@TelManothHexperax. No way, there’s no law to cover what she did, what world do you live in, if that’s your view you’ll be on your own, for he rest of your life.
Hell after the 1st I'm out unless she makes an effort to make the next one happen. I've found if they really aren't using you and are interested they will make all the effort and then get pissed if you don't take them up on it.
@gordocarbo Exactly. When he asks her about her dad she ignores him. I'm guessing her dad isn't really sick. She finally agreed to a date because she was hungry
Thats untrue. You only see the small % of entitled assholes with inflated egos. Me and my wife both could be considered influencers with 100k active followers combined and enough money from ads and contracts to live a living yet none of us would actually call outself influencers if asked what do we do. We're healthcare providers and event organisers
This guy is the most respectful man. I feel like even the judge was dismissive of his feelings and explanations. He should be compensated for the waste of time.
If the real judge of the actual case deadass said "Nobody dislikes a cheap man more than me" that's crazy. She's a judge. She'll be making more than any basic man she meets tf?
Meh, RUclips has taught me a ton of skills. The truth is there are a lot of narcissistic people in the world, and with so many platforms, you get to see the true terrifying truth of how many of them are out there 😂😂😂😂
Yeah, she just wanted to take advantage of him. She's 45 minutes late (traffic is always bad at that time of day so you plan for it), then ignores him and does her job as an "influencer" and expects him to pay for this charade. Wonder how many other guys she has suckered?? Good for the judge with this decision!!
When she said "I promise you I did not fail math" I laughed, she's funny. Although I laughed because she... you know, she probably did fail math. And later she says 65 minutes instead of 45 minutes.
"I am a social media influencer..." HUGE red flag, right off the bat. She was clearly attempting a foodie-call on this guy. He made the right move, walking away.
Social media influencer means she hasn't eaten on days because she broke AF and like certain animals, will eat a whole meal to last them a couple weeks at a time.
I'm sure she's still happy because she got on TV. She doesn't care WHAT people think of her. She just cares that people DO think of her. She's an attention w hore.
@KJ_Valeh, not exactly. She did really put the emphasis the entire time how she needs to hear both sides of the story and was focusing on every detail. She was joking a lot, sure but she was very dilligent.
Honestly, if she really WAS "sorry", the LEAST she could have done was offer to pay for HIS drinks and maybe even offer HIM food on HER dime. That could have been a gesture of good faith on her part. Such an ACTION would help reinforce her WORDS of apology. But no, her self-centered, self-entitled ass decided to just focus on herself. What self-respecting man would put up with such crap?
I did that to the prettiest model in a live music club, she was out of my league so I said bye after she started playing mind games after a few dates, she kept calling me after thinking I would change my mind, I didn't
A week ago, I went on a date and got pulled into a restaurant situation. When I refused to pay for her lunch and dessert for her friend who showed up mid-date (no joke, she introduced herself as a very popular influencer knowing celebrities and promising promote my TikTok account lol), then after she finished eating, she dropped the bill next to me and told me - You, pay. She actually was really engaged in conversation and seemed to be very positive, but that was completely whipped after I asked - why would I? Then she tried to negotiate saying maybe we could split it 50/50. I said I’d only pay for my coffee. Her face turned red, her friend looked super uncomfortable it was mega cringe I believe and I was just sitting there trying not to laugh. That’s never happened to me before. I’m glad I didn’t give in to that ..fraud? 😂
Even with the benefit of the doubt, who the hell orders 218$ worth of food and drinks???? I live in Israel which is far overpriced everything cost almost 2x USA prices with 80% USA salaries and higher taxation, and even in fancy restaurants me and my family got full meals for way less, this is just a red flag.
The legal issue is not about the date. It's about the money and who owes what. The "date" was essentially a legal contract. They agreed on happy hour drinks (for $20 each, based on what he ordered) and not on the post happy hour drinks and food that she ordered.
It's strange to me as non American figuring out this "dating" thing, it really doesn't exist here. If a woman an man see each other, talk and go out it's assumed we are a couple, so this "I'm gonna date this guy and than another guy tomorrow" is culturally unexpectable.
I never normally say this, but 90% of this is on the man. I like the fact he asked her out a few times and showed that he had heart but I would have not kept pursuing that extent. Plus if I show up early like he did which I usually do and I don’t get a text or anything give her six minutes and then bounce it’s that simple. I think he was kind of Simy on this and I think he should still pay for half her food because of his crappy judgment.
@johnlozauskas778 so because he gives her the benefit of the doubt he’s on the hook for 1/2 of her mistakes? She should be paying him for wasting his time. She’s a scam artist and nothing less. Scammers should never be rewarded regardless of the victim’s gullibility
I know several small business owners who complain about parasitic influencer calls as in: I'm having a party and if you provide a cake and dessert buffet for free you will get instant publicity to my 20000 followers. Answer: Thanks but we've been doing ok for the past 15 years without your 20,000 followers. All the. Best Meaning: You and your greedy broke azz friends better get off my company phone before I say something really rude
Anyone calling themselves an “influencer” is a clear sign of narcissism. No one is going to be influenced by that nonsense unless they are equally delusional.
Her behavior is very childlike, unacceptable, and disrespectful. She ordered all that food and tried to stiff him with the bill and it backfired on her. This man was nothing but respectable and classy the whole entire time and she wasn't. There is no telling how many men she's done this to based on her looks it's sickening.
No no no she’s lactose intolerant and doesn’t drink coffee No seafood 🍤 allergy ✅ Will drink alcohol 🍷 ✅ Shows up late ✅ Starving!!!! for margaritas and famished for calamari, alligator one more margarita 🐊 salmon 🐟 ✅
Even dolled up for a TV show, she's basically average. Not unpleasant, but past her peak and a little overweight. I'm not one of those guys who calls all these women 2s and 3s, but methinks the guy was a little on the thirsty side.
I'm a man who loves women, and if we were to compare, I would say he is more handsome than she is pretty. I think her attitude also contributes to it. The fact that he is a teacher also should say something (positive) about him.
"I'm a social media influencer." "So you're broke." "I am an INFLUENCER." "So you're broke." "BUT I AM AN INFLUENCER I DON'T HAVE TO PAY!" "That's a really loud way to say you're broke."
@SixtiesFan87yea I'm not sure your realize she did for clout, not for the 218$. Not only that, they get paid to be on here sometimes. So if anything she gained simp followers, I'm sure it didn't waste her time.
True!!! Batter of most things fried has dairy in it. Met so many of these wanna be vegans, lactose anxiety ptsd dorks its not even funny. Whats crazy is they expect people in the real world to buy their bs. Oops, they live at home so what horrible experience...ah nevermind lol
There might be parts of the video edited out (this is basically stolen from a tv show). I haven't seen the original show, but there could be parts like: he told her to get there early because of the other times she flaked, or it takes 20 minutes for the restaurant to seat her after she gets there. So on and so forth.
After her first refusal I would just stop texting her, but even if I got a date, and she texted me 5 minutes before, saying she is running late, I would wait 10 minutes and then leave without telling her. She deserves nothing.
Because it was written in her script "you'll play the part of an irritating and entitled influencer who believes that it's her date's responsibility to pay for her meal, regardless of her very disrespectful behaviour during the date"
They both some clowns. She canceled the first two dates should have been a sign she wasn’t interested in him. He should moved on to a woman who would actually want to date him instead of what his eyes like.
She ordered $218 worth of food, on a first date, that was supposed to be for just drinks, in addition to the multiple disrespectful things she did, and then actually took him to court, for not footing the bill?!? That’s god tier levels of entitlement.
@bentairyukiba I assume you are talking about just her half not exceeding $50. If you know of a decent restaurant where two can eat and drink for under $50, please let us know!
Exactly. My first date with my guy was a coffee shop. I ordered TEA bc I didn't want coffee that day. We have also been to ice cream shops, where they do sell dairy free ice cream and sorbet. She wanted alcohol and an expensive meal for a FIRST date.
Red flags before the date: 1. I don't drink coffee (Hello could have ordered tea or bottled water) 2. I'm:Lactose intolerant (Find another item on the menu) 3. Cancels 2x 4. Late for date Run, run Forest run....🏃♂️
Yeah it’s a red flag if a guy offers a coffee date that’s so low effort. I don’t take advantage like these women do these days and I order a cheap meal but the least you can do is take me for dinner.. Also IBS girlies will agree no coffee or ice cream dates . You’ll literally have to blow up a bathroom within 20 min 😢😢😢😢 She was inconsiderate of his time and that’s not ok “ I’m an influencer” was the first red flag . I rolled my eyes so hard 😂
Coffee doesn’t have to mean strictly “coffee.” Ice cream can mean sherbet. She was never interested in him. He should have taken the first “No” at face value and quit right there.
The best thing the man did in this session was that he spoke as little as he could, and eloquently at that. I bet you if he spoke too much, he wouldn't have been taken as seriously. He's definitely a smart man for dodging this so well.
@Jake-hh9mqthank you I mean I don't know if it's literally scripted word for word but it's fake private mediation. Like I'm sure everyone is in on it. it just gets her some name recognition.
@toddgaak422 This was some fake court tv show. Not a real court, but small claims court does deal with some crazy stupid, petty things like this. From her perspective there was an implied contract for a gift and she acted in accordance. When he withdrew his support, it resulted in an undo cost to her and she is seeking restitution. This case is stupid, but something not to far that would stand, a neighbor offers to paint a fence for say 500 and they agree. A week later they show up and the fence is already painted. That person spent say 100 on paint and supplies on the promise of the job. They are owed compensation. How much can be an issue of debate. Some things could be returned or maybe used for another job, but there is also travel, time, opportunity cost.
You can end up in court for anything or nothing at all. Like, you can look at someone the wrong way and they can take you to court. Now, whether they *win* their case is an entirely different matter. Note that the case was just completely dismissed, as would most stupid or frivolous cases.
@slayemin Someone can file for any reason, but the court doesn't need to accept it. Even if it is, you get a letter (at their cost, being served [on notice of the lawsuit]). Then you can respond in writing court that the case has no merit, standing, doesn't have jurisdiction (over you, subject, ...), no real damages, civil rights, affirmative defenses (fair use, freedom of speech, truth, anit-SLAP). Some of that can come with fee switching (they pay for both sides if they lose) or other penalties.
I'm a female and 100% agree with the guy on this one. She is a piece of work! He did the right thing, leaving her! I would have left after 20-30 minutes. I don't wait that long for anyone I just met!
Yes same but the man who knows she thinks she’s too good for anyone and might be using him is also a loser. Ice cream? Coffee? Like an influencer would want to go there. He was thinking sex and impressing her with words, lowering her standards for dates and ready to dip if she seemed to be wanting to “use him” (as if he’s not trying to use her body). Then she’s a social media bimbo who wants to take photos and share on stories constantly - why would she turn down the nice restaurant when he finally invites her where she’s worth going and can dress up to eat really good and get photos looking important. Seems like they both got what they deserved in this case
Just checking. Would you have contacted an influencer on social media, ask her out, have her turn down coffee and ice cream dates, then cancel on your two drinks dates, one of those times after you already drove all the way to the bar, then finally show up 45 minutes late and still stick around? I know that dating is tough but he ignored so many red flags he must have something cognitively wrong with him. Glad the judge saved him in the end though.
@not_ever facts. Turning down a coffee or icecream date because you don’t drink or eat those two things as if they’re exclusively the only things on the menu would have been enough for me
@theadventuresofred19 Exactly, You could always reschedule if you felt it was beyond he control why she could not have texted you. Like most men, you have a beautiful women that wants to meet with you, you go out of your way for them. Just who many men are. We are learning though.
So she doesn't have a job. She cancels on him twice, shows up 45 minutes late to the date. She finally shows up and orders $250 worth of food and drinks and doesn't even ask if he has eaten. All he asked for was to meet for drinks, a meet and greet. The entitlement on this one runs deep.
Been there, felt it, for me it happened and i waited 20 minutes. I texted her, i called her, no answer. 5 minutes later she replies: "sry for the wait, i will arrive 30 minutes late". I was 30 minutes now or 30 minutes later and she said 30 minutes later. Then i said: no worries i cancel the date, we can do this onother, i have things to do. If you're late and then coming even more late then jeez, nope huge Red flag for me. And btw i arrived 15min before the actual time. I ordered the table for 1.5h and then she just says i will come 1h later. That really pisses me off. But yeah, in 2 weeks later we met, but just walking no dinner, but i read her personality very well. Entitled feminist
No. A bih accepts cheap she will be considered cheap. Absolutely not. You have to do something more than tea. Don’t ask to go on a date if you are broke
I took a woman to Red Lobster on a first date. She ordered lobster with all the fixings which was ok. But then she ordered ANOTHER she said for lunch tomorrow. I excused myself to use the bathroom and promptly drove home🎉
She is too boring and pretend to be too much, which is not really , she is taking advantage of him, no wonder he left.... Disrespect that is the word, she is a narcissist , well said Judge you nailed it!
She started ordering TONS of food without even asking whether he had ordered or ate yet, while busying herself with her phone. She didn't intend to have a date with him. She just wanted free dinner.
She also wanted to use him in her "influencing" media, without asking his permission, solely so she could profit from it. Entitled doesn't begin to cut it. She's a predator.
The fact she canceled two other times means he should have just given her 10 minutes leeway, then left. Left as note with the hostess telling the influencer she can go “influence” herself to get some consideration for others. She didn’t accept coffee or ice cream cause she wanted a free full meal. And she is not even pretty. Pretty ugly, but not beautiful pretty.
She can’t be very good at her job if she’s worried about a few hundred dollars. She can’t make that much money. He left because he realized disrespectful she was and shes not all that either. He can do way better!! Good move dude!!
At this point, most influencers are just a bunch of narcissists 😂
Jobless narcissists
Yeah unemployed Narcissists
Under-the-influence-r.
Just another moocher desperate for relevance…Guess the influencer business doesn’t pay very well..Shame on her.Her personality makes her ugly..🤡
Judge is fucking rude.....no wonder ahe is not on Housewives anymore...
She tried to turn a drink date into a foodie call!!
if she shows up and orders a ton of food, shes broke
if shes always hungry shes broke
HE WENT ON A DATE
@Undaglibenglaubenglobena drink date, not a meal date.
@Undaglibenglaubengloben and so what ?
because he come on a date he is obligate by law to buy anythink the women want ?
@TelManothHexperax. No way, there’s no law to cover what she did, what world do you live in, if that’s your view you’ll be on your own, for he rest of your life.
Two cancellations and 45 minutes late? I’m out the door!!!
Hell after the 1st I'm out unless she makes an effort to make the next one happen. I've found if they really aren't using you and are interested they will make all the effort and then get pissed if you don't take them up on it.
Esp the line of BS about her sick Dad. Soon as people start telling stories they are lying
@gordocarbo Exactly. When he asks her about her dad she ignores him. I'm guessing her dad isn't really sick. She finally agreed to a date because she was hungry
I think myself patient & understanding: at 30 minutes w no call / text I’m gone.
No shit, call her and call it a night and move on. Being late is a power move, that shit doesn't fly with me
People like this shouldn’t be “influencing “ anyone.
Ever.
“I’m a social media influencer” gave me the entire picture.
Never seen or heard of her 😅
Red flag#1!
In other words, I have a worthless job.
God yes. Wonder if she has an OF account.
Yeah, as soon as I heard that I thought "Run!".
"I'm a social media influencer" automatically ends all credibility immediately!!
💯. It isn't the flex these narcissists think it is.
What kind of morons could she influence?
@DavidClark-j6o All kinds of morons...The world is full of them!!
MarilindaEarthlove Just grifters, with braindead followers !!
@DavidClark-j6o To influence others to do the same as her. 🗣️😭✌️🤞☝️🥀🙏
Never date an influencer.... EVERYTHING is always about them.
Thats untrue. You only see the small % of entitled assholes with inflated egos.
Me and my wife both could be considered influencers with 100k active followers combined and enough money from ads and contracts to live a living yet none of us would actually call outself influencers if asked what do we do. We're healthcare providers and event organisers
Especially a ughly nasty looking influencer....
Not true!! Everything is about money 😂😂
@YlecaraOiburSame difference 👍
@YlecaraOibur
Well said
This guy is the most respectful man. I feel like even the judge was dismissive of his feelings and explanations. He should be compensated for the waste of time.
He does come cross as very passive to me though and I felt sorry for him .the dude is a decent guy but needs to work on his assertivity
If the real judge of the actual case deadass said "Nobody dislikes a cheap man more than me" that's crazy. She's a judge. She'll be making more than any basic man she meets tf?
I just wished that the judge would stop interrupting
It's good this all happened on first date, more knowledge more damage in this case!
@CiaranByrne-le3zu
Yes the judge is beginning to annoy me with her whole approach
No way would I pay $600 for dinner for an entitled stranger. She’s out of her mind.
I wouldn't agree to a female judge, women draw the line in feminism for a free meal
cant she pay for her own meal?
To be fair, the bill was $218 but, yes, anything over $20 is too high.
I wouldn't pay 600 for anyone period
I’m 3.5 years into my current relationship. I think our biggest restaurant bill ever was $94 😂
These influencers make me sick. They legit think they are famous and can do whatever they want. Social media is a cancer to society
Agree 💯 percent
Based as fck
...Influencer = No Job...
Meh, RUclips has taught me a ton of skills. The truth is there are a lot of narcissistic people in the world, and with so many platforms, you get to see the true terrifying truth of how many of them are out there 😂😂😂😂
Well said
She never intended to date this guy, she 100% thinks she's too pretty for him, she just wanted a free meal.
Her forehead is bulbous, when looking from the side. Those bangs are to minimize it.
@nicholasr7987 She has a Jawline close to Giga Chad 😂
I worked with someone bragging about doing that. My answer shut her up, . . . "I've never been that hungry".
Yeah, she just wanted to take advantage of him. She's 45 minutes late (traffic is always bad at that time of day so you plan for it), then ignores him and does her job as an "influencer" and expects him to pay for this charade. Wonder how many other guys she has suckered?? Good for the judge with this decision!!
Obviously didn't want his company.
She is greedy that's just the fact, all these stupid social media influencers 😤
When the judge calls her a "sort of prostitute"... that's hilarious! 🤣🤣🤣
...and true.
😂
the guy in the background when she says it too lol
When she said "I promise you I did not fail math" I laughed, she's funny. Although I laughed because she... you know, she probably did fail math. And later she says 65 minutes instead of 45 minutes.
What she is basically.
"I am a social media influencer..." HUGE red flag, right off the bat.
She was clearly attempting a foodie-call on this guy. He made the right move, walking away.
Social media influencer means she hasn't eaten on days because she broke AF and like certain animals, will eat a whole meal to last them a couple weeks at a time.
Dude dodged a bullet,
Lol. She's available?! Sweet!!
Also a flag that this whole thing is scripted rage bait.
"unemployed" and foodstitute...
She ordered it, she ate it, she can pay for it. I hope they charged her for court costs. What a waste of court time.
This is a TV court and people go there in part because there are no court costs.
Strong independent women can pay their own bills
I'm sure she's still happy because she got on TV. She doesn't care WHAT people think of her. She just cares that people DO think of her. She's an attention w hore.
@stevenclarke5606she ain’t that.
These court shows pay both parties for the case, an appearance fee AND the decision fee. So no, the court didn't charge her, they paid for the bill.
The judge getting attitude towards the guy before he gets to say anything spoke volumes. The comment was unnecessary from her along with the eye roll.
She's a woman first and a judge second. Which is unprofessional in my opinion
While flipping her wig
I thought the same when I watched. It was uncalled-for. Happy she changed her tune at the end.
@KJ_Valeh, not exactly. She did really put the emphasis the entire time how she needs to hear both sides of the story and was focusing on every detail. She was joking a lot, sure but she was very dilligent.
Prostitution is a real thing they've just disguised it as a model now🤦🏾♂️
Modeling, marriage, you name it. It’s ALL prostitution.
A very thin veil of a disguise, mind you.
She is No Where near being a Model!!!!
escorting, onlyfans model, instagram model, yeah they're all ladies of the night.
She is a model of an average woman at best
You are trying to sue him over food you ordered
Edit: 2.5k likes LETS GO!!!
She has no case
It's no the worst one I've heard but it's up there
An absolute narcissist!
Honestly, if she really WAS "sorry", the LEAST she could have done was offer to pay for HIS drinks and maybe even offer HIM food on HER dime.
That could have been a gesture of good faith on her part.
Such an ACTION would help reinforce her WORDS of apology.
But no, her self-centered, self-entitled ass decided to just focus on herself.
What self-respecting man would put up with such crap?
If she's broke she should just say.
When a man can walk away from any toxic woman, regardless of her beauty, he is one of the most powerful people in the world.
@BigTiffany 😂😂😂😂😂
I did that to the prettiest model in a live music club, she was out of my league so I said bye after she started playing mind games after a few dates, she kept calling me after thinking I would change my mind, I didn't
And vice versa.
Truth be!
@ROMVS wdym mind games
A week ago, I went on a date and got pulled into a restaurant situation. When I refused to pay for her lunch and dessert for her friend who showed up mid-date (no joke, she introduced herself as a very popular influencer knowing celebrities and promising promote my TikTok account lol), then after she finished eating, she dropped the bill next to me and told me - You, pay. She actually was really engaged in conversation and seemed to be very positive, but that was completely whipped after I asked - why would I? Then she tried to negotiate saying maybe we could split it 50/50. I said I’d only pay for my coffee. Her face turned red, her friend looked super uncomfortable it was mega cringe I believe and I was just sitting there trying not to laugh. That’s never happened to me before. I’m glad I didn’t give in to that ..fraud? 😂
I haven't eaten ALLLLLLLLLLLL day. IMMEDIATELY ordered alcohol, on an empty stomach.
Most people drink alcohol on an empty stomach
Even with the benefit of the doubt, who the hell orders 218$ worth of food and drinks????
I live in Israel which is far overpriced everything cost almost 2x USA prices with 80% USA salaries and higher taxation, and even in fancy restaurants me and my family got full meals for way less, this is just a red flag.
Are you sure you're in Israel?
Wth?
He's just mad because he found out he wasn't getting her body and he dipped out
Right! So even if she hadn’t eaten all day, that’s not his fault!!
I wasn't aware that dates were now legally binding affairs that a man could be sued for. Makes dating even less worth it.
lol. They aren’t. These are real cases but not legally binding. The show/court usually pays the “winner”
AI says these cases are not even real, just for entertainment. However the legal decisions are probably accurate if these situations really happened.
The legal issue is not about the date. It's about the money and who owes what. The "date" was essentially a legal contract. They agreed on happy hour drinks (for $20 each, based on what he ordered) and not on the post happy hour drinks and food that she ordered.
More about the resturant.
It's strange to me as non American figuring out this "dating" thing, it really doesn't exist here.
If a woman an man see each other, talk and go out it's assumed we are a couple, so this "I'm gonna date this guy and than another guy tomorrow" is culturally unexpectable.
Bruh, she flaked twice, showed up late, immediately starts ordering food…all the tell tale signs of a foodstitute
Not only flaked, she turned him down multiple times. Of course she thought she could do whatever she wanted.
I never normally say this, but 90% of this is on the man. I like the fact he asked her out a few times and showed that he had heart but I would have not kept pursuing that extent. Plus if I show up early like he did which I usually do and I don’t get a text or anything give her six minutes and then bounce it’s that simple. I think he was kind of Simy on this and I think he should still pay for half her food because of his crappy judgment.
@johnlozauskas778 so because he gives her the benefit of the doubt he’s on the hook for 1/2 of her mistakes? She should be paying him for wasting his time. She’s a scam artist and nothing less. Scammers should never be rewarded regardless of the victim’s gullibility
"foodstitute" 😂😂😂
If I was him I would have let her run the bill up higher then asked to use the bathroom and walked out
"Find another sucker. This ain't the one."
He WASN’T being cheap, he’s living within his means AND deep down he knew what this woman was up to.
And women wonder: " Where are all the good men?!??".
We are running out of popcorn!🍿🍿🍿
It's AI probably
@saraf9081the script might be. But those are absolutely actors
@saraf9081 not everything is AI. But im sure that's your new go to. This woman ain't nothing but a spoiled high maintenance b.
Yuppppp!
“Social media influencer” in other words you make 80 bucks a week complaining online.
I don't thinks she's achieved that level yet. Nor will she.
😂 👍👍👍👍
"I had to go to a fashion shoot". AKA, "I paid someone to take pictures of me".
I know several small business owners who complain about parasitic influencer calls as in:
I'm having a party and if you provide a cake and dessert buffet for free you will get instant publicity to my 20000 followers.
Answer: Thanks but we've been doing ok for the past 15 years without your 20,000 followers. All the. Best
Meaning: You and your greedy broke azz friends better get off my company phone before I say something really rude
Wow....wonder how many 13 yr olds in India had to work to total 80 bux!
You know the type.....marry me my love, 25 emojis etc .
"I'm a social media influencer". Interpreted: "I'm self-righteous, virtuous, entitled and narcissistic and I film myself continuously". Clear as day.
Anyone calling themselves an “influencer” is a clear sign of narcissism. No one is going to be influenced by that nonsense unless they are equally delusional.
she loves herself.
@kennethtalbott2233And no one else, not even her father, clearly she using him as an excuse.
@RobertBrown-q2h yep, just a free loader
😂
Her behavior is very childlike, unacceptable, and disrespectful. She ordered all that food and tried to stiff him with the bill and it backfired on her. This man was nothing but respectable and classy the whole entire time and she wasn't. There is no telling how many men she's done this to based on her looks it's sickening.
She didnt want $5 coffee/ice cream. She wanted that seafood buffet 😂
No no no she’s lactose intolerant and doesn’t drink coffee
No seafood 🍤 allergy ✅
Will drink alcohol 🍷 ✅
Shows up late ✅
Starving!!!! for margaritas and famished for calamari, alligator one more margarita 🐊 salmon 🐟 ✅
Well, maybe he did too.
She also wanted those drinks after happy hour ended at $10 a pop.
Yep ice cream shops sell no lactose ice creams now
Yes, see food and eat it.
Calling her "gorgeous" is an overstatement. Further, imagine being so unsuccessful as an influencer, you sue for $200.
Even dolled up for a TV show, she's basically average. Not unpleasant, but past her peak and a little overweight. I'm not one of those guys who calls all these women 2s and 3s, but methinks the guy was a little on the thirsty side.
I'm a man who loves women, and if we were to compare, I would say he is more handsome than she is pretty. I think her attitude also contributes to it. The fact that he is a teacher also should say something (positive) about him.
I think 🤔 the Judge is prettier than she is💁🏽♀️
@donnarupert59 I thought the same thing
@MegaGasekas a woman, I completely agree with your observation
She absolutely messed up a good thing. This guy is communicative, well spoken, direct, and thinks she's far more beautiful than she is.
He isn't Chad enough for her!
He was Chad enough to dodge her 😂
😂. Both. Lol
Nice respectable man, she is selfish
He dodged this self absorbed misery
*I'm a social media influencer 💅🏻 I own the earth 😏"😂
No Man is paying an Influencer Tariff.
😂😂😂 class... She can pay the f**k off tariff
Influ-leach-er
@javageek123Good description.
Lol! 😂
😂😅😂😢😅😂
She ate 3 months worth of groceries in one sitting. Jabba the gutt much ?
😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂
3 months? That’s more like 2 weeks (maybe) for a single person
😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅
I can't believe she actually had the gall to take him to court over this.
Because society (men) keep indulging and enabling women.
You can’t honestly believe this is real
Yeah I know . As soon as you hear someone say they're a social media influencer you run like hell
This is all an act to get us to respond like we are.
She didn't. She took him to an arbitration TV show, because she wanted to be on TV.
The judge said "I can do math sir" then calls 45 minutes 65 minutes 😂
I'm so tired of this "influencer" bs.
Zero value to society...,..a new name for scab.
Aren’t we all
Influencers are people who can’t hold down a real job and are looking for handouts.
Are people really that dumb to believe these “influencers”?
"I'm a social media influencer."
"So you're broke."
"I am an INFLUENCER."
"So you're broke."
"BUT I AM AN INFLUENCER I DON'T HAVE TO PAY!"
"That's a really loud way to say you're broke."
She lost the whole thing as soon as she said that.
😂😂😂😂😂
She sells her body on OF and thinks she is an influencers😂😂😂
😂 Yes
Broke and hungry...😂😂😂
In the old days they used to call influencers “bull shit artist”
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
And they still are.
God, that's funny! Thank you!
Thank you I needed that description!
We still do!! Some of us !!
The judge still made me furious with her comment about cheap men. Who the hell does she think she is? The entitlement from both women is sickening.
She didn't call him cheap... she called her cheap.
She said that she hates cheap men in general but this time it wasn't the case... In fact she called her a prostitute 😂
@R088LN She said she hates cheap men in general.....exactly! What an arrogant, materialistic piece of work.
Low class ideals
Noo she ain't entitled. She is a good judge 😁
Going out for coffee doesn't mean actually drinking coffee. There's soda, tea, lemonade. It's just to get acquainted. It's all about her.
Exactly and if she truly wanted to get to know him better she would have gone on the coffee date and ordered tea.
She said she's an influencer, she never said she had a brain for such highly elevated thought processes.
@CharmSchoolFail21well said
Exactly!
As the old saying goes “beauty is only skin deep”.
If she is such a great influencer, she should have no problem paying 218 bucks....
She also wasted 5 hours going to this court thing getting ready for it etc
@SixtiesFan87yea I'm not sure your realize she did for clout, not for the 218$. Not only that, they get paid to be on here sometimes.
So if anything she gained simp followers, I'm sure it didn't waste her time.
@YouGotServed835 Exactly, only proved that she only deserves simps, not MEN.
It's a good idea to invest in a voice recorder and listen to your voice.
She's a parasite.
He dodge a bullet
more like a bazooka
Wait... Does bro have on a WEDDING RING while he's on court defending against a bad date?? 😂 This world isn't real.
i mean trhese are just actors reacting a "real" case
Because he is wearing a ring doesn’t necessarily mean he’s married
Plus he admited DUI and judge didn't give a sh*t
@dravez perhaps he's still within the limit after only 2 drinks?
Maybe this is a year later....
A social influencer is a fancy way of saying I'm a Bullshitter.
😂😂
Honestly that's kind of insulting to bullshitters
😂 good one
@cantdestroyher7245😂
What pathetic fool would be influenced by this pathetic fool??
Girl's NOT allergic to ice cream or coffee. *"She's allergic to low-priced dates."*
- my smartazz daughter 😂😂😂
How did I not think of this...😂😂😂😂😂
True!!! Batter of most things fried has dairy in it.
Met so many of these wanna be vegans, lactose anxiety ptsd dorks its not even funny. Whats crazy is they expect people in the real world to buy their bs.
Oops, they live at home so what horrible experience...ah nevermind lol
your kid is going places 😂
People are acting like he's cheap, but he hadn't even met her yet. It's not like it was their anniversary dinner
the judge correcting the man that she didn't fail math, but later on we hear her saying 65 minutes in waiting is just wild.
Glad I’m not the only one who noticed that.
I was looking for this comment 😂
Caught that as well
There might be parts of the video edited out (this is basically stolen from a tv show). I haven't seen the original show, but there could be parts like: he told her to get there early because of the other times she flaked, or it takes 20 minutes for the restaurant to seat her after she gets there. So on and so forth.
It was funny. She was being funny lol
Dude was way more than patient with her. A bunch of cancellations and then 45 minutes late. Talk about red flags!!
As a woman I think this guy should have left after waiting 20 minutes!
That's fair.
After refusal of the first 2 dates even. She didn’t want to meet him she wanted an extreme dinner to post.
100% This woman is a nightmare
Do you still believe in patriarchy?
Female judge as well btw. 💀
After her first refusal I would just stop texting her, but even if I got a date, and she texted me 5 minutes before, saying she is running late, I would wait 10 minutes and then leave without telling her. She deserves nothing.
How did she honestly think that it was his responsibility to pay for her meal let alone go in debt for it?
It was ONLY for drinks. She’s an user!
@terriseaton3049 She doesn't like to "Drink on an empty stomach" so she order 3 dishes. What a pig.
You do know this is all fake right?
Because it was written in her script "you'll play the part of an irritating and entitled influencer who believes that it's her date's responsibility to pay for her meal, regardless of her very disrespectful behaviour during the date"
They'd been talking for a few weeks already. I think she shouldn't have ordered 2 drinks, though. Maybe an appetizer and a soft drink would be cool.
It's so satisfying to watch her being told the truth in her face , and she can't deny it
No doubt she didn't learn anything and still thinks she did nothing wrong. These narcissists don't learn.
They both some clowns. She canceled the first two dates should have been a sign she wasn’t interested in him. He should moved on to a woman who would actually want to date him instead of what his eyes like.
Lady, obviously you ARE NOT a catch!😆😅🤣😂🙃
Catch and release!
Not with that Forehead and Jawline 😂
@uvveshlurvvesh6515 man that is a 5 or 6 head. Rare in the wild lmao.
Yeah the judge just said she's very beautiful. I think she's very average.
She ordered $218 worth of food, on a first date, that was supposed to be for just drinks, in addition to the multiple disrespectful things she did, and then actually took him to court, for not footing the bill?!? That’s god tier levels of entitlement.
She ordered $600 worth of food. She wanted the man to pay half of it.
@Layput Which is still ABSURD.
If the food bill comes to more than $50 I would walk out mid date as well
@bentairyukiba I assume you are talking about just her half not exceeding $50. If you know of a decent restaurant where two can eat and drink for under $50, please let us know!
@gordongekko2781yeah it's called looking up on Google
Red flag: If you don't drink coffee, have juice or tea. You knew you wanted FOOD.
Exactly. My first date with my guy was a coffee shop. I ordered TEA bc I didn't want coffee that day. We have also been to ice cream shops, where they do sell dairy free ice cream and sorbet. She wanted alcohol and an expensive meal for a FIRST date.
@LA-wv7gfalcohol is unnecessary. Some women don't accept coffee dates.
2 cancellations and then 45 mins late. He should have just left before she arrived!
2:37 i would have walked out 45 minutes late
No call, no text, I’m gone after 10 minutes.
@skarmex3439 25 minutes for if she in incommunicado.
Facts
Agree!
Red flags before the date:
1. I don't drink coffee
(Hello could have ordered tea or bottled water)
2. I'm:Lactose intolerant
(Find another item on the menu)
3. Cancels 2x
4. Late for date
Run, run Forest run....🏃♂️
Because there's no lactose milk alternatives /s
(Source I'm a lactard)
Yeah it’s a red flag if a guy offers a coffee date that’s so low effort. I don’t take advantage like these women do these days and I order a cheap meal but the least you can do is take me for dinner..
Also IBS girlies will agree no coffee or ice cream dates . You’ll literally have to blow up a bathroom within 20 min 😢😢😢😢
She was inconsiderate of his time and that’s not ok
“ I’m an influencer” was the first red flag . I rolled my eyes so hard 😂
@beau110689 it’s honestly rare to find a shop that has it…
@weekendnomad5038 why dont you fucking pay for your own food?
Why should a man pay for your food on a a first date?
Invite them and ask them to order tell you would be late and then don't show up 😂.
No coffee, lactose intolerant, 2 reschedules, showing up too late for a first date are already too many red flags.
"Influencer" and "social media" were the red flags. Stay well away from that type.
People have no control over lactose intolerance, it's genetic. It's not a choice.
Bro Thirsty it happens..
Coffee doesn’t have to mean strictly “coffee.” Ice cream can mean sherbet.
She was never interested in him. He should have taken the first “No” at face value and quit right there.
plus showing up late! The lack of respect was evident!
If this was live TV and i couldn't pause, i'd have an aneurism just from her pretentiousness...
The best thing the man did in this session was that he spoke as little as he could, and eloquently at that. I bet you if he spoke too much, he wouldn't have been taken as seriously. He's definitely a smart man for dodging this so well.
Hello how are you doing today I hope you have a great and beautiful day today
What did he dodge?
He is a teacher. It would make sense that he could express himself.
@Alwayscatlikeher entitlement
The looks he was giving her while staying silent too hahahaha
"Social media influencer" . . . that's all I needed to hear. He wins.
"Drinks" . . . I can see ordering maybe ONE appetizer, to avoid getting drunk quickly. But that's pretty much it.
I'm just going to say it - she's not
She went to court to make a fool of herself. It’s public now.
It's scripted
Good. Others see who she really is.
Social media inlfuencers: “There is no such thing as bad publicity”
@Jake-hh9mqI think you underestimate the number of women like this
@Jake-hh9mqthank you I mean I don't know if it's literally scripted word for word but it's fake private mediation. Like I'm sure everyone is in on it. it just gets her some name recognition.
Judge asking leading questions all over the place.
She didn’t date she wanted a free meal that’s all.
🎯💯
Worse.
She was trying to clown him for social media clicks.
And make him pay for his own humiliation.
Or three free meals
No one i know who was`nt starving would go out and spend time with someone they were`nt interested in just for a free meal.
How on earth is it possible to end up in court for not paying a stranger's dinner ? The US truly is a weird country
She's nauseating! Maybe you didn't notice. LOL!
You can literally sue for anything.
And suits like this that make it to tv are likely fake.
@toddgaak422 This was some fake court tv show. Not a real court, but small claims court does deal with some crazy stupid, petty things like this. From her perspective there was an implied contract for a gift and she acted in accordance. When he withdrew his support, it resulted in an undo cost to her and she is seeking restitution. This case is stupid, but something not to far that would stand, a neighbor offers to paint a fence for say 500 and they agree. A week later they show up and the fence is already painted. That person spent say 100 on paint and supplies on the promise of the job. They are owed compensation. How much can be an issue of debate. Some things could be returned or maybe used for another job, but there is also travel, time, opportunity cost.
You can end up in court for anything or nothing at all. Like, you can look at someone the wrong way and they can take you to court.
Now, whether they *win* their case is an entirely different matter. Note that the case was just completely dismissed, as would most stupid or frivolous cases.
@slayemin Someone can file for any reason, but the court doesn't need to accept it. Even if it is, you get a letter (at their cost, being served [on notice of the lawsuit]). Then you can respond in writing court that the case has no merit, standing, doesn't have jurisdiction (over you, subject, ...), no real damages, civil rights, affirmative defenses (fair use, freedom of speech, truth, anit-SLAP). Some of that can come with fee switching (they pay for both sides if they lose) or other penalties.
She tried to use the court to extort money for herself. I hope this frivolous case included her having to pay all court costs.
She probably still took a selfie and tried to promote it...
Love that her suit is public knowlege now.
Nobody will ever hire her!!
The tv production will pay for it... both would get free hotel stays too but it's still a real rulling that is final
Considering the damages are usually paid by the show for having your case on tv, this was just a win win for her. 🤷♂️ it’s why I dislike these shows.
No, she received money. Because she's an actress playing the part of an entitled influencer in a show, and so she was paid. This isn't a real case.
11:26 I am convinced this guy is a good man. Glad he doesn’t have to pay squat.
she lost me at "I'm a social media influencer" 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Amen!
Same feeling y'all 😂😂😂😂
Am I the only feeling like this should have been a minute hearing? Let's not waste time on nonsense.. how did we get here? 😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂 same here, lmao. I was like, dam, here we goo
I'm a female and 100% agree with the guy on this one. She is a piece of work! He did the right thing, leaving her! I would have left after 20-30 minutes. I don't wait that long for anyone I just met!
I remember scheduling a date with a woman who came an hour late. I ordered and ate then left before she came. I laid it down when she called.
I would have left before she arrived 😂
And that’s why , as a woman at a first date,I always go for a drink and I pay my own drinks. In no way I’d want to be compared to this leech.
He can do better than her.
Yes same but the man who knows she thinks she’s too good for anyone and might be using him is also a loser. Ice cream? Coffee? Like an influencer would want to go there. He was thinking sex and impressing her with words, lowering her standards for dates and ready to dip if she seemed to be wanting to “use him” (as if he’s not trying to use her body). Then she’s a social media bimbo who wants to take photos and share on stories constantly - why would she turn down the nice restaurant when he finally invites her where she’s worth going and can dress up to eat really good and get photos looking important. Seems like they both got what they deserved in this case
I don't care about the appetizer, but as soon as alligator and salmon were ordered, I'd be out.
I would’ve been out as soon as she ordered the alligator
Just checking. Would you have contacted an influencer on social media, ask her out, have her turn down coffee and ice cream dates, then cancel on your two drinks dates, one of those times after you already drove all the way to the bar, then finally show up 45 minutes late and still stick around?
I know that dating is tough but he ignored so many red flags he must have something cognitively wrong with him. Glad the judge saved him in the end though.
@playinglifeoneasy9226because of price or the idea? I tried alligator/crocodile can't remember which one at the fair this year
Alligator 😮😮
@not_ever facts. Turning down a coffee or icecream date because you don’t drink or eat those two things as if they’re exclusively the only things on the menu would have been enough for me
I love the fact that the man stayed absolutely calm cos he knew she would cook herself 😂
The fact that he waited 45 min IS on him, I would've been gone after 15 min🙄
no text after 15 mins... bail out
@theadventuresofred19 Exactly, You could always reschedule if you felt it was beyond he control why she could not have texted you. Like most men, you have a beautiful women that wants to meet with you, you go out of your way for them. Just who many men are. We are learning though.
10 minutes
He was enjoying happy hour
After 30 minutes, he should have been at the bar, chatting up someone else.
So she doesn't have a job. She cancels on him twice, shows up 45 minutes late to the date. She finally shows up and orders $250 worth of food and drinks and doesn't even ask if he has eaten. All he asked for was to meet for drinks, a meet and greet. The entitlement on this one runs deep.
Let's be honest, not a meet and greet. After she bailed twice, he went straight to happy hour to get her drunk and "seal the deal".
@philwill0123 Sounds like they deserved each other.
She turned down meeting over coffee or ice cream, so he suggested drinks to still keep it light. Are you that dumb?
Go find another sucker
15:20. Hahaha, the dude in the back is like "FACTS"
😂
😂😂😂😂
I think it's a woman who made the noise.
Nah the dude in the back is like "ok this is where they told me to act a responce"
Why would the judge prolong this whole thing? Lol such a waste of time especially if she bought a whole course meal for herself.
I don't drink coffee, I don't eat ice-cream, but I DO EAT STEAK!!!😂😂😂😂😂😂
A full bred wagyu A5 ribeye
And calamari..
She sounds like she might be on a Paleo or Keto or Primal diet
😂
@michael-bell Doubt ful.
Shes on a See Food diet when someone else is paying
"I'm a social media influencer...." Case dismissed.
Exactly ...so ridiculous..
All I needed to hear
her online menu lists. 1 hour or all night prices? so..
😂😂😂
Said in a Dave Chappelle voice.
Bro dodged not just a bullet but a whole frickin air strike
“I don’t drink coffee … and I’m lactose intolerant.” How about tea or water with lemon? And then 45 mins late? I would’ve been long gone!
This.
Ever heard of Oatmilk lol
Been there, felt it, for me it happened and i waited 20 minutes. I texted her, i called her, no answer. 5 minutes later she replies: "sry for the wait, i will arrive 30 minutes late". I was 30 minutes now or 30 minutes later and she said 30 minutes later.
Then i said: no worries i cancel the date, we can do this onother, i have things to do. If you're late and then coming even more late then jeez, nope huge Red flag for me. And btw i arrived 15min before the actual time. I ordered the table for 1.5h and then she just says i will come 1h later.
That really pisses me off. But yeah, in 2 weeks later we met, but just walking no dinner, but i read her personality very well. Entitled feminist
No. A bih accepts cheap she will be considered cheap. Absolutely not. You have to do something more than tea. Don’t ask to go on a date if you are broke
She could have gotten a tea
I would never stay more than 15 minutes waiting for anyone.
Right?!
Well maybe 20 min
Facts after 15 I'm gone I think im being set up lol. Block and delete
30 mins tops!
Maybe 30 minutes until happy hour is over, but yeah normally 15-20 is the limit.
1:33 got me good😂😂😂 "The reality is..."
😂😂😂we really don't
🤣🤣🤣!!!
She aint pretty she just looks that way
Lmao, it sent me
She never would have made it to 45 minutes late. 15 minutes and the "date" ends.
This guy is absolutely handsome.
I bet his self esteem was low when he decided to date her.
Doesn’t matter when he’s making substitute teacher wages.
@dzstoyanovhuh??? Who cares
Salary does not define an individual.
His eyes……..
@dzstoyanovI am in Cowtown. We earn 200.00 per day. And draw my unemployment over the Summer.
1:28 The "we don't care" threw me off
That shit had me dying 😂😂😂😂😂
The WE DON’T CARE took me out!!! 😂
Took me all the way out because I was thinking the same thing 😂
💀💀
💀 💀💀💀
I took a woman to Red Lobster on a first date. She ordered lobster with all the fixings which was ok. But then she ordered ANOTHER she said for lunch tomorrow. I excused myself to use the bathroom and promptly drove home🎉
😂😂😂😂
🤣🤣😭😭🫡🫡
Did the right thing . A user. You saw it early😅😅😅😅😅😅
😂😂😂as a woman yo go joy coz who do that big greedy tales they down bad for that
Quick on your feet. Great job 😂
Influencers is another word for scammer
"He slid into your DMs"
Even the judge knows how it works now
She looked so pleased with herself after she said it too
@christophermccutcheon2143Yes she did. She down with the young folk. 😂
She wasn't fooled for 1 minute😅
Yes, it’s the man’s fault for all that sliding.. I’m pretty sure that’s how influencing works
I am not young, and I have no idea what DMs are, let alone how to slide into them.
$218. For 1 person dinner. She was just being GREEDY. That’s why she had to pay the bill.
NO SELF RESPECT. No LIMITS
To contrast, we spend an average of $180 for a week for our family of 8, that is 8x3-7=168 meals or just over $1/meal
Exactly... This would be a bachelor's lavish month meal including protein shakes.
“I don’t really like to drink on an empty stomach, so I ordered the entire restaurant menu” 😂
Sounds like one of those long anime titles lol
She is too boring and pretend to be too much, which is not really , she is taking advantage of him, no wonder he left.... Disrespect that is the word, she is a narcissist , well said Judge you nailed it!
Even a female judge who hates men could see that the woman was in the wrong. That says a lot.
Serious man energy from that judge.
@MatthewC137how so?
@MatthewC137yes, she's very bias.
Just noticed the same, very condescending in the way she addresses him
Cause the video is fake
I M A SOCIAL INFLUENCER (My ego is out of control)
Equals no proper job.
Social influencer = No proper job.
Blind leading the blind
If I went on a first date and my date ordered alligator, my first thought was See Ya Later…
poor man. I hope you find a decent, honest, kind-hearted woman.
I always pay for my part of the bill plus tip, so I don't feel obligated toward the gentleman.
You do know this is acting right? This is fake. Can’t you hear her reading her lines? 🤣
He is wearing a wedding ring, I assume he already has.
@mikek545who is reading their lines?
And who likes to show up on time and nibble from the bread basket.
She started ordering TONS of food without even asking whether he had ordered or ate yet, while busying herself with her phone. She didn't intend to have a date with him. She just wanted free dinner.
She also wanted to use him in her "influencing" media, without asking his permission, solely so she could profit from it. Entitled doesn't begin to cut it. She's a predator.
45 minutes late for a date! I would have walked out after 15 minutes
I was thinking the same thing. But I understand extending it if someone when someone realizes they will be late and give a sufficient heads up
The fact she canceled two other times means he should have just given her 10 minutes leeway, then left. Left as note with the hostess telling the influencer she can go “influence” herself to get some consideration for others. She didn’t accept coffee or ice cream cause she wanted a free full meal. And she is not even pretty. Pretty ugly, but not beautiful pretty.
Not if you were driving and you already had a good drink, maybe. I mean, no reason he can't enjoy happy hour without her.
Walk out if she's not early. Time is the mosf finite resource on the planet.
She can’t be very good at her job if she’s worried about a few hundred dollars. She can’t make that much money.
He left because he realized disrespectful she was and shes not all that either. He can do way better!! Good move dude!!
The moment she said I'm a social media influencer I just knew he walked right into that one 😂😂😂
Me too , all I heard was hoe , twerk thot