Listen shuga, that man don’t want you. You can have 17,000 more babies and he still wouldn’t want you. Stop trying to force yourself on him. You deserve someone who loves you the same.
It's kind of clear that he loved her at one point but something happened and he got turned off by her. Now the dynamic has changed between them, he doesn't know how to fix it, not even sure if he wants to take the time out required to fix it right and looks/feels stuck in a no win situation.
She’s in denial. She keep talking bout he inconsistent & keep talking about he doing this & that. Girl bc u are allowing him to play u. Everything he is saying is bc he THINKS he’s just suppose to bc that’s what he was taught & what society says. He don’t truly want that lady.
All I can hear is Judge Toler saying “Never let a man tell you more than once that he don’t want you”. He’s told her AND showed her and she STILL chooses be blinded by his words and actions. Hunny keep on waiting, he’s going to keep using you until he done and marry the next woman within 6 months. 🥴🥴🥴
Some women tend to get a man doing nice things for them mixed up with indications that he loves her... Many times men just enjoy doing nice things for someone they like or care for... Don't get it twisted...
Oof! Karma is gonna come for that man in the form of a woman he actually wants but she’ll do him how he’s doing her. Prepare for your heartbreak, my boy!! 😂 Also, I never feel sorry for ppl who choose to stay and keep complaining. What you accept, you deserve. Good luck to that lady.
He's only in it for himself!! He doesn't care about you, except for what you can do for him!! He "doesn't believe in love". But he believes in stringing her along!! Girl, why are you wasting the best years of your life with him. Find a real man!! And it doesn't matter if you're talking or not, the birth of your child is THE MOST IMPORTANT DAY OF YOUR LIVES!!! YOU SHOULD HAVE BEEN THERE!! He doesn't care because it's not important to him. He is ice cold - he's a narcissist!!
2 babies! It’s terrible the situations we put ourselves in 🤦🏽♀️ 8 years, 2 kids and an engagement and still talking about no romance 🙄 sounds desperate
Man..... this guy said he's working on his craft as a PHOTOGRAPHER and that's why he can't get married..... I'm like SIR does that mean you can't be a husband and take PICTURES at the same time?!?!! 🤣🤣🤣
I don't think this dude really wants anybody. I think a friends with benefits situation suits him fine, which wouldn't be a problem except for they brought kids into it.
People destroyed relationships and marriage to the point that it no longer suits most men to give a damn about just one woman. If they always gone be commodious and whining you might as well hump one while you can and move to the next once they start all this crying.
Baby at some point you have to STANNNND UP. This man has showed her no regard and basically said he’s in it for the kids and she wants him to be in love so bad but he’s clear that he’s NOT and she did not take the hint.
This "man" is absurd like foreal.... For her to even want him to keep disrespecting her is beyond me... Sad to see she really thought she was gonna force him to be watever she wanted him to be. But when u allow a low down trifling human being to dictate your life and feelings that's when u take a big L. She likes it
This man thinks he is the prize, and she is helping him to think like it! This woman is so attractive and seems supportive of her partner, yet she cannot see her worth. She cannot be helped until she sees herself differently.
He says they're "friends with benefits" for 4 years. And she believes they're inseparable even though they are just benefiting each other. And she accepted and was cool with being “Ms.benefit”, shame!
Yall was friends with benefits for 4yrs and just so happen to get pregnant he ask you to marry him to not look like the bad guy. Girl dont you never again give a man the milk for free.
That stupid laugh, when the judge revealed that she slept with him the first time she met him, like she thinks that’s cute.🙄 Why in gods name are people always so focused on what’s between the legs, is that all there is to want in a person?…..
He doesn't like, love, nor care about her. Anything associated with her including their kids, is tolerated. When asked if the kids were wanted/planned only she answered. The look on his face was not amused. He tolerates her because she is convenient. Though he says he doesn't believe in love, he doesn't believe in it with her. She will never be a priority. I wouldn't be surprised if he's actually looking elsewhere..
He doesn't love her, she wants to be married, he wants to do the right thing and marry the mother of his children. Judge Star's verdict is right, they should stay together. But like she said, Ms Whitlock will grow unhappy once she's married because she still won't be his priority. She's caught in a loop and she wants to stay in it. Good luck to the Hills.
I hope she truly understands that this man child does not want her and does what’s best for her. When he said he doesn’t believe in love my jaw dropped!! She looked so broken and defeated. If you’re reading this sis, PLEASE KNOW that you are worthy of the love you desire. This guy just isn’t it. Best of luck to you and your children!
When you are a "friend with benefits", you don't let your emotions get involved. You definitely don't start having children with the " friend". Now here she is upset and complaining because he's not ready to get married.
Did he just not apologize again for missing his child being born?🤔 girl you can do better! He could care less how you feel about ANYTHING. YALL NEED TO JUST COPARENT AND GO YOUR SEPERATE WAYS.
This woman is not listening to this man. He is not that into you. He does not want you. He is only there because it's comfortable. When he finds the woman he wants he will leave you high and dry. Girl get you some sense and leave this man. Realize your value and don't remain a door mat.
Why would u want to marry someone who does not believe in love. And I see she is going to stay with him and keep being unhappy. Cause nothing will change.
That's the problem with some women. They don't listen. Homegirl got this " I can change him” mentality. But dude is constantly saying he doesn't want what she wants. Just leave him alone. But you know what's going to happen? She's going to have 4 and 1/2 more kids with him to try to force his hands just to be a single mom of 28 kids
I don’t understand how this woman could ever misconstrue that this man wants her in any form or fashion. She’s convenient to him and that never works out ladies smh
Girl, HE DOES NOT WANT YOU!!! Quit fighting to keep this man. Let him go. If he's that insensitive that he wouldn't show up for his daughter's birth, he really doesn't give a damn. He is extremely narcissistic!!! Ooh, they live in my current city and state!!!
....He doesn't want sis anymore,when a dude refuses sex he's preoccupied,he loves her but not in love with her,he needs to lose her to appreciate what he had
After 9 minutes in it's safe to say he doesn't love her. He only gave her a ring because that's what he thought he was supposed to do. After seeing the whole thing I was correct but he dont want to let her go because she benefits him in some way and once he no longer needs her then he will be honest after wasting years of her time
I can't see the benefit. I think he just tried to do the right thing and even then y'all find a way to whine, cry and complain. He should just let her be another statistic and be a single momma...
This dude is cold as ice. Why does she want this man in her life? He doesn’t want her he just like the convenience she brings. He can care less about her. If she’s unhappy now just wait until after marriage. He’s self serving.
Honestly, I don't believe he has found the right person to fall in love with. She is an open door, he knows that, and he takes advantage of that. He doesn't want to be with her. I think she is in a fantasy world because they have children together. She's pushing for something, but he is not even though any man will accept what you're offering. #myopinion
I do not understand why men love the idea of stringing a woman along but don’t want to be with her but at the same time don’t want her with anyone else this is the main reason why a lot of women want to remain single💯
Listen shuga, that man don’t want you. You can have 17,000 more babies and he still wouldn’t want you. Stop trying to force yourself on him. You deserve someone who loves you the same.
I agree with u sis yup he definitely don't want her..he's showing it thru his actions
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It's kind of clear that he loved her at one point but something happened and he got turned off by her. Now the dynamic has changed between them, he doesn't know how to fix it, not even sure if he wants to take the time out required to fix it right and looks/feels stuck in a no win situation.
She’s in denial. She keep talking bout he inconsistent & keep talking about he doing this & that. Girl bc u are allowing him to play u. Everything he is saying is bc he THINKS he’s just suppose to bc that’s what he was taught & what society says. He don’t truly want that lady.
@@Roseclan24 it was friends w/benefits. He clearly stated he doesn’t believe in love. He simply feels obligated bc it’s the “right thing to do”.
All I can hear is Judge Toler saying “Never let a man tell you more than once that he don’t want you”. He’s told her AND showed her and she STILL chooses be blinded by his words and actions. Hunny keep on waiting, he’s going to keep using you until he done and marry the next woman within 6 months. 🥴🥴🥴
Yes I keep that in mind a on regular thanks to Judge Lynn
True
Sooooo true!!
Yes!!!! I’ve never forgotten what she said!!!
😂 I was just bout to post same thing never let a man tell you twice he don't want you
He's been consistently showing her he's not into her and she's been consistently not wanting to believe him
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this comment is the one.
fact 😅 🤣
"I'm gonna be there for the baby not for you." Women your life was in the line & he did not care. Girl run!!!
Yes ma'am Run! He doesn't love you at all.
I'd never let a man get so comfortable he thinks I wouldn't leave. The things these women stay through is mind boggling.
Some of these young men and women will settle for any piece of a man or woman just to be with a man or woman.
I haven’t even watched yet, but BABY!!!! Your comment is A FACT!!! 💯💯💯💯
I used to be one of them, THANK GOD for deliverance.
I can't wrap my head around it
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My jaw dropped when he said he don’t believe in love. Why display those feelings if you don’t truly feel that way
I think he loved her but got turned off by her and now......
thrill is gone..... and not 100% sure if he wants to take the time out to fix it
Some women tend to get a man doing nice things for them mixed up with indications that he loves her... Many times men just enjoy doing nice things for someone they like or care for... Don't get it twisted...
He said that because he don't love her but doesn't want to hurt her feelings
@@zulu3274 that makes more sense than anything he said but that’s still misleading if you don’t say that. A relationship isn’t a good deed.
You didn't listen to what he said huh? You just ran with what you think and didn't listen to his reasoning...
Why is sis allowing this little hobbit to string her along like this? 😒
Right 😂😂😂
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YES!!!! His Lil ass
How many ways does he have to say he don't love her, he don't want her, he don't care about her? A 4 year long hookup is still just a hookup.
His own hair is running away from his b.s..but yet you still there. 🙄🙄
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@@saturnladee110 had to say it 😂
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I can hear Judge Toler asking the question " Is the dating market that tight? Is a good man hard to find?" 😅😂😅
Lol it’s the control your fertility for me. it takes JT to say that 😂
I like judge star. But I be needing Toler on some of these cases.
@@SAPPDllc6737 Judge Toler and Mabalean 😂😂
@darristhomas5602 yes, they were the best! They actually go through to a lot of people.
😂😂 I read that In her voice 😂😂😂
Someone hurt this woman real bad, and she doesn't know her worth. I pray she finds it quick for the sake of her children, they deserve a happy mom.
Oof! Karma is gonna come for that man in the form of a woman he actually wants but she’ll do him how he’s doing her. Prepare for your heartbreak, my boy!! 😂
Also, I never feel sorry for ppl who choose to stay and keep complaining. What you accept, you deserve. Good luck to that lady.
He's only in it for himself!! He doesn't care about you, except for what you can do for him!! He "doesn't believe in love". But he believes in stringing her along!! Girl, why are you wasting the best years of your life with him. Find a real man!! And it doesn't matter if you're talking or not, the birth of your child is THE MOST IMPORTANT DAY OF YOUR LIVES!!! YOU SHOULD HAVE BEEN THERE!! He doesn't care because it's not important to him. He is ice cold - he's a narcissist!!
Judge Star killed me at the end!!! “Girl that’s yo man” 😆😆🤣🤣😂😂😂💀💀💀
2 babies! It’s terrible the situations we put ourselves in 🤦🏽♀️ 8 years, 2 kids and an engagement and still talking about no romance 🙄 sounds desperate
Don’t forget the friends with benefits for the first 5 years 😢
@@SC20256😂 stand to be correct 4 years
Never let a man tell you more than once that he don’t want you
Lady get a backbone man doesn't want u deserve better.run. no good. He loser.stop begin door mat. Co parent.☹️sad. Just saying
He don’t believe in being in love til he meets the person he falls in love with
Right now, he's in love with his work...He needs to be honest about that.
His is going to find someone that doesn’t give a damn ,about him.Then , he will be in love .😂
Precisely so
When a dust bucket thinks he’s a prize 😂
OMG, yes!!!! His arrogance is astonishing!!!!
As hard as she’s chasing him when he’s constantly dodging her, says that she thinks he’s the prize
Why is she NOT listening to him 😩😩😩😩 he does not want you 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻!!!!
Yeah sweetie he doesn't want you I can tell by the first five minutes! He's basically screaming he doesn't want you🤧🤦♀️
Are you getting I think he wants Buddy not Judy vibes too? lol.... the folded hands and batting of his eyes... please... lol
@@stephenleigh4571 mmmm that’s a good point 🤔
His demeanor says I don't want you. Like the Judge says when a man loves you he will do whatever it takes to let you know it.
I heard “I don’t believe in marriage”, but I have never heard “I don’t believe in love.”
I don’t believe in love at first sight
@@quiquigoodman1169 I heard that but this man said he don’t believe in love.
Man..... this guy said he's working on his craft as a PHOTOGRAPHER and that's why he can't get married..... I'm like SIR does that mean you can't be a husband and take PICTURES at the same time?!?!! 🤣🤣🤣
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@@lotusxinception3475 this case was too much!! 😂😂😂
This man's heart is cold. Run!!
When he said he doesn't believe in LOVE. Runnnnnnnnnnnn don't force it.
“I don’t feel like being in love is real” yikes lol gone head and move on sis.. he is not the one.
He does not love her, girl move on
I don't think this dude really wants anybody. I think a friends with benefits situation suits him fine, which wouldn't be a problem except for they brought kids into it.
People destroyed relationships and marriage to the point that it no longer suits most men to give a damn about just one woman. If they always gone be commodious and whining you might as well hump one while you can and move to the next once they start all this crying.
Either that or he wants a man with
Baby at some point you have to STANNNND UP. This man has showed her no regard and basically said he’s in it for the kids and she wants him to be in love so bad but he’s clear that he’s NOT and she did not take the hint.
This "man" is absurd like foreal.... For her to even want him to keep disrespecting her is beyond me... Sad to see she really thought she was gonna force him to be watever she wanted him to be. But when u allow a low down trifling human being to dictate your life and feelings that's when u take a big L. She likes it
She wants to suffer
“I don’t believe in love”. These men are pitiful 😂😂
This man thinks he is the prize, and she is helping him to think like it! This woman is so attractive and seems supportive of her partner, yet she cannot see her worth. She cannot be helped until she sees herself differently.
He says they're "friends with benefits" for 4 years. And she believes they're inseparable even though they are just benefiting each other. And she accepted and was cool with being “Ms.benefit”, shame!
That was the first RED FLAG 🚩🚩🚩🚩
Yall was friends with benefits for 4yrs and just so happen to get pregnant he ask you to marry him to not look like the bad guy. Girl dont you never again give a man the milk for free.
That stupid laugh, when the judge revealed that she slept with him the first time she met him, like she thinks that’s cute.🙄
Why in gods name are people always so focused on what’s between the legs, is that all there is to want in a person?…..
Niece, pack your things and GO. That man don't even like you. He's with you out of obligation.
BOY BYE! He would have been OUTSIDE The Window Looking In! 🤔
Mighty proud he is standing there with his head looking like Jim Carrey as the Mask talking bout he's a catch.
i can’t believe how stupid he sounded when he was addressing the birth of his 2nd child … 🙄
Who hurt Tom Thumb talmbout he don’t believe in love. 😂😂
He doesn't like, love, nor care about her. Anything associated with her including their kids, is tolerated. When asked if the kids were wanted/planned only she answered. The look on his face was not amused. He tolerates her because she is convenient. Though he says he doesn't believe in love, he doesn't believe in it with her. She will never be a priority. I wouldn't be surprised if he's actually looking elsewhere..
He doesn't love her, she wants to be married, he wants to do the right thing and marry the mother of his children. Judge Star's verdict is right, they should stay together. But like she said, Ms Whitlock will grow unhappy once she's married because she still won't be his priority. She's caught in a loop and she wants to stay in it. Good luck to the Hills.
That man doesn’t want her. She needs to run and not have one more baby with him.
Women REALLY Need to STOP. . . SMH! You already know He AIN'T About NOTHING! 🙄
I hope she truly understands that this man child does not want her and does what’s best for her. When he said he doesn’t believe in love my jaw dropped!! She looked so broken and defeated. If you’re reading this sis, PLEASE KNOW that you are worthy of the love you desire. This guy just isn’t it. Best of luck to you and your children!
Void of emotions
When you are a "friend with benefits", you don't let your emotions get involved. You definitely don't start having children with the " friend". Now here she is upset and complaining because he's not ready to get married.
Did he just not apologize again for missing his child being born?🤔 girl you can do better! He could care less how you feel about ANYTHING. YALL NEED TO JUST COPARENT AND GO YOUR SEPERATE WAYS.
Ms. Star Jones is soooo Real 😂
Girl he don't want you, this getting married is high class ignorance.
Not Doo-Doo on the shoe 😂😂😂😂, I love me some Starr!!If it don't fit don't force it was a couple!!!
I literally cackled! 😂😂
I cracked up!
This woman is not listening to this man. He is not that into you. He does not want you. He is only there because it's comfortable. When he finds the woman he wants he will leave you high and dry. Girl get you some sense and leave this man. Realize your value and don't remain a door mat.
girl... are you listening to this man.. HE DON'T WANT YOU SIS !!
I wonder if she is listening to HERSELF
@saturnladee5619 I was thinking the same thing. I wonder what she is thinking as she is watching the replay of the show.
She didn’t hear nothing this man said “ I’m trying to see where she getting her concerns or responses from - did u not just hear this dude smh
I can see him on tiktok talking about how women beg for marriage and etc...
Why would u want to marry someone who does not believe in love. And I see she is going to stay with him and keep being unhappy. Cause nothing will change.
He's loving her the way he wants to love her and she wants to be loved in her way. LISTEN when people tell you who they are.
These lil men are a trip smh
Little man syndrome lol
Not..." don't treat her like doo doo on your shoes" I'm weak😂😂
That's the problem with some women. They don't listen. Homegirl got this " I can change him” mentality. But dude is constantly saying he doesn't want what she wants. Just leave him alone. But you know what's going to happen? She's going to have 4 and 1/2 more kids with him to try to force his hands just to be a single mom of 28 kids
I don’t understand how this woman could ever misconstrue that this man wants her in any form or fashion. She’s convenient to him and that never works out ladies smh
She ain't trying to hear nothing he saying. Lawd it's soo sad
Y’all talking bout love language and this man is a whole narc lol he literally doesn’t believe in it
That part!
Girl that’s yo man!! 😂😂😂
LADY' WHY are You wasting Your TIME? ? ? 🤔
He’s telling her 😮i don’t want you leave me alone please 🙏
Girl, give the ring back and co parent as friends. He will never be the man you’re imagining.
Lmao Wtf Was That? 2:26 😂😂😂
“I might as well take this doo doo off my shoe” 😂😂😂
#girldatsyoman 🤦🏿♀️🤭🤣🤣😂😂🤣 well said Judge Star ⭐ well said🤣
He believes in love he just doesn’t love YOU
If a man told me that he didn't believe in love I wouldn't even allow him to be in any type of connectivity to me...
"Friends with benefits" is just mutual abuse. 🙏🏿✝🕎
This really makes me sad for her and what she’s settled for and I don’t think she can see it at all
ITS CLEAR AS DAY,, HE DOES NOT WANT HER ,, THIS WAS A LONGGGGG HOOKUP
I agree. Amen. Yes yes yes. I can hear that as well. It's time to cut ties. Run
This is the worst case of unrequited love if I ever did see one
So I guess he don't love his kids
The laugh tells it all. BIg GIRL, just don't settle.
Girl, HE DOES NOT WANT YOU!!!
Quit fighting to keep this man. Let him go. If he's that insensitive that he wouldn't show up for his daughter's birth, he really doesn't give a damn. He is extremely narcissistic!!!
Ooh, they live in my current city and state!!!
I love the judge realness!
Girl that man has zero emotions. Run.
He believes in love just not with her.
....He doesn't want sis anymore,when a dude refuses sex he's preoccupied,he loves her but not in love with her,he needs to lose her to appreciate what he had
After 9 minutes in it's safe to say he doesn't love her. He only gave her a ring because that's what he thought he was supposed to do.
After seeing the whole thing I was correct but he dont want to let her go because she benefits him in some way and once he no longer needs her then he will be honest after wasting years of her time
I can't see the benefit. I think he just tried to do the right thing and even then y'all find a way to whine, cry and complain. He should just let her be another statistic and be a single momma...
He said he doesn’t believe in love 🤨 That’s not the first time she’s heard that. Focus on u and your babies, sis
Miss, RUN' Real Fast! 🙄 The DAY He CALLS Whining refer Him Back to His Beliefs. ALL that Mess about being the Father of Your Children👉🏼ANYWAY! ! !
She should have left him at the house party, left him with no number or anything.
When judge Star ask him if he wanted to marry he looked up and ask her the question she asked him clear indication he's about to lie
This dude is cold as ice. Why does she want this man in her life? He doesn’t want her he just like the convenience she brings. He can care less about her. If she’s unhappy now just wait until after marriage. He’s self serving.
What planet is the dude from?
Girl - he is screaming at you - telling you WHO he is. WHY won't you believe him?????
Honestly, I don't believe he has found the right person to fall in love with. She is an open door, he knows that, and he takes advantage of that. He doesn't want to be with her. I think she is in a fantasy world because they have children together. She's pushing for something, but he is not even though any man will accept what you're offering. #myopinion
I do not understand why men love the idea of stringing a woman along but don’t want to be with her but at the same time don’t want her with anyone else this is the main reason why a lot of women want to remain single💯
Because woman allow themselves to be treated that way.
Judge Star definitely knows struggles in people.
She needs to find someone to love her - he ain't all that anyway. Cold fish
He only proposed because of the kids
Dang Y'all... When the Judge urged him to tell her the truth, it just broke my heart. She deserves SO much better.
He’s on the down low
Omg, yes!!! As soon as he opened his mouth I thought the same thing!!!
That black bow tie though!😂
Him saying I might as well marry her hurt 😢 that was more then enough to have me packing
Don't make a man tell and show you more than once he doesn't want you..Judge Lynn Toler..these words came from her late mother..
I am addicted to this show. Star is really great at this job!!!
She need to get comfortable with being uncomfortable, she just used to him and that’s why she accepting all that
So many ppl marry out of obligation. Worst thing you could ever do