Last time, my mom asked my why i always ask for a hug whenever i got to see her. I didn't had the courage to say to her that she is the only one that has ever hold me close in all my 30+ years.
As someone with tactile hypersensitivity, I have a very complicated relationship with touch starvation. On the one hand, I sometimes feel cuddle deprived and a bit lonely, especially when I haven't seen my family in a while. On the other hand, physical contact can be an almost painful sensation if I don't go about it just the right way or if someone else initiates it without proper warning. So yeah, complicated. Still, I appreciated hearing this. Thanks for the audio, Kat.
2:35 to 3:57 was very personal, and i felt it on several personal levels. I legimitely dont remember the last time someone held me. It have been years, and i am beyond terrorfied to ask any girl im friends with, to cuddle. Hell, any girl at all, at this point. The fear of being rejected is far greater than my desire for cuddling. And that desire for cuddling is an absolute torment for me.
One small silver lining for you (not to demean your problem at all obviously) is that at least you have the option of asking people. All I'll say about it
One day, I promise you will have someone to cuddle y’all. Just find the right person to talk to and they’ll probably understand and accept it. Just keep looking, and never give up. Your dreams will come true.
This type of ASMR is awesome! I honestly love the fact that you said they for any person watching this. And I love how casual this was! There's no "Friends to Lovers" stuff, just pure platonic cuddling! I wish I had a friend who would just let me do this. 😭
I'm autistic and if I had a roommate ask me if I wanted a cuddle I'd surrender and say yes immediately based on the stress of my emotional wound I bottle up everyday until I get home at night.
@@friendly_ambivert A what now reference? All I can think of is Toll the Hounds, and not only would that be TTH, I don't think anyone said "girlfriend material" in it.
The bad thing about this stuff is that when I get happy/anxious/excited (in a non sexual way) I feel like I need a tail to wag around like a dog... because all the blood just wants to go *there*. And it hurts to have it happen just because you are happy 😭
I really want cuddles but every touch I’ve received in the past has been bad, I’m severely touch starved but I don’t trust people enough to ask for cuddles.
Ever since my gf broke up with me almsot a year ago ive felt depserate for someone to go to when im feeling needy and craving affection, listening to asmr among a few other means have been my way to fill the void I literally just started crying once i was asked if i wanted to cuddle, its all i could ever want at this point
I haven’t had a hug in some time and never had cuddles like the thought of it seems cool but actually cuddling would be weird for me at least cause I wouldn’t know what to do
random but idk why your voice in so calming, i woke up anxious n needed to start getting ready to go n this made me calm down fairly quickly, might be cuz you're one of the first asmr-ist i really liked that got me into it 3 years ago. idk just wanted to say thanks for making this content
Most of my friends irl aren’t touchy people. When I get a hug from someone. I tear up. I wish I could get more hugs from friends. It’s not really the same with family
I honestly agree! I have snuggled with my mom before, but that's just family. And yes, I enjoy it, but I honestly want cuddles from my friends. It would just hit different; in a good way!
Oh I’m gonna love this. Cuddles are the best. If I ever get a GF hood I can give them lots of love and cuddles. Tho like I’m this audio I feel like no one would want to, never had some one play with my hair or don’t have much physical contact anymore. Ty Kat, this week has been so stressful and anxious for me, feel at comfort now. ❤🥺☺️💫
Im still getting used to the whole concept of platonic physical affection My friends will cuddle and i dont know how to ask for it Im not touch starved i get and give hugs from family regularly but aaa
I'm shaking... i'm almost tearing up. I don't even remember when someone last held me. It felt like screaming at the top of my lungs, with my hands at my head but only hearing a faint echo. It's scary. I dream the worst. I wish this cannot be related by anyone, because it's disarming.
The most physical touch I've had in the past.... Many years, is a fist bump from the homies. Besides that, any touch that was affectionate was from my mother when I was a child and that's it. For most, I feel like this is normal now.
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“Touch-starved listener” I feel *heavily* called out😂
Me and you both
Same here.
Everybody persent here dose 🥲
Touch-starved gang rise up
@@xersilusftw3245 [Stands up]
You know what's annoying? Being touch-starved, but touch averse, with physical affection being the primary love language.
Okay, how on earth did you manage to call me out like this?? 😑
No because SAME 😭
RIP LMAO
Honestly you rolled the worst trait combo ever
Same....
“Touch-starved listener”
Finally, immersion can be achieved
HEH JOKES IN YOU IM ONLY MILDLY MAL NUTRITIONED ON TOUCH!
HAHAhahaheh... heh heh, heh...
Heeeh....
Beanz
@@TiernanHousman beanz indeed
Yeah sure beanz@@lazerstan
@@TiernanHousmanBeanz
(hugs)@@TiernanHousman
Last time, my mom asked my why i always ask for a hug whenever i got to see her.
I didn't had the courage to say to her that she is the only one that has ever hold me close in all my 30+ years.
Cuddling is such a weak spot of mine, sheesh. This is already a classic.
Cuddles are wonderful indeed! Glad you enjoyed it
...How did you post this thirteen days ago? It came out today...
@@SleepDeprivedSapphic532 time travel?
@@SleepDeprivedSapphic532 patreon early access
As someone with tactile hypersensitivity, I have a very complicated relationship with touch starvation. On the one hand, I sometimes feel cuddle deprived and a bit lonely, especially when I haven't seen my family in a while. On the other hand, physical contact can be an almost painful sensation if I don't go about it just the right way or if someone else initiates it without proper warning.
So yeah, complicated. Still, I appreciated hearing this. Thanks for the audio, Kat.
2:35 to 3:57 was very personal, and i felt it on several personal levels. I legimitely dont remember the last time someone held me. It have been years, and i am beyond terrorfied to ask any girl im friends with, to cuddle. Hell, any girl at all, at this point. The fear of being rejected is far greater than my desire for cuddling. And that desire for cuddling is an absolute torment for me.
One small silver lining for you (not to demean your problem at all obviously) is that at least you have the option of asking people.
All I'll say about it
One day, I promise you will have someone to cuddle y’all. Just find the right person to talk to and they’ll probably understand and accept it. Just keep looking, and never give up. Your dreams will come true.
It’s a pretty interesting conversation and feels like a friend looking to help, the emotions in the voice also played out nicely!
This type of ASMR is awesome! I honestly love the fact that you said they for any person watching this. And I love how casual this was! There's no "Friends to Lovers" stuff, just pure platonic cuddling! I wish I had a friend who would just let me do this. 😭
I've never been cuddled, so this kinda speaks to me.
“Touch-starved listener”
Me who cuddles a sleeping Pikachu plush to help me fall asleep: Yes, how’d you know?
I've got a Torchic
Bro same i have a sleeping Pikachu plush and I sleep with it to help me fall a sleep
I literally wrap cloth in a sheet to cuddle and fall asleep with. I feel really really called out
Eevee for me
It's ok. ❤ You'll get someone ❤
Last time someone held me was the 32nd of Neveruary
❤
I'm autistic and if I had a roommate ask me if I wanted a cuddle I'd surrender and say yes immediately based on the stress of my emotional wound I bottle up everyday until I get home at night.
I've never been held because of that i always fall asleep crying
"Touch starved"!?!? Me!?! Nah bro that would be crazy... *sniffles* *wispers* lowkey I feel exposed rn
Sometimes I wish I wasn't alone, but then I watch videos like this one and get anxious just thinking about being that close to someone else
❤
I’ve never been cuddled. Never really held hands, don’t get hugs often, never kissed anyone.
Thank you for this audio.
I think the phrase we're looking for here is 'girlfriend material.'
oh, girlfriend-material listener? sweet
@@kam8754 Weh? No. Speaker. Obviously.
@@Stormcoming6 IS THAT A TOH REFERENCE? WEH?
@@friendly_ambivert A what now reference? All I can think of is Toll the Hounds, and not only would that be TTH, I don't think anyone said "girlfriend material" in it.
@@Stormcoming6 Sorry, "The Owl House," the show. If you know what that is. The weh came from a character named King.
This was sooo wholesome and sweet! Cuddles are always nice, so this audio was great! Thanks for the audio Kat! Keep up the good work!
Another night of cuddling my pillow and listening to asmr
Anyone else thought that orange thing was a chicken nuggy 👁️👄👁️
it wasnt just me🤩
Nugget*
And I was recently pondering just how touched starved I was.
God bless you, Pine Kat, and thank you. ^w^
bro the intro got me crying feeling more alone realizing i don’t have that connection with really anyone
This is genuinely the best & most relaxing audio I've heard in a long time.
Simply fantastic
The bad thing about this stuff is that when I get happy/anxious/excited (in a non sexual way) I feel like I need a tail to wag around like a dog... because all the blood just wants to go *there*.
And it hurts to have it happen just because you are happy 😭
I demand all the cuddles. I don't believe in leftovers
I really want cuddles but every touch I’ve received in the past has been bad, I’m severely touch starved but I don’t trust people enough to ask for cuddles.
Dutch lied, this isn’t the map to Tahiti
Pine Kat - Wear something sof….
Me - *leaves the house before she can finish*
Amazing audio I hope everyone is having a great day 😺
“Touched starved listener” You Tube really said for you
Ever since my gf broke up with me almsot a year ago ive felt depserate for someone to go to when im feeling needy and craving affection, listening to asmr among a few other means have been my way to fill the void
I literally just started crying once i was asked if i wanted to cuddle, its all i could ever want at this point
This was nice! You seem so fun!
I wish my first cuddling experience was as peaceful as this. I guess it really matters who you try to cuddle with 😵💫
"Touch-starved listener" ah a fellow loner needing love
New favourite pinekat audio just dropped.
(Even though i love all of them) ❤❤
Yes please cuddles
Welp, this made my morning, and I don’t feel lonely anymore. Thank you for that.
😎This Is A Certified Hood Classic😎
Amazing audio, even if it made me tear up realizing how touch starved I am, but nevertheless amazing audio and storytelling 😊
Dude,i felt so calm
If a girl offered me some cuddles. My brain would do the equivalent of a blue screen and just freeze
This is where the fun begins 😊
To have an angel like this for a roomie…
4:17 I grew up male ofc I have little to no physical contact with peers
Wait is cuddling a normal thing people do? I've never really even hugged anyone besides family
"sometimes I dream about whatever I'm doing before bed"
before this I was watching the Mandela Catalogue so that does not bode well for me
Uh oh! Bad decision Mark!
Common pinekat audio W
Ah yes I very much am the touch starved listener
this one hit pretty deep, I am MAJOR touch starved!
I haven’t had a hug in some time and never had cuddles like the thought of it seems cool but actually cuddling would be weird for me at least cause I wouldn’t know what to do
I love all the nerdy rambling ❤🥰
Cuddles! 😊❤
Man every time I hear an audio it makes me really wish I can have something like this in my life
random but idk why your voice in so calming, i woke up anxious n needed to start getting ready to go n this made me calm down fairly quickly, might be cuz you're one of the first asmr-ist i really liked that got me into it 3 years ago. idk just wanted to say thanks for making this content
“Are they still awake!?”
“I am now.”
I’d instantly fall in love, I’m that touch starved
3:37
"Im not blushing, theres something running down my eyes"
“When was the last time you were held by someone?”
Me: it’s complicated 😢
I need someone to do this for me so badly 😔
Most of my friends irl aren’t touchy people. When I get a hug from someone. I tear up. I wish I could get more hugs from friends. It’s not really the same with family
I honestly agree! I have snuggled with my mom before, but that's just family. And yes, I enjoy it, but I honestly want cuddles from my friends. It would just hit different; in a good way!
Nothing like a loud, projecting voice to calm one down for bed...
This hit a little too close to home...
I dont usually cry but i think my touch starvation levels are way too high because i was sobbing (i been searching 4 a video like this 4 ages)
Oh I’m gonna love this. Cuddles are the best. If I ever get a GF hood I can give them lots of love and cuddles. Tho like I’m this audio I feel like no one would want to, never had some one play with my hair or don’t have much physical contact anymore. Ty Kat, this week has been so stressful and anxious for me, feel at comfort now. ❤🥺☺️💫
I don’t remember the last time I’ve cuddled someone 🧍like……genuinely
Certified hood classic right here
You spelt out Tuesday and I full on went “turista?” In my brain lmao
Thanks for the audio!
Im still getting used to the whole concept of platonic physical affection
My friends will cuddle and i dont know how to ask for it
Im not touch starved i get and give hugs from family regularly but aaa
I'm shaking... i'm almost tearing up.
I don't even remember when someone last held me.
It felt like screaming at the top of my lungs, with my hands at my head but only hearing a faint echo. It's scary. I dream the worst.
I wish this cannot be related by anyone, because it's disarming.
thank you for your amazing audio's always nice to come back to when feeling lonely, to everyone reading this, have a nice day and drink some water =)
I can't let gang know I fw this
What microphone do you use? It’s really good!
Ur holding my life together with this 🙏
This hurts so good. Fuck man the playful cheerey demeanor is so good and the scripting is golden. Fuck I need this every night
Last time someone held me? I think it was the eighties.😂
Our piece of heaven :)
I have that same light/lamp in my room
I need to prepare myself to think I'm worthy enough to listen to this. Am I in a good state emotionally?
3:52 Never 😊✌
Ive never cuddled in my life before
Does it feel like just a hug but extended
Awww so holsome
Yeah cuddles
Where do you find people like this😭
Nowhere to be found mate
@@onecat6413 figured
So she pavlovian conditioned herself to be tired from a scent
I really wish i had someone to cuddle with
The most physical touch I've had in the past.... Many years, is a fist bump from the homies. Besides that, any touch that was affectionate was from my mother when I was a child and that's it. For most, I feel like this is normal now.
We i don't really have friends that live nearby or anyone thats close to me emotionally and physically to do anything remotely like this
Thank you, that aside that i dont like to have my back touched, this was so soothing 😕 (🐻+🤗)
This was so nice!
You’re idea was good but this just made me cry and stop listening at like the beginning of the video
"touch starved listener"
How you know that
Touch starved listener, I feel called out 😭
is she being nice, or does she like listener?
This
Oh God this woman... ❤
Iv never been cuddled the last time I was hugged I almost died
Cortisol is my arch-nemesis.
YOU KNOW IT’S BAD WHEN IT PHYSICALLY HURTS 🗣️🗣️🔥🔥💥💥⁉️⁉️
I love your video s ❤. And style.
So if physical contact reduces stress, that explains why I’m so stressed. Who knew?
I really like how you spell for some reason 🤭, it tingles me nicely