OPENING UP ABOUT MENTAL HEALTH + MY WORST FEAR HAPPENED… TWICE 😭

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  • Опубликовано: 8 ноя 2024

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  • @missfaye5024
    @missfaye5024 5 месяцев назад +6

    I grew up in Lousiana and I tell my sons that I learned to walk and look for snakes at the same time. You aren't alone everyone has mental struggles these days. It is often a chemical imbalance that should be treated as needed with prescription medication. Sometimes it is just triggered by being overwhelmed. It sounds like you have a good doctor and certainly alot of family support. My mom didn't have support when I was young because you were supposed to just pull yourself up by the bootstraps back then. So thankful you asked for help.🙏🙏💖💖✨✨

  • @cherylritchie5389
    @cherylritchie5389 4 месяца назад +2

    Sara, Don't b so hard on yourself.We all love you. God loves you.❤❤❤❤❤

    • @cottageonjones
      @cottageonjones  4 месяца назад +1

      Thank you for watching ❤️❤️

  • @donnamolton7550
    @donnamolton7550 5 месяцев назад +1

    You aren't alone feeling that way. Been that way most my life dealing with hormonal issues. Glad you have a good doctor. I know I am blessed but you can't help feeling that way when that hits. It is hard to describe to someone who hasn't felt that way. Glad you opened up about it! ❤

  • @user-bq7gy5ir7w
    @user-bq7gy5ir7w 5 месяцев назад +2

    Having a dog and exercise program are two very good medicines for your mental health. I know because I also struggle. ❤

  • @melissaLrand
    @melissaLrand 5 месяцев назад +1

    I’ll be praying for you Sara! I’m so glad you brought this up and I agree 💯
    Christians aren’t free from problems for sure
    Thank God we have Him to turn to!❤️

  • @heatheryoung9949
    @heatheryoung9949 5 месяцев назад +1

    I understand where you’re coming from, I have depression and anxiety. I also had poor self esteem. I struggle every day, but I make a new list of little jobs I need to accomplish each day. Oh, and quite a coincidence I walked to the chicken barn today and almost stepped on a black snake. It slithered away in the opposite direction. Thank goodness.

  • @judyburkey4862
    @judyburkey4862 5 месяцев назад +2

    Good morning Sara, you are a most beautiful person! And your honesty about your struggles is are what all women and men need to hear. I’m 64 and facing some of the same struggles. It’s one day at a time. One step at a time, it’s not a race. It’s loving the Lord through the struggles and be productive. Even just one accomplishment a day is enough to help. I pray for the Lord to heal and guide you. Thank you so very much for sharing with us. Prayers and blessings for a wonderful day!🙏❤️🤗

  • @MichelleLaMotte
    @MichelleLaMotte 5 месяцев назад +1

    Oh my heavens! I’m with you on this one. I would’ve died had I been that close to a snake 🐍! And not just one but two. On no no no! If you weren’t already having a bad day and then that happened. That’s how the devil plays though. We can’t allow him to get a stronghold on us. You got this Sarah. I believe in you and thank you for being so vulnerable. I will be praying that the Lord will bring you the strength you need to overcome. Much Love ❤

  • @angelmusic22
    @angelmusic22 5 месяцев назад +1

    I am TOTALLY with you about snakes! Hate them all. And it seems like I’m always the one that walks up on them. Hope you’ve recovered by now. I definitely wouldn’t have left the house again that day and would have been paranoid for at least the next week walking outside.
    You found some cute things at Dirt Cheap, wish we had one. Hope you’re having a better day! 🙂
    -Angel

  • @cindyclark9145
    @cindyclark9145 5 месяцев назад +1

    Oh dear Sara…if you can look at it as just another passage in your life…that’s what got me through. I’m 76 now so you will beat it. God’s got your back. ❤ And you have the most amazing mother in law in Donna and I know anytime you need her she will be there as will your dear mom. Don’t feel like you need to conquer everything on your own. ❤ You are a beautiful soul and I’m glad you felt safe in sharing your concerns with all of us…that’s bravery my dear…you can pat yourself on the back for that! ❤ you are a charming loving young woman and when you celebrate becoming 30…you’ll be even more beautiful! ❤ God bless you honey! ❤ You rocked your thrift buys! ❤ I’m mortified of snakes too!!! Stay in for the rest of the day!!! I know that God created snakes so we wouldn’t be overrun with rodents, I’m scared to death of them!!! They’re the devil himself…at least it was outside and not in the house this time! ❤

    • @cottageonjones
      @cottageonjones  5 месяцев назад

      Thank you for the encouragement! 🤍

    • @cindyclark9145
      @cindyclark9145 5 месяцев назад

      @@cottageonjones you’re so welcome. Good luck moving forward and one day at a time sweet, Jesus…one day at a time. ❤️❤️❤️

  • @tinacooper7830
    @tinacooper7830 4 месяца назад +1

    You are so sweet. Trust in God for he cares for you 💐

  • @Psalm3124
    @Psalm3124 5 месяцев назад +2

    Sara, I can identify with much of what you shared about mental health, I too with the help of my daughter-in-love and son found a wonderful Doctor that practices Integrative care. They functionally look for the root of the problems and not just treat the symptoms as traditional practice often does. It has been 6 months for me also and though I feel so much better I also am learning that it is a process and to not feel guilty that It takes time. A lot of times those of us that are believers in Christ put pressure on ourselves feeling that we may be a disappointment and should be able to handle more quickly the personal challenges that come, but He knows our hearts and commitment and walks with us each step of the way at our own pace. Be encouraged, you are not alone. I understand. ❤

    • @cottageonjones
      @cottageonjones  5 месяцев назад

      Thank you so much for sharing. With God we got this! 😊

  • @Mary-fe2fz
    @Mary-fe2fz 5 месяцев назад +1

    Sara, I'm sixty two years old. I have been struggling with anxiety and panic attacks since my early twenties. It had gotten so bad at one point that I couldn't leave my house. I constantly prayed about my situation. It has been a struggle, but it has gotten better. Praise Jesus! Sometimes I still have panic attacks when I'm out, but I pray and talk myself out of them.

  • @AlyssasOzarkHome
    @AlyssasOzarkHome 5 месяцев назад +1

    I am totally 100% agreeing with you on the snake thing. We live on 15 acres in Northwest AR and have tons of black snakes. I am absolutely terrified of snakes, too. I almost walked up on 2 of them fighting for a birds nest up in the top edge of our out building. They were about 5 feet long just dangling all intertwined. They stayed there for a couple days, but my husband couldn't catch them at the time. Since then they haven't made an appearance and we have no idea where they went! UGH!

  • @donnaaranda7175
    @donnaaranda7175 4 месяца назад +1

    I definitely sympathize. I've had a mental disorder for years. It's very trying. If I didn't know God i would be in a really bad way. Im menopausal now and hormones definitely play a role in mental health. I too hate snakes. I don't understand people that do

    • @cottageonjones
      @cottageonjones  4 месяца назад +1

      Me neither! Thanks for watching 🥰

  • @natashijohnson8452
    @natashijohnson8452 3 месяца назад

    Thank you for being transparent. It was such a blessing to me. Just to know that I am not alone in my mental battle. God is good and we will continue to grow and overcome. Be blessed 💗

    • @cottageonjones
      @cottageonjones  3 месяца назад

      You are never alone. I’m come a very long way from this video. And it brings me to tears to know that I THOUGHT those feelings of depression would last forever. But im telling you today that Jesus has completely brought me through that battle. Of course there are hard days and I feel those feelings, but they do not consume me anymore. You WILL come out of this season. 🤍

  • @maryanntaylor7806
    @maryanntaylor7806 5 месяцев назад +1

    Sara you are not alone you help yourself and others talking about it ❤may God bless you!!

  • @lynnmatney2993
    @lynnmatney2993 5 месяцев назад +2

    Hi Sara,
    Thank you for sharing your story. You are such a sweet and beautiful person, and I am so glad you are getting the help you need.
    Love your channel and love your precious family! ❤
    Oh I had to add another comment...lol
    I feel exactly the same as you do about snakes, no matter what kind, I'm terrified and hate them...🙈

    • @cottageonjones
      @cottageonjones  5 месяцев назад

      Thank you so much for watching! ❤️❤️

  • @phyllispinion6229
    @phyllispinion6229 5 месяцев назад +1

    Oh I thank you for being so candid & hoping it makes you feel better. I, too have depression & anxiety (sorry you saw a snake!) But, I think a black snake is good because he keeps the bad ones away. Anyway, hoping you have a better day.

  • @robinalexander8429
    @robinalexander8429 5 месяцев назад +1

    Sarah, you are such a sweetheart! We all have something we deal with in life. I have had struggles with mental health and depression...I love the fact that your doctor is trying to balance you naturally first.. so many just give you a pill, you say 30 is freaking you out? I will turn 63 in a couple of days and for me 50 hit HARD! I am not sure why 50 sounded SO MUCH OLDER than 49! yOU DO WHAT YOU NEED TO DO... You mentioned that even preachers or evangelists wives have mental illness, that is SO TRUE! God didn't call us to be an evangelist or preachers wives, God just called us wives who ARE TO BE FAITFUL ANF FLOOW THEIR HUSBANDS AND HEL THEM IN THEIR MINISTRY. God gave us our husbands first.... I am a pastors wife as well. We have pastored at a church for 14 years and then God directed us to a youth camp/event center ministry for 10 years, then we "wandered in the wilderness" of searching for a church home and after 6 years ( after my husbands secret prayer) of asking for a place where he could be used how he was, where he was and with what he had that God sent us a new church in December of last year, small group of about 35 but it is home and family....I am not a snake lover, ether. We have a large, shaded lot with ferns and lots of lillies and shrubs so we have snakes. My husband has seen them on our property,,,, I pray when I am working in an area and ask God to keep the crawlies away,,, the snakes are good for rodent eaters, BUT if you see them it is another story. I have a story about when we moved in and got bats in the house.... that is a story when I was ready to move!!!! we found out how they got in, and my husband fixed the issue

    • @cottageonjones
      @cottageonjones  5 месяцев назад

      My goodness! Thanks for sharing. We are in this together!

  • @joyceyarton7386
    @joyceyarton7386 5 месяцев назад +1

    Sara i am so happy you are getting help for yourself. Please

  • @kathrynspecht1825
    @kathrynspecht1825 5 месяцев назад

    I understand exactly what you are saying. I also suffer from depression. Thank you for being open about things.

    • @cottageonjones
      @cottageonjones  5 месяцев назад

      I’m so sorry! Thank you for watching 🤍

  • @teresaohalloran7170
    @teresaohalloran7170 5 месяцев назад +1

    Hi Sara, I just wanted to give you a big hug. You are such a beautiful person. I think these days we have so much pressure, be kind to yourself sometimes it’s ok not to have everything together. You seem to have a good Doctor. If I could give any advice it would be don’t be to hard on yourself, you are you and that’s ok. As for the snakes oh my gosh I would have died. You kept it together much better then me ❤

  • @karenbrewer5864
    @karenbrewer5864 5 месяцев назад +1

    I have suffered with anxiety for 30 years. I use to have panic attacks quite a bit but learned techniques to help with that. I still don’t like going shopping by myself. Sometimes we can be judgmental of others but until they go through it themselves, they have no idea. You have God in your life and that’s a blessing and Cody. Glad you have an understanding doctor. I don’t know if you’re familiar with the gospel song God on the Mountain but it always comes into my mind when I’m struggling. You are in my prayers. I don’t blame Cody for killing those snakes. I would have been terrified. The only good snake is a dead snake. 😂

    • @cottageonjones
      @cottageonjones  5 месяцев назад

      Right! lol thanks for watching and sharing 🤍

  • @paulettemoss8320
    @paulettemoss8320 5 месяцев назад +1

    Sara my grand daughter who is 27 struggles with mental issues to. OCD. Anxiety and she just had a baby 8 months ago. It is a for sure struggle for those who have those issues. I keep telling her it is mind over matter. But really it is more for those who suffer those issues. You are not alone so don't be afraid to voice the days you are not up to par. Take care and know you are doing a great job

  • @PatNewton-q6f
    @PatNewton-q6f 4 месяца назад +1

    Hobby Lobby has little crystal knobs and such for birdcage

  • @tonyahigh4376
    @tonyahigh4376 5 месяцев назад +1

    I love your channel!! And I fully feel you on the whole snake thing!! Had my on battle with one this week and I don’t do snakes. Completely terrified of them!! There’s nothing good about a snake but a dead one, lol!!!

  • @deanadailey7197
    @deanadailey7197 5 месяцев назад

    I think what you described instead of screaming is paralyzing fear! Happens to me when I see bats anywhere nearby. Always keep in mind whenever you are having any kind of difficulty, you are never alone! Hugs xxx

    • @cottageonjones
      @cottageonjones  5 месяцев назад

      That’s so true! Thanks for watching 🤍

  • @VickieDevlaeminck
    @VickieDevlaeminck 5 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you for sharing your heart. Prayers that the Lord will continue to heal you. What a wonderful doctor he's given you. Huggies!

  • @pampayne9033
    @pampayne9033 5 месяцев назад

    Sara,
    I don’t like snakes either.
    I battled with depression and anxiety when I was in my early thirties and I totally understand how you feel. It’s good to vent and let others help you through the process. What a blessing that you have a doctor that prays over you and understands. I agree with your mom, push yourself to get up and make your bed, then get dress, put a load of laundry on, play praise and worship music. Exercise or walking is good for mental health. I will definitely keep you in my prayers. Thank you for sharing this video and God bless you.✝️

  • @karlarothering2687
    @karlarothering2687 5 месяцев назад +1

    I have had anxiety issues for 30 years. Sometimes things are great and wonderful, then out of nowhere anxiety shows up.No reason. Nothing to “cause” it. It just runs into me like a bulldozer. If your doctor decides medication is an option, don’t resist. Medication saved my life. I still have panic/anxiety attacks, but the medication is a tool to help me overcome this issue.

    • @cottageonjones
      @cottageonjones  5 месяцев назад

      I am taking medication and it helps for sure! 🤍

  • @rebeccafrancis8227
    @rebeccafrancis8227 5 месяцев назад

    Your mom is right. I struggle sometimes not wanting to do anything. But if I get up and empty the dishwasher or put in a load of clothes it motivates me to keep moving. Please sweet girl make yourself keep going. Walking helps me and you know what the world looks different when you take a walk. Every day things you pass while you are driving become clearer when you are walking like beautiful flowers or even trees. I will pray for you!! ❤

  • @BunnyG-h7o
    @BunnyG-h7o 5 месяцев назад +1

    Sara, you are keeping it real! And there is nothing wrong with that💕 this platform you have.. speaking your truth, reaches So Many. Your words are so encouraging, and I’m so happy for you.. You sound like you have an amazing Dr. bless you, and bless her🙏 💖 my daughter cousin that’s her age recently confided in her how severe her depression was, that no one knew about, and how her Dr. did some bloodwork and found her Hormones were severely “wack” in her words! Thank you Sara for sharing 💕
    Xoxo, Bunny🌸

    • @cottageonjones
      @cottageonjones  5 месяцев назад

      Thank you so much for watching 🤍🤍🤍

  • @wandarios
    @wandarios 5 месяцев назад

    Oh girl, I get you! So sorry you had to encounter that snake. I loved when Cody said that about it not being a puppy in the garden of Eden. Had me laughing!!! BLESSINGS!!!

  • @loushawl6721
    @loushawl6721 5 месяцев назад

    Sara, I think many of us have struggled with our mental health. Your mom is right about making the bed. One thing I always try to do even when I don’t feel like it. It’s the first thing I accomplish in the morning and encourages me to keep moving on. Praying for you.

  • @saraharper8569
    @saraharper8569 5 месяцев назад

    Girl, I totally understand the mental health situation. I am a truly blessed woman! Have everything I’ve ever dreamed of and I love Jesus and my church family. But I struggle with anxiety and depression and have to take medicine. It’s hard and it’s real! I will be praying for you sweet girl and I love your channel and think your awesome!! ❤

    • @cottageonjones
      @cottageonjones  5 месяцев назад

      Oh, thank you so much for the prayers and for watching! 🤍

  • @usandeeleonard5222
    @usandeeleonard5222 5 месяцев назад

    I'm so glad you are taking care of yourself. I understand how hormone imbalances can wreck havoc on your life. I'm praying for you.

  • @Homeonlickingcreek
    @Homeonlickingcreek 5 месяцев назад

    Hey Sarah! You’re right when it comes to talking about and taking care of our mental health. I was diagnosed with bipolar 2 depression and have anxiety disorder. So I’ve battled mental health issues for years. I totally understand the shutting down and just having the really good days and then the bad days. You’re certainly not alone. Thank you for sharing your struggle. We need to talk more openly about it because there is no shame in it. I loved when you said that “the blessed go through valleys too”

    • @cottageonjones
      @cottageonjones  5 месяцев назад

      Absolutely. Thanks for sharing 🤍

  • @FaithyandOtis..Massachusetts
    @FaithyandOtis..Massachusetts 5 месяцев назад

    Good morning sweet girl. I suffered from anxiety and depression my whole life.. when I started walking in my 30s I didn’t realize being out in the fresh air and walking an hour to help defeat this. I have been a Christian since 1988, and you are correct😊 you can still have depression and every other issue. That’s why we have doctors like you said and God also direct us. We need to have our ear gates and eye gates open and mouth gate quiet so we can see where He wants to lead us. Have a blessed day, my friend and again thank you for sharing and being so open love Otis🐶 and me Massachusetts

  • @tammyhaley9876
    @tammyhaley9876 5 месяцев назад

    Sara put a drawer pull on top of the bird cage. So many ideas from this crafty lady….I see you doing something extremely beautiful…….
    I also understand the mental health of all us who experience it. It’s totally ok cause your doing the right things.

  • @wandamyers2690
    @wandamyers2690 5 месяцев назад

    Oh my goodness, Sara. I so remember I was totally depressed for two months before I turned thirty. I couldn't explain it, but I have not been depressed over any other birthday. I'm old now, and let me tell you, your hormones can definitely cause so many changes in mind and body. I know most women face this, so never feel ashamed, sweet friend. I'm sending you prayers and love. 🙏❤️ P.S. I totally hate snakes, and I am just like you. I don't care if it is 6 inches long it a dead snake around our house!!

    • @cottageonjones
      @cottageonjones  5 месяцев назад

      Thank you for your encouragement 🤍🤍

  • @tinacorrell9930
    @tinacorrell9930 5 месяцев назад +1

    I am so scared of snakes too, if I would have found one in my house, I think I would have burn the house, lol (just kidding). I don’t think I could have gone back in there. I you put lime in your yard, it burns there skin and they will stay out of the yard and lime is good for your grass. I couldn’t even watch it, lol! Also, I completely understand about the mental health issues, glad that you were able to find someone to help you. ❤

  • @tammyleviner3070
    @tammyleviner3070 5 месяцев назад

    Sweetie never feel guilty for any type of way you feel! As women we all go thru things because of our hormones.. believe me over my 60yrs I've been thru sooo many things concerning my mental health & hormones. And now my body no longer produces hormones because I've had a hysterectomy. But I do take meds for anxiety too. You're so right, mental health is real! And it is so very important to find that right dr and when they're Christians, not afraid to pray, its a good thing! You also right, no matter who we are we're going to go thru things! My husband is a pastor too, but i still deal with things. We just have to give it to the Lord and lean on him & trust in him to see us thru. You are very wise and the things you've said will be very helpful to someone, and if we reach just one! Sometimes in our struggles & valleys God will somehow use us to reach that one.. we may never know about it, but they'll never forget. You just hang in there, do what your dr says, always listen to Gods voice.. and if coming on here just to air out, just to talk things thru out loud.. we're here! There's always someone here that's been there & understands 🙋‍♀️ Its not easy, but in the end you'll feel better! Never shut down, talk to someone if its just us here! And I myself am just A DM away.. I'm not a licensed professional, but i have an open ear & i know Jesus!😊 Lol i hate when men do that lugi hock in public!🤢 I saw lots of things i liked in there! There's not a dirt cheap anywhere near Tampa, they have them in the Pensacola area, way too far🫤 When I go back to Tennessee there are some there tho! Girl make them Ice coffees, I'll be right over😁 I wanted to do a wonderland scene on top of the fireplace cabinet.. Its one of the faux ones in a large cabinet. I want to put down the fake cotton type snow with twinkle lights under it and use just lots of trees and some deer, and maybe a couple other winter Animals & a few snowmen.. with a larger Christmas tree in the center. I need a dirt cheap😩 It'll take alot of trees, its as long as mantle but twice as wide or deep. I have a few, not near enough! Girl I love the bird cage! You can use it like A cloche and put all sorts of things under it! I have one made of chicken wire! I'm actually looking for a larger bird cage just to decorate! You can use A little wood bead if you have one for the finial! Fall is my favorite time of year!! I love winter too😊.. no winters in Florida😪so ill have to visit back in Tennessee (if we do move down to Florida) Eekkkk 🐍.. negative!! It was A big one too! Put moth balls a around your house & under it ..if you have space, throw them under there! My daughter opened her front door and one was laying between it & her screen door! She slammed the door, ran & jumped on the island & called my husband. I grabbed a shovel, he snatched the door open real quick.. it was about 8"long, a little baby😂 but it was real & alive! He looked like me with that little baby snake, i diced him to pieces & slung each piece in a different direction😂 got to get the head away from the body! That's NOT a animal lol its evil, it'll make you hurt yourself! It can go eat rats elsewhere right?! Lol Honey they're everywhere you go tho! The sell other stuff you can use too, we always used 7dust when we lived in the country, in the woods, beside a huge hayfield and never had any problems! Sweetheart hang in there, we're all praying for you, you're a precious young lady! And remember all i said and i have a IG with a DM😉😊sometimes its easier to talk to someone you really don't know 🤷‍♀️ Have A blessed weekend!🙏

    • @cottageonjones
      @cottageonjones  5 месяцев назад +1

      Thank you for sharing!! And watching 🤍🤍🤍

  • @christietaylor392
    @christietaylor392 5 месяцев назад

    Love your openness on mental health it's a real thing and many people suffer from it. Faith and Dr will get you thru it. Many prayers 😊❤

  • @joannaschroeder3067
    @joannaschroeder3067 5 месяцев назад

    You are loved, Sara!!! The snake thing would have probably just about killed me! I would have had a heart attack.

  • @AlyssasOzarkHome
    @AlyssasOzarkHome 5 месяцев назад

    That kale/chicken salad hack is awesome! I am for sure trying that next time I got there. I hope you feel better soon. Mental struggles are hard. I have my bad days and good days, too. I lost my Mom to cancer when I was 17 and still struggle with that whole experience now that I am 37. And then you add hormonal changes, getting older, life struggles, SNAKE ENCOUNTERS 😬, etc... it can get really hard at times. Having faith in the Lord has helped me through some very tough times. On positive note, seeing your Christmas finds made me so happy! I love Christmas time!

    • @cottageonjones
      @cottageonjones  5 месяцев назад

      Me too! I can’t wait 🎄🎄🎄

  • @chastity5401
    @chastity5401 5 месяцев назад

    GOD BLESS YOU!!! This is an extremely hard topic to talk about for most people. Thank you for being so honest and real! I could go on and on about this. You said it perfectly, even if it helps just one person! I lost my only sibling to a mental health crisis, my brother… 💔 Praying for you!! 🙏🏻

    • @cottageonjones
      @cottageonjones  5 месяцев назад

      I’m so sorry 😢 thank you for watching 🤍🤍

  • @melanieturner8500
    @melanieturner8500 5 месяцев назад

    I totally understand your fear, although my fear is spiders. I am deathly afraid of them. Thank you for sharing with us, I’ll keep you in my prayers.

  • @patriciafairfax8553
    @patriciafairfax8553 5 месяцев назад

    Sara, I'm terrified of snakes, too. I go into panic mode if I see them. I hope you have a wonderful weekend. ❤

  • @thelifeofkrista22
    @thelifeofkrista22 5 месяцев назад +1

    I am right there with you I hate snakes! Terrified of them! 🤮

  • @cindycollins2510
    @cindycollins2510 5 месяцев назад

    I am right there with you sister, hate snakes. Do not be sorry at all.

  • @camillecloninger9660
    @camillecloninger9660 5 месяцев назад

    Sara I agree with you on the snake issue! I HATE them!

  • @jodybaker6228
    @jodybaker6228 5 месяцев назад

    Hi Sara, from a 71 year old Grandma. I think you are a strong person to be able to share your emotions with us, God has put you in our lives as he has put your viewers in your life. You have such a beautiful soul, and God will be walking with you through this trail in your life. Don’t be anxious about your 30’s, it will be a wonderful time of your life. My 30’s and 40’s were some of the my best years. Sounds like you are blessed with a wonderful doctor. I will be sending prayers for you!

  • @lisataylorcoburn4292
    @lisataylorcoburn4292 5 месяцев назад

    I feel the same about snakes or mice! Good job Cody! May God bless you Sara and take all your anxiety away.

    • @MimiGabriel-y3k
      @MimiGabriel-y3k 5 месяцев назад

      Hi Sara, thank you for sharing about mental health, I too am seeing a therapist since my brother died last year. It has been difficult. Omgosh I would have had a heart attack if I saw that big snake. Do you know what kind it was? Just curious lol. Yikes!!😱 what a great haul you found. Love it! 🥰

    • @cottageonjones
      @cottageonjones  5 месяцев назад

      Thank you!

    • @cottageonjones
      @cottageonjones  5 месяцев назад

      It was a rat snake we think. Still gross! Lol

  • @carolholland5250
    @carolholland5250 5 месяцев назад

    Sarah, I am terrified of snakes, too. Ask Cody to go to Home Depot or Lowes and get Snake Away. He can put it around the outside parameter of your home and yard to help keep them away.

    • @cottageonjones
      @cottageonjones  5 месяцев назад +1

      He got some immediately! lol thanks for watching

  • @judyjudkins9494
    @judyjudkins9494 5 месяцев назад

    It’s so important to have a Christian counselor. Yes! You will be ok. You are honest, kind and a beautiful daughter of the King. You have encouraged me today, more than you realize. Keep relying on that hope we have in Christ, sweet sister. Thank you for being so open, Sara.My! My! What an awesome store!

  • @jennymassengill8319
    @jennymassengill8319 5 месяцев назад

    Depression and anxiety is very common in today's world . Sounds like you have a great Dr. which is good . I actually take medicine for mine and it does help! Im glad you are able to talk about it and I will be praying for you🙏❤️

  • @tiggerhaynes
    @tiggerhaynes 5 месяцев назад

    Sweet Sara. I had to close my eyes the whole time you were talking about the sn....... I am so mortified that I've told people that I will not be responsible for what I do until all of my feelings and senses return. I also have some stories that I get sick when remember out. As my son will say...."Mom, there just passing through. ". Always love your content t. You are a joy!!!
    Pam/Florida

  • @teresaharris8013
    @teresaharris8013 5 месяцев назад

    I feel you. I am deathly afraid of snakes.

  • @paulakamorski441
    @paulakamorski441 5 месяцев назад

    Thank you for sharing your story and building awareness as well as opening the door to some that may have needed that inspiration to get help. You're a sweetheart. "Hock a Loogie"...you made me laugh😂I'm honestly more freaked out by loogies than snakes🐍praying for your healing 🙏

  • @karen.asecondchance
    @karen.asecondchance 5 месяцев назад

    Sara, thank you so much for sharing your story and essentially evangelizing about mental health. It is SO IMPORTANT to release the stigma. Especially for young adults ❤! Always remember that you are not alone and you are very lucky to have such a strong faith to get through the tough times. 💪 🙏 ❤️ Next, girl you need to kill the 🐍. Others can save the snake. Last, what about getting a booth to help give you another focus in your life. You love to thrift and decorate. It truly has helped with my mental health. Sorry to be so long winded but you had alot going on.😊 BTW, thx for taking us to Dirt Cheap. never been ❤

    • @cottageonjones
      @cottageonjones  5 месяцев назад

      Thanks so much for your comment. 🤍🤍

  • @rhondaallen5063
    @rhondaallen5063 5 месяцев назад

    Oh my goodness!! I am the EXACT same way about snakes!!! I have ZERO tolerance for them! I was hyper ventilating with you!! 😧

  • @ConnieMatukewicz
    @ConnieMatukewicz 5 месяцев назад

    I thoroughly understand what you are saying! I will pray for you!

  • @shannonholdiness7949
    @shannonholdiness7949 5 месяцев назад

    Sarah, we are all dealing with something! I deal with chronic depression everyday and we have to handle it or it takes over! I am struggling right now and Gods my only hope! I will keep you in my prayers!!

    • @shannonholdiness7949
      @shannonholdiness7949 5 месяцев назад

      Oh Sarah I hate snakes also! Sorry not sorry I am terrified of them. Get Cody to get some snake away to put around your house. It works, I promise!

    • @cottageonjones
      @cottageonjones  5 месяцев назад

      Thank you for your prayers! 🤍 I’ll be praying for you too.

    • @cottageonjones
      @cottageonjones  5 месяцев назад

      He went and got some immediately last night!

  • @athomeinsmithfieldwithsusan
    @athomeinsmithfieldwithsusan 5 месяцев назад

    Great stuff from Dirt Cheap. I have never seen that store before. Thank you for your candor in your Mental Heath challenges. We all have struggles that we try to keep ourself so your honesty is a breath of fresh air.

  • @jennieclement2811
    @jennieclement2811 5 месяцев назад

    Bless your heart, I know how you feel when it comes to snakes!

  • @valeriekalal9159
    @valeriekalal9159 5 месяцев назад

    Hi Sara! Oh my gosh - I’m right there with you on the snake business! No, no, no…😱
    You found some great things at Dirt Cheap. I’m praying for you! 🙏

  • @cottageofeight
    @cottageofeight 5 месяцев назад +1

    This verse popped into my mind to share with you.
    "Behold, I give unto you power to tread on serpents and scorpions, and over all the power of the enemy: and nothing shall by any means hurt you.” Luke 10:9

  • @jenniferreece1346
    @jenniferreece1346 5 месяцев назад

    Sara thanks for sharing your health journey.
    On the snake front… I’m with you. I walked in my laundry room one morning with a snake by the edge of the door. I froze…and hubby had to come home from work to take care of it.

  • @christina2803
    @christina2803 5 месяцев назад

    We love you Sara… most importantly God loves you…and thank you for the reminder that he does..❤

    • @cottageonjones
      @cottageonjones  5 месяцев назад

      Thank you! I love y’all! 🤍🤍🤍

  • @srtsrae
    @srtsrae 5 месяцев назад

    My sweet friend, I feel your need, I’m also a Pastors wife and deal with mental health issues. I so can relate to feeling lost and not even be able to make a decision and feel lost in my life. Praise God for wonderful Godly doctors. I’m still on my journey of healing but I know God is faithful! I will be praying for you ❤

  • @maryheckler6766
    @maryheckler6766 5 месяцев назад

    Good morning, Sara! I've always felt that mental health is every bit as important as physical health. So glad you found a doctor you feel comfortable with & you trust. Just keep praying! 🙏 I wish we had Dirt Cheap, you found some excellent bargains. And I'm with you, I hate snakes, I hate anything that slithers around & then surprises you & scares the daylights out of you! 🐍 Spiders are a real close second, ugh! Hope you're having a great day. Great video!

    • @cottageonjones
      @cottageonjones  5 месяцев назад

      I agree! Thank you so much for watching! 🤍

  • @conniepiazza9455
    @conniepiazza9455 5 месяцев назад

    Sending honest praise and love to you. Keep going to your doctor. How wonderful to have found one that includes faith and prayer. We all have struggles and it does help to share. ❤

  • @tammyr6669
    @tammyr6669 5 месяцев назад

    Oh jeez!!! I have such a fear of snakes too that I had to keep fast forwarding past that part!!! Ughhhh!! Anyway, I would love to have a Dirt Cheap near me. You found the cutest things and that bird cage will look so good gold.
    Thank you for sharing your mental health story because I believe it is not talked about enough. We all have issues that we feel are bigger than us and I believe you are on the right path. One day at a time and you got this! I can relate to you very well. You are a beautiful person inside and out!! Tfs❤

  • @janice3309
    @janice3309 5 месяцев назад

    🤗 You truly are okay because you are sharing your truth. Thank you for this video!! I am praying for you because I was once going through what you described and there is light at the end of this tunnel.

  • @believe8042
    @believe8042 5 месяцев назад

    There were some funny scenes in this video lol… seriously though be blessed. Cody is probably prophetic to have that knowing🙏

    • @cottageonjones
      @cottageonjones  5 месяцев назад

      Haha! It’s never boring around here.

  • @KatMayeux-fd5it
    @KatMayeux-fd5it 5 месяцев назад

    I thought you responded pretty well when you saw the snake! I usually scream and run.
    Sara, thank you for your testimony regarding your mental health issues.
    My mental health changes started closer to 40. Thankfully, like you, I had a caring health provider to assist me through them.
    I do believe God gives us doctors and scientists who create medications to help us and I love the concept of Eastern medicine in combination with Western medicine
    I beg to differ with you on one point you made. You DO have a GREAT life! It doesn’t matter what you suffer from. You can have tea parties and be a preachers wife and shop for vintage and you have a great life.
    I don’t think anyone in this day and age thinks others are perfect or have a perfect life. It’s about sharing and telling your story that matters. Each of us has an amazing, original story to tell.
    God bless you my dear one❤

  • @DeanaPerkins-d8x
    @DeanaPerkins-d8x 5 месяцев назад +2

    This to shall pass. I take a stress pill. It has done wonders. I never thought id be on a pill, but my Dr said its a tool. Im much better now, i couldn't do it without the Lord in my life. My hubby passed away, he was diabetic and in denial. All his organs shut down. Towards the end he was very mean to me. He'd play these mind games. I was a care giver to him, he had his toe operated off, so i had to change the bandage etc. I did it for about 10 years plus work part time. It just about did me in. I would cry myself to sleep every night. It was just awful. But by the grace og God i was able to rise above it all. So don't despair, it will get better. I live alone with my kitty Lilly. I work the breakfast at Dollywood DreamMore resort. Just part time. And im 80. I feel happier and you will also. Much love to you Sara. You are a delight. Love your videos and i too hate 🐍. Snakes. Even a fish worm freeks me out. God bless you dear heart.❤❤❤❤Deana , in Tennessee.

    • @cottageonjones
      @cottageonjones  5 месяцев назад

      Thank you for your encouragement Deana. 🤍🤍

  • @colleenstephens4122
    @colleenstephens4122 5 месяцев назад

    Sending prayers 🙏 for your peace of mind. I suffer from anxiety and depression. I have learn to lean on the Lord.

  • @loriprentice5384
    @loriprentice5384 5 месяцев назад +2

    I hate snakes too!

  • @rhondahigginbotham968
    @rhondahigginbotham968 5 месяцев назад

    Thanks for sharing Sara,we just have to take it one day at a time,I've had to deal with depression for years.But we definitely need God to help us though it!I'm with you about snakes I am terrified of them!Sorry you had to go through that.

  • @DonnaHarper-lg9pw
    @DonnaHarper-lg9pw 5 месяцев назад

    Oh Sara!!!! The snakes!!! My momma always said the only good snake is a dead one. Thank you so much for sharing your mental health story. I truly believe you probably touched a life or two. I think that so many people are dealing with mental health issues today because of how close all the darkness is to us. This daily walk is a real battle. Spiritual warfare is real, and the closer we draw to God it seems like the more rapidly the fiery darts come at us. You are so right; how can people who don’t know Jesus deal with all the mental stressors in the world today? Love ya sweet girl. See ya soon. I’m catching up on your videos cause was on vacation. 😊❤😊🙏🙏🙏🙏❤️🙏🙏🙏

  • @sandrarichardson6141
    @sandrarichardson6141 5 месяцев назад

    Sarah, I feel exactly the same way about snakes!!

  • @juliekalivoda484
    @juliekalivoda484 5 месяцев назад

    Sarah! I suffered from depression, and I finally, after much foot dragging, tried a prescribed anti depressant. I can not tll you how much that helped me, and how I wished I’d done it sooner. Seems I had a chemical imbalance, which is nothing to feel ashamed of. Maybe it would help?
    Now, about those snakes, can a pest control company treat the perimeter of the house to keep snakes at bay? And not to make you feel worse, but it is never good to find a baby snake…that means there are more snakes near by, yikes! At least it was a rat snake, my sister found a baby rattlesnake in the crawl space under her house! Sounds more like a mouse or rat issue. What does James say about the whole situation? Plus, Donna might have a finial for your bird cage top. Glad you have a doctor to talk to, you’re doing right, (but an rx might help a lot)❤️❤️❤️

    • @cottageonjones
      @cottageonjones  5 месяцев назад

      Thank you for watching! 🤍🤍🤍

  • @joyceyager9940
    @joyceyager9940 5 месяцев назад

    Depression & anxiety are just terrible. I went through horrible depression when I went through menopause, my 2 kids were teenagers & my husband worked all the time and my hormones were literally making me feel crazy. I had to be prayed for at church many times and finally God brought me out of the deep sadness I was living in. I did not want to take daily medications so my Dr gave me something to take when I had a bad episode, I used it only occasionally because it made me fall asleep.
    I will pray for you, that your Dr & God will be able to help you get through this time of life.
    I love watching you thrift. Thrifting is about the only way I shop. I believe that you can DIY things that are second hand to make them be as good as new items.
    Sorry about the snake scare! I hate them so much. My hubby kills them with a shovel. Some are good but I do not know what type of snake is what, so they are all gonna die.
    Take care of yourself, you are so young to suffer with emotional issues, that is rough!

  • @ggamino37
    @ggamino37 5 месяцев назад

    Sara, I'm right there with you with the snakes. For the first time ever we had one in our house a month or so ago and I almost passed out. We had to trap it and get it out. So yucky! I hope you don't see any more.

  • @marieclark4609
    @marieclark4609 5 месяцев назад +1

    That is good that is good that you were able to find a doctor that believes in God I pray that you'll get better with everyday😇🙏 cuz it's very important to take care of yourself

    • @cottageonjones
      @cottageonjones  5 месяцев назад

      Yes it is! Thanks for watching 🤍🤍

  • @EileenManes
    @EileenManes 5 месяцев назад

    Hi Sarah your right mental health issues are so very real. I struggle to. I lost all my family members and the only ones left are my brother my disabled sister and i and recently i lost my beautiful horse that i have had for 30 years i am struggling everyday to want to get up and take care of things. I find myself breaking down and crying and sometimes i dont know why so i totally understand where you are coming from. Wish i had more friends and family. I am terrified of snakes to i see one and i will have nightmares so im with you. Keep your head up God is with us ❤❤

    • @cottageonjones
      @cottageonjones  5 месяцев назад +1

      Oh, I am so sorry. 😢 I will be praying for you. Thank you for sharing and watching. 🤍

    • @EileenManes
      @EileenManes 5 месяцев назад

      @@cottageonjones thank you for your prayers

  • @carolynswitzer8282
    @carolynswitzer8282 5 месяцев назад

    Girl I’m with you on snakes. I would have had to have moved. I stepped on one in my flower bed in my flip flops. Did not go in the backyard all summer. 😖😖

  • @donnapike4633
    @donnapike4633 5 месяцев назад +1

    I love your sweet spirit. Jesus is with you. Always share with us, we care and love you and will pray for you.

  • @sandratroutman6544
    @sandratroutman6544 5 месяцев назад

    BIG HUG Sara....I often feel the same way. The valley is a hard place to be. I'm 65yrs old now and I remember each decade that I was turning 30, 40, 50 then 60 had so many questions and some anxiety. It normal to feel that way. But the older you get Sara, you will find more strength, more life information, more experiences that will let you know you're gonna be ok,
    you'll learn to give yourself more grace and you'll find deeper places of peace and safety with Jesus as you go through life.
    You are a woman of faith which is why I subscribed to your channel. I really appreciate the honest way you spoke. Being vulnerable may seem scary but it's actually bravery in action. We love you and know you will walk through each day in more victory than the day before. It's real life.
    Take care sweet friend. I'm praying for you.....and enjoying your channel. 🩷🌸🙏

    • @cottageonjones
      @cottageonjones  5 месяцев назад +1

      Thank you so much for your sweet words of encouragement 🤍

  • @tinaswords6096
    @tinaswords6096 5 месяцев назад

    AMEN ....I so agree with ya'll that snakes are of the devil. I am terrified of them!! As I was watching your video, it came to me to tell you to Anoint your house with oil. Go through it anointing and Praying. Go to each entrance door, and Pray that the devil and those snakes will not enter your home. I believe that this message to you is from the LORD. We will Pray this in the name of JESUS

  • @Sdallen41
    @Sdallen41 5 месяцев назад

    I am with you on the snakes! We use repellant around the perimeter of our yard cause Texas….😮

    • @cottageonjones
      @cottageonjones  5 месяцев назад +1

      We got some and Cody immediately put it out!

  • @sandyambabo5952
    @sandyambabo5952 5 месяцев назад

    Praying for you, sweet girl. ❤

  • @judyjudkins9494
    @judyjudkins9494 5 месяцев назад

    I’m with you, Sara! A snake is a snake is a snake! Horrible for you and I’m so sorry. Thank you for saving the day, Cody, you snake killin pizza eater! Hey, you can probably find a small drawer knob at Hob Lob that would be cute glued on top of the cage. So sorry about the snake encounter. Be safe!

  • @junebug3127
    @junebug3127 5 месяцев назад

    Sara, I'm glad you have a good Dr. that really cares about all around health. Praise the Lord, he will see you through! We don't have a dirt cheap. That was some good prices. Snakes are so creepy. My cats would of just looked at it too. They lay on the porch and watch squirrels and chipmunks just run around. The squirrels don't even seem scared anymore. It's a cats life! There was a snake that got run over in front of our house but it wasn't dead yet. Some people drove by turned around came back and picked that icky thing up and left with it. I've never seen anything like that before. No thank you!!! I'd just run over it again and kept going. Y'all have a Blessed Week! 😻

  • @peggyschram917
    @peggyschram917 5 месяцев назад

    I understand. Blessings to you dear Sarah.🙏

  • @DarlenePinkston
    @DarlenePinkston 5 месяцев назад

    I'm just like you with snakes.. I'm terrified of them.. have a wonderful day my friend, love you guys Darlene ❤

  • @reginastratton5031
    @reginastratton5031 5 месяцев назад

    Sara, mental health is very real, and it affects all people. I have been through so much in my life that if I didn't have God, I would not have made it. I've lost both my parents, my only sibling, and 18 months ago, I lost my only child, my son, at 33 years of age. I've went through some very dark days, BUT God carries me through. It's definitely a day by day process. Psalms 18:32 It is God who arms me with strength and makes my way perfect. Phillipines 4:13. I CAN do all this through HIM, who gives me STRENGTH. Praise the Lord for his daily blessings on me.

    • @cottageonjones
      @cottageonjones  5 месяцев назад

      I’m so sorry. Thanks for sharing 🤍

  • @sarahwilliams3250
    @sarahwilliams3250 5 месяцев назад

    Me or the snake would have to move!!! I am terrified of any and all snakes!!!!!! Thinking of you take things one day at a time. When i lost my husband i felt lost and alone. God got me through. So now i feel closer to him. Prayers for you.❤❤🎉😊