I'm very proud of Chidimma for standing tall and not letting bitter hearted South Africans stop her from achieving her dreams. She really showed us what it means to be a resilient hardworking Black Woman
I was in SA the problem there is crazy the white still high on racist there and also they own the major companies , business even at the mall the whites sits alone with themselves while the blacks are the ones working , it’s really crazy situation
I cried at your apology. As a Jamaican who advocated for black South Africans during Apartheid. The behaviour and hate of black South Africans toward another black person has sent shockwaves through my entire system. I am not surprised by the white South Africans because I know deep down they still hate blacks. I think that same shockwave has reverberated throughout the World. It will take generations to fix. Hate does nothing but destroy and sometimes have a boomerang effect. Thank you for your message of positivity and hope. You have eased a bit of the pain of what I saw. Congrats to Chichi. The world loves her and embrace her.
Well I am Jamaican too, participated in the protest that brought about the end of Apartheid, I was in the stadium when Winnie came there and the over zealous police shoot in the crow and kill man. My message to them is dem muss shut dem bomboclaat! Dem can't speak on black issues outside a dem country fi mek mi feel better. So a dem one have difficulties? Difficulties is we middle name, dem don't treat our skin like how dem treat paler skin, and if u a Nigerian & Zimbawean u just dead. Dem actions are deliberate, deliberate choices carry consequences. Dem fi gweeh. I will not even finish this video, mek mi sick!!
The anger shouldn’t have been directed to Chidima.With all we have been through as Black people from slavery, colonization,apartheid genocides i wonder where we still get the energy to hate each other. If we dont Unite , no one is going to unite us.
I’m South African, been rooting for Chidimma since day one. Never abandon an African child. I appreciate you and other SA public figures who’s been behind Chidimma
Among many,, Chidima have shown the Emotional and Spiritual Power of an African Woman,,,,, moving over to Aquarius,, Very Powerful African Woman, WAAAOOHH
Firstly, as a Nigerian American i accept your heart felt apology. With the way my people had been attacked in the past and present in South Africa, one could only conclude that you guyz are really hurt and need some healing to be done. With this apology, you have earned a new subscriber in me, and i made sure i watched all the adverts till the end, even before you notified us at the end of the video. More grace and light Cheers
If you consider yourself a “Nigerian American” because one of your parents is American ….. I can understand that. However, if both of your parents are Nigerian and you claim to be a “Nigerian American” because you naturalised there or you were born there ….. I don’t understand. For you to lead with the description that you are a “Nigerian American” even though that is irrelevant to the conversation is baffling and then comes across as a flex. It is relevant for me to say, that whilst I was born in the Uk and hold a British passport, you’ll never hear me describe myself other than an African or a Nigerian.
@@blackmagic6 to each his own. Describe yourself the way you choose to describe yourself. I described myself the way I so chose to. The person to whom I communicated my thoughts to, did not see any qualms in what I wrote. And that's all that matters here.
@@casmirifeanyi7788 perfect response, I am South African 🇿🇦 but I am not a xenophobe nor afriphobe. I appreciate your comment and I thank Nigerians all over the world for standing up for Chidima.
What a lady !!! As a Nigerian after watching this, i pulled back from giving up on South Africa. Once in a while you come across very sound, intelligent and classy South Africans, then you wonder where all those creatures of hate crawl out from? Are they in the space as this lady? She put things in proper perspectives, and i am in awe of her maturity. Trust me Nigerians have a fairly good idea what is going on with South Africans psychologically. They know SAans are suffering from post apartheid trauma, and mostly failed governance issues. We are suffering that in Nigeria too. The difference is that in Nigeria we do not go blaming others for our own failures. We simply dust ourselves and hustle, to make sure we put food on the table and take care of our responsibilities. Most of sub-saharan Africa do have same problem of governance failure's from their govts. Seems only SAans are the ones who just want to use others as punch bag for the failures of their own govt. Thank you sister for a well articulated overview of things. Thank you for your graceful apology, and mostly for your kind words for Chi Chi. She loved and adored your nation bcos she was born and bred as a SAan. The only Nigerian thing about her is her name. Unfortunately things went this way. She's now ours and we thank SA for giving us back such a beautiful intelligent and brave girl. Once again God bless you for your kind words. You rock !!! 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾✅✅💯🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🇳🇬🇳🇬
But the problem is that you want people to talk good things abaut nigeria while your insults of jealousy and hatred uf you are humble people will talk good abaut you but if you are proud with insults people will put you in your place anyway congratulations 🎊 to miss Denmark 🇩🇰
As a United States citizen who just lived in South Africa 5 month, I completely agree. Lots of South Africans are broken by no fault of their own. I experience this brokenness but I was wise enough to recognize was it was & not take it personal..
Just watched a clip on Twitter, you are so right sis Ntsiki, South Africans are wounded and it’s so sad to see how we hold onto hurt because it’s something that we used to. This is the same energy that gets directed to anyone who tries to improve their lives, you get dragged for your past. As a nation, we need a National Day of Healing; there’s so much trauma carried by the country. Thank you for sharing this ❤
i dont see any comments on her mozambican heritage. my mozambican brothers and sisters ,you contributed to the creation of this beautiful woman. fill free to celebrate this woman . bom dia
I have read over 70 comments here and no South African has critizied or insulted madam Moya. The truth is a powerful one man army💪💪💪. Thank you Madam Moya
Firstly I would like to say VERY, VERY BIG, HEART FELT CONGRATULATION TO THAT AFRICAN DAUGHTER,, NOBODY WILL TAKE AWAY HER INDEGENOUSNESS,,,, NO ROMAN DUTCH LAW WILL REDUCE HER TO ANY LEVEL, SHE IS SOVEREIGN
And so much jobs too! People who work double shifts (including hateful and lazy government ministers) are less likely to be on social media inventing hyper ridiculous petitions day and night even after the lady left the country.
Am from Cameroon i just felt in love with you through this video and you just a gain a follower i really wonder how fellow Africans would treat another the way they did to this younger girl.No one on earth deserve such treatment
98% on 🎯. I add to elements to your insightful comment. Discernment and wisdom. These two allow an educated person to be humble and apologise, not only on their own behalf but on behalf of a whole country. Hats off to sis Ntsiki. I see her in a different light. ❤🇿🇼
Thank you. As a foreigner living in South Africa, I don't judge South African based on what I see or hear online. There are misinformed people from across the continent, and I blame social media that's inherently programmed to propagate stereotypes. Let's use the same social media to spread love, to expose and punish crimes irrespective of the nationality of those who commit crimes. May God bless you, may God bless South Africa and Africa as a whole.
Thank you sis for speaking out you just said it as it is❤❤❤ I supported Chichi after I listened to stories and watched videos on SM i realised that Chichi did nothing wrong
Wow....I give THANKS to my HEAVENLY CREATOR for allowing me see your beautiful, intelligent PODCAST... Please, allow me to say this, you're the most intelligent, smart sister from South African I have heard from in decades, I was in Abuja, Nigeria when the former leader of South Africa came to Nigeria for dialogue to end the infamous government of the past. ONE ❤ AFRICA.
Wow, this woman has wisdom and eloquence. May The Almighty heal your nation. I always thought SAns only hate her for her Nigerian heritage. Now i do really understand it's not about her or about Nigeria. Thanks sister. Now I hold no ill feeling towards our SA brother and sisters.
Enkosi sisi siyabulela ngoba yhoo shame bekunzima 😢 but ke uthixo ebenaye unontombi ocikiziweyo. siyamthanda uChichi manyan. Shes definitely a becon of hope she fought indeed. I pray for south africa to heal and for Africa to unite and live as brothers and sisters in peace ❤ well done Chidinma 👏 Nigeria 🇳🇬 well done for solving this problem 👍 ❤
This is an excellent presentation about Chidinma that digs into the effect of childhood trauma in your country. Unfortunately, trauma does not understand the meaning of embarrassment or respect for any nationality. What may help will require resources from the government: social, psychological, and spiritual. Psychological intervention will be the starting point; trained psychotherapists will need to be recruited for this purpose. Providing allowances or food to resolve problems, as we see in some African countries, without treating the fundamental challenges is unhelpful. Good job!
"Well butter my biscuit" Lady MOYA you so daam full of knowledge and wisdom, Am from Texas currently working in the UK My Girlfriend is Afrikaner from South Africa was saying pretty much the same daam thing 2 days ago!!!!👍🏻👍🏻
My Sister I thank you for your wisdom and powerful message. South Africa should remember that it did not fight apartheid alone, we fought wars for South Africa, in Angola we have half South Africans and most are from the exiled South Africans left here by their fathers during apartheid... The whole Africa has been abandoned, DRC, Sudan, etc are suffering worse 😢. Africans suffer everyday, please lets unite. Sending you love from Angola 🇦🇴
Chidimma was also criticized by some of us in Nigeria! Some thought that she was favored against other contestants. I think differently because she took an empty slot to participate and I watched the Nigerian pageant closely. She. was far above everyone else. Her intelligence , carriage and performance took her this far. Well done South Africa for molding her for greatness.
I'm from the Igbo tribe in Nigeria. As an ethnic group, we have been marginalized in our own country. Other tribes thinks that we just like wailing and causing unrest in the country even though all we're asking for is to be treated fairly. Should I go about angry and jealous with hatred for the other tribes. Infact I have dated men from these other tribes and came very close to getting married to a Yoruba man. I really loved him but it just didn't work out. As Igbos we don't carry grudge for long because we need to progress and if I hold you down because of hate I'm equally stagnated. Thus, we must dust ourselves and move on because the goal is to advance. South Africa please forgive, heal and move on especially for the sake of progress especially for the black SAns. I'm rooting for you guys ❤❤
Where are u hated in ur country, who spoil Nigeria not ur people, British handover to ur people, what did they do, don’t come here wit story u don’t know, better keep quiet 🤫
@@agric-tecture Exactly my fellow Igbo. I never felt the kind if hatred I felt after the last election, where Igbos were been killed in Lagos. But I thank God that it didn't last long, for God actually helped me heal. And am back to doing business with others trIbes again. And the end result is success offcourse. South Africans should borrow a leaf from the Igbos.
@@Jon_jon41 The likes of you and many other Africans still have a lot to learn from this lady's message of love & tolerance. Hate isn't just an SA thing, so many people in Nigeria and other parts of African still harbor some level of ethnic resentments against their neighbors within the same country, but in the form of tribalism. The 'Igbo must Go' campaign that happened in Lagos a while ago was also a form of Ethnic hate or xenophobia in the form of tribalism. So, as we're accusing South Africans, let us also imbibe our own lessons from this incident, that HATE begets HATE!
@@Jon_jon41 If Igbo man can not be the president in Nigeria, and, if Igbos are not allowed to vote in Lagos state, is as good as South Africans stopping Chidimma from contesting for Miss Universe In South Africa . So you should keep your mouth closed when issues of tribalism and bigotry is discussed Peter Obi, and Igbo man won the last Nigerian General election but was robbed by Hausa and Yoruba's Political and Religions leaders But people like you @Jon_jon41 dont want to hear that Igbos are being marginalized in their own so-called country
Thank you, thank you, thank you! So well communicated. Many of us in the international black community who fought for South Africa’s freedom never took responsibility for helping our brethren post apartheid. The trauma is real and we need to recognise it globally. It is easy to wag fingers at the so called perpetrators but how many of us have taken time to examine why a people would behave that way to their own. We in the black community of states need to reach out to black South Africans and help our brothers and sisters, communicating more love by empathising and relating to their struggles. The odd enquiry of wellbeing through social media would be a good start. This was so well spoken Mamiya, it serves as a wake up call for all of us on a global scale. There is plenty of work to be done, addressing individualism is key. I left my house because it was in a mess and now live in another house that is not my own unable to fix the one I left from afar. This is the plight of many displaced migrants residing in locations around the world. I see my old neighbour shouting about a similar type of mess but his is because cousins have moved in and he has no easy access to facilities. Black community, we need to wake up, we need to unite on a global scale and do something to fix our communal problems. The internal wrangling must stop, humility, empathy and love is fundamental to our cause. Chidinma’s situation is a blessing for us all on so many fronts, her message of unity and love in Africa is not to be taken lightly. We are all one family.
We need to stop seeing each other as different and start seeing ourselves as Africans. That is the only way we can heal our continent from all these hate and bitterness. Hearing you speak gives hope.
Almost rolled in tears watching this as a Nigerian, No black nation deserves an inch of hatred from South Africans because all black nations stood by you at your lowest. This video gave me an insight into the struggle of South Africans masked by aesthetics. We are forever with you and thanks for giving us the opportunity to know what you are currently going through.
Thank you Sisi for articulating sense and wisdom in all the chaos that unfolded. As a South African Mum have been praying for Chidimma from the get go and i'm overjoyed to having my prayers answered.....almost. i wanted her to be Miss Universe. Thank you Chidimma for also being resilient through it all
Sweet to hear from you. Your voice, intonation, outlook, approach, understanding &:even accenting are completely & commendably different. I used to LOVE South Africans (before) from afar, BUT I recently got extremely disappointed,, taken aback & pissed off by their reported behaviors, talks & attitudes. However you are so different, matured & what else can I say? GOD bless you & your kind of South Africans.
I really appreciate you ma'am, as a Nigerian American, I have siblings in South Africa. Not all South Africans are bullies. Keep doing a good job, ma'am.
You're indeed so kind and intelligent. Much love from Abuja Nigeria. You happen to be the first south African intelligent black person I have encountered. ❤❤❤ Thanks for being honest
I was wondering what exactly is the reason for this hate behavior of South Africans. Now I get it, thank you ma. Your diagnosis and analysis changed my opinion and resolve about South Africans and South Africa as a country.
Hmmmm, SA knows who to vent their frustration on, the government I supposed, not the innocent young lady that was trying to come up and make something for herself and also for the country, all the country in the world have their own problems including the giant of Africa Nigeria, A.S needs to pray and learn. Thank you for the video. Chichi won.
My dear sister, may God bless u real good. So far, dis is d most sensible talk on d chidinma/SA saga. Am a 63yr old man.. Nigerian but so taken in by dis speech. Ur wisdom is just infectious. Remain blessed 🙏
Full of wisdom.I am in love with you. I will say this quickly.South Africa is not the only nation that has been abandoned by their government.Truth is Nigerians don’t look like what they have been through,what they are going through. But we have learnt that when a blessing in in your neighbourhood and you celebrate with them,no sooner than later,your own blessings will come. Heal from your hurt you all, but this hurt is synonymous with almost all Africa countries. Channel your energies towards personal development and you won’t even remember that a government exists. We have forgiven you all.We hope you forgive yourselves cos that’s the first step to healing ❤
My Sister. I'm enjoying your Content so much.. I totally agree with you on Chidimma. We are not OK as A country. Untill we Deal with The hurt We will never come Right shame. #KINGSAIDSO
I most confess that you are such a charitable, bold and wonderful woman. My respect for you is limitless. I love you so much and you have just won my subscription
Thank you for articulating what I suspected. I never gave up on SAcans. I have many friends in that beautiful country. What we see is another form of what we do in other African countries, where we fight to pull one another down due to economic harships and fight for political power by one ethnic group agaisnt another. Thank you. We need deep thinking people like this woman to lead in Africa - deep, sound, philosophical leadership that see things from a deep perspectives. God love you!
Nigerian Beauty Queen Chidinma Adetshina Wins $3m Crown as Miss Continental Africa & Oceania, $100,000, a Luxury Apartment in New York, Modeling and showbiz contract as Miss Universe First Runner-Up 🥈. She will also travel to 35 countries on private jets. wow. God is good!!! Thank you for the apology.
Caro,. Chidinma gets to STAY in the apartment for a year which is leased for her. The crown is not owned by her, so lets make sure we are beung factual. I fully expect to see Chidinma on the catwalks and in the top magazines. She really has model looks. Chidinma is an Igbo background. They should read up in what the Igbos went through and are still going through.
That's like kicking my child out of the house after putting her through medical school with my retirement savings! If that child becomes a rich and famous doctor, i would have already robbed myself the honour of being the proud parent to be congratulated.
Get the hell lost with your Igbo despicable cry. There were two main Nigerian that could not stand by and let South Africa mistreat Chidinma bad. This two are Ben Bruce and Abike Dabiri, they facilitate her return to participate in the Nigerian peacetime; And the truth is that none of them is Igbo, but Ijaw and the other Yoruba. I you idiot IPOBians will stop your nonsense cry
Thank you for being the real gem from South Africa my country. I am very proud of you and we need to silence this negativism in our country. Thanks Ntsiki.
I follow Malema keenly, he is a Pan Africanist and I think I have to add this Madame to my list of sane people from that part of our continent in social media. She sounds GOOD.
Thank you, Ntsiki ❤❤❤ It is very embarrassing even to us who supported this young lady from the get-go. I apologize from the bottom of my heart. Only God knows our parth. Thank you Nigeria 🇳🇬 for fetching your child and giving her unconditional love.❤❤❤
Thank you for choosing love over hate,good over evil. This is how we can heal the land and advance humanity! I appreciate your apology, it comes from a good place ,i am not Chidma neither i am a Nigerian but as an African, i accept your apology ...i also wish nothing but healing to Chidima as well as south Africans ! Let the girl be and let's move on !!!!!
Very true. The world had so much respect and love for South Africa but this Chidima issue has exposed a lot. What people admired has just gone down the drain. All the rumors of unhappiness and all social ills is out there. It's now just like the rest of the continent.
As a black South African, the way some of us have been saying and expressing to the Black nation out there about our lack of understand of who we are. As a Black man I even regret being a Black South Africa. There is no hope and place for us Pan Africans.
You spoke like a Mother …. Winnie Mandela and Tata Mandela will be proud of your reconciliation 🎤 speech. You spoke of wisdom. The Lord bless you and keep you. Congs Miss Universe Miss Chidima🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
Thank you for breaking it down sis, it was so hard and painful watching the hatred towards Chichi 😢 she didn't deserve all the senseless hate...such a sweet girl, but God showed up for her to show off❤
God bless you so much Ntsiki, this is my first time coming across your channel. Your apologies are truly from the heart and I pray black South Africans heal and don't see other black Africans as their enemies. As a Nigerian in the diaspora, I hear other blacks from here in US and the Carribeans appalled by these xenophobic black South Africans. It's more disheartening to realize these hate coming from educated black SAns online. Truth be told Ntsiki, it's very hard to run down Nigeria/Nigerians, we are loving, supporting and take other black Africans as our own families. We should all be firstly "Graciously African" and "Proudly" our variuos nations. God bless Africa..
I keep telling myself, I am not going to subscribe to anyone again. I just subscribed to your channel. Thanks for to U, there's hope for Black South Africans. Well done, lady!!! You deserve your flowers 💐 💛.
What an angel you are !!!! The whole hate coming from south africans to Chidinma Adetshina, who did nothing to them, making believed nothing good can come out of South Africa, in that I even advised people to stay away from South Africa. But listening to you, make me see 👀 that deep spirit of brotherhood that Africans are known for. You are an angel 😇 💛 💖 💓
The delay in service delivery has been absolutely traumatic for generations of people in South Africa and the government doesn't seem to understand the urgency.
Very sober words. Thank You for saying the quiet part out loud... The level of vitriol Chidima has received is beyond logic. It's very scary and extremely worrying. This is low for SA. We can do so much better..
I quite agree with you slightly about ur explanation and defense of South Africans shameful and bais , racist and fascist attitude. It's not an excuse. The evil spirit of envy and jealousy, this is an abominable spirit that God Almighty loats.
This woman is a TRUE AND REAL AFRICAN MOTHER apologizing on behalf of SA. Indeed your words just gave me thoughtful emotions as a Nigerian I accept your apology and also pray that this scenario does not affect innocent generations yet to come. I see you as a PEACE advocate. GOD bless you
Jesus left us a very difficult but the most beautiful and important commandment of "LOVE" and l believe when we put it into practice, we shall all be healed of our brokenness ❤❤❤❤. Congratulations Chi chi. Am proud of this old lady for such beautiful message 🎉🎉🎉🎉
My love and respect goes to this lady for her deep sense of maturity and intelligence. Watching this video soften my heart towards the SAns, I have a good understanding where all these hates and bitterness is coming from now. I will do my best to love the SAns regardless, you are our brothers and sisters no matter what, we all have our pains and struggles as a country but together we can fight our African leaders until we get what we deserve. 🇳🇬❤️🇿🇦
Queen Chidinma Vanessa Adetshina is our queen and we appreciate her for being strong and getting the very prized trophy for us all in Africa and Oceania countries and islands including. She is definitely loved and cherished Nigeria and Africa.
This is very well spoken. You’ve spoken even better than the SA Government has spoken. There’s still some good people in that country. This one incidence has made me given up on a country that I love. If I might add finally that, one abuse doesn’t justify another. Hurt people need be healed lest they hurt other people. Thank you for your kind words. You resolved this one issue that a whole country couldn’t resolve.
I get your excuse about the brokenness, trauma, frustration and poverty in South Africa as a result of the past but the pour all that on one Child, born in South Africa from immigrant parents is a no no. South Africans can do better by calling their government to order and not blame other African nationals for their mishap and misfortune. I still love content and I wish you well.
We acknowledge and accept your apology, we pray for South Africans and the country for God to heal them and give them grace and the patience to tolarate especially their fellow Africans as I believe they too are going through if not the same but almost similar trauma.
As a diaspora African…. I’ve never seen such hate embedded in a nation on the continent, towards our own!! We might say maybe it was mostly done on social media and may not be real but through the world we live in now, we see and learn about a person on the media, from themselves without directly saying. I’ve been in shock about South Africa displays and have really been hoping to understand or be enlightened of where this was all coming from towards the other…?! Though there are others in the nation with a completely different heart and perspective… I see South Africa way…. different now (cautiously) Thanks for enlightening some of us Mama … We need to do better; choose love, respect and unity over hate!!!
I'm very proud of Chidimma for standing tall and not letting bitter hearted South Africans stop her from achieving her dreams. She really showed us what it means to be a resilient hardworking Black Woman
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I was in SA the problem there is crazy the white still high on racist there and also they own the major companies , business even at the mall the whites sits alone with themselves while the blacks are the ones working , it’s really crazy situation
You never been a victim of crime l hope you fall prey
I cried at your apology. As a Jamaican who advocated for black South Africans during Apartheid. The behaviour and hate of black South Africans toward another black person has sent shockwaves through my entire system. I am not surprised by the white South Africans because I know deep down they still hate blacks. I think that same shockwave has reverberated throughout the World. It will take generations to fix. Hate does nothing but destroy and sometimes have a boomerang effect. Thank you for your message of positivity and hope. You have eased a bit of the pain of what I saw. Congrats to Chichi. The world loves her and embrace her.
Well said.
Awesome comment. Sista, you are proof that there is truth in the saying that “blood is thicker than water.”
Keep ur opinion to yourself
@@Jon_jon41 Truth hurts, you love seeing us Africans hating each other while you Europeans keep stealing and exploiting us.
Well I am Jamaican too, participated in the protest that brought about the end of Apartheid, I was in the stadium when Winnie came there and the over zealous police shoot in the crow and kill man. My message to them is dem muss shut dem bomboclaat! Dem can't speak on black issues outside a dem country fi mek mi feel better. So a dem one have difficulties? Difficulties is we middle name, dem don't treat our skin like how dem treat paler skin, and if u a Nigerian & Zimbawean u just dead. Dem actions are deliberate, deliberate choices carry consequences. Dem fi gweeh. I will not even finish this video, mek mi sick!!
The anger shouldn’t have been directed to Chidima.With all we have been through as Black people from slavery, colonization,apartheid genocides i wonder where we still get the energy to hate each other.
If we dont Unite , no one is going to unite us.
Well said bro. I wish we all have learn, nobody will love us, if don't love ourselves. Much respect ❤
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I’m South African, been rooting for Chidimma since day one. Never abandon an African child. I appreciate you and other SA public figures who’s been behind Chidimma
Among many,, Chidima have shown the Emotional and Spiritual Power of an African Woman,,,,, moving over to Aquarius,, Very Powerful African Woman, WAAAOOHH
Firstly, as a Nigerian American i accept your heart felt apology. With the way my people had been attacked in the past and present in South Africa, one could only conclude that you guyz are really hurt and need some healing to be done. With this apology, you have earned a new subscriber in me, and i made sure i watched all the adverts till the end, even before you notified us at the end of the video.
More grace and light
Cheers
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If you consider yourself a “Nigerian American” because one of your parents is American ….. I can understand that. However, if both of your parents are Nigerian and you claim to be a “Nigerian American” because you naturalised there or you were born there ….. I don’t understand. For you to lead with the description that you are a “Nigerian American” even though that is irrelevant to the conversation is baffling and then comes across as a flex. It is relevant for me to say, that whilst I was born in the Uk and hold a British passport, you’ll never hear me describe myself other than an African or a Nigerian.
@@blackmagic6 to each his own. Describe yourself the way you choose to describe yourself. I described myself the way I so chose to. The person to whom I communicated my thoughts to, did not see any qualms in what I wrote. And that's all that matters here.
@@casmirifeanyi7788 perfect response, I am South African 🇿🇦 but I am not a xenophobe nor afriphobe. I appreciate your comment and I thank Nigerians all over the world for standing up for Chidima.
Understanding is for matured in heart..... How do you describe Kemi Badenoch .... Is she a Britton or Nigerian? Or Nigerian Britton?@@blackmagic6
What a lady !!!
As a Nigerian after watching this, i pulled back from giving up on South Africa. Once in a while you come across very sound, intelligent and classy South Africans, then you wonder where all those creatures of hate crawl out from? Are they in the space as this lady? She put things in proper perspectives, and i am in awe of her maturity. Trust me Nigerians have a fairly good idea what is going on with South Africans psychologically. They know SAans are suffering from post apartheid trauma, and mostly failed governance issues. We are suffering that in Nigeria too. The difference is that in Nigeria we do not go blaming others for our own failures. We simply dust ourselves and hustle, to make sure we put food on the table and take care of our responsibilities. Most of sub-saharan Africa do have same problem of governance failure's from their govts. Seems only SAans are the ones who just want to use others as punch bag for the failures of their own govt. Thank you sister for a well articulated overview of things. Thank you for your graceful apology, and mostly for your kind words for Chi Chi. She loved and adored your nation bcos she was born and bred as a SAan. The only Nigerian thing about her is her name. Unfortunately things went this way. She's now ours and we thank SA for giving us back such a beautiful intelligent and brave girl. Once again God bless you for your kind words. You rock !!! 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾✅✅💯🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🇳🇬🇳🇬
Good response.
Wow!! Beautifully said.
Well put. I am South African 🇿🇦 and I was scared how some of my people went after Chidima. It felt like demons were attacking her but God prevailed.
But the problem is that you want people to talk good things abaut nigeria while your insults of jealousy and hatred uf you are humble people will talk good abaut you but if you are proud with insults people will put you in your place anyway congratulations 🎊 to miss Denmark 🇩🇰
I salute you my fellow Nigerian with this comment.
As a United States citizen who just lived in South Africa 5 month, I completely agree. Lots of South Africans are broken by no fault of their own. I experience this brokenness but I was wise enough to recognize was it was & not take it personal..
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Just watched a clip on Twitter, you are so right sis Ntsiki, South Africans are wounded and it’s so sad to see how we hold onto hurt because it’s something that we used to. This is the same energy that gets directed to anyone who tries to improve their lives, you get dragged for your past. As a nation, we need a National Day of Healing; there’s so much trauma carried by the country. Thank you for sharing this ❤
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@@NtsikiMazwaiThank you and stay blessed always, pretty❤❤
i dont see any comments on her mozambican heritage. my mozambican brothers and sisters ,you contributed to the creation of this beautiful woman. fill free to celebrate this woman . bom dia
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As a Nigerian, I agree 101%
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I have read over 70 comments here and no South African has critizied or insulted madam Moya. The truth is a powerful one man army💪💪💪. Thank you Madam Moya
I have! She doesn't know what she is talking about.
Get out of here you satan@@craigclifton7254
What do you know you are talking about?@@craigclifton7254
Firstly I would like to say VERY, VERY BIG, HEART FELT CONGRATULATION TO THAT AFRICAN DAUGHTER,, NOBODY WILL TAKE AWAY HER INDEGENOUSNESS,,,, NO ROMAN DUTCH LAW WILL REDUCE HER TO ANY LEVEL, SHE IS SOVEREIGN
Thank you, my brother. Chidinma's bullying is heart-wrenching. I hope she continues to heal and be strong.
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South Africans need so much healing ❤❤
It’s so sad to witness
And so much jobs too! People who work double shifts (including hateful and lazy government ministers) are less likely to be on social media inventing hyper ridiculous petitions day and night even after the lady left the country.
True
I shed tears watching and listening to the beautiful and very sensible lady.
@@NtsikiMazwai Your mis-leaders DO NOT CARE ABOUT AFRIKANS!!!
I think the Chidima situation have so many messages to us as Africans and will go a long way as language of reference
I am South African. I am. Proud of Chidimma. Congratulations Chichi on being Miss Universe Africa and Oceania
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Am from Cameroon i just felt in love with you through this video and you just a gain a follower i really wonder how fellow Africans would treat another the way they did to this younger girl.No one on earth deserve such treatment
This is the essence of A good Education, exposure, maturity, class and Truth.
Your presentation is superb.
98% on 🎯. I add to elements to your insightful comment. Discernment and wisdom. These two allow an educated person to be humble and apologise, not only on their own behalf but on behalf of a whole country.
Hats off to sis Ntsiki. I see her in a different light. ❤🇿🇼
Thank you. As a foreigner living in South Africa, I don't judge South African based on what I see or hear online. There are misinformed people from across the continent, and I blame social media that's inherently programmed to propagate stereotypes. Let's use the same social media to spread love, to expose and punish crimes irrespective of the nationality of those who commit crimes. May God bless you, may God bless South Africa and Africa as a whole.
Love remains the greatest ❤️
Well said hey, honest fellow Africa ❤❤
Thank you sis for speaking out you just said it as it is❤❤❤
I supported Chichi after I listened to stories and watched videos on SM i realised that Chichi did nothing wrong
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As a Nigerian, I thank you for your objectivity and humility. I have subscribed to your channel. Again thank you.
What a brilliant woman you are!! May you be blessed and hope SA heals.
Wow....I give THANKS to my HEAVENLY CREATOR for allowing me see your beautiful, intelligent PODCAST... Please, allow me to say this, you're the most intelligent, smart sister from South African I have heard from in decades, I was in Abuja, Nigeria when the former leader of South Africa came to Nigeria for dialogue to end the infamous government of the past. ONE ❤ AFRICA.
I bow for this woman.
I pray, hope someone is listening.
God bless Africa.
Wow, this woman has wisdom and eloquence. May The Almighty heal your nation. I always thought SAns only hate her for her Nigerian heritage. Now i do really understand it's not about her or about Nigeria. Thanks sister. Now I hold no ill feeling towards our SA brother and sisters.
Well done for apologising on the pains South Africa gave to Queen Chidinma . Against all odds she won. To God Be The Glory ❤
Enkosi sisi siyabulela ngoba yhoo shame bekunzima 😢 but ke uthixo ebenaye unontombi ocikiziweyo. siyamthanda uChichi manyan. Shes definitely a becon of hope she fought indeed. I pray for south africa to heal and for Africa to unite and live as brothers and sisters in peace ❤ well done Chidinma 👏 Nigeria 🇳🇬 well done for solving this problem 👍 ❤
This is an excellent presentation about Chidinma that digs into the effect of childhood trauma in your country. Unfortunately, trauma does not understand the meaning of embarrassment or respect for any nationality. What may help will require resources from the government: social, psychological, and spiritual. Psychological intervention will be the starting point; trained psychotherapists will need to be recruited for this purpose. Providing allowances or food to resolve problems, as we see in some African countries, without treating the fundamental challenges is unhelpful. Good job!
As a Nigerian listening to you, i respect you for this. I will share this
"Well butter my biscuit" Lady MOYA you so daam full of knowledge and wisdom, Am from Texas currently working in the UK My Girlfriend is Afrikaner from South Africa was saying pretty much the same daam thing 2 days ago!!!!👍🏻👍🏻
That’s refreshing to hear 😍
My Sister I thank you for your wisdom and powerful message. South Africa should remember that it did not fight apartheid alone, we fought wars for South Africa, in Angola we have half South Africans and most are from the exiled South Africans left here by their fathers during apartheid... The whole Africa has been abandoned, DRC, Sudan, etc are suffering worse 😢. Africans suffer everyday, please lets unite. Sending you love from Angola 🇦🇴
Respect To u from a Nigerian Sister. Kudos
This video speaks volumes. Better understand, better perspective, better better better.
Love your sincere thoughts.
Oh God! Thank you for being this soulful. Hate is a virus. Let love reign ❤❤
She is not in South africa
Chidimma was also criticized by some of us in Nigeria! Some thought that she was favored against other contestants. I think differently because she took an empty slot to participate and I watched the Nigerian pageant closely. She. was far above everyone else. Her intelligence , carriage and performance took her this far. Well done South Africa for molding her for greatness.
I need to go watch it, I thought the same. I didn't believe that she genuinely worked for it
I remember very well hyooo
I'm from the Igbo tribe in Nigeria. As an ethnic group, we have been marginalized in our own country. Other tribes thinks that we just like wailing and causing unrest in the country even though all we're asking for is to be treated fairly.
Should I go about angry and jealous with hatred for the other tribes. Infact I have dated men from these other tribes and came very close to getting married to a Yoruba man. I really loved him but it just didn't work out.
As Igbos we don't carry grudge for long because we need to progress and if I hold you down because of hate I'm equally stagnated. Thus, we must dust ourselves and move on because the goal is to advance.
South Africa please forgive, heal and move on especially for the sake of progress especially for the black SAns. I'm rooting for you guys ❤❤
Where are u hated in ur country, who spoil Nigeria not ur people, British handover to ur people, what did they do, don’t come here wit story u don’t know, better keep quiet 🤫
@@agric-tecture Exactly my fellow Igbo. I never felt the kind if hatred I felt after the last election, where Igbos were been killed in Lagos. But I thank God that it didn't last long, for God actually helped me heal. And am back to doing business with others trIbes again. And the end result is success offcourse. South Africans should borrow a leaf from the Igbos.
@@Jon_jon41 The likes of you and many other Africans still have a lot to learn from this lady's message of love & tolerance. Hate isn't just an SA thing, so many people in Nigeria and other parts of African still harbor some level of ethnic resentments against their neighbors within the same country, but in the form of tribalism.
The 'Igbo must Go' campaign that happened in Lagos a while ago was also a form of Ethnic hate or xenophobia in the form of tribalism.
So, as we're accusing South Africans, let us also imbibe our own lessons from this incident, that HATE begets HATE!
@@Jon_jon41 If Igbo man can not be the president in Nigeria, and, if Igbos are not allowed to vote in Lagos state, is as good as South Africans stopping Chidimma from contesting for Miss Universe In South Africa . So you should keep your mouth closed when issues of tribalism and bigotry is discussed
Peter Obi, and Igbo man won the last Nigerian General election but was robbed by Hausa and Yoruba's Political and Religions leaders
But people like you @Jon_jon41 dont want to hear that Igbos are being marginalized in their own so-called country
Thank you, thank you, thank you! So well communicated.
Many of us in the international black community who fought for South Africa’s freedom never took responsibility for helping our brethren post apartheid. The trauma is real and we need to recognise it globally. It is easy to wag fingers at the so called perpetrators but how many of us have taken time to examine why a people would behave that way to their own. We in the black community of states need to reach out to black South Africans and help our brothers and sisters, communicating more love by empathising and relating to their struggles. The odd enquiry of wellbeing through social media would be a good start.
This was so well spoken Mamiya, it serves as a wake up call for all of us on a global scale. There is plenty of work to be done, addressing individualism is key.
I left my house because it was in a mess and now live in another house that is not my own unable to fix the one I left from afar. This is the plight of many displaced migrants residing in locations around the world. I see my old neighbour shouting about a similar type of mess but his is because cousins have moved in and he has no easy access to facilities.
Black community, we need to wake up, we need to unite on a global scale and do something to fix our communal problems. The internal wrangling must stop, humility, empathy and love is fundamental to our cause.
Chidinma’s situation is a blessing for us all on so many fronts, her message of unity and love in Africa is not to be taken lightly. We are all one family.
We need to stop seeing each other as different and start seeing ourselves as Africans. That is the only way we can heal our continent from all these hate and bitterness.
Hearing you speak gives hope.
Pan Africanism is the only way.
I saw your picture and i thought it was dr mumbi of kenya. I am wishing you the best in life. Nigerian from tokyo.
You are a very smart woman endowed with wisdom! God bless you. You have just won a follower.
Almost rolled in tears watching this as a Nigerian, No black nation deserves an inch of hatred from South Africans because all black nations stood by you at your lowest. This video gave me an insight into the struggle of South Africans masked by aesthetics. We are forever with you and thanks for giving us the opportunity to know what you are currently going through.
Thank you Sisi for articulating sense and wisdom in all the chaos that unfolded. As a South African Mum have been praying for Chidimma from the get go and i'm overjoyed to having my prayers answered.....almost. i wanted her to be Miss Universe. Thank you Chidimma for also being resilient through it all
I love u mama
True Sister, most South African people don’t see the light at the end of the tunnel, this lady was catching stray hate bullets, Shame
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Sweet to hear from you. Your voice, intonation, outlook, approach, understanding &:even accenting are completely & commendably different. I used to LOVE South Africans (before) from afar, BUT I recently got extremely disappointed,, taken aback & pissed off by their reported behaviors, talks & attitudes. However you are so different, matured & what else can I say? GOD bless you & your kind of South Africans.
I really appreciate you ma'am, as a Nigerian American, I have siblings in South Africa. Not all South Africans are bullies. Keep doing a good job, ma'am.
Nigerian American 😂 you are a sumply a nigerian born in america there is no such you claim every country except your own clown
You're indeed so kind and intelligent. Much love from Abuja Nigeria. You happen to be the first south African intelligent black person I have encountered. ❤❤❤ Thanks for being honest
I was wondering what exactly is the reason for this hate behavior of South Africans. Now I get it, thank you ma. Your diagnosis and analysis changed my opinion and resolve about South Africans and South Africa as a country.
Very spot on, soothing and healing from matured a SA lady. We hope others look at life from the same lense as yours!!!❤
It shall be well with you, sweetheart. May God bless you.
My sister, thanks for your heart of sincerity. You're really appreciated.
Thank you African Queen. Love from Nigeria
Hmmmm, SA knows who to vent their frustration on, the government I supposed, not the innocent young lady that was trying to come up and make something for herself and also for the country, all the country in the world have their own problems including the giant of Africa Nigeria, A.S needs to pray and learn. Thank you for the video.
Chichi won.
My dear sister, may God bless u real good. So far, dis is d most sensible talk on d chidinma/SA saga. Am a 63yr old man.. Nigerian but so taken in by dis speech. Ur wisdom is just infectious. Remain blessed 🙏
Am so proud of you madam.
You are a true African.
God bless you heart.
Full of wisdom.I am in love with you.
I will say this quickly.South Africa is not the only nation that has been abandoned by their government.Truth is Nigerians don’t look like what they have been through,what they are going through. But we have learnt that when a blessing in in your neighbourhood and you celebrate with them,no sooner than later,your own blessings will come.
Heal from your hurt you all, but this hurt is synonymous with almost all Africa countries.
Channel your energies towards personal development and you won’t even remember that a government exists.
We have forgiven you all.We hope you forgive yourselves cos that’s the first step to healing ❤
My Sister. I'm enjoying your Content so much..
I totally agree with you on Chidimma. We are not OK as A country.
Untill we Deal with The hurt We will never come Right shame.
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My brother…..I need to deposit my R50 for the university Konje
Need more Mamiya, Kingsaidso and Decent Q
@@NtsikiMazwai all in Due time my Queen
I most confess that you are such a charitable, bold and wonderful woman. My respect for you is limitless. I love you so much and you have just won my subscription
Thank you for saying it !!! That is my biggest observation about this situation. And the leaders are funding the hatred ❤❤❤
I always said that, that our leaders and capital are funding this Black on Black hate.
Thank you for articulating what I suspected. I never gave up on SAcans. I have many friends in that beautiful country. What we see is another form of what we do in other African countries, where we fight to pull one another down due to economic harships and fight for political power by one ethnic group agaisnt another. Thank you. We need deep thinking people like this woman to lead in Africa - deep, sound, philosophical leadership that see things from a deep perspectives. God love you!
That's true Mamiya we are suffering from self inflicted hatred and our behaviour is a by product
Nigerian Beauty Queen Chidinma Adetshina Wins $3m Crown as Miss Continental Africa & Oceania, $100,000, a Luxury Apartment in New York, Modeling and showbiz contract as Miss Universe First Runner-Up 🥈. She will also travel to 35 countries on private jets. wow. God is good!!! Thank you for the apology.
Poetic justice
Caro,. Chidinma gets to STAY in the apartment for a year which is leased for her. The crown is not owned by her, so lets make sure we are beung factual.
I fully expect to see Chidinma on the catwalks and in the top magazines. She really has model looks.
Chidinma is an Igbo background. They should read up in what the Igbos went through and are still going through.
That's like kicking my child out of the house after putting her through medical school with my retirement savings! If that child becomes a rich and famous doctor, i would have already robbed myself the honour of being the proud parent to be congratulated.
Get the hell lost with your Igbo despicable cry. There were two main Nigerian that could not stand by and let South Africa mistreat Chidinma bad. This two are Ben Bruce and Abike Dabiri, they facilitate her return to participate in the Nigerian peacetime; And the truth is that none of them is Igbo, but Ijaw and the other Yoruba. I you idiot IPOBians will stop your nonsense cry
Are you sure you are not sick 😂😂😂
Thank you for being the real gem from South Africa my country. I am very proud of you and we need to silence this negativism in our country. Thanks Ntsiki.
I follow Malema keenly, he is a Pan Africanist and I think I have to add this Madame to my list of sane people from that part of our continent in social media. She sounds GOOD.
This sis still carry the heart and spirit of the greatest soul out of Africa. Madiba, Nelson Mandela.
One thing is clear here. Your maturity and sense of balanced judgement is there for all to see!
Well done!
From your Nigerian Fan! 👍🏽
Thank you, Ntsiki ❤❤❤ It is very embarrassing even to us who supported this young lady from the get-go. I apologize from the bottom of my heart. Only God knows our parth. Thank you Nigeria 🇳🇬 for fetching your child and giving her unconditional love.❤❤❤
Chidima showed that Evil will not progress over goodness,, they should be ashamed of themselves, sis
Thank you for choosing love over hate,good over evil. This is how we can heal the land and advance humanity! I appreciate your apology, it comes from a good place ,i am not Chidma neither i am a Nigerian but as an African, i accept your apology ...i also wish nothing but healing to Chidima as well as south Africans ! Let the girl be and let's move on !!!!!
Thank you for your mature and deep analysis. You earned my subscription.
Congratulations to Chidimma as Miss Universe Africa and Oceania 🎉🎉❤❤!!!
You've used the right word indeed "A poetic justice". Thank you Ms. Mamiya for this heart felt apology to the entire black race. 🙏🙏🙏🙏
Thank you Mamiya, you spoke with grace and so much wisdom.
Very true. The world had so much respect and love for South Africa but this Chidima issue has exposed a lot. What people admired has just gone down the drain. All the rumors of unhappiness and all social ills is out there. It's now just like the rest of the continent.
As a black South African, the way some of us have been saying and expressing to the Black nation out there about our lack of understand of who we are. As a Black man I even regret being a Black South Africa. There is no hope and place for us Pan Africans.
Very professional presentation. God bless you. You are the Best,
You spoke like a Mother …. Winnie Mandela and Tata Mandela will be proud of your reconciliation 🎤 speech. You spoke of wisdom. The Lord bless you and keep you. Congs Miss Universe Miss Chidima🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
This blogger is the Global Best. God bless you
Thank you for breaking it down sis, it was so hard and painful watching the hatred towards Chichi 😢 she didn't deserve all the senseless hate...such a sweet girl, but God showed up for her to show off❤
God bless you so much Ntsiki, this is my first time coming across your channel. Your apologies are truly from the heart and I pray black South Africans heal and don't see other black Africans as their enemies. As a Nigerian in the diaspora, I hear other blacks from here in US and the Carribeans appalled by these xenophobic black South Africans. It's more disheartening to realize these hate coming from educated black SAns online. Truth be told Ntsiki, it's very hard to run down Nigeria/Nigerians, we are loving, supporting and take other black Africans as our own families. We should all be firstly "Graciously African" and "Proudly" our variuos nations. God bless Africa..
I keep telling myself, I am not going to subscribe to anyone again. I just subscribed to your channel. Thanks for to U, there's hope for Black South Africans. Well done, lady!!! You deserve your flowers 💐 💛.
What an angel you are !!!!
The whole hate coming from south africans to Chidinma Adetshina, who did nothing to them, making believed nothing good can come out of South Africa, in that I even advised people to stay away from South Africa. But listening to you, make me see 👀 that deep spirit of brotherhood that Africans are known for. You are an angel 😇 💛 💖 💓
The delay in service delivery has been absolutely traumatic for generations of people in South Africa and the government doesn't seem to understand the urgency.
The dangers of a single story.
Very sober words. Thank You for saying the quiet part out loud... The level of vitriol Chidima has received is beyond logic. It's very scary and extremely worrying. This is low for SA. We can do so much better..
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I applaud you for speaking to your humanity, and I hope others follow.
Heart of gold, Moya! Thank you so much!❤
I quite agree with you slightly about ur explanation and defense of South Africans shameful and bais , racist and fascist attitude. It's not an excuse. The evil spirit of envy and jealousy, this is an abominable spirit that God Almighty loats.
This woman is a TRUE AND REAL AFRICAN MOTHER apologizing on behalf of SA. Indeed your words just gave me thoughtful emotions as a Nigerian I accept your apology and also pray that this scenario does not affect innocent generations yet to come. I see you as a PEACE advocate. GOD bless you
Jesus left us a very difficult but the most beautiful and important commandment of "LOVE" and l believe when we put it into practice, we shall all be healed of our brokenness ❤❤❤❤. Congratulations Chi chi. Am proud of this old lady for such beautiful message 🎉🎉🎉🎉
My love and respect goes to this lady for her deep sense of maturity and intelligence. Watching this video soften my heart towards the SAns, I have a good understanding where all these hates and bitterness is coming from now. I will do my best to love the SAns regardless, you are our brothers and sisters no matter what, we all have our pains and struggles as a country but together we can fight our African leaders until we get what we deserve. 🇳🇬❤️🇿🇦
Well said sister. FROM CANADA 🇨🇦
Queen Chidinma Vanessa Adetshina is our queen and we appreciate her for being strong and getting the very prized trophy for us all in Africa and Oceania countries and islands including. She is definitely loved and cherished Nigeria and Africa.
This is very well spoken. You’ve spoken even better than the SA Government has spoken. There’s still some good people in that country. This one incidence has made me given up on a country that I love. If I might add finally that, one abuse doesn’t justify another. Hurt people need be healed lest they hurt other people. Thank you for your kind words. You resolved this one issue that a whole country couldn’t resolve.
After hearing this apology , now I know there are some South Africas that have conscience. Am a Nigerian and I give it to you ❤❤
MAMIYA ... I APPRECIATE YOUR SENSE OF HUMOR AND EXPLANATIONS
Triumph of good over evil. Landless sans should consider that even after 30 years, there's no clean water, pitlatrines etc
I get your excuse about the brokenness, trauma, frustration and poverty in South Africa as a result of the past but the pour all that on one Child, born in South Africa from immigrant parents is a no no. South Africans can do better by calling their government to order and not blame other African nationals for their mishap and misfortune. I still love content and I wish you well.
Thats so touching and so sweet Moya. God bless you
We acknowledge and accept your apology, we pray for South Africans and the country for God to heal them and give them grace and the patience to tolarate especially their fellow Africans as I believe they too are going through if not the same but almost similar trauma.
God bless you Ntsiki for your wisdom and courage.
I love you all irrespective of what has happened. Love Africa and Africans. From a lovely Nigerian guy.
Wonderful, positive energy from this lady. Mzanzi finest
As a diaspora African….
I’ve never seen such hate embedded in a nation on the continent, towards our own!!
We might say maybe it was mostly done on social media and may not be real but through the world
we live in now, we see and learn about a person on the media, from themselves without directly saying.
I’ve been in shock about South Africa displays and have really been hoping to understand or be enlightened of where this was all coming from towards the other…?!
Though there are others in the nation with a completely different heart and perspective…
I see South Africa way…. different now (cautiously)
Thanks for enlightening some of us Mama …
We need to do better; choose love, respect and unity over hate!!!
Sad part is that they don’t even see it. They are defiant