Vydio true this goes to show that the system is trash they need to have DNA done before trying to collect someone hard earned money regardless if you married or not it should be mandatory
No doubt if she had the money she would but its a lot of money in CS accumulated over time, and its a stretch to think she will be able to repay him. This is why the judge said there is no guarantee he will get the money back. Judge probably said that to get the mother off the hook as she is stating on film infront of a judge that she will pay him back and the man could potentially get a judgment against her based on that. With the "disclaimer" said by the Judge, the lady is off the hook for repayment. Guy seems like a decent man so he stands a good chance of letting it go seeing how it would be a financial burden on the child.
@@ShaniRashida Judge Lauren made it clear to the man that despite what the mother was promising (to repay the money from CS), he may in fact not be legally entitled to it. Yes, her statement may be on film, but the law may technically say she doesn't have to. Just because you say something doesn't necessarily mean you have to legally follow through. BIG difference.
I have a lot of respect for Mustafa! He endured some challenges created by someone else's lack of responsibility. But in the end, the truth gave him positive closure, and he was still forgiving! Much respect!
@@ms.ladysanders3939 legally is WRONG. Try to really find the man first, you have some women who lie and purposely give the wrong address so the man can miss court.
An he deserves his money back but more than likely won’t get it back. They way child support is set up it’s really unfair. I think dna test should be mandatory when a child is born. It ruins a lot of men’s lives. Some never get papers saying they need to take a paternity test due to address changes and not being home. They get labeled as the father. If a woman knows she slept with more than 1 man and the man is proven not to be the dad the woman should go to jail or have some kind of repercussion. I also think it shouldn’t be a statue of limitations on proving your not the father. In Texas if a man is on the birth certificate 4 years or more legally he’s the dad no matter what dna says.
@@joselingalvanhernandez874 They should but they don't always do it. A man can become father by default if he signs the birth certificate, is married, or he misses his court date to disputes paying child support.
She knew. Her closing statement was “I wanted him to be the parent because he’s more responsible” like she can sleep around and handpluck her best prospect. Story old as time
Yeah. You don’t have time to play court games when the bills keep coming! Men are killing themselves to live and pay child support and avoid going to jail. The law is Broken!!!
True, but he should have kept communication open with her - daily. That's what you do when you're in a relationship with someone. Still, that doesn't justify her moving someone else in a week or even a month after he was gone.
@@fancybrooks3156 You do not need to talk to someone DAILY. She's just his gf. Talking to her twice a week is enough if he is spending time with his child. I do not need to talk to my man EVERY DAY. I have my own life and he has his.
I like he actively goes and sees his son living elsewhere and makes sure he is a priority. Not picking up a phone to make sure his kid knows hes before his gf. Strong daddy skills!
I don’t think the judge was asking him to continue to be there for the child but show some compassion in that his money did not go to waste, to each it’s own but coming from a caring person IDC if a stranger is in the grocery store every week asking for milk Im going to buy that milk for an innocent child
When he said his gf left him bc she didn’t want to deal with the drama, I FELT THAT. It’s taken a lot to stay with my husband bc of his ex. But HES more important to me than her mouth is.
When I saw my ex boyfriends ex jump to his car window while in movement with a 5 month pregnancy belly the day we were supposed to fix things, I knew I did not wanted to deal with her. First and last time I interacted with that woman.
Her: what have you done for her? Uumm... He's paying more child support for your child than for the son he knows is his. I hope he gets his money back. She knew all along, that's why she started crying as soon as the results were about to be revealed. Her free money is gone.
“Why is who I’m sleeping with so important 🥴” Uhm…. because you are in paternity court to find out who fathered your child 💁🏽♀️ Women be knowing they sleeping around and still have the audacity to be defensive and snarky 🙄
EXACTLY- her talkin about “why isnit so important who i sleep with??” B*TCH YOURE A WOMAN, YOURE THE ONE GETTING PREGNANT, OFC WERE GONNA BE ASKIN ABT THAT
Marion Smith That’s normal procedure. You are entitled to a paternity test. Boys from the ghetto usually miss that court appointment and end up paying by default.
@@charlesanderson1422 stop being trash. The played out stereotypes in which you sew into the racial system of America to support it is down right disgusting.
Well in the case of marriage, the husband is the presumed father. But with the craziness of society and lack of respect for God's rule, mandatory DNA should be part of newborn assessment; keeping everyone’s emotions in check: ⚖️it’s the 🏛🗽
@@grammyj17988 That is the problem. Courts shouldn't ever presume you are guilty first. In this country you are to be presumed innocent until proven guilty. There is zero justice in just destroying lives without proof.
And it's easy too get away with. I know females who make up a father. Choose a name even make up one. Then a made up address and bam she has a baby daddy
And a lot of these men get put in jail for non payment or falling behind, yet they still keep ringing up that child support amount while their in custody, living off the state w/ no way of providing anything to anyone including themselves. Most of them lose whatever job they had because they were sent to jail. That blows my mind. It's so wrong.. This system HAS to change.
The last few minutes of the show was a scene taken straight out of Maury all we needed was Mr.Matlock to do a backfip and a cameraman chasing Ms. Monroe
Family I went back to hear what he said he said he works 85 to 90 hours every 2 weeks and that comes out to 300! Brother it looks like you need to find another job I see why he is so adamant about that money at the end 😂
BRO THE ENTITLEMENT FROM THE MOM OMLLLLL He has every right to be mad honestly but also WOW he said “we’re still good” he is way nicer than I would’ve been in that situation Poor kid, I hope she has somewhat of a good childhood
"I wanted him to be the father because he's more responsible". You don't get to lay down with multiple people and choose 1 father the same way you choose which shoes you wearing for the day. Smh
THANK YOU!!! Please say it again for the the future, aaahhh, moms, that will be on Paternity Court and really have no idea which of multiple guys is the true bio-dad!
He was kind of showboating at first (understandable because he's probably frustrated), but he really calmed down once the judge pointed out that the money was for an innocent kid.
@@esthernyanchama3522 in the end I feel like even after doing such horrible acts she said that she won't take his child support even if the court makes her cus her baby ain't his, that shows some repentance atleast
Why is yelling at him like its his fault she was sleeping with multiple people. Side note: the judge needs to stop encouraging men to feel good about taking care of kids that are not theirs. No way you look at it, it is not a good thing. Its a hindrance for these men, and misleading for the children.
I think she was trying to make sure the guy didn't feel used, because he had gone through so much over this...It was a move to defuse a hostile situation.
@@LC-uz6em i have to disagree. She does this often. I think its to make the men feel better about the situation. And if it works for them then cool. But its still wrong.
@@anbriannadixon6442 yeah, she even tries to encourage them to continue caring for children that aren't theirs in toxic relationships. I've never seen that work
Like he said, his ACTUAL child could have benefited from the money he has been paying for someone else's child. And that little girl's father could have been in her life for the prior five years. So now what will happen when the mother catches up with the real father? Is he going to be immediately charged with back child support?
Should but most states don't allow it. Or rather, most women who pull this stuff don't have the money to pay it back. But rarely are they thrown in jail for that.
"I wants my money back", I like him, he funny. How dare the beautiful Judge Lake make him feel better about paying money on a child that he could have been using for his biological child.
locdsongbird Jackson she real wrong for that. Like I hate when they try and see a good in situation no she owe him his money. She knew it wasn’t his child but she took advantage and mad she got caught in her disgusting lies
she said that b/c in some states u wont get back the child support since it was used on the child. hes gonna need some words to feel better just in case.
@Hopeless in Nyc he probably didnt recieve the first court letter bcuz he was gone off to the other woman and son playing house w her. When he got back he missed that court date. 😂
@@asuraXTC "Don't ask for it back"??!! That's money that could've gone to himself, his wife, or his son. He just took care of this lady and her child by another man. I would want my money back too, at least she still has the things from the money he contributed he ain't gon' take her baby clothes, food back, just the money she owes him.
Mob Mentality on everything she getting more money for a little girl that ain’t his then his. Go tell ya son the reason he went without cause you giving money to some random kid.
@@shaleymetzler8128 people need to understand that not everything is about child support. Some women wouldn't even be bothered. Some responsible men in relationships with the mother and playing vital role in the life of the child and has means to take care of the child wouldn't even be bothered. The child knows who raised him and cared for him and hopefully would not forget the the man when he make it later in life.
Thank you, Matlock. Keep this friendship and forget about the payback. The Mum will make sure the little girl never forget this and you. Keep the love.
Jealous absolutely! She felt like his son was taking away from her daughter and so did the other baby mama. Except she had no right to feel that way when she was recieving money for a child she didnt think was his.
@@AuroraLalune 1. He didn't disappear. She knew where he was at.. 2. You are choosing to believe her over him.. HE SAID HE WAS GONE 1 WEEK.. she said he was gone for 1 month.. Somebody lying.. and we don't know which one.. No evidence was presented to back either claim.. How did you come to the conclusion, that what she said was the REAL truth?
@@brooklynforever1990 they get child support and put in jail for not paying it. That's what men get. What do women get for lying & being deadbeats themselves? I'll wait 🤔
Opinionated Lady yel he needs to pursue and get every dime back and this guy needs to start wrapping up! He already said almost all his paycheck is gone!
I think she was trying to make him feel better about the fact that he probably isn't going to get his money back... idk if a lawsuit would work unless he can prove she knew it wasn't his child.
That’s not fair what the judge is saying to him about child support! Women should give the money back ! That’s not right ! If he was the father and he had not been paying he would owe back child support!
Thats not what shes saying. Ffs! Shes saying he most likely wont get it back at all. But what he did do made a difference in this littl girls life. She was praising him.
He can’t get it back , maybe in civil court. He had to sign papers of acknowledgment, at that point if he had said he had doubt then paternity would have been set up instead. . He had an right to object . Once u say yes that’s my child it goes straight to child support .
Facts!!! Judge Lake even paused at ARE... and her eyes remained teary because she knew it wasn't going to be his. She really took that walk of shame out the courtoom too smh
Exactly..private DNA test..It's embarrassing of these women not to know. Its shocking how many of them there are..I mean a whole show with many seasons on this topic
@@scadet718 It's not. They get a free trip to the show, hotel for the night, and MAYBE $500. That's not enough money for anybody to embarrass themselves on TV unless they have no shame to begin with.
" I'm pregnant and you are not the father" " You have to pay child support because you are the father" " I will stop child support because now I know you are not the father" " I pinned him because he would be a good father" And then she claimed 10 times atleast that she was being honest 😂. She is deceptive but trying to act honesty to get him back.
I didn't take it as her saying he shouldn't want his money back, I think she was just trying to ease his frustration by reminding him that it went to a good cause, in case he is not awarded money back.
she knows he wouldnt get it back anyway as he didnt turn up to court so he was made the father by default she just happened to say it in another way that at least the money helped this young child
I hated it because again a man is required to comfort a woman when she’s at fault. Thus eliminating her accountability for lying, cheating and basically stealing his money, time, emotions, and reputation. She needs to pay period.
@@irvinggreene4086 I can definitely see your point of view. And yes, I do agree that she should be held accountable for her actions. I think I took a liking to him because I, too am not a grudge holder. U will get what's coming to u but it wont be by my hand.
“When you do look at this little girl, at least you can say that you have provided for this child.” I really wouldn’t care, that’s money that could’ve been provided to my REAL child, point blank period. Her mother should’ve been supplying that money, not him.
The judge's remarks regarding being happy about paying child support was ludicrous. The only way to stop such fraud is for the courts to command retribution.
She ain't fooling nobody with that outfit that she probably had to borrow from her mother, because I'm sure most of her gear don't cover much of her body.
I knew he wasn’t the father when I saw the side by side. I do feel that if a man isn’t proven to be the biological father, he should automatically get that money back.
As bad as this actually was, it's amazing to see both of them be civil in the end. He even goes as far as to say that they're still good. That is true friendship right there. They are both hurt and that man spent a lot of money on a child that is not even his, and yet he looked past that and wants to keep their friendship steady. A horrible situation turned into something they handled better than a lot of others even could have tried.
Cordell Soileau you’re right but it’s not a week either is it? So he was gone for a month & after the first week ( in the preceding month ) she moved the boyfriend in! Which is what he said.
Makes ZERO sense. After that statement, her arguments are weak and ridiculous. And the crazy thing is her statement was correct but I guess her other options disappeared and she doubled back and started hollering he was the Daddy. Ugh.
The fact that he had to work overtime is just sad, so if he don’t get his money back I’m gonna be mad Edit:AWOOGA👨🏽🦯🧍🏽♀️ when did I get so many likes- thanks yall
She just wanted comfort under the sheet. Dwl!! Some women do not place any value n them self, that is why men treat them the way they do. We have to love and respect ourselves.
@@patriciawhite1664 I think it's really about people being weak to the desire of the flesh. No self-discipline. The one benefit out of committing infidelity, which could ruin everything, is somehow enough to go forward with it. They throw their morals and respect for their partner out of the window because they have pathetically surrendered to their selfish spirit at that moment. To me, such an act clearly means you don't love the person. Normally, you leave the person alone if you are not in love with them. But some folks want to have their cake and eat it too, putting their partner on the back burner to get something at home as well. They possess an immature, selfish spirit, I tell you.
@@patriciawhite1664 Right! No concern for their partner's health. Too much selfish behavior. Folks really have no problem intentionally and unjustifiably hurting others.
I find it funny that she was quick to give his name and get child support by default but didn't volunteer the other guy's name. She should have to pay back every dime he paid her because she knew from day one there was more than one possibility.
escapepr I hate the super obvious questions Judge Lake asks! Sir she slept with 14 men unprotected all within 3 days, but why do you doubt that you’re the father? 🙄 At times I skip to the end for the result, it seems like they’re just extending the episode.
@@mahandrews8074 in a court of law BOTH parties must be heard out. it doesn't matter if it might seem unnecessary. one person'/side's testimony is not enough.
Child support needs to start making DNA before taking man money.
They do if they man don't show up he will be put on it. And you have to pay for the test to be done
@@kendrajohnson7499 they do nowadays...well in my state they do. It's mandatory unless the man say he doesn't want one and take all responsibility.
They do, some men are dumb and dont protest aka waive that right or like a previous person said dont show & then by default they are the father.
They do today in my state. A good friend of mines son went through this. They sent him the paper in the mail.
Agree and I am a woman.
He had his own biological children the money could have gone to. He has every right to be mad.
Vydio true this goes to show that the system is trash they need to have DNA done before trying to collect someone hard earned money regardless if you married or not it should be mandatory
@@willanthaclarke37 Absolutely. If this was my son I'd say get a DNA test before you put your name on that birth certificate.
How about not getting in this situation in the first place. These people are messed up.
@@willanthaclarke37 on
@@Vydio Exactly!! That's what mama's do!!
Give him his money back like he said. That could've been money on his own child. Can't get mad at him for wanting his money back.
No doubt if she had the money she would but its a lot of money in CS accumulated over time, and its a stretch to think she will be able to repay him. This is why the judge said there is no guarantee he will get the money back. Judge probably said that to get the mother off the hook as she is stating on film infront of a judge that she will pay him back and the man could potentially get a judgment against her based on that. With the "disclaimer" said by the Judge, the lady is off the hook for repayment. Guy seems like a decent man so he stands a good chance of letting it go seeing how it would be a financial burden on the child.
Well now there’s video evidence of her stating she’ll give him his money back so HES GETTING HIS MONEY BACK! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@@ShaniRashida Judge Lauren made it clear to the man that despite what the mother was promising (to repay the money from CS), he may in fact not be legally entitled to it. Yes, her statement may be on film, but the law may technically say she doesn't have to. Just because you say something doesn't necessarily mean you have to legally follow through. BIG difference.
And the judge saying she can’t guarantee he can get the money back but oh yes he can!.. it’s called small claims court or suing period. 🤷🏽♀️
eshia'janell That is a mess up situation . But personally I wouldn’t ask for the money back . He seems like a real good man ...
I know Mustafa personally and he is absolutely like this all the time. He’s one of the funniest people I know.
Bless his heart. Man sounds like a real decent guy.
Is he still paying child support?
He seems like a hilariously keep it real good hearted dude. And he’s forgiving like crazy!!!
I have a lot of respect for Mustafa! He endured some challenges created by someone else's lack of responsibility. But in the end, the truth gave him positive closure, and he was still forgiving! Much respect!
Well if you know him...please tell him he has a career in acting....comedy. He so reminds me of Nick Cannon....and a little of the Wayan bros.
Why she put this man on child support without knowing he's the father. Women should be put in jail for doing this.
Roderick Sears A man can't be put on child support unless he doesn't show up at court.
@@ms.ladysanders3939 legally is WRONG. Try to really find the man first, you have some women who lie and purposely give the wrong address so the man can miss court.
@@FaithandNova When they get the deduction, they have the right to go to court and have it reversed.
Because he’s a good man
@@ms.ladysanders3939 this is a honest question. If a woman claims a random man to be the father will he still have to go to court?
Yo this guy is a whole vibe, he has his story straight. I believe him n I respect that.
samantha brown women always taking advantage of good men
@@coolkidzmedia3259 I agree n its really sad
Coolkidz Media and that’s how those good men turn into so called “dogs”
"A whole vibe"😂😂 I love that
samantha brown I love him 😂😂😂
She knew he wasn’t the father, she took advantage of his kindness!!!
Exactly. What goes around comes around one way or another
And he allowed her to sadly... No one can hurt us unless we let them..
@@antayafairless9028 shut up😒
Tank Beast what’d they do to you?
@@crying.isnt.like.you_4857 blame that guy when its 100% her fault
Child support should never be granted without a DNA test.
Period.
EVER
Correct..
I agree but government doesn’t care they just want their cut
Yes, absolutely correct 💯
What if men keep dodging the test tho? That’s why it’s in place that way but i do think they should have at least 3 chances to make it to court.
My sentiments exactly.
This man knows his dates and he's a real comedian.
That's my boss
He was my trainer at my current job. This guy is awesome!
@@katyking8436 Are you joking?
@@paulmangoma9934 seems no
Heather Gabriel never met anyone who’s spelt the word ‘flaws’ so incorrectly 😭😂
I like the man's attitude, handled the court in a humorous but confident way till the truth was revealed.
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I believed every word that came of that guy's mouth he was just to confident to be lying
I like how in your comment u didn't spoil what the ending actually was. 😎
SAMEEEEEEEE HAHHA
Roberto Brown yass that was very funny 😂
👱🏻♀️“ I wanted him to be the father because he’s more responsible.”
🤬, that is not how pregnancy works!
Courtney Harris right if you WOULDVE kept your legs closed 🙄
Alana Myeshia lol
Alana Myeshia lol
I don't know why but that red emoji made me laugh
She knew what she was doing whole time
The SASS when he said “That Jerome” Slayyyy😭😂💅🏾💅🏾
"I KNEW IT, I KNEW IT, I want my money back!!!"
An he deserves his money back but more than likely won’t get it back. They way child support is set up it’s really unfair. I think dna test should be mandatory when a child is born. It ruins a lot of men’s lives. Some never get papers saying they need to take a paternity test due to address changes and not being home. They get labeled as the father. If a woman knows she slept with more than 1 man and the man is proven not to be the dad the woman should go to jail or have some kind of repercussion. I also think it shouldn’t be a statue of limitations on proving your not the father. In Texas if a man is on the birth certificate 4 years or more legally he’s the dad no matter what dna says.
They should check the child’s DNA before they make them pay child support
The pronunciation of the T in that word took my soul 😂😂💀💀
@@joselingalvanhernandez874 They should but they don't always do it. A man can become father by default if he signs the birth certificate, is married, or he misses his court date to disputes paying child support.
This guy is very funny 😂
She knew. Her closing statement was “I wanted him to be the parent because he’s more responsible” like she can sleep around and handpluck her best prospect. Story old as time
blackpoes I call it sheer wickedness
Most of them think that way.
What she means is he gives me child support and money to take care of the child the other dosn't lol
That’s literally what horses do. This woman is a horse.
Well said.
When that first $360 came out my account I would have been at the court so quick for my DNA test. I don't play about my money.
Facts
Truth!!!
@misspudding87 Girl ain't that right!(smh)
Yeah. You don’t have time to play court games when the bills keep coming! Men are killing themselves to live and pay child support and avoid going to jail. The law is Broken!!!
By that time in Georgia it would be too late!
That young Man is a GREAT Father and a even better person. He’s a stand up guy. ❤️👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Judge! Stop making these innocent men feel guilty. 🙄
ty
Forreal it’s annoying.
FACTS she is always doin that
Exactly
@@hallmarr even after proving that they're right
I’m so glad he said that he shouldn’t drop what he’s doing with his son to talk to her, this is how all men should be... your child comes first.
Exactly. I wouldn't have a man who didn't put their child first.
True, but he should have kept communication open with her - daily. That's what you do when you're in a relationship with someone. Still, that doesn't justify her moving someone else in a week or even a month after he was gone.
some women cant understand that
@@fancybrooks3156 You do not need to talk to someone DAILY. She's just his gf. Talking to her twice a week is enough if he is spending time with his child. I do not need to talk to my man EVERY DAY. I have my own life and he has his.
@@fancybrooks3156 RIGHT. She moves FAST 😳
When Jerome said “it’s not mine” I DIED 😂😂🤣🤣😭😭😭😭😭
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
🤣🤣🤣
Lol
Timelapse please😓
When the judge said you better leave Jerome alone I almost fainted...lol
I like he actively goes and sees his son living elsewhere and makes sure he is a priority. Not picking up a phone to make sure his kid knows hes before his gf. Strong daddy skills!
Instead of doing those long shifts he may as well try Comedy as a side hustle.
True, true.
Joseph Musembi exactly
The it’s not mine act
he needs to start a RUclips channel if anything! He's entertaining to watch
Lol
It's not his responsibility. Stop trying to guilt men into taking care of kids that ain't theirs
u have a point (from a female)
I don’t think the judge was asking him to continue to be there for the child but show some compassion in that his money did not go to waste, to each it’s own but coming from a caring person IDC if a stranger is in the grocery store every week asking for milk Im going to buy that milk for an innocent child
@@coreejacobs4780 yes she does...she always does...
Right!! I totally agree with you.
@@coreejacobs4780 That's because that's your CHOICE.
Mandated child support, backed by threat of jail, for a child that isn't yours is NOT the same.
He paid $21,600 for a baby that wasn’t even his. Smh .
"18 years. 18 years. And on the 18th birthday, found out it wasn't his?!"
Many men have done it, only the smart ones get relieved of this additional financial burden.
That's disgusting, she said he might not recieve all that money back! I think a DNA test is required for child support
Yall missing the point. What about that little girl?
katherine RoseMore that was his responsibility he went to jail an lost relationships because the lady’s lies she knew it was his
When he said his gf left him bc she didn’t want to deal with the drama, I FELT THAT. It’s taken a lot to stay with my husband bc of his ex. But HES more important to me than her mouth is.
When I saw my ex boyfriends ex jump to his car window while in movement with a 5 month pregnancy belly the day we were supposed to fix things, I knew I did not wanted to deal with her. First and last time I interacted with that woman.
so basically you're trashier than OP is, that's what you're saying, correct? checks out, you look like a red flag to be fair
I can’t stand when one party keeps interrupting the other.
Yes I hate that , and just disrespectful to the judge
Amen buddy
I keep hollering, " please shut-up!"
@anger & rage She really needs to get control in her court. She lets people bud in, and try to over-talk the other person. Not good !
Times like these I wish Judge Judy was presiding over these cases
Her: she’s not your child
Also her: what have you done for her !!?
Make it make senseeeee !!
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😂🤣😭
I know right
Her: what have you done for her?
Uumm... He's paying more child support for your child than for the son he knows is his.
I hope he gets his money back. She knew all along, that's why she started crying as soon as the results were about to be revealed. Her free money is gone.
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Judge Lake, THAT’s NOT HIS CHILD. STOP PUTTING THAT ON THESE MEN!
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Bro got what he was searching for
right. she gets on my nerves with tht
She is bias to men in her court.
@@arieltaylor6070 i'm agree with you but, I 'think she wants that every children have a father figure ...
“Why is who I’m sleeping with so important 🥴”
Uhm…. because you are in paternity court to find out who fathered your child 💁🏽♀️
Women be knowing they sleeping around and still have the audacity to be defensive and snarky 🙄
EXACTLY- her talkin about “why isnit so important who i sleep with??” B*TCH YOURE A WOMAN, YOURE THE ONE GETTING PREGNANT, OFC WERE GONNA BE ASKIN ABT THAT
Women may be sleeping around but they aren’t doing it doing it alone!!
Yea, that's why I don't support all women.
@@conniebell7987
GOOD POINT!
@@conniebell7987 However, unless they are being sexually assaulted, it's consensual. What's your particular point and how does it relate to this case?
Mr. Matlock is quite a character very hilarious and he seems like a genuinely good person.
Agreed, good personality and seems like a good dude. Especially how he treated her at the end during their interview.
@@lovethatforyou533 Right he said we got it handled. No hard feelings going forward.
Yes he is a stand up dude.
Angel Lady Race has nothing to do with this you sound ignorant bye 👋
@Angel Lady Grazy ignorant girl!
Paternity fraud should be a crime. Paternity tests should be mandatory at birth by law. I would want all of my money back as well.
Agreed hope u get every penny back
U killed it men when u said I want my money' back😂
Agree!!
They shouldn’t be mandatory ppl should just be more responsible but unfortunately we can’t force ppl to care for themselves or children
The most you can do is protect and worry ab YOU and YOURS
The judge should order D N A testing before ordering child support.
Marion Smith That’s normal procedure. You are entitled to a paternity test. Boys from the ghetto usually miss that court appointment and end up paying by default.
Jeffrey. M. Leaving
@@charlesanderson1422 stop being trash. The played out stereotypes in which you sew into the racial system of America to support it is down right disgusting.
@@charlesanderson1422 I agree.
I agree
I hate how the courts will still make the man pay despite having proof that they are not the father. They really need to fix that ASAP!!
Well in the case of marriage, the husband is the presumed father. But with the craziness of society and lack of respect for God's rule, mandatory DNA should be part of newborn assessment; keeping everyone’s emotions in check: ⚖️it’s the 🏛🗽
I'm SO GLAD that I don't have kids. So. Glad.
Well, the child's interest is always prioritized, but the mothers too should be sued for paternity fraud.
@@grammyj17988 That is the problem. Courts shouldn't ever presume you are guilty first. In this country you are to be presumed innocent until proven guilty. There is zero justice in just destroying lives without proof.
@@OswaldBatesIIIEsq I have children. I have NEVER had this issue. Children are not the problem. Dishonest and immoral parents are the problem.
Imagine how many men went through the same thing. The system needs to be reevaluated. Its wack!
Totally agree
And it's easy too get away with. I know females who make up a father. Choose a name even make up one. Then a made up address and bam she has a baby daddy
Imagine how many men are out here not paying, a whole lot more than those who are, the system should definitely be re-evaluated
I did lol
And a lot of these men get put in jail for non payment or falling behind, yet they still keep ringing up that child support amount while their in custody, living off the state w/ no way of providing anything to anyone including themselves. Most of them lose whatever job they had because they were sent to jail. That blows my mind. It's so wrong.. This system HAS to change.
Mr. Matlock: I know who the FATHER of my son is ..... “ME” 😂😂😂
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@S R I know. It was such a missed opportunity.
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Chashe' Sings that comment took me out 😂
The last few minutes of the show was a scene taken straight out of Maury all we needed was Mr.Matlock to do a backfip and a cameraman chasing Ms. Monroe
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Lawd 😩 😂
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Family I went back to hear what he said he said he works 85 to 90 hours every 2 weeks and that comes out to 300! Brother it looks like you need to find another job I see why he is so adamant about that money at the end 😂
Yes cause she just ran out of there TO TAKE THE RUN OF SHAME as they all do on Maury😹😹 SHE'S A WHO'RE
BRO THE ENTITLEMENT FROM THE MOM OMLLLLL He has every right to be mad honestly but also WOW he said “we’re still good” he is way nicer than I would’ve been in that situation
Poor kid, I hope she has somewhat of a good childhood
God bless him and the people who raised him because he has more character than many.
I totally agree!!!
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This is very touching!!! Really, all these shows are touching. The ones who mostly suffers are the children
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"I wanted him to be the father because he's more responsible". You don't get to lay down with multiple people and choose 1 father the same way you choose which shoes you wearing for the day. Smh
THANK YOU!!! Please say it again for the the future, aaahhh, moms, that will be on Paternity Court and really have no idea which of multiple guys is the true bio-dad!
Mom at 8:10 “Why is everybody I mess with so important? It Ain’t!”
17:55 (crying) I wanted him to be the father because he’s more responsible”
+bryon martin she could have at least used protection.
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Facts been with mine since I was 16
"That could be Jerome's baby"
"You talm bout this Jerome?!"
"THAT Jerome 😂😂😂"
Lashay Wood 😂😂😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣 that was the best part
I was looking for this comment. Jerome was like leave me out of this 🤣🤣🤣🤣
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The guys character is crazy, I like him.. Especially when he said, "the child could be Jeromes baby"🤣🤣🤣
He’s a good guy and handled this very mature. He even comforted her. Hats off to him
He should have laughed in her face instead of comforting her. All that comforting is enabling her bad behavior.
He was kind of showboating at first (understandable because he's probably frustrated), but he really calmed down once the judge pointed out that the money was for an innocent kid.
No wonder she wants him for sure.
@@esthernyanchama3522 in the end I feel like even after doing such horrible acts she said that she won't take his child support even if the court makes her cus her baby ain't his, that shows some repentance atleast
@@tau566 Facts and savage 🤣🤣
Him: ☝🏾”I want ALL MY MONEY back!”
Me: I honesty don’t blame him! It’s not fair how men get treated honestly!
Silent Hill Warrior 5 exactly!!!
Synitha Peeples 🔩🔨🔨
Agree with you
Dudes can't walk around at night without risking the possibility of being called a stalker, pretty sad :/
And women need to start paying them back.
Why is yelling at him like its his fault she was sleeping with multiple people.
Side note: the judge needs to stop encouraging men to feel good about taking care of kids that are not theirs. No way you look at it, it is not a good thing. Its a hindrance for these men, and misleading for the children.
I think she was trying to make sure the guy didn't feel used, because he had gone through so much over this...It was a move to defuse a hostile situation.
@@LC-uz6em i have to disagree. She does this often. I think its to make the men feel better about the situation. And if it works for them then cool. But its still wrong.
@@anbriannadixon6442 yeah, she even tries to encourage them to continue caring for children that aren't theirs in toxic relationships. I've never seen that work
I agree. I guess it can go 50/50 in case he is the father. However I hate that they never give them any type of reimbursement. That's not fair.
Like he said, his ACTUAL child could have benefited from the money he has been paying for someone else's child. And that little girl's father could have been in her life for the prior five years. So now what will happen when the mother catches up with the real father? Is he going to be immediately charged with back child support?
even after all that, he comforted her. he's a good guy. truly.
SIMP
I hate when the woman acts like the victim when she was the one sleeping around.
LOVELY CAKE GOD we know! But it’s always like that. I’m a woman and I get sick of it
He needs his money back
It’s OK for women to cry shut up
Facts
@@lovebuglenise904 oh sure its okay for the one at fault to act like a victim like wrong has been done to them shut up
"No, it's not mine.." LOL Jerome is the best!
Angie Lyn 💀💀
I hollered so loud 😂😂 😂💀
Judge Judy has Byrd
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Lol...I like how he started preaching after the results. These men should get their money back automatically
Agree
Start using condoms and you won’t be in this position
Should but most states don't allow it. Or rather, most women who pull this stuff don't have the money to pay it back. But rarely are they thrown in jail for that.
@@jasminejohnson612 I have a better idea and one that has a much higher success rate than condoms: don't sleep with women who are less than. 🙂
@@jasminejohnson612 Start using birth control pills or get the shot, that will solve it both ways.
I love this man!! Very detailed, knew exactly dates of these events EVERYTHING while being entertaining in court and got proven right!!
I hate when the Man is found out to not be the Daddy and the judge be on that you can still be the Daddy speech. Nawwwww
Facts.
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Right....cause they wouldn't tell their sons or any male family member that...
It is not a mans responsibility to raise another mans kids.
@Nina chan genes are everything. I’m not raising another mans baby! Period !
"I wants my money back", I like him, he funny.
How dare the beautiful Judge Lake make him feel better about paying money on a child that he could have been using for his biological child.
locdsongbird Jackson she real wrong for that. Like I hate when they try and see a good in situation no she owe him his money. She knew it wasn’t his child but she took advantage and mad she got caught in her disgusting lies
locdsongbird Jackson exactly
The law should make sure a man lied to that a child is his and he duped into paying for gets his money back.
locdsongbird Jackson Exactly!
she said that b/c in some states u wont get back the child support since it was used on the child. hes gonna need some words to feel better just in case.
She only used this man to get a consistent check coming in.
She's not alone in that sort of malarkey
Facts...cause she knew the other man wasn't responsible
They probably gave him the notice at the last minute and knowing he couldn't make that court date some states are dirty like that
@Hopeless in Nyc he probably didnt recieve the first court letter bcuz he was gone off to the other woman and son playing house w her. When he got back he missed that court date. 😂
Yup
Big ups to this young man on how he handled in the end... poor child!!
Normally, Judge Lake stops the fathers/mothers when they start “clowning” after the results; but TAHHHDAYY honey I’m glad she didn’t!!!
He deserved that moment lol
....lol...me too!
@@sheskates6551 Yes He Did😏And She Got Her Just Deserts🤷🏽♀️
Yes I think he needed to get that off is chest, and she did let him. His whole life is upside down I thought it was fair. Steam off.
Right
“Atleast you can say you provided for a young girl”
Why tf would a judge feel like that’s an adequate thing to say?
Because it’s not fair to the little girl just stop paying child support but don’t ask for it back
If it was the other way around, it wouldn't be the same result
@@asuraXTC "Don't ask for it back"??!! That's money that could've gone to himself, his wife, or his son. He just took care of this lady and her child by another man. I would want my money back too, at least she still has the things from the money he contributed he ain't gon' take her baby clothes, food back, just the money she owes him.
Mob Mentality on everything she getting more money for a little girl that ain’t his then his. Go tell ya son the reason he went without cause you giving money to some random kid.
like "You've been robbed, but you helped a homeless man."
She knew he was not the father, she wanted a "responsible" man as "father" to her daughter.
It’s not his responsibility or any other mans but the bio father. She needs to find him and have him pay child support
Took advantage of the poor man. If she wanted a responsible father figure then she shouldnt have cheated on him with an irresponsible one.
He's a responsible man? He's got other illegitimate children
@@shaleymetzler8128 people need to understand that not everything is about child support. Some women wouldn't even be bothered. Some responsible men in relationships with the mother and playing vital role in the life of the child and has means to take care of the child wouldn't even be bothered. The child knows who raised him and cared for him and hopefully would not forget the the man when he make it later in life.
@@aelinashryver5511 l agree.
Thank you, Matlock. Keep this friendship and forget about the payback. The Mum will make sure the little girl never forget this and you. Keep the love.
"It could be Jerome baby!" 🤣 was the funniest part no lie
Chyna Kors 😜😂😂😂😂😂
5:50 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Jerome 💀
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Girlfriend sounds like she's jealous of his son, yeah it's all about your son she says
Jealous absolutely! She felt like his son was taking away from her daughter and so did the other baby mama. Except she had no right to feel that way when she was recieving money for a child she didnt think was his.
Dont date someone with kids if you have a problem with the kids period you will never take there place dealing with a real parent
@Julianne Mcculloch
That was my feeling too...
More like she may have felt he was dealing with his son’s mother.
Julianne Mcculloch
Disappearing for month is a bit excessive.
@@AuroraLalune
1. He didn't disappear. She knew where he was at..
2. You are choosing to believe her over him.. HE SAID HE WAS GONE 1 WEEK.. she said he was gone for 1 month..
Somebody lying.. and we don't know which one.. No evidence was presented to back either claim..
How did you come to the conclusion, that what she said was the REAL truth?
This should really be a crime punishable by jail time when a woman does this
I agree...it will deter women to stop lying
Jail really...but men who walk away from there responsibility should getvwhat I'm curious?
Regina Patrice that part
@@brooklynforever1990 they get child support and put in jail for not paying it. That's what men get. What do women get for lying & being deadbeats themselves? I'll wait 🤔
And men who have multiple baby mamas should get the snip.
That "TRIFLING" before the door 🚪 shut 😂😂😂😂Even the judge couldn't save her from that one.
Now she’s trying to guilt him out of being mad that he wants his money back?! Get out of here.
Opinionated Lady yel he needs to pursue and get every dime back and this guy needs to start wrapping up! He already said almost all his paycheck is gone!
I think she was trying to make him feel better about the fact that he probably isn't going to get his money back... idk if a lawsuit would work unless he can prove she knew it wasn't his child.
His little weak self bout to over there when he get home.
Orlando Cotton we already know how they were hugging up afterwards
misspuddin87 yea, I thought about that once I commented lol it makes sense
"3 or 4 YER-EARS"
Her: I tried to call you from the hospital
Him: you didn't do a good job 🤣🤣🤣
That ish was funny.😂😂😂
Mannnnn I hollered!!!
Man, I read this just as he said it😭😭
This man should get a T.V. show!!! He has the vibe and charisma to do it!
Fun fact, he's my manager and he acts exactly like this😂
@@sarahgray382 hopefully he's prospering and in a better relationship.
Sure does!!
100%
He gives grinder v8bes
STOP making men feel they should want to keep caring for a child who is not theirs.
That’s not fair what the judge is saying to him about child support!
Women should give the money back ! That’s not right !
If he was the father and he had not been paying he would owe back child support!
Thats not what shes saying. Ffs! Shes saying he most likely wont get it back at all. But what he did do made a difference in this littl girls life. She was praising him.
Danielle Patrice it’s not her choice she’s just telling him how it works
Yeah she’s just trying to sugar the pill since that money ain’t coming back
He can’t get it back , maybe in civil court. He had to sign papers of acknowledgment, at that point if he had said he had doubt then paternity would have been set up instead. . He had an right to object . Once u say yes that’s my child it goes straight to child support .
I paid child support to my son mother while I had him and the court never paid me back after they found out... 6,000 in a years time, gone.
She was already starting to cry before the results were even announced. She knew he wasn't the father. How can you even do that to someone.
Exactly
Facts!!! Judge Lake even paused at ARE... and her eyes remained teary because she knew it wasn't going to be his. She really took that walk of shame out the courtoom too smh
I know, then they take they a** to court for a DNA test knowing... knowing he's more than likely NOT the father. Sad SMH
She can because no one is holding these women accountable. DNA testing should be mandatory at birth. And women who do these things should be charged
I wouldn’t even come on the show if I had doubts about who my kids father is. Embarrassing.
Exactly..private DNA test..It's embarrassing of these women not to know. Its shocking how many of them there are..I mean a whole show with many seasons on this topic
If you would be embarrassed then you probably aren't engaged in the behavior that gets you on PC 😋
You can look in her eyes right before the results were read and tell he is not the father. She knew it.
I always wondered how much these people get paid to air their dirt. Sure hope it was worth the public humiliation.
@@scadet718 It's not. They get a free trip to the show, hotel for the night, and MAYBE $500. That's not enough money for anybody to embarrass themselves on TV unless they have no shame to begin with.
" I'm pregnant and you are not the father"
" You have to pay child support because you are the father"
" I will stop child support because now I know you are not the father"
" I pinned him because he would be a good father"
And then she claimed 10 times atleast that she was being honest 😂. She is deceptive but trying to act honesty to get him back.
SHE EVEN LIED ABOUT THE THIRD GUY
Judge lake annoys me acting like he shouldn’t want his money back because of her mistakes.
IKR???
I didn't take it as her saying he shouldn't want his money back, I think she was just trying to ease his frustration by reminding him that it went to a good cause, in case he is not awarded money back.
she knows he wouldnt get it back anyway as he didnt turn up to court so he was made the father by default she just happened to say it in another way that at least the money helped this young child
@@lovethatforyou533 It may have gone to a good cause, but it went to a cause against his will.
Miley Foe she didn’t say that. She told him what to do and that he may not get it back
I like how in the end, he comforted her even tho she did him dirty for 5 years. It speaks volumes abt him.
I hated it because again a man is required to comfort a woman when she’s at fault. Thus eliminating her accountability for lying, cheating and basically stealing his money, time, emotions, and reputation. She needs to pay period.
@@irvinggreene4086 I can definitely see your point of view. And yes, I do agree that she should be held accountable for her actions. I think I took a liking to him because I, too am not a grudge holder. U will get what's coming to u but it wont be by my hand.
@@darabatte578 I agree I forgive ppl cuz I know their punishment ends up worse than what they did to me
White woman's tears are hard to resist for most black men
@@Boxfresh08 Not me. Cut the check$$$😎😎😎
Jerome🤣🤣😂😂 “no it’s not mine”😂🤣
Dwl
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“When you do look at this little girl, at least you can say that you have provided for this child.”
I really wouldn’t care, that’s money that could’ve been provided to my REAL child, point blank period. Her mother should’ve been supplying that money, not him.
Now that’s a real man right there. As for her...She needs to get her act together before her daughter follows in her footsteps.
ABSOFUCNLUTELY!
Before she get something that nine months can't cure .
The judge's remarks regarding being happy about paying child support was ludicrous. The only way to stop such fraud is for the courts to command retribution.
Exactly. Especially when he was ordered to pay more for her child than his own son.
100%!
She gets on my nerves with this
Definitely and put it on the biological dad's as unpaid child support
Restitution, I believe is the word.
No judge, he and his children deserve that money. To each their own.
I totally agree 💯
I agree 💯 percent.
Agreed totally, but I guess she knows he might not get it back so she was trying to find a silver lining.
Jarek Gamer she was just telling him like she tells all of them that they might not get it back. He was the father by default
Especially because he went to jail over this. That could affect how he provides for his son! The excuses are mind-blowing.
This man can hold his head up high knowing he has provided for this young child, despite not being her father. Talk about integrity! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
Judge Lake stop encouraging it. That is not his baby
She told him to go back and contest the child support...how is she encouraging it when she told him what to do??.......
I hate when she does that!
She came in with this Little House on the Prairie outfit on. 🤣🤣
K Fransissy 😩🤦🏾♀️😭😭😭
Eat the cake annie may😂
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Suzie homemaker lol
She ain't fooling nobody with that outfit that she probably had to borrow from her mother, because I'm sure most of her gear don't cover much of her body.
I knew he wasn’t the father when I saw the side by side. I do feel that if a man isn’t proven to be the biological father, he should automatically get that money back.
Right...
It not fair for the man to pay for the child that not his,he should get his money back 😟
Yes, the woman should be put on a payment schedule just like the man was.
Thembisile Thembisile I agree
Ancient Hippy Rebel Yes, if there’s doubt, get the test first before signing to take care of the child legally.
As bad as this actually was, it's amazing to see both of them be civil in the end. He even goes as far as to say that they're still good. That is true friendship right there. They are both hurt and that man spent a lot of money on a child that is not even his, and yet he looked past that and wants to keep their friendship steady. A horrible situation turned into something they handled better than a lot of others even could have tried.
He needs to sue her baxside back for every cent he has already paid on child support...unfair is just unfair..!
1000% AGREE!!!!!
And sue for the interest too!
you Jamaican huh lol
Mr Sterling lol I was about to ask. Jamaica 🇯🇲
This must be a Jamaican, lol
"It could be Jerome's baby"
"You mean this Jerome!? "
"It's not mine"
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Who is this baby father.
I died at that comment who this Jerome 🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂😎
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LOL!
Did she just tell this man he needs to use protection to avoid having kids when she doesn’t know who the father of her child is?
Lol..
AND if you heard him he said you have more kids than me and she said so!!
I cant breathe😩
he has one son
SURE IN THE SHITZ DID!! SMH
That woman committed paternity fraud and she got a pass. Thats cute.
She needs to pay him back, she put him on the birth certificate, I believe she knew he wasn’t the father.
Exactly
Of course she knew.
You cannot put another person on the birth certificate.
The court put him on child support. He was determined to be the father by default.
@Pyramid Head mother’s can in fact do just that.
"I was honest"
Because that makes what you did much better.
Bye Felicia 👋
Right!!!
C18 He said he wasn’t gone a month but puts the days she was with the ex at 3 weeks🤔 make it make sense🤣
pinkyt67 a month isn’t 3 weeks lol
Cordell Soileau you’re right but it’s not a week either is it? So he was gone for a month & after the first week ( in the preceding month ) she moved the boyfriend in! Which is what he said.
How are you going to tell someone, "you're not the father" then get mad when the guy isn't there?!! 😑 she makes no sense!
Makes ZERO sense. After that statement, her arguments are weak and ridiculous. And the crazy thing is her statement was correct but I guess her other options disappeared and she doubled back and started hollering he was the Daddy. Ugh.
She is dumb
Women do it all the time. The same way they bring two men on the show and expect both of them to step up and play daddy.
He's such a lovely and responsible man!
He should've gotten a DNA test 5yrs ago
she told him it wasnt his at first and then didnt talk to him
He lowkey was READING her for FILTH! 😂
What does that mean? Not familiar with that saying here in Ireland 😂
@@mydolsmusic that means she was telling her about herself
@@terrellscott3040 oh right thanks! I couldn't work it out!
as he should have she knew he wasn't the father
He’s fed up!!
The fact that he had to work overtime is just sad, so if he don’t get his money back I’m gonna be mad
Edit:AWOOGA👨🏽🦯🧍🏽♀️ when did I get so many likes- thanks yall
How long you gonna be mad because it's not going to happen unfortunately.
Ms. Lady Sanders I know😢
He can actually sue her for that money.
@@tacosrbetterthanpizza3116 Yes he can but no guarantee he going to get it back. Especially if she was on any kind of public assistance.
She doesn’t work either. She probably lives in a trailer and has several baby daddies. She will never aspire to be anything.
Pay him back in full .she wrong for doing him like that.
“ I heard you could be the father now ”
“ I thought you was the father”
😂😂😂 idk why that took me out.
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Okay girl if the other guy is so irresponsible why the heck were you sleeping with him?
He's packing heat!!!! Hung like a Georgia mule.
The same reason why men go after emo girls
She just wanted comfort under the sheet. Dwl!! Some women do not place any value n them self, that is why men treat them the way they do. We have to love and respect ourselves.
With no protection either 🙄
@@michaeldelyjah5696 D-motized. We all know the reason.
You watch these shows and realise just how many children are being raised by people who don't deserve them. What is so hard about fidelity? Sheesh.
Can I get an answer to this question on fidelity? I have been asking since I am a teenager.
@@patriciawhite1664 I think it's really about people being weak to the desire of the flesh. No self-discipline. The one benefit out of committing infidelity, which could ruin everything, is somehow enough to go forward with it. They throw their morals and respect for their partner out of the window because they have pathetically surrendered to their selfish spirit at that moment. To me, such an act clearly means you don't love the person. Normally, you leave the person alone if you are not in love with them. But some folks want to have their cake and eat it too, putting their partner on the back burner to get something at home as well. They possess an immature, selfish spirit, I tell you.
@@Jazzerbean what is worst is the possible diseases they may bring to their partner.
@@patriciawhite1664 Right! No concern for their partner's health. Too much selfish behavior. Folks really have no problem intentionally and unjustifiably hurting others.
& Marriage or getting to know the person before you sleep with them.
😂 this guy is a comedian. He gat me laughing 😂
I find it funny that she was quick to give his name and get child support by default but didn't volunteer the other guy's name. She should have to pay back every dime he paid her because she knew from day one there was more than one possibility.
Exactly!
She said she submitted the information because he provided it. My guess is the other guy wasn't so forthcoming.
Paternity fraud
She could depend on him sure she can’t say the same bout the other potential father 😩
@@skylarjaxx2399 so very much THIS
He's a good man. He still provided her comfort even tho she deceived him. Bless his heart.
A real decent and good guy! Wish him and his family all the very best!!!
Ya he’s got a good soul
Judge: Mr Matlock, explain why you have doubts
Everybody: She said he might not be the father
escapepr I hate the super obvious questions Judge Lake asks! Sir she slept with 14 men unprotected all within 3 days, but why do you doubt that you’re the father? 🙄 At times I skip to the end for the result, it seems like they’re just extending the episode.
@@mahandrews8074 sameeeeee, i thought I was the only one bothered by it.
@@mahandrews8074 in a court of law BOTH parties must be heard out. it doesn't matter if it might seem unnecessary. one person'/side's testimony is not enough.
Fifi Donkor I understand the way court works.
escapepr she actually told him he wasn’t the father lol
I love how he pinned it on Gerome 🤣
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Poor Jerome 😅😅😅