These Virgins Are Violent!
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I never lost my virginity because i don’t lose at anything
You know exactly where it is right?
your voluntary just like me then
😂😂
🤣
😂 I f**king can’t
"Men are struggling with mental health"
"Lol fuck gen Z"
"Lol look at these virgins"
Yeah weird how that works
He doesnt even get it. This was all kind of fcked up. I wonder how much dating he did before he become somewhat famous.
Yeah its directly correlated
No kidding right
I do believe there might be a strong possibility, but it doesn’t mean every so called “Gen Z is there’s no data to back that statement up just mirror assumptions.. everybody blames everyone so many people are good at projecting the blame. It’s almost like a talent now. Especially since everybody calls, everybody woke and every other word on the face of the planet. We’re the only ones that have the solution some people don’t want to resolve the issues that can be solved. It’s a broken society as it is every time humans exist then get taken out by the same people. Were the problem. You can’t tame a wild animal you can only cage them even then nothing is certain.
Grow a fuckin spine.
My own mother literally made fun of me for being a virgin. Stop being weak.
"Women peak at 12."
Officer?! This one! Yes, right here this one!
"I haven't had contact with a woman in 3 years"
Weak!
That's not enough to become a bad person.
By that logic, I'd be a serial killer by now.
I haven't slept with a woman in 5 years, after a 7 year relationship and you are correct, If we went by the logic, I must be on the same level. 😆🤣
i mean it's s choice. you can always pay for it🤣
@@joshsmith4512 only the weak or obscenely rich pay for it
I haven’t been on a date in almost 3 years not crazy go to therapy it helps they what we should tell them
@@johnnylight0 lol yeah? if you say so, we all pay for it. 🤣
It's a bit different as it's more of an overall term for "shut-in" people but in Japan they have a term called "hikikomori", I'm sure incels would fall under this. It's gotten so bad in Japan that they make videos of pretty women to teach these "hikikomori" eye contact, and to basically just encourage young men to get out and find someone. Japan is an aging population as the birth rate is extremely low, so they are getting desperate...... Mind you, what also doesn't help is the fact that there is so much stress put on kids and workers in Japan, people are so overworked to the point that they have invented desks that fold out into beds so people can have little naps at the job. They are pushed to succeed way too hard... No wonder why they have the infamous "suicide forest".
As much as I love Japan and their culture/language, it's really disheartening to learn about these issues. I hope it will get better ;-;
There are many lonely shut ins out there, a lot of countries now have their version of "hikkiomori". It's been an invisible problem for generations. It's not just a Japanese thing. It's been happening in the west too. It's just less socially acceptable and carry's a lot of stigma.
I believe the ones Issac is talking about are really a small subset of younger, misled ones who are getting negative attention.
Problem is, it will look bad on the majority who do not have violent tendencies. People make ignorant assumptions and generalize and stereotype. People will just assume no friends, isolated, can't find a partner, poor social skills as a bad thing and avoid that person, depriving them of ever developing social skills.
@@peterbelanger4094 True! As an autistic person I can definitely relate to having poor social skills, well "poor" compared to the average person's standards anyway. My horse is the only reason to get me out of the house otherwise it's really hard hahaha..
It's a bit scary to hear about the violent side of these incels, but of course I don't think people should group EVERY single one of them together like they're all going to be violent. I think most are depressed and suicidal and need help.
I mean what did we expect, that all is going to be like in the past when people asked each other out on the streets and in public places? Now all is on the net or through friends cause normal asking doesnt work your either not looking good enough or some other stuff aint their fit. I still cant understand one thing where are the women that should be going out and asking guys out? why do we almost push the young men do it when the other side should be doing it as well, equal rights or no? Besides what i have seen and from close relatives how women act and how its on net or other Western Nations women just are way dangerous to approach who knows you could end up getting cops called on just by being a gentleman. Im a virgin but i got other things that need to be done and things id like to try but for me i dont understand this desire to find a woman or sex its just short term thing and seem a waste of time and money for what, 2-5 years and then you for another one. Nah no thanks. Friends, hobbies, gaming thats wayy better than women in my opinion.
@@karlisnikazis5653 I get that, totally understand you in a way. Although, I don't think it's fair to generalise all women just like I don't think it's fair to generalise all men or "incels" based on a small minority of crazies (both sexes). I've only had one relationship and it was actually quite toxic (not how people nowadays throw toxic around lol). But I don't hate all men or trans woman (since my ex identifies as trans).
I wish you all the best in your life, just do the things you enjoy and stay healthy, I'm sure you'll find someone eventually.
Hahaha, society falling apart and men not giving af anymore is a nice ending for humanity. We had our time.
Self hatred at that level usually happens when you getting bullied for decades and have no one that was there helping them back up.
Yeah, that’s only some of what I’m sure has happened to many people that has made this idea a reality.. I believe everybody has a choice you make that choice every day some people get a pass most don’t..
definitely mate i ended up in juvenile detention due to a severe reaction to this.
that's true and that's what happened to me i don't call myself an incel at all i just think women don't find me attractive because of how short i am how my voice sounds how i look in general
Yup for me my dating problems was a natural consequence of what started when I was like 10. Friends kinda abandoned me at school and I was left to the vultures, who made damn sure I knew nobody wanted to be my friend. Of course, by middle school it evolved to include telling me all the girls also hated me and thought I was gross.
So yea. This shit starts early a lot of the time. Teachers just have to grow a sack and actually reprimand the little shits who go around tormenting other kids.
@@nomadsland8322 you're correct
Who knew women wouldn't want to date guys who go around wearing Guy Fawkes masks?
Guy Whogetsnofawkes 🤣This' like watching a parody movie called - The Virge or someshit 🤣
i blame V for vendetta.
@@HunglikeBDP OOH, that fits perfectly! V For Virgin 😂
breaking news: Guy Fawkes's mask will turn girls on in 2025 and become a fetish
or u have no critical thinking and relies it was just for the interview ??
If they decide to swear off women, wouldn't that make them voluntary celibate? 🤔
they always avoid that subject. I've been divorced for years and I couldn't give a shit about getting a root so does that make me involuntarily celibate?
I had this thought too, I also have sworn off women, but its not involuntary, I couldnt care less about a relationship anymore, im happier alone. I have zero ill will or bad feelings towards women
@@aardvarkbiscuit2677 No.
You *could* decide that a root would be nice & go looking for an opportunity... These chumps have decided that because they're such losers, women are bad & deserve hatred. That's quite different.
Eventually enough is enough. Disenfranchised men are tired of women dehumanizing them, reducing them to their faces. Tired of women not viewing them as human. Eventually you tell yourself enough is enough
Us incels don't try to swear off women. Women swore us off. There's no point in chasing the 0.01% of women that MAY date us and self improving
"I wanted to change the world. But I have found that the only thing one can be sure of changing is oneself." - Aldous Huxley
I thought you said "a better virgin of yourself" at 2:40, not "a better version" lmao
Badum tiss 🥁
🫳🏼🎤
As someone who is autistic themselves and still a virgin, I don’t blame woman at all, I started to go the gym recently, I always been a chubby kid but in the future I plan to become fit to become more attractive.
Edit: After seeing the comments I wanna clarify something, I know going to the gym isn’t a one way ticket to getting a girl, this is real life not some corny anime where any guy with muscles pulls every girl in sight, I just think being healthier and fitter will help with my confidence which in turn will sort of help to eventually find the one.
Also, while I’m at it, I thank you all for the kind comments, I don’t even know any of you but knowing some random strangers on the internet cared enough to leave a comment under mine motivates me more to become the best version of myself, not saying I wasn’t that before, of course, I don’t get my motivation from youtube comments after all. That would be stupid.
I'm fit and somewhat attractive and a voluntary virgin
just being out there and building yourself into a better more healthy version of yourself will make you more attractive, wish you the best on your journey
Keep working on yourself and you will not only fall in love with yourself but you’ll attract others too.
Got the tism too at gym, 6ft 4 was a registered nurse but still tinder pof and hinge would get very few matches or when I said i was autistic they left straight away :'(
@@dubbulaMaybe not mention autism in your profile and get them to meet you without any bias. It wouldn't be lying.
Women call me ugly all the time, so I keep to myself and avoid women as much as possible.
its in youre head bro - gaslighter
I see bro hitting the gym
Sad!
@@MikeJensen-w2v This is WHY I only use LED!
Lmfao
not all incels are women hating men most have just givin up on dating because of how hard it is to date nowadays
It wouldn't be a Butterfield video without over generalisation!
OMG dating is so much energy now and everyone just wants to sext and not put out any effort
If you talk to society, it is useless, compassion is the last thing they need, first they prefer to have groups of hated antisocials to laugh at.
I agree!
Especially when all the women that they are attractive to have turned themselves into a product.... one of the pornographic... unless of course you have enough money.. but then that still applies..
I consider myself a voluntarily celebit. I have a ton of work to do on myself as a person. I'm overweight and unfit. I'm unemployed and I only have myself to blame.
I wish you the best on your "redemption arc", my friend. At least you took the first step, which is recognizing that there's a problem
I'm overweight, but employed. Yet, I'm pretty much a voluntary celebit at this point. Had my relationships and realized I'm unable to romantically connect with others. The lack of a sex drive also helps.
Stop blaming yourself and start creating your Future, even little steps are good. You can do it
Bro go to the gym
Yeah it's easy to improve yourself if you are fat, but what if you're ugly or short, how do you self improve then? Being fat is a choice, having bad facial features is something that'll make society treat you with disdain no matter what you do
I think society pushing the idea that virgins are all violent will only perpetuate the issue. I don't think simply being a virgin makes someone violent, it's mostly the way society views virgins and how they're treated for being virgins. Also, touch starvation actually changes your brain. Like it scientifically makes people crazy. Humans crave touch and no one should be starved so much to the point that they go crazy and cause violence. Yes, it is up to the incel to make changes to things they can control, HOWEVER society needs to meet them in the middle. Also society needs to rethink how they view autistic people. Be more accepting of the of the fact that they aren't neurotypical. A lot of them crave connection, why starve them? Autistic people are heavily oppressed when it comes to being accepted into society, and that's a recipe more making an autistic person violent. I'm autistic myself, take it from me.
I also think making fun of them in general is not smart. If people are so concerned about these men commiting violence, maybe not provoke them? And stop ostracizing autistic people just because they're different
I'm a virgin, I'm a reasonably attractive 18 year old male. I could've lost my virginity a long time ago but to be honest I couldn't really care to.
Though that's mainly because I'm stuck on a girl who already has a boyfriend, so I'm waiting for them to either break up or I will simply be a virgin for life.
Gets worse. I was touch starved and honestly just some contact was almost painful. Because it was nice but I knew it would be a long time before I'd get it again.
When a hug will make you cry..... I'd rather just not. Didn't help that growing up most of the people that tried to touch me meant violence towards me for being strange.
Too many girls are brainwashed into all men are toxic and I'm safer with a bear thinking. They will all end up with cats and regret. That will not help these perfectly nice men to find a wife. I'm not surprised they are angry.
@@Toast2005That's wrong, don't be fixated on one woman!
@@danzgoogle845 i'm a bit like that now, though imo "touchstarved" is a bit left of where i'm at. In my down moments it sucks, just which i could sit on a couch with a partner you know. Conversly cause of the lack of this, I hate it now when random unknown people touch me lol.
Dont forget that after 30 years of being a virgin you become a wizard
A wise man once said Coaches never play 👍
😂 na I thought it was u had to never fap to completion til 40 to become the wizard , forget no nut November, needs to be a lifestyle 😅
Wizard reporting in :~)
@@griffin1366wizards must be really good at polishing their staffs
@@bullschitt3666 I used to and might every so often (like once a month) but I quit pr0n at 25 as I recognized it was a huge problem in my life.
I'm a 17 year old incel and I'm not violent. If I ever became violent, I would off myself to prevent myself from hurting others. My ugliness shouldn't be a reason for attractive people to suffer.
Like you hate women?
You're probably not even ugly dude - not that it matters. I had a mate in high school who would make a Picasso look attractive - a true ming - but we were jealous of him as he got laid every weekend. He had the gift of the gab and made girls laugh, that's all. Granted it was the 80's and you could trip and land in a puss but still, work on your social skills, confidence humour and wit and you'll get there. Also learn how to pick up on social cues so you can recognise when a female is interested in you.
You have the harassment and teasing that attractive people do to you, if you didn't take that as a reason, then you are not able to give the bad people what they deserve.
Good bro keep it to yourself
17 is so young. You can grow out of it. Get fit, get goals. Life’s tough good luck!
I know you have said this in other videos so I'm surprised you haven't mentioned it here. When society constantly tells you "men are a piece of shit", at some point some men are going to start believing that. Young people are more into social media and more impressionable, which makes men hate themselves and lash out. We need to start telling people to fuck off more, whenever they spout this hatred.
This is proof that humans were not ready for the internet... Its a catch 22 because of the pros that come from it as well.
The internet can be so wonderful and beneficial. Just think about those videos if guys going around and cleaning up overgrown yards for free. It helps the occupant of that place, helps the community and the person doing the act makes a boatload of money off it from people watching the videos for free.
I won't argue the positive things that come from it. It is definitely more broad spectrum in terms of reach and ability to connect with communities across the world. That used to be a penpal situation.
However, can we say the pros outweigh the cons?
In most recent years, it feels like the good is more of a spectacle and rare, examples like you pointed out. Lots of benefit in your example but then it feels like it is stacked with two negatives in contrast. Not referring to the situation you gave note to, but in ratio to those types of videos.
Im not a Incel but I am a voltuntary virgin for morality reasons sir 👍
Cope
@@TheDragon4775 why?
@@TheDragon4775over for wmafcels 💀💀💀
Then your ncell aka voltarion cellbycy
''Dangerous virgins" "Incels" you mean the average 4Chan user?
It's The Virge 😂
Yep enjoy your modern progressive society
What is forchan
Incels,.. sounds more inscet
Can’t leave out Reddit
when the first girl steals your child you can become something similar to an incel, like myself.
Genuine question do you hate women
I’m 19 and a virgin. I don’t dwell on the fact nor do I consider myself an incel because it’s a word that has been made by social media to label people.
If you make your whole personality and life around being an incel no wonder you can’t get a partner and have no one to blame but yourself.
Pull yourself above a silly little term.
Issac, you are a hilarious comedian and I want you to know that I’ve been with you since near the beginning it has been fantastic to watch you perfect your craft and succeed in life. I preordered Better Man, and it finally arrived today. I live in America so I think it took a little longer. Anyways, I’m super excited to read it and I’m grateful to have someone genuinely funny and honest here on RUclips. I also someday hope to go to one of your shows and visit Australia. Thanks for what you do sir!
I'm friends with Tom (the masked guy on the video). The guy who claimed he had violent thoughts was not an incel,
just some random mentally ill guy the journalists brought on to paint incels as violent. Don't fall for their narrative. The truth is, most incels are just
victims of a modern dating environment. Self improvement is great but it doesn't work for most men, because women are getting far more picky in who they will date.
More woman than ever are just becoming "catladies" and refusing to commit to men, reducing the pool of available women so that there are only 60 women around for every 100 men.
What about these leftover men? What are they supposed to do? This is the root of the issue and why incels are not going anywhere
Trvth nvke
Yes, as a woman I completely agree. Social media has distorted our senses when it comes to finding a partner. The dating market became toxic. Incels aren't evil. Stop demonizing ppl that can't control how they look.
Yeah ppl always made incel look bad for some reason i been through this incel space yeah they are edgy sometimes but none of them actualy commit crimes
Tom sound like a chill guy
@@vizzabisma IKR? these ppl need to stop feeding into trolls for views.
Anyone who shames someone else for being sad is a psychopath
Not as much of a psychopath as I'm going to be now! Better take care of yourself and get protection friend
I told my virgin husband he'd be a man before days end when we were on the first date I asked him on lol I was scared he wouldn't make any moves and I was apparently correct since he used to be the incredibly shy christian boy that became the man who'd eventually make f@#king god himself blush and satan himself jealous 😘
Growing up being told "men are toxic, problematic and disgusting" all while taking Ritalin AKA cocaine... how could that make an unbalanced individual??! It makes no sense!
they choose to be that way
I’m a gay man, and I’m privy to a world where I encounter many self loathing gay men that also feel resentment towards other gay men, usually because they themselves are single, lonely, and no one is interested in them sexually/romantically.
I’m of the opinion that every single one of us comes to a critical crossroad in our lives when we are rejected, or otherwise don’t get what we would like from our interactions with other people. At this critical crossroad either we, like what these incels do, blame the world on why we are lonely or single, growing increasingly resentful because it’s “your fault”, or we choose to have the courage to look within and see for ourselves the hard work we need to do on ourselves and our lives. Self assessment and self correction seem to be dying qualities in our TikTok age, oh and most definitely a lack of humility.
It's like if someone is chronically unemployed and resentful at all those getting hired and successful. It's not just about a partner. It's feeling accepted in the world and able to "fit in". Some just can't do the social dances properly and just give up.
That social instinct does not come natural to everyone. Though it is frequently assumed to.
This comment is 100 percent spot on.
I'm a straight woman and know several other straight women who are single / divorced and are very bitter about straight men because they have been romantically rejected a lot and / or treated badly in previous relationships.
I think regardless of someone's sexual orientation or gender, you can fall into this category.
The vast majority of people have, at some stage, been romantically or sexually rejected / been in a bad relationship / been broken up with etc. It's all about how you handle it, move on and the kind of outlook you have.
Indeed. Well said
@@peterbelanger4094 I have to respectfully disagree about part of your comment. They’re social “skills”, and they must be “practiced”. Part of the problem with many of these incels, and those like them, is their perspective of people that have good social skills that they just magically have acquired them, or have a “gift. They don’t see the work, or effort, or breadth of experiences that lead to someone being capable of handling themselves (subjectively) well in social situations, and these incels (and those like them) aren’t willing to humble themselves by looking within and accepting the work they need to put in to make positive changes to any applicable unhealthy part of their lives or personality.
@@perrierjouet2203 many people are unwilling to humbly accept that in order to start moving towards what they really want in life (especially when a repeating pattern occurs), it’s crucially necessary to ask ourselves “what am I doing wrong?”, or “what do I need to learn?”, or “what do I need to change?”. It can be an incredibly painful thing to do, but rarely results in anything less than liberating.
I definitely do not believe in excessive self flagellation. Constant negative self talk, and self berating is usually unproductive. However sometimes it’s genuinely healthy to feel genuine guilt, shame, or remorse about some of our choices/behaviours. These are our “Jiminy Cricket”: these emotions are a compass that guide us away from becoming awful people.
Tom is hilarious and a great person, very likeable. He’s the opposite of dangerous. It’s just his appearance holding him back.
Yeah incels aren't terrible
Some people do really just want to be left alone.
Yeah. Some people are just called Incel just because they don’t interact like others do.. social media just fuels this bottomless pit. I don’t want no part in it when people let you down so many times you have no other choice but to close the gate. For the record I believe everybody should be what they want to be. You can’t stop anybody nor should you try. I’m a gay man. I don’t really have a use for women right but I don’t hate them. A lot of young women annoy me just because they think they’re great But I guess that comes with anybody not just women we really should say we’re annoyed with people in general.. I don’t like narrowminded people so that wouldn’t be near as many young people. Everybody is the problem in some fashion. It seems to be. I always post a comment but I don’t care if anybody sees it or not. I put my peace out there and that’s all I care about if I wasn’t able to I wouldn’t care neither it doesn’t impact anything nor anything..
Bro goal in life is to buy five acres of land or ten my have my dogs and a big sign that says F@CK off.
having a high body count is shameful.... but only if youre a woman. Preserving your virginity is a sign of self respect.. but not if youre a man. We are raising the next generation in a world where young men are told that if they dont have sex they get shamed... but where young women are being told that its nasty to have a high body count and if they have sex theyve somehow devalued themselves... so who are these guys supposed to sleep with? A culture of females who are told to 'stay pure'.. with a culture of males who are being told that their social value depends on them having sex. Does anyone else see the conflict of interest ?
Except it's the opposite of that. Women have insane body counts, most men only have a few, some have none, and a few have thousands.
Follow Christ, let that be your ideal , the world will take you as its own. The flesh is dying
Modern western women are the most promiscuous in human history. The only ones saying to stay pure are the high iq men.
Been that way for a few decades now, think sex in the city ruined an entire generation of women and women who've slept around alot seem to encourage other women to do the same as they feel less tainted if more women are like her. Then tell them men are the enemy, the enemy of women is women not men.
Where the saying single women keep women single comes from.
The dating apps play alot into why it's like this also, but if you look at the stats 80% of women are only selecting the top 10% of men.
Meanwhile if you look at the amount of women in relationships its over 66% compared to men just over 30% so that means that for everyman that's in a relationship currently he has 2.3 women.
Just look at the amount of men who have multipule children to different women.
Women work on a hive mind they drive 80% of consumerism so makes sence they all want the man all other women want, its called pre-selection and comes from the female lizard brain/the brain stem, cerebellum, and basal ganglia.
Women are not supposed to be promiscuous but men are your reproductive system tell you that women can only have one child every 9 months whereas men could have up to 2-3 per day.
We are two sides of the one coin the same entity but completely different to each other in certain aspects.
Yes, good comment. It's complete double standards.
Feel sorry for these young guys. They've been demonised by the media and schools, half don't have their fathers in their lives and if they express it instead of being told how to fix it they just get insulted. I wouldn't even try to justify it but I can see how these guys would get this far off the rails.
Fr, if this was a problem throughput history I'd agree with Issac saying they need to get their shit together, but this is new somthings changed, and I doubt seeing 350lbs women with teeth going in every direction demanding brad Pitt certainly isn't helping 😂
10:33 Grasshopper, you are on to the game. Defining this from that and that from this and this from not this and not this from that - there's a lot of destructive power in words
The self hatred comes from pattern recognition.. people lie and we notice it happening everytime like clockwork.
And people act like they have the wisdom to cure us but yas dont... because it's simple.. we understand one thing... the definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again expecting a different result.. we've had the exact same responses for years since the day puberty hit.. we can't be convinced that we're not seeing what we are seeing... but i don't expect someone with a wife and a kid to ever understand. We don't get the same rejection, we don't get second chances.. we get one shot and it it always fails before we can even finish the icebreakers..
Love ya isaac but you couldn't understand.. it's like tryna describe sight to the blind.
As for the angry lil boys... that's because their fathers didn't teach em how to be strong men..
They just need guidance away from anger.. you can't blame us because women say no... we can't force them to say yes.... or did society forget that already?
Don't forget Issac is like 6'8
It's like high school all over again.
Ok so I do have times where I question why I'm unwanted but I don't turn to hate and hurt over it. Hell I'd rather take it out on myself then women cause it's noones fault but myown.
fair
Actually I can see a lot of personality if that is you in your thumbnail. You don’t look boring, like some very good looking men.
Same here
If you were born a woman you'd be showered with love and affection for simply existing. At some point you should ask yourself, how much of it is your fault?
@@AwfulDog1 it is me. No fake crap here
Its not involuntary when you swear off women
Yeah, but I'd hazard that most had been involuntarily celibate, up until the point that they were voluntarily celibate.
I thank them swearing off women is a cope be honest. Kinda the whole "I didn't get rejected I rejected her" or the "fine I didn't Wana have sex with you either." It's all cope. 99% of incels can have sex they just don't like there options. They all see these beautiful wemon on social media and in corn and have unrealistic expectations. If your 31 live at home with mom over weight bald make 11 dollars a hour at your part time job and spend the rest of the day playing world of War craft, and you're holding out for a 21 year old badie who has literally thousands of options including doctors and lawyers I just don't thank it's ever going to happen for you. Iv tried to help some dudes and it seems there caught up on girls out of there league and refuse to talk to girls that are more realistic for there level.
@@whenpigsfly8178all men are involuntarily celibate at some point, for some point of time (well at least most). A lot of these guys are basically children. Most 15 year olds cant get laid. Thats not an incel, its just being 15.
@@whenpigsfly8178 not true at all tbh
You sound like you have no life experience
Parents have a part in this. They need to help so their boy grow up to be confident.
We found ur video buddy. Tom isn’t dangerous he couldn’t even hurt a fly hed trip over his shoe laces trying
god is good
I’m a virgin because I never fucking lose. HOORAH
As some one sho chooses to be celibate for me, I have no reason to blame or hate women. I still love and appreciate them! It's just wild that in recent days I've noticed people say "sooo you're an incel?" Ew no gross
I've also made a video on this topic/video and I'm glad to see most people condemning this behaviour. Labelling yourself as an "incel" is no excuse for shitty behaviour and being a bad person. The incel and femcel community is not something to be proudly be apart of.
That sexual frustration is getting to them
Belittling and treating a whole section of the community just because they struggle with women ,and then scratch your head and wonder why they're angry and hateful, is just irony impaired
You know what the description of the incel forum made me think of?
These struggle sessions we're supposed to find empowering and necessary when organized for women and minorities.
coming from a former incel who saw the light and is currently reading your book I've gotta say, your book might actually help some incels if they read it no joke
no books for your face or height bud
@@MikeJensen-w2v*poopy pants sounds* :'( Go, touch grass bud.
As a man your only wanted when you are usefull or have somthing. Don't get yourself used guys.
Inm not a dangerous virgin. I'm dangerous but not a virgin
It seems like self hatred turned outward. Get help instead of living in your own personal hell. I didn't love myself for a long time and I'm still on my healing journey, but I refuse to remain miserable. And I'm single and don't hate men.
Also so should I blame myself that my family didn't want me, so what your saying Issac is that it's my fault my family don't love me...thanks dude 👍
I finally received my book 2 days ago. I'm going to give ig a proof read and keep it as a coffee table book for my son as he gets older and starts considering what being a man means.
We of course do as much as we can to make a joke out of these ridiculous libs who spend their days being angry victims, but I think it's good to have a piece of media to combat other overwhelming amounts of media about "toxic" masculinity and white men inherently being evil.
Isaac what happened to your hair? 😂
He thought of going with vegetas widows peak
There's this thing called again lol it happens to all of us, now watch you gonna go bald 😂😂
I don't blame anyone, I know I can't deeply connect with people, but there's also the advantage that I need little time to completely forget about someone and I like to be alone. Sure sometimes I'd like to experience what couples have, but I know there's not someone for everybody, that's just a lie we all got told when we were kids. Truth is, a bit more honesty when we were young would've gone a long way.
I've read your book im still incel please help
Happy birthday Issac for a month
I think the difference between incells and feminists is that feminists are proud of the fact while an incells life goal is to not be one.
I understand the incell mentality, loseing a game repeatedly no matter how hard you try due to being dealt a bad hand would make most people have the urge to flip the board.
Something i discovered was once an incell gets laid, once, and genuinely. They prove to themselves they are worth a damn and the game is winnable.
Sadly until they get their first success, they are kinda in limbo with no reference point for what works with women.
So they flail around switching to a new approach frequently or leaning harder into whats crippeling them.
The autism doesn't help their inability to learn.
Im slightly autistic, lost v plates at 20, met current gf at 25. Not an easy ride, some terrible partners in between.
Most important thing i learnt was desperation is the number one character trait the predicts rejection.
Makes sense, everyone wants a good deal and people, especially women use what they think your own self worth is as a proxy variable for your value.
You can learn to fake it, but the easiest strategy is to simply not care.
Treat het like one of the boys, imagine her with a beard.
Won't work 90% of the time, but removing that desperation factor takes it down from 99.9%
Then its a numbers game. And after a win at you can begin to see the pattern of what works.
The very word incell makes you bleed desperation, its a very cruel joke of society that once you're branded as struggling, it cripples you a little more.
Women calms men, if they don't have access from it. They may end up like a terrorists or villains
I refuse to help women, since they have convinced me they can do anything a man can do... 😆
There are men out there looking for a lifelong servant who they can bully, control and, in some cases, erase. Some of these men have read the playbook and know how to trick a woman (and, let it be acknowledged, a smaller number of women who use the same tactics to trick men); some of these men can’t get the hang of restraining their nasty intentions and are rightfully avoided.
Go read Lundy Bancroft’s Why Does He Do That?
I know tom and he is a great guy.
I once came across an Intel chatsite some years ago. Not sure what I was looking for but from what I remember I saw some posts of guys who struggle with mental issues (which is sad) and a lot of trolls who basically fed the illusions of the poor guys who needed some real help.
I am a woman and I'm gonna be honest I have dated some guys that weren't exactly super hot and didn't have any money But they were just great dudes and Fun made me laugh we're nice to me and with a little bit of coaching learn to be good in bed and got what they wanted in the end looks don't always matter and that is the truth coming from a woman Also This isn't just about being a gold digger but women want security they wanna know that you're not gonna risk being homeless every other week because you can't pay the bills Especially if you're planning on having children with this person So working on getting a good job in the main time And working on yourself and your personality In the mean time Is a good thing you might even meet a Hottie at work that likes you back!
Lost me at "women want security" yeeah. Just one of the traits I dislike about most of them. If they prioritize security, there's no telling how much they're there for you and how much they're there for the security you provide, and will up and leave when you slip and things go to shit (which has happened soooo often)
@@metalmarten3478 If men want a woman who is submissive and dependant on them for everything, than yeah, his ability to have a secure position in life is a concern. And note I said secure, not wealthy, because you can have one without the other.
In your teens and early twenties you can be broke and get a lot of chicks, because everyone is broke. But as you get older it starts to become way more about money than looks or personality. I'm not complaining, it makes sense, it just is.
@@nekk-ra7080 yeah not my vibe at all. Like I said, if she's dependant on him then she's gone the moment things go south, and he better not count on her helping him get out of the ditch. More realistically as life has shown, she's leaving him in that ditch to sink even lower.
Hey Matthew nice womenly name, pay your own bills 😂 you say women want security but majority of divorces around 70% are initiated by women and then they take 50% as well as child support if you have kids and all cause their 'unhappy' not abuse or anything else so when does the man get security? Modern western women addicted to social media a huge financial risk and burden. Not everyone is the same but the pool of women the younger gen is working with have delusional standards so I don't blame these guys for looking friendship where they can find it. If you find love you make it work through thick and thin death do us part, marriage is dead without those morals and you will see more ppl like this as a result.
As someone with autism, I'm not very social since neither of my two best friends live in the same town (or country) as me or have much time to hang out since they have families now, soo i don't go out much unless necessary because I listen to everything around me and that causes me to get confused and disoriented whenever there's too much people around.
Nor can i tell when someone is into me unless they say it straight out loud which is something no one does these days.
I'm usually not the one to start a conversation either but once I meet someone more and more, it gets easier to talk to them.
But anyway,
I cannot understand why anyone would start to hate the opposite gender just because they haven't had any luck in finding someone due to not being able to function like a "normal" person could which in turn makes me hate it when people group us with autism in the same category as these incels....
Incel should be it's own illness!
As a virgin I haven't watched the video yet 😂
Damn dude 😂
I'm an autistic virgin and I've only seen about 1 minute into it and already got called out 💀
bro 😭
I been alone for years now and I’m almost turning myself into a black pill follower, involuntary. Yes it hurt but be kind and compassionate to yourself and others. Love is truly what matters the most in the end. I had suicidal thoughts for a long time but I know peoples around me will be sad if I go, so I stick around for a while ✌️
I agree. Just because you have an ugly mug doesn't mean you can't work on your body. Take guitarist slash from Guns & Roses. That dude was honest with people and himself. He didn't have the best-looking face, but he worked on his body and grew out his hair. Learned how to play guitar, and then now he's known as one of the sexiest guitarists in the world.
He's a fucking Rockstar....😂
It does not make sense how “anyone” can say stuff of that nature openly , and authorities, or psychiatric care does not come into play.
But yet , not voting in the state election 1 year can have you seeing decent Fines and warrants for your arrest without a blink of an eye 👁️!
Isaac hasnt been shaking this hard since he let go of the carbs.
In my day when we didnt fit in any other group we just joined the goths. 🤷♀️
Most of us were dtf. 😅
Based
I'd wager is prostitution was actually legal and subsidised for "certain people" that this problem would go away.
No joke!
No, because they think those women are "unclean" and not the Waifu they deserve.
It is legal in Australia
@@nekk-ra7080 Perhaps the small minority any mate I've met they would all take the opportunity. Now it's illegal were I'm at but it still happens. Had one come up to me and try to do her services man that was some sad crap I just gave her some cash and walked away. Crap was so depressing seeing someone who has a bad look in their eyes and their brain was messed by drugs. But the guys who actually hate women yeah not really gonna help them personally.
@@nekk-ra7080 There are always going to be crazy people, but i think the majority of these people are not crazy, just lonely. Not everyone can handle being alone
I’m a 22 year old virgin and never had female contact besides my family but now all I do is go to work, sleep, maybe eat, gym and repeat
Go to church and find a wife.
gazoinks
Give yourself at your worst the same advice…. You wouldn’t take it
Kekw. Im 33 now and about year my test.lvl drop very low. Now i dont want any woman at all. So good luck to those desperate females, when i get in my 35s.
"Her eggs are partially poached" 🤣🤣🤣 Love your snarky comments.
11:34 that happened the street directly behind my dads house its crazy i dont know how he was allowed to own a gun in the first place it was totally preventable. 5 people died that day starting with his own mother then taking his attack to the streets and killing 4 more people including a young girl and her dad, others where also injured but survived.
the sight of his fat block head enrages me
Largely, today's feminism is exactly WHY we have incels.
I mean I feel like that’s so let’s be real. It sure seems like it
5:06 They get the name "Femcel". Its a word thats been used. It is kind of the equivalent to a incel, obivously slight differences, but yes, thats the name people now give feminist.
if men have sworn off women for sexual reasons then that's not involuntary but rather voluntary which then makes the term incel completely fail XD
Or some men could be asexual...
@@rosshamilton1394there's no such thing
is it where the expression 'don't give a f**ck ' comes from? There is a problem with Isaac's definition. Who say's incels don't go to the knock shop? And by definition incel is celibate for involuntary reasons. As you say, what about the peole that couldn't be stuffed with bullshit and are consciously celibate?
@@Drew-yw6ez celibate is basically what that is
To be fair, it is pretty much the Fox and the Grapes from Aesop’s fables. Fox tries to get the grapes, but they are too high up the vine, but he keeps trying and failing, so eventually he just walks away and says “Meh, those grapes were sour/I never wanted those grapes anyway.” (Although he still does want the grapes)
Today is June 19th. Happy TDS Awareness Day!
never violence
I couldent get laid when I was younger I just became a biker and that all changed and I lowered my standards a bit.
love your videos! can’t wait for you to come to America!
That's a lot of additional connotation being assigned to a term that simply translates to can't get laid.
I feel like these horrible women out there are creating these horrible men. It’s a vicious circle
Men are so logical they get run by women
@divinaveilsaid it was both but a women could never be evil
nah man women are perfect bro🤡
just keep youre head down and stay away from them
I feel like every guy goes through an "incel" phase in middle/high school. Where you want a girl but have no idea how to get a girl and so are bitter about it. Although 99% of us mature and grow out of that phase in a few years once we realise that girls are just people like us. It's sad that some guys never mature past teenagerdom.
It's just going to get much worse in the future, I just don't see how this can turn around for the better?
Rizz em with the tizzem
Oh shit dude, that's hilarious! 😂 I want to use that one!
@@rext3404 you are more then welcome too hahaha
Another contributing factor to this situation, which I havent seen anyone else bring up, is the average age of marriage. Nowadays, most guys that do get married, arent able to do so until their thirties when they have money and have establisbed themselves. But throughout most of human history, the average age of marriage for men has been their late teen and early twenties. This shift of leaving young adult men high and dry could be a contributing factor.
These psychopaths make me feel ashamed of still being a virgin. I got a touch of the tism and I know for certain I'm a virgin because of me, I don't blame anyone else.
I'm voluntary virgin for morality reasons
@@john24110 yes you only can have sex if you get married Christian rules
@@john24110I sure will I bet ya
Don't hate yourself just because people are terrible.
@@Knowunn Never said in my initial comment that I hate myself.
1:58 look at the upper middle pfp. That says a lot about these people.
I'm a 34 yo virgin, I know I'm single cause I'm a 4 attracted 10s but I'm not mad at men. You cannot force the other sex to be attracted back at you.
I have autism myself and a lot of us do get rejected Because of the way we think and act but the way I see it is those people who rejected you probably did you a favour. But also i don’t have any issues with finding a partner or even a one night stand. But id say it depends on how you present yourself how to talk and interact with people even how you present your dating profile
I just wanna say, thats a nice beard brother.
I'm not an incel i just don't like talking to people
Damn, you must have really sold a lot of preorders on that book to be attacking its core demographic this hard.
wow
I didn't even know about all those Toronto attacks and I live two hours from there and my Dad's gf lives there. I knew it was going to garbage more than ever but wow.
Well when you have a million other crimes committed by a certain demographic the rare incel ones kind of get forgotten
One thing that I really hate is, how everything has to get labeled nowadays. Yes, groups exists and will allways exist, but this notion nowadays that everything has to be labeled, automatically creates these groups, gets you put in it, alongside with the hatred once you get labeled. Ex, with this "group".
I'm a 25 year old bona-fide loser with no job, plenty of skills and hobbies, but then again, can they even be called skills, if I still don't have a job. I don't like myself, have low confidence, don't find myself attractive, to the point, where I, whenever I go out, need to groom myself quite some time to look barely normal, all while looking at my unattractive self in the miror. I know that I'm not that unattractive, but that's easier said than done.
I'm not a suitable partner for anyone, because no one deserves such a burden like myself as a partner. I don't hate any gender, I just don't like myself because I'm a waste of air.
Now, if I posted this anywhere, watch me automatically get labeled as an incel (when I'm not one and despise what these people say about others), alongside with the baggage that comes with being called one, like "violent", when I don't even hurt a fly, touch grass, (when I'm outside plentiful, because I don't own a car yet), who hurt you (no one, except myself, the 6 years of bullying in primary school, and mocking later on throughout primary and secondary school because of my looks, shyness, reserved personality, and general quietness despite being a dude, contrary to other dudes when I was growing up), and all the ist's and other buzzwords that have lost all meaning.
You’re a guru, mate🎼🤘🏻🤘🏻🤘🏻