to scream like that in my house, and if he didn’t stop he would have to go outside until he did. Very strong willed, though, and wasn’t about to let me win. So, I put him outside. He kept screaming as he ran around the exterior of the house, stopping at every door and window to give me another scream. Finally, he wore himself out, I guess, and the screaming stopped, so I let him back in. I wish I could say that was the end of the tantrums, but, no. However, he toned it down some and never screamed like that again. 😅
We feel good when kids are happy, but not crying like this
WHY WOULD YOU ALLOW YOUR BABY TO HIT HER HEAD ON THE TABLE NOT ONCE MORE 3 TIMES !!
Exactly what I thought
Put the phone down and put your child to bed!!!
i would’ve helped her hit her head harder😂😂
She's so sleepy & apparently still very hungry. Poor thing - breaks my heart she's being videoed instead of fed & soothed - 😢
Oo my goodness.Baby is so tired &Sleepy.Mom where are you.
That's not a tantrum she is trying to tell you that she is tired and needs to go to bed.
Just picked her up and take her to bed and yes little ones will do this when they are tired.
She is a.beautiful little baby.
God bless her now and always🌹🌹
It's REALLY not your place to tell people how to care for their kids. Why did you think this was appropriate?
@Kou 01 thank you I so agree
@Kou 01 THANK YOU
@@saraw138 thank you
@@saraw138calm down my god
Poor baby was tired and fighting sleep.
That's how my son is rn and he's almost two months
As I understand the situation from reading comments this little darling is revealing frustration due to being weaned. It's not an easy time for baby or mama. While usually what the child misses most at this stage is the close cuddly time which she will learn to accept in leau of nursing, this period of adjustment simply has to take place. Some children will just fuss a little the first day then again at bedtime and some will whine and carry on like they're dying for days. This reflects how well the parent has already taught their child to accept No means No. Note Mom must never backslide and give in because then she has a child that knows just how much she has to carry on to get her own way, and Mom will be looking at that whiny face frequently instead of happy smiling face a lot in the future.
I agree 110% my daughter went through this and as hard as it was she didn’t allow the child to manipulate her giving in.. no means no into and that’s it… great job mom, I’ve seen almost all of these parents on RUclips give In and allow the child to run the show..nope !! Not good at all! Great job mommy ❤️👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻
She can still get lots of close cuddles with Mommy and she will have learned her first important boundary. The health nurse said any child old enough to give a really big protest is old enough to get the nutrition needed from balanced meals.
@@Kathleennebel why do you always assume all crying kids are ‘manipulative’ lol
@@antijew6876 Not all, but you can tell the difference between sadness, and anger about not getting their way and they think the screaming will persuade you.
Really great name, btw -NOT! I cannot understand this bigotry and making sure people know about it. 😒
@@antijew6876 why do you assume anyone assumes that . But this kid wants her way and no means no.
Look at the kid in the couch 😂
It’s part of weaning . Stick to your guns and it won’t last . Don’t give in . She is old enough to stop .
She’s a baby…
Not the kid I see . Past being a baby .
Stop recording and go help her plz
She needs some kinda support
What a cutie. She seemed to be like "I feel like having a tantrum, but this couch pillow looks kinda cool....oh I broke my concentration. I don't feel much like crying but mom wont believe that I am upset if I stop. I should bang my head on the coffee table....man that really hurts...this pillow is just so cool"
The baby is obviously over tired, and possibly teething that is why he wants to continue to nurse. My son does this daily when tired, irritated, or in pain.
She’s sleepy awww
Way too old to be nursing. Give that kid a cup.
you stop nursing when your baby is ready
No, you don't. That is like saying you take the bottle when the baby is ready. It's not good for their teeth and well, it becomes inappropriate on a mothers part when the child is old enough to use a cup.
+MBracero322 There are different ways of parenting, there are moms who do it until the kids 8. This one can have a little more time.
That's gross!
Your attitude is gross
Babies trying let parents know she's tired wants go to bed
She’s weaning her off the bottle, so not just tired.
Life is rough little one. You are not alone, this is me in traffic.😃
Now is the time to teach her no means no .
She is very upset about something, why is nobody attending the poor baby.They were busy making a video about their child's agony.☹😡
She needs the hand of wisdom applied to the seat of understanding and then straight to bed!
I used have tempers like the poor baby…
Jfc put your phone down and comfort your child. Filming your kids when they are in distress should be considered child abuse....neglect at the very least.
Parent find it enjoyable to video unhappiness instead of preparing child for Naptime? Interesting. Good bye.
lolololol the child gently bangs her head on the table then screams
Lee Scott that’s wasn’t a sharp edge
IKR? She does not look like a baby that will deliberately cause herself pain. She does seem to know what “should” work to change the parental mind, though.
Too bad she couldn't get her way
She was showing she was tired and wants to take a nap.
I feel bad for the baby…
Title- "Tired to tantrum".
👶🥰🙌
Looks like she needs a nap
Let them throw tantrum , give them a kiss . It's all better
She's so cute ! Too bad she was crying :(
no she is idiot
The baby is a "she", read the mothers post & get the proper story as to why she threw a temper.
All your doing is sitting there and recording her she's tired instead of recording put the poor baby to bed!
Children should not hand choices. They don't understand and will manipulate you.
In this case, it's the mom who is doing the manipulation. She is supposed to be having a bad day, and yet is able to videotape her crying, desperate baby!
The brother is like 👍🏽 pls stop I’m the one whose trying to sleep .
That’s ignorant letting her bang her head….give her something to cry about and put her little fit throwing self in bed!! 😡
That’s abuse…
When my babies did this, they were always tired or getting sick.
The baby banging her head at the table?! Awwww, why did she do that?
I'm feel sorry for that baby.
⬇️ Like here if you are feel sorry for that.
you're embarrassing
Terrible parents
I am watching this with my 4 year old and he is laughing and acting surprised.
goodness....!!!! did she hit her head to the table????. careful baby girl.
this baby is really cute.
Shruthi A : YES! That sweet baby was banging her head on
a GLASS TABLE
12 TIMES! HORRIBLE.
Come down little girl my buddy
That sounds like zombie
Oh dear temper temper let him him get on with it Bless him . Oh dear he’s tired
Birthday Rockstar (2013)
Think she needed to go to bed.
That baby wants to b breast fed & a nap. She may not have got enough the first time bc she's screaming for it now. Just stop recording her & give her what she needs. Anyone can tell she's still hungry & very sleepy.
Sure give her the milk in a cup .
Despicable Me 2 (2013)
She's super tired! Why don't you put her down for a much-needed nap and stop this video?
She wasn’t tired
@@gonzalezsfamily1483 who are you, the sleep police? Of course she's tired, everybody that commented on this post saw that. 💤
Good for you for not giving in!!
What kind of a human being are you? You are congratulating her for refusing to nurse her crying baby! Jeez! She is only a baby, for heaven's sake!
john jeffries Your calling me an idiot for speaking for the helpless child is the ultimate irony! Look in the mirror first!
Kala Dwarakanath The child is far from helpless honey. Get off your high horse.
john jeffries Oh, really? So, according to you, the child is not dependent on the mom to have her needs met and the mom is not turning this into a power play, right?
Kala Dwarakanath Literally in every child book it says the parent should stay calm and wait for the temper tantrum to pass. You clearly have no idea what you're talking about. How about reading a parenting book and educating yourself....
Is this a real temper tantrum or is she just needing a nap. So hard to tell.
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Aww she was banging her head on the table , :/ such a cutie though
Me da mucha pena que no lo atiendas, tiene sueño😕 dale amor😒
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realmommylife @Paula Hayes
@Ihatestupidpeople
Really??? What is wrong with ALL OF U? First ... This is supposed
to be a forum for discussion .... Not a place to perfect your insults like naughty 10 yro who need their mouths washed out with soap. NO! I DO NOT ASCRIBE to that as reality. It is a figure of speech to make a point & I would never do it or endorse it. That being said...
To Mum ... It is ok to ignore...especially if youre weaning. Not every woman loves nursing. It can be painful to mum and baby. Pump Instead. However... there is NO DOCTOR on this earth who will tell U persistent head banging ...
ON GLASS...
is something to ignore! If your doctor says to ignore then U NEED a DIFFERENT DOC!
It is a sign of emotional distress and self HARM that can cause a great deal of continued mental & physical health issues through the formative early years ... and one of the more prevalent symptoms of Autism. But to sit there... as a mum..
filming her...while she bangs her head on a GLASS table and do NOTHING... is REMISS of your duty to protect her as her mother. Actually it's CHILLING to watch! I had to watch this twice after reading so many neg comments to make sure my facts were correct before chiming in. It is your LACK of emotion as she ... starting at 1:02 thru the end of the vid ... BANGS HER HEAD 12 times on the sharp edge of a GLASS TABLE!!
The last
1min 26secs is why everyone here is so passionate. It is beyond anyone's comprehension that any loving mum would just watch. Course we were not with u during this event or others that you've not posted. Unless this vid was a one off ... which is doubtful.. it IS a form of ABUSE. It's awful to say but EXCEEDINGLY awful to allow. Why would u think this was ok to post? It has done nothing but shown the world U may have SERIOUS emotional issues YOURSELF that need to be ADDRESSED.
Do U have post partem depression? Nothing to be ashamed of to seek counseling. U have another child there watching this debacle happen. using your lack of empathy towards your own baby as a very poor example of motherhood. Remember .. U are this BABY GIRLS entire WORLD!!! She watches everything U do ... and everything U dont! This was a few yrs ago and NO ONE can do anything about it now. So let's all take a lesson from this ...when most other parents see this they will head into GRIZZLY MUM MODE. It's that way from the first moment pregnancy is confirmed and NEVER goes away... and they are more than ready to defend ANY CHILD they think is in danger!!! Use some common sense next time U decide to post something that does not show U in a favorably light. & be glad there are folks who are willing to step up to help you to be a better and more positive mother.
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This little kid may want some attention from his mom
Exactly. And the mom is refusing to give it to her.
fellow111411 I think so, too, but the mom is busy with her video camera! Misplaced priorities!
You can’t give this child all the attention or they will be spoiled just like you the child hit it’s head for attention and sympathy it’s the child’s fault for hitting its head
@@Ameliag-tx4zc exactly
oh god stop
Tiene sueñito!!! Una chupita y a dormir.
this is so valentina omg
No not good
20:05
She keeps grabbing her ear and banging her head . . I'd say head ache ear ache. Put the camera away and tend to her . . she is in pain.
Was ist das für ein Kind??
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This is not cute she even banged her head bc she’s so tired. Not cute. Precious little baby. Mom get off the phone!!!
Horrible an disturbing
Verrrrrrry badddddddd
0:30 2/16/22
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WATCH THE VIDEO "MERLYN THROWING A TANTRUM AT NAPTIME" Thats how a parent should behave when their child needs attention.
You shoud've let her 'comfort' nurse her so she would sleep. She is extra cranky, because she is tired. You can attempt the weaning when she is alert and in a better mood. You could've at least picked her up and tried to comfort her with soothing words instead of videotaping her crying!
Thank-you for your input nearly 4 years later. I was having a bad day and was over it. So thank-you perfect mom for your advice.
Thank-you for your input nearly 4 years later. I was having a bad day and was over it. So thank-you perfect mom for your advice.
+RealMommyLife You were having a bad day, but not so bad that you were able to videotape the poor crying child! If someone else was operating the camera, you couldn't say stop it? It's not spectator sport, you know! As for my commenting on a video from four years ago, as long as it's still up, I have the right to react to it.
My channel is called REAL mommy life. Not PERFECT mommy life. Have a nice day.
Kala, you are absolutely right it is so strange so awful to watch a baby crying trying to injure herself because of course lack of good parenting
This mother has to like to watch this I can't think of anything else I'm sorry
Mom is the one with the bad mood not the infant
This poor baby is so frustrated I wonder if these parents go out with the baby they love go outdoors help sleep and eat better regular outings
Love and hugs can't hurt your baby madam, but this baby hitting her head on the table just to get your attention is pretty sad, so many parents wanting to have a baby you have more than one and this is what you film and put on youtube?????
Really????
Not joy or love and happiness that's real life of parenting too
I remember feeling nothing more than that
I never let my child hit itself my goodness what are you??????
0:08 Thomas?
Meu Deus , se eles fazem isso com os filhos deles, imagina com o filhos dos outros
this is child abuse. Are you kidding me?
haha ok.
Paula Hayes You think this is child abuse? I bet you're one of those people who also think that using chopsticks if you aren't Asian, is racist. Get the fuck off my video and go back to your safe space.
Hahaha. Ok. Do you even know anyrhing about kids or behavior? I've been to behavior therapists with my son who told me to do exactly this. To IGNORE the behavior you dont want them to do. Showing attention for the head banging, will only encourage her to do it more in the future. So until you know anything about kids, or how to take care of them, maybe you should keep your opinions to yourself. So go back to your safe space where the world is rainbows and unicorns, and disaplin and punishment dont exist.
OK Idiot, If you only knew about my profession and my children....LMAO.. thats bad behavior not asking for something that you have been giving her her whole life..FOOD!!! OMG you are ridiculous. Did the "behavior therapist" tell you to let her smash her head on the table and to tape it instead of protecting her?? If so, find a new therapist. Now I'm going back to my rainbows and unicorns, LOL, while you go back to school to learn how to spell. OH that's right, ask YOUR THERAPIST how to spell....LOL
Paula Hayes hahaha bye felicia! ✋
Way you you make upset your baby is not good poor baby fr Malta 👩
I’m working on a list of parenting rules for GenZ, based on all the clueless advice they comment on these channels. Rule number one is going to be that, from the moment you get the baby home, run and pick them up every single time they cry, even if there’s nothing wrong. 😏 (To be continued someday.)
Why are you picking on them? What’s wrong with having empathy for your kids because that’s all they are trying to do
@@thirdreich350 Who is picking on them? I’m just suggesting that they follow their own rules when they have their own children, and see what happens. 🤷🏼♀️
I chanced upon this video again. Boy, you are one cold-hearted mom! It's really silly and even mean on your part to be so stubborn! Nurse the poor child. What is the big deal? Learn to look at the big picture. Is she going to be a baby forever and asking (rather, begging) to nurse? I feel bad for this baby of yours.
Kala Dwarakanath hahaha glad to see you know everything about me. Especially since she's 5 now. Before you go having opinions about someone, maybe you should know what you are talking about first.
I do know what I am talking about! You, on the other hand, don't know what you're doing! You are being so insensitive to your own child's (the emphasis is on the word, child) need. She wants to be close to you at bedtime, and you are saying a resounding NO. She is not going to be a child forever, you know.
"REALMOMMY" (yea right). YOU are the one who put your pathetic parenting on YT for the world to see. what did you expect to hear when you tape your baby screaming and banging her head on the table because you cant sit and nurse her. Its pathetic and doesnt matter how old shs is now. Thank God for you she wont remember that.
you both have no right to tell a mother when to nurse her baby and when to stop each child is different, stop bulling this mother, if you both hate the video why are you even watching it
Kala, take a look at the baby. There are no tears, she was nursed fifteen minutes ago. She's not in distress, she's mad. Real mad. Look at how quickly she turns off the "crying" when she wants to at the end of the video Parents do not have to (and should not) give in to this kind of behavior. She needs a nap, not a nipple stuck in her mouth to shut her up. "Comfort nursing" is a bad idea. It reinforces the idea that sticking something in your mouth for oral gratification will make you feel better. Over eating? Smoking? Pills? Giving food to a baby to comfort them just sets the stage for bad habits.
The mom is not being cold hearted, and in actuality SAYING that to the mom is cold hurted and hurtful.
If she is already hitting her head when she is angry, I would just be aware as she gets older that it doesn't get worse. Not saying it will, just.something to be aware of. And she looks like she is very tired.
Agreed, but she must never let her think that by banging her head on the table, or whatever similar thing she does, she will get what she wants. Take what steps are necessary to prevent serious injury, but don’t then give in to her demands.
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Just put her in her crib momma that is about all u can do at that point beautiful child!
Nope! At the time, I didn't find it too funny, but now I giggle a little when I re watch it!
People saying that this is child abuse the mother never put her hands on the child the child did it to themself
Give her a hug and comfort her. The weaning process can be hard for a baby! There are gentler ways of doing it than ignoring her cries. The poor baby is tired. You should've have let her murse for a short while. I don't agree with going cold turkey with a small child.
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Exactly! Why ween her so young anyway. Thats ridiculous. All babies stop on their own unless theres disability. Its much less abusive to let them stop on their own then to let them bang their head on a table and TAPE them doing it because you dont want to give them WHAT YOU STARTED TO BEGIN WITH. PIck the child up when shes banging her head on the table. As parents we have to protect our children even its from themselves. This is abuse. Plain and simple.
I hate stupid people! Why, why is she a fool? For asking the mom to show some kindness toward her child? In that case, I wouldn't mind being called a fool, either--by someone like you! In fact, I would consider it a compliment!
Paula Hayes True. The worst part is filming the poor child crying for her mother's attention!
Kala, she has not gone cold turkey. Mom just nursed her 15 minutes ago.
I'm sorry and I am a mother but after reading these texts I don't think you have to worry about the BABIES having the
TANTRUMS I HONEST TO
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Good for you for sticking with it. Theres a video on here where a two year old cried all day and then the mom gave in anyway and nursed her. Why give in when youve already let them scream all day for nothing. BTW, the kid is still on here nursing at 3 1/2 years old.
Little Deb I saw that one - ugh - I was so angry at that mom - to me she was just stupid and filling her own narcissism. The mom here sticks to her decision - good for her. The other mom with the 3 1/2 year old still nursing id like to slap.
So wrong , just so wrong ! I agree so much
Love that you stuck to your grounds and didn't give in. It is concerning though that she was actually harming herself. Did you ever talk to a doctor and see if there was something going on or if it was just part of her tantrum?
What a good mum you are and coping great with a very tired baby!
You have no idea how to be a mother.
Helen Howell : The real issue here is this mums filming her distressed and
neglected baby
BANGING HER HEAD on a
GLASS TABLE
12 TIMES! With
NO REACTION at all from the Mum.
@@leescott8506 you have to or they will get worse
@@PaulaHayesMartin Shut the fuck up
That’s sarcasm, right?
That's life kid.
That baby is just tired!
Good for you for not reacting. So many parents try to talk their kids out of a tantrum, which usually just makes it worse. I admire your patience and fortitude, Mom.
Is it wrong to think that is really cute?!
mummylifestyle : probably... but considering the mud slinging weirdos here.. try to say as little as possible. It is a serious issue!
What's wrong with a " follow up cuddle"? That's probably all she wants. Can't you even give her a few more moments? Are you to busy to love in your child?
She's tired. She needs a nap. Guess what? The crankness and tantrum will always be much worse when they are tired.
I'm aware of that. I was trying to wean her at the time and she was in the habit of nursing to sleep. I was finally able to wean her at 18 months. She's 4 now, thank you.
+RealMommyLife I understand that. But my point is its only going to get worse. They go from screaming when they are tired to becoming fussy and irritable and louder the older they get. I have two sons now 10 and 11. At night I sometimes make them go to bed earlier than usual because I can see that they are tired. Right under there eyes it actually starts to look bruised. A light purple bruise mark appears. They'll argue with me insisting they aren't tired. Once they are in bed they will continue to insist they are wide awake until they fall sound asleep right in the middle of insisting.
+Lydia Whetstone my 6 year old, 4 year old and 5 .o th old all do it too.
+RealMommyLife so does both of my kids one with mild autism and the other normal
she's a big girl put her to bed she don't need to nurse she will go to sleep
I remember what this was like, and getting bit and scratched too! They want what they want when they want it!
Time for some discipline. I’d have her sit somewhere and chill . What is it she is so upset about ?