If You Want to Raise Your Self-Esteem, This is for You. | Mel Robbins

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Комментарии • 89

  • @joycesegers5578
    @joycesegers5578 Год назад +21

    Just finished my morning routine now time for some inspiration with Mel Robbins!! 🖐️💜Woo Hoo! Happy New Year everyone, make it your best year EVER!! 🎊
    2023 High Fives Baby!! 🥳

  • @racheltagg5347
    @racheltagg5347 Год назад +4

    I been high five myself for a month now and I actually feel so loved by myself instead of hating what I see. Even my 7 year old has started to do it and she is so more confident as well. Mel your amazing and I love you for helping me change the way my anxiety affects me xx

  • @leannesmith1207
    @leannesmith1207 Год назад +1

    omg thank you thank you thank you thank you thank you thank you thank you thank you. amazing. exactly what ive been needing to hear for months

  • @Nayz13
    @Nayz13 Год назад +4

    As an Australian, the high five doesn’t mean much to me as it’s not part of the culture here, instead I smile and kiss the mirror as I would my family who love me unconditionally. I’m finding this works for me.

  • @rsncrllvea
    @rsncrllvea Год назад +1

    Your hair looks so good here Mel! Thanks for all the work you’re putting in to help us 🤍
    Much love friend!🫶

  • @ИринаКислова-т8е
    @ИринаКислова-т8е Год назад +1

    Oh Mel, that's amazing! I'm among those High Fives and it really works. Thank you sooo much!

  • @mynaturalrainsound
    @mynaturalrainsound Год назад +2

    Big thumbs up👍💯 Thanks for sharing 👏😍🤩

  • @ankitisro
    @ankitisro Год назад +17

    Hey i am first viewer of this video from India 🎉😊

    • @stacyjaye6350
      @stacyjaye6350 Год назад +5

      Hi and Happy New Year from Tulsa, Oklahoma, USA!☮️💖😘

    • @ankitisro
      @ankitisro Год назад +3

      @@stacyjaye6350 Happy New Year

    • @RitaLynn444
      @RitaLynn444 Год назад

      🕊

  • @nadalynm.3145
    @nadalynm.3145 Год назад +1

    Attention, affirmation, appreciation

  • @michaelp8856
    @michaelp8856 Год назад +1

    Mel...you're credible. something about you. i just look at you and there is something in you that's authentic...

  • @shantejames8295
    @shantejames8295 Год назад +1

    long term home covering myself and dressing modestly so everyone can respect me and good food

  • @ctownmedia
    @ctownmedia Год назад +1

    My thoughts that bring me down are that I'm not creative enough, I always screw things up, I don't get things done fast enough and I'm not doing enough good for the world and that what I spend the most time in life doing, my job, is not meaningful.

  • @21HeartSong
    @21HeartSong Год назад

    The thought that always brings me down? "I'm so stupid. Why did I do that? God, I hate myself!" *head in hands*

  • @galiavargas763
    @galiavargas763 Год назад

    love

  • @vkq47
    @vkq47 Год назад

    That’s amazing

  • @galiavargas763
    @galiavargas763 Год назад

    respect

  • @shantejames8295
    @shantejames8295 Год назад

    hello mel robbins

  • @isabelamacavei8418
    @isabelamacavei8418 Год назад

    We learn in the military that the Maslow hierarchy is critical to humans; newly, searching for a mate has been introduced as part of the basic needs (for good reason). I loved listening to your points, Mel. Great episode!

  • @JR-rg5ob
    @JR-rg5ob Год назад

    Touch

  • @sandrarobinson4464
    @sandrarobinson4464 Год назад

    People always put me down

  • @nidhibhardwaj3437
    @nidhibhardwaj3437 Год назад

    How to cure it

  • @joannepereira4548
    @joannepereira4548 6 месяцев назад

    limiting thoughts...I am not good enough, I am alone, I have no family here....

  • @sallysaunby7983
    @sallysaunby7983 Год назад +4

    *I'm done sitting tight for the award advance since i acquire$23,000 every 12 days of my investment.❤*

    • @mike6348
      @mike6348 Год назад

      As a beginner, the best you can do to yourself is get a professional that will handle your account and minimize lost to it’s nearest rate.

    • @airipedro8697
      @airipedro8697 Год назад

      I’m astonished, I think am the only one familiar with Mr Samuel, he handles my account too.

  • @vkq47
    @vkq47 Год назад

    I have done that time and time again I do not fell different why I’d that?

    • @utrnagel9441
      @utrnagel9441 Год назад

      Maybe you want to forgive yourself first? A 1000times! And say I don't let nothing in what is not Love 🥰

  • @alyayasser6495
    @alyayasser6495 Год назад +1

    I am not good enough
    Nobody will listen to me or see me
    I give up on things easily
    I’m not brave enough
    Nobody will get attracted to me something is wrong with me

  • @shantejames8295
    @shantejames8295 Год назад

    I'm american

  • @karlam7253
    @karlam7253 Год назад +17

    Love, respect, trust, safe.
    Thank you, Mel, I have spent 72 years to try and be enough. I now know how much time I have wasted on people who didn't acknowledge what I did for them because of the love that I had for them. I have learned to love myself instead.

    • @Joel-pg4yi
      @Joel-pg4yi Год назад +4

      I'm sorry. It's not your fault. It's just we people pleasers choose to love others so much they don't appreciate. We need to start loving the right people who do appreciate which is hard to find.

    • @isabelamacavei8418
      @isabelamacavei8418 Год назад +3

      Deep down inside, you love yourself because you like to give your best to others; it makes you unique, and you need indeed to love yourself more for being who you are. Those who don't appreciate you, will miss your positive energy because it looks like they take yours for granted.

    • @NikkiGregory
      @NikkiGregory 10 месяцев назад +1

  • @snuggiemonster6256
    @snuggiemonster6256 Год назад +15

    I can understand that Mel. Its so sad that you can be in a room full of family or strangers and still fill literally alone inside. I feel invisible all the time.

    • @isabelamacavei8418
      @isabelamacavei8418 Год назад +3

      You might be in the wrong crowd. Change your environment to something you deserve which should be above what you think you deserve ;) You got this.

    • @jamesschmugge3931
      @jamesschmugge3931 Год назад

      @CeeJay's CLUB o

  • @mollytejana
    @mollytejana Год назад +9

    I'll never be as good as I was (professionally) before two cancers 3 years ago, because of medicines I *have to* take. (P.S. Following Mel got me through those years.) 🤗
    Loved this video. 💕

  • @rosemarygarza6776
    @rosemarygarza6776 Год назад +10

    I started high five myself since yesterday and today I feel more confident, kinder, loving to me, and more assured of myself. It’s a process I’m sure, but I’m willing to put the work in, I’m tired of the same old! I’m to young for the same old. Learning to be a cheerleader for myself is different. Thank you Mel.

  • @victoriaalgra3675
    @victoriaalgra3675 Год назад +5

    Our parents raised us with the “ children will be seen and not heard” motto from the 60,70’s.. Zoom to the future .. it backfired... With therapy and awareness we’ve became exceptional individuals in-spite of our hard childhood and now with our own AWSOME adult children. Our Mother at 82 is still struggling with profound thoughts of delusions , blaming us kids and her unhappiness probably due to undiagnosed mental health issues, smoking, drug use or just plain narcissistic behavior. Oh boy she is extremely difficult and hard.. We’ve never given up. But now I’m done and letting her go for it’s ultimately been up to her all these years I’m really realizing 😢#emotionalhealth

  • @meehopark8346
    @meehopark8346 Год назад +2

    Hello~I have been watching your channel almost a year.
    Love ur voice ,speech and you are my best English teacher. Who knows someday I can meet you. From South Korea. Thank you so much for your high five.♡

  • @honesty247
    @honesty247 Год назад +2

    I have done a good job blending into my surroundings. And the negative self talk is sometimes hard not to listen to. 😕

  • @padmapatil11
    @padmapatil11 Год назад +1

    40:00 how to make yourself visible in workplace

  • @louferguson7048
    @louferguson7048 Год назад +3

    My entire childhood and into late 20s I was missing these three things. I always say I felt abandoned and unseen. This was so enlightening.

  • @karinapaez8072
    @karinapaez8072 Год назад +1

    to be loved and aknowledged.Connection with people .

  • @aramotselaw3794
    @aramotselaw3794 Год назад +2

    I needed this. Bless you Mel 🌸🫶🏼🌸

  • @padmapatil11
    @padmapatil11 Год назад

    I used to think...
    I'm fat
    I'm not smart enough..
    I'm not respected
    I always screwed up..
    Nobody loved me...
    I'm not capable..

  • @cariocajin
    @cariocajin Год назад

    13:46 "Bananas have 44.1% of genetic makeup in common with humans.” So it's possible...

  • @erikawithee
    @erikawithee Год назад +1

    Coparenting with respect

  • @adelalaird6318
    @adelalaird6318 Год назад

    Love, belong to another human, safety, acceptance

  • @annayoungblood2188
    @annayoungblood2188 Год назад +1

    I’m ugly is the thought that gets me down

  • @tnt4648
    @tnt4648 Год назад +2

    Loved, Heard, Seen and Acknowledged

  • @adelalaird6318
    @adelalaird6318 Год назад

    It’s also has to do mostly with your surrounding and people who are around you in your life being narcissistic personality and always critical of what you are doing and don’t like seeing you being happy or positive or worse trying something new.

  • @belmabajraktarevic1257
    @belmabajraktarevic1257 Год назад +1

    Thank you Mel for a good start of New year. 🎉🎊
    Great news!. Happy New year to you too! 💐

  • @adelalaird6318
    @adelalaird6318 Год назад

    My love each time I think about him.❤

  • @lyndamaewilson3453
    @lyndamaewilson3453 Год назад +1

    Mel...you rock my world....thankyou

  • @karlareyes4688
    @karlareyes4688 Год назад

    The thought that usually gets me down..."I'm old, I look older than ..." And others but don't want to make this a huge list

  • @kathyeulert8062
    @kathyeulert8062 4 месяца назад

    😭💔🚙❔️❔️❔️❔️❔️❔️

  • @joannepereira4548
    @joannepereira4548 6 месяцев назад

  • @manonpelletier6715
    @manonpelletier6715 Год назад

    #highfive me

  • @nidhibhardwaj3437
    @nidhibhardwaj3437 Год назад

    I don't know how to be seen, loved and heard that's missing in all my relationships

  • @Julie-ch1ue
    @Julie-ch1ue Год назад

    Nobody truly cares

    • @utrnagel9441
      @utrnagel9441 Год назад

      You need to care first, Blessings 🥰

  • @Mysticals_Mess_Tarot
    @Mysticals_Mess_Tarot Год назад +1

    You look so familiar

  • @raesunshine2643
    @raesunshine2643 Год назад

    ❤Love you Mel❤

    • @raesunshine2643
      @raesunshine2643 Год назад +1

      New motto, I see me, I hear me, I celebrate me! High five ✋️ ❤

  • @sharonnoble9101
    @sharonnoble9101 Год назад +1

    Love, Stability & Self Worth

    • @sharonnoble9101
      @sharonnoble9101 Год назад

      Mel says... To be Seen, To be heard and to be celebrated for the unique person that you are... at your core, you feel loved.
      Thank you for your gift to us Mel 💝💞💖🙏xxx

  • @mehrinoznurmatova383
    @mehrinoznurmatova383 Год назад +1

    😊😇🥰

  • @nadalynm.3145
    @nadalynm.3145 Год назад +1

    They’re going to find out that I’m not as good at this as they think I am.

    • @utrnagel9441
      @utrnagel9441 Год назад

      Sounds like a Narcisst style🤣

  • @donbiker7966
    @donbiker7966 Год назад

    I’ll never be happy with the one I’ve been married to for 30 yrs.

  • @evaphillips7193
    @evaphillips7193 Год назад

    Safe, truly loved, true relationship you can count on.

  • @shantejames8295
    @shantejames8295 Год назад

    happy new year I'm doing really good excellent

  • @shantejames8295
    @shantejames8295 Год назад

    I'm not thinking about that

  • @shantejames8295
    @shantejames8295 Год назад

    a lot of places don't allow sleep

  • @shantejames8295
    @shantejames8295 Год назад

    I have the freedom to be myself

  • @vkq47
    @vkq47 Год назад

    I’m not goidcenough

  • @vkq47
    @vkq47 Год назад

    My dog makes me feel needed and loved

  • @vkq47
    @vkq47 Год назад

    That is so special

  • @shantejames8295
    @shantejames8295 Год назад

    I'm confident