@@joudelynealtidor3942I have been searching for this video for years and couldn't remember the name, so I typed in You Say I Don't Know I'm Beautiful, But what I'd I Did on Google, with RUclips on the end of the phrase and I immediately saw this as the first video of the suggestions and was glad, and feel I found my great example and inspiration. I am blessed and driven by this. Thank you very much for this. 😊 🙏 ❤ And A Round Of Applause Is Ling Overdue. 👏 👏 👏 👏 👏 👏 👏 👏 👏 👏
btw *I would like to invite you to my channel*. I am not a normal ‘beauty guru’.. 🙈 *I make my videos quick, unique and cutely edited.* I hope they make you smile :) 🌸💕
Ugh get out don't say sexy if you want likes its unappealing it makes us feel like an object use beautiful or gorgeous or pretty instead not "hot" or "sexy"
TheCreepyGirl I know me too! About two years ago when I was thirteen I was just entering those stupid awkward teen years all of my friends would call me fat hips caz they were big. I would take one look at their supposedly perfect skinny bodies and wish for nothing more than their body. Then I got RUclips and realized so many people longed for nice curves like mine. And I checked my bmi and apparently I was healthy. So what I thought made me fat was actually what made me feel beautiful. Just like that I felt much better. And part of my thanks goes to buzzfeed for showing me that!
I wish I had the confidence to walk around in a tank top with my stretch marks showing and still be as confident and beautiful as Daysha. She kills it.
THINK your beautiful? No, its okay to KNOW your beautiful, everybody is beautiful its not a what if, or a maybe, or a I think, its I AM. This is what the point was.
ZX6R In reality? I don't know what kinda reality you're living in but in this reality EVERYBODY is beautiful, some just have an ugly personality like you. You saying what you said would be the same as saying if everybody had brown hair it wouldn't be brown hair, it would just be hair. Your argument is completely out of line.
I wish I had as much confidence as her. My confidence is so lackluster I do love things about myself like my eyes but I find more things I hate about myself. This message is so beautiful and I really hope I can get to the point where I'm actually confident
I agree. Uplifting music. Feminist poetry wouldn't hurt. You'll find your self worth especially the older you get. And ladies the worst thing you can do is not be urself in relationships. Set the bar high cause ur worth it!!!
Inner beauty is what counts and lasts much longer ;) keep your chin up and try to list 10 things you're grateful for. That's what I do when I'm having low self esteem.
Ok, I have two things I wanna say here after scrolling through the comments: 1. This video is not gender specific. All of you guys who are saying that you feel insecure too, I hear you. But keep in mind that you can still apply the message of this video to yourselves regardless of your gender because it's about being proud that you love the body you are in, and that is something that has nothing to do with your gender. 2. This video is not specifically meant to criticize those songs, but rather to draw attention to the fact that our media fuels the idea that we need someone else to tell us that we are beautiful because just deciding that for yourself is unattractive and cocky. I think we all get that those songs are meant to be inspirational and encouraging to girls that are insecure, but what people don't realize is that they, like so much of our media, encourage people to be insecure by telling them that's what makes them attractive. This video is meant to prove that confidence in your body, flaws and all, still makes you attractive rather than narcissistic.
i know that everything she said is true but I find it so hard to be confident. i just can't stop picking at myself. i know that most of it is only in my head and others don't judge me like i do but still... I'm afraid that the urge to only focus on the bad things about me will never go away. it sounds easy to just let go of these doubts but it's not.
Life's too short to feel insecure. Know that most people you meet will come and go. Know that the true feelings of beauty lay inside of yourself. There's only one of you in this world, everyone makes mistakes, don't try to change yourself to be someone you're not. Look in the mirror, say "This is me" and accept yourself. I've been the same way. Accepting your flaws, accepting yourself as a human being, makes you feel a lot better.
CurlyKu thank you, I appreciate your advice :) i want to accept myself and sometimes it works but focusing on my flaws is a thing i do subconsciously. i guess i just have to keep trying.
Also its ok to take time to love yourself. Nothing happens overtime but most of the good things take time and work. Don't feel bad that you can't stop feeling insecure. Much love and hope you feel better!
Live in the moment!! And, cliche asf I know, but we all truly have our insecurities (: learn from your mistakes, and no matter how it may seem, not everyone is scrutinizing you for everything you do. Just know that there are some bitxchy people out there, and they'll try to cut you down, but when you finally find yourself, you'll be on cloud 9 all day err day. Smile at the little things in life! Step out of your comfort zone! And lastly of all, BE HAPPY. ❤
I feel ya! But try writing down all that you love about yourself - inside and out! Hopefully you'll come to realise you have beauty(: we all actually have something we dislike about ourselves so try your best not to beat yourself up for it :)
Yup, and all the other guys are posting hate and stuff like they're being sexist but I understand, and I don't give a crap that this video was about women it's just saying those songs, like if a girl wrote something like that to a guy, guys could make this video, everybody needs to learn to get along
As a guy, I approve this message. Just say it! If your beautiful and said it I would say "Awesome! You are confident, and love yourself!" I would say that. Every one is beautiful. Good Job Daysha
Emma Backer I don't exactly find her attractive, she's on the thick side, her hair is ridiculous, and she obviously knows nothing of English literature.
***** This video inspires women, which honestly, there is no problem in that. When you only empower women and speak only about women's problems, that's when men get angry, and that's reasonable
Joshua Kim Yeah you're right. I don't know that but I was just saying, some one else could've written it, or she could've written it. I don't know. But yes you do have a point in that she is a very good speaker
Amin Lo Re She's okay. Not uggo, but nothing amazing. She'll do just fine with guys, if that's what she means about "knowing she herself is beautiful." You missed the point, though. Her message was to other women, it wasn't just about her.
+pheromone I think you're missing the point too. "She'll do just fine with guys" has nothing to do with anything! She is beautiful because she says she is, not beautiful for men. The inward and outward beauty that she sees in herself has no correlation with male opinion or attraction toward her. Women can be beautiful for themselves, not just for guys!!
I'm pretty sure those lyrics were there for the girls who are insecure and don't usually get called beautiful or don't think they are! If a girl knows she's beautiful, great for her! But the lyrics are meant for girls who don't actually know they are!
Daisy Lopez well then she is a confident woman who has good self-esteem and doesn't need to be told she's beautiful. But unlike her there ARE women who are insecure and feel ugly. So the writers say "You don't know you're beautiful" cause they might not. This girl doesn't represent the entire woman population.
Everyone's beautiful. If you're aware of your beauty, then that's amazing. Show off your confidence in how you look and who you are. Don't worry about the people who think their validation is needed for you to be happy with who you are and how you look. Just step on their ego a little more. Let them know you don't care. ;)
"This video is annoying" Try listening to what she says. You might think- oh, oh my god ! This is so true, and so wrong. We should, as intelligent and kind human beings, do something about it. Change the way it is !
***** I just think that what she's saying is straight up facts. for girls, (maybe for guys too, idk) being hated on for being confident is considered common and normal. So it's not anything u can disagree with I think. Yeh the music is freaking annoying, but she has a very true point that some people refuse to accept
lizzietupman I kindly disagree. As a female, I disliked this video not because I disliked the message--I agree in not gaining validation from how others see you, and I am strongly feminist. I disagreed because I feel as though they took lyrics and rather than trying to find the positive message they ripped them apart to find the negative, which is hugely problematic and makes it difficult for people to say anything. To me, the point of most of these songs is not to say "listen you need my validation and you are only worth something if I tell you you are beautiful." The point of them is to say, everyone has insecurities. Even women who describe themselves as being beautiful have insecurities. They are trying to say that when you don't walk around thinking you're better than other people because you are attractive, that your humility and values are what makes you beautiful. They aren't saying not to be confident, they aren't saying not to be proud of who you are. They are saying that the fact that you aren't stuck up is a great thing(there's a difference b/w confidence and arrogance), and they are into the person not because they lack confidence, but because the person is so beyond amazing and attractive to them and the person doesn't realize the effect they have.
beautifuldisaster962 There's also a strong implication that men only like women for their looks. Does she think that? It's kind of lame to be pigeon-holed like that. Sublimation is the impetus of art in many cases. What we're to scared to say to someone directly is often expressed in our art. She might as well have taken a stab at John Lennon or Marvin Gaye. Anger doesn't make anyone beautiful. These artists are just trying to say something nice about modesty, I think. I think she's got the message a little twisted and might be projecting just a bit.
lizzietupman: Ignore 'Adolf Hitler'. He doesn't get that not everybody feels the same way he does. We all feel differently about everything and I COMPLETELY get what she was saying in this video. You're allowed to disagree with me, but don't insult me because of it. There's disagreement and then there's childishness and rudeness s. (Of course, this isn't aimed at the people politely explaining their point of view, just the jerks spouting insults and the wish that people "off" themselves.)
Chantelle Riches Of course, if people disagree with the fat black woman who insults classic literature, there's something wrong with them. Seems legit.
+N.I. McClusky Exactly. I've know guys who are aware they are attractive but they place more value on being a good person and then I've known guys who know they are attractive and use it to mess people over. (This applies to girls too. Using your looks to play games with someone else's heart or to get stuff isn't cool.)
+N.I. McClusky well its not really his fault that shallow girls dont care about his personality and just get swayed by his looks... nice guys finish last
maybe he shouldn't go for shallows girls then! the type of girls that don't care at all about personality aren't the type of girls he should be going for
I'm 13 and I don't like my body. Everyone says "I wish I was skinny" but I'm skinny and mostly I get called "too skinny" "skinny bone jones" etc. I can't gain weight I eat like a horse but I never gain it.
Same but I focused on me and learned to love myself. Give yourself a compliment every morning and night, and tell yourself you love you out loud everyday. It works!
It's all about genetics, you're naturally skinny so no matter how much you eat you'll stay thin, but I guess if you eat way too much you'll appear on "My 600 Pound Life" or something, but you get my point. Learn to love what was given to you.
same!!! I just realized what it said after this video.... I've been their fan for 5 years and I met them because of that song. And sometimes I think I love them just because I didn't love myself before.
+Valentina G. Ok girl Me too! I'm actually super jealous of you because One Direction is my life. I've been a fan for 4years and I can not be any more proud of the boys than I am now!
I don't want any hate and I agree with this video's message but it seems that everything a man says to a woman can be taken as an insult or something sexist
Morgan Hosmer I said I agree with what the video tries to communicate. I'm talking about the fact that every single thing a guy says to a woman seems to be taken as an insult or something sexist
Does anyone actually believe that being told that you're beautiful by a men makes you beautiful? Those songs (at least the ones that I know) were about girls that didn't consider their selves beautiful, so those men were trying to remind them that they are.
Morgan Hosmer I am a guy, and when people compliment me I always say thank you, or compliment them. Saying "I know right?!" is a bit stuck up sounding, even if the message is the same.
You say i'm beautiful, i'm cute, i'm adorable, but when i say "I know" you say "how about you say thanks?" "your such a narcissist" "Ego Much?" no. i'm not a narcissist, No I Can Validate Myself For Thinking I'm Gorgeous. I don't need your approval to think of myself as a perfect Beautiful Being In This World. Who are you..to build women up to think another being is the only one to say i look fabulous? Who are you to say i can't say "I know i am Adorable." Who are You to say i can't think of myself as perfect, who are you to say that i need one's approval to be Fantastic Looking Lady. I am allowed to think i am beautiful, i am allowed to think i am cute. I Am Allowed To Think I Am Fabulous. I Am Allowed To Think I Am Beautiful. I Am Allowed To Think I'm Gorgeous. I Am Allowed To Think I Am Perfect. I Am Allowed To Say I Am Adorable. I Am Allowed To Say... "i know..i am."
I hope I'm not the only one who stands in front of a mirror, pulls my beer belly out, jiggles it, and says "hello sexy 😉" *no you would not want to live with me*
PREACH SISTER! I love Daysha. She's so confident and beautiful and amazing, and she knows it. She knows how people think and helps us all feel more confident and motivated. She's the definition of awesome.
Hey Kenny, I have a word for you, I can tell she is really feeling herself today and I am too if she is. You don't need to go around blabbing dumb things that will make someone feel badly about themselves. I can tell from her videos that she is trying to get fullest to gain her self esteem. I can also tell from her videos she is going through way too much and she shouldn't be be because of haters like you. Thanks for trying, but fans like me actually try to be nice and give them a chance.😇👻💁🏻🙏🏻👼🏼😜
As a bloke, this enrages me to hear this. Those songs are aimed at insecure young girls to give them a confidence boost. Even so, the sentiment is sweet, and it is just a compliment. Whether you know you're beautiful or not is irrelevant. You don't need our validation, but that isn't why we say it. We say it to our partners because we love them, and even if they do know, it can help them boost their confidence - not that it NEEDS it. This is the sort of video which kills chivalry.
Chivalry is not telling an insecure girl a compliment and having her not believe it. This video is saying that no one needs to justify your beauty. Only you can and you need to see the beauty you possess.
I got that, but the manner they said it was making it out that any compliment a man gives to a woman on her looks is a means of manipulation and justification, which I think is wrong.
I don't think the video suggested that all. A compliment on looks is fine, but what the video is talking about is being able to love yourself and not needing other's validation for it.
All she talks about or writes about is beauty and the need to stop looking for someone's validation... I would want to hear that powerful, beautiful voice talk about other things as well...
I am not beautiful I feel sick when I look in the mirror I always want to lose more weight Even on the days I love myself I find my flaws and they drag me down I can't help it that I reject compliments I don't want to lie to myself by accepting them
+Emma Dexter Since you won't accept my compliment if I give one, I would suggest that you please compliment the reflection you see every morning in the mirror and tell her one positive thing about her, every day. Give yourself a great compliment, a honest truth, and accept it. I know that you are a ravishing human being with great capabilities. Please aim to accept that fact. I wish you the very best of the best.
my mother said some of those things to me so I couldn't see the beauty that was in Me now I'm older children of my own I look at them and no .that I was here just to show myself the world that my children are here Part of Me beautiful that I do see if I look at them and see the beauty obviously what my mother was telling me wasn't fruity! standing proud with all my beauty.
Daysha's voice has given me more confidence then before and now I just say "I don't care that all my friends are fit and have a sixpack. I'm just a little curfy" and they and every one accepted that a long time ago expect for me and now I just feel a little happier every time I look in the mirror and I just wanted to thank you to every one that supported me even if it is someone like Daysha who will probably never know me
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I am not beatiful. I am not. Well why I should like beautiful me? I like how I look even though I don't accept the word "beautiful". I look in the mirror and I like what I see, but I just don't call it beautiful. Is that problem? Well totally not mine.
Peace isn't at all being a man hater, unless you consider all men pathetic. Because she said clearly "pathetic men" think that way. Not all. If you think all men are pathetic, that's your choice. She just thinks pathetic men are pathetic and think that way. Not all.
How many m8s could a gr8 m8 d8, if a gr8 m8 could d8 m8s? Yeah but telling someone that not thinking you're beautiful makes you beautiful is so harmful and isn't going to help anyone's self esteem because the moment they love themselves they suddenly don't fit the 'beautiful' standards set out by those idiot dudes.
RawrsomeRachael Well okay, that song may not have the best lyrics, but I think most of these love song's main purpose is to make women who hate themselves appreciate their flaws and understand that they are beautiful no matter what.
I thought that to myself every time I heard: You don't know you're beautiful, *THAT'S WHAT MAKES YOU* beautiful. Don't tell me they be tryna boost women's confidence when everybody sings about how f*cking cute it is when girls don't love themselves.
Favorite! I feel worthless and depressed with the stress from work and tired of looking the undeserving me but because of this I've changed! Thanked God I've watched this! So uplifting video.
I love this woman. She's so inspirational
Exactly what o was going to say, she reminds me of one of my friends
Her name is daysha
I think it's her own poetry, which is absolutely amazing that she can make such a statement and be so powerful using her voice. Inspiring.
Kanita R She should write a poetry book.
I agree! She is amazing
"I'm beautiful because I said so."
YES
PREACH
Melody Shang Savage
The reason you are beautiful is the reason you are beautiful
this girl is like gods gift to earth.
+Cassidy Heath Very kind comment. You, too, are a God-given gift to Earth, for you bless the world as you thrive through it.
@@joudelynealtidor3942I have been searching for this video for years and couldn't remember the name, so I typed in You Say I Don't Know I'm Beautiful, But what I'd I Did on Google, with RUclips on the end of the phrase and I immediately saw this as the first video of the suggestions and was glad, and feel I found my great example and inspiration. I am blessed and driven by this. Thank you very much for this. 😊 🙏 ❤ And A Round Of Applause Is Ling Overdue. 👏 👏 👏 👏 👏 👏 👏 👏 👏 👏
Is it just me or are people more attractive when they're confident in them selves?
Yes!!:)
Umm.......
Correct.
it's true
since your mood affects how you behave and since your behaviour affects how other people see and judge you, it´s not much of a surprise really.
THIS WAS SO INSPIRATIONAL! 💕
btw *I would like to invite you to my channel*. I am not a normal ‘beauty guru’.. 🙈 *I make my videos quick, unique and cutely edited.* I hope they make you smile :) 🌸💕
Adela smfh self promotion. Just making this terrible video even worse
skuyo0703 woahwoahwoah, calm down..
How did this inspire you? Inspire you to do what ?
Adela no u lying
Confidence is the sexiest thing a woman can wear. ❤️
You just made my day😁
+Hazal Ak Yasssss
//: some girls don't have it...
Hazal Ak You're doing it right my friend.
Ugh get out don't say sexy if you want likes its unappealing it makes us feel like an object use beautiful or gorgeous or pretty instead not "hot" or "sexy"
Daysha is such a badass... xD
What girl is the badass
+Emily Wampold I admire her more with every video =)
so true
Emilala Tadpole 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
yeah she is goal
Daysha is my role model, I love her so much!
śame
She's just amazing
I used to hate myself and how i look, but then I realized that what i thought were my flaws, were actually my best features.
PREACH 👑💚
i just did like that too even now... im trying to like my self and confident about my self but its hard :(
Johanna Sindya just take some time to write down what people have complimented about you. thats what i did.
TheCreepyGirl I know me too! About two years ago when I was thirteen I was just entering those stupid awkward teen years all of my friends would call me fat hips caz they were big. I would take one look at their supposedly perfect skinny bodies and wish for nothing more than their body. Then I got RUclips and realized so many people longed for nice curves like mine. And I checked my bmi and apparently I was healthy. So what I thought made me fat was actually what made me feel beautiful. Just like that I felt much better. And part of my thanks goes to buzzfeed for showing me that!
BuddahFlower yep, buzzfeed is pretty inspiring sometimes
I wish I had the confidence to walk around in a tank top with my stretch marks showing and still be as confident and beautiful as Daysha. She kills it.
Do it if u want... Dont let your fear stop you from something you want to. :)
Yvette Simbi thank you (:
Yeah, bro! You shouldn't care about what other people think! Strut your style, hun.
same
im sure you looke beutyfull in a tank top :)
In shorter words: It's okay to think that you're beautiful.
THINK your beautiful? No, its okay to KNOW your beautiful, everybody is beautiful its not a what if, or a maybe, or a I think, its I AM. This is what the point was.
Exactly
PREACH
ZX6R In reality? I don't know what kinda reality you're living in but in this reality EVERYBODY is beautiful, some just have an ugly personality like you. You saying what you said would be the same as saying if everybody had brown hair it wouldn't be brown hair, it would just be hair. Your argument is completely out of line.
" so you agree? You think you're really pretty?" Lol
Daysha is amazing at these Types of videos😍
True
True true
IKR!
+Abby Helmkamp WOOF
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This made me feel better.
Good because you need it
Alexis Koelliker Why does he need it
How does this make you feel better?
Jungkook??
bulletproof two moons Yep. Army and Exo-l as well?
I wish I had as much confidence as her. My confidence is so lackluster I do love things about myself like my eyes but I find more things I hate about myself. This message is so beautiful and I really hope I can get to the point where I'm actually confident
I agree. Uplifting music. Feminist poetry wouldn't hurt. You'll find your self worth especially the older you get.
And ladies the worst thing you can do is not be urself in relationships. Set the bar high cause ur worth it!!!
Inner beauty is what counts and lasts much longer ;) keep your chin up and try to list 10 things you're grateful for. That's what I do when I'm having low self esteem.
Savannah Clifford don't worry, you'll get there eventually! It takes time, but it's worth it, i promise ;)
I'm in the same boat.. I really hope that one day I feel as happy with myself as this woman. & I hope you do too x
Savannah Clifford if I were you I would love my eyes too tbh. theyre so pretty
Ok, I have two things I wanna say here after scrolling through the comments:
1. This video is not gender specific. All of you guys who are saying that you feel insecure too, I hear you. But keep in mind that you can still apply the message of this video to yourselves regardless of your gender because it's about being proud that you love the body you are in, and that is something that has nothing to do with your gender.
2. This video is not specifically meant to criticize those songs, but rather to draw attention to the fact that our media fuels the idea that we need someone else to tell us that we are beautiful because just deciding that for yourself is unattractive and cocky. I think we all get that those songs are meant to be inspirational and encouraging to girls that are insecure, but what people don't realize is that they, like so much of our media, encourage people to be insecure by telling them that's what makes them attractive. This video is meant to prove that confidence in your body, flaws and all, still makes you attractive rather than narcissistic.
nlj7944 omg, a sane person. let's be friends! :D
Really well put response to this video, just wish your comment could've gotten more popular than all the comments hating on the video.
nlj7944 I feel like this comment right here needs more appreciation.
nlj7944
But perhaps the video should have made its intentions clearer, rather than force us to guess what they were.
Derek G It was clear enough for me.
best one direction roast ever
tru
LARRY
Lmao so true
True!!
one direction is my liFE
i know that everything she said is true but I find it so hard to be confident. i just can't stop picking at myself. i know that most of it is only in my head and others don't judge me like i do but still... I'm afraid that the urge to only focus on the bad things about me will never go away. it sounds easy to just let go of these doubts but it's not.
Life's too short to feel insecure. Know that most people you meet will come and go. Know that the true feelings of beauty lay inside of yourself. There's only one of you in this world, everyone makes mistakes, don't try to change yourself to be someone you're not. Look in the mirror, say "This is me" and accept yourself.
I've been the same way. Accepting your flaws, accepting yourself as a human being, makes you feel a lot better.
CurlyKu
thank you, I appreciate your advice :)
i want to accept myself and sometimes it works but focusing on my flaws is a thing i do subconsciously. i guess i just have to keep trying.
Also its ok to take time to love yourself. Nothing happens overtime but most of the good things take time and work. Don't feel bad that you can't stop feeling insecure. Much love and hope you feel better!
Live in the moment!! And, cliche asf I know, but we all truly have our insecurities (: learn from your mistakes, and no matter how it may seem, not everyone is scrutinizing you for everything you do. Just know that there are some bitxchy people out there, and they'll try to cut you down, but when you finally find yourself, you'll be on cloud 9 all day err day. Smile at the little things in life! Step out of your comfort zone! And lastly of all, BE HAPPY. ❤
I feel ya! But try writing down all that you love about yourself - inside and out! Hopefully you'll come to realise you have beauty(: we all actually have something we dislike about ourselves so try your best not to beat yourself up for it :)
When I put makeup,fake tan,tight clothes and high heels I look in the mirror and love the way I look and know I'm beautiful
+Liberty May That's so great that girls like yourself find ways to express yourself in different ways and are content with yourself. You go, friend.
+Raaqia Qazi agreed!!
+Meeki Beeks same! I'm amazed too
+Raaqia Qazi I agree
it doesn't matter what you have to do to feel beauties because at the end, you're still trying.
Daysha is my no. 1 buzz feed fav! 👏👏👏👏👏👏
that what i was thinking!!
Cause you're both black? Lol
Chris Velasco seriously ...
Nah cuz she speaks the truth Chris Velasco
Awwww yissss
She is so beautiful and cool, ugh I love her! She's so amazing
Hate on the video and its message all you want but I love this. Many women need this confidence these days myself included
Yassss
Melanie D. as a male... i love this. not sure why, but i think this mentality makes a relationship much more healthy.
What about guys
Yup, and all the other guys are posting hate and stuff like they're being sexist but I understand, and I don't give a crap that this video was about women it's just saying those songs, like if a girl wrote something like that to a guy, guys could make this video, everybody needs to learn to get along
Melanie D. Males also need support regarding the subject. Women aren't the only gender that have flaws..
Bless this video, someone finally said it
Love it
This is so true ! I am beautiful !
*opens front camera*
Never mind
Im so tired of these typ of jokes/comments, its not funny to be insecure
+Ediith
I wasn't joking
I actually felt like this
+Noodleay Whose eyes are you looking through? Yours or society's?
_Mine_
+Noodleay Then you better get some glasses lol
Damn this kinda opened my eyes.
So true. I never realized this, but it's so true. Daysha is amazing.
As a guy, I approve this message. Just say it! If your beautiful and said it I would say "Awesome! You are confident, and love yourself!" I would say that. Every one is beautiful. Good Job Daysha
That's not quinta
Agree 😄 and Daysha btw
This isn't Quinta...
She's not Quinta
Bro this is not quinta
THIS LADY MAKES ME SO HAPPY. SHE IS MY HERO
Emma Backer AND SHE'S BEAUTIFUL LIKE SHE SAYS
Emma Backer I don't exactly find her attractive, she's on the thick side, her hair is ridiculous, and she obviously knows nothing of English literature.
Emma Backer Let's just say I prefer mine slender, not a 200 pound beached whale. (You)
Emma Backer Seems legit... (Sarcasm)
That's why you're watching something to make fat people not be insecure.
Adolf Hitler No. I am watching something to help make everyone not insecure. Get back on the time machine Hitler, you dont belong here
Notice that most of the comments slamming the video are posted by guys.
So weird😒
Not weird. As you can see from our developing society, it is not 'weird'. More like disgustingly common.
***** This video inspires women, which honestly, there is no problem in that.
When you only empower women and speak only about women's problems, that's when men get angry, and that's reasonable
You go girl 💪💪
It's less that and more when you perceive them to be non-existent or minimal which pisses everyone off, along with double standards and hypocrisy
***** +the others I can't tag. I like how you all are generalizing so much :)
*Looks in mirror* Im actully pretty ok....*Opens front camera*Never mind...
Nadia Sartorius omg sameeeee😂😂😂
Nadiia Enestad what's a front camera?
Nadiia Enestad I thought I was the only one
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Damn where can I get all her self confidence?
Pokke
SimplyBerly Ebay
Danielle Jackson I appreciate it
SimplyBerly fake it until you make it. Worked for me
deni dimitrova that's what I've been doing.
I love how confident Daysha is! 😄
I swear she's my favorite at buzzfeed
Mine too! 😀
Agreed!
Yes me too! (Three I guess)
Also her hair in this video her hair is amazing
Gold D Roger fucking annoying ay
Yay Daysha!!!
She is so inspiring
I need her to cosplay as garnet
Yes please, she has the moves and the cool vibes.
yes oh my goodness
Yaaaaaas
im crying i hope this happens
Carmen Jones God, we are everywhere.
She should rethink and become a public speaker. Just my 2 cents
Well unless someone else wrote this for her
Juan, you don't know that.
And regardless of if she wrote it or not, she's still an eloquent, and articulated speaker
Joshua Kim Yeah you're right. I don't know that but I was just saying, some one else could've written it, or she could've written it. I don't know. But yes you do have a point in that she is a very good speaker
Guys... she is a public speaker. She's speaking, you're public. Think about it.
I don't know, i think she's gorgeous
She looks like a turd with a mop on top. What are you talking about?
The Disco Kermit Says the person who has a fucking painting as their profile picture.
Just because someone doesn't have a profile pic means they Arnt confident or are ugly
Amin Lo Re She's okay. Not uggo, but nothing amazing. She'll do just fine with guys, if that's what she means about "knowing she herself is beautiful."
You missed the point, though. Her message was to other women, it wasn't just about her.
+pheromone I think you're missing the point too. "She'll do just fine with guys" has nothing to do with anything! She is beautiful because she says she is, not beautiful for men. The inward and outward beauty that she sees in herself has no correlation with male opinion or attraction toward her. Women can be beautiful for themselves, not just for guys!!
I look in the mirror and just think "this is me, and this is what I look like, and that's fine"
I'm pretty sure those lyrics were there for the girls who are insecure and don't usually get called beautiful or don't think they are! If a girl knows she's beautiful, great for her! But the lyrics are meant for girls who don't actually know they are!
Preach!
She keeps saying, "BUT what if I did"
Daisy Lopez well then she is a confident woman who has good self-esteem and doesn't need to be told she's beautiful. But unlike her there ARE women who are insecure and feel ugly. So the writers say "You don't know you're beautiful" cause they might not. This girl doesn't represent the entire woman population.
Jacob Kirkus you are so right! they just misinterpreted those lyrics and the artists' intentions.
True👏
I love her so much
I LIVE for Daysha's spoken word. She is a poetic genius, my spirit animal.
Everyone's beautiful. If you're aware of your beauty, then that's amazing. Show off your confidence in how you look and who you are.
Don't worry about the people who think their validation is needed for you to be happy with who you are and how you look.
Just step on their ego a little more. Let them know you don't care. ;)
I love your profile photo
+Dat Memestho You're probably not.
btw I love your username
LARRY FOREVER
I'm Larry trash too 😂
This is true I am beautiful cuz I say so
Daysha is soooooo beautiful :) I really like her body, hair, eyes... idk, everything! Thanks for giving my confidence a boost!
1D (BLEH):You don't know you beautiful!
Daysha:Um yes I do.
Other people: Vain....
Daysha:Fight me b^tch
yaaas
Can people stop being offended by everything...
Extraboyce1 I don't see the difference is
GHOST2RM what*
It all starts with feminist getting butt hurt then rational people get butt hurt, then everyone is butt hurt
I know right lol
Thank you!
Being confident is a nice thing to do really! But some people don't know the difference between cocky and confident
You are so right!! It is people like that who make different ones insecure arguing life, happiness and love is just made for them.
I have nothing but love for this girl
I like spoken poetry a lot xD
Me too
same
"This video is annoying"
Try listening to what she says. You might think-
oh, oh my god ! This is so true, and so wrong. We should, as intelligent and kind human beings, do something about it. Change the way it is !
LovelyPop it's annoying because trolls and misunderstanding that's all
Jonathan Henriquez what do u mean by trolls ?
There are some trolls going around bashing and hating the video because of the purpose of the video and the person in it
***** Oh I'm just saying there's some guys going around hating the video for no reason at all
***** I just think that what she's saying is straight up facts.
for girls, (maybe for guys too, idk) being hated on for being confident is considered common and normal. So it's not anything u can disagree with I think. Yeh the music is freaking annoying, but she has a very true point that some people refuse to accept
I know it kind of defeats the purpose but she's super gorgeous and badass and awesome.
The fact that videos like this still get dislikes just shows there's no hope for some people.
lizzietupman I kindly disagree. As a female, I disliked this video not because I disliked the message--I agree in not gaining validation from how others see you, and I am strongly feminist. I disagreed because I feel as though they took lyrics and rather than trying to find the positive message they ripped them apart to find the negative, which is hugely problematic and makes it difficult for people to say anything. To me, the point of most of these songs is not to say "listen you need my validation and you are only worth something if I tell you you are beautiful." The point of them is to say, everyone has insecurities. Even women who describe themselves as being beautiful have insecurities. They are trying to say that when you don't walk around thinking you're better than other people because you are attractive, that your humility and values are what makes you beautiful. They aren't saying not to be confident, they aren't saying not to be proud of who you are. They are saying that the fact that you aren't stuck up is a great thing(there's a difference b/w confidence and arrogance), and they are into the person not because they lack confidence, but because the person is so beyond amazing and attractive to them and the person doesn't realize the effect they have.
beautifuldisaster962 There's also a strong implication that men only like women for their looks. Does she think that? It's kind of lame to be pigeon-holed like that. Sublimation is the impetus of art in many cases. What we're to scared to say to someone directly is often expressed in our art. She might as well have taken a stab at John Lennon or Marvin Gaye. Anger doesn't make anyone beautiful. These artists are just trying to say something nice about modesty, I think. I think she's got the message a little twisted and might be projecting just a bit.
lizzietupman Totes, who could hate a bigoted 1-sided argument regarding English culture. Off yourself pls, and do it quickly.
lizzietupman: Ignore 'Adolf Hitler'. He doesn't get that not everybody feels the same way he does. We all feel differently about everything and I COMPLETELY get what she was saying in this video. You're allowed to disagree with me, but don't insult me because of it. There's disagreement and then there's childishness and rudeness s. (Of course, this isn't aimed at the people politely explaining their point of view, just the jerks spouting insults and the wish that people "off" themselves.)
Chantelle Riches Of course, if people disagree with the fat black woman who insults classic literature, there's something wrong with them. Seems legit.
after waching this i was like "i am feeling it" i took a selfie. deleted it
she is such a good speaker
This can apply to guys too, because whenever a guy knows he's hot, he's suddenly a f*ckboy...
So true
I don't care if a guy thinks they're hot, I just don't like when guys use their looks to screw girls over.
+N.I. McClusky Exactly. I've know guys who are aware they are attractive but they place more value on being a good person and then I've known guys who know they are attractive and use it to mess people over. (This applies to girls too. Using your looks to play games with someone else's heart or to get stuff isn't cool.)
+N.I. McClusky well its not really his fault that shallow girls dont care about his personality and just get swayed by his looks... nice guys finish last
maybe he shouldn't go for shallows girls then! the type of girls that don't care at all about personality aren't the type of girls he should be going for
Thank you buzzfee for making videos like this.
urgh she's so freaking beautiful. I love her hair
I'm 13 and I don't like my body. Everyone says "I wish I was skinny" but I'm skinny and mostly I get called "too skinny" "skinny bone jones" etc. I can't gain weight I eat like a horse but I never gain it.
Same here
same fam
Same but I focused on me and learned to love myself. Give yourself a compliment every morning and night, and tell yourself you love you out loud everyday. It works!
It's all about genetics, you're naturally skinny so no matter how much you eat you'll stay thin, but I guess if you eat way too much you'll appear on "My 600 Pound Life" or something, but you get my point. Learn to love what was given to you.
I 100% understand how you feel, my body type is exactly the same xx
This changed my entire perspective on how I feel about myself. Thank you so much :').
Why do I keep reading the comments
Dylan Menard You're probably seeking for the right comment that expresses exactly what's in your mind ^^
itzRiham I just found mine :)
Dylan Menard Because you care enough.
Dylan Menard I usually read comments cuz I'm bored. EDIT: Same reason why I watch RUclips videos.
Dylan Menard I agree. Let's stop. People on the comments are fucked up crazy monsters.
I never really thought a song to affect me like that? I just enjoy One directions song "What makes you Beautiful" because it a good jam?
same!!! I just realized what it said after this video.... I've been their fan for 5 years and I met them because of that song. And sometimes I think I love them just because I didn't love myself before.
+Valentina G. Ok girl Me too! I'm actually super jealous of you because One Direction is my life. I've been a fan for 4years and I can not be any more proud of the boys than I am now!
Oh my gosh, I've been a fan for five years and you just made me realize that.
+Audrey Marie i realized ALOT of songs have "you don't know your beautiful" in it, i love the songs, but i don't Agree what message they send out,
LUV Animals,Gaming,And More which one.. the song or the video?
This video boosted my confidence- Thank you Daysha!!!
"I am not a parking ticket looking for you're validation" I love u Daysha❤️❤️❤️❤️
I don't want any hate and I agree with this video's message but it seems that everything a man says to a woman can be taken as an insult or something sexist
Morgan Hosmer I said I agree with what the video tries to communicate. I'm talking about the fact that every single thing a guy says to a woman seems to be taken as an insult or something sexist
Morgan Hosmer Do you think those lyrics' context made what they said offensive?
Does anyone actually believe that being told that you're beautiful by a men makes you beautiful? Those songs (at least the ones that I know) were about girls that didn't consider their selves beautiful, so those men were trying to remind them that they are.
Morgan Hosmer I am a guy, and when people compliment me I always say thank you, or compliment them. Saying "I know right?!" is a bit stuck up sounding, even if the message is the same.
It doesn't alway have to be man to woman
I just want to say that, whoever you are, you are beautiful. From the outside and from within. You are a queen, a warrior and a hero.
You say i'm beautiful, i'm cute, i'm adorable, but when i say "I know" you say "how about you say thanks?" "your such a narcissist" "Ego Much?" no. i'm not a narcissist, No I Can Validate Myself For Thinking I'm Gorgeous. I don't need your approval to think of myself as a perfect Beautiful Being In This World. Who are you..to build women up to think another being is the only one to say i look fabulous? Who are you to say i can't say "I know i am Adorable." Who are You to say i can't think of myself as perfect, who are you to say that i need one's approval to be Fantastic Looking Lady. I am allowed to think i am beautiful, i am allowed to think i am cute. I Am Allowed To Think I Am Fabulous. I Am Allowed To Think I Am Beautiful. I Am Allowed To Think I'm Gorgeous. I Am Allowed To Think I Am Perfect. I Am Allowed To Say I Am Adorable. I Am Allowed To Say... "i know..i am."
I like to say "thanks, I agree" ☺
I'm fabulous!
I love it how she speaks confidently .. 👏👏👏
+Lady Kim 이사이 *whispers* your prof pic is adorable
i shall leave now i'm srry >.
I hope I'm not the only one who stands in front of a mirror, pulls my beer belly out, jiggles it, and says "hello sexy 😉" *no you would not want to live with me*
that's amazing lol
You are not alone
+Marta P ur dp and comment combined is just a win
xyourbaejesslynx ;D
+Marta P omg ur so cool lol
Man I love Daysha's slams! They're so inspiring 🙌
I love her poetry and her confidence. Keep it up!
PREACH SISTER! I love Daysha. She's so confident and beautiful and amazing, and she knows it. She knows how people think and helps us all feel more confident and motivated. She's the definition of awesome.
Love you Daysha!!
I hate her.
Hey Kenny, I have a word for you, I can tell she is really feeling herself today and I am too if she is. You don't need to go around blabbing dumb things that will make someone feel badly about themselves. I can tell from her videos that she is trying to get fullest to gain her self esteem. I can also tell from her videos she is going through way too much and she shouldn't be be because of haters like you. Thanks for trying, but fans like me actually try to be nice and give them a chance.😇👻💁🏻🙏🏻👼🏼😜
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She is so beautiful. I'm seriously attracted to her soul and gorgeous personality.
As a bloke, this enrages me to hear this. Those songs are aimed at insecure young girls to give them a confidence boost. Even so, the sentiment is sweet, and it is just a compliment. Whether you know you're beautiful or not is irrelevant. You don't need our validation, but that isn't why we say it. We say it to our partners because we love them, and even if they do know, it can help them boost their confidence - not that it NEEDS it. This is the sort of video which kills chivalry.
Chivalry is not telling an insecure girl a compliment and having her not believe it. This video is saying that no one needs to justify your beauty. Only you can and you need to see the beauty you possess.
I agree 100%
I got that, but the manner they said it was making it out that any compliment a man gives to a woman on her looks is a means of manipulation and justification, which I think is wrong.
I don't think the video suggested that all. A compliment on looks is fine, but what the video is talking about is being able to love yourself and not needing other's validation for it.
LeSingeEstSurLaBranche you've completely missed the message of the video
All she talks about or writes about is beauty and the need to stop looking for someone's validation... I would want to hear that powerful, beautiful voice talk about other things as well...
I am not beautiful
I feel sick when I look in the mirror
I always want to lose more weight
Even on the days I love myself I find my flaws and they drag me down
I can't help it that I reject compliments
I don't want to lie to myself by accepting them
+Emma Dexter Since you won't accept my compliment if I give one, I would suggest that you please compliment the reflection you see every morning in the mirror and tell her one positive thing about her, every day. Give yourself a great compliment, a honest truth, and accept it. I know that you are a ravishing human being with great capabilities. Please aim to accept that fact. I wish you the very best of the best.
+Emma Dexter no girl you are beautiful just the way you are, love your body
+Emma Dexter Beautiful is on the inside, not the outside. As long as you love yourself for who you're truly are life will be much better for you.
That's your body u look at if, noone has that body. If that's not enough everyone who doesn't like how u look just remember it's your body not theirs
my mother said some of those things to me so I couldn't see the beauty that was in Me now I'm older children of my own I look at them and no .that I was here just to show myself the world that my children are here Part of Me beautiful that I do see if I look at them and see the beauty obviously what my mother was telling me wasn't fruity! standing proud with all my beauty.
I love these kind of videos with Daysha!
Daysha is like Beyoncé of buzzfeed
No, thats Eugene
Nicole Ferguson omg yessss lol
Nicole Ferguson *we havent seen eugene in like 20 years*
like, a Beyonce who looks like the weeknd
she is
She is so good at these videos more more more
She is amazing!!! She looks so gorgeous!!! She has so much talent and beauty!
This is incredible.
+BrennenBliss Well said.
I know im fat i know im not perfect but iknow im gorgeous and amazing i dont need anyone to tell me bab 😊 😊 😊 😊 😊 😊
I love it when her hair is like that!!
God shes beautiful
Daysha's voice has given me more confidence then before and now I just say "I don't care that all my friends are fit and have a sixpack. I'm just a little curfy" and they and every one accepted that a long time ago expect for me and now I just feel a little happier every time I look in the mirror and I just wanted to thank you to every one that supported me even if it is someone like Daysha who will probably never know me
I am not beatiful. I am not. Well why I should like beautiful me? I like how I look even though I don't accept the word "beautiful". I look in the mirror and I like what I see, but I just don't call it beautiful. Is that problem? Well totally not mine.
Nika Říhová You're probably not beautiful. I'm sorry for your loss.
Also, will you marry me?
+Magdalena Quintero He's replying that question on almost every comment, don't worry -.-
*****
Haha yeahh Bacon and Eggs ;)
idk who you are
but I am more than 100% sure you are beautiful
+Nika “Shori” Říhová Well as long as you accept yourself that just fine :)
Thank you because everyone here needs to hear this everyday and we are all beautiful.
PREACH! Most pathetic guys hate girls with confidence.
peace love & happiness lol man hater are we?
No, bhat comment made me want to be a man hater though
Mitchell Franker peace said most PATHETIC guys, so by implying peace is a 'man hater' you are also implying that men are in fact all pathetic
***** lol? Thats a reach there.
Peace isn't at all being a man hater, unless you consider all men pathetic. Because she said clearly "pathetic men" think that way. Not all. If you think all men are pathetic, that's your choice. She just thinks pathetic men are pathetic and think that way. Not all.
AHHH, I love these videos.
"I am not a parking ticket looking for your validation." new life motto ❤
I love BuzzFeedYellow a lot of their post are so inspiring.
I think these songs are dedicated to women with low self-esteem, and not to women who already know how beautiful they are.
8?
How many m8s could a gr8 m8 d8, if a gr8 m8 could d8 m8s? Yeah but telling someone that not thinking you're beautiful makes you beautiful is so harmful and isn't going to help anyone's self esteem because the moment they love themselves they suddenly don't fit the 'beautiful' standards set out by those idiot dudes.
bud ley Very mature of you. Thank you so very much for such an eloquent and worthwhile comment, I appreciate it very much. :]
RawrsomeRachael Well okay, that song may not have the best lyrics, but I think most of these love song's main purpose is to make women who hate themselves appreciate their flaws and understand that they are beautiful no matter what.
I really love the videos where she narrates really inspiring.
Yeah... but im not beautiful.
I thought that to myself every time I heard:
You don't know you're beautiful, *THAT'S WHAT MAKES YOU* beautiful.
Don't tell me they be tryna boost women's confidence
when everybody sings about how f*cking cute it is when girls
don't love themselves.
she has such a powerful voice, she can really get you think about the topic at hand. You go Daysha!
You are beautiful.
I am beautiful.
We are all beautiful.
Don't give a sh*t about what people say.
She's so awesome I love all the speeches and stuff she does
oh my goodness. her confidence is amazing. I wish I had that much confidence. or any confidence at all.
Favorite! I feel worthless and depressed with the stress from work and tired of looking the undeserving me but because of this I've changed! Thanked God I've watched this! So uplifting video.
this made me confident. and i WAS not confident
I fricking love the videos she does
Daysha, girl you are amazing. So talented, smart and beautiful. You go girl!
I love how this woman talks. She is so inspiring.