THIS IS DEVASTATING, OUR SON IS BEING BULLIED AT DAYCARE// we have to discontinue him from daycare

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  • @iamsheryl_h
    @iamsheryl_h 2 месяца назад +6

    so sorry about that crazy experience for Mikey. It’s super saddening 😢. Another reason why my husband & I decided on homeschooling & being stay at home mom.
    Girl you can sue them literally for discrimination.

    • @adventuresofmarie
      @adventuresofmarie  2 месяца назад +1

      Yeah it’s sad that we resolve to keeping our kids home just to avoid them being hurt in our absence, the world just needs to improve and because that may take forever to happen we want to teach our son that he can and has the right to stand up for himself when daddy & mommy aren’t there to do it for him

  • @homeandaway2811
    @homeandaway2811 2 месяца назад +29

    Marie you have a good growing channel , invest time here ,make money and take care of your child at home. It might be boring to stay at home but you can drive here and there, make content, make money ,travel for more content, take care of the house, get to settle more in your new life in America, you will be fine.

    • @adventuresofmarie
      @adventuresofmarie  2 месяца назад +5

      Yeah it’s the plan

    • @homeandaway2811
      @homeandaway2811 2 месяца назад

      ​@adventuresofmarie great plan dear, all the best. You'll look for parent & kid clubs where you'll go with him, plus church or some community activities where he will get to connect with other children a few times a week is enough. Besides it looks like your hubby has a big family around so no scarcity of play mates for Mikey ❤❤

    • @Flourish_today
      @Flourish_today 2 месяца назад +3

      This is good advice. Grow your channel and stay home with your child.

    • @gratitude8107
      @gratitude8107 2 месяца назад

      💯 Totally agree

    • @lucymwangi2175
      @lucymwangi2175 2 месяца назад

      Great advice to mama Mickey

  • @emmahwairimuwachira84
    @emmahwairimuwachira84 2 месяца назад +11

    I feel so sad for Mike. I agree, teach him how to stand up for himself. It's a cruel world and being nice does not help. Those who are saying that you don't teach him have not experienced bullying. It is traumatizing to say the least.

    • @Deedah4
      @Deedah4 2 месяца назад +2

      I stand with you…..😢

    • @adventuresofmarie
      @adventuresofmarie  2 месяца назад +3

      I would see how it can be traumatizing, I know adults still healing wounds from bullying they experienced at a young age

  • @Zozolounge254
    @Zozolounge254 2 месяца назад +9

    Very sorry about that. I think the best you can do is to file an official complaint against that daycare...systems work in USA 🇺🇸

    • @ladysafari01
      @ladysafari01 2 месяца назад +1

      Ask to review the cameras if they have them. 😢

    • @adventuresofmarie
      @adventuresofmarie  2 месяца назад +3

      We have asked for guidance on how to file an official complaint it’s already in the works

  • @mtndrone
    @mtndrone 2 месяца назад +1

    Sorry about this experience. You are doing the right thing to teach him how to stand for himself ✊🏾

  • @blessed-jk4zu
    @blessed-jk4zu 2 месяца назад +9

    My daughter and I felt so bad for our quote Mikey,may our Lord Jesus Protect and cover him with his precious blood,pole little cutie.

  • @sarahmigale23
    @sarahmigale23 2 месяца назад +5

    Yup this is indeed the 1st world...am in europe and my son was also bullied when we got here and did not feel like there were no actions taken. Unajua kenya the teachers deal with it hapo hapo and parent is told mtoto wako caused this...as in blunt but 1st world hakuna hio and when the kid is young its harder. I took my kid to an institute that was international and had different races of asians, africans etc and that helped a lot

  • @liz_atti
    @liz_atti 2 месяца назад +29

    The lady seems arrogant and you cant trust your child with such a day care, she didn’t handle your concerns professionally

  • @SHIKOHOPETVUSA
    @SHIKOHOPETVUSA 2 месяца назад +3

    Daycare centers are registered as well as home daycares, the difference is the capacity.
    Wueeh 😢😢😢I wish you were near me

    • @puritynyaboke-l4f
      @puritynyaboke-l4f 2 месяца назад

      I wish she was close to you, you would have taken care of Mikey

  • @paula_green2478
    @paula_green2478 2 месяца назад

    This broke me,I'm so sorry Marie I hope the little boy gets better treatment in the next day care, He is so sweet and cute❤❤❤❤ all the best gurl

  • @estherwangari2253
    @estherwangari2253 2 месяца назад +4

    Ooooh soo sorry for Mikey.... 😭😭😭This is disheartening my Goodness. Take heart dear.

    • @adventuresofmarie
      @adventuresofmarie  2 месяца назад +2

      Thank you, looking forward to better days for Mickey

  • @angelique6887
    @angelique6887 2 месяца назад +2

    I understand how you feel. Teach him to be able to express himself more so that he can tell you what happened each day. Don’t teach him to be aggressive as he’s a sweet kid. Choose a better day care that takes better care of Children. The less children in the class the better the monitoring. These neglect can happen in first or third world countries but we have to make better choices and selection of institutions after getting good recommendations from others etc. We pray for protection of Mickey 🙏🙏🙏🇯🇲

    • @adventuresofmarie
      @adventuresofmarie  2 месяца назад +1

      Thank you and yes I honestly did not expect this kind of neglect

  • @kuislittleworld2909
    @kuislittleworld2909 2 месяца назад +8

    Please, no matter what, DO NOT teach the little one revenge 😢💔 teach him kindness and most importantly at his age teach him to always talk to you and dad if something is wrong.

    • @adventuresofmarie
      @adventuresofmarie  2 месяца назад +8

      I don’t even have the strength to teach him how to fight it’s a dad & son moment, I want him to be the sweet little boy he is but if he suffers for it then it’s good to know that he can stand up for himself

    • @islandgirllove9114
      @islandgirllove9114 2 месяца назад

      ​@@adventuresofmarie i agree with you

    • @Chiwoful
      @Chiwoful 2 месяца назад +1

      Kindness is what gets them bullied.. my son is still suffering to date. I have since learnt he is a timid boy and can never hit back . I am teaching him to walk away, but would rather bullies get a dose of their own medicine

    • @adventuresofmarie
      @adventuresofmarie  2 месяца назад +1

      @@Chiwoful poor baby wish he gets to this it will save him so much!

    • @Chiwoful
      @Chiwoful 2 месяца назад

      @@adventuresofmarie Thanks girl, I wish Mike all the best. You guys are a lovely family ❤️

  • @Lynnmwango
    @Lynnmwango 2 месяца назад +1

    I own a daycare, and as much as these things happen, one should at least give some satisfactory feedback.
    My advice try another daycare. Usibague, maybe hata mzungu will take care of your child better.

  • @jackiebenjamin8772
    @jackiebenjamin8772 2 месяца назад +6

    That lady cannot tell me she has never had a complaint from a parent. Please, please document every complaint: date, time, the name and position of the person or persons you had a conversation with in the daycare. The reason is that you will have evidence of your complaint, with whom and what was discussed.

    • @adventuresofmarie
      @adventuresofmarie  2 месяца назад +1

      Thank you for this tip. I have also learnt to take a pic of the baby when he is being dropped in the morning and now also take pictures of his state. But we discontinued him from this one as we figure out the next course of action

  • @fabuloussham1139
    @fabuloussham1139 2 месяца назад +2

    Kindly ask to review cameras incase you want to file for a complaint, and Marie i remember the first day you dropped him i told U to be praying for him daily and cover him in the precious blood of Jesus Christ

    • @adventuresofmarie
      @adventuresofmarie  2 месяца назад

      Yes I do pray. I am glad we can see the marks and noticed it like the 1st week coz atleast we can deal with it as early as now by of course changing him from it

    • @sarahm316
      @sarahm316 2 месяца назад

      ​@@adventuresofmariewhich state are you?

    • @sarahm316
      @sarahm316 2 месяца назад

      ​@@adventuresofmarieWashington state we have shoshos wenye wanaweza kukulelea mtoto

    • @adventuresofmarie
      @adventuresofmarie  2 месяца назад

      @@sarahm316 Texas

  • @user-wz4ep9jk9g
    @user-wz4ep9jk9g 2 месяца назад +2

    Reading some of the comments, I see that woman or especially mothers are against the fighting, but that’s why fathers are important because they keep the balance in parenting. As a mom of course you just want to nurture your child and protect him from everything, but the father knows that in life, there are certain challenges, Mikey will face. His father is just trying to prepare him in a way that he can be strong, stand up and defend himself, especially as he gets older. He’s NOT learning to start fights, rather he’s learning to fight those that want to start first.

    • @adventuresofmarie
      @adventuresofmarie  2 месяца назад +2

      You have put it very well. I was against the teaching him how to fight but the dad explained it to me and it made perfect sense. Mickey needs a balance of both

  • @Mariablessed-z7f
    @Mariablessed-z7f 2 месяца назад +6

    Weeuh mickey please babygal always pray for him before you go out always do that and declare peace for him as you start your day 🙏🙏 i trust mike will be safe and more safe love y'all ❤️❤️❤️😊

  • @Nicolette.Nzilane
    @Nicolette.Nzilane 2 месяца назад +1

    I understand your pain mommy. It’s heartbreaking for parents when your child is being bullied

    • @adventuresofmarie
      @adventuresofmarie  2 месяца назад

      It’s heartbreaking. He has been home with me for 3yrs and letting him out to daycare he meets this

  • @Hey_Tiri
    @Hey_Tiri 2 месяца назад

    I am so so sorry ...pole sana sana.

  • @janetnjoki5742
    @janetnjoki5742 2 месяца назад

    Oooooh my God I have really cried watching the video sweet heart.I pray that you get a better day care in Jesus mighty name 🙏

  • @Chiwoful
    @Chiwoful 2 месяца назад

    I really feel for you guys. My son is a real Mike type, he used to have kids really picking on him... It was so devastating for me. I am still teaching him how to stand up for himself to date.

    • @adventuresofmarie
      @adventuresofmarie  2 месяца назад

      We have to teach them to stand up for themselves. I see how kind people are always taken advantage of

    • @Chiwoful
      @Chiwoful 2 месяца назад

      @@adventuresofmarie it's such a shame kindness is treated for weakness. Wl

  • @coG3733
    @coG3733 2 месяца назад +7

    First of all Mike needs to be seen by his Pediatrician to make sure the wound doesn't get infected or worse. 2nd of all, this is a more serious issue than you're taking it. You're supposed to file a complaint against the Daycare. There's obviously some kind of abuse and neglect going on at that Daycare, and it needs to stop as other children must be protected. If you do not know how to file a complaint, his Pediatrician will sure do it as he is mandated to file an A 51 against the Daycare. Girl be careful the abuse of your own child doesn't turn against you, especially when his father is blindly signing incident reports! This is America! Wake up and open your eyes. Stay home and take care of your child until he adjusts to this culture, which is new to him. Money is not everything ❤

    • @adventuresofmarie
      @adventuresofmarie  2 месяца назад +2

      We have an appointment with his pediatrician tomorrow. Thank you for the tip I didn’t know we can file a complaint through with the help of the pediatrician

  • @BGlobalnews
    @BGlobalnews 2 месяца назад

    Marie ,am so Sorry that this happened to this cute little champ,Our Mikey,May God protect him throughout🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @thatchiqfaye9154
    @thatchiqfaye9154 2 месяца назад +1

    I think you should teach Mikey when and how to stand up for himself. I wish someone did the same for me at an early age. I know alot of ppl disagree but we live in a cruel world, it is necessary. Maybe teach him how to distinguish both appropriate and inappropriate contact and when to react, when to stand down. Being nice kila saa wont save him from bullies, and this beautiful yet vicious world we live in.. infant, he can still be a nice sweet boy that doesn’t allow others to hurt him.. but also he is quite young.. do what u think is right for your son Mama ❤

    • @adventuresofmarie
      @adventuresofmarie  2 месяца назад

      Yes I agree he can be a nice sweet boy that’s doesn’t allow others to hurt him

  • @beatricep8282
    @beatricep8282 2 месяца назад

    Bullying is totally unacceptable. It is abuse, plain and simple. I taught my daughter to shout "STOP!" at the top of her voice (repeated role playing so it sticks as a natural response). It usually works because it scares the other kid and gets the teacher's attention. I have instructed her that if they don't stop after she shouts it twice, to connect her clenched fist at high velocity to their face. Best believe we practice that too. The confidence kids get in knowing they can stand up for themselves and their parents won't be mad at them, somehow makes them give off a 'don't mess with me' vibe that the bully will avoid. She's never had to apply the force. She's still the sweetest, kindest, most gentle, loving child ... only that she needs the skills to survive in an imperfect world whenever I'm not around to defend her.

    • @adventuresofmarie
      @adventuresofmarie  2 месяца назад +1

      And this is what we hope to achieve with Mickey. I am not able to teach him this but the dad is taking up the role playing activity very seriously, bullies feed on fear and intimidation so when they see you are not intimidated or afraid they look for a weaker prey . So happy that your daughter has mastered this art and is still a lovely child.

  • @misstchronicles
    @misstchronicles 2 месяца назад

    So sorry for that😣😣 Sending love ♥️♥️😍

  • @malaikaphil9879
    @malaikaphil9879 2 месяца назад +1

    No child should be bullied at any capacity. Mickey shouldn't have to go through this for someone to make money and not care, that's just so wrong. Hope your son feels better soon and will have a great experience next time. 🎉❤

    • @adventuresofmarie
      @adventuresofmarie  2 месяца назад +1

      He is doing much better and we have discontinued him from the daycare as we figure out the next move but you are very right he didn’t have to go through this especially when we paying so much money to have him watched and taken care of

  • @juliamulongo7350
    @juliamulongo7350 2 месяца назад

    Even if you tell him that he should fight its like hata hakaelewi...He is a sweet boy...Speaks volumes he is just reflecting what he sees at home...Love ...You are doing a good job...Don't focus too much on the negatives...if more parents raised more Mickeys...the world would be better...More grace ...you will find your ground

    • @adventuresofmarie
      @adventuresofmarie  2 месяца назад

      We will find our ground for sure God got us🙏🏽

  • @mkenyagermany1950
    @mkenyagermany1950 2 месяца назад +1

    Sorry 2hear that.😢i moved to Germany with my capuchino gal was scared abt the same thing.Bt in Kindergarten everything was smooth no bullying or discrimination.It all started in Primary school but i as a mother used to tell her the same thing "wakikupiga wapige,wakichuna ngozi yako return to sender till they stopped & she could now defend herself with the TACTICS

    • @adventuresofmarie
      @adventuresofmarie  2 месяца назад

      Oh noo it’s so sad our babies have to resort to this just to be safe

    • @mkenyagermany1950
      @mkenyagermany1950 2 месяца назад

      @@adventuresofmarie now she's a teenager and Hardcore Kenyan Style.Hacheki nawao... Instead yeye huanguka nawa on the spot

    • @adventuresofmarie
      @adventuresofmarie  2 месяца назад

      @@mkenyagermany1950 I love this

  • @valerieshinia8526
    @valerieshinia8526 2 месяца назад

    I could see how you were shaking😢eeeh goodness 😢😢am so sorry hugs 🫂 ❤makes me scared of relocating . It’s so sad that you have gotten to a place where he has to retaliate 😢 in a place where is supposed to be his safe haven😢 aki hugs kabisa.

    • @adventuresofmarie
      @adventuresofmarie  2 месяца назад

      Thank you dear I believe experiences are different but I honestly decided to share so that when we coming from Africa we don’t think this is heaven and everyone is an angel. The things we see in movies are real

  • @joyjoy140
    @joyjoy140 2 месяца назад +1

    Ooh 🙆 feel bad for baby mickey, hope all will be fine soon, kindly find onther day care and see the way it turns

  • @monicawambui953
    @monicawambui953 2 месяца назад

    Sorry to hear so I hope you get a diversed childcare it’s hit hard when we migrant here and we realize that our skin color is judged in a type of a way

  • @owacgiujennifer5821
    @owacgiujennifer5821 2 месяца назад

    So sad that this is happening to your boy being his first time at the day care. I pray that you get a better day care center for him. I see he is not a rough kid and he is calm

  • @ladysafari01
    @ladysafari01 2 месяца назад

    Aww Marie, I am so sorry my dear. It's painful as a parent knowing your child is going through bullying. I haven't finished watching but hope Mickey opens up about what happened and who's doing this to him. 🫂

    • @adventuresofmarie
      @adventuresofmarie  2 месяца назад +1

      Thank you lady. We have discontinued him as we figure out the next course of action.

  • @lucybonareri8847
    @lucybonareri8847 2 месяца назад

    So bad. Teach him to defend himself please. I wish I was around to take care of that little boy. God intervine

  • @Hobby_trails_family
    @Hobby_trails_family 2 месяца назад

    I know your feeling.
    I was a student in California in 2011 and I know how frustrating it can be living in the USA as an African immigrant.
    People will not treat you politely when they know you're from Africa.
    I thank God every day for finding peace and a quiet life in Nairobi.

    • @adventuresofmarie
      @adventuresofmarie  2 месяца назад +1

      It’s sad why doesn’t have to be like this seriously. I just don’t get it

  • @ireneadhiambo2822
    @ireneadhiambo2822 2 месяца назад +1

    Sorry to hear this I pray for GOD to protect him. I pray GOD gives you wisdom how to handle this because I don't advocate for fighting back

  • @josephaleto8708
    @josephaleto8708 2 месяца назад +2

    Those are already three cases in such a short time span and i am already fumming woth anger listening to you narrate the nasty occurrences and that rude director,so sorry to hear that and the way Mickey is so polite.I am sorry to differ with people saying he is not supposed to be taught how to fight back but unfortunately that's how the society is ,if they dont fight back others take advantage of them

    • @adventuresofmarie
      @adventuresofmarie  2 месяца назад +1

      Exactly 3 cases in a week and it’s the first week. Speaks so much about them but we have discontinued Mickey. It’s the best thing to do

  • @sarahmunga
    @sarahmunga 2 месяца назад +1

    let me say this, I have a 4 year old boy. My boy is those introverted people, he used to be picked on by a neighbour's child that used to make me sad, sometimes i would cry and tell him when so and so does anything please hit them back but he never does anything. Its so sad and I understand you.

    • @adventuresofmarie
      @adventuresofmarie  2 месяца назад +1

      It’s sad when we can’t always be there to protect and stand up for them

    • @sarahm316
      @sarahm316 2 месяца назад

      ​@@adventuresofmariemy sister toa mtoto wako kwa hio daycare better ukae naye kwa nyumba balance with your husband mujilelee mtoto wenu

  • @marymakanda6461
    @marymakanda6461 2 месяца назад

    Im very mad right now!! Marie, you should sue them immediately, so sorry mikey

  • @vinjoproducts.4655
    @vinjoproducts.4655 2 месяца назад +1

    So sorry, l have seen the ear marks and remembered my son when he joined baby class almost transfered him,, lm a mother hen you can imagine how cracy l was,,, from Kenya

  • @gertywilson1514
    @gertywilson1514 2 месяца назад

    OMG this is shocking news waaah poleni you should take further action on the day care kabla evidence ziishe I think the day care staff wanakudharau bure tu…take pictures, videos, names of who you are talking to plus all the statements in writing also request CCTV from them. Usiwachilie hii they have clearly neglected and lied to you. Use the evidence given t9 your husband hata Kama wamesign haijalishi. So sad get report from paediatrician. Teaching him to fight might not help but teach him to be smart and outspoken. 💕

  • @allimex01
    @allimex01 2 месяца назад

    Hi Marie ,this is leen.Pole sana to baby Mike .It shall be well.

  • @Chaley9127
    @Chaley9127 2 месяца назад

    @Marie, did you request for CCTv camera footage? That could help you in resolving this issue.

    • @adventuresofmarie
      @adventuresofmarie  2 месяца назад

      No we didn’t, the lady was so dismissive and rude it was hard to engage in a conversation to be honest. We just left and never went back, we have discontinued Mickey as we figure out the next move

  • @AM-bl9ug
    @AM-bl9ug 2 месяца назад

    Marie, I am sorry to hear this disheartening mismanagement of child care, especially sweet Mickey. Please sue this day care, just teach you child to shout out when attacked by bullies you dont want to instill aggression in such a sweet child because of bullies. Try taking him to play groups where mom's and kids meet so you see how he interracts with others and see how he becomes a victim of bullies in such set ups so you can help him on survival tactics.❤❤❤

    • @adventuresofmarie
      @adventuresofmarie  2 месяца назад

      Thank you for these tips. I really do appreciate it

    • @adventuresofmarie
      @adventuresofmarie  2 месяца назад

      Thank you for these tips. I really do appreciate it

  • @priscasdiary737
    @priscasdiary737 2 месяца назад

    Preferably you can check with the camera at the daycare.. i think its another way to find what's going on.

    • @adventuresofmarie
      @adventuresofmarie  2 месяца назад

      This rude woman she was so dismissive I never even thought of the camera solution. But we already discontinued our son left and never went back

  • @beryl9538
    @beryl9538 2 месяца назад +1

    You need to report this daycare. We put our kids in their trust. My heart us so sore for Mikey. I sm so sorry.❤

    • @adventuresofmarie
      @adventuresofmarie  2 месяца назад

      Yes we are inquiring about the filing of a complaint coz my husband and I don’t know how to go about it so we need to be guided

    • @annahmailu5812
      @annahmailu5812 2 месяца назад

      This one requires an investigation. There might b other other kids suffering the same.

    • @coG3733
      @coG3733 2 месяца назад

      I hope Mikey's Pediatrician filed a A51 against the Daycare.

  • @erineorama1080
    @erineorama1080 2 месяца назад +16

    Teaching him to fight is not the right way..

  • @EmiliaSamas
    @EmiliaSamas 2 месяца назад

    So sorry for what has happened. Hope you will soon get a solution which will make your son safe.

    • @adventuresofmarie
      @adventuresofmarie  2 месяца назад +1

      His safety is key. He is home for now as we figure out the next move.

  • @liliangerrishon4085
    @liliangerrishon4085 2 месяца назад +1

    Sorry swry i can feel your pain

  • @Winniecheruh
    @Winniecheruh 2 месяца назад +2

    Sorry Marie😢😢so sad this happened to your baby

  • @homeandaway2811
    @homeandaway2811 2 месяца назад +1

    May God comfort you and your family about this, its sad, he'll get another place but im sorry to say fasten your seat belt and WELCOME TO AMERICA 🇺🇸 You will experience things you could never have imagined. Your weapon? PRAYERS. You will all be fine, stay strong mummy.

    • @adventuresofmarie
      @adventuresofmarie  2 месяца назад +1

      That welcome to America in caps I take it seriously. Hope it doesn’t get too horrific with prayers by our side

    • @homeandaway2811
      @homeandaway2811 2 месяца назад

      ​@adventuresofmarie PRAYERS will cover you and your family,its life my dear.

  • @makenanjeru
    @makenanjeru 2 месяца назад +3

    Oooh why did I shed a tear😢,,,,it will be well mama

    • @adventuresofmarie
      @adventuresofmarie  2 месяца назад +1

      It’s sad

    • @sarahm316
      @sarahm316 2 месяца назад

      Ebu mutoe hapo speed otherwise wanaweza munyoga hii America guys mmmmmm​@@adventuresofmarie

    • @sarahm316
      @sarahm316 2 месяца назад

      ​@adventuresofmarie My dear you better exchange with your husband ebu jilelee mtoi wako usicheze na hii America

    • @sarahm316
      @sarahm316 2 месяца назад

      ​@@adventuresofmarieIt's so sad mtoto kama huyo innocent wanamuuliza nini😭😭😭😭

  • @Victorykstudios
    @Victorykstudios 2 месяца назад +5

    Please tell us the name of the daycare? THIS IS BAD

    • @adventuresofmarie
      @adventuresofmarie  2 месяца назад +2

      It’s called Faith Centre haha how ironic😁

    • @Victorykstudios
      @Victorykstudios 2 месяца назад +1

      @@adventuresofmarie wah am so sorry for That dear. Mikey is our adorable baby boy and we love him so much. Seing him hurt is disheartening.
      Would you try Fins Tot day care
      Location: Texas Winchester crossing , Spur Bridge
      Contact 469 926 8245
      Is it far from where you stay?

    • @adventuresofmarie
      @adventuresofmarie  2 месяца назад +1

      @@Victorykstudios yeah this is over an hour drive from us, Texas nayo aki nikubwa 😁

  • @mbondom3138
    @mbondom3138 2 месяца назад +1

    Sorry Micky,that im getting is that this daycare is not keen on taking care of the kids.some times kids play and hurt each but when this keeps happening then someone isnt doing their job.

    • @adventuresofmarie
      @adventuresofmarie  2 месяца назад

      Exactly and them dressing the baby in a clean diaper then pee soaked clothes on top🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️

  • @elizagathumbi9830
    @elizagathumbi9830 2 месяца назад +1

    You will overcome you are loving parents

  • @ruthsila498
    @ruthsila498 2 месяца назад +1

    So sorry for what has happened to you. Ooh no you can report to the police and ask for a proper investigation. This is unacceptable

    • @adventuresofmarie
      @adventuresofmarie  2 месяца назад

      Yes we are getting guidance on how to go about the filling a complaint but we have discontinued him from the daycare

  • @shackyshactor7903
    @shackyshactor7903 2 месяца назад +1

    My heart is broken 💔💔💔
    Imagine take actions Marie file a complaint, you pay for the services and your child needs to be taken care of.PERIOD.
    Ama Gen Z wakuje kuwasalimia kidogo😂😂(on a light note though)

    • @adventuresofmarie
      @adventuresofmarie  2 месяца назад +1

      Gen Z are the goat . Yes we have inquired about how to go with the complaint coz my husband and I don’t really know about this but as we figure it out we have discontinued it

  • @ivonek254
    @ivonek254 2 месяца назад

    Thats not being biased Marie, you entrusted your Child to them and this happened to him. I can understand your pain as a Mother and good that you stood up for Mickey, I would also breath fire when someone bullied or hurt my Kids in any way. Hopefuly Mickey is not so traumatized with all this 😢

    • @adventuresofmarie
      @adventuresofmarie  2 месяца назад +1

      Really hoping he wasn’t traumatized. We discontinued him already as we figure out the best course of action

  • @lucymwangi2175
    @lucymwangi2175 2 месяца назад

    Woiii aki pole to our baby Mickey

  • @sallyachiengouma3969
    @sallyachiengouma3969 2 месяца назад

    He is still young & cannot defend himself. Just pray for him, every night and morning. Again, change your tact, be friendly with the nannies, buy her coffee while dropping him....etc. She will start protecting the kid. You will get over it.

  • @mlolombapapama6243
    @mlolombapapama6243 2 месяца назад +1

    This is so bad,shame on this little prince.❤

  • @Alqout3837
    @Alqout3837 2 месяца назад +4

    Goodness gracious this is crazy😢😢💔💔

    • @Mariablessed-z7f
      @Mariablessed-z7f 2 месяца назад +3

      😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢

    • @adventuresofmarie
      @adventuresofmarie  2 месяца назад +1

      Unbelievable I just couldn’t believe

    • @Alqout3837
      @Alqout3837 2 месяца назад

      @@adventuresofmarie I felt angry cannot even begin to imagine how you and dad felt. Please change his school sis.

  • @hattiebigutes8672
    @hattiebigutes8672 2 месяца назад +2

    This is so bad! You must write a review about this day care. I can't believe adults let this happen to children. Sorry Mikey

  • @erineorama1080
    @erineorama1080 2 месяца назад +4

    If there are cameras,maybe this can also be explored...

    • @kuislittleworld2909
      @kuislittleworld2909 2 месяца назад +1

      I thought so too... why can't they provide evidence of what exactly happened 😢

    • @adventuresofmarie
      @adventuresofmarie  2 месяца назад +2

      Now that I am thinking about it I didn’t even think of cameras then. The lady was so dismissive generally so it was soo hard to have a conversation. We just left that evening and never went back😢

    • @coG3733
      @coG3733 2 месяца назад

      Just file a complaint against that Daycare

  • @confusedbutexcited
    @confusedbutexcited 2 месяца назад

    Hi new friend - I am just catching up on this and its so sad. Pole :(

  • @MsKairetu
    @MsKairetu 2 месяца назад

    Wooooi i don't now much about America and it's laws but please please pleaseeeee stay home and care for your baby especially because you are new and adapting to the country. The world is a messsssss protect your children by all means

  • @janenjeri986
    @janenjeri986 2 месяца назад

    I wish uko karibu na shiko hope ako na day care huko Texas,anyway baby girl its well with our champion mike❤

  • @rachelmushumbusi4831
    @rachelmushumbusi4831 2 месяца назад

    Welcome to the first country. Every thing is not they way you think. Is hard to leave in first country.

  • @lilygabriella3524
    @lilygabriella3524 2 месяца назад

    Sorry for that girl😢.you live in which state

  • @nyakanga
    @nyakanga 2 месяца назад

    I am so sorry to hear about this bullying situation. Unfortunately, this first world is not portrayed for the ugly things that take place. A number of parents sacrifice and home school their kids, especially when they are attending daycare. Those are crucial years for a child growing up and building up confidence to prepare them for this world. When you were describing wet pants and you kept checking other garments underneath, I was getting more scared for harassment. Please don't wait for more pain. Just seeing you how you describe is enough to show your pain.

    • @adventuresofmarie
      @adventuresofmarie  2 месяца назад

      Oh my God you just gave me a new perspective of this matter the wet clothes and clean diaper I didn’t even think of it that way🙆🏽‍♀️🙆🏽‍♀️

    • @nyakanga
      @nyakanga 2 месяца назад

      @@adventuresofmarie you have an adorable son who is innocent like children should be. I have followed you since Nairobi and see how caring you are for him. You are an adorable couple too and wish you the best on your journey.

    • @adventuresofmarie
      @adventuresofmarie  2 месяца назад

      @@nyakanga thank you❤️

  • @ProcitaPeach
    @ProcitaPeach 2 месяца назад

    Oh nooo my dear this is so heartbreaking. I feel so bad for Mickey 😢

    • @adventuresofmarie
      @adventuresofmarie  2 месяца назад

      Yeah he will be fine he is a strong boy but we have discontinued him from the day care

  • @celestinas_world
    @celestinas_world 2 месяца назад

    Ambia mike anguka nayo,men..,
    Apige kikenya na akanyage kichwa hadi shingo.... Take him for counselling plus affirm him.. And tel her the reality

  • @marierose9185
    @marierose9185 2 месяца назад

    You can change your work shift to day and your hubby a night shift. Each one taking turns to stay with the baby at home.

    • @adventuresofmarie
      @adventuresofmarie  2 месяца назад

      Unfortunately we can’t change our shifts at the moment

  • @jacklinesigei7508
    @jacklinesigei7508 2 месяца назад

    😢oh so so sorry for the bad treatment of the Mikey!I know how painful that is to a parent!

  • @cleanitupwithjudy
    @cleanitupwithjudy 2 месяца назад

    Another reason I decided to be a stay at home mum coz this daycare stories would make me do something bad and end up in jail and I don’t want that to happen, stay at home and get used to life here then soon Mikey will start school then you can work but there are also jobs you can work from home especially the customer service ones that way you’re able to be home and be with your son and still work or just concentrate on your RUclips and make it work which it is already……so sorry to Mikey I feel that pain as a mother 🫂 to you guys

  • @Terrygycery
    @Terrygycery 2 месяца назад

    Oh no! I'm really sorry about what happened to your baby. That's very unfortunate. If I were you, I'd consider finding a different daycare. Just because ni weusi doesn't guarantee they'll treat you well 😔. The lady is very arrogant by the way 😕
    Alternatively, you could look for a daycare that offers camera surveillance to parents, allowing you to monitor your child from anywhere.

    • @adventuresofmarie
      @adventuresofmarie  2 месяца назад

      Thank you for the tips yes we have already discontinued him

  • @kreszentiaopana-morris5512
    @kreszentiaopana-morris5512 2 месяца назад

    Most daycares have cameras. Ask to see camera footage

  • @Janever-qs1uc
    @Janever-qs1uc 2 месяца назад

    Bullying is everywhere my three babies are been bullied by one kid in kindergarten,,the kid is telling them bags zenu zinakaa za chokora , and she keep on slapping my babies .I feel sad for Mickey

    • @adventuresofmarie
      @adventuresofmarie  2 месяца назад

      Oh nooo is there any action being taken for your babies? This is heartbreaking

  • @Sheerohcooks
    @Sheerohcooks 2 месяца назад +2

    I am seven minutes in and yes Marie, teach him when someone beats him up, let him beat them up too because then, the grownups in charge will act like grownups. This is really ridiculous honestly! Wow how rude of that woman seriously? Running the daycare for a million years doesn't pass you for being qualified to handle children especially when you can't account for an incidence within your school. I am so sorry Marie for your experience may God lead you to helpful people.❤❤❤

  • @juliamulongo7350
    @juliamulongo7350 2 месяца назад

    Noo, Mike is a sweet baby when I saw this I felt like crying... You should report this not only for you but for other parents in future... Reviews are powerful in developed countries

  • @vilmadavis1468
    @vilmadavis1468 2 месяца назад +1

    Wow this is so sad I'm so sorry to hear this

  • @AtienoOdhiambo-c1g
    @AtienoOdhiambo-c1g 2 месяца назад +1

    Oh nooo. I'm so sorry this happened to Mickey😢

  • @GraceKiarie-h3e
    @GraceKiarie-h3e 2 месяца назад +1

    Am sorry but never train your chd to fight .I think treat the marks first then you can think of changing the day care if possible.

  • @roseh2009
    @roseh2009 2 месяца назад +3

    So sorry this has happened to Mikey...your hubby shouldn't have signed that statement by the teacher. The Directir is being racist , I know you said it's a black owned but they're racist blacks as well. Her telling you that you're the problem? Huh! 😮 let me get my refund, my child is your responsibility for those hours and I need answers. Look I'm so mad.

    • @adventuresofmarie
      @adventuresofmarie  2 месяца назад +1

      We didn’t even ask for the refund just walked away and discontinued Mickey from there .

  • @cynthiaadams7689
    @cynthiaadams7689 2 месяца назад +1

    Marie I'm fuming and boiling with anger just listening to how that lady behaved. 😢 She's so arrogant and unprofessional. I mean how did you become her problem?? 🤦 Sue her and that daycare. The diaper and pee soaked clothes issue broke my heart. 💔 Mickey didn't deserve all that. 🥺
    Mama take care of your little boy.

    • @adventuresofmarie
      @adventuresofmarie  2 месяца назад +1

      I was sooo mad and the issues were not as bad as just her attitude towards us when we raised the issues🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️ we tried asking my husband’s family about the process to sue

  • @Victorykstudios
    @Victorykstudios 2 месяца назад +2

    So Sad i feel so bad for mikey.

  • @brendanaomi204
    @brendanaomi204 2 месяца назад

    What if it wasn't caused by other children? What if his bully is an adult? Cause the math is not mathing. How are these things happening under the supervision of two adults.....more than once. What if the school is trying to protect one of them? They know where those marks came from.

    • @adventuresofmarie
      @adventuresofmarie  2 месяца назад

      It never even crossed our minds like this but we have discontinued him we left and never went back

  • @judymaningo4120
    @judymaningo4120 2 месяца назад

    I am practically mad 😡 at this infact am fuming😤,this is soo wrong and the daycare is not responsible despite all that money you are paying na wana zubaa na watoto kwa class nkt also Marie make it a habit of asking Mikey questions like nani ashika wewe, nani achapa Mikey even though you not sure coz kids tend to answer if asked,i took my 3years old son to a daycare so when i was picking him up jioni imagine he was still crying so tukirudi kwa nyumba after about 5mins i asked kwanini toto analia shule then he was like chuna chuna, hapa, so its like the teacher pinched him because he couldn't stop crying when i left him in the morning all that time.and believe me kids dont lie from that day if we pass the gate to that daycare my son starts crying thinking am taking him to the daycare and yes teach him to defend himself you can do an example of you n hubby like one of you to pretend you are bullying him then tell him chapa yeye since he doesn't interact sana na watoto wengine home.All in all our babies are our 1st priorities.love you guys

    • @adventuresofmarie
      @adventuresofmarie  2 месяца назад +1

      Oh reading this just makes me sad all over again. You are right kids never lie may God help and protect our children for us

  • @elizabethmureithi5051
    @elizabethmureithi5051 2 месяца назад +3

    Marie, why don't you stop working n school at him.

    • @homeandaway2811
      @homeandaway2811 2 месяца назад +3

      Yes, if I were her, I would dedicate more time onto RUclips and make money from this, while raising the baby at least for 3 more years. So he grows and can tell everything plus defend himself.

  • @funafricafacts
    @funafricafacts 2 месяца назад

    Chai!!!!!you are strong...

    • @adventuresofmarie
      @adventuresofmarie  2 месяца назад +1

      You never know how strong you are until strong is all you have to be

  • @marymakanda6461
    @marymakanda6461 2 месяца назад

    It's like they were pinching him, that's a bad discrimination

  • @erineorama1080
    @erineorama1080 2 месяца назад +1

    Was it treated?,if not it needs antibiotics...

    • @adventuresofmarie
      @adventuresofmarie  2 месяца назад +1

      We have his pediatrician appointment booked he will get checked

  • @thereseelizabethries1083
    @thereseelizabethries1083 2 месяца назад +1

    Girlfriend, demand that they supply you with video or photographic evidence to support their written reports.

    • @adventuresofmarie
      @adventuresofmarie  2 месяца назад +2

      Yes especially now that there are two contradicting stories

  • @judithlubanga4017
    @judithlubanga4017 2 месяца назад +1

    Please, please do not teach him how to fight physically. Teach him how to speak up for himself. Just a quick question when you asked him (mikey) about the bruises what did he say?

    • @adventuresofmarie
      @adventuresofmarie  2 месяца назад +1

      He kept saying toto and baby but also at some point he said cat and that’s why we asked the daycare if there could be cats around

  • @annenjoroge7109
    @annenjoroge7109 2 месяца назад +2

    The most worse feeling and worry a mother can feel is for their child to be mistreated in their absence.. this hurts deep..im so so sorry for this, sorry too to Mikey, it will be well mama.

    • @adventuresofmarie
      @adventuresofmarie  2 месяца назад +1

      Yes baby being hurt in your absence and then you find out & know you weren’t there to protect them it’s heartbreaking

    • @annenjoroge7109
      @annenjoroge7109 2 месяца назад

      @@adventuresofmarie I pray you get a nice daycare for baby Mickey...I like how you teaching Mickey to always stand up and strong to defend himself.. akigongwa na yeye agonge... I'll teach my son the same when he starts School.. lol

  • @Catrix77
    @Catrix77 2 месяца назад

    Ma kaa nyumbani ulee watoto ndio utafute job. It could be the grown ups are the ones bullying the baby.

    • @adventuresofmarie
      @adventuresofmarie  2 месяца назад

      Kukaa nyumbani may not be practical at the moment.

  • @Ki-l7s
    @Ki-l7s 2 месяца назад +1

    I'm sorry about this money-making, good-for-nothing day care center. You’ll need to change to another one coz huyo akata hana interest except the money. Please don’t teach Mikey to be aggressive, or he’ll grow 2B an angry black man like many in America 😢. If the day care center doesn't care to teach the kids how to interact peacefully with one another, you have to make a decision. Is there a PTA in this day care center? That would help alot. May God protect Mikey in Jesus's mighty Name 🙏🏽❤

    • @adventuresofmarie
      @adventuresofmarie  2 месяца назад +1

      That’s what I felt to them it’s just about the money. We have already discontinued him as we figure our next action

  • @TsepoL-r4j
    @TsepoL-r4j 2 месяца назад

    The daycare should be reported to authorities. That attitude is not cool for people taking care of children.

    • @adventuresofmarie
      @adventuresofmarie  2 месяца назад

      We have asked my husband’s family on a guide about filing a complaint