7:36 During my wedding prep, the lab attendant said the result showed that I am pregnant, my husband laughed at her because we remained chaste during courtship and wedding prep. He told the Priest that he is going on with the wedding because he trusts me. That was the day I promised myself to go to any length for my husband. The Parish priest asked that we use another laboratory and the result showed that I wasn’t pregnant. It was later discovered that the first lab used expired product to test my blood thereby arriving at a false result. In the end, God was glorified ❤❤❤
But it's different from this one who was engaged and still went to visit her ex because he missed her and slept overnight with him and had sex. She only want to marry this guy because he loves her not that she loves him. After marriage she will continue to do the same thing
"every single person"? I don't think this is correct. Not every single person has had sex? Some remain chaste till after the marriage is inducted. Or, what am I not understanding here?
My issue now is the woman is not even truly repentant. She's just sorry she was caught not because she did it. I'm sure if she had found out about this pregnancy prior, she would have found a way to hide it from everyone else and speed up the marriage process so everyone will think the child is Nedu's. When she came over to his house, she didn't even sound truly sorry. She sounded like she was looking for a cover (the marriage) so people won't find out she got pregnant out of wedlock. All those things she was mentioning, although true, sounded like emotional manipulation. As for what the guy should do, that's truly up to him and God. He's the one that saw the vision and he's the one that God told to marry Ruth. But it's important to note that God saw all these happening and still insisted she was his wife. Maybe this is a very painful growing experience for Nedu because if he decides to obey God and marry her, his heart will have to enlarge to accommodate a morally loose woman carrying a child that's not biologically his. All in all, thanks to the Winlos for this thought-provoking playlet🙏🏾
This comment is just everything in my heart The woman actually wasn't repentant, she said it was emotions, she doesn't even know the depth of what she did She was using the man's words to blackmail him If she remains like this, she will likely have affairs with men and cover it up because she believes her husband heard God May God help us all
I've experienced something similar and here's the summary of my contribution.. - Cancel the wedding and give her proper space. - The guy should focus on getting healed from the hurt and heartbreak before considering checking with God again on what to do because It's difficult to hear God with a broken heart. - The lady is not prepared for marriage yet. Self still seats at the core of her existence so she should go and submit herself to the Spirit's dealings. It won't be easy, but God will wipe away the mistake and it's impact overtime if she submits herself to the process. He wouldn't even mind still keeping the guy for her though it's not necessary. Concerning whether or not the guy heard God, It no longer counts at this point. Why? Because God's purposes are eternal but his plans change and the people he intends to work with also change. Even when God speaks about someone being the prepared vessel for you, ruining it through the flesh is a possibility hence, it doesn't mean you'll necessarily end up with the person. If the guy ignores obvious facts and carries on hastily simply based on what he may have heard from God initially, he will regret it in the marriage and when he prays about it, God will remind him that he tried to use the heartbreak to warn him but he followed his emotions instead, and not facts. Personally from my experience, realising that when it comes to the area of marriage and choosing a life partner, it's not based on God's voice or my faith alone, BUT ALSO ON LITERAL FACTS even if an angel came out of the wall to tell you she's your wife was one of the vital things I learnt during the process.
What I find hilarious is the fact that brothers claimed God spoke to him yet doubtful at any given challenge!! God didn't tell him she is a saint. This might be the exact reason God choose her for him to accommodate her foolishness. God spoke to Joseph in the dream about Mary and her pregnancy but he didn't go off seeking counseling up-and-down for mystery he didn't even understand. Brothers and sisters should know that when we apply the God spoke to me kinda thing, we shouldn't expect it to be all rosy with no thorns. Left for me, if he claimed God spoke to him, he should go ahead with the marriage! Bye and bye he will understand why. God's ways are definitely not man's way.
@@amalachukwuokeke9247God bless you. The God that called her your wife knew the end from the beginning. Doing God’s will is not child’s play. We all just have to build up the capacity to go through the test and come out refined. His ways are not our ways!
@@amalachukwuokeke9247 Madam, let's stop comparing issues that are not compatible. Do you think if the Angel did not appear to Joseph and tell him that his wife was not promiscuous, that her pregnancy is from the holy spirit? Do you think Joseph will accept her? Maybe it's another spirit that acted as God spoke with the guy. When we are in love, many things cloud our minds, especially our spiritual minds. With the situation on ground now, this is the time the guy needs to go back to God, lay the situation on ground to God, and wait if God will give him the go-ahead with the wedding. My advice is both of them should go on break and seek the face of God afresh.
You spoke well. On this ground of fornication before marriage(wen u r already espoused to a man at that!) is where the Bible gives the man the right to call off the wedding or marriage (if he gets to find out after the wedding) when the sister did not open up to him of a mistake of that magnitude. May God help His Own. But if the man chose to go on with the planned wedding, he should be strong enough not to use her mistakes against her or to hunt her in the marriage.
1) The question is is she genuinely sorry 2) She needs to address what made her cheat. The brother should pray and let God direct him but in any case the marriage should be paused for now.
I think the first thing is for the wedding to be postponed. The man doesn't need to be pressured to marry her if he isn't sure he wants to, because she has destroyed the trust he has in her and if they go on with the wedding in a haste or just because God has told him to do so previously, he might never be able to trust her in the marriage and that might eventually lead to the end of the marriage. After postponing the wedding, he can keep praying to know if God will have him still go ahead or not.
That "Trust Issue" needs to be resolved... Nedu needs more time to hear God on the next step to take... To enjoy marriage, one needs not rush into it but to be careful and sensitive under God's leading
@@nnajismartchinagorom6132 Indeed I really feel that many problems that we try to address for "Believers" should not be matters for discussion in the first place if the people in question are truly born again and walking faithfully with Jesus
@@dan_cr8or Hmmmmm, Bro, things they happen oooo, na why Ebukasongs say if we no pray satan will make mess of us. At the time the thing dey wan happen, e go resemble a harmless thing, he calls to congratulate you for the up coming wedding, showing that he is happy for you, you get talking and somehow you "agree" to visit, maybe on your way back from one of your wedding shopping, you drop by just to say hello, perhaps it is even his family house and his family dem sabi you wella, before you say Jack, e don happen. Now will the Holy Spirit warn you? YES!!! How many times we don ignore the promptings of our Supreme Commander on various issues. Na later, we go begin say, if i had know i would not have picked his call, I would not have continued the convo and chats. @imem aniefiok don tok am finish, run , in fact flee any appearance of any EX!!!
MERCY! This would be extremely difficult!!!!! I would imagine Nedu's conversation with GOD would be something like, 'I know what You said but the hurt is so deep. I'm struggling with moving forward. I want to be in Your perfect will but my heart and mind keep reliving the hurt, pain (& possible shame). Help me live beyond the memory of the deceit. I need Your Holy Spirit to give me peace and Your wisdom. Give me a love for this child as if he or she is mine because marrying Ruth will make the child mine. Help me to see Ruth, the baby and this situation through Your eyes. All have sinned and come short of the Glory of GOD. Just as You have forgiven me, I must forgive Ruth. Dear LORD, thank You for helping me; I, so desperately, need You."
It's easier said than done. She wasn't resentful but was putting the blame on her ex. God can always provide another perfect will for the guy. But the guy must also forgive her even if they don't proceed to Marry
If God didn’t tell him to marry her, and it was his own doing then it would be easier for him to forget everything and move. But because God told him to marry her, he has to go back to God in prayer. Surely nothing is a surprise for God, He knew that she’d cheat on her fiancée…yet that still doesn’t make the situation easier to process, betrayal is still betrayal no matter what, infidelity is still infidelity no matter what. But we can’t deny that she has issues, she didn’t have to go see the ex and she didn’t have to stay over so long that it got too dark for her to go back home. Clearly, she kept contact with him, and deliberately went to see him without notifying her soon to be spouse. Let the past the past, don’t give it power over your future, she sabotaged a godly marriage for a short term gratification. She never told the soon to be spouse, obviously she thought she could get away with it, the pregnancy got her caught because she had no plans on telling the soon to be husband that she slept with the ex. She was selfish. She’s deceitful as well. She didn’t take full accountability. She blamed brother Bernard as if he held her at gun point. If that was me, I’d postpone the wedding and go back to God and hear from his instructions, if it’s His Will I’m sure that His grace is sufficient to heal me and help her at the same time. It’s beyond flesh and blood at this point, but practically these situations are tough to get through and it’s best to avoid that kind of embarrassment, we can blame the devil and he is to blame for perversion BUT he cannot use anything against us unless we provide the opportunity to do so; therefore guard your heart and set boundaries.
@@sunnyhunn9315 No He didn’t.. God knows the end of every decision you take.. but yet the decision is yours to take.. this puts a balance to His predeterminate counsel.. so when He told the guy that she His wife He didnt factor in her betrayal even though He knew that the temptation would come..the blessings of God maketh rich and He addeth no sorrow....
Thank you to the Winlos for providing such an insightful video. I think at the very least, they should postpone the wedding. The lady is evidently not well spiritually. Even though she may look okay outside, physically, but spiritually speaking she is not healthy. Imagine for example, this wife-to-be was a deadly sick with cancer in a hospital undergoing treatment, would he insist on marrying her in that state ? ,or would you rather stay by her side, encourage her and support her recovery in order to marry her when she is fully healed. I believe the same applies here, the lady is sick spiritually, because fornication, lying etc proceed from the heart (Matthew 15: 19-20) 19 For out of the heart come evil thoughts-murder, adultery, sexual immorality, theft, false testimony, slander. 20 These are what defile a person; but eating with unwashed hands does not defile them.” That is a problem. 2nd problem, she has no fear of God in her, for her to do this and be able to carry on with her Christian life, working etc without any problem, no remorse, no repentance, no confession to God. Something is very wrong, if they check well , you might discover that the lady isn't even hearing God anymore. She doesn't fear she will miss out on heaven ? Upon what basis then will you form this marriage ? Question, did she herself hear from God ? (Sarah needed to hear from God, for the miracle of Isaac's birth to proceed Gen 18:13-14; and How can two walk together unless they are agreed ? (Amos 3:3) It is better to postpone the marriage, go for counselling , individualized counselling too with supervision by spiritual authorities over their lives, in order to help the man and the lady to heal before marriage, and also to cut off from that old relationship and all it's mementos, cut off soul-ties and destroys or throw out any keepsake or memorial of those past relationships. Otherwise it will continue to be a recurring problem for them in their marriage. I pray God gives anyone in such a situation the strength and courage to do the right thing. NB: 1 Cor 6:9 Do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived. Neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor homosexuals, nor sodomites God help us oh !!
Honestly this things are happening. I overheard someone said a guy slept with the ex a day after wedding, it's appalling that ladies are emotional attached to their ex even after break-up. Sometimes such stories wanna make us opt out in this marriage saga. However,I must get married, but to the right woman ❤️
She will continue sleeping with Bernard even in marriage, and she will manipulate Nedu on ‘but you said God told you to marry me’ 😱😱😱😱 He must run for his dear life
May we be ready to meet Christ(THE BRIDEGROOM)when He returns and not get caught up in distraction(sin ...our past)...this is prophetic for me thank you Holy Spirit
Ahhh Lord please show me your mercy, show us your Love... This is sincerely severe and evil wave.. That lady took an advantage.. if that guy is my brother i will never allow him to marry her.. A phone that you will use at night will never tell you turn on power saver in the morning!.. God bless the Winlos Sir, love you! Enjoying you from Cyprus.
This man better run for his life. Before I chose my wife, I sought wise counsel from my spiritual advisors, not just my own understanding. Sometimes we get it wrong. Also, it's not the fact that she got pregnant, it's the fact that she failed to tell him she cheated. She never mentions how much she really loves him, only the verbal unconditional contract she has on him 😂. She's still in love with the bad boy but the good guy is a safe option. We don't know how long it has been happening but we do know the ex was hitting it raw 2 weeks before the wedding, no protection. No regard for the fiance when we have diseases out here. She was perfectly willing to go through with the wedding with no remorse until she got caught. This is the perfect example of nice guys finish last. Also, maybe God is saving her from a marriage she doesnt really want. Man or woman, I would advise the person to run, they will use your blind faith against you when you are married cause they know you are bound together under God. Only God can save you after you are married. May God help us all 🙏 .
To me the geniuses of her being sorry is if she has confessed before she was found out. She decided to hide her sin. If I was the one, the Holyspirit is not an author of confusion. If He spoke before, He will still speak again and even timely. God bless you all
I think the guy should go back to God in prayer and decide soberly about marrying her or not based on her state that she has fornicated and therefore fallen pregnant. If God permits, then I would advise that they postpone the wedding so that the issue can be resolved through some counseling because clearly, the lady has not dealt with lust and needs to learn how to exercise boundaries. Thanks to the Winlows😍 love you loads😇!
A man may seem wise in his own eyes but God judges their motives. Put the wedding on hold and go spend some more time in that secret place. Time reveals the genuineness of a man’s heart.
This is exactly my thought. A friend I know did the same. The lady, however, was not claiming anything. She was rather remorseful and asking for forgiveness. The guy, a young pastor, eventually married her after she had put to bed.
He took the first decision based on what God said, so I sudjest he goes back to God again in prayer before he judges based on his immotions or calculations.
CK the hot cake, always in hot soup with Miokukusheshe... even when wedding is in 2 wks. Guy, pray and hear again, this time she will deal with you if you don't go ahead with the wedding...
This is really a big deal. Sis. Ruth has a lot to deal with which people have mentioned but I will like to point out that she didn't hear from God for herself with the way she spoke because if she had laboured in the place of prayer and with a lot of patience to receive her husband to be, she would have think twice before visiting her ex. talkless of spending a night. Nedu should put the wedding on hold for now because he needs to clear his head of this sudden shock for him to even hear God clearly to receive the next step to take. Nedu should go back to God. Thank you so much for this video but give us part 2 to see how Ruth and Nedu handle the matter. Thank you.
Miokukusheshe and the hot Cake...😂😂😂...you guys are the best...may the Grace of God abound on you more as you advance HIS Kingdom through the gift of Acting....and God bless the winlos.
When God says something, the fulfilment depends on how we handle it. I will not go ahead with the marriage, because she's still hooked to her ex. I dont want to spend my life doubting if my kids are my own😂
I used to say and i still say it no contact with ex if it didn't work fine stay away from each other.these exes are sometimes the reason why so many relationships break apart.if it didn't work walk away for good
Thank you THE WINLOS for such a unique and life-touching video. An average man will never marry such a lady because of infidelity, lack of trust and openness, and shaking integrity... Had it been that the counsellor did not conduct a pregnancy test the baby would have been transferred to her supposed husband... However, who knows whether the sister will still play away match with brother Benard in the future, and the trauma will be there for the man which may make the marriage dissolve in the long run...
Dear Anwinli, pls don't use relaxer on your hair again cos it triggers cancerous growth, especially in women. You can do your own research too for confirmation. I love you and your skits and want you to stay safe. God bless you for all you do ❤❤❤
Sometimes people claim they heard GOD when it was actually their emotions. The wedding needs to be put on hold for now.... pending when Nedu gets a confirmation from GOD. What GOD says is the final when it comes to marriage. Imagine what Joseph went through with Mary in the bible....it was tough, it went against all human or logical reasoning to accept the pregnancy but he did....today, we all read about him and bless him for his bravery.
Eh! Brother Bernardi!!! In that woman's voice (voice in the short falling videos) 😅 Once you get into a relationship please cut all ties with your ex and set proper boundaries with the opposite sex. Errors are bound to happen no matter how innocent you are if you provide a conducive environment that fertilises your temptations. Shout out to the Winlos👏🏿👏🏿
This taught I need to pray to be removed from the past I order I love into what God has for me. I don’t know what I would do. As a human It would take time to move on
Wow! Wondering story..a lot has been said most of which I agree to especially having the wedding on hold till further instructions from God. However,I will like to let ladies out there that feels like they can blackmail sincere Christian guys with "God's revelation" that it's wrong to act differently from the revelation about you given to your fiance. Thank you!
If God really told Nedu to marry Ruth,then he should go and ask God what to do concerning the matter.if God say he go ahead then he can but if God said he should not marry her he will provide new wife for him.
This is so common in the church now. Many many come stand infront of the altar alresdy pregnant and pretending to people Is a sad situation to the point it is becoming normal in church now
Is Nedu even sure he heard from God? That's another question we should ask as well. Most time we act based on our human feeling and allow it becloud God's plans for us. But, whatever decision he decides to take should be given a real deep thought coupled with prayer and seeking God's face, if he truly heard from God and if he truly loves her.
God can speak and give you good gifts but maintaining it is in your hands, if you misuse it! You would lose it In this case, Let Go on the basis of infidelity
Why will I visit my Ex even if I am single and manless 😂. How much more weeks to your wedding. There’s a restaurant, if you must see him for any reason use an open public space. Ensure no body contact especially if you still have emotions for them. Abeg oo
At least, they aren't married yet. So Nedu still has the option of either choosing or refusing. But I think if he chooses, he must have to cope with the fact that his first born is not biologically from him. This can be traumatic Sha. While I'm an advocate of complete obedience to God's direction, some red flags during courtship affords us the option of still deciding whether or not under God's leading still. If they were already married and this came up, Nedu would have to continue. It's for better or worse
I believe the first step is to first call off the wedding. Even if they would settle to stay together or go ahead it must be a decision not made because of what people will say or in a haste. So no one is pressured into future regret and resentment.
The problem is not that she cheated or even got pregnant. The problem is she visited her ex and had sex and didn't see it necessary to let her fiance know, at least to prove her sincerity. Its the pregnancy that exposed her, such a woman is dangerous and cannot be trusted. I feel even if God gave the go ahead he should put the wedding on hold until God deals with this lust and other things that may ruin the home before they can come together if there would be need for that. Many get married because they feel God led them without allowing God complete his dealings in the lives of both individuals involved then after getting married there's Marital crisis making it look like God led them wrongly. Its such a pity.
Well said, I like the part about allowing God to deal with our future spouse, because they’re still human. And the flesh is weak. You’ll be surprise at what people are dealing with and will not tell you, until you’re surprised by the state of their own brokenness, it’s tragic.
For me this is what we does...we have walked together with Jesus waiting for the final day but all over sudden we go back to sin and we were delivered. We need a sincere repentance He is a mercyful God.
What a cross road, such a dilemma. Just like catching your spouse red handed cheating with another person few days to your wedding 😭😭😭. It only takes the Grace of GOD to proceed in such situations. Remembering Joseph and Mary right now, just that this person outrightly went to the ex place, and Mary's case was supernatural.... Hmmm, GOD Help us🙏
I will advice he does the will of God, if God says continue then go on because God sees the future and His gift added no sorrow but maketh rich. But for now hold on with the wedding and pray more than before, God surely will tell you what to do.
Waw... It's a lot to swallow as a man. I believe since it was God's direction that brought them together, Edu share pray about it. As Christians in every situation, we ought to use the Scripture as backing, take for instance what would have happened is Joseph decided not to marry Mary 😅. Edu should pray and seek God's direction ❣️.
"I am a Virgin...., We don't even hug...." This coming from the guy who played the character 'CK the Hot cake' from Prophet Suddenly 😂. The Winlos are the best, May God continue to flourish this Ministry day by day.
It's best to go back to God for wayforward at every crossroad. Praying until you get clarity. If he decides to leave Ruth, it's not wrong but God has to consent to it. If God consent to it that means another woman will fulfil Ruth's role, just like Esther replaced vashti😊 If God doesn't consent to It, he'd have to marry her like that just as God told Hosea to marry Gomer (an whore) for a reason😮 God bless the Winlos😂❤
God did that to prophetically show Hosea how unfaithful Israel was to Him....let Him run while He can.. God said yes, but there is a requisite alignment that’s needed for it to manifest.. Even God said can change
7:36 During my wedding prep, the lab attendant said the result showed that I am pregnant, my husband laughed at her because we remained chaste during courtship and wedding prep. He told the Priest that he is going on with the wedding because he trusts me. That was the day I promised myself to go to any length for my husband. The Parish priest asked that we use another laboratory and the result showed that I wasn’t pregnant. It was later discovered that the first lab used expired product to test my blood thereby arriving at a false result.
In the end, God was glorified ❤❤❤
This was the devises of the enemy job5:12 and God said he will frustrate
Imagine....the devil wanted to mess things up for you...but we thank God for man of wisdom
Hmmn
That's a greatTrust lesson @chiomafortunesdiary
God bless your husband,it shows he really really Loves you
But it's different from this one who was engaged and still went to visit her ex because he missed her and slept overnight with him and had sex. She only want to marry this guy because he loves her not that she loves him. After marriage she will continue to do the same thing
You ve a beautiful story 🍃
If you loved prophet suddenly gather here let give all the crew a thumbs up 💕
I will ask God the question And listen to what he has to say before I take any further step
Please it's Prophet Suddenly
Breaking all soul ties before marriage is a must for every single person, male or female.
Amen! I totally agree.
"every single person"?
I don't think this is correct.
Not every single person has had sex? Some remain chaste till after the marriage is inducted.
Or, what am I not understanding here?
@@ravidaniel32 Soul ties are formed by
1. Friendships- 1st Samuel 18:1
2. Family- Genesis 44:30-31
3. Sex- 1st Corinthians 6:16
The lady called Ruth was so amazing in her acting in Prophet Suddenly
I liked CK😂
Haaa was she the one giving powers to Prophet Suddenly... wow, I didn't recognize hee😊
@@roseb.5367 yeah she was
Yeah she always do well in all her acts as well as all the Winlos crew, God bless you all brethren, much love ❤🙏
Yes she was.
Running from all appearances of an ex is the beginning of a smooth marital journey.
Very informative.
Thank you.
Blessed are those who don't have an ex.
Ruth is a really good actress... From all her videos she's been exceptional
Truly she is very good!
Very true
The guy acting Nedu is a fantastic actor.
I was really impressed by his acting in prophet suddenly.
Yes indeed, he is a superb actor....I like his acting skills. He even looks ethiopian....where is he from?
My issue now is the woman is not even truly repentant. She's just sorry she was caught not because she did it. I'm sure if she had found out about this pregnancy prior, she would have found a way to hide it from everyone else and speed up the marriage process so everyone will think the child is Nedu's.
When she came over to his house, she didn't even sound truly sorry. She sounded like she was looking for a cover (the marriage) so people won't find out she got pregnant out of wedlock. All those things she was mentioning, although true, sounded like emotional manipulation.
As for what the guy should do, that's truly up to him and God. He's the one that saw the vision and he's the one that God told to marry Ruth. But it's important to note that God saw all these happening and still insisted she was his wife. Maybe this is a very painful growing experience for Nedu because if he decides to obey God and marry her, his heart will have to enlarge to accommodate a morally loose woman carrying a child that's not biologically his.
All in all, thanks to the Winlos for this thought-provoking playlet🙏🏾
This write up here is powerful. I had a lot to say but after reading to, I felt like that was all I had to say
It’s very painful but the God factor changes everything. For me I would say the guy should pray about it and for strength and marry her
This comment is just everything in my heart
The woman actually wasn't repentant, she said it was emotions, she doesn't even know the depth of what she did
She was using the man's words to blackmail him
If she remains like this, she will likely have affairs with men and cover it up because she believes her husband heard God
May God help us all
Very well said Sir. Infact you have spoken on my behalf
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Brother Bernard still carried his wahala to this place😂😂😂
As in eehnn😂😂🤣🤣
I thought I was the only who noticed😂😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂
I swear😂
I've experienced something similar and here's the summary of my contribution..
- Cancel the wedding and give her proper space.
- The guy should focus on getting healed from the hurt and heartbreak before considering checking with God again on what to do because It's difficult to hear God with a broken heart.
- The lady is not prepared for marriage yet. Self still seats at the core of her existence so she should go and submit herself to the Spirit's dealings.
It won't be easy, but God will wipe away the mistake and it's impact overtime if she submits herself to the process.
He wouldn't even mind still keeping the guy for her though it's not necessary.
Concerning whether or not the guy heard God, It no longer counts at this point. Why?
Because God's purposes are eternal but his plans change and the people he intends to work with also change.
Even when God speaks about someone being the prepared vessel for you, ruining it through the flesh is a possibility hence, it doesn't mean you'll necessarily end up with the person.
If the guy ignores obvious facts and carries on hastily simply based on what he may have heard from God initially, he will regret it in the marriage and when he prays about it, God will remind him that he tried to use the heartbreak to warn him but he followed his emotions instead, and not facts.
Personally from my experience, realising that when it comes to the area of marriage and choosing a life partner, it's not based on God's voice or my faith alone, BUT ALSO ON LITERAL FACTS even if an angel came out of the wall to tell you she's your wife was one of the vital things I learnt during the process.
God bless you.. thank you 🙏
What I find hilarious is the fact that brothers claimed God spoke to him yet doubtful at any given challenge!! God didn't tell him she is a saint. This might be the exact reason God choose her for him to accommodate her foolishness. God spoke to Joseph in the dream about Mary and her pregnancy but he didn't go off seeking counseling up-and-down for mystery he didn't even understand.
Brothers and sisters should know that when we apply the God spoke to me kinda thing, we shouldn't expect it to be all rosy with no thorns.
Left for me, if he claimed God spoke to him, he should go ahead with the marriage! Bye and bye he will understand why. God's ways are definitely not man's way.
@@amalachukwuokeke9247God bless you. The God that called her your wife knew the end from the beginning. Doing God’s will is not child’s play. We all just have to build up the capacity to go through the test and come out refined. His ways are not our ways!
@@amalachukwuokeke9247
Madam, let's stop comparing issues that are not compatible.
Do you think if the Angel did not appear to Joseph and tell him that his wife was not promiscuous, that her pregnancy is from the holy spirit? Do you think Joseph will accept her?
Maybe it's another spirit that acted as God spoke with the guy. When we are in love, many things cloud our minds, especially our spiritual minds.
With the situation on ground now, this is the time the guy needs to go back to God, lay the situation on ground to God, and wait if God will give him the go-ahead with the wedding.
My advice is both of them should go on break and seek the face of God afresh.
You spoke well. On this ground of fornication before marriage(wen u r already espoused to a man at that!) is where the Bible gives the man the right to call off the wedding or marriage (if he gets to find out after the wedding) when the sister did not open up to him of a mistake of that magnitude.
May God help His Own.
But if the man chose to go on with the planned wedding, he should be strong enough not to use her mistakes against her or to hunt her in the marriage.
Can we talk about Ruth’s acting skills 👏👏
God told me 'u are my wife' made me to remember one of the WINLOS old videos. 'SUKASUKADADA, SKUSKISKU'😂😂
Ruth Ruth acting is your calling ooo no matter the role you just nail it. I salute the entire crew. The winlos...
1) The question is is she genuinely sorry 2) She needs to address what made her cheat. The brother should pray and let God direct him but in any case the marriage should be paused for now.
The wedding is over she was in the right mind for whatever she did. How will I visit My ex and I'm planning My wedding with another ?Nice lesson ❤🇰🇪
..and still sleep over at my ex's?
Hhmmm, make the devil no catch us with wicked temptations sha 🚶🏽♀️
@@toyosibiyi Amen oo
I think the first thing is for the wedding to be postponed. The man doesn't need to be pressured to marry her if he isn't sure he wants to, because she has destroyed the trust he has in her and if they go on with the wedding in a haste or just because God has told him to do so previously, he might never be able to trust her in the marriage and that might eventually lead to the end of the marriage.
After postponing the wedding, he can keep praying to know if God will have him still go ahead or not.
Nedu need Time to over this
I agree the wedding needs to be postponed because it’s not even about her sleeping with someone else, but it’s the fact that a baby is involved!
My thoughts too
That "Trust Issue" needs to be resolved... Nedu needs more time to hear God on the next step to take... To enjoy marriage, one needs not rush into it but to be careful and sensitive under God's leading
😆😆"You told me you would die without me"
No wonder she cheated. She knew he can't leave. 😂😂😂much love from Kenya
Exactly. She's a deceitful girl
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Happy to see nedu alive after prophet suddenly 😢
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😂😂he even got miokukusheshe pregnant
Resurrection happened 😂😂😂
@@megjillo5619 imagine oo a whole miokukusheshe 😂😂😂
I love the Winlos skits‼️ I enjoy them sooo much, not to mention the acting is superb 👌🏾 Lastly Nedu is so handsome, heyyyyy Nedu👋🏾😂
Good to see CK and Miokukusheshe again
Something is telling me in my mind that this is the name you'll be calling this people from this day forward 🤣🤣🤣
@@afam_bu_bekee haaa no o, I don't want the miokukusheshe name to stick o
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This relationship is questionable
Great to see this four great talents coming together..keep shining for Jesus
Please part 2 let's learn how to handle situations like this as Christians
How on earth can a true child of God Christian be having such issue, are they not born again? Definitely they are not Christians but church goers.
@@nnajismartchinagorom6132 Indeed I really feel that many problems that we try to address for "Believers" should not be matters for discussion in the first place if the people in question are truly born again and walking faithfully with Jesus
@@dan_cr8or Hmmmmm, Bro, things they happen oooo, na why Ebukasongs say if we no pray satan will make mess of us. At the time the thing dey wan happen, e go resemble a harmless thing, he calls to congratulate you for the up coming wedding, showing that he is happy for you, you get talking and somehow you "agree" to visit, maybe on your way back from one of your wedding shopping, you drop by just to say hello, perhaps it is even his family house and his family dem sabi you wella, before you say Jack, e don happen. Now will the Holy Spirit warn you? YES!!! How many times we don ignore the promptings of our Supreme Commander on various issues. Na later, we go begin say, if i had know i would not have picked his call, I would not have continued the convo and chats. @imem aniefiok don tok am finish, run , in fact flee any appearance of any EX!!!
@@joyarthur-akabogu5038yes ma oo, u nailed itt!!🔥🔥
MERCY! This would be extremely difficult!!!!! I would imagine Nedu's conversation with GOD would be something like, 'I know what You said but the hurt is so deep. I'm struggling with moving forward. I want to be in Your perfect will but my heart and mind keep reliving the hurt, pain (& possible shame). Help me live beyond the memory of the deceit. I need Your Holy Spirit to give me peace and Your wisdom. Give me a love for this child as if he or she is mine because marrying Ruth will make the child mine. Help me to see Ruth, the baby and this situation through Your eyes. All have sinned and come short of the Glory of GOD. Just as You have forgiven me, I must forgive Ruth. Dear LORD, thank You for helping me; I, so desperately, need You."
It's easier said than done. She wasn't resentful but was putting the blame on her ex.
God can always provide another perfect will for the guy.
But the guy must also forgive her even if they don't proceed to Marry
If God didn’t tell him to marry her, and it was his own doing then it would be easier for him to forget everything and move. But because God told him to marry her, he has to go back to God in prayer. Surely nothing is a surprise for God, He knew that she’d cheat on her fiancée…yet that still doesn’t make the situation easier to process, betrayal is still betrayal no matter what, infidelity is still infidelity no matter what.
But we can’t deny that she has issues, she didn’t have to go see the ex and she didn’t have to stay over so long that it got too dark for her to go back home. Clearly, she kept contact with him, and deliberately went to see him without notifying her soon to be spouse. Let the past the past, don’t give it power over your future, she sabotaged a godly marriage for a short term gratification. She never told the soon to be spouse, obviously she thought she could get away with it, the pregnancy got her caught because she had no plans on telling the soon to be husband that she slept with the ex. She was selfish. She’s deceitful as well. She didn’t take full accountability. She blamed brother Bernard as if he held her at gun point.
If that was me, I’d postpone the wedding and go back to God and hear from his instructions, if it’s His Will I’m sure that His grace is sufficient to heal me and help her at the same time. It’s beyond flesh and blood at this point, but practically these situations are tough to get through and it’s best to avoid that kind of embarrassment, we can blame the devil and he is to blame for perversion BUT he cannot use anything against us unless we provide the opportunity to do so; therefore guard your heart and set boundaries.
@@sunnyhunn9315 Yes. Guard your hearts and set boundaries. I like the conclusion. Be blessed ! I think it's a very balanced opinion!
I agree with you sometimes the this of God does not sense, when God was asking someone to marry a prostitute,
@@sunnyhunn9315 No He didn’t.. God knows the end of every decision you take.. but yet the decision is yours to take.. this puts a balance to His predeterminate counsel.. so when He told the guy that she His wife He didnt factor in her betrayal even though He knew that the temptation would come..the blessings of God maketh rich and He addeth no sorrow....
Thank you to the Winlos for providing such an insightful video. I think at the very least, they should postpone the wedding. The lady is evidently not well spiritually. Even though she may look okay outside, physically, but spiritually speaking she is not healthy.
Imagine for example, this wife-to-be was a deadly sick with cancer in a hospital undergoing treatment, would he insist on marrying her in that state ? ,or would you rather stay by her side, encourage her and support her recovery in order to marry her when she is fully healed.
I believe the same applies here, the lady is sick spiritually, because fornication, lying etc proceed from the heart (Matthew 15: 19-20) 19 For out of the heart come evil thoughts-murder, adultery, sexual immorality, theft, false testimony, slander. 20 These are what defile a person; but eating with unwashed hands does not defile them.” That is a problem.
2nd problem, she has no fear of God in her, for her to do this and be able to carry on with her Christian life, working etc without any problem, no remorse, no repentance, no confession to God. Something is very wrong, if they check well , you might discover that the lady isn't even hearing God anymore. She doesn't fear she will miss out on heaven ? Upon what basis then will you form this marriage ? Question, did she herself hear from God ? (Sarah needed to hear from God, for the miracle of Isaac's birth to proceed Gen 18:13-14; and How can two walk together unless they are agreed ? (Amos 3:3)
It is better to postpone the marriage, go for counselling , individualized counselling too with supervision by spiritual authorities over their lives, in order to help the man and the lady to heal before marriage, and also to cut off from that old relationship and all it's mementos, cut off soul-ties and destroys or throw out any keepsake or memorial of those past relationships. Otherwise it will continue to be a recurring problem for them in their marriage. I pray God gives anyone in such a situation the strength and courage to do the right thing.
NB: 1 Cor 6:9 Do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived. Neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor homosexuals, nor sodomites
God help us oh !!
WELL SAID!!!!
Bro Bernard got me 😂
😂😂😂😂Same.... In my head... I was screaming "Eeeh brother Bernard" 😂😂😂
Me too😂😂
Pregnant suddenly😂
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The fact that she slept with her ex prior to her marriage , means that there is high possibility she will sleep with her ex even during the marriage.
I liked how cool and calm CK was in Prophet Suddenly.
First to comment!
Emotional baggage from past relationships can spoil the present. She made a grave mistake but I hope she learns
I am stuck on this channel , love from Ghana 🇬🇭
Never visit a man alone when you are preparing to marry...it will save you from defiling the bed before the honeymoon 😊
Right because there should be no reason for that
CK the hot cake.....❤❤much love to you bro
And our dear sister Ruth.....
Daddy and Mummy Winlos🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤❤❤
Yeee, I'm excited. First to view💃💃. Thanks The Winlos. GOD continues to Bless you, Cheers to greater heights 🥳🥳🥳
Honestly this things are happening. I overheard someone said a guy slept with the ex a day after wedding, it's appalling that ladies are emotional attached to their ex even after break-up. Sometimes such stories wanna make us opt out in this marriage saga. However,I must get married, but to the right woman ❤️
And you will... God is faithful
You will sir
There are people who have too many soul ties and some are demonic. It’s best to iron those out before marriage.
@@kojoyeboah6787 you're right.
@@surplus833 shalom
Ruth has been cutting the cake with brother Bernard .
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 you have killed me. You are amazing. Ruth cut the cake with brother Bernard
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Brother Bernard!!!!!!!😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅
😅😅😅😅😅😅😅 Brother Bernard oooooo
She will continue sleeping with Bernard even in marriage, and she will manipulate Nedu on ‘but you said God told you to marry me’ 😱😱😱😱
He must run for his dear life
Hmmmm
😂love your response. Keep it 💯
May we be ready to meet Christ(THE BRIDEGROOM)when He returns and not get caught up in distraction(sin ...our past)...this is prophetic for me thank you Holy Spirit
Thank you to the Winlos I really appreciate and enjoyed your skits they are informative and godly
Hearing ck say he's a virgin is truamatizing. 😂😂😂
Stopeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeet 😂😂😂 Different lines for different roles
Point of correction, it's Nedu,😂, ck is the one that is not a virgin
CK di hot🥵 cake😂😂😂😂😂
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Ahhh Lord please show me your mercy, show us your Love... This is sincerely severe and evil wave.. That lady took an advantage.. if that guy is my brother i will never allow him to marry her.. A phone that you will use at night will never tell you turn on power saver in the morning!.. God bless the Winlos Sir, love you! Enjoying you from Cyprus.
This man better run for his life.
Before I chose my wife, I sought wise counsel from my spiritual advisors, not just my own understanding. Sometimes we get it wrong.
Also, it's not the fact that she got pregnant, it's the fact that she failed to tell him she cheated. She never mentions how much she really loves him, only the verbal unconditional contract she has on him 😂. She's still in love with the bad boy but the good guy is a safe option. We don't know how long it has been happening but we do know the ex was hitting it raw 2 weeks before the wedding, no protection. No regard for the fiance when we have diseases out here.
She was perfectly willing to go through with the wedding with no remorse until she got caught. This is the perfect example of nice guys finish last. Also, maybe God is saving her from a marriage she doesnt really want.
Man or woman, I would advise the person to run, they will use your blind faith against you when you are married cause they know you are bound together under God. Only God can save you after you are married.
May God help us all 🙏 .
To me the geniuses of her being sorry is if she has confessed before she was found out.
She decided to hide her sin.
If I was the one, the Holyspirit is not an author of confusion. If He spoke before, He will still speak again and even timely.
God bless you all
I think the guy should go back to God in prayer and decide soberly about marrying her or not based on her state that she has fornicated and therefore fallen pregnant. If God permits, then I would advise that they postpone the wedding so that the issue can be resolved through some counseling because clearly, the lady has not dealt with lust and needs to learn how to exercise boundaries.
Thanks to the Winlows😍 love you loads😇!
My dear, there is no going back to God. Since she still loves and can go to her ex, then he should marry her.
Going back where??? Matter don end here
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But God has Already spoken from the start?🤔🤦🏽♂️
@@Mkcouragecls God can speak and give you good gifts but maintaining it is in your hands, if you misuse it! You would lose it
It was the Brother Bernard for me😂😂😂😂😂
A man may seem wise in his own eyes but God judges their motives. Put the wedding on hold and go spend some more time in that secret place. Time reveals the genuineness of a man’s heart.
Wow
Sounds brilliant
This is exactly my thought. A friend I know did the same. The lady, however, was not claiming anything. She was rather remorseful and asking for forgiveness. The guy, a young pastor, eventually married her after she had put to bed.
No. To such relationship. Breaking engagement is better than breaking marriage. The result has shown the light.
He took the first decision based on what God said, so I sudjest he goes back to God again in prayer before he judges based on his immotions or calculations.
I love this guy's acting. He effortlessly takes his roles well
CK the hot cake, always in hot soup with Miokukusheshe... even when wedding is in 2 wks. Guy, pray and hear again, this time she will deal with you if you don't go ahead with the wedding...
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This is really a big deal.
Sis. Ruth has a lot to deal with which people have mentioned but I will like to point out that she didn't hear from God for herself with the way she spoke because if she had laboured in the place of prayer and with a lot of patience to receive her husband to be, she would have think twice before visiting her ex. talkless of spending a night.
Nedu should put the wedding on hold for now because he needs to clear his head of this sudden shock for him to even hear God clearly to receive the next step to take.
Nedu should go back to God.
Thank you so much for this video but give us part 2 to see how Ruth and Nedu handle the matter.
Thank you.
In addition, both of them should go back to God not only Nedu.
Thank you
Please we actually need a second part
This is very huge.
An advantage to Nedu is that he hears God.
He should go back to same God and enquire what to do.
Keep it up the Winlos ❤️
First to comment. Ruth should have told him right after it happened not waiting for the test result to expose her evil deed. She no try at all
Miokukusheshe and the hot Cake...😂😂😂...you guys are the best...may the Grace of God abound on you more as you advance HIS Kingdom through the gift of Acting....and God bless the winlos.
When God says something, the fulfilment depends on how we handle it. I will not go ahead with the marriage, because she's still hooked to her ex. I dont want to spend my life doubting if my kids are my own😂
Exactly
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Not funny.
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🤣🤣🤣 Brother Bernard who are you??? 😂 Kudos to y'all guys 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👍🏾
Kai... This Broda Bernard don do things o 😂 😂 😂 😂
I used to say and i still say it no contact with ex if it didn't work fine stay away from each other.these exes are sometimes the reason why so many relationships break apart.if it didn't work walk away for good
Thank you THE WINLOS for such a unique and life-touching video. An average man will never marry such a lady because of infidelity, lack of trust and openness, and shaking integrity... Had it been that the counsellor did not conduct a pregnancy test the baby would have been transferred to her supposed husband... However, who knows whether the sister will still play away match with brother Benard in the future, and the trauma will be there for the man which may make the marriage dissolve in the long run...
The Ruth lady is awesomely good in acting. Thanks guys for blessing us with Prophet Suddenly.
Dear Anwinli, pls don't use relaxer on your hair again cos it triggers cancerous growth, especially in women. You can do your own research too for confirmation. I love you and your skits and want you to stay safe. God bless you for all you do ❤❤❤
Sometimes people claim they heard GOD when it was actually their emotions.
The wedding needs to be put on hold for now.... pending when Nedu gets a confirmation from GOD.
What GOD says is the final when it comes to marriage. Imagine what Joseph went through with Mary in the bible....it was tough, it went against all human or logical reasoning to accept the pregnancy but he did....today, we all read about him and bless him for his bravery.
Part 2 please!
Is that not miokukusheshe 😂😂😂😂i can never forget her face...she scared me to death in prophet suddenly 🥲😅but her acting was superb 👌🏽
Eh! Brother Bernardi!!! In that woman's voice (voice in the short falling videos) 😅
Once you get into a relationship please cut all ties with your ex and set proper boundaries with the opposite sex. Errors are bound to happen no matter how innocent you are if you provide a conducive environment that fertilises your temptations.
Shout out to the Winlos👏🏿👏🏿
God BLESS the Winlos! See top notch acting!😊
This Ruth is a good actress
Una no get Brother Bernard rest 😂😂😂
This taught I need to pray to be removed from the past I order I love into what God has for me. I don’t know what I would do. As a human It would take time to move on
Wow! Wondering story..a lot has been said most of which I agree to especially having the wedding on hold till further instructions from God. However,I will like to let ladies out there that feels like they can blackmail sincere Christian guys with "God's revelation" that it's wrong to act differently from the revelation about you given to your fiance. Thank you!
CK the hot cake and Miokukusheshe are in a relationship 😂? How?
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😂😂😂😂 The Holy Spirit as converted Miokukusheshe
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I must say God bless you to the winlos, have been a fan since your beginning something got me and I knew you had it in you keep it up
Brother Benard...Shaa 😂😂😂😂😂.
If God really told Nedu to marry Ruth,then he should go and ask God what to do concerning the matter.if God say he go ahead then he can but if God said he should not marry her he will provide new wife for him.
There again a notification. Now I'm freezing everything 😂
Abeg oo which of the ministries are we donating to support? The one under miokukusheshe or which one 😂…
Just love that movie to the core wow 🤩
Right now we need a part 2 of this.
Seriously
The part 2 is personal, what will you do?
Miokusheshe is very Talented 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰 GOD bless you and bless the Entire Winlos production team,you guys are doing wonders neh
This is so common in the church now.
Many many come stand infront of the altar alresdy pregnant and pretending to people
Is a sad situation to the point it is becoming normal in church now
Is Nedu even sure he heard from God? That's another question we should ask as well.
Most time we act based on our human feeling and allow it becloud God's plans for us.
But, whatever decision he decides to take should be given a real deep thought coupled with prayer and seeking God's face, if he truly heard from God and if he truly loves her.
God can speak and give you good gifts but maintaining it is in your hands, if you misuse it! You would lose it
In this case, Let Go on the basis of infidelity
Why will I visit my Ex even if I am single and manless 😂. How much more weeks to your wedding. There’s a restaurant, if you must see him for any reason use an open public space. Ensure no body contact especially if you still have emotions for them. Abeg oo
At least, they aren't married yet. So Nedu still has the option of either choosing or refusing. But I think if he chooses, he must have to cope with the fact that his first born is not biologically from him. This can be traumatic Sha.
While I'm an advocate of complete obedience to God's direction, some red flags during courtship affords us the option of still deciding whether or not under God's leading still.
If they were already married and this came up, Nedu would have to continue. It's for better or worse
I believe the first step is to first call off the wedding. Even if they would settle to stay together or go ahead it must be a decision not made because of what people will say or in a haste. So no one is pressured into future regret and resentment.
The importance of marriage counseling for singles waiting to be married cannot be overemphasized 🙏🏼🙏🏼
Blessings Winlos🙏🏼
Hey Mercy of God. This is what we have been doing to our lord Jesus Christ everyday. Show us, mercy lord, 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
There has to be a part 2!!!
Great, I tap from your grace, more grace.
The problem is not that she cheated or even got pregnant. The problem is she visited her ex and had sex and didn't see it necessary to let her fiance know, at least to prove her sincerity. Its the pregnancy that exposed her, such a woman is dangerous and cannot be trusted. I feel even if God gave the go ahead he should put the wedding on hold until God deals with this lust and other things that may ruin the home before they can come together if there would be need for that. Many get married because they feel God led them without allowing God complete his dealings in the lives of both individuals involved then after getting married there's Marital crisis making it look like God led them wrongly. Its such a pity.
This is wisdom! Well spoken.
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Well said, I like the part about allowing God to deal with our future spouse, because they’re still human. And the flesh is weak. You’ll be surprise at what people are dealing with and will not tell you, until you’re surprised by the state of their own brokenness, it’s tragic.
For me this is what we does...we have walked together with Jesus waiting for the final day but all over sudden we go back to sin and we were delivered.
We need a sincere repentance He is a mercyful God.
What a cross road, such a dilemma. Just like catching your spouse red handed cheating with another person few days to your wedding 😭😭😭. It only takes the Grace of GOD to proceed in such situations. Remembering Joseph and Mary right now, just that this person outrightly went to the ex place, and Mary's case was supernatural.... Hmmm, GOD Help us🙏
I will advice he does the will of God, if God says continue then go on because God sees the future and His gift added no sorrow but maketh rich. But for now hold on with the wedding and pray more than before, God surely will tell you what to do.
Even prophet Suddenly is counseling CK after sleeping with Miokukusheshe. What a wow 😂😂😂😂
I know right 😂😂
SHE'S VERY GOOD AT ACTING,I LOVE HER❤❤
Medi seems like a nice guy to even listen to her😅😅😅
Waw...
It's a lot to swallow as a man. I believe since it was God's direction that brought them together, Edu share pray about it. As Christians in every situation, we ought to use the Scripture as backing, take for instance what would have happened is Joseph decided not to marry Mary 😅. Edu should pray and seek God's direction ❣️.
"I am a Virgin...., We don't even hug...." This coming from the guy who played the character 'CK the Hot cake' from Prophet Suddenly 😂.
The Winlos are the best, May God continue to flourish this Ministry day by day.
Ikr
😂😂ck the hot cake and mimokukusheshe....part2 please
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God bless the winlos for me oo🎉❤🤸🤸
It's best to go back to God for wayforward at every crossroad. Praying until you get clarity.
If he decides to leave Ruth, it's not wrong but God has to consent to it.
If God consent to it that means another woman will fulfil Ruth's role, just like Esther replaced vashti😊
If God doesn't consent to It, he'd have to marry her like that just as God told Hosea to marry Gomer (an whore) for a reason😮
God bless the Winlos😂❤
You are reading your Bible 😅
God did that to prophetically show Hosea how unfaithful Israel was to Him....let Him run while He can.. God said yes, but there is a requisite alignment that’s needed for it to manifest..
Even God said can change
What will you do? Pls answer ooo we need to learn bikonu 😅😅😅😅