"Life is rough, you say that you're not ready for sex but you're in love, he says if you love him you would give it up." The most powerful part in the song. This one is definitely for all the ladies.
@The-Extraordinary-Salona unfortunately you're right majority of men do. I am sorry to read this stay strong💪🏾young lady. You will find someone who will treat you the way you deserve to be treated. Stay safe and happy new year. Sending you blessings and peace ✌🏾🙏🏾 💞
@missy80sbaby Thank you so much, and it is very sad! For a while, i thought o was worth nothing more than my body!!!!!! I will just wait!!!!hope you have a wonderful New Year!!! Stay safe as well!!
@@The-Extraordinary-Salona You're welcome sis. There are some good men out there. I have no doubt you will find the right one for you. I went through some bad experiences too, when I was younger, so I feel you. Always remember your worth and you are beautiful too. Thank you. 😀
Why I am just finding out about this song?? Just found out that the girl singing in the video is Lala Brown and she was murdered a year later after releasing this song with Lyfe Jennings wow!! Never even heard this song.
Now why can't we have more songs like this? Look, a song that talks about the importance of thinking about the consequences of your actions, as well as understanding your self-worth. The problem with our society is, we have the media telling girls to give it up to guys because that's the "nice" thing to do. We have girls giving it up even though they don't want to, because the media says that as girls, they should be sexually available. The media seldom ever talks about the consequences of unsafe sex. We've got music videos that over-sexualize women and degrade women, and we have stupid "reality" shows with girls acting out in promiscuous ways without ever having to face consequences. We need more songs like this that expose the truth about risky behaviours, and young girls need to stop giving it up to guys just because the guy wants it. Love yourself and have self-respect, and please stop believing in the whole, "If you really loved me, you'd give it up" crap, 'cause that's pure bullshit. Okay I'll stop preaching now. LOL
Loving this one...more young people today should really mediate on these words and stop jumping on these band wagons thats promoting promiscuity...'your worth the waiting for,,, be strong and be patient blessing comes with patience.'
Porque nenhum cantor faz músicas assim tão boas 😢😢 Lala Brown tão linda com uma voz sensacional 😍 enquanto a esse cantor eu levava ele pra minha casa só pra fazer ele cantar pra mim 24 horas por dia ♥️♥️ kkkkkk
who's still here in 2024
R.i.p. Lala!
Me right now
2025
R.I.P. LaLa Brown :'( Back when songs were positive.
CClassicRapMusicc never new she is gone until o read your comment, rest in power
@@Alex-kb9rd WTF really?
@@Alex-kb9rd Wow ya I just googled it..sad all these old good jams aren't around anymore, nowadays it's utterly ridiculous garbage coming out..
Wait What happend to lala
She was murdered @@VictoriaRollins-h5c
This makes me think of the way I sang this song to the top of my lungs at 13 and still didn’t listen when I turned 16 😢
❤R.I.P LALA❤ you deserved soo much better
2023, this song still hits home. It reminds me of when I was young around 15 years, I liked this track a lot
Back then they made real music about real things thanks Lyfe ❤❤❤❤❤😊
*Wish there was a lot more music like this 💔 lovely song*
*R.I.P LALA*
RIP LaLa.. song rings so true..Wake up call for all the beautiful ladies out there.., Moms & Daughters.
This is the song every girl should listen to!
Facts!!
Word
This should have a billion views and be a worldwide anthem!!! 💪🏿
"Life is rough, you say that you're not ready for sex but you're in love, he says if you love him you would give it up." The most powerful part in the song. This one is definitely for all the ladies.
Sherice Willis the other most powerful part was when LaLa sang "baby its a fact that once its gone you'll never get it back"
And when she said “ welcome to the real world”
Who going to watch this in 2025
Lyfe be rappin' to teach yo' daughters
I wish all the rappers did the same thing this days
Those lyrics hit hard
Such a relevant song! "They want relations but no relationships."
Continue resting in peace Lala ✌️ 😢 we greatly miss you baby girl
wish i wouldve actually felt these lyrics instead of just singing them when i was younger :l i will always cherish this song!
This song actually helped me wait back in 06.
Ayanda Radebe omg same lol
Me too
Conscious music like this, you no longer hear anymore. SMH its no wonder there's barely any hope for my generation and those to come.
So true
this song is for the young and upcoming ladies!!!!!✨
This album was a banger.
Back when songs had real singers and a message.
RIP LaLa Brown
This song is still a banger in 2024!
@mathewgonzalez-m8k Yeah, u right, that's why I'm here.
this song deserves way more views!!! everything is just real about it!
Rest in peace Lala Brown you were so talented and gorgeously gorgeous 🙏🏾❤🙏🏾🕊
Ever since my mom showed me this I have loved this song and it’s been ma fav
All young ladies need to listen to this song. Who's still listening in 2024 ?
Me, I went through some things like this!!!!! I'm not ready for a relationship because of the very reason most just want me for sex!!!!
@The-Extraordinary-Salona unfortunately you're right majority of men do. I am sorry to read this stay strong💪🏾young lady. You will find someone who will treat you the way you deserve to be treated. Stay safe and happy new year. Sending you blessings and peace ✌🏾🙏🏾 💞
@missy80sbaby Thank you so much, and it is very sad! For a while, i thought o was worth nothing more than my body!!!!!! I will just wait!!!!hope you have a wonderful New Year!!! Stay safe as well!!
@@The-Extraordinary-Salona You're welcome sis. There are some good men out there. I have no doubt you will find the right one for you. I went through some bad experiences too, when I was younger, so I feel you. Always remember your worth and you are beautiful too. Thank you. 😀
@missy80sbaby thank you for this message!!! I still believe there are good people despite my experiences!!!!!
1.The voice of lyfe 2. The song 3. The man with the blue eyes.❤
Rest in heaven Lala such a beautiful voice sad that we did not hear more for her. Lyfe Jennings one of my favorite singers in 2024 forever
Lala Brown rest in peace girl, your career didn't even get to start yet, but you are very beautiful. May you and your boyfriend rest in peace
R.I.P Lala Brown, she had a cute voice and was so pretty
Alot of girls need to listen to this song!!!!
Every woman needs to play this for thier daughters 🔥🔥♥️♥️♥️
Loving Lyfe in 2024
Song still gives me chillz❤🔥
Children need to listen too this tune before its too late
2018 ...WE STILL HERE
Rip lala brown thank you 🙏🏻 for this amazing song 😢 😭 2019 I’m still playing this song 💿
REST IN PEACE LALA BROWN.SHE WAS SO PRETTY. GOD BLESS HER SOUL.. GOD IS LOOKING AFTER YOUR DAUGHTER xox
What?? i had no idea she died?? what happened to her? omg
Her verse is why i love this song so much!! I'm devastated ;(
she got murdered like 10 years ago, in a studio
Why I am just finding out about this song?? Just found out that the girl singing in the video is Lala Brown and she was murdered a year later after releasing this song with Lyfe Jennings wow!! Never even heard this song.
Cant be believe Lala brown was murdered she was sooo young 😭😭😭😳😭😭😭😭
Still they couldn't find de suspect 😢
I think your using that emoji wrong
She was from my hometown , I remember the day it happened 😢
Right 😢😢😢😢
@@Luigi00from00Seattlethat’s the crying emoji
Rest In Paradise LaLa Brown ; you'll always be remembered beautiful. :(
At 2:44 then notes flawless 😤❤️🫶🏽
whenever i see this video i realize how much lala would have been succesful if she was here today. RIP lala luv you :'( tear tear
This was my Fave song back in 2006... such memories, Time FLIES
Sou do Brazil e não consigo superar essa música ❤❤❤❤❤ Ilove you
RIP LALA This song will make me save myself.
Finding this song is God's way of telling me to wait.
RIP LALA BROWN and her Husband
17 years later, I'm still in awe of this song. You hardly hear conscious songs like this anymore.
Man I used to listen to this back in the day. Came back to a bunch of RIP comments.. it just makes me sad. Stay safe out there
Crazy that this current generation doesn’t have an influence or artist like this.
Still listen' to this in 2015. 👍 God bless u for this song.
Yupp
true
RIP Lala Brown 😢🙏
Gonna have my children watch this when they become teenagers. Great video.
after all these years its still so hard to believe that Lala has passed :(
Rest in Peace Lala Brown
Rest in Peace LaLa Brown
This was a another great song from summer 2006
They Saved So Many Kids With This Song, Including Me🫶🏾🥰
This song should be on Maury 24/7
2020 who is still listening to this song
Mannn music like this needs to come back. 👌
when music was MUSIC!!!! ...& there was real life messages!! ♥
2025 sent this to my daughter and little cousins for some inspiration
Im here in 2025
Wish Lala was alive she would of been big
oh that's so sad that LaLa died she had such a nice voice.
used to always see this on BET, and still can't believe lala brown is gone man
2015 and this song still hit home. Never fail to fill me with emotions. Love this song
Me too, 12 years later wow
2022 n it STILL hitting
damn. this song helped me wake up and realize my girl is worth waiting for. gotta stop trying to hit that lol!
Lmfaoooo yes she is worth the wait.
Yvan M did you end up hittin it
Bro update us? It's been 4 years
Kgothatso Manale right like we need updates 😫😂😂
@@kgothatsomanale5147 lol we would like to know
Now why can't we have more songs like this? Look, a song that talks about the importance of thinking about the consequences of your actions, as well as understanding your self-worth. The problem with our society is, we have the media telling girls to give it up to guys because that's the "nice" thing to do. We have girls giving it up even though they don't want to, because the media says that as girls, they should be sexually available. The media seldom ever talks about the consequences of unsafe sex. We've got music videos that over-sexualize women and degrade women, and we have stupid "reality" shows with girls acting out in promiscuous ways without ever having to face consequences. We need more songs like this that expose the truth about risky behaviours, and young girls need to stop giving it up to guys just because the guy wants it. Love yourself and have self-respect, and please stop believing in the whole, "If you really loved me, you'd give it up" crap, 'cause that's pure bullshit. Okay I'll stop preaching now. LOL
Preach it honeyyy
U alive ?
@@D.ALLEN05 Still kicking!
Still listening to this track in 2016🙏🏿
me too
same!
i like hw this lyfe jennings always have something extremely wise to say.... lyk ur music man
whaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaat? im left behind really is lala gone? she had such a beautiful voice really (sniff,sniff)
Que música maravilhosa! Amo demais!!❤️
From the first time i have hear this song i fell in love with, young ladies should pay attention to this it coming form a man point of view.
Omgosh I've been looking for this song forever my sister use to play this song! And couldn't remember who sang it because it was along time ago
2023??? ❤❤❤
who still listening in 2017 🔥🔥🔥amma play this for my daughter wen ever she's born
Rest in peace ms lalla brown and your loved 😇😇
Be strong girl, well done for speaking up the same thing brought me here.. Its tragic but you can make
Damn im 16 n i remember this song on BET back in the day lol classic
REST IN PEACE!!! (LALA-BROWN)Nice jamz yo!
I love this song...... We need more music like this
Rest we LaLa your city misses you. 💕
This song so powerful 👍✊
Loving this one...more young people today should really mediate on these words and stop jumping on these band wagons thats promoting promiscuity...'your worth the waiting for,,, be strong and be patient blessing comes with patience.'
I’m here in 2025
Only 2M views on this is so criminal. SMH
2025 still here! Rip lala 😢
r.i.p lala brown....much blessings....
AMAZING song
totally loved it !!!
Porque nenhum cantor faz músicas assim tão boas 😢😢
Lala Brown tão linda com uma voz sensacional 😍 enquanto a esse cantor eu levava ele pra minha casa só pra fazer ele cantar pra mim 24 horas por dia ♥️♥️ kkkkkk
this is how music used to be back in 2006
Now it's all about having sex with someone else's partner and all that soul crushing nonsense. Society is out of control.
Really makes you think
Diretamente do Brasil 2019 é nois 👊
Opaaa. É nois!
Wish I heard this song back then.... but then again, I might not have my son right now ❤️❤️❤️
happy bday in heaven
R.I.P la la brown I was watching amw yesterday her and her boyfriend got shot man the real world is so bad...... :'(
same omg lala man thats rough wow RIP much love lala
Goosebumps bruh.