If you guys still looking to listen to this song then you guys must be awesome to be friends with and what a wonderful years we've had in our past lives.
Love is a choice. If we are already committed, we should already put boundaries to our relationship with others. If we already gave our Yes to one person, this means we are giving our No to others. We just can't give our Yes to all we will like. There will always be somebody better than the one we choose and there will always be someone better than us. But it doesn't mean if we see someone better, we need to leave the ones we have. Before looking for someone better, we need to be the "better ones" first. That's why marriage is not just all feelings and emotions, it's about decision. We just can't take it for granted just because there is a divorce or annulment. Marriage is not just a contract it's a covenant.
What if u are unhappily married? Or unhappy in a relationship? I'm serious. Just a question & I'm not speaking on anyone. I'm speaking facts & what the comment u just made. I've been in relationships (not marriage, almost, but God saved me) & i loved him, but wasn't happy. Very miserable & tried to work on everything & still. Nothing left. I'm speaking for myself, for a future husband. If I marry & then realize iam not happy. Do I stay? Or what should I do?
indeed it is.. :\ I just decided to walk away from something I wanted more than anything. for someone who really needed me. no regrets right? timing surely sux...well my mother would be proud... cheers!!
what's good about the lyrics is that, he's not leaving the one who he is committed to and being responsible as much as he can. for those who are criticizing this song should stop acting like saints when you're not, we're humans, things are not as simple as they are.
@@medxpress5172 if the committed person knows that taking it further with another, will make things difficult and break everyone 's heart, why do it in the first place. What he s saying in the song , means one thing , he satisfied his urges and now back to base. How despicable.
Easier said than done. Younger womans scent. Her sound and sight all conspiring to drive you crazy. Specially if she is at her youthful peak, her hormones and her subconscious will come into play naturally. Will make and old man a juices flow again.
Definitely. I was about 12 when this came out, but it would be a good decade or so (if not more) before I really understood what the lyrics are about…you can’t really know until you’ve experienced it.
Such a mixed emotional song. Sometimes love hurts and we don't understand why. Heart says something but action shows something else. Commitment is the key to success to a sweet relationship.
We came from two completely different worlds, religions and culture. His family had a path already laid out for him and my family had already decided my future with another man. We randomly met one evening, but we didn't mean to fall in love, we tried to fight it because we both knew what lay ahead of us, and one day we gave in, we fought so hard for so long, against so many odds, especially our families but we couldn't win in the end and he finally walked away, we both felt so defeated. He got married not long after and had a family of his own, and all I could do was watch it all unfold in silence, and it broke my soul. It's been 9 years and I still miss him on rainy days and I can still hear his laughter, but his face is slowly fading from my memory. I'm afraid to forget him, because his memory is all that I have left of him. I wish him every happiness and success, wherever he maybe. I hope that life is everything he ever wanted it to be. ❤
If you haven't been in love with two people then you ain't human. Cuz we all been there. And it's the hardest thing to do is make a choice at the end not wanting to break their heart. I have been there. I also was on the other side of the situation being cheated on and being the other woman. We are human beings after all. We make mistakes. We aren't perfect.
That s not an excuse we re all humans, you have a brain u know what's right. U can t just move from one person to the other endlessly. Besides some mistakes can be fatal and dangerous. Do not make a commitment in the first place if you know ur not up to it The worst is when children are involved, it becomes pure criminal
If you ever fall in love with 2 people, stay with the second person. Because if you were truly in love with the first one, the second person wouldn’t exist to you...
Love is love theirs a million different emotions humans can feel people get lust and love mixed up you can't be "IN LOVE" with two people at the same time I have an ex I sbroke up with over a year when we talk we still say "I love you" love don't just go away but to be in love with her and date and be in love with my current girl that just don't happen I have an ex from 14 years ago I still love we both still love each other and she's married
This has the affairs of the heart written all over it. Where it means he's with this girl he really loves and cares about but he fell in love with someone else. And he's saying it's the hardest thing to tell the current girl he with that he has deep feelings for that other woman. It's called the Affairs of the heart. Great song. Relatable.
I couldn't even listen to 30 seconds of this without pausing and thinking of the breakup with my fiancee back in 2017. Making that decision and acting on it was the hardest thing I've ever done. She deserves the best but I later realized that I couldn't give that.
Out of all the boy bands of the late 90s and early 2000s, 98 degrees was definitely the most talented as far as vocals were concerned…probably not in terms of dancing and overall performance, but definitely for singing ability.
Fuck!! Same here. What hell....one girl I've been around for a while and this other girl came into my life unexpectedly and she's someone that has everything I want. Break the current girls heart that didn't do anything or let this one slip away
I keep listening to this song, as though certain people are singing it just to me. Because I know they'd say these exact words. That they've got promises to keep, someone else who loves and trusts them, etc.. Thankfully, after 3 years, I can listen to this without crying. But the internal torment remains. This is why polyamory is a good thing - it's okay to love, trust, and want to be with more than one person. It's a natural human way to be.
this used to be my favorite song when i was little... i didn't know the meaning of it back then....... but i'm going through the other side of the song right now, it's like he's singing it to me from the perspective of hunter........ i know the meaning of the song now........................ i understand how it must feel but i will say that it's also hard for me to let him go... i know it was hard for him to say goodbye but it's also hard to just let him go without trying to beg him to come back... but like the song says.........there can be no happy ending...
I have been friends with a guy for 21 years and he just recently decided to tell me how he has always felt about me....I'm married with children now and he is with someone...timing sucks and I wish I didn't know how he truly felt about everything. It would be easier to walk away.
You enjoy a song more when you don't have to worry about the lyrics. Now with all your knowledge all your focus is only on lyrics and not in the music.
I cant be with love of my life because of so many obstacles in the way I love him so much but I cant do anything i just have to turn around and walk away
oh well here's what i think. he loves two women at the same time. maybe he's married to girl A who's been a very good wife to him and loves him too. but then he met girl B. He loves girl B more than he ever loves girl A, his wife. hmmm kinda like right love at the wrong time. But then it reaches to the point that he has to choose only one. he just couldn't leave his wife for girl B even if he loves her more. he probably couldn't find any reason to just dump girl A who loves and trusts him so much. There's no way he could ever hurt her. So he has decided to just pretend that he doesn't love girl B that much, thinking maybe that someday they would meet again...that fate would bring them back together someday...somehow.... well, it's indeed the hardest thing. lol. my heart goes out to the two timing guy lol.
There's no loving two women at the same time. If a man loves woman B....he should stick with her. He never loved woman A or Woman B would have had no effect on him ;)
I've always love this song from the beginning. I'll still be waiting for that special girl. Got to put love in my life, because that's what saved me. Got me thinking about this things every now and then. Special Love
same here a long time ago i met this perfect guy i was in a relationship already and it was rocky and this other guy was moving to another state and i decided to stay here with my family and ive thought of him over the years but just had to make a clean cut even though it hurt both of us..he was probably mr right at the wrong time//
heard this song back when i was a teenager and doesn't understand the true meaning of the song, i think it's just a love song, that's it. and now in 2018 that i listen again to this song, i was amazed & shocked that it describes what i'm feeling right now.
The thought of the song may not be good to us but I put up the concept on converting it to positive. I think this songs pertains us on the possible consequences if we become dishonest to the ones we love.
teakanypanda .... No he did something WORSE. If my husband ever loved another woman, that would hurt worse then him cheating on me. Sex is just sex until you put emotion behind it, it's just an instinct humans have to reproduce. If you put emotion beyond that behind the sex then it's WORSE. Who cares if he did or didn't fuck that chick, he still loves her.
and your the master of controlling your feelings? obviously its not something anyone intends to do. it happens, and in the song he did the right thing after the fact
it's epic how I listened to there song "True to Your Heart" and then this next, with lyrics saying "To turn around and walk away, pretending I don't love you" (which is not being true to your heart) Okay. That is all.
I had someone That dedicated this song to me ....when i was 18 we met online and it was a long distance relationship. No matter when I hear this I will always think of him my
If you guys still looking to listen to this song then you guys must be awesome to be friends with and what a wonderful years we've had in our past lives.
Love is a choice. If we are already committed, we should already put boundaries to our relationship with others. If we already gave our Yes to one person, this means we are giving our No to others. We just can't give our Yes to all we will like. There will always be somebody better than the one we choose and there will always be someone better than us. But it doesn't mean if we see someone better, we need to leave the ones we have. Before looking for someone better, we need to be the "better ones" first. That's why marriage is not just all feelings and emotions, it's about decision. We just can't take it for granted just because there is a divorce or annulment. Marriage is not just a contract it's a covenant.
Thank you
This is ssoooo sooo true. Love what u said!!!
What if u are unhappily married? Or unhappy in a relationship? I'm serious. Just a question & I'm not speaking on anyone. I'm speaking facts & what the comment u just made. I've been in relationships (not marriage, almost, but God saved me) & i loved him, but wasn't happy. Very miserable & tried to work on everything & still. Nothing left. I'm speaking for myself, for a future husband. If I marry & then realize iam not happy. Do I stay? Or what should I do?
@Janice Pales Just asking
Thank you, I needed this!
If you're still alive and listening to this song...God bless you!
Same to you handsome
Thanks Mr. Bond. We are licensed to listen. :) Kindly have your next 007 movie released already.
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Here's to meeting the right person at the wrong time. Timing is a bitch. Cheers.
indeed it is.. :\ I just decided to walk away from something I wanted more than anything. for someone who really needed me. no regrets right? timing surely sux...well my mother would be proud... cheers!!
+Victoria Sarinelli timing is everything
tell me a bout it sis
but nobody else it dam
timing sucks at least on my part and I felt like it did on his! 😢
what's good about the lyrics is that, he's not leaving the one who he is committed to and being responsible as much as he can. for those who are criticizing this song should stop acting like saints when you're not, we're humans, things are not as simple as they are.
@@cheesecake2545 yes you can criticize, but that doesn't change the fact that to err is only human.
@@medxpress5172 if the committed person knows that taking it further with another, will make things difficult and break everyone 's heart, why do it in the first place. What he s saying in the song , means one thing , he satisfied his urges and now back to base. How despicable.
Ummm obviously hes not committed or he wouldnt be cheating..
Easier said than done. Younger womans scent. Her sound and sight all conspiring to drive you crazy. Specially if she is at her youthful peak, her hormones and her subconscious will come into play naturally. Will make and old man a juices flow again.
This use to be me
Oh to be 14 again and bawling to this song when my heart hadn’t even been broken yet
Definitely. I was about 12 when this came out, but it would be a good decade or so (if not more) before I really understood what the lyrics are about…you can’t really know until you’ve experienced it.
Lol. Right. Puppy love heartaches. He kissed another girl. Lol. Gotta miss them days.
@@dab7271 Exactly
I remember those days.😂
Such a mixed emotional song. Sometimes love hurts and we don't understand why. Heart says something but action shows something else. Commitment is the key to success to a sweet relationship.
I feel EXACTLY the same about this classic.
In short, STOP TWO TIMING YOU CHEATING WHORE! 😊
(Not you, but the lyricist)
We came from two completely different worlds, religions and culture. His family had a path already laid out for him and my family had already decided my future with another man. We randomly met one evening, but we didn't mean to fall in love, we tried to fight it because we both knew what lay ahead of us, and one day we gave in, we fought so hard for so long, against so many odds, especially our families but we couldn't win in the end and he finally walked away, we both felt so defeated. He got married not long after and had a family of his own, and all I could do was watch it all unfold in silence, and it broke my soul. It's been 9 years and I still miss him on rainy days and I can still hear his laughter, but his face is slowly fading from my memory. I'm afraid to forget him, because his memory is all that I have left of him. I wish him every happiness and success, wherever he maybe. I hope that life is everything he ever wanted it to be. ❤
I haven't heard this song in a very, very long time. Have always loved this 🎼🌟
Love this song so much.... I feel like I just traveled back into my childhood again... Puts a smile on my face :)
Lols. Same, I was a teenager or maybe a Lil older, but definitely young when it first came out.
If you haven't been in love with two people then you ain't human. Cuz we all been there. And it's the hardest thing to do is make a choice at the end not wanting to break their heart. I have been there. I also was on the other side of the situation being cheated on and being the other woman. We are human beings after all. We make mistakes. We aren't perfect.
Too true.. It's a pain
That s not an excuse we re all humans, you have a brain u know what's right. U can t just move from one person to the other endlessly. Besides some mistakes can be fatal and dangerous. Do not make a commitment in the first place if you know ur not up to it
The worst is when children are involved, it becomes pure criminal
If you ever fall in love with 2 people, stay with the second person. Because if you were truly in love with the first one, the second person wouldn’t exist to you...
Then I guess I'm not human😂😂
Love is love theirs a million different emotions humans can feel people get lust and love mixed up you can't be "IN LOVE" with two people at the same time I have an ex I sbroke up with over a year when we talk we still say "I love you" love don't just go away but to be in love with her and date and be in love with my current girl that just don't happen I have an ex from 14 years ago I still love we both still love each other and she's married
This has the affairs of the heart written all over it. Where it means he's with this girl he really loves and cares about but he fell in love with someone else. And he's saying it's the hardest thing to tell the current girl he with that he has deep feelings for that other woman. It's called the Affairs of the heart. Great song. Relatable.
This song just never gets old.
The last time I heard it. I was actually grocery shopping & no it never does get old. I love ❤️ this song.
@@amandalidey329 parang ikaw mukhang hindi natanda😍
Can't get over with this song.. still love to listen over and over.
On a very rare occasion a person can witness me listening to music like this, I'm a metalhead at heart, but this is a damn good song!
I couldn't even listen to 30 seconds of this without pausing and thinking of the breakup with my fiancee back in 2017. Making that decision and acting on it was the hardest thing I've ever done. She deserves the best but I later realized that I couldn't give that.
Maybe she didnt like your haircut
good luck man
Mate Brešković I think he broke up with her
@@chancehat5139 on later notice obviously but Mate cant resist a bit of banter
Out of all the boy bands of the late 90s and early 2000s, 98 degrees was definitely the most talented as far as vocals were concerned…probably not in terms of dancing and overall performance, but definitely for singing ability.
I felt this. 2 perfect people meeting at the wrong time. I will always have love for this girl.
I also love a girl so much... She does too but I can't afford to break my girlfriend's heart right now...
@@Mikedon601 i feel you !
Check out Latif "I dont want to hurt you"
Fuck!! Same here. What hell....one girl I've been around for a while and this other girl came into my life unexpectedly and she's someone that has everything I want. Break the current girls heart that didn't do anything or let this one slip away
This song touches the heart so deeply. Because truly some loves are impossible...
2022! Still a good one to belt out!!
ive always loved this song when I was a kid, its only now that I realize, it's about a mistress. such a sad ode
I keep listening to this song, as though certain people are singing it just to me. Because I know they'd say these exact words. That they've got promises to keep, someone else who loves and trusts them, etc..
Thankfully, after 3 years, I can listen to this without crying. But the internal torment remains.
This is why polyamory is a good thing - it's okay to love, trust, and want to be with more than one person. It's a natural human way to be.
Love this song !!! But it's reality for some people who are in love with someone else, but is committed to someone else 😔
True Feelings vs Obligation and commitment...
+Tanazie Arayata EXACTLY.
but it very sad
this comment was 2 years ago
Obligation means nothing without true feeling. Fuck it hahahaha
Tanazie Arayata ffbhr
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This song takes me back when boy bands were popular.
December 2019....happy in love (in my bf truck jamming to this) but this song still brings tears to my eyes!
I love you Emmanuel ❤️
it brings tears in my eyes cause I think this is how he feels now after leaving Jessica...
December 2019 is the most beautiful thing for me but then I chose to walk away.
the violin in the beginning and the end of the song is the illest Sydney opera house, Emma
Following my purpose, it finally feels right....thank you Lord for giving me the strength 🥰
Still love this song in 2023
these guys are a bomb...... love all your songs
I was a fool for letting you go, But you're still the one for me. I wish you joy and happiness wherever you are now. I miss you🥀
Old but gold ❤❤❤
なんて素晴らしい声、曲。これから先どれほど多彩な歌声を聞かせてくださるのか、楽しみでしかありません。
Ah the 90s, my golden childhood ☺️
Jake4rmStateFarm same
Yes I agree I love 90's, 98 degrees inspires me to join the choir when I was in high school.
Relate
this song though 😰😰if we could take back time....good old days❤️💕💕
One of the best Boy band in 90's
I never knew what this song was about until now. It made me happy at the time and now listening to it makes me sad lol
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It happened to me too many times. Huts are so hartless simetimes
Andy Tu don’t be sad someone will come along for you a good women
Awww...boo-fucking- hoo🙄
Anyone still listening in May 2019?
I listen to everything. I don't care what year it is or if the song is old or new.
of courseee💛
Try august 2020
Double M lmao me lol
August 2020 for me
Brings back old memories from Middle School!!!!
It's NEVER too late to tell someone you love them. Never!
yeah true
October 20, 2020 who's listening with me? 💙😍❣️
Are you kidding me?!?! It's NEVER TOO LATE to tell someone you love them. NEVER! If you think like that, well.....what a pity. Its never too late.
the song makes cry 😞😢😭😩😫💔
im actully in this situation at the moment and it really is hard . this just caught my heart . and tore it apart .
Heard this on Radio Disney back in the 90's... good times
Dec 2, 2020! That chorus...damn!
It's been 14 yrs since I broke up with my 1st bf n now he's married and has a baby gal but I still think abt him. Sigh.....
Good vocals and the movement of the music cool
90's song is one of the best😘
im in tears while singing this. the lyrics is mood rn
Currently listening
2024 who's still with me?💔
right thing at the wrong time. still a wrong thing..💔
Old but gold
Cheers to that, to that that was never meant to be 😭💙🥂
This song sounds so 90s :-)
Swordterranean40 it late 90's I do believe. Late 90's and early 2000's are very similar.
this used to be my favorite song when i was little... i didn't know the meaning of it back then....... but i'm going through the other side of the song right now, it's like he's singing it to me from the perspective of hunter........ i know the meaning of the song now........................ i understand how it must feel but i will say that it's also hard for me to let him go... i know it was hard for him to say goodbye but it's also hard to just let him go without trying to beg him to come back... but like the song says.........there can be no happy ending...
take a deep breath and let go
I have been friends with a guy for 21 years and he just recently decided to tell me how he has always felt about me....I'm married with children now and he is with someone...timing sucks and I wish I didn't know how he truly felt about everything. It would be easier to walk away.
You enjoy a song more when you don't have to worry about the lyrics. Now with all your knowledge all your focus is only on lyrics and not in the music.
september 2019♥️♥️♥️ it’s the hardest thing i’ll ever have to do,, to look you in the eye pretending i don’t love you 😔😔
Reminds me of my kindergarten days, it's been years away time flies so fast but this song never gets old and it's always on my favorite list
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True miss the old days 😥
my favorite male group ever...i really love thier songs
Love this Song😍😍😍 Alam kong matagal n tong kanta to. Pero nung narinig ko lang sya ng buong buo Habang Ng wowork ako . Grabe Bigla akong napainlove 😍
Been in this situation. Not good... whomever you love gets hurt either way.
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Anyone still listening in 2018? 😍
Meeee!!!
Emily Rose Carr most definitely I’m stuck in the 90s that’s before music became crap well most..
2019
@@ailynmontero1294 March 18, 2019
A nigga like me in 2019 boo!
2019 jam for real 🙋♀️😍🙋♂️
idgaf what people say about me , I'll always love 98 degrees songs ~~
Even I'm 15.
I'm 12
I'm 90's, 98 degrees songs was best too... 2020 who still listen it... 😉
2024 and I am here
this song came on a million times a day back when i was in grade 7
I cant be with love of my life because of so many obstacles in the way I love him so much but I cant do anything i just have to turn around and walk away
Sharlah S.R.B I’m in the same boat. It sucks
😢
oh well here's what i think. he loves two women at the same time. maybe he's married to girl A who's been a very good wife to him and loves him too. but then he met girl B. He loves girl B more than he ever loves girl A, his wife. hmmm kinda like right love at the wrong time. But then it reaches to the point that he has to choose only one. he just couldn't leave his wife for girl B even if he loves her more. he probably couldn't find any reason to just dump girl A who loves and trusts him so much. There's no way he could ever hurt her. So he has decided to just pretend that he doesn't love girl B that much, thinking maybe that someday they would meet again...that fate would bring them back together someday...somehow....
well, it's indeed the hardest thing. lol. my heart goes out to the two timing guy lol.
I think your right on. Right love, wrong time. It does happen.
There's no loving two women at the same time. If a man loves woman B....he should stick with her. He never loved woman A or Woman B would have had no effect on him ;)
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Awesome long time favorite song
Damn over 15 years later and you are still the one I want
i startes to cry because of this song
Ito ung sitwasyon na nainip ka sa gitna . Hahahaha love this!
I've always love this song from the beginning. I'll still be waiting for that special girl. Got to put love in my life, because that's what saved me. Got me thinking about this things every now and then.
Special Love
Backstreet Boys, N*Sync, 98 Degrees, 5ive, Hanson. Lol man, I was so enamored with those white boybands back in the day.
Same girl 😂💯💯😂😂😂
@@ModernSouthernBelle Lol nice.
Don’t forget O town
@@THERANDOMMAN91 Oh shit you're right! Lol
I saw you comment on a nsync video lol
same here a long time ago i met this perfect guy i was in a relationship already and it was rocky and this other guy was moving to another state and i decided to stay here with my family and ive thought of him over the years but just had to make a clean cut even though it hurt both of us..he was probably mr right at the wrong time//
So sad 😢 had the same experience..
😭😭😭
its so hard to go thru thisssss im in tearssssss but i still love this song
I miss the 90's boy bands!
heard this song back when i was a teenager and doesn't understand the true meaning of the song, i think it's just a love song, that's it. and now in 2018 that i listen again to this song, i was amazed & shocked that it describes what i'm feeling right now.
2020 and im still inlove with them
i really love this song :D
The thought of the song may not be good to us but I put up the concept on converting it to positive. I think this songs pertains us on the possible consequences if we become dishonest to the ones we love.
I liked this song till now... I actually listened to it... Im pissed
because he decided not to cheat on his wife/gf? o.0
teakanypanda .... No he did something WORSE. If my husband ever loved another woman, that would hurt worse then him cheating on me. Sex is just sex until you put emotion behind it, it's just an instinct humans have to reproduce. If you put emotion beyond that behind the sex then it's WORSE. Who cares if he did or didn't fuck that chick, he still loves her.
and your the master of controlling your feelings? obviously its not something anyone intends to do. it happens, and in the song he did the right thing after the fact
I miss this song
I love that song!!!! Thank you!!!😍
I still have my JL audio bumping this in 2022
1-29-22 listener.
Good vocal harmonies!!.
I've been looking for this song forever
Who is here in 2024?
it's epic how I listened to there song "True to Your Heart" and then this next, with lyrics saying "To turn around and walk away, pretending I don't love you" (which is not being true to your heart) Okay. That is all.
although I HATE cheating, it's a good song.
love this music....remind me my past love..
I do believe in this scenario. You can love two people at the same time.
Totally agree I'm I love with myself and my wife xx
@@vibsking21 Well, that's a different story. 😁😁
Mayb love but not IN love. There's a difference
I love you too honey
I agree. Been there . Still there
Im not broken hearted, but it feels like theres a knife stabbing my heart whenever i listen to this song.
i was like 10 hen this song came out and ive never forgotten the lyrics to this whole song lol a great song:))))))))
I had someone That dedicated this song to me ....when i was 18 we met online and it was a long distance relationship. No matter when I hear this I will always think of him my
This song is my jam
This song shows the harder side of breaking up with someone, though I haven't experienced something like that, I sure someone can relate to this song!
i'm sure he experienced this when he broke up with Jessica Simpson
2014 still listing to this music lol
2015 still listening
2020 I'll still be listing cause the song is classic!!!!
oct. 2022 and I'm still obsessed with this song
I love this song
amazing this song is the best since before