Carl Lentz Has A Vulnerable Conversation with His Kids.. | Lights On

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  • @TheBSideApp
    @TheBSideApp  4 месяца назад +40

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    • @LetsBHonest
      @LetsBHonest 4 месяца назад +6

      Pastor Carl, do you think that God was humbling you when you fell from church? Other mega church pastors seems to be falling lately and I feel like maybe God is humbling them, and perhaps this is God telling you to sorta start over, but remain small in a small church and truly stay Biblical especially in these times where churches are afraid to remain truly biblical. There are pastors kicking the Bible, pouring syrup on the Bible, gay Pastors, Pastors that won't say Jesus, worship singers that don't sing Jesus, pastors dressing up like Toy Story characters. Maybe God is humbling you and that your purpose is to be one of those pastors that speak pure Biblical truth without fear from the Government or social justice woke warriors.

    • @soniairak80
      @soniairak80 4 месяца назад

      @@LetsBHonestI get that everyone has an opinion but did you really have to write so much negativity under the kids episode?

    • @LetsBHonest
      @LetsBHonest 4 месяца назад +2

      @@soniairak80 How is it negative? It's an honest raw and imo a good question. It's nothing negative about his sin, it's actually a question of new purpose and change. so let me ask you, what makes you "feel" it's negative? and be detailed

    • @soniairak80
      @soniairak80 4 месяца назад

      @@LetsBHonestIf you believe that asking him if God is humbling him on a video when his children are talking about their hurt is positive then go off bruv

    • @PlantSeedsOfLove
      @PlantSeedsOfLove 4 месяца назад +4

      @@soniairak80You need thick skin. I think they're asking a question, not a statement about if Carl at one point felt that. Nothing wrong that when we sin or if our ego is big, sometimes things happen our in lives where we suddenly go through the storms of life that sometimes humbles us, a lesson of life if you will. The children are fine and are in a better place. It won't trigger their pain.

  • @LauraGomez-lq2kc
    @LauraGomez-lq2kc 4 месяца назад +38

    Carl, I admire how you have taken complete ownership for your past indiscretion and you've never made any excuses. Your children seem to be well adjusted emotionally, highly articulate for such a young age. I appreciate the way you let them be completely honest with their raw emotions and you allow them to speak from their hearts. Thank the Lord for new beginnings. His grace is sufficient.

    • @marcusschmaling9
      @marcusschmaling9 4 месяца назад

      Ownership is everything. This will change things generationally. ❤

  • @lovebekkikayy
    @lovebekkikayy 4 месяца назад +158

    As a former member of Hillsong NYC when Pastor Carl was the pastor, I always wondered about how the children were. I’m so glad to hear from them and see the growth. I wasn’t close to their family, but my natural instinct was to pray for their children, so hearing that they didn’t have the support they needed was disheartening. People are by your side when you’re soaring high, but you really know your true supporters when you experience tough tines.

    • @bibleman7757
      @bibleman7757 4 месяца назад +1

      Hellsong is a heretical church and now he goes to another heretical church

    • @Truthteller777-7
      @Truthteller777-7 4 месяца назад

      ​@@bibleman7757where do you go bible man?

    • @jennyc5100
      @jennyc5100 3 месяца назад +3

      Thank you for standing beside them in prayer.

    • @lovebekkikayy
      @lovebekkikayy 3 месяца назад

      @@bibleman7757 your point ?

    • @michellerobertson3268
      @michellerobertson3268 3 месяца назад

      ​​@bibleman7757 God is faithful. His Spirit promises to guide His beloved into all truth. What he begins, He finishes well, no matter where people find themselves.

  • @LovedByYou
    @LovedByYou 4 месяца назад +105

    The oldest daughter is so impressive!!! She’s so introspective and thoughtful. I was really charmed by her this episode.

  • @JesseStevenPollom
    @JesseStevenPollom 4 месяца назад +167

    Absolutely BLOWN AWAY by the emotional/spiritual maturity & wisdom in these beautiful children!!!! Praying for you guys, to Him be the glory!!!

    • @pressedolives4686
      @pressedolives4686 4 месяца назад +1

      It shows that the parents did something right ❤ Perhaps the most important things 🙏

  • @hisirihwyd
    @hisirihwyd 2 месяца назад +5

    Both parents clearly raised these kids to be amazing human beings.

  • @jenfehr1
    @jenfehr1 4 месяца назад +53

    The moment Roman (especially at his age) put his hand out to his sister to comfort her, says SO much about the love and respect this family has for one another. 💗

    • @silvanylacroes1339
      @silvanylacroes1339 4 месяца назад +3

      I noticed it as well. Beautiful❤️

    • @jennyc5100
      @jennyc5100 3 месяца назад +1

      Agreed!

    • @weaversare
      @weaversare 3 месяца назад +2

      Loved that and when he mouthed to his mum (around 54 min) "I'm hungry" seemed so real.

  • @sunshinegirl02
    @sunshinegirl02 4 месяца назад +47

    as a pastor’s wife and mom to 2 little ones, it reaffirms my stance to always make my children a priority over the congregation
    i love our church and support my husband by making sure his family is not crumbling when he gets home
    making family a priority while in ministry is a non negociable
    THANK YOU to all of you for your vulnerability and openness

  • @thehungercave
    @thehungercave 4 месяца назад +78

    As a pastor’s kid, this pod broke my heart. God, mature your church past condemnation to see everyone like you do.

    • @mangs9940
      @mangs9940 2 месяца назад

      forgiveness is one thing, trust is another. We all make mistakes. God forgives those that honestly repent. Lets be honest and say their are wolves in the church. Look at the recent Benny Hinn scandal - Mike Winger. Hinn keeps appologising, but keeps trying to use tricks to make money. Carl should step away from Church leadership and get a real job. Documentary shows there was more problems in Hillsong than the one affair.

    • @mangs9940
      @mangs9940 2 месяца назад

      feel sorry for those kids, facing unfair public scrutiny for the sins of the father,

  • @_DerdniK_
    @_DerdniK_ 4 месяца назад +10

    This is hands down one of, if not the, most impactful podcast episodes for families I have ever listened to. So grateful for the Lentz family for doing this.
    And in full transparency, I say this as a Christian that used to be a big time Carl Lentz detractor, to say the least. I just say that to let you all know that you’re using the platform God gave you to literally change hearts and minds… keep up the great work, God Bless!

  • @teri3965
    @teri3965 4 месяца назад +86

    The ripple effect of human error is palpable. These young people are living through feelings of abandonment that no child should experience. The courage to speak their truth is a beautiful thing to witness. ❤

  • @jeimmyobando1393
    @jeimmyobando1393 4 месяца назад +22

    I felt bad for Ava 😢 i can't imagine the sadness of seeing the people who considered friends turn their backs. God bless you princess.

  • @toriluvs8080
    @toriluvs8080 4 месяца назад +55

    This is how beautiful God can restore anyone. Such a beautiful family.

  • @joshlee1562
    @joshlee1562 4 месяца назад +62

    These videos are perhaps the realest and most wholesome and hope giving thing on the internet rn. Thank you for humbly displaying your lives to the goodness and grace of God

  • @sbrightpink
    @sbrightpink 4 месяца назад +45

    Mannnnnnnnn! These kids had me crying!!! What BEAUTIFUL BLESSED SMART ARTICULATE VULNERABILE AND HONEST HUMAN BEINGS THERE ARE!!!! I’m blown away that kids this young can express themselves so perfectly ❤❤❤❤

  • @Claudia-lq2ob
    @Claudia-lq2ob 4 месяца назад +24

    It must be a vulnerable and humbling position to let your kids share about family life at home. I’ve heard the quote “your kids are your real resume”
    Carl and Laura truly gave their kids the mic in this episode and all 3 beamed with so much wisdom, maturity, and honesty. I would love to have this kind of connection and deep conversations with my kids one day.

  • @opeyemiagboola6529
    @opeyemiagboola6529 4 месяца назад +39

    This conversation is like a water to thirsty soul .... Pure, vulnerable, and humbling.

  • @theglowdaily
    @theglowdaily 4 месяца назад +55

    It's beautiful to see young people talk about a personal relationship with Jesus outside of the institution. We need more young people like this who desire the Lord's presence and not just another program. The Lentz children are so anointed, authentic, and set apart! Praise God for how He is using this family's story for His glory!🙏

  • @Curious_Jess
    @Curious_Jess 4 месяца назад +78

    This is so beautiful! This family went through hell but they came out of the fire and are so close! Beautiful to watch!

  • @showcaseofgrace1163
    @showcaseofgrace1163 4 месяца назад +41

    I have watched all 3 episodes of your podcast and it makes me fall more in love with Jesus and His redeeming grace. He doesn’t waste any of our sufferings. He picks up the broken pieces of our messy lives when we give it to Him and He makes something so beautiful. The latter Glory will be so much greater than the former. So proud of your family. Thank you for your transparency. Blessings!

  • @davidsumbela
    @davidsumbela 4 месяца назад +37

    wow! this is potentially the most needed space and conversation in the Christian and cultural discourse! thank you so much to the Lentz family! Your uncalculated honesty and transperency breathes out so much of the hope of the new way of life Jesus is inviting us all into if we're willing.

  • @Crimson509
    @Crimson509 4 месяца назад +13

    I'm so proud of this family, truly. They are living epistles of healing and redemption. This is the gospel story.

  • @robertbridges7503
    @robertbridges7503 4 месяца назад +17

    Glad these 3 kids acknowledged their mother’s strength and pure love for her family

  • @eutoravalmore6358
    @eutoravalmore6358 4 месяца назад +18

    Nothing is ever wasted. God is a restorer of all things. Love this for ya’ll ! ❤

  • @hannahsarthub
    @hannahsarthub 19 дней назад

    I never imagined I would be in a position where I identify so exactly with this story, but this podcast came across my feed at the exact right time. My husband and I are just beginning to heal, and it is very helpful to see a couple who has gone through what we are and come out stronger.

  • @dbgamma
    @dbgamma 3 месяца назад +24

    The way the little bro comforts his crying sister by rubbing her arm made me cry. (27:10) What an incredible bunch of kids. Wow

  • @mollyaegordon
    @mollyaegordon 2 месяца назад +2

    “I don’t have a fear of feeling and I think that comes from the effort you put in.” Wow, what a gift?!

  • @MariaNZ1961
    @MariaNZ1961 3 месяца назад +2

    Praying for the Lentz family. Thank you for sharing your journey. Carl remain humble.

  • @tikkalazenby9267
    @tikkalazenby9267 4 месяца назад +17

    This was the most beautiful video I’ve seen in a long time about Redemption and Restoration. Praying for continued healing for this family 🙏🏾

  • @jeimmyobando1393
    @jeimmyobando1393 4 месяца назад +6

    These kids are so well mannered and well-spoken . Very respectful and centered . I love how they spoke about their own relationship with God besides the church. Good job, parents 👌🙏

  • @isamazoni5174
    @isamazoni5174 15 дней назад

    I can't even begin to imagine what you all went through. Especially the kids. That's why infidelity breaks God's heart. Because it causes so much pain to everyone. But how beautiful is to see God working on your marriage, how He still cares, heals, restore.... keep up the beautiful work you are all doing to heal your family and to keep you together and stronger.

  • @rsrjr3
    @rsrjr3 4 месяца назад +25

    It is so powerful to see the kid's points of view. They need a voice in this as well. I love how well they can articulate their feelings. They endured just as much. What the devil meant for evil, God turned for Good. Praying for wholeness and full restoration for this family. Gloryyyy to God.

  • @sandysouthon7497
    @sandysouthon7497 4 месяца назад +35

    I’m not someone to ever comment on videos I watch on RUclips, but I wanted to say Thank you Letz family for opening your heart and be so vulnerable in a platform that can still be evil and judgmental but you still decided to put yourself out there to help people.
    I was your Son’s age when my Dad was unfaithful to my Mom and he had a child as result of that infidelity. After a lot of work and healing my Dad is also an example of God’s Grace and his life has being transformed, my parents are still happily married and going stronger than ever.
    Now, I am 35 years old women and I wish there was someone at that time to walk with me thru my pain, or even videos like this listening to brave kids like yours that have gone thru similar situations that would’ve encouraged me and helped me with my healing process.
    Proud of your kids to shared their heart and show their feelings as is not easy. ❤
    I pray that this channel will be a platform that will help a lot of families, a channel that glorifies God and a perfect example of God’s Grace because I believe in it , is real and I’ve seen it in my own family. ❤

  • @henrychung1844
    @henrychung1844 4 месяца назад +2

    Beautiful family! Clinging to God and allowing the holy spirit to take over. God's love knows no boundaries!

  • @nikkilawrence1019
    @nikkilawrence1019 4 месяца назад +4

    The most beautiful family🤍! I am in awe at the emotional and spiritual intelligence your children carry. They are so well spoken.
    It never matters who messes up in the family bc it’s ultimately up to everyone to pick up the pieces. Not to say someone isn’t to blame or there’s no accountability to be taken but to make it work.. it takes EVERYONE to put in work and save the family. I speak from experience. Congrats to all of you for putting in the work! I wish you nothing but the best.

  • @ingridl2975
    @ingridl2975 4 месяца назад +6

    Due to church scandals, wrong church doctrine and a devastating diagnose health issue I found out at the age of 12 , I became an atheist when I was almost 13 years old.. I was a notorious hard-core atheist who did a 180 and became a follower and believer in Jesus. . I have been praying for the Lentz kids after I heard the news. Laura ,Carl and your family : you are amazing and may God do exceedingly beyond what we can think or imagine.

    • @jennyc5100
      @jennyc5100 3 месяца назад

      Thank you for praying for them during such an extreme time. 🙏

  • @princessdi702
    @princessdi702 4 месяца назад +25

    As someone who is a pastor in training, this entire series is so refreshing to listen to and witness. Thank you to the Lentz family for this! ❤

  • @maryemcclinton
    @maryemcclinton 4 месяца назад +16

    Thank you for showing us how the whole family can be healed through painful events ! I enjoyed listening to the side of Pastors Lentz children

  • @Herezlulu
    @Herezlulu Месяц назад

    Absolutely loved you and your family throughout the whole thing. I resonated with all that was said. I’m so glad ya’ll are still here. Mr Lentz, you helped me and continue to help me in my walk. Love this episode. Keep on keeping on.

  • @leeshc5952
    @leeshc5952 4 месяца назад +4

    I feel these podcasts will help others who have walked or are walking in similar circumstances. Thanks to everyone for being open and honest.

  • @edshw7207
    @edshw7207 4 месяца назад +94

    His daughters reciting his altar call got me 🤣 great episode love this family!

  • @beba1055
    @beba1055 Месяц назад

    This is so refreshing because it's so difficult. I am an avid listener of carl because God used his message in my growing season and was disapointed when he fell. But i was not angry or dismissive... i want tthem to bounce back and they did. I am happy for this family and praying for them. The goal of the devil is to divide the family, church, society because divided we fall. You did not give him that because of the grace of God. I appreciate this. Thank you 🎉

  • @toriheyo
    @toriheyo 4 месяца назад +125

    I love how every time the kids explained their thoughts and feelings, you told them it was beautiful. You didn’t argue or get defensive. It gave the kids the opportunity to truly share. Love love love this episode!🩵

    • @joanntamez2989
      @joanntamez2989 4 месяца назад +2

      Gives hope for my kids struggling

    • @dr.romeoconfidential9271
      @dr.romeoconfidential9271 4 месяца назад +1

      Hopefully it’s True 😢
      It’s a staged podcast

    • @Catlover2811
      @Catlover2811 4 месяца назад

      I don’t think it’s the truth . My ex husband cheated and did go off with the woman and our children cried for six months. They struggled so badly. It did all calm down but that is the first time my children were rocked to the core . Cheating is a selfish act it disgusts me . The damage left behind.

    • @leannedoolan5463
      @leannedoolan5463 4 месяца назад

      For this reason I was sobbing and felt like my heart was even healing as he said I hear you etc etc. ​@@Catlover2811

    • @dr.romeoconfidential9271
      @dr.romeoconfidential9271 4 месяца назад

      @@Catlover2811
      Dang sorry to hear that :(
      Agreed selfish of him, and he doesn’t think on a deeper level of life ! Would you ever take him back ?
      Like she did…..
      that’s why carls story is so delusional to me ! And everyone is keep saying how inspirational it is ! There getting financial gain from this and she’s 1 and 1 million of a person taking him back !

  • @PeterGraham
    @PeterGraham 4 месяца назад +13

    There is so much Gold in these podcasts. Every leader and pastor should be watching this. Thank you so much for your openness and vulnerability.

    • @jennyc5100
      @jennyc5100 3 месяца назад

      I agree! This should be a part of every ministerial school curriculum.

  • @andredutoit8830
    @andredutoit8830 4 месяца назад +2

    Raw, pure & unedited emotions. Koinotherapy in action. Healing through fellowshipping together and speaking the truth in love in the presence of the Holy Spirit, our Comforter. Thank you for sharing. We are so PROUD of all of you turning to the ONLY true Helper, Savior, Healer and Shephard, our Lord Jesus Christ and the Holy Bible (Ps 119:9-11).

  • @KevinFernandezzarif
    @KevinFernandezzarif 4 месяца назад +8

    These kids are wise beyond their years. Carl and Laura definitely raised them right. Another great show , God is good. 👍🏻

  • @cesarnavarrete1246
    @cesarnavarrete1246 4 месяца назад +17

    Family is everything! God bless this family always.

  • @chloemorganlive
    @chloemorganlive 4 месяца назад +6

    God has such a plan for this beautiful family. The power of forgiveness and restoration. The gift of wisdom in the kids is amazing. May God get all the glory amen

  • @rebekahbrittain7150
    @rebekahbrittain7150 4 месяца назад +6

    Such grace and maturity in all of these kids. It’s beautiful to see how they’ve grown as a family despite everything.

  • @KimberlynCrawford
    @KimberlynCrawford 4 месяца назад +1

    I loved this. It was beautiful. Carl, I truly loved your podcast today. I can't believe I listened to the whole broadcast. This is what life is about, going through the storm and coming through it. I pray more people hear and learn. God bless you and your family.

  • @courtneyp8898
    @courtneyp8898 4 месяца назад +13

    I learned so much from your children in this podcast!! Give them a big THANK YOU for their honesty, openness, and vulnerability!! God is using all of you in big ways 🙏 🙌

  • @haiztebenelvides1018
    @haiztebenelvides1018 4 месяца назад +13

    This the 3rd episode that I am watching and I have to say, I have never watched something so candid and honest in the American podcast/ tv atmosphere ! Congratulations !! May God bless this family abundantly

  • @2020daniella
    @2020daniella 4 месяца назад +52

    I hope people that see this, see the destruction that happens to our kids when we fall. It breaks my heart and I pray that you all continue to heal. Let your story be a true testament to how God can restore.

    • @briew6116
      @briew6116 4 месяца назад +1

      Absolutely!! Well said- sin devastates EVERYONE. To see these babes cry and feel abandoned and makes my eye water! Birthday, graduation, life achievements ect- They missed their people friends... church family. So sad- beautiful kids

  • @fosforusia
    @fosforusia 4 месяца назад +4

    This teared me up. Sometimes church could be the thing that hurts and drives people away from Jesus. It's amazing that these kids got closer to Jesus through this experience.

  • @tomnorman2668
    @tomnorman2668 4 месяца назад +4

    God bless you Carl & family!!! God bless you and keep you my brother!!!! No judgement or condemnation from me, only mercy and grave Brother!!!!

  • @WoezysMami
    @WoezysMami 3 месяца назад

    Yall realllllllly dont know how comforting and helpful this is to my walk 😭 I used to follow pastor Carl Lentz THAT WAS MY GUYYYY OK! and when everyone abandoned him I just knew it was like this. Man we are all sinners we are all human!! Jesus himself was a man and stayed in his father’s presence would pray and cry and suffer all like man. We serve such a gracious God I’m just so happy and my heart is so full that God never let go of this family when everyone else did Our Finisher! 🎉❤

  • @tracyanncoe4586
    @tracyanncoe4586 4 месяца назад +4

    I'm ABSOLUTELY AMAZED SEEING HOW GOD CAN TAKE A mess & TURN IT INTO BEAUTY,YA'LLS STORY IS SO SO INSPIRING & ENCOURAGING!!! I'LL KEEP ALL OF YOU IN MY PRAYERS❤THANKFUL & GRATEFUL GOD LEAD ME TO THIS VIDEO🫶🎉❤

  • @ariadnayun-u5k
    @ariadnayun-u5k 3 месяца назад

    The way God has worked and touched your family is inspiring and glorious. This is the gospel, this is what Jesus does. Praying for y’all from Mexico. Lots of love guys

  • @CalvinLambMusic
    @CalvinLambMusic 4 месяца назад +24

    First 2 episodes are ❤‍🔥... never waited for a premiere before but here I am. Bless you and your whole family Carl!

  • @user-yx7rm4vl5v
    @user-yx7rm4vl5v 2 месяца назад

    You can tell this family is stronger than ever. Nothing will break them. ❤ what a beautiful thing to see that with God all things are truly possible. ❤

  • @dwilliamston5
    @dwilliamston5 3 месяца назад

    These children are amazing!!! Overflowing with wisdom. Wow!! Love this

  • @julesadventurer2111
    @julesadventurer2111 3 месяца назад

    Wonderful to see how God can restore any broken family and make them whole.. wonderful took responsibility for what happened..God restores the years that the locusts have stolen.... Wonderful how the children have come through stronger & resilient and well done to Laura for being a faithful wife & mother. An amazing testimony for many to glean from.

  • @Steff6196
    @Steff6196 4 месяца назад +11

    Y’all are INCREDIBLE! You girls & Roman are so brave and courageous to be so real and raw about your church hurt! You guys are going to offer so much healing to others through using your mess as your message. Your family is going to be so much farther reaching than you were at Hillsong because now you have fermented you are pouring wine not juice! God can use anything. He does not waste a hurt! I applaud you all! Won’t He do it!!! ♥️ What a legacy the Lentz family will leave because they did the hard crap! God is so good and people really suck sometimes BUT GOD!

    • @RecalledtoLife
      @RecalledtoLife 4 месяца назад

      Their "church hurt". You mean their "Dad hurt" don't you.

  • @jjdiaz309
    @jjdiaz309 4 месяца назад +42

    I’m 28. I’m a PK. I love my Dad, he’s hard working and loving and will suffer for the benefit of the congregation. But I was never his priority. The congregation was. Our relationship has improved over the last few years. But he didn’t come to many important moments for me…. This one hit me

    • @dama301
      @dama301 4 месяца назад +4

      Yep. Have seen that, never ever worth putting congregation over family

    • @iconoclastmusic368
      @iconoclastmusic368 4 месяца назад +2

      I'm with you brother, same here. My father and I are working through that as well.

    • @eunicenwanehiudo3866
      @eunicenwanehiudo3866 3 месяца назад

      ❤. NO WORDS.❤❤ Children of ministers are taken to be ministers (which I am/was) even at young ages , without the experiences of parents and if others put that pressure it is supposed to be reduced by parents. I'm glad there is an awareness for this. I'm 24 (soon)year old girl from Nigeria , I didn't want to be too spiritual because I didn't want my children to have so much pressure. Now that I just Lord the Lord so much and want to be more into him , I'm glad I'm seeing this to help me with my future children

  • @NurseTEA24
    @NurseTEA24 4 месяца назад +13

    God bless these children, heal them from the “church hurt” ❤️🙏🏾❤️

  • @rayruizrivas
    @rayruizrivas 4 месяца назад +64

    When the little brother grabbed his sister to support her, wow that was everything for me ❤❤💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽

    • @francescalestrade
      @francescalestrade 4 месяца назад +9

      I caught that too!!! Teared me up! What the enemy meant for bad, God turned it around for good!!!

    • @briew6116
      @briew6116 4 месяца назад +5

      Yes so beautiful to see how close they are...

    • @whatthefifty
      @whatthefifty 4 месяца назад +2

      SAME! 😭

    • @polishedarrows
      @polishedarrows 4 месяца назад +2

      SAME. Roman, the brother is precious. I really love hearing from all of them. The whole family. Grateful for the work done and the fruit of it here. My dad was a cheater and an addict and died at the age of 43 from an overdose (I was 13 yrs old). After he died I picked up his habits until Jesus saved me from myself. I am 48 now, and have a beautiful family of my own but would have loved if my family could have gone through this type of recovery/healing work together. I am as close to my family as we are able to be wiht out ALOT of triggers, but the closesness the Lentz's share now is precious. I did my own recovery with counselors, AA the church, etc for years and still have tune ups to this day. Grateful for this story to be heralded because it is possible for restoration and recovery!

    • @jennyc5100
      @jennyc5100 3 месяца назад

      Agreed!

  • @gcassara76
    @gcassara76 4 месяца назад +14

    The son...so practical. Does not need the hype. love it.

  • @fidelfemi
    @fidelfemi 4 месяца назад +1

    I can't be grateful enough for this... I am encouraged... I am sorry for what you kids have had to go through and to be honest, if the tables were turned, many of us would act in the same judgemental and condemning way but you guys doing this is helping us see how to handle stuff like this better in the Church and the best gift you have is this stronger bond forged in vulnerability.

  • @suite404
    @suite404 4 месяца назад +1

    Im so encouraged by the entire Lentz family!

  • @tiffinymartin1245
    @tiffinymartin1245 4 месяца назад +2

    i soooooo enjoyed your children omg…so mature ..such wisdom..the way i cried and sobbed with them❤❤❤ Im so proud of them and they dont even know me…but wow wow wow..in all their transparency and truth, soo heartfelt

  • @Abner74
    @Abner74 4 месяца назад +30

    This is powerful, being able to give the children a voice

  • @hawthornecreativemedia
    @hawthornecreativemedia 4 месяца назад +8

    I was super dubious when I first started listening to B Side but ohh my word how you have opened my eyes and encouraged my faith. Praying for you all ❤️

  • @4321sonja
    @4321sonja 3 месяца назад +1

    Bless you and your beautiful children. God has a great future set infront of them and you!

  • @margarita8504
    @margarita8504 4 месяца назад +12

    I’m so happy they’re okay. God is so good and faithful.

  • @vivianna_diaz
    @vivianna_diaz 4 месяца назад +2

    Im proud of you guys and your kid’s maturity that got them at this point of life. I don’t know any of you personally but I feel like I love you all because of the honesty and level of life and this chapter for all of you. Keep doing what your doing, bless you all

  • @soniairak80
    @soniairak80 4 месяца назад +21

    Poor babies 💔💔💔, so sorry you had to go through that. The adults have failed you!!! Sending positive energy to the entire Lentz family ❤

  • @KarinaBlasco-m8e
    @KarinaBlasco-m8e 4 месяца назад +24

    Thank you for showing the other side of impact (the children) when leaders choose to deal with conflict with out love AND wisdom.

  • @ramjohncreative
    @ramjohncreative 4 месяца назад +183

    My dad was a Pentecostal pastor that fell because of infidelity, he fathered a child out of wedlock. My parents split and in his absence, a Sunday school teacher took advantage of me and I was repeatedly molested. By the time I was 10, I was severely scarred. Emotionally, physically and spiritually. I spoke out and was called a liar. As a result my mother was asked to leave the church. We were shunned. My siblings and I are still trying to navigate life with pain, shame and mistrust. To most people the church is a place of refuge and healing, to us, it’s the source of our trauma and pain. I wish my 12 year old self had the opportunity to find healing. Thanks for doing this.

    • @leahbrock7992
      @leahbrock7992 4 месяца назад +11

      God LOVES YOU AND YOUR FAMILY. I’m sorry for your hurt and I hope Jesus heals you!

    • @Steff6196
      @Steff6196 4 месяца назад +15

      I on behalf of so many Christian’s that get it wrong and don’t act anything like Christ want to apologize to you and your family for failing you so miserably and failing to represent the grace and mercy of Jesus! I wish I could hug you and say this to your face. Even so, sweetheart I promise you that God is good! ❤

    • @danaehernandez2074
      @danaehernandez2074 4 месяца назад +3

      Pray that you find healing.. sorry you had to go through so much.. hope you find healing.. I can’t imagine the pain.. but there is hope I. Christ not on religion or people. 🙏🏼💕

    • @danaehernandez2074
      @danaehernandez2074 4 месяца назад +5

      Some time we judge right away.. instead of helping our own Cristians people.. we don’t realized the damage that the kids go through. So easy to judge when we should be there for them.. not what he did was right but help out and see where does it come from.. I feel bad for this children.. god heal their hear and family..🙏🏼

    • @stephcarpediem
      @stephcarpediem 4 месяца назад +5

      I am so sorry for your pain. I pray that healing and the gospel of reconciliation would come on your family in the most incredible way!!!!

  • @jimmueller3947
    @jimmueller3947 4 месяца назад +1

    Carl. Man. Honestly. Been going through Own The Moment for a third time this month. Always been a huge listener to your sermons. Thank you for this platform. Been waiting…Will be more of an instrument of Gods grace and power NOW more than ever.

  • @Kell1977
    @Kell1977 4 месяца назад +2

    Your children are beautifully children of our Father's in Heaven. The way your daughter talked about their personal relationships bring hope to me about my boys. The way they spoke of having to do it on their own was refreshingly honest.

  • @andredutoit8830
    @andredutoit8830 4 месяца назад

    Awesome conversation. Awesome CHILDREN ❤! So mature and the fact that they each have a personal, intimate relationship with Father God, our Lord Jesus Christ, and the precious Holy Ghost is so encouraging. Thank you, Jesus 👋!

  • @DaffneyHawkins
    @DaffneyHawkins 4 месяца назад +6

    This is an excellent discussion.
    When I look at you guys, you are the epitome of forgiveness and fight for the family!
    God bless each of you!

  • @mikelewandowski8530
    @mikelewandowski8530 Месяц назад

    Gosh man. Me and my family needs so much healing in our life.

  • @AnastasiaEs.
    @AnastasiaEs. 4 месяца назад +11

    What a beautiful conversation! So much insight and healing and I'm here for it. Would definitely love more conversations featuring your children. Thank you all so much for sharing and God bless you all❤

  • @jmoser
    @jmoser 4 месяца назад +13

    Wow Carl, let’s go! What he said about telling Laura, “what she thinks she needs to know” instead of telling her the truth and how that is a form of lying and manipulation….. preach!
    I also have to give props to Laura for staying and fighting for her marriage. I truly hope they live happily ever after. You go girl! ❤

  • @Nnjdl344
    @Nnjdl344 4 месяца назад +14

    The maturity of these kids is mind blowing!!! So awesome!! What amazing kids!! Be proud!!!

  • @mikailaneverson8409
    @mikailaneverson8409 3 месяца назад +1

    My goodness this is so good. Thank the Lord for you guys. It’s so encouraging to see ya’ll process and heal together. What an example in grace ya’ll are! 🫶🏾

  • @ChristAlone3
    @ChristAlone3 4 месяца назад +6

    This is powerful!!! So many tears! So thankful for what the Lord has done in your family!! Hallelujah!! Praise God!!! Thank you for sharing. Heaven is rejoicing ❤❤❤

  • @makebacunningham6795
    @makebacunningham6795 4 месяца назад +6

    I respect this family sooo much for their transparency and honesty and continued growth. ❤

  • @hlonimohohlo8009
    @hlonimohohlo8009 4 месяца назад +7

    Thank you for giving us the gift of your vulnerability

  • @LoveYourNeighbor70
    @LoveYourNeighbor70 4 месяца назад +7

    Wow this is really beautiful interview made me cry a few times. Carl helped me so much in my early christian walk. I was heart broken when the insta post came out in 2020. these kids are so wise I loved when Roman said we are a healthy family and not dysfunctional. That is a testament to all the hard work that you guys put in to keep the family together. Lots of families are not together or together yet dysfunctional because they don’t put in the work. Carl I know you messed up but you are a good leader and father.

  • @dfstanci
    @dfstanci 2 месяца назад

    I’m so encouraged by every single thing about this video!!! Your lives are shining

  • @toniimsen
    @toniimsen 4 месяца назад +5

    You have amazing children. You've done something great with them. Praying for you and your family that God's love and grace surround you all the days of your life.

  • @sunflowerpaws
    @sunflowerpaws 4 месяца назад +17

    i love how open and close you guys are as a family. my heart broke when they started tearing up explaining their feelings towards the people who abandoned them:( lovely kids

  • @Kodak718
    @Kodak718 3 месяца назад

    I'm so proud of you all. The children are brilliant and sp thoughtful. It made me tear up to hear their reflections. Yall have come out of this even stronger. I've never seen a situation post affair that actually is healthy and working. It's beautiful to see. Sending you all continued mercies - ex hillsong NY member

  • @FavoriteHillsongWorshipMusic
    @FavoriteHillsongWorshipMusic 4 месяца назад +12

    I lost my wife to cancer after 22 years of marriage. She was the closest thing to perfect. She was my best friend, confidant and the only person I could've counted to have my back no matter what. This song really brings tears to my eyes and made me ask the same question" What is love, if it's not guaranteed? What is love if she's not here with me?' Now I realize that love and life are just beautiful vacations that need to be enjoyed as they're never guaranteed to last forever. I won't forget the last thing she said to me before losing consciousness " Don't allow yourself to be distracted from living your life. The only things you're guaranteed to take away from this life are your last meal and the memories.

  • @smdpenguin
    @smdpenguin 4 месяца назад +3

    Wow...what an incredible conversation. First off - Carl, God has redeemed you! I love how God takes what most people would never forgive and abandon and instead He is making your life such a beautiful testimony! And yes, your wife is incredible! I am proud of both of you and how you handled this! And your kids are amazing too! I love that you are so open and honest and have conversations with them and allow them to be real. That was my goal with my own kids who are not as old as yours are. I hope we have the kind of relationship with our kids as you do with yours. I appreciate this honesty and it's a blessing. This whole thing is much harder than we could ever understand, and so I get that. But I love how God has redeemed this and brought you and your family even closer. I was a pastor's kid, so I found myself agreeing with a lot of what they said too! I'm truly proud of you all! What was meant to destroy you and what the Enemy meant for evil, God has transformed into an incredible testimony. God is so good! I pray for God's goodness on you all as you continue in this chapter of your lives!

  • @Sarah-yw5lf
    @Sarah-yw5lf 3 месяца назад

    That was just so beautiful to watch! HONESTY, REALNESS, OPENNESS! Thank you guys, you are a beautiful family and I pray for Gods perfect will for your lives. Praise God for what he did and will do through your story❤

  • @staciamanion7538
    @staciamanion7538 4 месяца назад +1

    I've never even heard of this story, but I definitely just watched the whole episode. This family is goals. Your kids are so smart and articulate and know themselves better than I do in my 40s. I'm so glad your family is still together.

  • @kathleenlyons3986
    @kathleenlyons3986 3 месяца назад +1

    You kids are beautiful and amazing. I love your honesty and your love for each other and for mom and dad. Making me tear up when brother comforts sister. My husband always said to our kids whatever you do, you stick together...and they have❣Hugs to you all. 🤗