Yes, he is guilty right of the bat, he Was still in love with crazy. Op should have said 'I wish I can go back in time, and Stop myself From Meeting You!'
She gets assaulted by her husband’s crazy ex and he laughs and calls her dramatic. Instant annulment. He clearly enjoys having the ex fighting over him. I love Martha’s shiny spine.
No divorce or annulment needed. They had the ceremony that's all. He assumed she took the signed papers to the court to be filed. She didn't do that. She wanted to wait until after the ceremony to file then
The ex liked the idea of a “cat fight” with his fiancé and his mistress. He would continue using both women to stroke his ego. When he said, I will never see her again, sounded like he planned on continuing the relationship with his girlfriend. I doubt he thought he was at fault or ever would.
The oblivious obtuseness of the partner is always the most enraging part of these videos. "Duurrr, why did you call a lawyer??? You were only assaulted, I don't understaaaaaaaaaaand...!"
He did understand, he just thought it was no big deal. Like women are inclined to fight over him. Except Martha wasn't going to play that game. She knew a BETTER one.
Martha you rock!!!! You are a mentally healthy woman who respects herself. You should teach other women that they need to love and respect themselves. You dodge a bullet. 😂😂😂
He keeps saying "I'm sorry" when he doesn't understand what he apologizing for. Remember at the beginning he was refusing to come home. That's a sign he may be cheating.
Most of the time when an ex keeps holding on its because they're being encouraged, I can see he's marrying her for the money but keeping the ex as a side chick
Girl if he just laughs when you tell him that his crazy ex hit you then break off the engagement right then and there. he doesn't deserve you. You are amazing, and that goes for anyone who has to deal with the same situation.❤❤❤❤
The bride gets slapped twice and the groom only laughs and walks away? If I was the groom I would have, at the least force the EX out of the buliding or at best deck her. Adam = WIMP!!!
Yup and since she is in so much debt, that must mean she is terrible with money....I hope Rebecca forced Adam to marry her so he'd never be financially stable ever again.
I want to slap everyone in this story. The fiance should have left this lying piece of trash the moment the ex called her. What is he like 12? And he laughed about the ex slapping her.
I know, right? If anything I despise her more than him. I mean she knew he was cheating before the wedding and decided to go through with it anyway, thinking he'd MAGICALLY transform into a good guy after they got married? What was she thinking ?
Why would he give his fiancee's phone number to his crazy ex? This is a red flag, especially as he knows what his ex is like. He also doesn't seem concerned that Rebecca slapped his fiancee on her wedding day. Dump the loser.
I saw Adam's snakey ways from the beginning. You blow everything off like it's nothing. You think it's funny that the ex was after your intended wife. They deserve each other, two insane selfish people
"I woun't forgive you if you don't give me her number"... Who would even care if an ex forgives you or not? And really nothing he says makes sense! On the contrary; everything he says points him out as guilty as hell!
This lady is so lucky that she didn’t marry Adam and have kids with him now she can move on with life and not have anything to hold her back and let Adam deal with his drama 🎭
That is nutso even for a monocentric world. Of course you're going to think of other people no matter what kind of relationship you're in. It doesn't have to mean that you don't love the person or people you're with. Nor does it mean that most of the time.
these stories seem to have the same theme flowing here and it's almost everyone ends up deported/exiled to other place. way too many companies seem to have many country branches to send these aholes off too.
He wouldn’t have to pay compensation. Not how that works. The wedding fees are paid by WHOEVER signed the contracts. Most wedding fees are paid way before the day of the wedding to begin with.
Nope. You got it wrong. His fault wedding was cancelled. She can sue him for the costs and the judge will make him pay. Different laws for different countries
Adam said a few things that put questions in my head. "Why are you suddenly asking about my ex? What? Rebecca messaged you? ....what did she say?" (Guilty response). And "Don't you trust me?" Another guilty response. And the story about why he gave in and gave Rebecca Martha's phone number is stupid. Like why he should care if Rebecca won't forgive him if he didn't give her Marthas number.
Is there a reason she didn't been end the relationship when she saw his ex was still hanging around?.. did she think that was normal?.. of course he's still banging her🙄..why didn't she slap her back is my question?.. martha thought he'd suddenly be faithful once they're married. Which is silly. If he's unfaithful now, common sense he'll be cheating once married.. he has no respect for martha or the relationship. Martha needed to have more respect for herself.. someone with self respect, self esteem and self love would've been dumped Adam.
Some people trust too much. Happens in a healthy and caring upbringing where family respects boundaries. The only downside is that you find yourself learning the Backbone Boogie a little late in life.
@@daynechastant also he did make it seems she was clingy and a bit of starker. so less of blind trust and more of this is a problem yet to be dealt with till she realise that they have a different problem.
Jeez Adam was a narcissistic, slightly sociopathic douchbag. Good on Martha for watching out for red flags. She had a very sneaking suspicion that Adam wasn't telling the whole truth. Adam was just laughing off the slap from his ex gf like it was nothing. His life was ruin when that slap happened. He lost everything, his fiancee, his position and a whole lot of money. All because he couldn't stay away or get rid of his ex. Nothing good comes from cheating and ALWAYS support your significant other.
So, how exactly did Rebecca end up - arrested for assault, and sued for harassment and stalking, perhaps? Like Adam, she’s also at fault. Neither of the two is playing with a full deck.
Knew he was cheating. U apply for the certificate. U take the certificate to the pastor. After the ceremony, pastor signs with the witnesses & pastor sends the certificate to the court. U can’t get compensation for cancellation of a wedding. All these stories r just simply stupid with false facts. If wasn’t seeing this woman than there would b no reason for her to have Martha’s #. If was smart enough he’d gave her a false #. A man that doesn’t take up for his partner isn’t a man. He’s a coward. It’s his fault not Martha’s . He caused it.
So Martha gets harassed and assaulted and SHE’S overdramatic? Adam’s an immature narcissistic baby and he shouldn’t get married if he’s not by his WIFE’S side not his EX
Back in the day before cell phones, a jealous ex-girlfriend got my phone number from a guy I had met. She would call at all hours starting in the afternoon until about 2 or 3 in the morning, say nothing until we hung up. My mom called the phone company, but they couldn't really help, but yet they did. They told her to make the phone click, and say, "Officer, record this call please." It took one time saying that and it stopped. Thing is, I only went out with that guy maybe 3 times.
The whole freaking POINT about getting married is knowing you have one person who will always have your back, always protect you- lol even when you're wrong- this dude cares more about his ex than he does his bride. Or maybe he thinks he can have his cake and eat it too. Either way, not someone ready for marriage at ALL, dump his arse immediately....lol and yay, no secret CEOs riding to the rescue!! Great story😂👍*oh for- I spoke too soon😂😭🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️
Martha should just listen to Rebecca and just leave Adam, since it can’t be helped. Adam may have said he had no intention of seeing Rebecca , but in his heart and mind, he still have feelings for her. It would be better that instead of seeing Martha , he could have stayed with Rebecca because of what he thinks of her jealousy, he’s actually quite wrong, because he’s using Rebecca as a cling on, so he can use this opportunity to take advantage on Martha when he knew that he’s just using Martha as a side fling when he’s actually using Rebecca as an additional baggage.
I don't believe people like Adam are capable of the introspection necessary for them to actually understand THEY are the ones at fault. When you consider his final pleas to his fiancee were based on his desire to save HIS future.
Long before the wedding came up my thought is is she is such a crazy person why the hell would he ever talk to her. Shady as shit. Yeah......called it.
To cheat with your ex and then have your ex come to the wedding and hit your soon to be spouse that in it's self is messed up and to take the ex's side in it all is very shitty. Your ex and you should stay together because you both are rotten to the core.
STOP playing 'pick me' dance with a cheater. Even if they picked you then what? They would cheat again, but don't worry, their heart belongs to you right...? 😏
Anyone who can be "stolen" isn't worth having.
One can steal furniture, but not persons. It requires consent.
Exactly he's scum😮😮😮
@flybywire5866 You CAN steal a person, but I believe they call that kidnapping.
Can NEVER be stolen! He’s a WILLING participant!! Like my Mana used to say, a man is like the bus, another one will be along in 15 minutes!!💯💯🔥🤣🤣
When the husband or boyfriend laughs right after he denies something, he's guilty as hell. It's a dead give away.
Yes, he is guilty right of the bat, he Was still in love with crazy. Op should have said 'I wish I can go back in time, and Stop myself From Meeting You!'
He's an scumbag serves him right the girl called her lawyer😮😮😮😮
Yeah, typical double agent.
But they think they're the superior of the species 😉. I can't tell
Fr he doesn’t care about anyone else
Rebecca should have been arrested for assault immediately.
She gets assaulted by her husband’s crazy ex and he laughs and calls her dramatic. Instant annulment. He clearly enjoys having the ex fighting over him. I love Martha’s shiny spine.
were they even married (law), if not no annulment needed !
No divorce or annulment needed. They had the ceremony that's all. He assumed she took the signed papers to the court to be filed. She didn't do that. She wanted to wait until after the ceremony to file then
Martha is spot-on correct. NEVER marry someone who laughs off threats, ignores stalking, and considers assault an amusing minor nuisance at best.
If someone hits you, you are within your right to BEAT THE BRAKES OFF THEM
The ex liked the idea of a “cat fight” with his fiancé and his mistress. He would continue using both women to stroke his ego. When he said, I will never see her again, sounded like he planned on continuing the relationship with his girlfriend.
I doubt he thought he was at fault or ever would.
The oblivious obtuseness of the partner is always the most enraging part of these videos. "Duurrr, why did you call a lawyer??? You were only assaulted, I don't understaaaaaaaaaaand...!"
He did understand, he just thought it was no big deal. Like women are inclined to fight over him.
Except Martha wasn't going to play that game. She knew a BETTER one.
Martha you rock!!!! You are a mentally healthy woman who respects herself. You should teach other women that they need to love and respect themselves. You dodge a bullet. 😂😂😂
Yeah🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂
Op…”Talk to my lawyer from now on. I’m through talking to you.” Op…continues to talk without lawyer….😂
If Adam really thought that Rebecca was crazy enough to hurt his fiancée, why on earth would he give her Martha’s contact info?!? Makes zero sense!
Gave her the phone number knowing the gf was a little crazy jealous. Also must-have told her about the wedding if not actually invited her.
He keeps saying "I'm sorry" when he doesn't understand what he apologizing for. Remember at the beginning he was refusing to come home. That's a sign he may be cheating.
Most of the time when an ex keeps holding on its because they're being encouraged, I can see he's marrying her for the money but keeping the ex as a side chick
Martha should have one of *her* exes come to the venue, and kick Adam in the nads. With steel-toed boots.
“Sorry. He’s just a little jealous.”
You let her slap you twice? Slapping her back should have been a reflex.
Better yet a punch.
Exactly
I would've slapped her back so hard she'd need a doctor!
You should have punched her op who the h does she think she is😮😮😮😮😮😮😮
Having a big fight is horrific idea. It was much and more mature to have the person arrested for the assault.
This “love triangle” reminds me of a real life one. It ended when one girl stabbed the other to death. A tragedy that could’ve been avoided.
You take about Rachel Wade or something?
@@nicholascummings5902 yep
I remember that
Girl if he just laughs when you tell him that his crazy ex hit you then break off the engagement right then and there. he doesn't deserve you. You are amazing, and that goes for anyone who has to deal with the same situation.❤❤❤❤
"I'm his girlfriend. I still am, and always will be. Some random woman like you can't change that." Doesn't the guy have a say in this?
The bride gets slapped twice and the groom only laughs and walks away? If I was the groom I would have, at the least force the EX out of the buliding or at best deck her. Adam = WIMP!!!
He ruined his own life. He deserves Rebecca.
Yup and since she is in so much debt, that must mean she is terrible with money....I hope Rebecca forced Adam to marry her so he'd never be financially stable ever again.
She knew he was cheating and still planned to marry this guy?
If the ex girlfriend had slapped me she would have been picking herself up off the floor after I punched in the face in self defense.
I want to slap everyone in this story. The fiance should have left this lying piece of trash the moment the ex called her. What is he like 12? And he laughed about the ex slapping her.
I know, right? If anything I despise her more than him. I mean she knew he was cheating before the wedding and decided to go through with it anyway, thinking he'd MAGICALLY transform into a good guy after they got married? What was she thinking ?
@@lindasavelle1731 she wasn't thinking. And letting the ex slap her!! I would have been in jail.
Adam had it coming to him and Rebecca she needs to seek out help from her jealousness.
She's sick 😮😮😮😮
Any man that dismisses her fear & insists she's overreacting...is hiding something!! Creep!!
The fiance guy is the definition oglf gaslighting
Making her think she is the unreasonable one etc, jeez
Why would he give his fiancee's phone number to his crazy ex? This is a red flag, especially as he knows what his ex is like. He also doesn't seem concerned that Rebecca slapped his fiancee on her wedding day. Dump the loser.
I saw Adam's snakey ways from the beginning. You blow everything off like it's nothing. You think it's funny that the ex was after your intended wife.
They deserve each other, two insane selfish people
"I woun't forgive you if you don't give me her number"...
Who would even care if an ex forgives you or not? And really nothing he says makes sense! On the contrary; everything he says points him out as guilty as hell!
"Unless you give me the ability to contact her, i will start contacting her!"
His logic is flawless
The telephone number was the giveaway. It exposed him lying.
"She really is just a crazy exgirlfriend" Well, they have been known to commit murder
A slap is a severe insult as well as assault
The slap was assault so the ex will be charged and have to pay compensation . On top if that there will be compensation for the cost of the wedding.
This lady is so lucky that she didn’t marry Adam and have kids with him now she can move on with life and not have anything to hold her back and let Adam deal with his drama 🎭
Op should said'Great job, on being stupid, don't come back again, and jeolously is a diease, get well soon!'
That is nutso even for a monocentric world. Of course you're going to think of other people no matter what kind of relationship you're in. It doesn't have to mean that you don't love the person or people you're with. Nor does it mean that most of the time.
When someone says "Don't you trust me?" the answer is "No."
What the hell happened to his ex girlfriend???? Was she charged for assault or what?
I'd got back in and slap Adam and say there, laugh about that, and walk out and throw his ring back at him.
And any man that laughs in a situation like this, isn’t the man for you! Drop that clown immediately!!💯🤡🤦🏽♀️
This so called fiance seems he set this mess up, sue his sorry butt too.
these stories seem to have the same theme flowing here and it's almost everyone ends up deported/exiled to other place. way too many companies seem to have many country branches to send these aholes off too.
Most if not all of these are originally from asia, work and family goes hand in hand there 😅
Martha, go back to the wedding, go straight to fiance and ex, and SLAP both of them. Then tell him it's not a big deal when he starts making a fuss
Yesssssss ma'am you did the right thing about canceling the wedding
He wouldn’t have to pay compensation. Not how that works. The wedding fees are paid by WHOEVER signed the contracts. Most wedding fees are paid way before the day of the wedding to begin with.
Nope. You got it wrong. His fault wedding was cancelled. She can sue him for the costs and the judge will make him pay. Different laws for different countries
This is crazy, groom didn't do anything, I would have slapped that B back and went home.
Yeah, this guy's a tool - "I'll talk to her" No, that will only encourage the stalking
Younger and prettier doesn’t equate honesty and respect!! Because pretty fades eventually!! Love isn’t a competition, it’s an experience!!💯💯🤦🏽♀️
Adam said a few things that put questions in my head. "Why are you suddenly asking about my ex? What? Rebecca messaged you? ....what did she say?" (Guilty response). And "Don't you trust me?" Another guilty response. And the story about why he gave in and gave Rebecca Martha's phone number is stupid. Like why he should care if Rebecca won't forgive him if he didn't give her Marthas number.
Is there a reason she didn't been end the relationship when she saw his ex was still hanging around?.. did she think that was normal?.. of course he's still banging her🙄..why didn't she slap her back is my question?.. martha thought he'd suddenly be faithful once they're married. Which is silly. If he's unfaithful now, common sense he'll be cheating once married.. he has no respect for martha or the relationship. Martha needed to have more respect for herself.. someone with self respect, self esteem and self love would've been dumped Adam.
Exactly
Some people trust too much. Happens in a healthy and caring upbringing where family respects boundaries. The only downside is that you find yourself learning the Backbone Boogie a little late in life.
Glad in a way it happened opened her eyes to a scumbag dodged a bullet there😅😅😅😅
@@daynechastant also he did make it seems she was clingy and a bit of starker. so less of blind trust and more of this is a problem yet to be dealt with till she realise that they have a different problem.
Hahaha karma hows he doing now hHaha😂😂😂
OMG another stupid ending ...what happened to the girl that hit her?? If your going to do stories at least finish them ugh....
DUMP THE RATFINK. HE'S NOT WORTH IT. IF HE DEFENDS THE EX, JUST SAY "NEXT!!!" MARTHA CAN DO A LOT BETTER THAN THE RATFINK.
In what universe is it okay to laugh if your current significant other is assaulted by an ex?
Public service announcement:
Assault is a verbal or implied threat to do physical harm.
Battery is following through on it.
He's lying and cheating, it's obvious
We need our private detective!
Jeez Adam was a narcissistic, slightly sociopathic douchbag. Good on Martha for watching out for red flags. She had a very sneaking suspicion that Adam wasn't telling the whole truth. Adam was just laughing off the slap from his ex gf like it was nothing. His life was ruin when that slap happened. He lost everything, his fiancee, his position and a whole lot of money. All because he couldn't stay away or get rid of his ex. Nothing good comes from cheating and ALWAYS support your significant other.
And what about Rebecca? What was her sentence?
Is this the guy who calls himself “ The Shades”? If it is, then he’s gotten a lot better at voiceover acting.
Martha must have money if Adam is wanting to marry her so dramatically.
so, she said she was calling the police but was rebecca arrested? they dont say
So, how exactly did Rebecca end up - arrested for assault, and sued for harassment and stalking, perhaps? Like Adam, she’s also at fault. Neither of the two is playing with a full deck.
She would not have hit me and gotten away wid it 😡😏
Wow, he actually thought it was okay what he did
Knew he was cheating. U apply for the certificate. U take the certificate to the pastor. After the ceremony, pastor signs with the witnesses & pastor sends the certificate to the court. U can’t get compensation for cancellation of a wedding. All these stories r just simply stupid with false facts. If wasn’t seeing this woman than there would b no reason for her to have Martha’s #. If was smart enough he’d gave her a false #. A man that doesn’t take up for his partner isn’t a man. He’s a coward. It’s his fault not Martha’s . He caused it.
"You should loosen up a little"?!?!
*screams to death internally"
So Martha gets harassed and assaulted and SHE’S overdramatic? Adam’s an immature narcissistic baby and he shouldn’t get married if he’s not by his WIFE’S side not his EX
Why is there always a CEO involved in these stories?
Just go back to your ex-girlfriend, Adam. You are not over her.
Go back to the MENU instead of the VENUE? Hahaha!
Rebecca stop being entitled
wow she sounds like two year old .Geez
Defend the x girfriend.... he telling you he cares more for her than you.
Back in the day before cell phones, a jealous ex-girlfriend got my phone number from a guy I had met. She would call at all hours starting in the afternoon until about 2 or 3 in the morning, say nothing until we hung up. My mom called the phone company, but they couldn't really help, but yet they did. They told her to make the phone click, and say, "Officer, record this call please." It took one time saying that and it stopped. Thing is, I only went out with that guy maybe 3 times.
Called a lawyer, why not the police?
Complete dunderhead! " She threatened me, so I gave her your number" Great, so she can threaten me?!
REBECCA EVERYTHING IS YOUR FAULT TOO REBECCA THE CUPCAKE AND GIVE UP ALREADY TOO REBECCA THE CUPCAKE AND GET A LIFE TOO REBECCA THE CUPCAKE
The whole freaking POINT about getting married is knowing you have one person who will always have your back, always protect you- lol even when you're wrong- this dude cares more about his ex than he does his bride. Or maybe he thinks he can have his cake and eat it too. Either way, not someone ready for marriage at ALL, dump his arse immediately....lol and yay, no secret CEOs riding to the rescue!! Great story😂👍*oh for- I spoke too soon😂😭🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️
What does the employer has to do with all of this?
Martha should just listen to Rebecca and just leave Adam, since it can’t be helped. Adam may have said he had no intention of seeing Rebecca , but in his heart and mind, he still have feelings for her. It would be better that instead of seeing Martha , he could have stayed with Rebecca because of what he thinks of her jealousy, he’s actually quite wrong, because he’s using Rebecca as a cling on, so he can use this opportunity to take advantage on Martha when he knew that he’s just using Martha as a side fling when he’s actually using Rebecca as an additional baggage.
I don't believe people like Adam are capable of the introspection necessary for them to actually understand THEY are the ones at fault.
When you consider his final pleas to his fiancee were based on his desire to save HIS future.
Martha MY hero
Wtf???😮
The husband needs to loose his grip of his fake dreams and needs to come to reality.
REBECCA LISTEN UP AND LISTEN GOOD THERE TOO CUPCAKE AND GOOD LUCK WITH THAT TOO REBECCA THE CUPCAKE
It took two years to get in contact just before the wedding. Red flag. She’s been around that whole time
WTH?!? the ex girlfriend didn't receive any punishment? Didn't have to pay anything?
Long before the wedding came up my thought is is she is such a crazy person why the hell would he ever talk to her. Shady as shit. Yeah......called it.
Yeah he has been cheating!! Run for the hills!!!!!!!! Believing his lies means you are enabling him!!
Wow Adam not only did you cheat, you cheated with a stalker, I swear that's a movie, news flash, it didn't end well.
To cheat with your ex and then have your ex come to the wedding and hit your soon to be spouse that in it's self is messed up and to take the ex's side in it all is very shitty. Your ex and you should stay together because you both are rotten to the core.
Really?
Are some women this blind?
That was the worst excuse a guy ever said
Adam, kiss my grits
They weren't rumors.. it was gossip. Rumor= lie
STOP playing 'pick me' dance with a cheater.
Even if they picked you then what? They would cheat again, but don't worry, their heart belongs to you right...? 😏
He's lying! I've had an issue like that
When you think something is wrong with your ex, why would you give her your fiance's phone number?
Girlllll all he's doing is lying to you
At least he still has Rebecca.