Farewell to My Super Taiwanese Grandma

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  • Опубликовано: 15 ноя 2024

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  • @JerrySaysCheese
    @JerrySaysCheese  Год назад +71

    #MySuperTaiwaneseGrandma (Continue from English version info section above)
    "Grandma just left. Come to the hospital." I was flying over the dark Pacific Ocean. The flight attendant woke me up with the meal service. I put on earphones, pressed the movie play button, and was about to eat when the intermittent United Airlines Wi-Fi suddenly connected and my phone's family group messages notified me unexpectedly.
    In early June, I booked a flight back to Taiwan from the US to take my grandma back to the hospital for regular check-ups and also change my visa. My grandma, who never liked hospitals, a week before my flight said that she was not feeling well and wanted to be hospitalized; two days before my flight she was diagnosed acute leukemia; half an hour before my flight I was still video-calling with her at the San Francisco airport, asking her to wait for me to come back; nonetheless, even Boeing 777 couldn’t catch up with grandma's hasty footsteps.
    “Grandma must have not wanted me to see her leaving,” I said to myself. So I put away my phone, let the movie continue, and finished my meal as if grandma told me not to waste food. Outside the window, the starry sky over the North Pacific Ocean was glittering. I looked around wondering if grandma had turned into one of the stars, shining down on me, caring for me, and escorting me back to Taiwan. All of a sudden, the light of the star blurred between my eyes, too misty for me to see the star that I thought represented my grandma.
    Pacing the long and endless underground corridors of the Taipei Second Funeral Parlor was actually a half-minute walk. When we reached the freezer area, grandma’s cache was slowly pulled out and suspended in the air. We took turns to climb up the wooden steps and whispered in her ear. "Grandma, I am back. We no longer want this sick body. You can go without any worries. We will take care of ourselves.” It was grandma’s mercy; my aunt said that grandma just didn't like to bother others - she went to the hospital to pass away and based on her death timing we go for prayers on Sundays so that we family don’t have to take leaves from work. On the day my aunt came back from Germany, she heard from my dad that grandma had come back once because there was an unusual amount of incense ash everywhere on the worship table at home. Grandma must have been concerned about my dad and my cousin; that’s what she always did in her daily life. "Will the incinerator burn the jade bracelet?" I asked the funeral director, looking at the jade bracelet in the bag of grandma's belongings, which was supposed to be cremated together, secretly hoping that it would not be burnt so that we could preserve it. "Jade is strong and glossy.” Because grandma's name has "Jade" in it, my brother and I chose a jade urn for her.
    My grandma, Chiang, Pao-Yu, was born in Sanxing Village, Luodong County, Taipei State in Japan Showa 10 and was given to another family as a child bride right after her birth. She had to work on the farm and eat at the mercy of others. She even witnessed the bombardment of warplanes and the bloodshed outside the air raid shelters in the World War II. At the age of 18, grandma escaped from her adoptive family with the help of a distant relative and came to Taipei, where she worked as a nanny in a suit store next to the Dadaocheng Daguangming Cinema, where she met grandpa, a Nationalist party soldier from Zhejiang who came to buy suits. Grandpa gambled a lot and was not even there when grandma went into labor. Grandpa, who died very young, left behind a huge gambling debt. The underground bank even kidnapped the child and threatened my grandma to bring the money to redeem the kid. Dad said that they had done all kinds of jobs like washing stairs and delivering newspapers. Even grandma brought her three kids to the river side and was about to jump into the river with kids tied up together; yet she did not at last. Now grandma should be proudly laughing at her hard-won herstory, shouldn't she?
    Grandma was illiterate - she could barely write her signature properly - yet she was always frugal, helped others with her virtue, and thus always attracted a lot of kind-hearted people to give her a hand at all critical stages of her life. I was always proud to hear grandma tell me about her early days when she worked tirelessly as a realtor all over Taiwan, and how she went from not having enough food to eat to being able to pay off grandpa's debts, and even buy houses in Taipei and raise up her children. When I was a naughty kid, I used to draw on grandma's floor plan papers. Grandma said “Eat a mouthful of rice from others; return a pipeful of rice to others” and she always talked about the favors done to her by some acquaintances in the early days. She taught me to be thankful and always look at the warmth and goodness of the society and inspired me to work hard to become a useful person to return the goodness to others.
    When I was little my parents always told me to not to take the pocket money from grandma, every time around several hundred dollars. Nine times out of ten I couldn't escape from accepting grandma's money. After my parents divorced and we became the registered low-income family, one time I went back for dinner and grandma took out the only one hundred dollar note and said guiltily, “My bad, grandma is now strapped. I can only give you one hundred dollar.” Nevertheless, I took the 100 dollars without any escapes this time. On the way home that night on the bus I couldn't help but cry. I thought, why did grandma apologize? Why did grandma feel it was her responsibility to give pocket money to her grandchildren? It must have been because of the suffering in your early years. That's why when we were in debt, you risked all your savings to help pay our debts and make sure we grandchildren could still eat and go to school.
    The hardships and wars of the early years have made grandma’s resilience, an invaluable asset that you have left to us. You have taught us the best by being open to challenges and down to earth yet with your obedience to fate. I am thankful to my Shi-Fu for the miraculous rescue of grandma when she was given a critical notice by the ER 8 years ago. It had let me steal 8 more years from the universe just to practice saying goodbye to my grandma one day, giving me more time to take your red packets for a few more years, to take you to a movie, to go to Sun Moon Lake together, to show her we brothers went from being under someone else’s roof to buying our own apartment, and to learn how to drive and take her around. Although in recent years you felt guilty that you could no longer cook our favorite dishes or teach me how to make rice dumplings, fortunately I was able to video-call and share my first rice dumplings I made with you in the US this June. These 8 years also allowed me to prove to you that your grandson is the best. I remember your smile when I told you that I got the offer from the biggest company in the world, or when I got admitted to the top university in the world. I am grateful to you for backing me up to reach the climax of the world, and I will carry your kindness and mercy as the energy to burn and shine for you in more corners of the world.
    These years, I either studied or worked in Europe, China, Singapore, the United States. I guess this should have been inherited from your gene that made you always travel everywhere, right? As the old saying goes, "Return home in fine clothes,” I always went back to Taiwan every three or four months during all the years of long distance. Thank you for never blaming me for flying farther and farther over the years. Every time when I left grandma's place, I would always look back to the third floor balcony and sometimes you would come out and wave your hand as if you were telling me to spread my wings and fly as high as I should freely. From now on, I don't have to look back anymore because you are herein residing in the bottom of my heart as my strongest citadel.
    Maybe because you were given away to the other family at birth or because of the traditional belief that when a woman gets married, you are someone else's, you have always been selfless and devoted to others in your life. But dear grandma, we want to say to you "You are not someone else’s; you are our super grandma.” Thank you for all these years for teaching us to be kind and gentle, thank you for giving me an elastic heart, and thank you for giving me a shelter for 30 years; what the invaluable grace. Please let me be your childish grandson again in the next life.
    We are proud our strong grandma was never infected with COVID. We believe this time you are voluntarily leaving with Buddha. These days we try to live our lives happily as usual, so that you can be less attached to this chaotic world and go to a better place with a carefree mind. Grandma, please remember to follow the fully-enlightened master to practice until you also get completely enlightened and benefit all sentient beings of the universe.
    This year Apple announced the very expensive Vision Pro. I was so looking forward to buying it next year to capture grandma's eternal moments with 3D recording, but grandma left first. No way till now grandma you are still reminding me to save money, aren’t you?
    Thanks for the great help from family and friends to my grandma along the way. Appreciate if you can share it or pray “Amitabha” to our grandma Chiang, Pao-Yu 🙏🏻

    • @georgelien
      @georgelien Год назад +1

      阿罵 好可愛哦 >__< 她終於可以去當菩薩了 (祝福她)

    • @gracemrsa
      @gracemrsa Год назад +1

      南無阿彌陀佛!😭😭😭

    • @marisa0603ful
      @marisa0603ful Год назад +1

      還好雖然見不到本人,至少有視訊!

    • @marisa0603ful
      @marisa0603ful Год назад +1

      The cremation part is not part of the video?

    • @pel-rq9cp
      @pel-rq9cp Год назад +1

      阿弥陀佛

  • @kevinngo640
    @kevinngo640 Год назад +20

    我的阿嬤在三年前就去世了,那時候的我還在外國留學,因為疫情原因無法回國,現在我每年回到家都會去阿嬤的房間坐一坐和說:阿嬤,我想你了。我感覺到阿嬤會在我旁邊看著我

  • @sweetpeabo
    @sweetpeabo Год назад +12

    看著默默流淚,上週五送走了大我爸爸20歲的二伯,他們那輩的人總是將家族的事看成自己的事,他幾乎是將我當成孫女在照顧著,將最小的弟弟也就是我爸當成兒子照顧,離開的三年前得了失智症,什麼他都忘了,卻只記得我家的路、我爸的事,真的好難過😭

    • @JerrySaysCheese
      @JerrySaysCheese  Год назад +1

      我們都要加油!給我們滿滿的愛成長的長輩們都好偉大❤️

  • @RyanRN-j1n
    @RyanRN-j1n Год назад +137

    幸好你在她生前留下很多影片跟照片,也有能力讓他驕傲,我之前有短暫在長照業工作過,我發現他們那個年代女性沒有自己,所以每次聊天的話題就是講述自己的孫子孫女有多棒,我相信你一定是他的驕傲也是她人生很重要的一部分,請節哀!

  • @珈0214
    @珈0214 Год назад +48

    阿嬤帶大的真的不能看😭阿嬤會一直旁邊陪你~不管你在哪裡,在多遠的地方阿嬤都會永遠保佑你!阿嬤現在健健康康的當小天使,阿嬤會不希望你難過~

  • @禾丰禾丰
    @禾丰禾丰 Год назад +153

    雖然新發佈的影片是無可避免的死別感傷!但我們真的要感謝阿媽的身教,把兒孫教育的如此優秀,正能量也間接觀看影片的我們...謝謝阿媽、謝謝Jerry。

    • @JerrySaysCheese
      @JerrySaysCheese  Год назад +5

      謝謝🙏🏻

    • @影影-d2n
      @影影-d2n Год назад +1

      很感人的影片,謝謝您的製作,有孫如此優秀,阿嬤一定深感驕傲!

  • @Usernamepeaceforever
    @Usernamepeaceforever Год назад +94

    我看到泣不成聲,謝謝你提醒我要多回去看看我的爺爺奶奶。希望你獲得安慰,媽媽在天之靈獲得很多庇佑跟祝福

  • @JUSTFORFUN32123
    @JUSTFORFUN32123 Год назад +65

    外派的人看不得這篇,但我還是看完了哭得不能自己...
    阿嬤在上面會好好的庇佑子孫,也祝昆一切順利安好

  • @kittyj8j
    @kittyj8j Год назад +13

    從頭哭到尾
    我也想念我的阿嬤
    從小媽媽工作忙小學前都是阿嬤照顧我的

  • @eagle16349
    @eagle16349 Год назад +33

    看了你超級阿嬤的一生,我也哭的淚流滿面了,我的超人老爸在5月底也離開了我們,我的超人老爸為了孩子們吃穿用度不受委屈,一輩子省吃儉用就連在人生的最後一路上,還擔心醫藥費葬儀費會給我們造成經濟負擔😢😢😢 那天🙏🙏🙏告別式時也一直跟超人老爸道謝,下輩子我還要超人老爸當我的超級老爸❤

    • @JerrySaysCheese
      @JerrySaysCheese  Год назад +2

      嗚嗚超級感人 現在他們都沒有病痛煩惱了❤️節哀順變🙏🏻

  • @kevinlee00362
    @kevinlee00362 Год назад +4

    根本是催淚彈,阿嬤總是把最好的留給自家人😭😭😭

  • @lizachen7108
    @lizachen7108 Год назад +43

    我哭到不行啦
    雖然不捨 但阿嬤完成她在世上的任務 養育你們長大 成家立業 她很驕傲有你們這一群愛她的孩子 她沒有牽掛離開了!
    謝謝你留下這麼美好的記憶撫慰所有人❤

    • @yfwu6741
      @yfwu6741 Год назад +2

      我看完影片,也是哭到不行!~想到阿嬤以前對我的照顧與疼惜!~謝謝!~

    • @JerrySaysCheese
      @JerrySaysCheese  Год назад +1

      謝謝🙏🏻 給我們滿滿的愛成長的長輩們都好偉大的

  • @tinalee0808
    @tinalee0808 Год назад +25

    阿嬤看起來善良又有氣質…會有好報,到好地方的…

  • @小市民阿姐
    @小市民阿姐 Год назад +6

    我也好想我阿公阿嬤....有阿公阿嬤的孩子是幸福的...我已經沒有阿公阿嬤疼了....

    • @JerrySaysCheese
      @JerrySaysCheese  Год назад

      沒關係我們曾經擁有過無價的愛就夠了

  • @owenchen1493
    @owenchen1493 Год назад +28

    我的阿嬤也是台灣超級阿嬤,從小是童養媳,除了家務還開柑仔店貼補家用
    當朋友有難,不管可能會被阿公打也要伸出援手
    當我生日的時候她總會準備一隻雞腿給我,我想你了阿嬤😭

  • @韋韋-h6r
    @韋韋-h6r Год назад +37

    阿嬤以你們為榮,至少8年的時間大家留下很多回憶❤

  • @swimmingfish0626
    @swimmingfish0626 Год назад +19

    阿嬤自己辛苦一輩子,卻還是可以給孫子這麼多愛。

  • @莊玲芳
    @莊玲芳 Год назад +9

    臺灣丫嬤,都是奉獻付出比較多!為家人任勞任怨。因為家人平安健康幸福、他就快樂😊!
    願你、親愛的丫嬤仙逝後、你們要照顧自己 的健康,生活平安幸福!才是最好的回報。
    人生互善,樂於❤️。

  • @EnjoyVa2FL
    @EnjoyVa2FL Год назад +20

    謝謝Jerry分享阿嬤為全家及子孫奉獻她一生的摘錄影片。我今年六十九,有與你相同的背景,旅居美國四十二年,看完整影片,啜泣難止。是的,我們都會感念並傳承 Super Grandma 的愛心的。請保重! (From Virginia)

  • @蔡少淇
    @蔡少淇 Год назад +18

    我的阿嬤在兩年前過世了 看著你的影片我真的覺得有阿嬤的孩子真的真的好幸福 無私的付出 不求任何回報

    • @JerrySaysCheese
      @JerrySaysCheese  Год назад

      謝謝鼓勵🙏🏻我們的阿嬤都好偉大!

  • @gloriacheng1537
    @gloriacheng1537 Год назад +25

    從小也是阿嬤帶大的我,阿嬤也是一生辛苦到現在,慶幸小時候常常跟阿嬤在廚房打轉,就算在外地工作,也能自己煮出阿嬤味的家常菜,也謝謝阿嬤第一次出國就是跟著我自由行❤❤
    這部影片真的感觸很深,阿嬤在另一個世界一定也會繼續守護你們的

  • @yinhw4182
    @yinhw4182 Год назад +6

    江阿嬤跟我的阿嬤同歲,怪不得看到江阿嬤的臉龐,會想起我的阿嬤😢
    常常聽阿嬤講古,年輕時努力賺錢、存錢蓋房子,為的就是讓小孩能有更好的生活,或許我無法體會以前的生活多困苦,但我們都應該心存感激,好好照顧自己跟家人❤
    我也想帶著阿嬤到處遊玩,只可惜她現在走路很不方便。在她還陪伴我們的這段時間內,只要我們常常回家讓她看看,她就會很開心了😊

    • @JerrySaysCheese
      @JerrySaysCheese  Год назад +1

      真的!多珍惜眼前人,陪伴是最珍貴的❤️

  • @然-o6v
    @然-o6v Год назад +9

    怎麼辦看不完哭到不行
    我也好愛我的阿嬤
    您的阿嬤一定也很愛您!

  • @ketodiana
    @ketodiana Год назад +26

    我的外婆也在不久前去天國了,心裡雖然不捨但是感受到她很平靜,很溫暖的能量,既然他們不想讓我們擔心所以自己選擇好好的離開,我們就讓他們用這樣的方式愛我們!❤ 希望他們去到無病無痛的地方可以開心的繼續關照我們!

    • @張-0726
      @張-0726 Год назад

      😊

    • @JerrySaysCheese
      @JerrySaysCheese  Год назад +1

      請節哀順變🙏🏻他們現在都在天堂自由自在了!

  • @吳亭穎-l8o
    @吳亭穎-l8o Год назад +22

    哇~看到這影片一直覺得阿嬤很眼熟,我小時候也住在那邊,是在市場攤販的小孩,很感人,也謝謝阿嬤有你這個孫子幫她紀錄。

    • @JerrySaysCheese
      @JerrySaysCheese  Год назад +2

      哇居然遇到鄰居!你不住在錦州街附近了嗎?謝謝🙏🏻

  • @金偲恩
    @金偲恩 Год назад +10

    失去阿嬤的痛真的感同身受
    我相信阿嬤帶著沒有病痛的身體去了漂亮的地方
    有一天你們將在那美好的地方重逢

  • @eggy0322
    @eggy0322 5 месяцев назад +1

    端午節前看到你的影片很感動,懂得感恩的小孩,阿嬤一定很欣慰你有今天的成就,「沒傘的孩子必須努力奔跑」,但我相信阿嬤的愛在你心中就是那樣一把為你遮風擋雨的大傘。
    你的人生故事真的非常有意義,也激勵了我這個很久沒為自己夢想奔跑的中年人,感謝你的分享。

  • @fcrchang73
    @fcrchang73 Год назад +29

    阿嬤會以你們而榮而在隨時在天上守護著你們,別忘了讓她的愛繼續傳承下去!❤

  • @郭育能
    @郭育能 Год назад +9

    在這早餐時間
    看到這段讓人感動的影片
    讓我掉入了深深的思念漩渦
    我的阿嬤離開13年了
    每年每年我都好思念她
    看到你們祖孫感情那麼好
    有那麼多的回憶影片照片
    我好羨慕啊
    我所擁有的
    只有我的回憶
    阿嬤那麼好的人
    會去更好的地方的
    讓我們一起為阿嬤祝福吧!
    加油喔!!

  • @tensionlee1012
    @tensionlee1012 Год назад +27

    阿嬤有這些孫子真是太棒太有福氣了

  • @suzy820907
    @suzy820907 Год назад +14

    很心疼也不捨,阿嬤長得很有氣質,她一定很驕傲有Jerry 這樣的孫子!
    下禮拜也是我阿嬤離開一年的時間,真的很想念有阿嬤在身旁的日子,謝謝Jerry的影片

  • @yukolalala
    @yukolalala Год назад +1

    保重身體,我跟你ㄧ樣也是外婆帶大也是ㄧ直飛來飛去,那種心情我很深很深的感受,看著你分享的影片此時此刻我才和外婆離開,準備要起飛的我卻淚停不了,那種感覺好難言語....

  • @峻佑-h3d
    @峻佑-h3d Год назад +2

    看到都哭了一直停不了眼淚

  • @super_lun
    @super_lun Год назад +1

    真的很難過,想到我阿嬤,我也哭的泣不成聲...,想必阿嬤不管到哪都會保祐你們的!阿嬤現在以經健健康康的當小天使~無憂無慮了!願你和我都早日走出傷痛。

  • @tzenghongtseng3122
    @tzenghongtseng3122 Год назад +14

    阿嬤的人生充滿愛,她已經學習到人生重要的課題,相信她沒有離開,還在你們的身邊,只要心中有愛,就能感受到她,相信她也對你感到很驕傲,祝福你們家人未來都平安幸福。

  • @yao-chengcai4894
    @yao-chengcai4894 Год назад +24

    Jerry 加油❤,相信阿嬤在天上會好好的,心也與你同在繼續支持著你

  • @ryianlai
    @ryianlai Год назад +3

    願阿嬤離苦得樂,不用再受病痛折磨。阿嬤也定會化作星星在天上照看你們的,請折哀順變😢

  • @wuyijie9490
    @wuyijie9490 Год назад +16

    你們看起來都跟ㄚ媽感情很好很孝順👍!我也覺得ㄚ媽很眼熟,這就是典型臺灣ㄚ媽!

  • @pipipapa168
    @pipipapa168 Год назад +3

    好偉大的阿嬤!😢忍不住潰堤了!希望阿嬤無病無痛往極樂世界,也別再輪迴了!

  • @emmakuo862
    @emmakuo862 Год назад +6

    您們就是阿嬤此生最好最美的禮物,看得出阿嬤有您們很滿足也很圓滿走完人生。

  • @chihlunghsiao6336
    @chihlunghsiao6336 Год назад +9

    你的影片讓我想起我爸媽過世時的心情 可以感受到影片裡滿滿的愛與感恩

  • @李育霖-d3j
    @李育霖-d3j Год назад +7

    我相信阿嬤會以你這孫子為榮的!!!

  • @tensionlee1012
    @tensionlee1012 Год назад +6

    有這樣的阿嬤是最棒的!

  • @莊村智
    @莊村智 Год назад +3

    生老病死,每個人一生都要經過的課題,上月剛經歷母親過逝,身同感受,讓我們把握當下吧!

  • @蔡以芊
    @蔡以芊 10 месяцев назад

    這影片好感人。小時候是隔代教養,沒有爸媽,給阿嬤帶,阿嬤有問我們長大賺錢會不會孝順她,結果來不及還沒出社會她走了,阿嬤走這七年我真的很苦,各種人情冷暖😢。

  • @easyjade
    @easyjade Год назад +3

    ❤❤❤
    我爆哭
    阿嬤真的是很有福分!
    阿嬤一定當天使繼續圍繞著你們一家人

  • @renyau5451
    @renyau5451 Год назад +1

    我最愛的阿嬤在五年前過世,當時是人生中第一次體會到泣不成聲,每當想起阿嬤總會想起從小到大與她相處的點點滴滴,如果從小是阿公阿嬤帶大的看到這影片都會很有感觸,阿嬤我想妳了也永遠愛妳,不管有幾輩子都要當妳最疼愛的孫子❤

  • @劉文文-h4n
    @劉文文-h4n Год назад +5

    阿嬤就像你說的 永遠活在你心中
    祂的人生價值、每一句話都深深刻印在你心裏
    加油!

  • @Chwn168
    @Chwn168 Год назад +9

    加油 阿嬤永遠活在你們心裡 她以你們為榮

  • @賴晁祥
    @賴晁祥 Год назад +8

    恭喜阿嬤人生圓滿了🙏
    我看到一半就哭的好難過😭

  • @維克的日常
    @維克的日常 Год назад +3

    他會永遠留在我們心中,你很棒,是阿嬤的驕傲加油

  • @9106tvxq
    @9106tvxq Год назад +3

    偉大的阿嬤 一生辛苦了 她阿嬤有這麼棒的孫子一定很快樂很幸福❤

  • @caloschen6134
    @caloschen6134 Год назад +4

    阿嫲一路好走,願主護祐,靈魂永享平安喜樂!

  • @靜-y3i
    @靜-y3i Год назад +4

    感覺 阿嬤覺得可以‘’放心+放手‘’了,現在她可以無病無痛的繼續看顧你們❤

  • @王儷樺-s8b
    @王儷樺-s8b Год назад +3

    看見大愛無私的阿嬷真的很感动真的值得人敬爱的阿嬷

  • @davidcheng3109
    @davidcheng3109 Год назад +7

    感同身受!有阿嬤的孩子在阿嬤健在時要珍惜!阿嬤與孫仔的緣份很刻骨銘心!祝福您

  • @蔡小球-d3z
    @蔡小球-d3z Год назад

    我哭到不行😭😭
    我阿嬤也是為了子孫辛苦了一輩子,從不求回報,本來到了應該要享福的年紀卻病痛纏身,要走的那一天還等到我從台北回去看她😭😭想到那一幕我還是心痛到不行😭

  • @W-sg9gb
    @W-sg9gb Год назад

    我的奶奶也是在我留學日本時病危,用最快的速度退掉房子,到區役所辦遷出,買隔天的機票,卻在半夜還是等來她走的消息。
    其實在她走的前幾天我就夢到她,她說她都好了,要我放心。
    以前奶奶還在時,由於家裡住得近,幾乎每天下課後都會去陪她,後期她有點失憶症,也還是認得出我,每每再見,我都會跟她說,我好愛她,然後抱抱她,她走後,雖然遺憾,但我知道她去了一個更好的地方享福了🧡

  • @nidvhhbkjjbdeg
    @nidvhhbkjjbdeg Год назад

    零用錢給孫子 真好....真的很偉大,什么都先想到家人

  • @R熊.o8o7
    @R熊.o8o7 Год назад +5

    阿嬤一路好走,祝福阿嬤圓滿,離苦得樂,Jerry節哀。

  • @jeremychenster
    @jeremychenster Год назад +15

    她已經把聽得到台語、把看得到的舉止、把看不到的人文素養藏進你的世界

  • @nirenil
    @nirenil Год назад +5

    第一次看到這頻道,很感動的影片,阿嬤一定也會很高興和欣慰!

  • @a3006330063
    @a3006330063 Год назад +2

    謝謝阿嬤,謝謝你們,你們都是他一生的驕傲

  • @shellchen3006
    @shellchen3006 Год назад +27

    超級阿嫲一路好走,願主護祐,靈魂永享平安喜樂!🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️

  • @gary820809
    @gary820809 Год назад +3

    我好羨慕你有這麼多跟阿嬤的美好回憶,也留下了許多珍貴的影片,相信你阿嬤的好福報會持續延續!

  • @陳碧月-s5p
    @陳碧月-s5p Год назад +1

    不易掉眼淚的我亦感動掉淚❤祖孫感情綿密濃厚 實為難得 祝福你們一直幸福下去 🙏天天開心🥳阿嬤先苦後甘有你們她將開心逍遙去🙏

  • @jeffhuang8134
    @jeffhuang8134 Год назад +3

    寶玉好可愛 看完彷彿也當了寶玉的孫子 也想跟寶玉喝交杯酒❤ 感動

  • @570505kao
    @570505kao Год назад

    這是阿嬤他們這輩對下輩的慈悲與良善。。

  • @kimichien9927
    @kimichien9927 Год назад +1

    看了眼淚直掉,一張張阿媽與你們相伴的照片,是愛最深的聯繫♥

  • @wiwilin9352
    @wiwilin9352 Год назад +2

    讓我想到我的阿嬤😢. 她很幸運有你們。你們也很幸運有這樣的阿嬤。

  • @lydia_ting_fun
    @lydia_ting_fun Год назад +6

    很有感觸,從頭哭到尾,腦子裡也有很多畫面,很能理解出外打拼跟陪伴無法兩全食的為難

  • @annzeo0828
    @annzeo0828 Год назад

    但最幸運的是 你還能用這8年好好的珍惜跟阿嬤的日子 我⋯不到一個禮拜😢

  • @瑪姬陳
    @瑪姬陳 Год назад +1

    心痛不捨終究需放手~無限祝福阿嬤

  • @洪小豪-b8o
    @洪小豪-b8o Год назад +1

    阿嬤一定為你們這些孫子為榮的 她並不孤單 在天堂上繼續看著你們 庇護著! 生離死別是人生中很難過的事情 加油

  • @ns3s3snko
    @ns3s3snko Год назад +1

    阿嬤有你們這群孫子和家人無論到哪都會幸福.突然想起3年前過世的阿嬤 我也是被阿嬤從小帶大 她走的時候我沒去送她 很自責

  • @yunglingchen5637
    @yunglingchen5637 Год назад +2

    珍惜當下的相伴,祖孫情,難忘!😢

  • @aab2266
    @aab2266 6 месяцев назад +1

    我阿嬤78歲,上個月期中考週走了,我大學都還沒畢業,考了駕照也沒開車載阿嬤出去過,沒做過任何一件會讓阿嬤驕傲的事,突然就再也看不到她,聽不見她的聲音了。
    看著這部片,邊哭邊回想這20幾年跟阿嬤的點點滴滴,想到我幼稚園的時候阿嬤有時會問我,如果她不在了我會不會哭?當時她一說完,我的眼淚就快流出來了,因為怕丟臉只能硬撐著把臉繃住不說話,假裝覺得她的問題很無聊不理她,現在我洗澡的時候哭,半夜躺在床上哭,通勤的時候哭,玩電腦的時候也哭。小時候我媽拿不求人抽我,抽到不求人都斷了,我一滴眼淚都沒掉,阿嬤現在應該知道她對我有多重要了吧。
    分享一件事,我對有關宗教的任何事都毫無興趣,平常家人要我拜拜我都會覺得很麻煩,但是在阿嬤做頭七的那天晚上我真的夢到她了。阿嬤進醫院後兩個禮拜就已經不認得我了,這件事讓我難以釋懷,另外,她還沒住院前就一直叮嚀我一定要念研究所,將來才好找工作,但其實我想要工作一陣子後再出國念,當時懶的解釋就直接回了我不想念。阿嬤頭七的那天晚上我夢到了我在阿嬤的病床邊,例行公事,我問了阿嬤我是誰,她第一次回答錯了,問第二次她終於認出來了,於是我就忍不住了趴在她身上哭,然後她就對我說:「你是我的長孫我怎麼會認不出來,以後有想做的事情就去做,不要顧慮太多(台語)。」一說完,我就帶著淚水醒來了。
    看完這部片後,非常羨慕Jerry能夠跟阿嬤分享自己出社會後的成就,我也好希望阿嬤可以再陪我久一點,我也想達成很多很酷的成就讓阿嬤可以跟鄰居炫耀,抱歉打了一堆卻沒什麼重點,借我抒發一下心情

    • @JerrySaysCheese
      @JerrySaysCheese  6 месяцев назад

      沒事的 不管時間長短 只要我們記得和想念 阿嬤都會在我們心中和在天上為我們喝采和祝福🥹❤️幸好阿嬤在頭七那天還來看看你,真的很棒!

  • @sunzhong_coming
    @sunzhong_coming Год назад +1

    這影片讓我哭了亂七八糟,恭喜阿嬤無病無痛在天堂保佑你們順利平安。

  • @lamchunwai78
    @lamchunwai78 Год назад

    好美好的回憶片段 好有愛 對家人來說這個記錄勝過任何一部大電影

  • @ernie8278
    @ernie8278 Год назад +2

    同是外派的人,真的感觸很深直接從頭哭到尾

  • @林零七
    @林零七 Год назад +1

    哭到爆~ 超級臺灣阿嬤 美麗的天使

  • @方阿-z4l
    @方阿-z4l Год назад

    看到你的阿嬤我也會想到自己的阿嬤😔😔我阿嬤是意外死掉的(死在鳳梨圓....😢😢)雖然已經過那麼多年了我一直很自責當下有預感 心也痛到快喘不過氣來😢 直到我趕到現場的時候警察和救護車說阿嬤已經死亡多時我心裡整個大崩潰因為我是阿公阿嬤帶長大的我能懂你心裡面的不高興與不捨,你就當作阿嬤功德圓滿了別難過了你越難過阿嬤會走不開!....
    所以一起加油噢。💪💪😊😊

  • @cindy919624
    @cindy919624 Год назад

    阿嬤這一世的功課做完了,離開殘破不堪的肉身,願阿嬤可以前往離苦得樂的淨土❤

  • @Jade-pb4rw
    @Jade-pb4rw Год назад +3

    看影片真的讓人很不捨 心都酸酸的 可是也看到阿嬤很開心很幸福 覺得阿嬤一定很欣慰很滿足 她的孩子 孫子 孫女大家都這麼的愛她

  • @Hs-yi7bq
    @Hs-yi7bq Год назад

    看到哭了,不太敢繼續看下去。始終知道人生苦短,要珍惜與家人相處的時光,但現實總是有不允許的時刻,每當思及此我倍感惆悵,完全能體會影片中那種悲傷與平靜間的拉扯,不做作、不刻意的令人共感,並留下了淚水。

  • @yfwu6741
    @yfwu6741 Год назад +2

    影片很棒!感謝你的用心製作與分享!我看完影片後,從內心感動到眼淚直流不止,我小時候也是被阿嬤帶大的,阿嬤也在多年前仙逝了,雖然活到現在50多歲了,沒有什麼重大成就,但在臺灣的長跑運動領域曾努力過且小有故事與成就,我們的阿嬤,都是世界上最疼愛我們及最棒及最超級的臺灣阿嬤,阿嬤永留在我們心中!我們也都是阿嬤心中最棒與孝順的乖孫!~謝謝!~一起繼續加油,讓我們成為阿嬤心中最棒及最有成就的乖孫了!~

  • @hwalin537
    @hwalin537 Год назад +1

    我的阿嬤也是羅東人,跟你的阿嬤一樣一輩子為兒子和孫女付出...!看你的影片讓我更想念及感謝阿嬤一輩子對我們孫子的好

  • @Beckyshiue
    @Beckyshiue Год назад +2

    阿嬤真的好溫暖❤️你們都好棒❤️把阿嬤的愛繼續傳承下去❤️

  • @貴姬徐
    @貴姬徐 Год назад +1

    阿嬤以你榮有逭優秀的孫子阿嬤對孫的愛付出

  • @喔喔-n8k
    @喔喔-n8k Год назад

    突然跑出首頁。看完了。一直克制自己不能哭(因為我要出門)阿嬤好偉大。阿嬤一路好走。

  • @Pookybuddyjiji
    @Pookybuddyjiji Год назад

    I was brought up by my gran since I was a tiny baby, she's also in heaven now, miss her stacks... this brought tears...

  • @markchiang3449
    @markchiang3449 Год назад +1

    把阿嬤放在心上
    就像她還在一樣
    ❤❤❤

  • @s09180625
    @s09180625 Год назад

    我也是阿嬤帶大的😢尤其被家裡人賦予製作阿嬤的影片看到一張張照片一支支影片真的會邊整理剪輯邊流淚 ,我阿嬤也過世一年多了,無意間刷到你又更想阿嬤了,我們都很幸運曾經有阿嬤疼過

  • @jwchen9117
    @jwchen9117 Год назад +1

    阿嬤好可愛好善良,他一定會在天堂好好的生活的❤阿嬤一路好走❤️

  • @Carol-u3b
    @Carol-u3b Год назад +1

    阿嬤一定知道你這麼愛她
    我也有個超級善良的阿嬤
    她們在天上應該可以成為好朋友喔❤

  • @beenw9373
    @beenw9373 Год назад

    傳統台灣祖母都是辛苦承受古早時期男尊女卑的文化~辛苦的帶大兒孫子女~
    傳統的祖母很疼愛孫子~我也是很想念最疼我的祖母
    好好的生活為每年三節跟普度都為阿嬤報名法會~她會很高興的

  • @Rita_029
    @Rita_029 Год назад +1

    看完,想到2019年癌症離世的爸爸
    眼淚一直掉

  • @kulolee2774
    @kulolee2774 Год назад

    阿嬤一定很開心過去那段日子拍片的快樂 最重要的是跟你一起做一件事

  • @李淑錦-x2d
    @李淑錦-x2d Год назад

    有你們的愛心,阿嬤這輩子值得了!

  • @takekun1972
    @takekun1972 Год назад

    很有教育意義的影片..你阿嬤完全跟我母親一樣進80歲..不識字..但完全從夫.以身做則