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  • Опубликовано: 24 авг 2024

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  • @jraine
    @jraine 7 месяцев назад +8628

    They’re just jealous 😭😭

    • @eliana.xoxo.
      @eliana.xoxo. 7 месяцев назад +13

      for realll

    • @maddydavidsdottir9862
      @maddydavidsdottir9862 7 месяцев назад +39

      It's not just jealousy, it's the fact that so many people experience toxic and abusive relationships and familial relationships we are literally trained to see a healthy relationship as a red flag, even if its our relationship we will struggle to accept and realise when it's healthy.

    • @ratsss05
      @ratsss05 7 месяцев назад +3

      Fr it’s okay some people are just jealous

    • @ratsss05
      @ratsss05 7 месяцев назад +1

      Fr it’s okay some people are just jealous

    • @ratsss05
      @ratsss05 7 месяцев назад

      Fr it’s okay some people are just jealous

  • @yasminepham
    @yasminepham 7 месяцев назад +5599

    my boyfriend and i have been dating for almost 2 years and he still opens doors, holds my hand down steps and everything girl. i hate people like this 😭😭

    • @andydietrich3689
      @andydietrich3689 7 месяцев назад +50

      That’s very different than *paying for every single thing*. It’s not inherently a negative thing; all human relationships mature from the honeymoon phase to reality, not just romantic ones. You become familiar and complacent. This girl is gunna look back at this video and delete it in 1-3 years 😭. Note to this girls future self: hope you’re thriving!

    • @HeShallBeMySquishy1
      @HeShallBeMySquishy1 7 месяцев назад +27

      Saaaaame, girl. Actually, I would argue that mine is just getting more aggressive with his princess treatment. Will lock me in the car so he can run around and open the door for me lol

    • @myheadhurtstho
      @myheadhurtstho 7 месяцев назад +3

      lmao yeah bros def gonna cheat on u. relationships are mutual if u want to have continued princess treatment you gotta treat him like a prince. sounds like you dont reciprocate in the slightest so yeah he's prolly gonna get fed up never receiving nothing and cheat on your ass.

    • @JoyHammond-gv1rs
      @JoyHammond-gv1rs 7 месяцев назад

      That’s so cuteee

    • @JoyHammond-gv1rs
      @JoyHammond-gv1rs 7 месяцев назад

      That’s so cuteee

  • @ericalopez6995
    @ericalopez6995 7 месяцев назад +2123

    I’ve been with my boyfriend for almost 6 years and he still does this for me people are just jealous of your relationship!

    • @ashlynnchurch6054
      @ashlynnchurch6054 7 месяцев назад

      They ain’t “jealous” they have just had shity relationships and don’t understand. Most guys are assholes

    • @Frisktyy
      @Frisktyy 7 месяцев назад +2

      Say it louda 🗣️🗣️🗣️

    • @user-eg2vs8oj9y
      @user-eg2vs8oj9y 6 месяцев назад +1

      I no I had a friend and everybody was saying that he would break up with her because he was treating her like she was a princess like and th then 15 years later they have twins

  • @sophie.3.
    @sophie.3. 7 месяцев назад +651

    Definitely does not stop, I’m at 4 years and he still does all of that for me. Including the paying for stuff!! It may “slow down” because y’all eventually might move in together or something. But it changes, like he’ll take out the trash. He’ll take your car to get gas for work, or surprise you with take out/dinner. It never stops, just evolves in different ways :)

    • @chrissyfrederick3424
      @chrissyfrederick3424 7 месяцев назад +4

      Love this so much ❤️ this is my experience as well

    • @d3mized
      @d3mized 6 месяцев назад

      🌚🌚 4 years isn’t a lot lol .. they’re referencing marriage

  • @FoxofGold
    @FoxofGold 7 месяцев назад +297

    It's called projecting. They're projecting their own experiences and the ones of those close to them onto you.
    Always be smart in relationships and make sure no matter how time passes you guys arent taking each other for granted but unless he gives you a reason to suspect anything bad, theres no point in trying to diminish the good stuff that he does.

  • @imkassidey
    @imkassidey 7 месяцев назад +153

    I’m almost 24 with my partner of 10 years and he’s still the sweetest person ever and out love still grows stronger everyday. People are who are like that are jealous or truly don’t know that there is kind love out there

    • @nicoledeford3284
      @nicoledeford3284 7 месяцев назад +18

      YOU'VE BEEN TOGETHER SINCE YOU WERE 14?! DAAAAANNNNGGGGGG!

    • @vyxl14
      @vyxl14 7 месяцев назад +6

      that’s genuinely so adorable 😽😊

    • @madbabie
      @madbabie 7 месяцев назад +1

      Do yall have kids ? if yall do im impressed

    • @imkassidey
      @imkassidey 7 месяцев назад

      @@madbabie no not for a long while haha

    • @JayFeather0129
      @JayFeather0129 7 месяцев назад +1

      That's just adorable

  • @itzjustabby
    @itzjustabby 7 месяцев назад +33

    My grandparents have been married for 50 years and still going… he still pays for everything, opens her car door, etc! Just because you’re not used to healthy relationships doesn’t mean they don’t exist, and you don’t need to tear down someone else just because you haven’t had one.

  • @opheliaocean3782
    @opheliaocean3782 7 месяцев назад +105

    I feel this so much, even from my family sometimes. It's been 3 months (I know, not that long), but he still treats me like I'm royalty, and I reciprocate that for him too.

  • @sadAndscary4u
    @sadAndscary4u 7 месяцев назад +85

    WHAT LIPGLOSS IS THAT I NEED IT!!!??

    • @fagiolification11
      @fagiolification11 7 месяцев назад +2

      Girl that's a lipstick.

    • @IceHotell
      @IceHotell 7 месяцев назад +1

      ⁠@@fagiolification11girl they just asked a question💀

    • @JayJay-zz7un
      @JayJay-zz7un 7 месяцев назад +4

      It looks similar to the Mac glow balm

    • @fagiolification11
      @fagiolification11 7 месяцев назад +1

      @@IceHotell Okay, and...? It's still a lipstick. 😭

    • @hadleyshearer7071
      @hadleyshearer7071 7 месяцев назад +1

      I NEED TO KNOW THIS TOO

  • @rhapsodycienfuegos6153
    @rhapsodycienfuegos6153 7 месяцев назад +36

    My boyfriend has been giving me royal queen treatment since day one and it’s been two years officially. He says that he can spoil me as much as he wants☺️

  • @caitlincobbett3134
    @caitlincobbett3134 7 месяцев назад +6

    Just over 6 months with my bf and I still get the princess treatment. A real man who is giving and acting from his heart cause he wants to treat his girl amazing, doesn't stop.

  • @alivyamarie648
    @alivyamarie648 7 месяцев назад +10

    my grandpa sounds just like your boyfriend. he has been treating my grandmama like a QUEEN for 50 years. don’t let jealous people shit on your relationship, you found a good one ❤

  • @turkeylurkeytime
    @turkeylurkeytime 7 месяцев назад +7

    My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years, best friends for 5. He treats me like a QUEEN to this day. I left a comment on a video once talking about how well he treats me and every comment underneath was saying “it’ll end eventually” “just wait till he cheats” “he’s probably talking to 3 other girls”. All I could think was dang, I’m so sorry you’ve been treated like this in your relationships. Everyone deserves to be loved and treated with respect by their partners, I hope real love finds you

  • @SaltySouthernMama
    @SaltySouthernMama 7 месяцев назад +84

    15 years in and things are still going strong here for me, and actually I like to suprise him with things too 🎉 I couldnt walk in the store without saying "I like that" he would say "get it" im like no! I dont NEED everything. lol

  • @smoltatojustexisting7191
    @smoltatojustexisting7191 7 месяцев назад +4

    He's such a keeper!! My bf does the same thing! I love him to pieces and obviously I make sure his needs and wants are met as well, but keep him!! He's a rare gem!!

  • @gidgetgirl3881
    @gidgetgirl3881 7 месяцев назад +3

    I used to be this way with my current boyfriend bc of how my exs have treated me saying “it’s too good to be true” and all that junk but now I’ve been with him for 3 years and it hasn’t stopped. He really is just the sweetest most genuine person I know. ❤

  • @oberle_natalie
    @oberle_natalie 7 месяцев назад +10

    Ive been with my boyfriend for 3 years and still pays for everything, opens every door and the car door for me, buys me candy and flowers out of the blue, takes me on dates, we have each others phone passwords and he wont even watch a movie with nudity or play video games with nudity because he says he only wants to see me. Never gets other girls on his page and calls me just to tell me he misses me...ladies! He is a great guy who always respectes my boundaries and shows me love! Dont let people tell you itll stop...some guys.. it will but the right ones will do everything to make you feel beautiful and worthy. Do your part to be the best girlfriend, wife, ect. So he feels the same way back! Its all about give and take! You are a queen he is your king! Okei rant over love you byeee

  • @decadentnight
    @decadentnight 7 месяцев назад +9

    My boyfriend and i have been together for over a decade through poor times with no cars. And now hie has a great job that allows him to pay for most things while still saving up. Relationships go through phases like the moon and the tides, each years different and each relationship is different.

  • @royalsunnyxx
    @royalsunnyxx 4 месяца назад +1

    I swear this is the SMOOTHEST makeup application I have ever seen. Your skin is so perfect wow!

  • @i_hateithere
    @i_hateithere 7 месяцев назад +1

    I’ve been with my childhood sweetheart for over 30+ years. Since we were KIDS. He still treats me like the princess I am, and I will always treat him like the King he is. We are equals. We like to do nice things for each other, that will never change.
    Everyone said “they said, I’ll bet,🎶they’ll never make it,🎶but just look at us holding on,🎶still together, 🎶still going strong🎶”
    -Still The One, Shania Twain
    Wishing you a world of happiness ♥️💪🏼

  • @Kikopuffs
    @Kikopuffs 7 месяцев назад +18

    It’s cause they don’t have it themselves so they don’t think other people can

  • @evelynsmith4862
    @evelynsmith4862 7 месяцев назад +4

    My boyfriend brought me my exact dominos order to my house just because the week before I said it sounded good. And then yesterday he brought me mexican food from my favorite mexican restraunt, and my exact prder there because he says I've been working really hard at school and he knows I've been having a hsrd time lately. He's so adorable. We've been dating for a year and a half. We're also sophomores in highschool. He makes grown men look bad

  • @Star_girl040
    @Star_girl040 2 месяца назад

    Girl I feel thisss!!! Any good relationship I've had ppl have messed it up. but now I have the most amazing guy everrrr!!!

  • @Pinkmac1991
    @Pinkmac1991 7 месяцев назад

    7 years here and my boyfriend hasn’t stopped stuff like this . He always does the groceries and dishes and is constantly surprising me , everyday feels like a Friday with him 💗

  • @delainey7617
    @delainey7617 7 месяцев назад +33

    Love ur nails

  • @suburbanlumberjill
    @suburbanlumberjill 7 месяцев назад +1

    Preach 🙌🙌
    People hate to see others doing well. They’re probably just jealous. You keep your head up babygirl

  • @MakeupFairy039
    @MakeupFairy039 7 месяцев назад +2

    Girl your skin is perfect !!

  • @graveside_glitz1015
    @graveside_glitz1015 7 месяцев назад

    I swear it’s like people will suck the joy out of everything because they’ve had some bad experiences. I’m very happy for you and your bf. ❤

  • @audie9642
    @audie9642 7 месяцев назад

    I’ve been with my boyfriend for over 3 years and he’s the most respectful, appreciative, and loving man I’ve ever known. He definitely treats me like a princess !

  • @anasmith1
    @anasmith1 7 месяцев назад +1

    It won’t stop girly , trust me. My husband is so good to me and has been since day one. Enjoy it. You are a princess

  • @brittanydickey2253
    @brittanydickey2253 7 месяцев назад

    My husband of 6 years STILL to this day does this for me and treats me like I’ve never seen a man treat a woman (in the most amazing way)! Don’t let anyone ruin your happiness, just because they haven’t found a good man/woman doesn’t mean they don’t exist!!! ❤❤❤

  • @AZensibleOption
    @AZensibleOption 7 месяцев назад

    My husband & I have been together for 25yrs & he has always been absolutely amazing - kind, supportive & my #1 advocate in life.

  • @RickSamuel-je6pu
    @RickSamuel-je6pu 6 месяцев назад

    It's just because you're pretty and you're gorgeous and you have confidence

  • @AlicesHeart618
    @AlicesHeart618 2 месяца назад

    OML THAT WHOLE LOOK IS GORGEOUS

  • @georgiaaitken319
    @georgiaaitken319 7 месяцев назад +1

    You’re a winner!!! People are just jealous that you have a good relationship!!

  • @motionlesscreature5705
    @motionlesscreature5705 7 месяцев назад

    I’ve been with my man for 10 years. He’s still a complete gentleman and sweetheart just the kindest soul

  • @hay-jaycur2363
    @hay-jaycur2363 7 месяцев назад

    I hope he never stops treating you like a princess you deserve it

  • @lailasmith4934
    @lailasmith4934 7 месяцев назад

    My sister has been married to her husband for a year now, and he still pays for everything, and treats her like an absolute queen. I have never seen her so happy in my life.

  • @shesagem317
    @shesagem317 6 месяцев назад

    I have been with my husband for 14 years. He still does sweet stuff like that for me. It's not as much as it use to be but it's still there.

  • @sarahleeboyd7683
    @sarahleeboyd7683 7 месяцев назад

    I have been with my husband for 8 years and he still treats me like a queen and we never fight

  • @salviapaith
    @salviapaith 7 месяцев назад

    yall actually sound so cute together

  • @Noah69407
    @Noah69407 7 месяцев назад +1

    Especially when people talk about their past experiences with their boyfriend, like it’s gonna happen to them. Like when do they realize that not everyone is the same

  • @JennFredrickson
    @JennFredrickson 7 месяцев назад +2

    Been with my husband for 9 years, married 7. He still won’t let me pay for anything, still treats me like a princess, still surprises me with flowers and what we lovingly refer to as “Tuesday gifts.” (You know, the gift you get for no reason, just cuz it’s a Tuesday). It doesn’t have to end. But I also do everything I can to spoil him back. It’s a mutual thing.

  • @renegadetwinkie3832
    @renegadetwinkie3832 7 месяцев назад

    13 years together and he still pays every single time we go out, still opens the car doors for our daughter and me and still treats me like a queen. It doesn’t have to stop! ❤️

  • @user-nt8kk5pv3r
    @user-nt8kk5pv3r 6 месяцев назад

    Your boyfriend is literally like the best you’re so lucky 🍀

  • @withdes
    @withdes 7 месяцев назад

    factsss!! You deserve it girl!

  • @KerrynSammons
    @KerrynSammons 5 месяцев назад

    So true, people will never be happy for the nice things you have, if they don’t have it themselves.

  • @kylieoneil4442
    @kylieoneil4442 2 месяца назад +1

    Omg your makeup looks so
    Good when I do mine like half way through out the day it comes cakey but I love your makeup and how it looks so smooth!!!!!

  • @friendly.little.monster
    @friendly.little.monster 4 месяца назад

    Been with my bf for 4 years and I'm still getting the treatment. It's almost like in healthy relationships people treat you how you treat them. Keep doing what you're doing. People are just jealous.

  • @stefanijaveljkovic
    @stefanijaveljkovic 7 месяцев назад

    I absolutely LOVE YOUR MAKEUP

  • @kararose6041
    @kararose6041 7 месяцев назад +1

    I've been with my husband since we were 16. We're 25 now, and he still treats me like a queen. Ignore the haters 😂

  • @KirstenLeafromItaly
    @KirstenLeafromItaly 7 месяцев назад

    My husband and I have been married over 8 years now and he still hasn’t stopped. Let the haters hate. You don’t need that negativity ❤

  • @jaquelinemythril2602
    @jaquelinemythril2602 7 месяцев назад

    Dude, this is how I felt whenever I was pregnant!! People giving "advice" need to stop sometimes.

  • @lizzyturnbull486
    @lizzyturnbull486 7 месяцев назад

    I’ve been w my bf for almost a year now and he still treats me exactly how he did when we met. Like a princess

  • @Molly_prepster
    @Molly_prepster 4 месяца назад +1

    Your make up is so pretty

  • @anniebrowning8779
    @anniebrowning8779 6 месяцев назад

    He sounds so sweet, keep that guy.

  • @rileywright2570
    @rileywright2570 3 месяца назад

    OMG I NEED THAT LIP SHADE

  • @stephaniehenry8919
    @stephaniehenry8919 7 месяцев назад

    I’ve been with my husband for 5 years and for me it hasn’t stopped. But I will say we both take care of each other we both do things to make each other feel special and taken care of.

  • @haidynb2003
    @haidynb2003 6 месяцев назад

    Your literally so pretty 😍

  • @Lifeisgood__56777
    @Lifeisgood__56777 6 месяцев назад +1

    My dad still does this for my mom

  • @user-ev2uk4gx1p
    @user-ev2uk4gx1p 6 месяцев назад

    I have been with my boyfriend for almost 7 years and still takes me every were and pays for me

  • @Urmama00
    @Urmama00 7 месяцев назад

    You’re so right girly people just can’t handle others having better experiences than they did honest to god.

  • @melissamccafferty5710
    @melissamccafferty5710 6 месяцев назад

    That is so sweet of him

  • @mable90shaynne
    @mable90shaynne 2 месяца назад

    I am coming up on my 10 year wedding anniversary, and my husband still makes me feel like a queen. ❤ He seriously puts off much thought and effort into our relationship. He does the same with the kids.

  • @tiffanymagnusson7184
    @tiffanymagnusson7184 7 месяцев назад

    I've been with my husband for 16 years and he still does it!

  • @jp8649
    @jp8649 7 месяцев назад

    It's because it's SO common. And yes, we're jealous of the ones that are genuinely good guys because they are so rare.

  • @opheliafavarula8817
    @opheliafavarula8817 7 месяцев назад

    Girl, you are a literal princess, and everybody should know that he should treat you like one too, and he is ❤

  • @Preppy1155
    @Preppy1155 6 месяцев назад

    Your makeup looks so pretty

  • @LiviKittyCutie
    @LiviKittyCutie 6 месяцев назад

    Sometimes I’m genuinely timid about mentioning my bf to other people for this exact reason, something about having a nice lover makes people so bitter…

  • @ericagraham8706
    @ericagraham8706 7 месяцев назад

    I have been with my Husband for 8 years and he still treats me like a princess. He has told me everyday how beautiful I am and helps me in the house with cleaning. Opens doors for me. He treats our daughters the same way too. So they will know how a man should treat them. But it goes both ways. I equally spoil him... I feel blessed to have found him!

  • @lolbrb8697
    @lolbrb8697 5 месяцев назад

    I think it’s 50/50 some people are jealous others are just warning you based off their experience
    I really hope he doesn’t stop that sounds very sweet

  • @SAMWITCHFOREVER
    @SAMWITCHFOREVER 7 месяцев назад

    I have been with my man for 3 years and he still treats me like a princess. Not all men are bad however the good ones are really hard to find.

  • @sillysillysillysillysillything
    @sillysillysillysillysillything 7 месяцев назад

    HOW DO YOU MAKE YOUR MAKEUP SO SMOOTH??????

  • @Dreamer_girlVR
    @Dreamer_girlVR 7 месяцев назад

    i have the same with my boyfriend

  • @kishamyers7905
    @kishamyers7905 7 месяцев назад

    Babes my fiance and I have been together almost 8 years - he does this for me still to this day! It doesn't end when it's genuine. Don't let their negativity bring you down and make you second guess your relationship 💯

  • @juliesbeauty9661
    @juliesbeauty9661 6 месяцев назад

    I’ve been with my boyfriend for almost five years and I still get some princess treatment it dosent have to stop

  • @trishaomeara2242
    @trishaomeara2242 6 месяцев назад

    Your makeup looks so good

  • @natoshafreeman2749
    @natoshafreeman2749 7 месяцев назад

    20 years of marriage and my husband has never stopped treating me like a princess and I feel so incredibly lucky 😊

  • @scarspar2581
    @scarspar2581 3 месяца назад

    OMG MY BOYFRIEND DOES THE SAME THING 😭😁 he always tells me “hahaha i think you’re so cute for trying to buy things yourself”

  • @TeSheenaLyles-uw9en
    @TeSheenaLyles-uw9en 7 месяцев назад

    I've been with my husband for 17yrs married for 13 of them. My Don Matéo is always thinkin of us as a whole not just himself. He loves to bring me my favorite snacks or trinkets. He loves to snuggle & watch movies together still he like to be close to me. He's a good Father to our daughter they're close. Our daughter is our only child so we spoil her a little bit.😅 People just get jealous of you actually having a solid stable relationship. We've delt with that too have actually lost friends over the yrs.

  • @Weirdo-tv8vp
    @Weirdo-tv8vp 6 месяцев назад

    Me and my boyfriend have been together for 1 year and 2 months and with everything weve been through, he still does the princess treatment. Sometimes that is how people show affection so all the people who say that, are just jealous. I hope you and your boyfriend have many more lovely years together!

  • @MrsCarrieSnyder
    @MrsCarrieSnyder 7 месяцев назад

    I just celebrated 20 year together, 16 years married with my husband. It never stops. Things obviously change with malice. But when a man knows what he has, he makes sure to keep it forever 🙏🙌

  • @ofcimbetter8286
    @ofcimbetter8286 7 месяцев назад

    I absolutely hate when people try to bring people and their relationships down like that! I’ve had people tell me that my relationship was going to go toxic and we were just in the “honeymoon” phase but my boyfriend is still just as sweet to me as he was the first day we started talking which was almost two years ago.. People are so jealous and can’t stand seeing people happy it’s ridiculous.

  • @MadisonCoatney
    @MadisonCoatney 3 месяца назад

    Hey I’ve been with my boyfriend for over 5 months now and the gift giving, princess treatment, and compliments haven’t stopped yet 😂

  • @Rylin_Gonzalez
    @Rylin_Gonzalez 6 месяцев назад

    Girl I've been dating my bf for 5 months and he always treats me like a princess

  • @brianafoster-qg6hc
    @brianafoster-qg6hc 6 месяцев назад +1

    Your boyfriend is probably great❤❤

  • @skilandhardin4502
    @skilandhardin4502 7 месяцев назад

    omgggg sameee literally everyone keeps telling me my boyfriends gon leave me or cheat n their telling him tht im cheatin or ima leave when weve been through eachothers phones n we saw nthn n we just started to ignore the haters because all their gon do is try to break us up for no reason!

  • @mckyliepeterson
    @mckyliepeterson 7 месяцев назад

    Can say my now husband still treats me the same if not better than he did when we were dating and we’ve been together for two years. Everyone says it’s just a honeymoon phase and that might be true with certain people but when you’re with the right person the honeymoon phase never ends.❤️❤️

  • @MaddenMorrissett
    @MaddenMorrissett 7 месяцев назад

    😂 girl I feel you me and mine been together a year and a half and he still pays for everything I need and want

  • @haydensbmm
    @haydensbmm 6 месяцев назад

    Ur makeup tho omggg😍😍

  • @DIOR244
    @DIOR244 6 месяцев назад

    Ur makeup is flawless ❤

  • @nia_672
    @nia_672 6 месяцев назад

    Finally someone I can relate to

  • @Mackenzie.0989
    @Mackenzie.0989 7 месяцев назад

    You’re actually so pretty u deserve it! Ignore them they’re jealous.

  • @angelinasantana2039
    @angelinasantana2039 2 месяца назад

    I agree girly me and my man been together for 2 years and he be doing the most for me just cause! Like this generation just wants to normalize the bad. I’m supporting you girl!! ❤

  • @gorgeouslailaa
    @gorgeouslailaa 6 месяцев назад

    hes a keeper xx

  • @user-tq9fh5fu4e
    @user-tq9fh5fu4e 7 месяцев назад +1

    Fr ❤❤❤ By the way, you are so pretty

  • @mdheartsuju
    @mdheartsuju 7 месяцев назад

    I’ve been with my boyfriend for more than 3 years. He just gets sweeter. I think a lot of people forget that you have to treat others how you want to be treated. All the people saying their partner stopped treating them well, do you still treat your partner well?

  • @Khozhi01
    @Khozhi01 7 месяцев назад

    I have been married to my man for 13 years and he still treats me like his world. There are good men out there if your good to them

  • @jessm2769
    @jessm2769 7 месяцев назад

    13 years with my husband and he still does super cute things for me and treats me like a princess.

  • @the4thmusketeer
    @the4thmusketeer 7 месяцев назад

    My husband and I dated for 8 years before getting married last year. Not only has he always been the most thoughtful partner, but it's only increased tenfold since being married. Instead of people always focusing on how "rare" it is to have a loving SO, we should be making it the expectation.
    I have 5 younger sisters, and I truly hope that them growing up seeing me being treated well will make them more confident in their own worth. The amount of projection people will throw at happy couples is frankly sad. No relationship is perfect, but they don't all have to be toxic.