It is healthy. After all, crying is a natural reaction. But a "man up" attitude isn't always bad either. Sometimes we need to stop emotion from getting in our way.
@@ironclad-m3q sure it isnt, you probably meant something like not letting your emotions control you but the "man up" talk and just repressing your emotions is pretty toxic and thats what the conversation is about. Its how you phrase things.
@@duckling4073 Just like anything in life, I'm not taking the man up thing as a whole, not as black nor white. Only parts that I think make sense. I think I already made it clear which part in my first comment.
I kind of wonder what guys say about getting hit to the groin versus geting hit to the nose. Honestly, as a woman, getting hit between the legs hurts like crazy. But I'd say nose is worse, knee almost dislocating feels equally bad, a nail flipping or the not normal period pains that send us to the ground .... when it comes to all humans then we can all relate to many terrible pains. The one reason why "ball to groin" stands out as "special", appears to be, that it's an instance where we socially agreed on men/boys having explicit permision to display pain in public and receiving public compassion without it (feeling AND receiving compassion) being framed as "weakness". Aka a remnant of so called "toxic masculinity" principles (or rather "unhealed masculine" principles). In future, the reactions will hopefully be caring and compassionate no matter who gets hurt where and under what circumstances!
As a guy who has been punched in the balls several times, along with punched in the nose/headbutt in the nose a few times, getting punched in the balls hurts way more than anything to the nose. Breaking my nose and deviating my septum ultimately hurt less than getting punched in the balls. There’s been a few times where I’ve gotten hot and cold flashes from it and it feels like my entire body is empty at the same time. Kind of contradicting the feeling of the body being empty, at the same time it feels like this constant lingering pain that refuses to go away after the initial strike to the balls. The majority of the time though, any sort of hit to that area, light or not, will illicit that lingering effect down there in that general area afterwards. To be fair though, they were some very accurate nut shots, and I’m not sure if anyone else I know has experienced the hot and cold flashes before.
I think the elders ask about marriage because they hope to witness it, not because to pressure anyone. I wish my grandparents could have been at my wedding. Missed them.
The guys answered like how most of us guys even here in the U.S react about that stuff. So it's not surprising how they were able to explain it with nothing too explicit, but they still did it good.
4:29 as a man. Getting hit in the balls is terrible. When you get hit the pain not only is in the balls part but the abdomen, balls, chest. It knocks the wind out of you. Immense pain you can’t breathe or talk. It’s like a kill switch for men.
i spent the whole video thinking that hanseul was super cute... maybe because of the sweater covering his hands, or him covering his face when laughing... really cute guy
Lol to me these three handled this perfectly...with maturity and humour...which helps flow of discussion Mind you I'd like to experience what it's like as a fella for a few weeks, I feel they have life far easier with everything, haha! 😎 Is there pressure for marriage? It's not for everyone 👍👍. Sweet video thou ❤️❤️
I hate the “When are you getting married?” question so much! So in years of being asked that by elders “When God will let me know you'll be the first to find out through a wedding invitation. OK?” They just stop after that. 😁 I'm Eastern European by the way.
but it also hurts girls a lot , when they get hit in this place , ask the gymnasts ,when they fall on the beam .There is not much flesh, it is a blow to the bones, think of a kick in the shin, and transpose it to this place
I'm curious because I'm not used to it, when someone asks you how old you are do you give the Korean age or international age? I recently found out the difference and realized how often age comes up in shows and I'm trying to learn. Ty.
Being a male in the U.S.A. I have been asked many times by girls. "Why are you not crying?" As for trying to get women to understand what it is like to be hit in the testicles. I tell them to imagine their breasts were shrunk to the size of a walnut but they still had the same number of nerves in them. Then place them between your legs in a very fragile bag that doesn't stay in one place.
Honestly getting hit in the boobs is already plenty painful. And given that getting kicked in the nuts is said to be a shorter équivalant of giving birth... I feel se bad for you guys. That's bad
That first one is bout morning wood. It's like an antenna that helps you with dreams or sleep, so when you wake up it would still be hard. Also when you go pee it would cause an issue since some random reason will prevent you from peeing normally. 6:15 he's holding in a fart next to the pretty girl lmaooo
@@Rezzmari thats why the expression that guys have "All his blood went to his dick than his brain, thats why he did dumb shit" happened XD But yeah, the reason why it gets hard is because everything gets tense there and the blood flow will increase. Thats why guys pass out after the release happens sometimes. I've been mostly tired after so its not out of the realm of possibility XD
I empathise with guys who get hit where they shouldn’t…I cannot imagine the level or extent of pain but it makes me cringe…I’ve never found them getting hit there funny, but unfortunately we’ve normalised laughing at such situations so much.
The whole boys aren't supposed to cry because they're men is just downright stupid. We're all humans! We have emotions and if that's a problem in your eyes, that sounds like a you problem.
Well I have seen the men around me cry as much as the women so for me i find it pretty ridiculously foreign idea. I don't know if in foreign countries men crying is actually a thing
Guess what, people are different and it's nonsense to force them through the same system on a superficial filter basis like gender. Especially if htat system is a crazy inflexible type. So being forced to interrupt careers and any life situation just cause you meet the critera "male" plus "x age" (
@@KxNOxUTA ight then maybe they should make some changes into the system. don't know excatly which all things have to change and how because i'm not a politician but it would be a very expensive investment to make it completely volunteer. plus i also went through military service (and I was not asked if I want to join or not)
@@LeinoSmaul they are literally still at war with a country that threatens to blow them up I don't think they can scrap or change it. They did decrease the time tho but it's not optional for them they give up their early 20s to go serve
@@likhwezititus yea I know they can't just change the whole thing around bc I also went through mandatory service and didn't think it was that bad. i think literally the only thing they have to change is the way they treat people there.
I'm a woman and men have it way harder, most women live life for free an easy becaus emen have to do all the hard work, that is also true in Korea, pretty much the entire world besides the islamic countries where women get stoned to death till this day.
Life is easy for girls who are free and stay at home and have men take their responsibilities but life is a lot lot more harder, even harder than men, for women who live by themselves and dont depend on any men, who have dreams and ambitions and work hard towards fulfilling them , because they are judged and questioned and restricted in every step they take. People will always try to put them down as people don't like to see strong women with confidence. But those who are strong will fight their way up regardless
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This group is so comfortable talking about these kinds of things 😅
Me and my gang too😂
Me and best friends
She looks like the actress from mr.queen
@Kepler 186-F hello
@Kepler 186-F I am fine you.?
@Kepler 186-F great...
Gotta love Hyeni, there would never be a dull moment with her around.
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Saebom and Hanseul exposing them selfs without thinking, they are officially awesome family!
the way Hanseul speaks...is just on point...without making things awkward...This trio hits!!!!!!!!👏👏
Hyeni is such a good reactor.
Definitely would watch her if she have her own channel.
I never knew there was such a thing known as good *reactor* 💀
@@rbhhndw2669 you must be living under a rock then.
@@ironclad-m3q maybe in the future there will be courses on,
How to be a good reactor. Lol 💀
@@rbhhndw2669 Maybe there should be, given how dilemmatic things have been with reaction videos recently.
Watching the two boys flinch when Hyeni demanded *"How much do you love me?!"* was the highlight of my day 😹
HanSeul's voice is so deep and wonderful 😍
I saw hyeni and immediately clicked! One of my favorite girls 🥺
Love this group!!! Soooo funny and so honest and that coffee drip explanation was amazing and will stick with me for life ❤😂
Such a smooth epi!! Not even an awkward single moment!!! Loved it!! ❤️🔥❤️🔥👍🏼✨
It's lot more hilarious when you understand the meme and others speak about it innocently 😂
I know that everyone will be comfortable with Hyeni.. The boys look more comfortable with her than others fr.
Not gonna lie, I cried on a tram when Dreamcatcher won their first music show. I'm a grown man. Crying is healthy you guys. F the haters. :-)
It is healthy. After all, crying is a natural reaction.
But a "man up" attitude isn't always bad either. Sometimes we need to stop emotion from getting in our way.
@@ironclad-m3q tf
@@duckling4073 world isn't just black and white bro
@@ironclad-m3q sure it isnt, you probably meant something like not letting your emotions control you but the "man up" talk and just repressing your emotions is pretty toxic and thats what the conversation is about. Its how you phrase things.
@@duckling4073 Just like anything in life, I'm not taking the man up thing as a whole, not as black nor white. Only parts that I think make sense.
I think I already made it clear which part in my first comment.
I kind of wonder what guys say about getting hit to the groin versus geting hit to the nose. Honestly, as a woman, getting hit between the legs hurts like crazy. But I'd say nose is worse, knee almost dislocating feels equally bad, a nail flipping or the not normal period pains that send us to the ground .... when it comes to all humans then we can all relate to many terrible pains.
The one reason why "ball to groin" stands out as "special", appears to be, that it's an instance where we socially agreed on men/boys having explicit permision to display pain in public and receiving public compassion without it (feeling AND receiving compassion) being framed as "weakness". Aka a remnant of so called "toxic masculinity" principles (or rather "unhealed masculine" principles).
In future, the reactions will hopefully be caring and compassionate no matter who gets hurt where and under what circumstances!
As a woman getting hit in the boobs hurts real bad too. I've never been hit in the crotch so I've no idea what that's like.
@@Rezzmari ah that can hurt so badly. Getting an elbow hit on your boob is so freaking painful. Like why???
As a guy who has been punched in the balls several times, along with punched in the nose/headbutt in the nose a few times, getting punched in the balls hurts way more than anything to the nose. Breaking my nose and deviating my septum ultimately hurt less than getting punched in the balls. There’s been a few times where I’ve gotten hot and cold flashes from it and it feels like my entire body is empty at the same time. Kind of contradicting the feeling of the body being empty, at the same time it feels like this constant lingering pain that refuses to go away after the initial strike to the balls. The majority of the time though, any sort of hit to that area, light or not, will illicit that lingering effect down there in that general area afterwards.
To be fair though, they were some very accurate nut shots, and I’m not sure if anyone else I know has experienced the hot and cold flashes before.
@@LoganBerg-ov8iu My friend, how come you are getting punched in the balls so often.
The fact that they both unconsciously crossed their legs when talking about getting hit in the goodies is cracking me up 😂
I think the elders ask about marriage because they hope to witness it, not because to pressure anyone. I wish my grandparents could have been at my wedding. Missed them.
The guys answered like how most of us guys even here in the U.S react about that stuff. So it's not surprising how they were able to explain it with nothing too explicit, but they still did it good.
The drivers license thing is so funny to me as someone from the U.S.!
4:29 as a man. Getting hit in the balls is terrible. When you get hit the pain not only is in the balls part but the abdomen, balls, chest. It knocks the wind out of you. Immense pain you can’t breathe or talk. It’s like a kill switch for men.
Nah i hit my crotch to the corner of a desk and it hurt like hell so i believe the pain is pretty much the same for boys and girls 🧐
i spent the whole video thinking that hanseul was super cute... maybe because of the sweater covering his hands, or him covering his face when laughing... really cute guy
Hyeni could be a kpop idol! She’s so pretty
I always love watching you three.
I really like this combination of people^^ maybe they could do a video with deep talk or something?^^ I think it would be nice ^^
Lol to me these three handled this perfectly...with maturity and humour...which helps flow of discussion
Mind you I'd like to experience what it's like as a fella for a few weeks, I feel they have life far easier with everything, haha! 😎
Is there pressure for marriage? It's not for everyone 👍👍. Sweet video thou ❤️❤️
I'm 21 but this kind of topic is nothing.. No need to be ashame of..
Can I just say how damn great he looks in this video… like gosh
Yes! "When I'm wealthy enough." I'll borrow this one the next time someone ask me.
"It depends upon the people" it's his favourite phrase
This group is just like my friends group,we just spit out everything and don't feel shy of anything 😂
They are a super fun group together ❤️
The Mergle sound from World of Warcraft at the start cracked me up.
I COMPLETELY agree with Hyeni on this on 9:00
the part where he said we emphasize the pain has me wheezing
Now it’s weird to watch coffee machine 😂😂😂😂
여보세요! So glad to have hyeni back again! Petition to have hyeni and heejae gang back again~~! 555
I hate the “When are you getting married?” question so much! So in years of being asked that by elders “When God will let me know you'll be the first to find out through a wedding invitation. OK?” They just stop after that. 😁
I'm Eastern European by the way.
My boyfriend and I are older than Hanseul wow! He also looks older than us, I’m surprised how mature he looks for his age.
I think they should make a video talking deeper about what each of them do.
The guy in black look like actress Park Jinjoo when he smiles 🥰
im not a guy but when a guy gets hurt there i also feel the pain lol
Where are you from?
@@keniawrights6022 I'm from bangladesh
@@amenaakter2303 And I already knew it because of your name lol. Iam also from BD
@@keniawrights6022 that's not my name it's my sisters name
@@amenaakter2303 woh it's okay
That girl is Nice . I like her smile and reaction, but I don’t understand all those things what show because they are true here❤
That white hoodie boy voice same like BTS jimin awww 🙈
It must have been cold in the studio while filming. Everyone was making sweater paws.
but it also hurts girls a lot , when they get hit in this place , ask the gymnasts ,when they fall on the beam .There is not much flesh, it is a blow to the bones, think of a kick in the shin, and transpose it to this place
I agree with Hyeni with "men can't cry" bullsh!t
When I was born my parents told me I didn’t even cry but I just stayed there staring
This was a good group. Very funny.
0:23 is that the World of Warcraft Murloc noise??? why
I'm curious because I'm not used to it, when someone asks you how old you are do you give the Korean age or international age? I recently found out the difference and realized how often age comes up in shows and I'm trying to learn. Ty.
HanSeul looks so familiar. maybe he was on here before. not sure. This was a great episode. I'm happy the three castmates were so involved
I think now I will not be able to drink coffee again ☕️
Being a male in the U.S.A. I have been asked many times by girls. "Why are you not crying?"
As for trying to get women to understand what it is like to be hit in the testicles. I tell them to imagine their breasts were shrunk to the size of a walnut but they still had the same number of nerves in them. Then place them between your legs in a very fragile bag that doesn't stay in one place.
Honestly getting hit in the boobs is already plenty painful. And given that getting kicked in the nuts is said to be a shorter équivalant of giving birth... I feel se bad for you guys. That's bad
I want the same sweatshirt as the guy in black. Where can i get it?
HANSEUL LOOKS LIKE LEE MIN-HO THE ACTOR IN HEIRS OR THE MALE LEAD FROM KING THE LAND
Is that hyeni's real eye colour? It's beautiful
is that KSI's laugh at 4:34 ? LMAO
0:35 ❤❤
4:00, getting hit in the balls is the same numbing pain as girls when she gets stinging menstrual cramps. same areas, tons of nerve endings
That first one is bout morning wood. It's like an antenna that helps you with dreams or sleep, so when you wake up it would still be hard. Also when you go pee it would cause an issue since some random reason will prevent you from peeing normally.
6:15 he's holding in a fart next to the pretty girl lmaooo
I'm not a man but I always thought it was because blood rushes down there upon waking is why it is hard.
@@Rezzmari thats why the expression that guys have "All his blood went to his dick than his brain, thats why he did dumb shit" happened XD
But yeah, the reason why it gets hard is because everything gets tense there and the blood flow will increase. Thats why guys pass out after the release happens sometimes. I've been mostly tired after so its not out of the realm of possibility XD
Like the guy in black so real
Should keep the meme longer on screen. Had to pause a lot or return to actually see/read everything
Amazing 😍
U guys lovk the door of your room 😭
Saebom was the Friend of a youtuber called Kim miso
I empathise with guys who get hit where they shouldn’t…I cannot imagine the level or extent of pain but it makes me cringe…I’ve never found them getting hit there funny, but unfortunately we’ve normalised laughing at such situations so much.
Wow SECOND 💃💃💃
I came for the thumbnail 👀😆😆
Where is the thumbnail meme in the video? 😳
@@yummiechox Well if you're new here, you'll find most of the thumbnails just clickbaits😂
Can we get a reaction to African musician (Burna boy) please 🙏
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They are so cute.
Saebom...He looks like a guy from Produce × 101
me being a girl and understanding it all
Can anyone tell me what is the name of this group?! I'm actually confused 😅
Okay guys where is byungeun ???????? He doesn't seem to come in the videos wht happened
I'm not a guy but I understand 😭😭
Hyeni, you are so cute!!
Heejae , byungeun , sungwoo era was THE best era
Thumbnail is clickbait they never showed it i mean the question if accidentally girl touched boys leg it's a trauma for me.
If you're a regular viewer you'll know, if you're new, their thumbnails are mostly clickbaits😂
@@sneha-7 regular one🤣
The avatar state when men are strongest but also the most vulnerable.
Can understand her!!
The whole boys aren't supposed to cry because they're men is just downright stupid. We're all humans! We have emotions and if that's a problem in your eyes, that sounds like a you problem.
Well I have seen the men around me cry as much as the women so for me i find it pretty ridiculously foreign idea. I don't know if in foreign countries men crying is actually a thing
Hilarious ^^
I still don't understand the first one
999k subscribers 😂
Hye-Ni kinda looks like Shin Hye-Sun.
not only men. like genitals don't determine someones gender etc.
God 🙏🙏 is coming back repent now before it's too late
That guy is making that face because he’s sitting next to a girl.
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I think women pains are more related to them not knowing how to take care of themselves when they are younger.
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Someone please explain me how the mandatory military service in korea makes life any harder
Guess what, people are different and it's nonsense to force them through the same system on a superficial filter basis like gender. Especially if htat system is a crazy inflexible type. So being forced to interrupt careers and any life situation just cause you meet the critera "male" plus "x age" (
@@KxNOxUTA ight then maybe they should make some changes into the system. don't know excatly which all things have to change and how because i'm not a politician but it would be a very expensive investment to make it completely volunteer. plus i also went through military service (and I was not asked if I want to join or not)
@@LeinoSmaul they are literally still at war with a country that threatens to blow them up I don't think they can scrap or change it. They did decrease the time tho but it's not optional for them they give up their early 20s to go serve
@@likhwezititus yea I know they can't just change the whole thing around bc I also went through mandatory service and didn't think it was that bad. i think literally the only thing they have to change is the way they treat people there.
@@LeinoSmaul bullying, hierarchy and hazing is TERRIBLE in the korean military. You should research the drama DP.
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how did u manage to create a group where both guys are Way more attractive than a girl ? That is so impressive :)
I'm a woman and men have it way harder, most women live life for free an easy becaus emen have to do all the hard work, that is also true in Korea, pretty much the entire world besides the islamic countries where women get stoned to death till this day.
Life is easy for girls who are free and stay at home and have men take their responsibilities but life is a lot lot more harder, even harder than men, for women who live by themselves and dont depend on any men, who have dreams and ambitions and work hard towards fulfilling them , because they are judged and questioned and restricted in every step they take. People will always try to put them down as people don't like to see strong women with confidence. But those who are strong will fight their way up regardless