What women should really know about men pt.2

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  • Опубликовано: 29 ноя 2024

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  • @iluvsarahii
    @iluvsarahii 2 года назад +356

    Bright and early watching this ☕️🫶🏼

    • @marissa5140
      @marissa5140 2 года назад +2

      hey mammaaa🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽

    • @marissa5140
      @marissa5140 2 года назад +11

      It would be awesome to come in on an episode like this to get a girls perspective too🔥

  • @cjbcastillo
    @cjbcastillo 2 года назад +380

    I do not care what these men are chatting about, I will be listening! I never knew you could fall in love with a voice 😍😅 Josh I love you 🥰😂

  • @celestedasilva4109
    @celestedasilva4109 2 года назад +176

    My ex wanted a break and at the end of those weeks he wanted to come back cause I guess he saw that I wasn’t here to play around and had values I stood for.
    I’ve already knew after the first day of the “break” that I’m out of it. I’m not an option… I think If you need a break to see the value of someone… 🚩
    2 years later he still texts me…
    But I chose to ghost his ass till the end of time 🧘🏻‍♀️

    • @gabsvlogs2695
      @gabsvlogs2695 2 года назад +10

      Queeeeeen

    • @jacquelinesanchez9363
      @jacquelinesanchez9363 2 года назад +3

      👏

    • @kaylag151
      @kaylag151 2 года назад +3

      Good for you hun you know your worth 😘

    • @laurenashley4104
      @laurenashley4104 2 года назад

      Why ghost him he was man 3nkugh to tell u he needed a break which he has the right to as do women. .. tht was mature of him. What is not mature you knowing the first day and not being completely honest and saying your reason for not being a option or whatever. .. then ghost him no. Thts karma tell him straight up! Unlearn love it's always always honesty m faithfulness in relationship is key

    • @celestedasilva4109
      @celestedasilva4109 2 года назад +6

      @@laurenashley4104 No Lauren, he needed a break to have fun and play around. Yes, I knew I was not going to come back - the same way he knew from day one he was going to come back. I let him loose the game he thought he made the rules for. That’s karma.

  • @leticiabeanguido
    @leticiabeanguido 2 года назад +16

    5:46 the fact he quoted Mulan, makes me love him more 🫶🥹

  • @danielleinfante5086
    @danielleinfante5086 2 года назад +187

    hi, therapist here. One of the biggest reasons men arent open with their emotions/feelings is because men are not socialized to be in tune with their emotions. As boys, society, family, and parents socialize men to be "masculine," which does not include talking about/sharing emotions. As boys they hear the messages, "dont cry," "dont act like a sissy/girl," "only little girls cry", "you need to man up." Society has created a culture where men are not allowed to be in tune with their emotions because they're "bad" and only meant for feminine/females. Vulnerability is not seen as "masculine or manly," therefore in society, its only acceptable for women to express emotion. Being vulnerable is extremely difficult. But it actually takes more courage and bravery to talk about the uncomfortable feelings and allow yourself to be vulnerable... Something to think about.

    • @leannafigueroa6489
      @leannafigueroa6489 2 года назад +10

      ain’t no one gonna read all this

    • @lourdesgatica3132
      @lourdesgatica3132 2 года назад +34

      @@leannafigueroa6489 I did :)

    • @veronicarios567
      @veronicarios567 2 года назад +4

      👏

    • @TheMIKEKD
      @TheMIKEKD 2 года назад +4

      I feel many men like myself can’t show weakness or emotions to our kids or family
      They need a strong leader & someone to keep the plane straight & steady
      But I do respect & understand everything you said 🙏🏽

    • @karinaresendez8048
      @karinaresendez8048 2 года назад +9

      @@leannafigueroa6489 I did . Good read .

  • @natalieperez4982
    @natalieperez4982 2 года назад +23

    I hate taking breaks from a relationship, I am with you Sebas I am not a fan of breaks either you are broken up or you are together-I don’t like that in between

  • @xoxoscallywag
    @xoxoscallywag 2 года назад +28

    lol I literally left a toxic relationship where he had the audacity to pressure me into thinking I needed to enhance my body knowing I wasn’t even interested in surgery. Can’t wait to find the man who appreciates everything about me! ❤️

  • @elidasilveira3257
    @elidasilveira3257 2 года назад +75

    I completely love and appreciate that you guys did this, because at this point I believe there’s only a 1-2% of men that a genuine gentlemen ( respectful, honest, caring, motivated, appreciative, open perspective, and other great values). TBH these Latino men don’t acknowledge the beauty of Latina women. Calling us Las toxicas, believing in machismo is still part of our culture. Nah nah! This is why Bad Bunny is one of my favorite artists, because he states that obvious /supports women and their struggles.
    Together we are stronger! ❤️‍🔥

  • @veeemejia
    @veeemejia 2 года назад +14

    Leyva’s note about “find their love language” is a major 🔑. Glad they spoke about that🙌🏽

  • @elizabethayala5156
    @elizabethayala5156 2 года назад +18

    When both of you agreed to “el que quiere, puede” and if a man doesn’t wanna do something nice for you they won’t. It broke my heart to hear that. I also tried communicating to my ex once telling him that I’d like to receive flowers, or maybe one day surprise me with a rose. He told me “así menos te las voy a dar” it has to come out of me to wanna give you things. It sucked but whatever.. I know I’m worth more than that so I left. And I’m glad I did. Not just because of the flowers but a lot more happened closed doors. It was toxic. I’m much happier now and just getting to know and love myself more. Loved this episode !

    • @princekiki33
      @princekiki33 2 года назад

      But if you knew you he was like that from the beginning para que quejarte despues?? You knew what you were getting into

    • @the9nine521
      @the9nine521 Год назад

      @@princekiki33 only she knows, but why even ask this?! You sound mad dumb and rude. Just be happy for people that got out of toxic situations and learned their self worth.

  • @babee8740
    @babee8740 2 года назад +22

    We need an episode with you guys parents! Either your mom or dad because they raised wonderful men! 👏🏼

  • @aLove1610
    @aLove1610 2 года назад +14

    Josh should be an inspirational speaker lol I feel so special after that “there’s only one of you in this world” speech 😂

  • @jessicasanchez8746
    @jessicasanchez8746 2 года назад +16

    Okay that yell josh let out was perfect 👍🏽

  • @Lucy_f831
    @Lucy_f831 2 года назад +17

    I love your segments “perspective of a man” because you genuinely answer the questions with the utmost respect, with maturity, but at the same time keep it 💯
    Also thanks for answering my question 😁

  • @IrmaLopez-rt2zt
    @IrmaLopez-rt2zt 2 года назад +5

    The problem here that most MEN don't have SEBAS way of thinking. SEBAS is very mature and knows what he wants. Most men are not sure what they want and are insecure

  • @biyankab8740
    @biyankab8740 2 года назад +9

    A break? Is someone trying to decide if they want to be with you or not… ✌🏽 don’t let anyone play with you like that.

  • @danielahz21
    @danielahz21 2 года назад +19

    I loveee these kind of episodes 👏🏼 we need pt. 4, 5, 6, 7, etc.. & bring on different guest that are single, married, divorced, etc.! Maybe a girl to give her perspective on what you guys are saying 🙌🏼

  • @Lizzytrixx
    @Lizzytrixx 2 года назад +2

    I teared up a little when Sebas said how he waited and knew exactly that she was the one he wanted even after all those years 🥺❤️❤️❤️love that!

  • @bianca4227
    @bianca4227 2 года назад +139

    I loved this episode! I love seeing both of your perspectives as a single man and in a relationship. Also you guys should have Tania Lucely on the podcast. Her perspective on what a women should look for in men is eye opening. It would be interesting 😊

  • @cheyblanco7353
    @cheyblanco7353 2 года назад +2

    Josh is so positive and has a great outlook on all these topics in a HEALTHY way!

  • @KarenHernandez-ng3rt
    @KarenHernandez-ng3rt 2 года назад +14

    Love them keeping it real!! Josh you’re so well spoken. Ahh they both needs to host workshops for men. Men gotta take notes 📝.

  • @emaspov
    @emaspov 2 года назад +5

    Having Josh makes la platica EVEN better!! Great idea man

  • @devindiaz
    @devindiaz 2 года назад +5

    The twins inspired y'all so much, got you guys matching again 🤣🫶🏽

  • @fettuccinealfredo2182
    @fettuccinealfredo2182 2 года назад +6

    I wish there was a number I could call each day to get my daily dose of positivity from Sebas and Josh. Like 1-800-pump me up for the day please! Love your guys’ energy 🤍🤍🤍🤍

  • @Pattty5826
    @Pattty5826 Год назад +1

    You helped me see things clear…. My feelings are valid. Hes playing me for a fool & taking awhile with his gf because he loves her… i deserve better because i have goals, im thick but im attractive, or will be to someone who can appreciate my brains & body

  • @Labonitalinaa
    @Labonitalinaa 2 года назад +19

    I hope that y’all have a blessed Monday filled with opportunities and great energy around y’all ✌🏼
    Just gotta say y’all’s podcast is so refreshing to listen to the topics y’all bring up are great! And hearing y’all’s point of view helps us have a better understanding.
    Take care ✌🏼

  • @kazzandrareyes4196
    @kazzandrareyes4196 2 года назад +1

    LA PLATICAAAAAAA 🗣🗣🗣🗣 love the squeaky boyzzzzz 😂😂😂 y’all comedy and real! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

  • @maribazooka5475
    @maribazooka5475 2 года назад +3

    I really liked Josh’s answer on the question of a guy leading a girl on. He’s just not honest and some people lack honesty. I personally think they’re not honest because they want to get relationship perks without committing . He seriously just not that into you and you gotta keep it moving as harsh as it sounds , no one should have you questioning a situation.

  • @jessicamartinez-ck1sn
    @jessicamartinez-ck1sn 2 года назад +53

    I almost unsubscribed when the new host was added. Not because I didn't like him cause I didn't even know Josh but because in my mind the podcast was already so good so there was no way it was going to be better. Welllll let me tell you I am so obsessed with it now! You guys really compliment each other and the convo just flows!!! A million chefs kisses!

  • @Erkavla
    @Erkavla 2 года назад +8

    I LOVE the advice segment 🥹 or hearing mens perspective on diff things! This helps women too know how men think, you guys should def do more episodes like this! You 2 are very wise, mature while also being fun, i love it 👌🏼👌🏼

  • @veronicaperez-rx5ef
    @veronicaperez-rx5ef 2 года назад +3

    Taking a break & seeing other people or exploring while you still love the other person knowing it’s a break from them, but you’ll possibly get back together, Is an open relationship for a few weeks. IT’S AN OPEN RELATIONSHIP! If your not comfortable with an open relationship break TF up. Let yourself heal fully and then circle back and see if the love is still there. But it’s a damn open relationship.

  • @aiderysandoval
    @aiderysandoval 2 года назад +12

    “Breaks” are a no for me. To me, it’s an excuse to go mess around without the guilt. If my husband ever even brought it up, he can pack his bags and not come back.

  • @veronicagarza83
    @veronicagarza83 2 года назад +3

    1:13:45 Not Josh making me cry. 🥺😢 that hit me so hard cause I’m struggling so much with feeling worthy lately.
    Levitate Josh..LE👏🏻VI👏🏻TATE 😆

  • @ekicks180
    @ekicks180 2 года назад +5

    Bad boys tend to take care of their physical appearance more too & that’s attractive to many women

  • @ryanhaefs5421
    @ryanhaefs5421 2 года назад +12

    Still confused why people want to be friends with their exes 😂 why???

    • @J10-f4s
      @J10-f4s 2 года назад +3

      Honestly, sometimes you find out you get along better as friends than in a relationship lol

    • @yvettecastaneda4606
      @yvettecastaneda4606 Год назад

      Pp

  • @swaggerchickk123
    @swaggerchickk123 2 года назад

    I love Josh!!!! You can see his soul shine from his personality he’s everything

  • @vanesarodriguez14
    @vanesarodriguez14 2 года назад +1

    La platica with Josh just makes sense 🔥 loving these videos lately they keep me so grounded

  • @ceci.quin_
    @ceci.quin_ 2 года назад +1

    That confidence part>>>

  • @Homeg0rl
    @Homeg0rl 2 года назад +3

    Sebas emotional chuckle 31:45 lmao 🤣
    Look it’s OK to not like breaks! Or like ‘em. That’s considered a boundary. Respectfully ✨

  • @lupeelove
    @lupeelove 2 года назад +2

    Ladies providing a safe and comfortable place for your partner to express their thoughts, feelings, wants and needs is key for them to open up. Men do need a little push but once they become comfortable they will continue to be open, men need to prioritize their mental health too! This type of communication and MH “check ins” (for both) will unlock a different level in your relationship. Love your podcast, can’t wait for more!! 🫶🏽

  • @lilybaybee777
    @lilybaybee777 Год назад

    🎶 If it ain't about money I go... nowhere
    I'm nailed to the floor
    Money controls where I go, it is the sail to my boat🎶
    ayyyyeeee 🙌🏼

  • @lakarensita1368
    @lakarensita1368 2 года назад +7

    Amazing episode ! Thank you for answering my question guys! Everything you said it’s almost like I already know but hearing you guys confirm it was like okay let me get my shit together and stop messing with these bad boys that I KNOW are no good for me🥲 keep killing it guys, we love you!

  • @alejandramarquez533
    @alejandramarquez533 2 года назад +1

    Yes yes the whole podcast yes!! I’ve been vocal about my feelings towards marriage to my bf since high school about us getting married he explained himself so beautifully that I wouldn’t ask again it really when they’re financially, mentally,and physically ready. Also with dates and flowers he wasn’t the best at it and I’m very giving I’ll be at the store if I know I see something you’d like i get it he never did so I talked about it to him and he understood me and also explained how he was brought up I comforted and also made sure to let him know it’s okay to be loving and sentimental towards me it doesn’t make him look anyway if anything I love him more! 💞 we talk about everything and now after almost 8 years together we’re pregnant! 🙏🏻

  • @J10-f4s
    @J10-f4s 2 года назад +13

    I’d like to comment that my son’s father and I are great friends. We dated for 6 years and broke up in 2008. I’m just a very down to earth person. I feel that when things end amicably, ex’s can definitely be friends. He’s had many relationships since then and only ONE of those girls had an issue with us being cool with each other. Ladies and gentlemen, be confident, and unless your partner gives you a reason to doubt them, give them your trust.

    • @gabsvlogs2695
      @gabsvlogs2695 2 года назад +11

      I feel like that’s a different situation because there’s a child :)

  • @Yesenia111
    @Yesenia111 2 года назад +17

    I’m dying!!! 😂had so much fun listening to this podcast! 😂
    Btw…in my opinion,
    Taking breaks is soo childish. That’s what we did in high school.

  • @Leandro0127-r4c
    @Leandro0127-r4c 2 года назад +1

    I’m so glad I waited til the very last 5 minutes. Josh spoke something I’ve never heard anyone else say and that’s comparison. Wow ! Never never ever ever compare ! Thank you ! Loved this 🙏🏻 Definitely need a part 3!!!!!!!

  • @Jamieforeals
    @Jamieforeals 2 года назад

    Yoooo dropping all of the good info. Bro josh is wholesome af. He really got good insight on relationships

  • @nicolellorens8117
    @nicolellorens8117 2 года назад +19

    I love this podcast and I love you two and your chemistry ‼️I literally can listen to you two all day! Manifesting being on the best Latino podcast one day 🥰😜

  • @Hvnly888
    @Hvnly888 Год назад

    Awhhh this is so crazy dude when u cried and then that long look you gave him like the gratitude you have for a human being ugh so cute mama✨💕 god bless your growing family 💕✨🙏

  • @ol193
    @ol193 Год назад

    At the moment I’m using a “break” as an excuse to get away from an abuse relationship.. some people cannot accept breaking up. You all are so lucky for being so mentally healthy and stable :( I look back at my photos and videos and just cry at the thought of not being that happy person anymore. Pray for me

  • @yazminmeraz1997
    @yazminmeraz1997 2 года назад +6

    This is one of my favorite podcasts from you guys! Answered all good questions and hit a lot of key points! Love u guys

  • @shyetloka17
    @shyetloka17 Год назад +1

    My husband and I have been together for 13 yrs now. When we were maybe 2 or 3 yrs in we each took a break at one point because I think we needed to find out if we really wanted to be together but it was because we were fighting so much. We just needed to make sure it was worth fighting for. I was hurt then but I also knew I had a lot to offer him. I still love him. Things are not the same but we’ve been together for 13 yrs and now have a 5 yr old. Things are bound to change.

  • @catmtz8457
    @catmtz8457 2 года назад +1

    If you need a break you’re probably in the wrong relationship. What happens when you’re married? You don’t take breaks, you work through things.

  • @ston3ybby420
    @ston3ybby420 2 года назад

    i luv how you always post on mondays because if you didn’t post i’d be bored af at work on mondays

  • @alondrarosegonzalez
    @alondrarosegonzalez 2 года назад +4

    I love this special! It is honestly so so true! A lot of women don’t want that macho “I don’t give af” mentality in a man. We love soft and sincere, emotions in a man.

  • @stacygutierrez1157
    @stacygutierrez1157 2 года назад

    Josh: “yea, it’s my buff ass chest” 🤣🤣 dead lol

  • @lanceyf.3078
    @lanceyf.3078 2 года назад +1

    Men and women should understand their attachment style and most men are dismissive avoidant which is why they don’t express themselves. It stems from childhood experiences and upbringing. The 3 types of attachment styles are Avoidant, Anxious and Secure.

  • @torijurado2486
    @torijurado2486 2 года назад +1

    Murillo twins put me on. New favorite!

  • @giselaorquiz8293
    @giselaorquiz8293 2 года назад +2

    Keeping me company while I work. Love you guys!

  • @gabriellar87
    @gabriellar87 2 года назад +5

    Listening while cooking dinner and I just have to say thank you to sebas and josh because I literally forgot I was cooking because I was enjoying the podcast so much!! 😌

  • @crystalsalinas2453
    @crystalsalinas2453 2 года назад

    Josh singing Pokémon sent me 😂 also the fact that there was not one laugh in the building except for his was everything lmao much love tho ✌🏼

  • @amazing34593
    @amazing34593 2 года назад

    Josh’s personality tho!! Thank you fool coverage for showing me these amazing men!! 💕

  • @brayanvillasenor9924
    @brayanvillasenor9924 2 года назад

    No cap, that beat that you guys play on the break is stupid fire 🔥

  • @chismewithmel9850
    @chismewithmel9850 2 года назад +9

    I found you guys through the Murillo twins episode & I’m so glad I did!
    NEW SUB 💘
    Your views & perspectives as men are refreshing especially when your town is full of toxic machistas.

    • @lisae6330
      @lisae6330 2 года назад

      Same and im hooked!

  • @kaylaheredia6787
    @kaylaheredia6787 2 года назад

    Y’all so real! I love it. Also, Josh went off at the end, TWICE. With his speech about being unique, having value and his rap 😂… “WOW, are we okay? Is everyone okay?” 😂 “you know who else? You know who? Who? Nvm” “it’s mr. crazy flo” 😂👏🏼

  • @crystalxo91
    @crystalxo91 2 года назад

    “Maybe I’m old school, but I like connection.” 🥹💖 loved that. Great episode ✨

  • @melissasahagun8118
    @melissasahagun8118 Год назад

    Watching this waiting for tomorrow cause Mondays don’t suck with the number one Latino podcast.

  • @natalieperez4982
    @natalieperez4982 2 года назад +8

    Y’all need to buy a red flag🚩and use it when is “🚩” talk 🤣

  • @TheEmpressPortal
    @TheEmpressPortal 2 года назад +2

    All the MULAN references get me lmaooo

  • @kimmacias7105
    @kimmacias7105 2 года назад

    I will never get tired of seeing your guys padcasts!

  • @catherineandraca774
    @catherineandraca774 2 года назад

    Omg this episode hit all the points. When josh said, “they want their cake and eat it too” omg I wanted to send that clip to my x 😭

  • @jackiedee7977
    @jackiedee7977 2 года назад +1

    I love you both ! I think as woman, we know these things but, its refreshing hearing it come from a man. You both are awesome and I love listening.

  • @ThePRINCSARA
    @ThePRINCSARA Год назад +1

    ❤ second time I watch this hilarious love you guys 😂

  • @brendasanchez2322
    @brendasanchez2322 Год назад

    Not Josh singing Mulan 😂

  • @kathyrodriguez8185
    @kathyrodriguez8185 2 года назад +4

    Thank you guys for entertaining me with all the podcast. Listened to your last 5 all week when my fiance left on a trip and i was home alone. Great company you guys make 👍🏼

  • @nallelycorral3522
    @nallelycorral3522 2 года назад

    The right man will change for the right woman! That is the key! If they don’t change then they aren’t for you. And that’s ok too! Love La Platica ❤ BEST LATINO PODCAST IN THE WORLD!

  • @marialisantana6708
    @marialisantana6708 2 года назад +5

    I love this man talk, i would really appreciate it if you guys did one of these podcasts in Spanish. My husband only speaks & understands Spanish so it would mean alot if he can listen to yoiur advice😁😜
    Keep up the good work!!💙

  • @shellymakavelii
    @shellymakavelii 2 года назад +1

    I love the way u guys answer these questions! Very mature and educated answers love it

  • @thottiev2382
    @thottiev2382 9 месяцев назад

    Hitting all the points fr sebas like BE A LITTLE QUIET 😭

  • @gabriellar87
    @gabriellar87 2 года назад

    “Why’s you’re face contoured” 🤣🤣

  • @Yooitsemmy
    @Yooitsemmy Год назад +1

    I’m binge watching the episodes 😂 ya me enamore del Josh ptm🥵🫶🏼

  • @nessebaby91
    @nessebaby91 2 года назад +1

    I swear you guys don’t disappoint! Love love love every single episode

  • @marlenesosa2621
    @marlenesosa2621 2 года назад

    “Wtf did you drink” LMAOO 😂😂😂

  • @nancyarellano-airada2081
    @nancyarellano-airada2081 2 года назад +1

    Hands down ! Y’all are THE BEST LATINO podcast I don’t care what anyone says ! Keep bringing up sick content

  • @michellecorreia9687
    @michellecorreia9687 2 года назад +4

    The energy you guys bring to the podcast is 🔥😂♥️

  • @cynthiaarobles
    @cynthiaarobles 2 года назад +1

    By far one of my favorite episodes, keep up the great work! Best duo ever!!!

  • @sallychingas
    @sallychingas 2 года назад +3

    This was a really good episode and important with how deep you guys got. I love the laugh and the real talk, happy to have you both on La Platica. Stay blessed 😇

  • @athzirihernandez6353
    @athzirihernandez6353 Год назад

    Omg just seeing this when sebas got stuck on zone I was STUCK😂 but looove this honesty Best Latino podcast!!!

  • @julez1091
    @julez1091 2 года назад

    “BEAUTY IS IN THE EYE OF THE BEHOLDER” 💯🫶🏼🙌🏼

  • @marissa5140
    @marissa5140 2 года назад +6

    I absolutely love these kinds of episodes!!! Where can we submit the questions?

  • @jessyisela
    @jessyisela Год назад

    Josh is giving big Capricorn energy 😂🫶🏻🙌🏼

  • @melissavalle777
    @melissavalle777 11 месяцев назад

    "As a man... we suck" 😂😂 im weak

  • @lesliessgarciaa
    @lesliessgarciaa 2 года назад +3

    Can you guys do a video on yalls health? Like fitness, eating etc?

  • @1bossychica
    @1bossychica 2 года назад

    LMAOOO GIRL IS MY TYPE - Josh is so funny 😜

  • @mariacano1468
    @mariacano1468 2 года назад

    This was so RAW and REAL straight to the point I love that ! ❤️‍🔥

  • @wendymunoz3860
    @wendymunoz3860 2 года назад +2

    Monday’s don’t suck no more!!

  • @danielac4117
    @danielac4117 2 года назад

    Lol the intro was everything 😩🔥🤣

  • @nadiaf.3003
    @nadiaf.3003 Год назад

    Josh !!!! You kill it every time I’m always like yasssss

  • @elimartinez___
    @elimartinez___ 2 года назад +1

    The random singing always gets me 😂😂

  • @PatriciaRQuintero
    @PatriciaRQuintero 2 года назад +1

    Everything you guys said was 100% facts.