@@DarrenShanks they are supposed to continue to move on with their lives. When you bring your past into your present, it disrupts your future. If that person was meant to be in your present, they would be there now.
@@lifelessons2606 ok and that makes sense but they are apart of my future . They are replaying my past and just had a baby Me and my wife have a 3 year old and 1 year old
@@lifelessons2606 sounds completely crazy I just want them best for them She hates me because of my past . When I get back in the present instead of being in the past they won’t even be a thought
U betta preach! They block u in places where u invited them to begin with! They won’t know anything about the good life or opportunities if u didn’t teach them !
My absence is destroying them. To be honest I enjoy seeing them getting their karma. Everyone who rejected me came back and I rejected them. They need to see how it feels.
I agree. this is how I feel. when my ex gets his karma I will be genuinely happy and relieved. that's the pain I feel right now even though I left him for treating me bad.
The problem is that sometimes you don't realize that you are in an unhealthy situation until you are emotionally invested. If what you state were that easy none of us would be here.
Wow this message is for me. My ex dumped me 10 years ago and got married. But now he's begging me to come back in his life because he's divorcing his wife. He is going through what I went through 10 years ago. But I am healed for all the hurts that my ex has done to me. Thanks God for being there for me to comfort me and give me peace. I pray for him but going back to my past again. I don't think so but God knows. Thanks for the prophecy, God bless you.🙏❤️
It is true people. The more they hurt you, the less you should think of revenge or avenging anything. The hardest punishment for them is both: You healing and at the same time they can not re apply poison to you. They are insecure. They are paranoid. You must stay clean of them and be sure they will get their karma!
You are right, they always wanted me back. When I'm done , I'm done. I am a (BIG DEAL) ALWAYS HAVE BEEN. AND IM HUMBLE AND GREATFUL. FATHER Keep all evil away from me and, My Family in Jesus mighty powerful holy name amen 🙏🏻 BLESS YOU 🙏🏻
I have been invited to functions but I would not go. I sometimes feel that I don't fit in socially with people. I stay to myself a lot and I am happy being alone. No drama or foolishness!
Yep... they feel your energy. If I'm missing from work or at family gatherings they feel it and when I show up they give a look like why did you leave or why weren't you here.
Because some have been through hell and it's part of our base humanity to want someone who hurt you to feel the same hurt. That's a natural part of our humanity. Our evolved self knows that we need to focus on self and become better.
Sometimes it's hard to leave the past behind but it is imperative so that you're not living in depression healing takes time and isn't immediate but just keep going! What you're going through is hard, but it's also temporary. Keep praying and keep reading your Bible. God hears you and sees you. Love you all!! Thanks Coach Kev for your support.
Matthew 10 12 And when you go into a household, greet it. 13 If the household is worthy, let your peace come upon it. But if it is not worthy, let your peace return to you. 14 And whoever will not receive you nor hear your words, when you depart from that house or city, shake off the dust from your feet. 15 Assuredly, I say to you, it will be more tolerable for the land of Sodom and Gomorrah in the day of judgment than for that city!
it is crazy how ppl dont want help up to the point they dont wanna hear a s-i-n-g-l-e letter. "They need to enjoy your absence" made my day. Some ppl you can only love from a distance.
That’s exactly how it is when I’m on vacation everybody be calling my name when I get back to work and they tell me they miss me. I’m the funny one out of my associates and they feed off of my good energy. I started last year withdrawing my energy because they vibrate low.
When a chapter of my life comes to an end, I close the chapter, and it's over and done. I don't chew over it or talk about it. It's off my mind. Really. I'm busy creating a new chapter and need every minute for my new project. THX for your advice, Kevin.
I was at work yesterday and this dude that missed 2 days bc of his back randomly went up to me when he got back and said never mention religious beliefs and Jesus here again lol. Time to really start getting the good vibes going! Not stopping for my father well our father 🙏
...Time to Really Start Getting the Good Vibes Going! Not Stopping! (The Good Vibe and Word) for My/OUR FATHER! 👍🙏💓🤗💓🙏👍 GLORY! HALLELUJAH!! AND AMEN!!! 👍🙏💓🤗💓🙏👍 IN "💓JESUS💓" MIGHTY NAME AMEN! AMEN!! AND AMEN!!! 👍🙏💓🤗💓🙏👍
My bday was last Saturday and nobody called to wish me a happy birthday and that's ok.. it's not like I can't live without it but it showed me just how many people.. I don't have. 😢 a few people texted me but not 1 person called me.. not even my own father
My older sister tried all kinds of stuff with me when we reconciled back in 2013 , so happy Jesus shined HIS DIVINE LIGHTS on the stuff I was supposed to see 🙈 and it lasted like 3 years so in 2016 GOD really saved me from her toxic ways, I mean I couldn't believe she gotten worse after 16 years of not being in contact with her, and she's supposed to be in 12 step program?!? Thank you Jesus ✝️🕯️🛐👑👑👑🙏
I also found out after 10 year of discard and meeting this person again that they were more dangerous now than ever and that danger is focusing to destroy you. So shocked they are worst than ever and this time stay away.
You're absolutely right on that one. I also am not happy for my enemies/adversaries downfall, but rather because God is keeping me safe. Good videos, here.
I spoke like this around my friends and they called me the devil and the jinn. God delivered me from those evil beings and spirits, he will deliver you from demons as well ! Believe in him and follow him! The Almighty God 💯🤍
Father God, thank you for Coach Kevin and these messages.....I'm a year out in the wilderness after over three decades of marriage....I was brutally discarded, betrayed and my family divided, I've never felt such pain in my life....I'm fighting to keep my home, financially ruined. I have so many things against me in the physical realm but God is fighting the unseen battles for me. His strength keeps me standing. I'm peaceful and hold no bitterness in my heart. I forgive them but I'm moving on with the Holy Spirit guiding me. Thank God for all you people here.....we are together, growing stronger, day by day. We are blessed and protected by God and He says never look back......our best days are still to come.
They are still trying to mess with my car yet the good lord above keeps fixing what they break🤣 Elohim says.. "oh that's what you can do? Watch what I can do!" 🤣
@Darren Shanks "someone" stabbed my tire. A friend of the family took my rim and mounted a new tire. They waste their time every time. They once siphoned the brake fluid out. Still was enough in the line to get me to the auto parts store, they stole my car and 1 of them got caught in it and now has felony warrant. Can't make this stuff up🤣
what we and many others are getting - lots of desperate parasitic feeding. when we refuse to let them feed, or emotionally energetically dump, we are actually in higher service. in the end, if forces them to return to love, even if it is not in their bodies in this lifetime. deep stuff being released., and empaths can feel what is going on globally and that can trigger our own past suffering. very challenging. love your conviction and enthusiasm, it really helps us keep going and focused on what is important. thank you.
Pray for a restoration and study The Bible. And, be gentle with yourself. You will be restored in God's Divine time. I know from firsthand experience. I haven't reached full restoration but I'm certainly not where I was 5 months ago, after my 4 year relationship with a covert narcissist ABRUPTLY ended... with no warning. I still haven't gotten any answers, but, now, I don't need them. I'm doing my healing work.
Thank you needed to hear this currently going thru a narcissist abuse break-up and healing. Sharing this video with my son to start his day. God bless keep on keeping on🥰🙌🙏🏼
Thank You so much for being here for me. When you that bad breakup I felt like was wrong in everything I had and did for them. I have finally let go of this pass time in my life. The hurt stopped me doing anything, not able to get me together. But GOD cane and pulled out of this hard and sad , dark place. I have not let of this person and a lot of freinds. I needed that change for my life. This is my time see a new 2023 for all GOD has for me. AMEN.
Wow you are absolutely right! What you said!!!!! My my my smh!!! Yes he said he prayed to God for another chance to come back in our life and make his wrong right. He said he been going through it over the years and to make this right now that he been awaking to this truth. Gave him a chance because I’m a forgiving person and I know we all done made mistakes and just want that chance to correct things. I warn him that God will allow the devil to test you so repent and surrender to god for everything and don’t look back. To make a long story short I started to feel something was off their was red flags I couldn’t over look because I started to dream about what he was hiding. Watch this man life elevated and when I tried to move on he tried to stop me,even tried to trap me with a baby and at the end try to destroy me as well and them red flags came true. I notice he downgraded by going back and keep trying to Hoover me back but nope I’m good. Crazy thing is I felt so much darkness and seen misery he live in from the karma he do and move on to others to cover it up and yes! That baggage came into my life as well. And I felt like I interrupted his karma and the same way the man on the boat did in the story with Jonas I felt that until I move myself. I notice that ex he went back to the trap he set for me he was blind to not see she set a trap to free me and that’s why I thank you no matter how bad it hurt. But I’ll be ok I’ve lost love ones including my mom and god has made a way for me to heal from everything. He use to get upset because he said being in my presents and speaking the word of god to him was helping him heal and he wasn’t letting me go because he realize after all these years he mess over the one he should’ve been with all the time. But he has given so much power to devil and when god tested him he fail and continue to open new doors to allow the devil to steal kill and destroy everything in his life. He so use to women accepting him hurting them and wanting him back instead of holding him accountable til I feel that’s why he mad with me because I refuse to allow the pattern of the past when I’m working hard to destroy the demons that hindering my life and that evil communication will only just corrupt me back to doing what I’m fighting to overcome. Can’t break generational curses by playing with demons that hinder us. I have times when feel it that he’s having a bad time and suffering but that’s his karma. It’s been so peaceful in this isolation as God reveals so much and I also repent for my part I played. I wish him the best because that’s all I wanted but that straddling the fence life ain’t for me.
I could hear your passion and pain while reading this. So sorry you had to deal with that, but now you know what you have to do. Stay strong no matter what 💙
I can hear the devil say let them back oh no no no I rebuke the devil and all his demons in the name of Jesus can't be moving backwards out here even though it's tempted
Yahuah will allow these things to happen to u so u can get closer to Him. Like u said it's for ur own good. I've NEVER had problem with being alone. Those that were around me had a problem with it. ALWAYS tryin to take me from my PEACE. At this point of my life I CANNOT and WILL NOT go back! My God, my peace is more important that's why He separated me from them. 🙂
Quality video! I was badly wronged and my kindness was taken advantage of a few years back and I exited the relationship as what was going on fell below the standard required. Access to my life is a privilege and not to be abused. You know you are in a good place when you bear no grudge to those that did you wrong, but you are now completely indifferent to them as you keep pushing ahead and know damm well that you are on your own path to much greater things. Let them enjoy your absence....its probably the lesson that was needed for these people to change their ways for the better. But of course The Narcissist tried to come back lol.....apology accepted but it's now access denied
Thank you for this video..I needed to hear this. It is just creepy ro me that the narcissist stalks on social media, fake accounts, & random phone calls.. It's a nightmare that I'm glad to have awakened from, yet some triggers still linger. I am more at peace & trusting God moving forward It just baffles me how conniving the narcissist' can be
I’ve been distracted by a health problem that was triggered by a petty crime against me. But it has not stopped me from writing and posting a ton of Christian content. And thanks be to God that I’m not dead yet. And ironically there is a new show on Hulu about a struggling writer entitled I’m Not Dead Yet which is basically the story of my life since I have survived many health problems inflicted on me by a narcissistic family including diabetes, morbid obesity, a nervous breakdown and a full blown heart attack. And when I told them my plan to attend college in order to study journalism and become a writer, they got really scared and nervously asked me if was going to write about them. And my answer was well I am just going to write about what I know. 😅 Thanks for all your great motivational messages. I watch you practically every day
Great video! I was really good to my ex & thought he was good to me too. But after he blindsided me with a breakup and my blinders came off he saw him in a different light. He lied to me, deceived me & did everything he said he wouldn't do. I've been working on my healing & really working on getting past this and realizing that rejection is God's protection. I still love him & miss him, but I refuse to beg, cry and reach out to him. He hurt me so badly, but I know God is using my pain for my good.
Try to but I keep going through spiritual warfare meaning that those demons, they want back along with the people they use. God Bless and keep it moving family. Forgive the people and stay in Christ.
This really made me emotional because it hits home. Going through this with so many people in my life but they always ask about me because people tell me all the time.
I've built some serious spiritual 🙏 muscle 💪 from the past narcissist. I proved him wrong. Another ex from 20 years ago was stalking me. 🤔 These are some crazy times we are living in.
It's not worth, keeping hate or anger in your heart, against anyone. Forgiveness is the key. When you can forgive your enemies, that's your Victory! So, trust in God, keep your heart in tune with God, you will be a protected along with your family, in Jesus Mighty Name! 😇🙇♀️🙏🙌🧚♀️
I resonate with this message alot! Now how to get these people who are toxic to let go. Very weird energy around me lately. How to navigate without them wanting to get revenge for moving up and forward!!
Surely, no such thing as a coincidence!!! Thank You, My Brother in Christ! You are so spot on, only this mistake I made being kindhearted, is 1000× worse, with allowing him back into My life,,as now it is become to a high threat level, Pray for Me, as this narcissistic is aware that I Am tuned in on his deceit, now he is jumping at a chance to harm Me, I Am a Super Empath & All is in The Hands of the Man from Galilee, Covered by the Blood of Jesus Christ is the Best thing I can Hold onto, So Grateful, All he did was made Me Draw Closer to Jesus Christ, in a way that will never ever waiver.... #Stronglikewheat
Perfect timing as always. Thank you God!! Thank you express. when you respond with love and not hurt or anger or allow them to cause you to react out of these emotions. you have grown and you are still even absent from there life shinning bright and shinning on them😊 i chose peace. Iam learning to speak life toward my ex because we have a kiddo and i see my narc ex every other weekend and joint decisions making. I can approach it with strife or anger instead i chose peace and calm and love. Peace over everything. I have an advantage in life. I chose healing and growth
I am getting alot of words from the Lord about not looking back 🙏. I hear you Lord Jesus, and I receive the fact that I have keep, keeping on and moving forward. I have been stuck in the past and all it's pain for many years. Time to move on. Hallelujah to the King of Kings Amen
I was literally just crying and praying asking God to help me with all.of this and the notification for this video just popped up ony phone. Everytime I begin to do good amd feel as if I have moved on a thought or memory comes to trigger me.. But this time (last night) I had a dream i recieved a call and this person was on the phone with their mom telling her they are so stressed... Idk why I had thst dream and it has been on my mind mamimg me rethink about the hurtful things said and done. Yes it was a big distraction bevause I am focusing on a major writing project.. But ty coach kev for this because everything in this video was needed. God answered my prayer
Because I was good to them and I even warned them about what will happen to them in future without me and they took everything for granted I refused to give them a second chance.I feel that linking them with me was their God given second chance and there's no other .
Let’s turn up this heat guys i can’t feel shit litteraly i have to force myself to wear clothes because i don’t get cold here. I only need the word of god 🍞 but i make sure to eat real fruit!! Good fruit!! Never let anyone mistake your weakness for kindness!!! ✝️🧘♀️✝️
Kept motivated through the hard times by uplifting others throughput my experience in life I'm choosing happiness this time around instead of pain although pain is a growth experience within its self I continue to realize I'm living my dreams knowing that I will go through what I grow through 🙏🏿💯💯💯💯
whatever they had going with the next person has fizzle out !! they only wanna come back to destroy you because they see you still shinning...they wanna take away your light ... keep moving and continue to shine to hell with those people
The people I kicked out of my life couldn’t take the reality check truth I would and will still dish out. I’m not going to allow this to keep happening. I have enough going on without these narcs coming back. I stopped answering calls that I don’t recognize and the number gets blocked. Just a parting question: has anyone else gotten random phone calls where there is nothing but background noise or static? I had one yesterday and then another today. It sounds like freeway noise.
You are my family!!!!! I appreciate you sooooo much!!! You're a great man!!!!! I pray that God continues to bless you and your family!!!!! I love you!!!! Thank you dearly!!!!
All glory be to God I am nothing without him. Anything I have that’s good from him, we are no better than others. This is true humility. We are all sinners and fail every day. Forgive and don’t ever think your better than anyone. Glory be to God only thank him for giving us the ability to love others. We are nothing without him. Thinking your something or better is sin. ❤️
You are an amazing person. With so much knowledge from experiences like this. You said exactly what I needed to hear tonight. It does hurt, but it's best for us to keep our lamp lights lit in God anyway & move on. I've noticed how stagnant in these narcissist type of people chosen to stay stuck in a rut & I felt like constant sounding board for continuous problems as I kept trying to help then. It really brought me down after too long of them rehashing the same old stuck in a rut problems & not doing something about it. Thank you for this video. You deserve a gold metal for the knowledge & wisdom for your insights & otherwise.
The reason they don't invite you to events.... Is because all the attention would be on you. Your energy is happy and healing.
That’s the one!
So true dear
Yep
Ain't that the truth, I have experience that alot.
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The more doors they closed on you the more God open other doors for you u are a blessing.
Indeed Truth 💯 Bless you
Amen 🙏🏾
Amen
Thank You,Jesus
Thank you love that
I've learned to leave the past dead in the past, and live in the present. I no longer hold any ills against anyone and wish everyone well.
So what is that person supposed to do ?
Stay in the past , I’m genuinely asking ?
@@DarrenShanks they are supposed to continue to move on with their lives. When you bring your past into your present, it disrupts your future. If that person was meant to be in your present, they would be there now.
@@lifelessons2606 ok and that makes sense but they are apart of my future .
They are replaying my past and just had a baby
Me and my wife have a 3 year old and 1 year old
@@lifelessons2606 sounds completely crazy
I just want them best for them
She hates me because of my past
. When I get back in the present instead of being in the past they won’t even be a thought
@Life Lessons
Good for you that’s the way to think!! Amen 🙏 ❤
They kept you around to hurt you while simultaneously copied you. Then get mad when you walk away. Protect yourself 🤲🏾👁❤️
That's very true. It's upsetting, but they will eventually get set right back to the point of no return.
U betta preach! They block u in places where u invited them to begin with! They won’t know anything about the good life or opportunities if u didn’t teach them !
My absence is destroying them. To be honest I enjoy seeing them getting their karma. Everyone who rejected me came back and I rejected them. They need to see how it feels.
I agree. this is how I feel. when my ex gets his karma I will be genuinely happy and relieved. that's the pain I feel right now even though I left him for treating me bad.
@@hotties3v3n awesome feeling..... not that I'm rejoicing.
dont cut off your blessing by doing that
@@sarahlindley2493 What should I do then?
@@tacy-annbrown2652 vengeance belongs to the Lord, forgive and let go. Pray for that person instead
Takes me forever to be done, but once Im done, its forever. My clapback is my absence and youll feel that in your chest.
Ohhh I felt that in my chest 😩… we are alike! Ayeee I heard that 💪🏾
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They are already broken but they are trying too break us.
The lesson in life is only entertain healthy relationships ❤
The problem is that sometimes you don't realize that you are in an unhealthy situation until you are emotionally invested. If what you state were that easy none of us would be here.
I agree.
Wow this message is for me. My ex dumped me 10 years ago and got married. But now he's begging me to come back in his life because he's divorcing his wife. He is going through what I went through 10 years ago. But I am healed for all the hurts that my ex has done to me. Thanks God for being there for me to comfort me and give me peace. I pray for him but going back to my past again. I don't think so but God knows. Thanks for the prophecy, God bless you.🙏❤️
Sisteren. Please don't ever look back.
The devil and his babies is trying to stop us from going forward to the love of God!!!!!! In the name of Jesus
It is true people. The more they hurt you, the less you should think of revenge or avenging anything. The hardest punishment for them is both: You healing and at the same time they can not re apply poison to you. They are insecure. They are paranoid. You must stay clean of them and be sure they will get their karma!
I cut off a lot of ppl last yr. One says he miss me, but I ain't going back. He even regrets how he treated me.
Not going back ever , I love my life
How about 40years later. I'm blessed and highly favored and happy. I don't need Toxic, Dysfunctional people in my life. Amen
You are right, they always wanted me back. When I'm done , I'm done.
I am a (BIG DEAL) ALWAYS HAVE BEEN.
AND IM HUMBLE AND GREATFUL.
FATHER Keep all evil away from me and,
My Family in Jesus mighty powerful holy name amen 🙏🏻 BLESS YOU 🙏🏻
I KNOW THAT'S RIGHT!!
We have a lot in common. You go girl!
Amen🙏
Moving in silence. God has matured me.I understand a lot of things now. I am at peace. IT IS WELL WITH MY SOUL!!!!💥💥💥💥🇮🇱
I have been invited to functions but I would not go. I sometimes feel that I don't fit in socially with people. I stay to myself a lot and I am happy being alone. No drama or foolishness!
Exactly! Peace. Peace. Peace. 💙🙏🏾
Same here and they act like you don’t matter but I can imagine that my absence kills them.
I agree.
Literally this!! They don’t understand why you don’t need validation or outside affirmation
All Praise to the Most High God
Block all ur ex's
And stay focus
On God. 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
#MoveForward
Yep... they feel your energy. If I'm missing from work or at family gatherings they feel it and when I show up they give a look like why did you leave or why weren't you here.
I wonder why we worry about them falling? We need to focus on ourselves.💞💕
Because some have been through hell and it's part of our base humanity to want someone who hurt you to feel the same hurt. That's a natural part of our humanity. Our evolved self knows that we need to focus on self and become better.
Amen!!! Since I left a few folk in 2022 my life has been so much better!! I’m more at peace!! I have to keep moving forward and not look back!!
Same!
Sometimes it's hard to leave the past behind but it is imperative so that you're not living in depression healing takes time and isn't immediate but just keep going! What you're going through is hard, but it's also temporary.
Keep praying and keep reading your Bible.
God hears you and sees you.
Love you all!! Thanks Coach Kev for your support.
So true, thanks for reminding the community 🙏🏾
The best hurts! I can tell this. When I run into people that hurt me! OMG!! Because they are! They don't care what they done
Thank you 🙏🏼 needed to see this today.. healing in baby steps, May God bless you 🙏🏼
Matthew 10
12 And when you go into a household, greet it.
13 If the household is worthy, let your peace come upon it. But if it is not worthy, let your peace return to you.
14 And whoever will not receive you nor hear your words, when you depart from that house or city, shake off the dust from your feet.
15 Assuredly, I say to you, it will be more tolerable for the land of Sodom and Gomorrah in the day of judgment than for that city!
it is crazy how ppl dont want help up to the point they dont wanna hear a s-i-n-g-l-e letter. "They need to enjoy your absence" made my day. Some ppl you can only love from a distance.
That’s exactly how it is when I’m on vacation everybody be calling my name when I get back to work and they tell me they miss me. I’m the funny one out of my associates and they feed off of my good energy. I started last year withdrawing my energy because they vibrate low.
The Hell with these Narcs.
A narc would say that lol
We all have emotions . It boils down to being civil with one another and forgiving. You don’t have to forget but you have to forgive etc
They only want to drag you down. He never had a plan to move forward but always wanted to remind me of what was. He’s miserable
Same
When a chapter of my life comes to an end, I close the chapter, and it's over and done. I don't chew over it or talk about it. It's off my mind. Really. I'm busy creating a new chapter and need every minute for my new project. THX for your advice, Kevin.
I was at work yesterday and this dude that missed 2 days bc of his back randomly went up to me when he got back and said never mention religious beliefs and Jesus here again lol. Time to really start getting the good vibes going! Not stopping for my father well our father 🙏
Good for you. We will always speak about the love of the father.
...Time to Really Start Getting the Good Vibes Going! Not Stopping! (The Good Vibe and Word) for My/OUR FATHER!
👍🙏💓🤗💓🙏👍
GLORY! HALLELUJAH!! AND AMEN!!!
👍🙏💓🤗💓🙏👍
IN "💓JESUS💓" MIGHTY NAME
AMEN! AMEN!! AND AMEN!!!
👍🙏💓🤗💓🙏👍
My bday was last Saturday and nobody called to wish me a happy birthday and that's ok.. it's not like I can't live without it but it showed me just how many people.. I don't have. 😢 a few people texted me but not 1 person called me.. not even my own father
:-( I’ll call you next year brother . Shoot me your number .
Bet I will :-)
Happy late birthday
Happy birthday to you 🙏🥳
Happy Birthday fam! 👆🙌😊❤️
@@dodibenabba525 aw thanks😊
Amen facts 100 and let go and let God. In the name of Jesus
Just discovered the power of blocking people: healing both you and them, but in different ways 🙌
Thank you Holy Spirit🙏🏽 I really am feeling this message because I am moving forward and forgive and forget
I'm not forgetting... I'll love from a distance
Wow!!! Me too!!! All my exes have tried to come back!! That’s crazy to me!!! Their loss!!!
My older sister tried all kinds of stuff with me when we reconciled back in 2013 , so happy Jesus shined HIS DIVINE LIGHTS on the stuff I was supposed to see 🙈 and it lasted like 3 years so in 2016 GOD really saved me from her toxic ways, I mean I couldn't believe she gotten worse after 16 years of not being in contact with her, and she's supposed to be in 12 step program?!?
Thank you Jesus ✝️🕯️🛐👑👑👑🙏
I also found out after 10 year of discard and meeting this person again that they were more dangerous now than ever and that danger is focusing to destroy you. So shocked they are worst than ever and this time stay away.
@@halimohellos8943 yes very good point there
GOD is my strength my rock and salvation. In the name of Jesus
Yes HE is. "God is the strength of my heart and my portion forever" - Psalm 73:26
You're absolutely right on that one. I also am not happy for my enemies/adversaries downfall, but rather because God is keeping me safe. Good videos, here.
Thank you my friend, God bless 🙏🏾
I spoke like this around my friends and they called me the devil and the jinn. God delivered me from those evil beings and spirits, he will deliver you from demons as well ! Believe in him and follow him! The Almighty God 💯🤍
WOW! You have no idea how much I needed this RIGHT NOW! 🥺🙏
Glad it was helpful!
FORWARD ONWARDS UPWARDS!
Father God, thank you for Coach Kevin and these messages.....I'm a year out in the wilderness after over three decades of marriage....I was brutally discarded, betrayed and my family divided, I've never felt such pain in my life....I'm fighting to keep my home, financially ruined. I have so many things against me in the physical realm but God is fighting the unseen battles for me. His strength keeps me standing. I'm peaceful and hold no bitterness in my heart. I forgive them but I'm moving on with the Holy Spirit guiding me. Thank God for all you people here.....we are together, growing stronger, day by day. We are blessed and protected by God and He says never look back......our best days are still to come.
They are still trying to mess with my car yet the good lord above keeps fixing what they break🤣
Elohim says.. "oh that's what you can do? Watch what I can do!" 🤣
Do they realize ? Or is it dwi type of deal ?
@Darren Shanks "someone" stabbed my tire. A friend of the family took my rim and mounted a new tire. They waste their time every time. They once siphoned the brake fluid out. Still was enough in the line to get me to the auto parts store, they stole my car and 1 of them got caught in it and now has felony warrant. Can't make this stuff up🤣
That happened to me too. He tried to sabotage me. Borrows my car the suddenly my tire goes flat, guess what he end up paying to replace it
It’s like you talking right to me 😭😭😭
BOOM 🎤
Amen!! 🙏Brother Kevin ✝️👑✝️ You are the light that shine in the darkness.💯
what we and many others are getting - lots of desperate parasitic feeding. when we refuse to let them feed, or emotionally energetically dump, we are actually in higher service. in the end, if forces them to return to love, even if it is not in their bodies in this lifetime. deep stuff being released., and empaths can feel what is going on globally and that can trigger our own past suffering. very challenging. love your conviction and enthusiasm, it really helps us keep going and focused on what is important. thank you.
I also was knocked by so much evil that they not only dimmed my light but destroyed & drained all of the life out of me!
Read what Apostle Paul says in 2nd Corinthians Chapter 4...You may have been down, but you're not out!👊
Pray for a restoration and study The Bible. And, be gentle with yourself. You will be restored in God's Divine time. I know from firsthand experience. I haven't reached full restoration but I'm certainly not where I was 5 months ago, after my 4 year relationship with a covert narcissist ABRUPTLY ended... with no warning. I still haven't gotten any answers, but, now, I don't need them. I'm doing my healing work.
Thank you needed to hear this currently going thru a narcissist abuse break-up and healing. Sharing this video with my son to start his day. God bless keep on keeping on🥰🙌🙏🏼
Thank You so much for being here for me. When you that bad breakup I felt like was wrong in everything I had and did for them. I have finally let go of this pass time in my life. The hurt stopped me doing anything, not able to get me together. But GOD cane and pulled out of this hard and sad , dark place. I have not let of this person and a lot of freinds. I needed that change for my life. This is my time see a new 2023 for all GOD has for me. AMEN.
Let's make these demons big mad ;)
You better Preach Chosen One...they dont deserve my presence ❤️ 😍
Wow you are absolutely right! What you said!!!!! My my my smh!!! Yes he said he prayed to God for another chance to come back in our life and make his wrong right. He said he been going through it over the years and to make this right now that he been awaking to this truth. Gave him a chance because I’m a forgiving person and I know we all done made mistakes and just want that chance to correct things. I warn him that God will allow the devil to test you so repent and surrender to god for everything and don’t look back. To make a long story short I started to feel something was off their was red flags I couldn’t over look because I started to dream about what he was hiding. Watch this man life elevated and when I tried to move on he tried to stop me,even tried to trap me with a baby and at the end try to destroy me as well and them red flags came true. I notice he downgraded by going back and keep trying to Hoover me back but nope I’m good. Crazy thing is I felt so much darkness and seen misery he live in from the karma he do and move on to others to cover it up and yes! That baggage came into my life as well. And I felt like I interrupted his karma and the same way the man on the boat did in the story with Jonas I felt that until I move myself. I notice that ex he went back to the trap he set for me he was blind to not see she set a trap to free me and that’s why I thank you no matter how bad it hurt. But I’ll be ok I’ve lost love ones including my mom and god has made a way for me to heal from everything. He use to get upset because he said being in my presents and speaking the word of god to him was helping him heal and he wasn’t letting me go because he realize after all these years he mess over the one he should’ve been with all the time. But he has given so much power to devil and when god tested him he fail and continue to open new doors to allow the devil to steal kill and destroy everything in his life. He so use to women accepting him hurting them and wanting him back instead of holding him accountable til I feel that’s why he mad with me because I refuse to allow the pattern of the past when I’m working hard to destroy the demons that hindering my life and that evil communication will only just corrupt me back to doing what I’m fighting to overcome. Can’t break generational curses by playing with demons that hinder us. I have times when feel it that he’s having a bad time and suffering but that’s his karma. It’s been so peaceful in this isolation as God reveals so much and I also repent for my part I played. I wish him the best because that’s all I wanted but that straddling the fence life ain’t for me.
I could hear your passion and pain while reading this. So sorry you had to deal with that, but now you know what you have to do. Stay strong no matter what 💙
I am so with you on this! Much love and blessings to you. It's been painful, But God always sees us through
No, we can not straddle the fence. There are only TWO sides... good AND evil. "Choose ye this day whom you will serve..."
Im giving my past to God right now❤ I forgive them and myself❤
I can hear the devil say let them back oh no no no I rebuke the devil and all his demons in the name of Jesus can't be moving backwards out here even though it's tempted
EVERY single one wanted to come back into my life, including my ex-husband.
Thank you so much for this message. God bless you and yours. ✝
Yahuah will allow these things to happen to u so u can get closer to Him. Like u said it's for ur own good. I've NEVER had problem with being alone. Those that were around me had a problem with it. ALWAYS tryin to take me from my PEACE. At this point of my life I CANNOT and WILL NOT go back! My God, my peace is more important that's why He separated me from them. 🙂
Quality video! I was badly wronged and my kindness was taken advantage of a few years back and I exited the relationship as what was going on fell below the standard required. Access to my life is a privilege and not to be abused. You know you are in a good place when you bear no grudge to those that did you wrong, but you are now completely indifferent to them as you keep pushing ahead and know damm well that you are on your own path to much greater things. Let them enjoy your absence....its probably the lesson that was needed for these people to change their ways for the better.
But of course The Narcissist tried to come back lol.....apology accepted but it's now access denied
Amen 🙏 brother Kevin
I learned that people come in your life either for a reason, season or lifetime, which is a painful lesson ✝️🕯️🛐
Yes it is a painful lesson but God protected us and brought us through the fire....we've been refined and made stronger. God bless
@@angelacahill9083 Amen sister ✝️🕯️🛐
They ain't nothing but pencils our here and in their mind they thank they on point .
Prayer for whole Lands 🌎 🙏
Prayer for peace, love joy, kindness faith gentle, patience, meek
Thank you for this video..I needed to hear this. It is just creepy ro me that the narcissist stalks on social media, fake accounts, & random phone calls.. It's a nightmare that I'm glad to have awakened from, yet some triggers still linger. I am more at peace & trusting God moving forward It just baffles me how conniving the narcissist' can be
I’ve been distracted by a health problem that was triggered by a petty crime against me. But it has not stopped me from writing and posting a ton of Christian content. And thanks be to God that I’m not dead yet. And ironically there is a new show on Hulu about a struggling writer entitled I’m Not Dead Yet which is basically the story of my life since I have survived many health problems inflicted on me by a narcissistic family including diabetes, morbid obesity, a nervous breakdown and a full blown heart attack. And when I told them my plan to attend college in order to study journalism and become a writer, they got really scared and nervously asked me if was going to write about them. And my answer was well I am just going to write about what I know. 😅 Thanks for all your great motivational messages. I watch you practically every day
Amen brother Kevin!I feel this message is coming directly from God straight to his chosen one.
Great video! I was really good to my ex & thought he was good to me too. But after he blindsided me with a breakup and my blinders came off he saw him in a different light. He lied to me, deceived me & did everything he said he wouldn't do. I've been working on my healing & really working on getting past this and realizing that rejection is God's protection. I still love him & miss him, but I refuse to beg, cry and reach out to him. He hurt me so badly, but I know God is using my pain for my good.
I am sorry to hear this, def don't go back. Stay strong. Time heals wounds 🩹
Yes and amen brother of God. Repent people who are Lost or sinners for the lord My God JESUS answers prayers even if you feel too far gone. 🙏
Thank you for this word! I woke up and this was on my feed! I know it was divinely sent! Ase’!🙏🏾❤️
Me 2
Try to but I keep going through spiritual warfare meaning that those demons, they want back along with the people they use. God Bless and keep it moving family. Forgive the people and stay in Christ.
Don't let them back. YOU have the power.
@@queenb3088 I don't, now I see that my warfare was that spirits were angry and I had God to dodge them and fight back. God Bless you sis.
This really made me emotional because it hits home. Going through this with so many people in my life but they always ask about me because people tell me all the time.
I've built some serious spiritual 🙏 muscle 💪 from the past narcissist. I proved him wrong. Another ex from 20 years ago was stalking me. 🤔 These are some crazy times we are living in.
It's not worth, keeping hate or anger in your heart, against anyone. Forgiveness is the key. When you can forgive your enemies, that's your Victory! So, trust in God, keep your heart in tune with God, you will be a protected along with your family, in Jesus Mighty Name! 😇🙇♀️🙏🙌🧚♀️
This is so true! Amen 💙
I resonate with this message alot! Now how to get these people who are toxic to let go. Very weird energy around me lately. How to navigate without them wanting to get revenge for moving up and forward!!
Great message. Your messages make me feel like I can take on the world . God bless you bro
Let's do it together my friend 😎
Definitely 😉
Surely, no such thing as a coincidence!!! Thank You, My Brother in Christ! You are so spot on, only this mistake I made being kindhearted, is 1000× worse, with allowing him back into My life,,as now it is become to a high threat level, Pray for Me, as this narcissistic is aware that I Am tuned in on his deceit, now he is jumping at a chance to harm Me, I Am a Super Empath & All is in The Hands of the Man from Galilee, Covered by the Blood of Jesus Christ is the Best thing I can Hold onto, So Grateful, All he did was made Me Draw Closer to Jesus Christ, in a way that will never ever waiver.... #Stronglikewheat
So good dear God is ever faithful
Amen, thank you Brother ❣️
I receive this in Jesus' Yeshua's Holy Name 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
Perfect timing as always. Thank you God!! Thank you express. when you respond with love and not hurt or anger or allow them to cause you to react out of these emotions. you have grown and you are still even absent from there life shinning bright and shinning on them😊 i chose peace. Iam learning to speak life toward my ex because we have a kiddo and i see my narc ex every other weekend and joint decisions making. I can approach it with strife or anger instead i chose peace and calm and love. Peace over everything. I have an advantage in life. I chose healing and growth
I am getting alot of words from the Lord about not looking back 🙏. I hear you Lord Jesus, and I receive the fact that I have keep, keeping on and moving forward. I have been stuck in the past and all it's pain for many years. Time to move on. Hallelujah to the King of Kings Amen
I was literally just crying and praying asking God to help me with all.of this and the notification for this video just popped up ony phone. Everytime I begin to do good amd feel as if I have moved on a thought or memory comes to trigger me.. But this time (last night) I had a dream i recieved a call and this person was on the phone with their mom telling her they are so stressed... Idk why I had thst dream and it has been on my mind mamimg me rethink about the hurtful things said and done. Yes it was a big distraction bevause I am focusing on a major writing project.. But ty coach kev for this because everything in this video was needed. God answered my prayer
🙏🏾NOT giving /or going backwards 🙏🏾
This guy is truly a vessel of the Most High
Because I was good to them and I even warned them about what will happen to them in future without me and they took everything for granted I refused to give them a second chance.I feel that linking them with me was their God given second chance and there's no other .
Now Faith is the Substance if Things Hoped for , Evidence of Things Not Seen!
Let’s turn up this heat guys i can’t feel shit
litteraly i have to force myself to wear clothes because i don’t get cold here.
I only need the word of god 🍞 but i make sure to eat real fruit!!
Good fruit!!
Never let anyone mistake your weakness for kindness!!!
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Kept motivated through the hard times by uplifting others throughput my experience in life I'm choosing happiness this time around instead of pain although pain is a growth experience within its self I continue to realize I'm living my dreams knowing that I will go through what I grow through 🙏🏿💯💯💯💯
I NEEDED THIS KEV, GREAT MOTIVATIONAL SPEECH. SALUTE MY BROTHER
The will of God praise God
whatever they had going with the next person has fizzle out !! they only wanna come back to destroy you because they see you still shinning...they wanna take away your light ... keep moving and continue to shine to hell with those people
Young man, you’re absolutely anointed to do what you do! 🙏🏽💪🏽👏🏾🙌🏾! Thank you and the Most High bless and keep you!
Than you, I really appreciate that 💙
Greatness ❤❤❤
I am still hurting so bad…still in disbelief he did all of this to us 🙏🏼😞 please pray for my daughter and I
The people I kicked out of my life couldn’t take the reality check truth I would and will still dish out. I’m not going to allow this to keep happening. I have enough going on without these narcs coming back. I stopped answering calls that I don’t recognize and the number gets blocked.
Just a parting question: has anyone else gotten random phone calls where there is nothing but background noise or static? I had one yesterday and then another today. It sounds like freeway noise.
Some may understand and some may not but a lot of them do and don't care because what you can do and what they can get for you
You speaking what God love 🙌🙌
Lmao the “breathing on the other side of the line “ had me dead 😂😂😂
Real talk brother,Halleluyah Holy Spirit🙏💜
You are my family!!!!! I appreciate you sooooo much!!! You're a great man!!!!! I pray that God continues to bless you and your family!!!!! I love you!!!! Thank you dearly!!!!
Yes this true they will to come back leaving the past let them go keep going don't give up on this journey
Thank you Lord Jesus for this word of encouragement from this man. May Gods blessings continue to bless you in Jesus Christ name amen.
All glory be to God I am nothing without him. Anything I have that’s good from him, we are no better than others. This is true humility. We are all sinners and fail every day. Forgive and don’t ever think your better than anyone. Glory be to God only thank him for giving us the ability to love others. We are nothing without him. Thinking your something or better is sin. ❤️
This Word is so true for me, I needed to hear this!! Amen 🙏🏽💯
You are an amazing person.
With so much knowledge from experiences like this.
You said exactly what I needed to hear tonight.
It does hurt, but it's best for us to keep our lamp lights lit in God anyway & move on.
I've noticed how stagnant in these narcissist type of people chosen to stay stuck in a rut & I felt like constant sounding board for continuous problems as I kept trying to help then.
It really brought me down after too long of them rehashing the same old stuck in a rut problems & not doing something about it.
Thank you for this video.
You deserve a gold metal for the knowledge & wisdom for your insights & otherwise.
That’s really nice of you to say, thank you! Your spot on, these people don’t quit and will do anything to harm you. Extremely sad…