dude, a lot of people irl think that i'm not really a hugs or physical touch type person when i am, i just feel scared asking for physical touch or hugs and therefore i never really touch anyone, which kinda just makes it all go in an endless loop when all i want is a hug
Same, I rarely get hugged when I’m sad, my family is sometimes too busy to deal with me, and my friends I know don’t care about me so I just hug myself in tears..
@@ra7rr ohhh omg Ray I’m in love with what you’ve said to mehh XD it’s like ummm u just HIT me with a symphony of words that left me SPEECHLESS! n ur beauty in expression is truly nnnn completely MESMERIZING!
I love how supportive the comments are. They, in combination with the video, really cheer me up. Sometimes it just helps to know not to be the only one going through such a tough time.
This speaks to me very well. I have been so sad and depressed I know I've driven people away, as I was too harsh and sad, and struggling with myself. Even when I've tried to reach out to those who were hurt by my emotional outbursts, they understandably don't want anything further with me. A few years ago, I tried to end my own life , but I was found and brought to a hospital before further harm. I still struggle so severely with thoughts that maybe people would be better if I was away? I sometimes even have thoughts that maybe I'll find happiness away from the sorrows life presents us? (I know this is very long text, I do apologize, I just don't have anyone I can vent to to express how relatable such animation can be to one's emotional states)
wow i know exactly how deep it can get. it terrifying to move in life with ideas that there is no one out there for u and that you are alone. i hope you are doing better today compared to the past
Hi I'm sorry for you pain and hardship sadly I can relate to some of the staff you said I just want you to know that I care for you I hope you are well now
This honestly made me cry because it represents the thousands of people, including myself, who hide their feelings, who can't express themselves, people with depression, anxiety, just those who don't seem to be able to seek help by themselves
And sometimes they cannot share themselves because of potential consequence, knowing they could just stay like that and know nothing will help them. Thats just sad.
I give my friend daily hugs, and sometimes if I miss a day they’ll get two. They don’t usualy get hugs at home, so a daily hug is what they get no matter what. I’m like their illigal adopted father aswel bc their father isn’t really a good dad, so I always look out for them. It’s quite nice really because it gives both of us something. It gives me the nice feeling that I’m helping someone else, and it shows them that I care about them. Even if you hate someone, if they look like they need a hug, you always offer one. You never know who needs it
My friend seems to hide his feelings. He’s always goofing around, making strange, otherworldly noises, but I can see a hurt person in there. I may have one eye, but I can still see into him.
Just want to say…. This finally made me able to cry. I’ve been in a horrible place all day, caught in an emotional dam that was suffocating me. I wanted to cry and couldn’t and was so angry and becoming afraid of myself and…. Thank you.
@@Omabatfartsbruh Of course. Being a carnivore must be hard with all that running, and you still haven't eaten all day. But I'm a rock. I can't move, I can't eat, i can't love. By giving up, you are putting yourself in that position. Get up, no matter how tired and hungry you are, Giving up gets rid of ANY chance of getting that meal. Keep following the light, no matter how much your heart aches. You've climbed so far up the mountain, that it wouldn't make sense to go back down. Get to the top.
The fact that he gave him the option to talk about it or not. That would make me feel so comforted, to know that I’m not expected to explain everything, especially when I’m in this state.
@ivyhotea7625 Hope you’re doing good. Sending support and hearts! ❤️❤️❤️ Stay safe. Always remember that people care, one of them, me. If you need help, hotlines will always be available. One of them being 988. Sending support and even more hearts!❤️❤️❤️ Stay safe.
Same, I hate it when they force me to talk about it even when I say no multiple times and they just tell me that I’ll feel better if I talk about it, like I just feel forced
@@NOOBHATESFEETmy mother does the same thing to me, whenever she does I just shut down and go silent, But it always ends with me getting punished bc I didn’t answer. I physically can’t talk abt my feelings anymore because of that.
man, I'm tired. I was good and compassionate but the sensitivity required to be as such worked against me and now I'm colder and it hurts a bit. Sometimes I really do wish I could go someplace else, this place sucks. I don't appreciate this existence. I feel like im only living through malice
The question "do you want a hug" hit's harder than the "are you okay". I still cry when someone asks me one of those but It's been so long since someone asked me to hug me like that, but a lot of people have asked me if I'm okay, even when they don't care. I loved this video and I wish to anyone who is going through any hard times that you find love and peace, because there's always going to be someone who cares about you out there.
Bro I had several tears running down my face but wasn't even consciously emotional. Maybe it's in the human nature to have such a visceral reaction to witnessing deep emotional trouble
The way this found me after such a terrible depressive episode. I was going back and forth between numb and panic all day, but somehow this brought a sort of...calmness to me. Everything got quiet, if only for a minute. So I thank you. More importantly, I hope you are doing okay.
this miraculously came up in my recommended mere minutes after I’d just finished crying and panicking about finals and my social life. things have been really bad lately, but seeing this helped - it didn’t fix everything, but it made me feel a little less lonely, I guess. sorry if this comment is too personal or if it’s weird - this animation just really affected me and I wanted to be honest about what it made me feel. I may have only just found your channel, but I hope you’re doing alright, Ockeroid, and I hope everyone in this comment section is doing alright, too.
That is perfectly fine! I'm glad this video could comfort you and I hope your finals go well. Just remember that you are never alone, reach out to those close to you when you're stressed! Cheers. - Tree
It hurts how accurate this is. I recently went through a rough breakdown because I just didn't talk to anyone, I never thought any of my feelings or problems were important. One of my close friends just hugged me through my breakdown, and I felt a little more important. I get that it's hard to accept that you matter to people, I still occasionally struggle to accept that. Life is rough on everybody, and you matter to people, it might not seem like it, but there's always atleast one person who cares
She asked me out of the blue “Are you suicidal?” “Of course not” I replied laughing. Walking down the stairs, forcing myself to stay together until I was in my room. She saved me, little does she know. The urge was getting so strong at that point I was almost afraid of myself. But…that simple question cause of a joke I made saved me. I’ll never tell my mom this, cause it’ll break her heart to hear how low I was but y’all just know. My mom saved my life.
This just radiates a ton of emotions. Wanting to hide them to not feel judged. Wanted to put on a face to feel like your freinds dont have to worry. I just get so many emotions from this, it just sucks that people now a days on the internet can't understand how important mental health really is. They treat it as if its just a joke, or some sick plaything. Its a real emotion that people have, and in some cases needs support and encouragement. Dont stamp out others feelings for ANY reason. If you ever wonder why s*****e rates are up, this is why, because people dont care, it just sickens me to see how people get treated sometimes. To you who made this video, thank you, you've helped a lot of people by just showing us this. Have a great day/night ❤
i remember my friend was with me and I think she knew something was up. she asked if I was okay and I knew that i would break at any moment, but I just didn’t want her to worry about me, so I acted as if i was fine. just the little “yeah” resonated with me so much, because when I did break, i just started bawling my fucking eyes out
Same, dude. Every time I watch this, I can’t help but cry because I’m not okay and I need to talk to someone. My friend asked me this one day and I had to hold back so many tears, I haven’t been okay for a long time now. They did ask me that question (are you okay) and that made me realize that they did care, but now I feel so horrible because I just texted them and told them that I don’t think we should be friends anymore. I said all sorts of things like “You don’t care” and “I’m a bad person and you’re just denying it to make me feel better” I FEEL SO HORRIBLE.
My older sibling by 2 years passed away two weeks ago after losing their fight against mental illness. The message at the end of this made me think about them and how we always helped each other through hard times and I totally teared up. This is really really sweet to see (especially right now)
Sorry for your loss. I don't know you but hope you and your family be okay(it's fine not to be okay of course). And I want to say that your sibling never lost but did their best.
@inariokami6696 Hope you’re doing good. Sending support and hearts! ❤️❤️❤️ Stay safe. Always remember that people care, one of them, me. If you need help, hotlines will always be available. One of them being 988. Sending support and even more hearts!❤️❤️❤️ Stay safe.
Yo?? Aw.. What happened? I'm so sorry if no one was there for you. How are you now? I hope ya feel better bud! ❤ here here, free hug! *_hug and pat your back_* it's okay to be sad at times.. Our road is not always smooth, each have their own bumps and slippery road, it's okay. You're not alone, whoever you are I'm here for you! Don't give up aight? Take care. You're better than you imagine, you've been strong bud. You tried your best, I appreciate that. ❤
@@dogeshow2651 Woah, sorry to dissapoint, been in therapy app before and I get alot of star, I help alot of people so go mind ur own bussiness❤ atleast I'm doing a good thing what is there to afraid of such as failure? I hope you grow to be better and take care!
A year late, but still rings true even today. Love the simplicity of the art style. Simple yet meaningful. I think it portrays really well that sense/feeling that many of us supress, ignore, or avoid. I certainly can relate. If only it were easy in real life to be honest like this...anyway, beautifully done friend 👏
I wish something like this had happened when I was still depressed. I often found myself daydreaming about scenarios like this, imagining it to be the most comforting thing one could ever experience. I still think a hug like that is extremely comforting, but when you're recovered, you find yourself wanting to be the guy on the left instead of the guy on the right. You want to bring the comfort you denied yourself to anyone who needs it. What a lovely video
The exact same thing is happening to me. I'm daydreaming daily with that comforting hug. But the difference is that I won't be able to recover from the crisis of loneliness that I'm suffering. That hug would be the most beautiful and comforting experience in my life
Honestly, this video is perfection. A simple hug, the comforting warmth of another person to really give you the feel that you are indeed loved in your life goes way longer than anyone could imagine. Thanks for the upload.
This is me exactly, I just want to feel loved. I kinda had it for a while with someone but once I confessed that I had feelings for them they seemed to grow more distant
Around the time this video was posted, I had multiple issues, a lot of stress and I went downhill from there. I remember watching this video and crying because I could relate, as I was unable to talk to ppl about what was going on. However, months have passed and things got better. I'm feeling better than ever, I'm much healthier now, I have less stress and I understand my emotions better. Also, my loved ones know about the issues I had back then and there's no taboo about it anymore. Things are much better now, it's amazing. So people out there, please don't lose hope. Things will get better, keep surviving no matter what
@SureTina Hope you’re doing good. Sending support and hearts! ❤️❤️❤️ Stay safe. Always remember that people care, one of them, me. If you need help, hotlines will always be available. One of them being 988. Sending support and even more hearts!❤️❤️❤️ Stay safe.
Had a similar case! Back in november I was extremely depressed and suicidal and I already had a date ready to go through with it that was coming in just a couple days. I won't go into it, but someone noticed how I was acting and helped me get proper care. Now, 8 months later, I'm a completely new person! For all of you out there currently struggling, remember that it always gets better, even if you don't believe it.
Will do, my friend, will do.❤ So glad things have gotten better for you! You’re amazing, you’re a beautiful human being who’s loved and appreciated for who you really are, and you deserve each and every single ounce of love and support you get, plus an endless pot supply of more❤️ Thanks for being you, thanks for existing, and keep at it
Man, I didn't expect to tear up from this. I legit miss having a hug, a warmth from someone, but welp that doesn't exist for me. Forever gonna miss that warmth... hugs are amazing
If I could I would give you the biggest hug! You know, I’ve been going through the hardest time in my life right now and nobody I know and love has asked me if I’m okay, and they all know how much pain I’m in. You’re not alone and I care about you even though I don’t know you! I pray you get that hug you need and even then some 🩷
Up until this point I always thought Ockeroid just made music for Henry Stickmin & stuff, never knew he has his own animation channel where he posts other stuff…
@SUPERCRINGE. Matthew 11:28-30 “Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light.”
It's like he doesn't want to be a burden, but in his mind he screaming "hug me! Please" and when the first one offering him a hug, second one feels that he REALLY can let out the crap was bothering him and be sure that he won't be judged. I wish I haven't that endless pain of loneliness... And have the same person nearby... In another comment I saw the phrase "got hug from someone you want it from" and... It's so me and hits my the most sensitive topic
This video got me out of my miserable mindless scrolling, and just ask for help even hearing someone care feels like a lot. And you don't always know to ask for it! Thanks for this
@XT-oe2zy Hope you’re doing good. Sending support and hearts! ❤️❤️❤️ Stay safe. Always remember that people care, one of them, me. If you need help, hotlines will always be available. One of them being 988. Sending support and even more hearts!❤️❤️❤️ Stay safe.
This came out during what I think is the lowest I've ever felt in my life while simultaneously on my birthday. This short animation feels comforting to me. The simple question of "are you okay" can yield a small answer, only the one word of "yeah", but that one word can still mean so much for how little it is. I never want to talk to anyone about my problems despite everyone around being there for me. It doesn't feel right, I don't know whether because I feel guilty for getting help or because of the doubt that anybody will understand me. I'm just scared and don't know what I should do or say. But I still seek comfort from those around me, like a simple hug. Sometimes that's all you need. Thank you for this one, Ockeroid. Thanks for putting together what I feel perfectly captures my own feelings right now. And I hope you yourself are doing okay.
"I have no mouth but I must scream" Sometimes, words can not put into perspective how much someone is going through, and even though they can not truthfully verbalize their feelings, it is still very very evident.
when he knows or can tell something’s off, he offers a hug. it always breaks me, there hasn’t been a time i haven’t broken down n cried in his arms. he means so much to me, if i lose him, i’ll lose myself .
@karai_6425 Hope you’re doing good. Sending support and hearts! ❤️❤️❤️ Stay safe. Always remember that people care, one of them, me. If you need help, hotlines will always be available. One of them being 988. Sending support and even more hearts!❤️❤️❤️ Stay safe.
it's my birthday as of 00:00. My family wished me and gave me hugs and they all were so happy their little boy just turned the big 2 0... when they left the room i just sat here wondering why, despite all that happiness i just received, all that love, still leaves me with an empty feeling. Then i looked at my monitor and saw this video- and this comment, i shed a single tear- thank you.
How are you doing recently? I want you to know that, even if it doent look like so, there are lots of people willing to help you out whenever you're struggling
Psychedelics are just an exceptional mental health breakthrough. It's quite fascinating how effective they are against depression and anxiety. Saved my life.
Can you help with the reliable source I would really appreciate it. Many people talk about mushrooms and psychedelics but nobody talks about where to get them. Very hard to get a reliable source here in Australia. Really need!
YES very sure of bergwilly11__. I have the same experience with anxiety, depression, PTSD and addiction and Mushrooms definitely made a huge huge difference to why am clean today.
I wish they were readily available in my place. Microdosing was my next plan of care for my husband. He is 59 & has so many mental health issues plus probable CTE & a TBI that left him in a coma 8 days. It's too late now I had to get a TPO as he's 6'6 300+ pound homicidal maniac. He's constantly talking about killing someone. He's violent. Anyone reading this Familiar w/ BPD know if it is common for an obsession with violence.
1...just 1 real hug will make everything ok...its not because you like the person... its because when you hug someone.. you feel better in the wormth and the love its normal to want.. or even need a hug you know. Sometimes even i cry in the middle of the night not knowing what to do it does not feel good but seeing that your not the only one will help you out to just know you are not the only one that feels what you are feeling..
I want someone to hold me, boy, girl, big, small, old, it doesn't matter. I just want a comfortable hug and I want to cry and cry and cry continuously. That's all.
aww the least thing you deserve is to have a person like that. I wish I could help you to be honest. I hope things get better for you buddy. I hope that one day you get to meet that person that will listen to you and understand you, but for now I want you to stay strong alright buddy? I hope you have a nice weekend
I did this once to someone I didn’t know, it was a little girl on my bus. She was silently crying for a reason that God only knows. It meant the world to me that she accepted the hug and that I could help. This animation is so beautiful to me.
I have a massive issue when it comes to hiding feelings. Really hard just to say some things without the fear of being judged and ridiculed for it, as a male that idea is reinforced heavily to which everything builds up and then becomes too much of a bag to carry. Point is, there are people who care about you and you can explain those feelings whenever you’re ready
no, dude, sometimes there isn’t. sometimes it’s just you. heck, even if i had, i don’t know how. i feel numb all of the time, i feel empty, my head empty.
@@paketik4960 I'm an internet stranger, but I care. Sometimes the numbness is a lot of buried shit. I'm so numb today that anything could happen and I wouldn't care but sometimes it all wants to come out in a screaming sort of meltdown. A trickle of water breaks the dam or whatnot. You don't have to know what you feel, you just have to (safely) let it come out whenever it's safe to do so, whenever they resurface. Took me years to be able to even recognize a glimpse of all the pain I had repressed. Forcing yourself to be okay until you feel like a shell, a poor imitation of a human being, really sucks. But you got this.
@@paketik4960 well timed, haha. caught me in the middle of the dam breaking again. i wish you well too, person on the internet. we survive until we can live.
It takes a lot of strength to talk about emotions. Anyone who thinks men are weak for that are incredibly ignorant, men fight real emotional battles too and that’s a true war. Talking about it is another way of fighting. Keep fighting man!
@kneftwuppo Hope you’re doing good. Sending support and hearts! ❤️❤️❤️ Stay safe. Always remember that people care, one of them, me. If you need help, hotlines will always be available. One of them being 988. Sending support and even more hearts!❤️❤️❤️ Stay safe.
Got this randomly recommended to me, clicked on it, heard the first question then saw the broken one's face. Answered every question the same as him down to the creaking of his voice, and even began to tear after saying "yes" to "Do you want a hug?" I can't recall ever seeing your content before, but the way you portrayed this interaction is so unbelievably real, and it makes me feel seen, in a way.. I hope from the bottom of my heart everything is going ok for you, and what a wonderful video this was to experience.
i love how on the first two he hesitates because he wants to tell the truth but he just can’t, while in the question of “do you want to talk about it?” he immediately says no, because he’s sure he doesn’t. maybe i’m reading too much into this but if had moments like that where the only thing i’m sure of us that i don’t want to talk about it
This made me tear up so bad. Me, my uncle, and his girlfriend talked with me the best they could today, in one of my most dark moments. They didn't give the advice I wanted, but it was something I needed. Yet I ignored them and backed out. After a while, they came up to me and gave me a hug. This video came up on my RUclips right after the situation, and I broke down again. This shit is beautiful, and I really wanna thank you so much for making it. Because this lets me know that there are people who feel the same way, and I'm glad that I'm not alone. I'm okay now. I know I'm okay now. Thank you.
This video has helped me through though times. I always told myself getting comfort from someone was weak… but multiple times now I’ve been feeling some way and someone offers a hug and I can’t say no.
@HonkYeahArson Hope you’re doing good. Sending support and hearts! ❤️❤️❤️ Stay safe. Always remember that people care, one of them, me. If you need help, hotlines will always be available. One of them being 988. Sending support and even more hearts!❤️❤️❤️ Stay safe.
Hope everyone is doing good. Sending support and hearts! ❤️❤️❤️ Stay safe. Always remember that people care, one of them, me. If you need help, hotlines will always be available. One of them being 988. Sending support and even more hearts!❤️❤️❤️ Stay safe.
The reason that I love hugs so much is because it makes me feel like someone cares and values my life enough to use their own energy towards wrapping their arms around me and comforting me. I always don’t love it in the moment, but whenever I think of the hug after, I feel like someone did something for me
That's so true. My friend hugs me once in a while, and I always feel awkward. I don't feel comfortable hugging anyone besides my parents. Just not a huge hugger.. But then I'd realize how nice it is of him 😊. I was also having a rough morning, so sometimes hugs are beneficial.
this video successfully came across to me in a very difficult period of my life. sometimes I feel so bad and lonely that I want to scream. I'm terribly lacking attention, simple hugs. I'm so tired of hiding my emotions and feelings. I'm drowning in them. I am tired of the negativity, screams, reproaches that have surrounded me for the last few months. it's a terrible feeling when they don't hear you, and you stay away, swallow tears inside yourself, scold yourself for your emotions. this video made me smile. I felt better. a little easier. thank you. I hope that one day every person will be heard when he needs it.
I hope that happens too, but… I need it since it’s been happening for years, but I don’t get it. Please hope big for not just me, but to everyone in the world
@@Privstare you doing better now? I send my love. And I hope you find someone willing to give you the love you need. ❤️ Stay strong, champ. I believe in you.
I’m an autistic who hates physical touch. When I was a teenager, I made sure that all of the other touchy feely girls and counselors in my cabin knew not to touch me. On the last day of the session, after spending so much time, and every meal, and every night with them, none of the hugged me, which I appreciate. Except for one. A counselor told me, “hey, I now you’re not a hugger, but come over here. I reluctantly went to hug her, and then the hug lasted for no less than two minutes, (a very long hug by my standers). I cried the rest of the night because of that hug. I hadn’t had a hug in six years before then. I’m still not a hugger, but anytime I get upset, I remember that hug. Thank you, Diana (dee-ah-na) from CWE.
These replies (except KoffeServer) are horrible. I bet they think they’re real funny 😐. I’m happy to hear that you found real comfort in that hug, I wish all the best for you!
@dx9249 Hope you’re doing good. Sending support and hearts! ❤️❤️❤️ Stay safe. Always remember that people care, one of them, me. If you need help, hotlines will always be available. One of them being 988. Sending support and even more hearts!❤️❤️❤️ Stay safe.
Hope everyone is doing good. Sending support and hearts! ❤️❤️❤️ Stay safe. Always remember that people care, one of them, me. If you need help, hotlines will always be available. One of them being 988. Sending support and even more hearts!❤️❤️❤️ Stay safe.
@Stopitpls Hope you’re doing good. Sending support and hearts! ❤️❤️❤️ Stay safe. Always remember that people care, one of them, me. If you need help, hotlines will always be available. One of them being 988. Sending support and even more hearts!❤️❤️❤️ Stay safe.
@leo_vangelo4743 Hope you’re doing good. Sending support and hearts! ❤️❤️❤️ Stay safe. Always remember that people care, one of them, me. If you need help, hotlines will always be available. One of them being 988. Sending support and even more hearts!❤️❤️❤️ Stay safe.
I have never seen this guy's art, channel, *anything* in my life Yet this one couple seconds video made me start to cry. That's pure skill from you, and a new sub from me
This is what I needed sometimes This is what I’ve been needing I’m a emotional person and I’ve been through a lot of things this year And it’s hitting me pretty hard right now This really helps Ockeriod Thank you Thank you so so much ❤️
Damn this makes me think about how people don't show their sadness but still wants to be loved and doesn't want to talk about why they feel this sadness but even maybe with a little hug they will feel loved again.
Hey there. No matter what you're going through, there is always be someone who loves you unconditionally and can help you, and really wants to give you a hug like the one in the video, even better, if you just let Him- that someone is God! The purpose of your existence is to be joyful, peaceful, and give glory to God your creator! Jesus Christ says: "Come to Me, all you who labor and are heavily burdened, and I will give you rest." -Matthew 11:28 For more info, open the Bible to John 1!
@@Jesus_Christ_loves_you_alotThe Bible contradicts itself several times. Jesus says himself that he is not a god or part of a stupid trinity. How can you believe in that crap.
This just reminded me of when I just had a really bad day at school and these group of boys wouldn't leave me alone and were spreading rumors about me so I just started crying and I got pulled out of the classroom and I remember one if my friends asking me if I was ok and I said no and I honestly thought that I hated physical touch because I would be uncomfortable whenever someone hugged me, but when he came out the classroom with me I immediately went to hug him and he hugged me back, I don't know how to explain just how much better I felt. One hug can really make someone feel 10x better.
this made me feel warmth of upcoming tears in my eyes, because I've been in such state for weeks and months, I know how it is-to be so both physically and emotionally devastated and exhausted that you don't even have strength nor desire to complain about it or discuss it. and then there happens to be someone near, who reassures you without necessity of explaining-and you are so starved for trivial human empathy that you're ready to start sobbing for the very fact of someone still caring about your suffering, even if its cause is unknown to this person.
I hope you are doing better and hope you know theres always someone that cares. Dont ever allow yourself to be in such a state. Being able to cry makes you strong, even when you feel weak. I want you to be proud of what you have and inspire onward. Your writing shows depth and can truly modivate. I send virtual hugs and I hope the best for you ❤🫂
You couldn't have written it more beautifully. I have been in this state for months and months now, with the only difference that I never allow myself to let any emotions out. I'm kind of both sad and happy that I'm alone and don't have anybody. Sad because I'll never get to experience that feeling of warmth and comfort. Happy because I won't be a burden to anyone.
Hope everyone is doing good. Sending support and hearts! ❤️❤️❤️ Stay safe. Always remember that people care, one of them, me. If you need help, hotlines will always be available. One of them being 988. Sending support and even more hearts!❤️❤️❤️ Stay safe.
@fl3820 Hope you’re doing good. Sending support and hearts! ❤️❤️❤️ Stay safe. Always remember that people care, one of them, me. If you need help, hotlines will always be available. One of them being 988. Sending support and even more hearts!❤️❤️❤️ Stay safe.
@Darkwing535 Hope you’re doing good. Sending support and hearts! ❤️❤️❤️ Stay safe. Always remember that people care, one of them, me. If you need help, hotlines will always be available. One of them being 988. Sending support and even more hearts!❤️❤️❤️ Stay safe.
i’ve been feeling like everything in my life is going downhill and i can’t do anything about it. my family hasn’t been any help and i can’t get myself to tell my friends. one of my friends honestly just saw that i’ve been feeling down lately and this conversation kind of happened. it genuinely just felt, not really wholesome or happy but somehow better when she hugged me. i can’t thank her enough
I heard that in Japan, ever since urbanization and the feeling of being so cramped in the hustle and bustles usually just leaves people putting up a mask. In their words, "We learned how to deal with this, we've grown and accepted it." I mean, I'm not a psychologist, I'm only putting one and one together with my ethnocentric knowledge. Here in the United States, people can be very friendly, warm and loving. We also have the proud statistic that 2/3 of Americans have childhood trauma. Theres so much mental health problems here, but so little is ever shown by anyone.
Told my friend about my depression, she opened up too. If it wasn’t for where we were, I swear we would have cried together. As soon as I got home I just starting crying. Been repressing so much of my emotions, that it just came out. I went to sleep for the rest of the day. I need help.
I want to give hugs, cause I've wanted hugs for a very very long time and that made me realize "others must also be going through similar stuff, so let's just give them hugs".
Здесь все идеально, звук, анимация, эмоции, посыл. Это просто нечто. Пробило на эмоции. Здесь настолько хорошо показано состояние некой апатии и отчуждённости. Надеюсь тот, кто изображён в данной анимации обретёт счастье и все у него будет ахуенно. Также хочу пожелать всем, кто находится в подобном состоянии, или даже если нет, сил и всего самого наилучшего, обнимаю вас
“To my brother thank you” made me cry. I remember when my sister caught me crying in my dark room underneath the sheets. She turned on the lights and stayed with me for a while.
I physically can't open up to anyone. the topic if it involves my own personal being and mental state makes me tear up for no reason. I can't get past it for any reason and I still don't know the reason behind why. I want to open up and talk and express my stress and sadness and whatever, and it's easier said than done, but as a response my physical body just stresses out and makes my throat clench and cry and whatnot FOR NO REASON. I can't even find what I want. its just a simple question that I can't respond to for some reason when I actually want to open up. "why are you crying?" "I don't know why." "there must be a reason. everything has a reason. why are you crying?" "I don't know." (thats what i feel like they're saying when someone asks.) I feel like my problems are so irrelevant that I can't dig enough to find the root reason. other people have it worse.. so why am I feeling like this? I don't have any 'trauma' that I can call back to. I don't have bad parents. what am I repressing that seems so irrelevant? why am I even feeling this way in the first place? why do I even want to die? is it the lack of a social life? I keep pushing my friends away. I did things in the past I utterly hate myself for. I wish I never had a phone. I'm probably exaggerating things but I can't have a concrete answer to why. i've maybe tried to talk to a therapist but I still couldn't open up. I tried talking. I'm tired at a young age. edit: looking back on this, *maybe* it was way too exaggerated. i dont care much about how i felt when i was upset until im actually in the moment, which is (kind of) like a blessing and a curse. a "blessing" because most of the time i wont really think back on it unless its relevant, and a curse because i feel like i dont really "learn" anything from it, as in i keep crying from the same situation. i dont really tend to lean into comfort, but i will sometimes if its necessary. only because i think of it as awkward. i only got recommended a therapist through my doctor, i believe i only went once, then never went back. i dont remember too many details about that, so take it with a grain of salt. im thinking of get an actual therapist when im ready for it. im starting to dislike my body more, its not too bad though. i will restate that i dont have a 'bad' past, i just did some things that i dislike myself for.
I see You said "i wish i never had phone" You think that you're just wasting you life on games and social media just like me And also you mentioned you've done something in past you hate yourself so the fealing of guilt must've been eating you from the inside... At this point it's like im talking to myself cuz i got the similar problems What ever you feel it will be over because everything has it's beginning and the end Stay strong buddy❤
yeah. both wasting my life on (what you said) added on having been exposed to mature content at a young age. (if you can guess what it is) it impacted me. not too much, but enough for me to remember it. i didn't have the affects before, but months after I got caught. being (kinda) older made me realize how bad it was, and I didn't know why I did it. I've always been sensitive to yelling and being called out on something. that's the main reason why. hope you also feel better. if you ever feel hopeless, remember. just in general. death is inevitable, so if you cut it short you just don't experience anything after that. you don't get to live without pain after that. you just die. (sorry about the end, just felt right for me.)
@@anon_onlast paragraph of your answer above tells me you are intelligent and thoughtful. As to talking to therapist, two things based on my experience: 1. It takes time to open up. There is no standard or time limit for it. Therapists also know that. So you need to continue going to them. At some point you may open up. 2. If you think this therapist is not good for you, dont feel guilty changing to another one, provided point number 1 is fulfilled. For you specifically why therapists might be the right answer is you yourself wrote you push friends away. So unless you have other outlet, therapists would be right way. You can also visit neuropsychiatrist. Sometime la just tablets can be a start too. Dont give up trying to open up. All the best.
sometimes i wish there was a way for me to bury it all so deep it ceases to exist. And i was confident i did, until this video made me cry. dont know why i cant open up... i just cant. therapy wont help too in that case. its not that i dont trust people its not that i dont want to tell anyone its not that i feel ashamed its not that i hate myself i just cant open up, and its killing me.
@@user-d48399 If you can’t get it out by in-person, maybe you can try texting a therapist. Even if you can’t get your thoughts out just how you want it, it’s still something. there’s time for everything, you don’t literally need to do it all, or at once. Ease yourself into being more comfortable in speaking your mind. it’s obviously not going to be overnight, or might not happen at all, but it’s still something worth trying. It’s not like you live twice anyway.
I don’t know why but the sad dude captured perfectly how I act after something bad happened. Like a breakup or specifically bad argument, especially if the person who I was arguing with or breaking up with is checking on me. Short responses out of fear of offending them, quiet voice for the same reason, a lump in my throat.
I suffered from anxiety and I know how it feels from watching this video when I cry. I have an older brother who used to suffer from anxiety but found his gift of being calm as he’s helping with this process to be calm as I’m sad, angry or depressed.
This is so well done. It touches my heart. No matter what someone says, ‘I’m ok’ ‘im fine’ ‘I’m happy’, they could always be hiding inward pain. This just reminds me of me and my friends. How they’ve helped me and been there for me when I said I was ok and wasn’t. Sometimes you just don’t need words. Sometimes a simple hug says it all.
This is deeply relatable. You never know how tough someone has it and often they’ll hide it so you don’t worry. Be there for your friends and family, they may need you more than you know. ❤
That last shot of the two brothers hugging reminded me of something I drew after I made up with my brother after a big fight. I teared up after the dedication. Thank you for this.
The voice acting was so good. Not a lot of people know how much a hug can do. I almost cried during this whole video. Its sad how I can relate to this.
That very subtle eye widening when he’s offered the hug is why I adore the art of animation
no replies? lemme fix that
Funny seeing you here
But it’s Gay
@@PlayerOne.-AW HECK NAH DUDE
ITS JUST A HUG ITS NOT A KISS DUDE THIS IS A DEPRESSIVE ANIMATION GET OUT OF HERE THATS NOT GAY DUDE
@@PlayerOne.- Are you serious right now
Even one hug is enough to make someone feel a little better
Can't agree more
Give him hug.
Or it makes you feel worse
Surprisingly, that "little better" actually gives people the strength and motivation they need to keep on fighting
Fr though
Serious note, I hope he’s okay. Even as a new viewer.
Me too.
Agreed with heavily
Thought this said suicide note
@@clovs literally how
@@Josuh I obviously read it wrong, not that difficult to understand.
0:45 it's so sweet bruh 😔.
fr 😭
I actually cried when he went to hug the guy. I honestly need a hug in real life but I just- never ask for it.
I will hug you🫂
I want a hug so badly…
dude, a lot of people irl think that i'm not really a hugs or physical touch type person when i am, i just feel scared asking for physical touch or hugs and therefore i never really touch anyone, which kinda just makes it all go in an endless loop when all i want is a hug
@@figarotheninjacat5844 same here i never asked for a hug but still i want one soo bad ..i have sooo many problems and a hug would help me so much
Same, I rarely get hugged when I’m sad, my family is sometimes too busy to deal with me, and my friends I know don’t care about me so I just hug myself in tears..
0:36 the way how this “yeah” was voiced made clear all the suffering he was going through - that made me cry so hard -
yep fr keeping the feelings hidden inside us is something so sad , nnn save ur tears 🥹🤍
@@gtrhas_ Apricity means the warmth of the sun during winter, n what I wanna say is that u r that Apricity for me 🤍🍁
@@ra7rr ohhh omg Ray I’m in love with what you’ve said to mehh XD it’s like ummm u just HIT me with a symphony of words that left me SPEECHLESS! n ur beauty in expression is truly nnnn completely MESMERIZING!
A love story is born in this reply section
This me when someone ask "are you ok" and I said "yeah" in a low tone of my voice while remembering the things that hurts me😔
I love how supportive the comments are. They, in combination with the video, really cheer me up. Sometimes it just helps to know not to be the only one going through such a tough time.
Yes! I hope your day is going well!! Cheers -Tree
My thoughts exactly
The comments are full of self loathing kids who never had any real problems in their life
NamesloserX28 your saying that to fit in
it's been a year since your comment. i hope you are thriving in your own special way.
This speaks to me very well. I have been so sad and depressed I know I've driven people away, as I was too harsh and sad, and struggling with myself. Even when I've tried to reach out to those who were hurt by my emotional outbursts, they understandably don't want anything further with me. A few years ago, I tried to end my own life , but I was found and brought to a hospital before further harm. I still struggle so severely with thoughts that maybe people would be better if I was away? I sometimes even have thoughts that maybe I'll find happiness away from the sorrows life presents us? (I know this is very long text, I do apologize, I just don't have anyone I can vent to to express how relatable such animation can be to one's emotional states)
wow i know exactly how deep it can get. it terrifying to move in life with ideas that there is no one out there for u and that you are alone. i hope you are doing better today compared to the past
Hello im right there with you. i have nobody either. I hope it all gets better
I'm 73. I know how painful and overwhelming life can feel. Words are sometimes insulting or assaulting. A sincere hug is a balm. You're not alone.
I wish I could say I don't know how that feels.
Hi I'm sorry for you pain and hardship sadly I can relate to some of the staff you said
I just want you to know that I care for you I hope you are well now
This honestly made me cry because it represents the thousands of people, including myself, who hide their feelings, who can't express themselves, people with depression, anxiety, just those who don't seem to be able to seek help by themselves
And sometimes they cannot share themselves because of potential consequence, knowing they could just stay like that and know nothing will help them.
Thats just sad.
I watch finger nail clippers
@@blocc_nova746 wait wha-
I give my friend daily hugs, and sometimes if I miss a day they’ll get two. They don’t usualy get hugs at home, so a daily hug is what they get no matter what. I’m like their illigal adopted father aswel bc their father isn’t really a good dad, so I always look out for them. It’s quite nice really because it gives both of us something. It gives me the nice feeling that I’m helping someone else, and it shows them that I care about them.
Even if you hate someone, if they look like they need a hug, you always offer one. You never know who needs it
My friend seems to hide his feelings. He’s always goofing around, making strange, otherworldly noises, but I can see a hurt person in there. I may have one eye, but I can still see into him.
Just want to say…. This finally made me able to cry. I’ve been in a horrible place all day, caught in an emotional dam that was suffocating me. I wanted to cry and couldn’t and was so angry and becoming afraid of myself and….
Thank you.
❤!!
being in the prehistoric era must be difficult
@@Omabatfartsbruh
Dude Noo 💀
@@Omabatfartsbruh Of course. Being a carnivore must be hard with all that running, and you still haven't eaten all day. But I'm a rock. I can't move, I can't eat, i can't love. By giving up, you are putting yourself in that position. Get up, no matter how tired and hungry you are, Giving up gets rid of ANY chance of getting that meal. Keep following the light, no matter how much your heart aches. You've climbed so far up the mountain, that it wouldn't make sense to go back down. Get to the top.
@@hellomrjelloyay is that a poem?
The fact that he gave him the option to talk about it or not. That would make me feel so comforted, to know that I’m not expected to explain everything, especially when I’m in this state.
@ivyhotea7625 Hope you’re doing good. Sending support and hearts! ❤️❤️❤️ Stay safe. Always remember that people care, one of them, me. If you need help, hotlines will always be available. One of them being 988. Sending support and even more hearts!❤️❤️❤️ Stay safe.
exactly
Same, I hate it when they force me to talk about it even when I say no multiple times and they just tell me that I’ll feel better if I talk about it, like I just feel forced
Fr i know my mum was tryna help but the way she basically forced me (also threatening me that she will just khs if I didnt respond) didnt help at all
@@NOOBHATESFEETmy mother does the same thing to me, whenever she does I just shut down and go silent, But it always ends with me getting punished bc I didn’t answer. I physically can’t talk abt my feelings anymore because of that.
The music when he hugged him being so soft but it dulling the other noise really added to the emotion of the moment. Made me cry
We love you ockeriod, and to everyone reading this know that you aren’t alone in this
As everyone myself, i love you guys
man, I'm tired. I was good and compassionate but the sensitivity required to be as such worked against me and now I'm colder and it hurts a bit.
Sometimes I really do wish I could go someplace else, this place sucks. I don't appreciate this existence. I feel like im only living through malice
The question "do you want a hug" hit's harder than the "are you okay". I still cry when someone asks me one of those but It's been so long since someone asked me to hug me like that, but a lot of people have asked me if I'm okay, even when they don't care. I loved this video and I wish to anyone who is going through any hard times that you find love and peace, because there's always going to be someone who cares about you out there.
Ik I'm just some random in the internet and that I can't actually help. Still.
Do u want a virtual hug?
@@spacemoth06 that would be great. Thank you :)
That's why I ask my friends if they need a hug instead because i know exactly how that feels *sigh*
🫂🫂
@@Killua_Zoldyck3407 virtual hug?
the voice breaking when responding, “yeah” makes me tear up every time. i’ve never felt such comfort with a minute long video before like this
Bro I had several tears running down my face but wasn't even consciously emotional. Maybe it's in the human nature to have such a visceral reaction to witnessing deep emotional trouble
@@neonice bro just described an empath in a 🥶 way 💀💀
BRO I JUST COMMENTED THE SAME THING BEFORE I SAW THIS
I don’t feel comfort, I just feel sad. All I want is a hug 🥲
Yes, each of us needs to be understood and felt, and I hope everyone can do that.
I suffer from anxiety and depression and ADHD and one hug is enough to make me feel a little better.
I hope you will feel better soon, always remember that there are people who care about you, like me! I care about you🫂
The way this found me after such a terrible depressive episode. I was going back and forth between numb and panic all day, but somehow this brought a sort of...calmness to me. Everything got quiet, if only for a minute. So I thank you. More importantly, I hope you are doing okay.
Hope your doing better now pi!
Hope you are doing well
Wow ❤️❣️
Love you :D
Sorry to hear that PJ :(
Ockeroid asking me if I’m Ok through my notifications was the motivation I needed
Who's gonna tell him?
@cookiecia2905 your point?
Nice Daft Punk pfp
@@MyPFPismypet its a long name
@@rasianket7220 and? Is there a problem
this miraculously came up in my recommended mere minutes after I’d just finished crying and panicking about finals and my social life. things have been really bad lately, but seeing this helped - it didn’t fix everything, but it made me feel a little less lonely, I guess. sorry if this comment is too personal or if it’s weird - this animation just really affected me and I wanted to be honest about what it made me feel. I may have only just found your channel, but I hope you’re doing alright, Ockeroid, and I hope everyone in this comment section is doing alright, too.
Your comment isn't weird or too personal. You just wanted to express your feelings, and that's perfectly normal and okay. :)
I 100% agree with the other comment, you're just expressing your feelings and that's okay!
I hope you're doing good! :)
that's not weird, I'm feeling the same as you too. just feeling comfy by this video knowing that we're not lonely :D
That is perfectly fine! I'm glad this video could comfort you and I hope your finals go well. Just remember that you are never alone, reach out to those close to you when you're stressed! Cheers. - Tree
It takes a lot of maturity and self-awareness to express your feelings. It's not weird at all. It's commendable, actually.
It hurts how accurate this is. I recently went through a rough breakdown because I just didn't talk to anyone, I never thought any of my feelings or problems were important. One of my close friends just hugged me through my breakdown, and I felt a little more important. I get that it's hard to accept that you matter to people, I still occasionally struggle to accept that. Life is rough on everybody, and you matter to people, it might not seem like it, but there's always atleast one person who cares
She asked me out of the blue
“Are you suicidal?”
“Of course not” I replied laughing.
Walking down the stairs, forcing myself to stay together until I was in my room. She saved me, little does she know. The urge was getting so strong at that point I was almost afraid of myself. But…that simple question cause of a joke I made saved me. I’ll never tell my mom this, cause it’ll break her heart to hear how low I was but y’all just know. My mom saved my life.
Glad she did because the world could've lost a precious soul that day ❤❤❤
good mom
I feel bad for you. I'm on the same boat as you... Hopefully this virtual hug helps 🫂
@@NotReallyAHero right back at ya 🫂
@@NotReallyAHero *sniffles* u deserve it
Y'know after watching this, I asked my brother to give me a hug, this vid made me realized how much I needed one after so long.
This just radiates a ton of emotions. Wanting to hide them to not feel judged. Wanted to put on a face to feel like your freinds dont have to worry. I just get so many emotions from this, it just sucks that people now a days on the internet can't understand how important mental health really is. They treat it as if its just a joke, or some sick plaything. Its a real emotion that people have, and in some cases needs support and encouragement. Dont stamp out others feelings for ANY reason. If you ever wonder why s*****e rates are up, this is why, because people dont care, it just sickens me to see how people get treated sometimes.
To you who made this video, thank you, you've helped a lot of people by just showing us this. Have a great day/night ❤
i remember my friend was with me and I think she knew something was up. she asked if I was okay and I knew that i would break at any moment, but I just didn’t want her to worry about me, so I acted as if i was fine. just the little “yeah” resonated with me so much, because when I did break, i just started bawling my fucking eyes out
😢
Are you okay bro
@@sofia-wn2xv no. they're not. they are repressing their feelings badly.
Same, dude. Every time I watch this, I can’t help but cry because I’m not okay and I need to talk to someone. My friend asked me this one day and I had to hold back so many tears, I haven’t been okay for a long time now. They did ask me that question (are you okay) and that made me realize that they did care, but now I feel so horrible because I just texted them and told them that I don’t think we should be friends anymore. I said all sorts of things like “You don’t care” and “I’m a bad person and you’re just denying it to make me feel better”
I FEEL SO HORRIBLE.
@@CrowBro1215 maybe getting a therapist would help putting words to your emotions and how you can deal with them, looking into it myself actually
My older sibling by 2 years passed away two weeks ago after losing their fight against mental illness. The message at the end of this made me think about them and how we always helped each other through hard times and I totally teared up. This is really really sweet to see (especially right now)
I’m sorry for your loss
I’m sorry for your loss, I hope you feel better
Im so sorry for your loss
Sorry for your loss hope it'll be the last last person you're gonna lose
Sorry for your loss. I don't know you but hope you and your family be okay(it's fine not to be okay of course). And I want to say that your sibling never lost but did their best.
When he said do you want a hug, I started crying, still am
Why you cry
A big hug from me to you; it's virtual but it's meaningful. Annette
Virtual hug to everyone that needs it
I dont
Awh I really need that sometimes. Thanks ❤
@@MrsErinSDale ok
Thank you :)
@@LMbutterfly6 u don't need to thank me bro we all need it sometimes 🫂
Your life is so precious, not because of something you did, but because you simply exist. I am grateful for you.
@inariokami6696 Hope you’re doing good. Sending support and hearts! ❤️❤️❤️ Stay safe. Always remember that people care, one of them, me. If you need help, hotlines will always be available. One of them being 988. Sending support and even more hearts!❤️❤️❤️ Stay safe.
@@zacharynguyen7286 Thank you for taking the time to do this
and write out this message of care for someone else
@@inariokami6696 thank you. i needed that.
Thank you so much. Thank you
Of course, your life is so valuable. You deserve so much love.
God, I cried so hard when the person asked, “are you okay?” You don’t understand how much I felt that..
Yo?? Aw.. What happened? I'm so sorry if no one was there for you. How are you now? I hope ya feel better bud! ❤ here here, free hug! *_hug and pat your back_* it's okay to be sad at times.. Our road is not always smooth, each have their own bumps and slippery road, it's okay. You're not alone, whoever you are I'm here for you! Don't give up aight? Take care. You're better than you imagine, you've been strong bud. You tried your best, I appreciate that. ❤
Cry baby
@@MoeChuu u are not helping anybody
@@dogeshow2651 Woah, sorry to dissapoint, been in therapy app before and I get alot of star, I help alot of people so go mind ur own bussiness❤ atleast I'm doing a good thing what is there to afraid of such as failure? I hope you grow to be better and take care!
@@dogeshow2651 you can be more "sophisticated" if you want to troll better
A year late, but still rings true even today. Love the simplicity of the art style. Simple yet meaningful. I think it portrays really well that sense/feeling that many of us supress, ignore, or avoid. I certainly can relate. If only it were easy in real life to be honest like this...anyway, beautifully done friend 👏
I wish something like this had happened when I was still depressed. I often found myself daydreaming about scenarios like this, imagining it to be the most comforting thing one could ever experience.
I still think a hug like that is extremely comforting, but when you're recovered, you find yourself wanting to be the guy on the left instead of the guy on the right. You want to bring the comfort you denied yourself to anyone who needs it. What a lovely video
The exact same thing is happening to me. I'm daydreaming daily with that comforting hug. But the difference is that I won't be able to recover from the crisis of loneliness that I'm suffering.
That hug would be the most beautiful and comforting experience in my life
@@YoshiyaKanon bro, being lonely is the norm for me
I forgot people could recover til now. Easy to forget. I hope I get there too someday
@@someguy34231 i hope you get there too
@@PMT433 lol same
Painful, innit?
I need a hug. I need one so badly.
🤗 hugs are good. I send you some.
I send as many virtual hugs to you as possible. You got this we believe in you
i wish i could hug you right now.
🫂
You’re gonna be ok Eloise.
Honestly, this video is perfection. A simple hug, the comforting warmth of another person to really give you the feel that you are indeed loved in your life goes way longer than anyone could imagine. Thanks for the upload.
This is me exactly, I just want to feel loved. I kinda had it for a while with someone but once I confessed that I had feelings for them they seemed to grow more distant
ARF ARF
I have watched this multiple times over the past year. Gets me tearing up no matter the season. Hits me hard.
Around the time this video was posted, I had multiple issues, a lot of stress and I went downhill from there.
I remember watching this video and crying because I could relate, as I was unable to talk to ppl about what was going on.
However, months have passed and things got better. I'm feeling better than ever, I'm much healthier now, I have less stress and I understand my emotions better. Also, my loved ones know about the issues I had back then and there's no taboo about it anymore.
Things are much better now, it's amazing.
So people out there, please don't lose hope. Things will get better, keep surviving no matter what
@SureTina Hope you’re doing good. Sending support and hearts! ❤️❤️❤️ Stay safe. Always remember that people care, one of them, me. If you need help, hotlines will always be available. One of them being 988. Sending support and even more hearts!❤️❤️❤️ Stay safe.
This film made me tear. I was actually crying. Who knew animation can be so powerful. I’m glad you’re doing well.
Had a similar case! Back in november I was extremely depressed and suicidal and I already had a date ready to go through with it that was coming in just a couple days.
I won't go into it, but someone noticed how I was acting and helped me get proper care. Now, 8 months later, I'm a completely new person!
For all of you out there currently struggling, remember that it always gets better, even if you don't believe it.
Will do, my friend, will do.❤ So glad things have gotten better for you! You’re amazing, you’re a beautiful human being who’s loved and appreciated for who you really are, and you deserve each and every single ounce of love and support you get, plus an endless pot supply of more❤️ Thanks for being you, thanks for existing, and keep at it
U made me cry...
Man, I didn't expect to tear up from this. I legit miss having a hug, a warmth from someone, but welp that doesn't exist for me. Forever gonna miss that warmth... hugs are amazing
hope you’re doing okay❤
heres an online hug 🫂
*gives virtual hug*
same sentiments my man, same sentiments... 🫂🫂
Here, count that one as a real hug 🫂
Sorry Im late, anyway heres a hug for you🫂
I love hugging ppl and helping others when there sad bcs that’s all I want but never get.
Yeah… ❤️
I'm the same here. You're not alone in this
If I could I would give you the biggest hug! You know, I’ve been going through the hardest time in my life right now and nobody I know and love has asked me if I’m okay, and they all know how much pain I’m in. You’re not alone and I care about you even though I don’t know you! I pray you get that hug you need and even then some 🩷
Help me get my happiness back...
Dude 🥺
Virtual hugs to you❤
Up until this point I always thought Ockeroid just made music for Henry Stickmin & stuff, never knew he has his own animation channel where he posts other stuff…
I am okay, Ockeroid.
thank you for asking, alongside wishing everyone else to have better days.
you all deserve a hug.
Шапалаха деревенского парня со-скоростью света не желаешь? Two-legged carrion.
But is he okay?
@@fabiaaquino2207 i hope so friend. we all reach a low point in our lives.
@@fabiaaquino2207 bro his last video is literally called "how to get rejected" no he is not
You have better days too and a hug '3
When they hugged, i teared up.
A genuine hug from someone is all i want right now.
same, bro.
I send you a virtual hug ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ it’s gonna be alright
@SUPERCRINGE. Matthew 11:28-30 “Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light.”
@@ScaraLoreRambler 🫂
@@MEMERisSILLY ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤😻😻😻🫂
The way his voice starts to break when he says "yeah"….makes me sob every time :(
It's like he doesn't want to be a burden, but in his mind he screaming "hug me! Please" and when the first one offering him a hug, second one feels that he REALLY can let out the crap was bothering him and be sure that he won't be judged. I wish I haven't that endless pain of loneliness... And have the same person nearby... In another comment I saw the phrase "got hug from someone you want it from" and... It's so me and hits my the most sensitive topic
😢😢
When I hugged the guy, a lot of tears came out.
This video got me out of my miserable mindless scrolling, and just ask for help even hearing someone care feels like a lot. And you don't always know to ask for it! Thanks for this
@XT-oe2zy Hope you’re doing good. Sending support and hearts! ❤️❤️❤️ Stay safe. Always remember that people care, one of them, me. If you need help, hotlines will always be available. One of them being 988. Sending support and even more hearts!❤️❤️❤️ Stay safe.
This came out during what I think is the lowest I've ever felt in my life while simultaneously on my birthday.
This short animation feels comforting to me. The simple question of "are you okay" can yield a small answer, only the one word of "yeah", but that one word can still mean so much for how little it is. I never want to talk to anyone about my problems despite everyone around being there for me. It doesn't feel right, I don't know whether because I feel guilty for getting help or because of the doubt that anybody will understand me. I'm just scared and don't know what I should do or say. But I still seek comfort from those around me, like a simple hug. Sometimes that's all you need.
Thank you for this one, Ockeroid. Thanks for putting together what I feel perfectly captures my own feelings right now.
And I hope you yourself are doing okay.
you explained it a lot better than I could and I'm glad you did! Hope you had a happy birthday too :)
Happy birthday, you shouldn’t feel guilty asking for help or doubt anyone who can understand you.
"I have no mouth but I must scream"
Sometimes, words can not put into perspective how much someone is going through, and even though they can not truthfully verbalize their feelings, it is still very very evident.
Happy birthday, my dude. Enjoy a virtual hug in these trying times. 👐
Do you want a hug?
when he knows or can tell something’s off, he offers a hug.
it always breaks me, there hasn’t been a time i haven’t broken down n cried in his arms.
he means so much to me, if i lose him, i’ll lose myself .
@karai_6425 Hope you’re doing good. Sending support and hearts! ❤️❤️❤️ Stay safe. Always remember that people care, one of them, me. If you need help, hotlines will always be available. One of them being 988. Sending support and even more hearts!❤️❤️❤️ Stay safe.
@@zacharynguyen7286 thank you love, much appreciated
it's my birthday as of 00:00. My family wished me and gave me hugs and they all were so happy their little boy just turned the big 2 0... when they left the room i just sat here wondering why, despite all that happiness i just received, all that love, still leaves me with an empty feeling. Then i looked at my monitor and saw this video- and this comment, i shed a single tear- thank you.
@@ghostfayceklr701 i hope it gets better for you man
How are you doing recently? I want you to know that, even if it doent look like so, there are lots of people willing to help you out whenever you're struggling
This hit me really hard… gosh.
The voice acting and subtle expressions are amazing, they represent my life for several months now
Hugs to your bro, Ock!!
Hi Mr hair
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srpelo has been found in my mindless comment scrolling
Whats sup pelo!!
This was so comforting and sad at the same time, it’s rare when people really care about how you feel
You’re right.
deez bolz
That's too sad
@@김단비-v4i agreed
No one actually genuinely cares everyone is a fake and a liar. You are all alone. We are all alone.
Anxiety happens when you think you have to figure out everything all at once. Breathe.You're strong. You got this . Take it day by day.
Psychedelics are just an exceptional mental health breakthrough. It's quite fascinating how effective they are against depression and anxiety. Saved my life.
Can you help with the reliable source I would really appreciate it. Many people talk about mushrooms and psychedelics but nobody talks about where to get them. Very hard to get a reliable source here in Australia. Really need!
YES very sure of bergwilly11__. I have the same experience with anxiety, depression, PTSD and addiction and Mushrooms definitely made a huge huge difference to why am clean today.
I wish they were readily available in my place.
Microdosing was my next plan of care for my husband. He is 59 & has so many mental health issues plus probable CTE & a TBI that left him in a coma 8 days. It's too late now I had to get a TPO as he's 6'6 300+ pound homicidal maniac.
He's constantly talking about killing someone.
He's violent. Anyone reading this Familiar w/ BPD know if it is common for an obsession with violence.
@@patriaciasmith3499Is he on instegram?
1...just 1 real hug will make everything ok...its not because you like the person... its because when you hug someone.. you feel better in the wormth and the love its normal to want.. or even need a hug you know. Sometimes even i cry in the middle of the night not knowing what to do it does not feel good but seeing that your not the only one will help you out to just know you are not the only one that feels what you are feeling..
awww I HOPE YOU RECEIVE A HUG BUDDY
Sometimes life just sucks, and you don't need to know someones whole life story to comfort them. Just a simple hug can be enough.
🫂
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"and you don't need to know someone's whole life story to comfort them". Really? Why not? 🤨.
That's really sweet man. Love your awesome animations. They've helped me through some shit.❤️
I want someone to hold me, boy, girl, big, small, old, it doesn't matter. I just want a comfortable hug and I want to cry and cry and cry continuously. That's all.
aww the least thing you deserve is to have a person like that.
I wish I could help you to be honest.
I hope things get better for you buddy. I hope that one day you get to meet that person that will listen to you and understand you, but for now I want you to stay strong alright buddy? I hope you have a nice weekend
@@dadogdoin1360 Thank you very much I really promise I will be strong
@@Loren_1734__armyblinkstay :)
I will check on you again some other day alright buddy?
you better stay alive and well until then >:)
@@dadogdoin1360 I promise you that
You are so nice🤧@@dadogdoin1360
I did this once to someone I didn’t know, it was a little girl on my bus. She was silently crying for a reason that God only knows. It meant the world to me that she accepted the hug and that I could help. This animation is so beautiful to me.
1:03 this video hit me hard enough make me burst a tears, i can feel his hug even from a video, all i want is a hug, a really deep warm hug....
*send you hug* hope this will make you feel better even a little
🫂 here you go..! I hope you're doing better....
he means physically probably
I have a massive issue when it comes to hiding feelings. Really hard just to say some things without the fear of being judged and ridiculed for it, as a male that idea is reinforced heavily to which everything builds up and then becomes too much of a bag to carry.
Point is, there are people who care about you and you can explain those feelings whenever you’re ready
no, dude, sometimes there isn’t. sometimes it’s just you. heck, even if i had, i don’t know how. i feel numb all of the time, i feel empty, my head empty.
@@paketik4960 I'm an internet stranger, but I care. Sometimes the numbness is a lot of buried shit. I'm so numb today that anything could happen and I wouldn't care but sometimes it all wants to come out in a screaming sort of meltdown. A trickle of water breaks the dam or whatnot. You don't have to know what you feel, you just have to (safely) let it come out whenever it's safe to do so, whenever they resurface. Took me years to be able to even recognize a glimpse of all the pain I had repressed. Forcing yourself to be okay until you feel like a shell, a poor imitation of a human being, really sucks. But you got this.
@@someguy34231 thank you, I wish you well
@@paketik4960 well timed, haha. caught me in the middle of the dam breaking again. i wish you well too, person on the internet. we survive until we can live.
It takes a lot of strength to talk about emotions. Anyone who thinks men are weak for that are incredibly ignorant, men fight real emotional battles too and that’s a true war. Talking about it is another way of fighting. Keep fighting man!
i was just told a recent friend passed away 2 weeks ago. this is my first experience losing a friend. i needed this. thank you
never thought a 60 second animation could get me teary but here we are, phenomenal job
@kneftwuppo Hope you’re doing good. Sending support and hearts! ❤️❤️❤️ Stay safe. Always remember that people care, one of them, me. If you need help, hotlines will always be available. One of them being 988. Sending support and even more hearts!❤️❤️❤️ Stay safe.
Ikr
0:42 I say no even if I want one because I know I’ll start crying
Same 😢
HAHA same…
It's okay to cry
Got this randomly recommended to me, clicked on it, heard the first question then saw the broken one's face. Answered every question the same as him down to the creaking of his voice, and even began to tear after saying "yes" to "Do you want a hug?" I can't recall ever seeing your content before, but the way you portrayed this interaction is so unbelievably real, and it makes me feel seen, in a way.. I hope from the bottom of my heart everything is going ok for you, and what a wonderful video this was to experience.
Thanks RUclips, I’ve been having a hard time with mental health recently but this made me feel just a little better
i love how on the first two he hesitates because he wants to tell the truth but he just can’t, while in the question of “do you want to talk about it?” he immediately says no, because he’s sure he doesn’t. maybe i’m reading too much into this but if had moments like that where the only thing i’m sure of us that i don’t want to talk about it
I would like to talk about skibidi toilet
@@dogeshow2651lmao
Because it's true
This made me tear up so bad. Me, my uncle, and his girlfriend talked with me the best they could today, in one of my most dark moments. They didn't give the advice I wanted, but it was something I needed. Yet I ignored them and backed out. After a while, they came up to me and gave me a hug. This video came up on my RUclips right after the situation, and I broke down again. This shit is beautiful, and I really wanna thank you so much for making it. Because this lets me know that there are people who feel the same way, and I'm glad that I'm not alone. I'm okay now. I know I'm okay now. Thank you.
hey man, how are you feeling today? :(
"You can't take someone out of the darkness. You can only be there with them."
This video has helped me through though times. I always told myself getting comfort from someone was weak… but multiple times now I’ve been feeling some way and someone offers a hug and I can’t say no.
This video is now my comfort video...
Nobody's ever really asked me if I needed a hug or cared to see if I'm okay, but this is the next best thing. :)
Are you okay?
Here is a hug for you, if you need it friend🫂
@@riksukinn Thank you. :)
Here's a hug for u 🫂 ❤
@HonkYeahArson Hope you’re doing good. Sending support and hearts! ❤️❤️❤️ Stay safe. Always remember that people care, one of them, me. If you need help, hotlines will always be available. One of them being 988. Sending support and even more hearts!❤️❤️❤️ Stay safe.
Hope everyone is doing good. Sending support and hearts! ❤️❤️❤️ Stay safe. Always remember that people care, one of them, me. If you need help, hotlines will always be available. One of them being 988. Sending support and even more hearts!❤️❤️❤️ Stay safe.
The reason that I love hugs so much is because it makes me feel like someone cares and values my life enough to use their own energy towards wrapping their arms around me and comforting me. I always don’t love it in the moment, but whenever I think of the hug after, I feel like someone did something for me
Right..
oh come on, just find a tree and hug it
That's so true. My friend hugs me once in a while, and I always feel awkward. I don't feel comfortable hugging anyone besides my parents. Just not a huge hugger.. But then I'd realize how nice it is of him 😊. I was also having a rough morning, so sometimes hugs are beneficial.
@@Ozzy-worsttasteyea I tell my personal stuff to my backyard tree
@Ozzy-worsttaste Will a tree hug you back…?
this video successfully came across to me in a very difficult period of my life. sometimes I feel so bad and lonely that I want to scream. I'm terribly lacking attention, simple hugs. I'm so tired of hiding my emotions and feelings. I'm drowning in them. I am tired of the negativity, screams, reproaches that have surrounded me for the last few months. it's a terrible feeling when they don't hear you, and you stay away, swallow tears inside yourself, scold yourself for your emotions. this video made me smile. I felt better. a little easier. thank you. I hope that one day every person will be heard when he needs it.
I hope that happens too, but… I need it since it’s been happening for years, but I don’t get it. Please hope big for not just me, but to everyone in the world
i hope you’re feeling a bit better today 🫂 ❤
@@Sir_Rat6225 Oh, so cute, thank you❤️🩹
Use discipline, at least you'll stop suffering your emotions
I want you to know I feel the same
I hope it gets better
The hug from the random girl on the beach, plus my one friend and dad saved me. Hugs do mean a lot
Yesterday I started theropy and I realized no I’m not okay I’m on the virge of ending my self
Ehhh too many hugs for one day.
Space them once a year, send some
@@Privstare you doing better now?
I send my love. And I hope you find someone willing to give you the love you need. ❤️
Stay strong, champ. I believe in you.
@@JuliannaGallo-x2v I’m doing a LOT better rn thanks for the sweet message god bless your soul
@@JuliannaGallo-x2v yeah I am life is fine I suppose but the suicidal intentions have not gone/:
I’m an autistic who hates physical touch. When I was a teenager, I made sure that all of the other touchy feely girls and counselors in my cabin knew not to touch me.
On the last day of the session, after spending so much time, and every meal, and every night with them, none of the hugged me, which I appreciate. Except for one. A counselor told me, “hey, I now you’re not a hugger, but come over here. I reluctantly went to hug her, and then the hug lasted for no less than two minutes, (a very long hug by my standers). I cried the rest of the night because of that hug. I hadn’t had a hug in six years before then. I’m still not a hugger, but anytime I get upset, I remember that hug.
Thank you, Diana (dee-ah-na) from CWE.
@@stavratum you are a bad person, and I hope you realize it 😁😁😁👍
These replies (except KoffeServer) are horrible. I bet they think they’re real funny 😐. I’m happy to hear that you found real comfort in that hug, I wish all the best for you!
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@@avoid_ you're not edgy or funny for that. blowing out someone's candle doesn't make yours brighter, so be nice
honestly im just here cuz this is a ockeroid animation@@KoffeServer
Listen dude whatever your going through we're here for you so don't feel like you're alone. We love you ockeroid
@dx9249 Hope you’re doing good. Sending support and hearts! ❤️❤️❤️ Stay safe. Always remember that people care, one of them, me. If you need help, hotlines will always be available. One of them being 988. Sending support and even more hearts!❤️❤️❤️ Stay safe.
@@zacharynguyen7286 thanks man
Words cannot describe how much a hug would help right now
Words can not describe how much I'd love to give you one, I hope you're doing better now
I wish I had someone like this in my life, someone whom you can be vulnerable to.
Same
I long for the day someone can ask me that question and I can actually accept it
Hope everyone is doing good. Sending support and hearts! ❤️❤️❤️ Stay safe. Always remember that people care, one of them, me. If you need help, hotlines will always be available. One of them being 988. Sending support and even more hearts!❤️❤️❤️ Stay safe.
@Stopitpls Hope you’re doing good. Sending support and hearts! ❤️❤️❤️ Stay safe. Always remember that people care, one of them, me. If you need help, hotlines will always be available. One of them being 988. Sending support and even more hearts!❤️❤️❤️ Stay safe.
@leo_vangelo4743 Hope you’re doing good. Sending support and hearts! ❤️❤️❤️ Stay safe. Always remember that people care, one of them, me. If you need help, hotlines will always be available. One of them being 988. Sending support and even more hearts!❤️❤️❤️ Stay safe.
Me too, I had a friend once but now he's gone
I have never seen this guy's art, channel, *anything* in my life
Yet this one couple seconds video made me start to cry.
That's pure skill from you, and a new sub from me
This is what I needed sometimes
This is what I’ve been needing
I’m a emotional person and I’ve been through a lot of things this year
And it’s hitting me pretty hard right now
This really helps Ockeriod
Thank you
Thank you so so much ❤️
I'm actually crying over this 😭
Why
Damn this makes me think about how people don't show their sadness but still wants to be loved and doesn't want to talk about why they feel this sadness but even maybe with a little hug they will feel loved again.
I wish i had anyone like this in my life.
I keep hugging myself but it's not quite the same.
Hey there. No matter what you're going through, there is always be someone who loves you unconditionally and can help you, and really wants to give you a hug like the one in the video, even better, if you just let Him- that someone is God!
The purpose of your existence is to be joyful, peaceful, and give glory to God your creator!
Jesus Christ says:
"Come to Me, all you who labor and are heavily burdened, and I will give you rest." -Matthew 11:28
For more info, open the Bible to John 1!
@@Jesus_Christ_loves_you_alotno i don't thini we will
@@Jesus_Christ_loves_you_alotThe Bible contradicts itself several times. Jesus says himself that he is not a god or part of a stupid trinity.
How can you believe in that crap.
I would do it for you
is not the same but
*hug*
Times have been tough for me this made my day slightly better
That "yeah" moved me to tears. I've been that guy more times than I can count, and those hugs are so indescribably helpful
This just reminded me of when I just had a really bad day at school and these group of boys wouldn't leave me alone and were spreading rumors about me so I just started crying and I got pulled out of the classroom and I remember one if my friends asking me if I was ok and I said no and I honestly thought that I hated physical touch because I would be uncomfortable whenever someone hugged me, but when he came out the classroom with me I immediately went to hug him and he hugged me back, I don't know how to explain just how much better I felt. One hug can really make someone feel 10x better.
🫂❤️
When the character’s face scrunched up after being offered a hug I couldn’t help but cry
Very accurate representation
this made me feel warmth of upcoming tears in my eyes, because I've been in such state for weeks and months, I know how it is-to be so both physically and emotionally devastated and exhausted that you don't even have strength nor desire to complain about it or discuss it. and then there happens to be someone near, who reassures you without necessity of explaining-and you are so starved for trivial human empathy that you're ready to start sobbing for the very fact of someone still caring about your suffering, even if its cause is unknown to this person.
I hope you are doing better and hope you know theres always someone that cares. Dont ever allow yourself to be in such a state. Being able to cry makes you strong, even when you feel weak. I want you to be proud of what you have and inspire onward. Your writing shows depth and can truly modivate. I send virtual hugs and I hope the best for you ❤🫂
You couldn't have written it more beautifully. I have been in this state for months and months now, with the only difference that I never allow myself to let any emotions out. I'm kind of both sad and happy that I'm alone and don't have anybody. Sad because I'll never get to experience that feeling of warmth and comfort. Happy because I won't be a burden to anyone.
Hope everyone is doing good. Sending support and hearts! ❤️❤️❤️ Stay safe. Always remember that people care, one of them, me. If you need help, hotlines will always be available. One of them being 988. Sending support and even more hearts!❤️❤️❤️ Stay safe.
@fl3820 Hope you’re doing good. Sending support and hearts! ❤️❤️❤️ Stay safe. Always remember that people care, one of them, me. If you need help, hotlines will always be available. One of them being 988. Sending support and even more hearts!❤️❤️❤️ Stay safe.
@Darkwing535 Hope you’re doing good. Sending support and hearts! ❤️❤️❤️ Stay safe. Always remember that people care, one of them, me. If you need help, hotlines will always be available. One of them being 988. Sending support and even more hearts!❤️❤️❤️ Stay safe.
i’ve been feeling like everything in my life is going downhill and i can’t do anything about it. my family hasn’t been any help and i can’t get myself to tell my friends. one of my friends honestly just saw that i’ve been feeling down lately and this conversation kind of happened. it genuinely just felt, not really wholesome or happy but somehow better when she hugged me. i can’t thank her enough
「大丈夫？」と聞かれると「うん」と答えてしまうのは全国共通なんですね。日本でもそうです。この動画を見ていて、とても暖かい気持ちになりました。感動させてくれてありがとう。
I wish the best for you, man
In many countries I think that is a common response. People are nervous of opening up to others and sharing their emotions (being vulnerable).
I heard that in Japan, ever since urbanization and the feeling of being so cramped in the hustle and bustles usually just leaves people putting up a mask. In their words, "We learned how to deal with this, we've grown and accepted it." I mean, I'm not a psychologist, I'm only putting one and one together with my ethnocentric knowledge. Here in the United States, people can be very friendly, warm and loving. We also have the proud statistic that 2/3 of Americans have childhood trauma. Theres so much mental health problems here, but so little is ever shown by anyone.
はい、英語でも「はい」と言うのが一般的です。
I feel like mental health was and is a big problem over there in Japan. Stay safe and stay close.
Told my friend about my depression, she opened up too. If it wasn’t for where we were, I swear we would have cried together. As soon as I got home I just starting crying. Been repressing so much of my emotions, that it just came out. I went to sleep for the rest of the day. I need help.
Are you okay? 😢
I cast virtual hug upon thee
this got recomended on a "i love you asmr" search, youtube feels my mental health lol
reallllllllllllllllll
i love you, please stay strong and safe 🤍
@@Reemy008 thanks mate
I want to give hugs, cause I've wanted hugs for a very very long time and that made me realize "others must also be going through similar stuff, so let's just give them hugs".
63 seconds and I’ve been drawn to tears, I really wanna give this fella a hug as well
is not the same but here *virtual hug*
I have some depressive animated stories too if you'd like to see 👀
Me too.
@@ALIENIGHTMARE where can I find them?
@@rollingstones54312 ?..
Здесь все идеально, звук, анимация, эмоции, посыл. Это просто нечто. Пробило на эмоции. Здесь настолько хорошо показано состояние некой апатии и отчуждённости. Надеюсь тот, кто изображён в данной анимации обретёт счастье и все у него будет ахуенно. Также хочу пожелать всем, кто находится в подобном состоянии, или даже если нет, сил и всего самого наилучшего, обнимаю вас
спасибо
Спасибо
спасибо:(
❤
Спасибо
“To my brother thank you” made me cry. I remember when my sister caught me crying in my dark room underneath the sheets. She turned on the lights and stayed with me for a while.
so cute💞
This is beyond acting.
I physically can't open up to anyone. the topic if it involves my own personal being and mental state makes me tear up for no reason. I can't get past it for any reason and I still don't know the reason behind why.
I want to open up and talk and express my stress and sadness and whatever, and it's easier said than done, but as a response my physical body just stresses out and makes my throat clench and cry and whatnot FOR NO REASON. I can't even find what I want.
its just a simple question that I can't respond to for some reason when I actually want to open up.
"why are you crying?"
"I don't know why."
"there must be a reason. everything has a reason. why are you crying?"
"I don't know."
(thats what i feel like they're saying when someone asks.)
I feel like my problems are so irrelevant that I can't dig enough to find the root reason.
other people have it worse.. so why am I feeling like this?
I don't have any 'trauma' that I can call back to.
I don't have bad parents.
what am I repressing that seems so irrelevant?
why am I even feeling this way in the first place?
why do I even want to die? is it the lack of a social life?
I keep pushing my friends away. I did things in the past I utterly hate myself for.
I wish I never had a phone.
I'm probably exaggerating things but I can't have a concrete answer to why.
i've maybe tried to talk to a therapist but I still couldn't open up. I tried talking. I'm tired at a young age.
edit:
looking back on this, *maybe* it was way too exaggerated.
i dont care much about how i felt when i was upset until im actually in the moment, which is (kind of) like a blessing and a curse.
a "blessing" because most of the time i wont really think back on it unless its relevant, and a curse because i feel like i dont really "learn" anything from it, as in i keep crying from the same situation.
i dont really tend to lean into comfort, but i will sometimes if its necessary.
only because i think of it as awkward.
i only got recommended a therapist through my doctor, i believe i only went once, then never went back.
i dont remember too many details about that, so take it with a grain of salt.
im thinking of get an actual therapist when im ready for it.
im starting to dislike my body more, its not too bad though.
i will restate that i dont have a 'bad' past, i just did some things that i dislike myself for.
I see
You said "i wish i never had phone"
You think that you're just wasting you life on games and social media just like me
And also you mentioned you've done something in past you hate yourself so the fealing of guilt must've been eating you from the inside...
At this point it's like im talking to myself cuz i got the similar problems
What ever you feel it will be over because everything has it's beginning and the end
Stay strong buddy❤
yeah. both wasting my life on (what you said) added on having been exposed to mature content at a young age. (if you can guess what it is) it impacted me. not too much, but enough for me to remember it.
i didn't have the affects before, but months after I got caught.
being (kinda) older made me realize how bad it was, and I didn't know why I did it.
I've always been sensitive to yelling and being called out on something.
that's the main reason why.
hope you also feel better.
if you ever feel hopeless, remember. just in general. death is inevitable, so if you cut it short you just don't experience anything after that.
you don't get to live without pain after that.
you just die.
(sorry about the end, just felt right for me.)
@@anon_onlast paragraph of your answer above tells me you are intelligent and thoughtful.
As to talking to therapist, two things based on my experience:
1. It takes time to open up. There is no standard or time limit for it. Therapists also know that. So you need to continue going to them. At some point you may open up.
2. If you think this therapist is not good for you, dont feel guilty changing to another one, provided point number 1 is fulfilled.
For you specifically why therapists might be the right answer is you yourself wrote you push friends away. So unless you have other outlet, therapists would be right way.
You can also visit neuropsychiatrist. Sometime la just tablets can be a start too.
Dont give up trying to open up. All the best.
sometimes i wish there was a way for me to bury it all so deep it ceases to exist. And i was confident i did, until this video made me cry. dont know why i cant open up... i just cant. therapy wont help too in that case.
its not that i dont trust people
its not that i dont want to tell anyone
its not that i feel ashamed
its not that i hate myself
i just cant open up, and its killing me.
@@user-d48399 If you can’t get it out by in-person, maybe you can try texting a therapist. Even if you can’t get your thoughts out just how you want it, it’s still something. there’s time for everything, you don’t literally need to do it all, or at once.
Ease yourself into being more comfortable in speaking your mind.
it’s obviously not going to be overnight, or might not happen at all, but it’s still something worth trying.
It’s not like you live twice anyway.
今おすすめに出てきてくれてありがとう。違う言語を持つ広い世界の人達もみんな同じ悩みを持ってるんだね。自分も頑張らなきゃ
I don’t know why but the sad dude captured perfectly how I act after something bad happened. Like a breakup or specifically bad argument, especially if the person who I was arguing with or breaking up with is checking on me. Short responses out of fear of offending them, quiet voice for the same reason, a lump in my throat.
I suffered from anxiety and I know how it feels from watching this video when I cry. I have an older brother who used to suffer from anxiety but found his gift of being calm as he’s helping with this process to be calm as I’m sad, angry or depressed.
This is so well done. It touches my heart. No matter what someone says, ‘I’m ok’ ‘im fine’ ‘I’m happy’, they could always be hiding inward pain. This just reminds me of me and my friends. How they’ve helped me and been there for me when I said I was ok and wasn’t. Sometimes you just don’t need words. Sometimes a simple hug says it all.
This is deeply relatable. You never know how tough someone has it and often they’ll hide it so you don’t worry. Be there for your friends and family, they may need you more than you know. ❤
That last shot of the two brothers hugging reminded me of something I drew after I made up with my brother after a big fight. I teared up after the dedication. Thank you for this.
The voice acting was so good. Not a lot of people know how much a hug can do. I almost cried during this whole video. Its sad how I can relate to this.