De-Influencing the Bachelor, Social Media & Marriage: Matt James and Rachael Kirkconnell

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  • Опубликовано: 4 фев 2025

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  • @Kasey-Lopez
    @Kasey-Lopez 6 дней назад +38

    Who is here 2025 after the break up

  • @claudiaaznarmonsalve
    @claudiaaznarmonsalve 3 месяца назад +52

    Matt rubbing Rach's back the whole time its what is so sweet😭

    • @Shayne_T
      @Shayne_T 3 дня назад

      All a show.. no boundaries. Just like MM.

    • @Shayne_T
      @Shayne_T 3 дня назад

      You think that's normal? It is too much. Wow. Just like Meghan Markle clinging and touching Harry constantly.

  • @meghanraub2504
    @meghanraub2504 3 месяца назад +33

    You can sooo tell his love language is physical touch lollll it’s so sweet

    • @Shayne_T
      @Shayne_T 3 дня назад

      It's hilarious to see so many of you thinking it's sweet.. it is way too much.. no boundaries.

  • @AshleyJohnsonblogs
    @AshleyJohnsonblogs 3 месяца назад +16

    I’ve always had such a good feeling about Rachael and Matt and I’m ecstatic that they do seem like truly great people. Children of God and open-minded. You can’t ask for much more nowadays. Great work, Dani and Jordan ❤️

    • @Shayne_T
      @Shayne_T 3 дня назад

      Did not age well.

  • @kiahhinojosa3278
    @kiahhinojosa3278 3 месяца назад +50

    Such a good interview to get to know them outside the bachelor but I can’t get over how touchy Matt is with Rachael 🥹🥹🥹🥹 it’s sooo precious

  • @tiffanypalmer8990
    @tiffanypalmer8990 3 месяца назад +22

    I want someone to look at me the way Rachael looks at Matt 🥹🥰🥰😅 love them!! Such a good interview!

  • @BBean1
    @BBean1 17 дней назад +12

    Rachael said (1:35:30) she is on Matt’s time; thus, 1 of 2 things happened: Option1: Rachael’s philosophy changed & she gave Matt a proposal ultimatum & Matt said NO. Option2: Matt realized on his own that he cannot give Rachael what she wants, so Matt ended the relationship.

  • @otformebox4867
    @otformebox4867 17 дней назад +14

    Watching this again to break my own heart

  • @KEJDMmm
    @KEJDMmm 3 месяца назад +5

    Matt and Rachel are one of THE sweetest
    couples that came out of this show! Love,
    Love, love them!!!!!!!!
    Wishing the nothing but the best of what
    they want for their lives!
    Mary🌺

  • @taylorwalker24
    @taylorwalker24 3 месяца назад +10

    Hi Dani and Jordan! I’m a silent follower and I LOVE listening to De-Influenced♥️ I say this from a true place of love and as a fellow follower of Christ…..I thoroughly enjoyed hearing Rachel and Matt’s point of view on their experience with going through what they went through with bachelor nation. I did not feel like you all relating it back to the backlash you have experienced or the culture of social media 2020 was the most helpful. It is not really the same and i felt like it would have been better to just listen and not keep trying to relate it to your experience. There is a lot of nuance in Matt’s experience as a black man and Rachel navigating her experience than what influencers and businesses felt pressured to do during that time(I do not at all mean to invalidate your experience). While I agree that a some of the racial conversation was divisive, A LOT of it was necessary. My heart is always to be a peacemaker and have compassion so I hope this does not come across the wrong way but I just wanted to leave this feedback as a black listener and fan of you both. Much love!

  • @stayceaagerman7694
    @stayceaagerman7694 3 месяца назад +6

    Matt and Rachel are my favorite Bachelor Nation couple. I really enjoyed this video. Thank all of you for allowing us to see more into your lives of love.

  • @Jdv97_
    @Jdv97_ 3 месяца назад +2

    My fav people, great getting to hear you all!
    I get Matt, his story about his dad, didn’t miss it because you never had it. The joy and laughter from this, I didn’t know I needed it!

  • @TeresaBozovich-ey8ep
    @TeresaBozovich-ey8ep 3 месяца назад +9

    Listening to Matt talk about his momma and what her faith did for him 😭 I pray one day my kids will say the same! As the momma of two teenagers, I really recommend the book Not Tandem (by Brennan Koch). It’s about teens realizing that they can’t piggyback on their parent’s faith, but at some point they need to make it their own

  • @Macy-h3z
    @Macy-h3z 3 месяца назад +3

    Such an amazing interview!!! Really appreciate Rachel and Matt being open and vulnerable to the questions. They seem like such a down-to-earth, fun couple and I hope they hit me up when their banana stand opens up because I will be their first customer!! :P love you guys and the pod! You’re killin it!

  • @KatelynRoseKatelynRose
    @KatelynRoseKatelynRose 3 месяца назад +4

    This was so fun to listen to! I didn’t know much about this couple but now I want to follow them. Love his story about his mom’s faith. So inspiring!💕

  • @malloryismore
    @malloryismore 3 месяца назад +3

    Love how they've always stayed true to themselves especially Matt sharing part of his faith journey.

  • @SueD.-rx7jl
    @SueD.-rx7jl 3 месяца назад +4

    Love following Matt and Rachael’s travels and culinary adventures!

    • @SueD.-rx7jl
      @SueD.-rx7jl 3 месяца назад

      Also, thank you for asking them the deep questions.

  • @keniaheartss9931
    @keniaheartss9931 3 месяца назад +2

    I love this couple from the start of their journey ❤

  • @catlover333xoxo
    @catlover333xoxo 14 дней назад +3

    i know i should be talking about their break up now but i did notttt like the way dani and her boyfriend were talking about those “years” and how they were pushed to be not racist? yall are proving the point. i love that rachel threw in that the learning is meant to be permanent, not just performative for those “years” that you have to pretend yall aren’t racist lmao

  • @jessicarice9656
    @jessicarice9656 3 месяца назад +2

    I had no idea they were even on the bachelor!! I just found Matt bc of Dani!!! Love how real they are.

  • @NAOMI040-p2k
    @NAOMI040-p2k 3 месяца назад +2

    What an amazing interview LOVED IT SO MUCH LET HAVE THAT WEDDING RACHEL & MATT🌹🌹🫶🫶

  • @fearlesstay13
    @fearlesstay13 3 месяца назад +4

    I’m obsessed with them 😭

  • @andreabudd7870
    @andreabudd7870 3 месяца назад +1

    I stumbled across your podcast on you tube as a senior who has watched The Bachelor Franchises always was a fan for Rachel & Matt. Great interview with them so now I new subscriber!

  • @Jdv97_
    @Jdv97_ 3 месяца назад +1

    Matt I too had a momma who instilled that faith through her single parent through the trials and tribulations! I love hearing about your momma’s ❤️

  • @brittanygoyak8522
    @brittanygoyak8522 3 месяца назад +2

    Best interview! Have them back!

  • @kristinelwood3575
    @kristinelwood3575 Месяц назад

    I love how he is so affectionate towards her

    • @Shayne_T
      @Shayne_T 3 дня назад

      Just like Meghan Markle? 🤣

  • @annaharris4703
    @annaharris4703 3 месяца назад +2

    Great episode. I dont watch the bachelor but I love this couple!!!

  • @mabelhouzen
    @mabelhouzen 3 месяца назад +3

    The way he looks at her 🥹

  • @paulross4910
    @paulross4910 2 месяца назад

    Thanks for having this amazing couple. My favorite not-married Bach couple. JoJo and Jordan may favorite married Bach couple

  • @MaryOnyango-yn4hb
    @MaryOnyango-yn4hb 3 месяца назад +1

    Get Interview. Love Matt and Rachael.👏👏❤❤

  • @caitlin_jademay8684
    @caitlin_jademay8684 3 месяца назад +1

    Love them both sm 🤍🤍🤍

  • @awesomenature1094
    @awesomenature1094 29 дней назад

    Rachael and Matt are so sweet...my favorite couple

  • @BBean1
    @BBean1 17 дней назад +12

    This did not age well, lol.

  • @annetteibanez3558
    @annetteibanez3558 3 месяца назад +2

    Love dani and Jordan as much as I love Rachael and matt

  • @MelissaChee
    @MelissaChee 3 месяца назад +1

    This is such a great episode

  • @LC.Cheerio
    @LC.Cheerio 3 месяца назад +1

    Omg, Rachel was describing my husband when she was talking about Matt's memory!! 😩

  • @irmarfrank1005
    @irmarfrank1005 3 месяца назад

    I love Matt and Rachel and i do even more now. Great, cool interview.

  • @CAH2727
    @CAH2727 3 месяца назад +1

    I love the stories of His mama’s faith

  • @jordanfindley_
    @jordanfindley_ 3 месяца назад

    I think this is my fav episode

  • @OctoberGirl16
    @OctoberGirl16 3 месяца назад +1

    What a great interview.

  • @pat3521
    @pat3521 3 месяца назад

    Awesome interview!! ❤❤❤❤

  • @dalvin-re4iq
    @dalvin-re4iq 3 месяца назад

    Team Matt James and Racheal....Africa watching... just subscribed

  • @jackyfranco3039
    @jackyfranco3039 3 месяца назад

    Great episode ❤

  • @fazio218
    @fazio218 2 месяца назад +1

    When are they getting married ? I can’t watch the whole episode just for that answer

  • @Jdv97_
    @Jdv97_ 3 месяца назад +2

    Yesss Rachel, i remember that well! He opened up with a prayer!!! I was so thankful🥹 🙌 He showed Jesus

  • @jesseferguson3205
    @jesseferguson3205 3 месяца назад

    The sad part about Rachel, as much as I love her, is that she still believes her fun, happy childhood is "typical upbringing"

    • @CAH2727
      @CAH2727 3 месяца назад +1

      It’s what we want to believe is typical. It’s the normal everyone wants but not everyone gets

  • @melissas201
    @melissas201 3 месяца назад +1

    It was when Nick Viall exposed Andy that they slept together on after the final rose. That’s when they began speaking about Sex with fantasy sweets.

  • @chrisnoziere2893
    @chrisnoziere2893 Месяц назад +1

    I’m not Rachael fan. I like Matt but I can’t get back together with someone racist! Like if you make fun of classmates got liking black guys. Huge red flag!

    • @Ruth-gd8yg
      @Ruth-gd8yg 6 дней назад

      But who knows if that part is true though .... The plantation thingy that she did in college is another story it showed how racially ignorant she was... If her being racist or having a racist past was a big deal for him he didn't have to get back together with her and do what he did to her

  • @bluepainting
    @bluepainting 4 дня назад +1

    The way he constantly touches her and holds her arm is so weird! It's as if he has something to prove...

    • @Shayne_T
      @Shayne_T 3 дня назад

      Yes!! I thought I was the only one.. it's too much and so unhealthy. Seeing comments saying... "so cute, touching her."

  • @hannahbarnes7607
    @hannahbarnes7607 3 месяца назад

    Maybe an unpopular opinion but I’m really not a fan of the interview episodes. I feel like anyone can interview influencers but what makes your podcast so good is the banter/conversations between you and Jordan. I always get so disappointment when I see it’s not a solo/(duo?) episode 😅

    • @kristinakay297
      @kristinakay297 3 месяца назад +1

      Well there’s only so much content from a person’s week that is interesting. I like the “solo” podcast more too but I understand the business aspect of. Balance.