@@Artist_of_Imagination it's okay, sometimes people can take something seriously without knowing the joke. I can say that because i have done it myself.
My parents put a lot of expectation on me and wouldn’t help me. They’d ridicule me and expect one way respect. I grew up cruel and stupid. I let a lot of people down. I’m ok now. I’m trying to help my parents.
same my parents dont believe that ima graduate next year. it sucks cause they always fight over me in the living room and i just think like damn they dont believe in me so should i give up? because they know everything ig and thats good keep ur head up
I'm Asian, and from all the Asian parent tik toks they can be pretty strict and have very high expectations. But my parents aren't like that and it makes me very grateful Edit:I'm sorry but, thank you for the likes
Don't always trust the internet, especially tik toks lol. I've never met a kid with parents as stereotypically strict on their kids. And if they are, it mostly comes from the drive of any parent wanting the best for their children.
My parents' expectations are too high for me to the point where I'm depressed have anxiety and am Anti Social I've also had insomnia since I was 5 and have magger trust issues and nobody has realized yet and I'm a Libra btw and yet I still follow every order or so I like I like to call it 😂 Also I get no affection or love from my parents and I help with *everything* and I'm ofc the oldest child and the second is some how spoiled like how do you mess up the second time if you were able to get it right the first time?
When your parents aren’t successful but they get mad at you for not being successful- Edit: One I never thought so many people would reply. And two I should have mentioned, they tell their kids to be successful but when they say they want to have a job that isn’t as high paying, they call you a failure and a disgrace. They pressure you to do something you do not enjoy. Parents do want you to be better than them I completely understand that! But it doesn’t mean they have to put you on such high expectations. It can affect the child to overwork because they want their parents to be proud of them. You shouldn’t have to try hard for something just so that your parents appreciate you. If they don’t love you while your struggling they don’t love you at all. You shouldn’t have to succeed at great lengths just to feel that you matter.
They get mad because they dont want them to be like their parents. They do want them to be successful and if their parents aren't they want the kid to be successful.
Well these parents work hard and always support kids but this isn’t NOT supporting it’s being disappointed these kids are very very poor not poor like no money but poor in what they want to do in life because the slob eventually will no where and be on the streets and the gamer well gaming won’t do anything but it won’t even help you exercise which is needed so if they decide to be a gamer then well the heart won’t be so lucky same for the slob Also for the “Wannabe” Rapper there are so many people trying for rapper not only but the fame can drop at any time same with like a lawyer and a doctor but when the fame does drop what can you do it would be too late to try for any jobs with being a celebrity because those jobs are high quality if your fired from being a doctor and go to be a lawyer the chances will probably lower like %40 of you getting that job So your parents don’t want you to live like this They need you to be better than them!!
Too much positivity is just being delusional. All of these jobs require skills that they haven't even started to develop. Respect the people who are actually capable of doing those
I'm glad my parents don't have such high career expectations for me. They just want me to be a good person who's kind and happy with myself. I wish everyone had parents like that.
@@airbender9593 it depends -example: some kids who grow with really poor parents... When *the kid* becomes an adult might ended up having biggest expectations in life ...like: *getting a better job* or study harder...etc
“So often children are punished for being human, children are not allowed to have grumpy moods, bad attitudes, disrespectful tones or bad days, yet we adults have them all the time. None of us are perfect, and we must stop holding children to a higher standard of perfection than we can ourselves.” -Anonymous That took forever write 😭
Yeah because they care they don’t want their children to be failures what if the same thing happened to the parent Back when they were younger and didn’t want their kids to do the same
@@dog5428 there's two different kinds of successful, theres the whole "bill gates" owning a company, making billions a year successful, and then there's financially stable, not in debt, and able to support a family successful
Money, fame, success, wealth is nothing compared to the amount of love you’ve given to make a loving family. The former can come and go, however relationship stay with you forever.
Money to feed your family... if you have all the love in the world and no money to eat and live it doesn’t matter because your still not living a good life is what you will say and pray for better days to come if you have money and no love at all you’ll still live a sad life where you wish you had love and someone to appreciate you... In conclusion no matter what life you live there will always be a problem...
Parents really should stop having such high expectations in their children. No offense but some of us can’t handle some of those expectations and personally, whenever i don’t meet the high expectations of my family it makes me wanna curl up and cry because I’m my mind, I’m a failure child because of my anxiety and stress Edit: I appreciate all the comments and advice but to those of you posting things that are a bit rude, can you please not do that? It isn’t necessary to respond to a comment with rude replies. I understand if my comment is stupid and pointless, but rude statements are unnecessary
I mean you are tho. If you are working in the sector you love then that is more than enough and your parents will be happy for you. But if you're making minimum wage by working all day in the job you clearly don't want to do then who else is there to blame. It's behavioural of parents to want their kids to be in a better place than them.
@@fieryspysixty9711 But some parents will expect their kids to become doctors or lawyers or something like that. Personally,I know that neither of those job occupations will make me happy. And it’s stressful to know that your parents expect so much from you, especially if you feel like you’re a disappointment to everyone around you.
@@satokazuki.reaper Don't talk Dumb -_- It's totally upto Kids mentality lol pressure will do nothing. It's best to let them figure out what they love doing and then make a career on it.
I would never expect my children to be something that's crazy high up or stressful. They can be what they want, as long as they can get something that can support them and live happily
@South Side I'm not crying about anything. I'm just saying I wouldn't expect them to have the highest of jobs. If they want that that's ok, but I wouldn't make them
In this case, They haven't really turned out yet. The slob potentially has something on his mind or is depressed and can still turn out very succesful if he's getting better soon, the wannabe rapper can still improve in making actual good music and the gamer can start streaming and gains some viewers of, of his gaming content and even his personality or even make good edited gaming videos.
@@Zach-lz2pc That's why ya'll never reach something, u don't want to believe that you can reach it because u know u can't with that shitty confidence, that's why u put others down - same thing to @Samuel Johnson.
A good enough amount of people make a high amount of money from streaming and making RUclips videos. Course most also have jobs small or big ones but stil
My older brother graduated from Harvard, became a doctor, went to war as a medic came back and became a lawyer. 😅So now I don’t have to do none of those things But every time he brags about his success I tell him he’s not Jonathan Kim😂- the guy who is a Doctor/Navy Seal/and Astronaut
Everything aside, this alone completely explains why parents are always a little worried about children having dreams and ideas different from the ones they have in mind. There is NO Correct person between the kids and parents but we all just need to reach a middle ground. Parents may not always accept our choices, but we must always respect that.
they turn out to be just perfect! ❤️ thanks to their beautiful amazing parents 🤗GOD BLESS THIS FAMILY 🙏 don't ask for more 🤷🏻♀️they are GOOD PEOPLE WITH GOOD HEART, that's all it matters!
Setting insanely high standards for your child & then being extremely disappointed & angry at them when they don’t live up to that expectation that you have for Them, that can be really hurtful to your child’s mental health & can affect it really badly. Why is everybody so hostile in the replies 😃
My dad: wondering why I'm always in my room Also my dad: makes fun of me, makes me feel useless, blames everything on me, tells me I have no future, sets way too high expectations for me, wants me to be pErFEct.
That’s my mom, I’m not overweight and she makes petty remarks like “you could use the exercise” whenever I need to anything even remotely physical, I have three sisters who are spoiled as fuck, and what I wonder is what she expects me to do as a 13 year old, because 1, covid prevents me from seeing friends, and 2, she says I’m gonna have no future if all I do is play video games, which admittedly I do, but it’s not like I can go and get a fucking job
Oh and god forbid I ever have a missing assignment in science, ELA, or social studies, because if that happens then we’re all just gonna ignore the fact that I’m almost acing a high school math class in 8th grade, and if I pass the SAT or whatever test it is, then I’ll have a college credit in my first year of high school
@Rafa Garcia Not your place to judge or invalidate others emotions and experiences. Forcing your child to do things they don't want and not letting them explore things they like can have negative long lasting effects. The biggest thing here is to not force your kids to go into a career they don't want. Getting a part time job is not the same as forcing your kid to go to university and work in a field they don't like/don't want to for the rest of their life because the parents expect them to be a certain way. Simple as that
@Rafa Garcia okay then get a job you didn't want to get in the first place and a job that wears you out to the point you get burnout. Come on don't be a baby be a doctor funny man. I dare you.
@@nessa7979 most parent want their children best life , spoiling kids lead.much worst situation. For me I won't force them to have a certain career but I ll force the responsibility to them at least so they can take care themselves.
Hey. That is true. But some of the ppl who are not succesful is bcz they lazy. Let me say. Even a beggar or a homeless person lives his life. He also still eats food and lives life. But there is a huge difference in his/her life and a person who is succesful. So now it depends on ppl whether to suffer or to live better.
@@linyjacob8991 I think you are a bit delusional if you think effort= success. Not everyone who works hard gets to be successful. That is just not how it work. Sometimes even if you try your best you don't get to succeed. And thinking that if someone doesn't success is because they're lazy is not a very realistic thinking and shows lack of empathy.
Expecting them to be better isn't what's hurting them, it's when you impose it upon them to level where it's stressful for them. Having expectations and hopes for your children is natural, it's how you go about it that counts.
@@shazana1058 Well sometimes the way those expectations of becoming better are imposed are really important, just because they aren't controlling kid's every second or not punishing them very severely doesn't mean that the expectations are imposed correctly and honestly no one can be expected to be a perfect parent, it's their first time and every child is different, we can just learn from our parents' mistakes and our kids can learn from our's.
@@kimtgf7152 That's what I meant, the way you impose them is what matters. Just telling your child "I hope you would do this", but supporting them with what they want and letting them know it's all up to them is fine. I was just trying to say that having expectations and hopes is natural and isn't inherently bad.
People turn out based on how they are raised and what they see their guardians doing. If you never did anything that influenced then this way, then it means you weren't involved in their lives enough.
That is a bs excuse. Take responsibility for your own actions most people don't want to grow up to be like their parents. But they do because they're lazy and they're go to option is to blame the parent. If your parents jump off a bridge are you going to as well. No!! Unless you're that stupid. But I can make an uneducated guess too I bet you're lazy I bet you don't have a job I bet you don't pay any bills or help your parents out more than likely they're telling you constantly to watch the f****** dishes or to mow the yard or to get a job. I bet you don't do anything on your own unless you're told. But I could be wrong but I doubt it I've heard this excuse many times from that excite type of person
My parents behave like this, and it's just messing me up. I keep studying until 3 am because I'm afraid of failing. My parents would scream at me and it makes me feel like a disappointment. I'm trying my best to make my parents happy. I play piano, do alot of sport, have good grades, do art / design but there's always something that they don't like. Also, Im trying to get better at my hobbies like drawing, but when ever I ask for better equipment they just say no, and 5 minutes later they are asking me why I'm not drawing anymore. Also my parents aren't being abusive to me and I love them with all my heart, but they should stop telling me to start doing business with 13 lmao it's just stressing
@Prod. Cheesy Flows I really hope that you educate yourself about abuse. What you've said was soo absurd that it made me think that perhaps you are trolling. So if you are, can you stop trying to invalidate people's traumas because it is not a joke! I'd be concerned if you plan having kids one day with that mentality tbh :")
Me and my brother have both had parents who were nothing but loving, caring, and responsible. My brother just got accepted to Berkeley and I'm working on my Private Pilots License whole also aiming to get into the Naval Academy. It's not your son's It's you
Oh man I want to be a pilot too some day. I'm just 15 years old now but it's my dream to fly for a living. Good luck and safe flying for your licence 👍
@@ascherlafayette8572 Well commercial is my dream, military is the cool option of course but I want to be a commercial pilot. Does fixed wing and rotary mean plane and helicopter? Because if so, then most definitely a plane. I never found helicopters to be interesting. But that's just my opinion.
My older brothers friend’s parents forced him to study to become a doctor and now since he’s graduated, his parents don’t really care if he’s a doctor or not anymore. So he’s kinda just gonna have to be a doctor now I guess 😐
@@shwomt Life is more than just money, bud. You only live life once. Do what you enjoy since we have the freedom to choose in this life. Let people who want to be doctors be doctors. Those who want to be doctors are better doctors than those who are forced to be.
You can look at their living environment and see this is a great man that adores and respects his wife and family immensely...and has a sense or humor.period💯😘😍😂
My parents: we cant wait for you to become that train engineer you wanted to be as a kid Me: *waiting to work for Valve and work as a graphic designer*
I'm well aware of how much it takes to work at Valve.you gotta know how to draw a design on paper, 3d model, and make graphics all at the console of a computer.
@@ethanwendigo9588 Uh, graphic design is ... generally the concepts and the textures for 3D Models. The models themselves are usually made by the 3D Artists, because the two areas are so vastly different.
Even though they didn't turn out how you wanted make sure you celebrate their achievements. It's a small thing to do that make people happier than you would know.
How the kids thought their dad was gonna be: kind and respecting of them in any situation trying to help them How he actually turned out: unrealistically high standards and extreme levels of rage when they don’t turn out 😬
I remember telling my parents that I really like drawing and that I wanna be an animator and draw arts. (Freelance). They were a little bit disappointed at first, but then when they saw that I actually like it and saw my arts. My mom paid for my animation and graphic design course so I could become who I want 🤧
such a high respect for the parents 💜💛those kids who are struggling since young envy this one , i have all the freedom i want but its not easy , it is very very hard , id rather had a parents like this who is very strict and high expectation on me , its easy to get stress while studying than stress of studying while working for yourself . When you have a parents like this you dont need to worry about your bills and food and home and you can sleep in good bed , me? im with the family wherein i can do what i want but get stress with my own bills my own studies while working .
Enh… I don’t think you used that correctly. See, “better life” was more like before crossing the border. Now, work harder so your children can have a better future is a bit different
By a 'better life' do you mean leeching off their parents and not contributing to society, and letting their parents do all the work while sitting at home, doing nothing?
He would've been broke because who's helping him pay for Harvard, Law school and Med school? 🤷🏾♂️ and also when does a son's riches equate to a father's riches?
Dad's thoughts : my 1st kid is going to be a lawyer the 2nd will be a doctor the 3rd will be a CEO EXPECTATIONS : the 1st is a gamer The 2nd is the one Who eats all the Food in the House and Doesn't go Grocery shopping The 3rd is the one Who sleeps a lot
Alternative Title: I Invested Nothing Into My Children As Kids And Am Now Disappointed That They Didn't Become The Adults I Wanted Them To Become And Achieve The Goals I Never Helped Them Achieve
Kids should be encouraged to pick a reasonable career they're at least somewhat passionate about. Whilst it is a lie that if you work for something you love you never work a day in your life, it does make your life and mental health better than if you don't.
That's because you're an awesome dad and they don't want to go away to parts unknown they want to stay home and be with you when you get home from work
You shouldn't have such high expectations for them. That would be like winning the lottery. You should support them in anyway you can in stuff they are happy with
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Father: A tiktoker
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Yeah😂😂
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@i have brain damage ur name explains tiktokers
Hahaaa nice one
Kids expectations: a great dad with high responsibility
Reality: tiktokers.
People can sometimes have some fun you know
@@Artist_of_Imagination it's a joke.
@@datazs oh. Really sorry.
@@Artist_of_Imagination it's okay, sometimes people can take something seriously without knowing the joke. I can say that because i have done it myself.
Hahahhaha good one bruv
Dad: "son how old are you?"
Me: I'm 15 dad
Dad: "pathetic, when I was your age I was 22"
😂😂😂
Underrated comment
I'm not american we dont do that over here in britain cant relate
😂🤣🤣😂😂🤣😂
This is so dumb just goes to show how a zoomer brain functions... 😴
If people listened to their parents there would only be 3 available Jobs today.
Doctor, Lawyer, Teacher.
And engineer
Yeah nad just sweeper then
I think that is right!? I am including pilot or air hostage
@@simple-person77
Yes especialy the ones that major in electrotechnical engineering
Hell nah. Its doctor lawyer engineer
The way the wannabe rapper be rapping is like don’t listen to your dad continue to listen to your music
This is fake the real is everyone kids become youtubers
The rapper was hilarious with his hand signs like he had a gun & looked all crazy 🤪
Well damn I always new I was a disappointment
Yes that was so funny
👹
My parents put a lot of expectation on me and wouldn’t help me. They’d ridicule me and expect one way respect. I grew up cruel and stupid. I let a lot of people down. I’m ok now. I’m trying to help my parents.
thanks for breaking that cycle
it sure is not easy to do it
so thank you 🙏
same my parents dont believe that ima graduate next year. it sucks cause they always fight over me in the living room and i just think like damn they dont believe in me so should i give up? because they know everything ig and thats good keep ur head up
That's amazing, if you don't mind, what played the greatest role in your change?
Same, but i cut everyone off.
Aww...
The wannabe rapper part was funny look how he was rapping 😂😂
🤣💣🤬😡
😂
😁😁😁
Yesterday,Winchester
Week
Ejkehejej
Ejkeh
Jekeh
Rapping to Nicki Minaj for sure 😁
It’s Rocky sleeping with the chip still in his mouth for me 😂 😂 😂
🥺😕😔
It's Kies raging at the game for me
😂 😂
I'm Asian, and from all the Asian parent tik toks they can be pretty strict and have very high expectations. But my parents aren't like that and it makes me very grateful
Edit:I'm sorry but, thank you for the likes
Ain't you lucky
Don't always trust the internet, especially tik toks lol. I've never met a kid with parents as stereotypically strict on their kids. And if they are, it mostly comes from the drive of any parent wanting the best for their children.
Same lol im also asian. I only have a mother but she spoils me everytime
My parents' expectations are too high for me to the point where I'm depressed have anxiety and am Anti Social I've also had insomnia since I was 5 and have magger trust issues and nobody has realized yet and I'm a Libra btw and yet I still follow every order or so I like I like to call it 😂 Also I get no affection or love from my parents and I help with *everything* and I'm ofc the oldest child and the second is some how spoiled like how do you mess up the second time if you were able to get it right the first time?
Oh god thank goodness I actually made it pretty quick 😅
When your parents aren’t successful but they get mad at you for not being successful- Edit: One I never thought so many people would reply. And two I should have mentioned, they tell their kids to be successful but when they say they want to have a job that isn’t as high paying, they call you a failure and a disgrace. They pressure you to do something you do not enjoy. Parents do want you to be better than them I completely understand that! But it doesn’t mean they have to put you on such high expectations. It can affect the child to overwork because they want their parents to be proud of them. You shouldn’t have to try hard for something just so that your parents appreciate you. If they don’t love you while your struggling they don’t love you at all. You shouldn’t have to succeed at great lengths just to feel that you matter.
since everyone still is arguing even though i apologized i edited this comment so know you won’t know what i said
@@bruhmoments2462 well actually some parents are
@@bruhmoments2462 did ur parent abused u?
They get mad because they dont want them to be like their parents. They do want them to be successful and if their parents aren't they want the kid to be successful.
@@locoman535 i think so
If parents actually listened and supported kids, then we'd have a lot less depression in the world.
Well these parents work hard and always support kids but this isn’t NOT supporting it’s being disappointed these kids are very very poor not poor like no money but poor in what they want to do in life because the slob eventually will no where and be on the streets and the gamer well gaming won’t do anything but it won’t even help you exercise which is needed so if they decide to be a gamer then well the heart won’t be so lucky same for the slob Also for the “Wannabe” Rapper there are so many people trying for rapper not only but the fame can drop at any time same with like a lawyer and a doctor but when the fame does drop what can you do it would be too late to try for any jobs with being a celebrity because those jobs are high quality if your fired from being a doctor and go to be a lawyer the chances will probably lower like %40 of you getting that job So your parents don’t want you to live like this They need you to be better than them!!
No matter what they do or what job they have you should still love and support them because that’s what dads do
Rapper= sound editor
Gamer = developer or visual design
Slop = crypto investor.
My dude, you're probably be a an awesome parent/sibling. This is the kind of positivity I love.
Yea, these kind of people can rake in cash like crazy.
Parents need to learn that
Too much positivity is just being delusional. All of these jobs require skills that they haven't even started to develop. Respect the people who are actually capable of doing those
@@clement6173 and treat the people who aren't capable like s*** that's what you're saying right
@@ilyte1 lmao he just said that it is needed practice to do these jobs stop inventing things that others didn't say
I'm glad my parents don't have such high career expectations for me. They just want me to be a good person who's kind and happy with myself. I wish everyone had parents like that.
So envy 😭
I have higher expectations than my parents. What does that make me?
@@airbender9593 it depends -example: some kids who grow with really poor parents... When *the kid* becomes an adult might ended up having biggest expectations in life ...like: *getting a better job* or study harder...etc
@@airbender9593 I think that makes you optimistic. 🌞🏠
Lucky 😔
“So often children are punished for being human, children are not allowed to have grumpy moods, bad attitudes, disrespectful tones or bad days, yet we adults have them all the time. None of us are perfect, and we must stop holding children to a higher standard of perfection than we can ourselves.” -Anonymous
That took forever write 😭
Omg heart breaking truth 😭
Thank you next time I get argument with my parents I will tell them this
@Death Nightmare 😭😭😭 I’ve only just seen this message 😭
Spot on
Umm
its so weird how parents automatically want their kids to play a high role in society and not just live a happy fulfilling life
@tired af the fact that i said happy and fulfilling life and you assumed i meant that says enough
@Tashi Dante bra what are u even talking about??? u have to be stupid or something
Ah yes, "happy and fulfilling"
Yeah because they care they don’t want their children to be failures what if the same thing happened to the parent Back when they were younger and didn’t want their kids to do the same
@@dog5428 there's two different kinds of successful, theres the whole "bill gates" owning a company, making billions a year successful, and then there's financially stable, not in debt, and able to support a family successful
What i wanted my dad to be : caring and loving, what he turned out to be : making fun of his children on tik tok to get clout
DAMNNN BOY , WHY ISNT THIS TOP COMMENT?
@@crubrutockcsgo dunno because its not
@@focusfailing2831 but.. it should be
@@crubrutockcsgo ok
Lol
Father:i will be a bussiness man when i grow up
Years later*
Fathers job : a tik toker
he is not a ticktocker by proffesion he got a job settled his kids now he do ticktok for fun and now you 20 year old teaching him what to do👏👏
plus he probably retired already, so he is doing tik tok JFF but turns out booming soooo.... it's just tik tok ok, don't take it seriously
@@arshcheema3416 you copied and pasted
I think
Brb
Bro that hand pistol from the rapper had me dying lol😂😂😂😂😂😂
PART Of me is on the Dads side. He just wanted his kids to have a good education and have a good life.
You need to accept people for who they are tho
@@Kiziqs a bunch of losers
@@dog5428that’s kinda rude
@@lydiawong402 aw sorry did I hurt your feelings?
@@dog5428 ok I feel like your being sarcastic i don’t rlly care anyways be rude if you want I don’t wanna start a fight
Money, fame, success, wealth is nothing compared to the amount of love you’ve given to make a loving family. The former can come and go, however relationship stay with you forever.
Freethinkers 👍👍👍👍
But from this world money comes at top.
Yeah except a law degree won’t come and go
Money to feed your family... if you have all the love in the world and no money to eat and live it doesn’t matter because your still not living a good life is what you will say and pray for better days to come if you have money and no love at all you’ll still live a sad life where you wish you had love and someone to appreciate you... In conclusion no matter what life you live there will always be a problem...
Not always some live normal happy lives with no problems but this is just a example
Parents really should stop having such high expectations in their children. No offense but some of us can’t handle some of those expectations and personally, whenever i don’t meet the high expectations of my family it makes me wanna curl up and cry because I’m my mind, I’m a failure child because of my anxiety and stress
Edit: I appreciate all the comments and advice but to those of you posting things that are a bit rude, can you please not do that? It isn’t necessary to respond to a comment with rude replies. I understand if my comment is stupid and pointless, but rude statements are unnecessary
Normally I will try to find out what I want to do ,and do anything to do it even depression
I mean you are tho. If you are working in the sector you love then that is more than enough and your parents will be happy for you. But if you're making minimum wage by working all day in the job you clearly don't want to do then who else is there to blame. It's behavioural of parents to want their kids to be in a better place than them.
Relatable
@@fieryspysixty9711 But some parents will expect their kids to become doctors or lawyers or something like that. Personally,I know that neither of those job occupations will make me happy. And it’s stressful to know that your parents expect so much from you, especially if you feel like you’re a disappointment to everyone around you.
@@lavenderpotato5734 i can relate :(
If I become a parent I won’t set high expectations for my kids, because if I’m the father it wouldn’t be possible.
😂😂😂😂😂😂💣
If u don't pressure them they will become a trash that can't do anything but a shit
@@satokazuki.reaper Don't talk Dumb -_- It's totally upto Kids mentality lol pressure will do nothing. It's best to let them figure out what they love doing and then make a career on it.
😂😂when I watch this family always laugh hard😂thank u this channel is my medicine ❤️
Everyone: Stop pressuring your kids
My mom: *I'mma pretend I didn't hear that*
Same ZD
Y E S
Hello other frog
@@ST4RG1RL_ST3PH p h r o g
Mushroom Froggy _P H R O G_ *or* -f r o g-
Me: proud of myself for even being able to get up in the morning
Parents: high expectations
They expect the best out of you so you don’t make their mistakes
I mean, some parents dont want to live with their kids, when the kid is 25
Exactly.
😳😳😳😳.....have prospects 😂😂😂😂😂
@@trundlegaming8019 and opposite with some my parents are u gonna take care of us when we old
I swear some parents be getting mad when their headcannon for their kids don’t turn out to be cannon 👀
That's how my dad looks at us siblings and reminds us of his disappointment every chance he gets 🤣
I would never expect my children to be something that's crazy high up or stressful. They can be what they want, as long as they can get something that can support them and live happily
Dang Satan is pretty nice
Yea I am pretty sure you support Lilith to collect souls
@South Side I'm not crying about anything. I'm just saying I wouldn't expect them to have the highest of jobs. If they want that that's ok, but I wouldn't make them
Maybe try to finish school before having kids?
Thats always good
Unexpectedly wholesome comment. Good job.
"You be What You Want to be"
-Albert Einstein
Exactly
I didn’t know he wanted to a tree
Every american after hearing that line:you know today I put on 500lb and sure am bouta get heart problems but who cares be what you wanna be
Best quote
@@salture0951 not all Americans are unhealthy
In this case, They haven't really turned out yet. The slob potentially has something on his mind or is depressed and can still turn out very succesful if he's getting better soon, the wannabe rapper can still improve in making actual good music and the gamer can start streaming and gains some viewers of, of his gaming content and even his personality or even make good edited gaming videos.
You aren't a realistic are you
Get realistic
@@Zach-lz2pc That's why ya'll never reach something, u don't want to believe that you can reach it because u know u can't with that shitty confidence, that's why u put others down - same thing to @Samuel Johnson.
A good enough amount of people make a high amount of money from streaming and making RUclips videos. Course most also have jobs small or big ones but stil
Honestly as long as you believe anything can be possible
The harward graduate in shots the Dr in vest or see throw shirt. Hilarious 😂😂😂
My older brother graduated from Harvard, became a doctor, went to war as a medic came back and became a lawyer. 😅So now I don’t have to do none of those things
But every time he brags about his success I tell him he’s not Jonathan Kim😂- the guy who is a Doctor/Navy Seal/and Astronaut
Can't tell if this is true or not lol
If its real he might used more braincells than so much scientists
Question: If he went to war the last war is like 30+ years ago, so how old id your brother?
@@rachel_allen2329 uh the last official war was like 30 years ago but we been fighting terrorist cells in the middle east for the last 20 years
@@-Homelander. Its also possible that he was a medic for the red cross or something like that. It doesn't need to be an American War.
Everything aside, this alone completely explains why parents are always a little worried about children having dreams and ideas different from the ones they have in mind. There is NO Correct person between the kids and parents but we all just need to reach a middle ground. Parents may not always accept our choices, but we must always respect that.
Yeah my mom should respect my career choice to be “gamer”
@@RhysGBiv esports, ever heard of it?
@@RhysGBiv Yeah a career where people make millions I think it should be respected
@@Subby1807 oh u mean a career where 1 in a million make million dollars
@@holycrusader8856 no man I believe in parents supremacy
they turn out to be just perfect! ❤️ thanks to their beautiful amazing parents 🤗GOD BLESS THIS FAMILY 🙏 don't ask for more 🤷🏻♀️they are GOOD PEOPLE WITH GOOD HEART, that's all it matters!
The dad is the best!!
My dad made my plans for my life and he's like "ok your going to be in the army" and here I am part of the spetsnaz 15 years later
Your dads a piece of shit
What's the spetsnaz
@@julienflores5399 shut up
@@lemon_boii1074 dude just search it up no hard feelings
@@julienflores5399 is he now
Me : plans on having a gamer child 😏
My child : I’m going to become an accountant
Me : 😀
Big brain 🧠 😂
Reverse psychology 😎
Ima do a little something called a pro gamer move
Accountants will be obsolete by the time your child becomes an adult, because of automation and AI.
@@xxsebastianxxalej dude it is just someone commenting something funny you don’t half to be all scientific and shit
"Timmy's got 15 years of work experience, and he's only 9 years old!"
Sammy the rapper 😂 😂 😂..That dude is always doing the Extra
Setting insanely high standards for your child & then being extremely disappointed & angry at them when they don’t live up to that expectation that you have for Them, that can be really hurtful to your child’s mental health & can affect it really badly.
Why is everybody so hostile in the replies 😃
Yep so true
Ok and?
@@shadow_bzt3614 well shit he just gave some fucking true advice,have a problem?
@@shadow_bzt3614 You wanna fucking fight?
Yea.
Just support your kids. No matter what life choice they decide
But not if they are slob or maybe a rapper I think he is right but I think it's ok if supported the rapper and the gamer but a slob
🌺🌺🌺💐
What if they become I dunno...a tree
@@pearlydesireechee9403 then you have yourself some firewood
@@CHCH2N wait...
My parents: He's going to be a doctor! No he's going to be a lawyer!
Me: *becomes a stereotypical villain instead*
Don't lie. You became a gamer.
@@nefariousrig2070 both...both actually
@@IshijimaKairo Sure thing
I dont think anyone has the right to decide your future
😹😹😹😹
My dad: wondering why I'm always in my room
Also my dad: makes fun of me, makes me feel useless, blames everything on me, tells me I have no future, sets way too high expectations for me, wants me to be pErFEct.
😭 No one has the right to make you feel less than. His job is to build you up and love you, not tear you down.
That’s my mom, I’m not overweight and she makes petty remarks like “you could use the exercise” whenever I need to anything even remotely physical, I have three sisters who are spoiled as fuck, and what I wonder is what she expects me to do as a 13 year old, because 1, covid prevents me from seeing friends, and 2, she says I’m gonna have no future if all I do is play video games, which admittedly I do, but it’s not like I can go and get a fucking job
Oh and god forbid I ever have a missing assignment in science, ELA, or social studies, because if that happens then we’re all just gonna ignore the fact that I’m almost acing a high school math class in 8th grade, and if I pass the SAT or whatever test it is, then I’ll have a college credit in my first year of high school
Toughen up life and sun shine and rainbows I was told things like that and did the magical thing of IGNORING THEM
@@Azul_3621 🧢
This is the best Family channel I've ever seen so far 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣...Glad I stumbled across it
Everyone is felling about their parents, but no one didn't even notice that the parent is also doing videos on tik tok
Thank you
They have a big house wich proves that they are successful and that's whitout yiktok
Yes
Father: I expected very highly of my kids
Also father: tiktoker
thats a good point
he is not a ticktocker by proffesion he got a job settled his kids now he do ticktok for fun and now you 20 year old teaching him what to do👏👏
@@arshcheema3416 grammar.exe has stopped working
Tiktok bad gimmie likes
@@professionalfangster1510 remove the last part Zoomer, Tiktok is just bad.
LOWKEY THAT'S REAL TALK RIGHT THERE 😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣
The "no ones listening" part got me cuz ya' know
Parents expect too much from their children. Its puts too much pressure on us and we get anxiety, possibly even depression.
I can agree
Agree
@Rafa Garcia Not your place to judge or invalidate others emotions and experiences. Forcing your child to do things they don't want and not letting them explore things they like can have negative long lasting effects.
The biggest thing here is to not force your kids to go into a career they don't want. Getting a part time job is not the same as forcing your kid to go to university and work in a field they don't like/don't want to for the rest of their life because the parents expect them to be a certain way. Simple as that
@Rafa Garcia okay then get a job you didn't want to get in the first place and a job that wears you out to the point you get burnout. Come on don't be a baby be a doctor funny man. I dare you.
@@nessa7979 most parent want their children best life , spoiling kids lead.much worst situation. For me I won't force them to have a certain career but I ll force the responsibility to them at least so they can take care themselves.
"Not everyone has to be successful. Let you're child grow it's talent. And never give up and it will get better."
- *Maya Asanin*
Hey. That is true. But some of the ppl who are not succesful is bcz they lazy. Let me say. Even a beggar or a homeless person lives his life. He also still eats food and lives life. But there is a huge difference in his/her life and a person who is succesful. So now it depends on ppl whether to suffer or to live better.
@@linyjacob8991 I think you are a bit delusional if you think effort= success. Not everyone who works hard gets to be successful. That is just not how it work. Sometimes even if you try your best you don't get to succeed. And thinking that if someone doesn't success is because they're lazy is not a very realistic thinking and shows lack of empathy.
Uhm.... Is slob a talent ,😳
Your*...
@@quittsui So you're saying is that "success" relies on fate? If not, then you don't believe in what you have worked on?
Real parent and most caring
They are so cool. your family looks so cool. House looks so good.
You know deciding your child’s future or expecting them to turn out some way is the worst thing a parent could do to their child
Expecting them to be better isn't what's hurting them, it's when you impose it upon them to level where it's stressful for them.
Having expectations and hopes for your children is natural, it's how you go about it that counts.
@@shazana1058 Well sometimes the way those expectations of becoming better are imposed are really important, just because they aren't controlling kid's every second or not punishing them very severely doesn't mean that the expectations are imposed correctly and honestly no one can be expected to be a perfect parent, it's their first time and every child is different, we can just learn from our parents' mistakes and our kids can learn from our's.
@@kimtgf7152 That's what I meant, the way you impose them is what matters. Just telling your child "I hope you would do this", but supporting them with what they want and letting them know it's all up to them is fine. I was just trying to say that having expectations and hopes is natural and isn't inherently bad.
Tell that to Asian parents hahahahahah 🥴🥴🥴
Hahahah jk i think thats changing now... at least my parents have. Thankfully. Phew.
@@chloe.cordeiro there's like, 1000 asian parents that support what you become and 1000 out of like... 3 billion yea...... Ur lucky they chaged
“And who’s had bad parenting skills to do that”
@Prod. Cheesy Flows that's part of parenting
It's okay. We'll love them anyway! 🤗
The rapper one was hilarious lol
People turn out based on how they are raised and what they see their guardians doing. If you never did anything that influenced then this way, then it means you weren't involved in their lives enough.
Exactly
Are parents really involved in our lives these days?
That is a bs excuse. Take responsibility for your own actions most people don't want to grow up to be like their parents. But they do because they're lazy and they're go to option is to blame the parent. If your parents jump off a bridge are you going to as well. No!! Unless you're that stupid. But I can make an uneducated guess too I bet you're lazy I bet you don't have a job I bet you don't pay any bills or help your parents out more than likely they're telling you constantly to watch the f****** dishes or to mow the yard or to get a job. I bet you don't do anything on your own unless you're told. But I could be wrong but I doubt it I've heard this excuse many times from that excite type of person
I mean my parents were abusive drug addicts and now I’m going into the military. So I mean.
@@user-dp2fh8jf1h ?
My parents behave like this, and it's just messing me up. I keep studying until 3 am because I'm afraid of failing. My parents would scream at me and it makes me feel like a disappointment. I'm trying my best to make my parents happy. I play piano, do alot of sport, have good grades, do art / design but there's always something that they don't like. Also, Im trying to get better at my hobbies like drawing, but when ever I ask for better equipment they just say no, and 5 minutes later they are asking me why I'm not drawing anymore. Also my parents aren't being abusive to me and I love them with all my heart, but they should stop telling me to start doing business with 13 lmao it's just stressing
I think it’s called parental pressure
@Prod. Cheesy Flows no offense, but it’s not your fucking place to tell someone that their struggles are invalid
@Purple _ Cat stfu man I know u are not abused don't fukin do this shit for sympathy
@Prod. Cheesy Flows I really hope that you educate yourself about abuse. What you've said was soo absurd that it made me think that perhaps you are trolling. So if you are, can you stop trying to invalidate people's traumas because it is not a joke! I'd be concerned if you plan having kids one day with that mentality tbh :")
Sounds like abuse to me
Sammy so silly😂😂❤
I wanna hug that dad 🥺
The cutest family ever....🥰🥰😁😘😘 love from india 🇮🇳
Absolutely
You guys rock!!
Hello
My love too from India
They are very funny 😍
Me and my brother have both had parents who were nothing but loving, caring, and responsible. My brother just got accepted to Berkeley and I'm working on my Private Pilots License whole also aiming to get into the Naval Academy. It's not your son's It's you
I mean.... yes,in most cases
I hope you know it's a joke
Oh man I want to be a pilot too some day. I'm just 15 years old now but it's my dream to fly for a living.
Good luck and safe flying for your licence 👍
@@jonathanwilliams1644 yo what's your plan? Fixed wing, rotary? Commercial or military? Do tell
@@ascherlafayette8572
Well commercial is my dream, military is the cool option of course but I want to be a commercial pilot.
Does fixed wing and rotary mean plane and helicopter? Because if so, then most definitely a plane. I never found helicopters to be interesting.
But that's just my opinion.
🤣🤣lolzz this is so accurate n relatable
We know you love ❤️ them no matter what, they don't need no degree as long as they good people
My older brothers friend’s parents forced him to study to become a doctor and now since he’s graduated, his parents don’t really care if he’s a doctor or not anymore. So he’s kinda just gonna have to be a doctor now I guess 😐
Wtf that sucks he should get back at them by acting poor and pretending he’s a janitor
@@Mythical4227 How does that suck my man's set for life
@@shwomt he was forced to do something he probably didn't even like or want
@@shwomt Life is more than just money, bud. You only live life once. Do what you enjoy since we have the freedom to choose in this life. Let people who want to be doctors be doctors. Those who want to be doctors are better doctors than those who are forced to be.
@@christopherronaldhouse6313 How do you know you have life once? It's not like you died and came back lol
There’s nothing more painful then when your parents say,
“Why didn’t you turn out like that?” or,
“Why can’t you be more like y/n?”
(Your friend)
Y/n Stans for (your name) so it would be y/f (your friend) 👌
The worst thing is when people say: I'm not mad just disappointed
@@Person_number_10 in this situation justifiably, you dont have to go to college, but at least do somthing to benefit society
Yes true but its ‘than’ not ‘then’
@@johnedwards4235 what does that have to do with my comment?
I’m starting to think he had the kids to get him money after they got jobs
That's what kids are for 🤣🤣🤣
BAHAJAHAHA
You can look at their living environment and see this is a great man that adores and respects his wife and family immensely...and has a sense or humor.period💯😘😍😂
You guys are the funniest! 🤣🤣🤣
My parents: we cant wait for you to become that train engineer you wanted to be as a kid
Me: *waiting to work for Valve and work as a graphic designer*
Parents be like : you sloth lying on desk and gamin
Well... are you working for it? Because that shit takes a lot of work to get to. Trust me, I'd know...
I'm well aware of how much it takes to work at Valve.you gotta know how to draw a design on paper, 3d model, and make graphics all at the console of a computer.
@@ethanwendigo9588 Uh, graphic design is ... generally the concepts and the textures for 3D Models. The models themselves are usually made by the 3D Artists, because the two areas are so vastly different.
@@Shikaschima I'm not 10 I know what graphic designers do.
Even though they didn't turn out how you wanted make sure you celebrate their achievements. It's a small thing to do that make people happier than you would know.
❤ That's Exactly right...Love them for Who they are, they could be gone in the blink of an eye 🙁
Does anyone notice when he trying to rap his face looks so funny🤣
Hahaha the way that doctor gave you a hand shake is just more like a drug dealer 🤣
Dad :proud 5 seconds later get out
Tysm for liking
Your welcome
I'm having a stroke tryna read this...Wat
Tbh most of us aren't how our parents want us to be. We're just bein ourselves ✨
Cha la, head cha la
@@donaldmoore8606 cha la la head cha la
I would’ve hoped that the doctor wore shoes
This gives the same vibes as when you plan a conversation beforehand and the other person doesn't follow the script
How the kids thought their dad was gonna be: kind and respecting of them in any situation trying to help them
How he actually turned out: unrealistically high standards and extreme levels of rage when they don’t turn out 😬
😂
@Danish cookies yessir
"Unrealistic" lol no, plenty of us are capable. We're just lazy fucks and too conscious of that to admit it. Cmon, you know I'm right. :d
@@0xsergy, you ain’t wrong
Welcome to the soft generation who can't take a joke.
A bunch of parents dont realize being a gamer is an actual job now
Haha true thats what my brother says
Ikr
True i wanna be a gamer tho my parents dont support me 😔 and just want me to be what they want
@@user-lg6ot1ux5t just do what you love no matter what they say hope you have a good day!!
@Nhật Đoàn atleast gamers make more money than you ever will
Don’t give up hope they are still young I sure they will make you proud one day pops
My parents: you have a bright future!
Me now: a gamer with rage;-;
I remember telling my parents that I really like drawing and that I wanna be an animator and draw arts. (Freelance). They were a little bit disappointed at first, but then when they saw that I actually like it and saw my arts. My mom paid for my animation and graphic design course so I could become who I want 🤧
yiu think without your courses your drawings will look bad? well after some guiding on shadows and shit i still draw stickmen
yo we have the same name💀💀
@@kei7101 💀
@@miguelbaltazar7606 with courses i at least will have certificates and basic knowledge in art.
I see so ur gonna be out next anime animators I expect season 2 dropping next week or I won’t feed you
Well they expected you to be a good dad as well look how that turned out
LMAO-
💀-
Idk. He seems like a pretty fantastic dad and his kids seem well provided
you sound like a bitch
such a high respect for the parents 💜💛those kids who are struggling since young envy this one , i have all the freedom i want but its not easy , it is very very hard , id rather had a parents like this who is very strict and high expectation on me , its easy to get stress while studying than stress of studying while working for yourself . When you have a parents like this you dont need to worry about your bills and food and home and you can sleep in good bed , me? im with the family wherein i can do what i want but get stress with my own bills my own studies while working .
I like it.
Graduate Student without Pants!
Lawyer without Shoes!
And Doctor bare Footed!!! 😂
Dads : work harder so their kids can have a better life
Kids: having a better life
Dads: you werent supposed to do that
Lol omfg this got me good
Enh… I don’t think you used that correctly. See, “better life” was more like before crossing the border. Now, work harder so your children can have a better future is a bit different
@@brianguardado7642 its just a joke hommie no need to get into it its jus a joke 🤣
@@gtx_havoc well shit mine was just a joke too 😐
By a 'better life' do you mean leeching off their parents and not contributing to society, and letting their parents do all the work while sitting at home, doing nothing?
Hey dad if they did what you wanted them to be you would have been rich 😂😂
Right
Dad already rich lmao look out their house
Dude they r already rich
He would've been broke because who's helping him pay for Harvard, Law school and Med school? 🤷🏾♂️ and also when does a son's riches equate to a father's riches?
@@camaribowers5582 he is already rich he can afford it
Dad's thoughts : my 1st kid is going to be a lawyer the 2nd will be a doctor the 3rd will be a CEO
EXPECTATIONS : the 1st is a gamer
The 2nd is the one
Who eats all the
Food in the
House and
Doesn't go
Grocery shopping
The 3rd is the one
Who sleeps a lot
We all over dream for our kids. Mine WAS going to be a vet until he decided a doctor was too much work.
“you don’t have to be master shifu, just be your own tigress”
- master oogway
Alternative Title: I Invested Nothing Into My Children As Kids And Am Now Disappointed That They Didn't Become The Adults I Wanted Them To Become And Achieve The Goals I Never Helped Them Achieve
Some parents do invest, but I get your point.
Lmao the dad over here is a literal Tiktoker what did he expect
@CrimzMintYT who said he expects this of them
That as nothing with investment i know people who had strugle to eat and now are in a big university
Unless you lived with him and knew, you should shut the fuck up
Trust me brother they are making this video with you ....they turned out great 👍👍👍
This is so me day by day am becoming Home Minister 😢
Parents want you to be a doctor or tell you the scary life of not getting a degree when they have a life with or without a degree like I’m so confused
So you won’t turn out like them !!!
A doctor isn’t the Only career out there
Kids should be encouraged to pick a reasonable career they're at least somewhat passionate about. Whilst it is a lie that if you work for something you love you never work a day in your life, it does make your life and mental health better than if you don't.
You can’t force someone to be what YOU want. It’s their decision in life
Imagine wanting to be a slob
Man stfu kids are lazy these days and turn out like this because they are spoilt. I mean why work when you dont have to right? 😴
@@freddiet8639 what does need work is your spelling skills
@@freddiet8639 hypocrisy
Yeah but then they live in your house forever no thanks lmao
The last one when he got angry on a game pops was just looking at him 😂😂
But this was so sad
That's because you're an awesome dad and they don't want to go away to parts unknown they want to stay home and be with you when you get home from work
I just dont wanna leave my mom alone when my siblings are gone 💔😔
Then Don't. You are a good son / daughter. Do not let anyone tell you different.
Quito-Ecuador
2021
Sounds like a excuse to do nothing
@@angelplayzvr1905 so you are the kind of person, who doesn't care about parents due to an excuse of ambition and life?
@@lexordous9989 tbh that's what most parents would do, ppl here try to get jobs away from them actually. But that's asian parents so..
Awww
You shouldn't have such high expectations for them. That would be like winning the lottery. You should support them in anyway you can in stuff they are happy with
That’s wat I’m sayin
exactly, some parents expect their kids to be the most successful people in the world when the parents themselves aren't even successful 🙄
U realise the vid is a joke right?
Yea but I live with two fking dumb millenials that keep asking me to stop doing what I love.
This comment.
Sammy is living like thug life .the best rapper in town . Family is great