Value Who You Are - Khutbah Reminders - Nouman Ali Khan

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  • Опубликовано: 25 июл 2024
  • In this khutbah reminder clip, Ustadh Nouman highlights how the devil can harm our self-esteem by attacking our personality. He explains how the devil aims to make us feel worthless, but encourages
    us to be aware of these negative thoughts and take steps to counter them.
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Комментарии • 271

  • @carol-annduggan5098
    @carol-annduggan5098 Год назад +571

    My ex-husband made me feel so worthless, I, a female servant of Allah, considered suicide! But Allah put into my head that He chose me to know Him and worship Him, I'm a revert of 30 years alhamdu Lillah. If Allah values me that's all that matters.

    • @sarahkhawaja9617
      @sarahkhawaja9617 Год назад +31

      May Allah swt make it easy for you, the very fact that you're here with us today shows that Allah protected you and we make dua that Allah swt keeps protecting you. I can imagine your pain, but turn that pain into power and positivity. What doesn't kill you, makes you stronger. Its remarkable what humans can go through and if only we saw the rewards we reaped in akhirah. In our eternal abode! Jannah, that place is my ultimate motivation in times of difficulties and ease. Goodness ALWAYS comes after trials. Protect yourself from shaitans whispers

    • @carol-annduggan5098
      @carol-annduggan5098 Год назад +16

      @@sarahkhawaja9617 jazak Allah khairun for your kind words. Alhamdu Lillah all good. Everything we experience is good for us, if we look for it, even if it's learning about ourselves. I have learnt that Allah will never let me down.

    • @m.a421
      @m.a421 Год назад +9

      Sister may allah reward u for ur patience

    • @starsammy-bs8re
      @starsammy-bs8re Год назад +5

      May allah make it easy for you my sister💯🙏🏾

    • @moments4727
      @moments4727 Год назад +5

      May Allah bless you 😇❤️

  • @dayanahrodeodrive
    @dayanahrodeodrive Год назад +430

    When you value yourself, then being criticized is not humiliation. You see it as an opportunity to grow. ✔

    • @cashi4225
      @cashi4225 Год назад +5

      It is true. Alhamdulillah

    • @Deen399
      @Deen399 Год назад +10

      I don’t know anyone who handles criticism well. Easier said than done

    • @mobidick6064
      @mobidick6064 Год назад +4

      It's rare but it's true that Islam is being criticised unfounded to confound and confuse the bewildered audience ' drop by drop' as we cry out in protest, this is your hate planted in the minds to manifest and grow to an unjustified horror inflicted on the innocent

    • @anaskarim9879
      @anaskarim9879 Год назад +3

      Wise words you have there, brother.

    • @aishaali3734
      @aishaali3734 Год назад +2

      Exactly! That's me. I always hold my head up and never belittle myself.

  • @yasmeenmohamed165
    @yasmeenmohamed165 Год назад +199

    Being married to someone who doesn't love you back is one of the most painful things one can go through and does make you feel worthless. I was married for 5years to a man who didn't feel the same way about me this made me feel completely worthless and rejected on a daily basis. He divorced me and asked me to leave with our 3 kids. 6years later and I can still remember the feeling of him flirting with other women all the time and the pain of him never looking at me that way. I took care of myself and always tried to look good for him. It consoles me to know that our worth only comes from Allah. It doesn't matter who treats us badly because of our physical flaws or doesn't love us back. In Jannah we will look and be perfect . May we all reach there. Love yourself even if you not perfect...

    • @anisoabdi6262
      @anisoabdi6262 Год назад +4

      Alxamdulilah you get out off that situation

    • @yasmeenmohamed165
      @yasmeenmohamed165 Год назад +3

      @@anisoabdi6262 Alhamdulilah, brighter days ahead ia !

    • @fushi7853
      @fushi7853 Год назад +8

      This has touched me deeply ❤❤ you definitely deserve better than that

    • @oykuboraka
      @oykuboraka Год назад +7

      Allah created us perfectly sister, it's your ex-husband's eyes that didn't see the beauty, it's his heart that is blind. May Allah give you peace ❤

    • @hinakausar2322
      @hinakausar2322 Год назад +6

      Alhamdulillah that you got off the situation sister. May Allah (swt) reward you and your kids with the best in both the worlds.

  • @majeedatabdulmajeed1834
    @majeedatabdulmajeed1834 Год назад +41

    There is a way Nouman Ali Khan explains things that always leaves me in awe. It's like he is able to pick lessons and teach them in such a beautiful way. May Allah reward you and your team

  • @sabrinasamsuddin
    @sabrinasamsuddin Год назад +154

    I really needed to hear this. I feel worthless most of the time because many people wronged me. But I try to remind myself that Allah loves me thats why he has made me a Muslim.

    • @learnarabicwithwaed545
      @learnarabicwithwaed545 Год назад +2

      You are right

    • @narjisel8430
      @narjisel8430 Год назад +4

      There will be people who will love you one day insha Allah ❤

    • @sabrinasamsuddin
      @sabrinasamsuddin Год назад +2

      @@narjisel8430 thank you. And Alhamdulillah my family is very loving and supportive.

    • @monumsworld7531
      @monumsworld7531 Год назад +1

      Yes

    • @nusrahyahyanounou
      @nusrahyahyanounou Год назад +2

      I love you for the sake of Allah 🤍. you're not alone, Allah is always with us, He's the almighty and you are Allah's creation.. may Allah enable you and all of us to see know we're absolutely worthy❤

  • @aishamaryam68
    @aishamaryam68 Год назад +118

    I am one of those... Still working on it... May Allah help and guide all those who have insecurities, questionable self-worth and needs validation time to time...

    • @JDforeveralone
      @JDforeveralone Год назад +9

      Dear sister, this was indeed a beautiful reminder. Struggling with self worth sometimes comes from deep inside - the wounded child.
      Going back to our early years when we needed most valuation, acceptance, emotional attuned caregivers and so on. The healing journey can be long and prbly will be a life long. If anyone interested dr Kim sage has got some good videos on that subject.
      May Allah swt help us to really live up to our worth and therefore become better and stronger and may He help us esp with our children.

    • @fariyalsayed6730
      @fariyalsayed6730 Год назад +1

      Allah has programmed ladies that way sister. Know u r not alone and Rembr that this is a constant struggle .. may Allah guide us all.

  • @gewoonik4335
    @gewoonik4335 Год назад +22

    Its very important to value yourself
    To know your worth..
    Others will never respect you if you dont first respect yourself
    Every woman is a queen.
    Every person has worth

  • @beauty-Wellness
    @beauty-Wellness Год назад +57

    Indeed, Allah Has honored me and you.
    Love yourself no matter what by treating yourself kindly.

  • @Deen399
    @Deen399 Год назад +25

    I don’t think it’s as black and white, for long time I tried convincing myself that I don’t need validation when I have Allah, however it’s still a struggle - there’s childhood wounds and to add to that we are living in society where it’s all about external validation- it’s a real struggle. Growing up if you were harshly criticised and received no praise from parents you can see how own can seek it elsewhere- May Allah increase us all in healthy confidence and be satisfied with knowing he values us

    • @ammoniaburns4846
      @ammoniaburns4846 Год назад +3

      I'm drowning In the same pit. Growing up loveless and seeking external validation elsewhere when small things put me down so fast and I feel I have no purpose anymore. Feeling lonely all the time.

  • @tabassumkhan4570
    @tabassumkhan4570 10 месяцев назад +1

    When ever peoples put me down .I remembered the hadith our beloved prophet Muhammad saw the woman through rubbish on him and how he delt with it subhanaallah that give me strength to get on alhamdulillah. May Allah keep us on straight path aameen. It's seems difficult but it's very easy if we understand life purpose. Just to worship Allah swt.

  • @gewoonik4335
    @gewoonik4335 Год назад +25

    Love this video
    Selfrespect is also a protection against abuse.
    If people see that you have boundaries and loving yourself they cannot abuse you.
    Very important to love yourself.

  • @beauty-Wellness
    @beauty-Wellness Год назад +43

    You're a rare 'gem' Ustadh
    May Allah bless your knowledge

  • @sarahstarr
    @sarahstarr Год назад +18

    I so needed this reminder! Shaytan preys on our own self-doubts. May Allah protect us from shaytan and his companions. Aameen.

  • @Islam_2020
    @Islam_2020 Год назад +4

    ٱللَّٰهُمَّ صَلِّ عَلَىٰ مُحَمَّدٍ وَعَلَىٰ آلِ مُحَمَّدٍ كَمَا صَلَّيْتَ عَلَىٰ إِبْرَاهِيمَ وَعَلَىٰ آلِ إِبْرَاهِيمَ إِنَّكَ حَمِيدٌ مَجِيدٌ.
    ٱللَّٰهُمَّ بَارِكْ عَلَىٰ مُحَمَّدٍ وَعَلَىٰ آلِ مُحَمَّدٍ كَمَا بَارَكْتَ عَلَىٰ إِبْرَاهِيمَ وَعَلَىٰ آلِ إِبْرَاهِيمَ إِنَّكَ حَمِيدٌ مَجِيدٌ.

  • @daniellatan9016
    @daniellatan9016 Год назад +6

    Self love deficit disorder is a generational curse. It was how we were brought up as kids that made us believe we are not worthy

  • @treetop711
    @treetop711 Год назад +16

    This is such a needed video for this time. We are yet to establish why exactly we are in a global crisis of not valuing ourselves, it doesn’t quite compute what the source of this is. Nevertheless we need to find a way out of this demeaning belief system and get to a point where we truly respect ourselves.

  • @taqitahmid3504
    @taqitahmid3504 Год назад +21

    Amazed by how ustad explains this things....truly mesmerized

  • @atiabadat1579
    @atiabadat1579 Год назад +2

    Jazak Allah khair

  • @sriinsani8885
    @sriinsani8885 Год назад

    جزاكم الله خيرا كثيرا for you and team who has taught me this worth lesson. May Allah gives jannah to you, team and for us.

  • @rsh4564
    @rsh4564 Год назад +6

    Ustad Ji.
    I feel the same way when I look my past and haven't anything good in the way of All SWT. But to overcome on this I started Tahjjud and a kind of calmness and Help came from Allah SWT. Now I became a person who hopeful for a good End. JazakAllah Wassalam

  • @kausamsalam8543
    @kausamsalam8543 Год назад +12

    Great reminders. JazakAllah Khair.
    “One of the crises today”……so true.

  • @SerpilsDreams
    @SerpilsDreams Год назад +5

    May Allah strengthen our hearts and iman to go through hardships that make us feel worthless or vulnerable. -Reminder: Allah created us, he makes no mistakes!

  • @Khalid-horror
    @Khalid-horror Год назад +2

    جزاكم الله خيراً

  • @user-sl9tx3nr3r
    @user-sl9tx3nr3r 7 месяцев назад

    One of the greatest VideO came acrOss on RUclips ❤
    May Allah make us tO respect ourselves and believe on ourselves and do not let Satan tO convince us that we are LOSERS!
    Ameen!💕🤲

  • @nusratanjum6317
    @nusratanjum6317 Год назад +1

    The way he lifts up others by his speech>>>>>>>>

  • @farhayesmin351
    @farhayesmin351 Год назад +3

    ALHAMDULILLAH.... SUBHAN'ALLAH,..... ALLAHU AKBAR......LA ILAHA ILLALLAH MUHAMMADUR RASULALLAH ( S.A.W.).....

  • @deebaparveen6010
    @deebaparveen6010 Год назад +7

    Alhamdullilah I am so proud of you and being a student of Bayyinah institution ❤

  • @aimannasir3649
    @aimannasir3649 Год назад

    I've always suffered from low self esteem and these words make so much sense. May Allah protect us from shaytan

  • @smthinthisuniverse
    @smthinthisuniverse Год назад +1

    you're a blessing from allah to us, ustad nouman💗💗

  • @sabihakhan5240
    @sabihakhan5240 Год назад

    JazakAllahu Khairan

  • @aminayusuf3051
    @aminayusuf3051 Год назад +5

    Best lecture at the right time

  • @AhamedKabeer-wn1jb
    @AhamedKabeer-wn1jb Год назад

    Jazakallah Khair..

  • @aac199
    @aac199 Год назад +4

    I needed to hear this now.. Alhamdulillah!

  • @notknowntotheworld
    @notknowntotheworld Год назад

    This clip was treat to ears ❤️ JazakAllah-o-khair

  • @jaffarsamoon6711
    @jaffarsamoon6711 Год назад +1

    ❤ jazakallahu khair va alaikum Salaam wa Rahmatullah 🌹

  • @latifahabubakar6198
    @latifahabubakar6198 Год назад

    was at a point in my lif ethat needed to hear this. Indeed Allah knows what we want 🥰

  • @learnarabicwithwaed545
    @learnarabicwithwaed545 Год назад

    May Allah reward you with good and enlighten you with his noble light

  • @yourpalhal98
    @yourpalhal98 Год назад

    Thank you Ustadh. Really needed to hear this message right now.

  • @munirah90
    @munirah90 Год назад +5

    I am so thankful I listen to this today

  • @aeonosa2175
    @aeonosa2175 Год назад

    JazakAllah Khair

  • @Muhammad12035three
    @Muhammad12035three Год назад +1

    Thank you brother Nouman, May Allah Bless you ❤️

  • @hamixx1239
    @hamixx1239 Год назад +10

    Thank you so much for this beautiful message. May it reach those who really need it inshallah. Barakallahu fikum

  • @billybs9965
    @billybs9965 Год назад

    MashaAllah brother, that was beautiful! Allah bless you abundantly always that you may continue to help us along our journey to becoming better muslims! Ameen!

  • @nafuuuu7
    @nafuuuu7 Год назад

    I love listening this kind of vid, alhumdulliah for everything

  • @beautythatinspire
    @beautythatinspire Год назад +1

    MashaAllah! I needed to hear that today. Even though I am someone who tries to stay as positive as possible.. I was just struggling from past few days but after this video I'm back.. Loving myself for the sake of Allah SWT because he created me and he is the best ❤

  • @faizaabbasi302
    @faizaabbasi302 Год назад +5

    I like the way you explain its so simple and easy to grasp the concept. May Allah reward you. Jazakallahu khayran.

  • @sidimedsillim7273
    @sidimedsillim7273 Год назад

    MashaAllah. Really relevant !

  • @nurjansonday140
    @nurjansonday140 Год назад +1

    So so so important. Allah has named Himself our Cherisher, each and every one of us is important to Him.

  • @khadijamazhar1652
    @khadijamazhar1652 Год назад +2

    I deeply respect you from the day I ever saw your first clip cuz idk your words are sooooooo powerful everytime I see/hear I get the exect point what you try to tell

  • @asiyakhanum9084
    @asiyakhanum9084 Год назад

    Amazing this is something everyone should listen to this. May allah bless you. Best bayan every.Thank you ❤

  • @peacepeace4256
    @peacepeace4256 Год назад

    SubhanAllah! Allahu Akbar!Alhamdulillah!

  • @khadijafatima9240
    @khadijafatima9240 5 месяцев назад

    O Allah, make my religion easy for me by virtue of which my affairs are protected, set right for me my world where my life exists, make good for me my Hereafter which is my resort to which I have to return, and make my life prone to perform all types of good, and make death a comfort for me from every evil.”

  • @nazimabhat7520
    @nazimabhat7520 Год назад +2

    Jazakallah khair....i got this lecture at the perfect time#present need

  • @rashedrahim5038
    @rashedrahim5038 Год назад

    Thanks for the reminder and for the way you explain things brother Nouman.

  • @rhuvaen
    @rhuvaen Год назад

    Barakallahu Fik and your whole team 🙏🏼🖤

  • @maryamfathollahi4315
    @maryamfathollahi4315 Год назад

    May allah reward the people putting the effort for these videos reaching me

  • @aymanqureshi
    @aymanqureshi Год назад

    SubhanAllah what a great way of looking at it! Love how nouman Ali khan is always optimist like a good Muslim

  • @sarahbrahem3541
    @sarahbrahem3541 Год назад

    I admire this man, I love all what he says

  • @saimaattashah3142
    @saimaattashah3142 Год назад +1

    So true bro Allah bless you

  • @sohaibkhan883
    @sohaibkhan883 Год назад +6

    Amazing 😍 lecture
    May Allah bless you ✨🤲

  • @saimakhan5887
    @saimakhan5887 Год назад +1

    Whenever I feel worthless or down,I found such kind of words by you Respected brother. I really like the way you clarify the meaning of to be worthy. Thanks for sharing, be blessed 🙏😭

  • @oumarsakho9769
    @oumarsakho9769 Год назад +1

    Alhamdulillâhi Rabbil âlamiin.
    Allâhumma Salli alâ Seyyidinâ Mawlâna Muhammadin Wa Sallim.
    Thank you for sharing your knowledge with us. May ALLÂH SWT Rewards.

  • @maymunasavant1687
    @maymunasavant1687 Год назад

    Mashaallah. Excellent. I really appreciate and enjoy your lectures. Shukran

  • @linamalik7933
    @linamalik7933 Год назад +3

    Thank you so much .. i have been struggling lately with my self-esteem.. and how much unworthy i felt .. your words went right through me .. i appreciate every single word you said .. thank you shaikh may allah bless you 🕊️

  • @sumaiyakolad5582
    @sumaiyakolad5582 Год назад

    May Allah grant you Jannah!!

  • @mohdnorzaihar2632
    @mohdnorzaihar2632 Год назад +9

    IQ + EQ + GUIDANCE = TRUTH
    Assalamualaiqum wmt

  • @brainyrays
    @brainyrays Год назад

    This is really for us ❤ ustadh a big blessing ❤

  • @scarlett5866
    @scarlett5866 Год назад

    Mashalaah ❤

  • @peaceethio7623
    @peaceethio7623 Год назад +4

    Good reminder!!!

  • @jamesgund007
    @jamesgund007 Год назад

    Love this dude MashaAllah

  • @kimberlyalostaz3192
    @kimberlyalostaz3192 Год назад

    Thank you. This has hit a chord in me today.

  • @shanaazshaik1966
    @shanaazshaik1966 Год назад

    Salaams..always looking forward to your khutbah. Jazakallah

  • @TechTalk5432
    @TechTalk5432 Год назад +3

    Beautiful lecture. 💚

  • @ILearnOnYoutube
    @ILearnOnYoutube Год назад

    This is the real motivation ✔️💯

  • @journeywithself
    @journeywithself Год назад

    Jzk
    Your much is much appreciated
    May Allah reward you and guide us

  • @hamza2651
    @hamza2651 Год назад +1

    im in shock right now, thanks

  • @Twin.Tastic
    @Twin.Tastic Год назад

    Thank you. I have fwded this to my children. It was very very eye opening. You have taught us a lot.

  • @DrMom00
    @DrMom00 Год назад

    Ya Allah !!! This is sooo important!!! I understand now the trap !!!

  • @sumayomaxamuud6486
    @sumayomaxamuud6486 Год назад

    Happy Ramadan Mubarak ✨ may Allah bless you and team

  • @awarebrain
    @awarebrain Год назад

    Jazak allahu khair ustad Nouman and team for all the efforts you people are making for us and generations to come....I am waiting for the day when I can buy the subscription....and one day to become the ustaad like you and join your team insha allah...

  • @hajirasabir806
    @hajirasabir806 Год назад

    SubhanAllah wabiham dehee SubhanAllah hilazeem

  • @xenaccafraser7751
    @xenaccafraser7751 Год назад

    thank you, I really needed to hear this today

  • @salmahassan7659
    @salmahassan7659 Год назад

    فتح الله عليك وجزاك الله كل خير يارب العالمين 🤲

  • @lubnamaitlo9659
    @lubnamaitlo9659 Год назад

    Maa sha Allah

  • @neirasworld
    @neirasworld Год назад

    Thank you for this!

  • @sanahameed4205
    @sanahameed4205 Год назад

    there is a boundry between being humble and valueing urself and every one needs to understand the limits.....

  • @Adelisaskitchen
    @Adelisaskitchen Год назад

    Amazing lecture - May God bless you - Amin 🤲🏼

  • @onlyyoutube6824
    @onlyyoutube6824 Год назад

    You saved my life, thank you 😊

  • @amiyarmoss
    @amiyarmoss Год назад

    Thank you for this topic brother May Allah bless you

  • @mubashrariaz2487
    @mubashrariaz2487 Год назад +2

    Best lecture ❤❤❤

  • @Eessanaeem
    @Eessanaeem Год назад

    Excellent and thorough, as usual!

  • @kausharpathan2851
    @kausharpathan2851 Год назад +1

    Jazaq Allahukum khairan Shaikh💐💐💐💐💐 sometimes it's about learning and understanding the efforts of someone else by putting your feet in their shoes. Sometimes it's about moulding yourself enough times again and again to become better and sometimes it's about testing yourself . Just to see the miracle with your own eyes and experience the miracle from within. Sometimes it's about finding the answer that is it really true about a human being? About Adam A. S.? Is he really better than the other creation of Allah subhannahu wa taala? How is he better than other creation? In which Way is a human being better than the other creations? 💐💐💐💐💐

  • @Nickcity216
    @Nickcity216 Год назад

    Good point I think he should focus on the benefits of self respect more then the negatives.

  • @madress4355
    @madress4355 Год назад

    سبحان الله💗

  • @zaranawaz3168
    @zaranawaz3168 Год назад

    At 1.50 I just called my mom , after bouts of depression through the years, tonight was ft like eternity of suffering. I felt I was done. I despite moving places couldn't respect myself because no one else ever did. But I was about to find a video to go sleep in peace. Allah showed this to me. Allah exists. Allah sees. I saw this.

  • @mrcute4584
    @mrcute4584 Год назад +1

    Thank you

  • @zakarianafiee
    @zakarianafiee Год назад

    this got me shook wallah

  • @hairyaebdullah2172
    @hairyaebdullah2172 Год назад

    I remember a narration regarding a youth that spoke such negative self talk to rasuul as, the nabi turned to him and told him no to the negative names of him self and reminded him he was aebdullah, and that is a grand thing

  • @mohdnorzaihar2632
    @mohdnorzaihar2632 Год назад +1

    we were "alive without breathing" in our mothers womb and this real gave us some clue about "alive without breathing realm" hereafter..
    assalamualaiqum

  • @CynthiaAishaMeguid
    @CynthiaAishaMeguid Год назад

    SubhanAllah