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Hey Ash! Jay Volk from Northampton Pa here. Just wanted to say thank-you for all the hard work you've been putting into editing these very long videos as of late. I personally really appreciate it! Amazing work all around! 👏
This poor man. This story hits my senses in more ways than i could of imagined. These Romance Scammers dnt care a cent the knock on effect it has on not just 1 old lonely greiving 84 year old man. But father anx son relationship. Grandchildren ect.. Upsetting!!!
I'm not trying to be an asshole "know it all". But with him being 84 years old and it being 2024 he would've been born in 1940. The earliest he could've served would've been the Vietnam War if he was deployed to a war zone. He would've been 13 years old when the Korean War was dialed down in 1953 with the Armistice Agreement. He could've possibly served in Germany during the Cold War.
😢 Thank you all for doing this, I don't have my parents anymore, and I'm was crying when you were able to get these two to hug each other! That's a start that they needed! I am disabled and I keep getting called by creeps from India, or Nicaragua, and they have my SSN, birthday, address, phone number, credit cards ( which they say they're from the fraud dept and they need the cvc) and my mom's last name!! They've tried all kinds of things to get money from me. They spoofed phone numbers so the FTC fraud department, homeland security, and FBI can't find them! My identity was stolen 6 years ago, and they ruined my life! My info is on the dark web because of the Equifax and Tmobile breaches. I pray that you can help these people!!
Why in the world would anybody send money to a person you’ve never met? The first time you are asked to get gift cards or send any money whatsoever, it’s a SCAM.
I worked in an assisted living facility where a lady had vmbeen scammed abd the guy was sent to jail by her daughter. Well, she found a new one instantly. I was the hair stylist there. She told me, and I explained it was a scam. She DIDN'T WANT TO HEAR IT. She was fully normal I. Her mind. She was only in her 60's. She was in there because of her physical health. It is so sad to me that a person can be soooo LONELY.
@@robertsmith3672exactly. You’re taking their fantasy away. Young people do it too. It’s connected to technology, and lack of digital knowledge. They are paying for this fantasy, the monetary value only matters to those who are watching the victim spend it. You can’t snatch this rug from under him so easily.
@robertsmith3672 I think that this jackass actually believed that the real woman's profile was the fake one and that she had stolen the scammer's pics. He will just find another Nigerian lad to start sending money to because he is mentally ill and maybe even a little stupid. Definitely lacking common sense and an internal dialog.
It's absolutely astounding to me that this man will listen to a phone that states "spam detected" yet will not listen to his own kin and professional journalists who are telling him that he is being manipulated and ROBBED! Wow... just wow!
After seeing so many of these cases, I believe that they also get addicted to the thrill. The men feel like a movie hero, saving a damsel in distress & women believe to be in some kind of complicated & dramatic romance novel. Everything BUT living in reality, all alone as a widower.
@@cloroxbleach885 By today's metrics yes, but to be fair he did amass over 3 million dollars in his lifetime, which isn't much by today's standards... but he likely started that journey 65 plus years ago. So he wasn't a complete buffoon... I believe things just move too fast for guys like this these days... that coupled by the obvious decompensation from old age and bam... here we are! Maybe he needs a cleansing... bleach perhaps?! ;)
YES. IT IS UNBELIEVABLE! How do people have that much cash to burn? Especially on a total stranger?. Thousands of dollars. Look how many retired homeless veterans he could help.
I like them but the tall one is just blurping everything out to every random neighbor and person on the street. Why in the world would he talk so much and spill all details to every random neighbor of the the person he is investig. as a “invest.journalist”? That made no sense and the fact that his buddy didn’t tell him to stop telling all their info to every random stranger is just so weird. They only made it harder for themselves
I'm a 65 year old male. I have come to the realization that it is fulfilling to be by yourself. Must be smart and strong in this society with so many predators and conmen. If you are a "lonely heart", use the big head over the small one. Pick your family over perceived bullshit.
Wow, this old man had such a lot of money. He could have enjoyed his life, dinners, travels, parties with his family, visit his granddaughter in Germany, whatever. But instead he wants to give all his money to a strange lady. I hope I'll never get this confused when I'm old.
We found out that my sister's ex is a catfish using our dead brothers picture,he was caught and now in jail waiting for trial . If found guilty he has to repay all the people he scammed pay back the money , and serve prison time. His kids are grown and his helping the victims out . Already he sold his two trucks ,his mobile home, his property, and his kids are helping the victims out. They too have found his bank accounts., they have disowned him as their father
I’m 74 and I’ll never d this. Recently widowed, and they’re coming out of the woodwork. I want nothing to do with these jokers!! On top of that, I love being alone!
@@kathybrem880I hope you’ll not always be alone though-there are wonderful REAL people out there, you just have to be suspicious all the time! Which is obviously awful. I’m in my 50s and been married for 35 yrs and if something happened, god forbid, I would not be with anyone else, but then never say never. ❤🇦🇺❤
@@kathybrem880it’s awesome you’re aware of these scammers. They’ve gotten so much more creative to the point young people are falling for their scams. It’s not always romance scams either. I hope you have a good group of friends and family keeping your life interesting and fun and of course watching out for these crooks.
Well, just look at the many millions that continue to send a portion of their measly paychecks to a billionaire conman. Some People apparently enjoy getting scammed.
Poor old guy…lonely people are so vulnerable to these scams.😢 He possibly may be in the early stages of Alzheimers. At that stage patients are often in fierce denial. They are belligerent when confronted by family with evidence of possible dementia. It’s more than just “ego.”
no he just wants to feel important .. all i saw in this video is people who want to be front row in the drama . they laugh bit too much and also include bit too personal calls . im all in for what they are doing and good thing they are but i see why they are doing it.
A Conservatorship is bullshit, but you are not talking to Lissa but someone from Africa. They have you send money to someone else because they want there to be proof that you were doing everything not them. I hope you are doing screen shots of your conversation. I know this is what is happening because I was used as a person to receive money from others to turn into bitcoin and send the bit coin to the person who supposedly loved me.
This 85 year old man needs to realize that his money needs to last him for a while. Suppose he lives well into his 90s and needs to go to an assisted living place/nursing home? Well, with no money, he can't do that! All the burden will be placed on his children because he has sent all his money to someone he has never met!
That's why I 100% understand his son. It's not about greed. His son just want to prevent that his dad's week mind and hornyness ruin his family in the future.
yeah its sad both sides are in the wrong here IMO. he straight up admits to pushing his elderly father he is so angry about this you can tell he just wants the money to be his when his dad dies and doesn't actually care about the abuse he is experiencing. you love your family and support them even when they're failing you it is when our family is failing they need us most.@@hectik0074
Yeah..... his son is an abuser! He cut him off from all his grandkids just to try to make him change his mind... im sooo sick of hearing this stupid selfish son ready to break his dad bones to make him stop spending money that coule pay his mortgage! I hope dad is planing a big last trip in LA!
@@sarita10001Yeah, the son is definitely waiting on dad to pass away so he can get his hands on that money and the Porsche. He could cut his son out of the will. Leave it to his other kid and grandkids. I can’t believe he pushed his dad and broke a rib. You don’t push, or hit, a parent, kids or women. Everything is about money with that family. It was dysfunctional before this. I wonder if he sued the heated blanket manufacturer?
I used to work at a bank and there was nothing more frustrating than knowing an elderly customer was being scammed and there was nothing we could do except block the transactions. One in particular didn’t have her husband or kids on the account so we couldn’t warn them of what was happening. We ultimately had to drop her as a customer because she became a liability and didn’t understand that she would be responsible for paying the money she was trying to send these scammers. She was the sweetest lady but she just couldn’t accept that she was being scammed. 😞
I’m crying my eyes out here too. God what I wouldn’t give to get a hug from my dad. He was stolen from us at age 47 from leukemia. From diagnosis to death he only made it 4 months and 3 weeks. Love your family people. We are never guaranteed tomorrow.
When my mom passed my step dad dated faster than we were expecting and it caused huge issues. Sometimes men don't know how to be alone after long marriages
I know, right? And as much as I feel for Alan’s lonliness and his need for a relationship…. no elderly man wants a “babushca.” What he WANTS is the 55 yr-old blonde chickie who sends him nude pix. 👴🏻💔🤦♀️
Right. He doesn't get it, but also, the hosta should have explained better that a scammer stole this woman in Arizona identity. Clearly, this old man is not too smart or should I say it doesn't have a common sense
OMG! He's 84 years old. He needs all his money to pay for a nursing home stay. He doesn't have enough to be spending on women he's never met in person. Crazy.
The son just Radiates rage- He’s justifiably frustrated- but even after counseling, you can sense he’s just FUMING and ready to spill his story like lava from a volcano. These catfish hunters have all my respect and appreciation.
I’m always scared Art will go too far and get himself in trouble with his paws 🫣 but in this one it was his mouth! Art don’t tell everyone everything when you knock at their door! You might get some litigious crazy person who doesn’t understand your wonderful lingo and your wonderful attitude to help! BUT I loved seeing your sensitive side about your dad! Made me 😢 &think about spending more time with my dad. Time with your parents if you have them and are good people is so precious!
So true I lost my Daddy about 2years ago unexpected it crushed us my parents had been married 6oyrs when he passed he had turned 80years old on 2/25 he passed on my Mommy birthday 4/28 it was a bitter sweet day. He was the one he kept family together. He was family oriented, did not have outside friends, his family was more important to him he always wanted us to do things and go places he loved fishings and hunting, if there was a issue he had us talk it out he did not like drama he was funny and so and kind. he was a supervisor for the Social Security Administration he retired from there when he was 76 years old. He and my Mommy were very clos. They rode into work every day, and they worked together but on different floors! She retired before he did due to heart condition. We are from Texas, so we moved from there to Alexandria, Virginia, due to a job promotion! We miss him so much that it still hurts so much! I know my Mommy misses him a well! Think about it. It's the way God wants a marriage to be to until according to your vows!
He's a beautiful man. But I was alarmed at his views on how one teaches youngsters, especially when he said there's a time for the BELT (what ???) and a time for the doughnuts.
Jesus thats really upsets me they know deep down they are being scammed yet still ask other ppl for 40 freaking thousand dollars when they have no way to pay that person back. That makes me sick.
I feel so sorry for the son....his anxiety comes across strong....he is lost his dad..while he is still alive. This scammers are ruthless and despicable l. 😮
If MY house was on fire, the first person I’d grab is my child, then my wife, get out of the house and call 911. How can he be outside not knowing where his wife was? Wtf? Very fishy situation there.
Stressful situation, wanting to save all your belongings and house. You wouldn’t think your family would go to where the fire is, especially when you are that old and have likely mentally declined
@RowdyLowdy Yeah, sounds fishy to me as well. The way Allen said his wife was "K****d" is troubling to me. Then he collected the life insurance. Disgusting!
or son want wants money, sort scanner out first get hiim top up credit card gets once a month....you say he lucky i am in same position minus lthe scam.....it awful having a son treat you like this heart breaking and using grandchild as black mail i knowt how he feels
It must be incredibly galling watching your inheritance going to a scammer ! I know the old boy has a right to spend his own money , but throwing it at a total criminal stranger is disgusting!
It's not his inheritance... Such a selfish way to look at it. I hope my parents spend every last cent living their life to the maximum (not on scammers obviously)
@@danwiggins2008 You must not have any children. Any good parent wants to leave an inheritance for his/her children. Not every parent can but certainly want to do so. It's NOT selfish for this man to not want money due him to go to scammers. This is the same mentality as the folks in NYC and Chicago. They want to throw free housing, food and resources to illegals, rather than provide for the citizen who've paid taxes.
@@jdstep97 from the psrents point of view yes. But the comment i replied referred to it is "your inheritance" like you've earned it or deserve it. And no, I have no kids, but I don't want any of my parents money when they go either. Live it up folks, blow it on a fun time
Wow inheritance is what it’s all about? The son sounds like it is only to protect his fathers money for his father so he has money to live and spend and his fathers heart not to get broken. If it’s for greed because they think they won’t get the money as their inheritance after he dies is sick. “Money DUE him? (Meaning the son). Sheesh. The fathers money, his life earnings,he can spend (on himself) all he wants. I already told my kids, we will not have much if any left after we are gone. We had to pay a lot while raising them and struggled so hard. Often charging food. Reasons were because we helped my son’s family out and they lived with us. It was such hard times. We are finally empty nesters and are enjoying the life we NEVER had until now. Finally can vacation, go out to dinner, travel a lot, fix up our home, fun cars. So yeah this man should be able to spend his money and not think he’s being selfish and spending his kids inheritance. What a privileged and selfish way to think you have a right to that. If you get it, be gracious and grateful. It sounds so “privileged” thinking you’re due an inheritance. If you don’t get any money, at least know your parents enjoyed their lives.
Hmmm…. Wife died in a house fire, got caught up in a scam within only 2 weeks of her in the grave… someone needs to investigate this death for real. Shits suss AF.
Such an informative video. I was scammed years ago in a Romance scam exactly like this! It took me 13 years but I got my money back. Never again! What you all do here at Trilogy Media is a god send. Keep this going! Please! People need to know more about this!
Damn that's crazy. I'm very happy u finally got ur money back. My mom got caught up in one, her friend and another person they know also got caught up in the mess and all literally the same exact story in every case. My mom and her friend both are disabled and on ss so they don't have much money but when they aren't paying their bills and still lost a couple thousand dollars. I am so happy that ppl like trilogy media, scammer payback, social cat fish etc are out there trying to spread awareness and try to stop some of these ppl.
I have men try and do it all the time to me. I'll be 58 next week and I'm single. They probably think that if I'm single and old I have money. I'm actually broke and not stupid enough to fall for it. I can see how people do though. I don't date because I'm not willing to jump right in bed with someone. So any of us older people with morals and are lonely could easily fall for it. These scammers are pros and know what to say. I'm just a pro at reading bs...lol
@dontwannaatellu me too - my mother-in-law fell for the Publisher's clearing house scam except we taught her NO MONEY & NO PERSONAL INFO goes out ever and thankfully she listened. They called her every day and she talked to them! That is, until I got a hold of them. They had her believing they were coming with balloons, a check, and a Mercedes in the color of her choice. They got nasty with her because we taught her you don't pay when you win and they wanted money! . Lol, we were lucky she listened to us
This old man is disgusting. He let his wife burn up, then wants to give away the farm…. I have a friend who is doing the same thing as him, with a scammer. Totally insane. And, this isn’t the first time. Every year there’s some scam.
They need to take him to senior citizens dances and activities for people his age. Their are women his age who would really like him....same era so you can share memories of past days and be on an equal ground. A 50 year old isn't wife material for him...even in person, it's NURSE material.
I feel for both of you the eldest have had his career as a soldier and veteran his entire life and suddenly he sits there without a wife. His granddaughters are not so dependent on him any more, maybe not coming over as much, he is aging and he feels how lonely he is, how quiet the big house is, and due to his career he is not showing much emotion. Soldiers don’t cry. He does not convey his vulnerability, his longing for a woman’s embrace, and it looks like his son very much is of the same type. Stubborn guys who pull themselves together and never dare to admit they have emotions or they have failed. My bet is that there are YEARS AND YEARS of things to deal with in therapy, but they do not have that. They only have today. So they need to leave everything behind them. The past can’t be changed. Only today. They have to put a line in the sand. Let bad words, misunderstandings and past quarrels be there; in the past. Today is their first day. They know one thing; they love each other. Build on that.
What you guys need, because no one opens a door for a huge ass Russian dressed in black, is a woman who can play the role as innocent girl, business women etc. A lot more doors get opened if you look like you don’t belong in the slum, in a gang.
Fuck yeah, dealt with this turd his whole life finally bouta get a check and he spends it on some RANDO 😂. That’s how my great grandpas is, spent all his money, for some crackhead, lived 2 minutes walking distance from my house growing up, prolly not getting anything from that old man Edit: might start buttering him up since none of his other family/kids talk to him 😂😂
My dad is the same, he's married to my mum who is still here but he's starting to get dementia and believes anything he's told, i have to constantly remind him and my mum of the scams as they come out so they hopefully don't fall for them
He's not lonely. He went on a date with a real woman a week before this interview. If this was really about loneliness, he'd be pursuing a relationship with the real woman who he went on a date with. He's doing this because the scammer said they have a bunch of valuables tied up in customs and he's hoping for a big payout. That's literally one of the first things he talked about. It's not about loneliness, it's about greed.
Am an African and I can tell you there’s African jazz. I don’t believe it’s greed.Most of these African scammers use jazz and once someone is involved with them,it takes the grace of God to open your inner mind before they get all your money. The only thing is once they start asking for money,just block them straight.That’s the only safe thing to do.
I feel like it's a combination of excitement for a payout, excitement for the interest of a young attractive woman, and loneliness. All 3 coming together to make this mess.
I see this literally EVERY DAY where I work. Gerontological psychology is so misunderstood. I really feel for his son, who felt like he had no choice but to get a conservatorship (again, I see this all the time with my own clients), else his father would quite literally be homeless. I'm glad his son is pushing the issue, because I've seen family walk away from their elderly loved ones over this kind of thing, and it is absolutely heartbreaking.
It must be tough for the families though, because I’m sure for all their efforts they usually only get anger and resentment from their parents, not thanks or appreciation. Which is understandable but very sad.
I just don't understand how anybody can be taken for a scam like this. I'm 53 years old and I don't think that my psychology is going to change so much that I'm going to fall for some stupid s*** like this. To me the guy is just an idiot. And now he wants to save face which is the only reason why he's digging in
Age makes someone more susceptible but is by no means a reason someone doesn’t get scammed. My husband and I are both tech savvy and old school cool but recently we’ve had two attempts by scammers that were downright so believable to be terrifying. One had copied my Bank’s IVR system identically and the other used AI to generate a FaceTime call of someone I know in the flesh. So yeah, we might not be old but these criminals have gotten creative to the point they can scam someone still in their 30s-50s. Anyone past retirement age wouldn’t stand a chance.
@@mulgakoldas2692Both my roommates are in jail right now bc of scammers..Which caused me to get new roommates for 2yrs. I'm on disability hence low income, no car, I'M STUCK!! Not what I planned and not just two months in one of the new rm got arrested. Dear Lord God please Bless me with a vehicle in Jesus name I pray.
Art , I cried when you talked about your dad. This babuska loves you so much. I’m so proud of you guys for helping so many people. Keep shining. I love you. 💕
My mom was unfortunately scammed by someone posing as a government support agency supporting those in need. My mom is disabled and has been sick for about 10 years now. They isolated her with hopes of money so that she could provide me with things in my adulthood that she couldn't while raising me as a disabled single mother. These people stop at nothing and are so skilled in how they manipulate. I appreciate all of what you guys too and spreading it, or I don't know if I would have caught the signs. I can only hope she has cut out communication as I cannot look over her shoulder. She doesn't deserve that false hope on top of her illnesses. Again, thank you guys.
The precursors to the technology we have now were invented by people who are now 80+. My dad was one of the early tech pioneers and has kept up with all the advances in technology. You can't broadbrush all old people.
@@katfaerieI agree. Underestimate older people at one's own peril. I'm old asFand I've kept up with most tech, at least enough to not be a mark for scammers. Plus I can talk circles around most of these idiot scammers. The only thing I have never kept informed of is anime. Start talking about Dragonball Z or any other bullshit Anime character, and I'm immediately 110 years old and deaf, and I'm likely asleep in a chair. I don't watch either, but I know more about bukkake than anime, only because I I've heard it's a thousand times more entertaining. ;)
He is a malignant narcissist. No one matters to him but himself. No tears about his long suffering wife dying in a horrific way. All about him-“I’m lonely”. He doesn’t care about a very nice son, daughter, and grandchildren. This is the first one of these shows I have no empathy for the victim.
I think these scams should be in constant circulation as PSAs! Billboards, local television, streaming, newspapers-all of it. The lack of awareness is why people keep doing this.
Not really, it more of fantasy of type of person who thought never will have chance with suddently want them, most know but just dint want to acknowledge this fantasy.
Definitely not “The Notebook” ending. The son is scarred from his father’s behavior and the dad remains defiant. I hope we get updates on these videos.
My mother gambled all her savings plus my money dad had left me after his death. Never touched my brother’s trusts though. I didn’t keep one thing of hers my brothers gave me-in the dumpster it all went
I usually watch these videos for entertainment but this one made me cry so bad 😢 I lost my dad recently .Love and appreciate your parents , they are not on Earth forever
My heart goes out to these lonely individuals, who are just trying to find love again. While it doesn't make sense to us, why they do this, other than it being an emotional attack. Like the lady you helped, that even though you guys produced all the evidence to her, she still tried to justify that this person was real, and she still sent money. You guys are a blessing for victims, but you can only help those who want to be helped. Much luck to you moving forward.
Yeah, right, a conservator to steal all his money and property. Three lawyers in my county were working as conservators and were recently arrested for stealing their clients' money and properties. They were so egregious that they would even look for very old people who were living alone and manipulate them into moving into an assisted living facility saying they were no longer safe living in their home. They go get a court order and as soon as the homeowners were out they steal everything they could. These lawyers had cohorts in every department which needed to sign any papers to facilitate the victimization of these old folks. They were only caught when one of the couples they victimized had a daughter who was actually visiting them once a week. She visited them one day and they were gone. This daughter also happened to be a lawyer. Goodness knows how many millions they had stolen before they were caught. My friend told me since I am old, I should work with a financial advisor who's a fiduciary. My reply to him was, "Right. I know Madoff was a fiduciary and look what he did to all his victims".
@@Unholy187You’re absolutely correct, and it should be his son. However a doctor (actually 2 doctors) would have to diagnose him “no capacity” & like they said, he’s “healthy”. So it sounds like his son tried going that route, but his Dad is sharp & knows what he’s doing. It’s sad….he shouldn’t have the internet.
I am 83 and have heard so many horror stories from children and families very much like this one. Alan was fortunate indeed to have such a fine son, and a dedicated team of people to prove the case. I'm sure it's very hard on Alan to accept the truth and give up his dream fantasy, and I'm very sorry for him. Great job, fellows
I am so happy that you’re here watching these sorts videos so that you’re aware & knowledgeable in of all of this. It hurts my heart that elderly people get taken advantage of so often. God bless you for staying ahead before this happens to someone you know, or god forbid yourself. ❤️
I feel sad , it is he’s money , he knows it’s fake but he’s untitled to throw his money away , i tell him dude go get women fron a bar , tell her you’ve been sending 33000 to scammer but if she wonts it come live with you & marry & you can spend all your dosh on her instead & get control back of finances cause your son can’t argue with ya new wife from the pub ,there he so many sex workers that be up for it , go hit them up , & get some loving for your money , or go to church & let god fill you with his love & help some homeless kids with your coin . Your family can’t complain if you start giving money to kids on streets & please stay away fron this dudes fron Africa , u prob talking with a dude dude
The son acts like the money is his. The father actually can spend it as he wishes. The only drawback is he should be counseled as he may need that money for medical and burial costs.
@@solarlass5807yes he can spend it any how he wants , it’s what he’s spending on, absolutely no gain for him and what happens when he will eventually need hired help around the house and help him with activities of daily living (ADL)? It’s a good thing he has someone to look out for him to prevent financial abuse by strangers.
The amount and distance of wiggle room the scammers really take themselves too is pretty hilarious and aggravating at the same time. What little sacks of shit.
Thank you guys, this hits home for sure. Mom passed in 16 of cancer and my dad is living by himself in a house he can't really afford and maybe once a month he gets scammed and has to close a card or ask the bank to stop payment on something because he gets overdrawn. We have gotten in many verbal fights over the years. I'm only about a half hour into the episode but I already feel this will be my favorite thing you have ever done. Bless you.
There are no words... why are people so desperate that they believe these crazy stories, esp. when they haven't even met or spoken with them??? Madness. I'm with the son!
What even is “ family money “ parents owe you nothing. This son annoys me, I get looking out for your parents but he’s doing this because he thinks his dad owes him something 🧐
@@roux2689 did the son ever question his father how strange his story is? while he was waiting for the fireman 👨🚒 while his mother was burning 🔥 in the bed???
@@jessicafalk5760 you're right, just like children dont owe their parents anything. But older people get very mad when we play by the same rules you gave us
So odd that Alan kept referring to the death of his wife, in “A” house fire. Most people would’ve said I lost my wife when “our” house caught fire….. it’s almost as if he emotionally separated himself from the situation.
The son mentioned at Catfish Scammer that the son thinks that the father is trying to avoid the grief. And having seen what it did to my grandmother, grief takes a lot out of people. Before she died she said that she just wanted to die so she could see her husband again, and that she felt stupid for going out to get a couple of groceries so they'd have food in the house. This man lost his spouse in a fire, I'm sure that messed with his head.
Poor fellow. Hes been through so much and is so heartbroken. These people who take advantage of the vulnerable have no idea how cruel is the damage they do
I hope the fire wasn’t suspicious and not linked to speaking to a scammer at that time. Surely there’s a reason he’s in deep denial. This screams suspicious.
I think that in a strange way he may be trying to make up for not “saving” his wife by trying to save this attractive “damsel in distress.” Like, a way to alleviate feelings of guilt.
@@Nurse_Kathy 1:11:50 Apart of the naïveté of the father, his son acts like an asshole. The way he speaks to and of him does not come from love. This relationship was rigged a long time ago. The conflict is way much deeper. So much resentment.
Regarding the old man, I see two red flags. Why did he not insist that his wife come down the stairs to safety with him and they both could have waited for the firetruck. Also, as he is telling the story, he is nonchalantly scrolling on his phone. I got major narcissistic vibes from him.
I thought the same thing. And l got the bad vibes from Allen. Who waits for the fire truck when your wife is still in the house. He should be ashamed of himself for that. The universe is balancing
The sadness that his Dad has caused by showing a stranger is more important than his own son is irreparable. For the son to know how selfish his father was to send m9ney to a stranger when he could have helped his son shows how many people are so deranged, the father is truly deranged,
I see it both ways....I don't think parents are obligated to give their kids money they have worked a lifetime for. It's HIS money. However, it's ridiculous to be giving 300,000 to a complete stranger. I would be donating to animals shelter or the homeless shelter. That's just me tho
If my kids were more concerned about losing MY inheritance than being supportive and caring about me, I would spend every penny. Kids are not entitled to the parents money
I’m not sure he is worried about inheritance his father could live many more years and need that money, the son actually says this but accusing your son of assault because a stranger encouraged you to is something that I fear they will never get over, I’m not sure this old man is a very nice man, his wife of 51 years was just left behind in a burning house and he stayed outside, ah true love not!
I know exactly how his Son feels and I no longer have a Mother in her right mind, she says you will respect him and when you meet him you will know that he loves me. He told her that they are married because he drew up the paperwork. It's just so sickening.
Vladie the baddie he is so passionate about these poor people can you imagine having to come face to face with this giant all the scam team are amazing human beings❤️🇬🇧
It’s really so like dealing with an addict. I know exactly where the son is, he’s in that phase where he’s tried to reason with his dad and show him the (true) damage that’s being inflicted by the addiction. But then he’s getting rejected because his dad doesn’t want to hear it. I know exactly how he feels, infuriated and upset at the same time
This is a good comparison as people in the comments are judging the son for not allowing him to come to dinners and see the grandkids etc if a family member was a gambling addict or drug addict that you couldn’t get through too even if it was only affecting their own bank account you would do the same out of outrage, not wanting to normalise the addiction and in hopes that they would care enough to seek help for their addiction
And when all is said and done he thinks about feeding his family. I can't imagine dealing with losing his wife like he did, he blames himself for not going upstairs to get his wife.
This story really was so touching. 😢 Is was so sad to see how a SCAMMER'S GREED tore this family apart. I pray they get the counseling so they can rebuild their bond. You can see how much they love each other.
You guys are great, and your staff is, too. I'm in tears watching and listening. Like many older people, I understand being sucked in by scammers because of loneliness. You are educating the public & helping so many. From the bottom of my heart, I extend my thanks & appreciation.
It’s soooo crazy how far down the rabbit hole this all goes. Makes me so sad to see our elders being taken advantage of like this. Glad you guys are here to help and spread awareness. ❤
The sad thing is it isn't just elders. This feminist culture has broken even young men down so much that they simp in the most extreme ways desperate for even artificial female attention. 10% of men essentialy just have their endless pick of effortless casual sex. And social media has women that are 2/10 so gassed up that they think they're too good for guys on their level or higher because these top 10% males will sleep with them if it doesn't require any effort. So essentialy all men that are 1/10- like 5/10 are completely invisible to women unless they're able to make a connection through their job or social circle... and even when they do... it's basically doomed to fail because their significant other is constantly bombarded by better options they think they have a chance with. The ultimate result is these pathetic dudes effectively willing to sell everything they own and crawl through glass just to get attention from some girl that's slept with more people in the past year than their mothers did over their entire life. Truly truly sad. All the porn obsessions and simping is rotting the brain of both the guys engaged in it... but also the women that are gassed up by it
i so understand his son frustration. I sense the old guy is not wanting to let his dream go. and isolating his children is his call we dont know their history major dysfunction going on. Something happened and we dont know to have him make the call to keep his daughters away. it is easy for those who are not living there pain to make judgements.
yep, kids, if your parent becomes a widow, get control of their finances, this stupid old man went looking 2 weeks after his wife was gone, that's just nasty, kids must have been so hurt by that@@Goorney
No matter how frustrated you get you don't hit your family you don't cut them out from your children. He helped the scammers by cutting him out and isolating him.
Dealing with a delusional elderly person is beyond frustrating. And it's so easy to lose your composure and temper. He doesn't want to hear anything from his son. Having to get a conservative ship or guardianship over a family member or spouse doesn't feel good. He's seen her bank account that has over 2 million dollars but she needs his money, makes no sense.
Yup I had a guy on fb that almost got me. Same thing his story is hes a millionaire was going to Nigeria to open another company they held his money at the Nigerian border. Then he starts asking me to send him money because his child was sick with malaria. Right then I said screw this.
Loneliness is hard, when you have always been used to have your partner, your kids and then one day, you're on your own and you start looking for companionship in all the wrong places 😭😭💔
@@alanhinkel420I thought the same. Brought back some bitter memories too, because my father and mother were married for 17 years, she died of cancer when I was 15 years old, and my father was dating less than a month later. I understand being lonely, I am married and couldn't imagine losing her, but I ALSO couldn't imagine being with another person ever... It would have to take a lot of time, much more than 30 fu**ing days 🙄 I guess that loneliness is just insurmountable for some people 😔
There is no "right" amount of time before starting a new relationship though.. Yeah, 2 weeks, or a month, or whatever is rather sudden, but there's no actual number set in stone that's "appropriate" before trying to move on. He's already in his 80's and doesn't have a ton of time to begin with. He's lonely and wants companionship. Everyone's different and people cope in different ways. We shouldn't be so quick to judge. 👌
The Love of my life-my 89 grandad , whom passed 10 yrs ago told me, you can teach a young fool, cause he’s still learning . But you cannot teach an OLD fool who has Learned nothing his WHOLE life….Damn😖😖😢😢!!
Art is so correct, I spread quite some tears watching that (and then watching again the full interviews in T+). My dad died when I was about 1 year old and mother when I was 10. So I can relate, take care of your loved ones until they are around, especially when they are from that time where editing images were not so easily doable... and AI is becoming a thing. I wish they will get together again peacefully, fck the money, maybe even can get some of it back 'cause of your good work, fingers crossed. Until limbs and mind works at this age and there is money (which of latter he was not concerned about at all) to do that - the world is open to different activities, everything from travelling to whatever. I am really glad and also still surprised that both approved it to be filmed and show the world what these scumbags can do to people and their families. Thank you! Hope it will have an update.
@@hectik0074this is indeed unfortunate. The son needs to forgive his father and move on from this mistake.. Its only then the relationship can begin to heal. ❤
@@hectik0074what are you talking about? The granddaughter didn't want him at her wedding because he's been lying to the whole family and creating chaos.
Well done everybody! I love both channels and it's so great to see you working together. What an emotional ride! Also, Art is so much more than muscle and a fast runner. He has such a good heart and has a real special way of talking to people. Love you all!
@@BushWookie603 yes it is.. my brother passed away from an motorcycle accident and watching his two kids grow up I see from a different point about losing a dad I see what I went through
It's not just the oldies that get caught out by these scammers. You can be vulnerable at any Age.. I suppose when you let down your guard they go in for the kill.. They look for the lonely at heart. It's got nothing to do with age.. Be careful..
for everyone saying the son is a bad man is sad, i truly don’t think he meant to hurt him, older people are fragile and it was out of love. it could be selfish for financial reasons for his family, but at the same time, it’s mainly for his dad. that money is a lot, and he’s just explaining that his life would be changed with the money he was scammed out of but more so willingly sent to a stranger that was, what he thought to be, a woman he through loved him that he wanted to help, but could’ve sent that money to help his own son and granddaughters. i’m glad they helped him and i hope the man can get some of his money back. is there a go fund me for him?
His Son ought not count on that money! It’s ultimately his Father’s money!! I believe the son’s anger is more about losing his inheritance!! Probably, he borrowed money against this inheritance! That’s the big issue! The scammer getting his father’s money is a separate issue!
He showed no emotion talking about his wife who died a horrific death from burns. And why wasn’t his priority to get her out of the house during the fire??
The tragic loss of his wife creates a type of unrealized trauma that needs to be addressed. He couldn't "save" her so the psychological switch in the brain of a person in this type of deeply masked grief with make him a prime target for these scammers to prey on that need to save the illusory romantic interest. Between trauma, grief, age and a desperate level of loneliness his brain will stubbornly continue to try to save the "perceived" victim. It's all very sad. 😢
I feel the same way. It's so hard to get past some of the negative emotions. It really sucks. I really miss my family. Things got so messed up and time just goes by.
@@Fred_and_Brandy Kind of what happened to me. Things have been done to me I feel would be ignorant to forgive. Their behavior towards me would be comparable to animal cruelty. It's really tough because I have had zero justice and have a lot of unanswered questions.
@@Fred_and_BrandyI’m sorry that happened to u, and for the pain u are most likely still going through. It may not seem like much, but the universe tests us sometimes in the most horrible of ways. It’s after we have gone through those dark times that we see the light again, and then even greater blessings are brought to us. Stay strong and maintain the love for yourself u know u deserve, and u will be rewarded when the time is right! 😇
Son showed admirable restraint. When the father said “Don’t attack me again” (he knows darned well that the circumstances weren’t an “attack”), were I the son, I would have said “Don’t be so stupid again!”
Amazing. I have a friend here in Melbourne, Australia who's mother has fallen to a similar scheme. Please continue to do the work you do. Sadly sometimes people need to be saved from themselves.
Holy shit I'm a grown ass man and I'm so upset im cryin to see this poor mans heart broken 💔 and his family nearly lost because of these scammers , lads you are as always amazing well done 💯❤🇨🇮
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This poor man. This story hits my senses in more ways than i could of imagined. These Romance Scammers dnt care a cent the knock on effect it has on not just 1 old lonely greiving 84 year old man. But father anx son relationship. Grandchildren ect.. Upsetting!!!
I'm not trying to be an asshole "know it all". But with him being 84 years old and it being 2024 he would've been born in 1940. The earliest he could've served would've been the Vietnam War if he was deployed to a war zone. He would've been 13 years old when the Korean War was dialed down in 1953 with the Armistice Agreement. He could've possibly served in Germany during the Cold War.
😢 Thank you all for doing this, I don't have my parents anymore, and I'm was crying when you were able to get these two to hug each other! That's a start that they needed! I am disabled and I keep getting called by creeps from India, or Nicaragua, and they have my SSN, birthday, address, phone number, credit cards ( which they say they're from the fraud dept and they need the cvc) and my mom's last name!! They've tried all kinds of things to get money from me. They spoofed phone numbers so the FTC fraud department, homeland security, and FBI can't find them! My identity was stolen 6 years ago, and they ruined my life! My info is on the dark web because of the Equifax and Tmobile breaches. I pray that you can help these people!!
The irony of ignoring ‘spam risk’ calls while sending a quarter million dollars to a spammer.
I lol’ed when he said that.
I think he knows who’s calling.
Ikr 😂
😂😂😂
Yea the irony is palpable 😂
"It's easier to fool people than to convince them they have been fooled."
Mark Twain.....
Yes it certainly appears that way. I guess its hard for the person being fooled to admit theyve been had over
Ain’t that the truth!
Hands up if you got your covid jab.
Unreal quote
Why in the world would anybody send money to a person you’ve never met? The first time you are asked to get gift cards or send any money whatsoever, it’s a SCAM.
I’m convinced these people know deep down inside they are being scammed, but want the daily calls, the attention and enjoy living the lie.
I worked in an assisted living facility where a lady had vmbeen scammed abd the guy was sent to jail by her daughter. Well, she found a new one instantly. I was the hair stylist there. She told me, and I explained it was a scam. She DIDN'T WANT TO HEAR IT. She was fully normal I. Her mind. She was only in her 60's. She was in there because of her physical health. It is so sad to me that a person can be soooo LONELY.
Even as he was given proof the old fool didn't really want to know
@@robertsmith3672exactly. You’re taking their fantasy away. Young people do it too. It’s connected to technology, and lack of digital knowledge. They are paying for this fantasy, the monetary value only matters to those who are watching the victim spend it.
You can’t snatch this rug from under him so easily.
@robertsmith3672 I think that this jackass actually believed that the real woman's profile was the fake one and that she had stolen the scammer's pics. He will just find another Nigerian lad to start sending money to because he is mentally ill and maybe even a little stupid. Definitely lacking common sense and an internal dialog.
Very true. We see demonstrations of this over and over with no end in sight.
It's absolutely astounding to me that this man will listen to a phone that states "spam detected" yet will not listen to his own kin and professional journalists who are telling him that he is being manipulated and ROBBED!
Wow... just wow!
Some people are just dumb
After seeing so many of these cases, I believe that they also get addicted to the thrill. The men feel like a movie hero, saving a damsel in distress & women believe to be in some kind of complicated & dramatic romance novel.
Everything BUT living in reality, all alone as a widower.
Very good point! 👍
@@cloroxbleach885 By today's metrics yes, but to be fair he did amass over 3 million dollars in his lifetime, which isn't much by today's standards... but he likely started that journey 65 plus years ago. So he wasn't a complete buffoon...
I believe things just move too fast for guys like this these days... that coupled by the obvious decompensation from old age and bam... here we are!
Maybe he needs a cleansing... bleach perhaps?! ;)
YES. IT IS UNBELIEVABLE! How do people have that much cash to burn? Especially on a total stranger?. Thousands of dollars. Look how many retired homeless veterans he could help.
Art and David in this one working together is top tier.
Thank you !😊
@@ArtKulik No, thank YOU brother. You're helping people that otherwise would have nobody to help them.
@@ArtKulikThank You.
I like them but the tall one is just blurping everything out to every random neighbor and person on the street. Why in the world would he talk so much and spill all details to every random neighbor of the the person he is investig. as a “invest.journalist”? That made no sense and the fact that his buddy didn’t tell him to stop telling all their info to every random stranger is just so weird. They only made it harder for themselves
I'm a 65 year old male. I have come to the realization that it is fulfilling to be by yourself.
Must be smart and strong in this society with so many predators and conmen.
If you are a "lonely heart", use the big head over the small one. Pick your family over perceived bullshit.
Well said 👍
Very well said.
@@billyhndrsn4542 Thank you
@@bstar4870 Thank you
this needs to be pinned
Wow, this old man had such a lot of money. He could have enjoyed his life, dinners, travels, parties with his family, visit his granddaughter in Germany, whatever. But instead he wants to give all his money to a strange lady. I hope I'll never get this confused when I'm old.
naked pictures got him all confused.
We found out that my sister's ex is a catfish using our dead brothers picture,he was caught and now in jail waiting for trial . If found guilty he has to repay all the people he scammed pay back the money , and serve prison time. His kids are grown and his helping the victims out .
Already he sold his two trucks ,his mobile home, his property, and his kids are helping the victims out. They too have found his bank accounts., they have disowned him as their father
I’m 74 and I’ll never d this. Recently widowed, and they’re coming out of the woodwork. I want nothing to do with these jokers!! On top of that, I love being alone!
@@kathybrem880I hope you’ll not always be alone though-there are wonderful REAL people out there, you just have to be suspicious all the time! Which is obviously awful. I’m in my 50s and been married for 35 yrs and if something happened, god forbid, I would not be with anyone else, but then never say never. ❤🇦🇺❤
@@kathybrem880it’s awesome you’re aware of these scammers. They’ve gotten so much more creative to the point young people are falling for their scams. It’s not always romance scams either.
I hope you have a good group of friends and family keeping your life interesting and fun and of course watching out for these crooks.
He’s not hearing a word they are telling him!!! He’s smitten, and refuses to accept he’s been scammed
Not the sharpest tool in the shed.
@@MarySmith-ym2ibmaybe some dimentia
That’s exactly my thoughts.
Why would you send money to somebody who showed you a bank account with 5 million dollars inside it?They don't need money...
You are so right.
The dad probably has some dementia and is not thinking logically
Lol right I have 10% of that y would you have to send
Well, just look at the many millions that continue to send a portion of their measly paychecks to a billionaire conman. Some People apparently enjoy getting scammed.
@@mjphadsellthey’re paying for an exciting fantasy; an adventure
The 84 year old is in too deep now. He CANT admit he was wrong. Too much pride.
😢
Ego😮
Jesus says, “Pride before the fall.”
Happens a lot with older people, unfortunately. At least his son has control now.
Poor old guy…lonely people are so vulnerable to these scams.😢 He possibly may be in the early stages of Alzheimers. At that stage patients are often in fierce denial. They are belligerent when confronted by family with evidence of possible dementia. It’s more than just “ego.”
I love this Belarusian guy. He's so passionate about his mission!
But he needs to get his facts straight. He keeps stating the wrong people, the wrong places, the wrong amounts....etc. But yea entertaining.
no he just wants to feel important .. all i saw in this video is people who want to be front row in the drama . they laugh bit too much and also include bit too personal calls . im all in for what they are doing and good thing they are but i see why they are doing it.
A Conservatorship is bullshit, but you are not talking to Lissa but someone from Africa. They have you send money to someone else because they want there to be proof that you were doing everything not them. I hope you are doing screen shots of your conversation. I know this is what is happening because I was used as a person to receive money from others to turn into bitcoin and send the bit coin to the person who supposedly loved me.
@@spl0ink3rt88I don’t like how they hammer on him relentlessly
Russian…he’s from Russia not Belarus
This 85 year old man needs to realize that his money needs to last him for a while. Suppose he lives well into his 90s and needs to go to an assisted living place/nursing home? Well, with no money, he can't do that! All the burden will be placed on his children because he has sent all his money to someone he has never met!
That's why I 100% understand his son. It's not about greed. His son just want to prevent that his dad's week mind and hornyness ruin his family in the future.
I suspect he’s fine with putting the burden on his family.
Alan, *all abusers isolate their victims.* Please listen to these guys, they’re the pros. They’re not benefitting in *any* way from assisting you.
its not about abuse ..his family cut him off from all gatherings not the scammers
You realize that he isn't reading this, right?
yeah its sad both sides are in the wrong here IMO. he straight up admits to pushing his elderly father he is so angry about this you can tell he just wants the money to be his when his dad dies and doesn't actually care about the abuse he is experiencing. you love your family and support them even when they're failing you it is when our family is failing they need us most.@@hectik0074
Yeah..... his son is an abuser! He cut him off from all his grandkids just to try to make him change his mind... im sooo sick of hearing this stupid selfish son ready to break his dad bones to make him stop spending money that coule pay his mortgage! I hope dad is planing a big last trip in LA!
@@sarita10001Yeah, the son is definitely waiting on dad to pass away so he can get his hands on that money and the Porsche. He could cut his son out of the will. Leave it to his other kid and grandkids. I can’t believe he pushed his dad and broke a rib. You don’t push, or hit, a parent, kids or women. Everything is about money with that family. It was dysfunctional before this. I wonder if he sued the heated blanket manufacturer?
I used to work at a bank and there was nothing more frustrating than knowing an elderly customer was being scammed and there was nothing we could do except block the transactions. One in particular didn’t have her husband or kids on the account so we couldn’t warn them of what was happening. We ultimately had to drop her as a customer because she became a liability and didn’t understand that she would be responsible for paying the money she was trying to send these scammers. She was the sweetest lady but she just couldn’t accept that she was being scammed. 😞
In cases like this, you can get the local police involved!!!!
Your hands were tied but you have a big
I’m crying my eyes out here too. God what I wouldn’t give to get a hug from my dad. He was stolen from us at age 47 from leukemia. From diagnosis to death he only made it 4 months and 3 weeks. Love your family people. We are never guaranteed tomorrow.
Lost my dad of heart attack when I was a baby and mother with leukemia when I was 10. Feel ya! ♥️
Dang it. Now I'm crying after reading your story.❤ 🫂
Not all fathers are worth love.
@@martinpennaste I’m so sorry to hear that. I can’t begin to imagine what you’ve been through. My heart goes out to you.
@@bhairavi-maa ♥️
These criminals scamming vulnerable people are too wicked. 😢😢😢
They need to be jailed for life
Vulnerable narcissistic person.
I cannot imagine asking someone i DO know for money, let alone someone i do not know & for THAT much money! Some ppl are so heartless & so skeezy!!
Only 2 weeks after losing his wife he went for a romance scammer. That was fast
When my mom passed my step dad dated faster than we were expecting and it caused huge issues.
Sometimes men don't know how to be alone after long marriages
Yes, esspecialy most of merried men have affairs, so it's not difficult to swich to somebodyelse for them.
Took him so much time to prepare the blanket, so he had no more time to lose after...
@Tim.O.Brauer at that part I was yelling at the TV "go get your wife!!!!"
Remember he is a soldier he not guna waste time if he can help it and with the internet things are just a click away
I still don't think he believes it! He said "should I confront her?" There is no HER!
I know, right? And as much as I feel for Alan’s lonliness and his need for a relationship…. no elderly man wants a “babushca.” What he WANTS is the 55 yr-old blonde chickie who sends him nude pix.
👴🏻💔🤦♀️
Right. He doesn't get it, but also, the hosta should have explained better that a scammer stole this woman in Arizona identity. Clearly, this old man is not too smart or should I say it doesn't have a common sense
@@brendaredmond4678 her is a he from Nigerian scammer
It's probably a scammer man from Nigeria
OMG! He's 84 years old. He needs all his money to pay for a nursing home stay. He doesn't have enough to be spending on women he's never met in person. Crazy.
I’m so impressed that father and son took David’s advice and are doing counseling 👍🏼 I hope they can heal their relationship
It will never be the same. Especially if his son looks at the fire the same as us.
the son is only looking at the 1.5 million , that is his ONLY concern- @@PatriciaTennery
No, the dad will never regain the son's respect at all.
The son just Radiates rage- He’s justifiably frustrated- but even after counseling, you can sense he’s just FUMING and ready to spill his story like lava from a volcano.
These catfish hunters have all my respect and appreciation.
What is scarier than a 6'5 Belarusian who has a "certain set of skills" knocking on your door asking about wire transfers, amazing video
Well… he’s not hard to look at either 😉
I’m always scared Art will go too far and get himself in trouble with his paws 🫣 but in this one it was his mouth! Art don’t tell everyone everything when you knock at their door! You might get some litigious crazy person who doesn’t understand your wonderful lingo and your wonderful attitude to help!
BUT I loved seeing your sensitive side about your dad! Made me 😢 &think about spending more time with my dad. Time with your parents if you have them and are good people is so precious!
So true I lost my Daddy about 2years ago unexpected it crushed us my parents had been married 6oyrs when he passed he had turned 80years old on 2/25 he passed on my Mommy birthday 4/28 it was a bitter sweet day. He was the one he kept family together. He was family oriented, did not have outside friends, his family was more important to him he always wanted us to do things and go places he loved fishings and hunting, if there was a issue he had us talk it out he did not like drama he was funny and so and kind. he was a supervisor for the Social Security Administration he retired from there when he was 76 years old. He and my Mommy were very clos. They rode into work every day, and they worked together but on different floors! She retired before he did due to heart condition.
We are from Texas, so we moved from there to Alexandria, Virginia, due to a job promotion!
We miss him so much that it still hurts so much!
I know my Mommy misses him a well!
Think about it. It's the way God wants a marriage to be to until according to your vows!
He's a beautiful man.
But I was alarmed at his views on how one teaches youngsters, especially when he said there's a time for the BELT (what ???) and a time for the doughnuts.
Pffffff, I was thinking the same thing. Good on ya mate :-)
Jesus thats really upsets me they know deep down they are being scammed yet still ask other ppl for 40 freaking thousand dollars when they have no way to pay that person back. That makes me sick.
I would be so angry about him asking someone else for $40,000!!! That’s ridiculous!!! I’m mad and he’s not even my dad!!!
I feel so sorry for the son....his anxiety comes across strong....he is lost his dad..while he is still alive. This scammers are ruthless and despicable l. 😮
If MY house was on fire, the first person I’d grab is my child, then my wife, get out of the house and call 911. How can he be outside not knowing where his wife was? Wtf? Very fishy situation there.
Went to get 2 fire extinguishers that didn't work...then you know gave up and left her to it.
Horrendous
Stressful situation, wanting to save all your belongings and house. You wouldn’t think your family would go to where the fire is, especially when you are that old and have likely mentally declined
Spot on. My point exactly. Where is my wife??
that whole family is all outta wack
@RowdyLowdy Yeah, sounds fishy to me as well. The way Allen said his wife was "K****d" is troubling to me. Then he collected the life insurance. Disgusting!
He is lucky enough to have someone who cares enough to get involved, many older people don't have that.
The son is only protecting the money because he wants it point blank period!!
@@luciennesmith5787well the son should get it instead of a scammer .. the point the blank and the period
or son want wants money, sort scanner out first get hiim top up credit card gets once a month....you say he lucky i am in same position minus lthe scam.....it awful having a son treat you like this heart breaking and using grandchild as black mail i knowt how he feels
I'm so glad he kept his daughters away from this old fool. He would have probably tried to get money from them too.
@@luciennesmith5787would you rather it go to the scammer?😂
It must be incredibly galling watching your inheritance going to a scammer ! I know the old boy has a right to spend his own money , but throwing it at a total criminal stranger is disgusting!
Absolutely
It's not his inheritance... Such a selfish way to look at it. I hope my parents spend every last cent living their life to the maximum (not on scammers obviously)
@@danwiggins2008 You must not have any children. Any good parent wants to leave an inheritance for his/her children. Not every parent can but certainly want to do so. It's NOT selfish for this man to not want money due him to go to scammers. This is the same mentality as the folks in NYC and Chicago. They want to throw free housing, food and resources to illegals, rather than provide for the citizen who've paid taxes.
@@jdstep97 from the psrents point of view yes. But the comment i replied referred to it is "your inheritance" like you've earned it or deserve it. And no, I have no kids, but I don't want any of my parents money when they go either. Live it up folks, blow it on a fun time
Wow inheritance is what it’s all about? The son sounds like it is only to protect his fathers money for his father so he has money to live and spend and his fathers heart not to get broken. If it’s for greed because they think they won’t get the money as their inheritance after he dies is sick. “Money DUE him? (Meaning the son). Sheesh. The fathers money, his life earnings,he can spend (on himself) all he wants. I already told my kids, we will not have much if any left after we are gone. We had to pay a lot while raising them and struggled so hard. Often charging food. Reasons were because we helped my son’s family out and they lived with us. It was such hard times. We are finally empty nesters and are enjoying the life we NEVER had until now. Finally can vacation, go out to dinner, travel a lot, fix up our home, fun cars. So yeah this man should be able to spend his money and not think he’s being selfish and spending his kids inheritance. What a privileged and selfish way to think you have a right to that. If you get it, be gracious and grateful. It sounds so “privileged” thinking you’re due an inheritance. If you don’t get any money, at least know your parents enjoyed their lives.
Hmmm…. Wife died in a house fire, got caught up in a scam within only 2 weeks of her in the grave… someone needs to investigate this death for real. Shits suss AF.
It made me question that very thing...hmmm
That was my first thought, very suspicious
Yes I agree very suspicious!!
Too right
Omg scary thought I pray it’s unrelated
Such an informative video. I was scammed years ago in a Romance scam exactly like this! It took me 13 years but I got my money back. Never again! What you all do here at Trilogy Media is a god send. Keep this going! Please! People need to know more about this!
Damn that's crazy. I'm very happy u finally got ur money back. My mom got caught up in one, her friend and another person they know also got caught up in the mess and all literally the same exact story in every case. My mom and her friend both are disabled and on ss so they don't have much money but when they aren't paying their bills and still lost a couple thousand dollars. I am so happy that ppl like trilogy media, scammer payback, social cat fish etc are out there trying to spread awareness and try to stop some of these ppl.
How does one fall for a romance scam 😂 sending money to someone on Skype without calling them?
Hey you lonely? Hahah
@@bennyskladventures8579 bro nobody gon hit you up 💀 dusty asl
I have men try and do it all the time to me. I'll be 58 next week and I'm single. They probably think that if I'm single and old I have money. I'm actually broke and not stupid enough to fall for it. I can see how people do though. I don't date because I'm not willing to jump right in bed with someone. So any of us older people with morals and are lonely could easily fall for it. These scammers are pros and know what to say. I'm just a pro at reading bs...lol
Oh my, poor Evan! I went from thinking he was a crook to wanting to give him big hug!
Trilogy and Social Catfish are true angels!
We've seen this quite a lot people being taken advantage of and made into mukes it's so sad
@dontwannaatellu me too - my mother-in-law fell for the Publisher's clearing house scam except we taught her NO MONEY & NO PERSONAL INFO goes out ever and thankfully she listened. They called her every day and she talked to them! That is, until I got a hold of them. They had her believing they were coming with balloons, a check, and a Mercedes in the color of her choice. They got nasty with her because we taught her you don't pay when you win and they wanted money! . Lol, we were lucky she listened to us
Yes, the work they do is amazing.
This old man is disgusting. He let his wife burn up, then wants to give away the farm…. I have a friend who is doing the same thing as him, with a scammer. Totally insane. And, this isn’t the first time. Every year there’s some scam.
I wonder if he was tired of his wife.
He’s not digesting. He’s sad and lonely.
@@sweetpea2839I thought the same. He wanted a younger woman now.
I agree - disgusting!
Vanity and ego and the belief that he couldn't possibly be wrong. That woman would never have even looked at him.
They need to take him to senior citizens dances and activities for people his age. Their are women his age who would really like him....same era so you can share memories of past days and be on an equal ground. A 50 year old isn't wife material for him...even in person, it's NURSE material.
The son has my full support and sympathy. Totally understand, it must be terrible.
I agree!
I feel for both of you the eldest have had his career as a soldier and veteran his entire life and suddenly he sits there without a wife. His granddaughters are not so dependent on him any more, maybe not coming over as much, he is aging and he feels how lonely he is, how quiet the big house is, and due to his career he is not showing much emotion. Soldiers don’t cry. He does not convey his vulnerability, his longing for a woman’s embrace, and it looks like his son very much is of the same type. Stubborn guys who pull themselves together and never dare to admit they have emotions or they have failed.
My bet is that there are YEARS AND YEARS of things to deal with in therapy, but they do not have that. They only have today. So they need to leave everything behind them. The past can’t be changed. Only today. They have to put a line in the sand. Let bad words, misunderstandings and past quarrels be there; in the past. Today is their first day. They know one thing; they love each other. Build on that.
What you guys need, because no one opens a door for a huge ass Russian dressed in black, is a woman who can play the role as innocent girl, business women etc. A lot more doors get opened if you look like you don’t belong in the slum, in a gang.
Absolutely!
Fuck yeah, dealt with this turd his whole life finally bouta get a check and he spends it on some RANDO 😂. That’s how my great grandpas is, spent all his money, for some crackhead, lived 2 minutes walking distance from my house growing up, prolly not getting anything from that old man
Edit: might start buttering him up since none of his other family/kids talk to him 😂😂
Thank you for enabling love and healing to this family. It is a gift that money cannot buy ❤
Thank you soooo much for your kind words and generosity!!!☺️👍
We must protect this man. I really hope his son can start treating him better with respect as a real person
Money can’t buy healing but it can buy destruction, as seen in the video.
@@landonmiles97oooh well said & too true. ✅
My dad is the same, he's married to my mum who is still here but he's starting to get dementia and believes anything he's told, i have to constantly remind him and my mum of the scams as they come out so they hopefully don't fall for them
He's not lonely. He went on a date with a real woman a week before this interview. If this was really about loneliness, he'd be pursuing a relationship with the real woman who he went on a date with. He's doing this because the scammer said they have a bunch of valuables tied up in customs and he's hoping for a big payout. That's literally one of the first things he talked about. It's not about loneliness, it's about greed.
He’s a savvy business man to acquire that much money over his lifetime
And kitty
Am an African and I can tell you there’s African jazz. I don’t believe it’s greed.Most of these African scammers use jazz and once someone is involved with them,it takes the grace of God to open your inner mind before they get all your money. The only thing is once they start asking for money,just block them straight.That’s the only safe thing to do.
@@Lordhavemercy410can you elaborate on what African jazz is?
I feel like it's a combination of excitement for a payout, excitement for the interest of a young attractive woman, and loneliness. All 3 coming together to make this mess.
I see this literally EVERY DAY where I work. Gerontological psychology is so misunderstood. I really feel for his son, who felt like he had no choice but to get a conservatorship (again, I see this all the time with my own clients), else his father would quite literally be homeless. I'm glad his son is pushing the issue, because I've seen family walk away from their elderly loved ones over this kind of thing, and it is absolutely heartbreaking.
It must be tough for the families though, because I’m sure for all their efforts they usually only get anger and resentment from their parents, not thanks or appreciation. Which is understandable but very sad.
I just don't understand how anybody can be taken for a scam like this. I'm 53 years old and I don't think that my psychology is going to change so much that I'm going to fall for some stupid s*** like this. To me the guy is just an idiot. And now he wants to save face which is the only reason why he's digging in
@@hannahreynolds7611
Very insightful 👏💯
Age makes someone more susceptible but is by no means a reason someone doesn’t get scammed.
My husband and I are both tech savvy and old school cool but recently we’ve had two attempts by scammers that were downright so believable to be terrifying. One had copied my Bank’s IVR system identically and the other used AI to generate a FaceTime call of someone I know in the flesh.
So yeah, we might not be old but these criminals have gotten creative to the point they can scam someone still in their 30s-50s. Anyone past retirement age wouldn’t stand a chance.
Wow thanks for sharing. I had no idea it was this high tech. @@brittanylevinson741
Such a stubborn old man. So sad that he got scammed, he could have spent that on his grandchildren’s education or towards a property for them.
I think it’s more the manipulation, this criminals know how to get to you.
Even on himself,and a family vacation.
But he has more pictures than that 🤩😛🤤👀
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I don’t think the son is biologically his, i see detachment.
@@yogs8374 or having a good quality life style with his love ones
300k? That's ridiculous. I don't blame the son. His father will end up homeless on this path.
It ended up being 800 k after 6mths contact with his scammer. Shocking!
@@deborahhenderson149😳😳😳 No fool like an old fool?
@@deborahhenderson149 that's even worse. If these people don't want their money, they can give it to me. Thats a house. 800k? Wow
why should he end up in the street if he doesnt have money .his family should take him in..
@@hectik0074 They shouldn't. He chose to give away a.moaf 1m dollars. He is grown man. His family shouldn't have to suffer because of him.
These are the same people that wont give a dollar to people they can see 😢 especially if its family.
Scammers don't care about the repercussions they cause in victims lives
They're life destroyers
Many have committed suicide the scammers don't care that when they die they will go to hell. Money is their god!
@@mulgakoldas2692Both my roommates are in jail right now bc of scammers..Which caused me to get new roommates for 2yrs. I'm on disability hence low income, no car, I'M STUCK!! Not what I planned and not just two months in one of the new rm got arrested.
Dear Lord God please Bless me with a vehicle in Jesus name I pray.
Art ,
I cried when you talked about your dad. This babuska loves you so much. I’m so proud of you guys for helping so many people. Keep shining. I love you. 💕
I thoroughly love Art. He shows his softer side in this. He's always been a defender with a quick wit in my head. Thank you again, for saving people.
Ashton is my RUclips crush for years now. He’s just so gorgeous.
Just want to say, thank you for helping people that's been scammed. These scammers don't have any conscience 😢
My mom was unfortunately scammed by someone posing as a government support agency supporting those in need. My mom is disabled and has been sick for about 10 years now. They isolated her with hopes of money so that she could provide me with things in my adulthood that she couldn't while raising me as a disabled single mother. These people stop at nothing and are so skilled in how they manipulate. I appreciate all of what you guys too and spreading it, or I don't know if I would have caught the signs. I can only hope she has cut out communication as I cannot look over her shoulder. She doesn't deserve that false hope on top of her illnesses. Again, thank you guys.
Why is she still trying to provide for you in your adulthood though? Shouldnt you provide for yourself by now ?
@@adammonahan687they used guilt. It's absolutely abhorrent.
Imagine trying to explain all the techniques the scammers use to an 80 year old
Lol
lol 😂lol 😂
Or to a 23 year old.
The precursors to the technology we have now were invented by people who are now 80+. My dad was one of the early tech pioneers and has kept up with all the advances in technology. You can't broadbrush all old people.
@@katfaerieI agree. Underestimate older people at one's own peril. I'm old asFand I've kept up with most tech, at least enough to not be a mark for scammers. Plus I can talk circles around most of these idiot scammers.
The only thing I have never kept informed of is anime. Start talking about Dragonball Z or any other bullshit Anime character, and I'm immediately 110 years old and deaf, and I'm likely asleep in a chair. I don't watch either, but I know more about bukkake than anime, only because I I've heard it's a thousand times more entertaining. ;)
He is a malignant narcissist. No one matters to him but himself. No tears about his long suffering wife dying in a horrific way. All about him-“I’m lonely”. He doesn’t care about a very nice son, daughter, and grandchildren. This is the first one of these shows I have no empathy for the victim.
I'm happy he got scammed
It’s called dementia, he is old , leave him alone
He’s not in his right mind.
I think these scams should be in constant circulation as PSAs! Billboards, local television, streaming, newspapers-all of it. The lack of awareness is why people keep doing this.
They have it on a sign at customer service in one of my Walmarts. It’s not enough.
They are but loneliness is so powerful it will blind the smartest ppl
Not really, it more of fantasy of type of person who thought never will have chance with suddently want them, most know but just dint want to acknowledge this fantasy.
Definitely not “The Notebook” ending. The son is scarred from his father’s behavior and the dad remains defiant. I hope we get updates on these videos.
My mother gambled all her savings plus my money dad had left me after his death. Never touched my brother’s trusts though. I didn’t keep one thing of hers my brothers gave me-in the dumpster it all went
I usually watch these videos for entertainment but this one made me cry so bad 😢 I lost my dad recently .Love and appreciate your parents , they are not on Earth forever
You wouldn't feel the same way if my mother had raised you trust me. Malignant Narcissist mommy
My heart goes out to these lonely individuals, who are just trying to find love again. While it doesn't make sense to us, why they do this, other than it being an emotional attack. Like the lady you helped, that even though you guys produced all the evidence to her, she still tried to justify that this person was real, and she still sent money. You guys are a blessing for victims, but you can only help those who want to be helped. Much luck to you moving forward.
The guy needs a conservator. He’d be out a million dollars if he hadn’t had one.
Yeah, right, a conservator to steal all his money and property. Three lawyers in my county were working as conservators and were recently arrested for stealing their clients' money and properties. They were so egregious that they would even look for very old people who were living alone and manipulate them into moving into an assisted living facility saying they were no longer safe living in their home. They go get a court order and as soon as the homeowners were out they steal everything they could. These lawyers had cohorts in every department which needed to sign any papers to facilitate the victimization of these old folks. They were only caught when one of the couples they victimized had a daughter who was actually visiting them once a week. She visited them one day and they were gone. This daughter also happened to be a lawyer. Goodness knows how many millions they had stolen before they were caught. My friend told me since I am old, I should work with a financial advisor who's a fiduciary. My reply to him was, "Right. I know Madoff was a fiduciary and look what he did to all his victims".
Another stupid comment
The correct thing would be a guardianship
@@Unholy187You’re absolutely correct, and it should be his son. However a doctor (actually 2 doctors) would have to diagnose him “no capacity” & like they said, he’s “healthy”. So it sounds like his son tried going that route, but his Dad is sharp & knows what he’s doing. It’s sad….he shouldn’t have the internet.
@@cecillec2331Lawyer turned scammer :(
I am 83 and have heard so many horror stories from children and families very much like this one. Alan was fortunate indeed to have such a fine son, and a dedicated team of people to prove the case. I'm sure it's very hard on Alan to accept the truth and give up his dream fantasy, and I'm very sorry for him. Great job, fellows
I am so happy that you’re here watching these sorts videos so that you’re aware & knowledgeable in of all of this. It hurts my heart that elderly people get taken advantage of so often. God bless you for staying ahead before this happens to someone you know, or god forbid yourself. ❤️
@@gabriellef😊
More emotion displayed for the scammer than the wife.
I noticed that as well
Plus why didn't he get her straight out of the house rather than looking out for the fire brigade?
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He was probably a cheater all of his life. He seems like a narcissist.
Yep.... went to wait for the fire truck while his wife was left inside
That fire……….. highly sus.
First thing I thought about when he said that.
I was thinking the same thing! They had him take her out for the inc money😢
It’s hard to feel sympathy for this guy. He thinks he’s the sharpest crayon in the box, and he’s so nasty, it’s hard to feel bad for him.
I feel sad , it is he’s money , he knows it’s fake but he’s untitled to throw his money away , i tell him dude go get women fron a bar , tell her you’ve been sending 33000 to scammer but if she wonts it come live with you & marry & you can spend all your dosh on her instead & get control back of finances cause your son can’t argue with ya new wife from the pub ,there he so many sex workers that be up for it , go hit them up , & get some loving for your money , or go to church & let god fill you with his love & help some homeless kids with your coin . Your family can’t complain if you start giving money to kids on streets & please stay away fron this dudes fron Africa , u prob talking with a dude dude
I definitely don't.... So many ppl never master having this amount of money and for him to have an attitude and squander it it's hard to care
The son acts like the money is his.
The father actually can spend it as he wishes. The only drawback is he should be counseled as he may need that money for medical and burial costs.
@cheanarchist2381 the son is just concerned about the money he won't get.
@@solarlass5807yes he can spend it any how he wants , it’s what he’s spending on, absolutely no gain for him and what happens when he will eventually need hired help around the house and help him with activities of daily living (ADL)? It’s a good thing he has someone to look out for him to prevent financial abuse by strangers.
Trilogy Media and Social Catfish did a great job working together. I look forward to more collabs
They did another on a crazy racist named Jodi. Check for it. It's crazy and amazing. I also like these partnerships.
The amount and distance of wiggle room the scammers really take themselves too is pretty hilarious and aggravating at the same time. What little sacks of shit.
Thank you guys, this hits home for sure. Mom passed in 16 of cancer and my dad is living by himself in a house he can't really afford and maybe once a month he gets scammed and has to close a card or ask the bank to stop payment on something because he gets overdrawn. We have gotten in many verbal fights over the years. I'm only about a half hour into the episode but I already feel this will be my favorite thing you have ever done. Bless you.
My husband died 10;yrs ago . I live in a tiny town and never can meet a nice guy . Your father and I ought to meet 😊
There are no words... why are people so desperate that they believe these crazy stories, esp. when they haven't even met or spoken with them??? Madness. I'm with the son!
300k would make anyone become physically aggressive. That's an astronomical amount of money.
Not really.
300k is nothing today. Can’t even buy an apartment in my town
There is no amount of money that excuses putting your hands on your parents....
@@Voidakenso if you had a job offer where you’d make 300k a year, you wouldn’t take it?
@@zh0re59 I've already turned down such an offer. You have to look at more than just the salary to a job offer.
Good for Allen’s son. We have to protect our elderly parents.
You cant protect people from themselves.
@@MrSouthernlordone can try
What even is “ family money “ parents owe you nothing. This son annoys me, I get looking out for your parents but he’s doing this because he thinks his dad owes him something 🧐
@@roux2689 did the son ever question his father how strange his story is? while he was waiting for the fireman 👨🚒 while his mother was burning 🔥 in the bed???
@@jessicafalk5760 you're right, just like children dont owe their parents anything. But older people get very mad when we play by the same rules you gave us
So odd that Alan kept referring to the death of his wife, in “A” house fire. Most people would’ve said I lost my wife when “our” house caught fire….. it’s almost as if he emotionally separated himself from the situation.
Why pick on this detail? So what!?
I thought so too. I think the whole romance scam in general serves the purpose of distracting him from really dealing with his trauma.
it just his grammer
It’s okay if he needs to separate himself from the fire. What trauma. What guilt.
The son mentioned at Catfish Scammer that the son thinks that the father is trying to avoid the grief. And having seen what it did to my grandmother, grief takes a lot out of people. Before she died she said that she just wanted to die so she could see her husband again, and that she felt stupid for going out to get a couple of groceries so they'd have food in the house. This man lost his spouse in a fire, I'm sure that messed with his head.
Poor fellow. Hes been through so much and is so heartbroken. These people who take advantage of the vulnerable have no idea how cruel is the damage they do
I hope the fire wasn’t suspicious and not linked to speaking to a scammer at that time. Surely there’s a reason he’s in deep denial. This screams suspicious.
I think that in a strange way he may be trying to make up for not “saving” his wife by trying to save this attractive “damsel in distress.” Like, a way to alleviate feelings of guilt.
@@Nurse_Kathy 1:22:23 Looking at the family picture he said his wife did not die, she was killed.
@@Nurse_Kathy 1:11:50 Apart of the naïveté of the father, his son acts like an asshole. The way he speaks to and of him does not come from love. This relationship was rigged a long time ago. The conflict is way much deeper. So much resentment.
@@Nurse_Kathy I think that man is afraid of his son.
Regarding the old man, I see two red flags. Why did he not insist that his wife come down the stairs to safety with him and they both could have waited for the firetruck. Also, as he is telling the story, he is nonchalantly scrolling on his phone. I got major narcissistic vibes from him.
I thought the same thing. And l got the bad vibes from Allen. Who waits for the fire truck when your wife is still in the house. He should be ashamed of himself for that. The universe is balancing
did his wife have an insurance policy?
@@sooofunny37exactly! That is extremely suspicious. Why would she stay in the room?
my thoughts also. why the heck the wife didnt follow him out of the house.
Episode of going to Negria !!! Can't wait to see.😊
The sadness that his Dad has caused by showing a stranger is more important than his own son is irreparable. For the son to know how selfish his father was to send m9ney to a stranger when he could have helped his son shows how many people are so deranged, the father is truly deranged,
I see it both ways....I don't think parents are obligated to give their kids money they have worked a lifetime for. It's HIS money. However, it's ridiculous to be giving 300,000 to a complete stranger. I would be donating to animals shelter or the homeless shelter. That's just me tho
@@mightymouse1005 the son is mostly interested in his inheritance, then using the grandkids as blackmail, nasty bit of work.
If my kids were more concerned about losing MY inheritance than being supportive and caring about me, I would spend every penny. Kids are not entitled to the parents money
I’m not sure he is worried about inheritance his father could live many more years and need that money, the son actually says this but accusing your son of assault because a stranger encouraged you to is something that I fear they will never get over, I’m not sure this old man is a very nice man, his wife of 51 years was just left behind in a burning house and he stayed outside, ah true love not!
I know exactly how his Son feels and I no longer have a Mother in her right mind, she says you will respect him and when you meet him you will know that he loves me. He told her that they are married because he drew up the paperwork. It's just so sickening.
Vladie the baddie he is so passionate about these poor people can you imagine having to come face to face with this giant all the scam team are amazing human beings❤️🇬🇧
It’s really so like dealing with an addict. I know exactly where the son is, he’s in that phase where he’s tried to reason with his dad and show him the (true) damage that’s being inflicted by the addiction. But then he’s getting rejected because his dad doesn’t want to hear it. I know exactly how he feels, infuriated and upset at the same time
This is a good comparison as people in the comments are judging the son for not allowing him to come to dinners and see the grandkids etc if a family member was a gambling addict or drug addict that you couldn’t get through too even if it was only affecting their own bank account you would do the same out of outrage, not wanting to normalise the addiction and in hopes that they would care enough to seek help for their addiction
I’m glad David addressed his pit sweat because that was possibly the most insane part of this whole video.
Lol. Thanks!
I just watched as it grew 😂😂😂😂
Stressful negotiations !
The old guys face was heating up too.
In this whole video that's what you saw smdh . Some of you are so. Critical over the small stuff amd not the big things
I must say, I'm also distracted by it but it's kinda manly ughhh
Art is such a beautiful soul and his presence is both thunderous and tender, a paradox of power and compassion. Truly one of a kind.
2 minutes in and I can already tell this old dude is a piece of work
According to his son, he was an honest and level-headed man before the scammers got to him. But he is awful, just a real pain.
Real
A cantancurous old fool
And when all is said and done he thinks about feeding his family.
I can't imagine dealing with losing his wife like he did, he blames himself for not going upstairs to get his wife.
Im about 10min and I agree. I feel bad for the son but happy hes there to get the father help
The old man even says its night time where she is so she wont see it for awhile....then 5 mins later this person is clicking on the link
This story really was so touching. 😢 Is was so sad to see how a SCAMMER'S GREED tore this family apart. I pray they get the counseling so they can rebuild their bond. You can see how much they love each other.
You guys are great, and your staff is, too. I'm in tears watching and listening. Like many older people, I understand being sucked in by scammers because of loneliness. You are educating the public & helping so many. From the bottom of my heart, I extend my thanks & appreciation.
You guys are heroes. I wish law enforcement was this committed to stop this crime!
Why for Heaven sake are the Authorities NOT INVOLVED THIS IS CRAZY AND SO DIABOLICAL AND TRAGIC 😢😢
It’s soooo crazy how far down the rabbit hole this all goes. Makes me so sad to see our elders being taken advantage of like this. Glad you guys are here to help and spread awareness. ❤
The sad thing is it isn't just elders. This feminist culture has broken even young men down so much that they simp in the most extreme ways desperate for even artificial female attention. 10% of men essentialy just have their endless pick of effortless casual sex. And social media has women that are 2/10 so gassed up that they think they're too good for guys on their level or higher because these top 10% males will sleep with them if it doesn't require any effort. So essentialy all men that are 1/10- like 5/10 are completely invisible to women unless they're able to make a connection through their job or social circle... and even when they do... it's basically doomed to fail because their significant other is constantly bombarded by better options they think they have a chance with.
The ultimate result is these pathetic dudes effectively willing to sell everything they own and crawl through glass just to get attention from some girl that's slept with more people in the past year than their mothers did over their entire life.
Truly truly sad.
All the porn obsessions and simping is rotting the brain of both the guys engaged in it... but also the women that are gassed up by it
i so understand his son frustration. I sense the old guy is not wanting to let his dream go. and isolating his children is his call we dont know their history major dysfunction going on. Something happened and we dont know to have him make the call to keep his daughters away. it is easy for those who are not living there pain to make judgements.
When you get to a certain age its best to hand over your finances to the children in case a situation like this happens.
All salesman are taught to sell a dream.
It's understandable anger, but it's also unhelpful and will their chances of mending the relationship if he doesn't let it go.
yep, kids, if your parent becomes a widow, get control of their finances, this stupid old man went looking 2 weeks after his wife was gone, that's just nasty, kids must have been so hurt by that@@Goorney
No matter how frustrated you get you don't hit your family you don't cut them out from your children. He helped the scammers by cutting him out and isolating him.
" I dont enjoy spending money where I don't need to spend money" WTF man.. you have got to be kidding me..
Dealing with a delusional elderly person is beyond frustrating. And it's so easy to lose your composure and temper. He doesn't want to hear anything from his son. Having to get a conservative ship or guardianship over a family member or spouse doesn't feel good.
He's seen her bank account that has over 2 million dollars but she needs his money, makes no sense.
She may not be delusional because he is old. Something happens mentally with these online scammers that pulls you in. It’s happens across the board.
Yup I had a guy on fb that almost got me. Same thing his story is hes a millionaire was going to Nigeria to open another company they held his money at the Nigerian border. Then he starts asking me to send him money because his child was sick with malaria. Right then I said screw this.
Loneliness is hard, when you have always been used to have your partner, your kids and then one day, you're on your own and you start looking for companionship in all the wrong places 😭😭💔
Man was on a dating app two weeks after losing his wife. Made me question if he caused the fire. I know he didn’t but it crossed my mind.
Absolutely and his son cutting him out of the family and his grand kids definitely did not help.
@@alanhinkel420I thought the same. Brought back some bitter memories too, because my father and mother were married for 17 years, she died of cancer when I was 15 years old, and my father was dating less than a month later. I understand being lonely, I am married and couldn't imagine losing her, but I ALSO couldn't imagine being with another person ever... It would have to take a lot of time, much more than 30 fu**ing days 🙄 I guess that loneliness is just insurmountable for some people 😔
There is no "right" amount of time before starting a new relationship though.. Yeah, 2 weeks, or a month, or whatever is rather sudden, but there's no actual number set in stone that's "appropriate" before trying to move on. He's already in his 80's and doesn't have a ton of time to begin with. He's lonely and wants companionship. Everyone's different and people cope in different ways. We shouldn't be so quick to judge. 👌
Yeah, tough
The Love of my life-my 89 grandad , whom passed 10 yrs ago told me, you can teach a young fool, cause he’s still learning . But you cannot teach an OLD fool who has
Learned nothing his WHOLE life….Damn😖😖😢😢!!
Art is so correct, I spread quite some tears watching that (and then watching again the full interviews in T+). My dad died when I was about 1 year old and mother when I was 10. So I can relate, take care of your loved ones until they are around, especially when they are from that time where editing images were not so easily doable... and AI is becoming a thing. I wish they will get together again peacefully, fck the money, maybe even can get some of it back 'cause of your good work, fingers crossed. Until limbs and mind works at this age and there is money (which of latter he was not concerned about at all) to do that - the world is open to different activities, everything from travelling to whatever. I am really glad and also still surprised that both approved it to be filmed and show the world what these scumbags can do to people and their families. Thank you! Hope it will have an update.
The son reminds me so much of my dad taking care of his parents. I feel so much for you man. Sending you love
how is he taking care of his elderly dad ?? by cutting his off all the family gatherings ??
i hope your dad treats his parents better then this pos
@@hectik0074this is indeed unfortunate. The son needs to forgive his father and move on from this mistake.. Its only then the relationship can begin to heal. ❤
@@hectik0074what are you talking about? The granddaughter didn't want him at her wedding because he's been lying to the whole family and creating chaos.
more like his family creating chaos they are all money hungry@@nineteenfortyeight
Well done everybody! I love both channels and it's so great to see you working together. What an emotional ride! Also, Art is so much more than muscle and a fast runner. He has such a good heart and has a real special way of talking to people. Love you all!
All very sad he actually thinks this woman is interested in him, soooo embarrassing
I lost my dad at 17 to cancer. This tore me up man...
I’m sorry to hear that .😞
I lost my dad when I was 6 to cancer
@@KK4KLI losing a father is an unmatched pain.
@@BushWookie603 yes it is.. my brother passed away from an motorcycle accident and watching his two kids grow up I see from a different point about losing a dad I see what I went through
I am sooo sorry.
PLEASE do a part 2 to this so we can see the justice done for these victims!
Never saw art so vulnerable and so attached. Thank you for mending a relationship. And telling its never too late.
It's not just the oldies that get caught out by these scammers. You can be vulnerable at any Age.. I suppose when you let down your guard they go in for the kill.. They look for the lonely at heart.
It's got nothing to do with age..
Be careful..
for everyone saying the son is a bad man is sad, i truly don’t think he meant to hurt him, older people are fragile and it was out of love. it could be selfish for financial reasons for his family, but at the same time, it’s mainly for his dad. that money is a lot, and he’s just explaining that his life would be changed with the money he was scammed out of but more so willingly sent to a stranger that was, what he thought to be, a woman he through loved him that he wanted to help, but could’ve sent that money to help his own son and granddaughters. i’m glad they helped him and i hope the man can get some of his money back. is there a go fund me for him?
His Son ought not count on that money! It’s ultimately his Father’s money!! I believe the son’s anger is more about losing his inheritance!! Probably, he borrowed money against this inheritance!
That’s the big issue!
The scammer getting his father’s money is a separate issue!
It is sad to see your parent lose all their money in their later years especially.
ART is a very deep person. I see a lot of sorrow in his eyes. He's a cool guy💗💗💗💗
Who is Art
The 6'5" Russian @@julieemery8963
@@julieemery8963art is the russian guy lol.
It’s crazy I know Allen, he wants love so bad. Malibu is gorgeous, the view of his home is majestic. I wonder if his turtle is still alive
He showed no emotion talking about his wife who died a horrific death from burns. And why wasn’t his priority to get her out of the house during the fire??
My best guess is dementia.
The tragic loss of his wife creates a type of unrealized trauma that needs to be addressed. He couldn't "save" her so the psychological switch in the brain of a person in this type of deeply masked grief with make him a prime target for these scammers to prey on that need to save the illusory romantic interest.
Between trauma, grief, age and a desperate level of loneliness his brain will stubbornly continue to try to save the "perceived" victim.
It's all very sad. 😢
@ what a lot of psycho babble crap
I haven't seen my family in many years, so I'm crying in a cafe right now. This is such a lovely family.
I feel the same way. It's so hard to get past some of the negative emotions. It really sucks. I really miss my family. Things got so messed up and time just goes by.
Me either... My family took my son n moved across the country without telling me n now pretend I don't exist anymore...
that's kinda sad now these days scammers can take down their lifes 😥
@@Fred_and_Brandy Kind of what happened to me. Things have been done to me I feel would be ignorant to forgive. Their behavior towards me would be comparable to animal cruelty. It's really tough because I have had zero justice and have a lot of unanswered questions.
@@Fred_and_BrandyI’m sorry that happened to u, and for the pain u are most likely still going through. It may not seem like much, but the universe tests us sometimes in the most horrible of ways. It’s after we have gone through those dark times that we see the light again, and then even greater blessings are brought to us. Stay strong and maintain the love for yourself u know u deserve, and u will be rewarded when the time is right! 😇
Son showed admirable restraint. When the father said “Don’t attack me again” (he knows darned well that the circumstances weren’t an “attack”), were I the son, I would have said “Don’t be so stupid again!”
Son gave him a head concussion, was an attack, he's old 😢
I agree, Lynn! And I'm old myself.
Two wrongs don’t make a right. Give up fighting. As long as you are defensive no one wins.
I PRAY TO GOD THAT THEY CATCH THESE SCAMMERS!! AND THAT ALLEN AND SON CAN REPAIR RELATIONSHIP. ❤
Amazing. I have a friend here in Melbourne, Australia who's mother has fallen to a similar scheme. Please continue to do the work you do. Sadly sometimes people need to be saved from themselves.
Holy shit I'm a grown ass man and I'm so upset im cryin to see this poor mans heart broken 💔 and his family nearly lost because of these scammers , lads you are as always amazing well done 💯❤🇨🇮
There's way, WAY more going on than a scam.
what do you mean? about the conservatorship stuff with his son?@enfortyeight6762
It makes me so sad seeing how much this grandfather was taken advantage of both by his son and his scammer. Abused by all sides :(
@@dontwannaatellu his son loves him he's not a scammer!
@@carebear1731 I'm not saying the sons a scammer lol I'm upset about how his son never once cared about how his dad felt his that his money was wasted