How I fell from a Luxury lifestyle and back to the trenches | South African YouTuber

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  • Опубликовано: 28 сен 2024

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  • @zethumpama9653
    @zethumpama9653 5 месяцев назад +35

    Why does she remind me on Naomi Campbell, I love this wig and the make-up

  • @Eksemandisa
    @Eksemandisa 5 месяцев назад +12

    Hello my baby i hope i am not overstepping but i feel like the first friend was there for you during your hardest times and was hurt when she had to find out about your accomplishments on Whatsapp. If my friends venting to me and im checking on her everyday during her hard times and doesnt share her good news with me id be really hurt, especially finding out on social media. Thats just me though,

  • @beewest5704
    @beewest5704 5 месяцев назад +36

    Same thing happened with my niece & her friends. Were you being braggadocious abt the car etc??? My niece was crying that she lost her friends but the truth was she was insufferable. She all of a sudden acted like she was better than her friends & made backhanded remarks to them & became cohtrolling. She also had no idea why they were no longer talking to her & called them jealous.

    • @juicykindess3129
      @juicykindess3129 5 месяцев назад +8

      lol learnt a new word braggadocios

    • @thefeminineeye
      @thefeminineeye 5 месяцев назад +6

      Some people lack self awareness and are allergic to accountability

    • @sandindlovu3521
      @sandindlovu3521 5 месяцев назад

      @@thefeminineeye Very true hey, you can tell.

  • @yoloti9993
    @yoloti9993 5 месяцев назад +5

    We appreciate the transparency babes. You are amazing and beautiful, I really appreciate how open you are with us and showing the realities of life. Siyabonga sthandwa ❤

    • @khanyisakhosa1496
      @khanyisakhosa1496  5 месяцев назад +1

      Thank you so much 💖

    • @Hazelbeing
      @Hazelbeing 5 месяцев назад

      Ae, she sounds insufferable and she's probably not aware so I don't blame her.

  • @SuperFilicia
    @SuperFilicia 5 месяцев назад +3

    I think i have found my new haircolor. You look beautiful in the style and colour. We live and we learn!!

  • @GhostedLadyMzansi
    @GhostedLadyMzansi 5 месяцев назад +4

    17:20 reminds me of the day we moved to ekasi😢,umsindo we radio 📻 and people drinking &shouting in the middle of the night 😂Guess what,2months later I had gotten used and had made friends ❤stayed there for 2years and actually enjoyed the life there

    • @khanyisakhosa1496
      @khanyisakhosa1496  5 месяцев назад +3

      This is so accurate. Why is there always someone playing the radio out loud? My neighbour was a nightmare 😂😂

  • @madialemotsiri586
    @madialemotsiri586 5 месяцев назад +3

    Some ppl we meet along the journey are meant to stay behind while u continue with yo journey, they r not part of your destiny.

  • @nkululekomthimkulu1248
    @nkululekomthimkulu1248 5 месяцев назад

    You crack me up 🤣. Not trying to be mean hey. I hope that you find a good situation at some point.
    Subbed.

  • @lelethuluu9320
    @lelethuluu9320 5 месяцев назад +2

    18 minutes in... I'm sorry about the cockroaches 🤣🤣🤣

  • @lelethuluu9320
    @lelethuluu9320 5 месяцев назад

    30 mins in... Uxolo tshomi. It is as it is. 😭😭

  • @lil-lindod8443
    @lil-lindod8443 5 месяцев назад +1

    The cockroach part deed 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @sinentokozosibeko3675
    @sinentokozosibeko3675 5 месяцев назад

    ❤❤

  • @theophilusmashimbyi3462
    @theophilusmashimbyi3462 5 месяцев назад +1

    Khanyisa.
    You're Beautiful Girl🥰🥵
    Thank You Lord

  • @lacronz6248
    @lacronz6248 5 месяцев назад +1

    Just came across your channel... Let me follow you

  • @nk7595
    @nk7595 5 месяцев назад

    Did you ever reach out to your first friend before you decided to block her?

  • @levylegodi1264
    @levylegodi1264 5 месяцев назад +27

    Mmh Khanyisa , your ex friends are dangerous .. as much as it’s not nice to lose friends , it was for the best .❤

    • @khanyisakhosa1496
      @khanyisakhosa1496  5 месяцев назад +3

      I believe so too 💖💖

    • @thenativeconservationist
      @thenativeconservationist 5 месяцев назад +1

      I love this comment and support. When you wish your friend well you love to see them thrive and we are all human but jealousy is dangerous.
      Darling God is protecting you. Seek Him first. I am sorry I know the pain. 🙏🏽❤

  • @queentee5591
    @queentee5591 5 месяцев назад +17

    Oh baby, I love you ❤❤️
    LISTEN
    there’s 3 type of people in your life
    1 )People are in your life for a reason until something happens then they leave you
    2 )People are in your life for a season
    3) People are in your life for life no matter what happens

    • @khanyisakhosa1496
      @khanyisakhosa1496  5 месяцев назад +1

      You are so sweet darling, thank you so much 💖

  • @thembelihledunjana
    @thembelihledunjana 5 месяцев назад +19

    When u said “I had to use a taxi”😂😂

  • @phethehopreciouspulumo9193
    @phethehopreciouspulumo9193 5 месяцев назад +10

    not necessarily a fan of Sa youtubers cos of similar content but your a breath of fresh air

    • @khanyisakhosa1496
      @khanyisakhosa1496  5 месяцев назад +2

      Thank you 💖💖

    • @SuperFilicia
      @SuperFilicia 5 месяцев назад +4

      Yep i really want to watch SA RUclipsrs. But most of them are the same. If you watch one of their videos your done. They are mostly trying to live and potray a high life lol. Im seeking out the normal ones but they are few and far between.

    • @phethehopreciouspulumo9193
      @phethehopreciouspulumo9193 5 месяцев назад +3

      @@SuperFilicia i know right? its difficult to see a unique youtuber these days

  • @sunshinemelody6614
    @sunshinemelody6614 5 месяцев назад +10

    Indaba zabantu has me here while working

    • @khanyisakhosa1496
      @khanyisakhosa1496  5 месяцев назад +1

      🤣🤣🤣

    • @MologadiMakhafola
      @MologadiMakhafola 5 месяцев назад

      Even me 🤣🤣🤣🤣 knee deep in deadline but ndihleli ezindabeni zabantu 🤣🤣🤣

  • @khosie_Ntshosho
    @khosie_Ntshosho 5 месяцев назад +6

    Jah neh kunzima, thanks for sharing that things are not always rosey,... This is very relatable, but Kuba right ekgcineni if,,,.. ❤❤

  • @nadinemcpt
    @nadinemcpt 5 месяцев назад +7

    Giiiiirrrrrlllll, thank you for being vulnerable, we appreciate you! I'm being faced with the same taxi issue from next month. Your story made me realise I won't die shem from flown out to taxi rank😅If you did it, I can do it too. With much love!❤

    • @khanyisakhosa1496
      @khanyisakhosa1496  5 месяцев назад +3

      lol! Life happens hey. Never give up, no matter what. 💖💖💖

    • @mandyishername
      @mandyishername 5 месяцев назад +1

      😂😂😂we have all been there.

    • @thenativeconservationist
      @thenativeconservationist 5 месяцев назад +1

      Let me tell you something, as long as you have legs to walk you are blessed. I love you guys for talking but life has ups and downs as long as you keep going. You will be better than fine. Go ladies!! ❤

    • @thenativeconservationist
      @thenativeconservationist 5 месяцев назад +1

      @@mandyishernamethere is no shame guys! Us Black South Africans especially women and even young men we must give ourselves grace. Yohh 28 years ago isn’t bad!

    • @thenativeconservationist
      @thenativeconservationist 5 месяцев назад

      @@khanyisakhosa1496don’t marry abelungu. Eat the money but don’t marry mntase. I love you. You will be great!

  • @MichelleMpanza
    @MichelleMpanza 5 месяцев назад +5

    You are so beautiful, love your content. First timer on your channel❤❤❤. Keep growing.

  • @nomafmaroga6827
    @nomafmaroga6827 5 месяцев назад +5

    You speak like someone who is full of herself 😢. I am so sorry if I am being rude😢

    • @khanyisakhosa1496
      @khanyisakhosa1496  5 месяцев назад +1

      I don’t know sana 😂😅

    • @lesedimakeketa5683
      @lesedimakeketa5683 5 месяцев назад +1

      To insecure people, confidence looks like arrogance.

    • @nomafmaroga6827
      @nomafmaroga6827 5 месяцев назад

      @@lesedimakeketa5683 🤣🤣🤣 You seem to be hurt. I don't remember the owner of this vedio seeing anything wrong with what I said.

  • @keamo-Tiamo
    @keamo-Tiamo 5 месяцев назад +2

    Your problems sounds like nice life problems, in the hood you moved to a house, you had someone that was paying for you and you where stuck oversee plus you don't struggle to find a job

    • @khanyisakhosa1496
      @khanyisakhosa1496  5 месяцев назад

      lol you making it sound glamorous meanwhile it’s actually stressful 😂

  • @naomit.s7152
    @naomit.s7152 5 месяцев назад +4

    Norway v Taxi finished me 😭☠️🤣💔

    • @khanyisakhosa1496
      @khanyisakhosa1496  5 месяцев назад

      🤣🤣🤣🤣 wena don’t laugh at my struggles please 🤣

  • @charmainemalape910
    @charmainemalape910 5 месяцев назад +3

    Ur an amazing story teller😂 I feel like we are sitting together drinking coffee or something 😘✌️

  • @ThisisMissHope
    @ThisisMissHope 5 месяцев назад +3

    She's saying lets start from 2020, 1:44 min in and i am gona go get some tea! No literally, it's cold and I am gonna be here til the end. Bless your heart! We all go through ups and downs.

  • @LoLLilo
    @LoLLilo 4 месяца назад

    I love when people aren't afraid to be honest about their experiences. I remember watching Lelwa's video and geez i related and i felt it. But there is something about this video that feels so disinguiene, and almost lacking depth. I think you did your ex friend a favour by blocking her because she deserved more than what she got, the fact that your friendship relied on her constantly checking up on you, then you expected her to wait on seeing your progress on a your status for her to congratulate you like shes your fan, yikes. Then turn around and call her a hater a jealous, when she literally was your support system during a hard time??

  • @palesaneo3817
    @palesaneo3817 5 месяцев назад +2

    Yoooh calling to ask whats the update sounds like a monitoring spirit😮

  • @KGMdh
    @KGMdh 5 месяцев назад +3

    Thank you for this video, I appreciate the "realness". I am a new subscriber.

  • @jamelamashimbyi8243
    @jamelamashimbyi8243 5 месяцев назад +5

    The coakroches said 'you found us here and you'll leave us here' 😂😂

  • @yoloti9993
    @yoloti9993 5 месяцев назад +2

    Khanyisa babes can you please give us a make-up tutorial because I'm literally obsessed with how you do your make up ❤❤❤❤

  • @LethoHali
    @LethoHali 5 месяцев назад +2

    Not “back to the trenches sis” 😅😂🤩.

  • @treasuremamba7350
    @treasuremamba7350 3 месяца назад

    You are so strong baby girl. You are a Lioness just know that. Keep up doing you sweetheart ❤

  • @palesaneo3817
    @palesaneo3817 5 месяцев назад +2

    New subbie. I hope things are better for you x

  • @dikolizaskk5847
    @dikolizaskk5847 5 месяцев назад +4

    Life can humble you dear

    • @khanyisakhosa1496
      @khanyisakhosa1496  5 месяцев назад

      True

    • @mandyishername
      @mandyishername 5 месяцев назад +3

      @@khanyisakhosa1496the same life will lift you up babe don’t worry. Life has seasons and after every hard season comes your rising 😘 it will be a double portion of what you lost

  • @Accuface2000
    @Accuface2000 4 месяца назад

    I thought I was the only one experiencing these things. Which is why I avoid my black people as much as possible - PHD (pull him down syndrome), pretentiousness, always wanting to know how I am when the fact is they are enjoying my struggles and gossiping about it. Some will be begging for help on a regular basis thinking they will make me broke, Lol. It's so sad how people want to see your downfall and keep you in their palms.

    • @khanyisakhosa1496
      @khanyisakhosa1496  4 месяца назад

      Let’s avoid that spirit at all costs. I’m no longer afraid to cut people off for such reasons now. Lol

  • @nzuluyemfihlakaloancientof5369
    @nzuluyemfihlakaloancientof5369 5 месяцев назад +1

    The beauty that you are oh my God.
    We would appreciate a Get to know me.
    For the roaches though you could have gotten a pest control company for assistance, this is part pf house maintenance of any well run household.

    • @khanyisakhosa1496
      @khanyisakhosa1496  5 месяцев назад

      Thanks for the lovely compliment. I had never dealt with roaches before so I was clueless on what to do. Thank you very much. I will definitely do a get to know me tag

  • @zinhlemkhonza5334
    @zinhlemkhonza5334 5 месяцев назад +1

    Playing this as background music as I study and it’s nearly impossible to focus 😂. First time here but I love it 🥰

  • @chisomo8088
    @chisomo8088 4 месяца назад

    This video has little to do with the title which is quite misleading. Either that, or you're just not a great storyteller cause i couldn't even tell what the point of the video was for 17 minutes before giving up.

    • @khanyisakhosa1496
      @khanyisakhosa1496  4 месяца назад +1

      Lol, and you watched for 17 minutes, thanks and bye 😘

  • @robot12423
    @robot12423 4 месяца назад

    😂😂😂this title.

  • @anelisaluke
    @anelisaluke 5 месяцев назад +1

    its growth babe, let them go.....forget they ever existed.

  • @dudungidi9151
    @dudungidi9151 5 месяцев назад +1

    I don't your full story. Trust God and don't stop praying

  • @MmathapeloM
    @MmathapeloM 5 месяцев назад +1

    You look Gorgeous Khanyi🔥and thanks for sharing your experience ❤️‍🩹

  • @yongamagaxo6745
    @yongamagaxo6745 5 месяцев назад +2

    You look stunning doll😍😍the hair 🔥🔥

  • @koketsonkanyane3211
    @koketsonkanyane3211 4 месяца назад

    I’ll always admire and respect people who share their life experiences (good or bad) in order to educate others. I’ve watched this video a couple of times and I’ll keep coming back! Thank you ❤

  • @alsbie_mukovhe
    @alsbie_mukovhe 5 месяцев назад

    Well done girl look at how you got up !! 🎉❤ so inspiring.. however The witchcraft part killed me. I laughed so hard 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @julia_goddess3
    @julia_goddess3 5 месяцев назад

    i like your story telling🥰can we please get a make up tutorial please🥺🥺🥺

  • @GhostedLadyMzansi
    @GhostedLadyMzansi 5 месяцев назад

    29:40 askies gal,why do you still call her a friend ayy😢

  • @eugenechauke3849
    @eugenechauke3849 5 месяцев назад

    I’ve probably said this before, but girl!!!!! You’re GORGEOUS!!

  • @Lebogang_Mathe
    @Lebogang_Mathe 5 месяцев назад

    I love your transparency 🙏🙏you make see the other part ppl don’t show on social media

  • @rebonematonsi426
    @rebonematonsi426 5 месяцев назад +2

    First time seeing you. You look stunning 😍 😍😍. I enjoyed this video ❤. This is actually a testimony 🫶🏾. I actually laughed at the part of a taxi after a Tesla 😂😂. I’m glad that God restored darling.

    • @khanyisakhosa1496
      @khanyisakhosa1496  5 месяцев назад +2

      Thank you very much. I’ll never forget that point in my life 🤣🤣🤣

  • @Lebogang_Mathe
    @Lebogang_Mathe 5 месяцев назад

    That’s me the house I’m staying in there’s cockroaches 😭😭😭I feel like dying

  • @LizekaMM
    @LizekaMM 5 месяцев назад

    Cockroaches 😂😂

  • @samanthasammy5458
    @samanthasammy5458 5 месяцев назад

    You be looking Hella luxurious though

  • @GhostedLadyMzansi
    @GhostedLadyMzansi 5 месяцев назад

    13:30 don’t worry most of us been there

  • @queentee5591
    @queentee5591 5 месяцев назад +1

    ❤❤

  • @Letstalkaboutit2323
    @Letstalkaboutit2323 5 месяцев назад +2

    I think you attract fake friends because you sound fake, what had happened was… immediate ick
    But hey, what do I know

  • @unathi_pinky
    @unathi_pinky 5 месяцев назад

    ❤❤❤

  • @hopes.6298
    @hopes.6298 5 месяцев назад

    Love this video ❤

  • @juicykindess3129
    @juicykindess3129 5 месяцев назад +4

    Binging on all your content a new Subbie

  • @LizekaMM
    @LizekaMM 5 месяцев назад

    I am new subscriber🥹 it will get better