Not sometimes iwould say in my life no one comes to me and hug me its always me hugging them i neber got a hug back … i wish my family would hug me once (they dont accepct me bc im ugly and i heard it soo much that i now believe it too)
Yo?? Aw.. What happened? I'm so sorry if no one was there for you. How are you now? I hope ya feel better bud! ❤ here here, free hug! *_hug and pat your back_* it's okay to be sad at times.. Our road is not always smooth, each have their own bumps and slippery road, it's okay. You're not alone, whoever you are I'm here for you! Don't give up aight? Take care. You're better than you imagine, you've been strong bud. You tried your best, I appreciate that. ❤
@@dogeshow2651 Woah, sorry to dissapoint, been in therapy app before and I get alot of star, I help alot of people so go mind ur own bussiness❤ atleast I'm doing a good thing what is there to afraid of such as failure? I hope you grow to be better and take care!
This honestly made me cry because it represents the thousands of people, including myself, who hide their feelings, who can't express themselves, people with depression, anxiety, just those who don't seem to be able to seek help by themselves
And sometimes they cannot share themselves because of potential consequence, knowing they could just stay like that and know nothing will help them. Thats just sad.
I give my friend daily hugs, and sometimes if I miss a day they’ll get two. They don’t usualy get hugs at home, so a daily hug is what they get no matter what. I’m like their illigal adopted father aswel bc their father isn’t really a good dad, so I always look out for them. It’s quite nice really because it gives both of us something. It gives me the nice feeling that I’m helping someone else, and it shows them that I care about them. Even if you hate someone, if they look like they need a hug, you always offer one. You never know who needs it
dude, a lot of people irl think that i'm not really a hugs or physical touch type person when i am, i just feel scared asking for physical touch or hugs and therefore i never really touch anyone, which kinda just makes it all go in an endless loop when all i want is a hug
Same, I rarely get hugged when I’m sad, my family is sometimes too busy to deal with me, and my friends I know don’t care about me so I just hug myself in tears..
She asked me out of the blue “Are you suicidal?” “Of course not” I replied laughing. Walking down the stairs, forcing myself to stay together until I was in my room. She saved me, little does she know. The urge was getting so strong at that point I was almost afraid of myself. But…that simple question cause of a joke I made saved me. I’ll never tell my mom this, cause it’ll break her heart to hear how low I was but y’all just know. My mom saved my life.
0:36 the way how this was voiced is just impressive. The sound of his voice being a bit cracked just shows how upset he is to the point he could just snap anytime, bottling up is already such a big heavy weight we have to carry but just a little act of kindness like a hug can rlly help the situation out. Even tho it doesn’t completely rids of the problem it sure does show that whatever problems ur facing just to let u know that we’re here for u, always. I hope this animation gets to people who needs help and to the people who know that someone they know are going thru something too.
this miraculously came up in my recommended mere minutes after I’d just finished crying and panicking about finals and my social life. things have been really bad lately, but seeing this helped - it didn’t fix everything, but it made me feel a little less lonely, I guess. sorry if this comment is too personal or if it’s weird - this animation just really affected me and I wanted to be honest about what it made me feel. I may have only just found your channel, but I hope you’re doing alright, Ockeroid, and I hope everyone in this comment section is doing alright, too.
That is perfectly fine! I'm glad this video could comfort you and I hope your finals go well. Just remember that you are never alone, reach out to those close to you when you're stressed! Cheers. - Tree
I love how supportive the comments are. They, in combination with the video, really cheer me up. Sometimes it just helps to know not to be the only one going through such a tough time.
I physically can't open up to anyone. the topic if it involves my own personal being and mental state makes me tear up for no reason. I can't get past it for any reason and I still don't know the reason behind why. I want to open up and talk and express my stress and sadness and whatever, and it's easier said than done, but as a response my physical body just stresses out and makes my throat clench and cry and whatnot FOR NO REASON. I can't even find what I want. its just a simple question that I can't respond to for some reason when I actually want to open up. "why are you crying?" "I don't know why." "there must be a reason. everything has a reason. why are you crying?" "I don't know." I feel like my problems are so irrelevant that I can't dig enough to find the root reason. other people have it worse.. so why am I feeling like this? I don't have any 'trauma' that I can call back to. I don't have bad parents. what am I repressing that seems so irrelevant? why am I even feeling this way in the first place? why do I even want to die? is it the lack of a social life? I keep pushing my friends away. I did things in the past I utterly hate myself for. I wish I never had a phone. I'm probably exaggerating things but I can't have a concrete answer to why. i've maybe tried to talk to a therapist but I still couldn't open up. I tried talking. I'm tired at a young age.
I see You said "i wish i never had phone" You think that you're just wasting you life on games and social media just like me And also you mentioned you've done something in past you hate yourself so the fealing of guilt must've been eating you from the inside... At this point it's like im talking to myself cuz i got the similar problems What ever you feel it will be over because everything has it's beginning and the end Stay strong buddy❤
yeah. both wasting my life on (what you said) added on having been exposed to mature content at a young age. (if you can guess what it is) it impacted me. not too much, but enough for me to remember it. i didn't have the affects before, but months after I got caught. being (kinda) older made me realize how bad it was, and I didn't know why I did it. I've always been sensitive to yelling and being called out on something. that's the main reason why. hope you also feel better. if you ever feel hopeless, remember. just in general. death is inevitable, so if you cut it short you just don't experience anything after that. you don't get to live without pain after that. you just die. (sorry about the end, just felt right for me.)
@@vinnlistlast paragraph of your answer above tells me you are intelligent and thoughtful. As to talking to therapist, two things based on my experience: 1. It takes time to open up. There is no standard or time limit for it. Therapists also know that. So you need to continue going to them. At some point you may open up. 2. If you think this therapist is not good for you, dont feel guilty changing to another one, provided point number 1 is fulfilled. For you specifically why therapists might be the right answer is you yourself wrote you push friends away. So unless you have other outlet, therapists would be right way. You can also visit neuropsychiatrist. Sometime la just tablets can be a start too. Dont give up trying to open up. All the best.
sometimes i wish there was a way for me to bury it all so deep it ceases to exist. And i was confident i did, until this video made me cry. dont know why i cant open up... i just cant. therapy wont help too in that case. its not that i dont trust people its not that i dont want to tell anyone its not that i feel ashamed its not that i hate myself i just cant open up, and its killing me.
@@user-d48399 If you can’t get it out by in-person, maybe you can try texting a therapist. Even if you can’t get your thoughts out just how you want it, it’s still something. there’s time for everything, you don’t literally need to do it all, or at once. Ease yourself into being more comfortable in speaking your mind. it’s obviously not going to be overnight, or might not happen at all, but it’s still something worth trying. It’s not like you live twice anyway.
“To my brother thank you” made me cry. I remember when my sister caught me crying in my dark room underneath the sheets. She turned on the lights and stayed with me for a while.
The fact that he gave him the option to talk about it or not. That would make me feel so comforted, to know that I’m not expected to explain everything, especially when I’m in this state.
@ivyhotea7625 Hope you’re doing good. Sending support and hearts! ❤️❤️❤️ Stay safe. Always remember that people care, one of them, me. If you need help, hotlines will always be available. One of them being 988. Sending support and even more hearts!❤️❤️❤️ Stay safe.
Same, I hate it when they force me to talk about it even when I say no multiple times and they just tell me that I’ll feel better if I talk about it, like I just feel forced
Bro I had several tears running down my face but wasn't even consciously emotional. Maybe it's in the human nature to have such a visceral reaction to witnessing deep emotional trouble
@inariokami6696 Hope you’re doing good. Sending support and hearts! ❤️❤️❤️ Stay safe. Always remember that people care, one of them, me. If you need help, hotlines will always be available. One of them being 988. Sending support and even more hearts!❤️❤️❤️ Stay safe.
i remember my friend was with me and I think she knew something was up. she asked if I was okay and I knew that i would break at any moment, but I just didn’t want her to worry about me, so I acted as if i was fine. just the little “yeah” resonated with me so much, because when I did break, i just started bawling my fucking eyes out
Same, dude. Every time I watch this, I can’t help but cry because I’m not okay and I need to talk to someone. My friend asked me this one day and I had to hold back so many tears, I haven’t been okay for a long time now. They did ask me that question (are you okay) and that made me realize that they did care, but now I feel so horrible because I just texted them and told them that I don’t think we should be friends anymore. I said all sorts of things like “You don’t care” and “I’m a bad person and you’re just denying it to make me feel better” I FEEL SO HORRIBLE.
The way this found me after such a terrible depressive episode. I was going back and forth between numb and panic all day, but somehow this brought a sort of...calmness to me. Everything got quiet, if only for a minute. So I thank you. More importantly, I hope you are doing okay.
Somone once asked me if I'm ok, I replied "I'm as far from ok as you can get." That was was thirty years ago and nothing has changed, except now I'm sixty.
Told my friend about my depression, she opened up too. If it wasn’t for where we were, I swear we would have cried together. As soon as I got home I just starting crying. Been repressing so much of my emotions, that it just came out. I went to sleep for the rest of the day. I need help.
This came out during what I think is the lowest I've ever felt in my life while simultaneously on my birthday. This short animation feels comforting to me. The simple question of "are you okay" can yield a small answer, only the one word of "yeah", but that one word can still mean so much for how little it is. I never want to talk to anyone about my problems despite everyone around being there for me. It doesn't feel right, I don't know whether because I feel guilty for getting help or because of the doubt that anybody will understand me. I'm just scared and don't know what I should do or say. But I still seek comfort from those around me, like a simple hug. Sometimes that's all you need. Thank you for this one, Ockeroid. Thanks for putting together what I feel perfectly captures my own feelings right now. And I hope you yourself are doing okay.
"I have no mouth but I must scream" Sometimes, words can not put into perspective how much someone is going through, and even though they can not truthfully verbalize their feelings, it is still very very evident.
that made me cry. a simple one minute animation about someone who is not mentally stable receiving a hug. it was beautiful. i hope he’s okay. if this is a vent, i hope you’re okay.
I feel like crying too, it’s just I’ve done it so much and I’ve been though so much shit in the past few years I’m traumatized into not being *able* too. Which I wouldn’t wish upon my worst enemy, it fucking sucks, wanting to cry but not being able too. Sometimes it gets to you too, you feel like your faking it because your not crying, you even try to make yourself cry, you think it helps. Use other methods to cope with stress and depression, talk to somebody, I can not stress that enough, it is not okay to hide it and let it get worse, give yourself time.
@@mushroomy9899true dude , some times I just want that stress relife that people talk abou after crying but even if I cry after 1 or many months I just feel like I have no tears
I know..like you're sinking into invisible tears, where in the real life there is no tears..even I can't help too much..I want to say that you're not alone and Im a stranger and is not the same like in real life but *hug *@@mushroomy9899
Just want to say…. This finally made me able to cry. I’ve been in a horrible place all day, caught in an emotional dam that was suffocating me. I wanted to cry and couldn’t and was so angry and becoming afraid of myself and…. Thank you.
@@Omabatfartsbruh Of course. Being a carnivore must be hard with all that running, and you still haven't eaten all day. But I'm a rock. I can't move, I can't eat, i can't love. By giving up, you are putting yourself in that position. Get up, no matter how tired and hungry you are, Giving up gets rid of ANY chance of getting that meal. Keep following the light, no matter how much your heart aches. You've climbed so far up the mountain, that it wouldn't make sense to go back down. Get to the top.
The question "do you want a hug" hit's harder than the "are you okay". I still cry when someone asks me one of those but It's been so long since someone asked me to hug me like that, but a lot of people have asked me if I'm okay, even when they don't care. I loved this video and I wish to anyone who is going through any hard times that you find love and peace, because there's always going to be someone who cares about you out there.
God loves you, and he has a plan for you, keep going. Also just think if you give up, the people who you want to love you, will never have the chance to love you, keep doing all those amazing things, and people will grow to appreciate you! 😊
I went through an episode this year in which, at the same time, I almost had a mental depressive episode and then having to prevent a close friend from taking her own life (this in a phone call), seriously, I still feel I'm in pieces after all this
I watched this last night when I was feeling like shit, and it helped in a weird way. It made me sad in a way that said, “there are more people to suffer with me”, but it made me happy in a way that said, “I’m not alone. There are other people who feel like this, and other people who will want to help me”.
Around the time this video was posted, I had multiple issues, a lot of stress and I went downhill from there. I remember watching this video and crying because I could relate, as I was unable to talk to ppl about what was going on. However, months have passed and things got better. I'm feeling better than ever, I'm much healthier now, I have less stress and I understand my emotions better. Also, my loved ones know about the issues I had back then and there's no taboo about it anymore. Things are much better now, it's amazing. So people out there, please don't lose hope. Things will get better, keep surviving no matter what
@SureTina Hope you’re doing good. Sending support and hearts! ❤️❤️❤️ Stay safe. Always remember that people care, one of them, me. If you need help, hotlines will always be available. One of them being 988. Sending support and even more hearts!❤️❤️❤️ Stay safe.
Had a similar case! Back in november I was extremely depressed and suicidal and I already had a date ready to go through with it that was coming in just a couple days. I won't go into it, but someone noticed how I was acting and helped me get proper care. Now, 8 months later, I'm a completely new person! For all of you out there currently struggling, remember that it always gets better, even if you don't believe it.
Will do, my friend, will do.❤ So glad things have gotten better for you! You’re amazing, you’re a beautiful human being who’s loved and appreciated for who you really are, and you deserve each and every single ounce of love and support you get, plus an endless pot supply of more❤️ Thanks for being you, thanks for existing, and keep at it
My older sibling by 2 years passed away two weeks ago after losing their fight against mental illness. The message at the end of this made me think about them and how we always helped each other through hard times and I totally teared up. This is really really sweet to see (especially right now)
Sorry for your loss. I don't know you but hope you and your family be okay(it's fine not to be okay of course). And I want to say that your sibling never lost but did their best.
i felt everything he was feeling. the need to ignore the pain around someone else. the want to break when asked for a hug. a couple years ago at an old job there was one day i just wasn't okay and something made me really sad again all of a sudden i would always go and hide in the bathroom to cry bc i didn't want anyone to see me. i was walking when a customer saw me and asked if i was okay. i said yes and i just kept walking but as i was walking she asked me if i needed a hug. i stopped in my tracks and began crying as i said yes and she just held me as i cried. not even knowing me, knowing why i was crying, who i was. it was nice. i could really use another hug
i searched for a digital hug and this came up hahah being homeschooled outside of town for 4 years straight is a very lonely experience. in the past 2 years somehow my social anxiety spread online too, i want to talk to people but i can't. if people reach out to me i end up ghosting them in fear of intimacy physically, i've only spoken to my mum. i'm going back to public school as a freshman next school season tho:] very excited but simultaneously nervous because i know i've been privileged to have as much free time as i've had. but i think i've put that free time to good use. i started getting into art, music, animation, exercise, walking, admiring everything outside when i can and finding a sense of true identity for myself. i treat each passing person as an experience rather than another wound opened when i go back to school im going to hug the first friend i acquire 💛
“It’s not like I’m gonna kill myself it’s like I’m just gonna lay over there I’m not gonna eat anything I’m not gonna drink anything nothing makes me happy I’m not gonna talk to anybody I’m just gonna do that till I die, that’s what depression is like” - Chester Bennington
And what about living for 2 years without one sad, mad, happy, good, boring, scary, existing moment or in other words feel less, what do you call this?
I wish something like this had happened when I was still depressed. I often found myself daydreaming about scenarios like this, imagining it to be the most comforting thing one could ever experience. I still think a hug like that is extremely comforting, but when you're recovered, you find yourself wanting to be the guy on the left instead of the guy on the right. You want to bring the comfort you denied yourself to anyone who needs it. What a lovely video
The exact same thing is happening to me. I'm daydreaming daily with that comforting hug. But the difference is that I won't be able to recover from the crisis of loneliness that I'm suffering. That hug would be the most beautiful and comforting experience in my life
@SUPERCRINGE. Matthew 11:28-30 “Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light.”
I’m an autistic who hates physical touch. When I was a teenager, I made sure that all of the other touchy feely girls and counselors in my cabin knew not to touch me. On the last day of the session, after spending so much time, and every meal, and every night with them, none of the hugged me, which I appreciate. Except for one. A counselor told me, “hey, I now you’re not a hugger, but come over here. I reluctantly went to hug her, and then the hug lasted for no less than two minutes, (a very long hug by my standers). I cried the rest of the night because of that hug. I hadn’t had a hug in six years before then. I’m still not a hugger, but anytime I get upset, I remember that hug. Thank you, Diana (dee-ah-na) from CWE.
These replies (except KoffeServer) are horrible. I bet they think they’re real funny 😐. I’m happy to hear that you found real comfort in that hug, I wish all the best for you!
Psychedelics are just an exceptional mental health breakthrough. It's quite fascinating how effective they are against depression and anxiety. Saved my life.
Can you help with the reliable source I would really appreciate it. Many people talk about mushrooms and psychedelics but nobody talks about where to get them. Very hard to get a reliable source here in Australia. Really need!
YES very sure of bergwilly11__. I have the same experience with anxiety, depression, PTSD and addiction and Mushrooms definitely made a huge huge difference to why am clean today.
I wish they were readily available in my place. Microdosing was my next plan of care for my husband. He is 59 & has so many mental health issues plus probable CTE & a TBI that left him in a coma 8 days. It's too late now I had to get a TPO as he's 6'6 300+ pound homicidal maniac. He's constantly talking about killing someone. He's violent. Anyone reading this Familiar w/ BPD know if it is common for an obsession with violence.
I have a massive issue when it comes to hiding feelings. Really hard just to say some things without the fear of being judged and ridiculed for it, as a male that idea is reinforced heavily to which everything builds up and then becomes too much of a bag to carry. Point is, there are people who care about you and you can explain those feelings whenever you’re ready
no, dude, sometimes there isn’t. sometimes it’s just you. heck, even if i had, i don’t know how. i feel numb all of the time, i feel empty, my head empty.
@@paketik4960 I'm an internet stranger, but I care. Sometimes the numbness is a lot of buried shit. I'm so numb today that anything could happen and I wouldn't care but sometimes it all wants to come out in a screaming sort of meltdown. A trickle of water breaks the dam or whatnot. You don't have to know what you feel, you just have to (safely) let it come out whenever it's safe to do so, whenever they resurface. Took me years to be able to even recognize a glimpse of all the pain I had repressed. Forcing yourself to be okay until you feel like a shell, a poor imitation of a human being, really sucks. But you got this.
@@paketik4960 well timed, haha. caught me in the middle of the dam breaking again. i wish you well too, person on the internet. we survive until we can live.
It takes a lot of strength to talk about emotions. Anyone who thinks men are weak for that are incredibly ignorant, men fight real emotional battles too and that’s a true war. Talking about it is another way of fighting. Keep fighting man!
It is amazing how comforting this animation was to watch for me. I know how important it feels to just want a form of comfort like this when you're at your lowest, and you captured this perfectly in your animation and voice work.
Man, I didn't expect to tear up from this. I legit miss having a hug, a warmth from someone, but welp that doesn't exist for me. Forever gonna miss that warmth... hugs are amazing
Honestly, this video is perfection. A simple hug, the comforting warmth of another person to really give you the feel that you are indeed loved in your life goes way longer than anyone could imagine. Thanks for the upload.
This is me exactly, I just want to feel loved. I kinda had it for a while with someone but once I confessed that I had feelings for them they seemed to grow more distant
If I could I would give you the biggest hug! You know, I’ve been going through the hardest time in my life right now and nobody I know and love has asked me if I’m okay, and they all know how much pain I’m in. You’re not alone and I care about you even though I don’t know you! I pray you get that hug you need and even then some 🩷
When that hug happened I felt a huge warm comfy wave of sadness. I feel like too much has been going on today and I need a stress relief but I can’t find any. I would love to cry but nothing comes out
This video got me out of my miserable mindless scrolling, and just ask for help even hearing someone care feels like a lot. And you don't always know to ask for it! Thanks for this
@XT-oe2zy Hope you’re doing good. Sending support and hearts! ❤️❤️❤️ Stay safe. Always remember that people care, one of them, me. If you need help, hotlines will always be available. One of them being 988. Sending support and even more hearts!❤️❤️❤️ Stay safe.
Ouch.. Dang that is sad, I'm so sorry to hear that pal. But hey how are ya now? I hope you felt better now and things get well now or in the future for ya! _hug you_ there there.. You're not alone okay? :) you are loved, you are cared by someone. Even a stranger like me, things can get tough.. Loneliness is a suck feeling but ay! I'm proud of you for getting on until this point, you're worth living. We have our own role, benefit even if others don't see you right now but believe me, you are BETTER than what you imagine. So keep it up, and take care aight? I be here for ya❤.
@@MoeChuu Thank you, that'll keep me going for a long while. *hug* Hope your own life is going well and know hard times make the good times that much better.
@@JustaDood857 fr, not everything is instant. Life can be hard, lonely at times but I'm sure you can get through it. Remember, you are useful and needed❤ lonely doesn't mean you're useless. Things are tough but you are stronger than what you think pal! *_pat your back_* thank you for the words! Take care and keep your head up dude, you are worth living. I'm proud of you❤ Much support from me fellow!!
Hope everyone is doing good. Sending support and hearts! ❤️❤️❤️ Stay safe. Always remember that people care, one of them, me. If you need help, hotlines will always be available. One of them being 988. Sending support and even more hearts!❤️❤️❤️ Stay safe.
@Stopitpls Hope you’re doing good. Sending support and hearts! ❤️❤️❤️ Stay safe. Always remember that people care, one of them, me. If you need help, hotlines will always be available. One of them being 988. Sending support and even more hearts!❤️❤️❤️ Stay safe.
@leo_vangelo4743 Hope you’re doing good. Sending support and hearts! ❤️❤️❤️ Stay safe. Always remember that people care, one of them, me. If you need help, hotlines will always be available. One of them being 988. Sending support and even more hearts!❤️❤️❤️ Stay safe.
I heard that in Japan, ever since urbanization and the feeling of being so cramped in the hustle and bustles usually just leaves people putting up a mask. In their words, "We learned how to deal with this, we've grown and accepted it." I mean, I'm not a psychologist, I'm only putting one and one together with my ethnocentric knowledge. Here in the United States, people can be very friendly, warm and loving. We also have the proud statistic that 2/3 of Americans have childhood trauma. Theres so much mental health problems here, but so little is ever shown by anyone.
I’m gonna cry because of this. Not because it’s sad, because it’s relatable. And that really hurts. I wish I had someone to ask me things like this. But instead I have all these friends that don’t even care about my mental health and just make jokes. I wish I had a friend I could hug.
@HonkYeahArson Hope you’re doing good. Sending support and hearts! ❤️❤️❤️ Stay safe. Always remember that people care, one of them, me. If you need help, hotlines will always be available. One of them being 988. Sending support and even more hearts!❤️❤️❤️ Stay safe.
Hope everyone is doing good. Sending support and hearts! ❤️❤️❤️ Stay safe. Always remember that people care, one of them, me. If you need help, hotlines will always be available. One of them being 988. Sending support and even more hearts!❤️❤️❤️ Stay safe.
when he knows or can tell something’s off, he offers a hug. it always breaks me, there hasn’t been a time i haven’t broken down n cried in his arms. he means so much to me, if i lose him, i’ll lose myself .
@karai_6425 Hope you’re doing good. Sending support and hearts! ❤️❤️❤️ Stay safe. Always remember that people care, one of them, me. If you need help, hotlines will always be available. One of them being 988. Sending support and even more hearts!❤️❤️❤️ Stay safe.
it's my birthday as of 00:00. My family wished me and gave me hugs and they all were so happy their little boy just turned the big 2 0... when they left the room i just sat here wondering why, despite all that happiness i just received, all that love, still leaves me with an empty feeling. Then i looked at my monitor and saw this video- and this comment, i shed a single tear- thank you.
How are you doing recently? I want you to know that, even if it doent look like so, there are lots of people willing to help you out whenever you're struggling
i love how on the first two he hesitates because he wants to tell the truth but he just can’t, while in the question of “do you want to talk about it?” he immediately says no, because he’s sure he doesn’t. maybe i’m reading too much into this but if had moments like that where the only thing i’m sure of us that i don’t want to talk about it
I did this once to someone I didn’t know, it was a little girl on my bus. She was silently crying for a reason that God only knows. It meant the world to me that she accepted the hug and that I could help. This animation is so beautiful to me.
The reason that I love hugs so much is because it makes me feel like someone cares and values my life enough to use their own energy towards wrapping their arms around me and comforting me. I always don’t love it in the moment, but whenever I think of the hug after, I feel like someone did something for me
That's so true. My friend hugs me once in a while, and I always feel awkward. I don't feel comfortable hugging anyone besides my parents. Just not a huge hugger.. But then I'd realize how nice it is of him 😊. I was also having a rough morning, so sometimes hugs are beneficial.
Hey there. No matter what you're going through, there is always be someone who loves you unconditionally and can help you, and really wants to give you a hug like the one in the video, even better, if you just let Him- that someone is God! The purpose of your existence is to be joyful, peaceful, and give glory to God your creator! Jesus Christ says: "Come to Me, all you who labor and are heavily burdened, and I will give you rest." -Matthew 11:28 For more info, open the Bible to John 1!
@@Jesus_Christ_loves_you_alotThe Bible contradicts itself several times. Jesus says himself that he is not a god or part of a stupid trinity. How can you believe in that crap.
life is never easy. those struggles can make it easy to not see those who care about you. blinded by the constant struggle and loneliness it takes to move forward sometimes. in the end we are born alone, we will die alone.
We all struggle with the neurosis that strikes our mind at various stages of our life’s. We are not lost, even as we may feel so barren, and invisible from each other. We can be seen, in which that connection or reconnection sets a better tone as for how feel, and interact. Thats how we interpret such situations in our lives, and while noting that is key in curing our minds from these mental constraints, they are thoughts, and feelings which can be perturbed, and influenced with connection. Simple things in our lives may not seem so simple in others. That interaction, changes what seemed not so simple, simple within the mind riddled with the mental neurosis. Same as the detachment, isolation, despair, and negativity that the mind pushes into our selfs. It is very much real, but the brain plays tricks as seen to heal itself, or by mistake. And these feelings in mental illness are again real, but fabricated by the mind, they exist but they are just feelings and not reality. Even as they may feel so real. Keep holding on, you are strong, you are brave, you are a beautiful soul in this world who has been through so much, and blessed with life. “To life is to suffer, to survive is to find meaning in the suffering” nitzeche this meaning in life is of many things, and our purpose is of to help find meaning in others, as they will in our’s ❤
Got this randomly recommended to me, clicked on it, heard the first question then saw the broken one's face. Answered every question the same as him down to the creaking of his voice, and even began to tear after saying "yes" to "Do you want a hug?" I can't recall ever seeing your content before, but the way you portrayed this interaction is so unbelievably real, and it makes me feel seen, in a way.. I hope from the bottom of my heart everything is going ok for you, and what a wonderful video this was to experience.
This animation really captured the feeling. Sometimes when I'm feeling not okay (Yes, I lied if I say I'm fine), I don't have the voice to talk about it. I found myself craving warmth on my back... A simple hug. Be strong everyone, sending virtual hugs to whoever see this comments 🫂❤🩹
Some people just blame you when you try to express the darkness what eats you from the inside, whilst depressed people just need to be heard instead of telling them what is right or wrong.
Turn to bible and allow CHRIST to be your therapist, psychologist and psychiatrist. No man nor women fits to be one. All are sinners and without glory, all are tempted and suffer the same. All are expected to REPENT AND BORN AGAIN, to LIVE HOLY AND GO AND SIN NO MORE. All are weak in the daily fight between their spirit and flesh. All these therapist, psychologist and psychiatrist, this world provides, can do is: to deceive and steal. They deceived you through all these “diagnoses” and they steal your money, through all the pills which you “need”. In short: they poison your mind and your overall health, leaving you with neither one. Many among-st them are: John 8:44 KJV Therapist, Psychologist and Psychiatrist = Field where no human soul, never ever going to fit of being an help, no matter the among of years spend in “medical schools” or the decree gotten from there. ALL of us are daily deceived, no matter the walks of life. Do not trust one nor to try to be one. 1 John 4:1 KJV Beloved, believe not every spirit, but try the spirits whether they are of God: because many false prophets are gone out into the world. Turn to the BIBLE yourself and advice it to others also.
Amen! Those who are broken just want someone who is there for them and actually hears them out. Other people will always say they are there for them yet always cast them aside as if they don't exist until it's far too late.
I am depressed I am broken and I don't want to talk I want to hear why am I poor? Why am I not rich? Why am I not non-Muslim? Why am I Muslim? Why am I not hear music? Why am I white? Why am I sad? Tyiokplohbtf?
This made me tear up so bad. Me, my uncle, and his girlfriend talked with me the best they could today, in one of my most dark moments. They didn't give the advice I wanted, but it was something I needed. Yet I ignored them and backed out. After a while, they came up to me and gave me a hug. This video came up on my RUclips right after the situation, and I broke down again. This shit is beautiful, and I really wanna thank you so much for making it. Because this lets me know that there are people who feel the same way, and I'm glad that I'm not alone. I'm okay now. I know I'm okay now. Thank you.
i clicked on this video thinking it was pim from smiling friends and instead was surprised by something so saddening and relatable and NOT related to smiling friends at all😭
this video helps me so much, I constantly feel like im on the verge of breaking down, my mind feels so full of everything, and since i won't seek help I can never really let my mind rest from bottling everything up, yet this video as soon as it starts its more than enough to make me cry, even if its just a little, it helps me feel better
Кино
Serious note, I hope he’s okay. Even as a new viewer.
Me too.
Agreed with heavily
Thought this said suicide note
@@clovs literally how
@@Josuh I obviously read it wrong, not that difficult to understand.
Even one hug is enough to make someone feel a little better
Can't agree more
Give him hug.
Or it makes you feel worse
Surprisingly, that "little better" actually gives people the strength and motivation they need to keep on fighting
Fr though
The worst part, is that sometimes, theres nobody there to give you the hug.
that's what i'm feeling right now
yeah... it does suck.
Not sometimes iwould say in my life no one comes to me and hug me its always me hugging them i neber got a hug back … i wish my family would hug me once (they dont accepct me bc im ugly and i heard it soo much that i now believe it too)
I do have a super friend but she doesn’t like hugs , except for needy situation, but she doesn’t know how much I crave from a hug
It hurts more when you used to be able to get that from someone, but not anymore
God, I cried so hard when the person asked, “are you okay?” You don’t understand how much I felt that..
Yo?? Aw.. What happened? I'm so sorry if no one was there for you. How are you now? I hope ya feel better bud! ❤ here here, free hug! *_hug and pat your back_* it's okay to be sad at times.. Our road is not always smooth, each have their own bumps and slippery road, it's okay. You're not alone, whoever you are I'm here for you! Don't give up aight? Take care. You're better than you imagine, you've been strong bud. You tried your best, I appreciate that. ❤
Cry baby
@@MoeChuu u are not helping anybody
@@dogeshow2651 Woah, sorry to dissapoint, been in therapy app before and I get alot of star, I help alot of people so go mind ur own bussiness❤ atleast I'm doing a good thing what is there to afraid of such as failure? I hope you grow to be better and take care!
@@dogeshow2651 you can be more "sophisticated" if you want to troll better
That very subtle eye widening when he’s offered the hug is why I adore the art of animation
no replies? lemme fix that
Funny seeing you here
But it’s Gay
@@PlayerOne.-AW HECK NAH DUDE
ITS JUST A HUG ITS NOT A KISS DUDE THIS IS A DEPRESSIVE ANIMATION GET OUT OF HERE THATS NOT GAY DUDE
@@PlayerOne.- Are you serious right now
This honestly made me cry because it represents the thousands of people, including myself, who hide their feelings, who can't express themselves, people with depression, anxiety, just those who don't seem to be able to seek help by themselves
And sometimes they cannot share themselves because of potential consequence, knowing they could just stay like that and know nothing will help them.
Thats just sad.
I watch finger nail clippers
@@blocc_nova746 wait wha-
I don’t care stop talking i’m watching family guy
I give my friend daily hugs, and sometimes if I miss a day they’ll get two. They don’t usualy get hugs at home, so a daily hug is what they get no matter what. I’m like their illigal adopted father aswel bc their father isn’t really a good dad, so I always look out for them. It’s quite nice really because it gives both of us something. It gives me the nice feeling that I’m helping someone else, and it shows them that I care about them.
Even if you hate someone, if they look like they need a hug, you always offer one. You never know who needs it
I actually cried when he went to hug the guy. I honestly need a hug in real life but I just- never ask for it.
I will hug you🫂
I want a hug so badly…
dude, a lot of people irl think that i'm not really a hugs or physical touch type person when i am, i just feel scared asking for physical touch or hugs and therefore i never really touch anyone, which kinda just makes it all go in an endless loop when all i want is a hug
@@figarotheninjacat5844 same here i never asked for a hug but still i want one soo bad ..i have sooo many problems and a hug would help me so much
Same, I rarely get hugged when I’m sad, my family is sometimes too busy to deal with me, and my friends I know don’t care about me so I just hug myself in tears..
Virtual hug to everyone that needs it
I dont
Awh I really need that sometimes. Thanks ❤
@@MrsErinSDale ok
Thank you :)
@@leticiamalik6761 u don't need to thank me bro we all need it sometimes 🫂
She asked me out of the blue
“Are you suicidal?”
“Of course not” I replied laughing.
Walking down the stairs, forcing myself to stay together until I was in my room. She saved me, little does she know. The urge was getting so strong at that point I was almost afraid of myself. But…that simple question cause of a joke I made saved me. I’ll never tell my mom this, cause it’ll break her heart to hear how low I was but y’all just know. My mom saved my life.
Glad she did because the world could've lost a precious soul that day ❤❤❤
good mom
I feel bad for you. I'm on the same boat as you... Hopefully this virtual hug helps 🫂
@@NotReallyAHiro right back at ya 🫂
@@NotReallyAHiro *sniffles* u deserve it
0:36 the way how this was voiced is just impressive. The sound of his voice being a bit cracked just shows how upset he is to the point he could just snap anytime, bottling up is already such a big heavy weight we have to carry but just a little act of kindness like a hug can rlly help the situation out. Even tho it doesn’t completely rids of the problem it sure does show that whatever problems ur facing just to let u know that we’re here for u, always. I hope this animation gets to people who needs help and to the people who know that someone they know are going thru something too.
this shit hurt me the most man, i sound the same exact fucking way whenever i’m holding back the urge to cry.
We dont HAVE to carry it, we CHOOSE to carry it bc society says you’re defective if you show emotion.
I aint readin allat
I thought the exact same thing!
@@cwcpants140 exactly
The hug from the random girl on the beach, plus my one friend and dad saved me. Hugs do mean a lot
Sometimes life just sucks, and you don't need to know someones whole life story to comfort them. Just a simple hug can be enough.
🫂
eddsworld pfp spotted
this miraculously came up in my recommended mere minutes after I’d just finished crying and panicking about finals and my social life. things have been really bad lately, but seeing this helped - it didn’t fix everything, but it made me feel a little less lonely, I guess. sorry if this comment is too personal or if it’s weird - this animation just really affected me and I wanted to be honest about what it made me feel. I may have only just found your channel, but I hope you’re doing alright, Ockeroid, and I hope everyone in this comment section is doing alright, too.
Your comment isn't weird or too personal. You just wanted to express your feelings, and that's perfectly normal and okay. :)
I 100% agree with the other comment, you're just expressing your feelings and that's okay!
I hope you're doing good! :)
that's not weird, I'm feeling the same as you too. just feeling comfy by this video knowing that we're not lonely :D
That is perfectly fine! I'm glad this video could comfort you and I hope your finals go well. Just remember that you are never alone, reach out to those close to you when you're stressed! Cheers. - Tree
It takes a lot of maturity and self-awareness to express your feelings. It's not weird at all. It's commendable, actually.
I love how supportive the comments are. They, in combination with the video, really cheer me up. Sometimes it just helps to know not to be the only one going through such a tough time.
Yes! I hope your day is going well!! Cheers -Tree
My thoughts exactly
The comments are full of self loathing kids who never had any real problems in their life
NamesloserX28 your saying that to fit in
I physically can't open up to anyone. the topic if it involves my own personal being and mental state makes me tear up for no reason. I can't get past it for any reason and I still don't know the reason behind why.
I want to open up and talk and express my stress and sadness and whatever, and it's easier said than done, but as a response my physical body just stresses out and makes my throat clench and cry and whatnot FOR NO REASON. I can't even find what I want.
its just a simple question that I can't respond to for some reason when I actually want to open up.
"why are you crying?"
"I don't know why."
"there must be a reason. everything has a reason. why are you crying?"
"I don't know."
I feel like my problems are so irrelevant that I can't dig enough to find the root reason.
other people have it worse.. so why am I feeling like this?
I don't have any 'trauma' that I can call back to.
I don't have bad parents.
what am I repressing that seems so irrelevant?
why am I even feeling this way in the first place?
why do I even want to die? is it the lack of a social life?
I keep pushing my friends away. I did things in the past I utterly hate myself for.
I wish I never had a phone.
I'm probably exaggerating things but I can't have a concrete answer to why.
i've maybe tried to talk to a therapist but I still couldn't open up. I tried talking. I'm tired at a young age.
I see
You said "i wish i never had phone"
You think that you're just wasting you life on games and social media just like me
And also you mentioned you've done something in past you hate yourself so the fealing of guilt must've been eating you from the inside...
At this point it's like im talking to myself cuz i got the similar problems
What ever you feel it will be over because everything has it's beginning and the end
Stay strong buddy❤
yeah. both wasting my life on (what you said) added on having been exposed to mature content at a young age. (if you can guess what it is) it impacted me. not too much, but enough for me to remember it.
i didn't have the affects before, but months after I got caught.
being (kinda) older made me realize how bad it was, and I didn't know why I did it.
I've always been sensitive to yelling and being called out on something.
that's the main reason why.
hope you also feel better.
if you ever feel hopeless, remember. just in general. death is inevitable, so if you cut it short you just don't experience anything after that.
you don't get to live without pain after that.
you just die.
(sorry about the end, just felt right for me.)
@@vinnlistlast paragraph of your answer above tells me you are intelligent and thoughtful.
As to talking to therapist, two things based on my experience:
1. It takes time to open up. There is no standard or time limit for it. Therapists also know that. So you need to continue going to them. At some point you may open up.
2. If you think this therapist is not good for you, dont feel guilty changing to another one, provided point number 1 is fulfilled.
For you specifically why therapists might be the right answer is you yourself wrote you push friends away. So unless you have other outlet, therapists would be right way.
You can also visit neuropsychiatrist. Sometime la just tablets can be a start too.
Dont give up trying to open up. All the best.
sometimes i wish there was a way for me to bury it all so deep it ceases to exist. And i was confident i did, until this video made me cry. dont know why i cant open up... i just cant. therapy wont help too in that case.
its not that i dont trust people
its not that i dont want to tell anyone
its not that i feel ashamed
its not that i hate myself
i just cant open up, and its killing me.
@@user-d48399 If you can’t get it out by in-person, maybe you can try texting a therapist. Even if you can’t get your thoughts out just how you want it, it’s still something. there’s time for everything, you don’t literally need to do it all, or at once.
Ease yourself into being more comfortable in speaking your mind.
it’s obviously not going to be overnight, or might not happen at all, but it’s still something worth trying.
It’s not like you live twice anyway.
“To my brother thank you” made me cry. I remember when my sister caught me crying in my dark room underneath the sheets. She turned on the lights and stayed with me for a while.
I need a hug. I need one so badly.
🤗 hugs are good. I send you some.
I send as many virtual hugs to you as possible. You got this we believe in you
i wish i could hug you right now.
🫂
You’re gonna be ok Eloise.
The fact that he gave him the option to talk about it or not. That would make me feel so comforted, to know that I’m not expected to explain everything, especially when I’m in this state.
@ivyhotea7625 Hope you’re doing good. Sending support and hearts! ❤️❤️❤️ Stay safe. Always remember that people care, one of them, me. If you need help, hotlines will always be available. One of them being 988. Sending support and even more hearts!❤️❤️❤️ Stay safe.
exactly
Same, I hate it when they force me to talk about it even when I say no multiple times and they just tell me that I’ll feel better if I talk about it, like I just feel forced
Your not in nothing this comment section is trash
this got recomended on a "i love you asmr" search, youtube feels my mental health lol
reallllllllllllllllll
I don’t know why but the sad dude captured perfectly how I act after something bad happened. Like a breakup or specifically bad argument
the voice breaking when responding, “yeah” makes me tear up every time. i’ve never felt such comfort with a minute long video before like this
Bro I had several tears running down my face but wasn't even consciously emotional. Maybe it's in the human nature to have such a visceral reaction to witnessing deep emotional trouble
@@neonice bro just described an empath in a 🥶 way 💀💀
BRO I JUST COMMENTED THE SAME THING BEFORE I SAW THIS
I don’t feel comfort, I just feel sad. All I want is a hug 🥲
Yes, each of us needs to be understood and felt, and I hope everyone can do that.
Many people who say that they are okey usually mean that they love you so much, that they don't want to stress YOU with their problems
That hug, HUGGED me. I really like the chill vibes... you won't understand how hard I felt the words...
Ockeroid asking me if I’m Ok through my notifications was the motivation I needed
Who's gonna tell him?
@cookiecia2905 your point?
Nice Daft Punk pfp
@@MyPFPismypet its a long name
@@rasianket7220 and? Is there a problem
Your life is so precious, not because of something you did, but because you simply exist. I am grateful for you.
@inariokami6696 Hope you’re doing good. Sending support and hearts! ❤️❤️❤️ Stay safe. Always remember that people care, one of them, me. If you need help, hotlines will always be available. One of them being 988. Sending support and even more hearts!❤️❤️❤️ Stay safe.
@@zacharynguyen7286 Thank you for taking the time to do this
and write out this message of care for someone else
@@inariokami6696 thank you. i needed that.
Thank you so much. Thank you
Of course, your life is so valuable. You deserve so much love.
Completely seriously- a single hug my brother gave me, is one of only three reasons why I am able to watch and comment this video today.
this is the best way to comfort someone
i remember my friend was with me and I think she knew something was up. she asked if I was okay and I knew that i would break at any moment, but I just didn’t want her to worry about me, so I acted as if i was fine. just the little “yeah” resonated with me so much, because when I did break, i just started bawling my fucking eyes out
😢
Are you okay bro
@@sofia-wn2xv no. they're not. they are repressing their feelings badly.
Same, dude. Every time I watch this, I can’t help but cry because I’m not okay and I need to talk to someone. My friend asked me this one day and I had to hold back so many tears, I haven’t been okay for a long time now. They did ask me that question (are you okay) and that made me realize that they did care, but now I feel so horrible because I just texted them and told them that I don’t think we should be friends anymore. I said all sorts of things like “You don’t care” and “I’m a bad person and you’re just denying it to make me feel better”
I FEEL SO HORRIBLE.
@@visibletrauma69 maybe getting a therapist would help putting words to your emotions and how you can deal with them, looking into it myself actually
The way this found me after such a terrible depressive episode. I was going back and forth between numb and panic all day, but somehow this brought a sort of...calmness to me. Everything got quiet, if only for a minute. So I thank you. More importantly, I hope you are doing okay.
Hope your doing better now pi!
Hope you are doing well
Wow ❤️❣️
Love you :D
Sorry to hear that PJ :(
Somone once asked me if I'm ok, I replied "I'm as far from ok as you can get." That was was thirty years ago and nothing has changed, except now I'm sixty.
Hey I'm just a kid but I'm happy to be be here for you... I'm sending virtual hugs your way with lots of love friend:)
Are you okay?
Told my friend about my depression, she opened up too. If it wasn’t for where we were, I swear we would have cried together. As soon as I got home I just starting crying. Been repressing so much of my emotions, that it just came out. I went to sleep for the rest of the day. I need help.
Are you okay? 😢
I cast virtual hug upon thee
This came out during what I think is the lowest I've ever felt in my life while simultaneously on my birthday.
This short animation feels comforting to me. The simple question of "are you okay" can yield a small answer, only the one word of "yeah", but that one word can still mean so much for how little it is. I never want to talk to anyone about my problems despite everyone around being there for me. It doesn't feel right, I don't know whether because I feel guilty for getting help or because of the doubt that anybody will understand me. I'm just scared and don't know what I should do or say. But I still seek comfort from those around me, like a simple hug. Sometimes that's all you need.
Thank you for this one, Ockeroid. Thanks for putting together what I feel perfectly captures my own feelings right now.
And I hope you yourself are doing okay.
you explained it a lot better than I could and I'm glad you did! Hope you had a happy birthday too :)
Happy birthday, you shouldn’t feel guilty asking for help or doubt anyone who can understand you.
"I have no mouth but I must scream"
Sometimes, words can not put into perspective how much someone is going through, and even though they can not truthfully verbalize their feelings, it is still very very evident.
Happy birthday, my dude. Enjoy a virtual hug in these trying times. 👐
Do you want a hug?
We love you ockeriod, and to everyone reading this know that you aren’t alone in this
As everyone myself, i love you guys
I did not expect this random 1 minute long video to make me want to cry
This broke my 3 day streak of no-crying.
that made me cry. a simple one minute animation about someone who is not mentally stable receiving a hug. it was beautiful. i hope he’s okay. if this is a vent, i hope you’re okay.
I did to cause all I want is a hug but I'm to scared to ask from anyone
I feel like crying too, it’s just I’ve done it so much and I’ve been though so much shit in the past few years I’m traumatized into not being *able* too. Which I wouldn’t wish upon my worst enemy, it fucking sucks, wanting to cry but not being able too. Sometimes it gets to you too, you feel like your faking it because your not crying, you even try to make yourself cry, you think it helps. Use other methods to cope with stress and depression, talk to somebody, I can not stress that enough, it is not okay to hide it and let it get worse, give yourself time.
@@mushroomy9899true dude , some times I just want that stress relife that people talk abou after crying but even if I cry after 1 or many months I just feel like I have no tears
hi...idk how you feel right now but despite is not the same thing
here * virtual hug*@@guitar_guy69
I know..like you're sinking into invisible tears, where in the real life there is no tears..even I can't help too much..I want to say that you're not alone and Im a stranger and is not the same like in real life but *hug *@@mushroomy9899
"You called for help. . . But nobody came."
I wish someone whould care this much
Me too, is there something you want to talk about?
Just want to say…. This finally made me able to cry. I’ve been in a horrible place all day, caught in an emotional dam that was suffocating me. I wanted to cry and couldn’t and was so angry and becoming afraid of myself and….
Thank you.
❤!!
being in the prehistoric era must be difficult
@@Omabatfartsbruh
Dude Noo 💀
@@Omabatfartsbruh Of course. Being a carnivore must be hard with all that running, and you still haven't eaten all day. But I'm a rock. I can't move, I can't eat, i can't love. By giving up, you are putting yourself in that position. Get up, no matter how tired and hungry you are, Giving up gets rid of ANY chance of getting that meal. Keep following the light, no matter how much your heart aches. You've climbed so far up the mountain, that it wouldn't make sense to go back down. Get to the top.
@@hellomrjelloyay is that a poem?
The question "do you want a hug" hit's harder than the "are you okay". I still cry when someone asks me one of those but It's been so long since someone asked me to hug me like that, but a lot of people have asked me if I'm okay, even when they don't care. I loved this video and I wish to anyone who is going through any hard times that you find love and peace, because there's always going to be someone who cares about you out there.
Ik I'm just some random in the internet and that I can't actually help. Still.
Do u want a virtual hug?
@@earth2cody that would be great. Thank you :)
That's why I ask my friends if they need a hug instead because i know exactly how that feels *sigh*
🫂🫂
@@Killua_Zoldyck3407 virtual hug?
Theres a difference between giving and recieving a hug, and I need one. I always give, never get.
Giving virtual hugs~
🫂🤗❤🩹
The despair of having no one but yourself when 'yourself' no longer wants to be is one of the most terrifying feelings there is.
relateable
for real.@@Galactic_Emperor9000
relatable
True. But I always dreamed of when I survived it all and I will have an impressive story to tell. So I just keep moving on, despite everything.
God loves you, and he has a plan for you, keep going.
Also just think if you give up, the people who you want to love you, will never have the chance to love you, keep doing all those amazing things, and people will grow to appreciate you! 😊
I went through an episode this year in which, at the same time, I almost had a mental depressive episode and then having to prevent a close friend from taking her own life (this in a phone call), seriously, I still feel I'm in pieces after all this
I watched this last night when I was feeling like shit, and it helped in a weird way. It made me sad in a way that said, “there are more people to suffer with me”, but it made me happy in a way that said, “I’m not alone. There are other people who feel like this, and other people who will want to help me”.
Around the time this video was posted, I had multiple issues, a lot of stress and I went downhill from there.
I remember watching this video and crying because I could relate, as I was unable to talk to ppl about what was going on.
However, months have passed and things got better. I'm feeling better than ever, I'm much healthier now, I have less stress and I understand my emotions better. Also, my loved ones know about the issues I had back then and there's no taboo about it anymore.
Things are much better now, it's amazing.
So people out there, please don't lose hope. Things will get better, keep surviving no matter what
@SureTina Hope you’re doing good. Sending support and hearts! ❤️❤️❤️ Stay safe. Always remember that people care, one of them, me. If you need help, hotlines will always be available. One of them being 988. Sending support and even more hearts!❤️❤️❤️ Stay safe.
This film made me tear. I was actually crying. Who knew animation can be so powerful. I’m glad you’re doing well.
Had a similar case! Back in november I was extremely depressed and suicidal and I already had a date ready to go through with it that was coming in just a couple days.
I won't go into it, but someone noticed how I was acting and helped me get proper care. Now, 8 months later, I'm a completely new person!
For all of you out there currently struggling, remember that it always gets better, even if you don't believe it.
Will do, my friend, will do.❤ So glad things have gotten better for you! You’re amazing, you’re a beautiful human being who’s loved and appreciated for who you really are, and you deserve each and every single ounce of love and support you get, plus an endless pot supply of more❤️ Thanks for being you, thanks for existing, and keep at it
U made me cry...
My older sibling by 2 years passed away two weeks ago after losing their fight against mental illness. The message at the end of this made me think about them and how we always helped each other through hard times and I totally teared up. This is really really sweet to see (especially right now)
I’m sorry for your loss
I’m sorry for your loss, I hope you feel better
Im so sorry for your loss
Sorry for your loss hope it'll be the last last person you're gonna lose
Sorry for your loss. I don't know you but hope you and your family be okay(it's fine not to be okay of course). And I want to say that your sibling never lost but did their best.
A good warm hug sometimes can fix everything 🥀🎋
i felt everything he was feeling. the need to ignore the pain around someone else. the want to break when asked for a hug.
a couple years ago at an old job there was one day i just wasn't okay and something made me really sad again all of a sudden i would always go and hide in the bathroom to cry bc i didn't want anyone to see me. i was walking when a customer saw me and asked if i was okay. i said yes and i just kept walking but as i was walking she asked me if i needed a hug. i stopped in my tracks and began crying as i said yes and she just held me as i cried. not even knowing me, knowing why i was crying, who i was. it was nice. i could really use another hug
Y'know after watching this, I asked my brother to give me a hug, this vid made me realized how much I needed one after so long.
I am okay, Ockeroid.
thank you for asking, alongside wishing everyone else to have better days.
you all deserve a hug.
Шапалаха деревенского парня со-скоростью света не желаешь? Two-legged carrion.
But is he okay?
@@fabiaaquino2207 i hope so friend. we all reach a low point in our lives.
@@fabiaaquino2207 bro his last video is literally called "how to get rejected" no he is not
You have better days too and a hug '3
i searched for a digital hug and this came up hahah
being homeschooled outside of town for 4 years straight is a very lonely experience. in the past 2 years somehow my social anxiety spread online too, i want to talk to people but i can't. if people reach out to me i end up ghosting them in fear of intimacy
physically, i've only spoken to my mum. i'm going back to public school as a freshman next school season tho:] very excited but simultaneously nervous because i know i've been privileged to have as much free time as i've had. but i think i've put that free time to good use. i started getting into art, music, animation, exercise, walking, admiring everything outside when i can and finding a sense of true identity for myself. i treat each passing person as an experience rather than another wound opened
when i go back to school im going to hug the first friend i acquire 💛
This explains my brain so clearly and yet I can never voice my emotions enough for it😢
“It’s not like I’m gonna kill myself it’s like I’m just gonna lay over there I’m not gonna eat anything I’m not gonna drink anything nothing makes me happy I’m not gonna talk to anybody I’m just gonna do that till I die, that’s what depression is like”
- Chester Bennington
And what about living for 2 years without one sad, mad, happy, good, boring, scary, existing moment or in other words feel less, what do you call this?
@@feel_lessI hope you're okay. That must be the worst feelings ever :) hahahahha. I'm miserable too btw.
I like your username! :)
@@TheDarkKnight_609 thanks man
@@feel_less That would be dissociation :]
I wish something like this had happened when I was still depressed. I often found myself daydreaming about scenarios like this, imagining it to be the most comforting thing one could ever experience.
I still think a hug like that is extremely comforting, but when you're recovered, you find yourself wanting to be the guy on the left instead of the guy on the right. You want to bring the comfort you denied yourself to anyone who needs it. What a lovely video
The exact same thing is happening to me. I'm daydreaming daily with that comforting hug. But the difference is that I won't be able to recover from the crisis of loneliness that I'm suffering.
That hug would be the most beautiful and comforting experience in my life
@@YoshiyaKanon bro, being lonely is the norm for me
I forgot people could recover til now. Easy to forget. I hope I get there too someday
@@someguy34231 i hope you get there too
@@PMT433 lol same
Painful, innit?
I hate being haunted by all the little things I wish I could take back or change.
This video just threw me in the deepest pit of sadness. I cant imagine what it feels like to get a hug while crying.
When they hugged, i teared up.
A genuine hug from someone is all i want right now.
same, bro.
I send you a virtual hug ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ it’s gonna be alright
@SUPERCRINGE. Matthew 11:28-30 “Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light.”
@@Kunitomono 🫂
@@MEMERisSILLY ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤😻😻😻🫂
I’m an autistic who hates physical touch. When I was a teenager, I made sure that all of the other touchy feely girls and counselors in my cabin knew not to touch me.
On the last day of the session, after spending so much time, and every meal, and every night with them, none of the hugged me, which I appreciate. Except for one. A counselor told me, “hey, I now you’re not a hugger, but come over here. I reluctantly went to hug her, and then the hug lasted for no less than two minutes, (a very long hug by my standers). I cried the rest of the night because of that hug. I hadn’t had a hug in six years before then. I’m still not a hugger, but anytime I get upset, I remember that hug.
Thank you, Diana (dee-ah-na) from CWE.
@@stavratum you are a bad person, and I hope you realize it 😁😁😁👍
These replies (except KoffeServer) are horrible. I bet they think they’re real funny 😐. I’m happy to hear that you found real comfort in that hug, I wish all the best for you!
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@@avoid_ you're not edgy or funny for that. blowing out someone's candle doesn't make yours brighter, so be nice
honestly im just here cuz this is a ockeroid animation@@KoffeServer
I just dont want to live on this cruel world...
i cant see flowers anymore..
pls don’t do it It’s gonna get better
Have been trying to cry for an hour just to feel something, this did it, thanks
real ☹️
Anxiety happens when you think you have to figure out everything all at once. Breathe.You're strong. You got this . Take it day by day.
Psychedelics are just an exceptional mental health breakthrough. It's quite fascinating how effective they are against depression and anxiety. Saved my life.
Can you help with the reliable source I would really appreciate it. Many people talk about mushrooms and psychedelics but nobody talks about where to get them. Very hard to get a reliable source here in Australia. Really need!
YES very sure of bergwilly11__. I have the same experience with anxiety, depression, PTSD and addiction and Mushrooms definitely made a huge huge difference to why am clean today.
I wish they were readily available in my place.
Microdosing was my next plan of care for my husband. He is 59 & has so many mental health issues plus probable CTE & a TBI that left him in a coma 8 days. It's too late now I had to get a TPO as he's 6'6 300+ pound homicidal maniac.
He's constantly talking about killing someone.
He's violent. Anyone reading this Familiar w/ BPD know if it is common for an obsession with violence.
@@patriaciasmith3499Is he on instegram?
I have a massive issue when it comes to hiding feelings. Really hard just to say some things without the fear of being judged and ridiculed for it, as a male that idea is reinforced heavily to which everything builds up and then becomes too much of a bag to carry.
Point is, there are people who care about you and you can explain those feelings whenever you’re ready
no, dude, sometimes there isn’t. sometimes it’s just you. heck, even if i had, i don’t know how. i feel numb all of the time, i feel empty, my head empty.
@@paketik4960 I'm an internet stranger, but I care. Sometimes the numbness is a lot of buried shit. I'm so numb today that anything could happen and I wouldn't care but sometimes it all wants to come out in a screaming sort of meltdown. A trickle of water breaks the dam or whatnot. You don't have to know what you feel, you just have to (safely) let it come out whenever it's safe to do so, whenever they resurface. Took me years to be able to even recognize a glimpse of all the pain I had repressed. Forcing yourself to be okay until you feel like a shell, a poor imitation of a human being, really sucks. But you got this.
@@someguy34231 thank you, I wish you well
@@paketik4960 well timed, haha. caught me in the middle of the dam breaking again. i wish you well too, person on the internet. we survive until we can live.
It takes a lot of strength to talk about emotions. Anyone who thinks men are weak for that are incredibly ignorant, men fight real emotional battles too and that’s a true war. Talking about it is another way of fighting. Keep fighting man!
It is amazing how comforting this animation was to watch for me. I know how important it feels to just want a form of comfort like this when you're at your lowest, and you captured this perfectly in your animation and voice work.
I need this kind of hug 😢
Man, I didn't expect to tear up from this. I legit miss having a hug, a warmth from someone, but welp that doesn't exist for me. Forever gonna miss that warmth... hugs are amazing
hope you’re doing okay❤
heres an online hug 🫂
*gives virtual hug*
same sentiments my man, same sentiments... 🫂🫂
Here, count that one as a real hug 🫂
Sorry Im late, anyway heres a hug for you🫂
Honestly, this video is perfection. A simple hug, the comforting warmth of another person to really give you the feel that you are indeed loved in your life goes way longer than anyone could imagine. Thanks for the upload.
This is me exactly, I just want to feel loved. I kinda had it for a while with someone but once I confessed that I had feelings for them they seemed to grow more distant
ARF ARF
Them: "Are you okay?"
Me: "No, I'm fine. At least that's what I want you to think"
So much heart and soul poured into the animation! Bravo man!
I love hugging ppl and helping others when there sad bcs that’s all I want but never get.
Yeah… ❤️
I'm the same here. You're not alone in this
If I could I would give you the biggest hug! You know, I’ve been going through the hardest time in my life right now and nobody I know and love has asked me if I’m okay, and they all know how much pain I’m in. You’re not alone and I care about you even though I don’t know you! I pray you get that hug you need and even then some 🩷
Help me get my happiness back...
Dude 🥺
Virtual hugs to you❤
Hugs to your bro, Ock!!
Hi Mr hair
hi
you to
srpelo has been found in my mindless comment scrolling
It’s the hug that always makes me start bawling
When that hug happened I felt a huge warm comfy wave of sadness. I feel like too much has been going on today and I need a stress relief but I can’t find any. I would love to cry but nothing comes out
This video got me out of my miserable mindless scrolling, and just ask for help even hearing someone care feels like a lot. And you don't always know to ask for it! Thanks for this
@XT-oe2zy Hope you’re doing good. Sending support and hearts! ❤️❤️❤️ Stay safe. Always remember that people care, one of them, me. If you need help, hotlines will always be available. One of them being 988. Sending support and even more hearts!❤️❤️❤️ Stay safe.
This was so comforting and sad at the same time, it’s rare when people really care about how you feel
You’re right.
deez bolz
That's too sad
@@user-yj8lq5gr4h agreed
No one actually genuinely cares everyone is a fake and a liar. You are all alone. We are all alone.
Damn... Now i need a hug..
*looks around at my empty home*
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Oh..
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Right...
Ouch.. Dang that is sad, I'm so sorry to hear that pal.
But hey how are ya now? I hope you felt better now and things get well now or in the future for ya! _hug you_ there there.. You're not alone okay? :) you are loved, you are cared by someone. Even a stranger like me, things can get tough.. Loneliness is a suck feeling but ay! I'm proud of you for getting on until this point, you're worth living. We have our own role, benefit even if others don't see you right now but believe me, you are BETTER than what you imagine. So keep it up, and take care aight? I be here for ya❤.
@@MoeChuu Thank you, that'll keep me going for a long while.
*hug*
Hope your own life is going well and know hard times make the good times that much better.
@@JustaDood857 fr, not everything is instant. Life can be hard, lonely at times but I'm sure you can get through it. Remember, you are useful and needed❤ lonely doesn't mean you're useless. Things are tough but you are stronger than what you think pal! *_pat your back_* thank you for the words! Take care and keep your head up dude, you are worth living. I'm proud of you❤ Much support from me fellow!!
I wish I had someone like this in my life, someone whom you can be vulnerable to.
Same
I long for the day someone can ask me that question and I can actually accept it
Hope everyone is doing good. Sending support and hearts! ❤️❤️❤️ Stay safe. Always remember that people care, one of them, me. If you need help, hotlines will always be available. One of them being 988. Sending support and even more hearts!❤️❤️❤️ Stay safe.
@Stopitpls Hope you’re doing good. Sending support and hearts! ❤️❤️❤️ Stay safe. Always remember that people care, one of them, me. If you need help, hotlines will always be available. One of them being 988. Sending support and even more hearts!❤️❤️❤️ Stay safe.
@leo_vangelo4743 Hope you’re doing good. Sending support and hearts! ❤️❤️❤️ Stay safe. Always remember that people care, one of them, me. If you need help, hotlines will always be available. One of them being 988. Sending support and even more hearts!❤️❤️❤️ Stay safe.
Me too, I had a friend once but now he's gone
「大丈夫？」と聞かれると「うん」と答えてしまうのは全国共通なんですね。日本でもそうです。この動画を見ていて、とても暖かい気持ちになりました。感動させてくれてありがとう。
I wish the best for you, man
In many countries I think that is a common response. People are nervous of opening up to others and sharing their emotions (being vulnerable).
I heard that in Japan, ever since urbanization and the feeling of being so cramped in the hustle and bustles usually just leaves people putting up a mask. In their words, "We learned how to deal with this, we've grown and accepted it." I mean, I'm not a psychologist, I'm only putting one and one together with my ethnocentric knowledge. Here in the United States, people can be very friendly, warm and loving. We also have the proud statistic that 2/3 of Americans have childhood trauma. Theres so much mental health problems here, but so little is ever shown by anyone.
はい、英語でも「はい」と言うのが一般的です。
I feel like mental health was and is a big problem over there in Japan. Stay safe and stay close.
I’m gonna cry because of this. Not because it’s sad, because it’s relatable. And that really hurts. I wish I had someone to ask me things like this. But instead I have all these friends that don’t even care about my mental health and just make jokes. I wish I had a friend I could hug.
It's like I wanna say my problems to the other person but don't want the person to pity me
This video is now my comfort video...
Nobody's ever really asked me if I needed a hug or cared to see if I'm okay, but this is the next best thing. :)
Are you okay?
Here is a hug for you, if you need it friend🫂
@@riksukinn Thank you. :)
Here's a hug for u 🫂 ❤
@HonkYeahArson Hope you’re doing good. Sending support and hearts! ❤️❤️❤️ Stay safe. Always remember that people care, one of them, me. If you need help, hotlines will always be available. One of them being 988. Sending support and even more hearts!❤️❤️❤️ Stay safe.
Hope everyone is doing good. Sending support and hearts! ❤️❤️❤️ Stay safe. Always remember that people care, one of them, me. If you need help, hotlines will always be available. One of them being 988. Sending support and even more hearts!❤️❤️❤️ Stay safe.
when he knows or can tell something’s off, he offers a hug.
it always breaks me, there hasn’t been a time i haven’t broken down n cried in his arms.
he means so much to me, if i lose him, i’ll lose myself .
@karai_6425 Hope you’re doing good. Sending support and hearts! ❤️❤️❤️ Stay safe. Always remember that people care, one of them, me. If you need help, hotlines will always be available. One of them being 988. Sending support and even more hearts!❤️❤️❤️ Stay safe.
@@zacharynguyen7286 thank you love, much appreciated
it's my birthday as of 00:00. My family wished me and gave me hugs and they all were so happy their little boy just turned the big 2 0... when they left the room i just sat here wondering why, despite all that happiness i just received, all that love, still leaves me with an empty feeling. Then i looked at my monitor and saw this video- and this comment, i shed a single tear- thank you.
@@ghostfayceklr701 i hope it gets better for you man
How are you doing recently? I want you to know that, even if it doent look like so, there are lots of people willing to help you out whenever you're struggling
This made me miss my brother. Very grateful for him. Thank you.
i really want this kind of person who comforts me like this in my life
i love how on the first two he hesitates because he wants to tell the truth but he just can’t, while in the question of “do you want to talk about it?” he immediately says no, because he’s sure he doesn’t. maybe i’m reading too much into this but if had moments like that where the only thing i’m sure of us that i don’t want to talk about it
I would like to talk about skibidi toilet
@@dogeshow2651lmao
Because it's true
I did this once to someone I didn’t know, it was a little girl on my bus. She was silently crying for a reason that God only knows. It meant the world to me that she accepted the hug and that I could help. This animation is so beautiful to me.
This is exactly how i want someone to comfort me. As much as i love comforting words, i just want someone to hug me.
🫂🤗i gotchu
We are gifted with the ability to express emotions and thought like no other animal on this planet.
That gift is a beautiful curse.
The reason that I love hugs so much is because it makes me feel like someone cares and values my life enough to use their own energy towards wrapping their arms around me and comforting me. I always don’t love it in the moment, but whenever I think of the hug after, I feel like someone did something for me
Right..
oh come on, just find a tree and hug it
That's so true. My friend hugs me once in a while, and I always feel awkward. I don't feel comfortable hugging anyone besides my parents. Just not a huge hugger.. But then I'd realize how nice it is of him 😊. I was also having a rough morning, so sometimes hugs are beneficial.
@@Ozzy-worsttasteyea I tell my personal stuff to my backyard tree
@Ozzy-worsttaste Will a tree hug you back…?
I wish i had anyone like this in my life.
I keep hugging myself but it's not quite the same.
Hey there. No matter what you're going through, there is always be someone who loves you unconditionally and can help you, and really wants to give you a hug like the one in the video, even better, if you just let Him- that someone is God!
The purpose of your existence is to be joyful, peaceful, and give glory to God your creator!
Jesus Christ says:
"Come to Me, all you who labor and are heavily burdened, and I will give you rest." -Matthew 11:28
For more info, open the Bible to John 1!
@@Jesus_Christ_loves_you_alotno i don't thini we will
@@Jesus_Christ_loves_you_alotThe Bible contradicts itself several times. Jesus says himself that he is not a god or part of a stupid trinity.
How can you believe in that crap.
I would do it for you
is not the same but
*hug*
life is never easy. those struggles can make it easy to not see those who care about you. blinded by the constant struggle and loneliness it takes to move forward sometimes. in the end we are born alone, we will die alone.
We all struggle with the neurosis that strikes our mind at various stages of our life’s. We are not lost, even as we may feel so barren, and invisible from each other. We can be seen, in which that connection or reconnection sets a better tone as for how feel, and interact. Thats how we interpret such situations in our lives, and while noting that is key in curing our minds from these mental constraints, they are thoughts, and feelings which can be perturbed, and influenced with connection. Simple things in our lives may not seem so simple in others. That interaction, changes what seemed not so simple, simple within the mind riddled with the mental neurosis. Same as the detachment, isolation, despair, and negativity that the mind pushes into our selfs. It is very much real, but the brain plays tricks as seen to heal itself, or by mistake. And these feelings in mental illness are again real, but fabricated by the mind, they exist but they are just feelings and not reality. Even as they may feel so real. Keep holding on, you are strong, you are brave, you are a beautiful soul in this world who has been through so much, and blessed with life. “To life is to suffer, to survive is to find meaning in the suffering” nitzeche this meaning in life is of many things, and our purpose is of to help find meaning in others, as they will in our’s ❤
63 seconds and I’ve been drawn to tears, I really wanna give this fella a hug as well
is not the same but here *virtual hug*
I have some depressive animated stories too if you'd like to see 👀
Me too.
@@ALIENIGHTMARE where can I find them?
@@rollingstones54312 ?..
Got this randomly recommended to me, clicked on it, heard the first question then saw the broken one's face. Answered every question the same as him down to the creaking of his voice, and even began to tear after saying "yes" to "Do you want a hug?" I can't recall ever seeing your content before, but the way you portrayed this interaction is so unbelievably real, and it makes me feel seen, in a way.. I hope from the bottom of my heart everything is going ok for you, and what a wonderful video this was to experience.
Worst part is there aren't many people who realize just how much we need this
This animation really captured the feeling. Sometimes when I'm feeling not okay (Yes, I lied if I say I'm fine), I don't have the voice to talk about it. I found myself craving warmth on my back... A simple hug.
Be strong everyone, sending virtual hugs to whoever see this comments 🫂❤🩹
Hurting someone is like throwing stone in Sea, u don't know how deep it goes ✨
i throw my stones in the deepest trenches
Some people just blame you when you try to express the darkness what eats you from the inside, whilst depressed people just need to be heard instead of telling them what is right or wrong.
Turn to bible and allow CHRIST to be your therapist, psychologist and psychiatrist. No man nor women fits to be one. All are sinners and without glory, all are tempted and suffer the same.
All are expected to REPENT AND BORN AGAIN, to LIVE HOLY AND GO AND SIN NO MORE.
All are weak in the daily fight between their spirit and flesh.
All these therapist, psychologist and psychiatrist, this world provides, can do is:
to deceive and steal.
They deceived you through all these “diagnoses” and they steal your money, through all the pills which you “need”.
In short: they poison your mind and your overall health, leaving you with neither one.
Many among-st them are: John 8:44 KJV
Therapist, Psychologist and Psychiatrist = Field where no human soul, never ever going to fit of being an help, no matter the among of years spend in “medical schools” or the decree gotten from there.
ALL of us are daily deceived, no matter the walks of life.
Do not trust one nor to try to be one.
1 John 4:1 KJV
Beloved, believe not every spirit, but try the spirits whether they are of God: because many false prophets are gone out into the world.
Turn to the BIBLE yourself and advice it to others also.
Amen! Those who are broken just want someone who is there for them and actually hears them out. Other people will always say they are there for them yet always cast them aside as if they don't exist until it's far too late.
then look up, into the heavens and cry out-@@TheBulbasaurKing
I feel that. Myself, I’m not necessarily depressed, but I do have mental problems and cry when I’m alone. This video is comforting.
I am depressed I am broken and I don't want to talk I want to hear why am I poor? Why am I not rich? Why am I not non-Muslim? Why am I Muslim? Why am I not hear music? Why am I white? Why am I sad? Tyiokplohbtf?
This made me tear up so bad. Me, my uncle, and his girlfriend talked with me the best they could today, in one of my most dark moments. They didn't give the advice I wanted, but it was something I needed. Yet I ignored them and backed out. After a while, they came up to me and gave me a hug. This video came up on my RUclips right after the situation, and I broke down again. This shit is beautiful, and I really wanna thank you so much for making it. Because this lets me know that there are people who feel the same way, and I'm glad that I'm not alone. I'm okay now. I know I'm okay now. Thank you.
hey man, how are you feeling today? :(
i clicked on this video thinking it was pim from smiling friends and instead was surprised by something so saddening and relatable and NOT related to smiling friends at all😭
this video helps me so much, I constantly feel like im on the verge of breaking down, my mind feels so full of everything, and since i won't seek help I can never really let my mind rest from bottling everything up, yet this video as soon as it starts its more than enough to make me cry, even if its just a little, it helps me feel better
you are literaly me, sorry for you.