Friend-enemies Identifying Toxic Friendships & Building Healthy Ones

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  • Опубликовано: 11 сен 2024

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  • @aquilachefba-ados
    @aquilachefba-ados Год назад +11

    Some times the RUclips algorithm will come through with that quiet conversation you didn’t realize you need to have or have been having with yourself in your head…
    Thank you… I’m really going to meditate on this..:

  • @keepingitjazzy88
    @keepingitjazzy88 Год назад +19

    I miss my old friends we grew apart I tried to reconcile but we all different people now some were too toxic, frienemy energy, some gave all their time and energy to their husbands and children which is fine I have a relationship and children as well and I was going through my own personal family drama that left me alone….I have associates now but not genuine friends….. prayers and blessings to the friends I outgrew or those who felt they outgrew me ❤

  • @jessicafrederick8971
    @jessicafrederick8971 Год назад +9

    I love this. Women support women. I don’t know about most but I need my friends. I love them and have a small group of solid friendship over 25 plus years.

  • @writingbywinifred6677
    @writingbywinifred6677 Год назад +2

    Yes, we need to stop putting pressure on our friends. Let it flow naturally. Give Grace, space, and respect.

  • @denisebello7461
    @denisebello7461 Год назад +8

    This was definitely the Universe because this message was right on time!

  • @ricardolius
    @ricardolius Год назад +26

    If you want to be successful, you must take responsibility for your emotions, not place the blame on others. In addition to make you feel more guilty about your faults, pointing the finger at others will only serve to increase your sense of personal accountability. There’s always a risk in every investment, yet people still invest and succeed. You must look outward if you want to be successful in life.

    • @evelynrodrigo838
      @evelynrodrigo838 Год назад +1

      I’m glad I made productive decisions about my finances that changed my life forever. I’m a single mother living in Vancouver Canada, bought my second house in september and hoping to retire next year at 50 if things keep going smoothly for me 😊😊

    • @Franciscoelvio
      @Franciscoelvio Год назад

      @@evelynrodrigo838 You’re really doing well for yourself, I’m 45 and my financial life is in a mess. Any great tips would really go a long way in shaping my life. I want to buy my own house, that’s really a big flex.

    • @evelynrodrigo838
      @evelynrodrigo838 Год назад +6

      @@Franciscoelvio I’m sorry for late reply dear, I used the FIRE movement to put my finances in order. Then invested in stock, cryptocurrencies and real estate though the assistance of an investment Pro who helped me make it this big ..

    • @Calebjose110
      @Calebjose110 Год назад

      @@evelynrodrigo838 Wow that’s stirring! Do you mind connecting me to your advisor please. I desperately need one to diversified my portfolio.

    • @evelynrodrigo838
      @evelynrodrigo838 Год назад +13

      @@Calebjose110 I will forever be indebted to you… Miss Veronica Irene, you’ve changed my whole life I’ll continue to preach about your name for the world to hear you’ve saved me from a huge financial debt with just little investment thanks so much.

  • @ellis7989
    @ellis7989 Год назад +2

    Thanks for this conversation. I’ve noticed that there are a lot of people who don’t like being held accountable or can only receive it from certain people. I’ve communicated with people, especially family who I’ve talked with and told them my feelings and they were dismissed or not acknowledged at all. Preparing to go no contact. Love these peeps but healing cannot be one-sided.

  • @andreanalife
    @andreanalife Год назад +3

    Aw shes a gemini lol What i learned as an adult is childhood friendships end and its hard making new friends. Friendship is a two way street

  • @impact6508
    @impact6508 Год назад +10

    “I’m not easy to check, just ask my husband” spoke volumes.

    • @nurbrent
      @nurbrent Год назад +4

      Definitely not a quality I’m proud of! I’m getting better daily with just being silent, listening & digesting. I pray this for everyone because accepting criticism from those we love takes growth. Accountability doesn’t feel good, but it is good for us! Thanks for tuning in ☺️

    • @fatimahsbeauty
      @fatimahsbeauty Год назад +2

      ​@Nur Brent thank you for your transparency and honesty. First step toward growth, may Allah continue to bless you.

    • @louisawambui4475
      @louisawambui4475 11 месяцев назад

      Yes, it spoke self awareness and maturity

  • @mybrownsparklez
    @mybrownsparklez Год назад +11

    This is a such a mature conversation. I’m learning so much from you guys.

  • @emailwells9557
    @emailwells9557 6 месяцев назад

    Yeah, I loved this conversation. A lot of these topics are universal for men and women. Sometimes, friendships can be beyond repair when the trust is damaged. This had a lot of great themes

  • @arielmarieg
    @arielmarieg 6 месяцев назад

    It's so beautiful to see a healthy adult friendship. We gotta pour into our friendships the same way we do relationships. I needed to see this 💓

  • @pamelahenderson3166
    @pamelahenderson3166 Год назад +4

    Great topic ladies :) it is very important to respect each other's boundaries also as you had stated respect is our crown! I have heard women calling each other Bitches being a form of the buddy relationship system and it has become the norm for women who fail to realize our existence of being one of Gods Jewel's is how we present ourselves to world thank you for sharing :)

  • @superiorqueenearth4991
    @superiorqueenearth4991 Год назад +1

    Peace Im Fallon and I wrote a short story call Frienemies back in 2020 during Covid. But I like where this is going its much needed to all who are lost I like your knowledge and what your doing to help others Peace to you all

  • @sheisher-vf7xu
    @sheisher-vf7xu Год назад +2

    Yes she’s right if someone comes to you and tells you how you made them feel and they bring up how you made them feel & they’re not accepting of it and dismissive of it. Dismissing someone when the conversation is being had just shows you’re only mature when it comes to when you’re offended but not the one who’s being offensive

  • @mysticwildflower
    @mysticwildflower Год назад +1

    This resonates and very informative. A lot of gems y’all dropped. Beautiful y’all found balance and continue to work on self to have this amazing relationship and community y’all building.

  • @loved456
    @loved456 Год назад +3

    Nice discussion. You two have a beautiful relationship. I need that!

  • @courtneygore1
    @courtneygore1 5 месяцев назад

    This segment was everything I didn't think I needed today. I was tapped on and tuned in.

  • @jamaricbentley
    @jamaricbentley Год назад +2

    Trully a blessing oh I thank you guys for allowing god to speak into my life. Our sacrifices is the future. I have alot to talk about with friends.

  • @shadorismartin
    @shadorismartin Год назад +2

    Man, I loved this!! Definitely a reality check for me

  • @khadijahb3318
    @khadijahb3318 Год назад +1

    Such a healthy/balanced conversation about real life friendships. The discussion was so relatable although forgiveness is hard /like pulling teeth for some. Enjoyed this talk ☺️👏🏿

  • @Perigordian1
    @Perigordian1 Год назад +4

    Mashallah Bless both of you beautiful ladies

  • @melanierenee1653
    @melanierenee1653 Год назад +1

    This was the best! Thank you ladies so much for sharing this with us. So real and so beautiful.❤️

  • @JuanBudgetsLife
    @JuanBudgetsLife Год назад +1

    Wow! Y’all got me remembering the time I actually ruined my own surprise birthday on my 30th birthday due to anxiety and depression. I thought everyone had forgot or didn’t care enough to do anything for me. They still didn’t notice it was due to mental health they thought I was just being lazy smh 😢

  • @ShanikaBStyle
    @ShanikaBStyle Год назад +1

    This conversation was definitely needed…thank you! 1:44

  • @JuanBudgetsLife
    @JuanBudgetsLife Год назад +1

    I feel like I come to ppl with genuine hopes and get treated as if I did something wrong. Now I don’t talk because it’s hard to talk to them.

  • @ayyo84
    @ayyo84 Год назад

    Wow...what a real friend. Y'all are the truth ⭐

  • @nickeysbest2
    @nickeysbest2 Год назад +2

    Definitely discussed this in my IG live yesterday

  • @betterthisray
    @betterthisray Год назад

    I have had friends who only seek to back door me. I have had friends that only are around me to copy my personality and showboat how they are around someone like me. It always hurts my feelings when woman try to act like they aren’t hurting themselves being so wrapped up in men that they completely forget who they are. I am beautiful inside and out. I am a beautiful soul and I am very divine. I deserve a nice friend not someone who just highlights their fake love.

    • @betterthisray
      @betterthisray Год назад

      I’m praying for your healing and a safe transition into your midlife stuff. I can only imagine how it feels to be stabbed in the back and get along with someone after.

    • @betterthisray
      @betterthisray Год назад

      😘 *crisis

  • @jennifercole1028
    @jennifercole1028 Год назад +1

    ❤Amazing Conversation!!!

  • @tinnataminna
    @tinnataminna Год назад

    MUCH NEEDED CONVERSATION!!! LOVE THE PODCAST! DOPE EPISODE 👑💜👑

  • @shalendellwhite8024
    @shalendellwhite8024 Год назад +1

    Good show & real talk.

  • @ladyAdore
    @ladyAdore Год назад +2

    I love this! ❤️

  • @raijonaboyd7024
    @raijonaboyd7024 Год назад

    This was so good ladies I loved this conversation❤

  • @jjames969
    @jjames969 Год назад

    Thank you for this.. very therapeutic and informative

  • @hostwithlauren9622
    @hostwithlauren9622 Год назад

    This was so good. ❤

  • @Attention_grabbers_nails
    @Attention_grabbers_nails Год назад

    I can see all of those competitive envious shady traits! I started to look at myself but ik my heart I just run into the wrong females and look pass and give ppl chances to keep doing the same thing

  • @KalifaSuiteLife
    @KalifaSuiteLife Год назад +1

    Not take the sheet off 😂😂

    • @nurbrent
      @nurbrent Год назад +1

      😂 thank God for growth with us both lol

  • @jamaricbentley
    @jamaricbentley Год назад +1

    I feel like I cut my family off because we just so t respect each other , love each other or care but when someone die we god for two weeks and than start with some bs like I cut that neg energy off cause we just toxic crissean bleuface toxic. I cut ppl off quick I cut everything off. Cause I can’t express myself when upset

  • @linnjone2506
    @linnjone2506 Год назад +1

    ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @dr.dorothy_transformations
    @dr.dorothy_transformations Год назад

    Beautiful!

  • @ronniekalanzi3476
    @ronniekalanzi3476 Год назад +1

    Moses(Musa) called God Elohim while writing Genesis. ‘IM’ is plural in Hebrew.

  • @VeryVisionary
    @VeryVisionary Год назад +1

    Lotta fish in the sea

  • @thebrownboss8795
    @thebrownboss8795 Год назад +1

    Yes, no nice nasty and yes, women who do not have friends. One of my good homegurls told me that.

  • @mickalemapp7461
    @mickalemapp7461 Год назад

    💯💯🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @MaliaArrayah777
    @MaliaArrayah777 Год назад

    Frienemy

  • @VeryVisionary
    @VeryVisionary Год назад +1

    10 years might be time to move on sis

  • @2enti
    @2enti Год назад

    Frenimy

  • @iamsokorand
    @iamsokorand Год назад +3

    Thissssss!!!!!! it was right on time🌼🌸🌺🌸🌺🫶🏾