Guys ANSWER Questions that Girls are afraid to ask (ft. Freesia Park)

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Комментарии • 401

  • @de341f6
    @de341f6 3 года назад +399

    Freesia gets me-- please guys, when girls ask "what are we" please don't give her the answer you think she wants to hear. Just be upfront the way she was with you.

    • @Airsole23
      @Airsole23 3 года назад +6

      True fck bois will give you the answer you want to hear. The reason I said, “true fck bois” bc girls can’t distinguish the two, if a guy is upfront and honest about not wanting to be in a relationship, girls would still consider him a fck boy. But I think at least the guy is being honest and upfront with what he wants. And he isn’t stringing you along, so if you girls choose to be with a guy like that, it’s at your own discretion and risk.

    • @sushiluvrluvzme
      @sushiluvrluvzme 2 года назад

      Omg the last guy that I'm still getting over is like "i want to date," then says "idk," then drunk calls and text me saying "I want you to be my gf," then the next day is "idk," then "we're friends." I felt played cause we were having sex too. I still feel dumb about it.

    • @urdadsonic1036
      @urdadsonic1036 2 года назад +1

      @@Airsole23 exactly i agree with you as long as guys are honest and say beforehand they dont want a relationship you can choose to leave

    • @urdadsonic1036
      @urdadsonic1036 2 года назад +1

      @@sushiluvrluvzme please tell me you left.

    • @sushiluvrluvzme
      @sushiluvrluvzme 2 года назад +1

      @@urdadsonic1036 yup! Met a wonderful man afterwards and we're together :D

  • @nurathiah110
    @nurathiah110 3 года назад +600

    I need more of jbro and freesia collab. Cause the vibe is huge 😂

    • @JBRODUCTION
      @JBRODUCTION  3 года назад +65

      as jason would say... big vibes... big vibes.. 😂😂😂

    • @nurathiah110
      @nurathiah110 3 года назад +5

      @@JBRODUCTION Jason's face says it all

    • @tanbetty
      @tanbetty 3 года назад +2

      @@JBRODUCTION omg my favorite two I am like literally crying when I saw this

  • @NannaElise
    @NannaElise 3 года назад +194

    Freesia speaks for the girls 👏🏻👏🏻 accurate

    • @JBRODUCTION
      @JBRODUCTION  3 года назад +20

      freesia speaks facts 👏🏻

  • @EmilyRaskett
    @EmilyRaskett 3 года назад +142

    I typically don’t bother asking the “what are we question” because the guys who have been interested in being in a relationship with me were always super intentional and active in pursuing me. That’s what I like and When someone is being more casual with me I usually take that to mean that they arnt interested enough to commit or we just went a good match because of our different ideals for intentionality. I absolutely hate feeling like I’m in a “chasing” role as the woman ... so if I ever had to ask a guy “what are we?” I’d feel like I was the one pursuing him to get him into a relationship (not my thing)

    • @Airsole23
      @Airsole23 3 года назад +4

      Sexist lol. Chasing isn’t a gender role. What happen to female empowerment and equality. Some guys like girls that chase and take initiative

    • @EmilyRaskett
      @EmilyRaskett 3 года назад +11

      ​@@Airsole23 That's fair, I'm probably just attracted to guys who tend to take the initiative and are intentional. I didn't mean it to sound sexist, people like different things... lol and I mean I'm an engineer I feel pretty empowered I'm just not the type to ask a guy on a first date

    • @Airsole23
      @Airsole23 3 года назад +1

      @@EmilyRaskett so you are traditional when it works to your advantage lol? I’m just giving you a hard time, nothing wrong with that. Some guys like chasing woman, it’s like hunting 😆. And girls love the attention that ( cute guys) guys are giving them. Double standards exist, but for girls not to acknowledge that is funny to me. It’s cool that you aren’t one of those girls.

    • @icingcake
      @icingcake 2 года назад +3

      @@Airsole23 Meh I bet you’re not a shy guy. I bet you’re a lazy chaser lol.

  • @elizabethchestnut632
    @elizabethchestnut632 3 года назад +185

    Definitely a strong supporter of asking "what are we?" as soon as possible, while also elaborating on what I want and am looking for at that time. This way no one is surprised or hurt, and any awkwardness is out of the way early on.
    Not sure how I would feel hearing "I need a cha cha beat boy" while in the bedroom ... lol

    • @JBRODUCTION
      @JBRODUCTION  3 года назад +20

      big yes to the first paragraph (snaps snaps) . HAHAHAHAAH died at the last sentence . ur missing out Elizabeth 🤣🤣

    • @elizabethchestnut632
      @elizabethchestnut632 3 года назад +7

      @@JBRODUCTION I will elaborate: after watching Jay Park reply to thirst tweets, I might only be thinking of him if his music is playing 😂🤡

  • @yiwenchai2019
    @yiwenchai2019 3 года назад +20

    Hands up to those who are brave enough to drop the ‘What are we?” question. 🙌🏻 Trust me. It really takes a lot of courage for girl to pop that question due to many possible outcomes that could happen (overthinking cue 😂). As a girl who is no longer interested in short flings at my age, it’s a form of security as of whether I should continue on fighting for it or move on to pour my time on someone else who is more serious. Mixed signals is very frustrating for me because I don’t know whether it’s ok for me to move on and pour my time into the right person. I’ve dropped the question before and oh wells, I got my answer and saved my time.

  • @poojad5268
    @poojad5268 3 года назад +49

    Love how the video switches between raunchy Q&A and wholesome nature filler segments

    • @JBRODUCTION
      @JBRODUCTION  3 года назад +11

      Gotta keep it kosher here lol

  • @de341f6
    @de341f6 3 года назад +189

    "I WILL HIRE SOME GUY TO CLEAN HIS ASS" BIG BRAIN

    • @JBRODUCTION
      @JBRODUCTION  3 года назад +16

      🤣🤣🤣🤣 died when she said that

  • @niamhwatson
    @niamhwatson 3 года назад +193

    reality is..women shouldn't have to ask, there's no need, the answer is there. 8:28 it's not that you don't know, it's that you just are not interested in defining it, it's super simple, and I think this goes both ways, if you are not moving forward or want to put a label to a relationship, you simply don't want a serious commitment with that woman/man. But also I've noticed that women are more open to just say someone is their boyfriend and then if it doesn't work, end it and move on, but men...they don't want to lose the benefits of a not-defined relationship (fb or fwb or whatever) unless they have a plan B, someone they like more or simply prefer to be alone. If a guy really likes a girl, they immediately feel the need to define the relationship to avoid any other guy having a chance with that girl, if not, they're just not sure they like the girl that much and they're just waiting for someone they truly like to come along. But the same applies if a guy asks a girl to be his gf and the girl says "let's not put labels" or things like that, there might be exceptions but not really 😂

    • @KaleHello
      @KaleHello 3 года назад +3

      It depends because I do not let social media define my relationship hence why we both not to publicly announce our relationship. A lot of it comes to you and your partner having same values and goals. Both prefer a private relationship etc.

    • @jennycheng9632
      @jennycheng9632 3 года назад +3

      It depends, sometimes ppl might still need to figure out if it is a good fit, which takes time, it is more about both parties are on the same page/pace or not

    • @KaleHello
      @KaleHello 3 года назад +1

      @@jennycheng9632 I agree, what social media has done is essentially a platform to "show" the world who you are dating. But how I see it is like this, if one does not work out with the person, you lose less face. It is less drama for your relationship and less perceptions of what people think of you to keep private matters separate from public. I think that is why I was able to get to know such a nice man and now married for 2 yrs now after two yrs of dating.

    • @Crystalbomb321
      @Crystalbomb321 3 года назад +3

      I've never had to ask the question-guys will want to be exclusive if they're into you enough. Generally it happens quickly.

    • @mayshusakuhanamurasufferli5438
      @mayshusakuhanamurasufferli5438 3 года назад +1

      Not interested with such men

  • @truthexplicit643
    @truthexplicit643 3 года назад +17

    Jason is very grounded, confident and understanding. A good listener and have good sense a humor.

  • @JBRODUCTION
    @JBRODUCTION  3 года назад +30

    Hello Bro Fam, we are hosting an open chat on Kakao!
    When: Tuesday, March 16th, 10PM Eastern Time, USA
    Where: open.kakao.com/o/g8bBN81c​
    We will be live starting at 10PM. Be there or be squared!

  • @SamanthaCorrie18
    @SamanthaCorrie18 3 года назад +121

    I am the type to always ask the question, what are we because I'm at the point in my life where I want a serious relationship and I'm done with pointless relationships.

    • @JBRODUCTION
      @JBRODUCTION  3 года назад +27

      yas we stan a woman who knows and says what she wants

  • @anitachin596
    @anitachin596 2 года назад +21

    My dad taught me to ask “the question” from the jump. That way you can work out if you want to “play” with that situation or move on. If he “doesn’t know” then other opportunities are fair game and you don’t owe him your time or feelings. My dad is now a grandpa and the same message is being given to the grandchildren by him 🤗

  • @ditsygirl5409
    @ditsygirl5409 3 года назад +20

    If the girl has to ask this question “What are we”, the guy really hasn’t shown too much enthusiasm to show her he’s committed.

  • @joenyc
    @joenyc 3 года назад +155

    i think there are two types of “what are we?”
    one is the insecure type, and the other is the independent type. coming from different people, this question may come off as the former or the latter.

    • @JBRODUCTION
      @JBRODUCTION  3 года назад +18

      ohhh i love this.... i wish we could embed this insightful comment in the vid discussion

  • @sweetspringsmile
    @sweetspringsmile 3 года назад +46

    Freesia articulates well with her thoughts from girls' point of view :) with the What Are We, I feel girls can take charge by setting a time limit to when she decides she wants to move on from that guy. With most girls (i think), its not that girls want a defined relationship now there and then when she asks that question, more like she wants to avoid having too emotionally invested and its easier to pull out of that situation earlier or re-adjust her expectations with the guy :)

  • @ConlyMarie
    @ConlyMarie 3 года назад +17

    I actually asked the “what are we” question which really got my current relationship to progress. I think it’s important in the sense that I know this is going seriously and to stop talking to others. During that time I was also on tinder and hanging out with people I could be interested in LOOOOL, but if I know that person considers us to be in a relationship, I’ll stop talking to other people and vice versa.
    It’s also out of respect to him because if he did think we’re serious but I wasn’t, then I’m not leading him on as well.

  • @sharonc7559
    @sharonc7559 3 года назад +18

    Regarding the comment that says guys delay the DTR simply because he's not interested enough, I think it's true in majority of the cases. However, there will be situations when someone has just came out of a relationship or has had some previous experiences that make them slower to open up and/or need more time to truly realize their feelings for someone. This tends to happen more often to people (guys or girls) who are older and realize that instant spark and strong chemistry in the beginning have no direct correlation with the long term success of the relationship, so they like to take the time to truly know someone. I personally know someone who was very slow in the beginning to recognize his feelings for a girl (and was not committed very early on) but later got married to her after a few years.

  • @bellarusli814
    @bellarusli814 3 года назад +12

    The make up thing is so true, men say prefer no make up ,but their eyes enjoying staring woman wearing full of make up

  • @SB-gm9yx
    @SB-gm9yx 3 года назад +20

    Thanks for calling guys out on the 'no makeup' myth, Freesia (gorgeous name, btw!). Then again, this is all societal conditioning. The media keep telling women that body hair is bad, natural skin is bad, natural hair colour and texture are bad and so on and so forth. To the point that we're often shocked to see anything that differs from the imposed norm! Our artificially-created insecurities mean biiiggg money for the 'beauty' industry. Korea, unfortunately, is one of the biggest victims of this sickening propaganda - if not THE biggest! Great show, btw 👏

  • @aiyada_a
    @aiyada_a 3 года назад +20

    I always get excited when Fresia comes on!!! This is where the good content is at 😂😂

  • @fromaudreykao
    @fromaudreykao 3 года назад +16

    big fan of approaching the *what are we* conversation by being like "i ultimately want a relationship and i'd love for you to be that person, but if you aren't on the same page that's okay too" so we can have an open conversation rather than it feeling like a confrontation. also i died when john said that listening to EDM in the bedroom "makes me feel like im PARTYING" 😂 not a vibe for me, big or small 🙅🏻‍♀️😂

    • @ncz7
      @ncz7 2 года назад

      ❤️

  • @musicluver287
    @musicluver287 3 года назад +12

    Yes John! Jay Park’s album everything you wanted, especially his song aquaman should be part of the bedroom playlist!

  • @samwui94
    @samwui94 3 года назад +54

    Guys like girls with no makeup if the girl looks pretty without it 😆

  • @JPFlySolo
    @JPFlySolo 3 года назад +7

    This one is such a vibe that I didn't even realize it was already over! 🥺💕

  • @criminyworldriseedify8962
    @criminyworldriseedify8962 3 года назад +5

    I haven’t heard people say demeanor out loud in a hot minute! Thank you for that

  • @Moneystarr83
    @Moneystarr83 3 года назад +6

    I am loving these collaborations with Freesia. Can't wait for the next!

  • @mouangsaechao5548
    @mouangsaechao5548 3 года назад +15

    I think people with a lot of experience know exactly what they want while people without a lot of experience just have a lot of questions. It’s like reading the same book over and over again until another book series becomes interesting. As your mind gradually evolves then you’ll want more interesting book topics. As a person experiences more of life and this part of life then they might want more from it than physical attributes? Guys are more physically attracted to girls but as their personality comes out then it becomes less and less attractive. Everyone has their flaws though so it’s really about what you can deal with and if this person can adjust or accept differences.
    I think people overthink so many things when really it’s not difficult and is very natural. Shouldn’t it feel natural and serene? Like the break of dawn in the morning and how the sunsets at night time. That feeling that is very soothing where nothing feels complex. The sound of music and the way it is composed or how an author writes a novel. It is a bit like that and a deep connection of two people who have everything to give and nothing to lose. Unless it’s not this at all then what is it? What is it all about?

  • @elizah4695
    @elizah4695 3 года назад +15

    this video was a lot raunchier than I thought it was gonna be 😂 either way love it

  • @ariesflower2743
    @ariesflower2743 3 года назад +37

    I just knew that John would say smile 😊

    • @JBRODUCTION
      @JBRODUCTION  3 года назад +18

      friendly reminder to make your appointment at 1-800-PAPA-DRJOHN

  • @eNVy100
    @eNVy100 3 года назад +20

    12:33, John having flashbacks to texting “Give me the address” LOL

  • @aha_Sai_Ra
    @aha_Sai_Ra 3 года назад +5

    OMG!! Couple of seconds of John & Jason's cover of the song, "Snow"!! I have been listening to your version of the song on loop for the past 2 months! 🥰🥰🥰

    • @JBRODUCTION
      @JBRODUCTION  3 года назад +2

      hahaha one of our first videos... thanks for scrolling all the way down that far back lol

  • @jackhansmiles
    @jackhansmiles 3 года назад +5

    These topics are soooo juicyyyyy. Love listening to the different perspectives :)

  • @saratonin_613
    @saratonin_613 3 года назад +19

    Why is no one talking about John’s Zion T impression?? 😂
    Also I love how engaged and enthusiastic Jason gets whenever you guys talk about racy subject matter it’s hilarious 🤣

    • @JBRODUCTION
      @JBRODUCTION  3 года назад +1

      Men are simple creatures 🦄

  • @aspcia
    @aspcia 3 года назад +2

    Honesty and transparency are critical ! You're dating to determine compatibility and if you lie to yourself or to the person you're seeing, it'll only make things more complicated and potentially more painful in the long run. I'm all for weeding people out as soon as possible, lol.

  • @melinhuang594
    @melinhuang594 3 года назад +12

    i told the guy i've been dating for two months how i felt for him yesterday, and i want him to stop checking up on me cause i'm catching a lot feelings rn. and he said okay he won't be texting me daily, and he understands and respects my decision though hahaha.
    i think just baring your heart to your partner, communicating and letting the other person know your line. it's sort of a lowkey way asking the ultimate 'what are we' question without putting too much pressure on the other person hahaha.

  • @beenishhaider6308
    @beenishhaider6308 3 года назад +1

    I love freesia so much. So genuine.

  • @justme.11
    @justme.11 3 года назад +5

    If I get to the point that I'm asking "what are we?", chances are it feels like this is about sex and not a relationship.
    To me, that question comes at a breaking point. I'd probably already be starting to feel like I'm wasting my time.

  • @keishastarz9149
    @keishastarz9149 3 года назад +6

    This video is so funny I couldn’t stop laughing great job guys and Freesia is such a vibe she reminds me of myself

  • @trancd822
    @trancd822 3 года назад

    Always ask the what are we at every stage in relationship. Honesty is the best way to deal with all relationship issues. Your sanity is so important.

  • @susansheldon2033
    @susansheldon2033 3 года назад +6

    Here is a common list of things that women say are important in choosing a guy: intelligence, sense of humor, integrity/honesty, someone who sets goals and works to achieve them, financial independence. We tend to leave out attractiveness because that's assumed. He doesn't have to be wildly attractive, just attractive to us. When I read the list of things that guys say are important in choosing a woman I find: attractive, loving, kind, caring, laughs at my jokes, takes care of me, makes me feel special. Other than the attractive part, I feel like they are looking for a mother and not a partner. Do you think this is accurate?

    • @nicoperry2784
      @nicoperry2784 3 года назад +4

      When it comes to us men, we tend to seek these qualities because they are what we find to make good mothers. Looking at the things you listed that women want, we as men tend to want to be the provider. We don't need you to be financially independant or goal-oriented. If we are on a good stage in life, we have those things taken care of already. A partner who has those qualities can provide us with something no one else can. A person we can be emotionally vunerable with, a person that can provide us with a level of comfort no one else in our circle can. Non of my male friends make me feel special LOL. With my females friends, I don't let them in that close, if I did we be likely dating lol A female friend that we can say takes care of me in a way other female friend don't, is probably a keeper haha.

    • @JBRODUCTION
      @JBRODUCTION  3 года назад +2

      such a well thought out and articulated comment, and just as insightful reply from nico. looking for a mother can be true to some degree - I think evolutionarily men do seek nurturing traits

    • @LA-cm9uo
      @LA-cm9uo 3 года назад

      " we as men tend to want to be the provider. We don't need you to be financially independant or goal-oriented." if I am (a woman like this), is it off-putting?

    • @nicoperry2784
      @nicoperry2784 3 года назад +2

      @@LA-cm9uo Not necessarily, as long as we feel like we are fulfilling a purpose in the relationship that makes us feel important and essential to the relationship and not just an accessory you can wear and dispose of anytime, or don't need, you being the breadwinner can work. Men really care about having a purpose in life and love.

    • @nicoperry2784
      @nicoperry2784 3 года назад +2

      @@JBRODUCTION AYEEE the JBRO personal SHOUTOUT! Thats how you makes someones day XD thank you and I love your content.

  • @flpchen0708
    @flpchen0708 3 года назад +4

    Really looking forward to seeing you exercising your influence and raise awareness on Stop Asian Hate. Thanks for your consideration.

  • @danielwilliamsullivan3192
    @danielwilliamsullivan3192 3 года назад +1

    Let an old guy (79) interject. I have been following you both for a long time. Your great! There seems to be an expectation that the real objective is sex with women....not love and marriage. Perhaps I have missed it but I hear little mention of Love. I hear over analyzing of unsuccessful relationships. You take women on first dates to something simple. Get to start knowing each other. Do not jump into bed. That ends it. That will come in time...preferably when you wed. Love you both...Happy St. Patrick's Day!

  • @DopeyySaeSae
    @DopeyySaeSae 3 года назад

    Most women wants reassurance & honesty. Periodt.

  • @dharshanaravi9558
    @dharshanaravi9558 3 года назад +1

    I just like how it's fun and respectful at the same time! 💙

  • @ashleym2728
    @ashleym2728 3 года назад

    Awwww yeaaah!! I was hoping y'all would link up with Freesia again!! 💖💖

  • @freesiapark
    @freesiapark 3 года назад +38

    HAHAH I’m dying. Always a good time with you guys 🤪

    • @JBRODUCTION
      @JBRODUCTION  3 года назад +7

      FREESIA FOR KTOWN PRESIDENT.

  • @glowin_teeth
    @glowin_teeth 3 года назад +1

    Bahaha loved this collaboration~ congrats on katalk open chat that's so big!!! I'll tune in live for funsies today hehe 🤩Also loved the 'so what are we' topic, I asked that question once & learned to walk away from any 썸 that makes me ask that first lol crystal clear & commitment is my jam

  • @Trsa1993
    @Trsa1993 3 года назад +2

    Always stopping whatever I’m doing to watch your videos. Much love to you all!

    • @JBRODUCTION
      @JBRODUCTION  3 года назад

      ayyy we appreciate you belia . thanks for watchin : )))

  • @ummaily6732
    @ummaily6732 3 года назад +3

    My literal favorites in one video I caaaannnnttttt😭😭😭

  • @patriciazapiter6025
    @patriciazapiter6025 3 года назад +7

    This is so informative and funny!! Especially Jason always talking about... 😂😂😂😂 getting confused in the conversation SO FUNNY!! Keep it up you guys!!💕🇵🇭

  • @dessertdays
    @dessertdays 3 года назад +57

    What does John notice first now during this time when people's smiles are being covered up by masks? 😶

    • @JBRODUCTION
      @JBRODUCTION  3 года назад +57

      vibes.. 😂 😂 😂

    • @tatacathrina.9120
      @tatacathrina.9120 3 года назад +5

      @@JBRODUCTION Papa John is crazy now 😂😅😆

  • @angelicahong5253
    @angelicahong5253 3 года назад +2

    wait... freesia and john look really alike when they smile! so cute! i felt like i was watching twins or something ahah

  • @ariesflower2743
    @ariesflower2743 3 года назад

    I’m never this early for any of your videos... glad I tuned in! 👍🏻

  • @faithfawole7711
    @faithfawole7711 3 года назад

    The collab brought out the best answers to each question 😍

  • @milaqin1102
    @milaqin1102 3 года назад +1

    We need a jbro and freesia podcast omg

  • @totsie24
    @totsie24 3 года назад +17

    Really Feminine Women Like To Be Dominated By Masculine Men, It's A Balance Energy And Masculine Energy Is Really A Turn On For Us Feminine Women...And I Also Love A Man Who Knows Everything Because I Like To Ask Why??? Lols...!!!

    • @JBRODUCTION
      @JBRODUCTION  3 года назад +3

      Ask awayy

    • @totsie24
      @totsie24 3 года назад

      @@JBRODUCTION :D :D :D

    • @totsie24
      @totsie24 3 года назад

      I Rarely Comment On YT Videos...And I Got Sooo Many Likes Lol's...I Feel Exposed...But Thanks To All The Likes ;) ;) ;)...!!!

  • @joycemacayana1946
    @joycemacayana1946 3 года назад +1

    This content made me laugh, got me confused and shocked by Jason's (yall already know😜)
    I still believe that guys should still make the final decision after a compromise so if it means dominated in relationship then it is. 😊 I still gather up the courage to ask the guy the 'what are we' question as I agree with freesia that it might scare guys away but still want to know if were just wasting each others time. Asking this question might make or break the friendship built, if both parties were not on a same page.
    Great content, welldone👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 Hope to see more from you guys. Kudos to everyone! ❤💜💚

    • @JBRODUCTION
      @JBRODUCTION  3 года назад

      yup you nailed it joyce. and jason got u confused ? join the club 🤣

  • @jenniel9438
    @jenniel9438 3 года назад +7

    Love when Freesia is in your videos! You guys always look like you have so much fun together. What do you guys think about girls who tell you early in the relationship that they’re only looking for something serious? Does it scare/shy you away?

    • @JBRODUCTION
      @JBRODUCTION  3 года назад +3

      a mature discussion never hurts . if it's too early though it might make someone who hasn't fully thought about it yet feel rushed ? dunno.. just trying to see the opposite side as well

    • @KaleHello
      @KaleHello 3 года назад

      I dated back then for one reason, to find someone who shares sames values as me so we can reach matrimony. Dating should also be fun and getting to know your significant other.

    • @mikaelasantiano1314
      @mikaelasantiano1314 3 года назад +1

      What is “too early” for you guys? 🤔

    • @KaleHello
      @KaleHello 3 года назад +1

      @@mikaelasantiano1314 I was a virgin until the day I married in the Catholic church, same with my significant other. It is very rare for millenials these days to stay virgin until marriage but there is something about it that made me committ to my values and tie the knot with my loved one.

  • @artisticnita
    @artisticnita 3 года назад

    Another great video. Love freesia can't wait for the next collab video. 💪🏾🥦

  • @vanessamartinez24
    @vanessamartinez24 3 года назад +1

    Great job guys!! Love the vibe of this video & I really like hearing Fressia's point of view! Also, John where did you get your hoodie from? I want one!!

    • @JBRODUCTION
      @JBRODUCTION  3 года назад +2

      thanksss . our merch ! that we never launched ^__^

  • @rellg.2607
    @rellg.2607 3 года назад +1

    I'm back! Oooooh I very much enjoy this collab! Real talk! And I love how comfortable you all are with each other. :)

  • @cheresegeorge385
    @cheresegeorge385 3 года назад +1

    Lol this was chaotic. It had me laughing 🤣

  • @vincentli3391
    @vincentli3391 3 года назад +1

    Jason always asking the right questions

  • @AnnyeongBJD
    @AnnyeongBJD 3 года назад +1

    I’ve joined your Kakao chat room! Looking forward to Tuesday evening!

    • @JBRODUCTION
      @JBRODUCTION  3 года назад +1

      see u thereee

    • @AnnyeongBJD
      @AnnyeongBJD 3 года назад

      @@JBRODUCTION awesome! Thank you! Btw, I’m Kpopandkimchi. This is my bjd Doll account, but I subscribed to your account from both of my channels! 😉👍

  • @Linda-qs7vy
    @Linda-qs7vy 2 года назад

    lmao can you imagine W.A.P playing the background while u are trying to get down and durttttty. I would not be turned on

  • @thewinstonbear2457
    @thewinstonbear2457 3 года назад +1

    Great video! Love Freesia and jbro collab. John was so quiet, was the room too warm or was he blushing the whole time (wink wink) ? 😂😂

  • @tatacathrina.9120
    @tatacathrina.9120 3 года назад +18

    I feel so " hot " while I'm listening this ... I need water ... 😂 and Freesia, u should date Jason at once cuz your freakiness is similar to him 😅

  • @NsTheName
    @NsTheName 2 года назад

    Here's another thing, for guys and for girls to remember: when you're in the friendzone, you may never leave it. There's no foolproof way to get out of the friendzone, you know? I can think of a few guys in my life currently who will never be out of the friendzone for me. It's not because I hate them or they're "not trying hard enough"...I'm just not romantically interested in the slightest. It goes both ways. I agree with Freesia; work on yourself, love yourself, have self respect and come to realize that it might not work with that person. It could work out...but don't count on it, because you're more likely to be disappointed than not. A person isn't a conquest or something you can win. It's that kind of "nice guy" syndrome thing, where you think because you're nice to someone that you've "earned" them. If you're going into any relationship with that mentality (and this is for both men and women) then you're doing it wrong.

  • @emmajin1212
    @emmajin1212 3 года назад +1

    I love all the Q&A sessions and the podcast set up but I wish the background music could be volumed down a little. It’s hard to focus on the audio sometimes.

    • @JBRODUCTION
      @JBRODUCTION  3 года назад +2

      noted ! will lower for next

  • @rositazheng4695
    @rositazheng4695 3 года назад +4

    Early squad for jbro as always!!!😎 p.s: went to ktown yesterday expecting to bump into you guys but didn’t😭😢

  • @Momoko4ever1
    @Momoko4ever1 3 года назад +1

    Lmao this was so funny, this was a great collab

  • @nick_aurorav2964
    @nick_aurorav2964 3 года назад +1

    When the guy says let see where it goes, it really means girl pack your shit and leave his ass! You’re wasting your time. You’re just an option. It hurts but you deserve better.

    • @Enchanteralle
      @Enchanteralle 2 года назад

      Well said. And unfortunately a lot of ppl date like that these days so it’s like wasting time and in the mindset that the grass is always greener. online dating made everything more confusing and difficult…pretty much most ppl I met tell u what u want to hear but they don’t want commitment or don’t know what they want.

  • @amandalee320
    @amandalee320 3 года назад +10

    I’d love to see you do a video on dating korean men. I’m dating a Korean man now and have dated a few before my current boyfriend and it’s definitely a challenge. Would love to know your perspective in regards to cultural, attitude etc. In my experience dating a Korean man you have to be okay with them showing their affection differently than you, as a white woman I told everyone I loved them constantly but in Korean culture it’s rare to even say that to family. I could go on and on but again, would love to hear your side especially if you have dated a non Asian!

  • @angelinagao2640
    @angelinagao2640 3 года назад +2

    love you guys and your content!!!

  • @LinhNguyen-cb5on
    @LinhNguyen-cb5on 3 года назад

    Jason is honestly so funny without even trying

  • @thaonguyenminh7814
    @thaonguyenminh7814 2 года назад

    Just came across your videos on RUclips :D The music at 3:06 reminds me of the piece In the Hall of the Mountain King by Grieg 😂 Btw, thanks for making this interesting video

  • @kyliez517
    @kyliez517 3 года назад

    I once read a quote that said something like: if its not a whole body fuck yes to that person you like, then its not them. So i kind of feel like if you knew they were IT for you, otherwise if you’re not sure, there’s a part of you that doesnt want it fully.

    • @kyliez517
      @kyliez517 3 года назад

      This is in relation to the “what are we question”

  • @middlesys9180
    @middlesys9180 3 года назад +1

    Love this collab!

  • @sanychi1016
    @sanychi1016 3 года назад +1

    10 PM is 3 AM over here. * cries in european*
    Agreed with Fressia about the question 'what are we' like, it can give some/enough clarity even if there's no definite answer. Communication is deffo key. Tho also agree with the comment saying question really isn't needed, everything is there in the open. On both sides. Sometimes you just choose not to see them.

  • @seljiang
    @seljiang 3 года назад

    After watching this, I’m certain John is A++

  • @iamichelle
    @iamichelle 3 года назад

    Been waiting for this since her vlog

  • @pfguo87
    @pfguo87 2 года назад +1

    @2:01 - as a guy I would say I don't mind the makeup as long as when I wake up with her I am not waking up to someone completely different. Basically, if the guy is attracted to the girl when she doesn't have makeup on it's fine. BUT if guy is only attracted to her when she has makeup on than its like "you were lying about your looks with makeup". That is what it comes down to.
    For me personally, I hate it when girls have no eyebrows, and color it in, especially the really thick eyebrows. I'm like why are your eyebrows thicker than mine...?

  • @Ubiquitous_1
    @Ubiquitous_1 3 года назад

    This was a great he said/she said session. Nice mics by the way!

  • @jadew8018
    @jadew8018 3 года назад

    Definitely be honest and open during those deep communication moments. And also it depends on the friend group when it comes to talking about bedroom things. I have some friends that I could share details with and get tips from and others that judge and tell the whole world. Also my last relationship was a 3hr all the time and let me just say after the first hr she’s gonna be looking at the clock it’s not about how long the race is but about the satisfaction of running the race and finishing together 👀

  • @rafaellaoishi5887
    @rafaellaoishi5887 3 года назад

    Omg I loove when these 3 collab!! You should do more pleaseeeee

  • @celinevicente2742
    @celinevicente2742 3 года назад

    Made my Monday here in Perth entertaining before I head off to work hahaha 😂 I like the vibe of your videos with Freesia Park 😊
    You guys definitely addressed lots of topics and hopefully you guys get to have other guests to discuss different topics in the future! It was fun and entertaining ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

    • @JBRODUCTION
      @JBRODUCTION  3 года назад +1

      u must be an earlier riser to watch vids before work. have a good day 5 star vitamin

    • @celinevicente2742
      @celinevicente2742 3 года назад

      @@JBRODUCTION yup! Haha as they say the early bird catches the worm 🐛 🤗😂

  • @deminicha_8802
    @deminicha_8802 3 года назад +1

    YOU R A GOOD VIBE 🤗 J BRO

  • @skerlyolivier6066
    @skerlyolivier6066 3 года назад +1

    For the question "what are we?" in my opinion I feel like girls are usually the ones to ask that question. For me I feel why do I need to ask this.Even in the beginning stages I make it clear I'm not sure what I'm looking for just dating and if it turns to something serious fine. I appreciate when guys are up front like that too. If they aren't sure from the beginning just let the girl know so if she is looking for a serious relationship and don't want a maybe. She has the option to stay or leave. Hope that makes sense ✌🏾

  • @7521824
    @7521824 3 года назад +5

    Why in the United States always talk about "sex" before talking about "love"? In Asia, we always talk about "love" before talking about "sex". Is culturality in the United States more important than love?

    • @JBRODUCTION
      @JBRODUCTION  3 года назад +3

      hmmm. im sure there are cultural differences on this topic !!

  • @annawong5027
    @annawong5027 3 года назад +1

    Interesting with the 'what are we?' question. I live in London, U.K and when we date someone that is considered exclusive from the start. If a person was seeing more than two people that is considered cheating. Dating apps have changed things slightly, but that's the general consensus

  • @smackytall
    @smackytall 3 года назад +2

    Loooove Freesia!! I wish you guys would've featured more than one woman's perspective because there were some answers I definitely disagreed with Freesia on 😬

    • @JBRODUCTION
      @JBRODUCTION  3 года назад +1

      yup definitely a valid statement ! just would've been a bit harder logistically to record

  • @hwinseoul
    @hwinseoul 3 года назад

    Agreed with Freesia and appreciate if guys also respect and accept girls’ thoughts ~^^

  • @gwillis01
    @gwillis01 3 года назад +1

    I remember a celebrity story about a famous female entertainer [ don't remember which one ] who broke up with her boyfriend, also a famous entertainer, quite publicly. When she was, of course, asked by the press why she broke with him, she stated that the reason was she wanted a baby and he did not. She stated that she had wasted enough time already hoping that he would change his mind about having a baby. She said that she's looking for a new romantic partner while she still has a few good years of fertility left.

  • @judyhu1657
    @judyhu1657 3 года назад

    yes was waiting for this

  • @jennyzhen112
    @jennyzhen112 3 года назад +1

    I couldn't stop laughing throughout the whole video!! I was going to ask does the age gap matter?

    • @JBRODUCTION
      @JBRODUCTION  3 года назад +2

      it hasnt for us.. but perhaps worth talking about !

    • @LA-cm9uo
      @LA-cm9uo 3 года назад +2

      I want to ask: How can age...NOT matter ? I think it would matter if you are looking for a mental match (someone who is in the same place in life and has the same maturity level as you) for a long-term partner. Men who say "age doesn't matter" creep me out, because I find myself thinking that they mean it's acceptable to mess with young girls just for the sexual thrill, is this true ? Or are you saying 'age doesn't matter' because you have had good (quality) relationships with women youger and women older than you ?

  • @zarina_lovingliving
    @zarina_lovingliving 3 года назад +1

    Keeping it real with fake eyelashes Freesia 🤣

  • @kristycalungsod706
    @kristycalungsod706 3 года назад

    that Zion T break into the “I play Gospel” LMAO

  • @nayoungkwon8760
    @nayoungkwon8760 3 года назад

    점점 두분들에 대해서 깊게 얘기해줘서
    제밌어요~~John!! 진짜 스마일 본다고???그럼 더 멋있잖아❤️

  • @pragyasharma5537
    @pragyasharma5537 3 года назад

    Wowommgg jbro hahahahaha turn on uh-huh 😂😂😁 yehh 👏 Rapid-fire💥