No two people carry exactly the same! I know that even in this fourth pregnancy, when I've gone through three others that were very similar, I still sometimes worry that things are wrong because of my bump alone. Either feeling too big, too small, etc, I feel like a lot of us like to stress ourselves out by comparing to others and worrying when our body doesn't look the same as theirs during a pregnancy. Even comparing to my own body. At 30 weeks I was significantly larger than I am now. Sometimes at the end of the day my bump is significantly larger, and sometimes it isn't. Obviously, if you have concerns, you should always check in with your health care provider- But, I think it also helps to see that even two people who are somewhat similarly built can look drastically different at the same point in pregnancy. And, knowing that we're not alone and feeling concerned based off of what our pregnant bodies look like. It can be really hard when everyone you see looks so different to yourself! It's very infrequent that I see people who carry more similarly to myself. I always saw those adorable, huge bumps that were high up and mine has never looked like that. The closest was this fourth pregnancy around 30ish weeks before it started getting smaller again. I've always felt a bit insecure and awkward about my bump, because it sits low and is often so much smaller than I see from others. And because of that- I get lots of comments, even in person, about whether baby is okay in there or actually growing. And sometimes, those comments start to get to me and I begin to wonder if baby is actually okay. But, at least at this point I can recognize that I've been through this exact scenario multiple times before! And, I did want to add that I am definitely starting to feel a little better. The head pain is significantly decreased and I don't have the intensity and sinus pressure that I was dealing with before. So incredibly thankful for that! I was starting to wonder if it would ever go away 😅 #35weekspregnant #smallbump #3rdtrimester #pregnancy #pregnancyworries
Mom was small like this when pregnant with me... People weren't believing how far along she was... What matters is that you have a healthy baby... Some people just carry more water weight, and carry babies different than others!
This video randomly came up a few days ago while I was scrolling youtube. A few hours later I was searching for baby carriers and I was brought back to your page! Now I have three or four different carriers/slings/wraps on my wish list 😅
Thank you for this!! I’m also 35 weeks pregnant and the amount of people that comment on ‘how small or tiny I am’ is tiring. Like people expect you to have a really big bump :| ! (Note: I’m also a very petite person)
I carried a 7lbs11oz boy then a 11lbs4oz girl and my last was 9lbs8oz girl. My 11lbs4oz obviously i was the biggest but had the most energy. I could run miles if i ran with how much energy i had. My youngest i was in my mid 30s and my older 2 i was in my 20s when i had them. My last baby the pregnancy was the worst. I do not recommend pregnancy in your mid-late 30s. Takes such a toll on our bodies(at least it did for me). But with all my babies i carried super high and when they dropped no one not even me could tell. Lol ive always been amazed by women like you who carry to full term a 6+lbs baby and are barely showing. Like where is the baby really at? Our bodies are truly magical.
With my first I gained 50 lbs and I was huge but where's my second I lost 30 and that wasn't a problem because I was already overweight but I ate better and the baby was smaller plus he was more towards my back so as long as the doctor says you're healthy there's multiple different factors that could play into it weight gain the position of the baby just go off of what the doctor says if the doctor says the baby is healthy then you're good but I understand the concern I've been there you look great take pride in it
Nobody's bump looks the same. I was tiny until about month 8th. My baby was also tiny but I am not tiny i am taller than average with a little bit of extra weight.
People didn't know I was pregnant until I said something. Then they noticed my bump. I am a bigger gal but they always said I carried "small" my daughter was 6 lbs 13 oz when she was born
I can relate to the worry. I had a bigger bump than yours appears but smaller than I see a lot of other mothers. My doctor told me I was measuring to small and not gaining enough weight with my daughter and it worried me but she was born 7 lbs 6 oz. I noticed toward the end of my pregnancy my belly stopped getting bigger did not protrude forward anymore but my ribcage got wider and my chest did too. It was painful and felt like my belly had no where to go and my back and ribs felt tight.
At my last check they said I was measuring 5 weeks behind, which is my norm, but still always makes me feel nervous that baby has stopped growing- Even when all of the checks outside of that (ultrasound etc) come back normal. It's hard not to feel worried sometimes!
I know that feeling.. I wanted that beautifu .round belly when I was pregnant (Always complimented the women that showed.)..I got swollen Hands Feet face and Ankles instead.
I’m on baby #6 and this baby is in my back I am 28 weeks she is measuring 30 weeks but I hardly look pregnant because she is laying in my back by now with my others I was so big all ready it’s so funny how different each can be
i thought i was having twins both times because I get SOOO big. im 5'2" with a longer torso for my height, but still not a lot of room. i carried my girls so far out and also wide all over. gained 65-70lb both times 😢 im curious if a boy would make me carry differently? any thoughts form parents of both genders?
My little girl was so low THE WHOLE TIME! at the end, I was so miserable I couldn't even walk. She's 8 weeks now and I'm so happy to not be pregnant anymore 😂
From her video description, she's carrying one. And I know so many others who carried similarly with a single baby ❤ just trying to show that we can carry drastically different and yet still have healthy, average weight babies!
Wow ❤ you're so not showing. I'm 37 weeks pregnant and I look like I'm going to explode. I'm pregnant with my third. I'm truly gelous 😢😅. I bet you can sleep like a baby
She happened to be carrying one, But it's just amazing how different all of our bodies can carry. She could definitely be shorter than me, I'm just showing that even when people look somewhat similar they can be drastically different when it comes to the bump and still have healthy babies on both sides!
You are wrong! I always carried small. It makes you feel like something is wrong with the baby. Not oh look at me look at me. It's helping to educate other women that baby bumps come in very different sizes
I'm the mom that gains 40-60lbs when pregnant and I never took it that way. I took it as how drastically different our bodies are. But truly I couldn't imagine being the kind of pregnant woman that doesn't show much, I'd be in my head thinking I'm doing something wrong and worry 24/7. I don't think it's a flex, you just need to not be so judgemental and stop assuming.
@@MD-hellodarkness Thank you- that's exactly it! When you carry this small, you often get told something is wrong, you often get extra tests, and you worry because it feels like everyone else carries bigger so something must be wrong. It's not a flex- just showing that our bodies are so incredibly different and your baby can be completely healthy regardless of how you carry!
No two people carry exactly the same! I know that even in this fourth pregnancy, when I've gone through three others that were very similar, I still sometimes worry that things are wrong because of my bump alone.
Either feeling too big, too small, etc, I feel like a lot of us like to stress ourselves out by comparing to others and worrying when our body doesn't look the same as theirs during a pregnancy.
Even comparing to my own body. At 30 weeks I was significantly larger than I am now. Sometimes at the end of the day my bump is significantly larger, and sometimes it isn't.
Obviously, if you have concerns, you should always check in with your health care provider- But, I think it also helps to see that even two people who are somewhat similarly built can look drastically different at the same point in pregnancy. And, knowing that we're not alone and feeling concerned based off of what our pregnant bodies look like. It can be really hard when everyone you see looks so different to yourself!
It's very infrequent that I see people who carry more similarly to myself. I always saw those adorable, huge bumps that were high up and mine has never looked like that. The closest was this fourth pregnancy around 30ish weeks before it started getting smaller again. I've always felt a bit insecure and awkward about my bump, because it sits low and is often so much smaller than I see from others. And because of that- I get lots of comments, even in person, about whether baby is okay in there or actually growing. And sometimes, those comments start to get to me and I begin to wonder if baby is actually okay. But, at least at this point I can recognize that I've been through this exact scenario multiple times before!
And, I did want to add that I am definitely starting to feel a little better. The head pain is significantly decreased and I don't have the intensity and sinus pressure that I was dealing with before. So incredibly thankful for that! I was starting to wonder if it would ever go away 😅
#35weekspregnant #smallbump #3rdtrimester #pregnancy #pregnancyworries
I never had a massive bump but it wasn’t this small either. Babies are so fascinating like what are you doing in there? 😂😂😂❤
Mom was small like this when pregnant with me... People weren't believing how far along she was... What matters is that you have a healthy baby... Some people just carry more water weight, and carry babies different than others!
This video randomly came up a few days ago while I was scrolling youtube. A few hours later I was searching for baby carriers and I was brought back to your page! Now I have three or four different carriers/slings/wraps on my wish list 😅
Thank you for this!! I’m also 35 weeks pregnant and the amount of people that comment on ‘how small or tiny I am’ is tiring. Like people expect you to have a really big bump :| ! (Note: I’m also a very petite person)
Everyone carries differently and each pregnancy with the same mother is different.
Same here I have a small belly and my baby is very healthy. It’s not about the belly size is about the mother and her body shape.😊
Every mama carries different 🎉 and some have a tipped uterus so baby sits more inside the body than out. Also fitness level plays a big role ❤
I didn’t even know you were pregnant until you formed your shirt to your bump
She's been really trying to hide in there the last week!
@@letstalkbabywearing she must be a rlly smol girl😆
Yep….. I used to have people ask me around my due date, “When are you going to start showing?” 🤣
It’s because you work that core with baby wearing!! You look great! Remember comparison is the thief of joy ❤
Comparison really is!
Tilted uterus. Mine is small too and I look like you 😊
Was looking for this!!!
That is wild! I look farther along at 20 weeks with my 3rd. 😅
I carried a 7lbs11oz boy then a 11lbs4oz girl and my last was 9lbs8oz girl. My 11lbs4oz obviously i was the biggest but had the most energy. I could run miles if i ran with how much energy i had. My youngest i was in my mid 30s and my older 2 i was in my 20s when i had them. My last baby the pregnancy was the worst. I do not recommend pregnancy in your mid-late 30s. Takes such a toll on our bodies(at least it did for me). But with all my babies i carried super high and when they dropped no one not even me could tell. Lol ive always been amazed by women like you who carry to full term a 6+lbs baby and are barely showing. Like where is the baby really at? Our bodies are truly magical.
With my first I gained 50 lbs and I was huge but where's my second I lost 30 and that wasn't a problem because I was already overweight but I ate better and the baby was smaller plus he was more towards my back so as long as the doctor says you're healthy there's multiple different factors that could play into it weight gain the position of the baby just go off of what the doctor says if the doctor says the baby is healthy then you're good but I understand the concern I've been there you look great take pride in it
My first was 8 lb 1 oz and my second with 6 lb 3 oz
I’m pregnant now with my first, little lady has been sitting low since her first ultrasound at 10 weeks😂 I feel you girl
Nobody's bump looks the same. I was tiny until about month 8th. My baby was also tiny but I am not tiny i am taller than average with a little bit of extra weight.
People didn't know I was pregnant until I said something. Then they noticed my bump. I am a bigger gal but they always said I carried "small" my daughter was 6 lbs 13 oz when she was born
I'm 31 weeks and everyone tells me I'm so tiny but my midwife and OB say I'm spot on. Lol every woman is different in how they carry! ❤
I can relate to the worry. I had a bigger bump than yours appears but smaller than I see a lot of other mothers. My doctor told me I was measuring to small and not gaining enough weight with my daughter and it worried me but she was born 7 lbs 6 oz. I noticed toward the end of my pregnancy my belly stopped getting bigger did not protrude forward anymore but my ribcage got wider and my chest did too. It was painful and felt like my belly had no where to go and my back and ribs felt tight.
At my last check they said I was measuring 5 weeks behind, which is my norm, but still always makes me feel nervous that baby has stopped growing- Even when all of the checks outside of that (ultrasound etc) come back normal. It's hard not to feel worried sometimes!
You go girl! I carry huge lol
Everyone's body is different❤
I know that feeling.. I wanted that beautifu .round belly when I was pregnant (Always complimented the women that showed.)..I got swollen Hands Feet face and Ankles instead.
I'm 28 weeks with my second and my bumb looks like I'm at 40 weeks. I have no idea how I will look when my baby will triple in size.
I noticed that she was pregnant 🤰 in the middle of the video 😅
😅 I am 35 weeks with No.4 and never have I ever been so huge...this time even my placenta is in front...different every time🎉
I’m that small at 35. Weeks so I’m not getting any special treatment cus people think I’m in my first trimester 😢
I’m on baby #6 and this baby is in my back I am 28 weeks she is measuring 30 weeks but I hardly look pregnant because she is laying in my back by now with my others I was so big all ready it’s so funny how different each can be
Lol I'm about half as far and look like you in this video.
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i thought i was having twins both times because I get SOOO big. im 5'2" with a longer torso for my height, but still not a lot of room. i carried my girls so far out and also wide all over. gained 65-70lb both times 😢 im curious if a boy would make me carry differently? any thoughts form parents of both genders?
My little girl was so low THE WHOLE TIME! at the end, I was so miserable I couldn't even walk. She's 8 weeks now and I'm so happy to not be pregnant anymore 😂
I carried normal at 6 months then I was huge second time around at 6 months and this time I’m smaller than the first but at 8 months 😂
Could the first lady be carrying twins or triplets?
From her video description, she's carrying one. And I know so many others who carried similarly with a single baby ❤ just trying to show that we can carry drastically different and yet still have healthy, average weight babies!
I guess it just depends on baby's position? I'm definitely bigger this pregnancy than the last 🤷🏽♀️
It's not rocket science. You're different people and you have different babies. Stop comparing.
Wow ❤ you're so not showing. I'm 37 weeks pregnant and I look like I'm going to explode. I'm pregnant with my third. I'm truly gelous 😢😅. I bet you can sleep like a baby
The other girl that showed first is probably having quadruplets
Your uterus may be tilted backwards so you don’t show as much
My case is just like your I don't show much too
Girls don’t show as much
The small one probably as a backward curve and her belly looks same because it
She might be overly smaller than you. Also might be carrying more than one baby.
She happened to be carrying one, But it's just amazing how different all of our bodies can carry. She could definitely be shorter than me, I'm just showing that even when people look somewhat similar they can be drastically different when it comes to the bump and still have healthy babies on both sides!
That's a lousy flex basically say look at me look at me, how tiny I am and how big she is, mean girl stuff
You are wrong! I always carried small. It makes you feel like something is wrong with the baby. Not oh look at me look at me. It's helping to educate other women that baby bumps come in very different sizes
I'm the mom that gains 40-60lbs when pregnant and I never took it that way. I took it as how drastically different our bodies are. But truly I couldn't imagine being the kind of pregnant woman that doesn't show much, I'd be in my head thinking I'm doing something wrong and worry 24/7. I don't think it's a flex, you just need to not be so judgemental and stop assuming.
@@MD-hellodarkness Thank you- that's exactly it! When you carry this small, you often get told something is wrong, you often get extra tests, and you worry because it feels like everyone else carries bigger so something must be wrong. It's not a flex- just showing that our bodies are so incredibly different and your baby can be completely healthy regardless of how you carry!
How did you take it that way? She just said they carry very differently and mentioned the worries that can be unique to carrying so small..