What No One Tells You About Dating in Your 30s

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  • Опубликовано: 27 ноя 2024

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  • @itsdannyvera
    @itsdannyvera  5 дней назад +4

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  • @ClockinLoot
    @ClockinLoot 5 дней назад +55

    Honestly I’ve been finding it easier in my 30’s. Finally financially solid and have experience with women.

    • @RightSideNews
      @RightSideNews 5 дней назад +1

      Likewise

    • @s0nofg0d2
      @s0nofg0d2 4 дня назад

      What else do you think is an advantage in your 30s when it comes to women?

    • @HCforLife1
      @HCforLife1 4 дня назад +2

      The quality of women is not that good as it was in your 20s. When you get to late 30s you are going to be fucked. Money won't buy you happiness or quality woman. You missed that moment - to get a woman who grow with yourself and can be tested through difficult times. If you are in early 30s than you still can find that quality

    • @sunnydays405
      @sunnydays405 3 дня назад +1

      @@HCforLife1 This is exactly what these old copers won't tell you. Yes it's easier, because your pool is objectively WORSE. Older, less beautiful women looking to settle will of course start to give an okay stable man looks here and there, it's not a flex 😂

    • @Frenchieeeee
      @Frenchieeeee 2 дня назад

      @@HCforLife1 lol you sound like a woman trying to cope with the fact that women, not men, have a biological clock. As a guy in my mid-late thirties, i've never had it easier in my life than now to find quality girls in their 20s.

  • @ModernDatingMastery
    @ModernDatingMastery 5 дней назад +13

    *It’s not just about finding the right person anymore; it’s about balancing careers, responsibilities, and personal growth. The stakes feel higher, but so does the potential for meaningful connections.*

  • @xalexpalex
    @xalexpalex 5 дней назад +11

    My new favorite channel, keep it up Danny Im bingeing your videos.

  • @BS_Profile
    @BS_Profile 2 дня назад +1

    In my 20's i was in college and surrounded by women but i was practically invisible.
    "Fewer opportunities" in my 30s is the biggest understatement I've heard all year lol. And that's on top of being invisible.

  • @joshuabonehill2239
    @joshuabonehill2239 5 дней назад +7

    30s are the BEST time for getting birds. i get 10 times more action now. just have a confidence i never had

    • @s0nofg0d2
      @s0nofg0d2 4 дня назад

      Your opinion on the reasons for your success in the "sexual marketplace"?

    • @sunnydays405
      @sunnydays405 3 дня назад +2

      Be honest, what's the average age of the women you're dating (early 20's, late 20's, early 30's, etc.)

  • @TheBrainiac777
    @TheBrainiac777 5 дней назад +4

    Thank you for all of the advice and wisdom Danny. I'd love a video on your personal journey and your story. How you came to learn the lessons you have and what hells you've been through.

    • @s0nofg0d2
      @s0nofg0d2 5 дней назад

      Yeah,
      personal experience would be nice to hear!

  • @Jus-jj5in
    @Jus-jj5in 5 дней назад +2

    Great material. Thanks for taking the time to put this out.

  • @carlgonzalez3337
    @carlgonzalez3337 День назад +2

    In my 20s I had all the women I wanted, and I was broke, I didn't have a fit body, and the only thing I had going on for me was my "prettyboy looks" (a cute face). I wasn't even tall, nor had the best flirting skills, and still managed to date lots of pretty girls.. Now I'm 33, I have a fit and hot body, I'm making a lot of money, and my face hasn't really aged, have no gray hairs, etc. And guess what? I'm lonlier than a street dog 😂😂 women don't even look at me anymore, and I don't even know why, considering I look and live way better now, than in my 20s.. All my logic tells me I should be getting even more girls than those I had in my youth, but somehow, still no girls.. not a single one. I suppose toxic feminism and super high female standards are to blame.. that's why I've always thought that "men get way more girls in their 30s" is just a total BS.. maybe it only works for some

  • @AIRJAC33
    @AIRJAC33 3 часа назад

    In my 20s I was working part time in retail, living with parents, playing Call of Duty every night, and driving a mf PT Cruiser and had a girlfriend and side chick at one point. I’m 39 now with a degree, compete competitively and travel internationally for my endurance sport, work a finance job at a Fortune 500, and have my own place and the last time I had a woman was in my 20s. If I self improved anymore I’d probably become a deity. It basically comes down to luck and if you’re willing to accept garbage tier options just to avoid being lonely. I just can’t do that. I worked too hard to accept someone like that. Women either tell me I’m too focused on my life goals (just focus on yourself bro!) or I’m too boring because I don’t drink or do drugs or go out partying. Men are not dumb when it comes to quality women. They are the first ones taken. By your 30s any woman left over is left over for a reason. The days of finding a woman in her 30s who divorced the only man she ever was with are LONG gone.

  • @NichoLad4
    @NichoLad4 5 дней назад +2

    I could care less for dating apps. I’m on a couple and only use it when I get likes. Makes it easier to know when they like me and can set things up from the get go. Then just focus my time working on myself

  • @adrianramirez9981
    @adrianramirez9981 2 дня назад

    With age comes valuable experience and wisdom.

    • @carlgonzalez3337
      @carlgonzalez3337 День назад +1

      young girls don't give a dmn about experience and wisdom.. they have a dad and a granpa for it.. if girls only cared about wisdom they'd all be dating 60 year olds all the time

  • @jemperdiller
    @jemperdiller 5 дней назад +21

    Cant agree with you. In 20s my flake rate was 100%. But now, in my 30s, my flake rate is 100%.

    • @s0nofg0d2
      @s0nofg0d2 5 дней назад

      Lol!
      Really felt that.
      From thirst to bunch of opportunities.
      But the quality is not what I wanted...

    • @ThatMexicanGuyLouis
      @ThatMexicanGuyLouis 5 дней назад +2

      What?

    • @s0nofg0d2
      @s0nofg0d2 4 дня назад

      @@ThatMexicanGuyLouis What?

  • @Ryan-yg7zc
    @Ryan-yg7zc 4 дня назад +1

    Im 52 and have always looked after my skin and my body by working out, surfing and bjj and honestly I have women from my daughters friends ages (20s) to women my age falling over themselves to be together. My preference is early 30s as they are physically amazing and lots of fun but mature. Pro tip - make yourself the priority, the rest just flows. Never put a woman on a pedestal or above yourself.

    • @carlgonzalez3337
      @carlgonzalez3337 День назад +1

      are you tall and handsome? cause that also plays a part.. I know guys that have a great hot body but they are short and with an ugly face, and girls don't even look at them.. a great physique is only about 30% of the attractiveness.. height, a handsome face, and charisma makes the rest of it

    • @Ryan-yg7zc
      @Ryan-yg7zc День назад

      Yeah I’m 190cms and what women describe as handsome, did some model work in my 20s. Had to work through a lot of childhood bs to get past the choosing the wrong person, best of luck my brother. No matter the circumstances choose yourself first. Peace ✌🏻

    • @carlgonzalez3337
      @carlgonzalez3337 21 час назад

      @@Ryan-yg7zc well there you have your answer.. at least physically, you got the whole package.. it's obvious women are gonna be falling for you.. sadly most guys out there don't have that luck

    • @Ryan-yg7zc
      @Ryan-yg7zc 20 часов назад

      I still managed to wreck a very important relationship due to some very needy behaviour my bro, the lesson I learned was never put anyone else on a pedestal because they will naturally look down on you even if you look like a CK model

  • @justinbraegelmann4310
    @justinbraegelmann4310 3 дня назад

    Im 36 and feel like I’m in my prime, the problem is I’ve established such a high baseline happiness being single it’s tough to find benefits of a relationship. I refer to it like baseball, I’m in center field with my glove out, but if I have to step more then 5ft in any direction na I’m good, I’m just enjoying being in the game. Granted this is coming from a perspective from someone who has already been married before and has had both good and bad long term relationships and has already been to the finish line.

  • @peterhel1077
    @peterhel1077 5 дней назад +2

    My dating possibilities went down the sewer from 32 to 37 when i am now. I feel borderline depressed that life turned out this way. I am short, bald, almost out of shape and without any savings. Logically looking i am in no position to date or attract anyone.

    • @s0nofg0d2
      @s0nofg0d2 4 дня назад +1

      Then get yourself up from the floor and start investing in yourself.
      Not for women in the first place, but for yourself. 💪
      Body, Spirit, emotional health, style, skills, etc.

    • @-whackd
      @-whackd 3 дня назад

      Finasteride is super easy, working out is basic to follow

    • @peterhel1077
      @peterhel1077 3 дня назад

      @-whackd it had side effects on me, so I couldn't continue and it was too late to start.

    • @sunnydays405
      @sunnydays405 3 дня назад +2

      ​@@s0nofg0d2 "Just keep improoooooving bro!" When will you guys learn 😂. I'd advise the original commenter to relax and not stress about it anymore because it's over for him. Try to find happiness outside of women

    • @s0nofg0d2
      @s0nofg0d2 3 дня назад

      @@sunnydays405 for me it works. 🤷🏻‍♂️
      If you are the kind of person which gives up and lose, go for it.

  • @matthewcormier8744
    @matthewcormier8744 5 дней назад +1

    Ty for videos

  • @MagnyCoors
    @MagnyCoors 2 дня назад

    This all has to come naturally. Far too hard to actively achieve all this. Best to just look after yourself skin and fitness/diet.

  • @BlackLion76
    @BlackLion76 5 дней назад +12

    A man in his 30s who has his shit together is just getting started.
    The problem is that the quality of women in the West is very low and said man won't take any of them seriously.

    • @jrazenz
      @jrazenz 5 дней назад +1

      Women are the same everywhere. The ones overseas will just put on a sweet act to get the citizenship and your money..dont fall for it

    • @s0nofg0d2
      @s0nofg0d2 5 дней назад +2

      "You have to dig through a lot of dirt to find gold."

    • @AIRJAC33
      @AIRJAC33 2 часа назад

      Exactly. Not sure why all these videos assume every woman is a viable option. 67% of women are fat in America. No thanks.

  • @maxmeza4859
    @maxmeza4859 8 часов назад

    This ONLY applies if u have money. Mid 30’s here, since I never found a way to make money, I’ll always be invisible since I work low pay jobs.the young and pretty girls won’t pay any attention to me unless I’m wealthy

  • @DefconO1
    @DefconO1 5 дней назад +2

    Bro I appreciate what your are saying but online dating in my 30s was brutal. Also I was really agg and mentally changing. In my 40s now I'm finding interest coming from younger women (irl) that I would have never considered in my 30s... I haven't fallen for the drop yet.

    • @s0nofg0d2
      @s0nofg0d2 4 дня назад +1

      What do you think is the reason for this?
      What changed on your side?
      (For ex: "got muscles", "got more Status" etc.)

    • @-whackd
      @-whackd 3 дня назад

      So you get more matches with women 20-25 now than in your 30s? Because most women in their 20s set their search parameters to guys 35 and under. They just don't see guys in their 40s.

    • @sunnydays405
      @sunnydays405 3 дня назад

      @@-whackd Exactly. Even 35 as a ceiling for women in their 20's is pushing it. Not sure I believe the original commenter

    • @s0nofg0d2
      @s0nofg0d2 3 дня назад

      @@DefconO1 I am also more interested on the effects of age difference in real life.
      Cause dating apps are poison for most guys because of a lot of reasons.
      Better to go out into the real world and take a shot.

    • @carlgonzalez3337
      @carlgonzalez3337 День назад +1

      sorry to break it to you, but that "interest coming from younger women" is just monetary interest my friend... if they didn't want you in your 30s, why would they in your 40s? you got richier? that's your answer right there

  • @jluiz1983
    @jluiz1983 3 дня назад

    How about a video on guys going back to the game after a longterm relationship?

  • @ThatMexicanGuyLouis
    @ThatMexicanGuyLouis 5 дней назад +4

    Dating in your 30s isn’t harder women want an older man….. who’s all rounded when I was 24 that’s when women started looking at me I’m 28 now and it’s just going up from there

    • @s0nofg0d2
      @s0nofg0d2 4 дня назад +1

      You think it's only because of your age?

    • @ThatMexicanGuyLouis
      @ThatMexicanGuyLouis 4 дня назад

      @@s0nofg0d2 well if you weren’t to stupid enough to read what I wrote down I would not have to explain myself but you can’t do that. So when you get older buddy you learn how to do things better which leads to being more well rounded person.

    • @carlgonzalez3337
      @carlgonzalez3337 День назад +1

      I had a lot of women at 28 as well.. but it starts going down from 30 and on.. so enjoy the time you have left

  • @robertt251
    @robertt251 4 дня назад +1

    Dating in my 20s sucked. Now that I'm 31 I have to cancel dates because I'm too busy and already have to many woman chasing me. I could probably have 4 GFs if I wanted to but that sounds exhausting.

    • @s0nofg0d2
      @s0nofg0d2 4 дня назад

      @@robertt251 difference between the male and the female sexual market value peak...

    • @carlgonzalez3337
      @carlgonzalez3337 День назад +1

      well that's the opposite of my life.. In my 20s I had all the women I wanted, and I was broke, I didn't have a fit body, and the only thing I had going on for me was my "prettyboy looks" (a cute face). I wasn't even tall, nor had the best flirting skills, and still managed to date lots of pretty girls.. Now I'm 33, I have a fit and hot body, I'm making a lot of money, and my face hasn't really aged, have no gray hairs, etc. And guess what? I'm lonlier than a street dog 😂😂 women don't even look at me anymore, and I don't even know why, considering I look and live way better now, than in my 20s.. I suppose toxic feminism and super high female standards are to blame.. I've always thought that "men get way more girls in their 30s" is just a total BS.. maybe it only works for some men, like you.. for some reason..

    • @robertt251
      @robertt251 День назад

      @carlgonzalez3337 there has to be something in your game or your approach with woman that's tripping you up. Somekind of mindset that's tripping you up. If you're good looking and have money then those are the only reasons you wouldn't be swimming in pussy.
      Or perhaps your just busy working and your access to woman isn't the same as when you were young and partying.
      Are you using dating apps? That's the main dating game now days.

  • @drwayne_carter9115
    @drwayne_carter9115 5 дней назад

    30s is literally the sweet spot for men to get women. You're still young and energetic enough to still get young women, but also mature and established enough to now get older women.

    • @s0nofg0d2
      @s0nofg0d2 4 дня назад +2

      But do you don't think, women around 20 tend more towards men around 24/25?

    • @-whackd
      @-whackd 3 дня назад +3

      Why would you need to get older women? I don't see why that matters at all

    • @s0nofg0d2
      @s0nofg0d2 3 дня назад +1

      @@-whackd I personal go only for women younger than me.
      What my question for the main comment was is: sometimes it seems that the women around 20 don't aim for the guys above 30.

    • @carlgonzalez3337
      @carlgonzalez3337 День назад +1

      @@s0nofg0d2 thats what I've always thought.. I keep hearing this "30+ is the beast age to date women" crap... it's totally false. At least if you expect to get girls in their early or mid 20s. When I was in my 20s I had tons of women. And I wasn't rich, nor the best looking guy, nor the most flirting-skilled one. Now I´m 33, I have a fit body, earn decent money, more mature, and 0 girls. They won't even look at me anymore. 20 year olds see me as a granpa (I don't even look that old. I have no wrinkles nor gray hairs).. some 30 year old women some times look or seem interested but I'm just not interested in them. Most of them are divorced single moms full of trauma and they're not even good looking anymore (if they ever were).. I dunno whats going on.. But I can tell you, dating in your 30s is way harder. Now you need to be a straight 10+ to get girls attention, as compared to your 20s when even if you were a 6 or a 7 you'd get a decent amount of female attention and options..

  • @fighterdurden
    @fighterdurden 5 дней назад +14

    This guy's mannerism and speeching makes me feel like im in the Principal's office.

    • @charthers8903
      @charthers8903 5 дней назад +6

      Boring robotic and an underlying sadness and depression

    • @connor43057
      @connor43057 5 дней назад

      @@charthers8903 I thought so at first too, but the more I listen to him the more I can appreciate his clear, concise delivery.

    • @sunnydays405
      @sunnydays405 3 дня назад

      ​@@charthers8903 It's clear he doesn't even believe what he's selling lmao

  • @danielgrayling5032
    @danielgrayling5032 5 дней назад +1

    Depends on what you did in your 20's. Dating in your 30's is a meritocracy. Perhaps even more so for women.

    • @s0nofg0d2
      @s0nofg0d2 5 дней назад +1

      How do you mean? 🙂

  • @carlgonzalez3337
    @carlgonzalez3337 День назад +1

    I keep hearing this "30+ is the beast age to date women" crap... it's totally false. At least if you expect to get girls in their early or mid 20s. When I was in my 20s I had tons of women. And I wasn't rich, nor the best looking guy, nor the most flirting-skilled one. Now I´m 33, I have a fit body, earn decent money, more mature, and 0 girls. They won't even look at me anymore. 20 year olds see me as a granpa (I don't even look that old. I have no wrinkles nor gray hairs).. some 30 year old women some times look or seem interested but I'm just not interested in them. Most of them are divorced single moms full of trauma and they're not even good looking anymore (if they ever were).. I dunno whats going on.. But I can tell you, dating in your 30s is way harder. Now you need to be a straight 10+ to get girls attention, as compared to your 20s when even if you were a 6 or a 7 you'd get a decent amount of female attention and options..

    • @AIRJAC33
      @AIRJAC33 2 часа назад

      It’s a quality issue. Women are just worse now. Dating coaches assume this abundance mentality as if every single female is a viable option. Most women are not attractive and the internet makes it seem like there are pretty women everywhere when they really are not. Unless you are in like Miami or LA miss me with the bs that there is just all these hot women around.

  • @nathanscharf5116
    @nathanscharf5116 3 дня назад

    Low key when I’m 30 how am I going to bring a 20 year old girl over to meet the family? That’s gonna look weird

  • @JamesWilson-X
    @JamesWilson-X 5 дней назад

    How often do you drink alcohol?

  • @AdamBond-mj7tg
    @AdamBond-mj7tg 5 дней назад +8

    The thing is women in their 30s and 40s are just as picky as the one in their 20s, but less attractive.

    • @s0nofg0d2
      @s0nofg0d2 5 дней назад +2

      But why go for women above 30?

    • @-whackd
      @-whackd 3 дня назад +3

      Don't worry about those women. I don't.

    • @AIRJAC33
      @AIRJAC33 2 часа назад

      Exactly

  • @DEEArmijo
    @DEEArmijo 5 дней назад

    awesome

  • @chilledchad
    @chilledchad 5 дней назад +3

    It got easier tbh

    • @carlgonzalez3337
      @carlgonzalez3337 День назад +1

      why? cause you have money now? then its not attraction, its gold digging

    • @chilledchad
      @chilledchad День назад

      @carlgonzalez3337 nah.. I stopped being nice to them.

  • @godsbruh
    @godsbruh 5 дней назад +8

    its easier. 18-20 girls just flocking to me. never had something like these in early 20s

    • @s0nofg0d2
      @s0nofg0d2 5 дней назад +2

      How did you got there?
      And which reasons do you think are there why it changed?

    • @godsbruh
      @godsbruh 5 дней назад

      @@s0nofg0d2 Im in my early 30s. literally did everything i can to improve my health. finance and speaking skill. main part. I stopped taking advice from youtube and made 1000 failures. if I needed advice i just observed my dad

  • @Montreals_Finest
    @Montreals_Finest 5 дней назад

    1:23 💯

  • @AdamBond-mj7tg
    @AdamBond-mj7tg 5 дней назад

    Well I am in my 30s and unemployed even though I have a good education...soooo..

    • @s0nofg0d2
      @s0nofg0d2 5 дней назад

      Start a Business...

  • @JohnSmith-ij4xe
    @JohnSmith-ij4xe 5 дней назад +2

    Honestly online dating yes but in person meeting women is going up 😊.

  • @Gabingus69
    @Gabingus69 4 дня назад

    dude i feel like it’s easier lol

  • @LiquidfirePUA
    @LiquidfirePUA 5 дней назад +3

    Actually got much easier? 😂

    • @drewbear17
      @drewbear17 5 дней назад

      Same

    • @s0nofg0d2
      @s0nofg0d2 5 дней назад +1

      Normal.
      What changed for you exactly?

    • @drewbear17
      @drewbear17 5 дней назад

      @@s0nofg0d2 for me personally. Since I’ve been 28-30 I’ve attracted the most women. Other than making more money and getting bigger in the gym nothing really has changed still same old me with less hair.

  • @SharaKuhn
    @SharaKuhn 5 дней назад

    if you're seeing this comment, it might be a sign to read 'Magnetic Aura' from Talesio ❤️

  • @GdeVseSvobodnyeNiki
    @GdeVseSvobodnyeNiki 5 дней назад

    Your metabolism is not slowing down, you've just accumulated some fat slowly over the span of your 30+ years.

    • @s0nofg0d2
      @s0nofg0d2 4 дня назад

      That does what?

    • @GdeVseSvobodnyeNiki
      @GdeVseSvobodnyeNiki 4 дня назад

      @@s0nofg0d2 That does increase your weight and decrease your appearance

    • @s0nofg0d2
      @s0nofg0d2 4 дня назад

      @@GdeVseSvobodnyeNiki but if I don't gain fat and muscles instead? 😉

  • @FlyingSoulworld
    @FlyingSoulworld 5 дней назад +1

    You can think that only if you're still in your 20. A young man can only counts on his looks so 80% of men are strung out of dating. It can only get better later on. Remember that the pick of attraction for a man is 38.

    • @ideasandtrucking
      @ideasandtrucking 5 дней назад +1

      I don’t think you’re right at all

    • @FlyingSoulworld
      @FlyingSoulworld 5 дней назад

      @@ideasandtrucking cuz you're in your 20s

    • @texanplayer7651
      @texanplayer7651 5 дней назад

      ​@@FlyingSoulworldyou must have had it rough in your 20s if you say things like that. It's in your 20s that you increase your body count like you are collecting pokemon. In the 30s you start looking for serious relationships.

    • @FlyingSoulworld
      @FlyingSoulworld 5 дней назад

      @@texanplayer7651 like 80% of men

    • @FlyingSoulworld
      @FlyingSoulworld 5 дней назад

      @@jemperdiller cope is not trying at all.

  • @KarolineCoulter
    @KarolineCoulter 5 дней назад

    its hard to put into words, but the book Magnetic Aura from Talesio completely changed my life and it's not new age bs

  • @ERICHumphreys-q7t
    @ERICHumphreys-q7t 5 дней назад

    lol

  • @carlrav5660
    @carlrav5660 5 дней назад +5

    I dunno. I'm 51 and I hooked up with a 26 year old cocktail waitress last night. I did have a wingman for an assist that worked her friend too. So we just made it a fun conversation, and I made sure to build some sexual tension and check for signs she was interested

    • @s0nofg0d2
      @s0nofg0d2 5 дней назад

      What do you think she was attracted to?

    • @carlrav5660
      @carlrav5660 5 дней назад +1

      @s0nofg0d2 Im not sure. I think Im a 7 in the looks department, but I think we just had them laughing and having a good time. It didnt hurt my friend had his house close by with a spare room so it was also convenient

    • @s0nofg0d2
      @s0nofg0d2 4 дня назад

      @carlrav5660 social proof, stability, humor, good logistics...did the ladies looked like they had the need to get the next best attractive guy for sex?

    • @s0nofg0d2
      @s0nofg0d2 4 дня назад

      @@carlrav5660 do you think these two women only needed "the next best attractive guy out there" or it happened because of you as the deciding factor?

  • @charthers8903
    @charthers8903 5 дней назад +1

    No no no hobbies no social “events” with other desperate dudes like you - you have to stop being a nerd, stop the nerd shit do cool stuff, dress cool go out to clubs party have fun with life just stop this sad nerd behavior

  • @KyongBroughton
    @KyongBroughton 5 дней назад

    its hard to put into words, but the book Magnetic Aura from Talesio completely changed my life and it's not new age bs

    • @carlgonzalez3337
      @carlgonzalez3337 День назад

      and what the hell does that have to do with all this?

  • @NicolasaGreenberg
    @NicolasaGreenberg 5 дней назад

    awesome

  • @MairaCarreno-g4q
    @MairaCarreno-g4q 5 дней назад

    awesome