I am in this situation.. Everything Benjamin said... My mother in law insisted on living with us barely 2 months because she is a widow.. 53yrs old suffering from mild blood pressure.. The son is a complete mama's boy.. Everytime I complain that am not comfortable living with her. The mother says I hate her.. She is in her sons house.. She is sick and can't leave alone... She has emotionally manipulated my husband and left our marriage in a. Difficult situation... Now that she came in when am one month pregnant..she calls the son everytime he is late to know what time he is coming things I think I should be doing.. The son has to report everytime he is going out and where with who.. I have always been hard on her I don't have much talk expect greetings and she says am a bad daughter in law. Mind you we live in a one bedroom and she rather leave her 3 bedroom house and stay with us in the living room.. Yesterday she complained I hadn't changed her sheets for one week which I did intentionally to see what she will do.. After listening to this show I think I would rather run away from the marriage early.. Because I don't feel safe and home in my own house and the son has completely been turned and wouldn't man up to take her back home.. Since she is *sick and lonely* which I think is manipulative because I mean some parents are battling worse. There are solutions for example a caregiver to take care of her.. I was going through depression thankyou Benjamin for this talk
Hopefully you got out of this madness. You husband himself would never be ok with your father moving in with you and having to deal with the situation in reverse. If he is unwilling to step up and be a man with a backbone leave home with his wife- clearly it’s his mum. There’s is no reward for putting up with toxic situations that destroy your mental and physical health
My situation is the dad(my fatherinlaw) died in between... Right after our wedding... Things totally changed! Now my marriage is over... And she is trying to take my child... May God help me heal from resentment
I went through hell being married to a Mama's boy. Everything that was discussed was basically my marriage. Eventually, the mom pushed me out of the marriage and tried to separate me from my child.
Thanks so much for ur shows, I can't sleep without watching one per night, u have really helped me, actually u remind me, I dated mama's boy😂😂it wasn't easy until I felt uncomfortable and quited
I have been dating one. Mark you 30+.weee kila kitu ni my mum...my mum said ..my man was to take my car to the garage..my mother wants me to workout my relationship with bla bla woman...I told my mum to be calling earlier than 10pm. my mum dropped me at work today...weee ilifika place and had to step out as much as he was a nice guy cause at the end of the day..his mum will control his relationships.. weee Mama's boys wakae na their mum's juu someone ka Mimi with no mum it becomes to much kila saa ooh mum mum mum. They are boys not men.
Mamas boys are so weard .i just dated one alafu he kept talking about his mother and to make matters worse he was last born..He even tells me abt how his mother said he should cut his hair at 29 yrs .how is mother calls him kababaa...he doesn't want to settle because he is still kababaaaa weeeee
I am in this situation.. Everything Benjamin said... My mother in law insisted on living with us barely 2 months because she is a widow.. 53yrs old suffering from mild blood pressure.. The son is a complete mama's boy.. Everytime I complain that am not comfortable living with her. The mother says I hate her.. She is in her sons house.. She is sick and can't leave alone... She has emotionally manipulated my husband and left our marriage in a. Difficult situation... Now that she came in when am one month pregnant..she calls the son everytime he is late to know what time he is coming things I think I should be doing.. The son has to report everytime he is going out and where with who.. I have always been hard on her I don't have much talk expect greetings and she says am a bad daughter in law. Mind you we live in a one bedroom and she rather leave her 3 bedroom house and stay with us in the living room.. Yesterday she complained I hadn't changed her sheets for one week which I did intentionally to see what she will do.. After listening to this show I think I would rather run away from the marriage early.. Because I don't feel safe and home in my own house and the son has completely been turned and wouldn't man up to take her back home.. Since she is *sick and lonely* which I think is manipulative because I mean some parents are battling worse. There are solutions for example a caregiver to take care of her.. I was going through depression thankyou Benjamin for this talk
Run bby gal.... Run.i lived with one for 12yrs! I left in search for inner peace.Mama's boys don't change.
Is your husband an only child?
Hopefully you got out of this madness. You husband himself would never be ok with your father moving in with you and having to deal with the situation in reverse. If he is unwilling to step up and be a man with a backbone leave home with his wife- clearly it’s his mum. There’s is no reward for putting up with toxic situations that destroy your mental and physical health
Great insights. I like how you call a spade a spade. It hammers the points home so well.
Information we really need while making life time choices
We are running chicken business together n rabbit business😂😂😂
My situation is the dad(my fatherinlaw) died in between... Right after our wedding... Things totally changed! Now my marriage is over... And she is trying to take my child... May God help me heal from resentment
I went through hell being married to a Mama's boy. Everything that was discussed was basically my marriage. Eventually, the mom pushed me out of the marriage and tried to separate me from my child.
Eeh is like you are talking about my story👁👄👁
Going through this now. Ready to leave
A Much needed Topic😊
Woooooooooow, very balanced teaching
It's like marrying dad's dota
Amazing! Gentlemen hope you have learnt.I appreciate you Gentlemen
Have health relationship with your family members
Hehe talking more than thrice a day for over 40 minutes
😂is already married
I love this show❤
Thanks so much for ur shows, I can't sleep without watching one per night, u have really helped me, actually u remind me, I dated mama's boy😂😂it wasn't easy until I felt uncomfortable and quited
I have been dating one. Mark you 30+.weee kila kitu ni my mum...my mum said ..my man was to take my car to the garage..my mother wants me to workout my relationship with bla bla woman...I told my mum to be calling earlier than 10pm. my mum dropped me at work today...weee ilifika place and had to step out as much as he was a nice guy cause at the end of the day..his mum will control his relationships.. weee Mama's boys wakae na their mum's juu someone ka Mimi with no mum it becomes to much kila saa ooh mum mum mum. They are boys not men.
I like the discussion
Mamas boys are so weard .i just dated one alafu he kept talking about his mother and to make matters worse he was last born..He even tells me abt how his mother said he should cut his hair at 29 yrs .how is mother calls him kababaa...he doesn't want to settle because he is still kababaaaa weeeee
😂 😂 Mimi naambiagwa Mathy alisema sijui nini.. I have to quit
I can't find the on tiktok
So what is the solution. I mean if you are already in a married relationship with the mamas boy
for me it was too much for me until I decided to left. but he went ahead and assured me that he will never choose me over his mum😭😭😭
Become very busy working
What to do when you are faced with the problem
Leave, its simple!
Following....
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Lakini afathali niolewe na mama’s boy kuliko a narcissist
i met both in one, less than 1yr in a marriage i had slipped into depression... i had to run before i die coz that was the next thing awaiting
Wee wacha hizi..You’re acting like you don’t have a choice
There is a high chance a mamas boy is raised by a narcissist too, therefore under the parent's control. there is the same bracket
Hehe what if a Mama's boy is also a narcissist
His mother is covertly one though