The Interviewer Presents: LJ Reyes (THIS INTERVIEW IS UNEDITED)

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  • Опубликовано: 5 сен 2024
  • The Interviewer Presents: LJ Reyes
    (THIS INTERVIEW IS UNEDITED)
    #LJReyesXBoyAbunda

Комментарии • 20 тыс.

  • @JeaTorres
    @JeaTorres 3 года назад +3628

    OVERALL:
    1. He cheated.
    2. He used the money that was maybe meant for the kids or perhaps meant for their future plans.
    3. Nung ginamit ni LJ ung mga salitang ayaw na nyang mkalapit si Paolo sa mga anak nya. That’s a sign. Paolo did or did not abuse them physically but clearly they were emotionally abused or worse bullied.
    4. Sinabi din ni LJ na mahirap kalimutan ang lahat ng ngyari at hindi dapat kalimutan. Everyone, read between these lines 👆🏻 This alone could literally mean more than what we could ever imagine.
    Im just blown away by how strong she was during this interview. Mahirap hindi magsalita ng masakit sa taong dumudurog ng puso mo at sumira sa tiwala mo. LJ could have loosen herself and just spilled the damn tea and all Paolo’s dirty laundries out in the open. Pero sa loob ng isang oras na interview na to wala syang binanggit na mkakasira sa buhay ni Paolo. What a shame Paolo. Biniyayaan kana ng ganyan kagandang babae na may takot sa Diyos . Napka smart at sweet na Summer, at si Aki na tinuring kang Tatay. Pinakawalan mo pa.
    We love you LJ! We are here for You, Summer and Aki. God is always closer to the broken hearted and you are a child of God. He will sure fight for His children. ❤️

  • @madj7152
    @madj7152 3 года назад +3230

    I went through the same thing. Ung Daddy ng anak ko naging cold at distant na since I got pregnant, hanggang sa manganak ako, hanggang sa nag 4yrs old na anak ko... Anjan sya pero parang may wall, tinutulugan na lang nya ko parati, pag nasa school ung anak namin, di na kami nagkikibuan, ung anak na lang namin ung priority nya. He's near yet so far. Feeling ko sobrang pangit ko na, dahil ba nasira na katawan ko? Nagka stretchmarks ako? Lahat ng pangit maiisip mo. The process was soooo sooo painful. Yung taong baliw na baliw sayo dati biglang inayawan ka na.. Ang sakit sakit. Nadepress ako, suicidal ako, dumating na sa point na nagagamot nako for anxiety and depression at may ppd pa ko nun... Then I realized I'm young at makakahanap pa ko ng magmamahal sakin kahit na may anak na ko.. I called it quits. Sumuko na ako. At ngayon sobrang saya ko.. Single ako pero I'm happier now compare to where I was before na buo nga kami pero di naman kami masaya.. To LJ, sa umpisa masakit sobrang sakit.. It took me 5yrs to fully heal and get over it.. Kayang kaya mo yan and God is with you. Laban lang para sa mga anak mo..

    • @cherryly2153
      @cherryly2153 3 года назад +16

      Hi. Sending virtual hugs din sayo. Godbless you po

    • @gisellepadilla
      @gisellepadilla 3 года назад +45

      Salute to all single mom..
      ❤️

    • @shyrlannortega5574
      @shyrlannortega5574 3 года назад +34

      Same, as in ganyang ganyan din, although right now we are still together because I want to still try, siguro pag babae na kasi ung natake for granted sobrang dami na agad pumapasok sa isip natin, I also felt that way ang panget ko kasi ba mataba nako, sobrang daming changes samantalang dati habol na habol sya... nakakalungkot lang pero I am trying to not think about it nagkavitiligo dn ako bec. Of stress wala eh nanay kasi tyo kaya we try to make it work tlga.

    • @sariasvlog1692
      @sariasvlog1692 3 года назад +5

      Napaka tapang nyo po ❤️

    • @mariekiamco2890
      @mariekiamco2890 3 года назад +3

      Godbless gurl

  • @hugotradio
    @hugotradio 3 года назад +566

    45:20 "Ang pwede lang na makapagpabago sayo for the better is if you have God (Jesus) in your heart." ~ LJ Reyes
    So ladies, seek a Godly man. A man who places Christ at the center of his heart.

    • @venusvillanueva7506
      @venusvillanueva7506 3 года назад +12

      Hindi totoo si LJ ayaw nyng sabihin totoo kahit si tito Boy hirap tuloy, yes or no lang dapat sagot pero haba story walang sagot... nagpa interview pa wala naman makuhang idea ang public

    • @venusvillanueva7506
      @venusvillanueva7506 3 года назад

      Swerte na nya nasa kanya 2 bata kung ako yan tatahimik na ako . Habang magsasalita ka sa public lalo lang gugulo, usapang pamilya lang yan

    • @venusvillanueva7506
      @venusvillanueva7506 3 года назад +1

      Nasa New York na sila bakit pa sya nagsasalita? Hay ewan ko sa iyo LJ? Ang labo mo.. hindi lagi na tama kutob natin paano ka nakakasiguro kaya iyon tanong ni tito Boy, paano kung mali ka nga LJ?

    • @venusvillanueva7506
      @venusvillanueva7506 3 года назад +6

      Malabo talaga... Bakit ka pa nagpa interview?

    • @venusvillanueva7506
      @venusvillanueva7506 3 года назад +6

      Sabihin mo lang sa anak mo totoong nangyari kahit ano pa mabasa o marinig nila ikaw pa rin paniniwalaan ng mga anak mo, matatalino mga bata ngayon ! Kung may faith ka sa Lord lalo mga anak mo, yan ang kailangan nila para maging payapa ka!

  • @anatagalogon4616
    @anatagalogon4616 3 года назад +35

    I can feel her pain😭 once we became a Mom talagang lahat ng iniisip natin is for the goodness of our children grbe talaga ang Nanay 😭😭😭 Praying for you Ms. Lj ❤️

  • @santoscharrymaef.3437
    @santoscharrymaef.3437 3 года назад +189

    "ayoko naman pong pag isipan nila ng masama si pao" yung sinaktan ka pero iniisip mo parin yung sasabihin sa kanya ng mga tao. I salute you Ms. Lj, be strong for your kids. Will pray for you and for your kids. You deserve to be love, you are worth it. May god bless you, your kids, and your family. ❤❤

  • @nikkibaeby3738
    @nikkibaeby3738 3 года назад +1686

    “Be careful if you make a woman cry, because God counts her tears.”
    Stay strong LJ. We’re all praying for your healing🙏

  • @amazinglhea1240
    @amazinglhea1240 3 года назад +3115

    Here’s the truth, ladies. Being pretty doesn’t keep a man. Being honest doesn’t keep a man. Being loyal doesn’t keep a man. Treating a man good doesn’t keep a man. Being there for a man doesn’t keep a man. Making an effort doesn’t keep a man. Caring about a man doesn’t keep a man. Spending time with a man doesn’t keep a man. You could have the best intentions, you could have the most sincere feelings, and you could be a good woman and still wouldn’t be able to keep a man because the only way to keep a man is if that man wants to be kept by you. You can’t force a man to be with you. You can’t beg a man to stay with you. You can’t make a man to love you. With a man, you could tell he wants to be kept when the relationship gets hard and he does everything to fight for you because a man only fights for a girl he wants to belong to so if he isn’t fighting for you when things get hard, then that means he doesn’t want to be kept by you anymore. The moral of this? Don’t hold on to a man who doesn’t want to be kept by you. No you’re not giving up on him. It’s him who gave up on you, and it’s you who shouldn’t waste any more of your time than you already have. Know when it’s time to let go, know when it’s time to walk away, and know when it’s time to be unkept.

    • @fayethelightworker2975
      @fayethelightworker2975 3 года назад +57

      Exactly! Very well said! Life is short to spend & to hold on w/ some1 who doesn't belong in your life anymore. I think Paolo is still quite immature in a relationship. He is still on the experimental stage of finding the one.

    • @musiclover-do7ux
      @musiclover-do7ux 3 года назад +81

      Same with the woman. A woman will never stay if they feel uncomfortable unlove unhappy anymore..

    • @Nirvana_Quinn
      @Nirvana_Quinn 3 года назад +87

      On point but just my two cents, although i agree with your statement, easy said than done. There are masochists out there that still yearns to be accepted by these losers. Any man who gives up their kids for a quick earthly satisfaction, deserves nothing in this life but only suffering. LJ can just live in the comfort of Karma. It will come back to him in God’s perfect timing. Nothing could deviate Paolo from his plans. Not natural emotional connection, not the beauty of his life with his wife and kid, not the promise of a beautiful baby girl Summer- thats whats so horrifying about such a predator. Predators usually have no seminal ties to their victims (the kids left behind), no remorse and no balls. A true psychopath is a definitive of an absolutely grotesque perversion of humanity all rolled into Gerald and Paolo and to all cheaters out there. Shame on you Paolo Contis.

    • @sheicayacob7605
      @sheicayacob7605 3 года назад +8

      Indeed, very well said. Only the truth.

    • @deonavillegas8802
      @deonavillegas8802 3 года назад +5

      Amazing! Indeed.

  • @rizagatchalian3754
    @rizagatchalian3754 3 года назад +16

    Your such a good and a brave mom to your children..Just be strong and things will put proper in its place in God's will..Wla kang ginawang mali, I admire you because your such a strong woman and always put first your children in your life..God will provide and heal all your pain..

    • @reginamorales7642
      @reginamorales7642 3 года назад

      ...move on life lj..kya mo yan n be strong..in life to more u tear falling ..hapiness is the next moments in life n prayers more

  • @catherinerosecresencia8284
    @catherinerosecresencia8284 3 года назад +349

    The way Tito Boy conducted this interview is admirable. He asked the right questions, made the appropriate comments & showed sympathy, pero balanse lang. Yung walang judgment even sa side ni Paolo. To LJ, hope you’ll find peace and comfort as you go through this difficult time. May awa ang Diyos. Lilipas din ito. Stay strong & keep the faith 🙏🏼

  • @mikeithappen
    @mikeithappen 3 года назад +129

    I saw her sa church and all I can say is she's very grounded with her faith kay Lord. Praying for strength and just hold on to God's promises that all things work together for good for those who love Him. 🙏

  • @petschanneltv9843
    @petschanneltv9843 3 года назад +3414

    Mabait,marunong mgdala ng galit at pain.SANA ALL❤...Strongwoman.
    Prayers for ALL🙏

    • @monalissamenorias4583
      @monalissamenorias4583 3 года назад +39

      Mabait matatag na babae ma pagmahal na ina at pamilya sana malampasan mo ang lahat mong dinaanan mo mahal ka nang panginoon na kaya mo yan god bless u and your kids

    • @angang6375
      @angang6375 3 года назад +69

      Actually this was not just an interview. Tito Boy really is a seasoned conversationalist. In a way Tito Boy manage to console LJ. He was able to help Lj face reality by discussing things because the first step of lossing sanity due to situation like this is keeping things to yourself. Speaking out is the first step of moving on.

    • @thisismemarie8185
      @thisismemarie8185 3 года назад +19

      Yes. Sobrang bait yata ni LJ. Ma respeto. Lalo na medyo daming project ni paolo. Andun pa rin yata yung respeto niya kay paolo

    • @tine2864
      @tine2864 3 года назад +8

      true. hindi nga nya inunfollow si paolo sa IG. pero nalaman lang talaga natin na medj wala na sila dahil kang paolo kung saan inunfollow nya si LJ at dinelete yung mga pics nila. :(

    • @larabesinio6702
      @larabesinio6702 3 года назад +6

      malagpasan mo rin yan miss Lj..humogot ka ng lakas loob sa mga anak mo

  • @kyeee5842
    @kyeee5842 3 года назад +58

    As u can see LJ is so careful with her words, lalo na kapag ang questions related kay paolo. She's strong and has a strong faith in God, things will get better one day.

  • @dimplemay3404
    @dimplemay3404 3 года назад +1386

    Kahit nadisrespect na sya, grabe parin yung respect nya kay Paolo. Hindi basta basta tong babaeng to. Hayyy. Will pray for your heart and kids. 🥺♥️

    • @analeavistan6477
      @analeavistan6477 3 года назад +77

      Hindi si paolo ang iniingatan nya para sa akin dito ung mga anak nya talaga nadamay lang na lang si paolo kase iniisip nya din siguro balang araw mapapanuod toh ng mga anak nya

    • @roselizarda5827
      @roselizarda5827 3 года назад +1

      ķ

    • @acrosales1566
      @acrosales1566 3 года назад +17

      @@analeavistan6477 nasa gitna kasi ng kasikatan si Paolo po, ayaw nyang sa kanya manggaling mas lalo lang masisira sila. And obvios naman na pinipili nya words nya to protect the image of Pao, di niya inexposed but may hints tayo.

    • @itsligayaph
      @itsligayaph 3 года назад +14

      Hindi respeto kay Paolo yun kundi sa mga anak niya at sa sarili niya mismo

    • @crizzag
      @crizzag 3 года назад +2

      True…

  • @jorymaesalvatierra8185
    @jorymaesalvatierra8185 3 года назад +433

    I love how Tito Boy respects LJ Reyes' answer. Didn't push her to answer really personal questions. Alam mong hindi chismis lang ang gusto.

    • @marysuzettecatipon6147
      @marysuzettecatipon6147 3 года назад +13

      Right his helping her to stand again for herself.

    • @cherobine
      @cherobine 3 года назад +6

      Magulo ex planation kasi i exposed mo na buuin mo na

    • @jhoycerada9780
      @jhoycerada9780 3 года назад +2

      True...

    • @cherobine
      @cherobine 3 года назад +14

      Correct shes not telling rhe point so she can't release the pain inside her heart magpakatotoo ka be honest with yourself and the pain will set free you free.

    • @cherobine
      @cherobine 3 года назад +3

      MJ JUST A PIECE OF ADVICE YOU GO TO A CHURCH WHATEVER YOUR RELIGION AND BELIEF IS CONSULT SPIRITUAL ADVICE SINCE YOU MENTION THAT YOUR FAITH IN GOD MAKE YOU STRONG , AND I PRETTY SURE ONCE YOU TALK TO SISTERS,FATHERS,MINISTERS OR WHOEVER PUT YOURSELF ON A PEDESTAL THAT YOUR NOT AN ACTRESS OR CELEBRETIES BUT A PERSON WHO NEED GOD YOU OFFER YORSELF AND EVERYTHING WILL BE FINE .FAITH LJ"

  • @TheTravelingArchitect
    @TheTravelingArchitect 3 года назад +245

    No doubt, Boy Abunda is still and always will be the King of Talk in the Philippines. I am impressed with how he always treats the interviewee with respect. He does not interrupt, listens actively, thus he's able to give the best follow-up questions.

    • @yukaritsukiyama4387
      @yukaritsukiyama4387 3 года назад

      UP UP

    • @anniebee07
      @anniebee07 3 года назад +4

      You are definitely right. He has so much respect towards LJ. He didnt show any bias towards either party. He was very tactful and mindful when asking question.
      LJ, kapit ka lang kay Lord. Everything will be alright one day, just keep praying.

    • @mayannsalazar9607
      @mayannsalazar9607 3 года назад +1

      I agree!

    • @hinata6757
      @hinata6757 3 года назад

      ISSUE + GATAS = MONEYYYY

    • @TheTravelingArchitect
      @TheTravelingArchitect 3 года назад +1

      FACT SHEET Well given na po yan. That’s how it works on TV, tabloid, blogs, YT, etc, the hotter the issue, the more consumers. Staying on top of the latest celeb gossips is the goal. The point is, Boy Abunda did an amazing job.

  • @divasoul5th
    @divasoul5th 3 года назад +7

    -Psalm 27:13-14 I remain confident of this: I will see the goodness of the LORD in the land of the living. Wait for the LORD; be strong and take heart and wait for the LORD.
    -Isaiah 41:10 Don't be afraid, for I am with you.
    I will pray for you ate Lj, keeping Faith,tuloy tuloy mo lang makinig ng hillsong,keep strong, God has a good plan for you ate Lj.
    Ate lj and your kids promise lagi ko po kau kasama sa pray ko po.🙏🙏🙏

  • @crystalkring
    @crystalkring 3 года назад +448

    I cried a lot when her Son said “Mom you complete us”. LJ is a very class, beautiful, humble and strong Woman. I cried the whole video. It was her love for God and the Kids that made her be an amazing person. LJ, I pray that God will guide you and your kids all throughout these challenges in life. You are blessed to have an option to moved out of the country to rebuild and have a better life for you and the Kids. God bless all and stay safe. Greetings from Sydney 🇦🇺

  • @giomariella
    @giomariella 3 года назад +545

    The moment na sinabi ni LJ yung sinabi ni Aki na "You complete us mom" wala na bumagsak na yung luha ko. Truly children are special 🥲✨✨🤍

  • @supercalifragilisticexpial7002
    @supercalifragilisticexpial7002 3 года назад +2438

    “YUNG ANGER KO, SINURRENDER KO NALANG DIN LAHAT SA DIYOS".
    GRABE ANG BIGAT. 💔

  • @mariahamores8481
    @mariahamores8481 Год назад +5

    Congratulations Lj, who would have thought.. coming back to this interview, and now finally your genuinely happy❤️

  • @epsocampo8848
    @epsocampo8848 3 года назад +339

    You’re a strong woman, LJ. She chooses her words, para hindi parin masira si Paolo despite sa mga ginawa niya. She’s in so much pain but still she is still in control of her emotions. Let yourself feel the pain, cry if you may, surrender everything to God. Accept & move forward. God Bless you, LJ. ♥️

    • @amiellamado6192
      @amiellamado6192 3 года назад +9

      LJ show in her interview how Strong her FAITH very emotional yet inspirational.. Be strong GOD is with YOU.. Sa DIYOS lng nmn tlga tau kakapit always have FAITH inspite/despite of everything😇🙏🏻
      If you are a MOTHER watch this ..

    • @valevansmalapote4252
      @valevansmalapote4252 3 года назад +7

      Iyon din pansi ko. She chose her words very wisely. She's a great woman indeed.

    • @dianarosebeldad7677
      @dianarosebeldad7677 3 года назад

      k9kkkkkkkkknl

  • @ikiwalo2851
    @ikiwalo2851 3 года назад +346

    Si LJ still shows respect sa dati nyang partner kahit pa masakit ang ginawa sa kanya. Hindi mo makitang binenta nya si Paolo. What a woman. My heart is with you LJ.

    • @danielakriscasanares2158
      @danielakriscasanares2158 3 года назад +3

      mag rereflect din kasi yon sa mga bata at baka magka balikan padin naman sila.

    • @jenelynespiritu1039
      @jenelynespiritu1039 3 года назад +3

      Agree hindi niya direct to the point ang sagot kasi pinoprotektahan pa rin niya si paolo at ang mga anak niya

    • @miarocks486
      @miarocks486 3 года назад +1

      Yeah! Only a strong and smart woman can do such a thing...I admire her self control

    • @xstine3322
      @xstine3322 3 года назад

      True ganito sana ang ibng brokenhearted d cnn kagaya bubba dyan kahit matagal n inopen p ang past nila gysto ralagang ibgsak ang ex..c li tunay n kristyano God bless u LJ

    • @miarocks486
      @miarocks486 3 года назад

      Yes she is gold! Bihira yan

  • @rosiesmod3707
    @rosiesmod3707 3 года назад +1678

    I cant help but feel irritated at those people saying “move on na lang” or “hanap na lang ng iba” na as if its so easy!Napaka insesitive ng remark and without empathy. Have you been in her shoes and experienced what she is going through now???
    Ive been in her shoes and boy was it soooo painful! Traumatic talaga and can really make you feel insane. And just like her, only in God I found comfort during those darkest days of my life. Ganyan din ako, I praise God for shielding me and for not letting my sanity slip away. Hindi ako makatulog and when I sleep, I get nightmares of my husband being with those many many women! So please dont give advises na para may masabi lang. The best you can do is pray for LJ and her children. Let us also pray for Paolo for the Lord to soften his heart.

  • @kdoystry7659
    @kdoystry7659 3 года назад +65

    "sa twing magkakamali ka"
    "Masakit pero bibigyan mo parin ng tiwala"
    Means ilang beses na sya niloko pero tinanggap nya parin. Babaero po kasi tlga sya at hindi na yun mababago bali-baliktarin mo man yun.. I'm a psychology student I can read through her actions and words. Di nya lang madiretso mga sasabihin for the sake of her kids na din dahil si paolo ang father, and someday mapapanood ng mga bata yun magiging mark sa knila yun. She's a smart mom dahil after what happened wla syang masamang binitiwan na Salita para makasakit ng kapwa

    • @marieanne7514
      @marieanne7514 3 года назад

      Tama po.

    • @ronitapancho6751
      @ronitapancho6751 3 года назад

      bilib ako sayo kasi you are strong woman talagang babsero yan si paolo

    • @indaylanceta3975
      @indaylanceta3975 3 года назад

      Hay Hindi maintiendihan Ang cnasabi sikot sikot cguro NGA drug Hindi mo na nakausap matino

    • @marlonemboc4161
      @marlonemboc4161 2 года назад

      Grabe napaka professional ni LJ wala syang binitawan masamang salita kay pao.

  • @TheMaiah13
    @TheMaiah13 3 года назад +669

    Stumbled on this quote for LJ today: “I would rather adjust my life to your absence, than adjust my boundaries to accommodate your disrespect”

    • @joygailopana2700
      @joygailopana2700 3 года назад +1

      i will pray for you, stay strong LJ

    • @deonavillegas8802
      @deonavillegas8802 3 года назад +6

      What PC did is truly disrespectful! What a jerk?!

    • @leonciajancorda6406
      @leonciajancorda6406 3 года назад

      Dont cry Lj be strong but dont be assertive at this time coz nka bantay c taning both of you. Its temptation. Sisirain tlaga ang family nu ni pao. Ginamit lng kayong 2 kung magpadala kayo. Masaya c T. The best u cn do at this time is just hold on to pao, to ur sacred marriage, justt go back home humbly. Pray..and pray to God, to mother Mary kausapin mo heartily even if it takes time. Hindi madaling proceso yan, but pag taimtim prayers mo panalo ka at d end. God bless u!. Wag kang humiwalay. Be humble at kausapin mc paolo.

    • @mindadelacruz1925
      @mindadelacruz1925 3 года назад +2

      Why you can’t hit into the point that is very relevant to s situation.

    • @mindadelacruz1925
      @mindadelacruz1925 3 года назад +1

      Lj lumayo ka sa usapan

  • @missmaf
    @missmaf 3 года назад +116

    Empowered woman! Nagtiis, lumaban, Nanampalataya, at nagpakatatag para sa mga anak.
    She trusted Mr. Boy Abunda reaching and telling the people her side with this interview. Pinaghandaan ni Miss Lj ang hiwalayang ito and that makes her strong! God bless po! Let’s support her youtube channel guys! 🌸🙏🏼

    • @4nt4r4y
      @4nt4r4y 3 года назад +2

      It’s disgusting how probably everyone in this comment section is jumping to conclusions about what happened. Kapag umiyak ang babae, automatic na ang lalaki ang may kasalanan. It could very well be the case na si Paolo ang may mali but, unless she reveals what happened, we can never know for sure. Nakakatawa yung mga comments na “her silence says everything”. Her silence says absolutely nothing. All you’re doing by accusing without knowing the facts is projecting your own emotions and preconceptions onto the situation. Iniimagine mo lang kung ano yung gusto mo ang nangyari.

    • @loislane9616
      @loislane9616 3 года назад

      @@4nt4r4y hindi mo kami maloloko Paolo.

    • @4nt4r4y
      @4nt4r4y 3 года назад +2

      @@loislane9616 basically, what you’re saying is i must be paolo because no one else shares my opinion. Pare parehas naman kayo lahat magisip eh. Bawal magisip ng ibang viewpoint. Bawal na malaman kung ano ang totoong nangyari. Basta kung ano yung inemote ng babae, yun na ang katotohanan. Alam mo tawag sa klase niyo? Basic.

    • @4nt4r4y
      @4nt4r4y 3 года назад +1

      for all we know, she purposely kept her mouth shut para kung anu ano na lang iisipin ng mga tao. If that was her intention, then her objective has clearly been achieved based on this comment section. “Sigurado nagcheat, gamble, atbp yan” I’m not saying that that’s what her intention was. But until they reveal what really happened, we can never really be sure.

  • @crislynaguto141
    @crislynaguto141 3 года назад +131

    Lj: "buti nalang malakas yung pananampalataya ko"
    I feel that!😇 just surrender all to Him miss LJ.. God is good😇😇🙏

  • @janegeraldcanlasdeguzman2081
    @janegeraldcanlasdeguzman2081 3 года назад +6

    I totally feel the pain in you LJ..
    Good thing napakalakas ng faith mo kay Lord, it's true you can only find peace in HIM..I know u n your kids can get over this soon. There are more better things to come to you n your family..Keep the faith🥰

  • @bienbasco6605
    @bienbasco6605 3 года назад +411

    I love Lj's faith in the Lord, her dependence and trust saying, "LORD, Kayo na po ang bahala. Hindi ko na po kaya." That's total dependence! The Lord honors our prayers when we depend on Him. The Lord will surely deliver you out from that painful and difficult situation and you will soon rejoice. Keep your faith in the LORD and keep going!!!❤️❤️❤️

    • @annesfoodie188
      @annesfoodie188 3 года назад +1

      Amen.

    • @brianbasilio207
      @brianbasilio207 3 года назад

      Lj your such a strong woman just be the center in your life to god im so sad for this news i know god is always with you

  • @kharlanesalvador2672
    @kharlanesalvador2672 3 года назад +218

    Pinakamaraming views itong interview kay LJ sa channel ni Tito boy which means, madaming nakakarelate and concern 🥺❤️ Sa lahat ng nakakaranas ng ganitong pain, makakabangon tayo 🤍

    • @janinadesacula36
      @janinadesacula36 3 года назад

      ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @daisymercado5492
      @daisymercado5492 3 года назад

      ❤💪🏻

    • @amaryka5635
      @amaryka5635 3 года назад +1

      Direct to the point na sagot na lang LJ

    • @cindymorales1946
      @cindymorales1946 3 года назад +1

      Sana dinerecho nalang nya kung gusto nya matapos yung issue. Lalo lang magiingay yung issue dahil sa mga hindi rektang sagot

    • @princesspink
      @princesspink 3 года назад

      Kasi bagong balita mahilig tlga tayo sa chismis din. Hehe kidding aside, yes madami gusto marinig side ni LJ

  • @charitymaypongos5264
    @charitymaypongos5264 3 года назад +208

    this is the longest youtube interview na pinanood at tinapos ko..1hr.. super class and decent woman..the way she talked and answered.. kahit hindi nya kinukumpirma..klarong klaro may 3rd party.. good luck and god bless to you LJ and kids..

    • @ronquijano9459
      @ronquijano9459 3 года назад +2

      same here

    • @ursulareduta5930
      @ursulareduta5930 3 года назад +1

      me too

    • @rica489
      @rica489 3 года назад +3

      I agree,super long interview but never did she mentioned anything bad about Paolo. A woman with class, dignity and a very good head above her shoulder. Sinayang ni Paolo yung nabuo na sana nilang magandang family. I admire LJ for her strength, selflessness and her faithfulness in God. God bless her and the kids🙏

    • @icabrillantes
      @icabrillantes 3 года назад +2

      tingin ko nga po baka bakla si pao

  • @leviscrisostomo1798
    @leviscrisostomo1798 3 года назад +5

    You are really a woman of God. You are standing strong right now because of God's Grace. Stay strong and loving mother for your children ♥️ You'll be fine soon Ms. Lj Reyes. Godbless you and your family.

  • @raymundocanlas2973
    @raymundocanlas2973 3 года назад +65

    ito yung interview na hindi one sided.
    pansin ko din, medyo magulo ang isip ni LJ kaya hindi niya masagot directly ang sagot. Meaning, she's in pain. Sobrsng malalim yung sakit niya. (wag na natin kwestyunin na hindi natin siya maintindihan dahil magulo, alam na natin sagot)
    stay strong, LJ. Laban for kids at para sa iyo. 😇

  • @kelkulitz
    @kelkulitz 3 года назад +287

    Sobrang ganda ni LJ lalo ngayon. Even when she’s crying, sobrang ganda padin. Iba talaga pag kay Lord nakasurrender ang lahat 💕 Stay strong LJ! For sure, you will get through it with how deep your faith with God is. We love you so much! 😇🥰

    • @VENDETTA669
      @VENDETTA669 3 года назад +5

      kala ko ako lang nkapansin...napakaganda nya kahit naiyak

    • @ProbinsyanongGastroFiles
      @ProbinsyanongGastroFiles 3 года назад +2

      Parang ang labo ng mga sagot niya... Paikot ikot... Sa labo ng ibang sagot niya, dumadami ang wrong interpretation ng mga viewers... ANG LABO!

  • @jakelopez5375
    @jakelopez5375 3 года назад +140

    After watching the interview, I can say that ate Lj is such a strong person, the way she handled everything. She surrendered everything to God, because she knew, she wouldn't do it alone. She offered everything to God, all the pain, anxiety. Ate Lj, if nababasa nyo po ito. I just want to say that, I am praying for you po, that God will give the wisdom, a wisdom that will help to decide, to make a decision. Hindi man po kita kilala personally, but I know po how beautiful you are inside and out. And, when you feel alone po, remember that God is always with you. He will never leave you nor forsake you. GOD BLESS YOU, ATE LJ! AT SA MGA ANAK NYO PO! 🙏 KASAMA NYO PO ANG DIYOS SA BAWAT LABAN O PAGSUBOK NA KINAKAHARAP NYO 🙏

    • @keytcatlee
      @keytcatlee 3 года назад +3

      Nkkblessed ung msg mo. Im with the same pain right now and when i read your msg. Medyo gumaan lng dn pkirmdm q.

    • @jakelopez5375
      @jakelopez5375 3 года назад +1

      @@keytcatlee Kapit lang po kay Lord 🙏 Hindi ka po bibigyan ng Diyos ng pagsubok na hindi nyo po kayang lagpasin. 🙏 Pag pray po kita, ate! God bless you, po 🙏

  • @bebethdeasis9968
    @bebethdeasis9968 3 года назад +17

    Just be strong LJ, lift up everything to the Lord,his not deserving w/d ur love kz gawain n talaga nya since s una p nyang karelasyon mahilig syang mang- iwan pg may nakikita syang ibang babae n katrabajo nya agad nyang makalimutan ang asawa, hindi sya makontento s isang babae,ang dali nyang mg palit parang damit lng n isinuot...tama yn LJ n umalis k hindi sya deserving s pagmamahal m kalimutan m n sya at ibuhos m n lng ang iyong pgmamahal s mga anak m,just move on & make uself happy...life is short.. do the best for urself & for the kids.ok...just pray Lord Jesus will guide u🙏💞😘💋🌺💖🙏

  • @bashamaldita4462
    @bashamaldita4462 3 года назад +107

    Grabe yung iyak ko sa interview nato, when she revealed the conversation with Aki. "I wanted to complete our family." - LJ. "You complete our family" - Aki. So matured of Aki despite of everything. Nakakaawa yung mga bata, I feel you LJ as a mother. Nirespect mo parin si Pao and so proud of you how you handle the situation and being a strong woman for your kids. The Lord will heal your heart and fill the emptiness that you feel right now.

    • @freakynikki08
      @freakynikki08 3 года назад

      Ako rin! 😭 Damang-dama ko yung sakit na nararamdaman ni LJ. At damang-dama ko rin yung hate kay Paolo Contis sa sakit na dinulot niya.
      Hayyy. Wishing LJ will be okay in time.

    • @jethberceles8837
      @jethberceles8837 3 года назад +1

      same feels..it break me into tears..sobrang matured ni Aki and as a Mom that you always prioritized your kids welfare..so touching that you alone as the Mom, your unconditional love is enough for them. This pain and misery shall pass. Been there done that. Help myself to pick up pieces of me, stand strong and be better for myself and my kids.😭😢❤

    • @feiamnnsl
      @feiamnnsl 3 года назад

      Same here. That part is so 💔 😭

    • @angelalacuna5014
      @angelalacuna5014 3 года назад +1

      same here... I'm not interested to their parting ways.. but I'm so touched with LJ... she is a very good Mom of Aki and summer. Let God heals your pain and time will tell to forgive him.

    • @lunaastraea4201
      @lunaastraea4201 3 года назад

      Time stamp po??

  • @shemoj6967
    @shemoj6967 3 года назад +209

    Choosing Boy Abunda to interview her is a very good choice. Be strong LJ, God lifts those who are burdened. ☝

  • @teresawuest3392
    @teresawuest3392 3 года назад +51

    It's Paulo's loss!! He had a good woman on his side and still he let go of her! Be strong LJ rebuild your life....time heals all wounds. Life will be good again.

  • @_dalyriiiiii
    @_dalyriiiiii 3 года назад +87

    Very proffesional ❤️ Not direct answer pero gets mo yung sagot niya. Ingat na ingat sa pagsagot wag lang masiraan ng husto si Paolo sa public. 🤍 Salute you, LJ!

  • @zephmarieph83
    @zephmarieph83 3 года назад +950

    I never thought I can finish a 1 hour long of an interview na parang nanood ako ng isang movie na napaka-interesting, painful, very relatable and sobrang ganda ni LJ kahit naghihinagpis sa sakit... She chose to be kind despite of her pain not because of her love to Pao but for her kids. She wants to leave a good image for both para sa mga mata ng mga anak nya. What she did is very difficult in many aspects ( mentally, emotionally, physically & spiritually ). She may not spill the beans but very evident that there's something fishy. God bless you LJ and yes, napaka-swerte mo sa mga anak mo. They're smart and sweet esp when Aki responded " YOU COMPLETE US MOMMY " ☹️☹️☹️ ang sheeekkkettttt!!!!!

    • @edzwagas6497
      @edzwagas6497 3 года назад +12

      same here..d ko namalayan 1hr+ na pala. She's really a mother, yung ang sakit2x mismo ng pinagdadaanan nya pero mas concerned ka sa welfare ng kids mo. Hay, I was one of those na ng hope na sana d mangayari ang nangyari kina Pao at Lian Paz dati pero here it is :( Nkaka sad kc GV pa nmn parati post ni Pao w/Summer. Naaawa ako lalo na ky Summer kc ang hirap mg adjust lalo na sanay xa nkikita parati ang daddy nya, pero time will come..she'll understand everything & it's also for their welfare ni Aki why this needs to happen. Mas ok na mg separate nlng ang couple kesa sa pilitin nila yet unhealthy na nmn ang relationship. GOD BLESS U, LJ! I am sure that time will come, mhahanap mo din c Mr. Right at mgpapasalamat ka nlng talaga sa Diyos that this happened.

    • @luchieology
      @luchieology 3 года назад +4

      Ditto. Before I knew it, 1 hour na pala!

    • @bagotawonangni7031
      @bagotawonangni7031 3 года назад +10

      ako nga eh kahit lalaki me sobra nadala me sa pain nya...at same time nakkainis lng kz napakagago namin mga lalaki.ang tagal namin mag mature.

    • @zephmarieph83
      @zephmarieph83 3 года назад +5

      @@edzwagas6497 in the last part of the interview ng tinanong cya ni BA about 3rd party & if money is involved... it could be the guy is cheating and at the same time gambling or baka may bisyo ( Not sure ) speculation lang naman. Ang sakit nung LJ was asking Pao if he can take them back and he replied NO... then the best decision is part-ways nalang talaga kc bumitaw na ang isa... Kawawa lang talaga ang mga bata tsk tsk tsk...

    • @marypalen8111
      @marypalen8111 3 года назад

      Totoo ang sheketttt

  • @jenilynbalanay
    @jenilynbalanay 3 года назад +101

    It's always the children who's suffering pagdating sa hiwalayan ng mga magulang🥺 ang sakit lang pakinggan yung mga sinasabi ni Lj tagos sa puso.The way she talks the way she delivered her words mafefeel mo talaga yung pain na nararamdaman nya ngayon. Stay strong Lj.Kaya mo yan.😘❤️ God loves you and your Children 💕

  • @ningblueberry9437
    @ningblueberry9437 3 года назад +2

    I acrually don’t know LJ, but I know Paulo that’s why I watched this! wow felt the pain there girl hope you n the kids will get over all of these pains soon, this too shall pass! Keep the faith! Tito Boy another superb interview you’re eeally is the king of talk so brilliant! Stay safe n healthy🙏💖, from AZ, USA!

  • @maricarnino3782
    @maricarnino3782 3 года назад +120

    “Siguro kung hndi malakas ung pananampalataya ko sa Panginoon,siguro hndi ko alam kung saan ako pupulutin” 😭😭😭grabeee ang sakiiit💔 Godbless and stay strong LJ💪 God is in control♥️

  • @mariapaulina19
    @mariapaulina19 3 года назад +110

    i love how tito boy asked all the hard sensitive questions for lj-with respect. sana lahat ng reporters or interviewers ganito lalo sa mga may pinagdadaanang tao like lj. god bless you lj. i hope you’ll find happiness and peace in your heart. was there too in that most likely similar situation but i never tried to fight for my relationship. lalo pag may ibang involved. not all the time we need to fight for it. sometimes it is better to leave and live peacefully to find yourself back again..

    • @glendaozaeta4037
      @glendaozaeta4037 3 года назад

    • @joannababes6718
      @joannababes6718 3 года назад

      ok talaga yan c titoboy

    • @4nt4r4y
      @4nt4r4y 3 года назад +1

      It’s disgusting how probably everyone in this comment section is jumping to conclusions about what happened. Kapag umiyak ang babae, automatic na ang lalaki ang may kasalanan. It could very well be the case na si Paolo ang may mali but, unless she reveals what happened, we can never know for sure. Nakakatawa yung mga comments na “her silence says everything”. Her silence says absolutely nothing. All you’re doing by accusing without knowing the facts is projecting your own emotions and preconceptions onto the situation. Iniimagine mo lang kung ano yung gusto mo ang nangyari.

  • @khristinemolina1043
    @khristinemolina1043 3 года назад +556

    It breaks my heart while listening to LJ. Kahit di nya direct na sabihin, I feel, We can feel na merong third party. Iba ang lalim ng sakit kapag third party ang involve. Grabe this year mapanakit na taon para sa mga kababaihan. *Isang mahigpit na yakap.*

    • @sherylmiguelsherylsgvibes2577
      @sherylmiguelsherylsgvibes2577 3 года назад +6

      Yeah.. ayaw lng nya tlgha sagutin

    • @indaytalong8364
      @indaytalong8364 3 года назад +17

      bka ang third party eh yung partner ni paolo sa bago nyang movie 🤔

    • @redreyn
      @redreyn 3 года назад +6

      yes ramdam na ramdam korin na may 3rd party

    • @diannemiller3547
      @diannemiller3547 3 года назад +7

      Ang tanong...sino ba talaga ang 3rd party...? Kasi legally, Pao is still married to Lian Paz. Ano ba talaga ang meaning ng 3rd party..? Baka 4th party na ang problema now...😭 is there such a thing as a 4th party..?

    • @katebatlong
      @katebatlong 3 года назад +8

      Yes I admire the way she answered Tito Boy questions, despite of what her partner did ,nagawa nyang sagutin n hndi nasasagasaan si Paolo big hugs LJ🤗

  • @mikaykikayfacts7543
    @mikaykikayfacts7543 3 года назад +5

    Stay strong miss LJ REYES
    God has a woderful plan in your life. Jeremiah 29:11
    Isaiah 43:4 You are precious and loved by God.
    Godbless you miss LJ 😇😍

  • @jinkypantino8105
    @jinkypantino8105 3 года назад +73

    “You complete us mom” ung pinipigilan ko n iyak bgla nlng tumulo luha ko❤️ stay strong LJ for your kids. Godbless 🙏🏻

  • @lisasgreensandblooms6761
    @lisasgreensandblooms6761 3 года назад +291

    Grabe yung respect ni LJ kay paolo she didnt even say bad things about him. I salute you for being so strong and having a good heart. Your tears says everything.

    • @romskie27vlog
      @romskie27vlog 3 года назад +1

      tama ayaw parin magsalita ano talaga

    • @louieespallardo5684
      @louieespallardo5684 3 года назад +3

      Yes korek. She has a good heart. Hndi nia siniraan si Paolo Contis. Mabait na bata. Sana lahat ng Nanay ganyan if mhkahiwalay na both parents. Silence lng... Yong iba Kasi mgka siraan eh...
      At tama sa iyak palang ni LJ alam na

    • @florsuaybaguio1266
      @florsuaybaguio1266 3 года назад

      @@romskie27vlog c yen Santos ang babae nya

    • @junicemarino-spencer3371
      @junicemarino-spencer3371 3 года назад +1

      mahirap to talk in public ganyan kasi her kids could watch this later or kahit now her oldest child is 11-years old.
      Tama Lj stay here malayo sa drama madami oportunity here and we have vaccine na lol

    • @princecharming8646
      @princecharming8646 3 года назад

      Mabait kasi yan si LJ. Kahit sa unang asawa nya di sya ngsasalita ng masama. Kwawa nman sana makahanp sya dyan sa America ng mamahalin sya. Ng tapat. At pang habang buhay.

  • @teachermslearningchannel3571
    @teachermslearningchannel3571 3 года назад +77

    Kapag si Tito Boy ang interviewer, very evident talaga ang respect nya sa iniinterview nya kaya hindi man na i disclose ang details, lumalabas pa rin na maganda ang interview. The manner of questioning is commendable. One of the best YT channels I have subscribed😍

  • @jackied1139
    @jackied1139 3 года назад +5

    Hi LJ, remember you are blessed with your lovely kids. There is always happiness coming for you after that pain. It's not easy i know but just trust God. The best for you is yet to come. Keep praying for peace of mind. 🙏

  • @janinabernales5972
    @janinabernales5972 3 года назад +204

    I feel her pain 😔
    I was 22weeks pregnant when I found out that my boyfriend of 5yrs has other woman. And he also got her impregnated almost the same time as me. Buong pregnancy journey ko, stressed at depressed ako. Nung malaman ko, tinago ko sa pamilya ko ang tungkol dun. Sinarili ko ang lahat dahil gusto kong ayusin namin on our own. Buong pamilya ang pinangarap ko para sa anak ko, kaya lumaban at kumapit din ako. Kaya lang kapag patuloy kang ginagawan ng mali, mapapaisip ka na e. Kung worth it pa ba na ipaglaban? Imagine what I had to go through during my pregnancy 😔.
    My daughter now is 6mos na. Mag iisang taon na rin simula nang malaman ko ang lahat. But the pain? Andito pa rin. Napakalalim pa rin ng sugat 😔 Gabi gabi pa rin ang pag iyak. Pero kelangan magpakatatag para sa anak.
    I can only pray that my pain has a purpose. 🙏

    • @kimmy_803
      @kimmy_803 3 года назад +3

      Kudos po ate. Godblessyou!!!!

    • @deonavillegas8802
      @deonavillegas8802 3 года назад +7

      Hand it over to God. Only Him can fix us. I was cheated on. I was in deep pain. My faith in Christ saved me.

    • @maricarrogel3038
      @maricarrogel3038 3 года назад +2

      Bless you sis and ur baby 🙏🏻

    • @cathvergara2570
      @cathvergara2570 3 года назад +4

      Been there .😔 masakit sobra . Only thing that you can do is surrender all to god. Always pray. God listens he hears even your silent prayers.

    • @mandingkulana7805
      @mandingkulana7805 3 года назад +7

      Same situation with my sister😭😭😭 im so proud of her... And to those single mom who raise ther child alone.. napaka brave😭😍😍

  • @just_mlm
    @just_mlm 3 года назад +274

    Very well mannered, LJ. With you raising your kids by yourself, they are definitely in good hands. GOD is with you.

  • @gracesy3815
    @gracesy3815 3 года назад +190

    God is within her, she will not fall ♥️
    Psalm 46:5
    Stay strong LJ! God bless your heart.

    • @IWill4everBeSamurai
      @IWill4everBeSamurai 3 года назад +2

      She is simply beautiful and seem to have a good heart so I am sure that God will gift her a person who will care for her and will never break her trust. People who love unconditionally will be gifted the same love at the right time.

  • @cristhinemae
    @cristhinemae 2 года назад +1

    Tito boy knows how to respect talaga di nya kailangan mamilit at manggisa ng tao kaya ganda lahat ng kinalalabasan ng interview he make sure na komportable ang iniinterview nya at alam nya kung kailan mag babato ng tanong . sa madaling salita marunong makiramdam at di lang basta msabing interview at tanong tanong makita mo tlga na nakkinig sya at may nattunan sya kht sa.malaki o maliit man na topic may kwento at naturunan ang nanunuod 💓

  • @joycortez7077
    @joycortez7077 3 года назад +372

    This lady is so classy. My heart goes out to her. God will surely bless you and your kids.

    • @joanamaesilagan4372
      @joanamaesilagan4372 3 года назад +5

      Matalino si Lj..at mayaman pamilya nyan... Lalagpasan din nya lahat.. Napaka strong nyan❤️

  • @gali8087
    @gali8087 3 года назад +285

    Looking back at her past, she had a not so good relationship with her family and that is what I admire on her. She's doing everything para lang hindi na maulit sa mga anak niya ang mga naranasan niya. Starting from the father of her son, she remained strong and a good and loving mother to Aki up until now on the second one, Summer. A woman dressed with faith and strength can never be defeated by anyone nor anything. She's another God's masterpiece. ❤️ Pakatatag ka, mommy LJ!

    • @muymoya
      @muymoya 3 года назад +5

      @@cristinagoco254 everyone of us is God's masterpiece. No questions. Feeling mo naman ang perfect mo! Kakaloka ka!

    • @gali8087
      @gali8087 3 года назад

      @@cristinagoco254 Ano ba ang depinisyon mo ng "God-fearing"? Banal? I mean, perpekto ba? Kailangan ba walang bahid ng dungis? Like hello, God always accept us. There's no thing that God cannot forgive lalo na kung ang dahilan kung bakit "twice siyang nakipagrelasyon" ay binigyan niya ng freedom ang sarili niya. Kapag sinabi mo na "God-fearing" sa tagalog, "may takot sa Diyos", you can see that in her naman e. Saka sinabi kong God's masterpiece because we are all God's masterpiece as the commentor above said. Good day po sa iyo.

    • @rureroryruri
      @rureroryruri 3 года назад

      @@cristinagoco254 so yung description para lang sa kinasal at may anak after or walang anak? Nakakahiya naman malaman na yan ang views mo.

    • @cristinagoco254
      @cristinagoco254 3 года назад +1

      I'm as flawed as most people, and so is LJ which is why she's in this situation for a 2nd time. I'm actually being cruel to be kind because she needs to look back and realize and accept that she made big mistakes that led her and her 2 kids to this point. I only hope she will learn from her mistakes and avoid making them again. If she lets this happen to her a 3rd time (because bad things come in 3's), the poor children might become completely damaged by it.

    • @k54254
      @k54254 3 года назад +1

      We have to learn our lessons the hard way kasi. Sad but true. But as mothers we should be strong for our children.

  • @Jasmine-wo7ss
    @Jasmine-wo7ss 3 года назад +314

    Tito boy and Toni G. ung mga magagaling na interviewer talaga sa PH... respectful at may aura sila na magaling makinig talaga... That is so amazing

    • @micsmics5738
      @micsmics5738 3 года назад +4

      I agree.. parang aling tess lang kasi to .. just getting info not really listening hindi mo ma feel ung comcern,

    • @cristinaboston72
      @cristinaboston72 3 года назад +8

      I was with my husband for 10 years,having 4 kids it's pain,it's hard and I raised my kids on my own. Thanks God we are ok.just cry 😭 and then it's gonna be ok.

    • @rezlielyncortez950
      @rezlielyncortez950 3 года назад +1

      @@cristinaboston72 ♡♡♡♡

    • @Jasmine-wo7ss
      @Jasmine-wo7ss 3 года назад +1

      @Charisa Sabanto yes sya din

    • @noramedalla4280
      @noramedalla4280 3 года назад

      P

  • @zenydelaconcha7216
    @zenydelaconcha7216 3 года назад +1

    Stay strong Ms. LJ. i believe God has a good reason why this is happening.. Maybe He is protecting you sa ano pa mang mas worst na mangyayari kung hindi ka lumayo. Kapit lang everything will fall into place. Hindi ka nag iisa. Relate much 8 years and 10 months mahirap sa umpisa but I surrendered everything to God at hindi niya ako pinabayaan... Cheer up..love, love you. -avid fan here.

  • @MamaSarahVLOG
    @MamaSarahVLOG 3 года назад +251

    "Time is the ultimate truth teller." Lalabas din ung totoo about Kay Paolo.
    Napakabait ni LJ.. nakakalungkot 😔God will heal you in time. Stay strong po para sa mga bata.

  • @LatestBuzz27
    @LatestBuzz27 3 года назад +3181

    ang galing talaga ni Tito Boy , yung gustong itanong natin talagang tinatanong niya..

    • @superkrisptv1598
      @superkrisptv1598 3 года назад +32

      agree.. ung gigil ka it among sya na nagtanong

    • @leizelpenaverde9616
      @leizelpenaverde9616 3 года назад +21

      Correct..ang galing..

    • @hiho9393
      @hiho9393 3 года назад +10

      @@ivt3660 nanood kaba ?

    • @ememkaye2268
      @ememkaye2268 3 года назад +48

      Tinanong nya pero di masagot ni LJ 😉

    • @kimberlydurban1441
      @kimberlydurban1441 3 года назад +40

      @@ivt3660 Not paying attention 😄 silence ang tanong ni LJ nung tinanong sya..kaya it means Yes siguro

  • @CJ-qy5ix
    @CJ-qy5ix 3 года назад +283

    Kudos kay Tito Boy! Ang hirap ng ganitong interview pero yung questions niya are really good.

    • @dreyysebenthin498
      @dreyysebenthin498 3 года назад +5

      True. Tsaka gaya ng sabi LJ, sa tingin niya daw needed niya yung mga advice ni Tito Boy. Kasi alam niya na may something kay Tito Boy na makakatulong sa kaniya.
      Tsaka, bihasa na din si Tito Boy sa mga interview na may controversial issues. Kaya gamay na gamay niya na din yan. Indeed! Kudos to him!

  • @123456choisangjoon
    @123456choisangjoon 2 года назад +7

    I admire ms lj she is protecting her kids. To ms lj: Remember god will there always in your side and he will wipe your tears and heal your broken heart. If you want to help, call a psychiatrist to make your physically and mentally peace also. Keep moving forward and take care of your kids because your kids is your life.

  • @kateaudreyenriquez4557
    @kateaudreyenriquez4557 3 года назад +116

    When aki said, "you complete us, mom"🥺❤️
    Ang natutunan ko sa interview na to ay hinde isang walang kwentang lalaki (vice versa) ang sagot para matawag ang isang pamilya na buo, masaya at kumpleto!!!!✊❤️ As long as you have peaceful life peace of mind with your children, and that's the true meaning of complete and happy family!✨
    para sa mga ibang babae jan na pilit kumakapit para matawag na buo ang pamilya kahit delikado na, piliin mo maging matatag magisa para sa mga bata! We all woman deserves to loved!💓 PUHON!! 🤍

    • @auroragonzaga6588
      @auroragonzaga6588 3 года назад +1

      Silence means yes.

    • @fmlicaydvm
      @fmlicaydvm 3 года назад

      I totally agree.

    • @megabean9748
      @megabean9748 3 года назад

      Yong iba kasing babae kahit ina abuse na kakapit parin para sabihing buong pamilya kahit binubogbog na kahit sinasaktan na ang mga anak mo deadma parin hanggang mapunta na sa kamatayan…

  • @helenasarno9859
    @helenasarno9859 3 года назад +234

    Big respect to tito boy abunda, the way he handle the enterview and respect LJ privacy, Boy Abunda is really a well mannered and. Professional person.

    • @jerizaballestavlogs1766
      @jerizaballestavlogs1766 3 года назад +1

      kaya mo yan sis..kahit mahirap para sa mga anak...mkakamove on din not now but soon..Godbless sa inyo tito boy .

    • @pilarcamba2488
      @pilarcamba2488 3 года назад +3

      It seems from my point of view, Poalo is into drugs...

    • @teresitacanares2712
      @teresitacanares2712 5 месяцев назад

      You said dalawa ang anak mo ..kay Pao isa lang cinu ang ama ng isang anak mo?

    • @teresitacanares2712
      @teresitacanares2712 5 месяцев назад

      Malabo ang revelations mo...tagal mo mka pag salita . medyo dami arte

  • @sajidcoloma9277
    @sajidcoloma9277 3 года назад +262

    Paolo has the guts to promote I Left My Heart in Sorsogon when he literally left his family alone! I'm married and has a daughter too, it will be too heartbreaking for the mom and kid he left. Shame on those two Paolos in LJ's life!

  • @kitttttttttttttt
    @kitttttttttttttt 3 года назад +52

    I'm crying with LJ. She tried to laugh and shrug the painful feeling off but it's too much to handle.

    • @rushu7416
      @rushu7416 3 года назад

      . labo labo

    • @TheBoyAbundaTalkChannel
      @TheBoyAbundaTalkChannel  2 года назад

      🤍🤍🤍

    • @evelyncruz1384
      @evelyncruz1384 Год назад

      So painful talaga 😢 but still she's lucky enough na may family's sya that ❤ her so much willing to accept her & help her sa mga trials problem that she is in to right now, talagang God is good all the time ,just hold on to God surrender it all to him🙏🙏🙏🙏💚💛❤💛❤ be strong enough move on keep going and later on it will be healed, promise 💖 sa truth Lang Mas mak2tulog ako na walang sumusundot sa conscience ko kase I know hndi ako ang ng agrabyado , other party , d ba ,sa opinion ko Lang un..pero minsan pag ang Tao Mas pinipili PA rin ang Mali Para masunod Lang gusto ng laman kase Mas maganda Mas magaling saan?😁😁😁😁😅🤣he he he but kidding aside, talagang may la2ki na ganun sa mundo kahit ibawal ng dyos kase Mali ung gusto PA Ren ng laman grabe eh part time na si Lj, masyadong abused na ang mga babies 👶 & mothers,oh my God..Kakagalit 👿🤬😠😡😤Any way Karma is real wait na 😄 Lang ung guy..Bye😝🤪😜

    • @evelyncruz1384
      @evelyncruz1384 Год назад

      Napakasakit talaga no situation 😢 buti na Lang may family na thru think

    • @evelyncruz1384
      @evelyncruz1384 Год назад

      I mean PA 3rd time na si Lj grabe ,no 😢 if ever pang 4th naman ung present oh my God.

  • @banivids8609
    @banivids8609 3 года назад +74

    "Ngumiti kahit na napipilitan..."
    Napakaganda, napaka-genuine at nakapabuti mo Ms. LJ. Mas lalo kitang hinangaan ngayon dahil sa katatagan at lakas ng loob na meron ka. Naranasan ko na rin yang ganyan sa past relationship ko, bigla na lang nanlamig. Yun pala, may iba nang pinag-iinitan (tho di naman talaga nabanggit ni Ms. LJ na may third party). Di mo deserve ang pain na nararamdaman mo ngayon. Walang sinuman sa atin ang deserve na masaktan nang ganito. I just hope and pray na sana patuloy kang bigyan ng lakas ng Panginoon para na rin sa mga anak mo. God bless you.

    • @evelynnocelo3428
      @evelynnocelo3428 3 года назад

      basta nanlamig may iba yan sis manlalamig ba ng wlang dhilan dba sis

  • @chiquiugay5366
    @chiquiugay5366 3 года назад +172

    This is exactly what happened to me💯 You cannot imagine tha pain to the point n nalagas ang buhok k, kilay k, nagkasakit ako, bumaksak ang katawan k s sobrang sakit. Yung ramdam n ramdam m n magisa k khit kasama m, yung hindi m n kilala yung minahal m at pinakisamahan m at ama ng mga anak m dahil prang ibang tao n sya. Yung hindi m n alam kung saan k pupulutin. Yung hindi k relihiyoso pero napapadasal k at nasasabi m n Lord hindi k n kaya. Yung pakiramdam n nahihilo k, n prang babaksak k kc hindi k makapaniwala s lahat ng nalaman m. Yung pain wala syang katumbas n salita s sobrang sakit. But God never failed me. I saw how much God loves us. Sobra yung love n binigay nya sa akin at s mga anak k. God showered me so much blessings to the point n hindi ako makapaniwala n natatanggap k. Naiiyak ako kc God gave me so much love, kitang kita k kung gaano nya kami kamahal magiina. Kitang kita k n hindi nya kmi pinabayaan.. Thank you Lord, hindi m ako iniwan khit isang sigundo ng buhay k. Ramdam n ramdam k kung paano m ako inalagaan ng mga panahong unti unti ako bumibigay. Now i forgave and moving forward but much better version of my self. 🙏🙏🙏

    • @girlie594
      @girlie594 3 года назад +5

      Relate ako for what you've said. The pain tlg is iba, parang ang puso mo wasak na wasak, as if you cannot think properly saan ka mag uumpisa ng gagawin, whew it bring back those old memories, ako din kc ang umalis with the 6 kids grade 2 pa lang c bunso ko. I was so devastated para kang isang bahay na gumuho na kahit anong tayo gawin mo hindi mo mabuo-buo. At totoo yan ung prayers lang ang makakatulong sayo to be strong. No one can help you except God alone, God is LIFE, He will make you a better person and He will guide you and give you wisdom. Kaya tayong mga babae, wag tayo mawalan ng pag asa pag dumating ang ganitong circumstances sa buhay natin, keep going and tama c LJ sa anak tayo kukuha ng lakas. You will conquer it all. Sa ngaun, matanda na ako at stable na at napalaku ko anak kong 6 without asking help to anyone. Nagkikita na mga anak ko at Dad nila na wala clang sama ng loob pinalaki ko cla na wag ma-hate sa Dad nila napakahirap gawin. Pero i did it ! Ngaun pag naalala ko isa na lang ciang bangungot at gising na ako. Sana may mapulot ang iba sa share natin sis. 🙏🏾

    • @marisapaderna9996
      @marisapaderna9996 3 года назад +1

      It remindes me if the kind of "pain " i've been trough

    • @marisapaderna9996
      @marisapaderna9996 3 года назад +2

      It reminded me of the kind of pain also that i've been through very long time ago. Unimaginable pain na di mo maintindihan kung san nanggaling, na parang may nakatusok sa puso mo na di matanggal tanggal kahit ano gawin mo , na kaht tinatanggap mo na ang katotohanan na hindi kana mahal ng asawa mo who adored u once? Napakasakit ! But only God has the power to pull that sharp thing that caused ur heart in so much pain by constant praying .God is so Good that HE is not just saving us from sin but also saving us from pain . Thank You Lord Jesus my Savior Amen !

    • @roan9869
      @roan9869 3 года назад +2

      Sending virtual hugs to you

    • @LeniAquino
      @LeniAquino 3 года назад

      praying for you Lj 🙏❤️

  • @elijahgraydalumpines6860
    @elijahgraydalumpines6860 3 года назад +128

    You're such a good person the way you talked,never nagsalita against your ex. Sige lang Ms.LJ iiyak mo lang yan, you did what is right. Prayer is powerful. You can make it. Stay strong.

    • @crizzag
      @crizzag 3 года назад

      True..

    • @janetcarrillo4584
      @janetcarrillo4584 3 года назад +3

      Thats how profesional she is klaro talaga na may pinag aralan kung mgsalita at ayaw manakit ng damdamin ng tao

  • @customercarebowerbird5725
    @customercarebowerbird5725 3 года назад +13

    Truly understand your confusion. It is showing the same way you explained it (in a very confusing way too). Being one of the listeners made me so confused as well. But somehow, the bottom line of it all is that you and Paolo separated due to a third party involvement of your other half. That is why the reason you left because you know the truth. I sympathize with you and the kids. Hope that moving forward, you stand firm on the ground, and focus on your new family, 4 less 1. Only then, you will have the wisdom to continue! Prayers to you!

  • @jenalynroderos2257
    @jenalynroderos2257 3 года назад +230

    Yung dudurugin ka muna ng Panginoon upang lubusan mo Siyang makilala.
    Ms.LJ Malalagpasan mo Yan kapit ka lang Kay Lord❤️

    • @rowenasantos6046
      @rowenasantos6046 3 года назад +3

      santiago 1:13.. kailanman hindi tau susubukin ng dyos.. dahil ang Diyos ay pag ibig..

    • @abenicodemus1718
      @abenicodemus1718 3 года назад

      rowena santos tama ka po,nd ang dyos ang meh kagagawan ng pagdurusa natin kundi ang dyablo,si satanas

    • @myrapedroso385
      @myrapedroso385 3 года назад

      ang pagdurusa at kasamaan ay kadalasan ng resulta ng maling desisyon ng mga tao....Santiago 1:14-15.
      At si Satanas ang sanhi ng mga pagdurusa ayon sa Juan 14:30 at hindi ang Diyos!

    • @rowenasantos6046
      @rowenasantos6046 3 года назад

      tama ka abe nicodemus,at myra according to 1john 5:19 satan control the world.. we can study the bible together to learn more..

    • @rowenasantos6046
      @rowenasantos6046 3 года назад

      katulad ng mapagmahal na tatay hind nia hahayaan ang anak nia na masaktan, pano pa kya ang Ama natin sa langit? ang Dyos ay sagana sa mabubuting katangian at unang una na.jan ang Pag ibig.. kaya imposible na sasaktan nia tau para lang matuto..

  • @paulinefabrero9085
    @paulinefabrero9085 3 года назад +113

    Stay strong, LJ! You made the right decision to speak up!
    Kudos also to Tito Boy. Sobrang lumabas 'yong experience niya dito. Ang galing ng pagkakahandle ng sensitive issue.

  • @ljdeleon4896
    @ljdeleon4896 3 года назад +1491

    Nashock sya sa transformation ni Paolo from a loving person to a distant, cold and rude person. Paolo is weak, if he wants out of the relationship, it's always better to talk it out rather than make the other feel worthless enough to decide to break it off. Wala syang respeto sa tao, not to Lj, not to their kids. Mahabang panahon kang minahal ng tao, the least that you could have done is be honest and respect the person enough to value her person. Hindi kasalanan ang ma fall out of love. Ok lang yun. Ang mali ay yung mangg*go ka ng taong not deserving at all. No justification to hurt anyone in anyway.

    • @ciskajoylufranco8908
      @ciskajoylufranco8908 3 года назад +88

      Yes to this. Walang balls si Paolo kumbaga. He is letting the mother of his child to clean his MESS. Such an asshole.

    • @mariagildaaquino3788
      @mariagildaaquino3788 3 года назад +13

      True!!!
      Laging tumatakbi s problema!!!
      Meron xang problema pangalawa n to

    • @ciskajoylufranco8908
      @ciskajoylufranco8908 3 года назад +32

      @@mariagildaaquino3788 actually parang 3x na, Kung maalala mo kay Isabel Oli ganyan din sya kaso blessing in disguise kay Isabel.

    • @eugeniemarieallengio4060
      @eugeniemarieallengio4060 3 года назад +35

      Very true. Always be honest with the relationship, if you're not happy then, say it. Do not let that person torture his/herself guessing what you really feel. Just be honest masaktan ang masaktan but at least it is coming from you directly.

    • @kimcotchay2677
      @kimcotchay2677 3 года назад +6

      Ganda ng message niyo ms LJ. (tagos po)

  • @levybautista1612
    @levybautista1612 3 года назад +9

    Sakit sa puso panoorin NG interview na to 😔 you will recover soon Ms. Lj.. time heals and GOD is preparing for you and your kids for a better tommorow

  • @kathleenmateo9875
    @kathleenmateo9875 3 года назад +271

    I commend her for keeping it together, so much so that her being careful of her words shows how decent she is as a person. Listening to the conversation, this is what i picked up based on my feelings and understanding lang naman but in no way am i claiming that this is correct:
    1. She only said, "physically, no" and stopped there (referring to the hurting). The way she stopped felt like there could have been another kind of pain and i feel like it was thru a verbal form.
    2. Obviously, there may have been a 3rd party, but, when she signified that it's not even her concern right now kundi the kids, i go back to that detail na he may have hurt them thru words. And that's a bigger issue and more traumatizing than womanizing.
    3. When she said she wants her kids to grow up in an environment na may mabuting asal, mabuting ehemplo, you just know it's not a peaceful situation at home. Maybe he is under the influence of alcohol and nagso smoke, mga ganung vices ba, while the kids see it? (which is not ideal) Maybe.
    4. "hindi naman siya kilala dating goody goody". Yes. True. Actually sa vlogs nila before makikita mo naman panaka naka na may attitude at pagkabarumbado na tinatry icover through jokes but it's there. The arrogance. And i think that is non negotiable.
    5. Perhaps he doesn't have a strong enough faith to sustain what LJ perceived was his 'change'. Kasi sabi niya ke Aki, you can only change or be good or something if you have God in your life. Parang ganon.
    6. I think there may have been an issue with money. It might have been part of the verbal abuse na nag slip sa bibig and also shempre the attitude that comes with that problem of his, bilang siya ang main bread winner.
    Yan ang aking takeaways...
    LJ, i know you'll probably never read this but know that we are praying for you. May you find peace and healing in God's embrace and God's timing silently, just like you wished. Nakikita ko na, ung araw na maglolook back ka and you'll be so proud of yourself for overcoming this because you chose to continue on with God. Like tito boy said, GOD BLESS YOU.

    • @mgscottusa2350
      @mgscottusa2350 3 года назад +14

      Yan din ang take ko... Nasa treatment niya sa mga bata, lalo na kay Aki. Pero parang may third party din, magkahalo sa tingin ko eh pero mas nangingibabaw ang concern niya or pag protekta niya sa mga anak niya.

    • @gloriagaspar4046
      @gloriagaspar4046 3 года назад +35

      I agree sa lahat ng sinabi mo. Sa totoo lang, this separation could have ended quietly kung hindi nag delete si Paolo ng mga pictures and followers nya sa IG. Because of that, LJ felt disrespected. Alam na ni Paolo na aalis si LJ and she said that sana yun na lang ang ibigay ni Paolo na makalis sila ng tahimik. Kaso even before na makaalis si LJ, the news about their separation was blown out of proportion. Ang daminh speculations tapos nag comment pa si Lolit Solis na mutual daw ang decision at na outgrow lang nila ang isa't isa. That's why LJ needs this interview to clarify those comments. So bale nasagot naman unh issue na un.

    • @jesselibay
      @jesselibay 3 года назад +1

      I agree to u maam

  • @denniseannlagarde3736
    @denniseannlagarde3736 3 года назад +82

    The best tlga si Tito boy. Ang hirap ng ganitong interview, dami selected words ni LJ to protect her children. Virtual hug to you mommy Lj. Speed healing to you and to your children. ❤🙏❤

  • @crismagallanes7717
    @crismagallanes7717 3 года назад +126

    Grabeh ang sakit sa dibdib. Sobrang strong ni LJ. She chooses words that cant harm somewhat badly to Pao. I Love You LJ and the kids. Keep strong and hold on to God.

    • @nicky_nicole8753
      @nicky_nicole8753 3 года назад

      God is close to those who is broken heart

    • @melizael3521
      @melizael3521 3 года назад

      Respect pa rin kasi tatay nga anak nya...

  • @Riya38196
    @Riya38196 3 года назад +1

    Lj, you and your kids are protected by the Lord because of your faith. Sa paglipas ng panahon,,lilipas din ang sakit and for sure you are stronger than today. Patuloy ang iyong buhay para sa iyong mga anak. Darating ang panahon, ibibigay sayo ng Dios ang tamang tao na totoong magmamahal sayo na handang dalhin ka sa altar ng pagmamahal. God bless your heart Lj. Be strong and keep the good fight of faith ♥️🙏♥️

  • @MiMi-nk7ly
    @MiMi-nk7ly 3 года назад +121

    I love the way she answers all the question talagang pinag iisipan nya ng mabuti yong right words na gagamitin para hindi makapagsalita nang hindi maganda against sa isang tao. Keep the faith LJ magiging okay rin ang lahat. Stay strong for your kids😊

  • @arlynagaran4854
    @arlynagaran4854 3 года назад +118

    grabe ang iyak ko while watching😭😭
    nung namatay ang asawa qu, ang sabi ko noon, sana nangaliwa nalang siya, sana naghiwalay nlng kmi ,para may chance na magkabalikan kami😭 pero nung napanood ko to, masasabi qung maswerte parin ako, kc alam ko at ramdam ko na mahal na mahal nia aqu hanggang sa huling hininga niya😭😭
    keep fighting ms. LJ.. kaya mo yan💪💪💪♥️

    • @ma.edenmontefalcon6072
      @ma.edenmontefalcon6072 3 года назад +2

      Im sorry for your loss

    • @elsafrancisco7415
      @elsafrancisco7415 3 года назад

      Mas naiiyak ako dito sa nabasa ko kasi mas masakit mawalan ng mahal na never muna makikita pa lalo na kung sobrang mahal nyo isat1😢 but if the situation is like Lj I think mas madali lumimot lalo na kung sinaktan ka lang sa ibang bagay he/she's not worth to love back.

    • @yourkasi
      @yourkasi 3 года назад

      😭😭

    • @ursulareduta5930
      @ursulareduta5930 3 года назад

      😭😭

    • @arlynagaran4854
      @arlynagaran4854 3 года назад

      yes po ang hirap😭😭😭 may dlawang anak rin po kmi.. mag 1 year plng mula ng kinuha sya ni God. ang hirap pero gaya ng sinabi ni ms. LJ may mga batang umaasa.. kaya kailangan lumaban.

  • @chabeecha1214
    @chabeecha1214 3 года назад +581

    Tito Boy really did a great job on this interview. He really knows how to attack questions according to the person’s feelings towards the situation. Therapeutic indeed. No doubt he is the “King of Talk”.

    • @gwencruz7164
      @gwencruz7164 3 года назад +6

      He is really a good host eversince...❤️

    • @trinaestrella8814
      @trinaestrella8814 3 года назад +7

      He really listens to the interviewee and analyzes every single word!

    • @fgfdhgd4521
      @fgfdhgd4521 3 года назад +10

      Yes. Tito boy be like: bigyan mo lang kami ng hint kami na bahala mag comprehend. Host siya in a way na hindi niya hinahayaang mawala yung privacy ng tao kahit nagpa interview pa about their personal issues.

    • @sheryllinawan4138
      @sheryllinawan4138 3 года назад +1

      agree

    • @maryjanecomia2731
      @maryjanecomia2731 3 года назад +2

      Tama si lj as mother pg involve na mga bata we have to do actions even sobrang sakit sa part as. A mother gnyan din aq and prayers at si god lng tlaga ggawa to way you out ..ive experienced that be strong coming from a victim and single mom like me...

  • @faithsheriff7923
    @faithsheriff7923 3 года назад +5

    Dont stress yourself , di kawalan ang lalaki, hard working mom ka naman. kung di ka na masaya tama na. Kaya tama ang naging desisyon mo na lumayo. Salute Mama LJ 😘😘😘

  • @jhoyjhoyflores9140
    @jhoyjhoyflores9140 3 года назад +296

    ◄ John 13:7
    Jesus replied, “You don’t understand now what I am doing, but someday you will.” praying for you @LJ 🙏🙏🙏

  • @yhurikaheart2825
    @yhurikaheart2825 3 года назад +194

    I did the same, when i found out na nag ccheat sya i asked him straight and he admitted it kasi kinausap ko sya without yelling or accusing. I just asked him. And when he said oo.. i told him na mag hiwalay na for good and wag lang kalimutan ang mga bata.. im a mother of 3.. and till now maayos nmn communication nmin.. and tahimik kaming lht. Point is, hnd mo need mag stay s isang toxic na relasyon kung maaapektuhan ang mga bata pag tumagal k p s ganitong relasyon. We had to set that someone free kht mahal mo pa (first love ko p sya) kung yung feelings eh hindi na mutual at makakasakit na lalo sa mga bata. rn ang mga bata tanggap n nila and tuloy ondin communication nila s dad nila. Wag tyong martyr.. mahal nga ntin yung tao pero kung hnd n tyo mahal at nassaktan n tyo physically or emotionally.. its better to let go.

    • @caryljoysilva5317
      @caryljoysilva5317 3 года назад +6

      And still with this very same reason... I don't understand why some are still too close-minded about DIVORCE.

    • @foryoubyedz
      @foryoubyedz 3 года назад

      😍😍😍

  • @alicelopez1373
    @alicelopez1373 3 года назад +145

    tito Boy is tito Boy.. ang galing talaga niya mag tanong or to handle the difficult situation and questions.. Salute to you tito Boy.. and LJ how they both handle this interview.. God bless LJ 🙏🙏🙏🙏

    • @catherineaggarao8350
      @catherineaggarao8350 3 года назад +1

      Be strong LJ for your kids..and just keep on holding and pray to.our almighty God..he is there for you..isipin mo n this are all trials in your life..may solution s bwat. Problema..godbless u and your kids..

  • @AteVanzTV
    @AteVanzTV 3 года назад +2

    Don't worry LJ, your doing the right things, trust God the Trial in life, I been there at first is difficult but now I'm become a strong woman, sabi nga nang mga anak ko ngayon it's happened for a reason, and for the better trust God is the best thing to do, Be strong ms LJ God Bless you 🙏🙏🙏

  • @gerliecura5342
    @gerliecura5342 3 года назад +70

    "It's been difficult in the past several months" that means kumapit pa sya at Hindi mutual ang hiwalayan..sana maintindihan nyo na may mga babaeng pag pamilyado na ay gagawin ang lahat para panatilihing buo ang pamilya lalo't may anak na..

  • @blakeliammonzon9098
    @blakeliammonzon9098 3 года назад +339

    Thumbs up sa mga nag subscribe sa channel ni LJ after this. Let's support her to rebuild her self for her kids ❤

  • @kurdapsbakeks4507
    @kurdapsbakeks4507 3 года назад +670

    Shes very cautious to speak against the father of her daughter, despite of conflicts shes still very respectful. Strong women are selfless.

    • @spiderweb3054
      @spiderweb3054 3 года назад +12

      I Clearly Think na kailangan ni Paolo Contis magpatingin sa Psychologist sa biglaang pagbabago niya. base sa sarili kong opinion.. Sa nagdaang pandemic na to na nararanasan nating lahat marami tlagang psychological problems na lumalabas na meron pala ang iba satin na hindi man alam ng pamilya O mismo sarili natin.. This is a really serious problem in our generation now, That we must pay attention before a lot of problems comes out, Specially everything that We cannot control with our Love one's. We need to study more ourselves rather than to judge others and our Love ones or the person that along with us at home..
      "Prayers" is always the best way to keep us in any harm,..☝
      God bless Lj and specially your two lovely Angels"💕
      Stay strong God is with Us Always🙏

    • @cherilynllasos1997
      @cherilynllasos1997 3 года назад

      Yes..

    • @engineerpudong5010
      @engineerpudong5010 3 года назад +1

      kailan pa nagkaroon ng despite of?

    • @elsavillanera3690
      @elsavillanera3690 3 года назад +2

      @@mayannaharrieta5795 nag fe feeling binata si Paolo hindi nauwi inuumaga daw sa barkada at inuman!

    • @adventureavenger5145
      @adventureavenger5145 3 года назад +2

      @@elsavillanera3690 may 3rd party. Naka public na sila. Yen and Paolo dating.

  • @rochllefavecomprendio8935
    @rochllefavecomprendio8935 3 года назад +11

    Just Rest your heart ms LJ ❤.. You can face it together with your kids ..have faith and everything will follow 💕

  • @lorreinalao6684
    @lorreinalao6684 3 года назад +155

    Best decision yang umalis kayo ng bansa LJ, after I learned about the breakup and all I stop following Paolo. My heart goes to you and your kids. You deserved to be happy. May you find your peace in the future. Keep safe.

    • @arimawanderer1310
      @arimawanderer1310 3 года назад

      Same here

    • @beajavs8234
      @beajavs8234 3 года назад

      Same

    • @iamToffeekins
      @iamToffeekins 3 года назад

      Same I unfollowed him on Twitter dun ko lang sya nifollow e hahaha

    • @lifeisgood2542
      @lifeisgood2542 3 года назад +1

      she's lucky her family lives abroad. what if nasa pinas ang pamilya nya? san sya pwede magseek ng refuge when everyone around her are like frogs.

  • @lunaeclair107
    @lunaeclair107 3 года назад +296

    nag flashback lahat ng pain na pinagdaanan ko 4 years ago because you remind me of that situation. but you're still blessed because you have your family to support you. At that time I was all alone with my 3months old baby. hindi lang basta pinaramdam sakin na may iba na...nagawa pa ko saktan physically and that was the time I decided to end it because as we know hindi na normal yun. But you're right, God only knows how difficult and painful it was. He never left me and my child. He protected us. Looking back, I can't even think how I was able to get through with that situation. Walang wala financially, walang family support, and all. Only my child and I at alam kong niyakap lang kami ni Lord dahil kumapit ako maigi sa kanya until now sya ang Tatay namin ng anak ko na gumagabay at nagprovide ng needs namin. Minsan halos walang wala na sa sobrnag kagipitan pero masasabi mong He works in mysterious ways to provide what you need. Kaya be strong lang. Until now nagpapakatatag pa rin ako sa buhay dahil alam kong di magpapabaya si Lord. Be strong, LJ and keep the faith up!

    • @lunaeclair107
      @lunaeclair107 3 года назад +7

      you have all the means to recover that's why you can make it. At that time as in zero ako sa lahat ng aspects...but here we are ng baby ko nabubuhay sa maliit na apartment, kaming dalawa lang. nakakaraos sa tulong lang ni Lord. not to mention the situation na kinaharap namin during pandemic. but still I can say, we're okay sa tulong pa rin ni Lord. So just be strong!

    • @ledilydoronila2031
      @ledilydoronila2031 3 года назад +3

      sending hugs po

    • @lunaeclair107
      @lunaeclair107 3 года назад

      @@ledilydoronila2031 thank you po for noticing me...

    • @calixdelacruz7078
      @calixdelacruz7078 3 года назад +2

      sana all po matatag kagaya nyo po❤️

    • @marissaalawi1375
      @marissaalawi1375 3 года назад +2

      🙏🙏🙏

  • @salmiabawa2926
    @salmiabawa2926 3 года назад +200

    I've been there too, my ex husband and i were in relationship for almost two years, then we decided to get married. Di ko rin alam kung bat naging malabo sya saken. Umabot sa point na madalas di na sya umuuwi. Pag kinakausap ko sya palagi niyang reason is busy sa work. Sometimes i wish na saktan nya na lang ako physically kesa yung ganon. Gulong gulo na utak ko di na ko halos kumakain kc di ko alam kung anong nangyayare sa kanya. I found out that i was pregnant that's why i avoid being stress as much as i can. But unfortunately di ko kinaya yung anxiety ko it leads me to miscarriage. He was there but it feels like parang ako lang yung nagluluksa. Di ko talaga gets that time what's bothering him kc di nya naman ako sinasagot sa tuwing tinatanong ko sya. Pero di talaga papayag ang diyos nalaman ko lahat. His brother told me na naka login acc. nya sa cp nya. Then i found out everything. Nakita at nabasa ko lahat. Habang ako nasasaktan halos mabaliw na kakaisip kung anong mali sya nagpapakasaya pala sa iba. Mahal ko pa sya as in pero i realize walang patutunguhan yung pagmamahal ko na yun kc one sided na sya eh ako na lang kumakapit. I gave up in order for me to heal. Bali gift ko na lang sa sarili ko yung palayain yung sarili ko sa toxic na pagsasama na yun. But i admit it wasn't easy at all. And hirap ilimot nung pagmamahalan at pinagsamahan namin pero kailangan eh. He fell out of love and who am i to force myself to him? Akala ko nga di ko kaya, it was hard but God is with me he helped me to get through it all. That was 4 years ago and now i am happy to say that i am to totally fine and i found a real man. We just got married last March and now on my third trimester, God indeed is the best of all planners.

  • @MariliPalisoc-qo8gc
    @MariliPalisoc-qo8gc Год назад +4

    Truly, God can turn our tears to beautiful testimonies. We all witnessed this woman's pain and brokenness on this interview. , yet God sees it differently. I am so happy for her engagement! ❤️💍
    'For I know the plans I have for you,' declares the Lord,plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.'" - Jeremiah 29:11

  • @janellacordez7659
    @janellacordez7659 3 года назад +271

    The fact that she tried her very best to protect Paolo despite of how hurt she was, is a queen behavior.

  • @felijanelecera7035
    @felijanelecera7035 3 года назад +58

    PSALM 34:18 NIV
    The LORD is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.
    Continue to fight a good fight despite of the world being unfair. Yung reward natin nasa langit. Maging mabuting tao tayo kahit na nasasaktan tayo. Stay strong LJ Reyes, the Lord will never leave you nor forsake you. 🙏💗

  • @kath4743
    @kath4743 3 года назад +360

    Lj's tears won't lie. She's really in deep pain. And she's really a good mother because despite all of what's happening around her still her biggest concern is the welfare of her children. Good luck and may God bless you more Lj.

    • @4nt4r4y
      @4nt4r4y 3 года назад +2

      for all we know, she purposely kept her mouth shut para kung anu ano na lang iisipin ng mga tao. If that was her intention, then her objective has clearly been achieved based on this comment section. “Sigurado nagcheat, gamble, atbp yan” I’m not saying that that’s what her intention was. But until they reveal what really happened, we can never really be sure.

    • @pauljohn.zac23
      @pauljohn.zac23 3 года назад +6

      @@4nt4r4y Lahat talaga may comments ka Koya? Ikaw ba si Paolo or Lolit? 😂

    • @4nt4r4y
      @4nt4r4y 3 года назад +1

      @@pauljohn.zac23 malamang ako si paolo. Pag hindi ang babae ang sinusuporta mo, automatic na ikaw ang tanging supporter ng kalaban, ng lalaki, diba? Hanggang ganyang level lang ang macommentmo sa akin kasi wala ka masagot na matino sa argument ko.

    • @pauljohn.zac23
      @pauljohn.zac23 3 года назад +2

      @@4nt4r4y puro ka na lang walang matino na sagot 😂 pati comment mo liked mo, sana worth it lahat yan 😉

    • @bethmutya898
      @bethmutya898 3 года назад +1

      Mahirap idetalye mga nangyari dahil masisira ang pagkatao ng Paolo mawawalan ng trabaho kung malaman ang totoong ugali.

  • @hiyasminfelix5625
    @hiyasminfelix5625 3 года назад +8

    I feel you LJ. I've been through that turmoil too last quarter of 2020. We were together for 17 years. It was heartbreaking, psychologically, mentally and physically degrading. I got nerve damaged and was not able to walk for a time. I truly suffered in silence. But God was good all the time. Prayers truly was a strong pain reliever and revitalizer. I'm cured of my nerve damaged. I'm moving on and just leave it all to God. Love you LJ Reyes. Stay strong on your Faith. God is in control.

    • @flourishwithzel
      @flourishwithzel 3 года назад

      I can feel your pain. Wow you're so strong po!

  • @diozacadapan780
    @diozacadapan780 3 года назад +81

    I love Tito Boy, the way she interview LJ nirerespeto niya yung mga sagot ni LJ yung mga kaya lang ibigay na sagot ni LJ. 🤍